Lucy

I'm good.

How are you?

My name's Lucy.

I'm 25 years old.

And my question is, am I self-sabotaging or have I just not met my match?

I have been going on dates for, like, about a year and a half now, and I never really had the thought that I was self-sabotaging until my most recent, like, guy I was talking to.

Because every guy I've talked to or, like, matched with for the past year, I've been, like, there's just been something that I get the ick or...

I'm like and they're not for me and I just kept thinking like yeah like there's a lot of fish in the sea type thing like not everyone I match I'm gonna like but then in like early December I matched with a guy and he like everything about him seemed great like no red flags he seemed very genuine and intentional and sincere and like our lifestyles kind of matched very well and then it started going really well we were going on dates and I was

enjoying it.

But then the closer we got, I kind of was like pulling back and I like just decided to like be super nitpicky, pick something like, I don't like that about him anymore.

Um, so now like looking back at the dating I've been doing in the past year, I'm like, I haven't been just very nitpicky.

And it's usually when like we started to get closer and

And it's not bad.

Cause they're like really stupid.

But one guy like laughed really hard at my joke.

And I was just like, you have really hard.

I'm not that funny.

So it kind of gave me the egg.

Yeah.

Like it's stuff like some stuff is legit.