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Susan Morrison (on Lorne Michaels)

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Susan Morrison (on Lorne Michaels)

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Hello. Hello.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Susan Morrison (on Lorne Michaels)

2585.83

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Susan Morrison (on Lorne Michaels)

2703.45

Yeah. Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Susan Morrison (on Lorne Michaels)

3746.161

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Susan Morrison (on Lorne Michaels)

4164.554

Got it.

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Susan Morrison (on Lorne Michaels)

4443.738

Stay tuned for the fact check. It's where the party's at.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Susan Morrison (on Lorne Michaels)

5457.35

Yeah, we are. Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Susan Morrison (on Lorne Michaels)

6499.175

I'm your big brother.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Susan Morrison (on Lorne Michaels)

6563.186

Fuck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Susan Morrison (on Lorne Michaels)

6775.158

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Susan Morrison (on Lorne Michaels)

809.089

Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, Experts on Expert. I'm Dan Shepard, and I'm joined by Lily Padman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1002.717

So what was the historical context from which the super loom arose? What percentage of the world was occupied with the production of textiles and stuff? How significant of an industry was it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

106.216

Yeah. He's got a damn good eye for what's going to actually. Work and be desirable by people. His several books, Masters of Scale, Blitzscaling, The Alliance, The Startup of You. His new book, which is out on the 28th, is Super Agency. What could possibly go right with our AI future? And he wrote that with Greg Beto. So I want to give a shout out to Greg. This was really, really fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1088.21

Well, it's hard at that moment to predict that, okay, at this point, only 2% of the population is buying a new garment a year because the price is so expensive because it is hand done. They're not forecasting, well, those jobs go away, but now all of a sudden everyone's buying clothes. There'll be clothing shops. There'll be all these different things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1106.097

It could, in fact, explode exponentially versus this little pocket we're trying to protect. Yes. What did the telegram do?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1168.172

Right. Seatbelts, safety glass, airbags. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1173.553

Oh, yeah, yeah. I just watched Little Women a couple of days ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1183.398

Hand stitching the binding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1209.972

We're just going through the history first. The one in the book that I had never stopped to think about, obviously, I grew up in the era of it, is the telephone. Because we're pointing out different things. There's a lot of concerns with AI. One is jobs. One is how is it going to mold culture? What's it going to do to inform me? All these kind of things. But of course, there's a lot of

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1227.222

Kind of more societal, interpersonal things. And I didn't realize that when the phone debuted, people thought it was going to destroy civil society because you would no longer go to someone's house to visit them. Right. That it would completely get rid of any kind of interpersonal in-person, which is kind of the same thing we're yelling about right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1247.193

I had no idea that there was an uproar about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1261.185

Right. Opposite outcome as they feared. All right. The camera, the radio, the automobile.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

133.954

And it led me to design a van.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1330.421

I've got to add, Martin Luther did succeed in raising literacy rates from like 3% to 95%. And in the process of learning to read, that cognitive ability did displace some of our other abilities. It did permanently change the structure of our brain, interestingly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1362.059

I don't know how everyone else is feeling about their thinking. Your thinking seems fine. No, I have to shoot down four bad ideas before I ever get to a good idea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

138.766

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1392.01

And so it's like, oh shit. Makes music better than I can and does a lot of things better than I can do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1442.369

That's a derivative of agent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1488.487

Let's put a bow on the kind of employment fear. So what are current unemployment rates versus in the past throughout any of these huge technological revolutions?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1576.101

You're right, Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1579.683

It's like yelling at your VCR because the tape won't come out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1612.879

I guess the unemployment. Point I was hoping to make was I listed seven of these that were going to end all employment. And I think currently our unemployment rate is about as low as it's ever been. Historically. Yes. So in spite of all these things, once it's flushed out and we get through the rocky part of it, our unemployment tends to go down and down and down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1699.914

Or for me who loves to drive, that you would get in a car with a stranger and have them take you across town while you're drunk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1709.32

We're all doing it. We were trained, now no longer. Yeah, it's wild. You have a couple of good quotes in the book. One of them I wrote down that I like was, you'll never get the future you want simply by prohibiting the future you don't want. I think that's like a good admission to make right out of the gates. You're not going to get anywhere by just throwing darts at it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1737.143

Not, no, no, you can't change. Yeah, start delineating what the thing is you want.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1751.414

It's happening. There's no version where America sits this out. Yes. So forget it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1774.331

Okay, so I think the first AI product that hit our doorstep in a way that people understood was chat GPT. How was it different and how successful is it and why?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1794.386

It was a tweet to announce it, right? It wasn't like a press conference. They didn't anticipate any of that happening. All of a sudden, it was like, oh, my God. So what did it do that you think captivated people?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1884.072

You learn. By the way, you could train it on me. You could go like, what would Dax Shepard's counterargument be? And I might be able to create it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

19.522

Hi, nice stripes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1926.134

You can do it from any perspective in the automotive industry, basically.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1931.639

How would an ad agency sell this new thing? Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

1944.036

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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You enlisted the Ozempic argument. Yeah. It is.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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You want that to still be a valuable skill.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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That's right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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You look like a convict.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2214.857

I literally did that with my mom at Christmas. This is me having to get grandma's phone out and show her the icon for podcasts and show her how to get there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2257.074

So Reed, one of my curiosities is if you give it the same prompt. So I've consumed some AI stuff that I find incredible. There's a dude who makes these mashup songs. So one that I loved is he said, do Metallica as Yacht Rock. And it came out with a song that was truly a banger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2272.323

It's a great fucking song. My question is, if he put in that identical prompt over and over again, it wouldn't always spit out that song or would it? Would it come up with a new song every time?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2291.3

Does time and space intervene? Like you could ask in front of mom, show me Monet's current take on blank. And then three weeks later, you do it. Would you get the same images?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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I want it to be different because, again, if it's going to be something that extends my agency, I don't want everyone else to have the exact. It's very easy to make a difference.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2376.205

Wow. Just let that swirl as you give me the answer to something unrelated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2385.892

It seems to me from the outside like it was a bit of a shocker. And I'm curious where these other monoliths were at in this. Like where was Google? Where was Microsoft? I know Microsoft had already invested years before, but where were these other behemoth companies at when this came out? Because I think the big shocker, and I could be wrong, is that Google has really nothing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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I guess it just seems like a shocker that the holder of all the info we're using in some way wasn't at the forefront of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2467.275

Yeah, you keep saying super agency, but the full title is super agency. What could possibly go right with our AI future? Is there any device in the works to check the work of the AI?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

253.499

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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The most comical case I've heard in the news of this is the lawyer that wrote his debrief and had AI do it. And it cited law cases and the argument that didn't exist. And by some miracle, the judge detected that. Yes. Which I wouldn't have expected a judge actually went and looked at all these references, but did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2548.723

There's an example of this person really had a lot of confidence in this thing and put it in front of a fucking judge. Yes. And the judge was like, there's no Peterson versus Delaware.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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I think he just got humiliated in the news.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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We need to call the AI Walter Cronkite. We got to go back to our last trusted.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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That's a new look. They said 2025 is convict. That's right. Convict's a new black. Returning guests today.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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The moment I was most discouraged by this was in the wake of the Capitol Six.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Surge. Here we are on January 6th. I turned on CNN first because I'm a liberal and the pundits saying the police officers were in cahoots with the Trump administration. I was like, what? The police officers wanted a storm on the Capitol? A, that was not true at all. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Then I went over to Fox and it was like this triumphant kind of, and I was like, well, neither of these perspectives are even approaching reality. Could we merge them and come to truth? I don't know. But that's when I got kind of scared of the whole system.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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In the book, you cite some polls in the worst of the polls was at 15% and the very best was at 35%. Only 15% of Americans in the worst case think that the benefits of AI are bigger than the wins of AI. And in the best case scenario, 35% of Americans think that the benefits will outweigh the risk. Why is it that stark?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2688.232

Other people are on the road. Well, the joy of a healthy fruit off of a tree versus the potential death of the poisonous one, they're not equal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2699.195

Right. You reference Orwell's 1984 quite a bit in one of the chapters. So what was Orwell's fear and what happened? And he wrote in 1949, which I found to be interesting, considering what computing power existed then.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2711.2

1948? Well, you got an issue with your book.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Because 84 was the inversion of it. Maybe he wrote it then. Also, the copy I have says in huge letters, uncorrected copy, so who knows?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Well, yeah, if you were a leader during that Arab Spring, you certainly didn't think technology was at your assistance. Yes.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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What is a network of trust?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Yeah, it seems like AI would be the only thing that could handle the sheer volume of that information that exists. Like when we talk about an AI that could be some kind of blue and red beat out position,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2886.286

The shoulders of both are Looney Tunes. Yes. Let's go through some of the things that could go right, because I do think there's some really exciting things. So how on earth could child care be impacted by AI?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

2908.537

Or the edibles or the fire starters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Yeah, I can envision a version where you have set the parameters of your own personal points of view on parenting. And what you want it to do is to remind you of the best version of yourself in that situation. Because there's many times where I'm overwhelmed and I don't hit my own parameter. You're entitled to your own parameters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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My first curiosity read, and this is a sincere question, what's the longest you are anywhere? Because what I've been able to observe from a distance is you seem to be somewhere else every three days.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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But is there a device that could nudge you into the best version of your own parameters?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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But, Monty, we would put that into our parameters, right?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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You could do that? You could say, I value rip and repair.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Right. Because we can learn from it. That's the thing is like any argument you or I can think of in the way you can pick that version of it.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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That goes into the wonderful philosophical Homo Deus, Yuval Harari, are we servicing our experiential self or our narrative self? You also have to be clear what percentage of yourself are you servicing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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All that stuff is a good use of your time and thought, right?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Like to just... Stumble through life and think about everything after the fact is what we mostly do. It almost forces you to have some intention because you're kind of declaring you have a goal or an objective. Yes. Tax filing and legal advice. This feels very democratizing because I think most people who are struggling, they don't have access to either of those things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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What's it going to do in medicine? We've touched on this a little bit. We were at that conference. The thing that I found to be mind blowing is that to perform the amount of experiments required to get to a FDA phase one trial, the amount of man hours involved, the amount of expenditure where these companies now using that are just running a bazillion different experiments to see what happens.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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And you're on a lot of boards. Do you have to be in person at those meetings or are those now Zooming?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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How does all that materialize?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Probably on both sides, too. Like the FDA can use this technology to take on such huge a quantity to evaluate. That seems to be one of the huge logger jams in this whole thing. They have a finite capacity to evaluate all this stuff.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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It is funny. I, of course, like Monica's email thing, I have a knee-jerk reaction to kids writing term papers. Me too. Essays. Because I fucking killed myself, and it was one of the things I did well.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3197.793

Something I got praised for. I mean, probably got me through. I had other columns that were very low, and that was lifted by that ability. And then another part of me that's realistic goes, yeah, okay, so they're going to write the term paper. It'll be good or bad. They'll have to evaluate it. They'll turn it in. They'll get a grade.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3213.177

The same skill set will be applied when they go get the job where they're required to write. The bill doesn't ever come due because it's not like anyone's taking that tool away from them.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3228.465

Yeah, people were pissed when I no longer had to know how to spell. Now, as a dyslexic, I was like, yeah, finally, I'm not handicapped by this thing. I have a spell check because I'm as smart as you. I just fucking can't do that thing. So I, of course, was a beneficiary of one of these technologies. I no longer suffered from not being able to spell.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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A kind of broader question would more be like, will some of these tests of merit just actually go by the wayside? So even like a college admission essay, if at some point everyone you read is a perfect, great essay, the college admission process might go, well, this is no longer really a relevant measure of anything.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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It's that awesome system that everyone should be fighting to uphold.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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But in person this time.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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What is the triumph of the private commons?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Being a free rider doesn't take anything from anybody for the first time ever.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Okay. Why is innovation safety?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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And you're willingly ignoring how many people died in horse-related injuries. Yes, exactly. Which was probably infinitely higher than even these horrific new crashes we were witnessing.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Yeah. We just went to Mexico City over the break. And I said, you know, we all want teleporting, but we fucking have it. If you told someone from the 1700s that in the morning I could be in Los Angeles and in the evening I could be eating dinner in Mexico City, that's insane.

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340.017

Yes. You're in so many different things. You're a very active investor. You're on the board of all these companies. What's the inspiration to write a book?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Because we tell two different narrative stories. Our current understanding of physics would be a clone would be the other side. Not you. Yeah.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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We could do two hours in teleporting. So I've said to her, even if the technology ever existed, there are infinite industries incentivized to kill that. Every industry would collapse with teleporting.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3425.25

That might be the one that breaks everything. If you can live on a ranch in Montana, eat dinner at Emily Burger in Manhattan every night, who the fuck's going to pay for the rent in New York? Just go there when you want, and then you can be on your ranch.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3446.675

It's good for humanity, not good for real estate owners. That's why I'm saying the incentives to crush that would be the most astronomical ever. Okay, tell me about America's role and responsibility in an AI future.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3505.001

There's obvious reasons we're uniquely positioned for this. A, the technology's largely coming from 300 miles north of here. That seems helpful. We have more capital than anyone to be steering it. Does the democratizing nature of the technology actually threaten America's

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3579.999

I was going to bring that up. I just got cleared for global entry on the way home. And I'm like, hold up a second. I don't even have to go in my pocket to pull out my passport now.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3594.827

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I got that so many years ago. Well, he got kind of denied. You probably lived closer to the global entry office you had to drive to. I've taken two kids there. It's four hours of my day to get to LAX and do the whole thing. I was smart enough to do it at the airport when I landed this time.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3613.666

There might be a new concept too.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Yeah, you're right. I'm a big contradiction. I'm going to ask you my Yuval Harari pushback. We had him on to discuss his new book. What I love and appreciate about the way he thinks is, which is almost impossible to do in this day and age, he finds a thing to worry about that almost no one else is worrying about.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3629.369

He focuses on bureaucracies and the power of bureaucracies and how much bureaucracies have shaped our world more than the charismatic leaders in question. Jesus didn't write the Bible. A crew of people edited many, many stories to create the Bible. That's really interesting. What really has lived on is the Bible, not Jesus and bureaucracy. Ultimately, that was bureaucrats that did it.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3650.706

So that's a fascinating thing to think about. The point that he made that I find myself repeating a lot when this topic comes up at dinner parties is we are organic creatures. We work in cycles. The stock market's open. It's closed. There's a nuclear attack. The market's not open. That's convenient. Our world is built in these cycles and for a reason. His point is... These aren't going to help us.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3677.679

They're going to run all day long because that's what they do. And they will force us to join them as they run all day long. And the stock market would be an example. If that thing ran 24-7 and you are in that industry, you could tell yourself you're only working.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3696.326

yeah so philosophy major what's your philosophical answer to that really rudimentary point well we live in great societies because we have institutions this is one of the problems that i have with all the critics you know government bad universities bad etc etc this morning i was thinking a sector of this country hates the government and what i think is like when i drink water out of my faucet and it doesn't poison me guys that's also the government yes exactly when there's an earthquake in the fucking building you're in doesn't fall down on you that's

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3725.034

the government. The fire department. You're focused on the five things they did that were fucked up and conspiratorial, but you're missing the fact that the stoplight worked.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3737.771

A renovate institutionalist.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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That's happening a lot now. We're starting to get folks that we had done during COVID. And I got to say, it feels in person like it's the first time we interviewed them.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Sure, take your pick.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

3973.302

I think if you had to sum up your overall arching opinion is like, guys, give yourself some fucking credit. You've done it. You have the capacity to do it. You're not going to lose your critical focus.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4009.901

The power loom. Yes. Let's do that. Let's not fuck it up. That's, again, the third bucket I find myself in. We have no option but to try to lead this. Not only no option, it'll be great. If you had to isolate a single promise that you're most excited about, what do you think is going to be the very most impactful?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4039.692

Oh, no. We were walking around Mexico City and the aforementioned friend who uses his chat GPT all the time, Eric, said, I'm really sincerely curious, how does the medical system work here? You're seeing all these different people and we're in Mexico City. And you imagine that every one of those people had a doctor as good as my doctor. is pretty mind-blowing.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4060.145

And so fucking positive.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4070.454

Innovation of safety. Now, this has nothing to do with your book. I have one nosy curiosity, and then I have you, which I don't regularly get you, and I want your opinion on something completely unrelated. My nosy question is, have you made more money from investing or from exiting the companies you founded? Never asked myself that question. You have to know the answer to that.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4091.273

You can all say it in your business.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4092.794

I'm curious. You come up, Reed.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4095.356

We're listening to Acquired and we're listening to the story of Meta.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4115.849

It's not that I think it's wrong to do it, and obviously you manage it. I believe you, though, that you're just more interested in getting in on it and getting it going, and then this result ends up happening. You're not doing podcasting for money.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4128.016

Right. Okay, that was my nosy question. Again, aforementioned Eric Richardson. Shout out, third time. He and I argue all the time about crypto. What do you think about crypto?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4138.661

How much was a Bitcoin?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4140.722

It's currently at $100,000 or something.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4192.44

Yeah, they work their life, they amass this saving, and then these assholes completely devalued everything they've ever done.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

421.693

It's like an elongated pressure test of it, I guess. You're right. And when you're hearing your own argument in print, you somehow can have some objectivity about your argument. That makes total sense in your head. But once you're reading, you're like, that's a little weak. Change that. Yeah, that doesn't work.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4212.391

That's a good answer. Yeah.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4222.555

By something that's stuck around for a long time. Well, U.S. dollars is the post-World War II. As long as they trade oil in it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4282.024

I just watched a doc about the greatest heist of all time. Right. These two stole seventy two million dollars of Bitcoin in 2017. At the time, it was seventy two million dollars. Its current value is four point five billion dollars. Right. So what was funny? and learning about how they caught the people was this thing I never thought of.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4301.234

The appeal for so many people of crypto was, yeah, the government has nothing to do with it. It's anonymous. You can't track it. Well, the ledger of it all is accessible and known at all times. Every single Bitcoin is public to everybody. And so you can hold it anonymously, which they did, but... You can't convert it into any good service or property or anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4324.583

You have to at some point convert it into U.S. dollar. Now, once you do that, you're fucked. You have to present some identification. And so, again, one of the big selling points when you look at it in practice, well, that's not true. It's anonymous so long as you never get a good or service with it. So that whole appeal to me is useless.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4343.951

The fact that you can get it stolen and there's no one to call, that sucks. So now we're getting involved via the SEC. So really all that's happening, in my opinion, is you're just more and more funneling it into a currency. So everything it was supposed to be, it doesn't function unless we get it to be an actual currency that our government is going to somehow investigate when it's stolen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

436.666

It's funny you bring up Yuval because one of my only pushback questions is something when he was here he brought up, which I found to be very compelling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4363.803

Regulate. Yes. Am I wrong about that? Well, I'm generally positive. Don't come after me, crypto bros. Don't steal our money. They're as bad as Taylor Swift fans.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4376.064

I'm so scared of them. Please don't come after me.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4438.075

Well, that's where I'll call myself a hypocrite. I look at the crypto and I go, of all the stories that have been told, this one is the furthest out there. Well, it's newest. It's the newest, but it is not linked to a government, an institution, to any kind of GDP. There's no way to assess its value other than you all agreed on it. Well, I'll admit the U.S. dollar to me is a story I believe in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4460.792

So I can admit I'm hypocritical. I go, I believe in one version of the story. This story feels a little out there for me. I can't latch on to this story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4499.575

Do you want to do it on the show?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4505.208

You are mixed messages.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4508.669

Polymessage. Well, if it works on an Android, it'll really work. Yes, exactly. I'm teasing.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4598.41

You want to ask a question? Does it only know your voice? No, no. Everyone's. Okay, let me think of a question.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4605.672

Thank you. Are you aware of the podcast Armchair Expert?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4667.022

Well, you saw our friend, fifth time now, Eric. He said, based on my searches, please draw a picture of me or create a picture of me. And it was this huge muscle bone guy at a desk trading stocks because he's been searching peptides on the internet nonstop and he's a stock trader. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

468.957

So maybe let's start with because the book starts with Socrates musing on the failings of writing. So tell us about what Socrates thought of writing.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4710.049

If my favorite movies are Once Upon a Time in Hollywood, Thief, Raising Arizona, Flirting with Disaster, what's another movie I might love?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4765.487

Oh, this leads me to a question I forgot to ask. How does ownership of content it creates work? So I can think of it more in images. Like if I create an image through it, could I copyright that image once it's been created?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4794.006

Yay. I'm going to give you a very specific example. I've written all these scripts. They went unproduced. I think it's called Google Veo 2, maybe. And it created a musician had a song, wanted a video, and it was this crazy cool sequence of a car chase through a post-apocalyptic town. Yep, I saw that too. It's very cool. I mean, it's not there there for me, but it was very, very cool.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4816.423

But it's on path. It's on fucking path. But I was thinking, could I load in one of my unproduced screenplays and make it? And let's say I accomplish that goal. Now I have this movie that came from my screenplay. What can I then do with that? And I guess my thought was, I guess I would put it on YouTube and monetize how many clicks it got.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4836.292

Could I sell it to a studio if it was completed and worth distribution? Like what would happen if I did end up creating a movie on one of these things with a script I had written? What could I do with that movie?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4874.007

Yeah, like Instagram doesn't then own the image you've uploaded. Yes. Don't try to do that.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4890.24

You picked a perfect time because I finally saw something that really lit a bulb in my head where I was like, God, if I could see these things I've written come to fruition that I needed a studio to give me the money for, that's a very exciting future for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4925.999

It would really work with my kind of ADHD-leaning thought speed. Exactly. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4933.502

Yeah, let me see. Cool. Oh, I don't like that. Okay, Reid, this has been so much fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4939.047

Reid, I adore you. It's always so fun to bump into you anywhere on the planet. And I hope you'll come back with your next great thought.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4949.555

Please, everyone, check out Super Agency, What Could Possibly Go Right With Our AI Future. All right, thanks, Reid. Awesome.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4965.629

Two peas in an hour, Monica, I'm actually concerned. Oh. A little scary. That's a lot of peas.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4978.459

Initially that part's scary, but then you get used to that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4982.262

And then it's scary if she goes twice in an hour. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4992.169

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

4998.156

Yeah.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

501.018

I can challenge, I can question.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5051.997

She'd be so happy, right? How could she not?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5058.24

You didn't admit. No, I didn't. It was under duress.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5061.321

Well, I'll just say in a forthcoming episode soon, next week.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5064.763

We have a guest on who's talking about throwing a birthday party. And I went on and on about how I don't want a birthday party. Half the episode is about how I don't want a birthday party. And we walked out of the garage. From that interview. And I was like, that's weird. Kristen's got a man over in the swimming pool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5083.891

Yeah, I did. I did not notice it was Aaron at first. I was just like, oh, she's got a man over. I saw a little bit of there's a woman in the mix. And I'm like, oh, these are her singing friends. Friends over, yeah. Yeah. So then I come around the hedges and I see my son's here, Sharon Beasley.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5102.66

And I go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5104.521

My very first thought, not to get too dark for the cherries, but this is our past. I'm like, the only time Aaron has ever shown up in California without letting me know he was coming was the day I opened my apartment door in Santa Monica and Aaron was standing there and it looked like he had been drugged behind a car for a week and he had been smoking crack for five days.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5127.618

In a tiny moment of I think I'm going to die or go get on an airplane and fly to my dad, he got on an airplane.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5136.064

I was already sober for a year maybe at that point. Yeah. I just got a bit of a PTSD. Like, why would Aaron just be here without telling me he's coming?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5158.661

Oh, good. I mean, I didn't really think that.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5164.545

But you never know. She might have been like, we got to get Aaron to... An intervention. Oh, God. It wasn't that really deep, as I'm saying. I just had this really weird moment where this has only happened one other time. So Kristen, at that point, had to acknowledge, you're having a surprise party. I've planned a party and I brought Aaron and Ruthie here for the party. And then...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5187.637

Then I was really excited. Good. Because I didn't have to ask anyone to come. I didn't have to get scared about that. There wasn't a bunch of time for me to worry about who's not going to show up because it was just going to be the next day, which was last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5216.702

You already knew.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5218.342

Did you feel so bad for me? Like, what a dum-dum. He's digging himself deeper and deeper.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5225.163

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5257.943

I'm learning terrible stuff about myself right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5262.267

He's going to hit people. He's going to hit the children.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5265.55

Hey, my son's there, so I'm happy right away. Aaron's here. This is unexpected. I had just seen him a couple of days before in Detroit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5287.523

But Aaron's only been here for 10 minutes, but boy, we've already had a very eventful trip. Yep. So yesterday, before the interview and the fact check that was moved up, I said, do you want to go for a ride in the new station? To which Aaron was like, absolutely. So we went for a little rip around town. It was so fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

529.802

That's a very short sentence. I feel like you're mad. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

53.39

Well, I think we had a lot of great. I know we had a lot of great. We did. Eric Lander. That's a phenomenal episode, but it didn't embed itself in my memory. None of the ones that were over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5305.096

And then I was like, let's quickly, I think we can, before the fact check, we'll get some eggs. So we stopped at Cafe 101. We parallel parked the wagon on the street. We go inside, we sit down, we're there for, I don't know, a minute and a half. And a stranger walks in and he looks at me and goes, white car? And I go, yeah. And he goes, it's on fire.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5325.962

horrible and i just ptsd oh my god too many fires in this city i sprint out of the restaurant i'm i'm fully expecting it to be engulfed in flames so we sprint outside get to the wagon sure enough there is smoke coming out of the hood pull the hood pins open it up a wiring harness is on fire there's flames i don't know how this worked Did you see this happen? The spit? Yeah. Yeah.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5353.865

I just went, I spit as hard as I could at the fire and it went out. It went out. I might have a superpower I didn't know about.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5377.701

I don't know how that works.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5395.333

Yeah, you should get the safety off and everything ready to go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5399.238

It seems really simple. And then also when you think about it, it seems really hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5407.709

She didn't do a good job.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5410.753

Good job. Yeah. Was something on fire in front of her?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5414.398

Oh. Yeah. And someone was running video. Yeah. And then I'm piecing together because there's now a woman behind the car who I guess was either parking or got in her car. And then what became obvious is she must have got the hotel guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5426.639

But I do wonder, had we not just had the fires, if like she would have been so incredibly, she might have saw smoke coming out of her car and be like, eh, it's not my problem.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5437.83

But yeah, everyone's on such high alert that I think she immediately went- I think that's right.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5444.553

Like ignite. I was then thinking like, oh my God, what if I had set another round of fires in Hollywood?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5455.318

People would have been like, that entitled bastard. I know. Why has he got to have these cars that catch on fire?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5475.941

Well, when they catch on fire, you can't go breathe anywhere near them as we're now finding out. That's the crazy part.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5492.45

Drove into a pond.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5507.033

Or I think. I don't want to be sued. I think there's a release on there as well. If you had read the manual and practiced like a fire extinguisher. It's in the door, though. It's right there. It's what? It's right there in the door, though. Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5566.805

I thought you were going to bring up his chest hair. That's where I thought this was going.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5571.41

The last time you talked about having shaved his chest hair, how sexy he felt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

558.43

Well, I was going to add something he couldn't have anticipated, which is there's something that gives validity to a concept or an idea, simply the fact that it made it to print and made it to your newspaper. There's some other magic trick where you kind of over-inflate the information you're reading because it has gone through, you think, some steps. Yes. You wouldn't have even predicted that.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5589.448

Really quick, Aaron, I've never let you feel this.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5593.692

You'll be a very select group. Go ahead and touch that. Be really careful. Give an honest what you think about that.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5602.924

Oh, my God. Is that not the softest thing you've ever felt?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5608.448

There isn't a blanket made of that? No. So you can make some. I know. You've got to be careful.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5621.087

It sure is. There's no denying it. And you know, now Delta's leg hairs are in here, too. Oh, nice. So we're harvesting from my back and her legs. Oh, family.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5635.293

At the risk of hurting Aaron's feelings, Aaron has had dense body hair his whole life. He's a man. He's always been a man. I'm not. I've always not been a man. I've always felt like a preteen or a woman next to him. And he's always had a gorgeous Burt Reynolds chest hair since we were 17.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5655.379

I think it's coarser. Would you?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5699.37

Yeah. I know we're both getting hair now everywhere. It's maddening. But have you noticed, have we already talked about our armpit hair? Have you noticed your armpit hair is like, will be two feet long sometimes?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5715.001

With scissors?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5716.062

Same. I now give myself like a haircut in my armpit. Me too. And then I have this very weird, do you have this where it's like, I have it in my mind it's supposed to be some length or else why would it be that long? Sure. Because I'm tempted to just like cut it as close to the skin as possible so I have to do it less. But then I think, aren't you supposed, is it going to be some length?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5745.865

You know why I had to finally confront it? Other than, like, maybe my kids pointed it out and I was embarrassed, but also... You can't even get your deodorant to the skin anymore because it just clumps up in your hair. And then you have dingleberries in your armpit. And you're like, what the fuck is going on? Why am I a mess like this?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5768.226

Yeah, not yet. Not even close. Six months. Okay, great. How about you guys talk about my party? Oh.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5777.795

It was a yacht rock theme. It was at my favorite roller skate rink, Moonlight Rollerway. Yep. To name drop, Kimmel made the playlist, as he's made many playlists in the past that I love.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

578.382

I think that's largely what happened on the Internet is people are reading things and it's in the shape of a New York Times article and has a headline. And you're like, this is news. This is substantial.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5788.202

And Kristen enlisted him to do that. Tons of blasts from the past. A lot of my Groundlings friends. Just an incredible, perfect group of people. My dad came all the way out from across town. Tom Hanson.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5804.233

Adam Perry Lang cooked.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5807.736

Yeah, did you get on both of the meats?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5811.318

The pork ribs?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5814.521

How good were those?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5819.284

It was damp as a motherfucker. It was like a, what do you call it, cake? Pound cake. Pound cake. Yeah, it was delicious. I was really excited about the Adam Perry Lang of it all because- Most of my friends that were there didn't know about him. And I don't know what their expectations were at a roller skating rink, how good the barbecue was going to be. But he is one of the best barbecue.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5842.068

He does these pop ups around L.A. and there's fucking lines around the block. Yeah. And he's just there cutting ribs.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5850.072

Yeah.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5854.195

He is incredibly nice.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5865.082

She's stuck with it. She goes through little phases. You know, there's no crepes for months and months and months. And then there's crepes 10 days in a row. She cooks them compulsively. I hope there's crepes tomorrow.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5874.789

Oh, you should bring that up. She would love to.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

588.807

Yeah, this is quality information because it looks like the information I associate with quality.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5903.513

So normally this is Delta's birthday party is here every December. And we always get the rink for two hours. And it's always my commitment to skate as long as possible because it's such a unique opportunity. But the window of this party was 5 p.m. to 10 p.m. And I was like, I don't. Oh, I got to back up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5920.795

One other thing that happened, because I didn't know I was having a party, is that day before, I rode the furthest I've ever ridden on my new road bike. I told you, I passed your house a couple different times. Armcherry sent me. I was even paparazzi'd. I didn't know it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5936.337

Yeah, I went everywhere. I was down the L.A. River, down Pass Spoke, then out in Glendale, then back into Silver Lake. So that whole day when I came out and saw him in the pool, I was like, I went too hard. I can barely walk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5953.294

Then she said, five to ten, we're skating. Then we got five hours of skating. And we're going to skate. We're going to skate hard. And oh, one thing I got to add is people really went for it with the yacht rock theme. Aaron had an incredible outfit.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5971.484

Yeah, it was white.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5973.606

All white. All white. Hat. Pipe. The pipe really pushed it over. The pipe was great. I don't even know why it makes sense.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5985.125

I can't like, I'm wracking my brain of where I've, some famous image of a captain with a pipe.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5992.348

But again, I don't even think on love boat that was happening.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

5997.27

Gillian's Island? Yeah, Gillian's Island. The skipper didn't smoke a pipe. Did like Gorton's Fisherman have a pipe or something? Oh, yeah. But again, that's a yellow rain slicker.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6012.883

I don't think any of them do. And how long had it been since you skated, Aaron?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6055.039

Shit, I didn't know your old man ripped. Yeah, everyone's going to high five my fucking kids. Hoist you up on their shoulders.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6065.829

Well, despite that, you did quite well. And Monica, let me thank you in public. You have sat out the last two skatings.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6079.365

That was so sweet of you. And did it you did.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6086.582

Maybe more. I think more. I would say, yeah. I want to say you had three different sessions, didn't you?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6096.208

And I learned today, earlier today, that you actually had gone out by yourself to do a little trial run like the garage in Tennessee.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6105.895

Yes.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6141.21

I ate shit, though. Let me say that. And by the way, on the way there, I said to Aaron, OK, if you haven't gone in a long time, a prediction for you is you think you're going to be bad. And then you're going to go out there and go, oh, my God, I'm actually quite good. And then you're going to get overconfident. And then that's when the big wreck comes.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6156.96

And I had been skating for a good hour and a half, two hours at this point. I was very loose. I was feeling very confident. And I decided, you know what, as I skate by joy. because she was high-fiving people on the sidelines. I'm like, you know, it's going to be radical, so I'm going to blow by shooting the duck.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6174.096

Oh, did you think I just fell out of nowhere?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6179.1

So for people who don't know shooting the duck, you get on one skate and you bend down. I can't even bend down on one leg if I wasn't wearing a skate, especially with the biking from the day before and the two hours of skating. And I got halfway into this commitment and realized I'm going down, and I went downhill. Pretty hard on my hip. Yeah, it scared me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

619.46

My first question when I like an opinion should be, oh, do I benefit from this worldview at all? That's an interesting place to start. I think even if we could admit to ourselves, yeah, I have this opinion that sounds logical and sound, but hold on a second. Would I somehow benefit if that were true? And generally, almost all my opinions, yes, in some way or another, I would benefit from them.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6197.054

Luckily, you were on the rink at that moment. I was. And you were right behind me, so you saw the whole thing.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6202.357

Made a loud enough noise that I think everyone looked. I missed it.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6217.526

the fucking duck bit back i didn't even know that you got up really fast you didn't look hurt that's the goal yeah but i knew you were and then you didn't you hadn't seen you were you hadn't seen fall guy right and so have you seen fall good i did oh what a movie right so good

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6240.476

every time this stunt's over they give the thumbs up like i'm good they're not good their back's broken they're like right so then i was like i gave the thumbs up and for the people who had seen it but you hadn't seen it and then i felt compelled to try to explain to you my jokes i was in a good deal of pain and i'd given you the thumbs up and i needed you to know that was enough i was making a joke okay and then you gave the thumbs up and i was like and then you had to come back and tell me what in fact wasn't okay it was not okay um but i kept going um

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6271.628

I was like, is my hip fractured? Maybe it's fractured. Let's just keep going. There's nothing they can do for that. So you can put a caster on your hip.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6303.434

But then it's half. There were very few falls last night.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6307.224

In fact, kind of a shocking few falls because at Delta's party, the first few years, people were going out really bad. People had wrist injuries. It was like 20% of the dads were fucked up the next week.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6322.069

Yeah, she went down pretty hard. I saw that.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6332.053

Yeah. Well, no, so that's a great, as you know, I like getting embarrassed. And when I fell down at the movies, you know, I was laughing hysterically. But the pain was so sharp. Like, I wanted to laugh because it's just embarrassing. I tried to shoot the duck. Joy watched the whole thing. Her friend's watching. She doesn't know me. So there's a new person. At least Joy is my, like, sister. Yeah.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6351.807

I've known her for 12 years. It was painful enough that I couldn't actually get to the laughing part. I just got tired. You were smiling pretty big, though. Well, I was performing, yeah. I came out of retirement from acting and put on a real good thing and then gave a thumbs up and only two people got it because I thought everyone saw Fall Guy and they hadn't.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6374.256

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6454.16

And then, Kristen, somehow, I haven't even asked her the logistics, but our favorite treat in the world for Michigan is Saunders Bumpy Cake. For people who've never had Saunders bumpy cake, it is a chocolate damp devil's food cake base. And then these huge ribbons of Twinkie filling all covered in a fudge icing.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6484.785

Did you like it?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6493.356

Right, right, right.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6498.721

And I fucking went nuts. I had my immune suppressant before the party because I knew we were going to have bumpy cake. And I ate way too much. So I coupled the hip pain with, like, I made myself sick. But then I was like, you must get out and push through all of this. Did another couple hours of skating. It was a great, great party.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6517.231

And as I told you what was really kind of novel about this party, because I've had them in the past, I'm always feeling really guilty. Like Tom Hanson, he drove... 50 miles across town through rush hour traffic to get to the party. And he's older. And then I'm out skating the whole time. And the whole time I'm like, I got to go sit and talk to Tom. He drove all the way here.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6537.305

And then virtually everyone that's showing up, I feel like I should be talking to them for a half hour. And then I had this light bulb moment. I was like, everyone here is a blast to talk to. When I look around, everyone's quite happy talking to whoever. I'm not needed here. I can stop feeling guilty about that. Yeah.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6556.641

Yeah, I tried to have that moment. I did. I was in the bathroom and I actually even did my mantra for like two minutes. I was like, I really, I really want to. Yeah, have that moment and see that. And then Tom Hanson, who knows me so well, he hugged me and he said, are you able to let any of this love in? And I said, I'm trying real hard.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6580.107

But also, I'm pretty sure everyone's here just because Kristen invited them. If I'm being honest. So silly.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6589.409

That's so unfair to all of us. To you.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6595.627

I don't know. It's still my residual low self-esteem or something. I don't know. It was the funnest party I've ever been to. And there's no fucking booze there. That's saying something.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

66.118

It's like, I don't really remember the people.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

661.454

Yeah, my conclusion was I should most trust the opinions I have that I actually don't benefit whatsoever from.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6610.225

I got to push back a little bit. I guess you're not counting your birthday parties because Aaron's birthday is July 2nd, which becomes a 4th of July Aaron's birthday spectacular. It was often at his dad's farm, and it would be like a three-day party with 50 people camping. Those were fucking awesome. Those were damn good.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6633.635

Yeah, yeah. But I'm happy you had a great time. But I fucking had fun, man. I had so much fun.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6639.844

So much fun. And I don't want you to get the wrong impression. I felt very loved.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6644.96

Yeah.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6650.703

What I thought of many times is like this is you'd be hard pressed to find a better group of 40 human beings.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6665.73

Did you have a favorite conversation with anyone?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6670.472

Oh, okay. That was the most memorable. Was it naughty? It was with Eric. Yeah, it was naughty. Oh, okay. He's so open, though. He's so provocative.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6681.637

I can't wait to hear that.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6700.346

I was excited about that. I was more looking around, seeing people I love talking to each other and watching you guys chat. I was like, oh yeah, my sisters are chatting. Like, yeah. And she was wearing all day glow yellow, like full. Oh, yeah. She looked amazing. Yeah, neon fishnets.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6719.216

We came up with my superhero name because we were, of course, talking about spades.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6723.959

And her friend she was with was black as well. And she's like, this is the upside down world. They play spades. We don't play spades. And then her and I came up with that. My superhero name is The Appropriator. Ah! And my catchphrase is, I'll take it. I see something from your culture. I like, I'll take it.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6748.002

Yeah. Again, if Nate talks at a party, what am I worried about anyone finding someone to talk to? How about you?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

676.749

I phrase it as you're on the board of Microsoft, lead investment round for OpenAI, and you own an AI product. Pi, why would anyone trust you to be critical of AI? Say it! Give an example.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6777.612

Yeah, Ben sent me a text. Like I talked a lot with Aaron Weekly. It was so fun. Yeah, it was great. And that vaccine, of course, probably stole the show. He was the same white outfit Aaron had, but his was short shorts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6818.951

What a load off. I think she had heard me say like four times between my birthday and yesterday, I'm so glad I would hate a surprise party and the poor girl had planned a surprise party.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6835.063

Yeah. And that just goes to show I'm known better than I know myself in a lot of domains. Like, yeah, I was delighted. As long as I didn't have to go through any of the anxiety of it all, it was absolutely delightful.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6852.517

I don't think so, but I just, I don't know how you get me to the roller rink. Exactly. I think she would have had to tell. I'm just so annoyingly curious about why would we be doing it.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6863.43

Well, that's the only thing that had been planned and I had been tricked on is that Panay and Nate and I were supposed to have dinner that night. That was the big plan. And even like on Monday, I asked Kristen, can I go to dinner with Nate and Panay? And she's like, yeah. I'm thinking she must have been laughing her buns off. The plan was coming together perfectly.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6883.383

And then so I was both really excited about the party. And then I was like, oh, man, I was really looking forward. So we just decided we will also go to dinner next week.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6894.631

I hope. Hope we bring George Kittle with us. Aaron and I decided the best compliment you could give any guy is to say like, oh, I'd love to go to Morton's with that dude. Like if you don't know him, but you've seen him from afar and you go, fuck, I'd love to go to Morton's with that guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

69.7

We got to have them all back. Yeah. Talking to you, Barry.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6915.713

Like Dan Campbell. Can you imagine going to fucking Morton's?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6920.236

Don't stop. You guys wouldn't even have to say it. We'd get there and the food would be on the table. Oh, goodness. What's the equivalent? Is there an equivalent of that for the gals?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6938.003

Oh, yeah. Shopping. Yeah. Go right to the mall with her.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6943.085

Like, what do you want to do with Ashley and Mary Kate the first time you hang out? Besides tour.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6957.694

I imagine I would be self-conscious if I were you because I'd be afraid everything I said I liked, you'd worry they didn't think it was good style.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

6975.289

We don't fuck around like that.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7008.142

Just, I took my immune suppressant and I think I have a cold that came back and I think I have a fractured hip, but also just beaming with gratitude. Yeah. I did feel, I felt hungover this morning. In fact, so many times, I don't know if you remember this. Do you remember I got like a really cool sweatsuit for Christmas? Yeah. in a watch and I was at your house.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7030.901

We were in the backyard and I somehow fell and fucking split my lip like wide open.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7037.622

No, when I was like home for Christmas and our Christmas started at a certain time and then we had stayed up till nine in the morning the day before and then so I didn't wake up till five. So I got to Christmas Eve, our big family tradition, quite late and I just had this enormous bloody scab on my mouth from the night before. We had a lot of those.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7060.77

So anyways, when I woke up, I was like, I have a headache from eating all the cake. I'm sick and my hip hurts. I feel like I was in here since I was 99 or something.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7073.041

Some facties?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7110.197

I'm clearly way off given that percentage.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7130.388

55 years.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7143.332

Yeah, very low. A lot of countries have 10% and above.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7153.638

Yes. But he had said, read our guest, no, it was 48, which was clever because 1984 was a flip of 48.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7176.237

Wow, wow, wow. Aaron, did you watch that Greatest Heist doc on Netflix? Not yet. Okay. Well, in a nutshell, these two incredibly weird people, I don't feel bad saying that.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7195.355

Yeah. So a bit of a clue in their names. And they stole... Stole. I always say stole. That's one of my things. They stole 70... Yeah, there they are. Oh, man. Boy, that photo of him on the left. He might have Stockholm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7217.429

Oh, it's not... Yeah, you are not happy for either of them. But they stole... $72 million in Bitcoin that they really couldn't unload. So they just held it. By the time they were arrested, it was worth $4.5 billion. So it's the greatest theft in the history of the world. Oh, my God. No, I have not seen this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7239.4

Now worth $10.8 billion if you had $72 million.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7262.69

We have a friend that's a victim of. A victim. That's what I mean. Yeah. Yikes.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7268.513

Which I can only imagine what it's worth now because that was what, five years ago?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7281.052

I would love to. Well, do you want to put it on the TV because you're so good at that now? Yep. Email me it. Oh, and I'm going to send you one picture after that of a Ted Seeger's poster that I. Well, there's two. There's three, actually, that I really like. Let's see. Oh, I'm going to send four things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7298.923

Because then I did something for our show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7302.324

All on AI.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7308.765

So for the listener. Yeah. So I want a 15 passenger van for Nashville because I assume we're always going to have so many people staying with us that anytime we go to dinner, we're going to need like tons of seats. So then I was like, well, I want a 15 passenger G van, a Chevy. That is amazing. But I want it to be John Player paint scheme. I want it wide body. I just said like not a ton of things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7331.712

And it spit this one out. It spit three amazing ones out. Did you say black and gold? Yeah, that's the John Player livery famous paint scheme. Isn't it interesting how they fuck certain things up? Like look at the grill. It's kind of going to say Chevrolet, but it doesn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7347.617

It's weird. And they're like, there's normal letters on the tires and then weird abstract. And that's the third one. Look at that motherfucker. Can you imagine?

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7359.49

Look, and I'm only noticing now that it's blown up that big. It's got two gas.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7369.3

You see that, Monty?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7372.161

Well, he probably knows I'm going to be having my foot in the kitchen the whole time. Okay, now go, Rob, to the other.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7379.945

It was a cigarette brand that sponsored Formula One and racing, and they have this signature black and gold. Okay, so I said, make a poster for a beer brand named Ted Seeger's in the style of Miami Vice. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7395.712

Isn't that great?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7398.153

And again, what does it say? It doesn't say Miami beer, but it says like Miami. It almost makes you think it's like a Thai beer or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7407.435

Hieroglyphics. Yeah. Get that Egyptian. Okay. Now, like I said, give me a beer brand, you know, Ted Seeger's. I want a muscle car, a motorcycle, and a muscular horse. I want.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7424.542

That thing is ripped.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7428.384

All right. And then I was like, what if a beer brand named Ted Seeger sponsored a hydroplane race boat and it made that? This is incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7440.111

Did you... I think it's a... I think it's barley or hops.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7445.835

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7446.955

All right. And then... Look at this beautiful animal. That's pretty.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7454.061

Yeah, a crow with a cherry in its beak. I had to do many to come up with this one. This one took a while.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7462.308

What's this? That's your, oh, that was your invite for the party. Oh, I didn't see that. It says, you're rock, rock. Right? Yeah. That's not an H, it's an R. It's Y-R-A-C-H.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

747.037

I guess I was more thinking, I've not advocated for many things in my life, but one happened to be gay marriage a long time ago. Well, I certainly don't benefit from that. I don't have a gay best friend that was urging me to get involved who I would then win the love and approval. It was just kind of, Okay, I trust that opinion because I don't really benefit from it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7474.676

And Captain's questionable. There's, oh, he's got sneakers on. Yeah, he's a jacked crow. No, I hadn't seen that. That's great. Look at that vascularity. Oh, my God. That crow is a fucking animal. How scared is that other crow that's flying in the background? He's probably flying to get the fuck out of there. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7498.472

That was it. Those are all the facts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7500.893

That was a fun AI detour. Yeah. Unless you're listening. I guess that'll all get cut out if you're... I was just thinking if you were listening and you couldn't see any of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

7510.879

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

76.884

Well, right. Yeah. Let's be honest. He did not want to come. Especially when he found out Kristen wasn't here. But anyways, Reid Hoffman's here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

816.781

You're right. Gay marriage is a single issue within a larger, just society I want to be a part of.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

837.521

Yeah, so there's a lot of perfect, well, they're imperfect, but they're damn near perfect parallels throughout history for this current AI revolution. So I think we should go through a couple of them. We could start with the printing press. What were people's thoughts, fears, concerns? How does it parallel AI?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

88.087

And to remind people, Reid Hoffman is a software entrepreneur and an author. He is the co-founder of LinkedIn, also a leading voice in AI. He's one of, if you listen to our favorite podcast. Acquired. He's all over it. He was one of the first meta people. He was the first, you know, he's.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

909.481

Martin Luther said, we have a text. You don't need a bishop and you don't need all these people. All you need is this book. And so the Roman Catholic Church, which was the hegemonic power of the day, was like, this is the end of us.

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Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI)

977.09

Yeah, you clearly already are the beneficiary of this thing. You're on the other side of this.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, experts on expert. I'm Dan Shepard and I'm joined by Monica Padman. Woo!

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1051.481

Right. So how do you end up at the FBI? Because I want to get into some of these cases.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1083.174

Rolled tie is usually sufficient to get her pissed off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

109.864

And who is he? Scott Payne. Scott Payne is a retired FBI special agent who spent 28 years in law enforcement investigating cases against drug trafficking organizations, human traffickers, outlaw motorcycle clubs, gangs, public corruption, and domestic violence.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1180.669

Okay, so over the years, you've been in over a dozen of these long-term deep undercover situations. Probably my greatest interest up until I was probably 30 was outlaw biker gangs. I was obsessed with the Hells Angels. I've read so many books about them. And you went undercover with the outlaws? Yeah, I'm right there with you. I read them all, too. Three can keep a secret if two of them are dead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1202.13

Hunter S. Thompson won.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1203.31

Okay, so the outlaws, for people who don't know, that's real as it gets. It's the Hells Angels and the Outlaws, and those two have always been embroiled in probably the biggest war.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1218.936

Oh, Mongols, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1224.321

But nearly every time you read about a shootout at a casino, shootout at Bike Week, the Outlaws are involved. Could be, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1233.069

Okay, that's fair of you. Belushi brought one of his Hells Angels friends out on stage during when they say goodnight. Oh. He also had Fear come on. Belushi did a lot of weird shit, but he got the band Fear to play. He also brought out Hells Angels. He was on an elevator going up in 30 Rock and two outlaws got in the elevator with him. And so we don't want to see that on TV again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

125.715

He hated this when I said it, but everywhere you read about him, he is definitely the second or tied with the most famous undercover FBI agent of all time with Donnie Brosco, famous Donnie Brosco. His book is called Codename Pal Horse, How I Went Undercover to Expose America's Nazis. And there's also a podcast that he was on that led to the book, which is also great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1253.499

That's like one of his stories. That makes sense. Yeah, yeah. Okay, so tell me that. I respect that. Tell me that process. Because my understanding of it is you got a probie for like a year in most of these clubs, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1301.279

Because you got to do enough shit to be in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1304.182

What's what mean?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1305.383

So if you want to join the Hells Angels, you're going to be a probie for at least a year. You go on all the camping trips.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1311.569

Yeah, you get your ass kicked. You do all the shit work. Hazing. And at the end of this experience, they will vote you in or out. If they vote you out, they keep your bike and your shit and they tell you to get the fuck out of town. If they invite you in, you get the patch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1325.48

And once you put the patch on, if I'm at a bar and I want to fight at Hell's Angels, I have to say, please take your jacket off. Because if I don't and I try to fight a guy with the patch on, I'm fighting the whole club. Those are the rules. I don't know why I'm saying all this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1377.574

Right.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1382.536

California's a mess.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

149.11

It's a Canadian broadcast production called White Hot Hate. And the second season is called Pal Horse, on which he participates quite a bit. This was unbelievable.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1501.052

Really quick, how are you doing? Because this is one of my questions later, but we're here. You clearly have to do illegal shit to earn their confidence. How is that sorted?

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1563.55

Now, this is a weird question, but I feel like there must be an answer.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1569.778

You did biker gangs. You did a sheriff's department. You did a bunch of white nationalist stuff, KKK. And this one's got to be the most fun. Right? I thought about it for a second.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1584.72

Well, I'm going to get to that. Why would you hope that? The shit Scott had to sit through is maddening. When I'm reading about these dum-dums you got to listen to talk about their conspiracy. I mean, that sounds maddening to me. At least the outlaws, I'm into this. And I would be more afraid to have on my back having messed with the outlaws than I would be these weird cell white nationalists.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1605.756

Because outlaws, you have tears. You have 60-year-olds, 70-year-olds. This is going to live on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1611.178

Is that a little more scary?

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1638.556

Everything's going good?

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1641.238

Yeah. You had to have become friends in that two years with some folks.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

165.124

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1655.662

Scott is tied as the most famous FBI agent of all time with, yeah, with the Donnie Roscoe. Undercover. Okay, well, you're not going to say that.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1665.396

But Joe Pistone is the very famous, he was Donnie Brosco. And I think that movie did an incredible job of the heartbreak of having gained someone's trust who may love you and you love them.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1699.037

With the ultimate goal of holding them accountable for something illegal.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1732.462

You think you can compartmentalize. And you can for periods. And then all of a sudden the door's open. You're sitting somewhere and the compartment comes open. I mean, this is what like juggling being an addict is like. Literally Saturday didn't happen. We're erasing that from the books. And three months later, all of a sudden you're immersed in that Saturday.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1757.477

I bet. I bet there's a lot of stuff you'd prefer not to think about again.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1791.668

Well, hold on. There's something interesting there. Because one, there's just you are who you are. You kind of come out a certain way for sure. But then also there's your childhood. And so mine was if I can control the temperature in this room, I can predict where it's going. I'll feel safer if I have a role in what the temperature in this room is. Yeah, that makes a lot of sense.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1811.201

And so dad had pretty bad depression. That's actually what brought me to psychology.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1815.986

But I got to imagine as a young kid whose parents are getting divorced and both are struggling, your dad's really struggling. If you can set the tone in that room, that's preferred.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1865.133

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1868.434

Yeah. But yeah, I think some element of it is looking for safety. In all the many ways that means.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

1919.047

Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2017.81

Yeah, you're going to kids' birthday parties, I imagine.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2113.207

Oh, what's already been seized? So they have warehouses. They have these fucking burns down in Texas. Yeah.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2120.151

It's heartbreaking. Imagine watching them shoveling Cartier watches into a bonfire. That's not the same thing.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2128.059

It is. How dare you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2215.54

Now I'm out. I like hanging out and maybe doing drugs.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2224.564

Oh, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2226.464

I mean, just think, now everyone's carrying a phone. That thing can just be recorded.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2230.666

There's insane stuff out there. There's fucking glasses.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

23.298

I'm so delighted to announce this episode 900 because I'm a bad exaggerator, as you know. I'm actually, no, I'm not even a bad exaggerator. I'm an exaggerator and it doesn't even make sense because it's a marginal exaggeration. The other day I was listening to our show and we had a guest and we were talking about Sedaris and I said, oh yeah, he's been on six times.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2322.971

We'll get to that.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2324.451

But really quick also, you have to be playing the game in your head where you're like, okay, so I'm not wired. I am the guy. What's my reaction now?

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2477.153

Oh my God, we're dealing with a woman. My body is an FBI agent. It's a woman.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2532.549

And all the gear is in your clothes somehow.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2549.919

Pfft.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

256.775

Well, I'm from Michigan and I grew up in a hillbilly area outside of Detroit. And so, yeah, having a big yard is everything. Yeah. You're in South Carolina? No, I'm in Knoxville, Tennessee. Oh, you're in Knoxville. And they built a fucking racetrack between Knoxville and Nashville, right?

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2649.054

Yeah, I did. You would just have to be betting on the notion that they're going to assume they're watching.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2655.579

And if you don't come out, now they've got a fed murder.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2690.968

Well, it's also hard to know. You're just modeling these scenarios. What's annoying about some of these docs you watch where the cops come and they're like, he wasn't acting like someone whose wife just died. It's like, how the fuck do you know how someone acts when their wife, like that's bullshit. That's what you saw on TV. That's what you thought of in your head.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2708.067

Nobody knows what anybody does until it's happening.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2898.602

Was that the gnarliest if you had to give one a number one?

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2911.329

She's like, no. And I'm like, all right. Well, that was fucking incredible. People are going to have to buy the book to hear about the KKK. The one I do want to talk about, though. So you wrote this book with Michelle Shepard. Yes. And she's got an incredible podcast. I really urge people to listen to it. It's great. Season two is you. Yeah.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2935.975

And she kept hearing him in all this court testimony, but just not knowing who this name was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2948.642

This is the guy we've been listening to. And she thought she was going to do one episode of season two with Scott. That's what she was shooting for. And fell in love, as people do with you.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2962.952

It's so well produced.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2968.795

They do a damn good job. It's a really good podcast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

297.752

Maybe not a reverse. Maybe just pause. Let me get out and look.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

2982.143

He's basically the guy that just heard there's inbound nukes. Do I hit deploy nukes? That's really what's happened. Yeah. I blow up this two years. What a fucking decision to have to make. Yes. Because many times he has to be your friend. Fuck this case and fuck these guys. We're going in right now. I don't give a fuck. Yep.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

302.817

Okay, so you're from, though, South Carolina. Yeah, born and raised in South Carolina. And did you not want to retire there?

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3086.315

I mean, this is what he's got to sit. When I talk about him sitting around having to listen to these guys tell him how the world works, how fucking maddening that would be for me. Pour me another drink. I'd way rather have a lot of scary outlaw biker experiences.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3137.553

Yeah, but it has changed. When I was a kid and I was in the punk scene, there were skinhead Nazis. Yep. They all looked the same. But it's not that now. It's these fucking schlubby, nerdy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3200.98

Good luck defining that, but yes, continue. Yeah, by the way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3210.549

Big Easy, what was the dude's name? Big Siege. And his name's Yusef something, as it turns out?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3268.749

What are plate carriers?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3314.424

When you're sitting around talking to these guys, you ever go like, so who's going to do all the work? All this work that none of the white people do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3430.539

Like the Al-Qaeda videos.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

344.515

You should call it the crotch if you've got like mountains. The tank. The tank of South Carolina. That's got some charm to it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3446.448

Which has been out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3479.316

Terrorist principles. Let's get an oversized reaction to something we do. Kill a hundred, scare thousands.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3511.704

These heroes, these heroes are the ones in New Zealand. Of the saints. All these assholes, 27 at Walmart, nine at a mosque.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3547.215

It gets quite scary. If you're viewing them as individual acts of crazy people, you're kind of like, how do we account for crazy people around the world? But when you see, no, these are all related.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3565.525

Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert. If you dare.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

357.642

You were out of Knoxville office for a lot of your work and then built a life and a house and bought property there, I assume.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3629.772

They're trying to figure out who's serious or not. Yeah. Who's going to pull the trigger. How on earth do you delineate?

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3639.943

You know what this reminded me of a little bit in a weird way is domestic abusers. They beat their wife twice. You know, statistically, okay, well, eight times more likely this guy's gonna kill her. When you're in law enforcement and you're just watching the pattern and you're trying to figure out, okay, he's on the road. When are we allowed to intervene? We have to wait till she gets killed?

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3681.97

This is in Malcolm Gladwell's book. This is cracking down on jumping turnstiles on the subway. This is cleaning up graffiti. You take away the opportunity because you never know what's going to happen. And all that stuff. And look, I'm in the middle of all this. But when your environment is sending you signals that no one's looking, people act differently.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3738.721

Otherwise, they wouldn't be over there. In the shadow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3745.606

You're being observed. Yeah. Okay, so you do get embedded in that group, and this Canadian who gets outed in Canada goes on the run.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3788.948

Well, Antifa started showing up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

379.036

What age was that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3812.345

Do you have to fake your skill set? This is what I was thinking. I did. Because he's a marksman. He can't show up in the training thing. I'm imagining you would be shining a light on yourself if you were as good as you are.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3825.343

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

383.357

In high school, you're working for your dad, you're playing football, you're lifting weights, you're a musician, right? You're into guitar. So you have your first taste of undercover work in high school.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3921.096

It's very Viking. It reeks of searching for masculinity and validation for masculinity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

3928.602

They haven't earned it through a job and a career. They haven't earned it through a marriage and protecting their children. They're outcasts. They have been bullied. They can't get a partner. This is the only way in their mind, at least, that they're going to achieve that masculinity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

395.72

Well, I like it because there's a noble cause behind it.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4033.159

Oh, yeah. You just keep raising the purity test. The fundamentalists are on a trajectory to outdo one another's fundamentalists. There is no... You're home safe. You're white. You're this. They keep moving the goalposts. Yeah. All these movements.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

42.972

And as I was listening, I was like, I know he's been on five times. Why would I have said six? Six isn't better than five.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4349.145

Let's just add it's his first time ever trying to do this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

443.018

Any dude wearing weightlifter gloves in high school, we got to keep our eye on them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4465.199

You'd be shocked at some of the things I would do instead of drink that. Yeah, right?

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4531.722

That was my thought when I watched, and I'm not conflating this group with these people, but when I was watching the Capital Six riots, I'm looking at this crowd, You'd be tempted to think there's some kind of monolith ideology there. There's not. Read that sign. That's in contradiction to that sign. There's so much hodgepodge shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4552.435

Their ideology is not the thing that actually is uniting them or making them similar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4559.777

But I just think the thread was, I've been excluded from this system, so I hate this system. So to put a pin on this, this did end with 11 arrests.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

460.468

Slapjack.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4626.037

That was incredible. You gave us so much time. I had a couple just really rapid-fire questions, just your kind of opinion about some stuff. So have the numbers increased or decreased over the last five decades? And if so, how do you explain the growth or the shrinkage? It seems like it's growing. Is it the internet? Is it the political climate? Is it unemployment? Is it directionless young dudes?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4652.47

What would we attribute this to? And has it increased?

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4756.857

Father of one of these bass guys. I was getting so frustrated listening to him talk. He's like, you know, he went through a lot of phases. And she asked, what was it? You know, it was some Nazi stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4867.052

I knew you would probably have felt very close friendships with some of these people and that that would be heartbreaking. Did you feel bad for these guys? Some of them. I think we grew up in an era too where I saw kids get destroyed. They came in as just kids showing up to school and they got destroyed. That's heartbreaking to me. It worked out for me and it didn't for some people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4887.058

And I'm not saying I like what their solution to it is, but I also see... So much of this is born out of just a horrendous experience on this planet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4908.288

Imagine looking at some of these guys and going like, oh, yeah, you're a thousand hugs shy of being here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4985.735

To some degree, you most certainly have developed some acute spidey senses where I'm sure you can kind of tell who's capable of that second chance. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

4998.341

And it's an incredible book, Codename Pal Horse, How I Went Undercover to Expose America's Nazis with Michelle. Also, the podcast is fantastic. This has been radical, Scott. I appreciate you having me on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5010.426

Yeah, this is incredible. All right, be well, brother. All right. Peace.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5024.031

I know this doesn't interest you, but it continues to wow me, and I'm going to keep telling you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5028.992

Well, first of all, when's the last time you bought a pound of ground beef?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5036.194

But you can visualize in your head about how big that is. It's small-ish. Well, I would say it's like this big. It's like the size of a small shoe. You don't like that. You don't like that.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5053.439

Well, here's my point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5055.14

I think a pound of ground beef is a significant size.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5059.343

And I weighed myself last night before bed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5065.427

I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5066.508

Yeah, you got to. Because I listened to about astrology in the pit yesterday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5074.973

So 205.2 last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5085.467

So I lose seven pounds in 12 hours, 10 hours. That's a lot. Picture seven pounds of ground beef. I don't want to. That's what you must picture to be impressed by this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

51.896

So I'm a 20% exaggerator. But I've been saying we're like, oh, well, I've done 850 of these or whatever. Right. But it actually is 900. 900 today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5101.498

Where does it go? Well, I know where it goes. It goes in the turlet. But just picture seven pounds of ground beef on that table. And then I go, I'm going to lose that tonight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5113.886

I mean, I don't... Air.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5120.869

How much is air? Oh, I want to tell this. I saw a very cool video. I'm mad I didn't send it to anyone because, you know, the only way... This is how I save videos, really, in my mind. I see a video I like on Instagram and I send it to someone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5134.915

And then a month later, I'm like, all right, I remember I sent it to that. Because how else would you find it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5140.408

Oh, you can? I don't know how to do that. I'll start doing that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5143.151

Okay. It was Richard Feynman. And you know, people love, all smart people are obsessed with Richard Feynman.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5152.159

Like consistently, it's every smart person's favorite smart person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5156.703

He's a physicist and he worked on the Manhattan Project. He could tackle anything. He was just so curious and fun. So I watched this video of him and he said, you know, Have you ever sat and looked at a tree and wondered where does the structure come from? I think it's normal to assume all of that comes out of the ground.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5177.623

Like the building blocks for a tree and this huge tree trunk and all the leaves, it's like coming out of the ground. And he said, in fact, that is not where it comes from. The tree is built from the air. Because the air has carbon dioxide in it. And the tree, with the help of the sun, it breaks that apart.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

520.315

Only child, too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5200.328

The tree and the leaves.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5204.249

A little sapling comes up.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5206.71

A seed.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5213.333

There's a seed, then there's a sapling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5215.814

Then everything that grows above that, 100-foot redwood. Got it. That's not coming from the ground.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5229.143

Well, it is a little heady, but it's not metaphysical. So the air is full of carbon dioxide. The tree, with the help of the sun, it breaks apart the carbon dioxide into carbon and oxygen, releases oxygen, we breathe the oxygen. It uses that carbon to construct the wood, the tree. Mm-hmm. So the whole structure of it is just taken out of the air by the tree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5254.671

It's all carbon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5257.572

Yeah. Yeah, as are we. We're like carbon life forms.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5267.857

Well, that's how it assembles the carbon that it pulls out of the air. It assembles it into that shape.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5276.01

You gotta let me get to the punchline of this. So that right there is mind-blowing. I think I've always looked at trees and thought all that wood came out of the ground somehow. And he said, sure, there's some minerals and stuff that are coming out of the ground. And then the other thing that's coming out of the ground is the water. Trees are made up a lot of water. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5292.598

He said, but the water doesn't come from the ground either. The water comes from the air.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5297.64

So the structure of the tree and the water all comes from the air. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5302.298

He said, and then when you cut this tree down and you cut it into logs and you put it in the fire and you add fire to it, what it starts doing is rejoining the oxygen and the carbon. And that's the flames you're seeing. And you can think about the flames you're seeing are really just the flames from the sun that have transferred into the flames of this fire. It's all the same thing. Energy.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5328.195

It's pretty rad, isn't it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5332.118

Yeah, and I'm like, I'm so impressed someone figured out why the tree... You just... You might just go, yeah, they're there. I'm not going to overthink it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5339.722

Yeah, I think that's what everyone does. Yeah. Except for Feynman. That's magic. It just comes out of the air. But, like... All that structure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5352.829

Yeah. It's created in the air. And then comes down to the ground. And then comes down to the ground.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5360.228

Groot is the living proof of this process. Yeah.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5365.37

You saw him after you found out about the big.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5369.452

Did you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5371.993

Yeah. He has so many cute pajama outfits. He has a safari outfit. Yeah. He's got every kind of look.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5393.81

I like hers, though, because it's more scrappy. There's no, like, they don't make these clothes for him. So she's, like, aggregating all these from different sources.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5402.573

Yeah. And when we were in Hawaii, we went into a store and I told them they could each get one thing. And I meant candy, like they could have one candy item. And then Delta decided to trade her candy option for she found a tiny outfit that was supposed to go on some other creature. And then she's like, I think those will fit perfectly on Groot. So we left with an outfit instead of candy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5425.342

I had been saying I'm jealous of my own kids. Like, I wish I had their childhood. But I think I want to be ultimately Delta's child. I think if she has a child, that child is going to be fretted over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5442.085

Oh, we don't want to spoil them. Spare the rod, spoil the child.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5447.966

Fine line.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5451.727

But I've already established she doesn't want attention for it. Like Moon Chosen's would have been, she would have come up to me and said, do you know Groot is disabled?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5462.535

She's known he's disabled forever. And I just stumbled upon that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5473.664

Yes, she is. And she wanted to know how long you wanted it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5496.609

Me neither.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5501.292

Yeah. They start doing things you can't do and it's really something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5506.954

I don't know. I'm in a bit of a crisis state. I mentioned it on the last fact check. And then some pediatrician said, yes, you got to stop talking about your kids. Now, I'm not going to take that to too much credit. Like, just because you're a pediatrician, you have no actual.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5521.461

You're not a psychologist. Sure. But what's seared into my brain is that I know Howard at one point stopped. And his daughters ended up being very upset at him, I think, that he would talk about them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5534.554

And so now I tell my kids what I say. Yeah. So it's not like there's any secrecy going on. That's kind of how I've been telling myself. But all to say, yes, I probably need to stop.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5546.76

And then I was like, what do I... I don't have anything else in life to talk about virtually.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5556.567

Debates.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5561.769

Yeah. You have a lot of good ones.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5567.651

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5569.111

I just, you know, there's my free time is what I'm going to draw on. Yeah. Anything that's going to happen to me. Like I went to, I didn't go to Monster Jam by myself. You know, I took my kids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5582.416

She did. That's right. And so I was just sitting in bed, I think last night going like, I don't think I have. A life. A life. If they're not a part of the conversation, then I have almost nothing to talk about. And I guess it's pretty standard for parents.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5621.982

Oh, you went a whole day without talking?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5636.033

Mm-hmm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5645.836

Yeah. I mean, I'm almost never not thinking of something.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5651.858

Unless I'm meditating. And in truth, only for half a second, six minutes of the 20.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5661.914

Yeah, I can have six-minute chunks where it's like I have no thoughts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5667.536

It's so hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5670.437

Yeah, I meditated in the evening. You're supposed to meditate for my meditation, TM. You're supposed to do morning and then evening before dinner while your stomach's still empty. And I don't do the nighttime one. But I did do it a couple times recently. And I did realize, I almost wonder if I'm prioritizing the wrong one because In the evening, I'm not, my brain isn't nearly as rambunctious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5697.536

It's like when I wake up, I just have a flurry of like, this is what you got to do. And this is what happened yesterday. Yeah. Valuate my whole life. It's morning. In the evening, I'm kind of like, yeah, whatever we did. We're alive. We did it. And then I can get, in an evening meditation, I can get sometimes like 15 of the 20 minutes are just blissful. No thoughts.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

571.3

You've seen it really for the first time.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5721.228

I should do it, though, because what I want is that 15 minutes of bliss. It is really euphoric when I get it.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5729.431

Yeah. And then I wonder, is it just helping, like, the fact that I do it every morning? And is it, you know, is my overall... Calmness? Live wireness diminished a little bit?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5744.618

Uh-huh. Losing my vitality. Losing your will to live. That's kind of happening. So Chris and I went for two days to this conference up north, and I danced. Sure. I love to dance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5759.646

But I'm a little out of shape dancing, as it turns out. So I was jumping a lot in my dancing. It was Snoop Dogg. Okay. Snoop D-O-double G. And so I was dancing, I was jumping, I was jumping. It was fun. Probably danced for like an hour. Went back to the hotel room and I was walking barefoot in the bathroom in my gnarly comb over toes.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

576.424

That's what I look like? Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5781.833

They were like, uh-uh, you can't do, you can't jump anymore for a half hour.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5788.68

My foot was like, oh no, we can't do this. It was, it was gnarled up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5794.925

No, yeah. I was just like, are we at the end of, you know, these things are going to start popping up. Can't dance like I used to dance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5810.416

We had a 30-year-old guest on yesterday. Did that do anything to you?

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5822.93

There we go. That helps. So you're both 35.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5865.512

Uh-huh. Yeah.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5920.847

That's why... Well, when I... I kind of, like, tried to get really specific about what's going on in my meditation when it works. And what I realized is, and this is not novel or proprietary. Everyone knows this. But... The racket is either thinking about the past or thinking about the future.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5940.02

And really the absence of thoughts is just being in the moment you're in. Yep. Because there's really nothing to think about in the moment you're in. That's what's crazy. Like you're constantly preparing for what's coming or you're processing what already happened. But in the second to second moment, you don't really need to do shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

5961.116

There's nothing to do or to be afraid of because there's nothing's attacking you. Like, it's just being, I know this is fundamental, but it was just very clear to me. It's like, oh, really? The goal isn't even not thinking. It's just, if I'm not in the future and I'm not in the past, I won't be thinking anything.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6009.081

Yeah. But I guess I don't know. I read a statistic about this.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6014.713

I won't know the right number, but I want to say it was something like low, but like 20% of people don't have that.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6025.238

GLP-1, I'm sure it'll fix that too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6029.76

Yeah.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6047.73

Addiction.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6064.745

I don't have an opinion whether you should or shouldn't. All I'll just add is it's dose dependent.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6071.968

But even I know you can be on a little or a lot. You could have zero compulsion to eat food or you could have some. It's variable.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6105.414

Sure. And then also you, I would say more than others needs to consider the muscle loss aspect of it.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6116.363

Farmer carries on the way to get my wine. Well, don't make it like that.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6122.528

I am. I'm very proud of you. Also, it's my job to tease you. I know.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6130.749

Because if I can't talk about my daughters and I can't tease you, I really, we need to wrap it up.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6164.965

Who you're in love with.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6171.948

Yeah.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6174.559

You didn't.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6177.1

I assumed immediately. He was cast for a reason. Yes, I think he's broadly appealing. Well, yeah, but like... You feel a little bummed that other people...

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6192.89

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6198.674

I would argue you already knew that and that's why he's there.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6203.397

Yeah.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6205.078

I think it's a continuation of the quarterback.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6212.489

He's not the archetype of a quarterback. The quarterbacks now aren't the quarterbacks. They're Timothee Chalamet.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6219.696

There's, so you say, there's a bunch of people that are at the peak of the pinup world and they're not that anymore. And this guy is in that group. He's a very sought after. That person doesn't cast her love interest willy nilly.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6248.912

Oh, uh-huh.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6256.074

Right.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6260.835

Brad Pitt-esque.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6266.596

I don't think you consciously did that.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6272.218

I think he's a very, very high-value target.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6278.835

No, for all the reasons he was in that movie, being sexy and being appealing.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6287.401

It's not an accident that he was chosen to play that.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6296.228

Okay.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

63.668

Oh, gosh.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6300.231

Right.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6309.218

Yeah. For at least 10 months.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6314.764

Uh-huh.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6323.473

He has. And that's not me saying you shouldn't like the person because there's too much competition. That's not what I'm saying.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6330.54

That's not what I'm saying, but the illusion that you were the only one that liked him is bonkers. That part, I think, is bonkers. Should you pursue him? Are you capable of landing him? Yes. That's not what I'm saying. I'm just saying he was always a high-value target.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6355.365

You're telling me you can't have him because now everyone likes him.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6361.632

Right, that's your reality. Your reality is now I can't have him because everyone thinks he's hot. That's the one you just introduced me. So that's the reality you believe in.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6370.518

And I'm arguing your subconscious always knew that.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6414.284

But I think you intuitively know that any male that's the lead in a sexual movie, you know the reality of that. You know that that's a movie star that's been picked for that.

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Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6438.823

Yeah, that's great. You don't think you just across the board can say anyone that's a lead of a movie making out with a hot person probably has an appeal everyone agreed on?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6452.376

I know. And so you do know that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6456.03

Yeah. So your subconscious knows that this is an attractive person because they wouldn't have put him in the role.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6465.613

Yes. But in your conscious mind, you thought you were seeing something no one else saw.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6478.357

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6485.703

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6490.187

And the filmmaker and the co-star all thought that too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6494.831

Well, the co-star definitely was in charge of who got cast in that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6501.616

Do you see the point I'm making though? That like you, you had two things happening at once, right? One is, you know, the reality of casting someone in a movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6528.197

You thought they missed them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6531.14

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6542.065

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6545.346

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6546.887

It's really taken off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6553.049

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6562.263

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6567.546

Because you've acknowledged there would be a lot of competition for this guy. In your mind, you've accepted that he has a lot of options.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6578.372

Mm-hmm. And so, and in your mind, then this is where the baggage comes in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6583.937

If there's a lot of competition, I can't have it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6589.16

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6591.901

But you must acknowledge this very arbitrary thing happened that changed your mind, which is you were going to be as appealing to him as you're going to be to him, period. That's it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6604.727

You heard other people like him, so you like reverse engineered what now he would. That changed how he would think about you. Well, look— That's the hiccup in your thinking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6635.68

Radio silence. There was ghosting. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6649.335

What I think is the most important part, which is you said, well, he didn't actually like me. And I said, well, no, it doesn't mean that he didn't actually. He actually liked you. He asked for your phone number and he liked you. And then he got to New York and there was someone else there that he also liked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6664.721

The whole point of that was to stop your train of thought that, no, I told you he didn't like me. And I was saying that's not proof that he didn't like you. He wouldn't ask for your phone number if he didn't like you. He liked you and he met five other people in the next two weeks that he also liked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6687.651

No, if you're in front of... guy at Saturday Night Live party, and he was going to be attracted to you, he'd be attracted to you. Now, are you going to go with him everywhere and make sure no one else is, he's not meeting anyone else? Are you going to lock up in a relationship? Or, you know, like what's going to happen to confront the reality of this person's life?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6708.547

But just the core thing, does someone like you or not, is really independent, I think, of whether or not a lot of people like them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6722.239

Or is anybody an option for them? Like for the previous guest we were talking about, I said nobody's an option for him. He's not settling down right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6751.222

Here's where you and I are different. So I meet Kate Hudson. Kate Hudson has every single option. I think she's just broken up with Owen Wilson. I think she dates professional baseball players after me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6764.301

I go into it going, she has every option in the world. She's going to have a lot of distractions. She has, the competition is fierce. And she'll like me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6791.109

Yeah, she'll want me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6793.492

Yeah. Well, that's different than... Yeah, that's right. That's the big difference, I think, between your and I's approach in the past.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

68.113

That's a huge marker. That's a commitment I'll make in public.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6811.568

Yeah, I mean, you need access to somebody, clearly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6816.012

You need access. You have to be in front of the person you're sure that you can make like you. You have to have access to them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6824.459

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I think when you find out that the other person, that everyone likes them, you then say, well, I can't have them. And I go, yes, here's the reality of their life. And I can have them. I can go get them. I just want to determine who I'm pursuing by how many other people like them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6843.343

And it sounds like you're saying you've made it, that that would be a factor in whether or not you pursued somebody.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6854.968

Right. Yeah. I think that is your fear. And then where you and I differ in our approach to life is, Great, I'll fail. I won't have her. I still don't have her. So I'm risking nothing by trying and failing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6872.542

They'll be in the same position I'm already in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6876.005

Like, for whatever reason, when I do that math, that emboldens me to go, like, there's nothing at risk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6894.764

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6898.045

And I've gone after a ton of girls that rejected me. And it's just like acting. I want to act. I don't care how many times you reject me. I'm going to keep trying until I can act. Right. You go into it knowing, oh, I'm going to fail 99% of the time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6913.57

But I want the thing so bad. Always deal with the.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6918.544

Mm-hmm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6923.727

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6926.689

Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6941.578

Number one, he's a stud.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6948.539

It's rare I hear someone's whole career, and I think, yeah, I would have also really liked that. That sounds so up my alley. You're acting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6961.262

You're having to meet groups of people and get them to like you, get them to trust you. You have to be good at moving in different kinds of, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6981.606

Almost exclusively. Yeah. These organizations are not the winner's club. They're like AA. They're the loser's club.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6989.493

But we call it the loser's club.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

6993.777

Yeah, but to have to listen... To these bozo conspiracy theorists who are racist, like the things they believe. I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7007.563

I'd also hate to see someone kill a goat in front of me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

701.542

Well, you get super aware of everything you're doing. You have a level of self-consciousness all of a sudden.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7015.049

Is a ram a boy goat?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7030.822

What's a male goat called? It's not called a ram? I think it's like bull and cow. You know how these names, they're gendered names, but they transcend species borders.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7044.969

But a bull moose, a bull cow, a bull elephant. They call a lot of female animals cows.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7056.339

Oh, a buck or a billy goat. Buck, also a male name. Sure. Deer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7066.186

You know the thing I've noticed goats do that sheep don't tend to do? They love getting on tall rocks. Or they stand. I've had friends who have had pet goats and they just stand on top of their like a dog house that they sleep in. They just are up there. They want to be as high as they can be. Maybe they see predators come in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7085.233

You don't like that. I think that's a fun part of them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7088.013

They're very agile.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

71.276

Now, let me ask you this. This guest, who I was like, couldn't say yes too fast enough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7105.111

Oh. I'm sorry, ladies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7108.634

Yeah. You know, Aaron had a sheep at his... Well, his dad had a farm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7113.979

And he had one of all these animals, which is silly. Like, they weren't in the farming business. No one's going to reproduce.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7119.663

But they had a sheep. They had a goose. They had a duck. They had a pig. And I've told you this. And a turkey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7127.87

And they'd all walk in a line all day long. And the goose would be in back yelling at all of them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7134.374

But the sheep, they just love to hit things with their head. They just do it over and over again. So what the sheep would do is if you set the wheelbarrow up, you know how the wheelbarrow has like the long poles that come out that you're holding?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7146.762

It would just run as fast as it can into the end of that handle and knock over the wheelbarrow. And then we'd set it back up and he would do it again and again. And he loved it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7161.772

Well, they got to do it to get some ass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7165.334

Yeah, they do. That's how they get ass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7168.156

For sheep, it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7176.167

They love it. The sheep are so horny when they see some ramming, some head-on-head collision. Oh, God, I hope Chris doesn't know about it. CTE.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7193.292

They don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7199.134

That makes zero sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7202.917

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7204.398

It's CBC. How can the C stand for incorporation?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7209.501

Oh, corporation. I thought you said incorporation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7214.823

Oh, Broadcasting Corporation. Because you said Broadcasting Corporation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7222.287

You didn't hit the G, the ing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7224.889

Yeah. Canadian Broadcasting Corporation. Did that sound at all like incorporation?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7245.219

Good job.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7251.363

Oh, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7256.625

Oh, my God. They threw in a third great name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7264.537

Oh, I don't want to hear the rest because I can imagine you got hit in a neighborhood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7274.545

Yeah, ignorance is bliss. But it does remind me of one of my favorite I think you should leave sketches. The baby pageant.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7283.04

And the bad boy, Bart Harley Jarvis. And they go, fuck you, Bart Harley Jarvis. They hate that baby. They hate it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7293.224

And a woman runs on stage with a knife to kill Bart Harley Jarvis.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7302.71

At Vista?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7304.371

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7306.012

Ding, ding, ding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7307.373

I went and saw Sinner yesterday. Or Sinners?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7310.115

Sinner or Sinners?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7311.757

Sinners in IMAX at CityWalk by myself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7319.122

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7320.383

It's awesome. It's really awesome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7323.406

There's a sequence in there where they're... kind of incorporating all these different black music traditions. And it's like, you're in, it's a time period movie. It's set in like, I wanna say 1932 or something. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7338.479

And I don't want to give anything away, but it's just, like, the way it's all blended together and the power of it and recognizing, like, this through line that exists through all this music and this human experience that all these people have shared. Yeah, yeah. It's crazy powerful. Like, I was goosebumps all over my body.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7362.307

And then... I just had this deep curiosity. I wanted to ask the guy, the theater was mostly black folks and there was a dude next to me. And I was just, I got kind of curious, like, like I'm looking at that. A, I can feel it and sense it. And I've experienced it in, in so that I've experienced that music and it's made me feel ways. And then I was so curious, like, does this young guy,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

739.659

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7390.422

Do you feel a connection to that? Mm-hmm. Or is he on the outside of it as I am? Because it's, like, historic, and it's from another period, and... I'm sure he feels a connection to it. Yeah, I just was wondering. Like, I wanted to talk to him about that. I wanted to know, like, what is the experience? My hunch is you can... That's all in your... It's your history.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7413.096

Like, I think that's all in their body in some way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7417.619

And... I was just, I was very happy for everyone in the movie theater. I'm really happy that this director has the power that he has and that he could tell this story in this way that was just so undeniably authentic and rich and...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7484.904

Yes. Like it is. And the music was always the reprieve. Like I took a jazz history class in college and it was like those all those blue notes and the things that were developed in the cotton field.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7497.027

As an escape.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7498.668

From this horrific life is like it is deeper than chords. There's something wild going on that has carried through way beyond music.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7511.973

It's a beautiful thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7516.576

That's it. A sinner's review and a Cowboy Carter. I loved him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7523.24

He had a sweetness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7526.362

And an openness and an ownership of his point of view all at the same time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7531.886

Right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

7551.824

Put it, stitch it together. Yeah, stitch it. All right. Love you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

77.963

Were you a little bit like, oh, I don't know?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

779.324

Okay, so you go away to college. You end up majoring in psychology. You get a degree in psychology.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

786.75

I could have had a double major. Two more classes. Okay. Monica had a double major. I beat her to the punch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

792.714

I just needed two classes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

794.956

Oh, really? Just roll into class at Charleston Southern?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

797.998

So you end up getting a job as a police officer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

80.644

Of course. Sure. This episode is fucking riveting. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

833.837

It's funny you bring that up. I was just watching a documentary. You know, there's this story, this guy who had seen a guy beating the shit out of his girlfriend on the side of the road, then called the cops. That guy ended up having killed the woman. But in his statement to the cop, because they're now playing the audio in the documentary, he goes, well, the gentleman was hitting the girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

858.217

And where would the gentleman be?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

860.998

So how long are you there? And when at that job do you start dabbling in undercover stuff?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

911.105

That was just a one-week school. Oh, really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

913.288

What are they telling you in there? Seems like a lot to learn in a week. It is. A lot of role-playing. How to commit to your story. That kind of stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

95.453

What a life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Scott Payne (retired undercover FBI Agent)

96.974

I think your heart rate, had you been wearing a monitor, I do think your heart rate would have hit 130 at one point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, experts on expert. We have an unconventional expert today, but when you hear him talk, you will know he is an expert.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1012.145

They're like smoking cigarettes and they've never smoked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1052.297

Mine that I'll say in public is I had watched Friday Night Lights.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1057.242

I loved Lila Garrity. And then all of a sudden on Parenthood, she becomes my love interest. I'm like, I'm going to get to kiss Lila Garrity. I'm going to drop out of character for those moments.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1069.708

Exactly. You've heard the stories, right, of actors who've really had sex, right? You kind of collect these stories. Yeah, yeah, yeah. We were very bummed out to find we had Halle Berry on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

110.351

I think he's just a lover of it. You know, like there's haters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1102.76

One of my funniest moments with my oldest daughter thus far that has happened in the 12 years is I was like, Thomas Crown Affair. I love that movie. That snappy scene with the bowler hat. She's going to love this. And I showed it to her when she was probably like eight. And we're watching and I'm like, oh, I forgot about this fucking scene on the staircase with Renee Russo and Brosnan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1122.449

And it's just going on forever. And I'm like, what if she's going to say anything? And then she just goes, do people really do that? And I go, have sex? And she goes, on the staircase. And I go, no, it's actually never happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

113.913

There's jealous people. He's a lover.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1146.345

Oh, I want to add to there's a couple of things you've said in the previous two interviews that really, really stuck with me. That's crazy. I mean, I think about them often.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1158.032

It was really aspirational. Like somehow we're talking about business managers or this or that. And you said, like, I don't know if they've stolen from me. I mean, I hope they have. Yeah. I hope they have. And I think it's half a joke and actually half insanely aspirational to not be so attached to it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

116.994

He loves projects. He pops up in things. He just loves the whole world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

122.256

Yeah. I like when the good guys win.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1248.877

things a jet to paris yeah exactly i'm gonna look back you would never do that i could have been jetting this whole time i also have that fear i'm so nuts about it and i'm such a hoarder and then i'm gonna die and i'm gonna be like all i see now is a bunch of trips i could have taken exactly yes that's more of the fear that i live so i was single mom money was tight we were panicked about it you guys weren't fucking rolling in cash not at all but was there no fear around it in the house

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

125.297

Please enjoy Seth Rogen. Something very specific happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1314.91

And that's complicated in and of itself. I'll tell you this much. I went into this going like, no, no, you don't give your kids money. It ruins them and they need to be hungry and work and blah, blah, blah. I started feeling a little guilty. It's like, if I didn't get shit when I grew up, that'd be fine. All of our family vacations were in a van eating caramels and we slept in the van.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1332.737

I unfortunately have given them a lifestyle that they're going to feel like it's too late. Oh, you can't go back from that. It's going to jump off a cliff. And I'm like, well, that wasn't very fair to them. I know exactly. So now what's the ethical thing I do? I don't know. Had I raised them like shit pigs, like I was raised, then I would be like, cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1358.122

They didn't. Yeah. You keep the bad house. Yeah. And then when they get out of college and they can't go on vacation, I'm like, yeah, that's normal. But now the realization like you might not travel for 13 years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1373.034

Yeah, you can't go back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1376.877

To not give them anything?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1474.892

It's harder than I anticipated, which is, well, I worked my whole life so I could fly first class. They're too young. I got to be with them. So what the fuck am I going to do? I'm going to sit back in the exit row next to the toilet? No. That feels unfair to me. It is unfair to you. It's unfair to everybody.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

1491.402

I re-listened to the second interview. I want to publicly apologize. I was coming really hard at you about kids, and then I've censored other remarks you've made, and I certainly was a part of the problem.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

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I never did articulate what I was going for in that. I've never felt you needed to apologize to me, for the record. Well, it was pretty full-court press. The real essence of it was, is I was like, you would be such a fun dad for me. Yeah. Sometimes you see people and you go like, that would be a very fun dad. He has the spirit to be a dad.

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Was there another robbery?

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Ultimately, I think I was just trying to give you a compliment that you would be such a fun dad.

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I love it. I heard you say something recently and I was like, yeah, yeah, that's fucking ideal for him and I should have shut up. It was in the press recently. Him basically just saying that we're having a great fucking time and I don't feel like I've missed out and everything's groovy. Paraphrasing. Things are good.

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This is a random question, but I think maybe because of our guests that came out today, which was Nikki Glaser. And we went through this whole thing where she had made some jokes about me and I was very, very sensitive. Really? Yeah. Yeah. What did you say? No.

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They missed some shit. They forgot a few things. You know what's weird? That is the only thing that bothers me. I can accept that the stuff got stolen. It's the notion like, well, are they going to come back?

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it was great everything's on the show or out in the world she was gonna make it in the golden globes and i had found out that it was too hard for the golden globes i was like oh no and then during the whole monologue it was just one of those cameras was on us and i was just waiting to have to fake some positive reaction to being shit on

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And then so she didn't tell it there, but then she told on Stern the next morning. But then I purposely didn't want to hear it because I thought I'd made up these fucking jokes that were so mean to me. And I was kind of just devastated. And then I heard the joke. It wasn't bad at all. And I was like, what a waste of my time. Then we had around. We talked about it was so fun.

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But I think because she was the guest today and I posted and I was just reliving that whole thing. I was curious, are you sensitive? Like I'm so sensitive. Yes, I am sensitive to people making jokes about me for sure.

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Oh yeah, I fucked up world relations for a minute. Yeah, geopolitics.

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It's very easy. They had a good time. Yeah. Things went well. That's what's driving me a little bonkers.

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It's like you're answering the calling to the commitment to comedy. Like in that moment you elevate it.

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It's just like a thing that I know I shouldn't be saying. It's a slippery slope. This is terribly corny, but hurt people hurt people. There is some reality. And we even had fun talking when they get like the bottom line is I'm really sensitive. And because I'm really sensitive and insecure, I'm great at seeing other people's sensitivities and insecurities.

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It's like you almost have to be a little wounded to even know what to do.

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Just broker a deal with them.

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All I'm thinking is I'm watching this stuff. This guy has to watch these jokes. He's probably sensitive too. For all of his improprieties, he never really made fun of people.

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That's not what his bag was. He wasn't out there shitting on other people.

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Like the mafia, I'm willing to pay them $500 a month to just stay away. Pay them camera protection. But when I have anxiety, I cut my hair compulsively.

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I'm going to really get in front of the mirror, and then I'm going to start trimming my hair. And I got lost in it. And then I thought, I should just glance at them. I'm sure I got 10 minutes left. And I was like, what?

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Before we get to the studio, I just want to say I love the boys so much and I love Gen V so much. Oh, that's so nice. How much time does that whole thing take up? I want it to go forever.

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I would imagine you were taking all of your cultural capital and power at the studio to allow that tone to exist and be that bold. And then once that was achieved and rewarded, you could step away a bit.

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I was in a state of flow, I guess.

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The reason I love it so much, and Kristen and I will say this all the time, mid-sequence, we're like... I can't believe it's on television. I mean, half the appeal is I can't believe it's on television.

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I know. I just, I thought it was going to be three snips as I always do. You just couldn't stop. It was too good. What's your thing that you'll most lose sense of time doing? Is it the pottery? I would say I'm annoyingly conscious of time all the time.

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Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

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Here's another thing I fucked up. I was like, I have so much time. I'll cut my hair. I'm also going to bring a fan down and I'm going to bring an ashtray for our guests. Oh, it's okay. Are you sure? Yes. Okay, we love that you smoked weed.

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Thank you.

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That was fun for us, but it did lead us astray.

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Sure.

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Well, that's what happened. You did it and we were like, that was great. Nothing happened. And then Wiz Khalifa. Is that his roach?

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Thank you. Thank you.

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Yeah. And I was like, hey, feel free to smoke. He probably smokes at a different rate than I do. Exactly. He did five back to back over the course of an hour and a half. And there was a point where I was like, I'm a little lost. And I looked over at Monica and Monica was like this. And I looked at Robin. He wasn't even looking at the board. He was just sitting on his chair hanging out.

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And I was like, uh-oh. I've hung out with him a few times.

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They have like a whole different energy. To defend them for a minute, because that other job is so terrible. They have nothing to do with what gets made.

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But most often, they are handed a movie. Their task was to make everyone in America want to see this.

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Icon, literally. She's just so fucking perfect and everything. Okay, the episode that I have to imagine you feel proudest of, I can't stop talking about, is episode two. It's called The One-er. That was a tough one. I don't want to give too much away, but I also want to whet people's appetite because it's an incredible accomplishment. The episode's called The One-er.

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It starts with you and Ike driving to visit set. We already know people do not want you to visit set. And the stakes couldn't be higher because Sarah Pauly is directing a movie and they're getting a shot at magic hour, which means you have this tiny window of 40 minutes of good light. And then the shot's going to be the camera and it's going to do a one-er. We're never going to cut.

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That man doesn't have anxiety. Who's the Muhammad Ali of it? Of smoking weed? Yeah, like, okay, so you were around him and you're like, oh, boy.

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It has to be perfect. And you guys decide to visit in that moment.

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And everything has to be done perfectly. Yes. You can't fuck up once. There's no coverage for it. It's a full commitment. The very famous one in Hit and Run. Yeah.

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It's probably the second most famous one. But by the way, when you commit to one and it works, the fucking exhilaration beats anything you can do on a set.

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A lot of moving parts. They're very hard. And the show is so menace. Also, they're acknowledging what masturbation a one-er is.

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I've even heard stories about people having the existing record on the monitor that they're trying to beat.

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Okay, so what's fucking impossible is the episode is also a winner. In real life. Yeah. The episode itself is a winner about a winner. And then all the things that are being laid out in the episode are just so fucking satisfyingly woven into the conclusion.

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But also, not only are they choreographing their own one or which is the episode, but there's also a real life one or happening in the show. It is so mind scrambling. It's an insane accomplishment. Thank you. Because it's not just the one or it's the layers of payoff.

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Oh, yeah, yeah. It seemed like you had three cuts. Yeah, exactly. There's like three or four cuts total in the whole thing. What you can't tell, they're stitched beautifully. Chris and I, we were even arguing. I'm like, probably there was a hood mount on the car that was somehow easily detached. Yeah, that's exactly what it was. Oh, thank God. I just won one argument.

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We would do visual effects to erase rigging.

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Because there's 15 actors in that episode that all have lines. If one person forgets their line nine minutes into a take, it's back to the car.

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scene so my question about that episode is did you guys piggyback on when the show was actually no we created our own golden globe that's another episode we shot at four days because we couldn't have that room for very long and we had to load in and load out in the same week but no we threw the golden globe no it's a full golden globe so that shows has to be functioning as a real golden globe show in the background oh yeah we had to

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Well, OK, so another achievement of the show is you have fucking plot. A lot of comedies really don't have plot. They don't have an engine. And these fucking episodes, every one of them are so stressful. The tension is thriving throughout the whole show. And that's because of the oners.

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Snoop's the best though. There's no point in that for you though, where you're at all nervous, right? You're just like, okay, here we are. No.

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It's like true situational comedy. And then also the score, you have this like chaotic jazz and that's fucking nerving you up to no end.

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It really is stressful. So driving home the night of the episode, The One-er, did you get a burst of elation? I was pretty happy. You could also watch it the next day.

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But again, you have a non-actor in this kind of high stakes situation where she's going to have to hit all of her beats really well.

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Back up the block. You're breaking shit all the time.

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People rarely all do their job at the same time.

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Yes. So I think there's a lot of ways you can be a good director.

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He's got a Jew joke he's got to hit you with.

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And he's just got nine minutes sitting in a chair waiting to fuck up his life.

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It's fun to hear you're afraid of that a little bit. Isn't it like comforting?

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The whole time the characters are actually stressed out.

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I've said that a few times where I've been so high eating it. I was like, how could this be more powerful than crack and psychedelics? And the duration is very up in the air. It's a real bummer.

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It's a cool way to keep yourself interested after year 30. It's like you've got to do something to wake yourself up a little bit. No, definitely. I'm afraid of the next show you do. Yeah, exactly.

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You were editing.

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No, with how intricate it is and how well done it is, any amount of time would not have shocked me. Yeah. Okay. I hope you're able to do this. So the fucking appearances are one after another. Like Martin Scorsese's in it. Steve Buscemi. Ron Howard's in it. Charlize Theron's in it. Zac Efron's in it. Olivia Wilde's in it. Ice Cube's in it. It never stops.

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And when I'm watching that, I'm so happy for you. Because to me, that is this crazy reflection of what you've built. You can call Martin Scorsese and he'll show up and do your thing. Call his manager.

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I've never met Martin Scorsese before. There's a lot of accomplishments on display. There's the technical accomplishment. There's the writing. There's the life story of you and Evan. But also there's the goodwill. Yes. What you've built goodwill wise. Really, it's all there.

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This is the Tom Cruise of the show.

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And it feels real as a result. There's so many that Kristen said to me mid-episode. Do you ever start feeling offended you're not in something? No.

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And you text me, what if we moved Seth to Thursday? And I said, no, you have bad ideas.

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But it's really hard. I had to do a thing with Michael Peña and I didn't figure this out until like two weeks into shooting because we're in every single scene together and I'm directing it. And about two weeks in, it occurred to me He doesn't hear me give myself a note. All he hears is me say something to him.

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Yeah, you might dissolve your ego and learn some stuff about yourself.

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So like two weeks in, I go, I need you to know after these takes, I go like, that was too slow. I got to speed it up. I give myself notes. And then I come to you. I just want you to know, I don't think I'm doing it perfectly. I'm berating myself. And then I go on to you.

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he just missed it you started talking too soon so that's easy to call cut on but i think the thing that would be hard how on earth did you manage when someone did a shitty delivery of a line minute one of a five minute one or did you go like oh i'll just go through to the end or will i just be brave right now and say cut it depends what take it was because also you got to navigate just not bumming people out yes

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Well, this is the most I've ever talked about a show when someone was promoting a show. But I have still a couple more questions. Great. One is the other thing that I became hyper aware of is your own aesthetic, or at least what I think is your aesthetic is really on fire. Every single house we go to is an architectural masterpiece.

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They are.

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He's like a little style boy.

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And then, of course, for me, I got hyper focused on all the cars. So every episode, Matt Remick is driving a different 60s car. There's an MG, then there's an old Merc, then he's in a 53 Vette. You don't have a car thing, though, do you? I do like old cars.

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I don't have like a collection of old cars. Do you have any old cars?

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I like those. Oh, I'll add to the complexity. He's driving these old fucking 70-year-old cars that are all stick shifts up, even in the winter episode. Get him in the driveway for real. I'm starting to think he's got his hands full. He's directing this thing. I'm just driving that car.

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You're in an irreplaceable car. If you fuck it up, you're down for the day.

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You're like Nancy Meyers in this way.

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I fucking worked on that lot for two years and I missed. There's a Frank Lloyd Wright film.

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I was beating myself up for having missed that. So that's entirely fabricated. Entirely fake. Thank God. Because I could see where it was positioned.

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Yeah, you kind of buy into it. It's like, oh, yeah, I could see that at Sony.

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My favorite thing, I want to say you were doing Stern, where you had smoked a bunch of weed doing Stern, but then you were co-hosting with Hoda? Yeah, yeah, yeah. And you got hammered too? Yes, like I've drunk with them very early in the morning.

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I also started adding up your budget as I was watching it.

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He doesn't give a fuck. It occurred to me on this interview, Monica. I was like, it's time the next time Seth's here.

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Yeah, wouldn't want to. Would he be up for that?

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But it's also reflective of us personally. Well, yeah, of course I care. Of course I find it interesting.

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I know a lot of teams that have split up. We had a therapist actually say to us, we were producing a show.

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And she looked at us and she said, you guys are in the Beatles. Look what you guys get to do and what you make. Don't break up. Don't fuck it up.

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That's really great. Thank you for saying that out loud. Yes, that's true.

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It's interesting because Phineas doesn't have that. Some people have it. He knows damn well what he's doing. Yeah, Evan too. He doesn't care at all. He does get a lot of credit for a lot of stuff. I'm sure he's got a really nice house.

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Yeah. He'll probably leave his kids some money. Exactly.

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Okay, last question. In the show, you're acknowledging the real context of our industry, which is like movies are harder and harder to get to make money. It's just gotten more stressful. They make less movies, less of them work. The whole thing's terrifying. You perfectly pivoted into TV. And I wonder, do you consciously do that or did it just accidentally happen?

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When I look at a lot of your peers, you somehow went perfectly into doing virtually what you were doing in movies and TV.

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Yeah. Now on the other side of all of it. And as much as I lamented the disappearance of all that, and I suffered, I've made movies that didn't work in this fucking era. I also recognize I am so glad the boys isn't a movie. Yeah. So on the other side of it, have you found making TV is just as fun or even more?

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I really am envious of that experience. I didn't drink in the morning until I did. And then I had to quit. But there were times throughout the year where you did drink in the morning. Camping, sure. St. Patrick's Day. Wake up, get out of bed. Brunch. Sometimes a good brunch. I love brunch.

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But also I'm watching Fall Guy and I'm like, this movie is flawless. It's got everything you would ever want. This thing should make half a billion dollars.

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You're a piece of shit.

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good well i love it man i'm so glad that i got to see all that's so nice i feel very lucky it comes out on march 26th on apple plus and it's spectacular and this is number three and i can't wait for number four we'll get evan in here yeah we have space you do yes yes tell him there's a seat waiting for him all right well thanks for coming in thanks for having me that was great

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Hi there, this is Hermium Permium. If you like that, you're going to love the fact check with Miss Monica.

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Not today, but... Oh, you're getting a boat. By the time this is out.

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For the gearhead, I'm going to have my first pontoon boat.

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It's gorgeous. I can't. Monica, the leaps that have been made in the pontoon world.

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I could bore you for hours.

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Why?

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Oh, I got you. I thought you were saying by the time I get it, like I receive it tomorrow. But yes, by the time I got in the market for, yes, there was a huge leap forward. Let me hit you with some of the feech.

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Don't ever think again.

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Pontoon. I grew up on a pontoon boat. Dave Barton, my sweet stepdad, he had himself a pontoon boat. Two steel pontoons on the bottom.

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A pontoon's a big steel... Rod.

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What would I say? Pontoon. I mean, I don't know what other word to use. If you could picture a kayak.

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But completely sealed and it's stainless steel.

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Or aluminum. And you have two in the water and then there's a flat deck. So it doesn't have like a hull. It's not made out of fiberglass like a normal boat. It's just got these two pontoons and then a big flat deck on top. They're ideal for maximum passengers.

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Thank you. Thank you.

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Two martinis and calling it a night. I have that same inflated pride about not having a gambling addiction. Because I'm like, everything I've ever touched, if I like it, I do it too much. But I can gamble. I did it Saturday. Chris and I were in Vegas for like nine hours. I'm like, let's gamble. Did 40 minutes. Very normal. Gambling's one of the worst.

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Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

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It's an addiction where you're just burning your money, basically.

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And then I forgot about it. And then you did it anyway.

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Thank you.

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525.693

I bought heroin. There's some escape. Rob, who's your favorite guest? The chef we love. Roy Choi. Oh, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5328.317

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

536.561

Well, he had gambling addiction and he really shared with us. And I'll say the added fucking burn of that addiction, aside from drugs, is there is this notion you can get even. For me, like day three of a crack run, if I thought, oh, I could smoke two rocks and it'll erase what I did. Go back in time. Yes, it has that promise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

54.568

And now we're here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5479.88

Thank you. ,,,,,,,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

557.797

I'm in deep shit. I've lost the house, but I could fix it all with this addiction.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

56.868

Seth Rogen is an actor. He's a comedian. He is a filmmaker. He is a martial arts star. Yeah. Remember when he was a kid in Canada, he was all about that karate. Superbad, This Is The End, Knocked Up, Neighbors, Pineapple Express, and a new series that I, it'll be obvious in the episode. Truly, I love this show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5623.374

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5679.684

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

568.267

I don't gamble constantly. Not even like sitting at a blackjack table and tapping into the Sinatra thing of it all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5731.006

Yes. So the staircase is going up like an M.C. Escher situation. But again, that was not on the stairs. That was like more leaning over one of the railings.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5745.073

That's a match made in hell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5747.134

That's the worst. That was me on cope, to be fully honest with you. Oh, God. Yeah. Everyone's horny and then I can't. Why?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5759.686

I told you that's when, I mean, there were numerous times where I had to acknowledge what a problem it had become. But yes, there was a moment where I was at a bar and I decided, I told the dude like, oh, get the guy and let's get an eight ball. And there was a girl there that liked me. And I was like, This is something. You would rather do that drug than have sex with this attractive person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5784.169

And I, previous to that, would have thought there was nothing I would want to do more than have sex with an attractive person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5790.972

Say what? You're just, you're like grabbing, you're grabbing from everywhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5802.25

That's not relevant to this conversation. Well, you were on coke. Yes, an excessive amount.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5812.832

Me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5813.832

One of the blessings. There's blessings all around if you keep your eyes open.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5820.314

If she remembers me and she's hearing this, thank you so much. What a great memory. No?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5831.337

Oh, cool. What was it about? Just sex?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5837.111

Oh, my God, Monica. I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

584.692

What if you went with a buddy who is kind of good at it and he just was like, you hit a 16.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5843.114

Blood shaming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5845.936

I'm glad you're owning it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5849.257

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5853.22

You can imagine how.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5856.861

What?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5860.063

Right. I don't think murderers, like, that's not how it works with murderers. They're not like, you know what? I'm going to go gambling. If I meet someone who wants to fuck in the stairwell, I might murder them. I don't think that's how it works.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5877.216

I don't even think murderers are gambling and having fun and getting drunk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5882.78

They're in their grandma's underpants.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5891.146

He was in a cast hanging out by cars, acting like he couldn't get his crutches or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5898.832

He was playing a victim. And luring people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5911.735

Okay, we're talking about, no, we're talking about killers. Yeah. And we're talking about roofing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5918.1

And we're talking about me playing blackjack in Vegas.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5929.429

Well, I was though.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5934.913

You're just saying there could be someone drinking at the blackjack table who's a killer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5940.738

And then they're using that method to meet people. Yeah. That they'll kill.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5946.782

Right. And they'll be on all the Vegas cameras with a ton of documentation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5953.249

And a lot of documentation that they were talking to their victim. It'd be a really dumb serial killer to get their victims in a Vegas casino because it's so filmed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5965.391

You want to be out in the woods in a parking lot with a cast on?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5978.446

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5981.73

I think she is. She was really a cool, smart.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

5985.534

But you can imagine how neatly it filed into my whole thing about Anglos, right? Because the only other really time that that had happened in such an aggressive manner was when I was in 10th grade, the aforementioned snowboard trip story with my friend from Manchester. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6002.697

No, but it was an English gal. And now I had an Australian gal. And I was like, something's going on with these gals. They're very assertive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6010.24

Yeah. It funneled nicely into my stereotype. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6020.403

Oh, there we go. That's my favorite.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6024.705

Okay. So I have heard of three of those 10 movies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6052.063

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6053.984

Feels so much longer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6076.58

Now we're talking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6080.423

Ooh, we're climbing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6085.408

Is Boiling Point a John Woo movie?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6099.849

He said, I'm cutting that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6101.811

It's too much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6107.376

Wow. They're so rewarding when you are directing one and everything goes right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6112.441

Nothing really feels like that. Stunt, like when a stunt goes right, that's a really, like the hardest I've ever celebrated is, was in Chips when my friend drove a Humvee through a motor home and drove it right through the center of it and broke it in half and made it through the other side at full speed as explosions were going off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6134.882

And I was on the Sixth Street Bridge and I screamed with elation like you can't imagine. That's really hard. Another blessing of my life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6146.937

And Chips? Yeah. Oh, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6150.799

Stunts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6152.619

I'm listed as a stunt performer for Michael Peña.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6161.203

I did all the driving in his getaway car scene. That's appropriation. I didn't do brown face. I just went to a tanning, spray tanning and went too far. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6176.271

Oh God, we love him. I can't wait for number four.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

6179.355

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

622.222

Well, that's kind of my struggle. I was just explaining. Someone else was on the trip who's a big deal. Your struggle. I'm sure I had a book called that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

629.606

Mine come. It's a sticky title. It is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

631.948

It did well. It did very well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

635.289

You could argue it was a powerful book. You can say a lot of things about him. But to say his book was not effective. It was sticky. Oh, my goodness. God. Well, yeah, there's a dude on the trip who really gambles. And I was saying to him, I'm in this nether world where I used to gamble with a thousand dollars in the bank and I would gamble a hundred, which was a tenth of my net worth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

654.306

And if I won two hundred, I literally went up 30 percent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

659.027

It changed my life dramatically that weekend. That's bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

664.228

I'm not willing to go gamble $10,000.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

720.765

It was pure for four people and nobody else. What are you watching? What shows are you obsessed with? I've been loving Severance. It's amazing. Walk me through the experience of watching it. Do you watch it? Yes. Obsessed. We've seen the whole thing because like your show, we got screened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

80.478

Oh, it's so impressive. It's so funny and impressive. And the plot is like a freight train. It's called The Studio and it's on Apple TV, March 26th. So please, I couldn't recommend it enough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

854.358

Yeah, like Wes Anderson can have that kind of meticulous world and comedy. He's literally probably the only other person to really do it like that. Do you like Righteous Gemstones?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

884.216

Well, you saw the pilot, right? Yes. Danny directed the pilot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

910.279

All that matters is we're capturing the joke. In the defense of everyone, that was the first full embracing of improv all the time. So you couldn't afford to miss someone's reaction.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

945.837

What a kiss, right? Oh, yeah. Handsy kiss.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

950.754

I was watching with my Evan, Aaron Weekly, since sixth grade. And we were in Texas on someone's couch. We're staying at someone's house. And we decided to watch the show. It had been out for maybe a week or two.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

962.339

No, I had been really busy. And I was actually excited because I was now available to watch it. And we were sitting on a couch, a very tiny love seat. And that kiss happened. And I was like. Oh my God, that's the best kiss I've ever seen on television. He goes, has she ever kissed you like that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Seth Rogen Returns Again

996.627

Right, so your buddy's making out with you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, Experts on Expert. I'm Dan Shepard. I'm joined by Monica Padman. Hi. And I want to quickly say that our guest is Dr. Blaise Aguirre. Aguirre.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1003.456

I don't think anyone would be hearing this and not be able to quickly think of someone in their head. I'm going to, yeah, a couple people that I've had this distinct feeling of. I can feel you creating a narrative about me that I'm out to get you. For me, on the other side, it's exhausting. It's a little demoralizing to the experience we've had. I've earned more than this, right? Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1026.787

Now, it's a spectrum, so there'd probably be a different answer for wherever you're at on this continuum. But are all of their relationships going to follow that pattern or do some trigger it and others don't?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1126.47

Absolutely. I would imagine there's some also predictable fallout in their professional life and their relationships. Is there a pretty well-worn path that folks suffering from this find themselves on?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

114.287

Yeah. And it was incredibly informative. And he has a book out. Again, I've already given away that one copy I read and then I've ordered two more for people I love. I hate myself. Overcome self-loathing and realize why you're wrong about you. Yeah, this is an incredible topic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1163.495

Do I understand this? This is an offshoot of CBT, yeah?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1184.284

Or I'm celebrated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1224.301

Okay, so what causes it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1314.382

Yeah. Which I am, by the way, to my cohort. Most people don't have anaphylactic shock from peanuts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

132.684

Yeah, I think so. And yet another big, crazy endorsement for CBD and dialectical behavioral therapy. Yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1368.223

Is it observable in any part of your body or is it a neurochemical thing we would have to measure?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1422.029

She outsmarted it. Which would be a skill. That was something you would probably teach in CBT.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1445.816

It also overlaps what we would think of trauma response. I'm thinking of, of course, the beginning of Body Keeps the Score and him observing veterans deal with these pretty trivial challenges and have these very outsized reactions. And I myself really relate to that deeply.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

146.714

Yeah, it's pretty amazing stuff. Please enjoy Dr. Blaise Aguera.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1463.066

I don't think because of a BPD situation, but because of a trauma one where the slightest thing for me becomes life and death pretty quick. So it's very similar. It's interesting how many ways there are to arrive at the same reaction.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1511.155

I am quite sensitive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1517.56

Yeah, the combo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

153.429

Aguirre. Dr. Blaise Aguirre. Perfect. Can I start with a question I'm so embarrassed to ask you? Yeah. I've never seen your first name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1591.914

Yeah, you're doing them a kindness and almost helping not confirm their own pattern, which is if you are to just ghost them and leave their life, you actually confirm everything they've been saying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1602.782

Whereas if you say, I wanted to be a part of this and love you, the intensity for me is very scary. And I am always feeling like I'm going to do something wrong. It gives me a state of anxiety and I just can't handle that personally. I think that's a constant.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1661.715

Great. Wait a second. Did you guys invite me here because this is a session? We always do. We bring in the best experts in the world to try to navigate this partnership. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1739.623

You could be soft kids gloving at, but you're one person. So what do you really? Yeah. I think we could further articulate devaluing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1780.448

Could we say, if you notice who you hate... It generally will fall into two categories. They either exhibit a side of yourself you hate about yourself or they've achieved some success in this deficit you think you have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1816.677

Kind of creating the story to explain the feeling you initially had. Exactly right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1955.205

Okay, so the treatment for this, I mean, 5,000 patients, I would imagine I couldn't ask someone better about what the course of action is if someone does want to confront this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

1994.276

Sure. We have to first keep you alive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2039.296

Why you wanted a Porsche in the first place. Exactly. You're right. You're already driving this fucking thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2091.182

Yeah, I will say I'm generally skeptical of all the modern child raising advice that comes over the transom every 36 hours. But one that I have recently heard that my wife's a big proponent of, which I can't help but agree with. I think anyone who's got kids could relate to this is like the kid does something, they injure themselves and you want to teach them a lesson in

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2112.916

You go, that's why you don't play with scissors. Right. But part of their brain you want to access is not accessible until you've regulated. Exactly. Like the first order of business has to be let's calm everyone down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2126.452

Let's return to some kind of homeostasis where this lesson you're going to give them could even be heard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2164.958

Yeah. Is there any part of the treatment that is pharmacological?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2204.693

These are kind of the horror stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2220.706

Got you. How successful is the treatment?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2231.852

God, really quick, take that in to know that one in 10 of your patients you'll have to watch die is a very gnarly endeavor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2254.07

Okay. So through the course of all this work and the 5,000 patients died, It occurs to you at some point, you're occasionally hearing something, but you're not really focused on it. It's not something that's listed in the DSM that should be addressed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2269.081

And you basically are led by your patients to start considering self-hatred and self-loathing as a condition that really needs exploration, research. We need to really start considering that this is a component that needs addressing. How do you come to this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

227.741

Home of the Geary. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2328.197

I've not been asked that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2374.909

There's lots of excerpts of dialogue between you and patients. I don't know why, but I'm blown away with how intelligent some of the patients are and how articulate. And some of them are downright confrontational with you, which I think is so brave and cool. There's something about the dynamic that makes that hard. And one of your patients, a young woman, is like, you're not listening to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2395.399

I'm not upset with myself in this moment. I hate myself across the board. You need to fucking listen to me and I'm impressed and grateful that someone would have that conviction to push back against you like that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2415.75

You too are also limited by your own experience. So, yes, you've learned from the DSM all these other things and you know how to look for them. But because you yourself can't necessarily relate immediately to a constant state of self-hatred, it's a little inconceivable until it's detailed for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2433.105

What does it mean? Because I think a lot of people go like, well, I hate myself often.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2436.928

Or I feel like a failure sometimes. I'm lazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2443.074

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2449.38

100%.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2470.771

This couldn't be proven to you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2481.858

I would pull my dick out and go, great, you're holding that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2496.923

Well, you would be an adversary. You would be a threat. You would be someone that's living in certainly a different reality than I am.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2508.107

Right. So I'm saying I'm worthless and I am toxic. They use often this term toxic. Doesn't matter what proof you present to them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2520.993

Meaning they're as convicted about that as they would be about their biological sex.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

253.076

I can't even begin to guess at what industry would have brought your parents to all those locations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2541.771

Yeah. So it's very hard to tackle, it sounds like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2561.065

And what was the conclusion of those papers or the thesis of those?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2567.029

Okay. Each paper ended with weak

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2574.769

Yeah, you're a great candidate. Very misleading, in fact.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2593.745

So Jewel wrote a foreword.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2596.008

And what we learn in that story is that she had an abusive father who was an addict. We've interviewed her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2603.015

And that at 15, she started considering just moving out and she's starting to confront whether she'll feel better from that and recognizing that he's the bad guy in the story. But even when she's away from him, the bad guy is still there. And this concept of internalizing your abuser, which is fascinating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2622.885

I mean, she has this beautiful metaphor where she's peeling an orange and she starts to become open to the idea that What she thinks of as herself is actually the peel of the orange. And that peel is there to protect this beautiful fruit inside from all the elements. And that perhaps the trauma is just the peel. And she doesn't actually know who she is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2646.302

The nurture is the peel and the nature is this orange inside. And she becomes dedicated to finding the real her. It's so beautiful. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2697.826

That's so serendipitous. Do you have kind of your own DSM in your head where you would be able to delineate what is average disappointment in oneself versus something that needs this true attention and these tools?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

27.492

Blaise Aguirre. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

274.849

Learn that trade.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2749.249

I'm a toxic entity.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2780.406

The world would be better without me.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2786.109

Yes, this young woman in your book, when kind of explaining to you why she's so worthless, it's kind of implicit. She's already had the suicide attempt.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2796.059

Her mother is, she knows, worrying about her all day long. The weight of that, I'm causing this person, I love all this distress. And just one thing after another, that's, I'm a burden and this place would be better without me.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2845.919

So what was your personal breakthrough in treating this? What were the things you started noticing could work?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

285.114

I guess those were all seaports. I could have put that together. Exactly. So I could imagine this could do a real number on you identity-wise.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2874.352

You can definitely see it as fuel for the BPD.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2915.831

Yeah, that's a big admission.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2950.461

There's even incidents where your conclusion could be that, right? Because this woman eventually writes you this letter, which is really inspiring. She's the reason that her parents got divorced. Neither of them needed to tell her that. That could have just been a conclusion she made.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

2971.31

It's like muscle memory.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

30.966

You say it. I'm just, I'm going to own it. I'm having a very hard time pronouncing Blaze's last name because it's A-G-U-I-R-R-E. And Wabiwab was nice enough to write it out phonetically for me.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3008.057

The ends justified the means.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

304.568

You were anchored and tethered to her.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3057.025

That's the thing in AA, which is the other side of the coin of self-aggrandizement is self-pity. That was very helpful for me to police self-pity, which is like, it's just as egomaniacal to think the world is conspiring against you. You're not that important on either end.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3082.361

But nor am I. You don't have the power to make your parents get divorced. You don't have the power to keep them married.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3110.45

That's tough medicine.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3158.717

Well, this is the great danger of the DSM that's implicit is inadvertently we're establishing what normal is. And now that there's normal, that's the objective. And then your belief about what normal is, which is not true. Yeah. Yeah, it's all slippery.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3184.486

Okay. So once you drive that wedge in there and you get them to accept that they weren't born this way, which I can see on the surface is very powerful. How now do you start nudging them towards considering they could return to that?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

321.161

Do you think it at all gives you a healthy outsider's perspective that you're kind of observant of these places you go? And while there's a different modus operandi here, that's intriguing what's going. Do you think that could be the seeds of why you find your way to psychology and psychiatry?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3233.847

She was already so fucking flawed and busted that you would dispose of her.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3312.432

There's a moment, again, back to this young woman, where, boy, it feels like you take a huge swing. I can't imagine myself doing this, but the outcome was phenomenal.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3322.902

really interesting which is she had taken time to write you this kind of long letter and it was full of lots of kind things about you and she clearly took a lot of time on it you read it and she is not to a place yet where she has transcended self-hatred and you said this is lovely and i can see you've taken a lot of time on it but i'm afraid i have to reject this

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3353.855

I like the stolen money analogy you gave her. You can't give someone $100 you stole.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3364.687

That's rough. I'm so mean to my husband.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3369.051

Exactly.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3395.393

Yeah, you said to accept this, you hate yourself and you're toxic and you're devoid of love. So this letter is the opposite of that. And for me to accept it would be to accept a lie.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3420.009

Yes, because that, particularly not knowing her diagnosis, but if she were BPD, this is ripe to fulfill the narrative that you're not what she thought. Rejecting this thing I spent all this time on.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3434.097

But it did penetrate. I guess you get great at knowing when the time is.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3442.321

I think her making that letter to you was a good flag for you.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

348.785

I haven't heard that. That took me a second. So not a highly employable skill set.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3559.924

What are some things you feel new in our culture that are compounding this?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3579.422

There's a very well-funded mechanism out there.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3601.181

I find myself frustrated with those folks and not as compassionate, and I should. Part of me wants to go like, this billboard of this person is not an assault to you. I do discount sometimes that there is varying levels of vulnerability. There's part of me that just wants to go like, yeah, there's also cars that are faster than yours. It's not an assault on you.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3676.089

I can't eliminate all the triggers in the world to satisfy the most triggered among us. It's very defeatist too, right?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3697.077

Okay, this is petty for me to bring up, but you would be the person that I could ask this to. I have said committed suicide on here several times. I've heard in the comments people say I'm not allowed to say that anymore. And you who specializes in suicide. I feel like it's a little bit of... pandering and pageantry.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3715.889

And I actually think it's just for the people who are advocates and not the people who have done it. I think it's like when people say, I can't say drunks and junkies, which is what we call ourselves. Do you have a take on this? What's this move to not say committed suicide?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3751.036

Because you could say my dad committed cancer. He smoked like three packs a day.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3783.888

That's a great rebuttal. And that's generally the answer for all these things. I know. I'm going to keep saying drunks.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3792.611

When I think they're protecting themselves and not actually the victim.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3804.295

But my gut reason I hate it, there's an actual hatred of it, which is you're not owning your shame that someone you love did that. You actually don't want the shame for yourself and fuck you. That's why I have a conviction about it. You're trying to protect your own shame and you shouldn't be feeling shame about this. You're not doing your work.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

386.778

Through all this travel, by the way, obviously you inherited your parents' wanderlust if you've been in all these places.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3894.844

Well, I'm going to declare right now, I'm happy to drop it.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3897.586

i'll get with the program you might win something but at what cost people get lost in that message and then you'll be labeled as this one-sided person okay so i don't think i've been reading a book that i wanted to give to more people than this book i immediately thought of some people that i just know are buried under this self-hatred people i love dearly i don't know if it's triggering to receive this

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3920.731

But I immediately thought of a couple of people I really want to read it because it's heartbreaking when you love someone and you know, they're walking around with this sense of defectiveness and you can't penetrate. But also, I would say this book is a call to other psychologists. So maybe just love to wrap up with what your hopes are for the book.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

3998.382

Well, we need to know who to market it to.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

404.793

Okay, but throughout this whole time, you have held a position for 25 years at McLean Hospital? Yeah, I have. So we've had a great interest in borderline personality disorder. It comes up occasionally and we've yet to have an expert on. And you've written three or four books about borderline.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4050.784

Like all things, right? It's a spectrum.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4066.272

And the book is a bit of a workbook. You have provided space in the tools section to explore this on your own. Because I think that's the great sadness I have is that so few people have access to someone like you.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4100.195

Well, I think it's an incredible book. I'm so glad you've written it and shined a light on it. And it's probably crazy to you how long you were missing it.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4157.429

Yeah, it's a great book. I Hate Myself, Overcome Self-Loathing and Realize Why You're Wrong About You. It's out now. I urge everyone to get it. And I think a lot of people will relate deeply to the feelings that your patients have. Thank you so much, Blaze. First Blaze I've ever met. It was a home run.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4177.553

He is. So hopefully we'll form stereotypes about Dax's and Blaze's that'll become self-fulfilling prophecies. All right, well, good luck with everything. Thanks for giving us so much time.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4206.036

I just really shit the bed myself on my time management. Oh, okay. I had got all my workout gear on. I was like, should I ride on my bike today? Sure, always a big question. Big, big question. And I was like, I really need to change this rear inner tube. The nozzle kind of popped off. It's still holding air, but I can't risk it.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4224.973

I'm going to need to repair it. And then just lift. We're going to lift. Got in my outfit. Then I went to, I thought, well, now I have a little extra time. I got to working on the bicycle. I did the tires. A little more challenging then. There's a lot of challenges. So when I finally got it all done, cleaned up the tools, I was like, let's go work out. I looked at my watch, 1240.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4246.241

My entire workout had blown by. Yeah.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

425.006

We have the thinnest understanding of what the predictable pattern of someone suffering from that is. And we could be completely wrong because we've fucked up OCD a couple of times. We've stepped in it, our colloquial understanding.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4251.618

Got away from me.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4253.762

He gets tinkering in the shop. You know, those guys get tinkering in the shop and the time just flies by. Blew right by.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4263.676

This cookie boy likes to tinker.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4268.219

They'll tinker. Your morning was good? Did time get away from you?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4289.153

Kristen just dealt with the exact same thing. She started getting tons and tons of emails and texts from Spectrum.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4295.098

Like, we're going to shut your cable off. Okay. Shut off your internet. Sure. And she's like, I don't even think I signed up for the account. I don't think it's in my name or anything. Now there's a big.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4307.329

There's a huge mystery. So very similar. But the whole time she's like, this is all a ploy to get my credit card. Got to be careful. I think they got it.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4315.316

I think so.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4318.446

Well, she looked up the actual web address for Spectrum, and it was the right web address.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4324.892

Still scary. So scary. Yeah.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4333.601

That was real, and it was just temporary.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4338.646

Oh, wonderful.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4350.905

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4355.157

Yes, very busy, multiple jobs.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4368.625

Line items. Yeah. Yeah. Business speak. And then you're late. You do your P&L and you realize more losses than profits.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4378.871

It's not good. It's not a good ROI. I hate all those terms. Then once I learned them, I realized they really are useful. It's annoying in that I'm the person I hate.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4389.925

It's almost my full arc as a human is becoming fully the person I hated. I did a good prank last night.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

44.191

Which is A-E-H-G-E-R-R-E.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4400.05

Okay, so as you know, my girlfriend Khaleesi's visiting.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4404.713

She's seven, Kenny's daughter. I told you about the hike. We had a great hike. We held hands the entire time. I'd love to show you some pictures.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4411.717

Yeah.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4415.9

My wife, Aunt Kristen.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4418.201

Dax's mom, which is really sad. But I did discover after we talked, she is calling my sister Delta's grandma. Which is great.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4431.966

She kept saying, is Delta gone with her grandma to the movies? When is she going to be done with her grandma at the movies? So now Titi is grandma, which is so fun.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4446.414

At least it's consistent. So, like, if Kristen's my mom and my sister is Delta's grandma, those are their peers, which they are. Of course. In this weird structure.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4461.436

Oh, no. Yeah. No, she's not going to do that. It's more of an age mix up. So anyways, Khaleesi, Delta, Lincoln, Kristen, Kenny and I went to Cafe 101 last night. We were in a big booth. Khaleesi's so excited. There's older girls. Yeah. Older girls have had enough.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4476.824

But I tell them, I try to tell them, you know, if we went somewhere and there's two older girls, you know, it's really tough being a parent in these situations. I know. Because you're really kind of weighing a couple of things. Yeah. I want to teach them to be kind and civil. And also, they're in their house.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

449.418

So is there an enormous correlation between suicidal ideation or suicide and BPD?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4493.396

They have some boundaries. I also want them to have boundaries. I don't know.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4499.405

Okay. Did you advise them to punch Khaleesi? Well...

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4517.247

I was unloading motorcycles and power washing them. And I heard your little voice coming from like the woods.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4532.633

Well, and you were obscured behind FICA's, like a row of hedges. So you got to watch me react and look stupid for a while.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4545.498

Oh.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4548.559

Protect my family, my property mode.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4566.104

And Khaleesi's so friendly. She wants to talk.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4570.785

Cute and friendly. She really wants to get into it.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4601.374

But then if you saw a little Khaleesi excited to play with him, you'd be like, girls, get over it. I agree. I can play with this cute little girl. I agree. So, yeah, Lincoln's largely spared because of the age gap. I think Delta's more interesting to Khaleesi. Yeah. Anyways, all this to say, we're at dinner and I love talking to her, right? Because I'm just messing with her the whole time.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4620.951

Exactly how I talked to Lincoln and Delta is there because she's family. She's Kenny's. Yes, of course. So she's, Kenny says something she doesn't like. So she starts punching Kenny. She's like, won't stop punching him. He's like, stop punching me. And I go, Khaleesi, I'm going to tell you right now, they throw people out in this restaurant. They have a zero tolerance policy on violence.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4640.194

He's like, no, they won't. And I go, no, they'll throw you right out of here. And what is great is I've developed, now I had, without this ever in sight, I've developed a really good relationship with the bus boy. Wow.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4651.983

I love the dude. You know, we have a great rapport. So I go, that's it. I'm going to get the manager. So I got up and then luckily he was just standing right around the corner. And I go, oh, perfect. Will you tell that, ask that little girl she's been punching people? And he's like, oh, yeah, yeah. So we come back and now there's an employee of the restaurant.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4669.489

And he goes, have you been punching people? And she, she was busted. Yeah. She was so scared she was about to get thrown out. Oh, no. And then we all started laughing and then she started laughing. It was great.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4682.053

Yeah. But I came back with an employee and he got right into it with her.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4686.336

Oh, it was glorious.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4692.982

Because you're afraid of getting kicked out of the restaurant.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4702.509

Yeah, yeah.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4705.251

Yeah, yeah. There's a lot there.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4708.034

But it did stop the punching.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4711.041

Okay, so the other thing she and I have going is we were in the hot tub two nights ago. And she's telling me all these different stories. And she tells me about how mean this gymnastics coach is. And he's real mean. And one girl is going to have her water. And he said, oh, you want some water? And he poured the water on her head.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4728.194

She's a liar. And I go, I'm going to be honest. I don't believe that story. And she's like, what? What do you mean you don't believe it? And I go, like, I, I, I trust you and I love you. But at the same time, I just, I really can't, I don't think I'm able to believe that story. And it became this whole thing about believing that story.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4745.538

And then later she told me, you know, your eyes turn color when you lie. My grandpa told me that. And I go, yeah, I love your grandpa, Joe. He's one of my buddies, but I, I, I'm afraid I can't believe that story. And she fought me on that for a while. But then in the car on the way to Cafe 101, she was saying, yeah, my grandpa told me your eyes turn color when you lie.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

475.812

So it's a spectrum disorder.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4772.136

And I don't think I believe it anymore.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4777.932

That's okay. It's good to be skeptical. You can't believe in fairy tales.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4789.062

I'll just call her a liar.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4794.126

You can tell kids exactly everything.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4799.871

We are having a blast.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

48.852

Aguirre.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4807.295

Because sometimes you're in light that makes them look that way. And sometimes you're in light that makes them look the other way. Light is very... Wishy-washy?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4814.818

Transient?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4820

Yeah. All to say your eyes don't turn a different color when you lie.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4829.836

Yeah. You already know they were the rarest. Did you need to learn that?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4839.166

Haven't you just met the least amount of people with green eyes?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4842.99

I mean, I'll answer for you. Yes.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4845.512

Yes. You've met way more people with blue and brown eyes than green.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4851.876

Here we go around. Also, I love browns. Don't listen to her. Daniel Riccardo's brown eyes? I know. Like a saddle wood?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

486.678

Okay. So first of all, what is the difference between a mood disorder and a personality disorder?

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4870.59

Blue. That was a dangerous question.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4876.055

Because people take it so personal if you don't know their eye color. Oh, I hear this all the time. This is one of these, I think, trends about how to out guys for, you know, another thing guys are terrible at is like, guys don't know your eye color. This is a test for a guy. Oh. What's your mom's eye color? What's your wife's eye color? Oh, my God. Yeah. So it's real dangerous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4899.05

People get very hurt if you don't know what color their eyes are. Do you know what color mine are?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4903.432

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4912.016

Oh, wow. I don't know how you thought that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4920.48

Name three people with green eyes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4925.883

Are we playing it fast and loose? No. Okay. There's solid green.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4937.288

I said you have green eyes, right? She just goes, I'm so hurt. Lose my number. I think she has blue eyes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4948.057

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4951.62

Okay. You're asking me? No, I'm telling you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4955.342

Okay. So we're up to two.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4957.844

And- You're currently sitting with two people with blue eyes. So that's already neutralized. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4966.388

With the immediate people in your vicinity and all the people in the world, you know, yes, it's even Stevens so far.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4978.938

You know the kids have blue eyes. They're so prototypical blonde blue.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4995.055

That's where the human is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

4997.237

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5000.376

You can't see very well, though, in your defense. I don't know that you can even see most people's eyes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5018.083

Yeah, for sure. Yeah. I would agree with that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5022.044

Jess has said the nicest thing about my eyes as anyone has ever said. What did he say? He said there's icicles in them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5028.219

It's very sweet. You know what color my brother's eyes are, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5034.225

No, they're red.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5039.331

He has brown eyes. Go ahead. Test it. You're a bad boyfriend. I'm a much better boyfriend than you are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5048.533

He's just going to start crying. He'll get back to you in 30 minutes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5052.875

Yeah, exactly. Who else should you tell you don't, tell me you don't care about me without telling me you don't care about me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5063.061

Who's got what?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5068.664

Yeah. They're not your thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5073.567

Oh, we're going to finally do the.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5075.929

From the book.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5111.797

Do you want me to read it? I always feel bad. You're always administering the quizzes, and I'm happy to do it if you want.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5118.002

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5132.654

Oh, strongly agree. They seem to have nothing to do with sensitivity. It's interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5141.363

Oh, yeah. I hate it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5144.167

Strongly agree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5147.543

Yeah. I'm not going to go strongly. I'll go to the next one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5155.807

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5157.048

Strongly agree. Right? Have you ever seen me losing my shit?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5160.85

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5174.477

I just think when the shit's hitting the fan, I'm very calm. Is that not what the question is? You would agree with that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5180.962

My car's on fire and I'm like, okay, let's get the hood open. Let's like, there's no, I have no, oh no, there's no, oh no in me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5197.494

That's true. Even though I can make friends really easy, that's true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

52.034

It's a hardie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5202.576

But not strongly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5204.557

Let's go medium.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5207.098

Let's go neutral.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5212.261

It's really weird. I like to talk to either dead strangers- Or people I know, it's periphery people that people I know know that make me nervous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5223.103

Yeah. Can you understand? That's weird, isn't it, though? But like if I'm at a gas station, I talked like I'm I'm very engaged.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5231.289

You want to learn about the server or whatever. I'm like, yeah, I'm going to ask the Uber driver where they're from. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5240.255

But if like the Uber driver, I kind of remember his friends with Callie, I'd be like, oh, fuck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5247.223

Not her specifically.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5249.846

But, you know, any friend of a friend.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5256.249

Yeah, we're supposed to connect. Yeah, I get it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5271.755

Mm-hmm. Agree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5284.944

Medium.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5286.904

Medium agree. Is that four? Yeah, agree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5294.987

Oh, five.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5299.468

Four.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

53.775

But I'm not a baddie. No, you're not. Okay. Dr. Blaze is a child and adolescent psychiatrist and an assistant professor in psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. He is one of the world's foremost experts on borderline personality disorder. We've been dying to get an expert on BPD in here, and we finally have, and it was incredibly interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5302.829

That's an interesting one. Boy, that's a hard one to be objective about. What do you think?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5314.479

I kind of think so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5317.141

I do too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5319.202

Regular four.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5325.166

Yeah, I love a daily routine. Strongly agree. Five.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5385.132

Five.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5388.534

Four.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5393.998

No. No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5397.019

Yeah, strongly disagree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5399.98

I know, but I'm allowed to and no one else is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5405.183

That's weird. Relax before getting into chores. You don't. I don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5410.906

I like to keep the motor floored or off. So that's a disagree. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5421.403

Yeah, I don't mind. I like, yeah, I like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5426.427

Strongly agree. Strongly agree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5432.033

Oh, 15. Your mood is- This is like how gross you are, Quiz.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5440.168

Yeah, I'd say four.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5445.611

Zero, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5447.812

Yeah, strongly disagree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5472.346

Oh, I feel like you have a, what would you give me on that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5480.693

Also remember where I'm from.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5482.554

Yeah. I love gay dudes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5486.737

Okay. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5513.055

But I have an outcast identity, right? So I think I like, it's easy for me to lock into. I don't know. I'm going to go with neutral. Okay. I think I'm more, I think I'm more empathetic than the average dog from where I'm from. Okay. Yeah. But also, yeah, a lot of times, like I had to definitely become friends with you before I was able to truly understand how hurtful and doing an accent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5537.315

That's pretty shameful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5541.096

Let's use you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5554.442

Well, let me let's. See though, is it that I can't empathize? I mean, I think I understand where they're coming from. I think it's gonna end in defeat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5566.794

So I have like a real strong objection that I don't think we're ever gonna get in power again unless people have a reckoning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5585.832

No, I disagree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5589.876

Socializing quickly?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5593.48

Oh, no, I'm energized. Strongly disagree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5597.863

No. Oh, my God. I hate them. Okay. Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5604.588

Oh, where?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5618.958

And you really enjoyed looking at the paintings. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5639.642

I like walking around the Getty, but it's like I look at the paintings and I feel like Larry David. Right. I'm like, I'm more annoyed that other people are getting some transcendent experience that I might not be. And I'm like, why? What is?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5665.462

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5668.723

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5672.104

Oh, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5677.346

You loved it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5678.847

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5680.787

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5684.389

No, I disagree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5689.551

We already answered this. No, I don't. I don't. Regs don't. Regs disagree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5697.002

I mean, what year is this question being asked? Rarely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5702.863

Yeah, but regs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5708.825

I used to, but not anymore. Disagree. I'd go disagree. Regs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

571.138

So that's already revelatory to me because I thought of it as like a status quo. You're in a state of this disorder.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5718.968

I'd go regs agree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5725.445

Yeah. Five. He almost puked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5733.509

No, I'm not at all. That's a strong disagree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5739.051

Oh, five.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5745.533

Not energized, no. Regs disagree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5752.098

Oh, five.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5760.481

Regs agree?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5762.142

That's a neutral for me?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5765.384

Yeah. Okay. Okay, strongly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5804.865

Well, I'm affected by people's emotions, but you said I'm not empathetic, so I'm gonna have to take that. No, I didn't say that. Let's go regs agree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5821.719

Regs disagree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5838.264

That is. I would go neutral.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5856.151

You already asked that. There should be a question like, do you hate being asked the same question twice? Or rather, it would say you hate being asked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5872.581

I agree with that, which seems like a contradiction.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5877.438

But I, yes, I keep my room really clean on my side of the thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5887.273

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5897.588

They're trying to confuse us. They keep asking the same question, but slightly different than you wonder.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5903.209

And they're trying to catch you being inconsistent. And they're about to catch me. One more time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5921.661

We're really trying to piss us off now. You find it easy to. What if at the end it said, did this piss you off? And that's the only question that mattered. And then there's a whole thing. Because you're so sensitive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5936.851

No. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5939.872

A long time later. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5945.335

Yeah, five.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5957.822

No, Greg's disagree. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5963.865

Fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5970.109

This is crazy. It's getting really crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

5979.514

I like new things, but I don't know that I embrace change all that well. So let's go neutral.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6009.417

I'd say four. Oh, four.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6073.821

Very satisfied.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6078.503

It's not even an option? Oh, my God. I'm too old to take this quiz?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6088.085

Oh, so I'm, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6091.271

Well, that's not even as concerning as I thought I was going to say 50 plus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6094.874

And then the rest of everyone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6098.957

They're going to ask you for $2.99. Yes! Uh-huh. Oh my. These bastards.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6111.368

I know, because we filmed a whole segment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6115.868

What bastards. I am sensitive. Someone made this test up in their fucking basement.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6123.73

Oh, that's not confidence inducing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6136.141

Some of their questions were great. And then on the second time, they were good. And then sometimes on the third time, they were no good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6143.783

How much do I owe you for this? Was it $2.99?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6147.044

Are they going to give you unlimited tests?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6151.666

Oh, good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6157.047

We'll tell you next week. Oh, fuck. Another paywall?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6163.129

I didn't have anything to do with sensory.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6167.136

An ear, nose and throat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6173.518

Oh, my God. What kind of test was this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6182.44

Someone's happy right now. Like someone has wanted us to take this test, but we don't know about it. No, it's like an Enneagram test.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6194.066

But it won't tell you the name?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6200.351

Dr. Zamboni, Stanford Brisbane.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6208.297

What am I, an ENT?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

621.405

Now, is narcissism in a state of flux as well?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6212.901

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6271.231

You're right. We'll have to find that test and we'll do it when we do the.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6276.292

Briggs and Stratton test from your book. What was that called? Myers-Briggs. No, from your book.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6283.314

Green hats.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6289.956

All right. Goodbye. Are there any facts?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

6293.622

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

633.427

Yeah, we had a narcissist expert and she said exactly that. One of the rarest cases to come seek treatment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

641.829

understand it correctly from the expert we had on. It's like, you don't suffer from narcissism the way you suffer from some other.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

709.232

Yeah, so what are the symptoms of borderline personality disorder?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

741.969

That's your OCD.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

788.052

love you and it becomes actually the kind of behavior that then creates the self-fulfilling prophecies because like I can't do this anymore yes okay that a little bit matches what my understanding was that you'll find people with BPD will become very quickly infatuated with somebody yeah they'll get very quickly close and heightened and then there will be some period where they've decided you're actually kind of out to get them and then they will flip to a kind of comparable level of hatred and

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

82.507

I have been trying my best to repeat everything he said. I told my entire family almost this whole interview. You did. Yeah, I found Blaze to be incredibly interesting. Yeah, me too. His primary focus and specialty is he has dealt with 5,000 suicidal patients. And that is a very unique experience for a psychiatrist to have. And so if you want to talk to an expert on this topic, this is the guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

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I often say this even with pedophilia, which is like, no one went to the grocery store, looked at the fucking options on the shelf and were like, I'll take that. No one would pick that.

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Treating them has got to be one of the most precarious because naturally they would probably want to idolize you initially.

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Blaise Aguirre (on overcoming self-hatred)

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Yeah, the part of your brain that is in charge of executive function is not accessible, right?

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They feel also perfectly situated to be love addicts as well. Because this is also a very kind of similar cycle of love addiction.

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What information really does, information doesn't necessarily tell us the truth about the world. Information connects a lot of individuals into a network that can do many, many things that isolated people can't.

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And to give you an example, if you think for instance about different types of information, if you think about visual information, if you think in terms of images and photographs and paintings, so what is the most common portrait in the world? Who is the most famous face in human history? The answer is Jesus.

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We're so Western.

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Billions and billions of portraits of Jesus have been produced over the last 2000 years. And they've been like everywhere in so many churches and cathedrals and monasteries and private houses and schools and government offices everywhere. And the amazing thing about it, not a single one of them is true. Not a single one is authentic. A hundred percent, not 99%.

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He never sat for a portrait that we know of. We don't know if anybody painted him during or sculpted him during his lifetime. Definitely we have no image from his own lifetime. And also, if you think about, you know, textual descriptions, the Bible doesn't contain a single word, not a sentence, not a single word about how Jesus looked like.

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There is a description of his clothes one time, what he wore, not a single description of what he looked like, whether he was tall or short or fat or thin. The color of his skin. Color of his skin, color of his hair, color of his eyes, nothing. Wow. All the portraits, the billions of portraits, they came out of human imagination. And nevertheless, they have been extremely successful

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And important in connecting billions of people into a network which shares certain values and norms, which can work together to build cathedrals and build hospitals and also go to wars and establish the Inquisition and things like that.

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Yeah. So whether for good or bad, this has been one of the most powerful networks in human history. Catholicism. Christianity, even more generally. Of course, again, like every network, it can break up into several sub-networks. So there is always this tension between uniting more people together and breaking up into smaller parts. But this is what information does.

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A subset of the information in the world may also tell us the truth about the world. Some information is true, but truth is a very rare and relatively costly kind of information. Most information is not truth. Again, it's fiction, it's fantasy. It's sometimes lies. It's sometimes illusions, delusions.

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You know, a key point is that the truth is costly because it requires a special effort to produce truthful information. You need to research. You need to spend time gathering evidence and analyzing it and so forth. Fiction is cheap. Yeah. Draw or write the first thing that comes in your mind.

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So going back to networks, the key is that if you manage to connect a lot of individuals into a network like a church or an army or a corporation or a state or anything like that, they can accomplish far, far more than either individuals or a small number of people. And again, this, of course, goes back to sapiens.

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This is the key to our success as a species, that we can build these huge networks and

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Yeah. And so sapiens began to explore this idea that Nexus now goes over history and also the future and looks at it from the viewpoint of these networks. So, okay, if we established that stories create networks and networks are important, let's look at history as the process, not of human actions, but of networks spreading, sometimes collapsing, changing their nature.

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So for instance, a chapter about democracy and dictatorship, which looks at them not as different ethical or ideological systems, but as different types of information networks. How they flow, how they function. Yeah, how information flows. Information flows differently in democracy and dictatorship, and this is what makes them so different.

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In dictatorships, they are centralized information networks. All the information or most of the information flows to just one place where all the decisions are being made. Putin's desk. Yeah, Putin's desk or Xi's desk or whatever. And also, they lack... strong self-correcting mechanisms. The network doesn't contain a mechanism for identifying and correcting the network's own mistakes.

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Democracy, in contrast, is a different kind of network. What characterizes it is that information doesn't flow just through a central hub. There is usually a central hub. So in the United States, a lot of information flows to Washington, but most of it doesn't. Probably more to New York.

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Yeah, most of the economic decisions, social decisions, cultural decisions are being taken in New York, in Los Angeles, in lots of other places. A lot of the information never passes through any government office. And you have strong self-correcting mechanisms. If the network makes a mistake, you don't need somebody from outside to intervene.

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The whole point about democracy, that you have these built-in mechanisms to identify and correct its own mistakes. So in democracy, you have this mechanism that every couple of years, people can say, we made a mistake, let's try something else. Of course, the problem, if you have only this, is that it can easily be rigged.

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I mean, the weakness of democracy since ancient times is that you basically give enormous power to one person or one party on condition that they give it back after four years. And what happens if they don't? I mean, they have all this power in their hands. What happens if they use all this power to stay in power, to rig the elections?

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And we've seen it many times in Russia, they have elections every four years. And presumably in the 1990s, when Putin first rose to power, the elections were relatively fair and free. Then he used his power to dismantle and to rig the elections. And you saw the same thing in Venezuela. Chavez originally came to power, as far as we know, in free and fair elections.

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But then Chavez and his successor, Maduro, they used the power to destroy the democratic system and then stay in power.

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Yeah, I mean, Maduro lost big time, but because he appoints all the election officials and all the judges and everything, so he says, no, I won. This just in, I won. So if you only have elections, this is not enough. You need an entire system. This is the famous checks and balances.

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And these checks and balances like independent courts and free media and constitution and federal system, these are all basically, if you think about it in terms of information, these are the self-correcting mechanisms.

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Like just at 17.

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I got into Florida State.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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And you went back to Manhattan. Yeah. So when did you have an actual routine and what version of magic were you doing at the beginning?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Yeah, because they almost come with a script.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Yeah, yeah. I think it takes a lot of confidence for you, a young guy, to go, okay, I'm going to do this kind of dry, monotone, not showy, the thing I thought was corny. You're not looking around and seeing that version working.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Can you relate to a flasher? I remember learning that flashers, what the kink is, is seeing the person's face. Do you know that about flashers? No, I don't. Yeah, the flashing isn't like necessarily that they're dying for someone to see their penis. It's more they're into the reaction. That's their kink.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Oh, sure, sure, sure. I've got to earmark that, too. I mean, people went nuts with that box.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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I want to do a big thing on it, but yes, that one is called Above the Below. Yeah, Harmony. 44 days in a 7x7x3 plexiglass box.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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I want to go through each of those. Yeah. So you started, you didn't have a period where you were trying to do really showy, jokey, any of that.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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That's right. Yes. And how were you making a living? Like, how does a magician make a living in 1995?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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We're not hard copy.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Oh, so restaurants would hire you to walk through the restaurant?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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I ask because in L.A., you have the Magic Castle. So people go there and then they might love a magician. And then they know to ask that person to come to a party. I'm just wondering how one, if you're wandering around Manhattan, I guess it's just word of mouth.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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And that's still card tricks and stuff. We're not doing anything endurance wise yet.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Okay. So how do you decide to transition from the kind of magic you were doing to doing buried alive?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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How does one train?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Okay, so you're in this plastic box under three tons of water for seven days. And is the fasting because my first question, of course, is how do you poop?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Did it start getting attention day one or when did it start getting massive attention?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Was that like day four? Yeah. I think that's when I became aware of you. I would have been 22, and I'm like, what a dude. That hit my radar, too.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Well, that's the dream. When you hold a helium balloon, your next thought is how many would I have to hold before it lifted me off the ground? That's right. So the next is in 2000, Frozen in Time. This is a fail, but it's a hysterically successful fail, which is you were going to go for 72 hours encasing a block of ice, but you made it 63 hours and 42 minutes.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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How hard was it for you to surrender?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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So you didn't have to signal them like, I'm not making it at 72. It was on a schedule.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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And that has to be from the temperature because you've spent that much time by yourself.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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You were standing for 35 hours.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Well, now that I have kids, but I might have given up.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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My analogy is like I've skydived and it's not scary. Bungee cord is very scary because you can see the ground and you decide to dive at it.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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What is happening in the internal narrative? Because this is my assumption is there is a dedication to doing something novel and unique that no one can do. And I'm going to prove it. What is the...

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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But again, do you like it because you go like, there's an infinite possibility that I'm discovering? Is there a freedom of, oh, I think I have these limits, but in fact, I have a much more infinite scope. Can you articulate what the joy is?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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And you're Neil Padman. And today we have David Blaine, the world-renowned magician and endurance artist. Yeah. You have probably seen one of his specials, Street Magic, Realer Magic, Beyond Magic, The Magic Way. And he has a new series out that is radical called Do Not Attempt on Nat Geo. It's out now and it's mind-blowing. It gave me, my palms and my hands were sweating.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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I think even to be drawn to magic, you kind of want more out of life. You want life to be... And you want it to have more out there than is just presented to you. You're like starving for more.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Often in the case of the Sikhs you do, this is a demonstration to God. It's an offering. So if you're suffering, it's even more... It's also showing that we don't live by the flesh.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Because I related to you a ton. Again, I'm projecting, but I'm watching you watch a guy break a bottle on his head. And I can see in your face, you're like, fuck, I don't want to do this. And I'm going to have to do this because I can't not do this now that I know it can be done.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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It's so fucking disturbing, I want to add. He started with some water bottles and you're like, okay. But then he goes to a fucking square whiskey bottle and I'm like, this is nuts.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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So then is it more not about bravery? Is it about intelligence? Are you like, you're smart enough to figure this out. Figure this out.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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And then I can't get it out. It's like an OCD thing. Yes. Thank you. That's more what we got there. So it's not that deep. It's obsessive compulsion.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Yeah. There's an angst until that is solved.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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It's never a yes, I did it. That's true. Do you get peace from it? I had this obsession. That's a really good question. I've now done it and now I have peace until I think of the next idea.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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The pole one is interesting because I once saw in Australia on a trip an orangutan. They just put telephone poles up for them to play on. And these big orangutans that would just sit at the very top. And they were so peaceful. And it is such a disturbing image. Oh, my God. That thing likes being 60 feet in the air. Right. And it's very memorable and terrifying to a terrestrial creature like us.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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But to Monica's question, I think I have a bit of an answer. And which is, again, there's what I always say that I love about the track on a motorcycle. Your mind can't wander. If it thinks of something else for one second, you'll go off. And so my addiction to it is just I go for eight hours. They're 20 minute sessions.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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And I cobbled together like four hours of being dead present, which is so rare for me. My brain is so fucking busy. Right. So I'm imagining maybe there's also this relief from maybe a noisy brain otherwise.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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And that can be very pleasurable.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Okay, above, below. We got to talk about that one. So as we said, 44 days in a 7x7 plexiglass box, hovering 30 feet in the air. There was a webcam so people could watch the entire time. Yeah. As you already said, you had fasted for that so you don't have to go duty.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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As a layperson, my thoughts are, what does it feel like to starve? Because you really go into starvation at that point.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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I would have dreams of eating certain foods. Yeah. Did you start planning? Because even when I have a flu that lasts like four days and I haven't eaten and I can't eat, I start thinking about McDonald's French fries like day three. And I just start obsessing about when I get to eat those. Did you have a meal planned?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Monica, you can't imagine watching. It's one of the hardest things I've ever watched. It's a mound of glass. Of broken bottles. Like you dumped out a 55-gallon trash can. That much glass. He's walking on it, dancing on it. Then he's up in the air, body slamming on top of it.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Yeah. Failed. Yes. Yeah, yeah. These are like relapse dreams.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Yeah, I just want to frame this. So what was most dangerous about this whole thing was refeeding. I think so.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Because if you had gotten out and eaten a pepperoni pizza, you would have died.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Walk me through the refeeding process.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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So that's, I guess, my question. How much of your day were you floating off into the ether of imagination?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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No, it's surface.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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That's true.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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OK, now you say it was exaggerated in the media, but I must know these people did start vandalizing or there are at least a handful of someone through eggs, someone through balloons full of paint. Yeah, that was really cool.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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He was angry. What do you think those few vandals did? We're reacting to because I have a very strong opinion about what it was.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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I think there's something in us as a social primate that feels like we need to police how much attention people get. There's just a guy who's getting all this attention and now people are stopping. Also, it was a see-through box. So it was kind of like what you're saying exactly. Was there any women that did this shit? You got to imagine his dudes that were throwing shit. Yeah, for sure.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Yeah, so I just think there's this like, whoa, why is this guy getting so much attention? He didn't do X, Y, and Z. You get attention for X, Y, and Z. And why is he getting this attention? And fuck this guy.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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He was waiting in the house and I was so excited to meet him. Yes. Well, again, that's that other social priming thing is like, I don't like this guy's getting all this attention. Wait, this guy kind of likes me. I'm a part of the attention. Now I'm in.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Last thing before full show is Vegas residency for 10 months at Resort World and then now at the Wynn. And I guess I was maybe shocked to read that your very first residency was 2023. Yeah. Were you not tempted to just go grab those bags of cash before?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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I mean, I've already learned frustratingly. So you don't seem motivated by money. Not at all.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Right. And so your residency, you're doing three days a month. Is that right? Because physically you can't.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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We're going to go all the way back, though. We're going to go back to Brooklyn. Okay. We're going to go back to mom and dad.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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This is where your act sucks. Whereas if you're just doing a bunch of other shit, you could do it 30 times a month.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Yeah, he didn't have the type of act that you could do 20 times a month, but he did it 20 times a month.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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They were the toughest of the tough. Seven shows in a row. I was obsessed with Buster Keaton for a long time. Yeah, he grew up as a little kid in vaudeville acts and getting thrown. His family would kick him or put him in a suitcase and chuck him into the audience. Yeah, he was incredible. Oh, what a fucking genius that guy was.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Athletically, like he's the first Jackie Chan. Jackie Chan in his best day is just Buster Keaton.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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That very most famous stunt of his that people can picture in their mind, which is the front of the building falling. He's in front of a house he built himself. And then, of course, the last frame is it falls flat. And there's one window open on the second floor of the face of the building, and it falls perfectly around him. And he had like four inches on each side. It's amazing.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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And half of his crew quit. They were like, we're not sticking around to watch you get flattened by the face of this building. Okay, so the Nat Geo show, it's called David Blaine Do Not Attempt. And I watched India. That's the one you watched? Yeah.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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By the way, though, that's first when I get the link.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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This is my great curiosity with you young magicians. It's like no one will tell anyone their tricks. How the fuck are you supposed to learn? Yeah. You hound them until they tell you. Or books.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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You got Deepak to pull a string you put in your mouth out of the side of your face.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Yeah, so do you feel any compulsion? Like what I like is you're really upfront about generally what's magic and what is an endurance thing or just a pain threshold. But some of your tricks, will you always declare whether they're magic or not?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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So the one I saw where you put a string in your mouth and he pulls it out the side of your face, is that magic?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Yeah, what is the thing that is hardest of all the fallout? from these things? What's the thing that you're like, fuck, I kind of wish I didn't do that?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Okay, two days ago, he was 18 years old.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Well, that's easy because if he's born on January.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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I was helped by having a January 2nd birthday.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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You were not that fast. Now, they do a lot of impaling, the fakirs. That's kind of their signature, or maybe I'm wrong, but that seemed to be what I saw the most. Putting skewers through the inside of the arm and pushing them out. Popping their eyeballs out with a sword.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Yeah, so someone might be inclined to think because you are willing to put these skewers through your own hand that it might be easy for you to watch it. But then watching you, I don't think it is. It was very difficult for me. I got to say what's really fun is these guys are doing this incredible stuff and the guy's jumping into glass and everything and then the bottle.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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But David's got like some tricks up his sleeve that even they haven't done. So it's like after all the glass, he's like, hand me a piece of that glass. And then he just starts eating glass. And they're like, whoa, it must be fun. Yeah.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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You got to see it.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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You really got to see it.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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It's more like watching a gymnast land a crazy trick, I think. You go like, oh, yeah, there's a total technique here.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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I prefer to try to eat glass than hit myself in the head with that whiskey bottle. I would say don't do either. If you were recommending one over the other, I think you'd agree with me. I don't recommend. I don't recommend either. Can I chew the glass up fine enough?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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But yeah, in my mind, I'm like, yeah, I could grind glass up in my mouth fine enough to where it's back to sand. And then it's so easy to just cut. Slice up your gums.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Maybe I should have told you this at the very beginning. I don't like magic. Monica loves magic. And we have debates about it all the time. And I've gone with her numerous times to see magic. I've even hired a magician for her birthday one time.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

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Yeah, and you'd like more.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3509.854

I put you guys in a category with really great guitar soloists, which is one only can get this skill by being in their bedroom by themselves for very long periods of time.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3555.453

Thought about what the shelf life of your own skill set is. Do you think there'll be a peak and a decline like all trades or no? Is this one impervious to decline? Do you think you're getting better?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3611.365

It would be a cognitive thing, probably. Not a physical thing. Maybe, yeah. Who knows? What seems interesting is overnight, so many people are attracted to you in this very intense way. That's not anyone else's normal experience like in high school. Fiona Apple, who I'm watching her video over and over again, I know is dating this magician. And I go, wow. That's really funny.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3633.32

She could be with Leonardo DiCaprio. She could be with any movie star. She's with this magician.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3643.513

Were you even yourself a little shocked with like, oh, wow, I'm dating Fiona Apple?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3665.39

Oh, you do? She's one person I've never met that I'm still dying to meet. Yeah, she's amazing. I one time heard you on Stern. You've done Stern several times, yeah? Two, maybe. Okay, well, then I've heard both of them. Okay. I've tried in the past to explain it to Monica, and I really can't. But I thought the most fascinating part of the interview is you were talking about being able...

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3686.189

To convince people you can read their mind. Cold reading, which is just generalizing kind of information. Making high probabilistic guesses.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3706.519

You look at me and you're like, 50-year-old white guy, but he likes World War II documentaries.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3717.729

How did you learn this? I was so fascinated when I was listening to you talk about that. I guess 20 years ago.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3737.237

Because of the internet?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3748.385

If you're listening and you want to see the magic, that's coming next. And you can go over to YouTube and watch magic tricks with David Blaine and Monica. And maybe me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3772.585

Well, David Blaine, this was incredible. This really was. This was so fun. You're modern day Houdini and we got to talk to you. Everyone watch Do Not Attempt. I want to say, we talked about how gory it is. It's a fucking awesome show. It's beautifully shot. It's a very, very cool show. I think this is going to be wildly popular.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3798.072

Yeah, that's very obvious.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3855.841

It's really neat. Yeah, you're looking at someone who has funneled. Thousands of hours into five minutes, eight minutes, nine minutes. And you're like, wow, they just funneled it and refined it and pointed it. And it's very cool to see that. Do you have a favorite episode?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3909.605

All right, well, good luck with the show. It's truly great. I can tell you guys spent so much time on it, and it's a pleasure meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3916.211

Thank you. Yay! Now you guys want to see the real magic?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3928.444

Hi there, this is Hermium Permium. If you like that, you're going to love the fact check with Miss Monica.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3939.847

Oh my goodness. After we worked?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3947.149

Okay.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3967.859

Okay.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

398.114

I loved taking a subway at six years old in Brooklyn in 82.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3984.738

What's happening?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3993.425

Were they vocally obnoxious?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

3997.669

What kind of stuff were they saying?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4023.669

Oh, boy.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4041.909

Yeah.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4046.493

Uh-huh. And then what does that, though, mean?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4065.768

Was that the subtext? Or was the subtext like, you know, that's so-and-so. They're a fuck-up.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4076.186

Okay. Because that could... That's a vibe where we're from. Where you'd go, oh, that's Mike. He's a... You know, he's a... Right. He's a lush. He's a... Look the other way.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4128.031

But I was really glad he said that. Yeah, yeah. But I think it does point out, no one needs to be sympathetic to An addict, they don't need to be sympathetic to anyone famous. They don't need to be sympathetic to someone with means. But I will argue it can be harder for those people to get sober because they don't have the consequences. There's so many consequences that would normally exist.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4156.141

Make you reevaluate. Exactly. And like losing friendships. Well, people with status and means can be pretty, the people won't. Push back. They won't abandon them because they want to be a part of the status. I know. Yeah, places will put up with them because of whatever. And I just, I do wonder sometimes, I worked with a famous, super talented dude who was so fucked up on this movie.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4183.746

And I hated him at one point in the movie. And then, you know, he did this fucking thing where he made me laugh so hard. He's so powerful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

419.392

Still, I can tell when I'm watching you, there are moments in the show where you're interacting with folks and putting on shows. But yeah, you holding a deck of cards to me is like me and a cigarette. I can tell it's just this little safety blanket.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4196.639

He made me laugh so fucking hard. He was assigned a cop on set. He had to have a cop with him on set.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4203.445

And so he was running through this store and the police officer was chasing him and he was screaming, chase me, chase me. I had been just seething about this person for like three weeks. And then all of a sudden I was like, oh my God, this is the fucking police. Funniest thing I've ever seen. And it really disarmed me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4224.883

And I was like, yeah, good luck to him getting sober because he has a superpower. He can win you back immediately.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4233.365

I bet you weren't the only one. You do get into your personal stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4239.446

Addict stuff is very scary to you for good reason.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4252.07

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4257.973

Should have sounded the alarm.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4299.761

Yeah.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4302.142

Right. You just can't stop thinking about it.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4304.842

It keeps popping up into your head.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4307.063

I don't know why that wheelchair fiasco did remind me of, did you remember we were working in New York and we were at the Carlisle Hotel?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4318.265

And we would have to walk every day to the parking garage. Yeah. And there was this dude with cerebral palsy. Oh, yeah. And he like, Was shuffling down the street and it was like so heartbreaking.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4334.977

And really bad. And this woman gave him money. And then the woman turned the corner and then he started walking normal. No. And I threw my coffee at him. He threw a fucking coffee at him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4350.945

You sick motherfucker. That is so low.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4359.879

You'd want to cry when you saw this guy. At the beginning, I'm like, I'm probably going to give this guy a buck. Nope, I'm going the other way. Oh, my God. I'm 23 and I met you deceptively.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4377.361

Oh, fuck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4379.382

I didn't think about it. It is possible. Yeah. That he was just $5 away from a cure. Yeah, you never know.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4413.084

Yeah.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4415.705

Like a whale at a casino.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4444.815

Yeah, you got to look at the trade-off. Like, when do I lose money after this person's here?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4463.21

It's highly regional though. Like you, I've rarely, rarely, rarely have I seen anyone in LA at a bar or a club that is like asleep on a table, throwing up on the dance floor, right? Yeah. That is much more common in Michigan. And I can say also Chicago. Like if you go out in Chicago, you see people like falling through tables and fucking falling out of the- Georgia too. Yeah.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4490.037

I think it's really like regionally cultural.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4498.8

Well, there's only so much you can do.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4502.761

You just go, if they're on a motorcycle, you go, wear a helmet. Yeah. Dumbass.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4509.264

Ride fast, but ride safe. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4515.787

Yeah. Yeah, we're on, like, such opposite ends of the spectrum with our comfort level with that stuff.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4522.589

Just, I think, from exposure.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4542.339

I love all the little adventures you and Jess get into, I gotta say. I really do, because there was like the, there was the episode with someone saying to Anna, someone's so gay. Oh, yeah. And then Jess had to get involved, but he didn't. But he didn't get involved enough. But then he does, but he does.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4562.154

It's such a fucking funny duo too. You're one feet tall, he's eight feet tall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4573.08

I think of it as like the cartoon with the really little dog and the big dog that are friends. And the big dog's always, the little dog's picking fights and being mouthy and then the big dog's like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4670.979

That's right. I leave the house. It's showtime.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4692.916

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4694.377

That is interesting. I'm thinking, of course, of the time I also was putting on a show. Because sometimes you're in and sometimes you're out, right? Sure. Like the time in New York City. What?

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4710.333

Yeah. But remember my suitcase bit in New York, which is probably the most extreme and obnoxious bit I've ever done.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4718.22

And you loved it the whole time. I always had a roll on bag or maybe we even had like recording gear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4725.305

Because we were going around the city and interviewing people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4728.907

And any street we were on that had a slight decline, I would let the bag go, and then I would be screaming, my bag, my bag. And I'd be chasing it, but the bag wasn't going very fast. And I would let it, like, go between people. And every single block, I would, like, run and scream, my bag, my bag, my bag, my bag.

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David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4749.839

And then I would look back at Monica and be like half a block away laughing really hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4757.685

But that was really extra. It was. Like if you're just walking down the street and some guy's like, my bag, my bag. And he's chasing a bag that clearly he could catch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4774.741

Yeah, maybe there's more exploration to get like really granular about what, when does it tip for you? What is the exact thing? This is admittedly annoying. Like admittedly annoying. But I think you enjoy this or you don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4788.752

Like Aaron and I lived for, we would put on, Aaron would put on his baseball pants from sixth grade baseball and a half shirt that had a pony on it that was yellow that Carrie got me. And then I would be in an insane outfit, and we would go to White Castle. It was showtime. Oh, White Castle. And we had, like, a pipe. We had chewing tobacco. We had playing cards. We had a radio. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4816.569

And we would really just go, let's go be as weird as possible at this White Castle. And we just enjoyed it so much. Gosh. Yeah. I think you do or you don't enjoy that kind of thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

482.097

Well, you have a child. You can relate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4842.751

Ah, here we go. Here we go. I think that's what it is. Yes, because you were kind of trying to... I had to. That's right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4855.341

Although, the money, you have to admit, we don't know. I know, you're right. We don't know. But I definitely understand how you were like... I'm just trying to not get fucked with and called out and pointed at.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4870.031

And you have this freedom to wear sixth grade clothes and a fucking, I would wear the crazy hat that the Chinese people wear when they're picking rice. You know, I got it at a Salvation Army. It was like three feet wide and be smoking a pipe. And I just, it was so fun because from my perspective, There's something really fun about like, oh, here are the rules of life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4895.988

But who's to say, what if you're not participating in those rules? And they're not like, it's not like... we're pushing people or anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4904.708

It's just like, oh, you're supposed to look a certain way. Well, let's see if you don't look that way. It just kind of like wakes you up in a way that I find, I've always found really, Carrie was very much that way. We would go into 7-Elevens and we would have fake fights and stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4934.676

We did some stuff that was- That's disturbing. You're right. You're right. We did definitely ruin some people's, but I got to tell you, Monica, I do think I'm objective about this. We amused more.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4948.359

More people were really laughing at their boots, looking at us, trying to wonder, are these guys like, have they gotten out of a hospital? Are people looking for these too? Why don't they have so much stuff? And we've gotten Aaron got punched over at once.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4970.586

It's a high wire. When it's working, it's really fun. And I think it's... It's just a huge bonding thing. It's like some expression that like I myself can't go sit at White Castle with the huge hat on and all this stuff and make noises.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

4991.112

I wouldn't. There's like this declaration that like all these people might think I'm crazy, but because you know, and this is for you and Aaron and I's was for each other. There's a very bonding thing about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

50.097

The whole show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5004.604

Like, as long as I have your approval, I'm willing to throw everyone else's away. And again, it's very indulgent and selfish. I get it. I can admit it. But it was also, I do promise it was highly amusing to most people. People thought we were funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5037.605

I'm going to change gears. But Erin and I have a favorite restaurant. We went to it last night with old friends that happened to be in town from Detroit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5044.87

We witnessed many of these outfits. They're fully functional adults with a business now, and it's wonderful. It worked out for everyone. But this happens one in four or five times I eat at this restaurant. Or I eat, I go hard. By the way, I was thinking about what it was this morning, potentially. Did you eat any of the asparagus? Mm-hmm. You did? Okay. I haven't gone yet. Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5069.594

I also had a huge scoop of Metamucil before we went. Fiber, because I knew I was going to eat a lot of steak. But anyways, about four minutes after we got done eating, I had to pee, and I'm peeing, and I think I have to go sit down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5086.519

Epic Hannes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5112.419

Yeah, yeah. So it was, it was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5117.882

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5119.042

Fast acting to an acting. To the point where I was like, oh, there is listeria on the.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5126.331

And apparently not because you ate the asparagus as well. Anyways, it's an epic thing. So come back to the table. I don't announce it at that point because our friends that are visiting, they don't know this pattern. I'm guessing Aaron might have put it, but I was very quick. Did you know the first time I went to pee that that had happened? No. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5146.986

So then we're sitting there talking, and now we're wrapping it up, and I've paid the bill, and I'm thinking, oh, man, I think I got to go again, but I'll be able to wait until I get home. And I'm like in the middle of a sentence, and I go, I got to honest. That was the one I noticed. Then I really booked it to the bathroom. Thank God the dining room was dead empty.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5163.769

Went back in there, another, wow, this is epic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5180.093

Thank God. But all to say, I come back to the table. Now we've only got five more minutes. And then we're out the door and we're in the car. And I was like, I pray I make it home. Three. Three.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5197.919

Or just too much fat. That's such a good meal. It is. It is. Yeah. We both get a ribeye and then we split the lamb chops.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5212.783

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5222.903

Yeah, but sometimes Tonka, sometimes your meal turns into Tonka.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5229.169

No, that was your private car. My car.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5236.316

Oh, wonderful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5246.904

His show is awesome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5250.086

Don't attempt this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5252.888

Do not attempt. What's it on? Hulu. Nat Geo. Okay. Hulu? It's on Hulu, too. Yeah, I watched one last night. Oh, you did? Yeah, yeah. Do you watch India? No, I started with the first one where he puts the knife into his nose.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5269.453

Yeah, that's why I waited. Yeah. Yeah, I guess you're supposed to build up to India, but I started with India. Yeah, of course. And it's freaking wild.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5277.47

Guys jumping onto big piles of broken bottles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5284.536

Dude, a guy who's breaking this huge whiskey bottle over his head.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5301.99

Wow. It feels like a natural activity to jump on a big mound of broken bottles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5311.516

Really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5312.557

I'm abnormally afraid of glass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5350.291

I go right there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5354.537

Oh yeah, David Blaine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5359.045

Now, the really crazy thing he did, and maybe we should talk about it because it's not on video.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5376.358

That was, think of a category.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5380.761

I think that's the craziest one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5385.111

I don't because, okay, he says like, think of a category, Monica. Okay, great. It could be like food, nature. Now think of a specific thing from that category. Erin, listen to this and tell me this, how on earth this could be done. Okay, think of a... So she... Do you have it? Yes, I have it. Okay. And then how did he start doing the... Oh, he was asking for states that start with vowels.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5411.164

And he goes like, oh, there's... Oh, we have Ohio. And then he writes on these other vowels. And he wrote down these words. And he wrote down like seven words or whatever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5424.654

And he's like, I don't know. And then Georgia. Let's put Georgia on there. And then... He goes, is this your thing? And he shows her a list of these seven words or whatever it was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5437.321

Right. And she said, no. And then he circled the outside thing and he said, does this? And it said gossip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5449.043

She thought television as a category. And then the specific show, Gossip Girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

546.007

And then what happens when you go to New Jersey? You start a new high school.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5488.038

Out of the millions of TV shows.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5494.285

Yes. Basically infinite. Yeah. Every object in the world. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5500.485

What? Yeah. And then, you know, there was a card trick, Aaron, where it was like, I wasn't even involved, you know, this one, and it was under my watch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5529.125

Well, let us not forget that in his Netflix special, was it Netflix? Yeah. You know, Harrison Ford, he tells Harrison Ford to pick an apple up off of the, out of the fucking fruit basket, cut it in half. And when he cuts it in half, the cards folded up in there that he himself had written, Harrison Ford had written his name on. Like, how does that? He got it into the hat? And how do you even get?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5554.436

Fuck it. Even if he said, I'm going to put your card in this apple and there'll be no evidence of it, I'd go, that can't be done.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5560.098

That was the trick. And he got it inside of an apple. That would be plenty for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5566.04

And then Harrison Ford cut the apple and he goes, get the fuck out of my house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5605.945

Yeah. Monica and I were talking about this, and I think this is a great opportunity to realize that you're racist. Because do you remember how you felt about the IRA?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5618.97

Yeah. Well, also, you're Irish. Right. And from a very Irish family. Yeah. But weren't you kind of supportive? Always. Yeah. And I was like, isn't that interesting? These are a group of men blowing shit up and killing people when they're brown. I'm like, those are terrorists. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5640.778

Unfortunately, it's the same thing. And it's just they're white. Yeah. And I think that's the difference.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5658.848

It felt like the American Revolution. I could relate. It's the same country we revolted from.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5664.931

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5666.472

Yeah, blowing folks up is not great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5669.934

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5671.935

But then when you see... You know, Al Qaeda trying to have their own state. Yeah. Their caliphate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5680.346

You're like, no, those guys are monsters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5690.108

A pear taste? Yeah. Yeah. What's the longest he fasted for?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5697.293

He was in a glass box hanging above the Thames in England. And he just didn't eat for 36 days. There's no trick. That's just, he really didn't. He lost half his body weight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

571.122

Yeah, I was going to say, because what your work ended up being is this weird hybrid of magic and then these different endurance challenges. Those are two different things. avenues that you combine very successfully. But the part I'm really interested in is the kind of overcoming the body, quieting the mind, forcing yourself to endure something that you otherwise wouldn't choose to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5717.025

And you can kill someone by giving them food too fast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5720.555

Which is crazy. But yeah, you start tasting pear, and we thought, that sounds gross. Yeah, if you hadn't eaten, and I'm expecting some really gross taste, like a metallic taste.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5733.448

Like you just say, tasting your blood, because your body's eating its blood or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5738.292

He did 44 days. 44 days.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5776.409

I took a nap before this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5780.373

And I set it to the wrong time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5782.875

Thank God I woke up on my own.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5793.764

It was great. I fucking crashed hard. Like it was. Because I'm going to skip the sauna and take a 20 minute nap. Uh-huh. And then three hours later.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5806.776

This is so great. I text him like, hey, time to go to dinner. And then I started thinking, I wonder if he read that text. And then I come out to the guest house and look at this. Look how his legs are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5829.779

His feet are, the bottom of his feet are touching, and he's in, I guess that's a lotus position.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5835.021

His hips are wide open.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5842.443

It's impressive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5844.824

His hand was in his pants. It's under his pants. And I thought those were his underwear. There's a swimsuit. He had great intentions. And then I said, it was like, well, on the time I tried to wake my Papa Bob up, I was like, Aaron, Aaron, Aaron, it's time to go. Aaron, Aaron, it's time to go. And I'm like, oh my God, I got to touch him. I got to touch him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5863.013

So then I caressed his knee and that got him away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5868.615

Thank God. No, but that's what I escalated to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5873.977

Three hour tour. Little nap before dinner. Did you have a hard time going to sleep last night? No. Oh, good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5882.059

I was a little worried.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5883.719

Yeah, I got home from drop off. I did some like email stuff and I was on my bed and I was going to get changed to go work out. And then I just thought, I have two hours. I'm going to sleep for one of the hours. And then that turned into, I didn't fall asleep for half an hour. And then I slept till 1030. Wow. Yeah, and I just had—I kept laying there going, it's okay if you don't work out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

59.345

It was shocking. It was insane.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5907.426

Your body needs a rest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5910.107

You had traumatic diarrhea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5913.388

It might be related to Honus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

592.459

And I'm curious if you have a story or a theory on why You needed to demonstrate that was possible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5931.876

God, I trust PBS.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5934.798

Who doesn't? So I think— Is PBS going to go away?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5938.801

Yeah, I think it's on the—

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5941.452

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5943.173

I don't know what I'll do without Frontline.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5978.591

Yeah. They would put him in a suitcase and just chuck him into the audience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

5988.018

You know, he was obviously during the silent picture days. And then no one had ever heard his voice. And then when talkies came around, he was in Sunset Strip or Sunset Boulevard, that famous movie. It was the only time anyone ever heard him talk. And he's in a scene playing Bridge. And he had this crazy low voice that no one was expecting because he was a little guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

6018.2

Yeah. Yeah, they're very memorable, aren't they?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

6034.713

That's it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

6036.735

Oh, okay. Well, that was really, really fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

6055.984

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

63.109

The magic is just straight insane. I know. And so if you're listening, you're going to hear X amount of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

697.853

We're going to talk about it. When do you become aware of Houdini and do you go on an immediate rabbit hole and read about him?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

71.454

And then if you want to see the magic tricks, they'll be on YouTube. Yep. Because they're obviously visual. So please enjoy world-renowned David Blaine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

727.684

I can see those same images in my head, right? Him with these fucking iron shackles and all that stuff that was very punk rock. And I'm like, okay, that guy's a stud. There's something really cool and dangerous about that guy. And where did it go? And what's the history? Like, was he standard for that day? Or was he an enigma?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

783.966

What year was he? What was he operating in the 30s? 1926 is when he died. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

788.53

doing these crazy tricks in 1926 underwater tanks class just the way things were made back then they didn't 3d print anything that was good he was risking his life that's true and he was pushing himself yeah if you had said he died at 31 i'd be like yeah it sounds about right with the life he was living yeah i see what you're saying and since he didn't have kids sure yeah

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

817.556

It's like, I'm not going to do that. Okay, so Houdini is obviously, I'm sure you're not unique in magicians that were obsessed with him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

840.991

But he is the Mick Jagger or the Paul Newman of magicians, right? My favorite movie is Cool Hand Luke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

847.474

I mean, this is a guy who just somehow reeked being cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

883.474

How long can a fish or a frog live? He would do it in front of the drink and then come out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

986.96

So your approach was to introduce yourself, be in front of someone for a minute before the frog came out? No, for hours.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Blaine (magician and mentalist)

99.585

We cut everything anybody doesn't want. We have no gotchas.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, Experts on Expert. I'm Dan Shepard. I'm joined by Monica Maus. Hi. Hello. Today we have Dr. Sunita Sawan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1051.119

The structure has put them there, not their character. And when you kind of realize that, like, oh, the principal of the school has a title, doesn't mean that he's been vetted as a good person necessarily. There's a real dissonance when you recognize, oh, no, they're humans and who knows. I'm friends with a ton of addict doctors and people will be shocked that doctors are addicts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1070.946

I'm like, do you think they're different people?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1091.3

If you want to have a good night partying, go out with some nurses or some doctors and it's on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1097.633

So I'm really, really interested in that as well. I'm aware of that experiment. And then, of course, the Stanford prison one is very famous and people are kind of aware of that. But your book starts out in a really wonderful and timely place. And you start by looking at the George Floyd case. And there were elements of this I had no idea. And it's really interesting. Something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1120.361

So you're not focusing on the asshole that had his knee on his neck. What's far more interesting is there are two rookies there. One guy's on his third day, a black rookie, and then the white rookie is on his fourth day at work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

116.147

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1187.098

If we're inclined to judge them, we have the benefit of knowing the outcome of that, which is it resulted in a death. Yes. I think their backstories are really compelling as well. The white cop's grandfather was a homicide detective. His great-grandfather was the chief of police in Minneapolis. The black rookie intentionally joined the police force to help change it from the inside.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1209.177

You want to talk about the right values and intentions. These two have it in spades.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1233.957

You're up against a lot of forces.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1236.138

So you end that description by saying, I'd like to think I would have done differently, but here's the situation I was in that I also would have thought I would have done differently. So talk about going to the hospital with chest pains.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

133.032

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1393.337

Well, and then there's a really disturbing, not disturbing, actually, it's kind of encouraging that we can figure this out. You can correlate these culturally, there are different fears of power. So then you have this cultural element on top of it, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1507.723

Let's start by defining defiance. I think that would be most helpful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1540.046

I like that because, you know, part of the social angst of it all is that we all have a relative amount of codependency as well. We're not prone to hurt people's feelings or call them incompetent or insinuate things. But if it's just about you, when you depersonalize that and detach from that, it's just like, no, no, it's actually just living in accordance with my values.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1557.394

Really has nothing to do with that person. I like that. That feels liberating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

157.276

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1584.801

Yeah, you say defiance is the exception and obedience is the rule. So let's talk about the forces at play. What happens neurologically?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1601.553

I was rewarded for being rebellious. Really? I got lucky in that I have a mother that prized that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1609.88

I think most. I got very lucky.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1612.862

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1614.884

Yeah, I don't know if now's the time, but we come from a family with a lot of trauma. We've been victimized a lot. My mother's been victimized a lot. I was victimized a lot. So our family was like... fuck this, we're never getting victimized again. We've paid that price and we won't pay it again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

163.038

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1631.398

That was the ethos in the house born out of a lot of victimization, unfortunately, but I do like the result of it all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1654.716

Way more than the times they were acquiesced.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1687.996

It could be harder for some of us than others, but it's also possible for everyone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1712.095

You get good chemicals, you get dopamine, the reward center is activated and it does change the format of your brain.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1784.258

You say you might feel anxiety or nervousness or dread, sweaty palms, fast beating heart, not in the stomach. These are all signals.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1809.36

Yeah, because I think most people are stuck in a pattern of, so I'm feeling these things. That's my actual cue to push through and ignore and compartmentalize and throw away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

184.173

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1892.861

Let's go. I wish this thing went to 700. Let's get some memorization going. Okay, I'll know this on his deathbed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1921.256

Imani, you'd call that fawning?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1927.618

I'm going to put on the most exaggerated version of my face.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1949.069

Can we call that a boundary? Like stating a boundary?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1954.994

You're saying how you feel about it. You haven't said you're not going to do it. You're just saying, I feel this way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1973.712

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

1990.4

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2013.736

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

202.291

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2036.504

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2052.836

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2077.392

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2099.706

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

21.38

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2119.575

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2141.231

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2146.156

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2147.777

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2183.992

I need to add some of the stages in is more my direction to be better. I go from tension to act of defiance. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2275.652

Yeah, so that's where my personal willingness to do this is I have two kind of very seminal moments where I didn't defy. And it was both destructive and painful. But beyond the events, the shame and disappointment in myself was so intense for so long. That for me, any other option was worth it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2297.61

Like I just experienced such a level of regret and shame and in self-flagellation for not getting myself out of a couple different situations that for me, I can immediately go to what that feels like. And so, yeah, this feels uncomfortable, but that feels like a 20. I know what that is. And I can do a very quick cost benefit analysis for me. It's very crystal clear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2320.749

It's like I know what that other thing feels like. So it's very easy for me. I guess that's the benefit of those things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2380.364

And we could probably get in quickly to the biology of that, which is interesting, which is if you anticipate it versus it comes up on you in a flash and you're not prepared, you've not thought this through at all. You don't have an executive game plan. And now you're just scared and frazzled and you're in a part of your brain that doesn't do well with that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2398.596

So, yeah, the benefit of not being taken off guard is half of the battle, perhaps.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

244.488

What's more popular, Monica, for Indian kids, to be a Neil or a Monica?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2446.338

If you've been out to a work dinner with a co-worker who has five other times made a sexist joke, pretty good odds that's coming your way again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2478.43

Can we go back to the forces at play? Because I want to talk about the social one. Of course, I want to interject kind of my anthropological lens onto it. I think it could reduce some of the shame people experience from not being able to rise to that occasion. I think the primary hardwired evolved state we inherited is we are a social primate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

250.29

Because Neil I'm finding really is, if I'm life or death and I've got to guess what someone's name is, I got to go Neil. It just feels highest percentage. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2503.161

300,000 years ago, if you weren't obedient, you got kicked out. And 300,000 years ago, to not be with your group is death. And that's real evolution. That's actually how your brain's still functioning. So give yourself a little bit of a break.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2515.77

Although it is menial, you know, the person at Starbucks or whatever it is, your body doesn't know that your body thinks to be excluded from my group right now is death. So you have a very over-exaggerated response to what our modern world is. But let's just grant everyone that we're not designed to be dead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2583.004

It wouldn't be great to achieve either state exclusively.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2594.476

But if you're at home going, I'm a spineless piece of shit. No, you're a social primate. And then you have to kind of transcend some of the stuff that is not useful anymore or that is vestigial and doesn't serve you. I want to maybe acknowledge it's not across the board. It's not totally equal for every group of people. And I think we should acknowledge that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2613.66

It's easier for me to be defiant than either of you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2624.351

Yeah, I got a double whammy. Like my sister still will fight anybody over nothing. She came from the same culture as I did. So she got that leg up. But then I have also the leg up of being 6'2 and male over nothing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

263.076

That's the most common?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2662.953

So yeah, the paradox is you're going to need to be defiant more and you're going to be more harshly punished.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2670.701

The gift that keeps on giving.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2684.315

But not to put a silver lining on it, you get all the upside of the extra challenge. So you get a skill set. My trauma gave me something too. So it's negative, but also you have an empathy probably that other people don't have. It's a suite of behaviors and thoughts.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

272.507

Now you're making me feel nervous.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2724.201

What's the difference between compliance and consent?

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2736.797

I like the word reactive in there as well. It's kind of put on you and you're reacting all of a sudden. Exactly.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2783.189

Well, it could be structurally defined. You could be in the military.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2807.628

I think that's one of the trickier zones. My personal experience with this was my father was dying of small cell carcinoma and it had spread everywhere. And we had done all the treatments and it was clearly towards the end. We knew the time horizon was three months to begin with. And at the very end of this experience, the oncologist comes on to say he'd like to do brain radiation.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2829.663

And I said, is it possible? worse to die of brain cancer than the lung cancer or the bone cancer everywhere it's at. And he said, well, yeah, it can be worse. And I said, okay, it just feels like it's another treatment and we're towards the end and it's going to be one of these cancers that gets them.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2846.051

And then I asked my dad and he had been letting me make all these decisions, but of course I was running them all by him. And I said, do you want to do this brain radiation thing? And he said, I do. And I said, okay, I don't think it's going to, you know, but ultimately

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2858.816

it was his cancer and his so I backed away did it the result was nothing positive and it severely impacted his cognition and I'm so resentful at that whole experience now I at least have the distance of he made the decision. I did say I think it's a bad idea. You know, I'm not carrying around a ton about it, but it pissed me off. And again, I think, A, I'm totally up for a confrontation.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2882.139

I'm in the best situation possible for this. Still didn't go my way. But yeah, your average person, there's a doctor telling them this is a good idea. And what are you to do?

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2909.787

Now, here's a great example of where the anticipation is helpful. So like Atul Gawande will advise you have an end of life plan. What do you want to do in this last few months? Do you want to go out with your kids and have ice cream? What's quality of life for you?

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2923.019

Because if you just show up and you get bombarded with all this information you don't understand, you're going to react and you don't really know. But that's a good use of an hour of your life to kind of map out what you want that to be at the end.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2952.354

I want a buffet of options that are explained to me and then I want to pick.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

2957.356

And overwhelming. Yeah. What's a true yes?

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3004.995

I couldn't help but think of some situations where I felt like I don't know if defiance is productive to the mission. Do we want a battalion of soldiers thinking we should go over the left flank and they think we should go over the right? Are there not some implicit situations where it's like, no?

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

301.745

But you all were living there when he was five, when the Olympics came through town?

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3114.057

Wrong place at the wrong time.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3194.873

You're not betraying your own ethics in service of this other person.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3243.571

And it's very complicated, right? So you're talking to a guy who's seemingly intelligent and thoughtful, right? And then there's also a dipshit there who shouldn't be doing a ton of thinking. So it's a very complex situation. It's not clean.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3261.799

I was thinking about something much more benign, which is a movie set. So what is a common conflict between an actor and a director, and both have very legitimate points of view, is the director will go to the actor and say, okay, let's do it again, but this time don't be so sad. And then the actor will say, that's what my character would be in this moment. My character would be this sad.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

327.262

Oh, boy. You travel a lot, even just now before Monica was here. You're saying you're teaching in Utica, is it? Or Syracuse?

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3280.603

And now the director's juggling the entire movie, not the moment, not the scene. If you cry in this scene, your next scene, we need you crying at a 10. For the arc of your character, I need this to not be what is true to you right now because we have to service this broader thing. So that's like a very benign example.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3302.515

Oh, I think so. If you've dedicated your life to being an actor and you went to Juilliard and your commitment is to tell the truth every time you open your mouth, that's your North Star.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3320.615

I've added on a set early in my comedic career where you would still make homophobic jokes. That was standard. And I remember getting in a huge fight with one of my directors like, I'm not saying that. There's a 12 year old kid going to watch this who's gay in Michigan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3353.798

You have some good historic and contemporary kind of examples in the book. Is there any that you would like to share with us that are your favorites?

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

337.312

Those are on opposite ends of the state of New York.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

350.425

You grew up in the UK?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

352.086

Okay. And your parents, did they immigrated there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3525.606

There's something sad and beautiful about it, which is people will do that for their children. Because even before the social primate evolution.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3540.976

That's the sad part.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3546.42

I do too. What's heartbreaking to me is that you can't advocate for yourself.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3552.927

That's a tool even. Imagine this is being said to your... Exactly.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

36.959

Yes.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3608.303

One part I like about your book, too, is whether it's explicit or not, you do it by example. It's also a good call to monitor yourself when you're doing it to other people. So you have this example where you want your five-year-old to see the Olympic torch pass.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

368.726

You are a polymath. You've done many, many things. You've studied a lot of things. You've done research in a lot of things. But you were first a medical doctor. That's right. And so tell me, being a kid, when do we get the idea to be a doctor? And what is that experience before you change course?

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3685.237

We got a bad one.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3699.015

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3722.323

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3756.07

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3774.878

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3776.539

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3794.188

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3818.415

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3838.247

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3858.435

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3884.963

Well, yeah, you say it really explicitly and beautifully. You say to be good is for him to do what I want. I want him to sleep through the night. I want him to eat on a schedule. Those are my wants.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3914.372

What kind of tools other than anticipating is a good one and kind of modeling what you're going to get into? But are there some other things that you could recommend?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3935.078

Tattooed up, ideally, too much muscle. Let's go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

3939.961

I can put you on a program.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4056.161

Also, that first question, I think all of us would go like, I know who I am. But then we haven't actually listed it because I remember I got judoed by a therapist like 20 years ago because I was laying out this list of grievances I had about my father. And on this last trip, this happened. He smashed my truck. He did this and that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4075.971

And I said, you know, at this point, I just don't know that I really need to have a relationship with him. I just don't think I want to do this anymore anymore. And he said, you're totally entitled to make that decision with this list of things you've just given me. But very simply, do you think you're the type of person that doesn't talk to their dad? And I was like, oh, fuck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4095.343

I don't think I'm the type of person that wouldn't talk to their dad. That's very incongruous with this thing I want to do. But yeah, in a very simple way, do I think I'm the type of person that doesn't talk to their dad? I don't think I'm that type of person. I don't want to be that type of person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4111.871

So I guess we're just going to have to do a lot harder work to figure out how I am not that person yet I don't come out on the wrong end of all these interactions.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4121.335

I was telling him this thinking he'll sign off on this and I'm never talking to my dad. I've worked it all out in my head.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4128.5

No, it was the simplest question I wouldn't have asked myself. So powerful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

413.029

Oh, OK. Yeah, I guess if you ask me where the derivative of nerd comes from, I have no clue because I was going to say, where does that originate? SWAT. What is that an abbreviation for? Who knows?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4260.177

There's so many variables though, as well, because even engineers, they over-index on disagreeability on the personality test, right? So it's like you start with, there's been a filter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4275.588

Yes, and your son, when you tell him to not play his Xbox, he walks right in there and plays his Xbox. It's in your book.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4311.24

Have they ever done versions of this test? So my assumption about the electrocution test is that the participants were probably students?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4321.205

Oh, I guess you just listed some people that weren't students.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4336.892

Right. So what I was curious about as we're sitting here talking and learning about it is I wonder if they looked at age. I have some intuition that as you get older and older and older, you're more likely to be more likely to be defiant.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4350.96

You've lived through more stuff. You see the racket. You care a little less. You've achieved your social status. You have cultural capital. You have raised your kids like anecdotally. Talk to some old people. They'll tell you like it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4365.088

They're not seventh graders. What's everyone doing? They've somehow transcended that through life experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

45.171

Yeah, I see this book as being enormously helpful for a huge amount of the population.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4520.059

Well, it's a wonderful book. I so appreciate you coming in. This has been wonderful. Unfortunately, I need a book that says just fucking get with the program. I need like the opposite book, but I still very much appreciate it. And I live and love so many people that have a really hard time with it. And I can see the amount of weight on them.

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Sunita Sah (on defiance)

453.389

Oh, no kidding. From entering your first intro to biology class to having a patient. How short can that be in England?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4550.828

Yeah, I think what I could do is give a lot more benefit of the doubt to people around me and not assume from my past that everyone's trying to get one over on me. It's all my own baggage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4567.045

Yeah, I have too much. The book is called Defy the Power of No in a World that Demands Yes. I think so many people will be very empowered by this. And I think you make it very simple to follow how you could start advocating for yourself and staying true to your values.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4583.75

It is. Thanks so much for coming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4587.11

Hi there. This is Hermium Permium. If you like that, you're going to love the fact check with Ms. Monica. Daddy, are you ready? What's going on? You don't know that song, do you, Soul to Soul?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4607.225

I do, but you don't know the source, do you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4610.347

Does it ring a bell when I sing it? No. It doesn't, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4614.53

Yeah. It was hot, and then it disappeared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4618.233

Keep on moving, don't stop. They had two. Two hits.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4625.137

Really nice. Really nice. I guess maybe Neo Soul, dance music, 92. Ooh, 92. I was five.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4635.993

You weren't going out dancing much when you were five?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4638.795

You may notice I'm feeling a little energized because I just blew past one of my goals and I'm just feeling incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4647.662

Well, I got these bike riding goals.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4649.764

I'm going to back up. I had an issue with my bike that I love. It's so beautiful. The chain got sucked into the sprocket. It bent the sprocket. Now it's having a really hard time. staying in gear so when I ride it and I'm putting a lot of force on it it's hopping gear it's rough okay and I bought it used a while ago and I decided on Sunday perhaps sustainable

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4673.972

Yes. Well, then you'll like where this story goes. So then I was like, okay, I've proven that I'm into this. I need to get a bike with clip-ons and the whole nine and really commit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4683.12

Looked online. I was going to go to Pasadena. I found a bike store. I was looking at all the options. They looked really funny if you've ever priced a bike. These bikes are imperceptibly the same. One is $15,000 and one is $1,900.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4698.708

And I'm like, what? I can't see what's different. I mean, presumably one's carbon fiber and all this shit. So I'm looking at it and I'm already going through my game plan. Like I'm going to get there and go, listen, buster. I know you think I'm here to buy an $18,000 bike, but I'm not. I don't care. I just want to be able to change gears.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4716.636

Yeah, I was all fired up to go to battle with a salesman. And then I thought, okay, my friend Jeff McFarlane, who I love. Shout out Jeff McFarlane. He's helped me navigate many things in life. He's not too dissimilar than me. He loves cars. He loves things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4740.281

He loves motorcycles and he loves cars.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4747.546

Right. I don't have. Whatever. The point is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4751.388

Thank you so much. I appreciate you defending me to myself. But Jeff competed in Ironman's. Which there's a huge biking portion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4761.758

Knowing him, I just crossed my mind. I'm like, I bet he has a lot of bikes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4766.881

Because you have all these different applications, right? Yeah. And also, I know that he is downsized. He is 61 now. He's just been appointed a judge. He has been a lawyer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4780.467

Yeah, I'm so happy for him. So he's going to be an LA superior judge, which is really cool. That's awesome. I'm going to go to the swearing in. But at any rate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4788.87

I know he's like, he's like, he's getting older. His kids have moved out and he's like, he moved into a smaller place. And then I thought, I wonder if he wants to get rid of bikes. So hit him up. Hey, by any chance, do you have any bikes that you want to get rid of? And he said, as a matter of fact, I do. Come over. So I go over, and I go into his garage, and there's three hanging on the wall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

480.78

Okay. Is that better or worse? There's pros and cons.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4809.901

Oh, man. A couple that are like black carbon fiber, and then this one that is like silver and orange. Ooh, flames. Not flames, but still silver and orange. And as I'm looking at them, I'm realizing I'm in the same situation I was with the bike shop, which is I know these are to compete in Ironman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4832.205

And I know what these price tags can be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4834.827

So once I look at him, I go, Jeff, I realize this is a disaster because I was going to spend basically blank on a new bike and I don't want to try to rip you off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4845.955

And he said... Dude, the bikes are 10 years old. I don't know how else to get rid of them. He's like, I'll give you one for 2,500 bucks, which is what was going to be my budget for it, to be honest. And I was like, okay, well, I'll give you more. The bike was hand built. It's a crazy. He's like, everywhere you go, people are going to want to talk to you about this bike.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4867.811

No, no, I got the Flames one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4870.092

All to say, I have this insanely beautiful hand-built bike. Wow. I don't even want to say what it costs brand new. It was like a $22,000 bicycle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4882.195

So the thrill I had of getting a bike that expensive that I myself would have never bought. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4890.706

Yes. So I'm so excited about the bike and I come home and now I need to buy the shoes that go into the clip-on pedals. Sure. So I order those. They're coming on Saturday, but I'm too impatient today. I'm like, I wonder if I can ride it with the clip-on pedals, but just with normal shoes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4904.893

I can't, I just can't wait basically.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4907.194

So this morning I went, that's why I asked if we could record a little later.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4911.556

I had a hunch I might do this. So I went all the way up to the observatory. Then I went on a road that's closed. You can bike on it. up to the Hollywood sign, down the backside of the mountain, into Burbank.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4922.384

To Travel Town.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4924.346

Then all the way through Griffith Park, past the zoo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4928.41

Then out onto Los Feliz Boulevard, past your house. I looked over as I was pedaling. I mean, that was the end of it. I was like an hour and 45 minutes in at that point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4936.778

And so I was a little, I looked over. And then I was like, I was in a state by that point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4944.243

Yeah, so I did that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4948.246

Now I have to because I have this absurdly special bicycle that I got for such a deal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4972.859

Like it was originally 10 grand or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4978.04

One grand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4982.281

You think you're making $9,000. Yes. Like when I left, I was like, oh my God, I just made $18,000. Yeah, shopping maps.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

4989.523

I finally got it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5002.792

You have to live up to the item.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5005.714

Yeah, yeah. I don't know if you remember when my therapist Mark had said that like often you change to accomplish something. And other times you get something that you have that will force you to grow into it or you'll lose it. And I thought that was interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5021.724

OK, so that was really exciting. And then I got back and then I and then I lifted weights. Wow. Because I'm going to Detroit and I have to look as swole as possible. Oh, because that's where all the guys that want to kick my ass live.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5033.471

I hope so because I'm ready. Oh, my God. I've already had a fantasy because, you know, Kid Rock picked a fight with me one time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5039.874

Years ago. And he was with two buddies. And I did stand up to him. And then it got kind of mitigated or de-escalated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5048.138

And I was like, oh, wow, you know, he'll likely be at this game.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5051.8

Yeah, he's from Detroit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5055.061

I don't know enough about them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5057.022

But it did cross my mind. You gotta be ready. Who knows? You bump into Kid Rock, he takes another run at you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5068.498

Yes, this is like Kristen is only green lit. Yeah. I've only got a couple green lights where fighting's okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5076.702

It's a bummer, actually, because I love Kid Rock's music, and I wish he wasn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5080.864

Oh, yeah, there's some great stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5083.285

No, I don't love that one, but he likes Southern Rock, and I grew up loving Southern Rock.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5101.507

I can imagine it was a very scary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5106.03

It's a white dude with long blonde hair and a Trans Am.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5118.316

But I think the Lions are bringing people together because Aaron told me that, of course I was talking to Aaron about this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5126.04

He knows what, yeah. And he said, oh, yeah, now Kid Rock and Eminem are friends. They've become friends. And I think because of the Lions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5134.702

And Kid Rock had to say. Eminem's pretty woke. Right. Aaron informed me that they're friends officially and that Kid Rock said, we don't have the same political views, but we have found common ground as friends. Yeah. So I think Lions are bringing people together.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5153.287

Sports have that power.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5154.748

Okay. I have some more updates.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5157.431

I did something really cool last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5160.735

I saw on Instagram... I don't even know how I saw this. It was a video of a man meeting a guy in the 7-Eleven parking lot to receive a pizza.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5172.699

And then the guy opened it up and it was the most gorgeous pizza. And then he took a bite and he's like a pizza reviewer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5178.942

And he said, yeah, it's the best pizza in LA.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5184.004

Yes. The guy makes them in his house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5187.526

I'll turn you on to them. So I see that. So you have to order through only through Instagram. There's like no number to call. So I DM the guy. The guy is incredibly sweet. He's got a sourdough he uses. And I was like, OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

519.198

And did you enjoy being a doctor?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

52.32

It's very, very, very good. And also the amount of her own story she includes and acknowledges how hard it is for her, I think is always helpful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5201.516

If I am ever to eat bread, it is very it's best to eat sourdough because it has the lowest gluten content.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5207.201

In fact, I think you can almost make sourdough without any gluten. And it has no brewer's yeast, which is also some people like. It's not gluten insensitive, but he can't have brewer's yeast, which is it's in everything with gluten virtually, but not sourdough. So I was like, OK, I love the idea of meeting in a parking lot and a guy opens his trunk. It's very my drug deals back from the old days.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5231.597

So I arranged this whole thing. I was supposed to get on Wednesday the night the fires broke out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5237.284

That was my first appointment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5239.225

And mind you, it's at six and I got to drive to Sunland, which for people who don't know, driving to Sunland.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5245.73

No, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5246.831

He's got a dude that works for him that drives a very short distance from wherever he's making them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5252.275

Yeah, they're piping hot. And he tells you to take a bite of, I mean, he wants you to take a bite of a very specific pie. Oh, my God. So I got the four different varieties he makes, and he said, take a bite of the hot piggy immediately.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5266.792

It's pepperoni with, I think, a little bit of hot honey. Oh, Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5274.275

Okay, so this kind of worked out brilliantly. Lincoln had a soccer game in Westlake.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

528.241

It's problem solving. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5280.761

Which is virtually like driving to Santa Barbara. Westlake is very far away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5284.964

So we left at two, took an hour to get to the game. Yesterday. Then watched the game. I think that's an hour and a half. Get back in the car at 4.30. And now we got to get to Sunland by six, which is not going to be an issue. I think it's only supposed to take an hour and nine minutes. It said on my- Oh!

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5305.862

Side note, all of Simi Valley didn't have any power. Still. Well, so yes, I thought still, but this morning, not even this morning, seven minutes ago, I was in the shower. My hair is still damp if you don't believe me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5320.552

I didn't look like you didn't believe me, so I had to show you. Thank you. I was like, God, maybe they actually turned the power off intentionally because it was the last day of the Santa Anas. That would have been smart. So I don't know if they had lost their power or they preemptively turned it off, which would have been very bright.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5336.48

Couldn't help but notice because it's a strip mall after strip mall. Nothing's open.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5340.442

Anyways, Lincoln's got to pee. I'm telling you way too much shit. Tried to stop at a Starbucks. Someone blew up both Starbucks bathrooms. Both were inoperable from duty.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5351.595

I mean, they painted the place.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5358.342

So it's a whole saga to get to the toilet in this strip mall in Sunland. Then I was getting nervous. Oh my God, we're going to be late. I thought I was going to get there a half hour early. The girls were going to get impatient. I was going to have to put them in an Uber to send them home while I waited for the pizza. But as it turned out, it took so long to find a bathroom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5374.757

We rolled in at like 5.59. The appointment was at six.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5380.111

Six o'clock, guy in a black car pulls up. I get out. Fucking cash. Pay. Get these four pies. Get in the truck. I did exactly as he instructed. First one was- Did you bring your gun? I didn't have my gun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5397.344

I got to tell you, it was, as I said, it was very reminiscent of the old days in a very good and healthy way. It's like I'm meeting a guy in a parking lot that I don't know. I'm going to pay cash. And then I'm something really good is on the other end.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5411.918

It's a high that it comes with no cost.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5415.861

Hi, I'm here for more pieces like that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5419.945

Yeah, I'll be there at six. And it was all on text.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5423.945

No, I was very nice to the guy. There was another guy there that was also picking up some pies, which is really funny. It's like me, two dudes, me and the drug dealer at the same time. That's funny. Get in the car, open it up right away. It's so beautiful. The pepperonis are so tiny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5438.737

They dished in the cooking process and there's oil in them. And there's, I can see the honey and I take a bite and by God, it's fucking so good. Oh, you got a picture of it? Oh, baby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5455.237

I got the girls that pineapple Hawaiian, which was outrageous. I don't even like Hawaiian pizza, but that was my second favorite. We got umami, hot pepper pizza, which was a million peppers, and it was very good. And then the hot piggy, I said umami, and then, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5475.842

That's a great question, what's on the upper far right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5480.925

I should ask him about that because I'm going back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5485.668

It's great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5487.929

This looks delicious. So the car ride home is long from Sunland at 6 o'clock on a weekday. Yeah. And I ate. Well, Kristen had two pieces of hot piggy. I ate the remainder. So I ate three quarters of the hot piggy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5506.081

And I ate. A third of the Hawaiian.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5509.63

And then I had a slice of hot pepper and a slice of umami. So I had like a pizza and a half or two pizzas.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

551.893

So when do we get interested in organizational psychology?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5519.012

No wonder I tackled that hill today and kept going.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5525.014

Fuel. Glycogen. So that was really fun. I really liked it. That was a fun experience for the whole family being in that parking lot watching the guy roll in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5538.106

A lot of updates. Are you watching Bad Sisters Season 2?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5542.927

Oh, you didn't?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5554.605

British content?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5555.987

Okay. I guess this is Irish in this context.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5561.192

They would not like that, but yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5592.191

I don't think there's any suicide, but continue.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5617.003

Oh, that's the origin of the feeling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5620.267

Original feeling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5658.338

Oh, is that hard to find, 100% tangerine juice?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5671.631

Oh, great. Okay, 100%. Yeah. Is it rich?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5682.425

Okay. Crisp, clean.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5686.906

Is this seltzer and 100% tangerine juice?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5689.127

Okay. What ratio?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5693.028

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5696.99

And how many of those will you have? Ice cubes?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5704.427

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5707.888

And is it satiating your cocktail urge?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5710.749

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5750.777

Oh, yes, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5781.966

Yes. I think it makes you just acknowledge there'll be a tomorrow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5786.807

I will have to account for this decision. Yes. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5806.557

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5808.939

I'm going to make a small pitch for not zero.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5813.241

Okay. Because it is the morning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5818.184

And it is day one of being sober. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5822.399

It's not day zero. Day zero doesn't exist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5826.102

So day one, this is the date and this is day one. And I'm not going to drink today. This is a one. See, now if you write zero in some weird way, there's almost nothing to lose because if you drink later that night. But when you write one, you're also committing to this is day one of not drinking. Does that make any sense mentally?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5847.656

It's a commitment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5849.548

Because on this date, I'll have had one day of not drinking, which is true. I didn't drink that day. That's day one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5857.593

Yeah, so you got to make it through the night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5860.615

But it's true, so long as you don't drink that night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5865.699

And then it's a little more positive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5877.865

I see what you're doing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5879.787

You're saying I have zero days of sobriety in the morning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5889.715

What do you want to say? Clean, no drinky poo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5892.778

Like you have one day of no drink.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5896.341

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5918.49

I'm listening to We Contain Multitudes, Ed Yong's book. As I told you, I was listening to Men's World over and over again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5925.333

And then I decided to go and try the first book.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5927.895

Or anyway, it was his first, but the previous bestseller. Oh, it's mind-blowing. Oh, God. It's all about microbes and your micro... Biome? Biome. Thank you. Microbiome. Wow. Your body has so many. It says nine pounds. Did I already tell you this? The average person has nine pounds of microbes in them. And there are many animals that couldn't even exist without the microbes. They would die.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5956.226

The microbes perform all these tasks. They've evolved with the microbes, and they themselves can't even exist. Then there's all this weird stuff where they raise these rats completely free of microbes, which is almost impossible, but they're born into a hermetically sealed case.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5974.618

And they don't ever accumulate any microbes and they can eat however they want and they don't gain any weight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5981.88

Doesn't matter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5984.1

And then they introduce different microbes and then they'll eat way less food and gain way more weight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5990.361

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5991.621

And then all the health stuff, like there's so much health stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

5995.642

And then talks about, you know, this kind of scary proposition that You're supposed to get all, as we know, all these microbes from your mom's vagina as you come out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6005.773

And then the other huge source is breast milk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6008.713

And a third of children in the U.S. are now born cesarean section. So they're not getting the vaginal microbes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6015.775

And then if they also don't breastfeed, you know, they're... They're ripe for some issues, a lot of allergies and a lot of different things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6030.209

About your gut health?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6033.671

That was her first question.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6037.173

And you were breastfed?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6039.835

I was not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6044.302

That's right, and heroin. Don't forget the heroin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6055.045

Oh yeah, you gotta be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6058.806

Yeah, some people hate it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6062.607

Exactly. If you subtract animal testing- From our history.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6070.419

I don't think so. I think it's a very fringe group that do not want mice to be tested on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6075.019

Now, a lot of us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6078.56

Yes. It's kind of preposterous to think you should test on humans instead of mice. I know. They procreate so quickly. Their lifetime is very short anyways, blah, blah, blah. Now, I think it's a sliding scale. I think probably most of us don't want to see chimpanzees tested on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6096.463

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6102.585

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6105.365

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6108.326

Oh, if we can figure out what microbes would eliminate obesity before you'd ever even need Ozepic. Right. Or would eliminate allergies. Of course we must do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6120.449

Yeah. I don't think any rational person has that point of view.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6127.79

They do. They do. And they're entitled. We have a country that has free speech, so you can think anything you want.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6133.531

It's great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6160.844

Yeah, New Yorkers love to do this. It starts with Annie Hall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6192.886

So a lot of people don't, they distrust that or it's like fake.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6197.328

The big thing on the East coast is calling someone fake. It's a huge thing. Remember like in Jeep and Jersey Shore, to be fake was as low as you can get. I don't even hear people in LA ever say that as a pejorative or a put down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6214.158

Oh, would it be more, okay. Do you think it'd be more accurate to say like insincere? Aren't you really saying like a lot of the hospitality feels obligatory and insincere?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6226.153

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6228.995

I guess. Fake is a total character assassination. It's like they're fake.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6234.696

They're a fake.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6263.401

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6265.785

Yeah. We're into health. We're into being positive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6269.591

We're into feeling good and eating good and exercise. Yeah. That's true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6277.802

Exactly. I can't really lock into the why that's frustrating for people. I think like the Woody Allen joke, if I have it remembered correctly, is like in L.A., their definition of culture is the right to turn on red.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6294.276

I like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6295.097

We have no history. I mean.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6298.542

That's not fair to say to the indigenous folks or the Spanish missionaries that were here. But, you know, we don't have New York's deep cultural history.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6312.672

But once we got in the mix, boy, we really started shaping it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6338.576

Like maybe leaving?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6340.716

I think a lot of people are debating whether they're going to leave or not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6375.26

Um, for God to intervene.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6388.214

Well, John Mayer said he's going to say a prayer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6392.84

But... Yeah, yeah, this will be my first time doing it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6404.135

No one thought the solution was going to come from abroad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6433.428

Okay. Let's get factual.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6435.63

Oh, one last thing. Many people in the comments suggested this, and I want to tell them we had already done it. So a lot of people were like, invite Nikki Glaser on. I just want to say we, the second after we had that long talk on the previous fact check, we were like, we should definitely invite her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6451.902

So we have invited her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6454.544

Oh, I did?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6480.355

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6499.948

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6540.071

I experienced it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6542.371

I just experienced it. Yeah, I was getting blood drawn and the nurse basically told me that the doctor that they work for forced them to get a flu shot and they didn't want it. And I thought, yeah, here's a nurse who is very qualified opinion. It's not like they're ignorant. They've probably made some analysis and probably she would have liked to have said no somehow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6598.706

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6601.649

I find myself, I don't want to say it's hard because it's not. And again, I'm the beneficiary of having not said no and it haunted me for the rest of my life. So that's like, that's a huge gift for me for the rest of my life. I just don't, you know. And I have so many options.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6621.107

Like if this person is pressuring me to get this shot, I don't want it. Like I have options. I can go to another doctor. I can't, you know, I, I, I'm gifted with a ton of luxuries. And so, and even me, I'm like, okay, we got to say no. And we got to hold our ground. Like, you know, it's hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6696.55

Also a good moment to check your own pushiness as a person. You know, like when you're in a position, what people do with their kids all the time. Yeah. I watch kids, people force their kids to do these things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6711.564

That really don't have much of a... significant impact on their life. It's how they did it. And they would like it done that way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6720.3

It's very tempting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6722.021

But, you know, and probably, you know, a lot of people are bosses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6726.525

And it's very tempting and easy to want to keep pushing. So I think it's also a call to everyone of us who are in charge. When we have that role that we check our own pushiness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6760.504

I think a lot of people feel this way. And I have felt this way as a parent many times. It's like, You feel like if you let this go, it's going to be a domino effect. And then you'll not have any say in anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6772.233

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6773.154

It can be kind of misleading in that moment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6822.69

Yeah, like, I just like, I like it there. I would like to live there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6828.976

Really? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

683.632

And the test subject would be in charge of administering the shock, right? Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6858.24

How would you feel about one that was just hot?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6862.541

Yeah, like, of course, if you're incredibly intelligent and have a skill set that would benefit the country, come on in. We want that, clearly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6870.122

What about hot? If there was one that was just like, you're a smoke show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6874.584

Let's keep this place full of gorgeous people. If you're single, that's a great point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6880.665

Because then that way you could procreate. You could procreate and you could lift.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6886.875

The whole, yeah, look of Americans.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6917.496

But engineering, we were not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6922.432

All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6925.194

And just stuck around. Got a job as a professor. Yeah. Then got a work visa.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6931.96

Then became very patriotic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6933.942

Then became xenophobic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6939.206

Yeah, I bet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6944.031

Right. You can't see. I like the weather, and that's why I'm going.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6966.614

And we're nervous about it because it sounds very much like a derivative of swastika.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6970.917

And twat. Yeah. But also we think a swatty potty would be a very cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6977.402

Invention.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6979.364

For the Brits. For the Brainiac Brits. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6990.592

Again. Yeah, that's okay. Fuck. Fuck. He's not relevant. The takeaway is what's relevant.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

6998.253

Philip Zimbardo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7001.015

Zimbardo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7012.502

And a Cubs. I've already declared I'm not even committed to memory. I'm committed to knowing about the Stanford prison experiment and what the result was. That's important for me to know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7028.073

That's fine. Again, that's fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7100.649

And you're not going to try to memorize that, right? No. See, this is interesting. It's very arbitrary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7114.136

Yeah. If I have to choose whether I know an individual's name or I know a concept, I'm going to definitely favor the concept. Sure. Because that's going to help me process the reality.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7126.161

Someone's name's not going to help me do anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7128.502

Other than seem well-read at a party.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7136.987

It is impressive. Thank you. I am often impressed that you remember someone's name. Actually, more than I'm impressed, I'm just grateful because I'm trying to reference the person and I don't have their name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7150.704

Oh, wow. Who's he?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7153.107

Oh, Hung Vango.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7184.856

So you think that's kind of just a long way to say because they're generally right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7190.956

Yeah. I think that's really what it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7200.379

I'm glad they put that caveat in. Yeah, me too. I hate for anyone to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7208.622

He's disagreeable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7211.303

My stepfather. Both stepfathers that were engineers were highly disagreeable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7218.085

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7218.986

He's looking for a flaw.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7220.823

His job is literally to look for a structural flaw.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7239.287

I think egg.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7242.028

Well, yeah, it implies more growth on his end. It's more flattering. We like to think we achieve this thing. Not that we were just born with it. All of us. Your dad's not unique.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7259.615

Uh-huh. But that's all part of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7262.296

There's no highs without the lows.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7267.359

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7274.442

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7276.763

Yeah, just saying, hang in there. I'm still watching.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7301.291

I don't believe that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7307.893

That's why I don't trust him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7309.804

Right. Older brothers, you can't trust their opinion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7314.207

Because they see them as a baby and incompetent and all these things. And all they're really seeing is an age difference, but they don't realize they're seeing an age difference.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7326.917

Don't start with little brother stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7330.7

I do not have little brother syndrome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7350.307

I'm going to go along with whatever. I just – I really feel in my heart he's exactly who he was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7358.629

My dad was always a salesman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7360.811

My dad was born to sell shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7363.032

He didn't grow up. I mean, he got better at it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7365.994

But he was a salesman. He wanted an extra slice of cake. He figured out how, you know, he, he's charming. He got what he needed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7386.77

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7392.978

You're already at the finish line for that. Can you think of times though you did go along with stuff?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7408.182

Because you define yourself as being someone that never came to peer pressure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7451.076

And I just as an ethos, I'd rather have been wrong and I'd rather be the victim of a bad decision So long as it's my decision.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7461.622

And some people don't feel that way, which is totally fair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7464.624

And I just do. I would rather, again, if I'm going to die in a car, I better be holding the steering wheel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7469.828

No fucking way am I letting, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7479.775

And also we might just genetically be this way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7486.9

It's hard to know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7489.755

Okay, well, I loved her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7492.017

I hope I didn't make her do anything she didn't want to do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7500.042

What if I was manipulative and I planned a test?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7504.825

Don't miss out on trying that coffee. It's the world's best.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7509.328

Drink it now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7513.478

A man made that and brought it here on a bicycle. He rode it 60 miles to bring you this coffee. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

7538.257

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

769.629

I understand that you're in a class, you learn that. That is intrinsically interesting. I think everyone would be a bit interested in that. But then I also am curious, was there an additional layer for you personally where that is extra interesting?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

79.577

What would you do versus what you think you would do?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

83.758

Yeah, yeah, yeah. And how you, yeah, some tools to make sure you do what you think you would do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

834.38

Were you so attracted to her ability to defy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

861.849

Can I bring up to speed a little bit on our own personal dynamic? Her other best friend, other than me, is 6'7", redhead. The most assertive, loud. He's openly gay without any fear of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

876.701

He's fearlessly himself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

879.003

And then I will fit in that box a bit as well. So there's a fun thing with Monica and I and then Monica and Jess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

887.75

You're still very good. You're a good girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

89.479

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

896.495

You've transcended for what I know about your school experience and trying to acclimate and blend in and all those things. I don't see you as that way at all, but certainly you did spend a good deal of your life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

912.264

Or singled out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

933.976

Well, they might've sucked you in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Sunita Sah (on defiance)

981.444

Like rebelliousness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1002.488

She didn't even have high cholesterol?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1005.331

Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1140.426

Peptides.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1143.471

That's the last chapter. Okay. We have a lot to talk about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1283.484

Or they have a bad idea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1285.948

I do need to know, have you watched The Pit?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1292.472

It's really good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1296.034

I talk about it a lot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1394.837

I know someone who qualified for the trial for it, and they immediately got shingles. And it was so bad. Spread through the whole body.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1558.279

He does it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

170.033

It is cool. It's a very cool car. It is a bit OJ. In a good way. In a good way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1736.011

I mean, yeah, should we just all be on it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

176.958

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

179.76

Well, he was cool before he left.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1881.028

I didn't know that. If you have diabetes and you're on the drug, you don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

1914.568

They took a gamble that this would be bigger and it seems like it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

193.466

Yeah, it was an accidental marketing. One of the main things you remember is the Bronco. What do you mean?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

211.641

It's like a nice car. It's nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

218.066

Malcolm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

2229.504

Is that why a couple months ago there was that whole study about alcohol causing cancer? Is that because of the inflammation?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

2237.708

It sticks with me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

2253.818

Yeah, the VEC. We've had him on as well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

24.741

That's right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

244.469

Yeah. I definitely did reach out to you about my weird experience that turned out to be epilepsy. Congratulations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

2477.349

He doesn't eat hamburgers, but a lot of red meat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

252.196

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

254.118

Yeah, I'm on medication and it's all good. But you said it could be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

259.762

You said it could be seizures, but there really isn't any way to know unless it happens again, which is correct.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

266.684

And then it did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

272.926

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

276.328

I did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

280.291

No, likely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

2879.47

Well, yeah, it's not just soda.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

2900.309

Yeah. use plastic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

2911.173

I do drink out of plastic water bottles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

2916.575

The Essentia comes in plastic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

301.085

We haven't been able to scan our kidneys yet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

3325.688

Is it a blood test?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

3328.69

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

3353.281

We need to monitor. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

37.611

And smart as all heck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

3954.448

But that might be too far gone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4014.35

I know, but you promised that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4018.895

Should we be taking all these peptides? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4024.43

Actually, we can be done now because that is exactly... Hold on one second, though.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4036.073

Yeah, I align with you so much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4042.955

Yeah, I fully align. Because, okay, here in LA, there's a group of friends, Dax being one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4050.737

Okay. So are dabbling with these injectable peptides. And I feel that that's very scary. People are on metformin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4059.802

There's a bunch of them. There's like a beauty one. There's a copper one. There's a brain one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4066.786

I know. I like that you're upset because I feel upset. But I also feel, well, if everyone's doing it, then they're all going to look 22.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4220.814

But then they did do tests before they became publicly used.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4242.464

But then they did. But it could have turned out better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4264.506

The point is they did prove that it was good for obesity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4347.599

It is a neutral opinion, but they're being used. prematurely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4427.328

I hope. I'd love to take a beauty peptide every day, but I do want it to be tested thoroughly before I do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4496.949

Keep us updated on all these studies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4560.27

One of the kids in the pod, a boy, said, why do girls only have butts?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4570.036

No. No, I think he thought the whole thing was just a big butt on women.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4584.486

God, it's so weird that we're attracted to these parts. They're objectively so ugly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4591.231

All of it. Like the boobs, the penis, the butt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4602.879

The aliens. The aliens don't think they're beautiful, probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4617.469

But the butt is very strange. Like, we poop out of there. Yeah. And yet it's, like, an erogenous area.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4634.068

Yeah, I got a new outfit yesterday and I'm wearing it today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4643.395

It's a little bit fuzzy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4645.817

Yeah, it's a little bit fuzzy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4649.4

I'm not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4653.443

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4655.584

Maybe what you're noticing is different. Do you think I look different today again?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4666.476

Okay, Rob, can you guess what it is now?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4672.604

No. No. I'm wearing concealer. Under eye concealer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4683.34

Yeah, but I wear lipstick every time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4687.322

It's kind of... If I only have four seconds, I will just put something on my lips.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4696.209

Like, some people do mascara.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4700.61

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4701.59

For me. Some people do mascara. That's, like, their big thing. Like, they have to—or their brows, like, have to be done.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4708.912

I mean, if my skin is bad— That's got to—that'll trump lips. Yes. Now, yeah. Yes. But— because of not my not witch, but my regular human esthetician, corrective skincare, Jen. Yeah. I can pretty much go out of the house without any foundation on, but I still like a little lip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4750.175

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4754.973

Okay. You mean periods?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4757.895

Oh, okay. Let's hear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4764.501

Because perimenopause?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4788.207

I really liked that you included moon. Astrology.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4821.641

This is hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4868.053

Cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4889.158

So she was on stilts?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

495.504

What was it doing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4975.223

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

4997.928

Yeah. Yeah. Gosh. I mean, I think you're right. There's not much to do. Yeah. And you can't take it personally, which you aren't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5051.929

They're just like, eh, like whatever. I think they just learned to not take any of it very seriously. And there might be some chaos happening around. But they just kind of block it out. And they think about something peaceful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5076.624

Yeah, I mean, it's a ding, ding, ding to the Nick Kroll episode when I was saying, you know, there's just so many dads in chairs at stores. Like, you know, they just go to the store and then they just look for a chair and then they sit there while the girls are out shopping. And then they get up when you're ready to leave.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5118.642

I think maybe you're in a transition because you wouldn't have been like that before. Like you, I don't think for a long time would have been okay with people being like emotional. You'd be like, get it together. And I think maybe you're transitioning into understanding that's just not a good option.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5176.054

Yeah, and that's hard. It's hard to be, I see you. It's hard to feel like I can't talk or something will erupt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5189.223

Walking on eggshells is not a good feeling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5194.046

But I do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5197.489

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5208.728

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5224.32

You should aim for. For the best version. Now, we're not going to hit it every time. We're not. But if you know, like, gosh, a lot of times I understand that my emotions are causing people to walk on eggshells a lot. Then maybe it's like, I need to try not to. I'm still going to do it. Like, it's not going to be 100%. Yeah. But I should try to be better about that.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5268.813

Yeah. And then I do think I will say something. I will say I'm not speaking for all women.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5274.577

Go ahead. Or all. Nope. Or all anyone who's emotional. Yeah. But or in touch with their feelings.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5283.324

Sometimes I'm like. Yeah. It's like, we don't, it's fine. It was a bad day.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5290.806

And then it's over. They come and go. Yeah, they come, they go. Yeah. It's over. Like, sometimes as the person who has the strong emotions, then it's like, oh, now they're upset because I was upset. It's like, can't it just be done now? Everyone's done. It's done.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5308.756

Does that make sense?

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5343.952

I know, it's true.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5353.669

But, and to be fair, not to upset you, but sometimes there's walking on eggshells both ways.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5365.846

I'll say all men.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5368.769

To be nice. Well, because we're just talking about the people we know.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5373.153

You know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5388.027

Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5393.09

Right.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5400.554

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5409.699

Yeah. I think more, I mean, for, for all men, um, It's more like there are areas you can't go. Like with you, there are some areas you just can't go with you.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5428.854

I'm not going to say any of it.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5431.007

Don't trap me.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5433.409

But anyone in my family, there's like, there's some scary areas with you that feel that do feel a little eggshell-y. Like if we're getting into any of these remote topics, like you really have to be really careful about what you say or like you're gone.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5450.58

Forever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5452.561

And so that's funny as a woman. I'm more scared. Like, that is more scary to me than, like, just strong, like, annoying emotions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5471.897

Yeah. Yes. Yeah. Anyway. Okay. So that's it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5482.33

Great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5516.318

It's very cute. Very, very cute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5525.02

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5528.001

Yeah, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5535.058

Yeah. I'm sure he'll come hang out with you anytime if he's around.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5541.599

If he's in town. Yeah. Dax and Eric Topol took a picture together. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5549.081

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5559.003

Yeah, really cute. Well, he's awesome. He definitely is more my speed. Yeah. As far as approaches to longevity and taking not as drastic of measures. And I just like him a lot. I used to reach out to him all the time as he brought up for fact checks.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5580.193

To help me out.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5584.776

I think the truth is I started taking fact checking less seriously.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5589.538

Like, I was really asking for real. Like, what, from a real expert, what is this? And now I just mainly rely on the internet.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5601.625

Yeah. We've increased our...

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5604.407

Output. So something's got to give. All right. Here we go. Now, he talked about Vioxx being pulled from the market, which he was.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5618.017

Yeah, which is incredible. And there's an NPR on this. Oh, there is? Mm-hmm. It's called Merck Pulls. Oh, it's from 2004. Wow. Merck pulls arthritis drug Vioxx from the market. Yeah, so this is when it was happening. Study confirmed earlier concerns that it raises the risk of heart problems, including heart attack and stroke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5641.804

It was currently being used by 2 million people worldwide and had been used by more than 84 people around the world. 84 million? 84 million, sorry. Only 84. 84 million. So good for him for sounding the alarm.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5684.107

Yeah.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5689.351

Exactly.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5697.997

It's more of a process of elimination. You said that, well, you said that men got AIDS over 9 to 1.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5706.942

In the 80s, yeah. I mean, yeah, it's still quite... The difference. Let me see. In general. This is current, though.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5722.774

It's still pretty.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5724.695

Yeah. In general, men tend to get diagnosed with HIV more frequently than women, though this doesn't necessarily mean they're more at risk. Whatever. We know that. OK. In 2022, men accounted for 81 percent of new HIV diagnoses in the United States compared to 19 percent for women.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5741.38

It says, whoa, it says, however, women are more susceptible to HIV infection than men and male to female transmission is more likely than female to male.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5752.119

Women's genital tract is more susceptible to HIV than men's.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5760.343

Lots of pores in there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5766.565

That makes sense. But then that is, why can't women, why are women not like giving it to men via their vagina? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5779.913

Right. But if like, if I got it from a man and then I had sex with another man, I'd be surprised.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5801.164

It would only work if a woman's vagina could have sex with the man's butt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5815.13

Can you kind of picture it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5819.211

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5824.213

Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5829.277

I guess the butt, though, it'd be really hard because the butt cheeks, like, to really get in there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5842.503

What's happening?

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5843.784

I don't know. Mom?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5846.365

Lincoln?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5850.406

Were you running?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5870.478

Okay, I'm happy to give you one. Where did you ride your bike?

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5896.426

On the verge of tears. In fact, you are about to cry. Seems like maybe we were right the whole time. Where'd you go?

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5917.892

That's too many.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5939.501

That's exciting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5943.602

Good job, Mom. I haven't ridden my bike ever. You know I don't know how.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5955.411

Don't make her cry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

5958.274

I know. I don't want her to cry more.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6025.353

They're so hard. They're kind of the hardest workout. They seem too hard.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6077.961

I'll take notes. Take notes. I did send in my proxy. Who, Birdie? No, it's like you have the two-year-old that lives across the street.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6130.562

There's like numbers in the letters, in the words.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6162.149

1, 8, 2, 5.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6186.145

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6188.987

We were discussing the play earlier. The two versions of the play. Alice in Wonderland Jr. Alice in Wonderland Jr. We were talking about, because you're, I don't know if you know, you're a professional actress.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

62.79

Yes, and I want to say his approach to longevity is different from a lot of people's approach that we've had on or talk about a lot of optimization. He's actually, I mean, he's like, with a lot of those people, but he has a lot of other opinions about it as well. Divergent. Yeah.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6202.127

And so when you watch the play, what happens? Do you think I feel bad for the kids that are very highly committed or do you not? Definitely not feel bad for them.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6313.539

So funny.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6318.921

That's lovely. Do you feel that way about sports? It's like if the kids are playing sports, is it the same like, oh, they're just like, it's fun and it's a beautiful thing? Or do you think we do more care?

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6339.371

If I'm watching it.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6379.653

Yeah, that's for sure. And I'm sincere about that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Especially at that age. Yeah. Do you feel there's a difference in sports and theater? I am a double Virgo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6425.597

Oh my God, what a challenge. Yes, I think I take everything very seriously. So when I'm watching anything, I mean, I'm mainly just laughing because it was just so funny. But yeah, so I am evaluating it like, oh no, these people care a lot and these people don't. And if I were them, I'd be like, why can't everyone just get their shit together? And... Do this, you know, care.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6454.325

And I would feel the same way about sports.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

648.242

And publicly, everyone knows about it. It's not even like it's hidden.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6488.087

Yeah. Yeah, I know. I know, but I do think your way of looking at it is the correct way. I do think that.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6497.691

Yeah, everyone's right. It's a way I would like to be doing it, I guess, is the better way of saying it.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6505.819

All right, well. I love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6513.306

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6520.382

Okay, bye. We're almost done. Love you guys.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6523.643

Okay, let's just wrap this up super quick. There's a fair amount of evidence to say that over 200 grams of protein or an excessive amount can lead to kidney issues and liver issues.

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Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6543.231

Oh, Medical News Today is where this one is from. But there's a few. There's Harvard, one from Harvard Health, one from University of Missouri School of Medicine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6557.683

Great. You said there's 13 pounds of microbes in a body. According to this, National Institute of Health, two to six pounds of bacteria in a 200-pound adult body. Because of their small size. But there are 39 trillion. All right. Well, that's it for Eric Topol.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6584.749

Yeah, he'll be back for sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6587.33

More gains and he'll have aged reversely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

6596.993

Yeah, he's going to have to reverse his position on protein probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eric Topol Returns (on longevity)

894.563

Do doctors get paid a lot less there?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, experts on expert. We are joined today by Dr. Mary Claire Haver.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1001.745

And the bearing children process will last them however long you want to say that window is.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1008.129

30 years? No. So pretty nuts. And maybe now's a fun time. Because I actually want you to explain menopause, but I think now would be a fun time to just talk about men versus women here.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1019.357

Because my father, at the same time that's being published about HRT for women, my dad is being advised to be on testosterone because his level's low and it improves his life. He goes off of antidepressant. It's fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1050.817

And we're not going to do anything about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1054.398

We're never horny again.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1075.386

And it'll actually increase her bone density.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1084.509

So, I mean, there's a lot in there.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1089.331

You can't underestimate the layers of sexism that exists within the fact that it would take however many years before we would acknowledge, oh yeah, women are really suffering from this. And they have a bunch of symptoms from a bunch of different issues arising from this and better to treat those than to get to the core of what's going on.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1144.968

That's when you're accelerating your loss of... Bone and muscle. And the eggs, right?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

115.724

She has really, really great videos that will be addressing all these little things that pop up. And also you could go to her website, thepawslife.com, which is a comprehensive approach to menopause education and support. This is awesome. She was rad. Yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1151.837

A million, though. That was a shocker to me.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1207.217

Is that in your menstrual discharge? Where are all those eggs at?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1229.084

I wrote it down. By the time you're.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1266.494

I bet you have a mix of emotions, validation and depression.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

132.97

Enjoy.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1368.69

She's frozen some eggs.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1382.798

It's combativeness with coworkers. Oh, my God. That's mental health.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1399.565

Okay, we should have done this at the beginning, but now I'm going to make you do it now. We're unique as an animal.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1446.232

There was a very predictable role for the grandma. She was passing on all this wisdom, helping with children. Now we have all these things. We have child care and we farm things out to strangers. And this whole role that once served our genetic fitness.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1468.146

Yes.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1488.936

Or grandma elephants, they're very involved in the ant system. They're very involved. And I guess too, would I be wrong to say this? I'm assuming childbirth gets more dangerous as you're older.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1511.835

So that's how we got there. We're kind of unique. As you say, there are a couple of other people, but let's talk about What physically happens during menopause? Let's talk about the endocrine system. What is it? What does it do? And how does it change?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

152.489

Lingua Franca. What is it?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1586.481

Crazy athlete.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1593.007

And is testosterone going up in preparation?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1604.813

It seems it would be evolutionarily advantageous if it upped your testosterone when you were fertile.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

162.737

Will you wait 39 seconds? Absolutely.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1652.469

Kickstart this system.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

170.924

I'm told it's a Wicked reference.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1736.049

Have you ever needed a baseline test prior to any of this for it to be relevant?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1790.717

Yeah, there's quite a big group of data.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

184.296

I love Galveston.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

186.257

I have.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

189.158

I used to work for General Motors and we had a car show there and our ride route ended there and we stayed at a very cool hotel. And each room was like kind of unique. You know the one I'm talking about?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1939.244

Okay, so 6,000 women reach menopause every single day in the United States. And there are only 2,300 providers certified in menopause medicine. So once this occurs to you and you're going through it and you start getting serious about your own reluctance to go through this, which is a great motivator, how do you approach it? What do you start looking at?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

1959.063

How do you even begin assembling what becomes the toolkit?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

200.564

Very, very nice.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

202.646

Yeah, very old. Felt like vampires would stay there.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2040.842

Okay, so as you start focusing on it and kind of pledging to get competent in it and start treating women, are you yourself even shocked with the amount of symptoms? Because I wrote down symptoms and it's about the longest list of symptoms I've ever written.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

206.108

And you guys moved there. You're from Louisiana.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2102.741

One of my mother-in-laws has been dealing with it for the last six months.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2159.441

How does that all work?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

22.204

This is a long time coming. Big time. Armcherry's demanded it and we have produced it. We actually leaned on Armcherry's to tell us who their favorite menopause expert was. Yes. And by unanimous, popular.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2217.606

Okay, so ringing in the ears?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2222.773

Yeah. I had it for a minute and I didn't know what to tell people.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2227.058

People kill themselves from it.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2253.01

Yeah, wow. What are some other symptoms? Dry skin.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2309.967

Dry mouth, that's the same.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2319.271

Guys, I don't want menopause. This is fucking miserable. Body odor, what's creating body odor?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2347.469

So when I first got a panel for testosterone, my overall numbers were like fine, not alarming. My free was super low.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2357.453

Yeah, I had the binding globulin.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2403.106

I smell like onions. My mouth is dry and I'm happy as a clam.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2433.26

They kind of peak there.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2438.982

Wow. And that should be the kind of transition in life where you're like, oh, I made it.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2448.084

That's heartbreaking.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2472.344

So decreased sex drive. I think this is also something that people have just taken for granted.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2480.328

She's holding up a zero for the listener.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2506.923

You're old. That's probably what you're thinking.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2532.121

Tell her to anesthetize herself so she can get through it.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2578.651

Is this common for sex to get more painful, right?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

264.02

And we love them both. Yeah, we do. Yeah, huge fan. You're one of eight.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2667.535

Yeah. Wow. Where's testosterone in the drive part?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

267.804

What did mom and dad do?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2697.222

Does that drop off?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

270.186

Well, clearly, yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

272.648

Yeah, yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2730.425

What does that do?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2740.947

Well, your clitoris becomes my penis.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2761.949

And the options for testosterone are?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2770.496

So right there, red flag. Ridiculous, right?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2784.006

Muscle mass, osteoporosis.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2895.79

They don't slowly dissolve at a predictable rate.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2925.087

Good tip. Okay. So back to, so we can do an injectable.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2931.73

You'll get really hairy wherever you rub it, but that's fine.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

294.26

That's why they couldn't keep their hands off themselves, because restaurant people party a lot and they're horny.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2948.713

I'll say I started on a cream. The only thing I didn't love about the cream is you have this dispensary for it, and you click.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2955.635

The amount that comes out per click per day did not seem very consistent to me. It seemed a little all over the map. I much prefer just an injection. You know exactly what you're getting.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

298.802

That's a whole lifestyle.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

2996.988

On your Instagram, you're a fan of those, right?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3022.982

You don't want something in there.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3024.943

You have an outsized fear of toxic shock syndrome.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

303.386

How do you choose obstetrician? Yeah, I want to say obstetrician.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3044.975

I believe I understand a lot about testosterone and estrogen and estradiol, but I don't know that I know a ton about progesterone. What is it doing?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3066.764

This is where some of those studies were misleading because they didn't compare.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

308.89

I can say obstetrician, but obstetrics.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3198.496

Okay, wow. Okay, so we really covered HRT, hormone replacement therapy. I'm so glad you're an advocate for it. I think it's insane that women have been just left out of this. What I have experienced being on hormone therapy, which has made me want to work again, made me want to do my hobbies again, made me mentally, and then my fitness, everything. All the things.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3219.175

I remember Kristen going like, this is bullshit. No. You're right. It is. This is insane.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3228.343

I have to police them.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3235.69

Well, I'll be clear. The general practitioners tend to still be pretty adverse across the board in my experience, but We have hormone clinics on every 10 feet for men. Most of them don't see women. So all one needs to do is go there. You actually need to police them, I think, is my tip to a man.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3259.002

Yeah. And you don't need to be at 1100. Yeah, I know. I mean, these women are coming in.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3268.428

Because women, what naturally in their thirties would hover around.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3273.672

So that's a good.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3314.23

Well, additionally, it's almost the wrong medicine for the arousal type that women are, which is like that's great for a man because a man sitting around thinking about wanting to fuck in an hour. And he's like, oh, yeah, I'll do this. Whereas a woman needs to be brought right into arousal.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3330.321

So it's almost like a counterintuitive solution.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3384.503

Right. So if you just kind of reverse engineer, as I understand, or if you believe Atiyah and I do, the best way to combat osteoporosis... Is to not get osteoporosis.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3395.148

Is to not get it. But your bones respond immediately to muscle and strain. So if you can work out heavy, you're putting a lot of strain on your bones and they will react. They will make themselves stronger. And for you to do a lot of strenuous and high intensity heavy lifting, you're going to benefit from testosterone with your muscles. They're all related.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3469.392

And all of these four horsemen are metabolic disorders.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3539.659

Boy, that's so true for my grandparents. The men just collapsed.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3544.701

And the women just struggled for five years and got crankier and more miserable.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3552.504

Okay, so we have diet, and I'm glad you're flagging protein.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3581.058

That's ideal.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3623.027

Yeah, it seems insurmountable.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3634.771

Of all the ologies you can do, kinesiology is not on my list.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3647.094

There's some real key ones that are super beneficial, particularly for osteoporosis.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3674.946

Hand grip strength's a big indicator.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3679.548

Right. If you do deadlifts, you will inadvertently get... Yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

369.285

What part do you think was so rewarding?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3701.209

So that's exercise, diet. Now, where do GLP-1s fit into this?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

375.931

Well, I wanted to dial in on it because two of my favorite experiences on earth are the second both of my daughters were born, holding them, looking in their face and going, welcome to earth. Like there is something so crazy.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3785.979

Yeah, because you're taking on a lot of risk of muscle mass loss, which is so important for your osteo. Although there's supposed to be a new one coming out.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

38.23

She popped up and she fucking delivered. I love her.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3805.97

Yeah, it's supposed to reduce the loss of muscle mass.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3844.107

Yeah. Or plague their children with. Protect the last 15 years of their life or 10 years of their life.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3852.378

As you might expect, my wife, knowing that I was interviewing you, had some specific questions. Are there any ways to predict when onset will be? Kristen heard your mother's sister can be a guide.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3913.336

My mom had one when she was 30.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3957.674

That makes sense. Okay, so ethnic is a predictor.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3964.738

But on your mom's side, is she right about that?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3969.2

She compared it to male pattern baldness, which we know comes from your mom. But I was saying, well, that's because it's on the 45th chromosome and you can only get an X from mom.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

3989.333

There's a couple of things happening. A, it was completely understudied, as you pointed out. It's beginning to get studied, but also we're seeing an art. What do you think about the impact of all fours?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4072.031

I haven't read it. I've been told what it's about from Monica, who loved it. To me, it's like I was prescribed a role I don't want or I want to test or I want to shake up or I want to break because I just prescribed it and now I want to decide. I don't want it anymore. That's so perfectly parallel to, hey, guess what? I don't want to live a third of my life in discomfort.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4119.751

To me, it's I've had enough on all the levels.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

415.674

You're also getting to be a part of the most intimate thing that a couple will share or one of them for us, for sure. Like, oh, my God, we made a thing and it's here. As opposed to a meter maid who has to give people bad news all day.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4164.488

How do we prevent ourselves from getting to the too late part, right?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4175.455

I think a lot of people think of HRT as being what you do after you have all the symptoms. That's the next wave, I think, is preventative.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4216.071

Why wait till you have all the symptoms?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4219.413

But there's no other condition that we don't think early detection and treatment is beneficial.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4235.823

And why? It's like some old vestigial Protestant suffering something.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4244.948

Oh, yeah. Whiny women.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4248.77

Early in her residency, they'd come to her and say, we got a WW in room 305.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4264.258

It's just a whiny woman.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4279.782

What is that? Pain. Oh, okay.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4333.61

They too.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4374.823

You're always shoving it down.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4388.71

My mom must have hit menopause at like 35 because she had a hysterectomy. She got the trauma, then the kids with trauma.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4397.276

That somehow is, well, I think it's trauma related, but yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4402.781

Your book's a bestseller, The New Menopause. You have the Mary Claire Wellness Clinic.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4409.987

You have many millions of followers that are interested in this subject. You were the person people wanted to come on the most. Yeah, we turned it over to Americans. Who's your favorite menopause expert? And you were voted on. You were elected.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4428.627

I don't know. We have a lot of women.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

446.033

Yeah, yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4482.494

Oh.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4487.138

Oh, it gets paid for by the donor.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

449.914

But not even, right?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4491.881

Oh, I like that. A little for you, a little for me.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4503.651

Yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4505.012

I'll be whispering that to my girls.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4507.875

Then the time clocks off.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4526.974

I mean, smart for them, too. They have someone in the prime of their career who doesn't want to necessarily take the time at that moment.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4550.382

It's ubiquitous and common knowledge to go like at 35, you're officially in a geriatric.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4571.475

You're trying not to get pregnant. It's counterintuitive.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

461.497

One one-hour lecture, right?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4630.39

You're very cute in your videos. I watched a hundred of them today and they're so cute.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4639.694

Who is this girl?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4647.617

We're grateful for you. Thank you. The women I know are so grateful for you. Big time. Yeah. So everybody, read the book, follow you on Instagram. This was awesome.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

466.941

And you pointed out, this isn't my realization, but we're going to do one hour to address a third of a woman's life.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4668.661

Hello.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4670.521

Oh, thank you. Instagram impulse buy.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4674.063

Got one in this color and one in blue.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4678.244

Marine layer.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4682.298

That's a place.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4687.365

I like this quilted thing.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4690.729

That's what we call. Well, what one's quilted for comfort? The toilet tissue.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4700.202

The Quilted Quicker, well, that's a paper towel, right?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4704.264

The Quicker Picker. This is a Mandela effect we've created. Wow. People are like, do you think there's a product called Charmin's Quilted the Quicker Picker Upper?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4718.652

Bounty, the Quicker Picker Upper.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4725.656

Charmin, Quicker Picker Upper. How's your morning?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4738.703

Okay.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4741.825

It is. You've signed up for a biweekly annual sitch. Yeah. Do they spice it up? Is it a different bouquet every time?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4751.01

So you have anticipation. What will it look like?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4758.294

They find a guy who just has one flower bed in his backyard. Very limited edition. Very limited. Extra, extra small micro business.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4769.416

Oh, that's the name of something.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

477.733

And it's not a couple weeks or a couple months. It's a third of their life we're going to just not worry about.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4771.538

Ranunculus? Mm-hmm.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4782.869

Yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4785.972

We just learned a fascinating fact from somebody. It's a rule in sketch comedy.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4793.379

It's not our rule.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4795.381

But if a man comes in to pick a woman up on a date in a sketch.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4800.485

Have him bring chocolates, not flowers. Because if you bring flowers, the audience starts getting very distracted.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4807.371

Oh, my gosh. You got to get those in a vase. Got to give them in water. And you can't even pay attention.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4814.136

Yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4820.182

Yeah, that sounds like a good gift.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4822.243

Yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4830.488

Oh, happy birthday, Callie.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4837.032

Right, the gift that keeps on giving.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4841.09

Oh, okay.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4843.532

That's the problem when you go with these micro growers that only have one flower bed in their backyard.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4848.334

Yeah, it's a really great idea, but then in practice.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4854.898

Okay, so I don't want to say this, and I just really can't control myself to not say it. Okay. Because I got to get out of the habit of, addressing commenters.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4870.306

Yeah, yeah. But I just want to make this simple point because people, you know, Jonathan Haidt will be on. So people will be like, You know, he's so anti-technology and he doesn't know and it brought people together and blah, blah, blah. Great, great, great, great. But I was just thinking, you know, what I like about our show is we have Reid Hoffman on. He's a techno-optimist.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4894.661

You get to hear the full sales pitch for why technology is great. And then we have Jonathan Haidt on and you get to hear the full sales pitch on why it's bad.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4905.283

And instead of being like angry at these guests who have a different point of view, I would really wish people would be grateful that they got to hear the counterpoint to what they believe. I mean, that's what I so enjoy about the show. Yeah. And guess what? I don't know which one I think. Yeah. It's like I half believe what Reed's saying and I half believe what Jonathan's saying.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4925.685

I don't agree with Jonathan.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4928.052

But I'm so grateful to hear a very smart person tell me the opposite point of view that I have. And I just wish people could click into like, yeah, that's a gift to hear someone with a different point of view tell you what the opposite side thinks. It's not shut that person down and get them out of here and I don't like what they're saying.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4949.07

Now, if we only had one sides of all these debates, I think that would be a pretty reasonable criticism.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4955.195

Yeah. That was burning a hole in my... Go ahead.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4962.863

Yeah, I want to hear it.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

4999.458

Well, some woman told me, I need to apologize for saying young men are disenfranchised. And I said, apologize to who? Like, who am I apologizing to?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

50.896

What was the main thing you said? Because I brought it up to some people, too.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5013.903

I know. I know. It's really tricky. Now, I'd say the good news is, like, I'm not going to change at all what I'm doing.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5022.346

So it's not like I'm subject to altering how I'm going to invite Jonathan on and invite Reid Hoffman on. It's going to have no impact on how I do the show. I think I have a—I do have maybe an— arrogant, delusional belief I could explain the value of hearing this and people might lock into it and go like, oh, you know what? I'm gonna stop blasting everyone I disagree with.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5047.326

It's okay to disagree with people. You don't have to hate them. Jonathan's a great guy. I totally disagree with a lot of what you're saying. So I have this stupid belief I can... encourage people to embrace this. And that's my own delusion.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5070.851

You're so right.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5074.275

No, you're absolutely right. And I do think about that. So like naturally, you're a nice debate about men and women. Obviously. Yeah, it was very polarizing. I expected that. And that's totally fine. And I get it. I get it from both. I totally understand from both sides. But yeah, it's like 50 people. You know, on either side, out of millions of people.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5116.476

Because I got wound up about it.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5120.317

But what's perfect about it is... It is a facet of this thing I obsess about without the comments.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5131.331

Right? So your big concern is women's reproductive rights, which makes total sense.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5137.917

Yeah, but it's like a very paramount concern, and rightly so. Yeah. And you'll think about that a lot, you know?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5144.964

I don't think about it on a regular basis. Oh, okay.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5149.198

And I'm regularly so scared about the inability for people to listen to one another.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5157.308

I'd like, think about it too much. And it really frustrates me and it scares me. I'm scared of the future where there's two camps on the planet and they don't talk to each other.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5171.609

Yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5197.458

Yeah, I guess probably dysfunction. I grew up in dysfunction. I grew up in two parents that hated each other till they got divorced, like dysfunction. Yeah. Not rising to one's best self to navigate these things. We have gotten embarrassingly dysfunctional.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5215.131

And I see the total root of the dysfunction is us against them.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5220.855

And I see that as such a toxic quality And I have children that are entering a world and I care about the world for them. So yeah, it really bothers me really deeply because my childhood was plagued by dysfunction and two people not communicating and it's winner takes all. And I hate that situation. It wasn't compromise. It wasn't working together to...

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5246.711

It was, you know, as I always say, the paradigm everyone needs to wrap their head around is we're married. The left and the right are married. We all live in the same country. And so we have a Gottman approach through this marriage or we have a fucking what's the famous War of the Roses version of this marriage. And I lived through the War of the Roses versions of the marriages. And so for me.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5268.604

I didn't want that in my life when I grew up. And then when I feel ensconced in a whole society that way, and then I put out a show and I see people saying, you know, heights of conservative, like they've just written him off. I think I've said this before, but it's like one time we went out to, and this is a ding, ding, ding, because it came up on an episode yesterday we recorded, but Ted Olson.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5292.406

you know, this... He was the most successful Supreme Court... He argued in front of the Supreme Court more times and more successfully than anyone else. And he... Very confusingly, from my perspective, both won Citizens United, which is a very right cause giving businesses personhood, but he also defeated DOMA. And he believed in both of those deeply.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5317.135

We had a dinner with him and there was three of us liberals and then him and... We started kind of hitting him with all of our points of view. And I said, hold on a second. We have an opportunity to be with one of the smartest people in the world who has a different point of view from us. What an opportunity to hear the best version of this point of view that I disagree with.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5348.525

Well, you'll find if you combat it, some of their pushback will make some of your points fall flat. And those are points you need to rethink or jettison or figure out another way. But as much as you can learn from them, you also learn the weaknesses of your own point of view.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5365.71

Which I like. I'm arguing with people all the time and I get to one and I'm like, that's not a good point. I got to get rid of that.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5423.957

I just wish everyone thought I have, I'm holding all my beliefs in my hand right now. And they're certainly not the best version of my beliefs. They're going to evolve. Hopefully. That's what they're supposed to do.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5436.926

So you don't have the complete finished version of your beliefs and your points of view in your hand.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5451.738

Flip-flopping.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5459.442

If you catch them having changed their opinion.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5464.105

Yeah. It's really disappointing.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

548.655

You've come to regret how many women were basically asking for your help. And in that paradigm, you pretty much were just turning people over to different specialists.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5499.4

But I think you're right. I think this whole thing feels like dysfunctional family to me.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5504.567

And I hate it.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5506.708

And I want everyone to be a bigger version of themselves, myself included.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5511.231

And it's disheartening to live in a dysfunctional family, which is this country.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5516.515

You know?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5527.802

All involved.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5530.044

The stepdads were miserable afterwards. Their children were miserable.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5570.471

And if I were you, I might want to challenge me by saying maybe everyone's happy with this, which is also possible, you know. Maybe right now the right's super pumped and they're pigs and shit. And the left is vindicated and validated and feeling even more self-righteous. Maybe everyone's getting exactly what they want out of this. And so that's an interesting thing for me to consider.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5596.141

Like you're trying to fix something that people will like. That's true. As much as they might not want to say they like this, maybe they do.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5605.345

Maybe the person that's like, Jonathan Haidt's a monster, felt awesome. Yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5609.987

And told nine of their friends they did that. And they love it. Yeah. It's hard for me to imagine.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5635.939

I will watch them exist and validate them without that approach. They don't need that approach.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5643.905

But I know I sound like, and that's why I said I didn't want to say anything. If I were in the audience, I'd be like, hey, shut the fuck up about the counters. Just stop reading. I fully get that criticism. And it's true. It is true. But yes, it is a perfect little encapsulation of this other thing I spend too much time obsessing about.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5665.72

And if I were really working my AA program, I would just accept this.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5673.19

I would accept this. But that's how it is.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5678.196

And if someone's attracted to my approach, that'll be appealing to them.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5683.6

More so than me saying someone should have this approach.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5688.083

And I should just have faith in that.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5692.369

Yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5715.881

People really dined out on her show.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5723.129

really hate strangers like it to me that is so interesting and then i was thinking i was like who do i hate well i think we're hardwired to do it right we're hardwired to extremely punish someone who has values and morals outside of our in group and make a make a emblem of them, right? So I do think when someone represents some, you know.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5753.81

I don't even know how they articulate why they hate her, but.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5756.552

She's interesting though. I have a story about this, but I want you to expound more.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5763.498

When they first, when you were going to ask if I hate her,

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5767.494

Oh.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5784.582

I hate a couple people in public. I hate Tucker Carlson.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

579.188

Sleep specialist for your insomnia.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5791.508

I just think he's a smug bully. I don't even really give a fuck about his politics.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5799.473

Is there anyone else? Like I'm trying to imagine, and if you're saying you hate them, you have to take it to the, like literally you hate them to the degree if you saw him in person, you'd go, you're a fucking asshole.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5811.061

And so I think the only person I can think of him that if I met him real life, I'd go, you're a fucking piece of shit.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5817.785

Would be him.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5835.655

Uh-huh. We've talked about this before.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5856.613

No, not at all. Yeah. Yeah. I think I used to say it too. I think that's one of the aspects of my life. point of view shifting of moving to California that I liked a lot.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

586.072

And then you yourself started going through menopause.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5867.226

I think when I was in Michigan, I had a very long list of enemies. You know, people we hated.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5873.25

A lot of people we were against.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5876.972

Wait, back to- Okay, back to Meghan Markle.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5879.374

So I saw, I didn't even see it, but I saw some of the Oprah thing. Right, I saw that.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5888.499

And a friend of mine from England- Like, let it rip on her. Like, can you fucking believe this? Just outrage, right? And so, and this friend, I really respect. Their intelligence, their empathy, the whole thing. This person's a very admirable person.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5910.006

And so I had to really force myself to imagine how could he have this strong of a reaction?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5918.211

And the scenario I painted in my head was, and I think I've already told you this, when Obama was in office, A Russian kid comes to the D.C., falls in love with Malia, takes her to Moscow. He and her go on their biggest television show and shit all over Obama and accuse him of being racist and just trash the country under the guise of this Russian dude.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5948.208

And I was like, yeah, I would fucking hate that guy. I would absolutely hate him. And there's a layer of patriotism that has to be acknowledged.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5958.167

That we all carry. And if I do think of that scenario, I just know I would hate the Russian guy who took Malia to Russia for the rest of her life and they go on TV all the time and shit on America. I would hate that guy. I don't understand the Americans who hate her so much, but I do understand the British backlash. They took the prize son. They all liked him more than the other one.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5989.168

But then I'd be saying Malia doesn't have a mind of her own. But if Malia left with this Russian dude.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

5997.015

And then went on Russian television and shit on America. I'd hate the whole scenario.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

60.862

It's very positive. It's like the most hopeful.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6025.721

A siren who called him to the rocks of America.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6044.312

But I think we have clarity on that one because we don't have the in-group patriotic bias.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6074.821

But really quick, if that... So I'm not talking about Harry and Meghan.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6081.543

I'm talking about this... theoretical Malia and this guy.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6086.184

I would go, oh, you hate the media? You're on the biggest fucking show in Russia. You can't hate the media and then willingly participate in their biggest media outlet.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6098.449

You're such a fucking hypocrite.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6100.85

That's what I would say to this imaginary people who's on the biggest media outlet in Russia complaining about media attention.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6112.518

Tabloids.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6118.221

I want to be clear. I understand why. I am not... None of this opinion is about those two.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6124.525

But I do have strong knee jerks about this theoretical defecting of Malia to Russia and being on TV, complaining about being on TV.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6146.322

Well, let's just say it's the scenario I painted is actually less impactful than the one that really happened because Malia was never going to inherit the presidency.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6157.668

Harry could inherit the kingship. No. Yeah, his brother would have to die.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6166.635

Okay, but the son dies. He could be the king.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6172.219

Okay. Would they give the kingship to a seven-year-old? I don't think.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6177.143

I want to do a little digging on this. Joffrey. There's no inheritance in the presidency. So the scenario I'm painting is even less impactful.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6201.633

But an outsider came in and then the beloved person left. And that's easy correlation to get upset about. I mean, look, I. Maybe Harry would have defected on his own without a wife that was American. That's possible. Yeah. But we don't really know because it didn't happen that way.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6238.465

Yeah, you got to protect them.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6246.532

Yes, but, so I already agree. I understand why he left and I would have left.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6253.263

A thousand percent.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6256.346

I totally understand why people don't like her that are English.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6260.711

It's not hard for me to understand.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6268.358

Well, they lost their cutest royal family member.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6276.346

But I understand something you value getting, quote, taken from you. I understand losing something you value. So it's like they do value that. I can't understand it.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6290.777

The notion of like royalty.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6335.049

I don't know that reference, but I'm laughing right now because the description was really funny. I just Meghan Markle. I didn't see that. So I'm not laughing at.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6363.834

Living paycheck to paycheck.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6372.121

Well, now I really want to watch this episode.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6377.948

Simple.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6408.254

Made it cute.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6415.141

Yeah, sure.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6417.923

Right.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6449.51

I bet the core thing that people are... triggered by is like, why does this woman get a show about the things she likes?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6460.349

Why don't I have, like, why would, I actually build bird houses.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6465.972

I actually do X, Y, or Z. Yeah. And I do think it's easy to think in some abstract way, she got something that you deserved more.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6475.876

As if her thing took from you.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6480.101

And that in general, people who don't deserve things are taking opportunities.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6485.325

That should go to deserving people.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6489.167

You can like quickly get into some very large moral imperative stuff.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

65.928

Okay.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6503.4

Uh-huh.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6517.01

I'm yes and no.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6519.43

I'm yes and no. There's like a nihilist version of me that I can tap into pretty easily, which is like, who's kidding who? We're all staying busy on this circular globe until we die.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6529.992

There's no God. There's no one is evaluating what should and shouldn't and better and worse. Like we're just all distracting ourselves in the most entertaining fashion we can manage until we're dead.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6541.895

So there's that version. What's like, yeah, what are you talking about? You don't deserve, you deserve for 300,000 years, you deserve to come out without clothes on and be ill-equipped for this world. In the best case scenario, you ate and had a kid.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6557.202

So the notion that at some point a TV show was a human right or a cell phone is a human right, or I hate to say it, that health care is a human right. These are all really, really incredible modern privileges.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

656.159

Did you know that was coming?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6572.647

Okay. And now also on the other side, yes, Brene Brown deserves a podcast more. than a lot of people because she has spent a good chunk of her life acquiring knowledge that is useful to other people. And yes, she does. I would have to be lying to say that the guy in front of 7-Eleven who's repeating the same sentence over and over again

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6600.268

It should have the same level of success on a podcast that Brene Brown has. I can acknowledge some people do deserve the success more than others because they've put more effort into it and they have more dedication and they have more skill. Jordan deserves his six titles more than a lot of the players. It's not like everyone who entered the NBA deserves six titles, you know?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

662.862

It kind of was abrupt despite knowing it was coming.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6651.194

Yeah, we're biased.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6656.875

If his one sentence repeated over and over again.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6664.077

Yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6670.118

Absolutely. But what I think is even more interesting is so I feel that way about that topic. But what I can admit and acknowledge is there's another scenario you could paint that is the same principle at hand. And I'll go the other way.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6686.752

I think that's what's much more fascinating and more fun to pay attention to is this illusion that I have a consistent policy.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6696.339

And what really happens is I look at the person and generally I like them or I don't like them on some weird gut level. And I'm generally accepting of the things that people do that I like. And I'm critical of the things from people I don't like.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6709.848

And I frame it under this. Well thought out logic I have.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6714.371

And it's just so inconsistent that I have to acknowledge.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6717.714

There's a lot going on.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6723.659

Oh, yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6759.058

Have I told you bees have rebounded?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6761.879

Yeah. Really?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6763.62

Remember that panic we were all in?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6764.941

They totally rebounded.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6767.432

Perhaps.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6768.593

So we all heard that accreditation.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6785.826

Well, there's probably that. And then there's also Martha Stewart.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6790.657

There's Martha Stewart who has spent her entire life really becoming a master at all these things. And then she has a show and by God, it's very, very helpful and useful to people because she's a master. And so if you're comparing these two people and they both have a similar size show, I can understand people being a little frustrated.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6809.497

It would appear that one person really is now benefiting from their dedication and love for their whole life.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6817.58

To something. That's a good story.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6821.621

Versus like, and I could do this. I'm not a good woodworker, but I bet your ass I could sell a show to Netflix tomorrow about me with a wood shop building things. Yeah. And if I was a master woodworker, I'd be like, this is bullshit. Why is it? And that would be fair. Yeah. And also, if I want to do a show about woodworking and I think it's fun and people are interested in it, why can't I do that?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6843.551

So I think all these things are true. So Kristen came home to me and she said, oh, my God, I got like five texts from people. Like they were salivating to share this news about Meghan Markle's show. And she started calling people out. Yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6861.653

seem a little too excited about what you determined was a failed attempt by somebody. If you're taking a lot of joy out of a failed attempt on somebody, is that who you want to be is the bigger question.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6876.922

And I also think it's worth delineating because I'm critical, as you know, I'm trying to shut the fuck up about it, but I am critical of people that are allowing someone to make them miserable. As I've said, right?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6890.988

If you've been miserable for nine years or an hour of your day is spent in anger, I just think that's a rough use of your life. Now, if you're seeing the thing, the Megan thing, and you're excited and you share it with your friends and you all gossip and you all have a good time doing that at dinner, I guess I'm not critical of that in a weird way.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

69.331

Just hear everything coming your way.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6912.644

I feel bad for the subject of the ridicule, but I also can just, again, in a utilitarian way, go look at, oh, these five people had a really fun dinner for two hours gossiping, which is an adaptation of social primates. Like we're wired to do it.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6929.272

I guess I also can go, yeah, okay, you guys had fun shitting on somebody. Everyone felt better for some reason about themselves.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

693.802

Shit. It must be so comforting to hear an OB be out to lunch on their own health. Yes.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6938.877

But if the end result was you all did that versus you all got together and you like, this motherfucker and I can't believe this. Yes, outrage and feeling defeated and overwhelmed and all that. I weirdly have a distinction between those two things.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6970.749

I want that bag.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6978.154

Because you're not frustrated with the outcome of your life.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6986.577

That's right. That's right.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

6989.718

That's right. And I do too. And I'm not as bothered by a lot of things that people are bothered by. And I know it's a privilege. What is so tempting to try to tell people is it is a product of your own. You think this person's objectively one thing.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7007.931

And it's helpful to understand, no, if my cup was full, actually and shockingly, I wouldn't feel the same way.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7015.376

And you kind of want people to know that because I think it is helpful for development, which is like, My opinions of things are dramatically impacted by how I feel about my own self and my own outcome.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7031.304

And I would probably be best served trying to love this version of myself enough that I don't feel anger when other people...

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7050.232

Solid.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7053.615

Get that topical vaginal cream, everybody. Go out right now and just start smearing it all over.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7068.849

Can I Easter egg that? I got the text of my life last night that I shared with you guys.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7077.108

I urge people to hang on to the show a little longer. I know a lot of people are thinking about quitting, but just hang out for a couple more months. Wow, wow, wow. Wow.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7087.931

I'm going to have to jerk off before the interview so I can last during the interview.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7092.052

Yeah. I'm going to have to wear really strong pants, not ones that can explode. You're going to have to be in fucking steel trousers. Might want to go short skirt. I say you go all the way. If ever there was a time to take the biggest shot of your life, you might want to go skirt.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7114.123

Bra-less see-through top.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7120.988

Oh, my God. If you did, and this person's a fashion icon, so they would just be like, oh, yeah, fashion.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7131.716

I think you should go.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7135.169

Oh, they could.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7137.69

Yeah, no problem.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7140.012

For him. Or her. Or her. Whoever our guest is. Wow. I can't wait for it. That's an even more fun element to think about is coming.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7151.478

Yes, yes. And how aggressive you'll be. And I just want you to know that I am encouraging you to go above and beyond the realm of what you think is tasteful. Okay. And you'll be sitting directly across from this person?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

718.21

So it's all in the blood work.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7180.603

I don't think so. Let me just give you some inside baseball, guys.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7187.569

There is no guy who's going to see a rockin' bot on display. And think, not for me. I mean, there'll be no straight guy.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7199

Who thinks that.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7203.966

Oh, my God. So you guys might end up.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7208.771

What a great time. And then you guys bring back Monty and Jess love boys, but it's like Monty and Jess are married.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7220.099

Well, no, you'd be fighting. All this fun you're having would quickly turn to fighting. True, true. So that could be entertaining.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7230.105

Yeah, that's exciting.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

724.052

I know, everyone your age does.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7285.327

And this is who... I could be conflating. I just want to be clear. The stuff I was saying that... Both Atiyah and Lane Norton are all over.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7297.618

Is Chlebowski and Eraz.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7300.06

They're the ones that keep doubling down on this bad data.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7308.61

Okay.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7325.535

Yeah. It was not right.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7329.938

And led to a mass panic.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7342.665

I don't know why that's so weird for me.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7348.566

It's weird, but obviously we were just given the explanation, which is menopause. But it is just not the time. You think that's the time of your life you start fully accepting who you are and what reality is and start transitioning.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7372.224

Yeah, that know when you're in the danger zone.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7375.785

Higher to the danger zone.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

738.919

Well, let's address that right now, because I happen to know way more about this than I should, because I love women. Well, I do love women. But Dr. Atiyah, I love Peter Atiyah. And he's been such a vocal supporter of this. But so all of this, the hysteria that you probably received was based on the work of two people virtually.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7383.568

MPB. Can I say one thing?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7387.129

I was eating at a restaurant this morning.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7389.57

With Nate.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7390.83

He left, I paid. Woman came over to the counter, or to my table.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7396.946

And she said, I just want to thank you for the Blaze episode.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7402.071

I have BPD.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7404.633

And I think that episode probably saved me like two years of my trajectory to dealing with this.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7416.063

No, I think she already knew. But she hearing from him something he did, you know, she's like it just kind of like fast forward or two years in the process. And it was very good for me to meet her because I think a lot of times you're like BPD. They fuck up the person's life who loves them. And you villainize them.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7437.318

And it was very helpful to look at this young woman who's so grateful for help for this thing she doesn't want. Yeah, I was very happy to.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7448.501

Yes.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7450.761

So fucking good luck, BPD survivors.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7469.062

Yes, yes, yes, yes. Yes, yes, yes.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7507.324

I'm fighting for my life.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7510.109

I think I'm doing fine in the battle, but I'm fighting with all I got.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7514.912

It's morning and night, that fucking topical that I hate. I hate how it makes my hair feel. Yeah. I got to hold my head back so it drips. It's embarrassing to see me at night in the mirror dealing with trying to keep my hair.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7530.283

What did he do?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7534.346

Yeah. What I really want more than anything- is for them to figure out how to clone hair. And I wanna go in and get my hair cloned and have massive surgery and get the thickest lion mane head of hair and have long braided hair like a Viking. And maybe I'll be in my Viking outfit for our guests and you'll be in your outfit and we'll let the chips fall where they may. Maybe I'll be wearing a kilt.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7565.378

We'll both be topless. I'll be in a kilt crossing and uncrossing my legs repeatedly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7573.211

Oh, this is great. So a 1970... We're doing the river dance.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7582.765

I know, this poor guest.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7609.445

It is something that came up in a Google search.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7621.959

I'm going to use another word I don't like.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7624.501

I'm on a roll. She's a rock star.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7630.499

Oh, okay. Yeah, sorry. The list is long. It's hard to keep track of all the things. Atelier, artisanal, rock star.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7642.743

That's a thing that like aggro dudes use to try to emasculate other men. They call them a cuck.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7649.326

Yeah.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7683.858

Should we have a t-shirt that says Armchair Atelier?

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7687.24

Yeah, I was just repeating what you said. Just doubling down on what a great idea that you had.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7694.024

Hey, hey.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

7696.105

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

79.983

I've been telling people about the topical vaginal rub. Sure. That's what I was most interested in.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

806.266

Which is a huge issue already right there if you're not combining the two. Right.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

867.382

Really quick, the reason it was kind of irrelevant statistically is that the control group had an abnormally low rate.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

87.088

Okay. So Dr. Mary is a certified menopause practitioner from the Menopause Society. She is a board certified in obstetrics and gynecology specialist and a certified culinary medicine practitioner. specialist and a bestselling author. Two of her books, The New Menopause, which is hugely successful, and The Galveston Diet. I urge everyone to follow her on Instagram.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

875.286

Which was not even considered.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

881.109

Schlabowski, Aragoski.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

887.012

Just recently, they're back at it.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

954.337

And in pre-study, it was at 40%, which you said.

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Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

972.195

There's a great bit of context around this. So you start having the symptoms. You decide you want to do some investigation in this. In your investigation, you quickly find out. If you were to search medical peer-reviewed articles and journal entries about pregnancy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mary Claire Haver (on menopause)

987.915

And if you look at menopause at that same period, 94,000 articles written.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, Experts on Expert. I'm Dan Shepard and I'm joined by Lily Padman. Hi. Today we have Dr. Allison Wood-Brooks.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1039.958

Yeah, I wrote down, you said, while strategic and technical skills can help people get ahead in many ways, being a successful person is about relationships and relationships are about talking. And I guess I wonder, did you kind of feel like the previous work in communication and negotiation felt maybe a little too calculated or manipulative?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1058.203

Even when I have people on that'll be like how to talk to the right or how to talk to the left. I'm like, the underbelly still feels like the ultimate goal is to get someone to believe the things you do, which I think fundamentally I'm against.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1109.264

So you took all these conclusions and then you wove it into a class you call Talk, How to Talk Gooder in Business and Life. I don't know where you got that, but what a stroke of genius it is. How to Talk Gooder in Business and Life. But it became hugely popular. It's a heavily impacted class at Harvard. And you've taught a thousand students over the last four years.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1130.915

You were invited to be a consultant to the Celtics. Wow.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1139.478

You found your way to the Celtics as a basketball player.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1145.359

Talk is a practical guide to having better conversations in a variety of settings. Work, parenting, dating, trying to make connection. And so my first question is, do you think we underestimate the complexity of conversations? I think we all just are like, yeah, conversations. I know how to have them. I'm having them all day long. Chin wagging. I might underestimate...

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1164.984

Actually, what an abstract and complicated thing a conversation is just on the surface.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1196.214

It also has the illusion of being innate, which it's not.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1199.375

It's like reading. It's this very abstract thing. I'm making a bunch of noises to transfer the thoughts I have inside of my brain internally into your brain internally. And you're going to respond in a way that you'll transfer your thoughts. That is crazy. highly complicated.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1247.366

that great right so i guess in just thinking it's innate you might not think that it's something that you could approach mindfully with a tactic i like that you say people will put 20 minutes into planning their outfit to go meet someone everybody yeah and they'll put zero thought into when i arrive what will i talk about what topics do i bring up you don't give it any thought

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

127.327

I have half of that. I don't ever have the class I'm trying to take. Okay. I have the like, what happened? We're mid-semester. Have I gone to any classes? Yeah. There's a final. I wake up on set a lot where I'm directing something I haven't read. Right. I'm like, oh my God. It's ill-prepared anxiety.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1282.536

Right. You just take for granted it'll just happen.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1285.837

And then the dates suck.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1311.36

You say it's the myth of naturalness.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1346.259

Well, I love that you're contrasting it with the other amounts of effort you put in. No one's thinking like, well, I'll just naturally look good. And if I don't naturally look good, it's not a fit or I'll naturally arrive there. No, none of these things are going to happen. So would you give me a little historical context for conversation, how we thought of conversation, how it's evolved?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1367.213

I was kind of fascinated with the power dynamic of a monarchy and how that affected things. How has our idea of a conversation evolved?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1398.107

Or they even do these super fascinating things. Well, yes, they'll find a necklace of fox teeth and then they'll do the actual math of how long it would take to procure that many teeth and then string it and all the work that would be involved. And what you have to acknowledge about this necklace is that it was a group effort.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1423.555

You have to be able to tell them, here's what we're making. We're gathering teeth because we're going to make this object.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1430.239

Don't have to lay out a game plan.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1475.62

Yes, we love Kant.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1496.57

He couldn't even get a professorship. Blew my mind. He lived in boarding houses and he was like a sub teacher, basically.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

150.199

You should add it. Yeah. You should incorporate it. Yeah. Please enjoy Alison Woodbrooks.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1546.389

He curated the guest list. So you wouldn't have five physicians. You'd have a physician. You'd have a clergyman. So it was going to be an eclectic group. There were some grounders, right? No interrupting, no monologuing, no arguing.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1571.207

Take the ideas or leave the ideas. You don't have to defeat them.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1615.93

What you're first describing is that mixing in the class is hugely impacted by the move from rural life to city life. You live within a stone's throw of the rich person.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1635.65

The boundaries really fell apart. So your framing of this is to think of conversation in terms of a coordinated game, which you take from game theory. Tell me what a coordinated game is.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1675.695

Janusz von Neumann.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1716.437

The Stanford Prison? No.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1722.519

Wow, you're good.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1726.98

And I told her I don't care.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

174.335

Most people who love Diet Coke will acknowledge it does seem to be a bit of an addiction.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1741.184

The shock we just learned about.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1743.705

That was in England.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1753.648

You flipped them?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1755.189

Oh, my God. Hoisted by your own baton. And you were celebrating, and I congratulated you. This is wonderful.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1762.992

You were right. Okay, so Zimbardo did.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

191.778

Yeah. It's their over-the-counter Ritalin.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1946.068

Yeah, this is great.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1956.016

You are also incentivized to cooperate.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1961.92

I'm trying to measure it in a utilitarian way. I feel like both people with a reduced sentence is still better.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1986.347

Russians have a weird outcome in this game.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

1989.128

I wish I could remember the source because it'll just sound like xenophobia. But yeah, one of these many books that has talked about the prison experiment talked about how Russians asymmetrically will punish even when it costs them.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2035.762

Right. You couldn't have film cameras running, although your hometown would love it. Kodak would still be thriving. Yeah, we needed a digital revolution.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2072.945

I know what the answer to this is.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2080.894

I unfortunately know too much about it.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

209.736

I want to see a link to the... The data? Yeah.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2099.309

Yeah, same.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2105.205

That's exactly what I thought.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2108.747

The New York one, a lot of people will say the Empire State Building. It's a landmark. Let's say the Brooklyn Bridge. But there is a right answer.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2121.015

Yeah, so there is a kind of a high probability. It's kind of a riddle. It's a little bit.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2132.623

The first thing you think of when you think of New York, I'll go there.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2172.731

It's almost incredible we can communicate.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2177.694

Almost everyone can relate to some social anxiety, the fear of small talk, being in an elevator, and that is all present. But in general, it goes shockingly well. It's the anomaly you hear two people screaming at each other on the sidewalk.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

22.202

She is a behavioral research scientist and professor at Harvard.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2340.126

Thank you.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

237.449

I don't know that. Is that the case?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2388.613

Thank you.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

239.871

It's funny you say that because you have a reference in the book. You chose an artist and I was like, that's a young artist.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

247.956

Yes, you talk about her video to describe context.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2502.577

Thank you.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

254.62

And I was like, wow, you have three children. I don't know your age.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2565.194

Thank you.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

259.602

Congratulations.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2630.762

Thank you.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

265.731

Where are you from, Allison?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2722.449

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

280.72

Okay, so what's really exciting, and it comes up quite often, this topic, and in fact, we are in search of a great twins expert.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2845.638

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2895.707

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

29.486

Harvard Business School.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

291.646

I think you're too close to it to be an expert.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2954.317

It's funny what a nugget of wisdom improv artists have. stumbled upon because you even reference it in your book. Using the improv rule of yes and not no. Should we play this game? I feel like we should.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

296.888

Sarah is your identical twin. Yes. I don't think I ever really considered this. It's adjacent to self-awareness. We all strive to have a good deal of self-awareness, but you articulate it in the book and I wouldn't have considered this as you also have like an external version of self-awareness where you get to watch her move through the world and try things and see how they react.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2967.549

I'll be the, do you want the switch?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2970.992

Where'd you get that switcher?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2975.777

Do you go there a lot?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2978.48

Oh, what took you so long to check it out?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2982.784

What are you busy doing?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2986.286

What do you do?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

2999.074

I don't like that sweater.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3019.584

Well, I knew the answers to what she did for, but I didn't know that was her first time.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3024.705

And I don't know why it took you so long. I would have thought you've been there a dozen times.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3046.908

I'm still in the middle of it, so I don't know how I'm doing.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3057.913

I would say four.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3061.958

Yeah, cutting my hair compulsively and I'm exercising compulsively and I'm trying not to blow my nose, which is new.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3073.948

I got convinced that I don't actually have allergies, that I've just injured my nose from blowing it so hard. And then it's sending white blood cells to repair it. And then that is snot that I have to then blow really hard to get out. And then I'm just caught in this endless pattern of damaging and repairing. And I feel like I just have to stop for it to end.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3094.224

Oh, like a motherfucker.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3104.741

Yeah, it's hard.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3106.841

Where did you get your pants?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3110.682

Okay. Do you notice what all the other moms are doing? And do you feel like you pick up on like, I'm not sure what pants I'm supposed to be wearing, but somehow everyone knows. How do you pay attention and figure it out?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3134.753

And do you have to factor in your age?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

316.877

That's very peculiar, isn't it? In an interesting way.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3163.668

Okay, so here's a calculated question I would ask. And I realize how I operate in thinking of this question, which is I would go, have you taken too big of a swing?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3189.224

Okay, so you haven't like arrived at a restaurant and been like, oh boy, I went too young with this thing.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

32.85

HBS. She has a new book out right now called Talk, The Science of Conversation and the Art of Being Ourselves. She is an incredibly good guest.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3203.236

No, no, no. So I know that the kind of questions I ask, I want to get to a time you got embarrassed.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3210.462

Because that's vulnerable.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3219.767

But I want to get to the point because I think what's very bonding in a fast pass is as soon as we can get vulnerable. So if I can get to the point where you went too far.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3247.662

To me, it's such a fast pass to like, oh great, we're both now laughing at the time I tried to wear combat boots and you tried to wear this. We've just broken through a layer and now I can kind of live here.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3305.428

You trusted me and then I deserted you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3315.737

We're getting so off topic, but this is really interesting. I think when I have to do my own sexual inventory, as you have to do in AA, and I think about times I've been irresponsible or not, I think what I underestimated sometimes is it came very easy and natural for me to have those kind of conversations with women. And for a lot of those women, it was such a unique thing.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3338.547

They had only experienced with someone they were deeply in love with. And I do think it was quite misleading at times to women, which I fear in their reflection felt like manipulation or something. But it's just kind of how I am.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3353.538

Yes. And I think it fast forwarded. It's kind of like this thing we learned about in England where the GIs got all these English girls pregnant. Americans kiss really quick. English don't kiss for a long time. They jumped ahead 10 steps.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3368.79

A lot of people will associate that with a very unique kind of relationship they've only had once and it was love.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

338.993

Are you mere twins? Is one of you left-handed and one right?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3402.919

and skipping ahead and accelerating a relationship development is one of the pros one of the downsides is it really does make you more vulnerable to heartbreak or exploitation essentially yeah i have this in male friendships a lot too and this runs the risk of sounding arrogant but i have observed it and it's real which is a lot of guys are comfortable telling me things they generally won't tell other guys which is an incredible privilege and it's beautiful

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

341.875

Oh, bummer. See, that's one of the things I need to answer. How many people are like that?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3426.96

But I may be the only person they do that with. And so I'm kind of their best friend. And then maybe they could feel hurt because I don't have a capacity for 150 best friends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3468.806

Yeah, I don't see the future solution being I'm less connected and a safe place to chat. It's that I think there's more options for those people to have that experience with multiple people. That's the positive future is that there's a lot more dudes that are willing to chat about that stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3488.316

Okay, so asking questions, we got that. But I do want to ask what a boomer ask is. About myself, I'm shriveling with embarrassment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3511.094

It can be even more grotesque and direct. You can go like, have you ever been to Tibet?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3517.6

You ever been in a fight at Franklin and Highland? Yeah. I'm clearly just trying to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3533.898

God, I hate that I do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3563.459

It's a huge development.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3580.892

You're open to hearing I've had a similar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3607.745

Understand if I... You wonder what's better. Come out and tell a story you want to tell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3647.289

What's a gotcha question?

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3659.316

Or leading them.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3688.895

Allison, you can't imagine how many people who only know me from acting will see me at the airport and they'll go, what do you got coming out? And then I go, I have a podcast. And they don't have any sense that it's successful. But they are really asking, though. They feel so bad. That's not a gotcha question. What they're really saying is I like watching you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

369.053

Would you feel like an internal embarrassment when she would embarrass herself?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3708.566

I want to keep my eyes out for something you're in. But when I say I'm busy doing a podcast instead of acting... They get upset? I think they feel really bad for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3749.929

Okay, let's get to levity. Probably my favorite part. I could see where people wouldn't prioritize levity.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3757.672

Oh, please.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3780.12

Yeah, thank you.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3785.582

No, I was trying to do a really thorough and honest assessment of the motive behind that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3793.765

I think the thing that might be truest under all of it is it is my tool to... to both let go of power and maintain power. By being vulnerable and honest, I'm giving away my power and I'm scared. But I always have the skill set to steer the reaction if necessary. I do think it's my way of controlling how vulnerable I'll be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3854.184

Yeah, because when I tell you something that's very revealing, I get immediately scared, as I think most people do. And it's broader than this room. So my mind can't help but imagine however a million people take the thing I just said. And then I can take the legs out from it if I want to at any moment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3893.823

It's really interesting. I also think it enables you to take big swings because you can neutralize it. I think of Jess. Jess is very, very funny. He's also very, very provocative. So he's saying really provocative things. And if they go sideways, he's great at acknowledging they went sideways to then release the pressure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

391.252

Yeah, you said there's like a combination of things that were helpful. One was being able to see how you seemed in public, but then also you guys had constant unfiltered feedback.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3936.252

Okay, kindness. And this is where we really get into listening. I feel like this overlaps a bit with asking questions, but why does it deserve its own category?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

3976.893

Could you give me an example of respectful language?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4109.793

You're not a terrible, flawed person. You're not broken. You did something a lot of people do. And we got to make sure you wake up with your family for the rest of your life. How do we get there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4138.114

Eye contact.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4162.484

Neurotypical neurodivergent is a false dichotomy in and of itself. This binary notion. We're all on this weird spectrum with varying degrees of adeptness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4176.721

There are people who are not neurodivergent, who are very uncomfortable with eye contact. I talk to them all the time. There are any number of things that they might be struggling with. They don't go to fucking dates with topics. They're just going to let their neurotypicalness take over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4190.224

Okay, now, when you get into a group conversation, it gets more complicated. That seems pretty obvious. But I did want to talk specifically about the status hierarchy effect of a group chat and how it changes within conversations.

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4280.51

Well, these companies have levels.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

429.93

And is she a professor?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

436.618

I never thought of that either. You could only give so many compliments to your identical twin before.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4377.318

You probably don't want to be ensnared in this, but I can't resist right now. I constantly talk about this. I think status is what we are most conscious of at all times. I think it is driving so much of everything. I think it's just baked into being a social primate. I don't think it's escapable. I think there's a lot of... Young people who think the solution to this is the eradication of status.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4402.959

Even these movements I see like main character energy versus supporting cast. All the movement is to get rid of status. And to me, it's just like saying, let's get rid of being bipedal and walk on all fours. We have to acknowledge it's there, accept that it's there and figure out how to navigate it best. But the notion of obliterating status...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

442.061

It would sound indulgent and narcissistic. You're like, she's beautiful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4438.034

Yeah, it sucks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4464.689

Whether we're conscious of it, it means more food and safety.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4469.892

Yeah. Okay, I'm going to jump to apologies. And I got to give credit to AA. There's a few things that it forced me to do. I had to embrace the dogma. My favorite thing is the fourth step I've talked about here before, learning to actually take an inventory of how you feel and what fears are being triggered. That's been so incredible to understand. But...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4490.743

Being forced to say apologies, make amends, and then getting the experience of delivering some of those and finding out the reaction's not at all what you're afraid it'll be. I don't know how anyone else learns that unless they're in a program that demands it. As The 10 Step, we have to do that daily. It's not just, oh, what you accumulated as an addict.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4511.36

It's like daily, how has my behavior maybe impacted someone negatively? And I have an obligation to clean that up because if I don't clean that up, I will have low self-esteem and hate myself and I will use. So it's imperative. And through practicing this for 20 years, a few truths have emerged. One is this never goes bad like you think it's gonna.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

452.388

Yeah, you got to be careful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4530.044

And then what you realize immediately is like, oh, no one's getting apologized to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4534.385

Because the reaction to most people I make amends to or apologize to is shock.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4546.242

Almost unanimously understanding, comforting, and touch that you did care. I think what people want to know is that you acknowledge that was hurtful and that you're not someone that is disposable, that they don't worry, that they've upset.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4591.789

And he would bounce back to moms a lot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

460.393

So your hair is naturally curly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

462.974

And you chose to straighten your hair. So you were doing things to try to carve out some individual.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4658.553

My kids are great at it. Maybe the thing I'm most proud of my children.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4670

What did he apologize about?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4682.488

Because boys are dumb.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4701.298

You're welcome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4742.824

I won't ever forget it, Kevin. I will never forget.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4757.049

It's more powerful than I love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4762.611

It is the action of loving someone, not just the words.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4774.514

I know how hard it is for me. And they just did that. They fucking love me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4794.833

It's fucking awesome. It's so hard. And I wish people could just practice. Monica will say, I've gone too far. This is one of my favorite stories. This house has been worked on for seven years, right? That's how long it took. And we lived here through lots of the construction. And I had all my car chargers plugged into this one extension cord. And I came out and guys were working.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4814.098

They were sawing. And all my chargers were unplugged. And I was late to bring the girls to school. A bunch of things had piled up. And my reaction was devastating. don't fucking unplug my shit. I fucking, there's an instinct. Like I really lost it. And I dropped the girls off at school and I'm like, ugh, I feel terrible about this. These guys are working their asses off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4834.486

I'm an entitled rich person. How ugly of me. I've got to say sorry. Come back. And I'm like, guys, guys, there's like nine or 10 guys working. I just want to say I'm really sorry about how I talked to you guys. None of you deserve that. I know you're working really hard and I'm so sorry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4851.995

And what was funny is this apology went on long enough that I did recognize, oh, this is more painful than the shouting was. This like male on male vulnerability is actually making them want to throw up more than the yelling did. So then I was like, I got to make sure my apologies are serving the people I'm trying to apologize.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

486.52

And you're a three-point shooter and she was a mid-range shooter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4920.541

And really curb your behavior.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4925.908

I was going to say that's one upside of having to do a 10 step as well is that I'm sometimes on the verge of blowing it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

493.325

Okay, so you both played basketball. It must have been so fun when you guys came to schools in junior high and people were like, there's twins on this team.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4934.418

Yelling at somebody. And because I'm about to let it fly, I go, I'll be apologizing for this. So weirdly can curb your behavior too if you're in a real habit of doing it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4967.161

You just hope you don't get physical when someone breaks your nose. That's about the best you can do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4978.396

Well, Allison, this has been a blast. I hope everyone checks out Talk, the Science of Conversation and the Art of Being Ourselves. And I'm really jealous of everyone that gets to take your class.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4993.407

Oh, it was so fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

4997.31

I want to interview Sarah now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5000.032

I want to see how different she is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5004.516

I want them to both come in with the goal of tricking us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5010.503

It would be like a sociopath we interviewed. I never know what's what. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

504.033

Yeah. There is this added layer of like, you like a boy. If he likes you, I don't know, conceivably he'd also like. Was there anything tricky there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5085.61

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5180.959

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5248.067

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

528.007

And are your current husbands similar?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5395.951

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5444.631

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

551.927

Did you ever feel inferior to her or superior or both?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5538.217

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5594.855

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Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5835.81

Meaning Kristen pegs me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5842.085

I don't think that would constitute a bottom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5847.333

Because the top is often on bottom and the bottom's on top.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5861.172

In the homosexual community. Yeah, they can receive that penetration on top or bottom. So I'm saying I can't really be a bottom in Kristen and I's relationship. Whether I'm in time and space on top or bottom, it would have to involve some penetration.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5880.673

In the tops on bottom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5884.962

Yeah. So we could do a shirt that explains all this because maybe a lot of people are confused. No, thanks. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5897.376

We could call it top bottom and it's a bottom on top.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5907.283

Which kind of looks like a butt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5912.646

Cherry on top sounds good sexually, though.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5929.123

That's straight as hell. A cowboy riding an enormous penis.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5940.385

I'm pointing out the hypocrisy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5942.647

Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I think people who are straight don't want to declare that they're gay. And I think gay people don't want to declare they're straight. And I don't think men who identify as men want to declare they're women.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5957.619

Yes, yes, yes. It is. It's an adorable shirt. I really like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5966.586

Again, I blame cake boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5976.512

Well, let me ask you this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5980.895

Right. So what if I made a shirt that said Tim boy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5984.678

What do you think of? Be honest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5990.267

Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

5991.911

I would think tomboy. Oh, I think, oh, it's some other now version of tomboy, but now we're saying Tim boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6019.166

Do they have their own acronym now? I think they do. The COVID Gen Z acronym.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6027.151

Oh, yeah. Something like that. Also, my beef with Gens now, I may have already aired this. Okay. It used to be like Gen X covers from 1968 to 1983 or something. It's like this 20-year window virtually. And there's been seven Gens since Gen X. I know. It's like you entitled, all you entitled millennials wanted your own generation every four years. I don't even know what I'm saying. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6055.673

But yeah, it's this increased uniqueness where they need their own gen every year they were born.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6066.975

That's a good argument.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

607.12

It's fascinating. It really is. So you went to Princeton for undergrad, and then you went to Wharton for graduate school. What was the undergrad degree in?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6085.043

So maybe there's legitimate reason for... Breaking it up more. Yeah, because every two years, the world's completely different. I think so. All right. Well, I'm learning a lot in this episode.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6099.066

Okay. This is The Matchmaker?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

61.442

You actually put no time into planning how you're going to converse.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6109.61

With an option that didn't make you feel sad about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6121.415

You and the candidate. Yes. Not The Matchmaker. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6132.992

Right. Well, you guys sound both type A. He's got the funds to get a matchmaker.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6167.346

He said he was on the West Side?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6176.753

Oh, my gosh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6178.254

Do you think he's been killed?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6216.624

Well, two things could be happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6218.185

Some of it could be that. What I like about no is I'm not going to be playing along with this role as you as the boss and you can call me in six days when you remember. Yeah. So I won't participate in that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6231.735

Go see me for six days, checking in and going, we still good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6236.539

That's a no. I would if let's just say if a woman did that to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6240.7

I don't even know if I'd respond to the follow up in seven days.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6245.902

But I do like that you said no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6259.127

You left room for him to apologize.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6291.969

It was interesting because I. So first of all, that was much nicer than I was expecting. And I even nicer than I think he deserves.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

630.451

Behavioral economics. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6300.113

I might have been really direct. No, you can't ghost me for six days and then ask, are we still on tomorrow? That's not for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6307.957

And then allow him to mount a real apology because he owes you an apology. Not, hey, I lost track of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6321.502

Maybe he was in surgery for six days straight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6331.745

But I'm impressed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6340.362

Sure. Yeah, that's one. That could also be it. But that would be like the least generous version, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6361.532

All the more reason you got to say absolutely not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6369.336

But I just wanted to be a little more clear than, it's not that you just made plans.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6373.938

It's a no because you can't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6376.059

You can't go seven days and then check in to see if we're still good for tomorrow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6380.361

That's not how I operate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6383.322

And not even hurt feelings needy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6386.603

Like, that's a.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6403.395

Well, I don't think there's good or bad. This is a version of.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6421.539

Yeah, with the matchmaker.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6425.039

Yeah. It's hard for me to not. I have to really fight being judgmental of someone that would be using a matchmaker.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6436.473

No, the man. Well... Because, you know, why do I want to be... I want to say you can't farm out that activity. Like, you can't just pay your way into that. It feels like a call girl service a little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6454.427

Yeah, you guys are just both mutually looking around and hoping to find somebody, I guess. There's something about... farming that out to somebody. Yeah. It feels a little entitled. Like I'm a busy person and I'm just going to have them go fine. I like this, this and this. I'm acknowledging that I'm trying to fight through that. Yeah, because I think there's a lot of versions that are not that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6490.176

You know what it feels like if you were at the Four Seasons and you called the concierge and said, I need a date tonight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6495.731

Like calling the concierge to get you a date is a little bit the, when I want to be judgmental of it is what it feels like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6505.778

And they don't deserve you, anyone that would call a concierge to get you. Okay. Can I just say that? Yeah. But again, I can imagine Bill Gates, who I worship, going, I need help. I always get help from experts when I don't know what I'm doing. So why wouldn't I go see an expert to help me find love?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6527.419

When I paint it that way and I make it a real person, then I'm sympathetic to it and I'm supportive of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6640.047

If you can work your way into my life, we've got a deal. Exactly. That's what's being triggered for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6656.397

Yes. I think I could create the statement that would perfectly sum you up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6662.679

Indulge me. Okay. I'm very unattractive and I'm a hell of a catch. This is your story about yourself. I think you think you're unattractive and I think you think you're a hell of a catch, which is the thing we're talking about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6684.272

Okay, great. That's better than I was expecting you to say. What?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6703.948

Yours was worse. I'm ugly, but I'm a fucking catch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6713.156

By the way, that's kind of what mine is. That's what mine's been since I was like 15. Like, yeah, I'm not much to look at, but I'm a fucking catch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6733.246

Right. You're a catch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6738.287

If you could get the first end of that thing addressed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6749.313

Yes, because you're also right in your honesty that you're also carrying a lot of baggage of insecurity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6757.462

And you're looking for reasons to save yourself the embarrassment of not being chosen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6762.748

So that's really happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6764.943

And it's strong. And I think if you felt hot and you knew you, I mean, you know you've got a great career, you know you're super smart, you know you're personable, you know you're good in a crowd, but you know all the other things. You're not insecure about any of those things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6779.968

So if you just added that I'm hot, I don't think your mind would let you go to a place that you're not gonna get picked. Even if something didn't work out, you would go like someone with great self-esteem that wasn't a match.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6794.867

It's not that I wasn't picked or I wasn't good enough. It's like the audition where it's like, yeah, you are a better actor than so-and-so, but they're fucking Chinese and I need a Chinese guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

68.428

Yeah. And it's not disingenuous to use them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6820.928

But you're in a zero risk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6825.69

And I don't say that to be mean. I say that to be that's a really good part of your counter narrative CBT training, which is like. I'm not risking anything. But I think if you had those other components, I think you would, because there's also this kind of self-fulfilling prophecy, which is like, you're not actively going out there and spotting someone and making it fucking happen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

684.352

We got into a little bit of a chat about the validity of these telepathy tapes thing that's going around. We were using ourselves as examples because we're both quite good at predicting what the other. I'm more inclined to think it's just pattern recognition. And I also think if you, A, observed your sister her whole life, so God, you've seen her react to every way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6848.132

So you're in the incoming call business. And guess what? You don't love the incoming calls. And then also you didn't select them and there's all, but if you had those other things, it wouldn't be about like, who's going to knock on your door one day. You're like, every time you saw someone that interested you at all, you'd be like, oh, I'm going to go make that fucking happen right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6866.909

What's up? What are you doing? Do you like coffee? Do you like bagels? Here's the things I like. And I cook. You would hit them. And if they didn't respond, you wouldn't give a fuck because you're like, I'm hot and I got a great career and I'm everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6887.194

And I think most people don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6889.98

And I think a lot of people are afraid to go pursue someone they want.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6896.046

I think my success in life has solely been as I wasn't afraid or I overcame my fear to go say hi to everyone at the bar that I liked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6904.513

I just got in there. And these other guys that they probably would have rather been with just never came up and said hi to them. And they were stuck with me. But I'll take it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6931.252

It is, accidentally.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6940.098

Or am I wrong? Or am I wrong?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6946.201

You ever get to the face?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6958.257

I think you're a bit wrong about that. Look, I'm not one that would deny there are things happening on a primitive level, which is like symmetry. We know these things are real.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6969.946

We know fertility is somehow deduced by looking at, like things are happening that I will not be a denier of. In fact, I find it annoying when people pretend.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6981.411

That some people aren't going to, 98% of people are going to find Brad Pitt attractive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6986.176

We can acknowledge that that's the truth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

6998.709

Yes. But I can think of, and I'm not going to name them out loud because I don't want it to run the risk of sounding mean.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7005.156

But there are, I know many women who decided they were hot as fuck and sexy and they are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7013.604

And they have made it in show business, some of them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7018.528

And you can do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

702.723

And then intuitively, you kind of know how you would react. You know, input A is going to equal this stimulus, is going to equal this output. I tend to believe it's that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7028.317

It 100% morphs their face.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7030.759

Because they're carrying themselves like they're hot shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7034.722

And you're like, fuck. They must be. They know they're hot shit. Yeah. You then go, what am I missing? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7042.051

And you go like, oh, yeah, her fucking hair is awesome. Yeah. And then that's, oh, what a smile. Yeah. Look at her eyes are this. And you go like, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, yeah. But if they walk in like this, like. You're like, oh, God, they're fucking. They've been told they're a mess their whole life. It does. It does. No, it does. It's powerful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7063.387

And I just know because I'm speaking. I am the beneficiary of that. That has been my angle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7069.571

For a long, long time. And it hasn't worked all the time. Yeah. And a lot of girls are like, no, buddy, you're not fucking, you're presenting yourself as some 10. You're not. That certainly has happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7079.992

Yes. No, it's happened a bunch of times. Well. But. It's also worked a bunch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7093.297

And I think it weirdly is a sign of my confidence, which is I don't need a trophy woman. I don't need to be seen with a woman that's hot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

71.27

Also, she's an identical twin. Yeah. So we had a lot of fun twin chatter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7103.201

But I need to be with the coolest woman in the room.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7106.062

For sure. So, sure, there will be men who don't prioritize that. And what a blessing. You've weeded them out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7117.404

No, there are a lot of dudes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7138.483

I think that is overly pessimistic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7142.626

There's numerous reasons why great people find themselves single all the time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7148.391

Annulment's one of them. But their partner didn't grow with them. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7153.094

You know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7155.976

Okay. We're lost.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7161.824

But my thing about you shaving your sides has always been about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7168.984

You don't know what me... Like, you can't say because you've filled in what that means from something else you've seen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7211.753

I think you are assessing that whole suggestion on a static.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7218.799

And my story about you is actually you had been a chameleon your whole life. And in this show, I had we have friends who go, oh, my God, I didn't know that side of Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7232.742

You have become more and more yourself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7236.805

And you are unique on a level that Shave Sides makes sense. You're thinking of it in this like really ironclad aesthetic and punk rock, but you're missing the point that I'm making.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7250.255

Actually, I'm one of the most unique people here. I'm one of the most original people here. And I'm different.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7257.681

And this thing is a visual cue that I am.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7304.948

Well. That is. And I want people to find out I am like this very unique person. Yeah. I hope everyone is like, you know. willing to be presented with one thing and then have to climb through some layers to find out all this great stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7328.612

Then... I was warned about this, but...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7338.514

Okay, great. We are resuming. We had to break to interview and I have since been out in the rain. Is it obvious?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7345.66

I feel something on my forehead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7348.722

I put my hair up. I would hate for- Well, we were completely- Oh, geez. That's a real, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7356.445

Well, the listener won't give a fuck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7361.148

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7375.799

Yeah, the thing that stuck with me that I really liked is this like fallacy of naturalness that everyone thinks that everything should happen organically or that means it's not a good fit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7397.993

Oh, I'm such a boomerang questioner. So embarrassing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7422.445

She's my kind of gal. It makes me rethink Diet Coke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7427.648

I have to weigh her against my affinity for Bill Gates and Diet Coke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7432.952

Yeah. You know what I like about that? That she likes that her boyfriend's got a Costco chain on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7439.858

That says a lot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7442.68

This is like, I respect her. She's not like trying to have some dude in Gucci. She's like, her man looks good in this Costco chain. She's like a real chick. I'm going to have a Diet Pepsi. Do you like those things?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7456.555

Yeah. I think that's a cool detail of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7460.157

Go ahead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7466.04

How so? Tell me. Explain the connective tissue.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7470.162

Cookie boy. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7482.107

That's not good enough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7484.408

I got to stop saying it. I thought the majority of twins did this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7493.271

One in every four people I ask will say yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

754.036

I think what's interesting and worth following up on that thought is I actually think you probably could always predict But you're often missing a lot of the context. Yes, yes. You don't know what happened. This is the first example that we get to in your book. You know your sister really well, but you don't know if when she stopped at the gas station, someone called her a whore.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7540.359

I don't know why it's zero sum because whoever wins is going to win everything and the other person is going to get nothing of what they wanted. That feels like the definition of zero sum. Okay, we'll keep going.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7568.866

Zero sum is chess. You can't kind of win. You can't win halfway. Right. You either win or you lose. Yeah, exactly. Poker, you could come with $200 and leave with $300. Right. Other people could also have $400. Someone could be down. You know, there's varying degrees of success.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7587.289

But this feels like it's all or nothing. It would be zero sum. Oh, this does feel zero sum, you're saying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7591.95

You're either going to get to go see your thing you wanted or you're not. You're going to be stuck at the opera.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7613.098

Okay. Which is they'll have to go to a prison cell or something is the third option if they don't agree. It's got to be something worse than the football game for her and the opera for him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7623.443

Okay. That's pretty good. I like it. Jesus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7631.978

But really quick, yes, if there's a third option that they are penalized with for not agreeing, then yes, it's not zero-sum.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7664.639

Let's keep it honest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

77.253

Further imploring us to get a twin expert.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7702.835

Okay. Kind of outdated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

773.079

You know everything else you've observed, but that thing is still floating around. So I do think if you did know all the details, you would be in still the high 90s. It's just we don't really know all the details.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7730.333

That would be a third. That has to be a third option. That's less bad than the worst outcome and not as good as the ideal outcome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7760.314

Oh, I hope you do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7769.24

We need to know these if we're going to host a Kant dinner party.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7787.937

The goal of- That one's going to be hard for me. If I hear something great at the dinner party, I will keep the anonymity of the speaker, but I might want to get the message out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7796.048

I'm going to violate that one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7818.776

And I'm going to smoke cigarettes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7823.537

Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7831.15

Yeah, side conversations. I was just with my whole family and there was some side conversing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

784.987

Okay, so in graduate school, you start focusing on negotiation skills.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

7861.312

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

793.415

Yeah. Why people's behaviors impacted by their feelings.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

797.619

So what caught your attention?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

849.127

Who do you seek it from?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

856.771

But remember I said I seek the advice that I think I'm going to get.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

862.073

To confirm. If I want to indulge in this bad behavior, I call a person I know who regularly indulges in that and is not going to say, you know better. And then when I actually want to change, I call Tom Hanson. Okay, so you end up at Harvard teaching negotiation and you start doing a lot of clinical work and experiments. Yes. And it definitely expands out. I have a list of fun things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

89.757

People on a wait list. Yeah, it's one of these favorite classes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

950.377

Yeah, you did experiments on speed dating, parole hearings, doctor-patient interactions, negotiations, sales calls, instant messaging, face-to-face chin wags between strangers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

965.726

1930s, wait a second.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

972.048

You could put all of those under the umbrella of negotiating, right? It's true. And I think the things that would be normally studied or you'd be drawn to is all the things you listed are quantifiable, like I want this amount. They're offering this amount. The outcome is measurable. But in a romantic relationship, you get into these gradients of leverage and control and power.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)

993.275

Those are not easy to quantify and measure the outcome of.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, experts on expert. I'm Dan Shepard, joined by Lily Padman. Hi. Per your request, you spearheaded this, and I'm so grateful you did. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1008.505

She was the casting director for Family Ties?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1022.393

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1026.519

Made very popular in Fast Times at Ridgemont High.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1029.84

Okay, so you start working on that show, and I imagine you're doing a lot of the work that's not picking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1082.671

I think it led to a lot of trips to the emergency room that show. I know my brother and I would try that. Because you'd go like this and the defense was this. But I was five years younger, so his fingers were longer than this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1094.341

But that was what we worshipped. And people are calling, I'm sure, and they're pitching people.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1151.178

Sides are the lines for people who don't know. So those are the lines for the audition.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

116.405

They come in a variety of cool and captivating styles created by different artists, so there's something for everyone.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1160.382

Me either.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1165.465

Yeah. Now, this huge explosion in the amount of managers and agents and whatnot, is it proportional to because when you were on Benson, you're casting the Cosby show. There's only three networks. The three networks only have five days of airing and four shows. So you're talking 20, maybe 60 shows are on television. And now we're at, I don't know, hundreds of shows.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1185.856

So do you think it's proportional or something else happened?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1209.457

I mean, an 18 to 24-year-old female.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1249.009

Okay, so when you were at Family Ties, I'm going to ask you some juicy questions. Please. Famously, Leonardo DiCaprio was on Family Ties, right? No, he was on Growing Pains.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1263.827

Yeah, I want to know.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1266.208

He was on Family Ties? Okay. Maybe that's who I'm thinking of. And Tom Hanks.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

128.911

They were.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1280.515

Oh, he did, right? What a gentleman.

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131.192

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Reruns, I assume.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1319.46

Yeah, it would. Because Alex B. Keaton was a conservative and the dad was liberal. The whole family was liberal.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1333.204

Oh, that is very interesting. Yeah, no, that was 82 to 87. No, 89. So I was 7 till 12.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1342.207

I liked Justine Bateman. I liked Alex P. Keaton. Then he was in Back to the Future.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1350.812

A few years later, you're on Golden Girls.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1354.734

You would be privy to one of the great kind of funny debates now that happens with the Golden Girls. A, the Golden Girls is this enormous thing, right? Yes. Like it's had all these different lives. Which is great. And I watched it as a kid. But again, I was seven to 12. They look like grandmas to me.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1371.423

Now that I'm 50 or closing in on it, everyone points out some of the cast members were in their 40s or 50s.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1380.908

So what was the conversation behind closed doors about what age you were going to cast as these grandmothers?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1437.866

Sam Harris has an enormous.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1441.488

Right. He became a neurologist. He has a huge podcast, but he has also famously on Bill Maher all the time arguing. He got into hot water arguing Ben Affleck about Islam. He is a very outspoken, provocative, intellectual.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1455.177

Most people go the other way, by the way. Most people know Sam, and I'll say his mother invented Golden Girl.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1477.707

Yeah, a titan, yeah, in that kind of show.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1484.991

So by the time we get to 1990, I guess I'm wondering, so you already pointed out something that happens, which is fascinating. You come in for one thing, you're not right for it. And that's its own thing that actors need to understand.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1498.658

It took me directing things and casting people to really fundamentally understand what's going on in the room. I wish I would have started directing because it would have taken so much of the pressure off of auditioning. Which is like, you're kind of right or you're wrong. You have some range of talent, but... Exactly. What can happen, which is encouraging, is...

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1516.705

you as a casting director will go like, well, they're terrible for this role, but they're good. I want to keep a mental note of that.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1524.308

If you starred in 83, and by the time we get to Fresh Prince, you had seven years of kind of accumulating people that you've liked.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1568.63

And you don't have a computer, so it's not like you can put all this in a spreadsheet and break it into categories and stuff. So anytime you have a new project on your hands and you've got 13 rolls to cast, how do you keep track of this huge handwritten stack of paper?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

158.664

Sometimes the home of your dreams can be a total nightmare. I love this show. I got to give a personal stamp of approval. It's so good.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1610.143

I think the Smithsonian has a whole TV thing to it.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1614.967

Oh, right. Then they definitely do.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1621.65

Yeah. Every time you're watching something, you're on the lookout for someone that's talented. Does that ruin seeing stuff? Are you too preoccupied?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1637.794

Yes, and it's going fast. And the lights might not even be on yet.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1648.221

Wow. Okay, so that's one approach is you're paying attention to who's in what. Are you also going to comedy clubs?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

170.027

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1726.524

Okay, so that's positive because for every Jim Carrey, you're also wading through two or three that are pretty rough and people are bombing. Some people are thinking like, oh, I'd go to a comic show every night.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1767.845

Insecure and scared. It is, yeah.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1786.001

Okay, Whoopi Goldberg. And you put her in the color purple.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1791.223

Did you get good at delineating who's going to work? Because it's a big leap between standup and acting and it goes very well for some and it goes really bad for others. Do you feel like you got good with your thin slicing or your radar? Was there anything you could tell on stage that was going to be predictive of whether they could do it or not?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

1822.25

Yeah, yeah.

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1842.654

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Well, there's so many good ones on the list.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

194.877

Many, many people that you would think wouldn't be nervous. Bill Lawrence, who was just here, he's on a million and a half interviews. Very gregarious guy. Yes. You would not think he would be nervous.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2074.893

Right, yes.

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Find comfort this December with BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com slash DAX today to get 10% off your first month. That's BetterHelp.com. H-E-L-P dot com slash DAX. I've said it before, but I'll tell you. I had a scene in this movie I directed where Kristen and I are in an off-road race car and we've got to drive through a barn door. And it's a real barn door.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

211.58

Oh, okay. Look at you.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2130.425

We're going to break through a barn door. And on the other side, there's ramps that are this wide. And then we're going to jump two cars. And I'm directing, so I'm actually doing the whole thing. And it's dark inside the barn. It's going to be very bright when we crash through the thing. And then I got to hit these little ramps. And we're sitting in the car right before we're about to go.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2144.971

And the stunt coordinator, my friend DeCastro, goes, how are you doing? I go, I'm good. He goes, how nervous are you? And I go... If stand-up is a 10, I'm at a 4. And that's a real comp for me. Jumping a car over other cars is like 40% as scary as stand-up.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

217.561

I don't want you to be nervous.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2171.924

It's just you. And when it goes bad and you know you have another 18 minutes, there's really nothing like it.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2194.66

Yeah, big time. That's very true. You might think it's got to be a town of a bunch of people who really thought they were awesome.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2203.302

Okay, so by the time you get to Fresh Prince, my question about that is, the show starts with Will Smith?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

221.465

I did.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2215.806

Right, because he was a producer of that, right?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

223.187

Uh-huh. Yeah. I had the original eye for Monica. I was the casting director for Monica.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2256.221

Yes, I did.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2297.232

I find that so hard to believe.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2299.893

I'm blown away that you would remember that.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2337.511

I was going to say, I think his story is, and we're very good friends.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2342.695

We stayed very, very close. You want to talk about casting. So I didn't make it through any of the rounds at MTV for Punk'd. I was in a discarded pile of tapes that didn't get advanced to the producers. And Kutcher had seen everyone they had basically circled. And he's like, no one has the vibe. Let me see the people that were rejected. And I was one of the people rejected. So my entire career.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2365.104

He had done 70 shows. And he had done Just Married. So he was like newly a movie star.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2375.427

So he dug me out. And so, yeah, my gratitude for him is off the charts. But what I wanted to own my baggage with casting directors. You do? I do. I'll tell you why. It's all my insecurity, which was I was auditioning for nine years in commercials and I couldn't get them. I just couldn't book anything. I booked two in nine years. I came to view casting directors as people who didn't get me. Wow.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

238.461

And she was in our friendship group, but kind of a newer member.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2399.563

I'm like, they don't get me. I can't get through this layer to anybody. And then the time that I finally did break through, it turned out, if we believe Ashton, I still hadn't gotten through the casting director. So I just had it in my mind, they don't like me. But I have to believe, hopefully, these creators might like me. Yeah.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2418.376

Yes. I was so insecure. I had been almost a decade. We can eliminate that in the world. I know.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

242.645

Yeah, and I said, that gal's really smart. Like, she's a very smart, interesting person. Every time I talk to her, we argue, and she's a worthy adversary. Then she started babysitting and then full-time nanny, then started working with Kristen, then became Kristen's writer, producer, everything. It was before Good Place. Before Good Place. No, because House of Lies.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2423.92

I just had it in my mind because I was so insecure that for whatever reason, they don't like me.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2433.707

I don't think I was stupid enough to be mean.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2437.07

I don't think I was dumb enough to not be warm. I just really had it in my head. Yeah.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2445.196

Yeah. I felt like casting directors knew people I was friends with and no one really knew me and I was so insecure. And so I got it in my mind, I've got to get to the other people.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2456.863

Somehow I've got to jump over this gate that's in front of me and get to those people. Because, again, when I finally got hired on a TV show, it was from the creator of the show. Oh, yeah. I got such limited data, and I'm telling this huge story based on this very limited data, and I'm completely wrong. And then I come to find out, like, you're saying you liked me.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2482.414

Well, we talk about them all the time. Like, you know the names of so many casting directors.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

25.155

She was so delightful. I was.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2533.68

Oh, yes, I've hired her. Oh, yes, she's good. I put her in Chips. You sure did. And I put her in the only commercial I ever directed. I love Chips. But I can't do it. Oh, God bless you. Okay. Nobody did.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2543.663

Curb Your Enthusiasm, 99. You were still on to the end.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2563.274

You would have had to play yourself on Curb.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2565.255

I don't think I was famous enough to play myself. And then I was too famous to play.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2632.39

Yeah, you're right. There was this huge talent pool that no one was really looking at.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2646.262

Oh, no kidding.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

268.898

Suffice to say, Kristen was entirely dependent on Monica, to a degree you can't imagine. Oops. And then we started this, and then it was accidentally very successful, and then I had to say, I'm going to have to steal her full time. And she, of course, was generous.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2681.009

There was a great little boom because it was kids in the hall and then the state and then Ben Stiller had a sketch show and then you had Mr. Show.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2699.577

A whole new genre. Yes. Yeah, we had Jack Black on and I was telling him, you know, I used to go to the live tapings of that show and it seemed like just the most impenetrable.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

27.816

Allison Jones. She comes up a bunch over the years. She's helped numerous people in their careers.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2708.885

I did. Was he in Tie-Dye? Yes.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2730.959

So that was going to be one of my questions. Do you get a swell of pride when you see like a Chris Pratt? I do.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2739.502

You cast Parks and Rack. Yes. If it's not obvious, you're the only casting director we've ever invited in. Oh, thank you. And largely because I have someone who didn't learn about casting directors like Monica did. Mm-hmm. I started noticing, I'm like, this Veep cast is impossible. Who on earth figured out that all these people were this level of brilliance?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2760.639

And that's why I think Veep when I was like, oh, it's you. And then I was like, oh, and right. And the other impossible cast would have been Parks and Rec. Wow, you did that. And you've had several of those. It's just impossible, the level of collective talent and unknown. And I realized, oh, you're a big, big, big piece of that. Genius.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2780.484

It's kind of like for me when I realize, oh, John Bryan, the composer, might have as much to do with the Paul Thomas Anderson movies that I like because Eternal Sunshine I also like in the same way and he has composed both. That's like a revelation. Oh, maybe I love John Bryan.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2817.332

And I love that. Okay, so you do, you get a swell of pride when Chris Pratt. Oh, God, yes.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2824.597

No, I love it.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2826.518

I guess here's my question. Because Kristen and I were at a hotel once. And he and Annie were there. And we ended up hanging out for three days. I'm like, this guy is so radical. He's so real. He's from Oregon. He was a wrestler.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2849.349

Yeah. I bet. What does Kristen need to do? Keep on keeping on?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2859.637

She's a dramatic actress. She would, and then I always talk her out of it.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2863.34

I don't talk her out of it. I remind her of what life she wants, which is she wants to be at home seeing her kids. She doesn't want to be on location. She wants manageable hours. She wants to know she can drive the kids to school if she wants to. So going away to, you know, Georgia for four months is a down and dirty drama. Yeah, forget the MCU universe for Kristen.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2887.187

Uh-huh, you cast that.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2888.788

We love Kirby.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2891.649

Kirby's a diamond.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2924.042

And I'm going to add, and people will be mad about this, comedy is straight up harder than drama.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2930.165

There's so many tools that can be employed in a drama to help you. You could have no look on your face and do the perfect push in and the right song.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2940.772

There's no cheating a joke. You can't cheat a laugh. You can put a fart noise in or something, but in general, it works or it doesn't work. There's no manipulating it. You can't put the perfect song in all of a sudden. No, of course not.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2952.519

They do try. And it's generally generic. Okay. Can you think of some people that you really... went to the mat over that didn't get it, that then turned out to be huge. Do you feel like you've got some great vindicated stories?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

297.997

Yeah, the first two episodes, we were a little, Bill was one of the early ones. He might have even been the one that kind of broke it where I was like, okay, I'm comfortable here. I like this. I can pretend this is my living room. But Allison, this is a great first question. So you have spent the last, I don't know how many years since 82. Are we starting? Oh yeah, we're always rolling.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

2985.646

Can you think of someone that you were like, you just battled and lost?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3047.563

Yeah, you've navigated lots of different eras in this business. Oh, we say it all the time. So if you're working with a director, they're casting their third movie or show and you've cast hundreds. How do you manage not saying like, you're wrong, you're going to have to trust me. This is my expertise.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3072.943

Uh-huh. You deal with a lot of egos, Zia. Yeah, you do.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3095.536

I got to tell you this. This is the truth. Generally, I research people and then in the process of researching them, there's some curiosities that kind of surface. I've never sat down and just had questions like I have for you. No, please. Have you developed a radar for who's going to be problematic? Like they might be genius level in the room, but do you think you've gotten good at going?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3115.26

Yeah, this person is talented, but it's not going to be worth the work.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3162.861

Oh, is that true? So more often you'll hear, don't work with her.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3168.765

Because she has an opinion.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3174.269

What pisses you off the most in the casting process?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

320.127

Oh God. Okay. Okay, this is wonderful. You've spent from 82 to 2024. So that's 42 years of watching humans walk into a room with a ton of anxiety. Maybe the peak anxiety they'll have. 83, thank you. 83? Okay, okay.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3231.428

Yeah. Okay. What are your thoughts about improvising in an audition?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3283.648

Please ask.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3287.592

Which maybe I can't. No. I've kind of gone like this. And again, I'm not giving this advice to any actor at all. I don't think this is a good strategy. Here's what I told myself at some point. I'm like, I'm better if I can make this thing a little bit mine. I'll be different. It might anger you, but I'll be memorable. I've got to be me because this is who you're going to deal with.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3308.4

So actually, it's a favor for all of us if we find out now.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3311.121

there are other people that are much better at this if that's what you want than i am here's the thing i can do well maybe that'll appeal to you or not like at some point i feel like maybe it was just an attempt to get some control over the experience which feels very powerless of like i'm gonna give you what i am and maybe you'll like it maybe you'll hate it yeah i think that's great

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3411.094

When they leave, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Okay, what do you think about coming in character and foregoing the chit-chat?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

342.36

That makes sense. 41 years. Yeah. Of watching people come in nervous. And I guess maybe the layperson would assume that would inoculate you to nervousness, like you would somehow... No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3427.069

It's got to be project specific, right? Drama? Yes. I've come into things. I remember I almost got on True Detective. So I go into that and I'm like, you know what? I want to get to the acting as quickly as possible because I am funny in real life and I'm joyous. And then I don't want to have that huge radical shift.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3445.623

For you, I'd rather just come in, be polite and do the thing and let you see that I can be a badass and then leave. But I don't know. I feel like it's project specifically.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3470.518

Great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3491.944

The whole car right there. The lobby is the worst. The lobby is you're listening to other great comedians talk.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

35.96

Yep. She's an award-winning casting director. Just, you know, a few of her impossibly long resume. Barbie, Veep, The Office, Freaks and Geeks, Career Enthusiasm, Parks and Rec.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3500.268

Yes, please.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3542.704

Yeah, you're already nervous, and then you see, these four guys are definitely better than me.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3571.032

Honest to God. That's gracious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3576.998

Yeah. What's the number one mistake you see actors make?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3587.327

Good tip.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3593.012

I think so.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3602.457

That's what actors do.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3685.614

You got to be good and you got to be confident because then it won't hurt you, in my opinion. I could see someone going, this is a little scary. I need to know the real person.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

371.003

Yeah. What percentage of that nervousness for you when you've gotten to that last layer of the audition process? Yeah. Is you rooting for someone that you are championing versus I really want the people that employed me to be very happy with where we've gotten?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3720.365

Okay, what's the hardest role you've ever had to cast? Meaning you read the most amount of people and traveled the greatest distance. McLevin. Oh, really?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

3878.874

And they knocked me out. We heard he was a casting assistant.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

401.306

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I have a million questions about exactly that coming later. But I want to start in Massachusetts. I have a hard time saying it, but you grew up in a Boston suburb. I did. Needham, Massachusetts. And what did mom and dad do?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4160.356

Well, I mentioned a new thing. This wasn't one of my questions, but it just occurred to me talking about technology. Clearly now a big driver of who gets cast is like what their following is. Not in what I work on.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4186.917

How about this? What percentage of the roles on the shows and movies that you're casting already have stars attached?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4206.603

Right. We got Dax Shepard. Right. Well, let's not play it too fast and loose. We got Monica Padman and Dax Shepard. Yeah.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4226.801

Yes. So what is your preference? Do you like to start with a clean slate or do you like that? Oh, I'd love to start with a clean slate. The Office, we started with a clean slate. And would you prefer to break unknowns? In comedy, for sure. It's got to be more rewarding for you.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4281.056

Have you had people who you know are so talented and you've seen them be so talented and they just can't audition? Oh, plenty, especially in comedy. Yeah. And is it heartbreaking?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4302.29

Yeah, I got to say one of the, I think, more difficult things about this job is I don't know how good Daniel Day-Lewis is as an auditioner.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4311.377

He probably would be. It's a different skill set. It's almost the closest they'll get to stand up.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

432.478

And do you have siblings? Oh, no, I know this. You're the second youngest of six. I am.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4323.99

Yeah.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4329.874

Well, okay, so let's talk about Once Upon a Time. I gotta say, in the last 10 years, the performance that has blown my mind more than any other, and I watch the movie all the time, is Once Upon a Time. Leonardo DiCaprio in that movie is so next level. I don't think people are recognizing that he's playing three levels of actor.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4346.997

He is an actor, playing an actor, who's okay sometimes, and then he has a moment where he's great. Exactly. But he's not as great as Leonardo DiCaprio can be great. Yeah. He's as great as that actor can be. When you see what's going on in that scene and what he's having to juggle, it's so impressive.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

437.279

Boys, girls? Three boys, three girls. How wonderful of your mother to nail it like that, the ratio.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4390.501

Well, Alison Jones, this has been such a delight. And a delight for me. I could talk to you guys for hours. Oh, same. You're the best. You're so sweet and wonderful. Well, I guess my single last question is, you refuted my claim of 42 years, but it is 41 years. It might be 41 and a half, but just say 41. How on earth have you kept your stamina to stay hungry? And your job is so hard.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4417.12

The hours are so crazy. How have you stayed hungry and dialed in?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4430.872

You're like a doctor that has to do managed care now with an insurance provider. Exactly. Yeah. Perfect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4471.769

Yeah, we're super honored that you could chat with us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4484.232

Oh, then you're missing out on that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4498.357

Yeah, it's literally the same. Fuck, I forgot one question I want to answer. This is a nosy question.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4504.379

When you have a track record like yours and someone wants to cast a comedy, starting with you is like starting with Jimmy Burroughs. Thank you. Do you get to participate ever? In the success of a show? No, and I wish I had.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4531.226

I feel like you should be a participant with your level. You should be so rich.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4573.673

Yes, of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4581.963

It's kind of like when you're a director of a TV show, you get the DGA minimum. It doesn't matter if you've had a great career. Now, if you're Burroughs, you can obviously negotiate ownership of the show to do the pilot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4597.481

Yeah, oh my God. Warner bought the fucking Red Sox. Yeah, I know, I know. Yeah. Although again, that too has changed. What do you mean? It's changed. Well, Seinfeld would sell into a cycle of syndication for $800 million. And in the streaming world, none of these shows that have been on the air for six years get sold into syndication. People don't get, like Mike Schur, one of my questions.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4618.016

I said, Mike, do you ever lament the fact that if you had the exact same career you had in the 80s and 90s, you would have $800 million? He goes, yeah, I think about that a lot.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

464.675

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4664.842

Okay, well, Allison, I look forward to seeing you again. We adore you. This has been so fun. I'm so glad you agreed to do it. And I hope your nerves dissipated.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

467.318

I'm one of three. You're allowed to ask as many questions as you want.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4675.824

You're definitely getting called back to producers. I can tell you in the room.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4680.305

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4694.446

I think he's a, I don't know what the word is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4698.488

I was going to say fighter. That's not right. I don't, clinger. Like maybe he's, because I wouldn't call a sloth a fighter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4704.811

By God, can they hang upside down indefinitely?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4708.253

That is true. So maybe he's sloth-like?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4712.135

And for the holiday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4713.896

What is that thing, Monica? Is that a person or a reindeer or a ram?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4721.155

Those horns should be kind of informative, I guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4726.536

Is this a big old reindeer with two big horns?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4729.397

Are those his ears or hers? I shouldn't genderize.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4735.779

Some antennas.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4737.699

I see some metal antennas. I thought those were reindeer horns.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4744.141

Yep, and to put it on the very top made it leave frame.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4750.101

Yeah, he's almost summited that tree. He's a he. Yeah, let's call it what it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4759.027

Okay, so we just scrambled, right? Because we're setting up for the holiday episode.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4770.773

It's a bonus extra episode. Yes. On the 20th.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4775.975

That's the 20th is when it's coming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4778.836

Of course, it's going to be everywhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4782.645

Oh, big time. You're going to have some A-list singers dropping through. Going to have some present reveals. Going to have a lot of decor. This is only a taste of what Wobby Wob's got more stuff planned. As he does. This tree has been stolen from my daughter's room. So I had a really great meditation this morning.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4807.867

It's been a long time since I had a great one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4812.212

I think what adds up to it is like, can I stop ruminating? Can I not think... about our employers during my meditation. Can I achieve that goal?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4824.573

And so I got kind of, I took a different tactic with my mantra a little bit, which was no one's, and we don't need to get this in detail, but I was just literally like, say, you have to say the mantra five times and just concentrating with some limited thing. Then I could buy myself five more. All to say, when it's really great, I... Lose a sense of my body, which is really fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4845.568

Like I know how I'm sitting, but I can't really feel my hands or my legs anymore. I can tell them to kind of detach from my body. And then I'll often get blasts of light. I'll start seeing like lights in my, there's a word for this in TM, but I don't know what it is. I've heard Howard talking about it. But I'll get some light activity in my detached state from my body.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4866.406

And anyways, when I came out of it, and that's why I'm telling you about it, is when it ended, all by myself in my room, I said, hey, y'all, really great meditation. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4877.428

It was. That's great. That's the power of TM. It opened up my creative channels enough to go, hey, y'all, really great meditation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4885.629

And then I thought, of course, need to have an app that just at the end of your thing, you hear... Hey, y'all, really great meditation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4898.778

Oh, man, I'm afraid to even think about that. I mean, I know I've gotten a bunch and I've certainly forgotten people and it's going to...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4906.921

As much as I love, this is my holiday, as you know. It's my favorite. God, do I cherish every day of it. In fact, I hate that it's coming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4917.233

I hate that there'll be a day where it ends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4920.317

And so the girls will be like, they're in a hurry. And I'm like, no, no, no, guys, just pump the brakes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4924.602

Enjoy. It's so much more fun anticipating it. But the only part I can't stand about it is the test of your love for others by how thoughtful your gift was. And then I was thinking, I got a little cynical for a minute. I was like, they really got us with this racket. I mean, what an incredible racket.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4943.655

For consumerism. It's like, you have to go buy something for everyone you care about. Yeah. That's the rules. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4964.718

Yeah. What if at Christmas morning, everyone sat around and you go, I thought about you. Like that was the president.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4971.924

Well, that'd be like the Grinch who stole Christmas. Maybe Christmas doesn't come from a store.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4978.552

Seussian.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4980.193

You know this. This is a blast from the past. But Crosby's houseboat, which was in Sausalito Harbor in real life.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

4990.279

The first time we ever shot on it, it was an actual boat. And then it, of course, was on a soundstage down here. But it was originally in Sausalito. Two boats over from Crosby's boat was Dr. Seuss's boat. He had a houseboat in Sausalito.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5002.307

It was still his boat. I guess it was his wife's at that point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5005.965

She was in 2000, but whatever year we filmed the pilot. Wobby Wob, give us a update on Mrs. Seuss.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5015.613

Oh, okay. Died in 2018. Yeah, that's way after we shot. Another blast from the past. Are you ready for this? Yes. Some scholarly detective armchairy. A lot of people don't know this whole thing because they came in at COVID. My endless fucking thing about the American soldiers getting the English women pregnant during World War II.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5040.5

They found the book I'm talking about. You know who wrote it? Dr. Seuss. Dr. Seuss. No, Margaret Mead. That's a Margaret Mead book. It's almost impossible to get. There's like five libraries in the country. What's it called? I could tell you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5055.611

Tell you right frigging now. But not only am I not insane that I imagined that whole thing, it's Margaret Mead, godmother of anthro. It's called The American Troops and the British Community, an examination of the relationship between the American troops and the British by Margaret Mead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5074.962

Okay. Her conclusion was culturally in America, women have the brake pedal, men have the gas pedal. But in England, men have the brake pedal, women have the gas pedal. You get a couple of folks with a gas pedal. I had an anecdotal experience with a gal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5089.498

Who I adore. Yeah. What a gift. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5099.205

Well, I remember it as being like 50-50, but... Oh, okay. But in my pursuit of figuring out what the hell I had read, of course, I stumbled upon a bunch of other academic papers on this same topic, because there's this huge term, war babies. There was like this, yeah. And so one of the theories or conclusions was, Another element is that in America, kissing's nothing. Anyone will kiss.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

51.367

any impossibly great comedic ensemble where you're like where did they find all these geniuses it's almost always going to be Allison Jones it is it's her track record is so insane and it goes so far back I didn't realize that it was fun to learn about like the early yes

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5126.043

You kiss on a first date, whatever. But that in the steps of progression in England in 1942, kissing was very far down the road. You would have held hands. You would have done all this other stuff. Like, I guess kissing was like, you're there. If you've committed to kissing, you're pretty much committed to banging.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5142.954

And so there was some miscommunication there where the American GIs were like, let me put one on you. And then those gals were like, oh, my God, this is what I think we're going to have. Oh, wow. Sexual intercourse. This is so intimate. Not as intimate as holding hands.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5167.361

That would be so weird to be dating you, head of made out, rolled around, lots of sex, go to grab your hand and you always pull it away. That would be freaky.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

517.037

Oh, yeah. Like high school cheerleader. Were they Irish twins?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5187.657

Yeah, like let's do anal, but let's not do this. Way too intimate. Way too intimate. Where do you think that stems from?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5203.995

Yeah, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5237.757

Grab that hand when it's time to propose. I hold hands on the ride to school every morning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5243.361

If I'm in the car with them and they're in the front seat, we're holding hands.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5254.908

Handholding is very nice.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5258.53

Very intimate for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5287.048

Right. And so you what I'm grateful for is you have experienced how I mostly experience buying presents. I hope they like this. This will do. They'll know I thought of them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5300.135

Sure, you got good taste.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5301.496

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5315.65

I've already had some mix-ups. Okay. So use your gift guide. Everyone should.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5338.843

The only thing I could get is when I'd be on the website and then I'd start sniffing around for other items. Sure. Those glasses, those adorable glasses, which they didn't have the first time I was at that website.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

534.23

It took like a season, maybe. I think so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5353.491

Then I was there for some other business. So anyways, I sent them to my sister-in-law.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5359.674

And they arrived and they just opened up the box and then she sends me a text. I like these. I'm like, how could you have thought? You didn't have to wait till Christmas. But it's not her fault. It's not her fault. Slow down. Slow down, Dax. She goes, oh my God, I'm so, your brother feels terrible. So what happened was the box came, my brother just opened it. Of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

538.812

Did you have fantasies about show business as a kid? Or how did this all come to be? How did you end up at Pomona College?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5380.172

He knows I didn't get him a fucking set of glasses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5383.774

So he just like, thanks, got you these glasses. But clearly it's Christmas. You want to hear the gross thing I did too? Yeah, what'd you do? So she's like, oh, I like them. And then I'm like, I need her to know they're not kids. I didn't get those at McDonald's. I didn't get them at a fast food restaurant. I'm like, so I respond. Yeah, those are Monica's fancy glasses. Like I enlisted you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5408.458

I was like, yeah, she'll she knows if I said these are Monica's, she's going to go like, oh, he spoiled me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5418.674

Is that store not in America?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5421.156

Okay, great. So this is a grievance I have. I went nuts there. And they use DHL, which I guarantee is a phenomenal service. This is no shade DHL, but I think it must work easier in Europe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5434.585

This is a ton of texts and it just standard as a signature. No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5439.469

Fucking standards, no signature guys, unless I say signature. So then I got to go every single item I bought from that place, which is a lot. I had to go and fill out the forms to make sure that they could be left on the porch. But after, but I have my texts from DHL. I probably have 40 texts from DHL in the last week. And every time I think now, no, this one's just an update.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5459.361

It's not the consent form for the no signature. I already did that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5467.248

Listen to my complaints in life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5470.511

I just got completely ashamed of my complaints in life. Like we live in an era where I can see something that's gorgeous and then it'll arrive somewhere and I'm like so flummoxed by it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5479.439

I had to click my phone twice. It's true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5489.088

To it being quicker and quicker and quicker and easier and easier.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5505.086

And like, it's about time, like actually frustrated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5510.805

Yeah, when I try to explain to the kids that like, yeah, I had a cassette tape. It was 60 minutes long. If I want to listen to my favorite song over and over again, I had to rewind forever. And then who knows where you land?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5522.837

You can't land on your song.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5524.779

You're always going to be listening to the back half of a song you don't want to listen to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5531.365

You're in all black today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5536.794

Yeah, very smart outfit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5542.097

I don't want to do this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5543.958

Let me guess. Your shoes and socks aren't white. They're titanium white.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5554.985

On the description.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5562.717

I'm ensnared in it. Here we go. There's no way those are navy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5568.881

I can't sit here and have you saying those are navy. It's the same color as your shirt. On the TV, it kind of looks navy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5588.567

You have something on Rob. You both have great points. I think it could be both.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5595.069

I'm straddled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5613.734

Okay. I would prefer you go like. these aren't Navy. That's the kind of reaction.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5632.97

You don't think that's funny?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

565.177

Right, it was like big surf culture.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5672.383

Well, unfortunately, that's actually the script supervisor's job, which is so unfair because they don't give a fuck what you say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5684.766

Those are pretty substantively different. No, they're not. I think so. I think so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5694.588

That's really good. You sold it this time. So I'll try that. I'll do one your way and then you pick in the edit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5702.619

That's kind of a new read on it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5708.021

It was like an acting exercise. I didn't want to do exactly how you did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5711.522

Oh, didn't I? No, I was doing yours.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5719.666

That's lunch, everybody.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5779.223

I like the idea of that Rob leaves for lunch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5789.908

A baby pun. A behavioral pun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5795.931

Back to why you're in all black. No real reason, just that's your outfit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5799.213

No one passed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5805.252

Yeah, yeah. Dressed to impress. Dressed to impress.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5811.134

Why did you look down at your.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5813.154

Oh, okay. I go, dressed to impress, and you go. This is my outfit. I'm just repeating what just actually happened. We could rewind the tape.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5828.098

Tell me I dressed to impress you. Even though you know where it's going.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5839.794

Wouldn't that be a wild...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5851.59

Oh, no. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. That's okay. I'm sorry. I'm sorry if that was inappropriate. Anyway. Anywho. I know where we were at. Really great meditation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5869.773

Good, me too. I watched A Christmas Story last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5879.78

And I was like, why don't they, they know good shit. Why are they acting like they don't like this movie? I really couldn't accept it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5886.445

And then I was watching it and they weren't there. And I was like, yeah, it's probably a little slow for them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5893.626

I could admit that. And it made me very nostalgic for back when there was like a downtown and it was decorated. Because when I was a kid, Detroit still had like, Hudson's did a big Christmas display. You could go meet Santa and you go to Saunders Ice Cream and have a cream puff. And it was a whole thing. There was a, there was a parade and then Cobble Hall had this thing and.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5912.371

You know, that opening shot where they go, it's a wide, it's in Cleveland in the 50s. Higby's, you remember? Their department store was Higby's and it was lit up beautifully and a really great window display with train sets. It made me so nostalgic and sad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5934.83

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5938.914

Yeah. And you know what? Instead of like trying to get my kids to like it, what I do, I go, oh, my father-in-law was born in Cleveland and this is the era of his childhood. So I'm like, hey, do you love a Christmas story? He's like, who doesn't? I go, yeah, but you particularly, you grew up in Cleveland. And then he was like, is it set in Cleveland? Then he sent me this whole thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5956.324

He's like, oh my God, you're right. Higby's. I used to go to Higby's every, and then he had a whole story about Higby's.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5964.704

Because it's slow and boring. It's not a good movie. No, it's so good. And Ralphie, if anyone's going to, has yet to watch it and they're still going to watch it. What I want people to dial in most specific, the cutest thing he does, Peter Billingsley, i.e. Ralphie, his tongue is so busy in that movie. And it is one of the cutest things I've ever seen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

5986.255

Like when he's doing the decoder ring and he's like, hey Ralphie. And they know it, too, because all of a sudden you just go to an extreme close up of his little mouth with that little tongue darting around. And anytime he's reading out loud or he's thinking he's in front of his class, he's like having this fantasy that his teacher loved his essay. And she's on the chalkboard, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

599.418

You just had seen it on TV.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6007.515

A plus, A plus. And they go to him and he's just wistfully thinking of this. He's like, his little tongue is darting around his face. Oh, is it cute?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6020.937

Dart it around.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6024.499

No, he's impossibly good for a nine-year-old in that movie. It's crazy how good he is. But just any time he's thinking. The Shepherds, we stick our tongue out when we're concentrating really hard. You do? You've not noticed that? I don't have it quite as bad as my dad and my brother and my uncle. But yeah, if I'm really going after something, my tongue comes out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

603.44

I didn't have access to it unless I was at my dad's every other weekend or whatever, once a month. Because we lived kind of out in the sticks. We didn't have a good antenna. I had to go to a friend's house if I wanted to watch Dukes of Hazzard. But when I was at my dad's, my brother and I, all we did from the second we got up until three in the morning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6042.829

And we all do it. Yeah. So his just seemed like the thing he does when he's like distracted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6052.306

This would be out all of a sudden.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6060.168

Like I'm expressing like, like I want to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6068.47

This is going to become an inappropriate fact check. And I want to apologize to the Christmas listeners.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6072.573

Because of my previous thing about you going like this. And then now I'm just going like, like, hey, look, all of a sudden that looked kind of inappropriate. And I just want to clean it up for the holidays.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6088.505

For singles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6094.743

Yeah. It's great for singles and couples, not people with children. It's all about children for us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6108.753

Your days of having sex by the fire are completely over the day your first kid arrives. What about if they're asleep? You can't fucking run the, why not fuck on the island in the kitchen?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6121.352

No way. Rob, are you and Natalie fucking in the open house at all? No, never.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6131.286

We do. Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6136.537

Do you ever jerk off in front of that fireplace with no one's home? You know the thing I hate that I can't not think of, and I don't know if this is urban legend or real, but allegedly, rumor, urban legend, little boy who puts his tongue on the pole, gets his stuck to the pole, he did a porno when he grew up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6163.359

It's because of that. But I don't like that I'm watching this movie and all I can think of is this little boy grows up and does a porno. Which, by the way, it's fine if you do pornos. I don't even know why it's – I don't care if you've done a porno.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6178.813

But I don't think when people go into movie acting, their goal is to then graduate to pornos. I think you probably come out here to do movies, you start in pornos, and maybe you graduate. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

620.596

Detroit. Oh, Detroit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6202.757

Right. Unless it's a dad and a son. He's like, boy, I hope you find your way over to pornos.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6211.48

Let me ask you this. Now, this one I know is real. Double check, Rob, so I don't get sued. But I do believe Screech was in an adult film.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

622.178

Yeah, yeah. And Atlanta.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6221.65

Yeah. And does it impact when you're watching Saved by the Bell? Are you thinking like...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6233.403

That he did a porno.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6241.152

Again, like it's not what they were wanting or aiming to do and that maybe they were in financial straits and then people knew that they would be a draw. It doesn't, it sounds like someone maybe compromised. Well, he put it out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6256.801

Saved by the Smell?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6258.182

What a classy title. It's, I'm lucky I never ended up in one. I mean, let's be honest. I was unemployed for nine years. Oh no. And I was, you know, I was a party animal. I could have ended up in one. And boy, God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6275.625

I mean, I don't know. You're somewhere. You're drunk. You meet like six porn stars at a thing. Everyone's having fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6284.174

You got no money. You like having sex.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6291.121

I'm just saying that I'm lucky that never happened is what I'm saying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6298.906

How dare you ask that question in public?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6302.809

Have I ever filmed myself?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6304.99

Of course they do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6308.38

I had to really think about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6311.162

I think I've run some video on, you know... But I don't want to say anything because it's not... I don't want to say... Who?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6318.167

Yes, but I think I've run some video on some nudity in my day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6327.814

Did I ever set up a tripod?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6329.915

And then...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6336.033

Well, you got your video camera out and you're like shooting in your thing and then your girlfriend's naked and then you film her because you want to look at it later at some point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6347.055

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6353.637

I think that's awesome. They're having fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6362.711

Like most married couples with household children do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6376.374

Smorgasbord of offerings.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6385.717

This is our last new interview of the year. How about that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6389.178

And it was a great year. It was a great year.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6394.78

Closed really strong.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6398.199

One after another.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6420.626

Okay. So I saw a comment yesterday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6423.268

That was like, when is Monica going to talk about Pantone? They were like nervous and worried.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6448.164

Is it the color of your skin?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6450.905

There's a lot of shades of brown.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6459.847

Modest mousse? What's it called?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6466.149

Mocha mousse. It's not as dark as yours, so... I'm doing tongue-in-cheek. This is the holidays.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6484.029

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6491.601

That they brown mouse, brown mouse.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6495.664

That is a good omen. It's going to be an incredible year.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6503.029

What do you do with that color? Are you ordering items now in that color? Like, do you adjust anything in your life?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6512.336

OK, so that's one thing. That's an actionable step.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6516.479

Okay, there's nothing else. It's not like when they announced this color, are there collaborations where now different companies you can order the Pantone?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6524.604

Moose.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6538.872

Do you know what I would call that color? And again, I know this is xenophobic. It's not really, but nude. That color just looks like nude to me, like nude before they got wise to that's not what everyone looks like nude, but nude undergarments. Do you know what I'm talking about? It's almost like a peach.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6564.724

That's this year? That's not Moose Knuckle?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6567.025

Oh. I thought you already had it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6596.48

See, that's exactly what I'm talking about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6604.002

Yes, yes, yes, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6608.703

Yeah, the one you're holding up looks very nude.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6617.063

Light brown person. Colorism. It's even, it's even.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6623.986

Okay. That, yeah. Wait, hold that up again. Now it looks darker. Oh, this is much. What has happened? Are you sure? I think you might've held up the pink.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6637.73

Something goes, zoom out. It's like 10 shades darker. That's your, almost your skin color.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6644.599

That's great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6678.256

Could it have quadrupled since the last time you Googled it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6695.788

All right. Let's just say the last time you looked at it up, it was 22 grand a year.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6704.299

Who knows? But I... Just go there and then find out. When you get the bill, tell us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6740.196

That's crazy. Still adjusting to that info.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6748.763

Because you're an Anne Hathaway super fan?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6753.805

Right, from your Shakespearean knowledge.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6762.768

We need to interview her to get to the bottom of whether or not that was intentional or not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6769.771

It would kind of confirm the story I've made up about her in my head. Okay. Which I feel like she was just born to be an actor. Oh. Like, I feel like she's probably been acting since she was one years old.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6783.766

Okay. Is that her real age? No, I didn't see it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6795.537

Please, Anne. Even if the interview's 30 seconds and you tell us whether that was intentional or not, we'll take what we can get.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

68.237

yeah really really cool and then just a sweetheart love her so please enjoy allison jones we are supported by pokemon and their incredible pokemon trading card game the pokemon trading card game is a gift this holiday season that will delight gamers collectors and pokemon fans alike parents maybe you grew up collecting pokemon or watching the show on saturday mornings well i'm

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6805.283

I'll dress up as Bill Shakespeare.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6822.858

You are so mean to people of color. And I'm here to be an advocate and an ally.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6831.542

I am very disappointed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6840.265

Yeah. They did.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

685.362

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, so when you get to Pomona, is this true that at Pomona, you find kind of a comedy geek culture?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6853.569

No, no, no.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6854.809

No, you'll be a moose knuckle. Pantone moose knuckle.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6869.328

Oh my, so many good things. Very even age number for me. I love that.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6874.39

Brown mouse for you.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6880.57

It's a quarter of a century.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6888.077

Yeah, because I was born in 75.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6895.363

Yeah, all quarters.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

6917.899

Thank you.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

725.663

Now they run the world. Now they run the world. Yeah, remember Revenge of the Nerds was like this preposterous scenario where the nerds would defeat the jocks and now the world is.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

746.386

Yeah. So you had a visual arts major there. And what was your goal with that?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

758.829

You're inching your way towards LA.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

762.15

For people who don't know, Pomona is like 60 miles out and Glendora is like 35 miles out.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

779.249

Right.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

783.034

Yeah. So you leave there. How on earth do you end up at Family Ties as a casting director?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

799.769

Buy some time and get a job, yeah.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

816.321

I totally think that's true because even when I graduated in 2000, all in was $3,800 a year.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

847.349

People were still smoking and drinking all day long?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

888.782

Your friend is like your guidance counselor. She is my guidance counselor.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

899.606

It's a bonding. It was a total bonding thing. It's like friendships forged in war.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

906.148

Do you remember what about the casting process interested you?

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

93.351

How fun would it be to bond with your kids over Mewtwo's psychic prowess? Or how Pokemon can evolve from a cute Charmander to a fiery flying Charizard? Games are such a great way to get the whole family together. And if you don't already know how to play, no worries, because it only takes minutes to learn. Plus, Pokemon cards are not just fun to play with, they're also a joy to collect.

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

938.027

That's why I think this episode will be so fascinating because you just are presented with this show. You're very far removed from Hollywood. In the best case scenario, you're just buying into the notion these are real kids in high school in Beverly Hills, 90210. You're not even considering, oh, that's an actor and...

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Allison Jones (Award-Winning Casting Director)

950.636

And the notion that there's a whole rung of this industry that's in charge of scouting, finding and getting those people in.

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David Sedaris #5

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, experts on expert. I'm Dan Shepard, and I'm joined by Sticky Brain. Sticky Brain, my new nickname. Your new moniker.

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David Sedaris #5

100.079

I really do recommend you go see him live. There's really nothing like it.

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David Sedaris #5

1017.854

He's going to flatter you if you want to hear that you're young.

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David Sedaris #5

103.843

And as I've been talking about lately, we're listening to his short stories every night before bed. There's one-offs before bed. It's just, it makes me so happy.

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David Sedaris #5

1092.179

Oh, yeah, yeah. Do they have some symbols above their alphabet, too, they play with?

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David Sedaris #5

1110.663

My childhood friend who's just out, Ken Kennedy.

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David Sedaris #5

1114.825

I've used his name in many movies if I have to improv because it has such a great alliteration. So Ken Kennedy, he lived in Novi, Michigan, and he grew up on Buckminster Way. And one night he was coming home from work and he got pulled over by a cop and the cop came up to the window. License and registration.

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David Sedaris #5

1130.549

Looks at his thing and goes, do you have any idea why I pulled you over tonight, Mr. Buckminster? He saw his street name. I thought his name was Buckminster. Like really trying to hand it to him. It was a big mistake. It was a street name.

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David Sedaris #5

1166.57

You just call that out?

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David Sedaris #5

1179.573

Something specific that you could actually answer.

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David Sedaris #5

1191.295

Yeah, it's just like getting through every single thing.

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David Sedaris #5

1232.008

At a hotel or at the airport? At the airport.

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David Sedaris #5

1271.426

And you think that's like a test of something.

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David Sedaris #5

1277.247

That's interesting because I don't want to get political. But when I was sounding the alarm a year ago going, guys, Biden, he's too old. We must have another option. And people were offended by that. My analogy was if you got on an airplane and Biden came out of the cockpit and I was like, you know, you get the fuck off. It isn't running this huge country more important than flying one airplane.

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David Sedaris #5

1301.686

I thought that was a good analogy. It was big. Thank you so much. It's probably tied with your Down syndrome analogy.

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David Sedaris #5

1325.507

People are like, do you watch the debate? And I'm like, no, no, I would never watch that. I don't want to see like on YouTube years ago, bum fighting, right? They pay two homeless guys to fight. I don't want to see that.

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David Sedaris #5

1336.573

You haven't heard of bum fighting? Oh, it's so nasty.

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David Sedaris #5

1368.972

What did you do? Every now and then you're on a show and it goes somewhere and you're like, fuck, I'm just standing now in this situation.

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David Sedaris #5

1393.317

Yes. There should be some mention of bum fighting if you look that word up in the dictionary. Is that the word? Exploitative?

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David Sedaris #5

1458.209

You just wanted to have his frame.

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David Sedaris #5

1463.274

I have a similar situation. And really who it bit the most in the ass was Kristen, which was I was in Italy and I have a good relationship with Ducati. I got to tour the factory where they make the motorcycles in Bologna. And the tour was given to me by this very, very nice man who did not speak nearly any English. And he had a very cool vintage Ducati leather jacket on.

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David Sedaris #5

1486.751

And I had mentioned two or three times how awesome his jacket was. And at the end, he took off the jacket and he tried to give it to me. And I was like, oh, no, no, I absolutely cannot accept this vintage jacket. I was successful in not taking the jacket, but I was so moved by this gesture. He said, oh. I'm going to Los Angeles. And I was like, you must stay with us.

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David Sedaris #5

1510.443

I was really panicked because the gesture was so nice and he fucking did. This man came for a week at our old house and I was working the whole week shooting a show and Kristen wasn't working. There was just an Italian man in our house that spoke almost no English.

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David Sedaris #5

1526.655

Bring that jacket when you come.

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David Sedaris #5

1530.418

Yeah, exactly. I regret not taking the jacket after he was there day seven.

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David Sedaris #5

1639.941

Yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

1642.483

Were you doing readings in Australia? Yeah. Okay, so you two are worldwide. Yeah. What are some of the countries? Australia. Yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

1664.675

Of everyone you saw as vacation.

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David Sedaris #5

1691.235

Ha ha ha.

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David Sedaris #5

1703.861

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm not in a position to judge. I haven't had 11. God. I want an update from you. Where are you at on your smile journey? Because we've kind of caught you throughout your progress. You had gotten all your teeth fixed, but you were telling us that even though they're fixed, you still just have this muscle memory where you hate to smile.

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David Sedaris #5

1730.305

You don't ever want to see those things.

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David Sedaris #5

1824.527

Maybe they were in love. I got to pick the right species that would be smart enough to be consenting. Like maybe they were in love with a small chimpanzee and they wanted to consummate the relationship. We've talked about this a lot. Like, is there an animal that is morally fine to be in love with? And we've concluded that female humans can guilt free date male dolphins.

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David Sedaris #5

1843.695

Because male dolphins are so horny. They constantly are getting caught trying to fuck the people they're swimming with. They're perverts. And there's these scientists that studied them and the dolphins fucked some of the scientists. We don't think it's right for a male human to fuck a female dolphin. But vice versa is totally fine with us. What's your verdict on that?

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David Sedaris #5

1864.313

Because bonobo chimps are famously very horny. So I think I'd be fine with a male bonobo chimp dating a female.

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David Sedaris #5

1875.683

Okay. But ethically. It's more an ethics question.

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David Sedaris #5

189.444

My prized possessions are behind me. He was mad that the face wasn't turned out. And I said, I don't care about a fucking picture. I want the writing of this man I idolize.

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David Sedaris #5

202.208

Maybe I'll do a glass wall in my next house. And I'll hang it. And you can choose what side you want to see.

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David Sedaris #5

2048.858

They also must be master disassociators because they can just literally leave the world and go inside their shell. You know, they can really disassociate quite literally. I read the hem of his garment this morning, which is phenomenal. It was in the New Yorker September, I guess, of last year. That's a pretty crazy story. We tell Monica that you got invited to go meet the Pope.

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David Sedaris #5

2107.227

You listed every comedian that was invited virtually in the article. And you're like, each one of those people I would want to hang out with for sure and meet more than the Pope. But they're going to be there. So this is kind of a fast path to meet all these other people I would.

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David Sedaris #5

215.351

I would expect that from Fiji and not from Egypt. Where is this from? No way! That's impossible timing. You just brought up being in Egypt, there being bad postcards, and then here one arrives.

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David Sedaris #5

2156.25

I see them once a month. Everything worked out.

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David Sedaris #5

2161.473

That's what I don't understand. I would presume if I were you, oh, he wants to have some kind of dialogue. Right. As you said in the article, yeah. Why have you guys all come and then he sits in a chair and then this woman makes a speech and then that's that. What was gained from this?

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David Sedaris #5

2183.107

Did anyone ever translate it to you?

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David Sedaris #5

2193.312

It sounds more like he was acknowledging your contribution to the planet.

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David Sedaris #5

2201.156

Why don't you all fly here so I can tell you.

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David Sedaris #5

2208.082

But he had said faggotry twice in the three weeks preceding David's arrival. He said it in Italian, but it translates to faggotry.

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David Sedaris #5

2242.368

Yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

2245.49

You shook his hand. Friends of yours had advised you should kiss his ring. Then others said, no, you don't. He actually doesn't like getting his ring kissed.

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David Sedaris #5

2253.914

Did you watch Conclave? Loved it. I loved it. But you must have had a particular interest having just been there and experiencing that. Did you cry when you watched Conclave? I didn't cry. Did you?

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David Sedaris #5

2291.341

Right.

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David Sedaris #5

2293.302

You don't know the lyrics to it.

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David Sedaris #5

2301.948

Yeah, I did too.

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David Sedaris #5

2306.11

Well, that's where the story goes.

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David Sedaris #5

232.301

You know what's so nice about this is that I wasn't going to bring up that I haven't gotten a postcard from you in a while, but I've thought about and noticed and been scared that I haven't gotten a postcard from you in a while. And I would have never brought it up, but here one has arrived, and now I don't have anything to even ruminate about. Do you want to read it aloud? Well, I don't know.

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David Sedaris #5

2322.443

Well, before you get to there, I need to know, are you off the dome that knowledgeable about all those articles of clothes? Or do you yourself have to do some research when you write that piece?

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David Sedaris #5

2336.214

And they're inherently interesting, those names. Like, they're words I've never heard. So I'm like, ooh, I'm intrigued by this.

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David Sedaris #5

2362.442

Julie Louis-Dreyfus. What could be more fun than having her in tow?

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David Sedaris #5

2367.306

So you were trying to think of a ruse by which you'll be able to buy these robes.

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David Sedaris #5

2394.649

They're scared you'll see all their sins just screaming across their face.

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David Sedaris #5

24.786

Heavyweight champion, returning number five. Yeah. Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. David Sedaris. My God, I couldn't love someone more.

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David Sedaris #5

2401.126

I'm an atheist and I don't like looking at a priest. I'm like, he can see what a scumbag I am. This is his stock and trade. He's like, you fucking need to come in. I think it triggers that in people like, oh, we're in trouble.

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David Sedaris #5

2444.363

Because they're living a very pure life.

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David Sedaris #5

2461.215

I can't imagine anything more amusing than being on a trip to London and knowing who you are and then just looking over and seeing you strolling around in a priest's outfit.

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David Sedaris #5

2470.322

I would be dying. I'm almost jealous of anyone who saw you and knew who it was.

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David Sedaris #5

249.699

These are like private exchanges.

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David Sedaris #5

2497.99

Will you tell Monica your joke about Epstein nails?

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David Sedaris #5

255.869

Somehow, this one stings for some reason. I want to read this first by myself in my bed. And then maybe on the fact check.

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David Sedaris #5

2578.7

Have you watched him? Have you seen him? Oh, you would absolutely love it.

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David Sedaris #5

2614.108

And then back to—I almost brought this up when you were talking about the Down syndrome check-in person, which is he has several family members that have Down syndrome, and he has opened up a bagel and coffee shop in the small town he's from that's run entirely by these Down syndrome people. And he goes, yeah, it's running. You know, it's up.

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David Sedaris #5

2629.795

People go in, and it's going exactly how you think it would.

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David Sedaris #5

2678.732

You can't eat chocolate.

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David Sedaris #5

2688.938

He's from, I think, Pennsylvania.

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David Sedaris #5

2716.193

I'm glad you liked him. I think he's the funniest guy. We saw him live at the Greek, and it's the greatest stand-up I've ever seen. You would love his special.

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David Sedaris #5

2764.105

Do your part. Oh, one thing I want to hear you talk about, a tiny bit is in the hem of his garment, you say, I'm not queer, I'm gay. Tell me the distinction between that.

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David Sedaris #5

2789.63

Which is it used to be yelled at you, right?

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David Sedaris #5

285.079

Okay, I'm going to read it. Thank you. Good idea. Because there's nothing incriminating, but okay. Dear Dax, have you been to Egypt? If you like being hassled and tugged on, it's the place for you. There are a hundred million stray cats there, so it's good too if you're afraid of mice. I didn't see a single one in Australia now. Sincerely, David Sedaris. These are my...

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David Sedaris #5

2867.919

Or wouldn't you just rather be Native American or be black?

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David Sedaris #5

2964.039

I do read the comments of this show and I had made a Boy Scout joke. I've now forgotten. It was like a Boy Scout leader and a young boy walking into the woods and they're going to go camping. I'm sure you know this one.

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David Sedaris #5

2976.293

Yeah, exactly. The little boy goes, oh man, I'm so scared. It's so dark. He goes, how do you think I feel? I'm going to have to walk out alone. It's a great joke. Someone was very mad at me. How dare you make that joke? It's disgusting. And I wrote to them. I was molested. If I earned a single thing out of that, I can fucking make that joke as many times as I want.

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David Sedaris #5

2994.348

And she goes, well, I wasn't so I don't know. And I was like, well, you weren't. And you're telling me how to deal with it. You don't have any business in this, really. That one got me mad.

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David Sedaris #5

3057.745

Takes away her autonomy in this somehow.

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David Sedaris #5

3076.033

I have that fantasy, too. Like, I wonder if I sat and talked with them. Could we join the same reality together at some point? I do have a curiosity. Like, some of these people are very mad. I just want to go like, I would love to have lunch with you and see if at the end of that lunch you could really still feel that way.

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David Sedaris #5

310.831

Yeah, I don't want to make you uncomfortable. These are like the treasures of treasures. We have the fires. I put my journals in a huge fucking suitcase, and then I grabbed this off my wall.

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David Sedaris #5

3100.376

I think what's a little bit happened is there was a barrier of effort before where your passing thought to get to you would have involved sitting down and writing on paper and then finding an address and a stamp and all that. So you wouldn't do it. You would just let it remain a passing thought. But now you're already at the keyboard and the passing thought can come out.

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David Sedaris #5

3119.445

And so I have to often check myself and go, let's just recognize this person might not even think this. It was in their head that second and they had the keys right there and they did it.

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David Sedaris #5

3198.33

That's kind of my policy. I don't defend myself, but I defend other people I like. I'll get involved in the comments to defend other people. You wrote a children's book, Pretty Ugly. Did people buy it?

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David Sedaris #5

3229.472

So it was done 20 years ago, but it came out a couple of years ago. Yeah. Okay. What I love about, cause you're on Seth Meyers talking about it, but you're like, there's no message in this book for the kids. There's no lesson and there's no message. And I just loved your defense of that.

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David Sedaris #5

3255.985

The baseline of piece of shit has not really fluctuated at all. Pre or post all these great books.

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David Sedaris #5

3267.495

Dr. Seuss was pretty good at, he wasn't beating kids over the head with anything, but you're right. There's this impulse for everyone to teach them a lesson every second they're awake. And it must be exhausting.

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David Sedaris #5

3306.343

It's been a while.

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David Sedaris #5

3339.267

Okay.

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David Sedaris #5

334.175

What did you say?

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David Sedaris #5

3351.593

We did a whole episode on toilets as they vary around the world. And the German toilet in particular is designed with a landing pad so you can examine your shit to diagnose your health.

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David Sedaris #5

3367.252

Why is there a staging area for my turd before it fucking goes into the sewer system?

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David Sedaris #5

337.616

Grabbable. See, I'm jealous that you have that because in all these different fears I have, like somehow I'll still end up penniless. I'm still convinced that'll happen. I would like one item that I could just put in a backpack and land somewhere and be like, OK, well, I will have rent for some time. This Picasso is going to still be valuable.

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David Sedaris #5

3375.359

I like it.

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David Sedaris #5

3416.326

I'm shocked because I didn't think I would ever wander into the area that you're a prude. I mean, you have knowledge. This is like very prudish of you.

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David Sedaris #5

3432.256

So when you guys get a hotel room, do you make sure you get a suite that has two toilets in it so that you guys can split up?

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David Sedaris #5

3457.276

Time for me to practice my accordion.

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David Sedaris #5

3474.148

Now's the time to try to move your bowels. Yeah. This is interesting.

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David Sedaris #5

3483.792

Does it ruin the romance?

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David Sedaris #5

3492.776

I'm glad I know this about you now because I talk about it a lot. And I probably would get myself disinvited had I not known this prior to coming over.

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David Sedaris #5

3503.08

They're two different paradigms.

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David Sedaris #5

3507.642

I think it's funny. I think it's very inherently funny.

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David Sedaris #5

3513.204

Do you like a pant shitting story? That's my all-time favorite story.

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David Sedaris #5

3520.307

Yes. Bending over to pick up some wood in the bathroom was a quarter mile away. Yeah. And I know there's cameras in there and I know I'm recognizable and I'm walking. I clearly shit my pants. Did I tell you when I got in there, the great relief was there's trash cans in all the stalls at Home Depot, which I think lets you know what the overall health of the laborers in the parking lot is like.

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David Sedaris #5

3543.306

Clearly, they had so many pairs of underwear in the bin for the paper towel that they were like, we got to put 55 gallons of trash. She can't sit in each stall.

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David Sedaris #5

3562.64

Oh, yeah. That's a gift, though. You get immediately excited.

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David Sedaris #5

3587.358

It triggered your laziness thing again.

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David Sedaris #5

3589.901

I think that's the recurring theme is that when you smell laziness. Literally. Fucking handle your business. It wasn't about anything other than that.

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David Sedaris #5

3602.077

And he just still stinks a bit.

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David Sedaris #5

3631.207

I sent Monica a photo one time I was at the pharmacy and I was in line and the woman in front of me who was wearing yoga pants had shit herself. Her pants were full of shit and she was waiting in a very long line and she was so casual. And I just thought, this woman's a gangster. I couldn't do that. I had to admire the bravery and the fuck it-ness of her demeanor.

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David Sedaris #5

3652.754

I just was like, man, when I shit my pants, I'm racing to handle it. This one was like, no, I'm going to stop by the pharmacy. That's on my list. God knows where else she went. She might have gone grocery shopping.

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David Sedaris #5

368.348

I understand it.

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David Sedaris #5

3686.433

Yeah. There would have been a lot of offensive things for you.

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David Sedaris #5

3692.236

The entree would be the sweatpants.

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David Sedaris #5

37.197

Yeah. What an honor to have him as our most frequent guest. If I had to pick a most frequent tie between him and Malcolm Gladwell. Yeah, we got some good ones. We got a couple of good repeat offenders. Sedaris is a humorous, a comedian, an essayist, a bestselling author, a radio contributor. He's on the television on one of those morning shows. He's got kind of an Andy Rooney vibe on set.

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David Sedaris #5

3709.935

Okay, I was earmarking Instagram because Amy's so funny on Instagram.

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David Sedaris #5

371.991

My argument is if you enjoy the image, I don't understand the difference between a nice print and the original work of art. Unless you're collecting it for an investment. But like if your claim is just I look at this and I feel a certain way, I think it's a mental trick that because there's only one of them, I feel even more differently.

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David Sedaris #5

3715.123

She's so great at it. I don't know where she's finding me. She is the most obscure. I implore everyone to follow Amy Sedaris on Instagram. It's probably the best follow on Instagram other than Shaquille O'Neal. Where is she finding this? Do you ask her? She's just at it all the time. She's scouring the corners, though, of the internet.

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David Sedaris #5

3732.075

Yeah, she's like a museum curator. She's not posting pictures of herself or anything.

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David Sedaris #5

3741.903

I don't know her at all. I've never met her. I feel like I know her better than anyone I know who's posting actual photos of their real life. I'm like, oh, I understand her brain completely by these posts.

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David Sedaris #5

3770.111

Does it ever encourage you to have an Instagram?

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David Sedaris #5

3775.454

Okay. So you don't really have one, but the team has one.

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David Sedaris #5

3788.601

I understand. But I feel like you might be able to curate some stuff as well.

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David Sedaris #5

3820.333

Given the position you have on the calves, what is your thought on the Ozempic Trizepatide GLP-1?

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David Sedaris #5

3830.095

And you walk 30,000 steps a day.

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David Sedaris #5

3839.237

Yes, I'm so supportive of it. But I was just curious, since you put so much fucking effort into this.

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David Sedaris #5

3856.354

Although diabetics have been on this medicine for like 20 years. They do. I don't think that's a really strong objection.

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David Sedaris #5

3867.884

How long do you stay in the tub when you're in there? 45 minutes.

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David Sedaris #5

3885.854

You ate most of Whoopi Goldberg's dinner at the Pope invitation.

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David Sedaris #5

3891.758

Well, we should really have a meal because that could get violent.

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David Sedaris #5

3901.025

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. That's when you know you're there.

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David Sedaris #5

3927.441

Yeah. Same with me and my brother. Limited resources. And it was a race every time we ate. And I hate sharing. I think of myself as a very generous person. I'll buy you anything. I don't want to share any of my food. I don't enjoy it. I'd rather not do it.

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David Sedaris #5

3974.648

When we're ordering, that's where I have to start the whole process. My wife will go, oh, should we get such and such for the table? And I'll go like, well, I want one for myself. So make sure I have my own appetizer. And I feel crazy, but I can't even enjoy it because I'm racing.

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David Sedaris #5

398.588

Well, first of all, I wouldn't tell anyone I had one. This would just be for me to sit in a room and stare at and get whatever transcendent thing you all are claiming to get from it.

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David Sedaris #5

3991.485

But I don't mean to. I don't want four people sharing two. I want three people sharing one and I have my own.

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David Sedaris #5

3999.51

Exactly. I want my own and then the sharing one we're all getting.

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David Sedaris #5

4015.8

Oh, yeah. You might like this. We were in Austin six months ago and we went to Lambert's, my favorite steakhouse there. I got a ribeye. And you would know as a fellow addict. The first bite, I'm angry. I'm like, fuck, this is so good. It's going to disappear. I should have ordered two. It'd be crazy now if I ordered a second one because Monica will be waiting.

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David Sedaris #5

4038.564

I was very uncomfortable with how good it tasted and how panicked I was it was going to run out. So we went back two nights later and I got two ribeyes. I could relax and breathe and I enjoyed the shit out of both of them. But it's like, you know, when something's so good, my first thought is like, fuck, it's going to go away.

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David Sedaris #5

4110.087

Can you relate to the panic the second you recognize it's something you really love?

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David Sedaris #5

4118.709

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. It's pretty great. My fetish is that same hotel.

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David Sedaris #5

4135.778

I will go just for that now. That's still the greatest gift in life is when you have a meal like that.

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David Sedaris #5

4154.99

Yes, yes, yes. That's very smart. Tactical.

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David Sedaris #5

4164.735

I know. I've thought of many people I know who live to eat, and I thought, I can understand that they don't want to lose their passion.

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David Sedaris #5

4172.599

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

4189.193

What's your single favorite dish of his?

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David Sedaris #5

420.707

Yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

4209.459

The big boys. They're like a taco shell, pasta style.

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David Sedaris #5

4230.724

Well, you just eat half of a manicotti, I guess. I have many friends on it and they seem to still enjoy it. They just don't want to overdo it like you and I want to do.

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David Sedaris #5

4250.732

Or I'm regularly at a table and people go, should we get that banana pie to have a bite?

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David Sedaris #5

4255.975

I just don't eat dessert. I got to do some bargaining with myself. So I'm like, I'll go savory. I go as hard as I want on savory, but that's off the table for me. And I just think, look at these psychopaths. They're going to order a dessert and they're going to have a bite.

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David Sedaris #5

4287.797

Okay, and you want to be this very specific weight.

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David Sedaris #5

4301.183

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You just talked about your mom and how much you like that it reminds you of her. And I just want to say out loud, I heard you say the sweetest thing in one of these interviews I was watching where you said, my whole mission as a writer has been to make the rest of the world love my mom as much as I did.

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David Sedaris #5

4406.948

Okay. You're going on a 40 city tour. You do every single year, right?

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David Sedaris #5

4412.452

Do you love being on the road? Yeah, I do. You will do a reading. And as you already know, lots of armchairs go and we hear about it all the time. Like, oh my God, I saw Sedaris and Skokie. I saw him in all these places. And you do book signings generally and they go on until they're over, right? Yeah. How long are they?

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David Sedaris #5

4435.887

Right. Can't you get piles? Is that a thing? Isn't piles the old word for hemorrhoids?

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David Sedaris #5

444.611

Why do you have to force yourself to go through all of his worst moments?

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David Sedaris #5

4446.934

Gotcha.

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David Sedaris #5

4470.045

I reread themes and variations today. Do you recall that story of yours? It's so good, and it's all about signing. I mean, mostly. There's so much fodder in these signings. You get so many wonderful stories. But, yeah, this woman came up to David and said, like, I put my bra back on for you.

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David Sedaris #5

448.733

Yeah. It's interesting that it's really troubling for people with artists and art, but no one is like, guys, bad news. Einstein raped his niece. E equals MC squared. We can't touch it no more. No one has any issue with any kind of scientific breakthrough that was done by a monster. There's no moral dilemma.

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David Sedaris #5

4515.013

Now he starts asking everyone who comes up to get a book sign. When do you take your bra off?

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David Sedaris #5

4523.739

Yes. Some of the women are like, oh, heavens no, I take it off in the car. They don't wait to get home.

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David Sedaris #5

4532.409

And I hadn't even thought of it either. Reading that story again, I was like, it must feel incredible to get that fucking bra off. Like I can actually feel the sensation of liberating these boobs that have been bound up.

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David Sedaris #5

4569.164

You're not dying to get out of it. No. Now, is there any element of that that you're like, I must protect their buoyancy?

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David Sedaris #5

4576.447

Why you don't take it off right away. No. No.

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David Sedaris #5

4579.648

Okay.

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David Sedaris #5

4582.19

Yeah, big, big shout out.

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David Sedaris #5

4605.345

I've had girlfriends. That's why I asked. I've had girlfriends that are like, I have to keep it on until I go to bed because I don't want them to get saggy. They're thinking of maintaining the buoyancy of their breasts.

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David Sedaris #5

4622.458

But I'll tell you this from anecdotal experience and one experiment. My testicles were getting droopier and droopier and droopier. And one of the most embarrassing moments I had, which I've told on here before, is I was shooting as a guest star on the TV show and the lead actress was not working that week. They gave me her trailer.

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David Sedaris #5

4642.451

And this is a very perverted and I'm sorry for this story, but this was 20 years ago. I already love it. I finished my last day of work and then I was told, oh, they're actually calling her in, this actress, back to her trailer. And so I started getting kind of horny with the notion that she might walk in while I was naked.

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David Sedaris #5

4662.204

And then I happened to walk by a mirror and it was a very hot day that day of shooting. And I looked and I was like, oh my God, my testicles are longer than my penis. This is a nightmare if she walked in and saw how droopy these balls are. Your dick should always be further down than your testicles. And again, this was 20 years ago.

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David Sedaris #5

467.466

It's like if this thing serves me, it's a technology I want, I don't give a fuck what the person who invented it did. Yet the art serves you. You can't really make an argument that one's more important than the other. Yet there is this very arbitrary distinction we make between scientists who are pedophiles and shit and then artists that were.

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David Sedaris #5

4682.515

And I was like, where are these balls going to be when I'm fucking 50? Like, I'll have to tuck them in my socks. That's what I was in route to. Then I did a movie. I guess it was 10 years ago, nine years ago. And in the scene, I had to wear me undies. They were tight. They were boxer briefs. And I was like, oh, I actually like these. And I switched to those kind of panties.

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David Sedaris #5

4702.488

And David, my testicles are half the length that they were when I was wearing boxers for a decade.

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David Sedaris #5

4710.015

I'll never call a woman's undergarments panties, but I exclusively will call men's panties panties.

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David Sedaris #5

4731.399

What would you say? Unmentionables? No underwear.

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David Sedaris #5

4761.195

So long, happy life.

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David Sedaris #5

4763.637

We're going to have to do some Googling. I could have put mine in a ponytail.

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David Sedaris #5

4822.336

That's the problem. I have seen enough documentaries about nudist colonies. It's just not what you want it to be. It doesn't attract the people you want to see.

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David Sedaris #5

485.319

Thank you. I wanted to land one good point today.

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David Sedaris #5

4860.092

Clean out their seersucker suit.

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David Sedaris #5

4864.914

Yeah, it's not sexy. You don't want it to be sexy. It's not sexy. If there's dick and balls around, I'm going to stare at them. I can't imagine myself getting immune to it.

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David Sedaris #5

4884.12

Yes, yes.

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David Sedaris #5

4887.261

Yeah, that's my straight privilege. I can totally stare at dicks and balls. Yeah. And no one thinks anything. It's not dangerous for me.

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David Sedaris #5

4910.072

Well, my bigger issue is it's always the same thing. No one's worried about a trans man going into the bathroom. They're worried about a trans woman going into the girl's bathroom. So they believe that this person is a predator who will abuse children. And they're like, they can't be in the girl's bathroom. They must be in the boy's bathroom.

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David Sedaris #5

4927.685

There's no concern that the boys are going to get molested by this predator. It's just like they're with girls. They can't be with girls. They must be with the young little boys. Nothing got safer. You prioritize little girls getting molested over little boys. Does that make sense? Yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

4946.704

It's craziness. And how you're monitoring this. Let's say it passed. No trans women in the bathroom. Is someone at the door checking dicks and genitals? Is that what we're all signing up for? No trans men in the bathroom. I have to show my dick and balls to go into the... I mean, try to work out how it's going to be enforced, and I'm not clear.

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David Sedaris #5

4982.267

Shit, I already love you. Too late.

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David Sedaris #5

5025.038

Most hardcore racists, they've never even been in class with a black kid. They don't know any black folks. They hate them, but they've never, ever even met them. It's generally the case.

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David Sedaris #5

5034.886

Yes.

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David Sedaris #5

5065.023

You want Coleman Domingo to come live in your house? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

5071.186

Yes, I love him.

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David Sedaris #5

5073.567

Oh, my God. Do you know him? No. Oh, he is as special as they get.

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David Sedaris #5

5078.95

He's tall. He's got gorgeous legs. He was wearing short shorts.

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David Sedaris #5

5084.653

Yeah, he's crazy into fashion. Okay, but I want to really, really beg people to go see you in person reading your stuff. It's so, so fun. I've done it. And you're going to 40 cities in... I think people would be shocked how close you'll probably be to where they live. It's not like you're just in major cities. You're in Akron. You're in Fort Wayne. You're in Burlington, Albany.

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David Sedaris #5

5112.092

You're all over the place. People should go to davidsiderisbooks.com and get tickets. It's such a fun evening. And if you want to hear him ask you a weird question, very high likelihood that'll happen if you stay.

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David Sedaris #5

5123.883

in line you'll talk to everybody and you'll write something very inappropriate in their book you'll ask them a very inappropriate question it promises to be a real experience well that's nice of you yeah and also for anyone who's not listened to the audio book of happy go lucky i really recommend it because themes and variations that recording of that story is from a live show.

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David Sedaris #5

5148.174

And the amount of laughs in that, you don't pound for pound hear comedians really getting that long of laughs. It's such a funny piece, and to be in an audience listening to it I think is so great.

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David Sedaris #5

5163.606

That's a good idea.

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David Sedaris #5

517.939

Well, eating animals. When I bring it up to my friends and colleagues in Los Angeles, no one wants to acknowledge this. There will be a moment where they'll look back in time and they'll go... So anyways, in LA, you know, in 2025, brown people worked and white people didn't. White people didn't cut their grass. They didn't clean their house. They didn't make their food.

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David Sedaris #5

5172.714

I like that. That and... You're getting real-time feedback of what part we want to sit in for a second. Is it possible for you to really know what part we'd like to sit in for a second? But the audience forces you to sit in some things.

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David Sedaris #5

5216.404

You're working in like a stand-up routine in some way. And I think that's kind of cool and novel.

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David Sedaris #5

5226.767

Right, right, right, right. So anyways, everybody go to davidsiderisbooks.com and please go see David live before you perish because it's totally worth the trip. And then yes, listen to Happy Go Lucky because I had so much fun re-listening. I adore you. I think you're our leading guest.

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David Sedaris #5

5245.254

You're our Alex Baldwin. Let's keep it up.

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David Sedaris #5

5260.185

We want to go there and do a live show.

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David Sedaris #5

5264.268

And that's what I said. That's exactly what I told him to do. All right. Love you. Love you. See you around soon.

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David Sedaris #5

5277.299

You're stressed out.

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David Sedaris #5

5323.107

Yeah. In the most realistic way.

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David Sedaris #5

538.743

They didn't deliver their food. They didn't do anything. It was only brown people that did that stuff. People go, that's nuts. That's going to happen. And when I bring that up to friends and I'm not saying like fire your Latina housekeeper, I'm just saying have enough humility to say we're engaged in it now. And they'll go, no, what was a huge improvement from where my housekeeper came from?

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David Sedaris #5

5388.394

Yeah, we've built up a lot of artifice around what is at the end of the day, another animal on planet Earth. But we've created all these things and manufactured things. And then, yeah, we have institutions of thought and they all feel really substantial and permanent and real.

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David Sedaris #5

5405.166

nothing's real but it's just all stuff we made and it's ideas we thought up and told other people and they caught on we're just here i was thinking in the simplest terms they were going to breakfast they're always going to breakfast on the show and it seems so fun yeah i get like so excited at the notion of being at a hotel and going and getting breakfast when i see the scenes and i go oh yes breakfast is so fun and then i go yeah because it's eating

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David Sedaris #5

5432.59

It's the essential thing. We really do have a purpose, which is we have to eat food. That's like one of our purposes. Like the most consistent source of joy in your life is eating. Like you're almost guaranteed three times a day to have this like fun pick me up.

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David Sedaris #5

5448.723

Well, true. That's a good, bring up Ozemp.

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David Sedaris #5

5452.148

Peptides. Does that make any sense? I was like, it's, oh yeah, it's not a mystery why breakfast, lunch, and dinner is so fun because we have to eat to stay alive. That's our purpose.

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David Sedaris #5

5514.447

Well, hold on. No. Why? There's a very Buddhist approach to work. But it's for money. No. Well, if you make it about money, then yes. Being diligent and meticulous and thoughtful and mindful about process is very Buddhist.

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David Sedaris #5

5560.024

You're having a real reckoning.

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David Sedaris #5

5576.827

You love your bottle episodes. Yeah, yeah. You want to keep them going.

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David Sedaris #5

5585.609

Yeah, and you went to a new store.

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David Sedaris #5

559.558

And I go, that's exactly what the slave trader said. It's the same argument.

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David Sedaris #5

5598.212

Right, right, right.

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David Sedaris #5

5602.773

I'm just finishing the acquired Costco episode.

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David Sedaris #5

5622.287

Beautiful watch.

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David Sedaris #5

5636.712

You love a tiny face. Yeah. I like a bigger face.

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David Sedaris #5

5642.578

Okay.

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David Sedaris #5

5643.899

Do you need a magnifying glass to see what time it is? Almost. What if it came with its own matching magnifying glass you kept in your pocket?

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David Sedaris #5

5651.964

But it was tiny too.

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David Sedaris #5

5659.769

You had to tell your face not to react.

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David Sedaris #5

5664.972

Get it away from me.

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David Sedaris #5

5667.193

How much was it? $50,000. Oh, cowabunga. Yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

5700.24

Right.

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David Sedaris #5

5701.809

Like a bargain.

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David Sedaris #5

5710.832

Good girl, Callie. Good girl.

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David Sedaris #5

5715.834

Yeah, that's a think about purchase.

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David Sedaris #5

5720.015

She's like, just wait till you watch White Lotus on Sunday.

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David Sedaris #5

5725.517

Okay.

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David Sedaris #5

5733.722

Yeah, we spoke about it even. Yes.

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David Sedaris #5

5742.925

Yeah, you couldn't. No. Because my first thing would simply be anything vintage at a really nice store, they're marking it up 100%. So why not find it in the wild if you really want it?

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David Sedaris #5

5758.285

And you couldn't do it.

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David Sedaris #5

577.705

I think the fossil fuels will go more in the category of like, can you believe this is smoke? They pull smoke into their lungs and then hold it for a minute and do that several hundred times a day. It just seems stupid.

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David Sedaris #5

5811.427

Yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

5815.069

We sign off.

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David Sedaris #5

5818.273

Yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

5826.766

Yeah, yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

5847.541

Well, I took it as she was really disappointed in herself.

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David Sedaris #5

5897.406

Yeah, fast forward. But he basically asks his family members if they can live without money. Is that what you're going to say?

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David Sedaris #5

5904.209

That's the one that really hit me. So that one hit you. Yeah. The one that hit me was like, you know, yeah, the dad's finding out if these kids can live without money. His wife's already told him she can't.

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David Sedaris #5

5916.333

You know, I'm sitting there going like, yeah, if someone asks me that question, it feels like a way bigger proposition than I want it to feel. Yeah. I mean, it feels embarrassingly like I've become dependent on this thing. This thing gives me comfort. Like I think a less generous version is like people want to feel superior. I don't know if it's that dark for most people.

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David Sedaris #5

5942.278

Most people just want to know like I did good. I did good. There was like, you could do good or you could do bad. You could try hard or you could not try. You could study. You could like, okay, yeah, I did good. I did all the things I was supposed to and I did good.

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David Sedaris #5

5959.617

Much less than like, oh, I'm way better than Mike who can't own a pontoon boat.

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David Sedaris #5

5988.419

Well, what I totally agree with you on.

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David Sedaris #5

5992.121

What's dangerous is what you're really afraid to lose is actually not the trip or the first class. It's the pride that you did good. The notion that without those symbols of that, you could no longer say I did good, which is a terrible way to evaluate your life. Because it's also not a good friend and a good parent.

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David Sedaris #5

6024.072

Actual good. Yeah. Yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

6050.61

And even the belief that you have an identity. Because Buddhists are like, it's contextual. You're a different version in every single environment you enter. In this obsession with, no, I have one thing in all environments and in all contexts. Creates all this suffering.

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David Sedaris #5

61.454

I love it. His books, Happy Go Lucky, Me Talked Pretty One Day, Calypso, A Carnival of Snackery, the best titles ever. Yeah. Fresh Your Family in Denim and Corduroy. Oh, in Corduroy and Denim. Corduroy and Denim.

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David Sedaris #5

6117.211

Exactly. Yeah.

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David Sedaris #5

6119.532

Being alpha in the worst version.

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David Sedaris #5

6143.798

That's right. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6146.861

But I think the distinction between who is made miserable and who is it not is, is their identity just that achievement or not? I think it's tempting to just evaluate like expensive stuff is bad or expensive life is bad. And I don't, I'm not willing to go there. I think having your identity completely anchored to that is very bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6175.969

Now I've loved Buddhism and I've been reading it and I really like it. And it brings me a lot of perspective.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6181.793

But I'm also going to say the world can't be Buddhists. They could be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6186.76

We would not have vaccines. We would not have medicine. We would not have all the many things that we also really like and think are beneficial for mankind. That's not their pursuit. Their pursuit is acceptance and harmony. So, you know, I can't go fall. I don't think I'm willing to go full in on the whole world should be Buddhists and no craving and no striving and all that stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6209.647

Because I also don't, I don't, I think we're in a much, much different world. But maybe you could argue maybe everyone would be happier, but they'd be dying much sooner and there'd be no solutions for a lot of things we want solutions for.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6225.453

They're not going to band together to come up with the huge hydroelectric power plant or the sanitation system. That's not what they're going to do. They're going to live very simply in harmony.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6268.634

You've done this dance before. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6274.256

Yeah, yeah. Here's the scene I thought you were responding to. Is the teacher is saying, often we wake up with anxiety.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6284.46

He's like, we wake up with anxiety and we're uncertain about what will happen in the day. And we have fear. And so what we do is we reach for our identity, our ego. I don't remember the exact words, but we reach for that thing to comfort us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6300.857

And I like any time, AA is great at doing this, any time that someone acknowledges what the real feelings are. Like, yes, I wake up with anxiety all the time. That's my roughest part of the day is right when I wake up. Because it's like, yes, what could go wrong today? What has to be done that I'm afraid I can't accomplish? All this stuff. And so...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6324.997

It's almost CBT to just go, oh, yeah, they've been already acknowledging this for a long time. And they're basically just saying observe it as well. There's a little distance from it. There's an acknowledgement. It's very human.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6337.037

It's standard. That's what's very comforting to me about Buddhism. It's like, yes, these feelings are very normal to humans. And here's what you will normally do to try to push the fear away. And here's another thing you could do. And I like that part.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6357.052

The kind of global judgment of things. It gets too dogmatic and too like every other religion for me at that point. If there's like this big judgment thing, About other things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6390.47

Yeah, on the worst side and then just safety, which is defendable. But for all of it, there's always these, you know, there's just too many great exceptions for all of it. So it's like I immediately think of Bill Gates. Like here's a guy who, per a Buddhist assessment, has generated way too much of everything. Money. Create all these products.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

640.177

A little inner tube, a little model glue, set it ablaze. I thought maybe the server was going to come back and light up a cigar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6411.001

But that's clearly not his identity because he's giving everything he's made away. And he's impacting the world in measurably tens of thousands of lives saved. And so the whole endeavor is outside of that belief system. And I think really valid and admirable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6440.396

Yeah, well, I think his identity is kind of like Rockefeller's, which is like I was put here. I was given this crazy gift. It allowed me to generate all this thing and pull this money so that I can go fix things like that's their identity. And it's a cool one. I support it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

648.58

Oh, yeah, yeah. I smoked on an airplane on a flight to Germany when I was 16.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6493.22

Yep, that's true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6495.3

Anywho, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6498.581

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6503.502

I bet a lot of people listening would go like, I can't relate to this at all. But I would say, ask yourself this. If you could move to a place that's half the size that you currently live in. That's all that's happening. It's like, it's the proposition of having less than you have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6521.441

And I think that's a universal fear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6550.557

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6556.1

Quitting everything. I'm selling my house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6562.103

I do think it has the little bit of appeal that a geographic has. and people didn't listen to that episode 10 years ago, but a geographic is a common solution for addicts. It's also a common solution for people with mental health disorders. I'm gonna go somewhere else and I won't have my problems there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6581.269

And I do think there's a little bit of a fantasy. What I think if you sold everything and you quit your job and you got into this one bedroom, tiny bachelor thing, I don't believe your happiness or fulfillment or purpose is going up. I don't. I think you're gonna get in that little box and go, huh, wow, okay, I did all that because that was gonna result in something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6618.834

I'm just saying, I think if you did all that and you pursued all that, you would get to a point where like I could have done all this and not changed anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6665.003

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6670.526

I think fully committing to a singular view. I just, I like nuance in moderation. It's like, no, there's some good tenants and there's lots of great points to bring to your attention that you should observe and track.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6684.759

And you can improve on. But like, is full Buddhist the correct thing or not Buddhist at all, the capitalist thing, correct? I guess I'm just like, no, again, they're just two stories. They have valid points. And you try to make the version that leaves you with the most peace and contentment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6707.111

Achieve.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6710.574

Monkhood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6728.548

Reality.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6749.267

Anyhow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6752.51

Oh, boy, oh, boy. The fun thing about Sedaris, aside from that he's just so perfect every time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6759.876

Is it always reinvigorates me to go back and re-listen to all this stuff. And I've just, since we've interviewed him, I've just been on a tear of listening to all this stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6769.315

Listen to this incredible one in Happy Go Lucky. And the specific story is Lady Marmalade.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6779.74

It's wild. The stuff he is able to cover.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6786.363

It's kind of Mike Whitey, actually. He's just so brutally honest with it. The Marmalade story is about like over the years, the many weird things his dad did. That were very perverse, but didn't seem to cross the ultimate line for him. It was also, it was the 70s or whatever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6806.201

But like he examined, he wanted to examine David's asshole at one point because his stomach hurt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6814.246

And he's like, you probably have hemorrhoids. And he was like, didn't know what that was. And his dad made him bend over the counter and he looked at his ass. Now, as he said, he didn't like put his finger in his butt or anything, but he definitely like examined it. He said as if he were looking at a gem.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6829.61

And he did that three times throughout his childhood. He also wanted he was very into photography and had these art photo magazines. And he asked David's sister when she was 17 if he could take pictures of her topless in the woods. Yeah. It's like very bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6846.984

Just a series of things. And then later, his sister, who ultimately died by suicide or of suicide, accused the dad of sexual abuse.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6856.838

Um, and then them trying to siblings to, to evaluate whether they believe her or not, which is like so real.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

686.305

What if you're taking a red eye, David, and you left New York at 1.45 a.m. and then you could have one drink, then it was two. But as soon as you got to Chicago, all of a sudden it was 1.46 again and everyone got to have a round. And then you just chase the time change for the 2 a.m. cutoff. Although I guess in New York it's 4 a.m. That scenario would work great leaving Detroit because it's 2 a.m.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6864.102

It's just so real. It wouldn't be this way on TV and it wouldn't be this way in the media, but this is really what happened. This is what really happens.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6871.747

It's such a delicately assembled story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6901.96

If you really step back, it's interesting that they allowed drinking on an airplane.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6906.788

You got a hundred strangers sitting in a very tight area. I know. And you're allowing them to get drunk, which we know makes humans unpredictable. Yeah. You could see where it would have never been allowed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6916.71

I mean, I'm all for it. People are nervous. Makes the time go by. Yeah. You don't have a problem like me. It's lovely. Yeah. But it is a curious policy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6927.412

Like they should allow weed, I guess, too. But like, I don't know, mushrooms? Probably not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6938.456

Yeah, you wouldn't want the smoke. Yeah, you're eating it. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6941.898

It's fine, I guess. But there's obviously certain drugs. PCP, don't, no. It's going to be outdoors.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6954.284

Shooting dope, no. You can't have ODs up in the air.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6976.416

Right. But I don't know. I didn't know there were 39 articles of religion. I didn't either know that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

6985.421

Oh, I like surprises.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7003.742

And he said it's, well, Werner, yeah, Holsworth. Yeah, these are very German names, Wolf and Werner.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7018.036

Oh, and guys, just for the viewer, here's a holdup of it. And the listener, it's not like a little bit of bird poop. It's a big turd. It's like a soft serve turd. It's covering his entire head.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7033.039

Well, I cannot read this to the children.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7036.4

This is going to be right up their alley. They're disgusting like me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7041.045

I think I did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7046.191

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7047.833

Oh, fun. It's a yak dumping big plops of... You would know, you know, whenever you see that horse droppings, which I see on the hiking trail sometimes, make no mistake about it. It's horse dung.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7062.434

Because there's like clumps of hay still in it. Yeah. I'm so glad we don't eat hay. That's a Buddhist thing. They could probably figure out how to eat hay, but I can't. I want to eat ribeye.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7085.625

Oh, no. I'm not sure how this is going to work out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7094.151

Yeah, no, be a Buddhist when you get home. Okay. There's plenty of time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7101.938

Fully actualized.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7117.173

Do you love it as much as I did?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7153.805

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7159.067

It's so stressful. I almost want to watch it again without the stress. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7169.572

Yeah, you switched right from... Oh, this would interest you. I was talking to Tom Hanson. Well, I had lunch with, I had dinner with him yesterday before my meeting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7181.444

And he was just coming from seeing John Wells.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7186.887

And I said, he said, are you watching? I said, no, but Monica's watching it for me. And she brings it up on every single episode. And he's like, it is so good. He went on it. He is right with you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7201.055

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7202.028

He and I kind of went through the same transformation, right? Wasn't he a medium-sized boy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7214.656

But he's kind of, he's really masculined up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7222.048

You want his bod, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7224.829

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7232.712

No, that's ER, right? No. Oh, they guest starred on Friends as doctors. That's cute. Yeah, so that looks like me and Punk'd.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7243.417

And let's see him now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7245.017

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7249.878

Wow. Okay. So I'm just, I haven't watched.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7255.262

Oh, he can intubate like a motherfucker.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7259.165

Oh, in real life. Yeah. Probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7263.728

But you would think I would know how to mix some music from how many times I hit buttons on Parenthood and I don't know anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7271.374

Okay. Because he's a better actor. Because you haven't seen it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7277.378

Him intubate you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7280.636

Oh, you would? Yeah. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7287.224

No. I want you to expand how many people you let do surgery on you. Not limit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7294.473

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7298.369

I think you'll have enough surgeries.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7301.491

Let's hope not. There's enough surgeries for Noah and Ida.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7306.674

You're going to get another one of those piercings. I know you. I do want it. I know you so well. You'll get another infected piercing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7313.998

Another ring swollen around here. These are all coming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7325.225

Yeah, got infected. Your ears are telling you very clearly we don't want adornment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7332.91

Good for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7334.43

Identity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7342.134

I'm going to go in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7345.255

I'm just behind Unrighteous and I was behind on White Lotus. So.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

735.305

Because they would not give you change.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7353.396

Oh, Buddhist is your new pit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7365.178

Oh, my God. Yes. Yes. Ice cubes in it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7374.235

No one can figure out what's racist. That's so true and funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7379.882

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7399.487

Chef's kiss.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

74.562

He is on a 40-city tour across the United States starting March 30th till May 19th, including Burlington, Vermont, Albany, Philadelphia, Boston, Akron, Detroit, Fort Wayne, Dallas, Nashville, many, many more. Go to... davidsiderisbooks.com to see his tour. A lot of armchairs have gone per our suggestion. And I always hear how much they love it. He puts on a great show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

740.231

Oh, it's just a kindness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7428.999

I think I've eaten more than that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7432.58

Does it count human DNA in hot dogs?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7436.36

Oh, yeah, like one millionth of a human from the hot dog consumption.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7450.403

Oh, ding, ding, ding. This is what David's father was checking him for.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7459.184

I am shocked that I've never had a hemorrhoid. I'm shocked you haven't. It feels impossible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7464.086

I have some weak systems, but I have some bulletproof systems. As we know already, my teeth are bulletproof.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7470.208

I think my anus is too, because we both know I sit on that toilet for fucking, as long as I can. As long as my life will permit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7480.431

Until my legs fall asleep sometimes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7483.192

Fissures. Fissures, yeah. Yeah, I had a bad run of fissures.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7488.574

It's rough, but it's not a tongue hanging out of your butthole. Piles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

749.962

Right. Do you feel very protective of flight attendants? Because I do. Monica saw me get into it with a first class customer that was sitting in front of us in rapid order. He was at the bulkhead and he had his bag in front of his feet. There's nobody that doesn't know you can't have your bag there. Right. So they ask him to put it away. Oh, yeah, I'll get to it. And then he doesn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7494.879

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7496.54

Would you let Noah Wiley? You wouldn't let, would you let him look at your piles?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7513.474

Mature. Just about to be picked off the vine to made into wine. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7521.619

Oh, God. It's crazy he's still at it. It's exhausting work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7530.619

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7533.621

Okay, great. I love you, David Sedaris. Love you, David Sedaris. So much. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7543.348

Isn't it behind you? Yours is. Why isn't yours behind you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7548.632

Oh, that's a good place for it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7550.693

I thought for some reason it went behind your head.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7554.536

Okay. Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

7572.653

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

769.303

And then they come down. They really need to take up. So we really need you to put. Oh, I thought I could get it by you. No, you can't. So I'm flagging him. We're right behind him. I'm like, I don't like this guy and I'm going to pay attention to everything he does. So then the next thing was she came to say, have you made a selection for lunch? He said, what are the options?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

783.593

The menu's right next to you. Well, just tell me the options. We have a short rib and we have a chicken breast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

791.777

Chicken. It was a chicken thigh. And he says, is that white meat or dark meat? And I wanted to go like, how could you have gotten to 56 years old and not know the thigh is fucking dark? Me, why are you making this woman? So then I needed to pee. He had gotten up to pee. I'm sitting on the armrest. Clearly, I want everyone behind me to know, don't get up. I've claimed that I'm next.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

814.252

So when he exits, he sees I'm in the waiting position to go in. So he gets to his seat, which is one row in front of us. And then he decides to like open up the thing. He's just kind of looking around. He's not even grabbing his bag. He's just blocking it. And then like a hockey player, I just fucking ran through him and shoulder checked him into the seat. Do you like the ending of that story?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

835.247

Monica didn't like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

838.83

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

852.041

Because I represent you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

856.425

Because someone needs to smack this guy on the nose. That's why. That's very simply why.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

877.753

You're going to like the end of this story, actually.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

883.255

I was like, oh no, he was at that panel. We are just signing a deal with Amazon. That was an Amazon movie. Did I just fucking shove one of our new bosses? Now I'm staring through the gap when he lifts up his laptop to do some work. Thank God. It says his full name on this sign in for his password. And then the second we land, I open it up and I find out I was like, oh, he's just a fucking lawyer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

905.85

I knew it. He was like a lawyer representing one of the actors that was on the panel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

917.399

I would have given anything to fight him in a parking lot. That's how mad I was at how he's treating this flight attendant.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

976.147

Did he get shoulder checked?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

979.59

What needs to happen to him?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

David Sedaris #5

983.053

Okay. And he goes, eat this ass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1007.69

Great. Because I want to know if there's papers on this, like dureneal versus nocturnal rumination. My nocturnal rumination is its own thing or feels like its own thing. Like in the daytime, I think I have a lot of tools and I employ them pretty well. But I wake up at 3 a.m. and I am fucking defenseless. I'm even saying to myself, this is madness. You won't care in the morning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1025.658

Zero impact on the rumination. But we'll get to that. We'll get to the treatment that's coming our way. But there's a couple of things that you lay out in the intro that I think are worth repeating, which is you give these great examples of your husband, Adam, right? Go ahead. He's in the kitchen one morning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1073.499

Sure, sure. That's a side note. To be done with a couple's therapy. Yes, yes, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

111.491

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From biting her nails.

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I like those examples because it's an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure because I think a lot of people's pushback will immediately be, and mine is initially, I don't have time to add something to my plate, right? Like I don't want to do any mindful practice or I don't want to stop for five minutes in the middle of this experience to check in and use some of the tools.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1170.119

I don't have the five minutes to do that, but I would just argue that Nine times out of 10, it's going to cost you far more time. Because they do, they just compound and then, not to out my wife, but I watch my wife in the kitchen frazzle, then yes, she's moving too fast because she feels like she's jammed down.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1183.192

Now we've got a spilt thing and I'm just watching from the sidelines going like, oh, there's just a tornado of things now cascading.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1198.105

Almost all of us. We have some really counterproductive responses to stress. So people that are tight on money may find themselves overspending as the result of that. Or they have a big deadline and then the response is procrastination or trying to perfect the thing they have the deadline about. Or you're feeling anxious and you start researching this and hyper-focusing on it.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1221.04

So a lot of the ways we deal with this, is that you?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1255.569

So here's where you and I are perfectly aligned. And I can already tell you what the comments are going to be. People are going to yell at me and go, it saved my life. Lay off benzos. I'm not talking to you. I'm talking to the person.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1265.321

No, I need to yell at them. I'm not talking to you. I'm talking to the person that, as we described this, you know in your head, I could probably get through this without this. It is a huge epidemic no one wants to talk about. And in your book, 93 million prescriptions for benzos a year in this country. So, yes, a lot of people need them. They are saving some people's lives.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1281.68

They're also dramatically overprescribed. And there's a huge cadre of people who are addicted to them. I've watched people get sober for 20 years. It is one of the gnarliest things to get off of. Your brain chemistry is so altered for so long. You could be smoking crack for a year straight. After 30 days of sobriety, you'll be pretty back to normal. I've seen benzo addicts take a year to return.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1304.085

I'm so pro-drugs. Do MDMA. Go do mushrooms. But that one, really look out for.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

134.924

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1362.668

I'm moving through the world. I'm seeing tons of people really fucked up on benzos that I don't think most people are picking up on.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1416.927

Yeah, so that for people who don't know, GLP-1s are Ozempic, all the semaglutides.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1431.482

Well, that's cool that that's helping because they're starting to really look into those GOP ones for addiction. I'm very encouraged by it.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1477.319

I use a book on tape to get out of it, but yes.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1486.947

Okay. So people love this quote. I'm going to read it again. It bears reading. Viktor Frankl. Holocaust survivor, psychiatrist. What's his great book? He's got a great book.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1495.955

The quote is, between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space lies our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and freedom. And the goal of your book is to widen that space.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1530.429

The first part of the book is called Befriending Stress Emotions. And we're kind of already been dancing around it, right? Which is a bit of reframing or really coming to see it as something useful for you. And one was the knot to the bow. Do you want to elaborate on that at all?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

159.216

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1592.142

Yeah. How do we regulate our emotions?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1713.622

If I'm understanding this correctly, it's almost like you want to reverse the order of events. So you're saying normally you have an emotion, stress or whatever the thing is you're ruminating on. And then you start thinking about it. Your body has all these sensations. It starts responding. In the worst case, it's like getting into flight or fight.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1730.646

And then a behavior results from that sensation because you want to soothe yourself. So you pull out your phone and you start scrolling or you pull out your weed pipe and you take a hit or you do whatever thing. You go shopping. It's almost as if... Don't point at me. I'm not. So it's almost as if you're more thoughtful about...

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1750.472

putting your behavior first, then that almost reverse engineers itself. It goes in the other directions. Like I did something pleasurable that had some purpose and some community and some communication and then my body felt calm and relaxed and then my thoughts were better.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1825.284

Again, you just mentioned two more AA things. It's easier to act your way into thinking differently than thinking your way into acting differently. And that is so fucking true. Your brain sometimes will catch up with your actions and then you want self-esteem, do esteemable acts.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1855.309

Yeah, do you trip out at all? A lot of it is CBT that they didn't know was CBT. Okay, so let's talk about resets. So you have mind resets, body resets, and behavior resets. So how would these work?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

1889.912

Give me an example of a mind reset.

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1932.877

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20.215

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2099.74

Oh, baby, don't hurt me. Oh, yeah. He joins the Will Ferrell and Catan, the Roxbury Boys. Oh. And he sings that song.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

21.955

Hi, Mom. How are you doing today?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2134.719

We accept that insanity is repeating the same thing, expecting different results, and yet we're having the same thoughts we've been having for three decades.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2165.796

Yeah. And what about a body reset?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2208.342

Right, because it thinks you're submerged in water. It's got to save the most vital organs.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2231.932

What about box breathing or breathing exercises? Do you like those?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2239.763

Be more literal about that. So you breathe.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2242.166

Yeah, let's do it. I'm going to sit in the way you just did.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2246.432

For the listener, we've become very erect in our posture.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2279.052

I got a little glow across my face. Do you feel anything?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2293.517

I just want to now breathe the rest of this because it feels so good.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2316.002

slow breathing that they now don't prescribe medications they mostly prescribe this breath work and they're even working with people that are in disaster zones yeah back to laird that's his big thing he does like breathing workshops i was at this thing where you could do all these different kind of mini clinics and he hosted this breathing one i didn't do it because i'm like i know how to breathe i'm gonna go watch the animation thing and then by the end of the come

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2337.36

The most unanimous thing, the thing people liked the most, and there was really exciting offerings, was this whole breathing workshop he did. People were like, that was the best I felt in a decade.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2354.308

Yeah.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2360.453

Not to be so egocentric, but I do want to know what I'm doing when I do this. So my biggest breakthrough in road rage.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2368.76

which I am terrible about, not anymore, but I used to be terrible at it, is while I'm monitoring whoever I'm mad at, right, who I think is a bully on the road and I'm going to teach them a lesson, I make myself either start reading license plates, and I got to say them out loud, JL67, or start reading the signs of the buildings I'm passing. And I can't tell you how effective that's been.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2392.063

It's just like literally forcing myself to focus on something different than the thing I want to. That's what no one else wants to admit to. There's also a high that comes along with your self-righteous indignation. We get off on this. We're a little addicted to this. We like feeling superior and morally on our high ground. And the whole anger thing is a little intoxicating.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2409.747

For me, I also have to admit there's a bad cycle of kind of, you know, pleasure seeking in it.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2417.429

And then what about behavior resets?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

243.423

You have your own coffee shop, I see. Leora?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2430.038

Yeah, I think it requires kind of like a whole paradigm shift in your head. I know it happens in AA, right? Which people are like, I can't go to a meeting because I had a thing for my daughter. And I can't go to a meeting because I have a thing for work. And you have to really instill in people... You only have those things if you're sober. The whole thing's built upon this foundation.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2447.913

I think for a lot of people, the notion that they can't take a walk with a friend, that they don't have time to do that. So, well, if you can't do that, the rest of the things are going to go away or they're going to suffer.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

246.666

That's a matcha.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2466.245

What's the formula?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2489.8

We can't make it about us because it's too rife. Too explosive.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

249.649

Pistachio milk. Tell me about pistachio milk.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2504.75

This is a great one.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2535.872

I can imagine someone doing that for the very first time and then waiting with the craziest sense of anticipation of what the response is. Like if they've never tried that.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

26.792

I sent it to you.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

262.051

Do you have a preferred nut milk?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

263.911

That's a naughty sounding sentence, by the way. It is. It sounds terrible. Ew. I know, I'm sorry.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2632.749

It's got to take priority. Yeah, I like that technique quite a bit. Yeah. I don't have any problem with kind of confrontation.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2641.939

Yeah, I know some people are just completely arrested with this inability to have this uncomfortable exchange.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2649.645

Yeah, and I am so blessed. It's one of my blessings is I'm like, well, the alternative to me is not an option. Me being uncomfortable for two weeks versus being uncomfortable for 12 minutes on the phone, I'm going to always pick that for me. There's just like a cost reward analysis, right?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2668.539

When you're here for five days, the house starts smelling like you. That's terrible. I hate it.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2683.498

Let's talk about buffers.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

270.113

There you go.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2705.07

You don't want to always be responding. You want to be proactive. Okay. Body buffer.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

273.794

Sure.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2784.604

Whatever triggered it in the first place.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

280.278

Is pistachio not your favorite?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2836.254

Sorry. You don't. Sorry to tell you the results are negative.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2877.988

And what about behavioral buffers? What would that entail?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

288.027

Is it by Laird Hamilton?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

289.669

Is it mushroom based?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2901.573

You failed it at once. You'll fail at it forever.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2928.087

Can I have a little food before?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2957.399

Committing to the laundry list that led up to this event.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

2963.921

I'm incompetent. I'm not enough. I have a fundamental character flaw that prevents me from doing this thing. versus these 12 things happened and now we're here. That's very Sapolsky too.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

30.294

And I think in the description it says you're his mom.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

300.077

Yeah.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

301.358

He's a special dude, Laird Hamilton.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3026.107

Yeah. Okay. So I had one specific question. I think the hardest time to use any of these tools is when you're in the middle of a fight with a partner. or like a family member, I find that once you're in that zone, stopping it and resetting is, I think, the hardest. For me, maybe. How would you advise?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

303.899

You met him. I just met him for the first time the other day, but we were right behind he and his wife. I think her and Kristen were having a moment where they're very much married to kind of old-fashioned-y guys in some way. I don't know how to phrase that, but she said, listen, I like his vibe. He'll say to me in the kitchen, it's going to be okay. It is okay. Shh.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3048.669

Yeah, I'm the most emotional. I think the stakes feel highest because it's someone I love. I'm in a very heightened state and I don't know how to do the thing I do in traffic, which is look at a sign, do this, distract myself, check in. And I'm curious how one interrupts this while in a fight with their partner.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3168.696

I'm going to admit this. So we do this thing, Family Square. We probably do them once every couple of months. It's when someone has an actual issue that they need to bring up in the family. We all sit down on the ground. So everyone's low. There's no interrupting. There's some ground rules. And so... Most often the family square is about the kids, but we had a family square a couple days ago.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3186.422

And yeah, Kristen and I got into our loop. You would think, I mean, the thing I'm most committed to in my entire life is the kids. And we're in a loop. I can see we're in a loop. I can see it's upsetting the kids, the thing I care the most about. And we can't get out. Until one of the kids goes, you guys aren't listening to each other and you're making it worse.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

320.828

That's like his big saying to her.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3208.284

And I'm like, I know the fucking nine-year-olds seeing how obvious this is. And I was just thinking, because there were moments during it where I'm like, I know what's happening. I don't know how to get out of it.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3225.575

Well, what I think is I'm finally going to craft a sentence that's so direct, clever, correct, that it'll penetrate the cycle. And she thinks the same thing.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

323.109

Isn't that great?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3241.826

That's why I'm misled.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3247.1

I don't know. No, I think I'm a victim of thinking I'm so good at it.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3252.283

We had a fight yesterday, Monica and I. And literally this morning, I'm still thinking about it. I'm like, I know exactly how I could have got her to understand what I was saying. I should have said X, Y, and Z. I'm still thinking a day later how I could have gotten her to understand my point had I crafted it better. And of course, no, that wouldn't have worked either. No, that wouldn't have.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

328.37

Yeah. Yeah, yeah. These are all the topics we're going to get into. Yeah, he's like tapped into some kind of primitive way we were living that seems to be yielding positive results. Like stay very active, stay physically fit, eat good, and everything will work out. There's some genius to that. I believe in that. Okay, let's start with the fact that you teach at my alma mater. Do you like it there?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3296.045

Yeah, then you do.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3303.207

I'll admit this to you. This morning when I was thinking, like, I should have said it this way, I was like, also, hold on. You were in a fight in the family square three days ago with Kristen. You were in a fight with Monica yesterday. You know, it might be you. That's nice. I was like, you seem to be the common denominator this week.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3327.844

We have a lot of shared work stress right now. So that wasn't the greatest. Yeah.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3350.594

Yeah, I might need to adopt his. We interviewed him and he was so lovely.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3355.216

Now, I feel like this would drive someone crazy, but he doesn't. And I also love it, which is his behavioral thing he does, I think, which reverse engineers his whole thinking is he takes notes while his wife's talking. Like it's getting heated. He's like, let me get my notepad. And then something about him taking, do you remember that part?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3371.244

Him writing down what she's saying, I guess. Something about that.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3381.911

It's always a hack, right? Like the part of your brain that needs to be present to write maybe is just enough to pull you out of the amygdala or something.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

34.436

I want to applaud whoever made that. Big high five to whoever grabbed Hermium Permium. I hope he has like a million followers by tomorrow. Okay. Our guest today is Dr. Jenny Tates, who is a clinical psychologist, clinical practitioner. professor in psychiatry at UCLA and bestselling author. She has a couple of great books, How to Be Single and Happy and Emotional Eating.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3442.591

Okay, so now is the part of the interview where you give me free treatment. So nighttime rumination. So again, in the daytime, I'm pretty good. I got a pretty good handle on it, on my rumination. Is that accurate? Let's just say it's significantly less controllable in the middle of the night. I'll even actively be in it going, 90%, I don't care about this in the morning. And that is so the case.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3466.548

So often I spend an hour and a half at 3 a.m. obsessing about something. I wake up in the morning and I'm like, I don't even understand why you were doing it. You actually don't even care about that. What's happening and what can I do? I think you're in a compromised state at 3 in the morning. You're not your most apt version.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

349.015

Yeah.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3516.9

Like you'd inhale in and you imagine the breath traveling out of your lungs down your leg into your toe.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3584.425

I'm in bed like trying to sleep or watching TV. Oh. And let's not get hung up on it. You're not supposed to watch TV in bed. But do you mean just supine in my bed?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3593.884

Okay. It's eight hours.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3597.625

Fuck, lately it's been rough. Probably six. Also, I'm in a weird zone, but seven probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3683.962

Yeah, that's my reservation about people who do all these sleep monitor devices. I'm like, if you wake up and you know you've slept like shit, how are you not going to have a terrible day? I don't understand the benefit of this.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3716.921

You probably work out for 40 minutes on six hours.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3722.304

I do have that piece. That's why I say 640. That's non-negotiable. I have to meditate. I have to journal. And I have to get my kids to school at a certain time. So there's no snooze because then I'll miss the meditation or the journal. Then I might as well stay in bed all day because I'll have a miserable day. Oh, we have more control than we think.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3738.972

The headline.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

374.562

It's a cure-all. It works for everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3746.676

yeah stress resets how to soothe your body and mind in minutes and to your point about having something to reference the book is incredibly efficient it's a lot of bang for the buck every single page there's something actionable almost on it there's something concrete and real and something you can practice and it's a very quick easy way to get your head around all this

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3783.312

Yeah. Great. Well, Jenny, it's been so nice meeting you. You represent the alma mater wonderfully. Feather in the cap to all Bruins. Yeah, it's pretty good. We wish you well and I hope everyone checks out Stress Resets.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3798.869

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

380.185

I think the first fun thing, I know what CBT is, and I think a lot of people in the audience will know, but I think maybe we should just delineate the difference between like, say, psychoanalysis and CBT. And then you have a second kind of specialization that I hadn't heard of. And I want you to tell me about that one as well.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3811.437

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3832.522

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3850.651

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3875.435

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3892.088

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3915.426

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3939.658

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3959.509

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

3979.694

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4003.743

Any issues? What would we call that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4020.397

Yeah. It's very reminiscent of COVID for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4052.553

Yeah, I have to imagine it's going to be... The toll at the end of this. You'd have to go back to the Chicago fires, probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4062.35

Sure. In today's dollars, right? Because Chicago disappeared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4069.195

Oh, space. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4081.023

Oh, really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4082.705

We're at what?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4116.388

And then, yeah, I went out yesterday with Delty in masks. And I was like, oh, this feels very familiar. There's like people living at the house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4126.993

I'm in a mask outside. Oh, my God. We're back here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4147.145

Still don't have power.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4152.487

Yeah, we drove down Hillhurst where there was like 25 crews working on all those power lines with trees all over them. I'm presuming that's why yours is out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4172.711

There was an army there for sure.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4174.792

Yeah, what feelings? I had, there was a moment where, you know, they had evacuated like a quarter mile down the road when the Runyon Canyon fire was going. And I was like, okay, so the west side is completely on fire. Now the center of the city is on fire and the east side is on fire.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4191.258

And I did start to open up my imagination to the degree where I was like, well, I would have said what has already happened would have been impossible. Like that for the Palestinians to disappear. And I was like, fuck, if the Palisades can disappear, I'm like, could L.A. disappear? Like, will we witness the end of L.A. as it previously existed?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4216.702

Yeah, that's never a thought I ever even considered was possible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4222.203

But yeah, with winds blowing 70 miles an hour, yeah, it's possible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4227.884

But then you click into whatever role you have in your group. So, you know. Then I go to, yep. And Dresden was gone. And London was gone. And Hiroshima was gone. And Nagasaki was gone. And we are resilient. And it'll be back. And that's who we are. And trying to put some light at the tunnel for everyone in the house. Yeah, you just go through all these.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4253.24

Everyone just clicks into whatever role they have, you know?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4275.621

Cheering yourself up, letting yourself get scared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4354.112

No, I didn't see.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4357.495

What's funny is people are saying things I'm remembering that didn't even cross my mind. Like, I didn't pack a passport.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4367.865

All I packed was my journals, which I think I made. By the way, my journals take up the full size of Wayback. So in the midst of all this, I also was like, to see my journals in one spot, I was like, holy smokes, have I written a lot of, I had this weird little moment of like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4394.482

Yeah, there's a ton of stuff I should have packed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4399.305

The written word. I have the memories. Like, yeah, all the cute things my kids made me. They're all really, really important to me. But I have my kids. They're important to me. And so I kept telling the girls that I'm like, we'll try to get everything you care about. But also, guys, this is it. Us four can go anywhere and we have the thing we want.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4502.881

Yeah. And this I'm naturally trying to govern what stuff we talk about because I know some stuff will it'll anger you or it'll.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4531.751

Well, we're so different.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4552.117

Right. And so I wasn't— Although I will add, well, okay, yeah, I think that's—a lot of that's true. But I'm not bothered by—I don't mind that you're as scared as you are. I'm not, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4571.776

Like I'm just naturally not. This is like, oh yeah, this is all I think about. This is like the hypervigilance and all that. It's like, all right, yeah, it's here. It's time to get, it's time to get down. And so I'm like energized and I'm focused and I'm thinking and I got all the hoses out and I got the generator out and I got the extra gas out and I got the car filled up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4591.774

And like, you know, I'm engaged in all the things that, I will do to help get through this thing. And so, yeah, this was a thing I wasn't, it's like runs the risk of you being mad at me, but I was going to send them away, right? Like I was going to send Kristen and the girls to their dads. I'm definitely staying and hosing the house down. There's no way I'm not going to do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4613.63

Like I'm going to, I can sit in the middle of my yard. I'm not inside of a house burning. I can be on the outside of a house that's burning and not die. And I have a motorcycle to escape at any point. So I very much was never leaving regardless in my mind. I was like, yeah, I'm going to definitely get my family out of here, but definitely staying with hoses.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4636.498

A very suspicious one.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4639.261

If that turns out, I mean, if it's not, my condolences. If you have the audacity to try to fucking do some insurance fraud at the risk of setting up the rest of that area on fire, to me, you need to be in jail time for that. Yes, I agree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4657.575

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

466.105

And so this is kind of a famous institution. Yeah. Bellevue, you hear about people getting sent to Bellevue and movies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4666.102

It started inside their house too. Most importantly. Yeah, I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4674.432

Well, you have two, there's two things happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4677.356

And that's another layer of this we'll get to. There are arsonists in the city. Yeah. They've set fires in, you know. Many of these fires we've had in LA are started by arsonists. And so you have arsonists that already exist and they've got the perfect opportunity, right? Then you have people who do commit insurance fraud. They also pop up all the time. So you've like...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4699.231

There's easily two groups of bad actors in the mix of all this other shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4704.672

Well, and that's what I wanted to add. When I went... When it was a half mile from the house, and it looked like, okay, it's coming here. I had gone up to the gas station at sunset and... Doesn't matter. Very busy gas station. I wanted the truck to be full in case Belle had to drive it all the way to Vegas to Dad's or whatever. And... I know the vibe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4728.476

I've been in Detroit when the vibe's happening on devil's night. I know the vibe. I was at the gas station and I was like, There's like 20 young men out. There's dudes on dirt bikes that are not street legal. Like there's that air of like they know too no one's watching. There's a vibe of everyone that's supposed to be making sure there's law and order is distracted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4750.46

And there was just this burble that I could feel from the other dudes. And I was like, okay, so we got the fire hazard, but also- I'm now, for me, there's a significant, maybe even double-digit percentage, people are coming into the house today. Other elements are now going to pop off because of all this other chaos.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4800.794

You'll never be able to watch that part again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4806.792

I will say the, for better or worse in life, I'm experiencing it, but I'm also kind of always looking at it from a little bit to the side of it in the very anthropological way. And my current fascination with this whole thing and I've gotten to be a part of enough things now where I see this materialize. It's like, we're all so different.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4839.915

And thank God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4842.178

Thank God. If they're all like me, everyone's going to kill themselves. If they're all rendered immobile by fear, they're all going to die. And it really doesn't require any talk or coordination. It just immediately burbles up. Like we had Jackie... Joe, Anna, Joy, Kristen, the girls, myself in the house. And everyone just innately files into their role.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4878.37

That they are biologically destined to be. And- It's just really on display in a situation like this. It's why ADHD folks are imperative. Someone's got to go out and find the new fruit tree. And it's why leaders, while insufferable at times, that's their time. And they reassure people. And then the people who are like, really scared than at the other time in life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4903.948

They're more compassionate and flexible and dialed in and they're, they're taking care of the needs, the emotional needs of this group of a hundred. And, and you just look at our, it's not an accident where we come in these archetypes. It's like, we all have our different moments and the reactions is so visceral. Like whether you're wired, what way or not, like I call, I immediately text, um,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4927.39

and said, are you guys up in Carpinteria? Which was my assumption. The air is very clean up there. And he's like, absolutely not. I'm at my house with a hose.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4941.499

He went to the Palisades and hosed other people's houses in the daytime. And then he's at his house. I hear what Charlie's doing. Everyone's doing. It's just really interesting. I find it incredibly interesting that we are all unique in this very complimentary way where we function as a group.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4960.728

And it's great. Yeah. It's so great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

4995.42

Yeah. We're at an uncomfortable transition phase now. In civilization as humans where it's like we're almost there and also we're not. It's like we can almost be our best benevolent self, but you still have Vladimir Putin on the planet. That's still a real person on the planet that's not operating in the way we're all trying to evolve to. We're not there yet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5020.973

Yeah. We're not in the space age where we have, like, dominated all threats and can all just be one way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5046.124

It is. And then even like the trajectory of crime, if you plot it from the 60s and 70s, you know, it's just gone like this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5056.99

But it's not gone. There's far less, thank God. Yeah. But there's still quite a few people right now that are very willing to take an opportunity like this. That's still... A reality. We're not there, you know, it's like. Yeah. We're in a transition and it's just, it's, I think it's weirdly almost harder.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5078.516

Like back when it was barbarism, it was just like, okay, well, we got a rule with a iron fist and you got to put down all this and we move away from that as we should. And we're getting somewhere hopefully in the future where that's not even necessary. But it's like, we're in this interesting phase where it's like, it's not necessary, but then all of a sudden it is necessary. And then it isn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5097.048

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5098.829

The crickets made it though. That's good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5101.471

That part's good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5118.787

It is a treat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5126.533

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5146.126

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5182.515

Tell me about Laird Hamilton's Creamer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

520.601

I've heard psychoanalysts describe it that way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5200.56

Now, I could be wrong on the timeline of this, but I do think I'm right. I think mushrooms, fungi, was the first thing to sustain itself by eating other things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5213.904

Like prior to that, it is absorbing sun and everything's growing. And they invent consumption of other living beings. They're the first monsters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5225.568

Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5228.088

There was in Mexico City on the menu, it wasn't a mushroom cobbler, but by God, it was something like that. There was a dessert on the menu that was mushrooms first. Weird. And you know, Molly loves mushrooms. Oh. And I said, how much do you love mushrooms? Enough to get this mushroom dessert. She said, absolutely not. Oh, I wish she had tried it. So I'm wondering who orders the mushroom dessert.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5251.873

Weird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5255.457

The creamer's good. I've had Laird's creamer, and it's quite good. Interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5275.326

Can I ask where you first heard it? Because I'm pretty sure where I first heard that. Seinfeld, they would say it all the time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5282.332

Yeah. Of course, it's a punchline in comedy a lot. They're going to send someone to Bellevue. Right. And I think, obviously, they were all in New York making that. Well, they were here making the show, but it's in New York. And they're New Yorkers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5303.15

They should have. They were in New York.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5311.117

It's funny. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5313.418

You double checked it. Yeah, I looked it up. You check that claim and it is a fact. It's funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5324.367

You wouldn't know, but we're there.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5329.759

Underwear clip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5332.764

I like the underwear clip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5334.686

I really like watching when you and I start laughing in that deep genuine where we can't really proceed. Kind of you get incapacitated. You can't move or talk. There's something so joyous about that. It is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5349.708

You're leaned over this and I'm kind of just hiding from the camera. It's just really joyous. What was the clip people liked?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5361.824

Oh my God, that was great. Yeah, that was fun. That was really funny. People love that as well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5385.138

Hickey Pops.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5386.419

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And... I got them again at Christmas, not nearly as long. Funny enough, that's when I got them the previous time. I might be allergic to them. I go too hard at Christmas and it gives me hiccups.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5398.825

Really? Yeah. I was scouring the house for the Hickey Pops and I couldn't find them. I was desperate for a Hickey Pop right before Christmas.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5434.387

You're on the end of the earth to stop it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5455.338

I'll have to live with it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5461.701

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5492.389

Right. And that doesn't mean go to an MRI and get your body scanned. No. Because that's what I think of when I think of body scan. No. It's a mental body scam. Mental body scam. Before bed is good. Focus on your follicles of your hair. Move down to the follicles of your eyebrows. Yep. What did you think of the joke? Did you hear the joke about Timothee Chalamet?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5511.752

Also, have I told you how obsessed I am with him now?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5515.415

I love him so much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5518.097

No, and I wanted to so bad. You were talking about the Golden Globes? The Golden Globes, he was there. And I had just watched Lady Bird and Little Women.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5533.89

Yeah, I'm like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5538.254

It took me back to like Johnny Depp where I was like, what? Who's this guy? Whoa. Yeah. There's something really powerful about Timothee Chalamet. Am I saying it right? Chalamet. Chalamet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5550.657

So.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5555.338

I need to see it. It's a revelation. Now that I'm on the Charlamet train. Yeah. Chalamet. Chalamet. I'll get his name one day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5561.68

Yeah. By the way, if I mix up your name and you're offended, I hope this bolsters well to the fact that like I'm obsessed with this kid and I can't say his name. But there was a joke about him at the Globes.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5574.939

Said he has the most beautiful long eyelashes above his lip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5580.04

And I was, I felt very defensive of him.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5584.721

It's a good joke. Let me just say it's a good joke.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

559.06

Patterns being broken. I think it's unfortunate they're kind of pitted against each other because I don't think that's really necessary because I definitely see the value of CBT. Have a toolkit and have some actionable things you can do. And then also I think it's very worthwhile of understanding how one ended up in a position where they need these tools.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5598.315

Oh, I would love to hear them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5603.4

Uh-huh. Roasting in general is one topic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5609.642

But people who go to a roast have agreed to go to a roast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5636.385

I can see it from all the angles. Right. So one is the people making fun of the other people and say they're punching up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5644.453

Okay, that's kind of like the blanket excuse. Well, you're punching up. You're not making fun of some disenfranchised person. You're making fun of a very rich movie star.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5654.68

Valid point.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5657.621

Totally valid. People really deeply enjoy watching their heroes have to get humbled a little bit by a joke. So for the audience, it's deeply satisfying. They enjoy the hell out of it. At the end of the day, putting on this entertainment show that's 26 hours long. And it's presumably for the audience that's watching. Then it gets into this really fun thing.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5681.46

And I will not out this person, but I'm really good friends with someone that was nominated for one of the big awards. And we had this long text exchange. And he is like, I can't believe I go to these events. I don't want to go anymore. The notion that the entire thing is to slake our ego's desire to

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5702.32

By making us compete so that ultimately someone else can sell a show to America for millions of dollars, that those people are smart enough to know that our egos will get us there to that room so that we can be made fun of. The Golden Globes is run by the Hollywood Foreign Press.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5719.548

It's these single people who have left their country to come to Hollywood to report on Hollywood goings-ons back in their home country. And it's very few people. It's not like the Academy Awards where it's like thousands of people who are peers and experts in the trade. Of all the things, it's funny, that's the one that broke through as being second only to the Oscars. I know, it's true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5741.24

And so my friend was like lamenting of how tricky it is. Like he doesn't want to be there. He thinks it's the whole thing's a scam and that the people are making a ton of money on the vanity of these people. And yet kind of has to do it because it helps promote the movie that he's in and potentially makes the movie more successful, which is what everyone would want. The point, yeah.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5764.974

So you get this like really catch 22 situation. And I will say, and people will rightly accuse me of going, you're just saying this because you're left out of it. But I don't feel that way. The time for this has come and gone. It feels very weird and outdated and tone deaf and weird. It's starting to feel weirder and weirder and weirder. I was like, what is going on right here?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5790.22

Now you get into the whole roasting thing because I was watching. I was like, I get it. Punching up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5797.161

She's great. She's really, really funny. I'll just say she's really, really funny. And I have no ill will towards her. I my personal experience is I bump into Jesse Eisenberg getting a Diet Coke and he said, did you see we were in The New York Times yesterday? You and I. Apparently, Nikki had two jokes about you and I that were too gnarly for ABC or whatever network it was on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

58.552

Her new book, which is out currently, is Stress Resets, How to Soothe Your Body and Mind in Minutes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5823.292

So I sit down at my seat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5826.774

Knowing she had some joke about me that was too bad to be aired. So I'm watching the monologue going, I'm expecting there's some shot that there's a joke coming my way. Yeah. Maybe the one she wanted got rejected, but maybe she retooled it or something. So I'm just kind of waiting to get blasted. And I'm like trying to think like, okay, what's the ideal reaction to getting completely skewered?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5852.165

I'm now, I'm meaner than her in my own head. Right. I'm like, she's going to start saying that I'm only there because of Kristen. I'm filling in all the worst blanks. Like the loser boyfriend who's here, you know, the way she made fun of Benny Blanco.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5868.796

You know, and I'm like, oh, it's coming. It's coming. And I'm, I have to play a role where I think it's hilarious. Were you going to laugh?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

588.59

Monica and I have talked about this a lot. There is this very nebulous zone where you're like, am I ready to quit this or not? And then you're fearful if you stop psychoanalysis, somehow you're going to revert or something. It's a very ambiguous conclusion, I can admit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5881.445

Why did you get to see Timmy's reaction?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5884.428

He did a good job.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5886.289

You got no option. You got to act like you.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5914.402

Yes, in front of everyone. Yeah. And I'm insecure like everyone else here. We're all insecure. You all think that we got secure somehow because we got invited. No, everyone here is super insecure. And then... I find on the other side of that, this great compassion for Nikki, which is like, we'll invite you. If you shit on everyone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5937.385

And now if she wants to be on TV in that big of an audience, she has to shit on all these people that she probably likes and would like to be endeared to and be friends with, just like all of us would be. So I'm like, everyone's losing in this scenario. I don't think Nikki only wants to be invited to the party if she's come, if her responsibility has come shit on everyone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5957.462

And I don't think anyone likes the being shit on. Yeah. The audience is winning, I guess. Are they? Yeah, there's no way they're not. That's fun. They're loving seeing the elite people get taken down a peg because we all enjoy that.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

5994.775

Yes. I don't get that. And then I'm and then I'm taking some personal inventory during all this. I mean, my head was on fire during the whole monologue, right? Because again, I'm expecting something really embarrassing to come my way.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6007.681

Well, I'll get to that part of it. So then I start taking a personal inventory. I go, hold on. How judgmental can you be of all this? Have you done this? I have. I've been on Conan. I had a movie coming out that I made that was up against Expendables. And I had a good time talking about that their fight scenes, they move less and less. And I'm thinking, A, they would never hear this. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6036.79

It's objectively funny. Like what I'm saying is funny is this is an action movie where everyone fights like within a one foot thing.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6043.715

And so I've done it.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6046.255

And and I'm guilty of it. And then I go, OK, so what's some compassion I have for myself, which is like I'm scared my movies about to get blasted by these legends, which it did. I don't know what else to do. Trying to be funny and trying to make them happy. And I go, yeah, yeah. This is the whole situation. That's not in judgment of anyone. I just I'm not looking forward to getting blasted.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6067.429

So the monologue ends, and somehow I made it out of it, right? And so did Jesse Eisenberg.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6073.051

We were spared. And then Aaron, of all people, my best friend, who I love, who I've told, when you hear something terrible about me, don't tell me. But I understand, like, you feel this responsibility to your best friend, like, you should know what... So... I'm on Instagram. I look at my DM and I see a clip of Nikki on Howard Stern the following day. And then Aaron says, rude.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6097.046

And then I wrote, I'm not going to watch this. I bet it will just hurt my feelings. Yeah. And I leave it at that. And I decide I am not going to watch it. And then in the comments, tons of people in the comments are like, do you see Nikki's joke about you? So- I've made the decision I'm not going to.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6111.4

But you have to know that I now, I have created 10 or 12 jokes that it might be, and they're so hurtful. Listen. They're so hurtful. It's not that bad. It's nothing. Well, listen, I ended up. Oh. I'm also telling Chris in this, right? I'm like, I guess, you know, she was bummed she didn't get to make the joke. So she went unstirred and made the joke. And I just hope I never see it.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6133.627

I even wrote that in some comments. No, I haven't seen that and hope never to see it.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6137.808

And then last night, Kristen comes in and she goes, I watched the Nikki joke. It's nothing. All she said is all these people in the room are trying to probably avoid you so you don't ask them to come on your podcast. Yeah. I'm like, oh my God, that's nothing. The things I thought of.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6152.398

That she could have said about me. And... were on the table. And they're my, these are very deep fears of people thinking I'm riding someone's coattails and stuff. That's what I filled in so much. So at the end of the day, it was good I heard what it was because I had assumed it was way, way worse. Yes. And all of it is this crazy ride we're all on for almost no reason at all.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

621.701

We're so in love with all of them.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6219.912

And there's a fucking closeup on the person that's about to get shit on.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6231.494

I was like, why do you have to agree to that part of it? Like, hey, we got this award for you. But by the way, you're going to have to probably be in a close-up getting shit on to get this award. And I think that's why this front is like, why on earth are we doing this? Yeah, I know. Because they have turned to that. I think Gervais started it. Yeah. Like, real hardcore. I know.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6281.924

Who's winning?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

630.419

Well, I'm going to make a very bold prediction is I think you'd come into it feeling the way you would feel. And then I do think you would watch Orna do some stuff that is absolutely mind blowing and so worthwhile. And then some level of empathy and optimism. I've never seen anyone really display. That's very impressive.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6318.546

Yeah, about my looks and why is she with me?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6336.158

Right. I certainly would never ask anyone.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6348.562

And this goes to, by the way, this really goes to demonstrate for me personally, if you have an insecurity about something, it hurts so bad. Like had she made fun of my looks and then I'm too ugly to be with Kristen, that would have really been hurtful.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6361.449

I didn't give a fuck about that because what did happen at the Golden Globes, the only time the podcast came up at the Golden Globes is three different people I ran into each said, that's my favorite interview I've ever done in my life. All that really happened was people pulled me aside to say it was their favorite interview they've ever done. And I was like, I felt great.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6380.144

So she could say anything she would want about that. And it doesn't bother me.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6406.277

Yeah.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6424.312

Um, you think it's symptomatic of this?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6427.353

Larger, um, diminishing of civility.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6461.029

Are they?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6463.769

Oh yeah, yeah.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6465.63

Oh, I was thinking like, yeah, if you're, I mean, I said it out loud when I was like, when there was the moment I was like, wow, could the whole city completely be raised right now? I was like, yeah, there's some people down South.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6478.473

That are like, yeah, fuck that place.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6482.895

Yeah, it's like the liberals were happy when COVID deniers died of COVID. That happened too.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6496.704

Well, they'd go, you had to live in this fancy place. You could have lived somewhere that doesn't catch on fire every six months.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6538.45

I have to mention, if you were like to the letter of the law creationists, believe in end of times Christian, this is so biblical. I know. How are they not going like, other than a flood, this would be the next best thing?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

656.732

I would imagine you can do CBT for a couple.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6565.461

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, moms.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6570.864

Yes, yes, yes.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6582.07

Well, he's very sensitive. He's like me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6584.531

You think he would not be sensitive. He's so powerful, but he's very sensitive, just like me. He's very vain. He's afraid people are going to attack his looks, his social standing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6599.92

Anyway. Well, that was actually a very fun detour.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6606.172

That was it for Jenny. Yeah. I do want to go out saying, like, I would not want anyone to hear all my opinions I just said and have anything against Nikki Glaser. I'm, like, rooting for her. And I think she's really, really talented.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6621.309

I was on Punk. Like, it was like, let's get celebrities in a tricky situation and see if they act badly. And I was like, okay, well, this is the only job I'm ever going to get and I'll take it. Right. So I'm not really in judgment of anyone. Yeah. I'm just, I'm saying for me, I was in deep fear that everything I, I'm afraid people think about me was confirmed and then it wasn't.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

663.119

Yes. And then what's the second thing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6648.858

Oh, is she?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6651.258

Oh, really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6652.918

Oh, she is? Oh, I didn't know that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6655.819

We should maybe have her on and talk to you this whole time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6658.519

Like at first I was like, I never want to reward her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6665.921

Yes. But then now I feel like the bigger version of me would be like to have her on and try to have a sincere conversation about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6674.923

All right. Love you.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

6691.18

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

70.162

Oh, no kidding. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

741.641

Okay, so it started there and then because of its efficacy, it's now being applied other places. Okay, so your book is called Stress Resets, How to Soothe Your Body and Mind in Minutes. Where to start? I think maybe let's just kind of define stress. I think that too could be an ambiguous word. Some people would call some things stress that aren't and other things that are not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

763.968

What would we say stress is?

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

800.99

There's also a tremendous amount of benefits associated with this stress response, right? Your immune system improves. There's a lot of things that your body is readying itself to take on a challenge.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

825.435

It's adaptive, not maladaptive.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

84.327

Yes. And she took us to task in a great way. Yeah. And had a lot of recommendations for us personally.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

844.002

I can feel it. I always say this when we do live shows. It's like all of that stress for me, because I trust it now. converts immediately into like improved cognition. I can think quicker. You know, I'm more agile. And luckily, because it hasn't gone bad a bunch, I associate that feeling at least before I walk out on a stage. It's like, oh good, my superpower has arrived.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

89.931

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

893.388

Yeah. And I don't want to prevent you from framing it in a positive way. But I also think there's some other fun physiological things that are happening when your stress is increasing dramatically. We know that the areas of your brain that are working are also changing dramatically. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

906.751

You're probably living in your amygdala when you're at peak stress, whereas you'd hopefully want to be in your frontal lobe making some executive decisions and putting a plan in place. But just this thinking itself is in a different region if you succumb to that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

964.158

I'm a great ruminator. Me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

983.992

Oh, I would send you Christmas gifts for life.

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Jenny Taitz (on stress resets)

991.779

That's probably the glue that binds us.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1001.461

And there's high flying stuff that goes wrong. All the time. This is what I was seeing, Monica. Guys were running and leaping out of the ring onto the cement floor that would at that point be probably 10 feet below them with a fucking two inch mat on the ground. Good luck.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1020.487

And you just sort of hope. Because they're all improv, right? All these matches, which I think is fascinating. Did you watch the McMahon documentary? Yeah. What a doc, huh? I think I did in it. Were you in it? Oh, this is embarrassing, Dad. It's not too embarrassing. There's about 150 guys in it. We hadn't met yet. No, that's right.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1048.635

Did you watch it? Did you deal with McMahon at all in that period? Yeah, I mean, he was the guy who hired me. And was he just a good time Charlie? Was he fine to work for? Yeah, if he liked you, it was fine. Yeah. Okay, so you cut to the point, you get a pretty gnarly concussion. You get kicked in the head.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1079.207

Yeah, what was the conventional measure of whether someone was concussed or not? Flurry blission was one.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1108.202

Was your balance fucked up and your coordination? Yeah. Yeah. So you're now a liability to yourself because you're not functioning correctly.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1115.566

So where did that take you?

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1144.727

No.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1182.549

Okay, not to spoil or alert, you become a neuroscientist. I'm earmarking that, but let me just ask you really quick. As I recall from biology in college, I was told that all of the cells in your body are somatic. They go through mitosis, but your brain cells do not. They're gray cells and they don't, repair. Is that still what we think? Tell me what happens with the cells in your brain.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1208.696

They are different from the rest of your somatic cells.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1213.82

Fuck anything below that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1223.448

Yeah.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1229.733

Right, you're going to relocate to a non-damaged area of your brain, some motor controller, some other thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1244.05

Okay, so given that, what was the method to repair the condition you had?

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1271.94

You're really knowing now, unfortunately, the preciousness of that.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1282.848

I did have a really gnarly concussion wakeboarding, and I had amnesia for like 14 hours.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1289.353

And I was on like a three-minute loop, and I had the MRI and looked in there, and yeah, it was gnarly.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1296.218

I would see I'm in Michigan, but I know I live in California and I'm with my then girlfriend of nine years. And I would say, why am I in Michigan? And then my mom was there, too, because they were all taking me in the hospital. You're home for my birthday. Why don't I remember that? You were wakeboarding, you hit your head.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1312.318

And then I would say, oh, so it's like the episode of Gilligan's Island where I get hit in the head with a coconut and I just got to get hit in the head with a coconut again. No laughing. And then I go, that's kind of funny. Have I said that before? Yeah, you've said that like 40 times. Crying. Then, why am I in Michigan? Come out of the crying and straight back.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1333.776

And I was just on this loop for like 14 hours. And then it stopped. And then all those memories that had been happening during that 14 hours were becoming clear.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1364.706

Yes, yes, yes. Okay, so when do you decide that you're going to go back to school and get a PhD in this?

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1371.809

That's a good question. Thank you for asking.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1511.303

All undesirable data would be jettisoned from the study.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1562.207

Okay, so what is a concussion?

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1571.112

And does it have to require swelling? How would one test for it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1595.768

Will you tell me more about the chemical aspect? The great work was done at UCLA. I'm not shocked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

162.85

Do you know the author David Sedaris? Yes. Our greatest gift this whole show has given us is we've interviewed him like six times and he sends us postcards. And that postcards from Sedaris is like... That he writes... He writes them from all over the world. Such a throwback to a better life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1623.792

It's becoming porous through the stretching. So now all these chemicals that are inside of it and outside of it start dancing around.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1650.542

Are there regions of the brain that are more prone to this damage? When you see concussions, does any area over-index?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1679.173

okay now when i got mine they put me in the mri or the c-scan or whatever the i got and what they were looking for particularly is they told me well your brain has swollen and the swelling has probably caused some pressure against the area of your brain that has these short-term memories or that's why until it unswells that's what's going to go on and then we're looking for bleeding

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1703.589

Right, because if you're hemorrhaging in your brain, they've got to get in there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1716.275

Okay, so maybe they're just scaring me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1721.418

Yeah, I haven't been since. They didn't have to say much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1726.832

Okay, so for people who've had, and we don't know the number, obviously, at some point in your study as we accumulate more things, maybe we'll get some kind of predictive sense, but some multiple concussions result in the CTE.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1741.597

Yeah, Monica, I don't know if you know this coming in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1882.369

Okay, so what is the full arc of the condition? And Mike, what are the mechanisms that are happening in the brain?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1912.748

Although you did say one concussion doubles your outcome for suicide.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1917.655

That's fucked up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1919.037

Yeah. One concussion. And I know I've had, that's not the only one I've ever had.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1925.106

Yeah. Although the incident rate for suicide in a group of 100,000, it's still quite low. It's still rare. So even if you double it, it's still a low number. Don't get too worried. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

194.098

Okay, so yeah, you definitely need grandma and grandpa around.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1955.492

But then also we get into a correlation causation problem, which is I'm sure there's something we could say about people who accumulate concussions. People that are drawn to that lifestyle are probably doing a whole suite of behaviors.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1970.487

Right. Okay, so you get multiple injuries.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

198.542

Yeah, we did it without a grandma and grandpa, but thank God my sister lives next door, so. Oh my God, this is incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

1988.294

Is that generally, if you have CTE, that is where it's... Yeah, that's where the first lesions will show up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2060.154

Now, just to be a skeptic, what is our control group? What are we making this relative to? We have other brains, but we don't totally know the history of their impact. Are we seeing most people don't have any of these lesions?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2086.787

No, I'm just joking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

211.428

That's a deep, deep, deep, deep, deep, deep, deep, deep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2115.53

So one out of 147 versus 110 out of 111. I'm sold. I've been saying this. And for people who have not seen the images, they're taking these thin slices of the brain and they're putting them next to each other. And a healthy section of this brain would be kind of just white. And then if you have a mild case of CT, you're seeing some discoloration. But

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2138.012

In an extreme CTA, you're seeing like it's been dipped in coffee, and then there's just pockets of saturation of this dark stuff. It looks like the lung of a smoker.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2171.044

And then I want, this is relevant to bring up because we're in the early explanation of it. So this was observed and I grew up hearing this because my dad loved boxing. We called people punch drunk. Right. And so just talk about what that was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

218.471

Oh my God, how does one get?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

221.293

What do you call it when you commission? Oh yeah, yeah. She commissioned this? Yeah, it took years to build. Oh, and you have to pee in the tank because the lid doesn't open.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2245.592

You're also looking at a pretty small group of people versus high school football, which is millions of people. It's not like that many people go into boxing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2258.065

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2259.727

That's the problem.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2264.471

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2266.994

Okay, so what are the symptoms that people with CTE experience?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

23.582

He is a neuroscientist, an author, and a retired professional wrestler. Mm-hmm. We've been just accumulating bizarre origin stories. But bizarre might not be the right word. Super fascinating origin stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2301.395

This is the stuff that seems to get the headlines. And I'll say that anecdotally, we know someone that was married to a very successful football player, and they had a total personality shift.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2313.021

yeah he died and you hear about this i see it on real sports there's violence all of a sudden people who have never been violent are getting violent to their family they're getting violent around town they're self-harming the addiction is spiraling you're seeing a real tornado of depression and just the personality shift i think that's the scariest thing yeah people are married to these men that they love that were so kind and all of a sudden they're erratic and impulsive and scary

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

232.457

She's going to be so happy with that reaction. Oh, my God. That is incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2346.632

Yeah, because you go like, okay, memory loss, to what degree? You can live with that. But that aspect, and then I have to imagine the suicide rate for people with CT has got to be among the highest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2368.864

Tell us that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

238.118

And does it say explicitly for P-Baby?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2398.594

He killed his entire family.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

240.719

Oh, my God. You wouldn't know the story behind P-Baby. I got to explain to you. I don't go back that deep. Yeah, of course. I don't expect it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2424.531

If someone were to recognize in a moment of clarity that this was happening to them, are there medications that could help?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2439.283

said... Do you hear these wild cases where the dudes shoot themselves in the heart because they know they want their brain studied?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

248.981

We barely go back that deep. Sometimes we've completely forgotten.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2501.422

Yeah, it forces you to look at a lot of the things we've seen with a lot of the people we've seen them with. Mike Tyson, a lot of these boxers that have had episodes that are inexplicable. You have to imagine there's a lot going on. It's not just CTE. Brain injury itself in the absence of CTE can cause a lot of this stuff. What positions in football do you track those?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2521.961

Obviously, the kicker has very low risk of getting this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

253.602

Okay, so where did you move from to this area of Florida? I was in Boston for 25 years. But you're from Chicago-ish? From Chicago, right, yeah. What suburb? Have you already bonded with Robbie about this? Yes, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2550.211

Maybe because they've all played different positions before they landed in those positions. That's part of it. What you played in the NFL is not what you played as a kid. You see all these stories, this was a layer of racism where these incredible black quarterbacks would come into the league and they're like, you're not going to be a quarterback because you don't have the brain to run an offense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2565.479

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2599.052

Yeah. Now, how did the sports compare to one another? Is football the worst? Where's NHL? Where's boxing? Where's soccer?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2620.473

I grew up around hockey more than football. Concussions are standard. Because you're falling, you're hitting the ice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2630.218

Yeah, those guys are flying and hitting the back of their head on the plexiglass. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2638.851

You'd have to go in and do a brain surgery. We are trying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

266.553

Okay, what did mom and dad do there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2664.122

Cal's part of that as well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2710.37

And wasn't one of the things that we've learned since we started studying this is it's not these big concussions necessarily, that it's also just repetitive, smaller hits.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

272.958

Oh, the college.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2756.125

So you just said 100 Gs. Is that the scale we're looking at?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2761.429

Oh my God, because you think of these F1 drivers are pulling 5 Gs and their necks are this thick because they're dealing with 5 Gs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2768.454

Yeah, yeah. Some of those impacts can create 100 Gs? Yeah. Oh my God. Now, is the onset period of this condition, do we know, is it age-related or is it duration from impact-related?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2839.038

Well, now I want to say, so you took it upon yourself once learning about this. And at the time, I think you said there was only two or three brains that have been studied for CTE.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

285.146

Yeah, and watching guys probably consume, like, 7,000, 8,000 calories before practice. You're very Chicago. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2852.685

And you kind of appointed yourself the person that was going to have to try to go out and get more brains to be studied.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2858.968

which meant that you were in a position to start calling family members of people mostly football players who had died to ask the family if you could have their brains yeah i want to know a few of these stories i mean there's one in particular but i wrote down aaron hernandez demarius thomas vincent jackson ken stable or any of these i would love to hear someone's personal story with this

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2899.214

I know from researching you, he had a great nickname.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

295.933

Nice. He could be standing next to Ditka and look like his son, maybe. You know, that very Midwestern.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

2968.36

You're calling the mother of someone who just lost their son to suicide.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3007.36

I would imagine as scary as that call is to make, any family member of someone who just died by suicide would love an explanation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3016.511

They were so happy that someone cared to find out maybe there's more to this. It's almost like finding the killer of someone who was murdered.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

304.036

Big white boy. Yeah, yeah. I'm from Detroit, so we have our variety as well. Yeah, we consider ourselves brothers statewide, right? Yes, absolutely. Also, high-rate alcoholism is standard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3066.315

How do I get out of this is what you were motivated by. I hate doing this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3075.502

Although it could fill you with gratitude.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3097.536

Yeah, it's incredibly successful. And then throughout many other sports, like Dale Earnhardt Jr. has agreed to do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3113.604

We just did a moral founding question by Jonathan Haidt of someone having sex with a corpse. And I was like, I really don't care what happens to my body afterwards. So if I'm willing to have that happen, yeah, absolutely. That went in a different direction than I was expecting. I'm showing you how low the bar is for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3132.168

Monica was a high-flying cheerleader.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3150.354

Did you watch that cheerleading doc that was popular? No, it's called Cheer on Netflix. It's incredible. And you go, oh, these gals are doing something more dangerous than the football players.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3161.277

And no one even is noticing what's happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3165.26

Yeah. There's no regulation. They don't practice with helmets on. We got in a fight about it. I'm like, they got to practice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3173.525

But you can't tell the football players they got to have these.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3200.264

Well, I'm delighted to donate my brain. Do I have to officially go to a website or something? Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

321.68

Oh, my goodness. I just—I won't bore you with it, but— No, I'm going to bore you with it. I drove around with a homeless guy for an hour and a half interviewing him. And the only reason he trusted me to get him was because he was from Kalamazoo and I was from Michigan. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3210.051

Yeah, okay. But we'd be honored to have you. Double check my children have no plans for my brain while they sign up. Most people say, let me check with the wife and they'll never get back to you. So I appreciate it. My wife would be like, get that fucking brain out of here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3222.567

Reanimate me when the technology exists.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3225.731

Yeah, oh yeah. Sorry. Okay, so you've gotten this pledge. What's happening in Europe? And obviously rugby, Australian rules, football, soccer is global. It's not like this is an American issue. What's the rest of the world think about all this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3266.547

Is it a comparable percentage? I shot a movie in New Zealand for four months and I got super into watching rugby. And I was like, well, this is the ultimate gladiator sport. I mean, these guys have nothing on. They must have enormous rates of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3286.093

As you've learned, I know very little about these masculine sports. I didn't know this either until recently. I know about BMX and skateboarding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3327.396

Okay, so now we can get into a fun liberty question and what is the future and what would you advise? Because obviously for children, that's one conversation we have about children. We would agree they're not old enough to make this Faustian deal. I would agree. And there are a lot of people that I couldn't argue back if they go, yeah, my life fucking sucks without this thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3348.611

And I'm an adult and I want to do it. And I take on the risk and fuck you, I have liberty. And I can't really stand in the way of that. I am of that mind. How do we deal with all these facets of the problem? I'm of the same mind.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

339.713

I know, I kind of like it that way. Just leave that hanging until maybe one day the mystery is revealed. Okay, so you played a lot of sports. I'm sure mom and dad were supportive of all the sports. Yes. And you excelled at football. I did. And then you ended up going to Harvard to play football. Yes. Now, walk me through the selection process. Like, would you have been good enough to go play at...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3397.684

And let's be honest, it might be the greatest part of someone's whole time on planet Earth. It might be. I still know people. It's like the greatest years of their life for being on that team and doing that. So it has some value that needs to be acknowledged.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3441.575

Right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3510.779

Would one bit of advice for soccer be like no heading the ball until a certain age?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3563.026

Yeah, my daughter's buddies, some of them are in four leagues all year round.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3585.101

Yeah, using your head as a baseball bat, basically. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3602.974

So what we see too, and it has to be acknowledged, is the demographics of the sport are changing because educated white people with means are not letting their kids do this. And we're seeing it change pretty dramatically. Who's actually playing the sport? Is disenfranchised, disadvantaged kids more and more?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

362.521

Notre Dame, and then you decided, no, I really want the education.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3667.266

I guess the reason I bring it up is to say, yes, there is liberty until you observe that only certain people have liberty and don't have liberty. Like when you're seeing that some people don't have an option and other people do have an option, there is some societal obligation to protect the people that are most vulnerable. That's what I'm getting at is

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3684.938

These are necessary because you're asking people who are in a position where they've got a risk at all to make these decisions when they have much bigger fucking fish on their plate, you know? Yeah. Whatever the goddamn scene. Fish to fry. Fish to fry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

37.467

Unusual. Which is probably the definition of bizarre if you look it up. Probably says unusual.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3713.66

It's one thing to say, oh, they were told the risk and they made a decision. But if you acknowledge that some people are in a worse position and they're more incentivized to make that decision, that has to be accounted for.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3745.256

Well, yeah. What is that percentage? Do you know it off the top of your head? I mean, it's under 1% of kids who enter the football in their school are going to end up in the NFL. It's 0.1 or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3826.224

Well, you have to acknowledge that same stimulus input results in some different output because we're so variable. So like tens of millions of people smoke the same amount of cigarettes and some percentage gets small cell carcinoma. I don't know. There's a lot of factors in there. Yeah, you're right. It's not so predictive of the symptoms.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3847.7

The pathology. For sure, the condition, but not the symptoms per se.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3871.331

Your best defense is that you have a wife that's highly educated on this and is an outside observer. I think it gets hard to observe yourself. But you have a partner who's hip to all these things to look for, presumably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3887.348

Well, she hasn't proven to be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3907.031

Okay, so that did bring me to the final thing I want to talk about is this isn't just for athletes, right? There are occupations that over-index in concussions. All my friends in the movie business are all stuntmen. I can't tell you how many concussions these guys get.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3919.735

It'll go unnamed, but yeah, there's one friend that we've had where a few of us have talked and I'm like, this feels a little loopy. Was anyone else noticing this? And we know of many, many concussions. Anyone who's doing like motorcycle shit, you're going to deal with that. So what occupations, military, fire and rescue?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

393.028

I've heard like 4.4s with all the AP classes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

397.69

Always plus a ton of AP classes. Okay, you're likable, right? Did you pay any penalty for being that smart? Were you like a nerd? Were you getting shoved in the hallway?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3989.555

Well, again, mostly stuntmen are coming from a different high-risk background.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

3996.781

That's interesting. Yeah. I wonder how open he would be to that. That's a vulnerable thing to acknowledge.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4003.828

Well, it is a hard thing to bring up because, as you say, there's no cure. You know, and there's no cure for things you're really disincentivized to even know about it. Because why? So you can worry more about it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4055.513

Well, right. So... Everyone who leaves the NFL is going to get depressed. They had a purpose. They had a schedule. They had teammates. They had community. But CBT or therapy will help with those. And if that doesn't help with those, then you're going, well, there's probably some kind of structural issue that's probably not going to respond to that type of treatment or therapy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4075.467

Okay, so if people want to get involved or help, Concussion Legacy Foundation is your organization. Is there any place people should go to support or is there any call to action?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4122.189

Are you in the unique position where when you go to a football game, the players love you and the upper brass can't stand that you're there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

414.986

Did you have this thing? Because I was in a few AP classes and I definitely think that first day of the AP class, a lot of the kids were like, oh, God, how embarrassing. He's in the wrong class and he doesn't know it. Do you think you were getting any of that when you would walk into these AP classes? Like, oh, fuck, the center of the football team's in the wrong class.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4145.577

But they have been motivated as a union. They have pushed internally for these changes. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4162.104

They made a lot of big changes. Yeah. Shockingly. That was part of the doc. Yeah. Humans are so complex. This guy's doing this, but then he's open to that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4178.011

Well, Chris, you're radical. What an incredibly weird story that brought you here. I love it. And I'm grateful for the work you're doing. And I hope you're effective in making sure little kids don't get hit in the head over and over again. Thank you very much. It's a noble cause. Yeah. Thanks for coming. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4203.706

I had a rare occurrence, and I would do also, this is great, this dovetails nicely into what we did a week ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4210.793

Delta's Play. There was two showings of Delta's Play, 1 p.m., 5 p.m.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4215.838

You went to the 1 p.m.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4217.72

I did not, and I regret it deeply. But while I wasn't at that play, I was like, oh my God, I can finally go get my shingles vaccine. When you turn 50, this is a public service announcement.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4232.985

You are now eligible to get the shingles vaccine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4238.51

I mean, maybe they'd give it to you before. I don't know. But when you, I was at my physical this year and he's like, okay, so now you got to get your shingles vaccine, which sign me up. Right. Do you know anyone that's had shingles?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4251.783

not this week but if you're on listening to Wondery Plus the episode well that is a real that's crazy anyways I've had a friend who had it it's miserable yeah it's really bad nerve pain and as our lovely pharmacist we share a pharmacist Rosalyn yes she was saying like opiates don't block nerve pain which I didn't understand that or know that or whatever but um Yeah, just agonizing pain.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4277.289

I don't want that. Also, I've complained about this in the past. What a gross name for a disease. Shingles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4284.094

It makes me think of shingles on a roof and that your skin starts getting... Of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4289.639

Flaps. When we hear it. And then tearing off and stuff. Yeah. That's not what happens. Is it just adult chicken pox shingles?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4302.553

Okay, so I was in there and I don't, I never go to the pharmacy. But I get all my pharmaceuticals from R&D. The cutest, we've talked about it once before. It's the cutest pharmacy in all of Los Angeles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4318.803

At Hillhurst and Franklin. And because I was there for a vaccine, she had to help a couple people before me. And I felt like I was in Mayberry. Everyone that walked in, she knew by name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4332.86

Knows everything about them. It was like a town... Hair cutter or I guess town pharmacist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4369.929

You squashed it, as they say in Beefs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4373.894

Okay, now, do you want to tell folks about the play on Saturday?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4384.298

Alice in Wonderland.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4390.7

Her best friend was Tweedledum.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4407.316

I'll tell you why it's not shade. Every movie you see with plays for kids, this is how plays for fourth graders are. So there's, like, there's no shade. They have, like, three rehearsals.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4435.202

There's always... Memorization issues.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4443.95

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4458.303

It's what you want. It is what you want. I guess that's what I'm saying. It's actually a success.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4464.289

It's what you want because I then went to five and they had figured it all out. Like they really, really what it seems like is they just needed one more rehearsal. Yeah, sure. That wouldn't be a rehearsal because I had heard that like, you know, no one has their lines. People are nudging the narrator. I mean, and that's what you live for with fourth graders on stage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4483.559

Delta's barking orders at people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4487.901

There is no fourth wall for Delta. Yes. People started clapping. Explain that. Well, first of all, she saw you and then put her tongue out like provocatively and crawled on the ground and was like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4499.444

That was Lincoln's reenactment of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4517.911

And they think it was directly to her soulmate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4525.714

Yeah, I'm going to wag my tongue at you guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4544.883

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4559.201

I love too that those two could find a way to get into a little power struggle, not even in the same...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

457.959

Yeah, yeah. If I were them, I would be like, oh, fuck, they have jocks here, too? Isn't that why we work so hard? You're going to get shoved into a locker in college?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4604.524

After she got off stage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4607.456

This was fun. This was more of a detective thing that followed me going, which is some kid, when they walked off stage, said, well, that sucked. And they still had their mic on. And that was the last thing the audience heard. So I heard that from a parent at the five o'clock. Like, oh my God, the funniest part of the whole thing was at the end, one of them just said, well, that sucked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4628.541

And I go, that sounds like my kid, for sure. And then I'm telling Delta later, I go, yeah, I guess someone said, well, that sucked. And she goes, why that? I feel like I might have said that. And I go, good, because I really felt like it would definitely be something you would say. Yeah, I think it was her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4667.034

Oh, there's nothing better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4671.802

So I got the report from everyone that that's what had gone down. And so I was so excited to go to 5 o'clock. Yeah. went off with almost out of hitch. Everyone knew their lines, all the mics were working. I was delighted that she still was fully breaking the fourth wall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4689.702

Well, she saw me and I was like, you know, cheering and waving. And then she started waving at me and then she was doing the I love you hand signs to me. And then she was doing the heart thing to me and just really blasting me from the stage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

469.866

They're always around. What was the Harvard experience like? Was it incredible?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4704.307

And I just—it made me so happy, and I was laughing so hard, and it was—God, was it fun. And I'm going to commend them on this, too. They kept that fucking thing under an hour, and that's incredible for these kids' plays. Wow. That came in at just under or about an hour. Okay. A lot of times these— Plays have an intermission.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4725.487

And it's a long time. Yeah. This was a perfect amount of time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4739.014

There were some super cute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4742.336

I'm telling you, one of the kids was definitely Ralphie from Christmas Story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4746.578

Yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4751.321

I couldn't keep my eyes off a couple of those kids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4753.942

There was a little girl too with glasses that was, I just, she was, she, when you see someone like she was in it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4776.929

Oh, you're right. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4792.182

They put a lot of energy in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4795.365

Yeah. They practiced a ton.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

480.532

Is the football team competitive? I don't know anything about it. Yes. Forgive my ignorance. I never see them in, like, a Rose Bowl or anything. No, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4814.889

It would make sense that you have that point of view and I have my point of view. Yeah. Because I didn't want to be an actor in school.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4820.772

And clearly you're not going to find 35 kids who are trying to become actors. We're in L.A. Yeah. Five or six of the kids on that stage are probably going on auditions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4831.679

But 98 percent are just trying to be social after school.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4835.822

And so I love. So for me, because I wasn't trying to do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4841.195

I'm going, I'm so glad they're just having fun. Yeah, I know, you're right. Like, what a memory of horsing around and fucking the thing up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4852.043

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4895.455

You want to do the right thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4899.819

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

490.56

Okay, so don't be that appalled that I'm asking how good they are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4907.066

It's barely even a line. Yeah, it's just a few words.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4913.992

Oh, it's really good. I hope everyone clapped. And then you said, oh, no, that's not over. So what's immediately great about, for me, Delta's interest in it, she doesn't want to be Alice. She auditioned specifically to be Tweedledee with her friend Tweedle. She just wants to be in the play if she can be with her best friend as Tweedledee Tweedledum.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4935.169

The kids that want to do it, they want the bigger parts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4938.572

So it's like, I already love it because it's just about her and her friend doing this thing together.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4944.857

And they were good, by the way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4983.885

Yeah. I thought it was all very true to who she is, which is all I want for her, if that makes sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

4995.017

Yeah, and their little exchange was tricky.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

50.449

You love CTE. It's your favorite topic. The dream scenario would be a CTE episode of The Pit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5004.163

Because Tweedledum is dumb, presumably, and doesn't know their name. So it's like they keep introducing themselves and Tweedledum keeps introducing herself as Tweedledee. And then they have this back and forth kind of who's on first thing. And it's very confusing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5019.213

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5037.795

Here's your hat, sir.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5041.798

That's hard because you had worship in there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5044.82

Oh, no. You're lying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5051.823

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5054.705

I'm going to admit, too, I'm probably just too in love with Delta. Whatever she does, I think I like. Yeah. And I reverse engineer why that's perfect for her, because I just see her being herself, and I'm wrapped around her fingers. So I guess I'm trying to acknowledge that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5112.506

Right, right. Sure, sure. There's a bigger fun worldview here, which is like, if the show is good,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5120.212

I will not remember it when I'm 65.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5123.495

So it's like, it's just interesting. Like, if you can fast forward, what in life you'll enjoy and care about and remember. And all the parents there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5131.722

Like, what I'm saying is I'm bummed I went to the five and not the one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5135.605

And I bet most parents that went to the one had the most amount of fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5144.571

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5147.413

And that's just funny about life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5153.537

Yeah, yeah, yeah. She was in soccer. Yeah. So I probably, I've had this experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5162.162

Well, they had a perfect record.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5164.303

You know, they lost every game. And even more so, they never scored a goal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5169.525

It's a flawless season. Yeah, flawless season. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

519.773

Okay, and Harvard plays all these teams I'm familiar with.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5191.764

Realize her goals.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5202.128

Oh, this is a huge, endless debate you have in your head the whole time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5207.709

So two things are really relevant. One is, the inclinations you have right now about Delta, I don't have when I watch Delta. I have them towards Lincoln.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5217.673

Because Lincoln and I have similar character defects. And additionally, I would probably be less forgiving of the chaos watching the Lincoln play because she really takes it serious and wants to do great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5236.207

And so Delta is not betraying herself and she's not getting further from her goal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5244.034

And on the soccer team, all this stuff's going on. And now what I'm feeling bad for is my friend Scott's daughter is an awesome soccer player. And she's on this team with... You know, my kid. People who don't care. Yeah, people playing for the first time. Right. And so I do, I'll observe that and I'll go like, oh, she deserves a much better team.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5266.202

Look how hard, I mean, literally she's carrying the entire team.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5269.983

And then the thing I have with Lincoln while watching is like, I don't want to give her a tip about passing or about kicking or scoring or any of that. But I'm fighting the urge to tell her, I expect nothing from you other than you run at that person and run dead into them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5287.306

You've got to get over your fear of a collision. And you minimally, what you have to be is, I'm not asking you to be skilled and have all these skills, but I want you to right now acknowledge it won't hurt if you decide to confront. Because that's so much of these young soccers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5303.919

It's like someone's coming with the ball and the other, the defender runs up and they're just so afraid of locking legs or just confronting the way you have to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5311.405

And so, and that's my age old. I want her to be brave. I don't want her to get taken advantage of. I want her to be fearless in defending herself. So when I'm watching all, I don't care if she scores. I don't all, I just like, I don't want her to be afraid to confront that runner with the ball. And then I, then I spend the whole game debating whether I'm going to bring that up in the car or not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5334.258

And for six games, I don't bring it up. And then on the seventh game, I bring it up. And then I don't know if it was the right or wrong decision.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

534.724

An equestrian first school. Maybe someone's cross. Okay, yeah. Well, there was a really interesting who, oh, Malcolm Gladwell just recently wrote about the absurdity of the numerous sports at Harvard. Yes. They have more sports than any other school so that there's so many routes in. Yes, exactly. Anywho. All right. So you loved it. What degree did you pick up at Harvard?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5351.306

And I can totally acknowledge both sides of it. There's like a group of people that are taking life really serious and they're trying their ass off. And it's very unfair to them that some other people are just here to have a blast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5380.336

Like if you want to be good. You can't get good by thinking about something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5402.935

Yeah, and both are legit, and I feel bad for the serious people that are annoyed by the people fucking off, and I feel bad for the people having a great time in life who people are mad at. You know, like, I see it all. Like, you know, is life a big farce? I think so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5427.641

Great point, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5431.804

Well, yeah, yeah. I mean, we've all flown to New Mexico to execute this thing. It's not like, you can't wander onto a film set. Right. You know, you, but you're right. You're right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5454.828

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5457.329

Yeah. And the first time I was like, I get it. I might've done the same thing if I had a smaller role in the movie and I wanted to pop. Uh, and then when I said, Hey, if you keep doing this, we're never going to get the scene. Cause, cause my character can't be interrupted in this race. And then you choose to do it. Yeah. Then I'm the person who wants to get the job done. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5479.035

Someone else is fucking around. So, yeah, I'm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5483.801

And now God bless him for giving me that experience. Because I've done a million scenes in a million movies and I remember very few of them. And that is so memorable and it's one of my best stories. And it's like ultimately in the game alive, I'm delighted he fucked that up so many times and all the shit happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5500.401

So I guess it's like what point in time are you evaluating these things is also really relevant. Sure. Is it in the moment? Is it five years later? Is it on your deathbed? Is it as, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5511.848

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5513.029

And the world can't be, the whole world can't be thinking this whole thing's a joke. Yeah. Because things got to get done.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5518.953

Science has to be done.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5521.054

And I get it. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5558.127

And it was. Wildflower Bakery.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5562.911

Yeah. You did a whole graphic here, Rob? I did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5569.75

Now, Rob, how do you deal? Because, Rob, you do everything right. It's something I am so grateful to you for. You are such a meticulous planner and just a great manager of all things that need doing. Did it drive you nuts growing up when people just were fucking off and didn't give a shit?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

557.96

So I saw you were an anthropologist. I love it. The same distance between Detroit and Chicago, really. Yeah. Academically between. It was very close.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5591.182

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5592.262

I'm sorry. On behalf of us, I'm sorry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5602.902

Yeah. Okay, Chris. Chris.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5610.972

I used to be able to do that voice, but now I've lost my upper register. It's a family guy character. He always wants Chris to come in his basement and show him his creamy hamstrings or creamy thighs. I mean, he's clearly a pedophile, but they find a way to make it quite cute and funny in the cartoon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5653.136

Okay, nine years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5658.057

And as I told you in 96, I partied with Pedro.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5664.138

Who was season one. San Francisco real world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5672.156

Sweet, sweet guy. What a fun night we had.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5693.865

Now, do you think that remaining 1% that's girls, do they have a girl league or there's girls playing on the boys football team?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5702.512

You want to know something I'm embarrassed to admit?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5704.413

So I'm deep in my Friday Night Lights rewatch. I cannot recommend it enough for people with kids. It's such a fun family show. We've never had more fun watching a show together. It's just, it's a drug. We love it. We fight every night about when to turn it off. It never occurred to me that they can practice. They can just play games in practice because the team is split into two teams.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5726.988

The defense, I don't know why that never crossed my mind. Like we're watching Friday Night Lights and they practice a ton on the show. And I'm like, oh, duh, yeah, they can play a real game endlessly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5739.031

Because they have everyone they need.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5740.912

You can't do that in basketball. I mean, you're just, you'd be splitting up. You split it. Yeah, it's just, it's very, I don't know why that never crossed my mind.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5755.005

Like, you're not playing against— Unless your team has the best defense. Right. Then you almost have—your offense almost has an advantage because they're being forced to play against the best defense. It's probably like a virtuous cycle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5773.76

Yes, but then you're going to have, like, the goalie's going to be half as good. Talk about a fucking position I would not want to have. No way. There's all these things where consistency is important. Yeah. Those are not good things for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5787.066

Or your whole job boils down to one second. Like, I need a lot of time, and I need to be intermittently good, and I'm going to be bad intermittently. That's kind of how I can operate. Interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

58.871

I'm surprised they didn't do that. They will. Season two.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5804.954

But even when you make the shot, you've been dribbling for a while and you made a couple moves and you're in your rhythm. This is just you're standing dead still and you're up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5814.738

Yeah. You got to be perfect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5817.239

With no lead up. That's true. I need lead up. That's why I like driving is like. Anyone will tell you, like, it's very rare that a, unless you're an F1.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5829.132

There's 21 turns on a track. You're not acing all 21 turns on the track. You've blown one, you're recovering on a couple, and that's standard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5838.354

So now it's just like a percentage of how good you, so that works for me. Yeah. You have a lot of time to make mistakes and recover and be perfect and then not good. But these jobs that require you to be excellent every time. Yeah. Scare the bejesus out of me. A symphony orchestra player.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

585.475

The culture shock for me was wealth. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5855.966

I need to be a jazz, like, improver. Yeah. Some of it's like, I don't know, is that okay? Whoa, that was a nice lick.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5866.992

It went away? It lost out to Zoom?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5872.235

Was Skype owned by something else?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5874.717

Microsoft. It's hard to feel bad for Microsoft.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

588.997

Did you have friends that were like, you want to get on the jet and go to Martha's Vineyard with my family? I wasn't invited, but I heard about it. It was happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5884.611

It's weird that it didn't take off. It was already there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5891.494

That might speak to like if you didn't catch the learning curve initially, you think it's insurmountable and you'd rather just learn the new thing that came your way and everyone's figuring it out. Well, this will comfort you. I just weirdly stumbled. I don't know why I read an article about quarterly profits.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5909.659

And Microsoft's quarterly profit was $70 billion. That's pretty good. That's nuts. Yeah, that's awesome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5918.355

That's nuts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5936.344

Isn't that the story of the internet? It's like you had Yahoo, you had AOL, all these things that seem like, you know, institutions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5944.55

And some of these, AOL bought Warner Brothers and Time Warner and just vanished forever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5962.825

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5965.187

It didn't work out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

5984.764

Of the million we just learned that play football.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6005.899

That's what the article says?

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6007.661

God, that seems really, really high. Because how many people get into the NFL every year?

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6016.091

257. So that would mean there was only 100,000 players drafted. Of age.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6032.446

Right. I guess there's the million playing football might include junior high football players and youth football and... Maybe it includes rec league. Definitely 9 through 12.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

606.628

Right. Okay, so how on earth do you get on this MTV show? Oh, another thing we haven't commented.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6066.217

Wow. God, I mean, that just seems really impossible. Doesn't it? That a few hundred will go every year?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6076.221

Out of 77,000 that are already playing in college. It's almost impossible to play college football.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6085.618

Again, Friday Night Lights smashes. He thinks he's going to the NFL. Everyone thinks they're going to the NFL.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6093.349

I mean, you got to go for it.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6100.942

Trying to think what the equivalent episode would be for me.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6106.564

Yeah, me too. Can you think of an obsession of mine that might be fun? It would be car-related, I guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6114.787

Mine's Total Woof.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6124.194

Yeah, we've had a couple people that their main concern was that we're not listening to each other. Right. That was really rewarding. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

615.753

He's much younger than me. Nine years, maybe. Are you 41? No, but thank you. I'm 46.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

6154.175

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

622.417

Still in the 70s. You were born in 79? I'm 78. All right, we're doing good. Okay, so yeah, how do you end up on MTV?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

643.928

Growing up, did you love WWF and Hulk Hogan?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

66.316

Of course. John Wells is a legend. Okay. He has a book called Head Games, Football's Concussion Crisis. And if you want to get involved with the Concussion Legacy Foundation, concussionfoundation.org. This is a really, really interesting episode. And his story is... Second to none. Please enjoy Chris Nowinski.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

666.142

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

703.564

Okay, great. Not in front of anybody. No. No. I got to imagine you're appealing. You have the size, great. You have the athleticism, but what a story. You're from Harvard. They're going to hate your fucking guts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

732.172

By the way, you're 22?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

734.613

You're 21.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

747.041

You beat me. I hope we fuse at the end of this. Okay, so you needed surgery.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

755.24

We should. It'd explode out of the toilet. First trimester, it'd be 12 pounds.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

796.298

Yeah. Did you have a romantic? No, there's no women there, right? Of course.

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Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

800.243

They wanted that. So it was eight guys, five girls. Okay, day two are on the wrestling track. Yeah. And was there any romance happening in the house? No. Oh. They didn't get you drunk enough. They probably hadn't cracked the formula yet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

834.091

So this was 2001. Yeah. Okay, what was the value of a three-year contract at that time with WWE?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

844.377

Okay. They paid us $600 a week to do the show, and then one person gets dangled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

849.099

That's great. Yeah. Of the people that were on this show, how many got that contract? Two, one male, one female. And you got, you didn't get the contract. Wait, but you did end up in WWE. Yeah, yeah. Okay, so you didn't get the contract. What then happened?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

890.134

That would be a dick, but maybe the only college grad there. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

896.943

Elitism, this is why we lost.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

923.2

You're in Boston. Are dudes trying to challenge you at the bar? No. Thank God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

953.971

As we'll learn, you have a big injury. Is that your fault or his? I'll take the blame.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

960.213

So some of them were my fault, some of them were not, and they accumulated. Okay, so this is a question that's been really eating me alive, and you're one of the few people that can really answer this. So we were in Mexico City over Christmas, and we went to the wrestling down there. Lucha Libre. I mean, it is wild.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chris Nowinski (on CTE)

973.419

I'm watching one match, and I'm like, these guys, there's no way they can walk for like two weeks. It's over and over under the concrete. It's so violent. So... What was the violence level in WWE compared to football?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, experts on expert. I'm Dan Rather and I'm joined by Mrs. Mouse. Hi. Today we have Jonathan Haidt returning. I don't know if you guys would remember.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1000.267

Debate some ideas probably.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1046.051

Yeah, yeah. Constantly calling for the deans to be fired, constantly calling for everyone to be fired. That's right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1096.411

You have to acknowledge who the constituents are. It needs addressing.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1245.595

The thing I was noticing that was very concerning and continues to be is I am liberal and all my friends are liberal. I'm having conversations with all the members of this group and none of them think some of the broadcast values of the liberal party. And that's what was really concerning. I've yet to meet the person that agrees with issue A.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1271.974

yet that's an official part of our platform and what's happening it felt like the cadre system we were all afraid to tell the truth that's right i was open to meeting a handful of people that thought this was a good idea but numerous issues everyone i meet in real life not on the internet doesn't think this way and i'm like oh it's truly been hijacked no one even thinks this

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

131.862

Hopefully we've gotten 4% better. You can score us afterwards. 4% per year compounded. That's okay. If you have forgotten, I'll give you the same compliments that we probably did the first time, which is I think we were exposed to you first on Sam Harris 11 years ago, maybe 10 years ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1321.501

Okay, so... Your current book, The Anxious Generation, one element of it is not a shocker to me because you brought up in the first interview seven years ago, this concept of free range parenting. We ended up interviewing Leonore Skenazy, who we loved. She's great. She's so funny. So that aspect I knew would come up at some point in your work, maybe more officially.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1344.56

So maybe start there because that's where you and I are really in lockstep.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1384.127

Normally I would brag about getting an email from you commending us. I somehow resisted in that moment.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1439.773

Really quick, how have you come to trust the data? Because you born in 63, me in 75, I have never, ever been asked about my anxiety level. I've never been asked about my depression level. No one ever inquired anything of any of us. So how do you make peace with trusting this data, just knowing that we're looking around now and we weren't?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

148.089

In fact, that's the introductory episode I used to send people when I used to encourage people to listen to that show. It was such an invigorating debate.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1571.852

OK, I'm going to unfortunately bring this word back again, and I know it's an aggravating one. But if we look at why there was this clampdown on the autonomy of the children in that period, you've got to call it irrational. It's an irrational fear of pedophiles, kidnappings, abductions. We would have to agree that that was a moral panic. I lived through this satanic moral panic.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1593.935

People that weren't alive then can't really even imagine we were sending kids to prison in Memphis because they worshipped this poster of Metallica. Like this was happening. Kids were going to prison for Satanism. The next round in my memory was this big moral panic about abductions. A man with a white man. Yes. Our response to it was far more damaging than this perceived threat of the abductors.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

162.913

Yes. If you're ever going to model great discourse, it's really encouraging to hear two smart people argue, not have the same opinion, represent themselves well. Yeah, I was just kind of enamored with your intellect and your ability to communicate what you think. It's pretty unique. And then over the years, I doubt this would get to you, but Monica and I bring up your moral thought experiments.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1647.62

500. I don't want to act like I'm ahead of the question. I know where it's going. Honestly, maybe 60 to 100. That's about right. The right's obsessed with child abductions. They think everyone's a pedophile still. They have this whole movie. They think Bill Gates has kids. Right wing TV really goes for that. They think there's sex trafficking happening on an order of like millions of kids a year.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1670.202

And you're like, where are the parents? Why isn't anyone reporting this? Where are these people?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1766.363

This would be a great time for me to point out, like, I was sexually abused. But almost all sexual abuse cases are a trusted person, right?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

189.846

They're so tasty.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1949.912

I would also add there was a new component around that time, much like the Internet, which was the daytime salacious talk show. There were new offerings. There was cable. There was a proliferation of options. It wasn't three networks. So you could find someone at any given moment on TV in the 90s talking about some abductor.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

1969.145

A megaphone was given to a lot of people that you would have otherwise not heard from. That's right. That was part of it.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2132.565

Just a little telling they have a different version running in China than they have here.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2142.151

What would be helpful, I think, is the first, because I wouldn't have known how to delineate the generations. So Gen X, which I'm a member of, are you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2151.236

You're the last of, okay. You're bridging it. And then we have millennials. Millennials is what era?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2163.202

Monica's represented. I'm 87. We have three generations here.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2231.175

Yeah, they have no period of time. They have no foot in pre-internet, pre-smartphone. So it's a very interesting group to look at. When we talk about all these issues that are in the anxious generation, we are talking about Gen Z. Yes, that's right.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2266.781

Okay, so a couple things you lay out in the book which are relevant is you have 90% of the mass of your brain by like six years old. But what was really happening through development is building all these neural networks, getting different areas of the brain to communicate. And that is a long journey that varies between males and females.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2283.89

But the frontal lobe is fully on board, the prefrontal cortex. You're in your twenties. 25 usually. Okay, so that's how the brain works. And now what are your thoughts on how this technology has interfered with that process?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2349.552

It's really impressive. It's not like any child ever tried to start walking. It's like, fuck that. That was too hard. I guess I'll crawl.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2359.84

Yeah, what would be over there that's as interesting?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2470.112

So you see four foundational harms from all this. One is social deprivation. Seems pretty intuitive, but go ahead and expound a little bit on that.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2550.643

You don't even meet kids. Anyone with a partner experiences this.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2596.138

Now, just to play devil's advocate right here. Please. I would imagine that is how their workplace will end up looking. So I think we're moving into an era where it's like AI is doing a lot of these tasks. AI has endless concentration. You know, are they just getting prepared for the life they're going to occupy? It's not the life I want, but is it maybe just the life of the future?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

26.185

I want to say that's like first year.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2618.942

And I need to, again, check my being 50 and getting more conservative. What do we think about that?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2666.447

It's all so intuitive. It's not like you're going to fall so deeply behind.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2692.679

It's interesting. Yeah, it parallels a lot of social issues of the time. It's like, when do we allow children to do whatever they want?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2748.505

I'll just add right now, because I think it's interesting for people to think of when they drink. Like if you read Dopamine Nation or Molecule More, both those books are great. The Joy of Drinking is the first two drinks That is the most pleasurable period because that's the dopamine dump. It's I'm feeling the shifting of reality. What could be on the other side of this new reality?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2767.343

Beyond two drinks is inebriation. So you're no longer getting dopamine. So people are wondering, like, what is that experience where it's like the first two are great and I feel optimistic and energized. And then the rest is just inebriation because there's no dopamine. And that's what you really love is the dopamine.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2789.599

You're in a deficit at that point.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2835.683

The human body is the master at homeostasis. So if you bring it up, it must bring itself down.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2845.088

Yes, absolutely. And it's an asymmetric offset. So it's five minutes of dopamine and the cost of that, the bad chemicals you experience, go on for two hours.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

29.186

It was early. Yep. And this one was really fun. I don't know about you. Were you nervous the first time we had him?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

290.2

I love that detail. The genius of these things is these really tiny details. And I'm upset you didn't go into film and television. I feel like you might have an M. Night Shyamalan kind of bent to you.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2971.691

And the gambling epidemic is soon to rival the opioid. Like there's a lot of people now starting to shine a light on just how extreme this epidemic is.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

2999.613

Yeah. And then you're feeding into the suicide epidemic.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3010.919

Yeah, you're in discomfort a lot of your day if you're not on the thing. It's identical to drug addiction. Okay, so now the data, and you've already hinted at it, but the social deprivation, sleep deprivation, we should talk about it, really probably impacts sleep.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3126.25

Okay, so the results of all this, as you reported, among American girls between 10 and 14, emergency room visits for self-harm grew by 188%. Yeah, it's stunning. Okay, so now this is really disturbing, but of course, I am inclined to think of all the variables that could add to this. It's hard to parse out these things. So one thing is we know the contagion effect.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3149.344

We just had this expert on sleep sickness, where 3,000 of 5,000 town members all got the same sleep sickness.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3158.05

The Tourette's. TikTok Tourette's. Yeah. Right. So this power of contagion, I don't think can be underestimated. So it's kind of chicken or egg. Were they on these devices so long that they wanted to self-harm or did they witness self-harm on the devices? I guess the results are the same regardless. But for me, I need to work through what's going on.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

323.15

One's pleasure seeking, one's sustenance seeking.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3287.739

Well, the algorithm knows it must continue to get more and more extreme. Yes, exactly. Yes, it has a natural trajectory.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

330.533

Can I just add, I don't care. You don't care if they eat their dog? Not at all. It's dead. Had they murdered the dog to eat it, now we're in a different zone. They've created suffering potentially, whatever. It's already dead. It's going to be wasted. I'll tell you what people around the world say. Okay.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3300.046

And boys on YouTube, they're getting radicalized and becoming white nationalists.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3304.468

These very predictable paths.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3341.528

Okay, and then the anxiety and depression, and we kind of already talked about it. You trust this figure. I'm a little more on the fence about how much of it. The anxiety and depression rates have risen 150% for this cohort.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3384.048

Again, I just think we're really trying to figure out how much of it is the contagion, how much of it is, it's in our vernacular. Any kid now knows numerous personality disorders from the DSM. They know numerous mood disorders. I didn't know any of them. I knew like depression, I guess was the word I knew. So just the awareness is something, how much it's talked about is something.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3408.684

John, isn't some of it just destigmatization? You asked to think he's dyslexic. That was a big thing you asked.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3481.602

Well, look, I acknowledge it's part of the tech, but I would say even back when you were deciding who you would tell that you had gone to therapy, you're making some selection. You're not telling everybody anything. And definitely you're evaluating what dude wants to hear, especially with dudes. You're like this fucking guy working on my sink doesn't want to know what's a therapy.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3499.879

You have some social awareness. Whereas you enter this world where if you choose to, you can be in a silo where everyone talks about it. That's right. So it's very powerful.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3537.534

You're going to nod along to a lot of racist jokes that were totally commonplace.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3589.22

And I want to put a ribbon on this because I think the tension that exists is like, there's people like me, there's people like me. Steven Pinker, there's people that want to point out that the long arc is very, very positive.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3600.029

And what I think some people fear when they hear that is that those people, myself included, are saying job all done. You don't have to give up improving because you've acknowledged there's been huge improvement. I think that's what some of the disconnect is, is people interpret that as you saying job's done. But that's not what I'm saying. It's like, we're on a good path.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3620.783

Let's not be defeatist about this or pessimistic.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3662.893

And it still sucks, you can say.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3666.517

I get so much value out of Chappelle. I just love when something happens and I've processed it one way, I go, oh, I can't wait to hear how Chappelle processed this, right? Because he is coming from such a different and unique place than I am. And I am so regularly reminded of that this is an all-day occurrence for Black people.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3687.434

Yes, those things have happened, but let me show you how we got devalued over this other group in two seconds or how this happened. Like, he's very good at reminding us, it's a joke if you think this is over. So I greatly appreciate that. What I'm pitching is like, we have room for both things.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3703.305

One is like, we have made huge strides and it's still a beat down to be a Black man or woman in this country, much more than I'll experience.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

38.948

He was our introduction to podcasts. Jedediah Jenkins recommended I listen to the Jonathan Haidt.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3810.914

It's interesting. I've not thought of this until you're laying it out, but it's almost like we do have a natural compulsion to atone and suffer. And there's an outlet for it in religion, right? It's like you're born with sin. You battle it. That's the burden you have. And in the absence of that, we kind of need a burden and we need some toxicity we're fighting.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3833.152

It's kind of interesting that if you don't have an outlet for it and religion does provide that for you, you'll somehow find it. I mean, we all find religion. I think we could agree on that. It's like if you live in Hollywood, food is the religion. It's impure. It's toxic. It's inorganic. It's all these concepts we just love. We're built to be drawn to.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3907.673

Okay. Well, let's get into the four solutions. You lay out the four foundational harms, but you also lay out four solutions. And I'm in agreement on all these. So no smartphones before high school. Yes. Let's talk about that.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3953.812

You're going to be the only kid in your class.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3968.295

Yeah, they have iPods that they can make their home movies on. That's really all they do on it. And then you two, they're only allowed to watch a single show, Dr. Mike, because it's super informative. He's great. I love it. So yeah, those are kind of the parameters.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

3983.499

If they're on Wi-Fi at home, they can text. Communicate with their friends. Yes. Okay. I am aware of all the fear. And then I have my anecdotal life, which is I'm around a lot of kids, our whole friendship group. And there's fucking 14 kids in the group, right? And I'm hearing all these horror stories and I'm hearing what people deal with.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4000.904

And I'm just actually not seeing these zombie teens addicted to their phones. I had all this fear about giving my daughter this phone. I engraved on it, no games. So there was no games allowed on it. I said, yes, I want you to make short movies. That's great. And I want you to have music and I want you to be able to read and listen to books on tape. So I'm all for it.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4018.485

And then I just deep panic that they're going to get obsessed with it. They have it. They forget to charge it. A month goes by and they go, oh, I want to do whatever. And they charge it.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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They're here running around or riding motorcycles in the neighborhood. Like we're very out and about. Just the two of them or they're with other kids? Oh, so yes. And this is what you read about. I'm like, go to the store. Get the fuck out of here. Do whatever you want. I trust you. You know how to get home. You know how to flag a stranger.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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So they've had really a ton of autonomy, I think, relative to other kids I'm reading about.

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They're pretty much on their own, except for our pod has a similar ethos.

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How many kids is that? That is 11 kids.

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That'd be great if you rolled in a Zenith console.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Do you know what's crazy? This is not hypothetical. What? There was a cannibal in France. We used to have a conspiracy theory show and our fellow host interviewed this cannibal and he made the cannibal's cookbook. And it was the exact thing. He worked in a pathology lab. Oh, my God. And he actually took it home and cooked it.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4245.609

That was number one killer for kids under, yeah.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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But I have a good counter to that. Go ahead. You're doing it all the time. You're valuing one thing and taking on risk because you know it's worth it. So yes, one girl got abducted in Europe. 52,000 people are going to die this year in a car accident. So you're comparing the incident rate of an abduction versus dying in a car, and it's

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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50,000 to one, but we know we want what's on the other side of driving the car. It is too important to miss out on your whole life to not go drive the car. You take on that risk because you want it. What people are not doing, I think accurately, is assessing what's at stake. So you know if you don't drive a car, you're not going anywhere in your life.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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And if your kids don't have this sense of competence and autonomy, they're going to miss out on where the car takes you.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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So it's not even hypothetical.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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He went to jail, but he didn't do a ton of jail time for it. And he was able to get out and write this cookbook.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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And if they get in a situation, they're actually far more vulnerable. So if your goal was to inoculate them from danger, them being as competent as possible is the best solution.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Yeah, they've had no opportunity to find out they can handle stuff. Okay, well, I love all those solutions. I've got no pushback on that. Now I'm going to hit you with something you're not going to like. Uh-oh. And I'm going to start this by saying I love my mother-in-law. She's the greatest grandmother's ever been on planet Earth. And no one loves my kids as much as my wife's mother.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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But this is the pattern of texts I receive. Big warning about 5G. Huge dust up about vaccinations. She does not want us to get the kids vaccinated. A couple of abduction stories. And then out of nowhere, a month and a half ago, she texts me, have you heard of this guy, Jonathan Haidt? Uh-oh. She doesn't like me. No, she loves you.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4482.603

Links to things I should watch, interviews you've given in the promotion of this book. And I respond to her, yes, I'm aware of him. I've interviewed him. What do you think of him? And I'm going to be dead honest with you. I said, I think he's among the top five smartest people I've ever talked to. I'm very intimidated to argue with him.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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And I think he himself is caught up in a bit of a moral panic.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4509.371

Here's what I think you're ignoring.

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Gen Z's teen pregnancy rate is 78% lower than 91%. 31% of millennials drink regularly. Only 18% of Gen Z's drink. A third of Gen Z doesn't even drink. This has never been observed. They're completely abstinent. They are more frugal than millennials. They are more health conscious. They have better nutritional practices.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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They have better exercise.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4538.66

Here's what I'm going with. It's like you've decided to kind of focus on a singular thing. I could easily make the argument that, yes, this obsession with social media and the phone, although may have produced this thing, are we not then going to credit this thing with this huge leap forward this generation's taken? All this promising stuff we know about them.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4560.095

I know of the anxiety-depression figure, but that's to me one metric out of like six, and they're like thriving in the other departments.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

46.469

Sam Harris episode. And I was so stimulated intellectually.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4670.13

The one that doesn't fit with that is they should have a big uptick in addiction and especially drinking. Why? Because they're living these scared, unfulfilled, high anxiety, lonely, depressed lives. And it is an immediate medicine that has worked for millennia. And that one doesn't jive. Well, wait a second.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Boys are rough, I'll grant it that. But they're slightly improved, shockingly. On drug addiction.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Video games, porn. If we're including that.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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So what troubles me about my mother-in-law's text is she didn't text me to say you should let your kids roam freer.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4774.979

Fear is very tasty. It's very viral. It's easy to latch on to. And so my issue is that what she could have just as equally gotten from your book is is that she should have called and said, you know what? You should let the kids go out to eat by themselves. Now, that's the part of the book I love. And I do think it's the antidote. But that's not what makes headlines.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4799.067

And that's not what has my mother-in-law texting me. It's not the call to bravery that I would want it to be. It's a double down on more fear.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Terrified. You got to get every phone out of the house, just off to the races. Yeah.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4837.588

Well, the most identifiable thing is the endless arguments that exist in a household about this topic. Any parent can relate to this.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4897.153

I'm in an interesting zone because I agree with you. I don't want a phone in my kids' school. They're not gonna be on social media till they're older. They're just not good. The phones. The phones. As I always tell my kids, I'm like, the world is so big around you and to reduce it to two by three inches, that's not what we should be doing. We should be trying to make it even wider, not narrower.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4918.001

So I'm just in an interesting zone with it because I agree with you, but I think there's a little bit of hysteria surrounding it. I also don't think it's Satan. I don't think evil's here. You can maybe accept that.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4929.844

I'm afraid of panics, irrational panics and fear.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Are you open also to the notion that there are these cycles with new generations that are unavoidable, which is I have some hope that this self-corrects simply because the next generation will observe these older kids doing this outdated thing and it'll just be passe and not cool. Facebook went away for young people. It's because they moved to Instagram.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

4994.881

I agree, but I have some hope that this will be a dumb, embarrassing activity that the older people did.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5107.974

Well, they're going to have companions that will not challenge them to ever change who they are.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5126.842

They'll be the highest status member of that group.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5152.195

Again, I'm in favor of every proposal. So let's just do them.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5171.066

It's a zero risk proposition. No one's going to look back in time and be like, Well, fuck Jonathan Haidt. We could have been on the phone seven hours a day and we were only on it one hour a day. No one will ever regret spending less time.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

52.21

I'm like, oh my God, these two people know so much more about the world than I do.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5213.759

That's it. Well, Jonathan, sincerely, it is an enormous privilege to get your time. I admire you greatly. I think you're such a special intellectual and I'm glad that you're passionate about this. may not have the fear level you do, but it's a true honor and a privilege that we get to sit and talk with you.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

524.392

There's other metrics other than suffering. Yes, that's right.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5264.212

My mother-in-law is like pouring it to me. Yeah, I mean, you've penetrated. All right. Well, thank you so much. And I hope you'll come back on your next book. Love to. Okay, wonderful. Great to talk with you guys. We hope you enjoyed this episode. Unfortunately, they made some mistakes. Hello.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Maybe a higher calling or a higher truth you're pursuing.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5285.507

You couldn't find your tabs?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5294.259

That's what you use to write, to compose things, is Word?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5297.781

Oh, you had to download that program, I guess, right? It doesn't come on a Mac.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5308.166

But you transferred everything from your old laptop onto that one. I think I did.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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I used TextEdit because it came with it.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5316.703

Now I'm feeling like I should have gone the extra mile and gotten word.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5320.566

Do you ever use Google Docs?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5337.018

It never ends with the passwords. Who would have thought that would be the bane of everyone's existence?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5341.501

I just had a bit of a scare. So as you know, Erin and I are starting a podcast.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5348.24

Yeah, I think it's going to be called Mom's Car. And I am in real life, I've registered to deliver food with a delivery service.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5357.242

Popular delivery service, I'll leave it at that. And we go pick up and deliver food. And then while we're driving around, we read questions people asked. And then in this case, we did a couple last night. We also had a fun guest in the backseat.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5372.705

But registering for this delivery app, it was like my social security, like info I never give out online.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5381.231

And I was like, God, now I got to trust this company.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5384.313

To not have a data breach.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5385.994

Which they all have them. I know. I was scared.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5391.863

What was really, really funny about this whole thing was I delivered for three hours. Didn't get much activity. I thought it would be like boom, boom, boom. But of course, we're in L.A., a lot of out-of-work actors. I think there's a lot of folks delivering food.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5407.87

I only got to deliver three different meals in three hours. Ice cream, some smoothie beverages, and some hot chicken.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5419.491

And it was very, very fun. All to say I made $22. Congrats. And then I got home and I ordered food for everyone that was at the house, which we have people staying at the house. And I spent like $180. I was like, oh, this is so funny. I offset, I guess, my expenditure by $22.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5443.395

You get some fee for delivering it.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5445.938

And then you get a tip, but that comes in a little while later. One thing that wasn't in any of the questionnaires, which should be, my first delivery, the person was on the fifth floor of an apartment building, no elevator. So I had to hoof it up five floors. I'm exaggerating. It was four. I didn't need to do that. Four is a lot. I thought they should ask if you're in shape.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5468.031

I don't think not everyone can go hustle up four flights of stairs to drop off some food.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5473.293

It could take a while.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5474.834

And then you could be losing your mind inside your apartment because you saw that they've arrived and it's like still 20 minutes. Yeah. And then I only got to meet one of the customers because most people, which I didn't anticipate, which makes sense. Just leave at the door.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5489.977

People want leave at the door. You're leave at the door?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5492.818

Yeah. I have to interact with them because I got to open the gate and do the whole thing.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5499.979

You're not worried that some of the scoundrels out there are going to dip into it?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5517.268

It is. How significantly?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5530

So much blood.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5531.701

No shade to the experiment we're involved with, but my God, there's 10 vials of blood, right? That's what they took, 10?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5539.848

It was 10. It was 10, yeah. And then finger pricks, 20 cards. So it's like you got the 10 vials of blood and then all these cards.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5562.379

You are? Okay, great.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5572.923

He sent me a positive text, too, that said that I've knocked out whatever inflammation was in one of my vessels or some shit.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5579.086

Did you get any good news, Rob? No. Let's be called bad news coming. I'm sorry. Okay.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5593.624

I hate my smell test.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5596.726

Of all the tests we have to do again, I'm mad that I have to redo the smell test.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5602.31

I just think so much is like scratching. Well, we can try it. Want to do a couple cards?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5606.213

Okay. I just don't want to... It's a long test.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5614.468

I wonder if our first page is the same first page.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5618.97

Are your options A, gasoline, B, pizza, C, peanuts, D, lilac?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5628.754

Okay. I hate this test.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5639.799

I always wonder, like, did I get old cards? I'm just going to be honest with you. I don't have an answer. It's just process of elimination. I don't think I smell gasoline. I don't want to skew your results. I'll let you lock in before.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5655.242

All right. I'm going to lock in mine, too. Okay. But I don't really. I didn't smell this. I just want you to know I didn't smell the other things more. Okay.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5667.891

You smell lilac?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5672.036

I don't smell peanuts, but I know I don't smell lilac, pizza, or gasoline.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5677.958

Oh, really good. We can, we have a control group, kind of.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5683.18

Fuck, I hate this test.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5690.563

I hope he says pizza.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5698.271

Thank you. It doesn't smell like anything. It smelled like the lead from my pencil. I think it's lilac, though. Okay. So I got that one wrong.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

57.295

It's like intimidating.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5705.657

We do. You guys are better at this than me. Okay. I can concede defeat when I'm defeated. I can take the loss. All right. Here we go. Number two. Okay. That one's easy. We're going to agree on this one.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5719.289

On the count of three. One, two, three. C. Bubblegum. It is bubble gum. Fuck. I got to change it. Oh, no, don't change it. You know what it was? No, I need to, and I feel ethically fine about it. I smelled gum.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5736.06

I smelled gum. I'm like, ooh, gum. And then I went, oh, wintergreen's a flavor of gum.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5741.061

But I didn't even read bubble gum.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5742.942

I didn't even read it.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5745.263

Okay, hold on. Yeah. On the count of... Wait, I'm not ready. Okay.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5753.462

I'm hasty. This should be a test of how... Maybe this is just a test of how hasty you are. Three, two, one.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5762.885

Finally. Although we did agree on the last one. I just didn't read all the options. All right, let's do a fourth one. Now I like it. Okay. Oh, I hope this is D. Me too. It's my favorite smell. It's D too. And it is.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5784.67

For the listener, the options were whiskey, honey, lime, cherry. And of all four of those smells, I would most want to smell cherry.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

58.896

So when we talked to him, I was scared the first time. This time was much more chill.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5801.925

See, I go, I don't want to be trying to pinpoint what smell I'm smelling. I'd rather know what four options are, and then I'll be much quicker to latch it onto one.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5815.382

Maybe. But like if I just smell a smell, I'm like, oh, I don't know. It's a fruit. It's a fuck. I know it's a fruit. Is it this? It could take me forever to get to kiwi or cherry. But if I see it on there.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5831.252

See, I didn't read them.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5836.378

I did read that one and I didn't get it. Right? I don't know. But I didn't read them before. And I was like, gum, wintergreen. So I would have been better off reading all of them before. Let's do one last one because it's fun. Oh, I hope it's D. No. Please be D. Please be D. Fuck, man. This one's a head scratcher.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5859.584

Fuck this. It's not in there.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5862.846

I hate this test so much.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5866.417

You're the worst.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5871.642

All right. I'm just, this is like, again, the least.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5879.408

On three, three, two, one.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5883.372

Mine went grass.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5892.484

Yes, those are such different smells.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5894.725

But I'm telling you, nothing came off this piece of paper.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5900.307

There's nothing there, Rob. You're wasting your footsteps.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5905.309

Stop doing that.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5909.69

There's nothing. There's absolutely nothing there. There's no scent. I don't even think a dog—

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5920.283

Minty like grass? I don't care about this one. I don't care if my smell's in decline.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5931.083

Yeah. It could be a blessing, really, to not be able to smell. Famously, my dad couldn't smell anything because he broke his nose so many times and he got a nose job.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5940.75

Couldn't smell anything. House could be on fire. He wouldn't smell it. And we'd be watching TV and I would fart sometimes and it would be so stinky. And I'm like, oh, my God, he has no clue.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5951.377

That part's nice. Yeah. It's dangerous if there's a propane leak, I suppose.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5957.02

You continue, Dawn.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5961.404

You love this test. Yeah, I would imagine. I did a fun dad thing this morning.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

5967.049

I woke up at 5.30, which I wasn't grateful for, but then I was like, oh, whatever, just get up. And I had done all the stuff I needed to do. And I looked and I was like, oh, it's like, it's 6.30. I wonder if I shake the girls awake if they'll want to go get breakfast before.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Before school. And Lincoln's already up. Lincoln is my daughter. She's up at six. They're both your daughters. Yep, they're both my daughters to my knowledge. I guess I'll never know unless we all do a 23andMe. But she's up at six. She goes and lets whiskey out. And then she goes into the backyard. She goes up to the top to a swing. Oh, she journaled first.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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What do you think about just the appeal of one answer, a binary? And I just have found now that in interviewing so many people and living long enough, at best things are like 61% true.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Then she went in the backyard, got on a swing, got a little peacetime perspective. Then I saw her walking through the backyard at like 630. And then I open up the cameras and I see her. She goes up to the gym.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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So she's fucking journaled. She basically meditated. She went and sat on a swing. And then she went to the gym and did squats.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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This shit is just so genetic, right? No one's telling, no one's encouraging her to do any of this stuff.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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I just, yes, yes.

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I just think it's interesting that one of them does this stuff. Yes, it's been modeled. Both versions have been modeled by Kristen and I. But one happens to constantly replicate the modeling Kristen did. And one is constantly replicating the modeling I've done, which I just find suspicious.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6062.111

If it were a little more blurry, like a little more of each person. Right. And you're right. Maybe I'm projecting. Anyways, here's this fucking girl. She's doing her whole routine at 11, right? Yeah. So anyways, so Delta's still asleep. Again, Kristen versus me. Kristen will always sleep longer than I will. So I sneak in there and I shake Delta awake. And I'm nervous waking someone up.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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It can make you grumpy.

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I give her a little shake and I go, you want to go to breakfast or before school? And she goes, yeah. And so I tiptoe out of the room. They're all ready. And then I'm like to the errands, the errands are visiting. So I'm like, you guys want to go to breakfast? Yeah. I didn't think weekly would be up, but he was up. And then we get in the car and then all of a sudden Belle runs out.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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She had a late enough call.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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So we had a party breakfast. There was five of us at breakfast. No, six of us at breakfast. The whole Northeast police department The division of the LAPD that's northeastern.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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They all went to breakfast. They took up all these tables. They were right next to us. And Delta was like, oh, that's the gun. I haven't seen a gun in real life. They just have their gun on. And then the guy overheard it and he's like, yeah, this is where we keep our gun. And then she's like, what else is in your thing? And he's giving her, you know, here are my handcuffs.

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I go, do you have Narcan? Yeah, oh, here's my Narcan. Whole like interactive field trip basically to a police station.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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They gave them stickers.

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Gold and shiny. I was like, if you wear those to school, which they put them on their thing, I'm like, people are going to think you're a narc. Oh, shit. It's 21 Jump Street. They're not going to tell you any secrets anymore.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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As an undercover.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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That's true.

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Okay. That's overt.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Overt cover.

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It was very, very fun. And everyone got to school on time. It all worked out beautifully. Nice. Breakfast before school. That never happened to me.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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They did. It's such a fun treat.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6210.059

What led to that last night?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Arena Comics.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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People... Lumped them all into one category.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6293.309

Yeah, yeah. I mean, he's doing an impersonation of someone with Down syndrome. A lot of people are, that's a big no-no for a lot of people.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

63.34

Jonathan, I'm sure you've seen, he's been on an incredible- press tour for his current book, The Anxious Generation. But you would have probably become aware of him with The Coddling of the American Mind or The Righteous Mind or The Happiness Hypothesis. He is a New York NYU professor, social psychologist, and best-selling author. And this is a barn burner.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6313.997

Why he gets a pass.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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But for a lot of people, that's just a deal breaker. There's no going beyond that.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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But by the way, that was my defense of one of these arena comedians, which is like in the same way Shane's family members have this and he's immersed in it. Like this person who's making these jokes has almost no white friends.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6369.113

Right, but one thing I'll say, like, here's an example where it does happen in real life. So I run into Pari, our neighbor. I think we've already said this. Yeah. And he tells me, like, you've got to tell Monica to move her port-a-potty.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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And I go, I'll tell her, but she's Indian, Pari. She's stubborn. She ain't going to listen to a thing I say. Like, I've earned the right to say that.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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I'm close to you. I'm making a joke about Indian people being stubborn.

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And it's honky dory. I feel fine about it. Pari loved it.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6399.604

Pari's Indian.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Well, I wouldn't have said it because it wouldn't make any sense to them. But Pari knows what that means.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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But you would agree it's not objective. It's just like we're all in some continuum.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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And for you, the Down syndrome thing didn't bump. For other people, it totally does.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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And that's just where they're at on the continuum.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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It's like a better story if it sounds like Pari.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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But I think the thing that came up in that... interview, which is really, really important. And I do stand by this point, which is like, it's not okay in a school where everyone's white and there's five minorities. It's totally fine in the inner city when the white kids don't have a majority and everyone's just teasing each other, which is a fine thing everyone can agree to.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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And everyone can enjoy it if they enjoy it.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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And so my defense of the one person is like, Yes, if he's just a guy who doesn't have any friends and isn't in a group where they're all teasing each other, if he's out there doing it, that is a different thing to me than someone who's grown up with, you know, predominantly all minority friends and everyone's blasting each other. That is a... A totally different situation.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6544.667

And the people that enjoy it have to be allowed to enjoy it.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6569.149

Oh, my God. Rooting for Al Qaeda.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6571.812

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Smoking is pretty definitive.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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We get them occasionally.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Have you found though, really quick, as you've gotten older, because certainly... I'm clocking the fact that as I get older, I am getting more conservative.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6624.528

And I think we all, to some degree, see ourselves in the things we're watching. So, like, I recognize all those things to be true about Shane that you just said. And also, I look at him and I go, oh, the fun for me is more everyone is so quick and needs to find out whether the comedian they're listening to is on the left or the right. It's imperative.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6646.224

They must figure it out if they're going to enjoy this.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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And... He is bouncing both directions throughout the whole thing. And it begs of you to be a little more comprehensive in how you're judging the thing.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6661.317

It's almost like the fun challenge, which I really appreciate.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6668.567

And also, you know, he got famous first for getting canceled.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6672.95

Which is going to immediately bring over one side.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6693.881

I'm due to watch it again now that we're talking about it.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

674.053

I'm starting to question a lot of the assumptions I made, like decriminalizing drug use would be great. And then I see the result in Oregon and I go, well, that didn't work out. ODs went up. Our approach to homelessness here in L.A., that was unsuccessful. We have to acknowledge it's unsuccessful. They seem very objectively and empirically true.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6753.871

And then it became L-A-B-O-X.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6759.84

According to him.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6762.625

But there is record of him being in prison.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6766.711

Seven. Seven.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6771.919

It feels too short of a prison term for murder.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6777.221

But these other countries have different approaches than we do.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6782.564

You could kill someone and make your tea time next week.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6795.929

Yeah, it's clean.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6798.46

It's really clean. I had AI give me moral dumbfoundings.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6803.663

Because I wanted to do one every episode with Aaron.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6806.964

Because he and I have such loosey-goosey morals. I thought it'd be kind of fun to hear us process some of these things.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6813.126

There's a bunch. Do you want to hear one?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6815.287

The Clone Replacement. They have titles.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6818.469

A couple's young child dies in an accident. Overwhelmed with grief, they secretly have the child cloned and raise the clone as if nothing happened. They never tell the child or anyone else. Is this morally wrong? Why? Oh, wow. So I have to first imagine. Yeah. Because I'm going to wade through this. I find this out tomorrow.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6847.373

About me.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6848.894

So I find out tomorrow my parents had a Dax already. Uh-huh. He died. They cloned me.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6857.939

And my honest feeling is I'm so moved by that. They loved me so much they needed another one of me. I would feel fine about that.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6873.608

It's just they double demonstrated they wanted you.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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So I don't, I cannot find who the victim in this scenario is. That's why I wanted to start with pretending I'm the cloned person.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6916.911

So I don't see a victim.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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But if I just plot them all on a graph, I would have to recognize, oh, isn't it suspicious that you've also gotten older? So how does one correct for this natural thing? And maybe one shouldn't. And that's the nature of life.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6946.324

Yeah, like, if the goal in life is to figure out how to not— Be in deep sorrow over that.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6952.628

That's a bizarre goal to have.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6964.917

Well, I think for the parent, it'd be really tricky because, of course, I go like, OK, if I lost Lincoln, would I try to get her back? Yeah. Yeah.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

6973.399

Yeah. What would be kind of unfair to Lincoln 2.0 is that I have an expectation of who she is. And how flexible could I be when this 2.0 isn't 1.0? So I think you'd have to go into it with a... A real rigid game plan of like, I'm not, I refuse to try to make her the same person. I have to let her be whoever she is, which is already the original challenge of being a parent.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7003.46

So it's actually not a new challenge.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

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Which is you've got to try your hardest to let them be who they are.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7010.486

Which is the big battle.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7031.312

I know dudes who are sober and they don't relapse and I'm, like, so blown away.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7046.811

And more importantly, I would really feel like I was dishonoring her.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7051.533

To not be so grateful I got the time I got with her. That's like the weird moral position I have about it is like, I can't be anything but grateful for every moment I had with her.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7063.819

Is like dishonoring her.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7095.563

I also wonder too, this bond and trust I have with her, it would be easy to think I just have it when the new baby arrived. Yeah. But I probably forget how much I earned along the way of that bond and trust.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7111.096

That is now mine and I can feel. But at the beginning, I was earning. I was saying, welcome.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7117.962

I'm your friend. Yeah, I would do that again.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7120.604

I guess you could assume you have a relationship you don't. That would be interesting.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7125.708

In benefit of the doubt and all these things that grow over time. You know, she sees me admit when I'm wrong enough times that she trusts me.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7135.107

But the first one, the new one, 2.0, wouldn't have seen that.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7141.933

No, yeah, it'd have to come as a baby.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7149.941

And then if you're just repeating everything.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7152.223

Is that a performance?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7158.863

There's some things I wouldn't do that I learned.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7161.585

The 2.0 would get a little bit better of an experience. Like, I had to learn along the way some lessons.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7175.992

Because they could have her.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7193.099

It's not an identical twin.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7195.019

It's a clone.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7205.564

I have a different job. We have a different level of means. A lot has changed in 12 years.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7235.489

Yeah. And if I found out, like, I'm dead and my parents wanted me back, I don't— But it's not you. I would feel very loved.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7244.718

But they wanted me back. I know, but— The message is still very nice.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7251.183

Some people would be like, let's try a different combination.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7269.13

Now, what my question is, is has note passing gone down by an hour and a half a day? Because I pass notes at least an hour and a half a day, probably three, or drew pictures and handed the pictures I drew to Aaron.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7282.893

So I do wonder if that – has that gone down? Maybe, but that's – Is it just offsetting this other disruptive behavior?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7293.239

Yeah, I think it's better for you to pass notes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7296.021

But I think if you just – I think a lot of people just go like, oh, my God, they're just wasting an hour and a half of their day that they could be educated. I'm just saying explore that a little more. No. Everyone's missing an hour and a half a day. We always have been. We just might have been doing different things. And then you can say which things are better for you.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7313.78

And I would agree, no passing is better. But I don't think missing an hour and a half of instruction is new.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7338.639

It's the best part of the whole experience.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7342.903

You're just waiting through the instructions so you can be passing notes to friends.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7349.688

Oh, I'd write love letters to Randy during class, and then I'd see her in the hallway, and I'd make out with her for a second, and then I'd leave her with a note.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7360.656

I can see your handwriting in my head. Aw, that's cute. Like, immediately. You had slam books.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7387.221

Is it positive or is it – slam book sounds like you're tearing people down.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7416.659

Who got to keep them though because they were communal.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7419.301

It was just rotated. Do you know the term slam piece? That made me think of that.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7426.486

That was a word.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7433.572

I just had a thought you're going to hate.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7436.775

I'm considering not participating in this part of the experiment. It just occurred to me, like, maybe I just go, no, I don't want to do the smell test.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7446.86

I just had that thought, like, do I have to do the smell test?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7455.562

I don't think I want to do it. I thought you would hate that. Is it funny to you sometimes, though, how different we are? Or is it just always frustrating?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

747.793

You're not out winning a mate. That period's over. That's right. Through different periods of life.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7472.497

It's like— Disappointing. I feel like I disappoint you a lot.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7489.95

Well, I looked over and I was like, oh, my God, there's four booklets. I thought that way you were talking. That's different.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7514.202

Yeah, for you, yeah, I totally agree.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7523.805

Yeah, I can—I mean, I can feel it, yeah.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7526.766

Well, I just want to explore it. I'm not trying to— Okay, I mean, I don't— It seems like an interesting topic.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7539.555

I think you're a rule follower, as we already know. And I'm a rule breaker, as we already know. And seeing someone break the rules also gives you anxiety. It gives you personal anxiety to see someone... Because my position is like, yeah, you don't break the rules, don't break them. And I don't care that you're not... Yeah. But it causes you anguish when I break them in front of you.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7561.639

And I guess I can understand. It's just like the thought of breaking the rules is just an uncomfortable feeling for you, even if you're just witnessing it happen with someone else.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7583.721

Well, I would argue I'm going to 96%. Like, so much of the stuff is not that.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7613.049

That, like, drinking and using drugs is one of the rules?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7647.577

I'm as interested as you are.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7661.473

Right. Got you.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7667.5

Yeah, he has several very respected detractors.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7670.646

We want a professor at UC Irvine.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7675.362

Yeah, she wrote a whole article in Nature. What's her name?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7680.183

Candice Odgers, yes. And she has lots to push back on. But the thing I remember the most is her basically saying the conclusion that more social media leads to heightened anxiety and depression. When it's equally or more compelling to her that people with high anxiety and depression spend more time on social media, you really can't determine what direction that correlation is heading in.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7706.337

That's a very strong pushback.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7710.5

I read it.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7711.581

Yeah. And nature is trusted. Very trusted brand. Extremely trusted brand.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7722.917

Yes, and I'm so scared of him too. You didn't seem it. I love being scared like that. It's just weird. It's a weird, this is such a brag, but it's true. It's like, there's not a ton of people I'm very afraid to get in a debate with.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7735.74

And I'm like terrified to get in a debate with them.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7740.121

Jordan Peterson. Wow. It's like I've had a lot of people go like, why don't you have Jordan Peterson on? I'm like, because I don't agree with him. Yeah. Nor could I defeat him in a debate. Right. I know my limits.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7750.408

He is an oral master. And I'd get eviscerated, and then I'd leave and go like, oh, my God, I don't agree with anything he said, but I couldn't win that argument.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7768.44

Yeah. It's a skill.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7771.323

Yeah. It doesn't mean they're right.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7784.771

I think people who do not host shows experience this their whole life, which is you're in a relationship with somebody and one of the two of you will be a better debater. It's very rare that both of you are going to be completely equally matched in a debate.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7800.135

And I think a lot of people end up feeling so disheartened By the fact that the person will never take what they're saying in because they have won the debate.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7816.001

And I'm certain I've been guilty of this in the past.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7828.866

I was very grateful. I had a girlfriend who was better at debating than me. And she just blasted me several times where it's like we left and she had won. And it was so helpful to correct my own behavior because I was like, oh, all those debates I won, I haven't convinced the person of anything. They just lost the debate or they gave up on the debate as I did.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7849.956

I had the same hurt feelings that she never addressed.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7854.578

And I'm like, oh, my God, I'm really glad I experienced that because I think I've done that to people. I've done that to people. Not I think. I have done that to people.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7862.285

Thought I had convinced them.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7864.667

So the wisdom I was offering.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7867.269

And I hadn't done anything to help them.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7869.551

I'd made it worse.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7889.959

Great memory. That's how I would win a lot of those things. No, that was Tuesday. Now I make a meal out of their saying is right.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7913.186

They still feel terrible.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7917.427

Yeah. I've really had to go. Do I want to? Do I acknowledge and help to make the person not feel the way they do or do I want to prove that they don't have a right to feel that way?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7930.948

Because that's easy. That's the most appealing to me.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7933.83

Like if I can prove to them that they're actually off base and this shouldn't be how they feel.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7938.774

I will erase the feeling.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7940.755

By showing that, oh, there's no logical road to how you feel.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7944.178

And once you realize that, you will no longer feel that way.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7947.18

No, they will feel... They'll feel even more like that because probably their initial issue with me was related to that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7963.77

You go to war over emotion.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7984.048

And that's why I get frustrated when people are like, look at the science. I'm like, I know, guys, but that's not compelling. If you're dealing with a fear, science doesn't eradicate fears.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

7996.902

Wish everyone was a logical robot. No one had emotions. And I didn't have to talk to a lot of them.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

8002.127

It would.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

8019.512

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

842.907

The liberal party became a little illiberal in the way they welcomed the scrutiny.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

87.907

I love this one.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

933.118

It's complicated, but on the coddling of the American mind and what you were exposing in that, now here's what I want to own. So part of the reason I was loving listening to you on Sam Harris and why I was enjoying Sam Harris so much at that time was I'm going to say I had succumbed to a bit of a moral panic about colleges. There are 18 million college students. There are 5,300 colleges.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

955.868

There were about 12 really nuts, crazy viral videos that I responded very strongly to. Brett Weinstein shouting people off stages. These things happened. But I think now, 13 years out of that, I can acknowledge I probably overreacted.

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

978.188

I think really if you look at the massive amount of students that went through the system at that time and that many universities, really how many were there of those crazy protests?

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Jonathan Haidt Returns (on the Anxious Generation)

98.902

I enjoyed it immensely. Please enjoy Jonathan Haidt.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

0.31

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1015.712

They want to datify everything in the world, basically.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1031.362

But at any rate, 2008, you create a model to predict the outcome of that election and you start 538. That's right. By the way, I've known 538 for, I guess, the last however long it's been going. The Electoral College has 538 members.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

1047.853

Yeah, did you know that right out of the gates?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

1051.995

Okay, so there's 538 electoral votes. And you name it that.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1058.98

Lo and behold, your model predicts the outcome of the 2008 election and the 2012 election with an accuracy that's really not rivaled at that time, to the degree that time makes you one of the 100 most influential people.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1086.878

So, but in 08, you got 49 of 50 states, right?

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Nate Silver (statistician)

109.631

Oh, I know. They have snail serums.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1102.003

No, listen, 44 of the states I could call without a model.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1113.053

Well, despite how easy apparently it was, you do ignite the people in a way that they do think they have their money ball guy for politics. And so the New York Times brings you in-house for three years. And I want to know what that experience was like, because you go from, you have 5038 as its own website, and then that gets transferred to the New York Times.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1135.812

And I think the numbers when you came there were one in 20 site visits were to go to 5038. But by the end, when you leave, like 17 out of a huge percentage of their personal traffic was you. Wow.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

115.717

Ooh, salmon sperm.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1167.64

Some tests that you were going to fail. So on the one hand, it was great. It's got to be terribly exciting for you. You just started this fucking thing. And four seconds ago, you were at this stupid job cheating on taxes. This has got to be exciting.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1195.678

Is it a scary point in its history?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

120.121

You could really end up pregnant with all this.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1216.067

First thing that can happen in the world is you've made a movie for a certain president of a studio. Then a new president comes in and that president decides your marketing budget. But they are incentivized for the previous person to have been a failure. This happens nonstop. This happened to me personally.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

123.824

So, Nate, I want to start by saying happy birthday to you. Thank you. Happy birthday. Yeah, you're here on your birthday. This is a very Capricorn thing to do.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1233.193

Yeah, or fail, ideally.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

1270.627

So Disney slash ESPN comes along, three years is up at New York Times, and you leave and you go to Disney, ABC, ESPN, where you're for a long, long time, from 08 to 2023. No, 10, you're from 13. Okay, and when you leave, there is an editor there who pretty much shits on you pretty publicly. He says you were a bad fit, you were a disruptor.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1296.28

At the New York Times after you departed. Now, that person then later said they regretted how they handled that. But A, was that a surprise to have them take that approach where your feelings hurt? Or did you feel like you deserved it?

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1316.118

You wrote an op-ed right before this election that I read, which is, my gut tells me Trump's going to win. Here. Here's the statistics, but I'm telling you my gut.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1326.144

Yeah, yeah.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1338.707

I bet people have heard explanations, but we could stand for a concise one now. Why did you shit the bed so bad in 16? And why did everyone shit the bed so bad?

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1349.752

Okay, tell me.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1401.454

Is the way we might say it.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1407.196

You're pro-gambling.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1421.401

Right, because you personally have Trump at three to one and the odds have him at five to one. Five to one or six to one. So for you, that's a great bet.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

144.806

So I'd argue mine's just 11 days worse than yours. Yay. Because it's right on the heels of all that. That's probably bad. And are you, in general, someone who has no desire to celebrate your birthday?

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1444.691

And I will say you're a victim of the data you're sourcing, so maybe also some of the data. I guess there's this big mystery of why these polls were so...

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1460.701

Oh, interesting.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1462.762

Yeah, and my opinion is valuable. It should be recorded. Of course. Well, I always go the other way. Me too. It's like, who's dumb enough to want to chat with a stranger? You've got to be so bored.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1508.136

Right, right. Yeah, I guess some faction of the Trump base hates the media to a degree that if someone from the media called or a pollster called, they would say, fuck you and hang up.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1539.189

Okay. So you do 10 years there. Yeah. And how was that experience? Because I got to say, I feel this parallel existence for us. So we create this little thing in the attic and then all of a sudden Spotify comes along. And I would say that was your New York Times kind of, well, we could be a part of this really big thing and there are lots of advantages.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1559.026

These are interesting experiences where you have this little thing that you know very well and you potentially go somewhere to make it bigger. And that is kind of...

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Nate Silver (statistician)

158.197

Okay.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1582.299

Be kinky with those numbers.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1600.305

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1603.986

Lean into it.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

161.44

You're right smack in the middle. Well, as I was learning a little bit more about your background, I was like, we have a lot in common here because I'm from Milford. Oh, cool. Which is what, 25 miles as the crow flies from East Lansing. And your dad taught at MSU or still does?

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1678.007

They're in the wooing you phase.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1689.818

Yeah, that's sage advice.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1749.18

A cosmopolitan man. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

184.366

Well, again, you want them somewhere on the spectrum where they're not constantly bitching about someone who tried to get one over on them. You know, we do have a big chip on our shoulder about feeling less than. So you want just the right amount of less than so they work their ass off, but not the kind that bitches all day.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1890.037

Okay, so you're there for a while, but you also, in 2012, you write The Signal and The Noise, and that's a really successful book. My apologies, I haven't read that one. And the fact that I read On the Edge is really kind of a fluke. I always go to Audible, and I know exactly what I'm going there to get, and I just happened to stumble upon your book. That's cool. I'm vaguely aware of you.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

19.881

Hi. We have our first, I think, statistician on today.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1909.86

I know that you're a statistics genius. And I'm like, yeah, I'm going to give this book a shot. And I can't imagine this has gotten back to you, but I've brought it up now a bazillion times on the show because there's so many little pieces of On the Edge that I really, really enjoy. Very thought provoking. I think your outsider-ness and some degree of disagreeability, I appreciate greatly.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1929.947

And the book, it's sprinkled throughout. I like the spirit of it. Thank you. In a nutshell, the examination of this book is a group of people you refer to as the river, which of course is a Texas Hold'em term. It's the last card that comes out?

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1953.424

Oh. Oh, I like that.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1955.626

Yeah, yeah, yeah. If not, let's keep it because it's so fun.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1958.928

The turn.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1961.29

Flop, turn, river.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1963.032

And so for people who don't play Texas Hold'em, the stakes go up and up and up because you're given two cards. You've already perhaps put in the ante. And generally, you want to see the flop for free. You're going to get three whole cards. Now you're going to have five. You have some sense of what your hand is. And then it just diminishes it from there.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

1980.786

Or at the end, you're hoping for a single card to change your destiny. So obviously the risk level's going up and the stakes are going up.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2012.569

But escalation and reduced options, I guess that's implicit in a game of escalation, but you're getting less and less options.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2044.066

Because a computer AI can play chess better than a human. I can play Go better than a human.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2068.9

And I've played a bunch of Texas Hold'em, but even reading your first few chapters, which are about gambling in general, there were a few things in there I was like, oh, wow, it's down to the science. I forget the ratio you give, but there's a known percentage you should bluff to make yourself reputable and get paid when you have to.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

208.638

So you kind of discovered that you love math in a very appropriate time. So I only know the members of a single baseball team that ever existed. It's the 84 Roar, the Detroit Tigers. Yeah. Alan Tramwine. I know his name. Yeah. No, the whole gang.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2102.185

Well, ideally, you know your opponent, how they play, and you're now counter-punching.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2146.231

Or at the final table of some tournament.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2182.929

He's won $840,000 in tournament play.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2186.992

That's gross, not net. That's gross, I know. We're always talking about gross and net. Let's run these on the winnings right now so I can prove to her you're a good poker player.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2206.121

Well, there's all these different social science studies where they measure testosterone levels of day traders. They measure testosterone levels of poker players. There's a biological component, too, that's happening.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2265.436

OK, so the book isolates this group that you refer to as the river. And these are people who have a great appetite for risk. They have a pretty good evaluation of risk. They have a certain rejection of the commonly held. held wisdom. There's some traits. And then you go on to profile a select group of people. And among them, and there's more, but we do Doyle Brunson, a very famous poker player.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2291.547

And then we do Peter Thiel, the venture capitalist. You do Sam Bankman Freed, which is very interesting from, of course, FTX. And then you do Sam Altman. So these are people that all would fall into this group you refer to as the river. They live in the risk... analysis world. And I think maybe, could we start with Peter Thiel?

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Nate Silver (statistician)

231.437

Right, right, right, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2323.105

Testosterone's playing a big role in a lot of this, I think.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2339.094

He's a unique individual. He's gay, deeply religious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2348.383

He's a right wingish gay man. That's always interesting to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2363.462

Yeah, the classics. He's a brilliant, brilliant viewer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

238.541

Oh, wow, of America.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2380.171

That's no longer an advantage. The Moneyball thing's been played to its logical ends.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

243.923

Your work was to guide America to a better place. And then you would indulge your real passion in your retirement.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2477.557

I just think it's really wild that in our lifetime there was this movie called Revenge of the Nerds, which was completely unthinkable. And the notion was, yeah, these jocks have made it insufferable to live here. But now the nerds are the jocks and now we're seeing their version of it. And guess what? No one's version of it. It's all that great.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

253.968

Weirdly, that trajectory kind of makes sense. I was also watching the Aaron Rodgers documentary recently. I don't know if you've caught that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2532.773

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2535.074

This is my own personal digestion of what just went down. To me, it feels very obvious this was an election on wokeism. I mean, just watch the rights ads, and they were about almost a single issue. How do you feed that into an algorithm?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2592.729

Both sides, it's a cancer. I'm watching the people on the right celebrate that LA is burning down. And I want to just say, if it brings you great joy that your countrymen are losing everything, their children don't have a bedroom anymore, if that gives you pleasure, you must admit your politics is a cancer on both sides.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

26.046

Nate Silver is the point. He's a statistician and a bestselling author. Everyone would know Nate Silver around election time. All of his computations end up as headlines all the time. He had an incredible track record for a while. There were a couple deviations that we'll learn of. But his books include The Signal and The Noise. And he has a new book out that I happen to just read on my own.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

260.212

But he too is talking about he would play this weird board game and it was all about stats and you would roll these dice. That's what it was called. And so I think a lot of you inadvertently just practicing math nonstop without even realizing you were doing it.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2609.663

When people on the left are stoked people are dying of COVID, your politics are a cancer at that point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2687.432

Just let people process. It's a bummer. I guess where I differ from some of my peers is it's on both sides. It's just a fucking gnarly metastasized cancer that all of us have.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2708.995

It's kind of a gross level of opportunism. Okay, Peter Thiel, all to say, he did do these revolutionary things at the time with his Founders Fund as his company. Yeah. And we even heard this when we listened to the Meta AI thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2721.244

This decision to bet on founders and not try to wrestle control away from founders and have this belief in them in a way that was pretty new and novel at the time they took this approach.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2736.098

I love that you say the more shabbily you show up for your first meeting, the more trustworthy you are. It's so funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2805.445

Right, all the very best players came and begged to be on a team. Okay, so let's talk about Sam Bankman-Fried because you spent a lot of time with him. And why do you think he was willing to sit with you?

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Nate Silver (statistician)

281.183

It's like the NFTs of the late 80s. All collectibles, ultimately. Beanie Babies. Monica has one that she believed at one point was worth.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2817.85

Oh yeah, let's do a little quick history of who he is, how he created FTX, and even what FTX was. Because I do think the layman, they hear it all the time, but they're not sure what happens.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2848.12

Earmark that because my very favorite part of the entire book was the effective altruism part. So I want to talk a lot about that. But it was his earmark that he got into that. So he's at some kind of financial place.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

289.486

It's covered in shit, though, so we think it's degraded.

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Nate Silver (statistician)

2896.719

Incredibly impulsive, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2904.946

If you live on math, I mean, I don't know how much you can discount that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2915.992

You don't even know you're trying to get out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2943.192

But does the price of Bitcoin vary throughout the globe?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2969.51

Which I don't even understand how a crypto exchange works. My understanding is like you go buy crypto, you have a password and it exists. I don't know. Why is someone else ever involved?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

2991.943

I got this much amount of money and I want to convert it to Bitcoin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

300.868

So you're super into baseball. You're crushing numbers as a hobby. You're also gay. I want you to know you're gay because I know the vibe in Michigan in the 80s. And I know that I was living every minute of every day on the playground trying to avoid being called. Yeah. That was the number one go-to way to emasculate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3026.655

And of course, he thought it was unutilized money.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3047.336

Also just what a goal. It sounds like an eight year old.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3053.742

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3058.845

Okay. Who was the big backer of FTX?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3063.349

But, you know, Sequoia's a very well-respected firm. One of the greats. Their position in the book is just, yeah, it's one of the ones that didn't work out. They're not even smart in the way you would think someone would smart.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3099.364

So we've interviewed McCaskill and we adore him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3103.265

And I had some quiet pushback that I didn't know quite how to articulate. And I thought your book did a really good job of pointing out some gaps in it. So maybe lay out effective altruism.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3123.473

Just look at what Bill Gates has been doing for the last 15 years. Like, how do we get the most bang for our buck? How do we save the most lights?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3176.248

Well, really quick, let's just walk that one through. So that really happened. Dakota, the dog wandered into the subway. They shut it down. It was down for a couple hours. And you simply say, really quick, let's do a generic loss of wages. Well, generic loss of wages of that one little situation was two million. So how many humans can you save for two million instead of the dog?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3192.577

Then what about all the hospital workers that were waiting for their train? Did humans die because they weren't on their shift?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3204.701

And you delineate the difference between small world problems and big world problems. These statistical analysis are really quite good at small world problems. But as you get into big world problems, these are almost impossible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

324.972

The experience of going through school, you say something that I relate to for different reasons, but there's some value to feeling like an outsider from the get.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3287.797

One of the things I really loved about what you pointed out, I made the people I was on vacation with in Mexico City over Christmas suffer through my regurgitation of you, is utilitarianism, which we learn in philosophy. The ends justify the means. If it has a better outcome for more people, that's good. I didn't even think of the simplest thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3304.732

The reason we're just naturally drawn to that is it has the illusion of numbers. We can assign numbers. And when we get into these very ambiguous, hard to decide moral issues that are nuanced, four is bigger than three. That's very comforting. I think we underestimate how comforted we are by the notion of numbers. utilitarianism because you have a bigger number than a smaller number.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3327.303

And even the trolley one that we all know, you're on a trolley, it's going to hit three people. You can pull a lever, it'll hit one person. Well, three's life saved is better than one. But what if the three dudes just gang raped somebody and the life you're going to kill is on the verge of curing cancer? It's so much more complicated than all lives have the same value.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3374.384

There'll be penalizers and outcome. Right. One of the things he did, Sam, was dump $12 million into this very small election up in Oregon. It's detailed in the book. And in fact, I had a friend tell me so excitedly, he said, do you know Sam Bankman Freed? He asked Trump how much money to walk away from the election. And the number was X. And he's like, can you imagine how great that would be?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

338.043

Yeah, yeah. Best Boy Syndrome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3398.338

And I was like, I'm sorry, that's not great. To subvert democracy, whether you like the guy or hate the guy, no, buying off. What if someone offered Obama $12 billion in 2008 to walk away? You can't use your money to take away an option for people to vote on. This is fundamentally wrong, but it flies under this banner of effective altruism.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3419.983

You could definitely argue a utilitarian point of view on that. No, now we get into Kantism. There has to be a principle called democracy that rises above all that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3481.661

There's like an agrarian movement right now against billionaires. I'm watching the frontline two hour on China right now. And I'm like, guys, we're kind of inching towards this agrarian hatred.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3515.839

I love that chapter on effective altruism. And it's very interesting to have you sit with Sam Brinkman Freed and have him basically try to woo you while also real time watching his empire crash and getting more and more accepting of the notion that he's probably going to go to jail.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

353.874

Assimilate, have a secret, have a perspective.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3558.984

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3585.164

So let's just close with Sam Altman. So he is running OpenAI and he's in the river. What did he do in the past that from your assessment would qualify him as being someone that has got a big appetite for risk?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3626.077

It's funny because I guess I put him in that category.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3700.413

Oh, yeah. Your intelligence is compartmentalized. Elon, in so many ways, is the greatest engineer for centuries. And then he has kind of the emotional capacity of a 12-year-old.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3714.724

Yeah, they crashed three. If the fourth didn't succeed, he's done and he knows it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3736.661

Oh, I just started using it. I'm like, I really can hardly believe this can do this. You feel like you're interacting with magic in some way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

374.911

Right. Okay, so dad's in academia. Also, you got some famous geologist uncles, which is really fascinating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3869.944

Nate, this has been awesome. I love your book. One of the things I love that you point out in the book is like if you take right now the top 10 richest people in America, they're all self-made. Wow. If you go back a century, that list is mostly inherited wealth. That's a good thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3946.495

That's Malcolm too. Malcolm Gladwell says you should listen to his books.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3952.317

Yeah, yeah, right, right, right, right. Well, Nate, it's been a pleasure meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3961.88

I look forward to your next book and happy birthday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

398.844

You end up getting a degree in economics and then you end up working for a few years as a consultant. I was a transfer pricing consultant. Okay, what is transfer pricing consultant?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3984.098

I'm trying to taunt you. Have you noticed that my Diet Coke says happy birthday, Dax?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3992.505

It's from my birthday, but they didn't come in time for my birthday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3996.367

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3997.208

I think Kristen ordered them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

3998.649

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4000.87

You're right. He has sent us Diet Cokes. It's a natural thought.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4013.438

Yeah. Oh, okay. Your market. So how long did it take you to fall asleep?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4029.247

What podcast did you listen to?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4038.452

My- Auditory binky.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4044.54

Okay. Your stuffy, your lovey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4047.72

A stuffy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4051.481

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4062.564

I had three, but they didn't travel with me. I maybe brought one or two of them to my dad's on the weekends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4070.226

But I had three different bears.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4075.287

I wish. My mom is ruthless. You know, I moved out and she just had like a garage sale and just fucking dumped all my stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4084.294

Can you imagine buying my used teddy bear? Ding, ding, ding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4090.439

It is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4092.14

Oh, all right. We had delayed. Liberty. Did you have Liberty cleaned?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4106.26

Oh, there's the shit on the ears. He's pretty disgusting, but he does still look a little... Looks like he ate a horse's ass out. Or a mule's.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4126.432

He's a mess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4131.368

Just because he had value and he was really exclusive. That's not the reason to have a lovey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4140.732

This is my 401k. I still remember.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4145.675

Fecal matter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4149.357

No, I think you wiped with him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4152.078

It looks like someone did because the back is spotless. It looks like someone grabbed him from the back and used him hopefully front to back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4170.277

Hold on. They're not even close. Everything you had as a kid is still in your room.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4195.157

And then old coffee spilled at the bottom of the bag or something?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4199.18

I think he was used to wipe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4202.583

Take a big whiff of his face and see if there's any smell to him. Really get in there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4209.777

Let me be the judge of this. Toss him over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4213.98

He's expensive. He used to be expensive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4219.663

Yeah, that's dung.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4224.046

It doesn't smell, but boy, it does look like doodles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4234.772

With shit all over it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4237.876

Okay. A clean version in a box or something?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4243.541

Well, that's for sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4248.446

It's like a Warhol. Like you took this cute, valuable thing, wiped with it. Now that's a piece of art.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4256.124

No, because I would feel terrible for anyone who paid a lot of money for that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4264.571

You asked me if I thought you should, and I'm giving you an honest answer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4273.217

I want to protect them from themselves.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4278.802

I don't think they should smoke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4282.304

Yeah, if they want, fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4284.887

But I don't think they should smoke if they think you'll like them more. Oh my goodness. Get that duty bear out of here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

429.633

It wasn't nourishing your soul.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4296.853

As long as you label it as duty bear for the sale of him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4312.389

The most valuable piece. Part, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4321.012

What it lacks in tags, it makes up for in the bris all over his fur.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4329.515

Anywho.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4332.896

Why was, what were you waiting to bring it out to tell me that they're worth $700 on eBay? Yeah, $700. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4353.661

Right, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4357.201

Shocker that Nate didn't offer to buy it. It was so valuable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

436.437

Oh, big time. And I glossed over, you were also a Michigan State champ debater. You also wrote for the high school newspaper. Also in college, you wrote for the Chicago Maroon. You're writing the whole time, and you're also doing all this stat work for fun with sports still. You're still obsessed. And then you create and explain this to us what Pocota is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4364.323

He couldn't see him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4366.932

Do you think so? Monica's now placed LaShitti on her shoulder. Do you think that's your bad shoulder or your good shoulder? Is he telling you to do bad things or good things? Is he your it or your super ego? He's bad. Yeah. He got in the trash. He's a little monster, a little animal. Eating up all those old caramels at the bottom of the trash can.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4398.475

That's the only id. Yeah. Yeah. I have something I want to announce.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4403.018

I have a few things. Okay. First, I don't think I've ever seen a response so consistent in the comments.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4413.785

The dog world is ablaze.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4417.607

There's a fervor of recommendations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4423.67

I opened up the comments for James Marsden.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4430.273

Little Jimmy Marsden. And nearly every comment said, Dex, please tell Monica she should get a miniature King Salmon Burmese Yorkshire Pinscher. Like they were so specific. Yeah. The different breeds you need. And everyone has a favorite breed. If you want to hear some testimonials, there are a couple hundred waiting for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4455.227

And then another thing I want to say is I read a great book by a friend of the pod's wife, Alison Grant, Adam's wife. Oh, nice. She wrote a book called I Am the Cage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4470.157

And it's really, really good. It's about this young woman who's living in this like tiny little town in Wisconsin by the lake. And she walks to work and she doesn't want to see anyone and she doesn't want to be friendly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4486.302

Yes, it's a novel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4488.363

And there's this huge snowstorm and she gets snowed into this house she's renting. And then just the journey she goes on in this Snowden thing. And then you're getting all these flashbacks of her childhood, having had this very specific surgery to lengthen a leg.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4507.914

Tell me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4515.62

Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4517.964

Yeah, in the book, the character is told by the nurse, like, you're in good hands. He's the best. In the country, and then she asks how many people do this procedure, and he's the only one. The horrificness of this procedure and how much it changed the course of her life and how it all comes into this inflection experience being snowed in. It's really, really good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4546.884

I'm so impressed. It's so beautifully written, and it's also... I think for people who are like, they're not extroverts. They don't want to talk to anyone. They don't want to comfort anyone. Like it's, I would imagine it'd be liberating to hear someone speak so honestly about how much they dislike all these interactions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4563.677

It's very brave. It's a very cool book. I am the cage. People sit in it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4568.321

It's out on February 18th.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4572.664

So pre-order it. I really recommend it. It's fantastic. I'm the cage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4577.228

I don't read many novels.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4578.909

It kind of like, I could feel there was enough reality in it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4589.65

I've never read a good novel. That's what it is. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4597.213

You're a cookie boy and a fantasy girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4601.915

I'm a reality boy. Don't talk about unicorns or Sasquatch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4609.405

And a cookie boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4613.208

Yeah, I don't mean to put you in a box.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4618.232

I am the cage. No, that's the title of the book. I am the cage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4644.049

Yeah. And very similar to your experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4649.614

Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4652.857

But you still use it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4655.511

Yeah, yeah. I took a hike this morning. It's raining.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4659.552

Thank God. We can only be grateful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4663.093

We have no choice but to be very grateful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4665.074

Considering the fire conditions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4668.315

You are taking it better than normal, which to me seems like proof of that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4674.437

Are you? What does that entail? You should look out the window and go, I love you, rain, and just force yourself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4695.319

Double whammy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4702.244

Yeah. But I... And is it helpful to go... Yeah, I feel like shit, but I know it's because of these things. Does that like mitigate how much suffering there is?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4722.099

Right, not the person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

473.214

But it's also a nod to a player.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4731.265

I do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4732.906

Really helps. I mean, you got to do it with children.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4735.907

Like if you're depressed, your children, the little things that you can overlook start becoming annoying. Sure. And then I have to go, it has nothing to do with them. You just feel this way. It really is effective.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4753.857

Yeah. Yeah. I had a good couple, three weeks of feeling depressed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4774.962

Oh, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

478.296

This thing has a weird name I read for the first time in my life today. It wasn't a reverseonym, but it was like a backwardnym. Backwardnym. I never heard a backwardnym. Me either.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4807.384

Because you learn you can control it if you're forced to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4821.596

I'm super lucky because I, in the morning, open up my drapes and I go to meditate. And often I start meditating while it's still dark out. And by the time I'm done, the light has come out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4836.493

And there's just mist and there's trees and it's a luxury.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4841.416

I can like, I can recognize how unbelievably beautiful it is. Like an impressionist painter would be painting that, not the normal day that I see. So that's a huge advantage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4851.803

So I was looking at it and I was like, I don't know why Gorillas in the Mist is so seared into my mind, but I think maybe that was the first time I saw that kind of tropical misty foliage. It really captivated my imagination when I was younger. And so anytime I see like Columbia when they show the mountainside and it's like very damp and moist, I love it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4874.77

So I was looking and I was like, oh, I can't wait to go hiking in there. There's going to be like the visibility will be low. There was virtually no one out there, which is never the case.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4884.154

To the point where I was like, is it shut down again? And I'm now doing it again. Uh-oh. But no, I saw a couple other folks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4898.841

Probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4903.643

You can intellectually understand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4907.805

It's like atmosphere in a movie. Like they pump scenes full of dust so that there's a texture to the air. And so it's so cinematic when it's like this. It's just very beautiful. The greens are greener. It's filtering out different kinds of light.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4927.56

Yeah, you want bright, hot sun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4930.803

White light.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4940.491

Yeah, I feel it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4942.453

My mood broke almost on February 1, yeah, or the day before or something. God, should I tell you something embarrassing? Well, let me first say that whiskey, well, it's related to that. Whiskey has diureted his cage four nights in a row.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4961.721

The fact that Kristen hasn't killed herself yet, she's been up every night for the last four nights.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4968.263

He should. Well, he went to the vet yesterday and he, by the way, you know, he's such a bastard. Not even a rascal. He's a bastard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4976.545

They put him in a cone and they couldn't, you can't even approach him. So they had to anesthetize him just to like take his blood and run some tests. So when he came home, he was completely fucked up, right? He was fucked up all, I was jealous. I'm like, what'd they give him that last 14 hours? None of the drugs I ever took lasted that long. He's very small. He's down one leg.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

498.404

Oh, that makes sense. That's also how we process the world. We make sense of it after it happened and we think we understood it before it happened. And it only makes sense after the fact.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

4998.507

He is. So he did not have any haunt us last night, which was great. Great. So I woke up in the middle of the night to pee as I do two or three times and I was peeing and I farted and I was half asleep. And then I went and I was about to lay back in bed and I was like, did I, is there a little, is there a little, did something come out? And then I went and sat back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5019.924

I sat on the toilet and fired up the brondle, the butt washer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5024.688

And I had had a little... Duty. Which never has happened in the middle of the night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5034.777

Well, no, I was wearing my sleep pants. No panties, just my sleep pants.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5041.082

But I didn't get anything on anything. It was just a tiny bit of... Yeah. But I got really close. I guess the point of this story is I got hugely lucky because I didn't notice and I was just about to lay down and then that would have probably caused an issue where I would have to change my clothes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5063.619

No, she was downstairs on watch for the other duty boy. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5071.4

So I was celebrating this morning that there was no Hannes. And I didn't have the heart to say there was something last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5081.368

I think it's because, well, my hunch is... I sold myself on the notion that I might be able to eat this sourdough bread that Kristen's making. Like I really want to be able to have no gluten.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5094.36

And the first round, which was pretty dense because she used a flour without gluten. Then she's like, let's go half and half. And then she made that and it was so good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5104.806

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5106.087

And it was much better. Of course. It cooked better. It was fluffier. It was so delicious. And I had a couple slices in the morning. Okay. And I think that's why I whiskied last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5120.957

We know what a tonka is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5126.14

No. What happened?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5129.943

We know tonka and what that means. It's not like a little oopsie you almost miss. It's like animals.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5153.3

I don't want to talk about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5155.302

I just was so vulnerable. I'm so revealing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

517.956

You know, we're modeling, which you ultimately do. We're just modeling the future. And then our data set is something that is heavily subjective because we make it make sense in reverse. Of course. We go, oh, this happened. It's because of X, Y, and Z. But we don't know. That's just what we kind of cling to. Okay, so you create this thing, and what is the goal of Pocota?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5173.596

You just got your outfit down in time?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5177.779

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5179.12

Interesting. I...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5185.909

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5187.91

Okay. We'll leave it at that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5190.611

Okay. In the bathroom?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5192.492

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5196.894

Will you eventually write a tell-all when you're like 60 and we'll hear all these stories, I hope?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

52.896

Couldn't stop talking about. We invited him in. He blessed us with his presence. It's called On the Edge, The Art of Risking Everything. And also you can go to his sub stack at Silver Bulletin, which is where he's doing all of his research.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5203.316

A Hollywood tell-all and it's just all about your Tonka experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5209.839

Right. In my whole life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5221.285

Okay. More like a quote I'd put in my memoir, like just a quote.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5229.12

It's nothing. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5261.96

Get the platelets or something?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5266.705

Do you think it's stem cell-y?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5276.053

No, I'm not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5277.334

But you do want the salmon ejaculate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5284.599

Have you found a place in L.A. that does salmon ejaculate?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5289.523

Oh, I'm so shocked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5296.358

Oh, so have you thought about, have you fantasized about taking a trip there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5301.181

Just do a week of face stuff?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5303.742

Because they're supposed to be at the very cutting edge, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5320.183

Oh, what's that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5323.149

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5344.203

Well, hold on a second. So under the skin. So they're shooting it into you. It's not a topical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5352.684

Yeah. Oh, we have a friend who did this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5357.722

Did she say that the results were? She said the results. Does she look incredible?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5379.718

How do we know it's not just filler? Maybe it's just working the same as filler if you're putting a needle under the skin and putting volume in there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5395.271

You're going to get it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5398.915

Oh, you're not?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5406.577

I wonder what the price tag is on this procedure. Yeah, that I don't know, but also I— And I would want wild salmon ejaculate, not farm-raised ejaculate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5418.12

Wild. I want it wild.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5449.156

I would say good boy syndrome, which Jed and I had told us about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5452.277

You got to be perfect in all other domains.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5454.618

And then also huge incentive to leave your small town to go to a university.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5460.619

If I was gay, though, my conclusion would be, see, we're smarter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5464.641

Yeah, that would be. That would inflate my ego better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5473.283

I'm sure he's already on it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5499.179

I was going to say, you've explained it to me now four times, and I don't know what it means, and I couldn't make one. I can't really comprehend what's being said.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5516.617

You found an acronym you love.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5529.594

Now it makes, yeah, that makes perfect sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5532.978

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5550.965

Okay, here we go. The Bitcoin ticker tape podcast with your host, Monica Padman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5568.637

It's not our fault.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5570.517

Although I would start to think we're jinxing it if I were heavily invested in Bitcoin. I started a new book.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5580.081

I had no interest in Sam Brankman Freed. But now here he was in Nate's book. And then who's our man who Michael, who wrote the big short? Michael Lewis. I was just perusing titles and Michael Lewis came up. But then I was like, oh, well, I'll read his most recent book. I've liked the other ones. And it's about Sam Beekman Friedman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5605.244

Yeah. So now I'm going to learn more about this guy. It's so weird. I have no interest in learning about him. And now here I am again and I'm enjoying it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5620.353

Oh, and we're supposed to do a puzzle on here. You're supposed to give the example from the book. I do. Yeah. Luckily, we threw them a bone with this dog thing. They're off the scent, but a couple people did bring up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5639.74

We'll try. Let's see if we're going to try.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5653.039

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5656.582

Oh, wonderful. Well, I enjoyed Nate Silver.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5664.071

Way outside of what I can comprehend.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5666.653

Yeah. I can find no purchase in the statistical modeling world. I barely understand it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5675.518

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5679.48

Yes. And the stock market also is good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5683.863

Yeah. It's all gambling. It's all risk. It's all percentages.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5687.785

Yeah. Cool. Yeah. Very cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5690.587

Young lives.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

5707.587

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

581.263

Bocota's a couple years before that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

592.526

OK, now this is where you're really going to put everyone to sleep. I understand that you're making statistical models. That's what this thing is ultimately, right? Yeah. What does that mean? You must be selecting the variables you're going to use to determine this. And I bet there's a lot of decision making just there. Like, what are we going to include?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

607.603

What were you doing that was novel about it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

631.035

Am I right in that the product you create, it's a long formula and you just start plugging in up at bets and this and that. It's a bunch of computer code. And it's just a math equation that you've picked the variables of and you have some way of evaluating the quality of the variables.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

695.32

Now, really quick, where the fuck does one learn to make these statistical models? Was this taught in econ or is this something you did as a hobbyist?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

71.13

Silver bulletin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

73.552

No problem for you. You hit that like a silver bullet. Please enjoy Nate Silver.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

736.475

And I think people need to understand as well, when you create a model, it's not telling you this team will win. I'm guessing it's saying there's a 54% chance the team will win. There's a 61%. And in the world of betting, if you have an 11% margin, if you can predict that 61% accuracy, you're going to be the most successful gambler of all time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

760.735

Yeah, so we're not looking to predict with 95% accuracy. Anything above 50% is basically a good use of your time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

779.549

Right. OK, so now let's introduce your passion for gambling. When does that start? Because among your many interests, you're also a degenerate gambler.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

789.52

It's easy. You're here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

837.583

Which some article I read said you had made 400 grand in a few years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

843.405

So 350.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

846.386

Yeah, in 2000. And then additionally, this Pocota thing is now starting to get very trusted as a way to predict the performance and careers of these players. And then along comes Baseball Prospectus, which acquires this thing you've created, Pocota.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

862.412

And then you go to work for them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

895.719

What kind of money did you make selling this algorithm to them?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

915.759

So from 2003 to 2008, you're at baseball prospectus. Correct. And you're also writing. They do books. They have monthly things. And so you're actively writing books. It's just interesting how all these little bits and pieces end up getting woven together and what your life becomes. So how in 2008 do you decide to start fucking around with politics and applying your models to politics?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nate Silver (statistician)

990.339

Yeah, admits to doing coke. I like that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

0.349

Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, Experts on Expert. I'm Dan Rather, and I'm joined by Modest Mouse. Hi. Hello. I've been talking about this book quite a bit over the last six months, The World's I See, Curiosity, Exploration, and Discovery at the Dawn of A.I., by Dr. Fei-Fei Li. She is an expert on computer vision, machine learning, and cognitive and computational neuroscience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

100.402

You can.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1025.74

A lot of Opportunity is happening as promised, and then a lot of xenophobia and violence is happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1065.955

I don't know if you would rank these things in your life of like serendipitous things happening. But meeting Mr. Sabella has to be minimally in the top 10 and I would hope in the top three.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

108.727

Yeah, if the spirit moves you to lay down supine. You're invited to do so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1082.739

Yeah, I find this to be one of the sweetest stories I've ever read about and kind of makes me hopeful for people how generous they can be. But in a nutshell, minimally, you're thinking I'm going to do good at math. I don't have to go to my dictionary back and forth like I do in every other class. And you're in math and you're getting problems wrong.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1102.325

And you yourself cannot identify any pattern in this. You don't know what's going on. And you go to see Mr. Sabella in his office.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1135.336

That they had gotten at a garage sale. Her father loves garage sales. It was his favorite thing in the world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1140.818

He still does. He still does.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

117.493

What time did you wake up?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1177.876

You asked about extra credit and he was like, get real. How about go to good grade on the test?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1185.984

But it sounds in the retelling like the breakthrough. And I think this scene would be in a movie if I were writing the movie. You're there. He discovers the tan symbol on your calculator is malfunctioning. He helps her figure this out because he too can't figure out the pattern of all these errors.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1200.518

And then somehow you guys start talking about books and he asks if you've read a certain science fiction writer. You try to tell him you haven't read that one, but you really love A Million Kilometers Under the Sea. You can't translate it. You can't pronounce Jules Verne. But he figures out you've read Jules Verne.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

121.877

What time do you normally rise?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1217.465

And he is like shook. He's like, you've read Jules Verne?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1220.866

And then you go on to say, yes, and you've read Hemingway and you've read everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1230.59

If I were him and this young girl from China comes in and she has read most of the classics, that's a real like, what am I dealing with here? I got to imagine for him, at least that was a moment where he's like, OK, I'm betting on this horse.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

126.361

Mine's 6.40. Oh, okay. I'm aspiring. But you know what's funny? Today it was 6.20.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

132.266

I have kids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

133.807

Nine and 11.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1371.763

Yeah, I think he's struggling with the same issue you're struggling with. Probably. You don't feel entitled to tell this story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

140.15

Boys or girls?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1421.84

Yeah, they're very unsung heroes. They're not tenured professors at elite universities.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1427.441

And they're the ones that get the people to those destinations. Yeah. It's a really beautiful story. How instrumental was he in you finding your way to Princeton?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

144.091

Girl, girl. Yes, I'm so lucky. Although 11 about to be 12, I'm starting to get an inkling of what's coming my way. In a house with three ladies. In fact, yesterday was a very emotional day. I'm barely hanging on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1453.271

I think you're underplaying your story. If you came here in seventh grade and ended up at Princeton, that's one story. You had two years to get yourself ready. To learn English. To start Princeton. And you didn't speak any English. You're very much under, which is fine. I think so would your teacher. Yeah, you feel maybe that's self-indulgent or something, but that's really bonkers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1475.661

Again, AI aside, to land and go, okay, if you drop me in Russia and told me I have two years to land at their most elite university.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1486.484

It's not going to happen. It's not going to happen for 99.999% of people. Let's talk for a second about you going to Princeton. This is another fun moment for me in the book because there's something so much more important about Einstein than the theory of special relativity. And I can't really articulate what it is, but I know you have a good dose of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1503.149

So what was it like going there and seeing the statue of Albert Einstein and imagining that you would in some way be touching that reality?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1532.046

Garage sales, free.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1554.984

You're working a ton of hours.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1563.872

Romanticism.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1570.917

Well, don't you think it left an imaginary world where this person existed and it put it in your own three-dimensional reality?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1591.637

And he lived there for what, 30 some years?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1594.34

Maybe more. I think that would be a special moment as well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1599.625

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1604.149

Yep, yep. Talking with Oppenheimer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

162.165

I don't know what's going on with my three ladies, but all of them are in some kind of hormonal turmoil. Interesting. And every variety, which is fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1634.391

I'm currently stuck in a rut where I'm learning a lot about physicists, historical physicists. And I'm wondering, have you read When We Cease to Understand the World? Have you read that book?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1644.454

Or have you read The Maniac? Either of those? No. The Maniac's all about Janusz von Neumann.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1654.591

Which one?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1658.034

This one's fun because it has the perspective of a million different people in his life. Like a student he was friends with at school, one of his wives, people who worked with him, and you get this really comprehensive view of

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1669.046

Yeah, I'm obsessed with all these guys. And then when we cease to understand the world is many of these physicists who were so brilliant at a time who ultimately became crazy. And how many of their breakthroughs in the math of quantum mechanics coming to this guy in a nine day, 106 degree fever, writing down the matrices and not understanding the math when he comes out of it, but it holds.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1691.86

There's a lot of weird magic in this space, I think. Where people have these breakthrough thoughts and they touch some understanding and they're in a compromised state mentally. It's just fascinating to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

172.791

Yeah, yeah, yeah. We're always recording.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1726.825

All those stories of him getting asked a question and then answering it two and a half days later, and he hasn't left the chair and the person left. Like he went away for two and a half days and then came back with the answer. Or just the notion, I think one of the most intriguing parts is like, you're going to have thoughts that cannot be expressed in language, but can only exist in math.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1746.936

That already is like, what?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1751.458

Right. And then there's a realm beyond math. Yes. It's the closest thing I think we have to magic where it's like completely outside of our grasp, but for a handful of people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1779.088

So you're at Princeton. You're also working a ton, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1782.391

When do your parents start the dry cleaner?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

179.295

Okay, so you have 12 and 8, and are they close? They're very close. He's a good big brother? He totally is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1864.551

Because your mother had had a reoccurring fever as a child and it greatly degenerated some of her heart valves. So she was really struggling with heart issues.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1875.879

And there's no money in the dry cleaning. There's only money in the seamstress scene, whatever we call it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

188.084

Silvio's your husband, yeah?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1881.763

The tailoring.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1897.053

She should have done what you did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

190.106

And does one of them have Silvio's personality and one have yours?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1915.822

I think a chimp can do that. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1921.443

I say that because I know how to remove stitches from garments. And I don't have more skills than a chimp.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1952.147

He said he didn't go to a single party.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1967.035

Instead of the freshman 10, you gained the 30 10. Yeah, exactly. The faculty 10.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

1976.098

And I think it's worth mentioning when you guys were trying to open that dry cleaners, you were trying to raise $100,000 and you were $20,000 short. And again, Mr. Sabella. Monica. He gave the money.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2010.166

It's unimaginable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2021.611

It's impossible that someone would do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

203.365

Well, you're here because I read your book maybe two months ago. I was having dinner with Ashton Kutcher. Do you know who that actor is?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2032.836

Of course, you have to give it thinking you'll never get it back. I guarantee he and his wife were like, we're giving this money away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2078.181

Oh, my God. How proud I'd be of my dad. Okay, so you graduate from Princeton and you have a degree in physics as well, some kind of computational.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2099.669

And when you're there, unless I'm misremembering, you had a very singular focus on being a physicist. But while you're there, you start realizing you're maybe open to something different.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2119.657

It was an identity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

216.128

Yeah. So we were at dinner and we were just chatting about people we thought were really interesting. And then he asked me if I had read your book and I hadn't. I went into it thinking I would get a history lesson on AI, which I did. And a very thorough one. But I would not have invited you for that. Your life story is so interesting and beautiful and the way you write about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2165.723

Yeah, understanding how this brain works. Brain works, intelligence works. It's crazy the overlap that has now been proven. But at that time, that's not an obvious, we haven't figured out neural pathways and we're not going to map that onto computers yet. So these seem on the surface, very different fields. One's biology and one is, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2197.263

Right. OK, so then you choose Caltech to go to graduate school. Yes. What did you think of California? I mean, my God, what a place, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

23.57

She is a computer science professor at Stanford University and founding director of Stanford Institute for Human-Centered Artificial Intelligence. So we've had a lot of AI, but I'll say that this, what makes this episode so special is Dr. Fei-Fei Li's personal story is so-

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2308.754

Tell me about North Star and how you discovered yours, because this happens at Caltech.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

236.994

You're an incredible writer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2402.139

T-Rex skeleton.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2416.291

Millions and millions of objects.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

243.876

Okay, that's very big of you. Who's Alex?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2441.268

Yeah. OK, so now I think is a great point to just go through a couple of the landmark events that take us to where the technology is at that time. So I guess we could start with Turing. We could start in 1956. Give us a couple of things that have happened in computing up to that point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2461.863

Now that I have people hooked into you as an individual, now we can get a little protein in this and learn some stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2495.098

DARPA funded it or something?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2524.116

I think we could get even more rudimentary, right? So up until that point, a computer was something that could solve a problem. It could do computations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2534.525

And this notion of artificial intelligence, what it really meant is, could we ever ask a computer questions that it hadn't been pre-programmed to answer? What are the hallmark things that separated at that time artificial intelligence from just computing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2548.456

Because I think we've just fast forwarded to everyone saying AI, and I don't think they really even take a second to think of what that step is between computing and computation and thinking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2587.017

Right. Without having been programmed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2605.07

You had a bad one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

267.725

How do you know Alex?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

273.908

I watched it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

275.449

Yeah, yeah, about image, how hard it is for a computer to see.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2753.672

Up these columns.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2783.28

That's a mouse I'm seeing if I'm a cat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2788.024

And I think this could be a bad analogy, but you might be misled to think, oh, well, a camera can take a picture and then the computer can show the picture. So the computer understands that's a photo. But really, the camera has broken what it's seen into thousands of pixels. They are coded with a numerical sequence. The computer reconstructs those colors. It's a grid.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

280.871

Because he worked with Ted in some capacity?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2807.135

And virtually, that's what our eyes do. Our eyes are just grabbing photons and they're sending back the ones and zeros. And then back here in the cortex, it's assembling it all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2839.685

And as you point out in the book, it took us 540 million years of evolution to get this system.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2875.178

You build one algorithm at the bottom that's maybe generic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2928.371

Could you think of it as almost a filtration device, which is like this data comes in, we filter out these three key points, that then filters up, and then we come to our conclusion at the top of this hierarchy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2941.621

Because it's just like all this raw info at the bottom, and then we kind of recombine it into this layer, and then another process filters, well, it's not a school bus, it's not this. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

2959.317

Okay, great. So, and now also when you find your North Star, another thing that's happening at the same time is WordNet, right? This is kind of a big breakthrough for early AI.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

298.537

You're kind of creative partners.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3045.76

Animal, food, furniture. German Shepherd. Transportation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3128.41

Does WordNet not lead to the machine that can read the zip codes? No. It doesn't. What's that called? That's what I meant to bring up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3138.462

That's happening as you're getting your idea about the images right. We've trained a machine to read zip codes, basically, handwritten zip codes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3178.576

But its data set was, I forget, it was like a thousand or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

318.296

Yeah. Which one do you find more exhaustive?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3185.339

Yeah, and common mistakes, they would feed it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3194.906

What they had proved in concept, you're going to try to do in images, but the lift for images is so exponentially larger than getting the machine to read.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3206.634

By a factor of what? I mean, when you lay out what it's going to take for you to prove this theory you have and you figure out how long it's going to take, it's going to take like a decade of you feeding them, right? There's some moment where the amount of images you're going to have to feed this computer to train it can't almost be done by the group of you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

321.579

Both in different ways.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3277.489

And you wrangled someone in that this wasn't even really their North Star.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3326.169

This level of plotting that you were able to take on Is unique to you. And I think it's moving here in 10th grade and looking at that fucking dictionary back and forth and back and forth and back and forth. That kind of really unique dedication and unwavering plotting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3345.234

A million other scientists could have had your idea, but I think it's that thing right there that makes you capable of creating image.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3353.457

Yeah, it's not. I think we like to think of these things very simplistically, like, oh, you had a great idea. Who gives a shit? A lot of people had great ideas in graduate school.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3365.002

Someone's like, that was my idea. Oh, really? Did you write the script? Did you execute it? Did you cast it correctly? Did you motivate everyone? Your idea is 1% of the equation of a great movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3375.507

Because when I'm reading your thing and the data's coming in, it feels like, and tell me if I'm mischaracterizing it, the deeper you got into this experience, you were just learning every day it was going to be harder than you originally anticipated. It just kept getting worse and worse and worse and worse for years, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3391.199

When I'm reading it, I'm like, I would have quit a trillion times. I'd be like, maybe computing will get to a point where this job will be made easy, but right now it's too hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

341.664

That's what I want to start with because I'm curious when you sat down with Alex, I'm sure the historical part, the scientific part, that stuff is probably easy. But had you ever told your life story to anyone in that detail?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3447.568

Naivete is the best asset you can have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3452.41

Yeah, it's a great gift.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3492.849

A marketplace for that computer labor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3514.901

Yeah, that cut this process down by 80% or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3526.065

They're years down the path and they're calculating how much further it's going to be. And they know they have years and years ahead until this moment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3545.135

So to fast forward to the end, you create ImageNet and you can feed in a picture of a boy petting an elephant. And the computer knows that's a boy and that's an elephant. Might be a different size than the other elephant I saw, but I know that's an elephant. And this is huge. This earns you the title of godmother of AI. I know you don't have to comment. I know you don't want that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

355.741

Yeah. Do you think that's a personal disposition or where you come from culturally? I think of the story of your father, which we'll get to, and how little he told you about his own childhood until the time was right. And I gleaned from that, well, this isn't a culture that is just divulging all this emotional trauma and baggage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3567.968

And I want to fast forward. Now, you've accomplished this incredible thing. You teach at Princeton for a while, as you say, and then you take up a teaching position at Stanford where you still currently are. You become one of these people that undergrads would then study about, which is fascinating. And you go to work for Google during a sabbatical for like a year and a half.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3588.715

And there's a moment where part of your job is to go meet with the new recruits that are going to start their employment at Google. Is it fair to say this is one of your, I don't want to call it a crisis of conscience because that would be too strong, but how would you say it? You have an opportunity to talk to those people, and it sounds to me like you went rogue a little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3693.761

Uh-huh. Let's remind people. So Cambridge Analytica figured out how to maximize Facebook politically, and people were very upset by that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3731.046

But I do want to point out, because I heard you point it out, which is in the early advancements, they had all these peaks and valleys AI. And there was a moment in the 70s where it looked promising. And immediately people went to robots were going to take over the world. So we also do have this immediate sense. We do jump to that. They jumped to it in the 70s. It's worth pointing out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3754.941

We sell fear and excitement.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3770.973

Yeah, they had taken a contract to develop some drone phase recognition stuff. And the people at Google were told that they were only working on nonprofit stuff. There was a bit of a revolt. You were there during all that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3849.025

Yeah, they're all benign. It's how we implement all that. Neutral, there we go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3869.753

And is this the first time you articulate that you want a human-centered development of AI?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3886.454

So let's parallel your speech to the interns and then also getting to go in front of Congress. So what is your overarching sense of how we keep this technology going in a direction that does serve humans?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

3930.209

So what are the practical things we do? What are the legislative things? What does that mean? How do we do that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4037.33

And are you bringing in philosophers and anthropologists and psychologists? This is the interdisciplinary aspect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4065.183

So if I play out that experiment, it's like, yes, I would love to take my phone, scan my face and know if I have a melanoma. That's all sounds great. Where does the results of that get stored? Does my insurance provider have access to that? What all happens? It's not just me that's going to find out I have this melanoma.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4095.046

Will it disproportionately help some group and alienate another?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4142.512

Yeah. Universities can't really compete.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4146.254

Meta, Google.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4154.06

Yeah. Like that's always been the good corrective mechanism we've had societally is the world of academia. And it competed pretty robustly with any private sector.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

42.369

It means the fact that people can land in this country, not speaking English, deep into school and fucking pick it all up and then master all these fields.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4229.186

So all of this, I'm always on board with. I love it. I'm so grateful there's people like you pushing us in that direction. But we just had Yuval Harari on to talk about his take on it. And what I ultimately get so discouraged and defeated by is we're not doing this on an island. We're doing this while many other countries do this simultaneously.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4250.634

So how do you see us dealing with the competitive nature of these AI technologies emerging and us maybe proposing we're going to do it in this way, but being realistic and saying, well, Russia might not have those guidelines and China might not have those guidelines. And if they have a product that people like, we can't compete now with it. So do you believe there could be cooperation?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4270.338

We could outlaw faking humans. Okay, so the U.S. has outlawed faking humans. No one else does. And those fake humans are really convincing and entertaining and all these things. And then that industry takes off somewhere else. Like, how do we do this in a world that there are no barriers of this technology?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4291.123

I didn't get the C minus out of him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4352.444

And then I think what's really important, and I only know this because I'm on my second Von Neumann book, but Von Neumann was employed in the wake of the Manhattan Project to deal with how this proliferation was going to work. And he was so analytical and so realistic that he said... mutually assured annihilation is the solution. He knew that was the only outcome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4373.505

It felt sociopathic to say it and to commit to it. But he's like, look, I'm modeling this out. This is the only way it works is mutually assured annihilation. That's what we ended up with. And so I'm having a little Van Noyman-y feelings about like, no, I think it's a race to who can win until everything gets neutralized. I don't know another comp other than the nuclear arms race.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4407.579

We're coming back around to it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4464.201

So I accept that the nuclear analogy falls short in that there's so many benefits to this. Totally agree. But I will say, again, to parallel nuclear arms race in this moment in time, I think it would be only the second time where international cooperation is at its peak, where it's most needed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4482.209

We have got to recognize this as a moment where we have to be getting closer to all these places and not further away. Our competitors are geopolitical adversaries that

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4493.354

If ever there were a time where everyone stands to gain, other than the nuclear arms race, this is the time where it's like, we got to really figure out how to cooperate a bit because everyone will experience the downside if we don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4513.047

I agree with you, but I will just say that climate to me is a little dicier simply because you have all of these burgeoning industrial economies that we would be slapping rules on. It's easy for us to adopt a lot of things that it's not for Sri Lanka. It's not totally fair. There actually should be areas of the world where they are allowed to pollute more as they pull themselves out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4553.228

Yeah, I just hope that we recognize this is a moment to be making friendships a lot better and not doubling down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4565.714

Do you get to the guardrail point in the conversation with the legislators? We do. Do you have certain guardrails that you believe should be... Like, I like Yuval. Yuval said we shouldn't ever be able to fake humans. And I also think there should be a disclaimer on all AI-generated things that you at least know it came from that source.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4628.856

78% at an AI or a human does it at 40. It's a no brainer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4688.985

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4696.05

Right. I really want to encourage people, even if people have only a cursory or no interest in AI, I really think your book is one of my favorites I've read. It's just your personal story, as reluctant as you are to embrace it or talk about it, is a really special story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4714.6

I mean, what ground you've covered. Do you give yourself any moments where you go, God damn girl, we got here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4743.43

Yeah, there's a lot of sweet people in the world still.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4749.553

Oh, well, Feifei, this has been a delight. I hope everyone gets your book, The Worlds I See, Curiosity, Exploration, and Discovery at the Dawn of AI. And boy, those lucky people that get to have you as a teacher.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4762.981

I also love the narrator of your book. Have you listened to it on tape?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4768.325

You didn't finish.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4779.137

Yeah, yeah. And you should read Maniac.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4785.764

Oh, I love it. It's just really beautiful. I love the narrator, but I was having the moment where I was like, I was only introduced to you through this book. I was completely ignorant about you. And then there's a narrator. When I was doing research on you, I'm like, oh, we're going to find out what the real voice is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

480.805

Well, let's jump to a really big philosophical question about that. I think when reading your story, you came here, this huge language barrier, such a fish out of water. But your work, if good enough, would speak for itself. And it would be a meritocracy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4802.438

Oh, really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4809.223

That wouldn't be the reason I'd advise you not to do it. I think it's way, way harder than people think. And there's a lot more acting involved. I've heard some writers narrate their own book. You got to be a performer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4820.894

Forget your accent. There's like a performance to be done.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4832.326

Well, I hope you come back and see us again sometime and I'll be following everything you do. And thank you for trying with all your might to make this a human centered development.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4866.695

Yeah. All right. Well, be well and thanks for coming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4872.748

Hi there, this is Hermium Permium. If you like that, you're going to love the fact check with Miss Monica. I'm Ani.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4881.952

We had so much fun yesterday, didn't we?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4888.414

So much fun. So much fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4895.622

Okay. Yes. Please tell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4915.473

One of the many, many thousands of commercials you had done.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4929.673

Where they asked you to be in it. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4940.94

I agree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4945.363

I have some housekeeping.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4947.324

You know, I read the comments. And so, and this is so embarrassing. And I read it a couple of times. I'm like, these people are crazy. That's, I didn't say, so people were like, you said the wrong voice of Darth Vader in the Morgan Freeman intro. And I thought they were saying I had said Morgan Freeman was the voice of Darth Vader. And I'm like, I know I didn't say that because I know he's not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4970.077

And James Earl Jones was the voice of Darth Vader. And I said Edward James Olmos. So I did say it wrong. It was another three-name actor with an Edward in it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

498.114

And so it's not surprising to me that someone who got to where they wanted to go with that belief would have a hard time thinking, wait, I was trying to transcend this otherness. This otherness is the thing that would be most interesting and worthy of attention and affection. What a gap.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4983.191

So I fucked that up, and my apologies. Oh, and then the other thing was they had coitus interruptus because we were chatting, and I was going to say I was going to give a Danny Ricardo update because I had ridden motorcycles with him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

4995.314

But I guess then we got sidetracked, and I never did. So all these people who are rightly concerned about our sweetheart Danny Ricardo, how's he doing, were left hanging. And I'm here to report that he's so happy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5009.198

He's so, so happy. We were riding motorcycles all day long and we chatted a bunch and he's just very happy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5018.301

Yeah, he's just doing really, really good. So people should rest assured that Danny Rick is thriving.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5034.803

I had texted him to say, hey, people really love the episode. And me in particular, I really loved it. Thanks for doing it. And he said, how are the numbers? You know I am a lap time guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5050.132

Oh, God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5052.492

I got to say, I want to say out loud, that really put a lot of wind in my sails. That made me so happy to have that episode come out. It really right-sized my perspective. As I vocalize on here, it's been a challenging transition. I've been really stressed. There's been bad news and challenges. And this came out, and I was like, oh, right, dumbass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5074.759

You get to meet people that you are obsessed and in love with. Holy lottery. Yeah, I just was, I was beaming all day Wednesday from it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5095.851

Liquid Death. I'm just pointing to objects. Monkey with huge balls.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5101.235

We did, we did. Okay, there's another fun update, but this, I'm starting, I'm getting worried that people are going to be afraid to text me. I guess these people should know, I run it through my analysis.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5111.246

And I would never say anything that was in a text that I didn't think was just lovely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5117.489

I get worried about it. Don't you? Like, you know, someone's got a private exchange with me. Yeah. And then I'm reporting on it. There's an ethical dilemma here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5127.312

But sometimes they're so funny and I think the person would like it anyways. So I sent Pitt the clip of Toto talking about me telling him that Pitt said he was a good dancer and then Toto talking about him coming to dinner.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5140.038

And then he's... He said, I made up the thing about him being a good dancer. And I said... Oh, no. I said, I can't believe you made that up. In fact, I don't believe you made that up. I still believe he's a great dancer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5163.701

I know. But then he just had to go, well, I don't understand how that happened, but I'm going to take that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5172.77

He was doing a bit. He was like, you're not going to believe this. He's also a phenomenal dancer, but he's just with him. I believed it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5180.364

The crux of that story is I'm gullible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5183.609

Can we talk about Christmas a little bit?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5186.59

I got the fever as much as I've ever had it. As hard as I've ever had it. Let me tell you what's happening. So, so far from our homework.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5193.972

We watched Christmas Vacation already. Home Alone 1 and 2. Side note, I've never heard Delta laugh harder in my life than the 27-minute set piece in Home Alone 2 where he's hitting the guys with bricks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5209.038

She was laughing uncontrollably for like 27 minutes. She said at one point, it doesn't get old. Like they threw a fifth brick or whatever. And she's like, it doesn't get old. And I got so much joy out of watching her have that big of a laugh at something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5226.233

Okay, so Home Alone 2, we did Gremlins, another Christmas favorite for us. Last night we did the Grinch Who Stole Christmas original cartoon. And I want to go out and say... For the record, it's the number one Christmas cartoon to ever be made. It is the most creative. We all watched it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5245.83

There's a lot. You've got Rudolph. You've got the Chuck Brown.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5251.396

You've got the—there's a bunch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5258.383

But I'm saying maybe even Christmas anything. It ends and I said, you know, Dr. Seuss should really be regarded as like Salvador Dali. He had such a unique personality. Imaginative world he created in the words, in the set pieces. I mean, that's one of the most creative people to ever live.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5287.179

There is?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5299.003

I like when people use the term Seussian. Did you ever hear anyone use that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

53.035

Oh my God, it's so impressive. Yeah. Oh, I loved her. Please enjoy Dr. Faith Haley. We are presented by Amazon Prime. It's more than just fast, free shipping. Whatever you're into, it's on Prime. So keep listening, keep watching, keep on keeping on to hear more about why we love Prime during the fact check.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5304.168

Yeah, it's cool, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5305.53

Yeah, like Newtonian or like it's a paradigm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5312.735

Which is not my favorite word anymore. You taught me that word.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5316.057

And I thank you for that. To remind people, Sisyphus pushed the rock up the hill every day. There's a Buddhist take that like, that's what people interpret that as a story of not wasted effort, but like, you know what I'm saying?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5329.164

A fool's errand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5331.285

But there's a Buddhist way of looking at it, which is like this person had purpose every single day, all day long and was not suffering probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5341.849

It was a huge rock. Well, first of all, he's probably jacked. So strong. So strong. But that's an interesting way to reframe it that like, no, this person every day of their life had purpose.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5353.674

Probably very happy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5358.476

Sisyphean?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5359.817

I like Sisyphean.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5366.661

Yes. And I wake the girls up every morning. I wake up about 20 minutes before the girls to meditate. And so now they wake up to me playing from my phone. Over the Sonos, Christmas music. Wow. And I want to make a great recommendation to people who are using Spotify, and you can make a station. Go to the Charlie Brown Christmas album, and then go specifically to the song, Christmas Time is Here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

537.471

Yeah. Well, I think even the notion that you're struggling so hard. I got to set up your story more. This is the last thing I'll say out of context. Monica's like, not everyone's read the book. But just, of course, math was appealing because math didn't have a language barrier.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5394.951

Make a station out of Christmas Time is Here, and it's the best Christmas mix I've ever had.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5402.034

And it's on all the time. And so, you know, the tree is over decorated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5409.162

You know, we get one tree and Kristen gets a tree in the kitchen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5412.986

And hers is artistic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5414.148

And this year it's Wicked. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5416.34

Yeah. And our tree is a throw up of color. And I have those old fashioned bulbs that the water bubbles up in them. They're almost impossible to get to sit vertical on your tree. I've spent most of my free time positioning all of them. And then I pull the cord and they all fall down. It's a Sisyphean task.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5436.007

I didn't expect it to come around that quick. I had all this anxiety about presents, but I knocked a bunch of presents out the other day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5443.709

I used your gift guide almost exclusively.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5449.033

Complain about your gift guide, though. You make things sell out. Your gift guide is moving markets.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5460.341

Yeah. I have to say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5461.722

You have exquisite taste.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5464.048

Some of your recommendations were so good that I found myself dancing around on the websites.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5470.031

Yeah. Yep. And yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5474.013

There's fun stuff. So.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5480.656

So many.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5482.437

I have four strands, really long strands and four of those bubbly light strands. Sure. And the tree's touching the ceiling. It's a Clark Griswold. It's too big.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5494.301

And I'd cut a foot off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5496.261

Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5499.442

My apologies, Miss Monica. Miss Monica, I'm sorry. I get so carried away sometimes when the spirit moves me. I don't leave my apartment much, so I really enjoy decorating it, get all those colors. Makes me optimistic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5517.242

I have a cousin who's not working at the moment, and he loves going to department stores and plazas and shopping malls and strip malls. Wow. And I'll call him on the landline. That's what I have, Miss Monica. I pick up the phone, and I call his. His name is Bert.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5534.79

Yeah, he's my—did I say my brother-in-law or my cousin?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5537.932

Yeah, he's my cousin. I just remembered. Oh. And weirdly enough, he's also my brother-in-law, but it's my stepsister.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5544.996

Everything's on the above board, as they say. And I call up Bert and I say, here's what I need, Bert. Six water weenies, 10 spatulas, and Bert. It takes him a while, sometimes four or five days. And then he comes over and he does charge me a little more, but that's okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5560.728

And then I have to call him back up and ask him to deliver the presents. Wow. That's okay, though. He charges me for that, too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5582.499

Mrs. Mom. Color lights.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5600.568

Well, first of all, do you have the light you want?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5629.745

Now listen, sometimes you complain about there being two boys, one girl in this situation. But you have to admit, Rob is a perfect middle ground. Like if Aaron was here, it would suck. He disproves my gender stereotypes quite a bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5652.712

That's right, Monica. That's right, Miss Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5673.918

I could really get on my high horse about it. I used to have a really strong stance on it. And it's all my class warfare stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

568.982

Yeah, there's more philosophy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5682.924

It's so tired.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5690.65

But did you see Chris Rock's latest stand up? He said, I am rich, but I identify as poor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5706.663

Yeah, well, there's people with a lot more money than me, but I do have— You're of the highest class.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

571.244

Okay, so let's start in China in 1976. You're the only child of your parents.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5717.652

Yeah, but you know what? I act like myself, and I have color. Here's what I'll say. The white, all-white Christmas tree— Yeah. is like occasionally I'd see that at people's houses who had an extra living room that no one went into and you weren't allowed to go in there, you know, take off all your shoes, you know, you'd get in a fucking Intel outfit to go in the room.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5741.323

And all of it seems stuffy and not playful and fun and colorful. It's felt very presentational.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5750.943

But I used to be judgmental of that. I still don't like it, but I'm not as judgmental.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5768.314

I know I'm spoiled. I know I'm spoiled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

577.209

And talk about your mother because she's very interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5772.395

I'm really spoiled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5779.124

That it wouldn't be fair for a stranger to hate me just because I have money?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5783.564

Yeah, I would feel that way on the other side of it, but I wouldn't expect anyone to feel that way, not be on the other side of it because I get it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5793.231

Yeah, I know that. I would know that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5796.354

You don't need to tell me that. I know that. And I'm not judgmental of you. I'm so glad you're having the Christmas you've always wanted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5810.643

Yeah, because we were there like 11 a.m. on a Saturday and you were there at 11 a.m. But I got to say, this is my record of all time. I was so fast and there was no fighting. This is like first year in a few. That day is very triggering for our family.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5826.057

You've got to compromise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5836.327

You call the tree a bald puss?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5843.734

And— You like more of a Brazilian tree? No, Brazilian is— That's shaped and full.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5850.305

Isn't a Brazilian like you have a landing strip?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5876.107

Okay. I'm glad I- What's the landing? The landing strip's just the landing strip?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5886.22

Do you think any dudes get a landing strip? I was just thinking I want to go do that just as a bit. I've done that as a joke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5908.01

Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare. Okay, let's take a break from the fact check to thank our presenting sponsor, Amazon Prime. Prime has you covered with movies, music, and everything you could possibly need to make the holidays perfect. Whatever you're into, it's on Prime.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5930.851

Yes, it is. That time of year.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5937.013

Party parties.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5940.594

If you're as popular as Monica, you're hitting the party circuit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5951.837

Prime can help with that, especially if you decide last minute you want to buy something new. You're set with Prime's fast, free shipping. And hey, what you're buying for holiday parties depends on whether you're a guest or a host. If you're hosting, then you're going deep on Prime to find everything you need to make your home feel fun and festive and perfectly like you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

5992.137

Absolutely. And you can get all those things on Prime.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6002.962

Amazon Music will get the vibe right. Listen, what we're saying is anything you need for a holiday party is on Prime. Nice sweaters, goofy sweaters for the ugly sweater party, holiday decor, gifts for the host, or fun small stuff for a gift exchange at work. The sky is the limit when Prime's fast, free shipping is at your fingertips. From streaming to shopping, it's on Prime.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6027.201

Visit Amazon.com slash Prime to get more out of whatever you're into.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6050.712

Like Christmas vacation, there was a beam of light shining down on it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6058.216

Are you his daughter? Because I think you view more of his mom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6068.647

Yeah, so I got you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6100.047

Oh, yeah. That's the kind I like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6108.86

Oh, okay. Hats.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

611.081

And then you arrive and you show this great aptitude. And now she has, in a sense, a second chance at this dream. But she starts recognizing pretty soon your path is going to be stilted as well if you stay there. So what's happening? What is she noticing as you start getting educated and show this aptitude?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6112.754

Is there no part of you that feels sad? Like what I really, the softest spot in my heart I have is for Charlie Brown's Christmas when they get that really bad tree. Charlie Brown did a bad job and they hated it. They're yelling at Charlie because of the tree. But then they decide to love it. And it's a good little tree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6131.879

And I always am drawn to the shitty tree there because I think no one wants this tree. And we'd have a great Christmas with this tree. I have a real, I get emotional about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6141.662

Yeah, I want to like rescue this shitty tree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6147.325

That's right. That's right. And all because of Charlie Brown, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6150.687

So, yes. So, the girls have one agenda, which is to never like the same tree, I think, as their agenda. And then mom has an agenda. Mom's very aesthetic. You know, it's very important to her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6165.134

Yeah. Yeah, like me. She's got something in her mind she's looking for. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6168.577

My singular goal is when you pull into Home Depot, you can either park And then go by the tree and then enter the line to pull up where they'll put the tree in. And I want to just pull into the line and know that they can get that tree fast enough that by the time it inches up to the front, we'll have gotten a tree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6186.868

So my only objective is to get the trees in time by the time I'm pulling the truck. Because Kristen stays in the car? No. In previous years, they go in and I wait in the car. This year, I went too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6201.294

I just parked it. And I'm like, I'm going to run in. I'm going to see if I find a tree. It's not going to move up that fast. They got to load a tree. I didn't hold anyone up. Okay. And then we got the trees by the time I pulled up. So that was my goal. Mine's way less aesthetic and way more time management.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6218.959

How could you not? Well... A tree that no one wants, Monica? It's already...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6232.416

And by personality, I mean missing parts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6263.223

It sounds though like you guys are very Frito-esque when you're shopping for this tree. You're just not doing the voice. Talking about ball, I don't even want to say it either. My God. And you're saying it's your daughter? This is twisted. Certainly don't want Jess talking about his daughter in that fashion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6280.256

Last update. It was time for a crop, a harvest. Everyone already knows that. I feel like people are going to have a bunch of judgment about this. I guess fuck them. Delta's like, I want to shave my legs. Will you shave my legs?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6293.849

I'm like, okay. People are going to be like, you shouldn't shave your kid's legs. I can already feel that coming. But I don't give a fuck. She wants me to shave her legs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6301.633

She feels left out. I did it. Okay. Monica, her leg hair is also cashmere. It is. So we now have two fields in rotation. And so I want you to see what an enormous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6318.014

Yes. It's now father-daughter cashmere. And I want you to, you remember how much we had just two days ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6327.78

Look at the amount of cashmere we now have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6334.603

I was making a joke that we might get a mitten or a scarf in 10 years, but I actually think that's a real possibility now. Look at the amount in there now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6347.729

Some of it disappeared. That's okay. Now we got two growers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6353.052

Yeah. Yeah. Now you have two growers. We got basically a mink farm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6361.591

Yeah, it's just I think it's separated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6369.355

Yeah, I think hers might even be softer than my back hair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6373.337

But that's got a time limit. Her leg hair will turn into shitty hair like our leg hair. But currently she is growing cashmere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6382.844

You think I need to get a work permit for her? Because she is now kind of actively.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6391.108

I don't want to out her because she did such a great job. Lincoln shaved my back, did a great job.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6395.491

But she thought she had some cashmere on the razor and she emptied a little bit into our pouch. And then I discovered, no, some of that was beard hair. So I had to actually go in and pull it. Now I'm getting embarrassed. It sounds like a bit, but then you realize, no, it's not a bit. He's really... That happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6415.776

No, I just, I could feel and I'd pull that out of you. I probably lost a lot of really good product.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6423.281

It's only the second harvest, so. Wow. Still learning a lot. Exciting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6469.865

Oh, oh, oh, okay. It looked like the look on your face was that it was a famous person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6483.102

Male. Give me age, height, describe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6503.815

Okay. Your face betrayed you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6520.533

Kelly was fucked up too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6525.52

You should have gone back inside to talk to the third woman. Who entered.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6533.635

So this is a lost persons report.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6535.756

If you open a door for Callie and Monica at the farmer's market.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6540.397

Brentwood Country Mart. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6545.839

Okay. Yeah. Contact, I guess, comment in this. I'll read it. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6553.202

Don't. No catfishes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6557.67

I guess you'll be able to see the photo, though, and you'll know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6560.931

And no one could fake it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6586.296

He's like a lifeline.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6590.618

How many more times did you think about him?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6595.181

Did you like whip up fantasies? I know you're prone to fantasies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6602.265

Thunderstruck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6604.426

Love at first sight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6611.832

Yeah. Wow. And I wonder. And how often have you thought of him since then? Daily or once every few days?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6622.163

I sure hope he reaches out in the comments.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6625.206

Also, no bullshit, no catfishing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6628.389

Stop catfishing, everybody.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6652.43

What do you want him to call you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6654.53

Don't leave it. Don't let him decide.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6661.205

Oh, and a ding, ding, ding. We just interviewed someone who knows her intimately. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6669.269

I mean, sexually. The colleague. We just interviewed a colleague.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6680.756

I loved her so much too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6704.885

His secretary lived with him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6707.127

Interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6712.496

You're probably right. Yeah, I guess secretaries were just assistants.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6744.684

It's kind of like the Martha Stewart thing. We all think she traded her company

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6750.505

Nor did she even do any insider training. I know. But she still went to prison. I know. Yeah. But yeah, the nefarious activity was on Cambridge Analytic, not Meta. Right, but also they- And they were just using existing tools that anyone could have been using.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

677.324

Well, what would have been your trajectory had you stayed in China in 1988 when you're 12? Am I misremembering that your mom felt like they weren't giving you the attention and encouragement that she was hoping you would get?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6784.647

Everyone should listen to Acquired, just period.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6788.31

It is, it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6790.411

Yeah, if you like a deep dive, that's the show for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6811.875

Oh, big time. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6817.118

That was it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6818.199

Okay. I just adore her. I wish her the best.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6821.161

I'm grateful for her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6830.266

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Now we know. And I'm grateful for her existence.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

6838.931

He's great. Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

738.848

This is what I'm remembering from the book, that you were explicitly told you're not as smart as boys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

794.089

That's

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

839.56

So your dad leaves when you're 12. He goes to New Jersey. He's there for three years on his own. And he is setting up a landing for you and your mother. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

850.404

Do you remember that three years missing him terribly? How was that experience?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

877.703

So then you come your sophomore year. Yes. You start a public high school in New Jersey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

884.526

One of the experiences you had, I came in and told Monica immediately about, and you were in a class, some kind of a study hall or something. Library. And you were with a group of other ESL kids, English as a Second Language kids. And you saw a very, well, no, I want to say how insignificant this first interaction was, like benign brushing up against a kid's backpack or something. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

908.397

And what happened?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

924.747

friend was on the floor by the time i realized there was some commotion being kicked and punched i think there was nose bleeding and he was holding his head yeah he said he got a concussion and a broken nose and there's two boys kicking him yeah and that's not even maybe the most traumatic part it's that after he's gone for a couple weeks he comes back and he's just not the same boy

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

96.439

We're up to a terrible start.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Fei Fei Li (on a human-centered approach to AI)

964.58

Yeah, I think it changes your worldview on a dime, which is, ooh, this new place I'm in can get pretty violent and a little out of control. And if you're other, this could happen. I have to imagine. Yeah, it's an incredibly scary recognition of where you're at.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1010.976

Is this a good example? I always think of the Stanford Prison Experiment. Initially, they think they're studying the students who have gotten too much authority and abuse it quickly and abuse these people. But then if you pull back further, you have to acknowledge that the constructor of the actual experiment is himself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1029.631

Nice. Zimbardo. Nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

103.791

Yeah, they learned how to do this at a certain point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1031.753

This has been a runner of us trying to remember getting it wrong most often. Finally, it's cemented.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1037.958

Actually, I think there might be more than a second order observer, but you can keep pulling back the frame as you're saying that he himself Zimbardo was a victim of the exact same behavior he was observing and trying to understand because he himself had elevated his authority and detachment from everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

107.532

So please enjoy Rebecca Lamov.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1074.267

It's also a law of physics, which is if you observe light, Depending on how you observe it, it's either a particle or it's a wave. Thank you. And that can change depending on the observation of it. So certainly brainwashing has existed probably since humans have been humans. But we get kind of aware of it from the Korean War. Is that where we start really trying to study it and understand it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1118.129

At that time, would we not say it would be propaganda?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1180.771

And you say, yeah, becoming someone else was alarming enough, but the nightmarish part was that you had no ability to recognize that this had happened. So even scarier than becoming different is you wouldn't have even noticed it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1200.981

And if you think of your stereotype of someone susceptible to this type of thing, it's not a leader in the church who's got charisma and all these people skills and a great education and all these other tropes we think would inoculate you from this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1242.54

Also a quite literal stripping of someone's identity. Exactly. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1256.643

How much were people doing brainwashing things that they didn't even know they were doing? So like a longstanding tradition is to shave all of the cadet's heads. Well, that's part of it. You're actually stealing their identity from them. How calculated was it? Or some of these things just naturally happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1330.382

outdevelop their opponent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1332.683

So I guess I didn't know a lot of this, which is shameful, but you do a great job of painting a picture of what the Korean War was, which was initially it was called a police action. These young kids went. One of the main characters in your book is a 17-year-old boy who's in 11th grade and he signs up before his senior year and he goes over there thinking he's a part of a police mission.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

134.458

Which Monica pointed out to me once we left.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1353.455

They arrive. They are using all the equipment from World War II. They don't have anything. New guns, new tanks, new anything. Things are breaking, helicopters are falling apart. The enemy has all new Russian stuff because they're backed by Russia by proxy of China. So they're getting slaughtered and outgunned and their full sense of what an American is at that point is starting to really fracture.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1375.284

Like we're supposed to be indomitable. We're supposed to have the highest tech everything. And all these young guys end up as prisoners of war. Tell us about the Tiger March. That was particularly grueling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

140.802

Really past the point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1410.862

Who are all completely malnourished. They have zero energy. They're already physically quite diminished. They don't have the right gear. It's freezing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1463.731

And when they made it after these long marches and they got in these camps, then the camps were often even more brutal. They would have thought once the walking was done. Yeah. Long story short, it's all really, really heartbreaking and worth learning about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

147.025

Great novel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1477.129

But at the end of all this, there are 21 of these guys who go through this process, who choose to stay in China and take on Korean wives, have children. They do get completely converted to some degree. And there's a process by which they do it. And I wonder, we get into now Mao Zedong. He is the leader of China and he has something called the method or reeducation or thought reform.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1504.604

And it has a very predictable and formatted approach, which is discussion, criticism and unity. So take us from these guys who are in these camps, as you would say, ungrounded. I think it's worthwhile to explain what ungrounded is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

156.468

She didn't recognize it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

158.548

You're back in California.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1589.91

Yeah, because the method was designed to treat peasants one way and landowners and landlords another way. It was a very rigid prescription. And his conclusion was, well, these infantrymen are the peasants, right? They're not the landowners. The generals are the landowners. So they would receive those two different approaches. Exactly. But it's really interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

160.289

How often do you come?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1610.226

The discussion part, this kind of reeducation or the method would start with urging these people over and over again for a very, very long time to journal their life story. And in some fascinating way, none of these people had experienced therapy prior to this. This wasn't a thing people did. So this is like a very unique experience and comforting versus what they had just experienced.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1632.619

Because when you're journaling, you get to sit next to a stove. So there's these little incentives along the way. And through the telling of your story over and over and over again, you then get into a zone of criticism. And this is where you have to defend your nation's ethics, how they treat black people. That was a big issue they would remind everyone of.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

164.33

Did you guys meet in college?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1652.685

And they're not putting you in a position to have to defend your story or your identity or your sense of reality. And then lastly is unity. And now they're going to explain this other way of thinking that is so much more beneficial and so much more collaborative and helpful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1691.918

Man spreading.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1694.538

The earliest version of man spreading.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

175.413

Yes, and he was heavily tipped during the dot-com bubble, but then it collapsed and then the tips dried up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1785.794

What's interesting about that, and I think why as we see it come up in modern society in a far more innocuous way, often people haven't ever taken the time to try to explain their worldview. Probably nobody really has taken the time to write out what their worldview is, what the ethics are of the country they are loyal to. So in doing that...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1807.452

It's a very clever way to establish a little anxiety in your own understanding of why and what you do. You know, it's probably the first time you've questioned any of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1835.293

So now's a good time to also introduce, because there's two waves, right? There's the small wave and the big wave of men starting to return. The first wave is like 139 guys. And then over time, it's 3,600 or something massive like that. And people are coming back with varying levels of success. vacancy and being visibly disturbed, then you have the people who stayed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1855.566

And now is where we should learn our understanding of trauma doesn't exist to the point where the word trauma is almost not even a word in the 50s, right? So as they're seeing all this bizarre behavior, everyone stateside is assuming this is brainwashing, not, oh, this is a traumatic response to this horrendously traumatic experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

195.822

You just had to wait for him to approach you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1950.27

Playing volleyball.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1966.576

Yeah, maybe the amputees that came back, which there were, they would have maybe been like, oh, they went through some shit. But the rest of the guys played volleyball.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1979.321

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

1987.208

Weak, that they had succumbed to this propaganda easily. And also, it's worth pointing out that in the entire Korean War, there was only a single psychologist on the ground at the time. And then when they returned, though, now dozens of psychiatrists and psychologists are deployed to now study these guys. And so what do they find? Because now this sets us in motion on our own program.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

199.424

How did you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2070.631

Defended against or deployed on your enemies. Sir comes out of this survival, evasion, resistance, escape method.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

209.41

Whoa, hold on, that's a huge first swing. Or a tape of this. Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2103.78

There were stand-ins for the Koreans?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2144.306

So we were doing this to our own people to get them ready for this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2151.991

Well, that's my question. So I wonder how effective it was. The men who went to Vietnam, had they received this training?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2185.441

I was going to say, yeah, how do we know if that was a failed attempt by the Vietnamese or the great training the GIs received?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

22.973

And we've been brainwashed. Our guest today is Rebecca Lamov. She's a historian of science at Harvard University and her research explores data. I'm trying to change the way I say data.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2209.823

Even if it's pretend.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

221.758

Oh, that you'd have to look. Or take charcoal and tissue paper.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

233.111

Another great hack. He's throwing all of it at you. If he tells you he's great at foot massage, you're like, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

246.956

But that's the nature of love. It is all cliche. And then it feels very special and unique to you. And that's what's so sweet. Yeah, it's really true. So that means you guys have been together for 25 years. Yeah. So embarrassingly, you were graduating from graduate school in the same year I graduated from undergrad. But I imagine I'm older than you. So I think you must have boogied.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2533.206

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2587.865

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

266.725

I was born in 75. I was born in 66. Oh my God, you look incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2690.262

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

271.548

Yeah, you do look great. I don't know if you're supposed to comment on professors' looks, but I guess you're human.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2721.271

,,,,,,,

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2775.845

,,,,,,,,.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2775.885

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

279.917

Where are you from originally?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2796.366

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

285.763

Okay. And then now you're in Boston. So you've really done the tri-state.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2912.159

,,,,,,,

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

295.235

And then why Berkeley? Did you fancy yourself an anti-social misfit or just they had the best program?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2963.055

What did it mean?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2975.422

It feels so friendly, right?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

2978.305

You get invited to like a barbecue, you're like, shit, there might be some fights. But you hear free vegetarian food and you just think, yeah, there's going to be some peaceful people.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3007.802

Well, I was thinking of the Maoist stuff, the method that seems really present in a lot of these cult documentaries I've watched is like you have food restriction quite often. You have the narrative part where you're telling your own story. There's kind of a therapy aspect, the discussion where you're implored to talk about your childhood and explore that.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3024.615

It's like you can see that it has the same arc almost as the Mao method.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3088.709

Have either of you thought to yourself, I am in a cult? I have two personal experiences.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3132.924

You're very in-group, out-group.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3140.249

For me, AA for sure. In so many ways, it is a cult. And then I definitely look at the methodology by which they get you as AA. Anyone coming to an AA meeting for their first time is already ungrounded. That's why they're there. Their life is obliterated. They don't know who they are. They've been acting in all these ways that are inconsistent with their morals. So we did the work for you.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3163.442

We show up kind of deconstructed and it's a group and there's language and there's a text. And it has a lot of built in non falsifiable claims like you don't have to believe in God, but you do. There's a lot of clever.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3184.652

Oh, my God. Confessing. Exclusively sharing your story, exploring it, learning a new way to live. So it's interesting. I've been in it. And I'm aware of that. And yet I go, well, the alternative for me was death. So this is far preferable. I can handle being in this cult. Now, forget cult. What I really think is brainwashing. What is a little bit unique and good about AA is there's no leader.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

320.149

Like that reference doesn't mean anything?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3210.6

I think that's what saves it from being potentially destructive because this is a very powerful mechanism that could destroy people if there were even a single leader. There's not even a person in charge of the room. So that's it's kind of maybe built in safety net. But the way I think over 21 years of being there is.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3231.794

is I find myself recognizing, oh, it's very regimented, that's very myopic, that's very unflexible, that doesn't account for the variety of human beings that are in the world. There's a lot of things I have to confront. I was having a conversation with a great friend of mine who's been in it roughly the same time as me. He's older, he's a genius. And we were talking and we share a therapist.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

324.81

That's why our population is declining and everyone else's is on the rise.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3255.521

And the therapist comes from this very unique point of view, which is he was in the program for a long time. He was an addict. He stopped going. And he also treats a lot of people. And he's like, there are some givens we learned that I don't know that I believe are givens. And then hearing someone in authority who is smart and trustworthy, even just that little poke.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3274.196

And then I found myself saying to my friend the other night, like, this part's a little crazy.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

331.552

Yeah, not to go surfing and drop acid and get counter-cultural.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3324.623

And like Bikram.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3327.024

He was doing it all, yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3384.261

Okay, so all the things we've talked about are what we might call hard brainwashing. Tell us what's soft brainwashing and tell us what's pervasive in our current landscape that we need to be aware of and tell us how it works and what things are out there.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

341.195

How could you not?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3445.54

Were they counting how much time spent on the app itself, maybe?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

354.803

Meaning expand your mind kind of way?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3588.852

And people will now point out people voluntarily complied with that. We started just giving you a full time access to ourselves and filming everything we do. But both sides are working right because people are posting their trauma.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3619.594

Well, we're a lot more comfortable with the notion someone chose to smoke cigarettes and that's why they have lung cancer. They just loved a perfect life and they got lung cancer. We don't like that. That's very scary. That means we might get lung cancer. But we do love an element of complicity. It helps us not take on so much anguish because you go, oh, they kind of elected to do that.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

364.395

What's your story of why you were so drawn to brainwashing?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3662.544

Yeah, they're on mission. They're converting.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3665.862

I have to say, and this sounds dismissive to other cult members, but NXIVM interested me the most because of all the subjects of these cults I had met in these other documentaries. So many of them were outwardly searching so hard for something. They were just waiting for a guru to walk in front of them. But the NXIVM crew, they were above average intelligence, most of them.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3687.09

They were very critical thinkers. That's what they were. bound by. And then I got obsessed with, well, what's this guy's magic spell on these very critically thinking, smart adults? And I think what I observed was he weaponized that against them. Every time they ask him some big philosophical question, his response would be, Well, what do you think?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3708.736

And they were so keen to impress him that they would come up with their very best explanation. And in doing that, they gave themselves the answer. And he just would sign off on it. He outsourced the actual dogma to them. He used their intelligence against them. And then back to your point of people thinking they wouldn't be susceptible or they would be.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3728.584

It's like, well, here's this group that he figured out how to get them to indoctrinate themselves.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3786.704

Yeah. And when you're watching those guys, they're on the Santa Monica Pier. Now they've been deprogrammed and disillusioned and they're just chatting and they're recognizing some of the things they believed. And one of the guys just goes, yeah, he was a judo champ at seven. And they both are like, oh my God. How did we?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3804.84

What does it fucking mean, a seven-year-old judo champ?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3808.663

Yes, and the absurdity of these things they had heard now has come flooding out. And I imagine just the shame that that induces.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3860.548

I hope everyone checks out The Instability of Truth, Brainwashing, Mind Control, and Hyperpersuasion. I'm a slow reader and I was blasting through it. There's so much historical stuff in there. I love the history. I mean, there's just so many elements of the Korean War that I hadn't known about or properly sympathize with.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3881.573

Well, the sequel was so much longer, heavily protested. Cultural.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3887.995

All right. Well, Rebecca, this was so fun. Thank you so much.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3894.456

Stay tuned to hear Miss Monica correct all the facts that were wrong. It's okay, though. We all make mistakes. I screen grabbed something.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3905.325

I know if I want you to find this interesting, it cannot be about the Cold War.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3911.731

So hopefully I didn't screen grab something about the Cold War.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3916.055

Okay. Fun to hear updates and the subject synthesized so well. For Monica's anxiety about death. Oh. You are on the right track with one of the ways to manage that response. I did CBT for anxiety about death and the training is what you say. Look at probabilities and odds, focusing on stats and having self-compassion when the worries override the stats and likelihoods.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3939.6

Also, acceptance that we actually have so little control from an existential standpoint and being truly zen about that from a place of gratitude for each day helps. It's tough to get to that place, though. It took me years. People like Monica and me are prone to rumination, a.k.a. sticky brain. It sucks so much and is tough to understand if you don't experience it. Similar to obsessional thinking.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3962.854

Monica's brain is micro obsessing about death now and making her anxious. Just a perspective since I know you don't suffer anxiety the same way.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3972.465

That was a nice comment. Someone really took some time to try to help.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3976.327

Sticky brain. I've never heard that. That's what I'm going to start calling you now. Sticky brain. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dan Rather and I'm joined by Sticky Brain.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3986.434

I could tell. Yeah, I had a hunch it was going to not sit right.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

3993.378

Oh, that's always a good start.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

40.981

Yeah, every scientist we have says data because it's D-A-T-A. If it was data, it'd be two T's or even D-A-D-D-A. Data. Data. Okay. Explores data, technology, and the history of human and behavioral sciences. She's written a bunch about a database of dreams.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4012.595

Well, and this might tip you into child ownership. I have much better built-in excuses than you do. And they're legit, which is I don't do anything. Every night of the week, I'm home with my kids eating dinner and then watching TV, right?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4031.61

So I can just always go like, oh yeah, I don't... Which is true also. We get a babysitter like six times a year.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4038.755

So I really make it kind of clear. I just, I don't, I'm not social. And you really...

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4053.803

Yeah. So I can do a breakfast. Yeah. Once every month and a half, I'll do a dude's dinner, maybe two months. Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4069.228

Yes.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

407.429

Probably more often not understood.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4079.209

Yeah. Now, so that I got to put that on them. If I ask someone to hang out and they said I can't for the foreseeable future, I would go, OK, yeah, they don't want to hang out.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

410.57

Oh, that must mean it's very smart. Yeah, I'm not even sure if I get it.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4122.095

Right. Get a kid.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4127.489

I thought you were going to, though. I haven't decided. After Mindy, you kind of were.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4147.664

I'm with the kids every night.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4151.747

Yeah. And. And it's true, which is great.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4157.196

Oh, yeah. I'm just saying.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4159.518

It's an excuse and it's not an excuse. Like I really am home every night.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4189.084

Yes.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4194.662

Like me.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4196.243

Grandparent parents.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4209.709

Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4229.13

That's right. Come as you are.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4231.151

B-Y-O-B.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4252.219

Sure, sure, sure. Okay. Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4260.183

Currently my time is-

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4264.496

Accounted for.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4269.099

Yeah, many hours a week.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

427.798

Or you fell under a romantic spell.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4274.001

You want to be a dud. You want to be able to be a dud.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4280.485

Yeah, they accept the dud version.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4294.114

Sure.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4306.72

Right.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

431.119

I think that's the journey of finding your identity in some way, is you fall under the spell of these different things and then they stick or they don't.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4311.263

I don't. I don't think any of these people are entitled to all that information. I think you just need to relieve yourself of the guilt.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4321.991

Well, look, I do have a set thing in my notes that I have. You do? Yes, because I get asked very often to ask Kristin to do things.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4335.396

No. Hey, I've got this project Kristen would be great for. Hey, this charity event can Kristen host. Sure. And it's a very sincere and it's true, which is I won't be a conduit of requests to Kristen. She gets it all the time and it's not going to come from me. Right. It's damaging to the relationship for us to be not wanting to hear what each other has to say. Sure.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4358.837

So I took the time at some point to write out a very thoughtful version of that. But I don't want to have to do that every single time. So I have it in my notes and I just copy and paste.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4370.145

So maybe. I wonder if I can find it now that I've said that. And if you've received this, then you know. That's okay because it's legit and I stand by it. No, I can't find it. I think the parents deal with it the most.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4390.318

Like my mom gets a lot of requests. I think Kristen's mom gets a lot of requests. And I get it because you're like, oh, a parent can ask their kid anything.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4400.94

Like if I wanted Ace to do something, I'd be like, I just ask Charlie. He'll ask him. Probably. He's got no autonomy. He's got to listen to this request.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4410.002

I should ask Ace if he'll host a gala.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4413.643

He would. If he danced.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4417.613

He and Lincoln were so cute at Disneyland. Oh. It's so fun to watch. They really get along, really. They weren't dancing. That's the problem. That's the annoying and attractive thing about Ace is he's the world's best dancer, but he won't.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4431.013

He won't give it to you. I get it. Like if I were him, all I would do is dance. I know.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4436.274

I know. I would exploit it and ring it out for every bit of attention I could. And he doesn't. He's like, he was right to be trusted with that superpower.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4445.076

Although he needs to lighten up the reins a little bit. I think like on Thanksgiving, he should do a dance performance for us. No. Once a year, he should put on. We sit through these other talent shows with the kids and the videos they make. We got an actual bonafide talent in the mix and he's not showing us.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4466.777

Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4469.861

Do you think it's weird? I think everyone does this, but do you think it's weird to look at a kid and go like, Oh my God, he's going to do so well with the ladies. Like every time I'm around Ace, all I can think is like, God, this guy's the, every option is going to be available to him. Um, great dancer, sweetheart, gorgeous.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4490.845

Everyone's or Dax's?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4492.766

Okay. Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4495.207

It's not.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4499.67

On romantic love. Oh, dancing. Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4504.872

You don't think it's a silver bullet?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4507.546

I do. I know you do. If you look good dancing.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4510.988

It's not like you can just know the running man. If you look stupid doing the running man, that's a pass.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4521.514

Well, no, if you're into dancing, you go out dancing. And people see you, they see you coming.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4528.697

I see you, your dog, Charlie. Okay. Rottweiler.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

454.098

We would have had so much fun.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4545.277

Well, you know what? Everyone in the pod looks like dancing. No. Sure. We've been to weddings. We've been to.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4555.587

Come on, roller skate parties.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4558.849

You know Ryan's a great dancer. You could name the great dancers. Erica, great dancer, we know it.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4569.133

Yeah, and you've seen her dance.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

457.181

You know, I mean, asking what was your flavor of addiction?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4572.506

Matt and Laura's wedding.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4575.989

It's not a priority for you.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4578.171

Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4582.595

Maybe because you never were, that wasn't anything you were into personally. Like you were never like, I'm a great dancer.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4592.663

Well, I think a woman that dances well is very sexy. Interesting. And it's a way to look cool.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4599.52

You know, that's not for you.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4608.19

But what about Anderson Paak? If she can't dance, then she can't.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4613.777

Yeah, I think you can have sex if you can't dance.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4620.575

Yeah, but I do think someone who's very in touch with their body and knows how to move their body, it's a good signal. Let me just ask you this. There's two guys. They're identical twin brothers. They look the same. They have the same personality.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4632.628

Yes. One of them is dancing like a dad. What? And the other one is dancing very well.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4643.186

It's a perfect one.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4646.869

You made them the same. The only different, the only variable is they're dancing.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4651.312

So which one do you want to get in bed with?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4670.145

Great, because you would say it's more attractive than not.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4676.827

Oh, okay. I thought it was like a who cares.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4680.829

Okay, I'm trying.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4700.5

But if it's like guy A. And really quick, when you look at them and you're like, I wonder who's better in bed. Would you not assume that the guy that's coordinated and on rhythm is better in bed?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4717.46

Yeah. Okay, good. Anyways, Ace is a spectacular dancer. Lincoln and he were having so much fun together. That's fun. And we were, again, we were gay dads, as you know.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4731.884

At Disneyland.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4733.725

But we were not as built this trip. We're not as big.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4740.205

Keep it neutral.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4742.994

Oh, my God. I'm a little bigger than Charlie at the moment, which is very rare. First time in our whole friendship, I'm a little bigger than him. So I think what people assume changed. Remember last time he was in Adonis and they thought, I must be an architect. Do you remember this whole thing? Only vaguely. They're like, oh, the one man's much older than his husband. Right.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

476.018

And especially opiates, they have the illusion of manageability because you can function. It's not like you're inebriated drunk and you can't do anything.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4773.421

But he looks kind of cool. He looks artistic. He's got tattoos. He must be an architect. This is what they thought.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4784.839

Yeah, I think if you're seeing someone who is heavily tattooed and successful. Well, how do they know that? Because we have a guide.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4794.707

I mean, that's a giveaway.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4797.709

Right? Yeah. Just being honest.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4802.052

Okay, great. So yes, we're just going with like most people think. So you see an older dude with a younger man. They have a guide. Got it.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4809.99

90 plus percent of people are gonna go, oh, the older dude's got some money.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4814.453

Oh, wow, he's made some money, but he's also heavily tattooed. So he's either owns a restaurant.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4822.196

Yeah, most likely. Yeah, if you were in the Midwest and I saw a dude heavily tattooed and I knew he was rich, I'd go, oh, he owns a tool and dye shop. Like this is- Exactly. What environment could he make a ton of money, but also- Exactly. Look like a fucking junkie.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4838.723

Yes. Okay. So that was last year's scenario that we both thought was most likely. People definitely thought it was an architect.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4845.954

And this was my boy toy.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4848.177

But now it's a little bigger this year. So now I'm not sure what they think. Okay. I didn't have as clear of a conclusion of what people thought. Other than people, again, were very excited and happy that we had a family. That seems to be consistent.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4865.439

Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4873.748

Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4876.99

Different places in hopes that you'll remember it. I see you grab your phone, which is disheartening. So I'm like, oh, she's checking her phone in the middle of this story about me being an architect.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4886.494

And now you're, yeah, you should eat it. Just eat it.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4891.055

Oh, you dropped it between your legs.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4895.048

Oh, yeah. Well, there it is. One of our guests will be sitting there and be like, God, I just keep stabbing my butt cheek.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4905.678

Oh, yeah, yeah. Remember, you would put your feet on the couch and people would really lose their marbles.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4919.57

You are. You're afraid of death, but everything before then, you're kind of fine with.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4924.474

Pootie, nails.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4926.656

I'm proud of myself for that. Yeah, you're cool. You're cool.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4930.679

You're cool.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4933.662

Can't dance to save your life, but if you shave that side, you'll pull it off.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4938.044

Well, no one will ever know.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4962.076

Okay.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4986.931

You think you've been brainwashed?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

4996.793

I just think it's a very hot, attractive quality.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5000.296

It turns things sexual. I guess that's really what I'm saying. Oh. It breaks through. Like, you could meet a dude and you'd be like, oh, he's good, but I'm in the friend zone. You could see him dancing and be like, you know what? Yeah. It's definitely an in-route.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5014.009

Thank you.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5019.271

Yeah, that's fine.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5021.732

Correct.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5024.753

Yeah, it could change the dynamic of everything.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5028.935

That's been my experience, which is I think some girls were like, whatever, I don't know, he's loud. And then on the dance floor, like, oh, this is interesting. He is... Loud. Very loud. Louder. As a dancer. Even louder.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

506.363

So a good two years of that opioid hole. How were you able to quit?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5092.23

Thank you.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

520.305

It's its own brainwashing, right? It alters your brain in a very significant way and you can actually not even see any longer.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5201.579

Thank you.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5300.435

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5435.433

Thank you. Thank you.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5517.994

Thank you.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

561.477

Did he feel familiar?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5629.599

, , , , ,, the.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

563.719

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

581.514

It's so cult, like these really, really controlling relationships and even the strategies of separating you from your friends and all your support network. And then, yeah, I was even thinking, did you watch couples therapy by chance?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5830.165

Well, that's a very extreme version of peptides. But do I deserve to take a peptide that elevates my HGH levels naturally? Well, it's not naturally. I'm taking a peptide. Nothing's natural. My thyroid, my pituitary gland is making the HGH. It's not exogenous HGH. What's the problem?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5874.977

Yeah, but let's take me as an example.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5878.1

Like I have a crazy workout regimen and a diet regimen, and I'm going to take anything that doesn't have bad side effects that's going to help me in that pursuit.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5890.051

Being as physically fit as I possibly can. Okay. And I can afford to.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5897.097

Right? Now, is it fair or not that I can and other people? That's a side conversation. But just assume everyone has access to everything.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5905.62

And I'm 50. I just was at COTA and I rode a motorcycle all day long on the racetrack.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5912.302

And I felt great and I was able to do that. And primarily because of my fitness. A lot of the 50-year-old dudes are not doing the sessions like I can do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5921.366

So I am... My life is really good because I can still pursue my hobbies with vigor and it makes my life better. And that is solely an outcome of how I've taken care of my body. And this is yet another tool like eating well is or like that protein is or vitamins are. It's just another thing. It's a very arbitrary line between should I take vitamin D or take a peptide.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

593.898

It's incredible. And then this one woman, and I won't use names because I don't want to get sued, but one woman is with a bona fide narcissist. And when she's explaining what they're going through to Orna, you can see that Orna's presence changes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5961.518

Yeah, so I go to a doctor. So yes, without a prescription, you're gonna get on a website and it's gonna say for animal use or something. I have no claim on that, but I'm talking about going to a doctor and having the human version of a peptide prescribed to you.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

5982.529

And I get blood panels every two and a half, three months that monitors everything.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6002.79

You think more than... Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6019.364

Yeah. Well, but the substance was robbing your... Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6024.668

Futures, your current self. So there was a heavy price to pay.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6030.251

Yeah, and I just, I'm not seeing the price to pay other than the financial.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6034.953

Well, no, anything I'm on has been in the market and has been used on HIV patients for 35, 40 years.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6053.661

No, no. All of these are FDA approved if you get a prescription. And they're also a category that can be used in lab testing, which is what you're seeing on the website. But no, all of any peptide I'm on from a doctor has been FDA approved and used in medical trials. One in this case I'm referencing is HIV patients.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

607.123

anchors her back into reality in a way that she's hearing what she's saying almost with an entirely new lens and realizing, oh yeah, this motherfucker's crazy.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6101.832

You feel pressured to do it.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6116.521

Well, you're aging naturally, but with— Botox and injections.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6122.149

It's an identical argument for someone who's like looking at you and going like, well, fuck, do I have to get Botox because everyone's doing it and I don't want to get Botox, but Monica's getting it and now I have to. So it's like, that's the same argument as this peptide thing to me.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6138.972

Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6157.852

Well, this is an interesting side thing that will take too long. But I'm more thinking about, yes, I've talked about this with Eric and stuff. It's like, well, everyone's going to be on Trazepatide or some GLP-1 at some point. It's going to be over the counter. Let's just say everyone's going to be on it. It's 4 cents. Everyone's skinny. Let's just say everyone's skinny. I know.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6176.105

But what I think is like, well, in a world where everyone's skinny, People that aren't skinny will be very interesting and exciting. So if no one has wrinkles, it's all interesting to think of just if everything's neutralized.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6190.664

One person, yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6195.009

But also we're not.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6202.014

Yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6216.304

Or you might, silver lining, it might actually be, well, then all you'd be deciding on is personality. Yeah. Everything else has been neutralized.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6226.77

I mean, doesn't that sound like utopia a little bit?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6232.492

I don't know. It's interesting. It's fascinating. If mine was, I don't think I'd look any hotter. I don't think my face looks better. There's like nothing I'm taking to look better.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6247.857

Oh, I want them.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6249.358

What are they? Let me ask my doctor if I can be on those. But yeah, I'm up for everything that makes me feel better and doesn't have a big cost associated with it.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

625.495

You have to consider how this person's hearing the story. Exactly.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6272.117

Yeah, yeah. Oh, yeah.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6277.06

Plastic surgery. Oh, she did?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6302.25

Yes.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6312.231

Oh, nowadays.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6317.658

This is kind of standard.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6319.66

Yeah, well, I will say when I'm in Beverly Hills- I will pass like six or seven women in a row that have identical shape faces because the filler ends up making every face.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

634.158

Yeah. Well, first of all, you're a professor of the history of science, which again, that's a discipline made up by Harvard, yeah?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6341.024

Right, right. I just don't care. About what? That people do that stuff. It doesn't bother me.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6362.984

I just think people have always been doing everything they could. So they wore perfume when that was invented and they got hairbrushes to keep their hair pretty and they got combs and they got hairstyles and everything that was ever at your disposal.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6375.393

People have been pursuing looking the best they can.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6379.036

And we're just, there's more and more products in the mix. Yeah. But I do think people have been trying to look their very best for, I don't think that's new.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6390.851

Well, we pick what things, but I know me too. I mean, jeans are dirty, but I need to work out.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

6399.84

Yeah. Okay, that's it. All right, love you. Follow Armchair Expert on the Wondery app, Amazon Music, or wherever you get your podcasts. You can listen to every episode of Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now by joining Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Before you go, tell us about yourself by completing a short survey at wondery.com slash survey.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

64.708

What part did I do wrong?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

642.54

I wasn't even aware that that was a discipline. But as I read the description, I'm like, oh, I love that. I think I'd be very interested.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

657.955

And am I right that a lot of the question is like, how do we know what we know and how do we trust what we know in a sense? Is that a common exploration in that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

67.364

Oh, database? Yeah, see? That doesn't sound right. Database of dreams. How reason almost lost its mind. World as laboratory. Her new book, that's what we're here to talk about. It's very tasty. The Instability of Truth, Brainwashing, Mind Control, and Hyperpersuasion.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

683.328

OK, so let's start with science. Well, before we start that, I do want to ask, two hours a day of meditation?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

697.839

I do that before I have to go on stage or anything like that.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

722.333

The three days. Yeah, that's fair. In 2002.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

727.136

Will you do an hour in the morning, an hour in the evening generally?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

733.761

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I just love him.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

740.807

Yeah, and your family knows not to.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

757.557

When brainwashing has been studied in the past, I guess you kind of lay out two methodologies, the analyst and the actor. Can you break that down for us?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

816.348

That was the defense, right? For Stockholm Center, is that the first time we heard that?

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

836.166

And for people who don't know, she was kidnapped. She lived with this far left wing terrorist group for a while. They ended up robbing a bank and she participated in the robbery.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

856.157

Ungrounded, as you would say.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

89.247

Yeah, it's very, very scaly and very good. And I love the history of where all this stuff was kind of discovered and workshopped.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

911.36

But the actor analyst would be, if I'm getting this right, anyone that's studying something else, they might be confident in just their observations without ever really asking what the personal experience and point of view of the person being studied is and incorporating that aspect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

943.254

Even the Jonathan Haidt moral dumbfounding things, they're going to be as provocative as possible. When you learn cultural relativism and anthropology, the one that they're going to hit you with every time is infanticide among Inuits, right? That they had some practice of killing firstborn daughters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

958.729

And so if you were to only just observe this practice and make a conclusion, you would never have learned from the actor, well, a boy has to hunt for us to feed us as we get old. So first we have to have that. When that's secured, we can now afford, like you would never have learned even what the rationale behind it all was.

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Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

977.023

I think it's a very generous and respectful thing to assume the person you're studying has a total rhyme and reason for what they're doing, that they're not doing something completely void of any logic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rebecca Lemov (on brainwashing)

989.951

So this one will be even harder to explain, but you say the other superpower is second order observer.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

0.31

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1038.507

Oh, yeah.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1040.509

Now, do you have the same thing I have, which is we're both really lucky and we're running in circles that are mostly people that are college bound and stuff. And I try to explain the level of violence that was kind of ever present. I can tell there's no connection to what I'm saying. And then I wonder, was it an era? Do you wonder if it's still like that in Bethlehem?

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

105.171

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1058.498

Because I'm curious, was that just our generation?

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1067.342

You teased him.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1115.428

Yeah, I'm not going to just take this laying down. For better or worse, at least in my experience, you walk away with this weird paradigm, which is it's better to get beat up and stand up for yourself. Because if you don't, it's going to lead to so much more suffering. It's just an equation. You come to accept it, and that's it. All right, so how do you feel about bullies?

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1134.34

Number one pet peeve in life is bullies. Yes, bullies. I hate bullies. I hate them. I was big, so I can't claim that I was some victim, but I also was a punk rock, skateboarder, snowboarder, so I was alternative. Bullies, for me, was a big, big thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1154.645

They were cowards. And or they would at least move to someone else who wasn't going to stand up for themselves. They'd pick another guy. Yeah.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1171.651

OK, but now back to wild. So you did engineering type stuff with dad. You were bonding with dad over that as a kid. But then you decided you kind of want to be an artist at some point.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1234.301

See, that's, I think, the most relevant aspect is, was it this concept in your life that every time it was brought up, you saw fear on the faces of the adults and it was the cause of fighting and it is this big elephant?

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

124.318

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1249.107

panties in the room i think just once you have that association with it so yes there were a lot of people poorer than me but i was single mom and i still have the most unrealistic relationship with money to this day it's just so grounded in fear that there's really nothing i can do to overcome it yeah you know a simple thing is like whenever i look at a menu i'm always studying the price still yeah so i would never order the most expensive thing on the menu and you could yeah but it's interesting because i'll contrast that with my wife and she'll say what do you think about this dress

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1296.362

Totally. Well, how about this? Without revealing your net worth, let's just say if you had a billion dollars, don't you think you'd probably still be the same way? Yes. Yes. That's when I'm saying that it's an irrational relationship with it. It's not grounded in the facts at all.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1316.655

Yeah.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1324.459

So it's like going to be $40. You're in triple digits for a Diet Coke. Yeah. That actually triggers a second issue I have, which is, and we had an expert on talking about this bias of being taken advantage of to be the sucker. So then I have two things going. I've got my financial insecurity and then I have like, these people think I'm a fucking idiot. Like I'm a sucker.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1342.23

I'm going to pay this much for a night. So it's a lot going on. So you do what they urge you to do, and then you go to Penn, and you double major in economics and in engineering. Summa cum laude in both.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1354.6

Yeah. That's wild. For a double major, that's impressive.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1373.321

You have a safety net. A realistic plan in place as well. Because it's risky to be an artist for sure. So then you go to graduate school at Carnegie Mellon, and you get a PhD in computer science. Yes. Okay, but you have a trip. You study abroad in Edinburgh. Yeah. Which, by the way, when I read Edinburgh today, I was like, isn't it Edinburgh? Yes. It is Edinburgh? Oh, it's Edinburgh.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1396

But we don't have an O at the end of that.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1403.405

Okay, thank God. I thought it was insane. I'm like, I've been saying that wrong for 30 years.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

142.777

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1456.826

Yep. Oh my God, I can go all the way to here.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1597.925

Totally. Sometimes it goes the other way. Yeah. So is it in Edinburgh? At some point you get introduced to, I guess, the concept of A.I. ?

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1637.681

81.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1648.052

So at that point in 1981, what was the robotics component of that course?

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1682.522

So you then go and you get this PhD in computer science, and then you teach at USC for a minute, which is interesting.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

169.267

Like you know to check your sunroof first before driving through the car wash. Like you know to put the leash on your dog first before you open the door to go for a walk. Not that I've ever made that mistake and had my dog run outside without me or screamed his name repeatedly over and over and over again until I found him.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1717.526

Yeah, we had Fei-Fei Leon. Oh, good. Yeah, in her book. And they give up on it, then something happens, they come back to it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1754.055

Exactly. Am I wrong that even Honda was one of the first big corporations that was like committed some real money to building a robot?

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1771.213

I don't know how you teach here and then you leave at any point. This is a fly trap, LA. The weather's just too good. Especially if you're from Pennsylvania. Especially if you're from Pennsylvania. I know. It was quite good. Oh, and let's add, this is a sincere question. The most shocking thing that occurred to me when I moved to California, I remember it so clearly.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1788.808

I was at a Caro's restaurant, which is like a Denny's. I'm at a booth by myself and there's a guy at a booth by himself and he stares right at me and I stare at him and And I'm now waiting for what happens in Detroit. Like, either he looks away, I look away, or I go, what's up? That whole exchange that's just unavoidable where I came from.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1806.778

And then he's just looking at me, and I realize, this guy's just looking at me. And I'm looking at him. We can do this here. That's California. I couldn't believe you could just look at somebody.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1831.068

Esalen's this kind of crazy retreat, hippie-ish vibe, nudity's welcomed, right? That's the vibe at Esalen. Have you ever been there? No, but my father weirdly used to go there from Detroit. What? Oh my gosh. Yes, yes.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

186.656

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1893.363

I'm never leaving.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1936.208

Remember those? Yeah.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

1940.611

Patchouli, exactly.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

208.066

Allstate Fire and Casualty Insurance Company and affiliates. Northbrook, Illinois.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2094.548

I like the physicist history there as well. There's so many cool historical elements to Berkeley that I think make it such a special place.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2114.863

That's what's rad is they're fringe, but they're crushing. They're like doing it in a totally untraditional way, but they're still bringing in the results. Rigorous.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2179.001

Right, right. You know, it's not the most comfortable. Stanford's right up the road. Exactly. I wasn't going to say that. I think you'll love it there. Okay, so could you walk us through kind of the history of robotics? When does automation arrive? What are kind of the pillars of progress in robotics? Okay, so it goes all the way back to start at the ancient Egyptians.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2223.478

But obviously they're using some kind of hydraulics or something.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2297.276

It underpins a lot of our current... Totally. Even if we don't believe in God, we have some sense that we're not supposed to be tampering. Totally. Let's just use nature as God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

231.705

Ken Digacy. Get comfy. I prepped Monica by saying, you're going to really like my friend Ken if Fred Armisen was a roboticist. This would be Ken. Okay. And I think maybe am I unique in that comparison or have you ever heard that before? I remember you saying that. I don't hear it a lot, but I take it as a compliment. You should. He's one of our favorites. We love him. Really?

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2355.786

Now, that one is specifically, I hear this antidote all the time that you could deploy AI for this simple, innocuous task, but it could determine to execute that task, it would be best that we kill all the humans. This is the very common one that goes around right now. Right, if you want to save energy, get rid of these humans. Right, if you're not careful.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2377.546

It has such a myopic command it's following. Right, oh great. Okay, so then when do we get into something that is actually practically helping us? I'm an idiot, I'm thinking Henry Ford is one

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

24.659

Then, of course, I fell in love with him. And now I'm just smitten with this gentleman. Ken Goldberg is the Williams S. Floyd Distinguished Chair in Engineering at UC Berkeley and an award-winning roboticist, filmmaker, artist, and public speaker on AI and robotics. Now, really quick, I've read a couple comments that people are over AI. I get it. People feel a little inundated. And I get it.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2443.063

Oh, wow.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2448.524

Now the 60s Ford robot, was it being employed to move objects or was it like a CNC cutting device? It's so much like a CNC, computer numerical controlled. So they were able to program these spinning drill bits with three axis, right? So it could say, go up, go left, go right.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2467.2

And through those little three axis movements, it could carve out the perfect shape of a part from a block of agate steel or whatever. So you go like, oh, I want this rim for your car. I start with this big block of aluminum. And this thing, just with a drill, it can go through. It has all these steps programmed in. And it just, like a sculptor, chisels out everything you don't want.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

254.798

Very unicorny, like you. Unicorny, though. Is that being rare? Well, not corny. Rule out the corny part. Okay. Focus on the unicorn part of that.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2552.114

How does that open the door for us?

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2571.687

Really? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2573.868

What's it called? Makaverker's Paradox.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2599.557

Yes. You have a great TED Talk. I urge everyone to watch it. It's called Where Are the Robots? Yeah. We're our robot butlers. That is not the title of it, but that is really close. I found it. Why don't we have better robots yet? That's the title of your TED Talk, and it's very, very good. Yeah, so it's incredibly hard for a robot to grasp things. There's a bunch of reasons, right?

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2638.295

They're far more dexterous than robots. Yeah.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2641.337

I would much more trust a crow to handle my business than a robot currently.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2666.434

Right, because every single movement's going to have some margin of error, and then that's going to compound. The more movements you add, all these different little margins of errors start stacking up.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2705.149

Okay, I don't know if this is the time, but this is one of the parts I want to talk about. As I've been frustrated with the exuberance of AI, one thing that has occurred to me is that our fascination with ourselves seems to be about our intelligence. And that, in fact, is what AI is trying to replicate and or surpass, is our executive function, our problem solving, all these different things.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2728.016

But if you look at us as an animal, our motor control took 300 million years to evolve as mammals. And our big brain and everything we're trying to replicate in the AI space started six million years ago when hominids arrived. You have so much time spent evolving to do all these tests that we think are just standard.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2751.041

And then we think this last minute thing that took the least amount of time to evolve is somehow superior to that. So when I look at this, it's like, forget artificial intelligence. Try to figure out artificial physicality.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

277.323

Rare, unique, special, colorful, vibrant. Playful. Oh, our favorite word. Love it. Good. I think we should start with how we met because I would love to hear your perspective. I have a very specific perspective. And I don't even know if I let you in on the full details. Well, I'm curious now.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2777.07

Yeah, we think that's the high watermark. But I think the most impressive thing is us moving through time and space and smelling these five senses, touching. I would imagine if you could quantify it, that's like this much. And then our intelligence is like this much.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2795.699

Yeah.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2801.041

Okay, so then my question is, is that a software or hardware problem? So one of the things I think about, it must be so hard when you're trying to design a robot, is you're limited to all of these pulleys to operate a hand the way ours moves. And as much as we are pulleys, we're also not, right? Because the muscles are such a unique way to operate the pulley.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2822.987

It opens up infinite options of movement, whereas these robots are really confined to kind of this, this, this, this, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2858.741

You add in moisture. Have you ever read the book An Immense World? Yes. You have! Oh, yes. By Ed Yong. I love it. Holy fuck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2866.986

I love that book. And you get into this mole that has this star-shaped nose. And so that's a touch sense. Definitely. And that touch sense can detect the movement of moisture in the sand it's exploring at a distance of like 12 inches. It actually can see through everything. But it's not seeing through. It's not smelling through. It's touch feeling through. Yes. Yes. Oh, my God.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2890.107

How would you replicate that with a machine? Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2900.472

Right. Robotic touch sense is extremely primitive. What do they think would be the mechanism that could replicate it? Would it be electricity? What would it be?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

293.589

So you and I were at a conference, and it's the kind of conference I would have never imagined getting invited to. There's a lot of people there like yourself, professors and stuff.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2951.455

And the Roomba replicated the very first multi-cell organism. What it actually ended up knocking off was something that can only move forward and then turn and move forward and turn and move forward. Like some paramecium. What we've achieved is like, that's where we are.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

2998.945

Yeah, they want to see it work once or maybe even they bought it and they got intimidated about even turning it on. Yeah, yeah. That would be my thought. So even understanding, I don't really want to deal with pulling out of the box and figuring out how I deploy this thing. I actually have a drone that's in that category as well. Oh, yeah.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3013.695

I'm like, I'm not going to be able to figure out.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3020.44

Yeah. You're right. I'm like, that's going to require a day. And I don't know if I'm going to enjoy flying it enough to justify a day of me figuring it out. Yeah. OK, good. So I like that. We're kind of agreeing that we're really underestimating how complicated our physical abilities are. And we're really overplaying our mental capabilities.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

303.719

Smarty pants, billionaires. A fun group, actually. And we're walking into this event, and they are very militant about everyone wearing name tags, as they should be, because everyone there thinks everyone knows their name, but people don't know each other's names. So I see this guy with crazy hair, and he doesn't have a name tag on. Bucking the system.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3063.962

Tell people about your folding project. I don't know what year you're into this, but one of your projects. Is folding clothes? Folding clothes. That's one that I think everybody would like to have. Yes. If it just sat on your washing machine and you could dump it in a barrel.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3078.482

Fuck. Yeah, that would be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3082.146

Have you ever watched them do this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3085.627

There's nothing funnier than watching the robot try to cook breakfast or do dishes. It just smashes everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3161.56

Yeah, that's a perfect time for me to ask you, like knowing your work will experience failure. I don't know that there's one that would surpass it. Like it's just failure, failure, failure. How do you stay optimistic?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3191.24

Why? They're only going to score once a game. Oh. Whereas basketball, you're going to score 110 points. So you're like, oh, yeah, I don't get it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

322.912

I'm like this, which is funny, because I should immediately love that. I should go, yeah, fuck these name tags. That's my essence. But for some reason, because I've complied. Yeah. Who does this guy think he's so famous? He's the only one here that doesn't need a name tag. So I'm immediately a little triggered. And I say to Chris, I'm like, who's this guy with the wild hair?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3273.181

Well, there's this critical mass point for all these things, isn't there? Reading her book, she needed such a humongous pile of data. And halfway there gets you nothing. But it's like stagnation and the acceleration is probably shocking for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3305.377

And what could it do? You could put it in a new environment. It could evaluate the environment and then you could ask it to do something. So it was just grasping.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

341.506

It doesn't have a name tag on it. And then by luck, somehow I hear your name, Ken Goldberg. And then I immediately go into the bathroom. Okay. I go into the bathroom before the little event starts. You don't know any of this. What? Don't worry, you're not being led in a bad direction. I go into the bathroom and I Google you and I see robot professor at Berkeley.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3450.21

Oh. This might be a good moment to bring up. So you say in that TED Talk, which I think would shock people, is that we are much better at predicting the trajectory of an asteroid that's a million miles away than we are how a plastic bottle on a table will move if we poke it.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3533.251

Oh, man. And again, is that a software problem or a hardware problem?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3554.824

Do you worry this whole field will go through one of those other stagnation patterns that we've already seen a bunch of times?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3587.112

Out of hundreds of attempts. Hundreds? Yeah, you show the clip of a robot doing a backflip, which is mind-blowing. You're like, well, fuck it. We're there. That thing's going to work on my car next month. Right. That was one in 200 takes. And the other 199 takes, this thing is like flying off the table and smashing around.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

361.637

And I immediately am like, that's a cool job. Okay, so he's not a billionaire who thinks he doesn't need to wear a name tag. This guy's just kind of an absent-minded genius maybe. Yeah, because I didn't know about the name tag.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3616.933

Right. Because you're an academic and this becomes one of my next questions is a lot of these videos I am imagining are coming from startups that are trying to raise funding. So they're heavily incentivized to mislead you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3658.545

Optimus. She owns one?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3661.908

He gave her one?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3734.676

Okay, so now I want to ask you, how impacted are you by this general paradigm shift where most technology for the 20th century was coming out of military government spending, DARPA, MIT, these great institutions, academia? And then as you saw these private corporations amass trillion dollar values, the government can't really compete now and academia can't compete.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3763.727

And what do we think the price of that will be? What are your thoughts on that whole realm of this?

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

379.115

These are all my shortcomings and character defects. But they work out beautifully because then, 20 minutes later, and most of the things we were sitting through the seminars were very AI heavy. And I have a chip on my shoulder about AI. So then now I'm standing next to you randomly. And this is probably where I would enter your life story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3821.117

No, science always, and it's so cool. It's so punk rock. They're always like, before I'm German or I'm Hungarian or I'm American, I'm a physicist. The collaboration and how everyone got along is something to be really modeled. They have a higher calling, which is kind of knowledge.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3841.929

Yes, Oppenheimer had some folks working under him that were spies for Russia and were leaking our nuclear technology. So, yeah, I guess that's not to say it was devoid of any statecraft, but just in general, if a Chinese roboticist has a breakthrough, he doesn't give a fuck where this guy came from. He wants to know about the robotics breakthrough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3882.945

Yeah. Which is unique.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3904.312

Let's just take really quick a hard example, and I'm not an Elon Musk hater or lover. I respect him as a modern-day Edison. He is a once-in-a-generation kind of engineer, and I respect that. I agree. His other stuff is questionable to me, but whatever. Even with that said, I can't say that I love that he has 5,000 satellites in orbit around the planet en route to having 12,000.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3927.431

It's just an interesting... level of power to give one individual when I think I'd feel safer if University of Michigan had 8,000 satellites or the US government may be further down that list, but still I'd prefer that. It's a dicey situation when someone has a monopoly on a technology that's hugely impactful. It's a great point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

395.763

Because I just lean over to you and I say, you're a robotics professor, yeah? And you go, yeah. These robots are like so far away from doing our laundry and working on our car for us or doing anything really. It's like they keep saying, hey, it's going to take over everything. You're going to be a leisure class. You know, what are we going to do with all this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

3985.005

I looked it up this morning. So 39% of U.S. jobs are still manual labor. Oh, that's a good number. But I think even more importantly, that represents one third of your waking day. You have another third of your waking day where you're still going to have to do your laundry, make dinner, right? So you have this whole sector too that no matter who you are is still manual.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4005.811

So you add those two together and now you're really looking at a number that is like 78% of the stuff done on planet Earth in a day is manual.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4014.554

You know, the gardener. The mechanic. The mechanic. The dream for me is I got a robot that's maintaining all this bullshit I bought. Diagnose why the car is not running, fix it, get in there, how intricate working on an engine is. Forget it. That's like a hundred years away. Exactly.

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Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4046.228

Right, right, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4055.41

Okay, so my theory on this is that the people that are being interviewed for the media, where we're getting our information about AI, the people that are getting consulted and interviewed are the actual people whose jobs could be replaced. So they are very misled by their own. You're talking to like computer programmers about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4074.442

All these domains where actually AI will threaten those jobs and they're the mouthpiece of this whole thing. So it's all very lopsided because those are the jobs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4111.653

I want to talk to them. I want to get to know them. We spent a week with Bill Gates and we loved it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4134.925

Yes. Like if the AI robot's good at drifting in a car, I'm fucked. Because I'm defining my whole identity and self-esteem on my ability to do that. Yeah. Uh-huh. Oh, wow. That's a great insight. That's what I think. So it's not really something the rest of us need to worry about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

414.76

And I'm like, where are the fucking robots? And you go, oh, I'm so delighted this is your question. All right, so should I tell you my side of this? Yes, please. Well, I'll just wrap it up by saying within 30 seconds of talking to you, I'm like, oh, this is my favorite guy here by a long shot. I hope I'm at every dinner with him. And then we since developed a friendship.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4166.664

Yes. Cool. You sent Monica and I a podcast that is entirely AI. There's a male host and a female host. Yes. And you said, do you think this thing was trained on you guys? Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4180.756

Guys, do you not hear that? I mean, it sounds so much like you. By the way, it's great too. Like I was listening to it. I was like, it sounds like NPR. Like I would listen to this if the information was good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4194.227

When you said it, I heard it. Do they ever find panties, though? That's what keeps us human.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4219.861

That's a word I wasn't thinking. They have fabricated rapport. But that's scary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4227.387

And now you can. But yeah, we're thinking doomsday like we're out of a job. But think about this. What if we own the thing and it puts out the show? We're on a beach somewhere and the show is just as good. I would love it. It's kind of like the Picasso story where it's like, yes, I drew this in five minutes, but it took me 40 years to learn how to do this. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4244.278

So it's like, yes, we're not doing it anymore. But because we did so much of it, we've earned this. That's how we'll justify our beach life. Well, you guys are not going to be replaced.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4267.73

And do you think that the missing ingredient is that we cannot help but evolve and change? We're aging. Our bodies are morphing. Our children get older. You know, all these elements that really funnel into this aren't existing there. So it's like what they can do is replicate very well and even create within that framework of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4287.048

But it's not going to evolve in the way we just can't help but evolve.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4322.234

And it would feel a little true minimally for us if we could use our data set. Exactly. Then I would feel a little less fraudulent about it. Right. You give it your set and then build on that and see what it does. Okay, I have a couple of rapid-fire questions, then I want to talk about your art. Where are we ahead and where are we behind in our expectations? Are we ahead anywhere?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4341.161

We have all these fantasies about what robotics are going to do, and clearly we're aware of all the ones we think we're behind on. We don't have Rosie the robot in our house. But are there areas in which it would shock people how far ahead we are? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4367.617

You thought it might have a scooper on its back, like the tail would be a scooper?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4389.584

Okay. You and your wife are incredible artists. You have an exhibit that's at Skirball right now. Oh, wow. Oh, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4436.492

If you've ever been to Muir Woods, there's a great cross section of a redwood, and they put on the rings different events in history this tree has been alive for. It has Jesus on the ring.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4512.866

One of them that's super cool, and it's so wild to think that the tree was around at that point, the first mark on the ring is from 530 BC, and it's Pythagorean's theorem. You see A squared plus B squared equals C squared. And it goes all through these great breakthrough math equations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4601.01

Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4641.381

Yeah. Of course. Like you had tapped into something a little mystical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4668.666

Yeah. But you're right. There's something really elegant about those formulas. And you think of the most famous one, like E equals MC squared on the surface. It's just so simple. And no one could think of that for so many years. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4688.035

What's that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4708.326

Right, because they're all going to infinity, so none of them work great in math.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4732.2

So I'm like hardcore atheist. I believe in nothing. I don't want to believe in nothing. There's something happening with my kids that I feel like is something I can't articulate. I really kind of opened my mind to like, maybe there is some kind of magic happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4790.642

Yeah. When you look at evolution, they talk about punctuated evolution. It's like nothing happens and then everything happens and then nothing happens.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4814.967

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

483.847

My wife.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4839.182

I think it's actually gone backwards. Yeah, right. Well, Ken, you are a blessing on planet Earth. I think you are so fun and interesting and encouraging. You're like a polymath kind of cosmopolitan. You're an artist. You have all these interests. You're youthful beyond your years. It's a pleasure to know you. I'm so glad you came in and talked to us about all this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4888.214

Thank you. I love it. Yeah. Okay. Well, to the many dinners we will have in the future. How fun. Thank you so much. What a pleasure. Thank you, guys. Stay tuned to hear Miss Monica correct all the facts that were wrong. It's okay though, we all make mistakes. I'm in an incredibly beautiful new sweater that my friend got me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

49.415

It's the topic of the day. A, this isn't very heavy in AI talk. And then B, this is a million times more playful than you could ever imagine robotics could be. I'll also add that he has an art exhibit that is going until March. Don't wait till then. Go now. At Skirball, if you live in LA or are visiting, Skirball Cultural Center in LA.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4910.365

I just put it on for the first time and I'm truly blown away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4914.466

And the fit is really kind of perfect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4917.587

And I think I like these cuffs where you have to roll them up. They're too long on their own. They're clearly designed to be rolled. See, look, that's a seven inch, nine inch cuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4927.546

But you wouldn't wear it like that, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4938.112

Because you'll get lost in it. I just rode my bicycle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4942.014

Yeah. Nice. My first time in biker shorts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4946.757

Well, I just can't believe I'm a person that owns biker shorts and wears them now. I'm having a hard time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4955.902

Yeah, but also I think that's something that's best done much younger. Almost the 50 compounds it. First, I never envisioned myself as being someone that would be in those biker shorts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

496.57

Yeah, but it was really, really comforting to hear you say that as someone who is an authority in the space because I've heard many people lecture on AI and I'm hearing all of the, what are you peeking at?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4973.917

I don't want to say it hurts here. It does hurt. Yeah, it hurts. It's uncomfortable. I was like, oh, this is a nice padding. I put them on for the first time. I felt like Panay always talks about, like, eventize your run. I was like, well, these are built for nothing other than riding a bicycle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4985.9

And let's do that. And the padding was nice. And I love that there's no fabric flowing anywhere else. I think I went up the hill faster because of them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

4996.522

I'm not going to adopt the Lycra shirt, though. I decided. I just wore a wife beater.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5003.462

I'm back home. I'm very, very, very happy to be back home.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5008.403

I would love to open it. Let me really take my time here. I'm looking at a beautiful tissue paper with... Oh, can I say one thing? This will sound derogatory, but let me preface it by saying... I could be in the tourism board for Mexico City. I love it. It's an enchanted romantic city. Food's dynamite. If you ever go, go to Havre 77 French restaurant. We went twice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5035.201

The French onion soup's the best I've ever had in my life. On the second trip on my birthday night, I got two bowls of it to start. Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5044.069

Yes. And I would tear out a fingernail right now to have it again and share it with you. It was the most incredible. But anyways, the facial tissue and I had a cold. It wasn't ideal. And where it really hit me was- One ply? Maybe less. I was at a nice hotel, mind you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5061.315

We got on the flight. I went into the bathroom and I pulled the tissue out of the mirror that's in the lavatory of the airplane. And the second I touched it, I was like, ooh, that's soft. And then I thought, how bad was the tissue where the airplane tissue felt like Puffs Plus with lotion?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

507.698

Oh my God. Okay, I got to walk. So sorry, Ken. But obviously this needs to be a joke. That took me a second. Okay, so here's what happened. I just put the pieces together. There's an explanation. There is. Monica and I did a commercial yesterday, as I told you. You told me that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5079.869

Just to make it relative.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5082.751

Yeah, I think it was like 0.6 ply.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5086.632

Anyways, beautiful tissue paper with purple flowers. Really nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5094.735

Oh, this is a multi-stage gift.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5097.536

Okay, beautiful tissue paper and then a burlap sack.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5102.718

Wonderful. Oh, buddy. The stories of Raymond Carver. Will you please be quiet, please? Is this an original?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5122.458

Did you pay the face value of $8.95? No, it was on sale actually, half off. What year was this published? Because we can, I think it's fascinating that a hardcover, beautifully bound book was $8.95. I know, that's true. I know I'm all over the place and a little manic, but I just got to add. Back to Little Women, which I love. Yeah. You know, Greta Gerwig's number one super fan now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5149.67

At the end of that movie, they show them pressing and making her first book. The book, Little Women. Yeah. I don't know if you remember that sequence. I don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5159.402

But the amount of time and effort it took to make a book in the 1890s. Yes. Where they're pressing it all. They were cutting it with a saw. They were sewing the binding by hand and then they were cutting leather out in a pattern and then gluing and putting that in a press. I'm like, it took like a week to make a single volume. They should have been $600. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5185.234

And it explains why I think it was Carnegie who invented the library. There were no libraries. Books were just too expensive. They were like probably in today's dollars. They probably were hundreds of dollars. Yeah. That amount of manpower. OK, so this was first published.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5206.798

Yeah, I'll get the number wrong, but to put it into perspective, like, so I guess Elon is now worth $400 billion recently, although that stock just fell. Whatever, let's just say he hit $400 billion. $400 billion of our total GDP and national amount of money isn't even 0.01%. When Rockefeller hit a billion, they say he actually had like 15 cents of every dollar that existed in America.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5235.686

So it was like as bad as it feels now, it was- It was worse. Exponential, order of magnitude crazier with the first rich people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5245.491

Okay, so this was 1963. So this book cost $8.95 in 1963. How much do we think that is now? Rob, can you put it in? Well, that's a great—we have that technology.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5259.15

I added a new—I actually wrote up my resolutions last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5262.711

Which I don't know if I've ever written them down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5266.152

You did. Did you journal this morning?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5269.433

I'm proud of you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5280.657

Can I have her number?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

531.791

When I arrived, I changed my clothes and I put them in a bag and I brought a bag of extra shoes and pants they asked me to bring. And then I threw this sweater in there. And then that underwear was in there. And then I just threw on my sweater just now. And clearly my panties were attached and now they've fallen off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5329.34

We may have talked about this, and I had mentioned there was a period I stopped journaling over the last 20 years. And then I had a relapse, obviously. And I didn't even put all this together, but through therapy with Mark, I think what occurred to me was I there were things I couldn't write down, just like you were saying, are you afraid someone's going to find it? And I'm like, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5355.17

But in truth, there was a moment. Yes, I'd be afraid someone would find it. And I had this weird dedication to never lie to that journal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5364.675

So I just kind of I didn't. It didn't feel like I was making a decision to stop journaling. It just was like, this is really weird. I've been journaling for 17 years or whatever, and I haven't in a while, but I'm not overthinking it. But of course, in reflection, I was like, I couldn't really be dishonest to this thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5382.622

I love this. This is such a thoughtful, wonderful present.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5398.569

Okay, this is a fantastic present. Very thoughtful. Thank you so much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5403.17

Okay, how was therapy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5426.698

Well, look, I've stopped. So I really am in no position to say this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5429.96

But it definitely falls under the umbrella of like, well, it couldn't hurt to go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5436.345

And it potentially could hurt to not go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5440.28

It's kind of the vitamin debate. It's like the scientific community is kind of split down the middle whether vitamins work or not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5445.745

But it's like, I don't know, on the chance that they work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5449.288

They're not going to harm you. All right. Someone's going to comment. Yes, I hear you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5454.732

And you can have too much of certain things. But just in general, if you're taking the, you know, not above the daily dose of any one thing, it's not going to harm you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5467.421

In too much water?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5472.063

You know, Gundry's new movement is less water. Not shockingly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5491.074

It looks so good down, but go ahead. Let's see what happens there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5496.178

Do you ever do an up and then a braid and back?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5503.263

The 8th.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5509.885

Oh, yeah. That comes out yesterday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

551.436

So for the viewer, I would be so angry if I didn't get to see the... Oh, my God. We don't even see them. You have to if you're watching and you're like, everyone's seen these panties and I'm not. Wouldn't you throw your computer out the car window? I love it. Full disclosure. Okay, so these are the offensive panties. Look at them. They have elephants. Elephants. Quite nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5513.828

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5516.189

Yes. Our second commercial of I Hope Many.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5523.594

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5535.16

Oh, right, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5537.096

Maybe a therapist can style your hair on the days you don't want to share.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5542.618

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5551.74

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5555.621

Oh, tell me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5558.542

Tell me more.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5559.802

Who did you meet? Where did you meet him? In front of 7-Eleven?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5565.344

Him or her's name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5572.017

When I was- If you were having fun and laughing, stop.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5592.273

A mutual.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5600.879

His name is unmentionable?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5604.542

Oh, he is?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5607.184

Yeah, it's pretty easy to narrow this down at some point. If you know an Indian in Atlanta who's friends with Robbie, bingo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5631.702

You're the perfect person to tell this story because you have the same condition.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5635.786

And you're Indian. And I'm Indian.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5653.84

Yeah. He got rid of too much salt. He drowned his cells. That was the medical? Yep. Oh, okay. You have a good deal of salt, I think, from your diet. Don't take offense to that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5668.785

No, but you like, you'll have a nice seasoned chicken. Oh, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5677.068

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5680.851

Do we know why he was drinking so much water? Was he on like an exercise routine?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5698.765

Unsurprisingly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5701.067

Okay. Yeah. I don't know why I brought that up. You and Gundry should collab on this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5707.961

Also, just if you are having a lot of water, maybe use some- Electrolytes. Electrolytes. That's right. Keep an eye on your electrolytes. Yeah. The only cases I've ever heard of is like no one's ever died from ecstasy, but people have drank too much water on ecstasy. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

571.96

Are you being polite? That was quite nice. Or do I now have a Christmas idea for you? Well, actually, yeah. I'm going to buy a pair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5729.659

I wonder if they drown their cells or if when they drink way too much water, it backs up like congenital heart failure, basically, like ends up filling up their body. Because, you know, my father who had congenital heart, I don't know if it's congenital. He had heart disease.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5744.75

And what would regularly happen is his heart was too big on one side and normal on one side. And so it would pump in a lot, but it couldn't pump out a lot. And then it just ends up backing your whole body up with water and you get really bloated. You put on all this water weight and then it starts really affecting your breathing and your lungs and everything else.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5764.727

And so my dad would go into the hospital for like four days and all he'd be on diuretics and he'd just be getting rid of gallons of water.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5772.889

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5796.883

Epilepsy, pressure in the brain might have been completely all related.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5802.006

Oh, man. Well, I'm sending love and well wishes to this anonymous person. Okay. Why does Robbie have two very close Indian epileptic friends? I know. He's very over-indexed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5820.961

I consider myself kind of unique in America, low percentage where I have a best friend who's Indian and epileptic. And he's got now two?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5829.867

He has a fetish. I know you don't like that word, but.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5834.069

Ask if there's a third. If there's a third, he has a condition.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5843.015

What ethnicity is Robbie's wife?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5846.238

White?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5848.76

No, no, no, no. Oh, my God. No, no, no. Is he giving everyone this? He's poisoning everyone. Oh, my God. He's so sweet. That would make sense. He's one of the sweetest people I've ever met over text.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5864.971

Oh, nasty.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5877.286

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

588.229

Yeah, right. Placement. Paola.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5885.369

Were you about to say petite seizures?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5888.11

That's so cute. And then she had to. So you picture, like, a mall. You'd walk in, but there's only three stores. And then the food court is, like, four food carts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5898.834

That's way better. Yeah, that's cute. You and Gundry can work on that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5906.789

There's a fourth. I mean, I only know of three people in his life and all three of them have seizures. So certainly there's more. Should we get Robbie on the phone?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5917.295

Yeah. We got to grill him about this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

592.692

Yes. The look on your face, I thought there was maybe a squirrel under my chair or something. She had a very panic look on her face. Well, it was a little surprising.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5921.297

On Saturday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5923.098

During the NFL playoff game. I'm so sorry, Georgia lost, by the way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5929.161

You didn't know that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5930.682

They lost.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5934.781

They didn't lose to Texas, but Texas won theirs. Texas is still in it. Notre Dame.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5942.907

That game we saw was one of our only two losses. They ended up being really good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5949.81

Welcome to the SEC, bitch. Is that what you said?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5956.614

He's not at work. He's at the hospital.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5965.2

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5970.503

Arms hair candid.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5972.805

I'm on air. And can you hear? Do we have your consent? And can you hear me?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5978.725

OK, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

5986.086

And we did not name any names, but I'm just learning of the fact that you have a second Indian friend with epilepsy, which I find to be almost statistically impossible. And then Monty said it doesn't stop there. His wife has epilepsy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6025.505

Robbie, I said there's a fourth for sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6030.488

What are you doing to everyone?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6039.107

This is wild. Do you think it's because you're so calm and sweet, all of a sudden the other person's brain feels erratic and unhinged? Is it like relative to your calmness, people short circuit?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6064.783

Now I'm being sincere. Is there something environmental in Duluth where half the population is at seizures?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6076.75

But you grew up with that water.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6080.532

Yeah, you have late onset. Duluth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6087.636

I'm not about the logic of that. But what I'm saying is there's something in the soil where you grew up where 70% of all people have seizures.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6120.814

You're right. Guys, did we just break an enormous case? Do we need to call the New York Times immediately?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6132.256

Wow. It's going to be called Poison Paradise. Under the veil of suburban beauty and tranquility.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6139.66

Lies a burbling poison that results in the shutters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6147.343

First was the title. And then I was then I was then I was entering into the first episode.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6154.467

It sounds like this thing writes itself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6159.029

That's well, no, I have one follow up on that, Robbie. In your free time, which I know you don't have much of, can you sniff around and see if any more folks have had seizures? Yeah. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6244.619

We all have our albatrosses. Yeah, exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

625.26

Oh, man. We're not going to top that in the episode. We should wrap it up. Okay, so back to AI. Everyone's quite scared, and I think there's a lot of reasons to be scared, but also I think maybe we're a little more panicked than we need to be. I just found you to be kind of a comforting voice. Oh, good, good, good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6252.603

And I just want to end on this. Robbie, your voice was built for radio. You must be involved in Poison Paradise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6285.916

That was a great use of time. Yeah. I wasn't expecting his voice to be that velvety.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6293.839

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6296.12

Good for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6298.281

Okay. Good luck to, will you plug your ears? Good luck to UT. Hook them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6306.26

this is the same as that story I told about the people flying to LA to watch the Red Sox play LA hoping the Red Sox would lose because they had just beat New York but the other guy was like no okay they must win that way New York's number two wouldn't you want your team to have twice beat the champions I guess you're right I think it's time for you to like transition into rooting for them for your own for my own gain yeah

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6333.069

Speaking of which, and I know we're all over the map and have taken up too much time, but I just, I want to, I want to go on to say that I finished the Churchill documentary on the flight home yesterday and I got very swept up in it. This has happened a few times and I'm sure you've watched shows on this. When you are forced to watch what the Brits went through 57 nights in a row,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6357.381

of carpet bombing of London. Everyone's sleeping in the subway, no bathrooms, getting up, going straight to work and carrying the fuck on. And they were so outgunned and outmanned and out everything. And they alone took on Nazi Germany at that point. Everyone was already defeated. The amount of will and resolve It's so historic. I found myself like, this is so cheesy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

639.785

So we became friends, and you've been over, and we love you and your wife, and you're also artists, so you're impossibly interesting. Let's start, though, with, of course, you would be born in Nigeria. Oh. Is that where you were born? I was. Of course. Of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6392.862

I found myself being like really proud that I know Jethro.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6397.304

Yeah. I was like, by God, that little island, you motherfuckers refused.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6403.125

And Churchill, he is a very flawed person. He was horrendous to India. I'll acknowledge that. But truly one man got those people to that state of mind. If you watch this doc, you're like, who knows if that person doesn't exist, what happens? Because he had two burdens. One is to be fighting off these Nazis who are just bombing every single night, trying to keep morale high.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6429.384

And he has got to get America into the war or they're going to die. Everyone's going to die because they're not going to surrender. And so his skill at wooing FDR and developing this relationship and slowly getting us more and more involved is so impressive. And his own story is so unique in that he was a soldier during – in his youth and he was an incredible soldier.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6457.213

Then he went into politics and he was a boy wonder because he was right, the whole time he was in the war, he was also a reporter. So he was reporting firsthand from all these wars and he's one of the best writers to ever live. So he was in this crazy unique situation where he leaves the service

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6472.882

As a hugely popular figure in Britain, goes into politics, has this meteoric rise and then plateaus and then plummets. And he's completely on the outs and he can't get anything done. And then World War I comes along and he decides in his 40s or 50s to rejoin the army. He becomes a commander. He wins all this glory, returns.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6497.641

And for four years is begging Britain to understand Hitler cannot be trusted and don't believe a thing he's saying. And we can't be signing these deals. And no one's listening. No one's listening. He never relents. And finally, the Brits realize he has been right the whole time. And overnight he becomes prime minister.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6515.592

Like the story of the up and the down and the out and the miscast in the it's it's what a story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6524.324

Horrible to the Indians. Let's be clear. A colonist, grew up in Elizabethan England, definitely wanted the empire to stay alive. Also, miraculous feat of will and resolve in the poetry with how he motivated people. He gave this speech to our Congress to help us embrace the fact that we were entering the war. And it's like the most incredible speech. I cannot recommend the doc enough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6551.089

I don't know why I went on that tangent, but it's been burning a hole in my brain. I know I'm making you nervous. My energy level is a 15.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6569.123

Go ahead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6572.867

Oh, I'm just sharing all the things that I missed out on sharing in the last three weeks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6581.576

I am.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6589.969

But does that story, like, is there a male-female thing going on? Is this the Roman Empire? Maybe. Like, does that whole chapter just, like, not interest you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6601.917

Of an individual story where someone's, like, completely discarded and publicly reviled, then finds their way back, then becomes so valued and important, then gets discarded again, and then doesn't quit. Like, has a calling back. that can't be ignored and then match with this like Shakespearean ability to write speeches.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6626.877

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6647.492

This makes total sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6664.185

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6669.376

I think the thing that interests me about it is as big as this world is and as complex and dynamic as it is, single individuals radically change the face of the world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6687.07

Yeah, they don't get you going.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6694.287

For the listener, she just kind of, it was an interesting one. It wasn't an eye roll. It was a back and forth, side to side.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6703.103

You found the origin of your- I figured it out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6711.845

Or just maybe a genetic innate thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6726.629

Well, you sent it to me, so I saw it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6729.731

The world. Show the world. And I'm going to have to describe for the listener because let's just be, let's be clear. 98% of our audience is still just listening, not watching.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6739.117

Yes, please do. All right. So for the listener, it is a two or three year old Mary Kay and or Ashley Olson from the Full House program. It says duh across the screen. She's shaking her head and she gives the most expressive eye roll you've ever seen. Yes. And she has, Or they have enormous Disney eyeballs where it's very expressive and clear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6764.962

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6767.756

We got it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6780.788

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6785.552

You started probably reenacting it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6789.275

Yeah. Aping it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6794.56

Yeah. It might be all the way to the end.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6798.422

They might be your Aaron Weakley. I mean, you already have your Aaron Weakley.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6809.548

What I'll say is they're radically different people, which is so fascinating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6817.452

It doesn't make sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6821.714

They have to be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6826.583

No. Well, sisters have never looked that much alike.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6846.03

Ooh, tell me, what do you know?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6847.87

Yellow 46?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6850.931

I'm impressed you remembered his name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6855.932

One's left-handed, one's right-handed. But that's super common in twins. And one's one inch taller than the other. Even when they're identical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6864.954

But that could be a posture thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6867.275

All right, let's stop.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6871.276

You'd never know it by looking at them. Don't judge a book by its cover.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6877.498

Yeah. I've met a lot of boy-girl twins and they have all told... They have all had the experience where someone asked if their twin was identical, even though they knew one was a boy and one was a girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6889.882

Yes. I'm telling you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6899.726

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

69.99

And it's called Ancient Wisdom for a Future Ecology, Trees, Time, and Technology. Very, very cool exhibition.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6902.048

It must be way lower percentage that you get a boy and a girl than same gendered twins.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6909.13

For fraternal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6911.191

Oh, you do?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6916.273

Oh, really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6919.734

We should have a twins expert on. Yes. Because what that means is that there were two ova in the uterus and that one male sperm and one female sperm hit the two. And generally you would think, well, either the males were making it because they swim slower and they're more robust or vice versa. And one swim fast. So it's weird that one would swim fast, but you know what I'm saying? I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6951.019

Yeah, what a unicorn.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6958.607

Which was interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6961.38

That's an experience to look down in your underwears outside your pants. Cause your first thought is my underwear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6968.322

Came off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6970.243

Yes. And it doesn't seem to be torn in half.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6972.984

That's a real, like where am I at in time and space that my underwear has made itself off of my body and onto the floor. Yeah. I mean, it's so obvious later when you think it was clearly in my pant leg.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

6986.308

My underwear is falling off. It's like, and I think you should leave when Robinson, they put a whoopee cushion on his chair and he doesn't understand it. He goes, what happened? Like he really shook because he didn't feel himself fart, but he heard a fart. What happened?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7016.52

That's a weird coincidence.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

702.178

Undergrads. They just finished their undergrad. Also, they were ahead of the curve because you were born in 61? Yeah. So the civil rights movement in its full velocity is later.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7024.405

Which people could have thought might be her underwear. Yeah. Like, you know it's the lining of your pocket, but other people could be like, why are both of their underwears falling off?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7073.174

That makes a lot of sense. Yeah. I assumed wrongly now that it had something to do with the mechanism of injecting it. Like did they use some weird thing? Cause again, my dad's was, I have such a good memory of my dad's. I don't know that my mom has one weirdly, but my dad's is like seared in my brain.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7091.834

And I was like, it looked like, I think I said a cigar, like they administered it with a burning cigar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7107.83

See, this all paid off, my diatribe on Churchill, because Stalin was the trickiest figure in that triumvirate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7131.307

Other than the free robot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7133.569

That she may or may not have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7135.33

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7155.507

I'm skeptical. That's how we do it without getting sued. I'm highly skeptical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7162.949

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7180.852

What if it only helped elderly?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7191.418

That's a computer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7202.774

I doubt it, but I'm sorry, I'm skeptical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7215.979

Okay, I think I've heard that. But also my assumption of what that was, was like very simple mechanized arms, not bipedal robots walking it out. Like it can make it in the kitchen, then it goes on a conveyor belt, and then it's exactly lands in front of your thing. It doesn't necessarily mean that a bipedal robot carried it as much as there might be automation that gets it all the way to your.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7241.89

We should go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7244.372

I'd love to go to a robot restaurant. What is it? Cali Express in Pasadena. Oh, it's in Pasadena. That's much closer. Yeah. That just upped the odds of us actually doing that by a lot. I do think there's a little guy that rides around and brings here food.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7294.112

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7295.412

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7298.315

No, he's more boy-like, remember? Big time glass half full.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7305.476

There are a lot of other robots. But he's like becoming charming and flawed. Wabu Sabi. Wabi Sabi. Wabi Sabi. Rabi Sabi.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7327.469

Bag trash. Is that what it's called?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7332.192

I'm learning this from Nicole. This is the movement now is like you have these very fancy handbags and then you put all these little trinkets that fall off the side. And I think she calls it like bag trash or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

734.756

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7354.263

Yeah, that's really cute. Isn't it? Yeah, it's about to be critical. I just think it's funny. Fashion is very funny. So you get this perfect, outrageously expensive bag and then you're supposed to like drape some trash. Obviously, it's like downplay it. It's like what's happening?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7371.071

Well, I didn't say it was inexpensive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7374.591

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7393.036

Oh, that's preposterous. He's larger than the bag.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7414.492

Sucking, fucking, don't leave out sex workers. That's manual labor. Don't we honor sex workers?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7424.599

It's definitely manual.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7432.985

I'm glad we ended on that note for Ken. I think he would appreciate that. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7437.968

Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

7454.298

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

756.693

My father had that one, right? Is it the size of like a quarter? Yes. And it's a specific vaccine that would do that, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

76.834

um art project with these tree rings that are gorgeous and very creative ken goldberg i love you i think y'all will love them too please enjoy we are supported by zip recruiter oh get recruited according to research a major challenge many employers face is the pressure to hire quickly it's a tough hurdle to overcome it's so time consuming to search for great candidates and sort through applicants

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

766.303

I would gaze at it on my father's shoulder all the time. Looked like someone put a cigar out in us. Yes. That's it. That's a great way to put it. That's exactly what it is. Oh my God. What if that was the vaccine? The doctor just lit up the cigar. How long were you there as a baby? Just six months. And did you get any kind of citizenship out of that deal? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

787.587

Yeah, be getting hot water up there. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

798.297

Or the entree. Right, right. So then you do grow up in, I guess, would it be a suburb of Philadelphia? Yeah, Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, Steel Town.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

833.7

No, but is this to increase productivity through the scientific method or something? Yes, yes, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

915.163

Well, and by the way, and we'll just earmark this, among the AI accomplishments that I find most fascinating is their ability to make things more efficiently. I know there was a server farm they let AI loose on, and it had been studied forever. And within hours, it figured out how to make it like 30% more efficient or something crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

957.112

Okay, great. So here's my guest because I'm from Detroit. And so you have this enormous working class. Many of the folks had migrated up from Kentucky to fulfill these roles. So you have this culture of pride. And yeah, violence was on the table at all times.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ken Goldberg (roboticist)

980.85

And there'd be a few additional fights for the people who got excited watching the first fight. Yeah, exactly. The most dangerous thing was watching one of those fights because afterwards there was going to be a few more.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1151.921

The Queen's mother. Oh, very literal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1155.263

Yeah. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1184.662

If their wife says higher, then they will.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1217.864

You didn't get any real experience. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1239.636

Yeah, the more successful you are, it almost hinders you in that way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1243.837

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1360.953

Is it Coke or Quaaludes?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1550.19

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1551.451

While you were there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1609.053

It would have looked horrible if they fired you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1633.145

Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1663.692

Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

17.68

Oh, wow. That was kind of a cheerleading move you did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1793.268

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

1912.119

Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

2047.779

Yeah, you should send that to the professor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

23.384

Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

2625.908

If I had to be him, what are the physicalities?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

2648.193

The movie's so good. Were you so happy with it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

2658.977

It's incredible. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

2791.393

Like the two guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

2794.734

Yeah, I bet. They seemed like such sweethearts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

2798.954

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

285.434

We'll knock on wood for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

2879.972

One in five, one in ten. There are very few times, but there have been times that I've pushed back. There's a reason why this is important to keep in mind.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

2931.954

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

3103.288

So you just say you can't do this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

311.3

190?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

3131.841

How can this be legal?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

3249.745

So most people who bet are a fan of the thing. That's surprising to me already. I would assume most people who get into sports betting aren't fans, so they could be sort of objective about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

3264.657

Wow. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

33.303

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

3363.759

Well, he's just a good lawyer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

3368.861

But did he care about DOMA or did he care about winning a hard case?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

3465.964

But poker's a game of skill and it's gambling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

3771.645

And give it to you for free.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

3774.426

Yeah. Jesus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

3920.474

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4128.256

It's just your opinion. I don't think you could get sued for that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4134.42

In your opinion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4140.652

Let's give it a whirl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4148.064

Did you say allegedly? Did you say allegedly after everything?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4177.655

You're like, there's a lose-lose.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4265.222

92%.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4497.143

That makes sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4499.704

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4743.322

Oh, to Quakerism.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4746.724

Dax, why don't you at least do herbs?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4754.248

Okay, and what are your spices? Shining.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4760.216

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4763.017

That's bad. Captivating. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4770.0

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4773.201

Yeah, this is so outward.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4776.903

And it's so performative.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4781.565

Intriguing is not good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4787.429

Yeah, that's what it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4793.334

Things that are intriguing, but you're saying these as verbs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4810.988

I think I do. Stewardship, service.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4819.43

What? That's true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4822.493

No, I don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4824.414

God, you and your rules.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4827.216

Service. Stewardship. Community. Peace.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4834.761

What's E and I? Integrity. Integrity was I. It was. Yes. How many have I done?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4843.668

Equality. Equality. I didn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4848.354

Now yours, shining, prancing, spit takes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4856.576

Okay. Shining, prancing, intriguing, celebration. Captivating. Oh, captivating. Egg on your face. Energizing. Energizing. And sparkles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4871.361

Oh, sprinkling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4875.925

Okay, well, that's cool. You're a cult. You're going to have that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4887.891

Joe Rogan Intervention. It's on, it's revisionist history.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4893.134

And the new season's great so far. There's also a couple really good episodes about George Floyd.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4903.58

Yeah. There's an episode before the Joe Rogan intervention about that called the RFK Jr. Problem. Oh. That leads sort of into the Joe Rogan intervention. And God, that Malcolm Gladwell. What a gift he has. He's so good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4923.228

I thought, yes. Okay, so the episode starts off kind of calling out Joe Rogan a little bit about his interview with RFK Jr. And the difference between an interview and a conversation. It really just deep dives into what is a good interview.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4944.425

Interviewing is a real skill. It is different from conversation. And it is like... Yeah, they play a clip where Malcolm is being interviewed by Michael Gervais and Malcolm starts crying talking about his dad.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4961.447

But what led there was so nothing. Like, it was very simple. It was... And I was like, yeah, it's complicated and it's simple. Getting like real emotion out of someone.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

4982.668

RFK Jr.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5063.066

Well, right. But I guess if we're going to have someone controversial on, which we don't do that often, actually. But if we do, like before we had Andrew on, there was a conversation we had that was like, if we're going to have him on, we're going to have to have all the conversations and push back. So to me, it's that. It's like you...

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5085.367

Can't have someone like that on who's extremely controversial and says all kinds of stuff and not be prepared to really push back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5100.896

Right.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5164.141

I don't know if Joe is. I don't know if that's his conclusion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5171.668

Yeah, I don't know what he thinks, but RFK Jr. must believe it.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5180.557

Yeah, so...

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5246.168

But it's not those aren't the – it's not poor people who are anti-vaccine. In fact, it's mostly very, very privileged people who are anti-vaccine.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5280.882

Yeah, but I tend to think the people who, I mean, just in my experience, the people who are the most vocal and leading the charge are not. poor people. When you have so much privilege and access to the Brazil nut that might have, that's, you know, $14 per nut that might have this special benefit, like they want to go that route and then that's natural and all of these things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5307.872

But I, I think most people believe doctors, they like believe the system, right? That doctors pretty much know what they're doing. That when the baby is born, it needs these things and they're just going to go do these things. And they don't have to question every single thing that comes in. Also because they don't have time or energy to question it. They're living their lives.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5381.081

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5384.806

I know, but I don't think that's the majority of those people. I really don't. I mean, definitely not RFK. He's a Kennedy.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5405.114

Trajectory, but not, he was privileged.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5409.337

And like.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5414.52

Yeah, but that to me is like so kind of part of, I guess, sort of this bigger thing, right? Like you're so privileged and insular that you think you have it bad. Yeah. Like look, and then it's also, look, if he's just a random person on earth, I don't care, right? Yeah. But he's in charge.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5434.857

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5436.738

I think when he had RFK Jr. on, I think was during the election.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5443.703

Rob, can you check?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5446.775

June 2024.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5450.838

Right, right.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5452.92

He was a nominee.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5454.681

Yeah. And so he's saying like, this is my platform.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5474.979

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5480.806

Yes.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5491.473

Yes, of course. Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5502.059

But he's not a he's his podcast isn't a comedy podcast. He's a comedian.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5509.084

He's not a journalist.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5512.566

But his show is a show where ideas are explored. It's not, you know, a laugh riot. I mean, I'm sure there are funny episodes or whatever, but it is there to explore ideas. Maybe he thinks he is being responsible with it.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

552.478

Oh, my God.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5539.459

Well... I don't know, though.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5543.532

We wouldn't have him on. to come talk about anti-germ theory.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5549.155

Exactly. But I don't think, I don't know that Joe Rogan does. I think he is like, come talk about your thing. Let's just shoot this shit. Let's talk about it. But then he himself isn't equipped to really have that conversation with this person who's powerful. You know, in the episode before, when they're talking about RFK, you know, he doesn't believe in Louis Pasteur's

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5573.041

germ theory he doesn't believe that he believes in the opposite thing and um so does woody harrelson like there and and so yes it's not to me it's it's like see i think it'd be easy and convenient if you could write the people off as dumb but i don't think you can do that so then the question is how do smart people yeah have the courage to go against

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5600.33

I don't think it's courage. I think it is a long time of not having your feet on the ground, that you're able to explore all these different options for life and the world and the way it works and who's in charge and who's not in charge. I do think it's like checking yourself on how, quote, normal your life is in comparison. I think most of these peoples aren't.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5644.97

It's becoming more and more.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5654.918

Well, we do know because measles is back now. It wasn't. You know, people are now, these things are coming back that were gone. There's that whole episode about the rotavirus and the vaccine for that, which they've like, you know, RFK and them have said is bad.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5684.517

than any other vaccine.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5686.698

It is, it's just reckless. Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5700.783

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5709.937

Exactly.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5715.141

I know.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5720.376

There also might be a part of a lot of humans that want to be the exception. You know, it's almost like the opposite side of the coin to like exceptionalism. Like I'm different from everyone else.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5742.465

Mm-hmm.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5773.473

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5775.294

He's such a good storyteller.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5785.884

Great show. Revisionist history.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5803.596

Okay, let's see here. We talk art, art with Michael.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5810.811

We're going to do from Wikipedia.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5815.094

The list of most expensive paintings. Okay. According to Wikipedia. The Salvador Mundi is the most expensive. $450 million. Adjusted $577 million. But this is the one that he talks about that a lot of people discredit. Oh, really? Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

582.233

Oh, my God. God.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5841.575

It's Da Vinci.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5852.903

Yeah, attribution is pretty disputed. Then we have Interchange.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5861.969

Yeah, these are paintings sold.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5866.372

Probably, yeah, I assume. Yes. Interchange is a Kooning. Okay.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5876.003

Yeah, it's nice. It's nice. It was 300 million adjusted 398. That was sold by the David Geffen Foundation.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5890.457

I know. Well, there are cars.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5899.789

The third is a Cezanne, the card players. That was $250, adjusted $349. I like it.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5908.537

I like that one.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5912.489

How do we know? That's my story. I don't think so. I think they're playing cards.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5919.554

Why are they cowboys?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5923.056

He's wearing like an Abe Lincoln hat.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5929.42

Stove top stuffing?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5933.803

Paul Gaugin called... Gaugin. Is it Gauguin? Yeah. Okay, Gauguin. Translates to when will you marry?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5951.249

210, adjusted 279.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5954.13

Right, she has a lot of time.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5959.272

What?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5974.104

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5980.548

Yeah, that's true. That's true. Yeah, you're doing Kimmel tonight, and I'm going to Beyonce tonight.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5986.272

Star-studded night. What a night. Jackson Pollock is next, number 17.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

5993.931

Incorrect. Number 17A, 200 million, adjusted to 65.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6003.696

Mm-hmm.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6009.319

Okay.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6014.661

The no. Then we have Gustav Klimt. Washer Schlangen 2. That's a hundred.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6024.087

Oh, wow. This is like.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6027.171

Women, naked women. Two naked women. Oh, I see a breast.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6032.728

But they have long hair. Yeah. This is cool.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6042.6

Where's the other two?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6050.43

Wow, yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6054.039

This was fun. Well, I want this one because I like art of women.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6060.521

So I wonder if I can buy it. It was sold for $183.8 million, adjusted to $48. So I just got to save up.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6070.764

Mark Rothko is next. Number six. Violet, green, and red. Now, this is pretty much just squares.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6085.276

I do, too. I do, too.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6088.119

Salador Mundine.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6089.881

Oh, my God. Have some respect.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6094.87

You're me today.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6098.153

Well, we don't. People don't.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6101.395

Next is a Rembrandt pendant portraits of Mertensulman and Upjinkut.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6120.089

What do you mean?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6127.191

I mean, it's not about not, I'm staring at it. I don't see it as bright red, like a clown nose.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6139.975

He's pink, but that's very like, that's very close to real life skin.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6154.34

Yeah, but white people's skin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6157.401

No, is pink. Your skin is pink.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6163.223

What are you talking about?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6166.324

Her nose is just shaded.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6175.568

You're like so... Is this because you're nervous about Kimmel? You're being so... I'm lashing out at these people from the past. Oh, my God. You're right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6192.377

No, no, you're... She's dying of something. First off, you're overreacting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6199.52

See, this is why you shouldn't blow your nose. She's not. She does have a red, this area of her nose, this nostril is red. She blew her nose. She had a cold.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6217.337

You know what?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6227.802

You are not being respectful of the dead or the living. Now, or the painted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6236.807

What?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6240.049

This sounds like RFK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6265.027

That makes me a better person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6267.228

I really do. Because now look.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6270.708

Then I zoomed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6281.171

I thought it was a little. I didn't say like. You guys were being mean.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6290.433

And you made some jokes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6293.057

I don't remember any jokes. Yeah, about this person's tongue being very big.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6298.74

No, you made a whale of it. You think you could ever observe something and not make a joke about it? I'm not sure. Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6308.887

Thank you so much for looking back.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6323.538

This is how conspiracies start.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6333.808

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6336.05

Okay. Anyway, I just think it's best if none of us wear glasses. Okay. I think that's all for the paintings.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6344.818

Okay, first cousin once removed. Someone who's related to you as a first cousin, but is in a different generation. Specifically, they are the child of your first cousin or your parent's first cousin. Think of it as a first cousin who is a generation removed from you.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6364.376

I thought they were your cousins.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6399.813

But they were your dad's cousin's kids. Yeah. Your first cousin once removed is supposed to be your dad's cousin's.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

64.684

I mean, this person wrote Moneyball and The Big Short, two of my favorite movies of all time.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6410.702

Yeah, that is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6412.543

Okay, who is Jacob Rothschild? Big business guy. Nathaniel Charles Jacob Rothschild, 4th Baron Rothschild, was a British hereditary peer investment banker and member of the Rothschild banking family. Rothschild is a hard one. I can see you trying to not bring it up over there.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6434.82

Rothschild.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6469.039

Like they themselves believe it or people believe it about them?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6478.705

Rothschild. See?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6481.967

It is a Johns Hopkins situation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6486.65

Okay. The book Careless People is by Sarah Wynn William. Are people from New Orleans called New Orleanians? Yes. Assassinations due to J.D. Salinger's book. Oh, here we go. Many murder cases throughout its time. Mark David Chapman, who had an obsession with the book, murdered John Lennon. Also, John Hinckley, who attempted to assassinate Ronald Reagan.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6508.243

Was thought to be obsessed with the books as well. There are many other people whose murders or attempted murders are thought to be connected to The Catcher in the Rye. such as Lee Harvey Oswald's assassination of JFK and Robert John Bardo, the man who killed Rebecca Schaefer. It says Holden Caulfield might have some criminal potential as well, having similar traits of killers.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6532.02

Because you're a killer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6549.591

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6553.954

Yeah. It's a slippery slope to incel.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6562.139

Yeah. I think a lot of these people... In basements who are, what are they called?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6568.551

Yeah, I said in cells, but something else.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6572.293

No.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6573.633

Chosen.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6575.814

No, it's called. Jesus. God. Just go on Kimmel already. Get this over with. Chodes. It's called something like abstinent, like not chosen abstinence, but something like that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6595.103

No. What if I became an incel because I started doing research?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6601.007

Yeah, that's it, I think. Involuntary celibacy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6609.153

Oh, that's what it comes from. I never knew that.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6615.7

It's actually a portmanteau.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6618.903

A portmanteau. That's what it means when you take two parts of two words and put them together.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6624.527

Yeah, you ever heard that?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6626.348

A portmanteau.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6635.575

Heterosexual men who blame women in society for their lack of romantic success.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6642.881

I wouldn't say it's the best route.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6651.075

I know. That's the irony of the whole thing.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6669.006

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6670.446

But they were mainly watching TV.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6677.309

Those other guys who were in the basement just watching TV, now they seem hot.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6683.031

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6687.049

Um, no.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6693.775

No, because they still want the power over women. Like, they don't want women to be more powerful than them. And so the sex robot isn't going to fix that.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6707.766

I know, but they'll still be real women in the world.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6715.953

I mean, they can masturbate.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6721.658

They do on the couch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6723.899

They just hump their couch.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6730.605

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6739.056

I bet there is something you could put it in and get off.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6749.021

But why do you think that's better than jacking yourself up? Because it's somebody else.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6757.685

I see.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6763.228

Yeah. I'm surprised they haven't invented, like, a mechanical hand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6768.449

Okay, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6770.61

Oh, a fleshlight. Yeah, that's a— I've thought about— Oh, yeah, that's a thing.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6779.252

Ew.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6783.733

Also, don't you have to hold the flashlight?

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6788.115

I think the hand, like—

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6792.483

Yeah, you can like connect it to the wall.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6797.364

No, like it's plug-in, but it's a long cord. So if you're in bed, you don't have to touch it.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6814.028

I don't think I want to know anymore.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6817.73

Yeah. Casey Sepp's book on Harper Lee, Furious Hours, Murder, Fraud, and the Last Trial of Harper Lee. Okay. The Tiger Lady. He mentioned this Tiger Lady. He said Tiger Lady or Lion Lady who got all that plastic surgery. Do you remember her?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6833.637

Yeah. It was Tiger Lady. Jocelyn Wildenstein.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6840.999

Well, she had a high-profile divorce from billionaire art dealer. Ding, ding, ding. Oh, my God. And businessman Alec Wildenstein. Cat-like facial appearance. Oh, she passed away in December.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6859.203

She has two children.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6867.315

That was a pretty good one. Okay, let's see if it says here. Oh, my God. Her yearly telephone bill was $60,000 and food and wine cost $547,000.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6880.643

I guess. She received $2.5 billion in the divorce settlement.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6884.645

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6889.383

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6891.404

But then she went bankrupt.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6901.811

Well, some of it is.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6904.713

Yeah. Oh, three apartments in Trump Tower were repossessed in 2020.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6922.598

Yeah, she was Swiss.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6935.587

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6938.608

It's true. Oh, okay. Did Ted Olson argue the most cases in front of the Supreme Court? So there's like a list from lone dissent of U.S. Supreme Court top advocates. Yeah. Number one is Lawrence G. Wallace, 157 arguments. Whoa. Yeah. Then there's number two is an unknown advocate.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6963.26

Wants to go by unknown.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6976.988

92.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

6977.608

Six, Carter Phillips, 86. Seven, Irwin Griswold, 83.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

7017.195

I know.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

7018.756

I know. I feel very lucky that I had a dinner with him. I felt really kind of weird in that moment.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

7022.918

Because I knew that was new. Like you were finding out.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

7033.883

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

7044.947

Okay.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

7047.769

I will. No, I just felt like, what if you cried? Like, what if you like got really needed to take a break? When that would have been fine, of course. But.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

7057.935

Yeah, I would have.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

7063.299

Well, if you find out that I die in the middle of an interview, I hope you take a break.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

713.197

That must have been so cool as an art person to be in it like that.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

767.525

Yeah, some insider trading.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

77.792

Liar's Poker. Liar's Poker. Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

772.349

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

805.152

That's so fun. Now I want to get into

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

81.494

I'm editing it.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

834.691

No. That's all I would be thinking about.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

843.492

That's the first thing I thought.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

849.075

Yeah.

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Michael Lewis (on the gambling epidemic)

86.317

Thank you, but I can't take credit for that. I was editing it this morning.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

0.31

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1032.603

It's like when you start thinking about your heartbeat, you can almost immediately give yourself a palpitation just by considering it.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1087.805

If someone's asked you to walk along a six inch line on the ground, you could do that to eternity and never misstep.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1119.913

A depressing side of this is that in the folks you work with, 30% of which are having psychosomatic seizures, only 30% of those people will have success treating it with CBT, which is our best option currently.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1163.078

As soon as the doctor has decided it's in their head, they're kind of off their plate. Go see someone else. I only know how to prescribe you these medicines or send you to this physical therapist. There's no tools on the table for a doctor.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

119.011

So you've been here since Friday. Did you do anything fun?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1210.268

Is it gendered?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1218.151

So the part I still would love to know the mechanics of is if I wanted with all my might to give myself a seizure, I don't think I could replicate the level of seizure you're seeing. What happens in the brain? Do we know?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

128.694

Okay, great.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1355.089

Okay, so the third book, The Sleeping Beauties and Other Stories of Mystery Illness, you have a story in there about contagious seizures in schoolgirls in Colombia.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

139.897

Oh, you didn't even know? No. You thought you were just going to see the sound stages and the lot.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1432.58

Well, if you are uncomfortable with the heat and the lack of air, and then you witness it take someone else out, now a new reality is on the table, which is I might pass out from this.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1460.089

Well, it was correlation, not causation.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

149.8

How was that?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1500.493

Wow, because it became weaponized by the anti-vax movement.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1548.822

And they were a Russian proxy weapon.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

157.083

Now, are you wearing green as a nod to your Irish heritage or you always find yourself in green?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1613.15

60 Minutes even did a segment on it. I was very disappointed. I love 60 Minutes. My bigger issue was, and this is disrespectful to the people suffering from whatever it is they're suffering from, but I was like, okay, so Russia has this crazy weapon and they deployed it on you.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1626.643

Not to be mean, but truly, if we made a hierarchy of who would be most advantageous for them to cripple, we wouldn't start with the ambassador in Cuba. It just also was illogical in the motivations.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1651.139

Oh, they're trying to retrofit embassies. Yeah, really took off. What is the Tourette's-like syndrome that was spreading through New York high schools? Do you know about that? I've heard this. You've heard about this? Yeah. Oh, I know nothing about it.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

167.406

You have the most Irish last name. You got a Sullivan and an Owen.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1712.276

And we didn't delineate, but I want to now because I'm now remembering. Even Monica, so you draw a very hard distinction between a hypochondriac and someone with a psychosomatic condition. A hypochondriac is worrying about getting things, but they don't have the symptoms. And a psychosomatic person has got a big plate of symptoms.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

174.588

Well, you've written maybe more, but I'm aware of three books. And I would love to just tap dance lightly through some of them before we get to the new book, because I do think there's definitely going to be concepts in the new one that were laid out and built on the back of these other ones. And this is going to get Monica so excited. I think we should first talk about you're a neurologist.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1801.804

Yeah. Great. So that's next. Before we get to the new book, I just want to know about the sleeping sickness in Kazakhstan. What was that?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

1849.031

Don't swear. You've had a stroke. Go home. That's what they do.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

19.807

I'm caught in a loop still because we just did a personality test that seemed to be loop, a loop. I feel like we answered the same five questions.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

197.033

You also have a master's in creative writing, which is impressive. But you specialize in epilepsy.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

203.875

Well, let's find out. Let's find out. The first book is All in Your Head, True Stories of Imaginary Illnesses. So let's just start with some actual data, which is your guesstimation, and you acknowledge it's an estimate. But of all the people that come in that have had seizures, a symptom of epilepsy... 30% of them are not epileptic.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2100.168

I want someone to do work on this and maybe they already have, but someone in the social scientists needs to think about the impact of 40 years ago, you could be in this Kazakhstan town and you wouldn't really know it was that bleak. The only swing sets you had seen were rusty. Maybe you saw some movies from the West.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2116.52

I wonder what the impact of being aware of what everyone else is living like on planet Earth with the Internet, where some of these symptoms might be a result of that. It's like, what are we doing here? And this is miserable and I'm going to just not wake up.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2133.269

And you're very aware of what you don't have now, whereas I don't think you were in the past.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

226.669

And then you found also that's largely true for cardiologists when people come in with chest pains. It's common for people with heart palpitations that about a third of people that are experiencing symptoms, often it doesn't align with the actual underlying disease.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2316.44

Our subconscious seems to have a genius about saving us.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2330.289

Or your body will make your back hurt so much you can no longer do the job that's killing you mentally. The body will somehow protect itself.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2338.314

Okay, so the new book, The Age of Diagnosis, How Our Obsession with Medical Labels is Making Us Sicker. Now, I sought out an expert like you because you'd have to be asleep... To have missed this wave of self-diagnosis that we all are giving ourselves. The current one, and we'll just put an earmark in it, is every single person I know, and I convinced myself of it maybe, has ADHD.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2365.788

Right now, that's the one. We'll get to it, but let's walk through why this felt like a natural progression in the books you were writing and why you felt like it's time to shine a light on this.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2396.158

That they've given themselves or they've accumulated from medical.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2481.076

Right. So you say like worldwide, 537 million people are living with diabetes. That's incredible. That's half a billion. 783 million are predicted to be affected by 2045 with diabetes. Oh my God. We kind of have three explanations on the table that would make sense. One is we're sicker.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2499.668

A second explanation would be we are just finally able to diagnose all these people because we now have the language and it's in the DSM and it's in these other places. And maybe we're getting healthier because now we're getting treatment. And you're offering a third explanation.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2539.48

Yeah, I was shocked to read in your book that asthma diagnosis have gone up 48%. That's freaking Teddy Roosevelt had asthma. This isn't a new diagnosis.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2567.924

Everyone I know is panicked about their pre-diabetic.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2706.483

Yeah, how successful that was. Yeah, let's talk about diabetes a bit further. I guess when I was growing up, if you were suffering from the condition of diabetes, you were having amputations. Yeah. You were dying quite prematurely. Have we reduced the amount of people getting amputations or dying prematurely?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2758.242

Yeah, you say many of the diagnosis aren't what they seem. The quest for certainty turns borderline medical problems into ironclad diagnosis, pathologizes the normal and hurt those who are most vulnerable. In other words, we are not getting sicker, we are attributing more to sickness. Break that down a little bit.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2832.709

Oh, certainly. You kind of go back in your mind and you go like, oh, right. Yeah, that kid was ADHD and that kid was this. We had no terms for any of that.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2847.978

It's such a complex issue. I'll add that I just interviewed Bill Gates two days ago, and I said to him, he knows everything. He was consuming all things. He read all 21 volumes of the encyclopedia at nine years old. I'm like, when did you first hear autism? And did you connect with that concept? And he said, I was aware of it.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2869.626

But at that time, they were such extreme examples that I would have never put myself in that bucket. Because again, these were people who were nonverbal.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2879.57

Yes. He says recently, and that's what's interesting, is he recognizes he is on the spectrum of it. And then the natural question is, would he have been served with that title or not? That's the big unknowable question.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

29.594

Yeah, did a good job. Today we have a guest on a fascinating topic that I think a lot of us talk about all the time. Are we getting overdiagnosed? Are we medicalizing everything? Is everything a pathology?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2942.125

Yes.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2947.229

But it's beautiful.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2964.705

One I like to add is when the movie Rain Man came out, the man it was based on was interviewed with his father. And Leslie Stahl did the interview from 60 Minutes. And this was in the 80s. And he was very hard to conduct an interview with. He also memorized every book in the Salt Lake City Library. And he could read with his eyes separated both pages at the same time.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

2988.143

So she did a follow-up story on him like 10 years ago, went and revisited him. He's still at the library reading and the dad's still there. And he greets her and he's making eye contact with her and he's interacting in all these ways. And when he's not there, Leslie says to the dad, he seems to have improved a lot. Has there been some treatment? And he said, well, make no mistake.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3008.507

He's exactly the same. He has just learned more tricks over the years. He knows to force himself to look at you and he knows to say, yes, Leslie. And so that's all that's happened. You haven't seen an improvement in the condition.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3021.699

That's real masking.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3122.927

It's so nuanced because what's interesting is I think the diagnosis of autism is almost more for all of us neurotypical people, in quotes, because what it does do, and I've witnessed it around me and I myself know I'm guilty of it, If someone says, this dude's autistic when you meet him, just know he's autistic.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3142.333

I can go into all these other things that might trigger me when I'm interacting with them. And I have a level of compassion now that I didn't have, which is just a shortcoming of my own. Monica and I have talked before. It's like really the end goal for all this would be to be compassionate to everyone with all their idiosyncrasies. But that label helps us.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3161.367

It helps us write off stuff that would otherwise irk us.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3167.611

But it is a complementary situation because now I have lower expectations of you and you have lower expectations of you. Exactly. So it can be also a self-perpetuating.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

321.518

How do you distinguish those seizures from epileptic seizures?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3389.116

I think, as you said earlier, this is a collusion of many, many facets. And so one that I can immediately see is parents whose children exhibit behavior that is embarrassing to them in their own ego because they're an extension of your identity.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3407.652

I think they themselves are comforted by some medical diagnosis as opposed to just living with the embarrassment that, yeah, sometimes your kids are really embarrassing. That's part of the fucking ride. It's not you. You don't need to go find some diagnosis so you can tell everyone, she's this, he's that. And then you alleviated yourself of that. I think that's a bit harsh. You do? Yeah, I do.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3428.921

Oh, I see so many peers excitedly sharing the diagnosis their kid just got.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3466.055

You have better odds of getting what you want if you try really hard.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3499.419

Funnels into one of the topics of your thing is this kind of false notion of the norm.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3566.196

What's happening with Huntington's disease?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

358.34

If we were to observe the brain with an fMRI, maybe it's already been done. Do we see any difference in how it plays out electrically or not? Absolutely.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3737.926

Well, in that case, I wish she had had the time.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3744.468

It works both ways.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3792.751

Yeah, it's confirmation bias. You're excluding a ton of data and focusing on a very tiny bit of data to validate what you already have a hunch is true.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3831.823

Well, even when I see on Instagram, because it's everywhere, ADHD is the thing. And I see these videos. And of course, it's like astrology. Like if you say enough adjectives about me, you're going to find some that are fitting. So I'll see the couple things that are identical to me. Like if I start brushing my teeth, I've got to immediately do something else.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3849.931

There's no way I can stand there and just brush my teeth. And I'll see that one, oh yeah, that's me. But I've also ignored the six they said that I have no connection to whatsoever.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

391.773

So the brain's very busy in some quadrant.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3933.936

Well, it's funny when I see the ADHD clips, which I see all the time, it triggers something that happens a lot in AA, which is I'll be listening to someone share in AA and they'll say like this, this and this, my alcoholism. And I often go like, no, that's your humanism. You're being a human right now. And similarly with ADHD, I'll go, that's just being a human in a highly stimulating world.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3956.331

Yes, you have that. I don't deny that, but that's normal and natural. And we all have some degree of that.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

3986.876

unappealing behavior. Like, yeah, I always am interrupting, but I have ADHD. Don't you also think they want an excuse for some stuff?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

399.521

So they're like maximum disassociated in a sense.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4044.587

Community.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4046.249

Seen.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4047.67

But the distinction you're making is great. Of all the people I'm seeing on Instagram declaring themselves, my guess that I feel strong about is like 90% of those people have never seen a doctor for it. And they have no program of treating it.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

406.53

Wow.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4085.623

What's going on with chronic Lyme and long COVID? Oh, God.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4214.269

So some people have Lyme disease and really no symptoms.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4245.433

Long COVID. This is one that I just intuitively, when I hear it, I'm a little skeptical of.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4265.422

You say March of 2020? May. Okay, so only three months in.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4300.987

We would have to be years out to ever actually declare something long COVID.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

439.272

So you're seeing 30% of the people come in or 20% on a great year where these are psychosomatic. And I think we have a paradigm which is very dismissive of psychosomatic. In the same way that people are dismissive of placebo effect. People have this association that placebo effect is not real. Of course it's real. It doesn't have the causality we thought it had.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4458.735

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4461.578

How do we correct? How do we keep all the upside of figuring out a lot of these diseases and providing help for people? And how do we shave off this large group that's also shouldn't be seen as having a pathological disease?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4531.118

Yeah, you get into the structural and logistical issues there. It's like there are X amount of resources given to those added hours of teaching and test taking. And then it's kind of the same way the insurance reimbursement works is we've got to get this one thing so we can get this other thing we need.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4572.92

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4577.082

Yeah, if there was just a place you could go to that was funded, that was like, I feel shitty.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4600.208

We want church without all the collateral charges that came with it. Without God, without priests, without pedophiles. I love this topic and I think it's actually kind of brave, but I do think you do it with a ton of compassion, even tackling psychosomatic disorders in the way that you have with compassion and actually a call to treatment for the people. It's

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

462.968

So do you think that by writing a book about psychosomatic disorders... You ran the risk or you would be afraid people were thinking you're dismissing them as opposed to, I like what you say, which is the symptoms are the symptoms. They're the same. Why do we have compassion for one cause of the symptoms and not the other?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4629.714

It'll be threatening to a lot of people's identity.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4653.652

Well, Dr. O'Sullivan, this has been wonderful. I'm so grateful that you made the long trip to be in rain and be at Harry Potter.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4665.516

Oh, yeah. Everyone check out The Age of Diagnosis. Incredible book. Incredible message. Thank you. Wow. Talk about a reversal reversal.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4685.929

This is a reverse back.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4688.49

Because last fact check, I was in a sweatshirt. You were in a T-shirt. You were not cold.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4695.014

Now you're freezing. I'm in a tank top.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4697.816

And I'm hot.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4700.597

Oh, and you didn't walk today.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4703.399

And I just exercised with resistance training. The aliens would be really confused by weightlifting.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4713.366

Because initially they'd be like, oh, that monkey has to get that thing up and he's going to move it somewhere. Oh, no, he's setting it down. Yes. Or maybe it was too heavy. No, he's picking it back up again. Where's he going to take it? No, he's setting it.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4726.141

Just repetition, useless repetition.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4731.687

There's zero gravity. They just do. They don't even need really muscles.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4757

Yeah, I would have thought your conclusion after Dr. Suzanne O'Sullivan would have been, I'm not going to ignore that, all that stuff. But you're saying it got worse?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4788.716

I'm as lost as a listener. Perimenopause. Oh, perimenopause.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4792.479

Yeah, yeah. No, we've been saying we're going to have one for a long time. That's okay.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4805.365

Oh, you're probably just shoulder hurts.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4809.746

Can you trace it to any activity?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4813.788

Okay. What would be your guess?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4819.009

Some lifting?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4820.75

Did you lift weights?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4823.05

And then your shoulder hurts?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4829.025

In Georgia. Yeah. But you don't call that home anymore.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4844.389

Yeah, but what age did your mom have it?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4846.71

I think it's Raleigh.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4852.752

Okay.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4860.929

You must kind of get it off your desk.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4877.473

The Gossip Girl pilot. Yes.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4881.757

OG, original Gossip Girl or the reboot? Original. Okay, great.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4886.701

Great.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4891.685

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4893.991

Oh, wow. You're in.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4895.732

I've just... Had you watched it when it was airing? Yeah. Oh, you did? That was one of your shows? Mm-hmm. Okay.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4911.175

Oh, wow. Okay.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4953.163

Yeah, that is weird.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4957.869

Nor do I. By the time this is out, maybe there will be some details. Yeah. But I just go through a checklist in my mind because I, like everyone else, or I think we all want to make sense of the world. It's like.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4970.393

If it's nonsensical, it's very scary. Exactly. If it makes some kind of sense, I can deal with it. And so I, yeah, I just go 39 is too young to die of all the other things. Yeah. And then I just start doing like probabilistic guesses.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

499.502

Do you feel like they felt invalidated by that?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

4991.223

But I remember people, we were pretty early or I was, or I felt no tension for me personally to guess that Matthew Perry had OD'd. But people were really mad at me about that.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

50.807

Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. This is across the board fascinating because she's here to talk about her new book. Well, first of all, Dr. Susan O'Sullivan. She's an award-winning writer and neurologist. And her new book, which we're going to talk about a lot, is The Age of Diagnoses. How our obsession with medical labels is making us sicker.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5005.368

I knew him and it's just, it's my disease. I like, I know.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5011.69

Oh, she did. Oh.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5036.857

Don't.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5043.22

You need to be a little more careful.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5048.902

Just watch new stuff. I'm so powerful. Just watch new stuff. I'm rewatching something too. I started something over again. What? Which I don't really do. I've done Patriot three or four times. Sure. But I'm unsatisfied with the amount of Goggins I'm getting in White Lotus. Oh. It's like it's a tease hit of Goggins.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5070.28

Okay. Did you watch the first episode? Yeah. There's only two. Yeah. So it's like... You know, it's like when someone would offer me one Vicodin. I'm like, I would just go, I would pass. I would go, well, do you have four?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5087.964

And if they say no, I go, oh, okay, thanks for the offer. But I don't want a hint of the feeling I'm going for. I'll just get really agitated.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5097.868

This is no knock on White Lotus. It's great. It's just an ensemble.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5101.589

And I just, I want some Goggins.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5105.731

No. No, no, I'm not going to put them on. I'm not going to fully map on the Vicodin analogy, but I did start Fallout over again last night. I'm like, I need to see him for like 17 minutes with no nose, tons of dialogue, making moves. Yeah. Yeah. And I watched it recently, but it's great. O'Sullivan has come up a lot in my life since we interviewed her.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5132.134

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5142.546

I think everyone's overdiagnosed. And then also it put, I'm glad she asked this like second round of questioning about psychosomatic disorders because I think I was, I kind of, I think I would have guessed about the number she said. Like it wasn't shocking to me that 30% of all neurological seizures are psychosomatic or that 30% of- Really? That was shocking to me.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5164.221

No, I know so many people who go to the, personally, I know a lot of people who've gone to the doctor having a heart attack and it's not that, it's anxiety. Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5175.489

Yeah, you would think like you can't trick it. But then again, I don't, I've never thought they were tricking them. That's Munchausen where you're faking something. I've thought, no, people are experiencing this. I don't doubt that.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5188.66

But I didn't go the step further, which I like that she did, which is like, yes, they're psychosomatic. They're not, the cause of them aren't this other thing. Yeah. But the results and the symptoms are actually the same symptoms. They're just as serious. And in fact, more so in epilepsy. As you said, an epileptic would probably have one seizure a year or maybe one a month would be a lot.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5210.315

Well, medication will help. And these people can have a hundred seizures. seizures a day.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5215.157

Yeah. Her going. I think I was in the past like, yeah, that's psychosomatic. You can't do anything about that.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5223.582

It's in your head. Yeah. So what do we what would we do? But the notion that she's really screaming, we need treatment for psychosomatic illnesses. It's the same experience.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5235.109

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5243.738

CBT, DBT. Yeah. BBT, BBD. Uh-huh. Poison man. BBD. Yeah. A-N-W. Bellevue DeVoe. But it only works 30% of the time.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5256.689

Which is a bummer. But again, the same with recovery for addicts. Yeah. Nothing's above 30%. Yeah. But for me, I'm at least going to go try the thing that I have a 30% chance at. And for me, it worked. So I think people should still pursue it, whether it's 30%. I agree.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

526.6

None of us like feeling bad. It's an emotion that's uncomfortable. So if we can say it's your fault, I think it relieves us of that responsibility to be compassionate and understanding. It's like, well, they're choosing to be this way or it's their fault.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5283.466

They must because. Yeah. As she said, she would start talking to other specialists.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5289.731

Asking the pulmonologist, asking the cardiovascular, asking the.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5293.514

And they immediately were like, oh, yeah, it's like 30% that aren't actually having the thing.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5309.327

Right. At all. But what's what is unfortunate and it probably I'm surprised this didn't come up because you can delineate the difference. So you can observe the brain having an epileptic seizure versus a psychosomatic seizure. And there's a clear difference. Yeah. Same with the heart stuff. Yeah. Same with the breathing stuff. All of it. The mental stuff is not observable.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5333.885

We cannot tell the difference between whether you have psychosomatic depression or any of these disorders. Yeah. We can't tell if you have some base biology or biochemistry or anything.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5348.833

So what do we do about those?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5353.135

You could have all the symptoms of ADHD. It would be weird to me that this tracks almost perfectly across all of the different... medical conditions, and then it would stop at ADHD.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5366.09

Right?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5368.232

So I would argue probably conceivably 30% of people with ADHD, they definitely have the symptoms of ADHD. Sure. But they don't have ADHD as we think of it.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5412.964

Yes, but she was quick to acknowledge too, even the markers in the heart, let's call them the hard sciences of biology, like taking a blood sugar level.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5425.132

That's a metric. But even if they set it at three or nine or 23 or, that is arbitrary to some degree. They've all decided like, when do we think this really tips into something very destructive for the body? And they set a number. Then you get into like, okay, attention deficit. What level of fragmented attention requires is before we get to a pathology.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5456.421

Yes, disabling. Unless you're going to separate identical twins and raise one with a label and one without a label. And I say this in total good faith. I just want to know what the best outcome is. I agree. I'm not really against or for any of it, really. I just would like to know what's the best outcome for.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5485.542

The risk I think I'm most afraid of is that you inadvertently limit someone's potential.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5492.184

Because you accept that this condition has these limits.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5497.472

And just setting a limit before it's really discovered is just a little precarious and dangerous.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5507.058

Yeah, how was it? Did you go out to eat?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5509.979

Where?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5526.524

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5528.064

You're probably in the mix of that equation, I think. I think he's also going, I'm not going to be Monica.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5535.8

So.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5537.002

I'm not even going to try to be Monica.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5538.883

Because I've decided I've given up on that. And to even try to improve myself would be seemingly like trying to be her and I can't be her.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5552.015

I have fucked up my younger sister in lots of ways I wish I hadn't.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5565.301

But like Nikki's life was hugely impacted by having a sister 18 months younger than her that was being told she was beautiful everywhere they went. Like that just fucked her up. It's not the younger sister's fault.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5579.546

No. But I think living in immediate proximity to somebody is, you know.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5593.897

Yeah, but he certainly knew. I'm sure your parents said Monica got these grades or she.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5602.886

Yeah, yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5606.209

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5610.574

Do you think they just, because I would have just gone like, yeah, he's a boy.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5615.085

You did, yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5638.709

Yes.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5640.771

Everything's fine. This is like, you know, I have a few different friends in my life who, and one just totally admittedly, and I fucking love them, and His honesty and saying is like, he's hell bent on getting his kid out of one school into this other school. And the kids evaluated and the other schools, like, I think he needs more time at this school. And he's taking that personally. And.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5664.582

You know, at a certain point, he had the sobriety to go, I want this.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5671.266

My son doesn't want this. Yeah. I'm will run riot. I'm trying to control everything in the world. And it's so true. It's like. Yeah. You don't have to end up in these places. You don't have to end up in the fucking school and you don't have to end up with good grades. I know. It's just one version of how you can go through life. I know.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5691.418

And I know people have done every version and it has no prediction on their happiness or their fulfillment or their sense of purpose. Exactly.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5718.485

Two of our best friends, our mutual best friends are, will tell you at the drop of a hat, admittedly, they hardly got through school. They both would be like, we can't, we didn't know anything at school. And they are, I would list, and all the people I've met in my life, they're among the most successful humans I've ever met. They have more friends than anyone I know. They have more fun.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5737.175

They're better parents. They've totally made a great living and have a great life.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5742.478

And who gives a flying fuck? They're a bunch of people we know much smarter, did way better academically, and they're not having nearly as big of a life.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5753.942

When he and your dad have a drink, what do they have?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5768.605

Sure, like some kind of paradise.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5774.126

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5807.591

Yeah, that's standard.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5811.312

Yeah, very standard.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5829.218

It's a lot easier to project onto the same gender.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5832.88

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5835.141

Yeah, my mom, you know, Apparently, I'll give my mom a good run. I would give my father the hardest of runs.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5844.254

Oh, I don't know how he loved me.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5849.28

They are. Where are they going?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

585.66

And it has a self-perpetuating physiology, right? Which is once my heart rate is so high, I'm actually going to be in my amygdala whether I want to or not. I can't bring on my frontal cortex really.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5852.144

Oh, who cares?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5854.006

In the water. That's where they're going.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5880.595

She's probably nervous about taking the picture.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5884.697

Yeah, yeah, yeah. She had a lot on her plate.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5894.4

Oh, you had the same reaction.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5900.082

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5906.565

Yeah, I would have thought and gone like, oh yeah, Nermy's nervous about having to take this selfie.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5919.491

That's not- Well, she was paying attention on how to operate the camera. I know, I know. Not how to pose in the picture, yeah. She forgot she was in the picture because she was taking it.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5929.275

A forced smile. Yeah. Because you're doing to her what they do to women historically. I know. Smile more.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5935.658

You know, you should smile more.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5938.599

It's true, though. That's good advice for everybody, not just women. Everyone should smile more. I agree. Yeah. It's infectious.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5946.403

Right.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5952.465

We got to try to do our best. We're all just really doing our best.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5975.127

And he's off to Big Bear.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5977.89

And did you find out if they're going to ski?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5981.526

They are going to ski.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

5982.726

And your brother has as well?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6006.021

Oh, you have all these fears for him.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6040.987

I think for Carly, and that's really interesting because I have such a clear role in our family when we're all together. And that's not the role I wanted in life. Yeah. And I have purposely become a much different person than I am when I'm fulfilling my role. And so we were just all together like a week ago in San Francisco. Yeah. And Carly has done a very good job at joining me in my new role.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6071.288

She doesn't force me to be the old role.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6075.052

And what's the old role? The old role is depressurizing every situation.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6085.785

Lowering the temperature at all times. intercepting criticisms of different people and making jokes and really just trying to distract the right person who's having a thing, you know? Yeah. That makes my, I hope doesn't sound like I'm throwing my family under the bus, but whatever, that's my role. And I find it quite exhausting. Yeah. And it's not me.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6111.969

I want to be the person that's deciding how I want to feel.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6119.112

Sure. Yeah, that would be preferred. Yeah. I don't think I require that too much. But at any rate, I think Carly's done a really good job of recognizing what my role is outside of the main family, adjusting to that. And she herself has her own role, right? I think she was the baby of the family, comparison sickness.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6138.679

My oldest brother was my mom's partner, business partner. They built this incredible business together. I'm like at UCLA doing great or whatever and then getting on TV. It's a lot.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6148.561

So I think in her own life, she's been able to be the star of her life, which is fantastic.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6153.383

And I try to make her the star of our life as much as I can when we're together. But when we go back... We both snapped right in.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6162.537

And we had snapped right in for three days. And then we got home and both of us were inordinately exhausted. Like she took a five hour nap, was up for two hours and then slept the entire night through. I too was exhausted. Yeah. And then the following day I said to her, man, I get exhausted every, I'm out of shape for my role. And when I have to do it, it's just very exciting.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6184.192

She's like, oh my God, yes, same. I was like the baby of the family all over again. And, you know, vying for attention and all the- Oh, interesting.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6193.477

All the things.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6195.538

It's a lot.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6201.342

You know, this one family on the show is just vomitous, right?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6206.825

Yes, they're repugnant.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6211.713

They're funny. Yeah. The next episode you'll see, you're like, oh my God, you got to spend your whole life in that dynamic. Right. I flash forward to like, man, if you have shit kids and you did a bad job raising them and they're assholes and you're an asshole, you deal with that. It doesn't go away. And just you stay in this little cancerous puddle of shit talking and fighting and bickering.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6234.267

I'm like, oh my God, I would hate if that were.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6243.539

Well, it's just normal for them.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6245.861

So, yeah, I don't even think they're so aware of how yucky this situation is. But it's like every kid's grossed out by the other one and judgmental of the other one.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6258.512

It's very weird. Yeah, it's only getting weirder. Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6266.009

It's just normal.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6268.17

And you can kind of become numb to it. You have to exit it for a while to, for me.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6273.014

To recognize, like I wouldn't have been able to describe what my role was until I moved to California.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6277.456

Yeah. And I returned home and I'm like, oh, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6280.278

My brother's getting a little heated. I gotta, I gotta get in there with some magic sauce. I know.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6304.548

Yeah, yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6308.971

Right.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6311.613

It's also a great gift, I'll add. Yeah. I think of how much my relationship with my brother has played out in my professional life. Yeah. Ashton's a great example. Bill Gates is a great example. There's been these folks that I can weirdly be beta because it's it's implicit that I'm beta with my older brother. Like I grew up that way. I'm a bit like Delta, though. I'm also kind of a fight, but.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6340.989

Let's just say I've learned how to flatter people that are above me.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6347.291

And honor them and be deferential to them. And then come in and still be out of the role with my comedy. If that makes any sense. Like very deferential, but then weird zinger that like a beta wouldn't try.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6364.176

That ends up. allowing me to rise up a bit and join them more as a peer. Like I'd have these moments with my brother, of course, as any younger brother probably has is like, there would be peership quite often.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6378.546

Often we're both racing go-karts and it's equally as fun and it's the thing. And then there's another dynamic where he's the older brother and I'm annoying and I got to shut up. But I could break through and we'd have very peer to peer moments.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6389.508

And I got good at manufacturing those or instigating them. Yep. And so, I was thinking when I was with Bill, it's like I have this weird thing where I revere him so much and I couldn't be more deferential. I'll also tease him.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6405.653

Right. And so I got that from practice with my brother.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

642.662

You can't put the latter patient on Keppra or a medicine that would help them.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6436.197

Can I add really quick why? My dream is to be peer-to-peer with everyone.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6443.691

I don't want to be silencing myself because I don't have the status to be myself.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6450.935

So it's like, yes, I'm in a race to be able to just be myself.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6455.818

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6465.221

Yeah, you were built in alpha.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6473.231

Right.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6482.854

But can I say one thing I can observe about you? Yeah. When you aren't. Yeah. When you're in a very rigid status structure and you're not equal, it really rubs you the wrong way.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6497.811

So I don't know if you know why it's so uncomfortable to you, but I think that's why. Is you just had baseline, you were the alpha, you were older. And then you get in these situations where people have much higher status than you and you're like, oh, what the fuck is this?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

650.064

It could be a placebo.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6548.885

I don't think it's not about being scared to talk to him. You recognize he has earned the right to take up the most space. If we're sitting and we're talking about biology or literally any topic in the world— Well, no.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6587.866

Well, that's not a real thing, but knowledge is. So me and Neil deGrasse Tyson, the three of us are hanging out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6594.752

I shouldn't take up any amount of the time talking about astrophysics. It's ridiculous because that's his thing. That's his thing. And Bill, uniquely, you and I can't cover it. There's maybe one or two topics.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6611.082

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6615.404

That's right. And that's one you have. And we could count them. I might have automotive knowledge over him.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6621.908

But in general, you and I aren't going to be around anybody ever who has a more comprehensive knowledge of all things like that man. You and I are going to have a couple of things. Sure. When you and I meet a normal person, it's very equal. We probably know equal amounts about the world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6641.624

But Bill knows the entire history of the planet geologically and chemically. Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

665.029

okay you want me to should we yeah yeah absolutely yeah dad honest with you i don't think one thing or another i do think both sides should be explored passionately i agree okay so you can tell me first of all i'm very unlikely to tell you because i would have to ask so many deep personal questions that i wouldn't ask probably already said them yeah that's what we do we're not gonna force you to try to diagnose one of us we know that's unethical you don't have to hear the story but

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6654.852

Absolutely. And you're deferential because you know better than to enter the conversation about the green revolution or biology while he's giving information because it would be a waste of everyone's time. You're not going to add more than he can add to it. There's a reality to... The space that can be taken up and who should take it up because who has the expertise? That's just a reality of life.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6679.03

If it's fashion, you should be talking.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6688.872

Group dynamic. That's where it's really relevant.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6719.041

I think you're being pretty extreme about it. Like, shut up and let Bill talk for four hours. I'm saying if we're talking about software, if the conversation is about software. Yeah. You and I should have much less to say than Bill Gates has to say. We could give some experiential experience, you know, some firsthand anecdotal account of how we feel about interacting with software.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6741.265

But he should probably do most of the talking.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6745.828

Great. So we agree on it on software. And what I'm saying about Bill is you can pretty much then add any category of knowledge. And that's consistent with him. He's uniquely like this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6765.77

I don't either. This isn't a question of value. I think you're having a conversation about value as humans, and I'm having a conversation about deference to knowledge.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6781.913

I'm talking about someone doesn't have a chair for you at the thing and wants you to sit somewhere, and it's like it levels you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6809.938

Right. But if if the table you want to sit at happens to be a table of people on television at the Golden Globes and you feel disrespected that you're not allowed to sit at that table, even though you're not that thing. Yeah, that would be, in my opinion. In denial of reality, which is like it's a table for people on television, on a show about television.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6842.002

No. Well, what was the thing that you didn't have?

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6849.924

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

69.261

But her previous few books are also fascinating when we get into those. And that's about psychosomatic illnesses and contagious illnesses. All of it is.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6918.482

Which is like my whole childhood, I tried to sit at a table that he decided sometimes I was old enough to, and sometimes I wasn't. Or I wanted to join an activity that sometimes I was old enough for and cool enough for and sometimes I wasn't. So I have a ton of experience with that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6957.171

Yeah. Yeah, so I just know that I'm very used to being low status and being disinvited. And so it doesn't—it's not new to me. It's not novel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

696.196

You had a lot of muscle sore.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6979.344

Yeah.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

6982.846

My thing with Bill Gates is I don't have a—there's no— There's no right or wrong. There's no value for me. There's no injustice. I am going to shut up when we're talking about things that he knows a lot more. And also I'm gonna recognize I have comedy and he doesn't. So I'm gonna take up a lot of space comedically Because it's real.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7008.215

I deserve to take up a lot of space comedically and everyone likes to laugh and he likes to laugh too. And so I know what zone I should be being a tall poppy in. And I know which ones I shouldn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7024.785

And I think that's a good skill set for people to have.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7030.066

I think it's Dunning-Kruger if you don't have it. I think if you think you should be educating Bill on software or any other topic, mostly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7041.133

A lot of people don't recognize that you should evaluate whether you're adding value to something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7049.378

Well, I don't know of course. Like if it's just everyone has the right to talk equal amounts in all situations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7058.024

That's what I'm arguing for. I happen to be framing it in status because that is a big elephant in the room in social awareness. If you are three months into the job and you're at the board meeting and you're going to take up all the time when the CEO has been doing it for 25 years, that is your... blind to the reality of that situation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7079.009

And I think you, I don't think it's wrong that some people take up more space at times than others. I don't think everyone's entitled to equal space. Maybe that's the underbelly of what I'm rejecting about your argument is that everyone deserves equal space at all times.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7097.213

Well, you're saying I'm going to talk, everyone should talk the same.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7101.417

Okay.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7140.096

I think you and I often use words. We have different definitions for words and then we keep bumping up against each other. Like the way I use alpha is you have a very negative connotation of alpha.

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Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7152.24

Yeah, great. A ton of people do. I have a very anthropological definition of alpha and beta and all these things. And I think status for you is like, that's a negative word.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7170.848

And I think what you're saying is popularity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7176.013

Okay. So for me, status is not negative. It's a reality of social creatures. It's not negative or positive. It is the actual structure of social hierarchy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7189.654

So it's like, it's not good or bad. It's a real thing that all social animals adhere to. And then in any given context, status is achieved in different ways. On a basketball court, it's one way. In an intellectual conversation with Bill Gates, it's that way. In a investor's meeting, it's money. In some other domain, it's looks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

720.376

That was chalked up to a mystery for a year.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7213.866

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7236.439

I think everyone should pursue status. I think your life is better the more status you have in any given situation. And I think what you should not do is misuse status. I think the real issue maybe that people have in conflating these is they're thinking of how people misuse and mistreat others because they have status, which I would be in lockstep agreeing. That's the problem.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7264.952

People being dismissive of people, not hearing people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7278.048

Are we disgusting for trying to be the number one podcast?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7283.513

Yes, everything's a skill. If you want status in the Math 55 class at Harvard, you have to get the highest on the test. That will give you the status of smartest mathematician.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7299.003

See, I think you're always using status as popularity. I think that's why we fight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7307.748

But status in the math class is the highest test. Status in the podcast world is your ranking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7313.213

And you should always try. That's why I'm saying you should try to climb status. That means you're the best at the thing you're doing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7323.063

And you should try to get to the top of the heat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7328.227

I don't think you should try to be the most popular person in your friendship group.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7343.64

I'm trying to help us because I think when we're arguing so much, you think I'm making a, I'm in support of chasing popularity. Yeah. Right. And I'm not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7354.193

And I'm not talking alpha like you bark orders at people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7357.396

I'm talking about who in the room do you most trust to make the decision about X, Y, or Z. Yeah. That's alpha. And it can change in every context.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7408.81

You have to police yourself a ton if you have status to not presume status in all domains when you don't have it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7418.717

But when you say chasing status is repugnant, like you and I would have, like we're totally crossing paths at that point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7426.44

When you say chasing status is repugnant.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7429.522

We're like totally crossing lines. Like we're talking about completely different things. That's fine. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7458.503

To make me shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7460.204

I basically... Had that today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7463.836

Well, I did three servings of Metamucil yesterday, spaced out throughout the day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7472.658

I was underwhelmed with what I was getting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7477.44

I almost prefer constipation to 40% output. I'm like more bothered by 40%. I get it, I know. I'm like, what is going on?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7499.808

I'm like, no, you got to get through your meditation. But it was dicey. And I'm like, there's no way I can journal through this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7506.311

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7513.254

I kind of do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7516.535

There might be three more today. I have very high status right now in evacuation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7529.159

But cured by his time on the ranch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7540.944

Working with animals, he was on horseback.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7544.027

Dander, pet dander. Yeah, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7568.601

This is like the death by gunshot data is misleading.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7573.022

We've just got really good at treating gunshot wounds. Just as many people are getting shot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7583.346

Billion? Yeah. Billion, whoa.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

759.634

That's nice, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7609.432

That's a disheartening stat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7611.413

If you're getting your medical information from TikTok.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7623.94

In the world? One...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7627.646

Oh, I was gonna say, that seems high for the world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7632.008

Like Indians aren't fucking with all these diagnoses yet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7635.209

Our guest, Blaze, is like, there's not a single CBT certified therapist in a country of a billion people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

764.102

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Again, I didn't not know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7644.973

So there is- I just don't think they've been diagnosed yet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7648.215

They'll get there. There's a great- signal in developing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7654.317

Yeah, you'll stop having kids and you'll have a ton of mental health issues.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7658.498

All to aim for.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7673.884

I think it ends up being mutually assured annihilation at some point where it's like everyone has a diagnosis and everyone stops caring.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7689.784

That's it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7692.706

All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

7694.287

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

771.408

Yeah, I wouldn't say that out loud. But yeah, I think she has a bit of hypochondria. I didn't doubt it. I just am curious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

81.052

Me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

82.552

And so funny, too, because we just immediately contradict ourselves and then we get another expert on and learn about a new pathology.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

828.129

Right. There's no shame in one of the diagnoses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

832.391

So, well, I guess what I'm curious about is, do we understand the mechanisms that can create symptoms psychosomatically? Talk about Matthew, maybe from the book.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

91.054

To hold two conflicting ideas in the head at one time is a sign of intelligence. Please enjoy our ever-charming guest from Ireland, Dr. Suzanne O'Sullivan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

935.899

In MS specifically, if I remember right, the myelin sheath is eroding around the nerves is the issue. So can we observe the myelin sheath?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

991.421

Oh, it must be another layer of anguish on top of everything else.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Suzanne O'Sullivan (on over diagnosis)

998.227

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1014.841

But as obvious to me as each bullet point is like the Browns win for a decade, ruining the thing. You're not going to say that sentence. We're not going to hear more about that. This is a very concise bullet pointed outline.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1076.813

You know Seth Green, he's a geek, admittedly. He loves the Super Bowl because he goes to Six Flags because nobody's there. It's basically like sending out the place.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1096.764

That's my favorite company.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1098.505

Yeah. I've shot two movies inside of Costco and I loved it. One was just nights for six weeks. I had a bicycle I rode around. What movie? Employee of the Month. I had a little notebook in the back of my pocket and I would find items I wanted when I got home and I just accumulated this list of wants for six weeks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1114.068

Well, my favorite thing in your deck was of the hundred most viewed broadcasts of the entire year, 72 of them were NFL football games.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1163.545

Yeah. And it has the most coveted audience, which is they're watching it live and they're going to sit through the commercials. Exactly. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1175.411

Also interesting, ESPN was responsible for some enormous percentage overall of Disney as a corporation. Historically, every year it's a little bit worse. It's getting eroded. But there were moments, right, where that was just the crown jewel in this thing with all the IP.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1233.655

My 10-year-old was watching the Lions game with me a few weeks ago, and she goes, how did they know that was going to be the score? And I go, what do you mean? She's talking about the graphics. There's this incredible graphic package that happens instantaneously. And she naturally is assuming, well, someone would have to design that a day or two ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1249.809

And I go, no, hon, isn't that incredible that they have these real-time graphic packages that just emerge?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

126.102

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1359.567

They would just make one human the vanguard of the sphere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1423.144

Couldn't wait. I'm proud you waited that long to say CTE.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1426.486

Old Debbie Downer here.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

1446.356

But, Mani, it was in the wake of many, many deaths.

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It was a different time. Instant deaths. Not like 30 years later. I would even argue if we had watched two dozen NFL players drop dead. Remember with DeMar Hamlin a couple years ago? When he laid there. Yeah. Very scary. That was a really profound moment, I think. You could also make a case that they were even less safety oriented.

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I'm a little brother. I've done okay. Seems like it.

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In fact, the Chicago Bears. Were the Decatur Staley's.

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Packers, was that a nod to meat packing? Why was it the Packers? Do we know?

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And do we have any sense of what the attendance was of these? Are they playing in high school stadiums? Are they playing in college venues?

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I'll add the end of World War II is the birth of the Hells Angels. You also have a lot of young men who are now bored out of their fucking mind.

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The founder of the Cleveland Browns. I didn't, and I've always wondered why a team would be named the Browns. So finally that's answered. It's a great color. It is. It's a great color. But also it does have poop connotations. The Browns.

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And what was his background? He's, I imagine, a business owner, got some money. He's a football coach.

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Do you think he is just observing baseball and recognizing the power of them having kept all these stats?

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There's some interesting parallels here with wrestling. Very much like wrestling. I mean, all these regional divisions, they chopped up who would have TV rights.

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They got to basically buy a company in bankruptcy. Right. The AFC had no better option. I keep going back to, we had Kate Marr on. She and her sister, Rooney Marr, they are the grandchildren of the Steelers owner. I had no idea. And the Giants owner.

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My assumption is they grew up incredibly wealthy and she's like, yeah, we were obviously had a lot of money, but you have to understand my grandparents. I'm like, yeah, where'd they get the money to buy a team? And she's like, it didn't cost anything. Both of them were bookies. Wow. So back in the day, if you were just like a wheeler dealer bookie, you could own a

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Which goes to say, and that was going to be one of my questions, when the entire income of the endeavor is just the live audience tickets, I can't imagine they were terribly profitable.

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Okay, so I mean, you got an arena, you got a staff, you got a lot of players. So some money, but not... Some money, I just can't imagine anyone at that point owning the team because they have any sense it'll be worth billions of dollars or that it's some cash cow. That's still the case at this point in time.

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Yeah, and I don't want to jump ahead or behind, but I feel like this would be a good time for me to learn what the actual arrangement is between the NFL and the teams. They're owned by individuals. They join this league. What does that mean to join the league?

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Those early years of the NFL, my assumption then would be that they are just given a budget that they're going to operate at net zero from these team owners. It's not like that organization itself is going to try to generate money. And it still doesn't. It gets distributed out to the teams. Well, how does Goodell have a 70 million a year contract? He's paid by... By the team owners.

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I mean, it's almost a miracle this would have ever been agreed to because clearly there are people that were in huge markets that had teams. They could have taken the lion's share of all TV revenue. And they're going to have to presumably make a little less to give this Bozo team some money. It's like actors negotiating together.

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I'm going to give them to you.

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He said the least. I kind of trust him. Yes.

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Of course I know it, but I don't know what it means. Me either.

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Oh, and then any given Sunday, the team could win. Anything could happen. Any team could beat any other team.

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Again, it's amazing they got the dominant teams to go along with this strategy.

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It seems impossible.

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Which, again, they're in a very vulnerable situation where they probably only have any appeal if they're all one thing. They're probably doing it out of desperation originally.

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And NFL is already being televised on those other networks at this point. One off local deals.

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This is kind of a freebie for us because normally I would have had to do a ton of research and that has now fallen on both of your shoulders. So Ben and David, you guys are the hosts of Acquired. Does it get back to you how much we talk about Acquired? Yes. Oh, good. Good, good, good. We never know if we're in a vacuum or not.

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It's so impressive that they did it.

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It is, but I imagine the delta between some of these franchises. I'm sure some teams were like 8X. The Green Bay Packers are still in the league. They're not making any money.

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I want a shirt that says Costco feelings.

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It just seems interesting too that a guy that it seems like maybe was allowed to take on this position because he wasn't overtly charismatic and powerful somehow is secretly quite visionary. Pete Rizzo was like the king of soft power. You look up soft power in the dictionary, it should have his photo there.

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This is so much more interesting than I was expecting to be honest. It always is. I thought I just would like the money because I'm a greedy pig, but that's absolutely fascinating.

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I have to imagine throughout this story, we're also getting some kind of transition in who's playing the game, whereas it was people who went to elite colleges and learned this thing. I imagine it's getting more and more democratized as we're going along, and I imagine the racial makeup of these leagues is transitioning.

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Because you liked it so much and you wanted to buy one of the old bags.

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Boy, it's interesting how many different forces can work on one thing, how dynamic that is. Oh, they're going to play in a publicly held facility. And there is the leverage by which that could be proclaimed. Otherwise not.

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Name the list of famous players. And it's some of the most loved. OJ Simpson. Well, sure, for a minute. Well, for more than a minute. I mean, I think mostly we know the quarterbacks. And then outside of that, we don't know many white players.

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That's right. Did you watch the documentary? Yeah. That was so good.

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That was Al Davis. Oh, that's interesting because that carries to this day. If you want to bet on someone getting knifed in a parking lot, there's only one bet to make. It's a Raiders game. It's going to be obvious. Totally.

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Ah, too rich. I get it. When I was poor, I hated people like Monica, but now I love people like Monica.

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And I'd imagine that has some collateral impact. And I'm confused. I don't know which leagues do this, but I think most people just knowing you don't get to pick where you go is already an interesting thing contractually, right? If you're a player that gets drafted. I think it's part of the collective bargaining with the Players Association.

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There's something interesting about what we file offensive or gratuitous, but we don't because a piece of art. No one's mad at Picasso's worth $150 million. They're like, well, that's kind of rad. But for some reason, this is very triggering for people.

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Yes. You're right. And it is near impossible for an NFL team to get a perfect season. It's happened once.

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Did Brady have a perfect season? Dan Marino had a perfect season. He's my Taylor Swift. You shouldn't even bring him up because I will not be able to get off of him. You got him on the show? I have. Yeah, yeah. When you're rooting for Tom Brady, you don't give a fuck how far you're down. It doesn't mean anything. You go to that fourth quarter like down three touches and you're not even worried.

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There are levers in place and they're pulling all the ones they can.

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I'm really mad I just learned this term in Bill Gates' new book. It's a Japanese manufacturing principle. It's what Toyota implied, which is every year we must improve our manufacturing process. And we must improve. Kaizen? Yes! Oh, God, you just earned your paycheck.

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You got to know your business. You're not in an optimization business. We're trying to ride that line between jazz and classical. You don't know how much you're supposed to improv and be loose and how much you're supposed to be classical. Tell us about it. I know, you guys are very classical. You're an orchestra.

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We were more jazz. And what have you gained and what have you lost from that evolution?

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Well, we have fun in different ways.

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Well, the person I have felt most guilty interviewing, which we've now done four times, five times, is Malcolm Gladwell.

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Revisionist history is the most perfectly produced product in the marketplace. And the amount of effort that's put into it. We finish an episode and we're friendly and I'm like, is that not annoy the fuck out of you? Like we just created two hours of content and it's almost minute for minute real time content. That's it. There's no more work to be done.

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Monica's like, you have no idea what I do.

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I have the same resolution, which is, yes, getting mired in these very complicated deals with humongous companies. I had to get to the point where I was like, Remember you love talking to people and somehow you guys have figured out how to get the most interesting people in order to swing by your house and talk. Fucking stop thinking about anything else.

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Yeah, especially if we do 152 episodes a year now. Wow.

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I in general don't want to act, but if Tarantino for his 10th movie calls me, I'm going to figure it out. But how do we do it at this point? It would be very hard.

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I'll admit this out loud. I remember Joe Rogan stating that years ago, like he's done with acting and hosting. And I was like, I don't buy it. I don't think you're having the opportunities you want. I think this is bullshit. And I was completely wrong. He definitely was just in the position we are now in much earlier. And yeah, it's much more fun to me than acting or anything else.

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So now the NFL absorbs the AFL.

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Let's go take that money and go steal all their quarterbacks. This is the Ted Turner-McMahon war section of the story now.

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It's so crazy they got outperformed twice and still remain the NFL. Exactly.

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Well, I'll tell you, I think it was your Hermes episode that got me interested because our friend Eric, who has zero interest, he was a lawyer who quit and now he just trades stocks. And he called mine. He's like, I've got to get some Hermes stuff.

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Cut off a future uprising. Yeah, make sure this doesn't happen again.

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It was $900 grand a year for however many teams.

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Oh, that one hurt. Yes, exactly. They weren't experts at all.

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I'm going to interject movie stuff. So a couple of technical innovations that helped it greatly is the Superfly Cam, which was invented by John Brown, the DP of Without a Paddle's father, who had also invented the Steadicam. So the Steadicam allows them to run along the side and keep your vision nice and stable. And then the Superfly Cam is a four-point system that'll allow it to go anywhere.

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So those are huge tech innovations that helped.

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It's like, oh, Monday night with my friends. Howard is, you know, the dudes in the booth. And talk about filling time. You're going to talk for two and a half hours without a script.

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Improv geniuses, really.

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Yeah, yeah. That was a good one.

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leads to ESPN and Sportsnet. And if you're in a market that didn't show these other games, there was no way to possibly see it. You can read about it in the newspaper, but that sucks. What a powerful aspect to build interest in the whole league.

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Or it was in film, 16 millimeter that needs to go get printed.

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Yeah, all he knows about is the stock market. He vaguely knows law and he knows peptides.

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So it sounds like they were smart and invested virtually every dollar they received from this television contract into the product.

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I'm just saying 500 grand per game. No, that's just Monday night. So the show that they're going to put on now with all the extra cameras and all these bells and whistles, I mean, this is now becoming a bit more expensive to produce. 500 grand per game in meteorite steals.

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Oh, they just want 500.

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Soccer team owner, I think. Yeah, exactly. You've heard of her. So at any rate, it's really, really great to have you guys. A little bit of background on both of you, because this was a question of mine when I started listening. I was like, why is it these guys have such a deep knowledge on all these things?

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Oh, it's entirely on the back of the network. And then they get them to compete and make the product better. Yes. Because now Fox has got to have the blue line on the field. They've got to have John Madden. Fox is paying John Madden, not the NFL. That is incredible. You get your customers to make your product better for you.

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And then as you cover different companies, I would say that Meta episode, which was phenomenal. Thank you. I was like, they had to be programmers or something for them to understand the tech as well as you guys both did. I'm sure one of you was better than the other. Ben, you have a computer science degree. That makes a little more sense.

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I cannot wait to watch episode after episode with De Niro as the star.

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Are they recouping? I mean, they have to be.

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But I'm just, as I listen, as a fan of the show, trying to piece together how it is you guys ended up with this podcast. So let's just start with, it really was just an endeavor for fun, right? You both have your own careers. You both have different disciplines. So Ben, kick us off with how you came to the podcast.

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Commercials are still the TV networks. And then YouTube's making their money on the subscription model and not the advertising model.

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They're just snapping back and forth to all these different games that are happening. You're just seeing play after play after play.

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Yeah, and they licensed it to them, but now they're licensing their footage for free. Yes. Yeah. My God, this is incredible.

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And they're just adding more product because then you have Netflix Christmas game.

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They have to be able to top everything you've been seeing all year long and bring in people who don't generally watch football. So they need something novel. But no, Monica, I think you're right.

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You did. And then they had the idea. What about the NFL? What timing? So we're going to learn the history and the finances of the NFL. And I need you to give me a testimonial. It's so much more interesting than probably anyone would expect, right?

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It just totally devalued this other thing we sold people. Totally. The right to show the Super Bowl is I'm imagining a standalone TV deal.

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Okay. I kind of thought they all bid on just that one game. Maybe.

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It's on Court TV this year, which is a big win for them.

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I'm so glad I don't have the chart in my office trying to keep track of all the shit we've bought and when we're airing it. That sounds like the worst.

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But they're also, not to get too in the weeds on it, they're amortizing the cost of that through some value they assign launching television shows on the back of this audience they have. They have 16 million viewers. They show a 30 second spot on

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But yeah, you're getting into this complicated model of new subscribers. Their only metric is new subscribers and subscribers that are staying. Why are they staying? Are they staying for the new show? Are they staying for this thing we added? Talk about a job that's nebulous that they're trying to figure out best ROI. Who fucking knows why someone sticks around on a streamer and

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I think they have good ideas on how to get new subscribers, but I'm not sure they know necessarily.

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It would have been a very short list. I was going to say, I can't imagine you get a ton of episodes like that.

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Okay, but you went to Ohio State? I did. Congratulations. Thank you. Did you guys just win? National champions.

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Yeah, and if I'm a player, I'm pissed. I'm like, bullshit, I'm fucking Tom Brady. 13% of all jersey sales this entire year were me.

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But yeah, some of these are half a billion dollar contracts over a period of time.

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I'm always thinking about it when you watch that HBO show, Hard Knocks Training Camp. And you're like, this guy's making $400,000 a year, and he's sitting next to a guy who's making $29,000 a year. They're arriving in these dramatically different vehicles. It's pretty wild. Most coworkers don't experience that.

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I don't know if you have it off the top of your head what the league minimum is, though, but it's pretty high.

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Okay, so here's my great question. Is the only way for these networks to fight back is if they themselves formed a coalition and they collectively said, guys, we're not paying more than a billion five for these rights.

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Thursday Night Football was streamed on Twitter for a year or two, right?

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But again, if you look at it right now, it's the exact same situation the NFL was in. in 1960 or whatever, because currently Netflix would be heavily disincentivized to enter into a collective buying group because they can outspend everybody. So they are currently someone who would be like, fuck that. But in the long run, they might benefit more from being in bed with some of these other.

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Yeah, my last question, and this one was really my agent when he found out I was going to talk to you guys. He's obsessed with you as well. He's like, you can't figure it out. What's going on with gambling? What's their participation in this gambling? Because this, again, is some potentially huge revenue source. So what's their relationship with now this rise of these online gambling platforms?

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It is curious to me why it holds no interest. I'm not a huge sports person, but I just do think objectively that game has a magic to it. The results would suggest that, aside from their collective bargaining and all these other things, it's an easy game to jump into really quick in love.

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I'm wrong. Indian cricket.

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I'm going to keep this really brief because Monica will kill me. But just off the top of your head, what's the greatest amusement park in the history of the world? Cedar Point. Yeah, of course. That's an easy question.

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They did a big old pivot on that. They really did. There was this original fear, of course, that it would somehow corrupt the game and people would throw games. And we did see it in baseball. There's some examples. So I think the ostensible threat always was it was going to change the outcomes of these games. Is there any proof of that having happened?

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I'll tell you in my own personal anecdotal situation, I would have never found a bookie. I stupidly thought that the Jake Paul and Tyson fight was real. And so when I heard it was three to one Tyson to knock him out. You're now convinced it wasn't real? Yeah, yeah.

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When a man has that much muscle memory with his Bob left everything and we see him do the entire series and then stop just short of knocking him out, that's a little hard for me to understand. But at any rate, I was stupid enough to believe that that was going to be a real fight. And I'm like, well, that's three to one money sitting on the fucking table.

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Mike Tyson's gonna knock this guy out in two seconds. I can download an app right now and make, I was like, I gotta get to Vegas. I'm like, no, I don't anymore. Now, it turns out I would have needed to because in California, you still can't do that. Thank you, California. You saved me $1,000 out of the laws. It's not legal here yet? I think it has a lot of restrictions.

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I think this is part of why there's so many different things you can bet on. Any state that you have a native gaming industry, which California has, you're going to find that we have more restrictive laws. Every time there's an election cycle, you see all these gambling anti and pro funded by different reservations. So I think that's why I wasn't able to bet. So thank you, reservations.

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Yeah, Sandusky, Ohio. Every time we have any guests on within the tri-state area, we'll do 20 minutes on Cedar Point and she cannot stand it.

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Oh, they have to kick up their own ticket sales?

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Yeah. Millennium Force, Top Thrill Dragster. Magnum XJ220s, the Gemini, the Demon Drop, the Corkscrew. Oh my God. Yeah. They were just acquired by Six Flags. That's right. You really could do an episode on them.

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And you think that could seed some kind of animosity that could start to erode? Even if not animosity, just some teams are way richer than others.

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Wouldn't that then incentivize teams moving much more? Because if I'm only making $50 million, I see in Dallas you can make $600.

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What a fascinating business.

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Yes. I was the biggest NBA fan. That was my religion for like eight years. And I was watching the Lakers during their run of complete dominance. And I remember just going, I should really only tune into the fourth quarter. That's when they start playing. Doesn't matter how much they're down. And then I was like, do I even like this sport? If I sit through three quarters, I don't matter.

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It's interesting the limits that are just inherently in place. Like, I guess the obvious choice for them would be to add games in the NFL. But it's such a violent sport that there's really kind of a limit. They can't play 82 games a year in that sport. They're likely going to add another week. Wednesday morning football. Tea time. Breakfast football.

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Exactly. Tea time. Oh, well, David and Ben, this has been awesome.

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Oh, good. Thanks so much for coming in. I hope we get to do this again. Yeah. Maybe another topical burble up.

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Oh. Oh, that's fun. This could be the first thing that got you interested in Cedar Point if they actually did an acquired on it.

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And yes, we'll be on your show. We'll be on your show.

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Thanks so much, you guys. All right, take care. Stay tuned to hear Miss Monica correct all the facts that were wrong. That's okay, though. We all make mistakes.

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Okay. Hello. If you say so.

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Oh, no. Oh, you can't relate. I've not had that experience.

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That's what you're dealing with?

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Is this the mole you try to pick out or the freckle that you try to dig out?

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It's too successful to do it on.

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OK, I've not tried to remove a freckle.

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True, true. But just no freckle removal. I don't know that that's possible.

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And replace it with a scar.

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Was it a little light white color there? Yeah.

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Oh, you put makeup. Oh, I thought you were covering up. No, I wasn't.

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Right. Give yourself a scar. Yeah. Oh, my God.

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It's so, I can't see it. Really? Yeah. I'm sorry. Well, the brown spot? Yeah. Oh, yeah. I see the brown spot. That's a liver spot, I think.

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It's time to enter our liver spot phase of life.

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It's very natural. If you can do it without liver spots, you probably prefer it.

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Right. Whole new hand. That's kind of fun, though, I would say.

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Yeah. Slowing time down. That does a ding, ding, ding. These novel things slow time down.

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We're calling her Jan Brady now? Yeah. You got to catch me up. I'm sorry. Yeah, where did you develop Jan Brady? That sounds like a Jess.

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Yeah, I started compulsively cutting my hair today. You know, I like to do that.

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5687.183

Yeah, yeah, yeah. But now I can't blow my nose.

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And I think that it's burbling up.

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I think I satiated my thing. What happens is I was going to do a little trim trim. It got bigger and bigger and bigger. And then I thought I had finished in the bathroom, but then I went to work out. And as I told you, I have reverse lighting or backlighting. I know. It exposes all these things. And then the madness of, I'm just going to do a trim. I know that's it.

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I want to say it's in the order of like six trips to the emergency room a day that it was open, that park.

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I keep scissors now in my gym, which is, yeah. And then I got to vacuum it up. And then I'm like, that's it because we can't get the vacuum out again. And I got the vacuum out like five times, I think. Yeah, I was lifting weights, cutting hair, vacuuming, lift more weights, see more hair, cut more hair, vacuum. If someone was watching.

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Which someone could. It's very exposed.

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And there's just windows galore. Oh, true. So if someone was interested, they probably watched the ramblings of a madman.

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It's like a badge of honor. And I think Adventureland, that movie, is based on that.

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You see any spots I need to trim? No. Okay. I'm not too far from my scissors.

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I had a little bit of a gusher. Caught my ear a little bit. Okay. I'm just trying to be accountable.

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It's like an AA meeting. It just worries me a little.

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I'll be blessed with the fact that it's very hard for me to see. Other than when I saw blood and blood overtook my whole sideburn area.

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Wow, we had overlapping days. Continue.

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The writer of that film or director worked there at the Nuts one. And people would go upside down and they would come up with lacerations. Yeah. Yeah. Okay, so you graduate with a computer science degree and then you end up moving to Silicon Valley?

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This is a great way to meet somebody. Ask a stranger. Yeah. I'm so sorry, sir. Could you hold my delicate risk and help me get this?

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I'll cut to the chase for you.

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5887.954

So Sunset Tower, did you see fancy people?

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5896.227

So, you know, I had this dinner with Nate and Panay that was a con. It was really a deception so that I could get to my birthday party. Yeah. But then I really wanted to have dinner with them. So that was last night.

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And then Panay was like, where do you, where should we go? Like home base, one of our standards. And I said, I could go to home base or... I could also go see some new hot place. I felt like I wanted to see that.

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Boy, did he deliver. We went to, have you heard of Navaco?

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I thought it was Nabokov when I saw it written. I was like, oh, they named a restaurant after Nabokov, the writer. Oh. But it's Nabokov. Oh. In Beverly Hills, on Canon, and it was everything... I could have hoped for. It's only been open since July, I guess.

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The food was outrageous. You know how when you're at Cara, you can pretend you're in Italy?

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5954.083

I was like, we're in Miami. Oh, sure. It was Miami.

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I got to be careful. It's fine. Almost all the dudes looked exactly the same.

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Five, nine shaved heads, probably on a little too much testosterone, but not working out a lot. With very, very attractive younger women.

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Yeah, there was a lot of jewelries. There was a lot of paddock watches. I mean, it's expensive.

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Yeah, it felt like a throwback to the 80s or 90s, which I enjoyed.

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I cannot put too fine a point how good the food was. It was outrageous. I want that. And we pigged out like crazy. A risotto with truffle.

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Gluten-free blew my doors off my barn. And then a great steak, a baby chicken.

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6009.653

They described it as a baby chicken.

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Not a Cornish hen, but an oven-baked tiny baby chicken.

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Well, I was like, do they mean a chick?

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But that wouldn't be enough meat, I don't think. It was delicious and it was very entertaining. It was, it was.

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Yes, I loved it. What was the vibe at, I didn't know you're now working at Sunset Tower. That's a far ride to go.

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You love it for the food, the atmosphere. Atmosphere. And what are you seeing?

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Was it a baby chicken? Fried baby chicken?

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6062.811

Okay. Grandpa chicken?

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6087.198

So that you'll be still there at happy hour?

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Yeah. Similarly. I was dead. I had ridden my bicycle too far and I hadn't had caffeine since really early in the day and I wasn't going to have any.

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I was driving there. I was like, oh, a little drowsy for this big outing with the boys. But I did have some DCs at the place and then the energy really did lift me up.

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Well, I think it is in service of making sure I'm getting good night's sleep.

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6130.725

Right. Like I think getting a full uninterrupted aid is ideal right now, which I did last night.

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Although I have the right mental attitude. I've decided to go like, yeah, this is uncomfortable, but this is you being strong and not escaping and walking through. And it's fine and it'll change. So it's been fine.

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Yeah. Just a couple of haircuts, a few naps.

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We both went to restaurants. I took a bike ride.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6246.895

Did you end up having someone help you?

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6250.276

But not a stranger.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6252.142

I think that's the best move.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6255.863

Excuse me. I've been trying to get this bracelet on for 20 minutes. Would you mind? I don't have any cooties. Well, I do have cooties. Look how fun this is already. Playful, dance, dance, dance. Before he even gets the bracelet, you've now talked for 25 minutes.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6273.867

Yeah, and then he's failing and he's laughing. That's funny. Oh my God. I'm falling in love just thinking about this. We had a funny moment last night. Every now and then you'll feel 13, which is really fun, which is George and I went to the bathroom. There was a girl in a cowboy hat he liked.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

628.691

No, acquired. No Microsoft. Okay, now, David, you go kind of a fancier route, if we could say. I don't have any national championships. Undergrad at Princeton and then Stanford Graduate School. You have an MBA. And what's your undergrad degree in? French literature. Oh, you romantic son of a bitch. The long hair. That's nice. The angular features. Yeah.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6294.955

Sitting at a table. And behind them was this cool little display of like the seafood they have. It was like a little mini market set up and they're grabbing stuff from there. It felt like you were invited to peruse this little thing.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6307.421

So on the way in, George spotted her and he's like, oh my God, look at that girl in the cowboy hat. I'm like, okay. So when we were coming out, I'm like, oh, let's look at these. Let's look at the lobsters.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6319.126

Yeah. So now we're like, now we're, we are looking, but we're also fake looking. Of course. Yeah. And we're like looking at the vegetables and the lobster and this and that. And then as I turned to walk in, well, they're all looking at George and I. And then I'm like, and now what?

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6335.41

He's going to have to talk. It's so funny. That part's hard. I felt like I was at the mall and we saw some girls at Burger King. And then we acted like we were going to buy something. Then we're like, you know what? I'm full. And turned around and it was like, well, that was the... Oh, wow. And then when I left, George, well... I think we got their attention.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6353.583

And then I was leaving and George was like, I gotta, I gotta go back. I'm going to go back and see what's happening with the cowboy head. But us standing there looking at this stuff.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6370.296

I think it's... I was hearing the updates of A Single Life and I was thinking, yeah, I'm glad I'm not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6380.532

I'm not on the scene.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6385.834

Oh, wow. Fun. Ben and David. Yeah, they're great. Really, really, really.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6396.477

Yeah, as a corporation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6399.498

As a capitalist communism.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6418.24

Right. So now you're a huge fan.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6434.147

Oh, okay. Yeah. This is very exciting.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6477.937

This is fantastic. What are her cars?

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

649.924

You're a babe. You must know this, right? I appreciate that. Yeah, what a stuff. Ben, you're hot too. I don't want to leave you out. I grew my hair long during COVID. It didn't play as well as. Yeah, that's an enviable head of hair.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6493.432

Oh, what a wonderful sedan. Luxury vehicle. Twin turbo.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6499.095

Yeah, four-door sedan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6504.065

G-Wagon is the G63.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6506.286

Oh, I thought you said S. No, G. Oh, wonderful. Love those. Love those. Eric's even thinking of getting one. Really? Yeah.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6516.47

Yeah, they're so good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6521.171

Yeah, they're great. They're very expensive.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6527.434

Every time I see a G-Wagon, it's mostly... Rich, hot women driving G-wagons in LA. Yeah, it skews female.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6542.294

That's what I was referring to, but not the AMG version.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6548.657

That's like a coach-built, Mercedes-based, you know, like a private plane for cars. Wow. It's a rolling atelier.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6565.547

Standard. You got to have it for arriving at functions. You're up high. If you're wearing a dress, you can exit the vehicle without your beaver accidentally being exposed.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6579.56

Okay. Yes. Yes. Very elegant design first. Okay. Not the most performing.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6588.622

No, no. Objectively, but very elegant looking.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6595.544

Yep. And it is. It's got the Lambo V10 or it's got the V8 depending on which.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6601.105

Okay. I'm surprised she doesn't have the V10, but when I talk to her, I'll get her to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6606.595

Again, that's a very feminine supercar.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6617.742

Yeah. That feels, that's interesting. That's when she plays Lavender Hayes, I think. That's her Lavender Hayes car.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6627.722

Well, it's just an Italian. I mean, it's so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6631.668

Yeah. Very dude car. Very, very few women go out and buy a 458.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6645.414

I'm going to ask Chad if it knows what percentage of Ferrari owners are men.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6651.399

Because I bet you it's about as high as any brand. What percentage of Ferrari owners are men? The percentage of Ferrari owners who are men is estimated to be around 90 to 95 percent. Oh, wow. That's that's really quite high. So she can count herself in the 5%.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6673.545

Perfect car. Very exciting. Great taste. Should I see what Chet thinks the percentage of women who own Porsches?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6684.178

What percentage of Porsche owners are female? 15 to 20 percent.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6689.28

So that's 4X the amount they own for hours.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6695.242

The Cayenne has female ownership estimated between 30 and 40 percent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6702.265

No. Oh, here we go. The Macan, that's the small SUV. That one's got 50% of buyers are women.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6714.513

Okay. She has some practical vehicles? She has three. Okay.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6720.316

Great. She'll have that until she's dead. It'll run until she's dead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6734.465

Okay. Is it pink? Yeah, it's pink. It's pink. It's like a Mary Kay.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6751.019

Why does she have that?

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6753.681

Was that given? Does she have a deal with Nissan? Does she have any kind of?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6783.727

Everyone says the Nissan Quashquai?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6786.986

If we ever interview her, I want to do 20 minutes on this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6803.101

This vehicle is in London and it's so she can... Leave an apartment without anyone thinking it's her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6819.082

She should own a UPS truck and then just deck out the back like a sprinter van and then get driven around a UPS truck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6828.984

I could. And then her driver could wear the UPS outfit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6832.404

Or FedEx. I guess if she's in London, it would probably be FedEx.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

685.017

Am I not wrong in that headquarters of venture capital is generally though Silicon Valley? Oh yeah, yeah. Have you read Nate Silver's new book by chance? No. It's about gambling and it's about venture capitalists and it's about risk-taking. Friedman.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6869.56

Okay. And there's a doc about it called Class Action Park or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6877.594

Five to 10 people went in an ambulance away from there.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6881.596

Emergency room. While they were keeping probably the town emergency clinic in business.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6890.519

I wonder if they were giving away like the woman who lost her eyelid on the slide. She got an embroidered sweatshirt or something. From Armchair Anonymous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6902.044

They should have had a shirt that said, I was sent to the emergency room by Adventure Park.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6907.565

Is that what it's called? Action Park. No, Action Park, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6915.508

Yeah, incredible. And I've been talking so much about what I learned.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6919.949

I basically repeated the entire episode to my father-in-law.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6923.431

All right, love you.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

6939.69

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

697.78

Thomas Friedman? No. Is that? No. Sam. Sam Altman Friedman.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

702.282

Sam Allman. Sam Freeman Allman. All right, Sam Allman, which is also in the book, is open AI. Sam B something. Sam Bankman Freed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

715.831

He just blew Princeton, Stanford, UCLA, and Georgia out of the water. Ohio State knew it. Okay, so you end up there and you are employed in that capacity.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

74.663

Acquired is hosted by Ben Gilbert and Davin Rosenthal. Please, if you like this, check out Acquired. There is certainly a business that will interest you. Costco.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

773.416

Yeah, we're interviewing you on our seven-year anniversary, and I feel equally. Is it really? Is it? No. It'll come out probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

800.894

Could we do in public what happens in an AA meeting? There's a lot of explanations. They're all kind of true. And there's not one. But probably more accurately is Serial the podcast. Because Monica and I were both consuming it at the time Monica was babysitting. And we would fight for hours in the kitchen about whether Adnan was guilty or not. I'm like, you're not a dude. You don't understand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

821.861

Dudes do fucking weird stuff. I know kids like, yeah, that's not, it's not shocking. You know, we would fight nonstop. So we had a hobby of arguing with one another.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

831.891

We thought that's a good engine for a show. Good grist for the mill. They're going to know a lot of venture capitalist terms.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

839.059

Yeah, sure. Oh, I love that. Good grist for the mill. Cereal paved the way for this whole industry. Okay, so you guys start doing it, and it's just for fun, right? You don't have any aspirations, I can't imagine, nor did we, that it would be a business. And at this point, it's also a nice business that you guys have, I'm imagining. It's our whole thing now.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

859.036

We do some investing as part of Acquired. Our previous careers, we have Sunset. What year did you guys make that decision, and did you guys get together and be like, I think I'm ready? We did it different times, actually.

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Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

887.246

We accidentally built it on the side. Yes. I'm not qualified to say this, but I do think you're a little bit inoculated from both a plateau and a decline because the folks that are already drawn to it. For me, it's like this American life. I'm never going to not be interested in it. It's not a pop culture phenomenon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

902.173

You didn't have a guest on who talked about some sexual escapade with someone in that. You know, I think you have such a solid foundation of a listenership that will only grow as people like us talk nonstop about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

919.303

I believe that for sure, because you get brought in for a certain topic you're interested in and you go, oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

926.348

You start shopping as I did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

928.649

OK, so because the Super Bowl is upon us, it was Monica's brilliant idea that what if we could do kind of a mini Acquired episode about the NFL? Oh, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

945.132

Oh, it sounded too smart, to be honest, for you. How dare you? Yeah, it really did. It always was a little suspicious. No, we workshopped six or seven different ideas before.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

953.534

Oh, I guess Taylor Swift's car collection. The row. This candle company I can't get the candle of. Is Taylor Swift a car collector? No, no, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

966.837

I know that. That's why I had the throwing car collector because they already did Taylor Swift. And it didn't make any sense. Is there something we didn't find? I bet she has a collection of SUVs she gets driven in is my guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

978.946

So what a great time to learn all about the NFL. It'll be very fun for us and we're very appreciative to let you walk us through the history of it and the economics of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Acquired Podcast on the NFL (with Ben Gilbert and David Rosenthal)

98.892

I've been in the Costco religion for years. I'm late. Shot two movies in Costco. Yeah. Please enjoy Ben and David on the NFL. We are supported by YNAB. Do you experience excessive bouts of money stress? Oh my gosh, do I. Do you avoid your bank balance like it's a text from an ex? Do you feel guilt and second guessing about your spending? If you answer yes, you may be suffering from financial funk.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

1336.932

Do you think the fear of failure being so intense is because you saw your dad lose everything?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

1414.545

Wow, I'm jealous of that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

1418.907

You're like, I'm fixed now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

1583.329

That is great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

1747.109

No, I know what you mean. The next bombshell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

1751.712

Oh, thank you. That's so... Oh, my God. I'm so jealous of you. That's so nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

180.608

How overwhelming is it? You are very handsome. I know. And you're very tall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

2085.908

It's 0.2 times it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

2346.81

Oh, wowie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

2619.812

Too tall. Yeah.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

2624.458

Oh, no.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

2806.168

Well, I think it's made you feel confident. It's had that impact. And so then you exude confidence and that's compelling to people.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

283.903

No, it's okay. I have a sense this is going to be fairly— You had appropriate expectations. Yeah, I did. I did. I did. I have a Mercedes, too, that we should tell Toto.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

293.49

Uh-oh, boy.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

2960.224

Yeah, me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

2999.096

She's keeping you humble.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

3010.139

I'm glad you have her. That's good.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

3150.055

Yeah, we love Danny.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

3156.239

It's great. Monica wears it too. Yeah, I love it.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

3162.54

Talk about charm.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

3177.265

Mm-hmm. Oh, he's going to be fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

3565.031

Wow, Dax, you're getting everyone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

3601.983

No, no. Let him be. You need to be in Los Feliz.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

3829.812

Do you drink wine?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

3852.298

Hungover. Nice.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

389.019

Control freak. A bit of no nonsense. No bullshit, tell you the truth.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

4004.665

slash Toto's F1 car. Oh, I see, I see, I see.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

4018.695

Oh my God.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

4053.28

He's been waiting his whole life for that.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

4074.389

Yes. I mean, I guess that's how you get to be those people.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

4085.102

We have talked about this too.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

4159.832

Oh, Capricorn.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

4457.972

Oh, I see. Okay.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

4639.406

Yeah, it would have been the right thing to do. There's humans at the end of all of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

4750.807

Oh, I remember that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

4760.014

It was huge for Danny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

5030.377

It's a beautiful car.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

5033.478

You do? What color?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

5057.293

That's the one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

5065.983

That's a beautiful car.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

5074.813

I love the heat. I can take it. You love the heat. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

5077.696

I can really take it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

5083.421

I will do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

5092.008

Yeah, I wonder... I don't know how that would feel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

5154.25

Oh. I love this. Good for her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

5173.16

I always roll.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

53.525

His life.

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Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

556.469

Oh, this is so exciting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

6377.161

I did it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Toto Wolff (team principal of Mercedes F1 team)

721.127

Yeah. Did you have brothers and sisters?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Hermian Permian. I'm joined by my mom. Hi, Mom.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

102.615

I wonder if when there's a quantum computer that can model the future and all that, if it can go backwards in time and somehow we would get answers to these things.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1085.602

Okay, so we do see that dimorphism start to shrink.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1094.645

Okay, so we're super unique in the fact that we have split up the food gathering. What else is unique? Obviously, the way we rear young.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

111.937

Herman rocked. This is a really, really interesting episode. I'm usually threatened by other anthropology majors because they actually know all this stuff and I'm mostly ill-informed as we find out a few times in this episode.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1123.803

You were saying at your daughter's seventh birthday party, all the seven-year-olds there, if they were any other animal, would be grandparents at that age.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1131.545

Yeah, that's right. That's so wild. Isn't that fun? That's a great way to think about it.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1228.493

And then you factor in nutrition too. We were with Bill Gates in India and one of his main thrusts is these gaps. As much as like 30% of your intelligence can be missed if you're not hitting your nutritional goals and certain windows of your life. Like it's pretty dramatic, the impact of nutrition.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1256.934

Well, yeah, proportionally, you look at a baby's head, it's a third of its fucking being.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1264.616

Right. Because of all the connections that are being built. The organ's ass off to catch up to this.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1269.437

Baseline knowledge. It's so cute. And when they're cranky, it's like, of course they're cranky. They're in a graduate class every day with a final.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1279.099

right so of course if you miss those calories your body's going to try to shield your brain but there's only so much you can do okay so are you leaning towards because in 2000 the two most promising explanations for our explosion intelligence was one is our groups were growing in size in the complexity of the group and the facial recognition all these different things and knowing where you're at hierarchically was going to predict your mating success and that was driving it and then

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

128.921

Please enjoy Herman Potler.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1306.715

There's this other kind of fruit based. I never loved that one. Where are we at? Are those still the two debates?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1322.732

Yeah. You get excommunicated and you die very quickly.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1325.935

It goes really far.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1350.456

Oh, right. Because like homodrized baboons have bigger groups than... Exactly.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1364.248

Right. So there's no silver bullet explanation. It's just perhaps some combination of different... Yeah.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1409.538

Right.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1410.338

It's very comforting that there would be a single explanation and it would be definitive. Yeah, right. Okay, so our intelligence starts taking a leap. How is that graphed? Is it totally linear or is it more of a hockey stick? Like when we go from Homo erectus to, I know Neanderthals have a 1650 CC brain. It was enormous, bigger than ours. How gradual is that?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1450.768

Now, and also part of your work was you've done a lot of field work with the Hadza, and they're in northern Tanzania. That's exactly right. Okay, and so what have you observed in them that seems to confirm what you learned on the biological side?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1473.368

This is fascinating because I think we would all assume this group that is walking all day long, they're averaging 19,000 steps for the dudes and 16,000 steps, and then they're busy all day long. They don't domesticate any animals, any plants. They're doing it. Right, right. You think of yourself as burning a couple thousand calories a day or something? I hope. I mean, that's what we're told.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1494.572

What would you think they're expending?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1499.174

I think that would be a very natural, common guess. They're five times as active as me, I would imagine. At least double.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1505.698

Yeah, yeah.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1557.505

Because I find it fascinating. Maybe it's too nerdy, but you're measuring carbon dioxide.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

156.388

But only our wives will see it. So, you're from Pennsylvania? Mm-hmm. Whereabouts? I'm a Michigander.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1563.387

Let's put these people to sleep.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1617.842

Carbon dioxide is the exhaust. That's exactly right. Of metabolic activity.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1626.926

It's the measure. It's not a whoop or a Fitbit.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1639.872

Yeah.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1648.437

So you're probably more like 3,000 a day?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1658.847

I know the real answer.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1660.809

The only real relation hardcore is your nonfat mass. So your muscle and your organs. As you plot that and you plot calorie consumption, it's spot on. When we're observing the difference between males and females, all we're really observing is the difference in our body composition, that men have X amount, well, in this case, 24 divided by 3,000. Yeah.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1682.651

That's probably the exact difference in nonfat body mass. That's right.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1715.362

Do you have a favorite? None of it tastes as good as a cow. Paws of cuisine is not really a thing. It's not fatty, any of those animals.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1752.274

Wow. Do they have any elevated rates, probably less, of animal-born bacteria and stuff?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1772.479

I read this result, and I found it quite depressing.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1869.707

So how do you make it jive within that system?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1963.556

Or this is why you have Olympic athletes that don't get their period for three years. Yes, that's the issue of it.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1974.545

All signs point to that is a good thing.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

1992.178

Now, have we gotten good at monitoring how many calories the brain is consuming while intensely active? Yes. I have to imagine if you're crunching numbers and computing, that activity is going to burn more calories than watching TV.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2020.749

So it's not like you could say this brain economy is a kind of one-to-one to this physical activity.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2039.815

What you found is that there is a pretty narrow margin that the body wants to operate in metabolically.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

204.799

How many acres did you grow up on?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2053.641

Well, I've experienced it. So that's where I'm wrestling with. Like, as I read this stuff, I'm like, well, no, I upped my thing and I've had all the results one would expect.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2069.65

And the body hasn't found its way to homeostasis yet. Yeah. But if you're doing a lot of weight training, we get into this nonfat body mass, or we are going to see a direct result to your metabolism.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2101.69

Your body can only adjust so much. Like these bodybuilders that are walking around at 300 pounds of lean muscle, their body's not going to hit a homeostasis where they only consume 3,000 calories a day.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2120.406

I did the math really quick. Can I tell it to you? Because it was great. Yeah. They're doing 7,000 to 8,000 calories a day for three weeks, so 21 days straight. That's 150,000 calories in three weeks. That would be 75 days of normal caloric output in 21 days. The body can't adjust to that, right? It's going to need those 9,000 calories.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2185.103

Thank you.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

22.018

You're not going to believe this, Miss Monica.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

222.535

And could you get lost in there as a kid and explore?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2265.871

Thank you.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2329.321

Thank you.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2365.401

Thank you. Thank you.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

237.282

Yeah, would you be out tromping around with a BB gun when you were little? Totally.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

24.859

Good friend of mine's here.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

26.919

Herman Ponser.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

269.98

No, no. And also maybe a little more socioeconomic thrust because we've divided up into these lines that are pretty comical in ways.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2779.206

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2850.247

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2921.144

The Olympics is the best place to observe this. I love it. You're like, look at a powerlifter. Look at the ultramarathoner. Look at the sprinter. Every sprinter looks the same. Every beach volleyballist looks the same.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2931.914

And they're all the same species with 99.9% of the same DNA. And look how fucking flexible it is.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2975.6

I want to go straight to environmental protection. I would imagine many people don't even know why some people are white and some people are black.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

2982.505

I mean, I think they've observed that, but I don't know if they would necessarily know.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3003.793

We're lazy melanin, you can say.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3005.894

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3049.434

So you need the exact right amount.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3064.585

Yeah. So just to remind people about the geology. So Africa is on the equator or where most of the humans come from. So the sun is always in the same spot in the sky. It's always up and down for 12 hours. You're out on the savanna. There's not a lot of cover. You're not in a forest. So as people move north. The balance shifts.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3080.456

So there's less light, there's less UV, there's less opportunity to make vitamin D, and then the skin gets lighter.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

31.024

No, that's really our guest, Herman Ponser. Wow. Herman Ponser. Herman Ponser. Maybe my favorite name we've had for a guest.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

310.889

Where'd you go to undergrad? Penn State. And then you did graduate school at Harvard? That's right. And when did you get in the anthro trajectory? Did you do any reading about me? I also was an anthropology major.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3118.501

Well, that's where it gets landmarkian. So my question to you is, do we have every ingredient at the disposal, and we are turning on and turning off certain things? That's where this weird interplay between how we've thought of Darwinian evolution, and now we're starting to see, well, no, we kind of have a lot of genes that are just not activated.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3142.679

Right, I can't.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3183.628

Yeah, the two darker kids of the 100 kids survived and they made it. And one had a third of this recipe and another had a third. And now we're two-thirds of the way there.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3205.265

I might be misunderstanding, but I guess what Darwin was missing was the epigenome.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3214.517

Right, right, right.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3216.88

Recessive and dominant.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3222.628

But the epigenome, which is hovering above your DNA and deciding what RNA is going to send out. That's a big factor, too. This is where I get into the recipe thing, right?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3230.436

There's an enormous amount of detailed data for the epigenome to choose to use or not use. And there's a lot going on there.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3243.131

And this is where nature and nurture start really mingling, right?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3262.73

Now I've heard male pattern baldness is an adaptation of going into northern climates as well. See, I thought it was a sign of prowess and obvious. Yeah, I like to think so. Is male pattern baldness an adaptation to receive more vitamin D from the top of your head?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3297.304

How do we explain male pattern baldness, though? Is there an armchair theory on it?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3321.401

And it was all really ugly. Guess who was great? Arians.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

333.691

25 years out, let's see how I do.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3355.3

So let's put a real fine point on this because what I learned in anthro and what I've repeated to a lot of people is the categorizing of people by race.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

336.854

I think I'll do bad, and I think I'll be three standard deviations above what most people do. So how about that? There you go. Some humility and some arrogance. Yes. I've retained, I think, more than your average bear, but I'm probably wrong about a lot.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3363.422

is just simply scientifically very, very weak. In that, the example that was given to me in anthros, there are populations within Africa that have more genetic similarity with populations in Ireland than they do with a neighboring tribe. So why on earth would you categorize these people by this thing that is the least telling and least dynamic in everything?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3384.098

This is just like, as you said, 150 alleles or something. That means nothing in the grand scope of things. If you really wanted to categorize and group people, We just know that would be about the worst way to do it, to get any consistency.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3412.562

It just means nothing if you were looking at it scientifically.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3434.926

You give the exact examples in the books because I was like, oh, this is fascinating.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3461.448

Okay, but let me attempt to push back and maybe you'll correct me in this. So one thing I learned along the way, which I found very fascinating, is that African-Americans, not black people across the globe, but African-Americans have a very elevated rate of hypertension. And so the question is, how'd they get this rate of hypertension?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3479.097

And what people have figured out is that when the people in Africa were kidnapped, they were first marched to West Africa, most of them, to get put on boats to be brought to America. Half of those people died of dehydration on that walk. So the people that made it to the boat had a really high salinity count or asymmetrical salinity count. They were able to hold onto the salt in their body.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3500.887

Then they put them on boats. Half those people died of dehydration. So the people that landed here had this extreme force case of natural selection where a high salinity rate was beneficial to survival. We assumed for half a second that was true. Yeah. And I'm a doctor and I measure the salinity count of someone's body. And I see that it's elevated.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3521.013

Well, what I'm really trying to do is decide, is it elevated relative to his peers or her peers or her in-group? Because that's really what's going to be significant. Is this person running an outside risk even given their elevated disposition? Yeah. That would be relevant, no?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

353.464

Yeah, so I deeply regret what I did, which is I was enamored and intoxicated with the excitement of cultural anthropology and learning about mating rituals and patrilocal and metrilocal and all these things, even the kind of fakir modern primitive, that was exciting. But as I got into it, I was like, oh, no, no, I'm way more interested in physical anthropology, specifically evolutionary biology.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3567.557

Meaning if someone flew from Nigeria here tomorrow, within some time they would have the predictable... Yes, that's right.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3577.642

Yeah, yeah. It seems extremely plausible to me. People dying of dehydration, I'm certain they weren't handing out water.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3592.368

Accept it.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3738.197

So that's 4X from the ceiling to the floor.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3750.401

I wonder how this menopause data, because we had a menopause expert on. She's saying Southeast Asians go through menopause on average like six years earlier.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

376.829

I found that I left with I need to know more how we ended up as a species before I study what the species then did culturally. Yes. What was your route?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3761.745

Maybe it wasn't six, but it was several years. I don't know. I wonder if that's a nature nurturer.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3781.595

But if everyone starts with so many eggs.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3814.718

If they come in and there's a rod knock at 100,000 miles and it's an American car, All systems go, this is what we expected. If you bring a Toyota in that's got a rod knock at 100,000, something's really weird. Because we do know a Toyota will go 300,000 miles, and the American car is going to go 150.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3844.669

You won. You're going to win most of these, but I'm going to keep going for it. Oh, my God.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3848.45

let's talk about dying because here's my great curiosity your cells go through mitosis they make an identical copy to themselves so there's this great mystery if they're making identical copies how does aging even really happen so clearly something turns on or off and it starts making the cells differently which is its own mystery kind of how it's making identical but not identical copies my question is why hasn't there ever been a mutation that just didn't turn that on

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3874.344

What would govern against that? Why couldn't that be a mutation that would have happened by now?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3890.538

I want to live to 600. Yeah. There's a wonderful story.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3948.463

It was a 5,000-year-old tree or something like that.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3951.325

I love when you go to Muir Woods and they've got the cross section. And then fucking Jesus is on there.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

3970.021

But anyway. Yeah, how do we age? What's unique about how we age? Obviously, we live quite long for a primate.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4048.834

Because your body starts eating all the junk that's accumulated.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4058.626

Okay, so what do we need to know about living and how to live longer?

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

410.625

Someone was even telling me at Berkeley, we just interviewed someone, they were like, look, if you get in this trajectory, you can't talk to the physical anthro. They don't even actually want you speaking to them, which was kind of nuts.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4115.908

He's going to beat the four horsemen, as Atiyah would call them. The preventable cancers. Metabolic disorders.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4129.862

This is where I'm very discouraged.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

42.033

Incredibly cool. Professor of Evolutionary Anthropology and Global Health at Duke University. He's an internationally recognized researcher in human energetics and evolution. His previous book, which is great, is called Burn, Some Shocking Ways We Consume Calories.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4206.898

It has saved more lives than any medical discovery ever by a landslide.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4215.046

Yeah.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4217.628

And what's really troubling for vaccines is they are a victim of their success. Yeah. And that's a real bummer. For the people who did not grow up around polio, as my grandfather did— The notion you wouldn't get a polio vaccine for your kid is outrageous to me. But a modern person hasn't seen a generation of kids in wheelchairs and on crutches.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4278.317

Okay, this is just my hypothesis. It is the same part of your brain that makes us all very susceptible to religion that's being hijacked. Because it's driven by a notion of purity in the natural world. Because there's been these studies where if you plot on a U.S. map the lowest rates of vaccinations, they correlate perfectly with where Whole Foods are. Okay. I believe it.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4303.854

That's really troubling because people who shop at Whole Foods are also more often college educated. They're upper socioeconomically. Yes.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4317.081

Well, this is where the circle meets. Exactly. The sense of purity, the sense of nature, natural.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4339.218

You naturally can't see at a certain age and we go get glasses. People are very a la carte about polio. What they want to accept and what they don't. That's right.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4379.238

Yeah. Well, back to anthropology and cultural anthropology and cultural relativity. I grant people their reality.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4405.626

We wouldn't even have an issue if it didn't actually pertain to children because that's what it's all about. I don't give a fuck if someone doesn't want to get vaccinated. Yes. If they're going to die of measles and you chose it, it's on you. In the most literal sense, you have decided for your kid they'll have the same position as you will.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4421.496

And it'd be like branding them your religion when you're born or branding them your political identity. That's the bummer about it is they've inherited their parents position on something, which is probably not fair.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4463.627

Yeah, yeah. Kennedy.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4502.266

So that worries me a little bit. Well, Dr. Ponser, this has been so fun. You're the first Herman I've ever met You're the first Dax I've ever met. Look at that. I've met other Monicas.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

451.01

That's what was illuminating to me. First, I'll say, even before Anthro was a Western Civ class, learning how did we get to where I woke up in Milford, Michigan, 1925, and I was prescribed all these things. How arbitrary are they? Where do they come from? That was like... oh, wow, there's an actual explanation for why we're doing everything the way we're doing.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4514.411

Very trusted brand. We've got a lot of Monicas we like. But we have a character on the show, though, that is Hermium Permium.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4521.813

Hermium Permium.

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Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4523.434

And Herman, he sounds like this. I've never met a Herman. This is really exciting stuff. And you're a professor and a scientist? Miss Monica, my mom, can you see this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4532.777

So Hermian and Herman sat in one room together. It's very exciting. Your book's awesome. I hope everyone's is interested in the human evolution of biology. Like I am adaptable, how your unique body really works and why our biology unites us as a beautiful message. And it's rooted in our story, which I find endlessly fascinating. So thank you so much for coming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4559.378

Next up is the fact check. I don't even care about facts. I just want to get in their pants. Do you want me to bore you with some mechanical stuff? Oh, boy. We're already so tired, but sure. Okay. We are both drowsy. I know. What's your explanation? Well, yours is the weather. I guess I don't even need to ask.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4583.159

Yeah, so my explanation is I flew 7 a.m. flight on Friday to Nashville. So that's up at 4 a.m. to get in the car at 445 or whatever. Received my pontoon boat. Oh wow. I don't deserve it. It's too nice of an item for me. I was just like, I don't deserve this. It's so nice. Wow. It's so nice. I hit a button and the whole canopy goes up. The sound system is insane. It's the best sound system.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4614.813

That's great. That I've ever heard. So many creature comforts. It's, oh, I love it. I did put up the Bimini and cranked the music and walked around the deck for a while and just pretended I was kind of hanging out. My friend Tyler made the funniest joke. I bet it's big in the boating world, but I'd never heard it. He said, it's the most fun you can have on a floating patio.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4639.52

And I was like, that is what a pontoon boat is. It's a floating patio. It's just a perfect rectangle. Okay, bored. And then a lot of busy work, readying stuff to depart, whatever. Then I drove. Also, my nose blowings back a bit because my nose was so full on day two of the motorhome drive back. So clogged, really clogged.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4666.872

No, I think I might have a bug.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4669.233

Yeah, it's probably a bug. So yeah, I then drove 2,000 miles and got home and got at it. Yeah, and just a bit exhausted. Okay, so as you were dying to know what mechanical things happened on the bus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

468.042

And then you reverse from there and it's like, oh, and there's an even greater explanation. And then the physical part is the grand explanation. Just in your intro, I'm really glad at how you lay this out because one of my great interests was always these differences in populations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4683.38

No, nothing's happened so far.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4688.324

Was enough about the bus. Oh, the bus, yeah. All in all, best, least amount of shit broke that ever has.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4696.47

Inside of the front door, all of the molding, which is a big chunk because it's got a power shade in it, that thing came off. So that was flopping. Then it broke. Still not bad. Okay. Rear toilet, my bathroom toilet, no power. Took the switch out of the middle bathroom, plugged it into the back one. Okay, it's not the switch. Get home, start reaching out to the dudes I know that build the bus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4721.77

Okay, this is a gratitude and a grievance. So grateful they talk to me and they help me every time. I'm so grateful. But I'm talking with a newer guy and I don't, I feel like he underestimated my mechanical ability. Okay. So I'm like, where does this plug into? Maybe the module's bad, blah, blah, blah. He's like, oh no, there's a fuse panel under the bed. And I go, okay. I look under the bed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4747.449

There's no fuse panel visible. So now I'm going under the bed and it's an electric bed. So I can't remove the mattress and look under it. It's all bolted down with this huge heavy frame. That's two and a half hours yesterday to get under the bed and get all the little plates off of things to find these fuses. Finally, I'm like, I film it. I'm like, there's no fuse panel under here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4770.871

And I think he thinks I just can't find it. Then I start showing him videos like I've taken apart everything. Oh, wow. So he's like, huh, that's interesting. The only other place it could be is X, Y, and Z. Go there this morning. Look, no. Then there's this huge panel with all these other fuses on it. And I send a picture and say, before I take this off, do you think it could be behind here?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4792.368

They say, no, absolutely not. I take it off anyways. It's in there. After three days of searching for this fuse panel, I found it buried in a wall behind this other huge panel. Plugged it in. I have power in the back. Flushed it. It popped the fuse. TBD, more to come.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4818.861

I know. While I'm boring you, let me bore you a little more. Oh, no. Because I didn't get to a couple things last fact check.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

482.878

I just was drawn to them immediately, finding out, oh, we kind of know that Native Americans came from Asia because they have a distant sizer and only Asians have a distant sizer and so do Native Americans. That's a really cool, hard bit of evidence clue. I like that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4825.223

Oh, okay. Tell me about your toilet before we move off the toilet topic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4847.443

I mean, I think you just had to do what you had to do, which is go to work. Exactly. There's really nothing to think about. Is it ideal? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4855.986

It's not ideal. But I don't think he's going to steal from you. Either do I. He's too obvious of a suspect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4863.888

Do you know him prior to this or is this his first trip over?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4870.879

Okay, then I'm not too worried.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4890.008

It's fine. What do you think could happen? He'll look through your stuff?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4896.749

Weird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4906.737

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4908.678

Yeah. Premature death anxiety.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4922.67

Well, mine didn't make you sad, did it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

496.023

And for people to know the history of anthropology, there was a field called anthropometry, which studied specifically differences between people and was heavily weaponized and used during the Nazi era. Oh, completely. Yeah. fed completely into the whole eugenics, the big push was that. So that kind of went away with good reason. It was being terribly exploited for the wrong reasons.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4978.586

So it's just rumination on scary stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

4986.47

God, I'm sorry you have that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5018.099

And this is a smart mouse wearing glasses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5021.24

And a graduation gown.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5024.952

Yeah, yeah, right. Very studious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5032.799

Sure, that are inside out. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5065.14

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5132.486

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

514.955

But my interest was always not from any place of superiority, just a deep curiosity of how we could have these variations within the same species.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5195.55

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5285.478

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

546.897

How is it adaptive to where they live?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5488.303

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

556.459

And it's actually a weapon in debunking racism.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5604.899

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

576.949

Like they're telling the truth about race. Exactly. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

580.352

Oh, God. I doubt they are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5837.98

Of course they can, but continue. Well, she doesn't know that. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5843.085

All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5863.176

He's so athletic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5881.722

So he's kind of an investigator and a doctor? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5894.045

That's the conundrum.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5926.528

Let's play because this is a worst case scenario.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5938.319

And that's sort of what the mom will say. I don't think that. That's not my hangup.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5947.987

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5951.31

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5955.939

I would ignore it. No, I'm teasing. I'm teasing. Oh my God. I would sit down and we would talk for a long, long while. There's a huge gap between I wish these people were dead and I'm going to kill these people. Yes, there is. And you're trying to figure that out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

5975.51

And then you're also trying to evaluate, do they have the means to do this? How seriously are they? If I had an inkling at all that this was a possibility, I would move. I would take the kids. I would move away from all these people. I would get her in therapy, hardcore, and I would get a tutor to come finish her schooling. Until she got out of this adolescent phase and we would be checking in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6006.131

I would not call the police. Is that what you're wondering?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6016.234

Yeah, I also take them to school, so I could definitely pat her down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6022.469

People will be mad about that. I don't think the police have anything to add to make the situation better. I don't think removing her from the house and putting her in foster care is going to help. I don't think a state mandated counselor is going to help. I don't think jail time, you know, like I don't think they have a solution that would be appealing in this situation. They can't fix.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6044.945

That's not what they do. So involving them, I'm not sure what that would get us. I'm going to remove her from the school. I'm going to make sure those kids are safe and we move. But there's no services that the city offers that are going to help her in this situation. And I just would want to help her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6070.199

Homicidal teens.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6075.602

We'll think it through. Let's think of what they could possibly do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6090.848

Attempted? I don't know. Intent versus attempted. It's not attempted if she made a list. I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6096.852

But regardless, sending her to jail is not going to help.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6104.877

Well, I'm going to remove her from those other kids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6120.712

Well, I'd be moving to many states away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6127.029

I did a Jonathan Haidt really quick. I thought of all the ways that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6141.593

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6145.274

Well, yes, at a later date with a lot of therapy and assessment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6152.905

Here's a broader question. Do you think, this is a broader, dicier, scarier question. Okay. Do you think it's possible that a kid could have those feelings and intentions in 11th grade and then grow out of that? I think, I'm inclined to think yes. I'm not saying everyone would, but I'm saying, do I think that's a possibility?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

617.637

Yeah, so the book, Adaptable, aims to educate you on how your body works. But instead of it just being a straight biology textbook, there's going to be exploration of the lifestyle of the people, the landscape, the local adaptations. So it's a very fun lens to look at it. So I guess let's just start with the history of us as humans.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6177.887

Do I think there's crazy, hormonal, confused, in a worse situation they're going to be in their whole life, kids that will be different as 20-year-olds? I do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6192.79

I think my main obligation is to protect any innocent kids from getting hurt. Yes. And once I've achieved that, I think I feel fine on my own to be trying to help her through it. And I don't think the state would be helpful in that process. Some people will be screaming, you're rich, you can do that. Yeah. But the question is, what would I do?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

62.11

Yeah, we did a little section on burn. And then his new book, Adaptable, How Your Unique Body Really Works and Why Our Biology Unites Us. This was so fun. It was. Evolutionary biology is one of my favorite books. Things to think about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6242.356

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6265.646

Yeah, yeah. And all hands on deck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6278.342

And for how long? It says you're buying yourself like a temporary peace of mind.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6293.334

It kind of times out the same. It's like by the time they'd be letting a kid out of juvie for having made a list. Yeah. It would be the same time Lincoln would be entering the real world as an adult.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6314.758

Some confinement.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6317.659

I get it. I get it. I get it. I'm just being very honest about what I would do. I would break a lot of laws. For my kids. I would kill for my kids. I wouldn't kill otherwise. Right. You know, there's a lot of things I would do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6333.075

I would steal. I would do anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6343.501

Well, innocent. They have to be threatening your child for this to work. I wouldn't, if my kid said, I don't like the grocer, will you kill him? I would not do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6360.402

All right. This is feeding into your anxiety a little bit, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6374.756

Oh, wow. Okay, this is a lot. So at the grocery store, Lincoln has a firearm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6386.102

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6390.239

Doesn't sell ripe pears.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6395.141

Okay, that reminds me of Turning Point. Could we continue?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6419.264

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6421.284

And I have the opportunity to shoot him before he shoots her. That's a good one. You came up with a good one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6430.667

That one's really hard. Good job.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6439.549

I would just tackle her so he knew the threat was over and that he didn't have to shoot her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6447.572

Yeah. Yeah, it'd be very hard to kill the grocer if she pulled out a gun. Exactly. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6458.183

Okay, turning point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6460.185

This is what I learned. So when Ukraine had their first elections, there was a pro-West candidate. And forgive me because I've forgotten these names or I can't pronounce them to begin with. And then there was a pro-Russia candidate. The pro-Western candidate was leading by a lot. They poisoned him. They poisoned him. Who did? Russia.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6484.476

And his face.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6486.778

Have you ever seen this guy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6490.441

He lived through it. Ew. But his whole face became inflamed and atrophied. I mean, they turned him temporarily into a monster. Ugh. So awful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6506.195

I know. It's maddening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6510.096

Oh, my God. Oh, so what are the ethics of this? I wish someone would assassinate Putin so bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6518.279

He's killing so many people. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6526.682

No. You're just not allowed to say that about our president.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6532.208

The list.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6533.449

Right. So what if they found in my bedroom a list and I said must kill and I intend to kill Putin?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6540.076

I think they'd probably give me a hundred bucks for a plane ticket. I know. That's the thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6551.71

Well, our government is one. Our leader doesn't seem to be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6559.694

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6561.354

Let's do some facts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6563.255

Oh, Herman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6579.222

Oh, my God. I want to see one so bad. Yeah, I know. I really want to see one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6588.405

I could. I bet they're going to be hard for me to find, but I guess I'll know exactly where the bones are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6598.648

That's not bad. This was 16,000 years ago or something. You'd have to wear a coat. Yeah, some definite North Face gear, like I were going to Antarctica. Exactly. Boy, I'd love to see one. And they might think I was cute and not threatening, and they'd be nice to me, and then they could hug me the way I was saying I would like to be hugged. And maybe even rock to sleep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6620.413

I would, but if I noticed that they thought I was cute and tiny... I would appeal to their sense of safety. That's the point I was making about two months ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6629.711

That you only act terrible when you're scared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6633.854

They might want to eat me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6636.356

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6666.642

Your brain's already formed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6690.435

Easy peasy. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6693.156

Yeah, we like each other. You have some anxiety, but it's okay. It's okay. It'll pass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6698.598

Tomorrow you'll be feeling 10 feet tall and bulletproof.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

6704.18

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

704.095

The osteology class was my favorite one in all of physical anthropology. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So osteopithecine is no longer the earliest one. No, you're already two million years. This is humiliating. Can I just add my favorite one was gigantopithecus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

731.189

Some of these people are really grasping for Bigfoot to be real. They like the gigantopithecus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

749.864

I'm like, I have respect for that. How tall was the shaky? Yeah, see.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

756.551

This is the fun stuff. Gorillas aren't that tall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

769.886

9.8 feet. Stop it. Let's go. You want the source. I can see it on your face. What's the source, Rob? I do. Britannica? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

78.522

Yeah, like what was I just, oh my God, we were just discussing what could have been the cause of you and I. Yeah, I know. You were saying women, oh, women want to get something of their boyfriends to smell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

786.378

That's giraffe height.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

793.375

Okay, so I sidetracked you. Okay, so seven million years ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

828.767

Is that who found it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

834.231

Wow, wonderful. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Anthropologists are cool. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

837.553

Yeah, the name it after drug songs and stuff. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, specifically a drug Beatles song. You know better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

847.135

Okay, so they find Lucy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

908.616

No one throws it into a big pot other than lions, maybe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

91.509

Like a t-shirt or something. It's a very common desire.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

96.272

And I never met a guy who tried to get a shirt from a girl. Something's there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

971.599

It ratchets up quickly. Yes. Do we have any sense, could you determine this from the archaeological record? When does mate selection shift from a game of size to perhaps a game of savvy and aptitude in hunting, aptitude in gathering?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Herman Pontzer (on evolutionary anthropology)

999.345

And they're going to just increasingly get bigger and bigger and bigger ad infinitum because the biggest one will have access and pass on its big genes and just keeps going up. Male lions just keep getting bigger than female lions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Monica Lewinsky

1631.143

20.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Monica Lewinsky

476.758

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Monica Lewinsky

7119.895

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Rerelease: Monica Lewinsky

7134.935

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Rerelease: Monica Lewinsky

7156.773

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dan Shepard and I'm joined by Lily Padman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1029.208

Right. So if mom had family in Italy, had they moved from Mexico to Italy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1035.01

That makes sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1038.011

So she might not be Aztec.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1041.092

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1085.301

You know, it's interesting. This is a bizarre thing to say, but I kind of think it's good. But it does tread on this notion of people pretending they're colorblind, which is also bullshit. But I was watching Ash last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1098.809

Yeah, I loved it. We'll get to it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1102.551

Oh, yeah. This happens to me more and more frequently now when I'm watching movies. If I hadn't done research on you, I just wouldn't have considered your ethnicity in any capacity whatsoever. And I wouldn't even guess. I wouldn't know. It was quite irrelevant. Also, people are much more now mixed, just as our population is much more mixed. There's tons of people now that I see on camera.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1125.777

And I think this is a good thing where it's like, if you asked me later what they were, I'd be like, oh, I don't know. I have no clue. I wasn't even thinking of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1180.159

Well, maybe limited.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

123.24

What were your favorites before we ruin it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1235.256

Maybe 100,000. Not that many. You're like, nothing, nothing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1259.278

Yeah, he's played Jewish, Italian, Cuban actors.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

129.363

Oscar Mayer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1308.228

You got into acting, dancing, painting all at 12, 13 because your dad died in a motorcycle accident.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

131.944

Would you have a street dog? Because I like the street dog. I'm from Mexico.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1316.656

I hate that for many, many reasons. I'm sorry. No, it's okay. And obviously you guys were very, very close as you already said. Super close. And mom wanted to just keep you busy and distracted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1329.007

Was there space for what you were going through?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1396.543

How did she take it? My guess is at 12, you would be dealing with your own loss, but then also trying to cheer mom up or regulate mom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1441.606

Floricienta?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1448.15

And it was a show from Argentina.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1511.154

Yeah. Can I ask really quick, what was the work schedule of that? Brutal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1519.22

So they don't have the same laws. No, no, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

152.635

On what website? Willows.co?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1524.323

Because it's soap style, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1535.91

It goes for years. So you started reading about yourself on the Internet?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1541.685

Cause this would have been 2004 or five. And so you could go online and what was it? MySpace. Oh, MySpace. There we go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1554.836

It was like the American office. It was like, who's going to be in the American office? Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1560.58

Right, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1600.578

You never got the looks or the body they were hoping you to get.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1610.329

You're already so self-conscious as a teenager. At 14. Jesus. I went crazy. I remember.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1648.068

There was an event too. It's a juicy event, Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1651.609

You were on Lola too. So you're in another show, Lola.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1660.892

Oh my God. A love triangle between mother, daughter, and a bodyguard?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1664.674

Oh, thank God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1668.076

Yeah, but everyone gets a bodyguard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1671.759

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1674.201

But you had a boyfriend. How long were you guys together at that point?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1677.743

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1680.965

At 20 years old. So that's 10% of your life. That's a huge chunk of your life when you think about it that way. And she sees a headline one morning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1690.933

Her boyfriend has a sex tape.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1693.755

But Monica, she's not in it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1696.157

Was he famous, too? Was he an actor?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1706.161

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1709.383

Oh, it would be great if your boyfriend was your bodyguard at that time. Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1733.778

Oh, boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1736.421

He didn't email you preemptively going, this is coming out. He waited until you found out from the press.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

177.447

Yeah, why did she edit her own? She made a mistake.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1771.991

Me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1809.272

So he mounted a defense to your whole family.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1847.333

Do we believe that it was from an era that you weren't together? Did the tattoos prove his? Yes. Because this actually happened to me. One of these trashy magazines ran this article about me saying I had hooked up with this girl while I was dating Kristen. I did hook up with that girl, but it was way before I met Kristen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1865.865

And luckily, I have a tattoo in it that I had covered right before I met Kristen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1872.23

For me, it really was that. It was a lie. And thank God the tattoo absolved me of that because Kristen met me and I'd already had that one covered. It wasn't a sex tape.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1885.359

We weren't even kissing. I just had my arm around her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1890.381

And she lied to them for sure. This woman had sold stories about three other people. She also banged an AA. I met her in AA.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

19.458

Today we have Aza Gonzalez-San.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1900.226

She was out of money and she's getting high. And this was a four story. That's horrible. She just lied to them. I guess they believed her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1909.43

To Kristen's dad immediately.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1911.171

I got hard and I sent Tom a picture. Oh God. Well, I didn't want him to think I was a loser. Sure, of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1927.67

You would have had to fight him and have a big separation from him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

1946.457

You had Salma Hayek. That was it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

195.997

For a hot dog.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

198.018

We are playing it a little fast and loose with DNA and now human flesh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2019.995

Well, they also want to see young actors just exude gratitude.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

204.8

But if guys operate in the grinding machine, one of their hair strands falls in. That's human DNA. They grind it good. I'm going to claim more of a Jonathan Haidt version, which is like, this is moral dumbfounding. We eat animals. We draw very arbitrary distinctions between which ones we eat and which ones we don't. Culturally... Some more than others. So, I mean, I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2071.706

Oh, yeah, Mexicans.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2105.156

Is it possible you were also inflating how big this narrative was?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2114.039

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2172.725

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

226.365

Is someone going to get killed so I can eat them? Big ethical issue.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2260.242

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

23.279

Aza is an actor. She is a singer. Ministry of Ungentlemanly Warfare, Baby Driver, Three-Body Problem, Ambulance, Bloodshot, and a new movie out that I quite enjoyed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

231.306

For you, though, the notion of having some human.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2350.089

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

237.287

It's not mine either. Again, I don't desire to eat a human. It's whether or not I can handle it. Yeah. On the surface, look at Rob. Cute Wobby Rob. And then look at a pig sitting in its shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2422.33

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2461.852

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

254.233

Sad, because you know he's not a good boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2565.453

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2638.709

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

264.727

I guess I'm just saying, hygienically, get Rob out of the shower, and then the pig sitting in its shit and eat shit, and you go like, well, what would be smarter to eat?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2686.482

Thank you.

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

274.276

You're an alien, and you're evaluating, what of these animals am I going to eat? One's wallowing in its shit, and another guy just hopped out of the shower.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2758.136

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

284.204

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Eiza Gonzalez

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2938.018

But did you penetrate? Did you eventually?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

295.95

You think that's clean?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2950.065

Transfixed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2979.503

Oh, there's like a dream vacation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2992.715

You're right. You're right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

2998.8

Okay, so Ash, which I watched last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

302.212

A cat. 80% of my shower is focused on my anus. Trust me. And I have a brondle where I spray water after every... And then I left out that I also clean when I do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3029.109

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3032.952

So, Ash, I would say it's got two really great parallels. It really reminded me of Moon. Did you ever watch Moon? Yes, Moon. Oh, my God. Did you ever see Moon?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3049.024

Yeah. Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3052.426

Is Duncan Jones the child of David Bowie? Yes. But does not share the Bowie last...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3062.313

Right. You know, Nicolas Cage is really Coppola.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3066.995

He wanted to make it on his own. So he gave himself Cage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3074.119

His mother is Gloria Vanderbilt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3077.58

And also Emilio Estevez not using Sheen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3084.964

Charlie Sheen, Martin Sheen, Emilio Estevez, they're a family, but look at this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3090.847

We're really giving you a really quick education.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3095.649

Can you imagine? From Streisand?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3102.351

And then, of course, Alien.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3104.953

Is obvious. So who made this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3113.199

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

314.676

I'm neurotic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3150.317

It's very impressive. Okay, so it's set in the future. You are a group of earthlings that is trying to explore and find another planet that would be habitable. And you touch down on this planet in this pod. And when we meet you, you have amnesia. You don't know what the fuck's gone on. Your head is damaged and everyone on the crew is dead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

316.437

Are we talking wiping or cleansing with water?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3174.087

And we're kind of piecing together Mento style what happened. Interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3182.674

Yeah, you're dealing with like amnesia, but also kind of madness. Yeah. Like we're not quite sure is this person insane or not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3190.926

We don't know why everyone's dead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3195.413

And then we have Aaron Paul pops in and he ostensibly is trying to figure out what happened as well. But in classic movie like these, we don't know who's friend and who's foe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3207.148

Lots of twisties, but visually really, really original. And it had a tension and a chaos that substance. Oh, kind of unsettling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3234.09

Well, a lot of them you go like, oh, it's either going to be incredible or it's going to suck. And that's fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

325.439

Listen, there's multiple steps. So first is I lather a ton of soap and do a full scrub. Then I rinse because I don't want anything gross touching the soap. And then I go hard with the bar of soap. And I really rub the bar of soap on my anus. Not in it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3273.815

And it has this element of oxygen, which is always fun. So like you're watching, you're kind of holding your breath a lot of the time. Is she going to run out of oxygen? I think this is a very like Angelina Jolie role.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3286.499

Yeah. If this movie was made in 97, I think Angelina Jolie would do this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3294.981

I think she had similar. The bad word would be hang ups. She had a similar fear of only being hot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3304.747

And I think she did a lot of things that were unflattering intentionally to break out of that. And so this very much mirrored, I think, that experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3315.454

But I'm going to really applaud you as an actor. You have almost no lines in this movie. Most of the movie is you processing flashbacks. You have to react to all this stuff that you're not seeing. You're in a scene by yourself. You sit at a desk and they go, okay, cameras. And now you got to take us through these flashbacks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3333.082

You have to take us through the anxiety and the tension of trying to figure out how the fuck you are, where you are at. Anything we're going to learn from you, we just have to see. And you did an incredible job. I was quite blown away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

345.366

I use soapy hands to get the first round of whatever off. Then I rinse everything. So now it's pretty clean. And now I go on with the direct bar of soap.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3479.813

You're just scared for three months.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3491.917

You were talking to yourself so hard on camera. Like a mirror scene where you got to look in the mirror. You're like, oh my God, guys, I've never. Be believable. I think it looking at myself, but I've never spoke to myself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3509.202

They're having like a conversation with a second party that's in the mirror.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3521.349

We have many scenes where lights up. She is leaking tears, processing this thing. Yeah, I was like, God bless.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3539.901

Yeah, you have to be your craziest at the end of the second act.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3549.268

It's not a super linear story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

356.13

Yeah. It's kind of erotic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3596.457

I'm sure that movie made you better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3599.119

I hope so. That was a big exercise. That was like heavy weight, heavy reps.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

36.926

Very moon-like, as I say in the episode, if anyone remembers that great Sam Rockwell movie called Ash.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3606.104

You did such a good job. Thank you. I hadn't seen many of these movies, so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3616.471

Nasty, now I don't need to see it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3621.054

Where do people see it? It comes out March 21st.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

365.213

You guys are very judgmental of this. I'm wondering, how are you cleaning your butts? I hope not splashing water.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3653.412

Yeah, we did a movie called When in Rome. You don't need to see it. Kristen's the lead. Josh is her love interest. I'm one of three suitors trying to get Kristen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3665.456

Oh, yeah. This was within the first three months of us dating. 18 years ago, we made this movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3672.898

Yes, which is a wonderful story because Disney did not want to hire us. We've been dating for three months. We're not hiring a three month boyfriend and girlfriend. Then they break up in three weeks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3683.242

Yes. One of my best friends, Andrew Panay, Yorgo, was the producer. And I was like, George, I promise you, no matter what, I will not break up with her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3695.987

Yes. We barely made it. We were living together. It was a disaster for us living together three months in and shooting a movie. Because they were in Italy. Only for a week. Mostly it was this dark apartment in New York. Oh, well, you just weren't here, so you had to live together. Yes, yes. We were shooting in New York and then in Italy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3716.281

I'm like so frugal. Well, let's combine our living thing and then we'll pocket the thing. Oh, my God. We get home and the relationship is in a state of total disrepair. We decide to go to a couples therapist, her therapist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3729.508

Well, now we've shot a movie together, so now we're four or five months. Yeah, I'm out. We took a motorcycle trip home to Michigan. It was a disaster. I left like, I hope I never see this person again as long as I live. I'm sure she felt the same way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3742.014

We get home, we go to couples therapy and I say to the therapist, I go, you know, I made this promise to not break up with her during the movie because of my friend. But now we're back in real life and I don't know that we're going to make it. And he goes, well, it's really interesting. You're saying you're back in real life because actually that was real life. You commit. We're not breaking up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3763.744

And I was like, oh, my God, that's so stupid. But I honestly was like, oh, wow, that is it. You go, no, no, under no circumstances. So we must figure out how to make this work because we're not breaking up. So weirdly, it was a kind of a breakthrough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3779.993

18th year.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3784.376

Well, good news. You'll have three and four coming your way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3794.244

Well, if you like musical theater and singing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3800.208

And your strap on in the backseat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3815.599

Did you love Wicked too?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3822.304

Yeah, the one line got me to well up. It's right before, what's the last song they sing? Is there on the bridge? Defying Gravity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3829.79

It's like a stanza before that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3838.417

Unlimited. Together we're unlimited. It got you. I was like, oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3843.901

Yes, you are, girls.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3847.422

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3849.682

Did they rip it up?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3860.044

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3883.238

Oh, really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3889.122

I remember this. Oh, yeah, yeah. Ryan Hansen was in there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3893.204

I love Ryan. He's the best.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3896.465

Yes. Yeah, he is. He's the most charismatic man in America.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3899.887

Can do backflips.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3902.948

And will. With a little provocation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3923.745

Yeah, he's a sweetheart. He is. All right. Well, Aza, this was so fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3928.391

Really great job on Ash. Everyone watch Ash. Go to the movie theater. It's scary. And you'll have that communal experience where you're screaming and maybe throwing up a little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3947.328

I'm really happy to be here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3952.351

You're not insane. No one thinks that. It's time to let all that go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

3956.994

It's all behind us. All right. Adore you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

397.34

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

400.824

Do we jump right to Dumel? Because, you know, I'm friends with Dumel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4007.648

Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so charismatic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4012.35

What did that just make me think? Oh! I renamed Whiskey, and I feel like it's such a good name for him. What is it? First of all, conjure him in your head. Okay. A little mogwai rat. And then he eats people. Three legs. We decided he's Tiny Trump.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4030.174

So his new name is Trimp.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4033.634

Picture his face and picture Tramp.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4035.837

This is my dog Tramp.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

404.167

Did you date Dumel? Did I see this? Yes, we dated. Okay. I'm so envious of him in this way. He seems effortlessly masculine. He can't not be masculine. He just seems to have these huge haunches. I'm like, how much are you working out? He's like, I don't know, occasionally. I'm like, you have that frame. But I could see him in the shower just like walking through and being on his way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4044.427

Yeah, yeah. But then. And then what's the rat from Charlotte's Web? Templeton.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4051.354

So his name is Trimp Templeton something. I've forgotten his last name, but now he's got a whole new three names.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4070.091

Brad Pitt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4072.484

I guess just those words symbolize now hotness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4081.627

Sure. I mean more like- Oh, that reminds me. As I alerted you, on my bus trip home from Nashville, I was watching all kinds of stuff. Mostly shit I can just listen to. Great rec if you're just driving and you want to listen. Turning point, that 10- It's on Netflix. It's 10 episodes, but really the history of the arms, nuclear arms race and all the twists and turns.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4106.894

I wrote down stuff in my notes that I want to bring up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4111.015

You're going to like it. No, you're going to like one part.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4114.036

But anyways, I gave Love Island, Temptation Island a chance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4120.258

I couldn't do it. I'll blame it on driving and needing to look at probably hot co-eds.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4128.041

And the most alarming things happening to me, which is like hot coeds are starting to do less and less for me. That's great. I mean, is it? I mean, it's like on a self-actualized spectrum. It's good. That's a bummer to miss. I understand. Something that has been a source of like titillation and enjoyment my whole life. It's just one less thing I enjoy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4159.502

Even ripped dudes. You know how I like ripped dudes as well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4168.302

Yeah, how do I how do I know? But everyone's pretty young on the show. What I think is happening is there's some sliding ratio on my head that used to be at 13. Looks was a 20. Like my body was just responding to what you see. Chorus. Chorus. And then I just feel like personality always ratcheted up and then looks priority went down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4192.877

And I think that was at a really nice, even keel for a long time. Long enough that I could at least look at a hot person with a repugnant personality and think that'd be tolerable for 40 minutes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4205.503

I can't. Even in joy now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4209.19

I'm turning into a woman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4212.372

I know, I'm finally starting to understand how you guys feel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4216.093

It doesn't matter if someone's hot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4220.856

I must be in Misogoth. Perimenopause. Perimenopause.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4228.745

They introduce themselves, right? It's like, you know the premise. There's like 10 couples or eight couples.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4235.588

It's the weakest premise imaginable, which is like, we want to make sure we can take our relationship to the next level. So we're going to see, we're going to really tempt each other. It's like, that's not what people looking to take their relationship to the next level do. Conventionally.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4250.093

But anyway, so you're sitting down. It's this weird mix of jealousy and then bravado of that they don't care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4257.496

And then the temptresses and tempters come out, if that's the male of temp.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4262.658

They break up the couples and the girls live in one house, the boys live in another house, and then they send in temptresses. And so, like, all these women come out and they're in bathing suits.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4273.101

This whole thing is really fascinating. Because what is the line? Like, if you set it up, yeah, these are very vague lines.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4282.355

Like you're hiring hot people to tempt other people and then hopefully they'll hook up. It's very, it's very blurry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4294.284

They're claiming they do, but they were cast for being hot. They're not, it's not like they were like, I need to find love. And I'm looking for someone already in a committed relationship that's claiming they want to go with them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4307.774

So. And you know, they're like, these aren't real names. Sorry, I'm just making it up. It's like, I'm Tierra and I put all the back up front, like all these weird sayings and then they show their butt and stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4322.584

Well, no, I'm not mixing metaphors. I'm just saying words. Anyways.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4327.588

They say these things. You know, this guy's like, I'm a chef and I'm going to cook you hot. You know, like all these, they got a one line. Yeah. And I'm just like, you know, every time they say one of these.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4340.178

It's a bummer. Yeah. It's a bummer. People. Yeah. Like you're already hot. Yeah. And then have to say something hot on top of it. Yeah. But I'm saying all this saying, I know 10 years ago, I would have made them look right through most of that stuff. Although the one I always loved was with Ryan Devlin. What was that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4360.461

Because they really did want to fall in love. And be on TV. Yeah. And be on TV.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4368.595

But they were like, they thought they, people were like bawling and stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4374.798

But like, here's hot models that are going to tempt you. Right. I just don't know how I feel about it. Anyways, I gave that a shot and then I didn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4384.201

I didn't make it. Why did I bring that up? Just to tell you. Oh, because we were talking about names.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4389.564

And whose name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4391.644

Yeah. And did you, why did I think of.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4395.166

Yeah, hot. Hot. That's it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

44.75

Yes, Ash.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4400.088

And I used to, I used to be able to name like 10 actor, female actors that I was like coveted. Yeah. And we're down to a couple.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4421.862

Why would I have any? When would there be a day where you go like Brad Pitt's not hot?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4440.209

Ben. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4446.934

It's a must read.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

445.333

Yeah, you really should care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4475.058

Yes. Yes. Of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4483.465

Oh, you did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4486.212

What makes it so good?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4489.633

Oh, like to what degree?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

449.074

And you should do two rounds and you should use the soap.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4497.496

Right, like every interviewer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4504.539

Right, because he's not on the defensive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

455.996

Former model too, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4559.978

Okay. And I liked that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4564.84

I'm so grateful I'm not him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4567.662

I am so grateful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4570.763

Every now and then I see photos of me from out in front of my house. So I'm like, oh, they sit there, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4577.415

That's a bummer, but it's not like if I go to the store, there's ever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

458.318

So did she learn orthodontia later?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4586.082

Yes. And by the way, just make it through an entire walk to Starbucks from your car without looking goofy at one point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4614.718

But also all to say, like, you're interested, Wayne, to bet just my.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4625.849

I have testy atrophy or something. Testicular atrophy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4631.391

Because I'm white. Yeah. Yeah. And I'm 12 years. You're 12 years early.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4638.433

Can I tell you the thing that really interested me about Turning Point?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4648.155

Oh, you were shocked that I have two still.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4652.359

I probably have more. You know, it was reinvigorated. I went and saw Black Bag.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4659.981

You saw it? Yes. Oh my God. You know what's great? I went solely because I saw Fassbender was in it. I had like an afternoon off and I went, I didn't know anything about it. Yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4671.084

I enjoyed it so much. Me too. The score was so good. And I was angry at myself when I saw the titles. Like, oh, Soderbergh directed it. Of course. And that's, of course, that's his signature kind of music and the style. I almost wanted to rewatch it again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4690.737

It was almost a blessing because I was trying to figure out the tone of it quite a bit. If I knew it was Soderbergh, I knew it would be a lot more out of sight. Playful. Yeah, and I was more like, oh, this is hardcore British espionage shit. But I loved it, but I was reminded how much I love Alicia Vikander.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4709.233

When he's interviewing her and she's passing the polygraph and they're talking about her anal sphincter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4717.701

Am I right on that, Rob? I'm looking. I don't know. That would be really embarrassing if I have the wrong actor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4727.475

Did you like that actor?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4729.656

But I. Fassbender? Who's your crush?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4745.359

Which is interesting because he's so reserved.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4748.26

Yeah, controlled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4790.348

Wait, what? Does that not look like her?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4793.771

And they're a couple.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4800.02

Oh, my God. I'm so humiliated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4804.362

Although she's 28. Oh. That's a little dicey. Wow, man. I'm embarrassed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4822.532

Oh, I couldn't date any of these people. Is that not abundantly clear?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4841.669

Well, OK, let's back up for one second. Just go like societally. It's disgusting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4847.964

When you're 50 years old and you're dating a 25 year old. I'm not here to judge. But I'm just saying societally. Yeah. It's embarrassing. If you're out at a fucking dinner with all your peers and they all have wives as peers as I do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4862.382

And you've brought a 20 year old.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4866.687

I'm not saying people shouldn't do it or I'm just saying I would be embarrassed to be at a dinner with all 50 year olds and I brought my 20 year old girlfriend.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4877.663

genetically evolutionarily no there's no there's no reason a man would ever stop seeing fertile women as attractive that's just that it would be my culture on top of it yeah but your culture's oh it is it is obviously we are have also evolved out status like status now doesn't just necessarily mean having as many kids as like you're done having kids right yes like

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4904.483

Unless I got a reversal of my vasect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4909.555

But my genetics doesn't know I got a vasectomy. No, it can't take info in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4925.387

Yeah, it's just to spread your seed. So genetically, I too am supposed to spread my seed. That's the pull inside.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4932.671

And then on top of my biology is culture that's affecting a bunch of my behaviors.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4940.656

All I'm pointing out is that there is no mother nature rule that I would not be attracted to someone that's.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4954.721

Culture is huge. Yes, it's totally subconscious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4963.544

Yeah. Well, I go to mine's very complicated. I go to I can't talk to what would I talk to this person about? How would I spend hours with this person? Yeah. I'm going to be talking about, you know, the time Prince was dead in 1983.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

4982.897

I also continue to because that's what I grew up with. Anyways, man, but I see folks my age just out doing it. I guess, I guess, I don't know. I want to say applaud them, but I'm just like, we just have different levels. I guess it's, I guess it's a signal of confidence. Seems like a signal of insecurity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5004.103

When I see 50 plus year old actors with 20 year old actresses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5016.556

They want a reflection of themselves.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5023.846

In some cases, not all. In some cases, I think it could be Evidence of a lack of emotional maturity from the male, which is like they've never gone past what relationships are in your 20s.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5036.093

They don't want to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5038.313

And they want someone that also wants a three year ordeal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5041.554

And nothing more because that's the phase they're in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5056.357

And I would imagine the percentage of three-year relationships in your 20s that turn into lifetime versus three-year relationships in your 30s that turn into lifetime. I think that's a dramatic difference.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

506.937

I hate to be that person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5071.808

Well, that was... Do you want to add any guys to your list? I know a lot of them. Idris Elba. The guy from... That's a random one to say. The guy from Heist. Matt, Ben, Sean Penn.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5096.69

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

512.204

I really want to get in there now. They're incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5146.528

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5193.325

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5320.208

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5370.552

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

54.333

It's an intense, it's got that, as I think I said in the episode, it's got that kind of substance-y, tenchy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5527.108

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

554.495

Because you are a risk taker or you're clumsy by nature?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5573.598

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

558.676

That's a bad combo if you're a risk taker and you have bad balance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5657.518

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5657.618

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5658.558

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5658.798

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5658.998

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5659.418

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5659.699

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5660.079

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5660.199

.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5676.869

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5900.739

Yeah. Now let me ask you, this is a dangerous one, but do you think we can bump up against the limits of our biology at some point? Like society evolves, culture evolves, but I do wonder at like, what point do you bump up against just how much culture can override biology?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5924.617

Yeah, I think if you plotted you and I on this spectrum, I think we have different inflection points of where that would be, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

5961.164

We're highly flexible and adaptable. So maybe it'll work. That's true. Also, we could see it fall off a cliff and go, oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6019.128

Everyone's all over the place. Skin, saliva, and hair. Those are the options. We think that's what's getting into the hot dogs. I say saliva.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6030.972

You don't have to chew that. You're not going to feel that in your mouth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6034.174

It's best to not even know you had the DNA go through.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6042.122

You say hair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6045.645

What if it's a pubic hair?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6048.327

Okay. Nope. So human hair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6051.65

Okay. Okay. Which is probably dirtier than pubic hair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6060.048

Not an ass hair. Or arm hair? Mon's pubis hair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6065.994

Arm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6068.537

I prefer that over head hair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6071.47

Yeah, tiny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6085.523

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6088.325

Unquestionably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6089.726

Yeah, undoubtedly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6096.232

What are people saying? They're saying sly, but no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6119.213

It does make a good point that a tiny chunk of skin, again, would feel like the texture of the hot dog. It would. And you largely wouldn't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6125.757

I gotta put hair last. Because you go, and then you're trying to get them. It just keeps coming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6135.422

What if it was like three feet of hair?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6139.244

Do you think your hair is three feet long? No, two and a half.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6157.655

And I don't have that luxury.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6159.637

Because if I start pulling a hair that's longer than three inches out of my arm, it's not mine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6165.2

Unless it's my armpit hair, which can get up to nine, 12 inches.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6176.078

That's cool. It's weird punk rock.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

619.45

You don't have to go to the nuclear option.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

62.074

Ooh, it was really good, really good. Please enjoy Aza Gonzalez.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6204.959

Do we know why they're sharing a bathroom right now?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6213.141

Do you have any more volume you can give him?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6229.527

Oh, I don't know how that drops it. So it's kind of an aggressive back and forth. It's more of like a tit for tat, like a war.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6241.058

Oh, well, thank you for those facts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6244.179

All right. I love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

626.473

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

6261.004

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

629.954

I'm going to promote one of my own products right now to you. A movie called Hit and Run. Because I directed it, I got to do the thing I always want to do, which is in movies, no one ever brushes their tongue. And I brush my tongue specifically to like gag. That's when I know I've gotten it. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

644.4

Brain health. Yeah, everything. So in the movie, I'm brushing my tongue and I gag and almost throw up and there's toothpaste everywhere. And that's in the film. And I felt like I had the first really authentic teeth brushing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

690.983

I guess it's not novel. You did it too. She didn't gag though, did she?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

695.747

I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

701.834

So your mother has your brother who's 12 years older than you, and she's an orthodontist turned model. When does she meet your dad?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

711.827

And what did your dad do?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

714.608

Was he from Mexico City? Yeah. I got a side note. We went for the first time over Christmas and I cannot believe how much I loved it. It's incredible, right? It's like the greatest fucking city.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

772.151

Of course, yeah, from anywhere. Okay, so you seem on the surface because you went to a couple of private schools. One of them was like an American school. It was pretty privileged?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

816.356

I hope you've played a lawyer or a doctor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

821.579

So you did it for him. I did. What was the American school?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

828.385

Does that just mean English school?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

855.552

And your parents put in that effort because they just wanted the whole world to be open to you. Did they specifically see you going to the U.S. ?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

884.324

You went to Italy at 10 for a minute to learn Italian?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

890.188

Your extended family.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

895.031

Have you done a 23andMe?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

900.494

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. You want to know about your own human DNA.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

905.497

Yeah. What do you think you have? Because mind you, what I thought I had didn't prove out in the data.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

927.332

Oh, God, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

930.714

Yeah, tell us. You guys don't do that in Mexico.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

938.399

So I would be so wrong. I would have thought it would have been even perhaps more fetishized there because you have this mestizo population and then this European influence. And there has been some kind of status hierarchy, a little bit derived from that now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Eiza Gonzalez

94.421

Okay. I'm nervous. Don't tell me anything negative about hot dogs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

1741.463

Oh, geez. He's crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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181.825

He's an object expert. He's an object expert.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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2320.968

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

2325.333

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

2347.109

Uh,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

268.541

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

3019.735

Yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

3233.892

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

3504.994

This is so hilarious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

4697.264

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

4781.29

Mm hmm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4785.694

You were so fucking tired.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

5332.475

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

6214.922

Subcontracting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

6249.302

It is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6251.264

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

656.218

Mm-hmm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

6699.743

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

6985.459

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

758.762

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Dax's Mom (Laura Labo)

8201.549

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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8753.909

I'm not surprised.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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9272.249

Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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9493.916

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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9596.579

90?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dan Shepard. I'm joined by Monica Padman. Hi. And Aaron Michael Weakley. Hello. Today, our guests, alliteration, Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1007.685

Your ears are echolocating the distance of their mouth. I get all that orientation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1013.247

That's on the up and up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1083.274

Was going to be at this jazz festival? It was at this jazz festival. Oh, cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1089.236

Plus the police.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1100.322

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1170.36

I'm like, what the fuck? Hold on, how could he not find the piano? Yeah, I know. He walked past the piano.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1196.313

Yes, he is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1213.693

This is tough. This is compelling. Now, let me ask you this, though, because then I have to go straight to what would be the motive? Let's try this case. He's been living a lie for so long that he doesn't want anyone to know. Like a great magician where you got to live the routine. Yeah. Do you think his feelings would be hurt as your friend? Knowing that, you think he's able-sighted? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1266.167

He might've geotagged you somehow. He put a little something on you on the airplane. He's like, you're going to be my anchor. I'm going to find you. Okay. Here's our really funny one. Friend of ours worked at Houston's, our favorite restaurant. Stevie Wonder comes in with like five, six friends. And the two funny things about it is all the tables are obviously numbered for the servers, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1285.099

Yeah. So one of the servers says to the runner, hey, drop this at Stevie Wonder's table. And the runner says, what number? And he said, number Stevie Wonder. Right, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1301.417

And then, and this could be an exaggeration, the friends were holding up their drinks and pointing another round, but they would never say it out loud.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1315.64

His buddies were like taking him to the cleaners. Yeah, another one of these, but they were not saying anything. So, he wouldn't know they were drinking $400 worth. Yeah. Well,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1354.188

I wouldn't care if the whole thing was a ruse. I wouldn't feel deceived. And also, if you think about it, it's an incredibly useful thing to say you have because you never have to remember what anyone looks like. There's just so much shit you would get out of. But man, that takes some commitment. Oh my God. Dedication. Yes, next level.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

139.289

Before the charity event, yeah. I try not to be swole at charity events. It's not a good look.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1399.811

I do want to go back to Compton, to childhood. Oh, let's go. We're of similar age. And when I was growing up, all the music was coming from there that I loved. The movies I loved at that moment were coming from there. And you were living there. So a couple of questions. What was it like growing up there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1418.804

And then also, I just trying to imagine my hometown being the source of all these great movies, all this great music, what that felt like to be there. And was there some disconnect of, oh, yeah, everyone's into this. It's on TV, but it's not a party here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1531.345

Who did nothing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1554.596

They're still out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1597.609

So really quick, what's the survival mechanism? Is it ignoring? Is it acknowledging? Is it ignoring until you have to acknowledge? You don't ignore it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1619.744

So when you were seeing it blow up in pop culture, to be fully honest with you, my best friend, Aaron, who I'm still best friends with, we left Detroit right when we graduated high school. We went on a road trip. We lived in the car for like six months. When we came to LA, our very first stop was, we're South Central. Very wide of you. Yeah. We want to see all the action.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1641.242

And then we got there and being from Detroit, the projects of Detroit, you know, you're looking at them. Yeah. And we were like, these are kind of nice houses. It was a little confusing. I was going to ask you that. There's all these like World War II bungalow developments. It's very confusing if you're from the East Coast to come out and see.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

165.102

Well, that's as good a place as any to start. What world records do you hold?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1660.489

Yeah, yeah, yeah. So if I were you, I would be annoyed. Like, what the fuck are these white boys doing? They're tourists. That's when you get caught up. So you never got caught up in anything? No, but I was also smoking crack in Detroit. I've never known that about you. Oh, yeah, I'm an ex-addict, and I used to be in the gnarliest apartment smoking crack in Detroit. We recognize that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1678.516

Yeah, I knew how to get by, and so did Aaron. Okay. But all to say, I'm trying to imagine what it is when you're inside of it and people, they themselves are enamored by it. Yeah. Is it annoying?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1720.494

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1747.067

Well, crack, thank God, was something I did semi-controlled. My preference was to snort it. Snort crack? No, no, snort Coke. Okay. I was like, hold on, motherfucker.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1757.952

You just didn't want to go to Coke? And I would often run out of that. I can't get that at three in the morning. So I go to Ghost Town in Venice and buy crack and I'll smoke crack. You weren't doing that while you were in Detroit. No, no. Then I go back to Detroit for the summers and hang with all my boys and we go downtown.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1776.06

I wasn't a child. I probably smoked it for the first time when I was 21. All right. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

178.91

Okay, just put that in perspective, Monica. You know the gray trailer sitting over there? Yeah. That's 26 foot. So 10 feet longer than that trailer was the club he was using. What? Did you have to have something in the middle for a pivot?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1785.524

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1789.785

Yeah, yeah. I'm at UCLA and in the groundlings. I'm a comedian. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1921.275

I haven't. No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1941.348

They called for my availability one time. It's not to say that they were offering it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1968.533

I'm going to say this from the bottom of my heart. You would be great. Oh, my God. You would be such a great host. I'm very surprised. That's what I've always said. You really would be a great, great host.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

1993.512

Oh, that's fun. And it aired?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2001.318

You got to take it as a win. You're back on the bus stop, 530 in the morning. You're like, oh boy, they're in a fight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2011.225

And then the white angel shows up and he says, guess what? At some point, SNL is going to call and ask for your availability. You're going to go, oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2092.061

And her basement's flooded.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2100.744

He had to come back to my mama. How did he end up, he owned clothing stores at some point?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

213.543

A couple hundred feet. No, no. Yeah, be careful because people could check this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

217.344

So maybe not a couple hundred feet, but it was far. Okay. How did you find yourself in this position? Is this something you completely orchestrated on your own?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2186.505

Did he make you work with him ever? Yeah, and I didn't have a problem doing it. Good chance to work on your people skills.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2216.507

Yeah, I read that and I was like, this feels so 80s to be a telephone operator.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2244.87

When my dad died, I thought it was going well. Okay. But in reflection, it really fucked me up more than I really kind of realized at the time. And I have a few friends whose dads also died too young. I don't know. It can bring out some wild stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2287.285

Me either. It's still evolving. Mine was 2012. So 13 years ago. My most consistent dream is dreams about him. When he died, it was a bit of a relief because I was caring for him and supporting him and it was complicated. And so at first it was just like, okay, whew, there's a lot off my plate now. And then, oh, I miss him. And then it just continues to unfold this whole thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2310.242

And now I have a completely different view of him than I did when he died. I recognize all these incredible things he was in spite of some things I was disappointed in. Yeah. just all these things. And yeah, now I'm like, God, yeah, I'd really like to go back now and hang with him when he was virile and not dying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2361.729

All the time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2461.367

At that point, are you like, oh, dad's kind of hallucinating? No, not hallucinating. It was like, dad is about to go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2505.902

i contributed to it were you adjusting or regulating the inside with that like i'm using drugs and booze oh no it wasn't like a coping mechanism for no no i just like good shit man probably why i got motherfucking gout in my big toe on my right foot occasionally oh that's rough yeah oh man that's what my dad at the end he had gout in addition to everything

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

256.946

Now, my question is. I have so many. Me too. Are people sitting around thinking like, okay, how about this? Here's a world record. 36-foot golf club. Who's imagining this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

26.417

Anthony Anderson. With a cute nickname, Ant. Ant is a cute nickname. He kind of goes by Ant. Emmy-nominated actor. I was watching his Law & Order years on the plane ride here. Oh, my gosh. Ding, ding, ding. Of course, Black-ish, Kangaroo Jack, Romeo Must Die, Barbershop, Scary Movie 3. He has a new movie on Prime Video right now with Viola Davis called G20.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2625.175

What I have gleaned from the many interviews I've watched of you now is, and I'm guessing having to leave Howard, was that heartbreaking? It was, it was disappointing. So you go to Howard after this magnet school you're at and you're there for how many years? Three, I ran out of money after my junior year. And you're doing theater there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2684.062

Yeah, a little extra. So you run out of money and you come back to L.A. Yeah. How long before getting back to starting to get employed? Because I feel like you and I have a kind of a similar... I didn't start getting hired as an actor till like 28. 25 for me. Oh, right. You do five years on a Saturday morning teen show. I got that when I was 25 years old.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

290.411

What if it was like 27, 30?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2905.795

That airplane ride home, I'd be like, well, if it goes down, like this is about as great as it gets story-wise. Yeah. This really worked out. So many wonderful things you were in. I really am jealous of a lot. Why? What are you jealous of? Well, Departed. The fact that in your lifetime you worked for a Scorsese. You can just leave it right there. You don't have to read anymore.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2925.302

It might be the greatest cast of all time. I would say that. Directed by the greatest director of all time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

293.334

And I got to imagine once you're wearing 30 t-shirts, it's got to be getting up around his face. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

2980.434

Of all these hosting duties, which is your favorite? I mean, the game show rack, it's nice because you're just cranking out episodes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3014.157

He's a great guy. Yeah. He'll almost shame you. He's right there. We gave him a best boy award. We gave him a best boy award.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3026.03

Yeah. Do you know that Ant refers to himself as the Lucci? What's her name? Susan Lucci. I'm the black Susan Lucci. Yeah, because he's been nominated 11 times.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3034.698

Monica and I were talking about it the other day, and I was like, I don't know, man, if they had fucking nominated me, mind you, I've never been nominated, but if they nominated me five times, I might go like, I'm not fucking coming anymore.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3077.789

One last question, and then I want to talk about G20. How do you know Jordan? And what's that hang like?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3085.251

Michael Jordan. Michael Jordan. The Jordan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3087.251

Although he does live next door to Michael B. Jordan. He said there's three black people in his neighborhood. Him, Michael B. Jordan, and Machine Gun Kelly. Okay. You've done your research. I tried to. You've done your research, man. That was funny. We kind of love him. We had him on. He was one of my favorite guests ever. Yeah, he's a special dude. He's like a very sensitive, sweet dude.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3108.406

He's nothing like you think he would be. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3116.837

I was like, I do. And you're grown. You should have it too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3133.768

I'll task rabbit it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3139.312

He's a sweet boy. You need to take him under your arm. I I'm going to do his birthday parties and all that. We're good. Oh, that's good. But Jordan, we watched Last Dance, as everyone did, and just so fascinated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

334.566

Were they playing golf in Compton? No, no, no, no, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3359.701

And I'm playing next to this man.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3363.082

It's a good list.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

338.289

Sure, sure, sure. No, were you studying the Guinness Book of World Records? Because in elementary school, I was obsessed with it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

346.857

It was like, one day I'm going to do this. How can I do this? I want to see the tallest guy. Like, you and I probably have the same image of the heaviest twins. And they were on those little Honda mopeds together in that photo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3509.034

He still got the shoes. You good?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

358.407

You couldn't even see. You could not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3590.324

And he came around to you. You aimed for the fence. Oh, yeah. I'm going to show you my whole self and you're going to like it or not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

360.93

It was implied there was a moped underneath.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3606.553

Okay, G20. Yes. G20 comes out April 10th, streaming on Prime Video. Viola Davis, Academy Award winner. Fuck all that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

364.593

It's such a memorable photo. And then the fingernails, you look up the fingernails. Oh, so you're in that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3658.832

Really? Yeah, that's awesome. And so that's how it all began. So she's the U.S. president. You're the first man. You guys go down to South Africa for the G20 summit and you bring your kids. Yes. And then it's Die Hard. Yeah. So there's some bad guys, Tony Starr, who I fucking love from The Boys. Do you watch The Boys?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3743.089

Yeah, he's Homelander.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3749.955

That is so funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3767.221

Yeah, out of context. And it's a testament to who he is as an actor. What he does on The Boys, the fact that that dude hasn't won an Emmy. I mean, what he's doing on The Boys is the bad guy and you feel bad for him sometimes. Yes, you do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3817.86

So, yeah, it looks fucking awesome, by the way. It is, man. The trailer is outrageously good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3834.988

She's an action star. She is. It was amazing to be a part of and amazing to watch. Well, Anthony, I adore you. I have so much fun when I get to be around you. This was great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3845.492

I know. TBD.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3853.539

Nope, he didn't send a text. You see how many he had to scroll through in the last two hours?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3909.937

We've done all that can be done. We really have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3931.413

No, no, no, no, no, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3935.374

Even selfishly for me, I don't want that bridge to be burned on my behalf. Anthony, adore you. Thanks for coming. Thank you. Nice meeting you, Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3965.332

You have to pretend this is going to be a big challenge. You have to do your best acting of your life. You have to pretend you don't know I wore this outfit yesterday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

397.116

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3976.856

Oh, really good job. Moving on. Next thing. We're on the wrong set. There's some cheesy things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3989.219

I was wearing it. Well, now you're so good. Wow, this is really good. Now I'm convinced you didn't see me yesterday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

3996.805

I see you. There are some corny sayings on sets. Yeah. Some of them, I like them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4005.006

So if you're like filming, you're filming four scenes that day and you're going to be in Crosby's bedroom. And then the next scene is going to be in the living room. You like do the scene that y'all cut. You don't really know what they're saying at the monitor. Are we going to go again? Yeah. Do we get it right? And then occasionally 80s will go, okay, we're on the wrong set. That means we did it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4025.054

It's time to leave the bedroom and go to the next set. And I like that one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4035.162

Oh, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4037.204

And do you know the origin of that one?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4040.587

I think specifically Hitchcock would always have a martini shot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4045.743

During the last setup. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4053.167

We're on the martini.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4056.689

I have a bit of anxiety about this fact check.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4059.811

This is so much to get through.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4066.935

Okay. I hope people are patient with me if there's multiple Hawaii updates.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4072.519

Over, they're being leaked out. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4075.842

You had a trip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4083.459

I'm trying. Yeah, that didn't get through, right? No. Okay, right. You did not go to New York.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4090.661

Then White Lotus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

410.548

They want to keep that out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4115.613

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4119.757

And you know what's interesting is when you announced that to me, at first I was like, I didn't like it for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

412.611

They're historically very homophobic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4126.042

Because I was worried your anxiety got the best of you. Like you had some anxiety and I wanted you to have that fun trip. And I know you love New York.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4135.009

But now on the other side of it, I think you listened to yourself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4138.612

And it was the right thing to do. It was the right thing to do. And you still had your spectacular trip with Callie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4150.461

Over Q, ending Q2. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4169.407

Are you so selfish that you would have preferred that the flight crashed on the way to New York? Just so you could say, oh my God, I knew. I knew not to take that flight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4179.69

I bet there's someone that's bad enough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

418.117

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4189.181

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4194.204

Well, you would definitely if you canceled the flight and then you saw on the news it crashed, you would have an enormous burst of gratitude. Relief, yes. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4207.332

Uh-oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4214.017

Yes, you would. Everyone would. Well, you wouldn't, I don't know that you'd say you have powers, but you'd say, well, now I have to really take seriously that the universe sends me signals and I need to listen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4231.65

And we just got resolution on that last week. It was diabetes related.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4257.453

Yes, diabetes. I just sent Aaron ding, ding, ding. I just sent Aaron. There is a remix. A DJ made a mix of the diabetes commercials. And it's pretty good. And maybe I'll play it later at some point in this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4277.952

That he has... ALS. ALS. Yeah, I've seen him. It's heartbreaking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4283.936

That's in the news now?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4290.84

Because when he was here, obviously, his... He told us. Well, he didn't know what it was yet, right? I know. His arm was kind of atrophying. And he thought he had a virus. Yeah, I remember that. And he seemed specialist. And... Yeah, it's a real fucking bummer. It really breaks my heart. I hate it. I know, I know. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

431.108

ABR. Yeah. Always be recording. You and I have to occasionally, I'm sure, approve bios, right? Like you're going to go somewhere and then they send you a thing. Here's what we're going to read before you come out. Yeah. The next time you're on Kimmel, what they should say is world record holder Anthony Anderson when you come out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4330.505

He'd already been hanging on by a bit of a thread. Oh, no. So he died on Easter?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4339.148

I guess if I were a Pope. And I had them my way and they said, you're going to die this month.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4345.817

I'd like to go on Friday, on Good Friday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4350.259

When Jesus, yeah, passed. Passed. You say passed. Excuse me. I passed. Be respectful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4356.201

So then you're- That's a lot of doom and gloom though.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4362.483

You're right. You're right. You're right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4364.784

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4367.725

So I did take my trip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4369.565

I took- Lincoln Delta and I, Hawaii, eight days.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4378.65

The headline is incredible trip. Great. I'll remember it. I'll be on my deathbed and I'll go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4386.192

I'm proud of you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4389.913

Yeah. And he wouldn't like that, but I'll tell you why it's okay to like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4394.417

Or why I think it's okay to like it. Because I was talking with a friend from AA, and there are things in life that give me esteem, self-esteem, and there are things that take away self-esteem.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4404.503

And so, and they're, you know, they're pretty correlated with challenge.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4411.347

Right? Sure. But it was just an incredible trip. It definitely had its challenges. I might've been a little naive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4419.191

Okay. And then I was wrestling with that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4425.294

I guess I was misled because when Kristen has gone away to film, which has happened throughout the child, their childhood, it always goes really well. I do very well with, with the two of them by myself. And I was underestimating, like we have our routine, they go to places, they're in their house, they can separate. And so I was a little naive and I've taken trips with them solo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4449.93

And those are truly kind of effortless and fun. It's just like being with a buddy. But this was, you know, there were days where one of them was mad at the other for the whole day, the first few days. And I started getting a little nervous. Yeah. And then I was, and this is kind of funny. This is one of the many stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

446.335

Because that's so much more impressive than actor or producer or any of that. I think I should do that. And then just let people imagine what it is. Not even get into it, just be Guinness book world record holder. Yes, and when I describe you to people, I'll be like, you know my friend Ant, world record holder. He also acts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4467.002

So my mother would have, I know what she would have done because she did it many times. We'd be on a vacation. We'd be acting like assholes. Also give me so much fucking respect for my mother's whole.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4481.146

Single parent, three kids. Oh my God. God bless Laura LeBeau. I sent her a message going, you know what? I need to just tell you, you're a warrior and I admire you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4491.411

But her move was, guys, we're going home tomorrow morning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4496.835

There were a lot of those speeches.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4498.736

Yes. And by the way, they weren't threats.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4501.779

My mom... I almost said my wife.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4507.643

My mom... We had some rules in the house. There was no begging, period. You already know this about me. She did not play begging. And we left many places where we had put a lot of effort into it and we had driven there and we didn't get our shit together. She said, this happens again. We're going home. And we did. She never made empty threats. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4527.088

So I'm remembering, like, first of all, I'm feeling that. I'm like, I'm going to tell them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4534.532

We're going to go home.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4536.453

And then I'm saying, you must, you must do a little, you must grow a little bit from what you were given.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4541.796

And so it was a moment where it was like, we tried to go snorkeling, maybe the third attempt. One of them always had a thing. I got stabbed by a sea urchin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4551.821

Um, and it was another failed attempt and then the fight. And then I was, I was in my head. I'm like, I'm telling him we're going to go home. And then I'm like, I'm going to meditate. I'm going to sit on this lawn chair and I'm going to meditate because I want to be the best version of myself. And I am going to confront this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4565.032

I am not going to have five days more of fighting, but I got to do it in a very healthy way. And I'm about 12 minutes into my 20-minute meditation. And while I'm meditating, I hear a blood-curdling screaming. And I'm thinking, I'm like, oh, fuck, some parents. Oh, no. Someone's dealing with something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4585.347

And the scream's getting louder and louder and louder and louder until it's obviously five feet from me. And I open my eyes and I look, and my sweet little Delty is fucking crying. Like, I don't even know where to begin to guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4602.07

Yes. And she has at least four hotel employees trailing her because they're obviously scared for her. God knows what liability fears they're having. Oh, yeah. They want us to go in an ambulance to be, you know, I mean, virtually they want us to be as safe as humanly possible. But I know my Delta. What she needs immediately is everyone to leave.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

462.741

Two-time world record holder. Shit, by now he might have three or four.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4624.906

Embarrassment would hurt more than, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4629.371

She got that from you. You know, it's okay. Come here. You know, trying to get a calm, calm, calm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4637.465

No, I know right now we need to like, we need to go from 15 to 10 so that I can then say, okay, mama, let me, let me take a look and just see what we're dealing with. So as it turned out, it was just a lip, but it was good enough that as she was screaming and crying, it was like on her arms and whatever. I knew it was serious, but also you never really know. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4657.655

Cause they, they all, they kind of have this reaction to most every injury.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4662.034

I wasn't scared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4664.596

No, I'm like, this is an emergency level trauma. The bleeding has stopped. We don't need stitches.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4675.224

I wasn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4677.305

Yeah, had I just done 35 hours of the pit in the ER maybe. And we get it all calmed down. Now, this is where I'll give D-Money a lot of credit. As the next few days wore on, And especially day three after this thing, I'm looking at her and we're in the sunshine. I go, sweetheart. Well, and she told me, she goes, daddy, I didn't even put my hands out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4700.102

She fell, she slipped on the concrete next to the pool. And she said, I didn't even put my hands out, which I kind of was like, I bet she put them out a little bit. She's not lying. She fell directly on her face. So a few days later, she had a black and blue cheek, black and blue chin. She whacked her face so bad. Anywho. I did make this speech.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4722.504

It was a very gentle version, and everyone got their shit together.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4727.185

It was a big turn. Okay. We still had stuff. Sure. You're going to have stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4732.047

But there was a reset, and I really appreciated it. What did you say? I said, it is very hard for me to be on this trip with one of you really mad people. at any given time. One of you was very, very mad. And I said, and I want to be able to take you on these trips if mom's working. And I have to be honest, next year comes around.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4754.674

If it continues like this, I'm not sure I'm going to take this trip again. Not we're going home, still a threat. I don't know. People probably think that was bad parenting, whatever they did here. Oh, we're not entitled to these trips if we act like assholes. He's saying I can't. I'm basically saying I can't handle it. Yeah. Okay. So that's a great reset.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4770.708

Let's not even talk about just single parent, the sunblock routine when you're in Hawaii. Because this is like every 40 minutes I got to slather their whole body. Almost my full time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4779.235

Oh, I did. I'm like, if I bring them home sunburned, that's a wrap. That's hard to defend. Yeah. We go to dinner that night and I'm now feeling, I'm feeling like a failure. I'm like, I should be able to coordinate some kind of peaceful fun. We're in paradise at a beautiful hotel. You know, it should be easy. In quotes. Should be. And so I'm not going to blame a 12 and a 10-year-old.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4804.943

I'm like, I'm not managing something correctly. And I was so relieved that as we were at these dinners, we were eavesdropping. And I want to tell you, shit's going down on all family vacations. That was comforting. That's standard family vacation. People fight. You think you're going to go to paradise and everyone's going to be so grateful the whole time. That's not what happens.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4826.727

No, you're in a smaller space.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4828.688

You have to compromise on schedules way more and you get what you sell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4833.693

Yes, you and Callie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4837.782

Wine country, if you don't know. We went to wine country, yes. California. And food country.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4848.247

Shopping country.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4865.016

I love a hotel that I can't pronounce.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4874.104

Yeah, very cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4876.186

We have visited you there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

488.412

You're not going to get that record. Are those guys Scandinavian? Are they like from Iceland or something? I think they are Scandinavian. Yeah. But this father-son, they're in the book for multiple records. It's like Magnus von Magnus and...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4890.479

Because they lent you guys an electric G-Wagon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4906.016

Yeah, in wine country.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

4933.64

And I urged you to make the car, the car will do a 365 degree turn like a tank. Yeah. And I really wanted you guys to do that. And you said you might find a parking lot and try it. And then you told me you didn't have time. We didn't have time. You definitely had time to do a 360, but I understand. We didn't have time for that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5000.96

That sounds right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

501.118

Okay. So you and I were recently together, which was really fun. I mean, don't say it like that. No, I'm going to leave it just like that. Just like the world record. We were recently together. Moving on. Great time. We, among some other people, went to Vegas because Kimmel was being honored. And we were on an airplane together. We were shooting the shit. Not just an airplane. We were on a PJ.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5018.223

Of course. Well, I would have thought, oh, this place is known for their English muffin. I better get one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5041.533

Okay. And then— Covering your head in shame.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5091.989

So I was right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5093.809

Yeah. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5095.129

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5100.65

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5103.211

It was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5109.642

Yeah. Did she even play the game in her head like, oh, sourdough's got less? No. She didn't even make it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5123.92

And a lot of people... I can live with my... Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5127.823

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5134.787

Oh, he did. And he's a chef for people who don't know. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5139.491

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5153.505

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5156.73

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5159.814

Is it a wink?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5165.891

You want to mind your ego and not assume.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5171.655

Get over yourself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5172.996

The word cherry existed before your podcast. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5181.822

Oh, did you text Bert?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5186.552

You need to. I need to text Bert. I guess it'll be a three-way text, but.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

519.701

We were on a private jet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5191.714

Bert Kreischer. But he's not allowed to be on a text with a woman, which is hilarious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5196.216

So I have to be on any communication between the two of you. You do. What would be incredible is you guys did start a huge affair and it was just in front of me. And I'm like, well, I don't know how this helped. Now I just have to observe this whole thing. What if because I was there, he was felt free to just.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5216.117

Yeah, like I think about your body all the time. What did I say? It was all the time. What?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5222.204

Okay, anyways, go ahead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

523.884

It's not a good look for me. Why is it not a good look for you? I'll tell you, and I say this all the time on here. When black people are showing wealth, I'm like, fuck yeah. It was impossible for you to get it. Fucking let it rip. I don't mind at all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5241.5

We all had it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5243.401

And you liked it. And he responded?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5245.882

Oh, good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5253.553

Where's Dax?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5260.056

Which is very, very funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5268.099

I do too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

53.823

Yes. Incredible Kiss and Homelander.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5303.385

And that you're a new Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5343.17

Sure. And so she said, Monica won't leave the room.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5348.473

She's really upset. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5354.098

Lazy bum.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5363.182

Monica loved it. That's not why she's not here. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5389.7

Have you tried the 360-degree turn? I said 365-degree, didn't I? I'm just now remembering. That's how many days are in a year. There's only 360 degrees in a circle, though. How embarrassing. Some gearhead's like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5419.454

Okay, I had to get involved with something. And I'm wondering, I think I finally did it right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5426.049

And it was one, it was during one of, but this was post reset. So this was fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5431.373

We found this like very, very desolate beach. Nobody's there. We pull over. The girls are playing in the thing. Then it's time to leave. We're walking back. Delta steps on a thorn. She's barefoot. She then goes and takes a breather.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5444.383

So now Lincoln and I are just sitting in the car and I'm looking in my rear view mirror and there's a woman walking with two little kids. through this little dirt parking lot. And when I say little, this little boy is like two and a half. A little blonde, cute little boy. And I hear, get away from that car. And I look and she grabs him by the neck. Oh no. And drags his little body.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5468.85

And I'm gonna get out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5472.753

Right? Like there's no, I'm not gonna watch this woman do this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5476.455

It was really rough. Lincoln saw it, too, if I need backup. Well, I trust you. It was abusive. It was bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

548.23

It was a private jet. But would you agree there's a difference? Mm-hmm. No one's going to be rooting for me to be on a private jet, nor should they. I root for you. Because we know each other. And you know I'm from the fucking bowels of hillbilly country, Michigan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5484.622

And then he tries to get free, and then she grabs his head again, and he falls. And so I roll down the window. I'm about to get out. And then I roll down the window, and I go, no, no, no, gentle, gentle, gentle, gentle. It's gentle, gentle, gentle, but also the subtext is, I'm getting out of this car if you don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5502.876

And she let go of his neck. And said, come on. Then she grabbed his hand and started guiding him, which was a huge improvement.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5513.277

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5515.079

Yeah, the woman and the boy looked alike. She had some hard miles on her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5521.828

No, no, mom, mom, mom. It was rough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5527.965

I fucking hate that there's little people who are getting treated like that. I hate it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5542.608

I know, because again, we already talked about it, but it's like, I'm not going to say anything that's going to change this woman's behavior for life, obviously. And in fact, that could probably make it worse. Yeah. And probably she might take it out on the kid.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5553.251

And you need to know, however hard you are on me about my aggressive reactions to things, Lincoln, she will not stand for it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5562.533

Yeah, it's great. I'm glad she's like that. And she was very approving.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5569.695

She was. She thought I had done it well. Okay. So I finally... Did it in a way no one was mad at me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5577.309

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5584.393

No, but my inclination was to get in front of her face, like, so that she knew I'm not asking you to stop doing this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5594.371

Well, it would have. She would have. In the moment. Yes, yes, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5610.223

I don't know either. And I just happen to see a lot of stuff. So I saw this family getting a fight behind us. And it was the way the man was talking to the wife was such a bummer. And she had no, like... And she went like comatose. And then she had to leave the table with one of the boys that was pissing the dad off. And then I saw a grandpa grab a phone out of a teenager's hand at breakfast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

562.301

Yeah. Okay, so we're on this flight, and we're talking about gambling. And I already know that you gamble. Yeah. I'm fixing to gamble when we're there. We have a little two-hour break. And then you're like, let's play together. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5638.254

And I was like, holy cow, people are handling their business in certain ways. And then the anthropologist in me really has to now work through this whole thing where I go like, well, you're assuming your way is the correct way. Yep. And clearly people have been raising kids all kinds of way in every kind of culture. Yep. And I don't want to be high and mighty and self-righteous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5665.006

Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. It's... I know. But there's a lot of shit going down. People are really rough. And also going... And people are having a harder time than me, right? So that's in the mix. I'm not stretched to the limit. You know, I'm not, I'm not my mom on vacation where it's like, I can't afford the vacation we're on, but I really want to show my kids the country.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5688.203

What was tempting is to go all these spoiled rich people. But that's wrong. I was at the shitty hotels too. And it was gnarly there too. You know what it is? It's hard to raise kids. Adam Grant just had a post. You would have loved this. I was debating whether or not to forward it to you. But Adam Grant had another social scientist on that's done all this work. Oh, I saw it. You saw it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5709.653

Yeah, and it's just in a nutshell, it just says kids make your life worse.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5716.699

Now, then you get into, though, you get into the Yuval Harari, like your narrative self does feel one way and whether or not you should be happy all the time. That's what you're always servicing. That's a bigger thing. But it was interesting that the data is absolutely consistent and undeniable. They make your life worse. Yeah. So, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

572.87

And I don't know if I was very forthcoming in the moment, but I was starting to get really fearful that we were going to sit down and you were going to be playing like 2000 a hand. And I was going to be playing like 25 and feeling emasculated. And you go, we should play. And I'm like, yes. You did jump at the opportunity to do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5746.76

And they don't act. They don't act.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5750.062

They haven't figured it out yet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5798.735

yes and yes i look it's just like that's where lincoln and i stuff comes up is that we've two know-it-alls in the family yep who gotta make the game plan yeah and of course like we get we get to the airport we take a little tram to the airport it ends at the terminal i know that the check-in's inside lincoln i read a sign it's down there and i'm like okay

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

58.166

Tony Stark. Please enjoy Aunt Anderson.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5823.939

Okay, well, and then I say, even if you're right, it would make the most sense to peek in this one before we walk all the way down. I read the sign and I'm like, okay, I'm seeing that this is me. Like, this is what it was like to travel with me. This is what it's like to be around me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5839.995

And- And I deserve this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5843.738

And if anyone should be able to figure out how to deal with this, it should be me. But I don't know how to because I'm the same way. And I'm like, there's the idea of me walking to another terminal that I fucking know United's not inside there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5856.486

Which I won't die.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5859.587

Again, I intellectually know I'm not going to die if that happens, but there's no way I can do that. Yeah. And then I'm like, you know, okay, so we're both this way. I'm 50 and I paid for all this. Does that not get me the tiebreaker vote? Shouldn't the parent have the fucking tiebreaker?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5888.561

Yeah, that guy I had diagnosed was, I paid for all this. You better be happy nonstop.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

589.353

But in my mind, I'm like, oh, I'm going to feel like such a clown playing next to you. Thank God you decided to take a nap. Yeah, I did. Is what happened when we got there. And you went to the table. I went to the table and Kristen and I just gave it to him straight in the hiney. $225 we won.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5897.788

Because this is my vacation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5901.731

So Link and I, you know, and then it's like, what line do you get in for anything? Link and I have a very strong opinion. And it's me. That's what makes it so hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5914.557

I know more. Listen, I am percentage wise. I am right more.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5919.105

I am.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5920.966

Yes. Yeah. I should goddamn hope at 50 I know a little more about the world than my 12-year-old.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5951.038

Right. And like, that's it. And that's like, right. But that's not going to work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5957.461

She's like me. She'll walk. Okay. Literally. Like, this is why it's, it's like, it's nuclear assured annihilation. She and I will both, we're both the type of people that will be like, fine, you guys go do it the wrong way. I'm going by myself to do it. And this is bad. But I'm admitting this to you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5974.784

So I know if push comes to shove, she will walk by herself away from us and go to where she thinks it is at. So I have got to prevent that because she's that strong. And I love it about her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5986.67

But when she's older, I'll be delighted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

5996.594

We could work on. We're working on it. We are working on it. And all to say, I was quite proud when I got home of the job I did, even though I did things wrong and everything. I do like who I am.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6014.679

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6017.26

It's hard. Sometimes it's hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6023.26

I tried that way with her for a while. Yeah. And I want to believe I'm smart enough to go, well, this is what my dad did. And my dad reaped what he sowed. I said, fine, I don't need you. Like if I'm going to, if to be with you is to surrender to your will, guess what? I don't need to be with you. So I know I had that in me to walk away from him. And I know she has it in her too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6049.733

And I'm not going to let that happen. So that's the driving force behind me going, I have to do it differently than my dad did because I know what the result was. I was, look, I need her more than she needs me emotionally.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6067.181

No, no, because I was there. I'm like, I don't care if I don't talk to my dad for a year, which happened numerous times. That's way easier on me than it was on him, I'm sure. And if Lincoln didn't talk to me for a year, it would devastate me. So I have to be realistic. It's like the thing that Bill Gates's therapist finally told him is you're fighting an unfair war.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6090.135

Your parents are going to love you And never withhold that from you. And you can withhold it for them. And it's not a fair war.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6097.978

And you're going to win. And so that's on the table. So I, if there's two variables in this equation and one of them has to bend, it's got to be me because it's not going to be her. I know it because I was the same way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6131.061

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6134.924

But.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6136.826

Listen, but I think you have to be realistic about what you're dealing with.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6141.009

No, she wouldn't. Yeah. Yeah. It also helps that she's a girl and I'm a boy. There's something there that is helpful that my dad and I did. My dad and I had that thing and then male on male. So it was like, you know, and he wasn't around. So I only saw him once in a while. That's what I'm saying. This is such a different scenario.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6156.075

Yes, I would see him once a month and he'd tell me what the program was. And I'm like, according to who? Why are you? Anyways.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6163.996

Yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6167.677

I just know, and you've seen it in me. I can... I can destroy myself in another person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6178.34

I have that switch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6182.041

I do. Yeah. And I think I gave it to my beautiful little girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6187.603

And so I just have to do everything in my power to not be my dad. Yeah. And surrender because I want to be with her and I don't want her to write me off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6200.447

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6232.469

She does all the time. Yeah. And so here's what's great. Because I don't get in these wars with her. She will come to that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6240.869

She'll calm down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6242.851

And she comes to it. So she has built a lot of trust with me. If I thought she never corrected her behavior and she was just my way or the highway and fuck everyone. And then I don't even care and I don't redirect and I don't feel bad and I don't come say sorry. That's one thing. That's not at all what I'm dealing with.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6257.067

It's in the moment I can have a power struggle with her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6260.51

Or I can have the faith that she will recognize she was being really bullheaded and she'll apologize, which is 90% of the time what happens. And I wasn't given that leash.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6271.856

My mother did. So my mother knew how to deal with me. Obviously, I never had any power struggles with my mom. Right. And Lincoln and Kristen knows how to handle Lincoln in a way that I just I can't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6288.672

Yep, exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6291.596

And in my defense, Delta has things that they just don't bother me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6296.463

And they bother Kristen because they're her thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6311.222

There's two things, and Kristen always is pointing this out to me, and it's very, very true. So there's, I'm not saying she's ADHD. I'm not saying that. She's not been diagnosed with that. She goes through school just fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6325.949

But I just had Tim Simons on yesterday. Mom's car with Aaron.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

633.343

Okay. Now let's talk about the event itself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6333.624

And it was so fun. And he got diagnosed very early with ADHD and he knows a lot about it. And he was telling me some very interesting things about it. One of them is there's really common comorbidities with ADHD. One of them is an overactive sense of justice. Like a really strong, like it drives you nuts. And then self-abuse. Yeah. when you've erred, like self-flagellation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6372.914

But then there's just simple mistakes. Like I tripped.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6376.778

I made a mess. I spilled the thing. I said something I shouldn't have said. Those kinds of things, Delta can shrug right off. Those kinds of things, Lincoln will ruminate on for a very long time. Like very self-flagellation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6391.187

So I relate a lot to both of those things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6394.672

And so I know what it feels like. So my thing, it's not like I won't listen to authority as much as like, if I have evaluated something as unjust, like I'm a human too, with a brain too, and we have two different opinions, it is unjust that yours just overrides mine. That was such a hard thing for me. It happened with teachers, it happened with stepdads, it happened with my brother.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6422.24

It was like, we're equal. I don't care that you're older. I don't care that you have a degree. I don't care. Like I'm a human and you're a human and we both are intelligent and I have one opinion, you have another. And you're telling me I have to let go of mine because what? Because you have some status, whether it's age or this or that. That was so painful for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

644.451

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Great time. I have one really good Lionel Richie story. What's that? It's not even really good. It's just, I met him and it was so exciting. We were flying back from Nashville. We had been promoting a movie at Bonnaroo, that music festival. And then Lionel Richie was there performing. And so we get on the airplane and we're like four rows behind him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6441.542

I'm not excusing it, but I do know it was extremely painful for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6460.878

It does earn you. It does. But it does. And I'm looking at it from that also mature point of view. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6468.482

It's a lot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6474.301

It is. And then on the other side is the reward of it is also, it's equally matched.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6482.965

Okay, yeah, yeah. And then I'll find the diabetes song.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6488.367

I can't believe you don't want to hear that. It's easy for me to find. I found it. Because of course I sent it to Aaron.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6546.198

And it's really important people take the time to watch a clip of him doing it because you're not possibly imagining the golf club being as long as it actually is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6559.231

Yes, it looks like he is fishing off of a pier. Yes, it does. Yes, it's crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6570.422

I don't think that'll be beaten.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

660.639

And I say to Chris, I'm like, oh my God, Lionel Richie's over there. And we're like peeping him and everything. And then we get distracted and then life carries on. And then all of a sudden I look up and he's standing there. And he goes, hi, I'm Lionel Richie. And I go, oh my God, I know you're Lionel Richie. We love you. We're chatting, chatting, chatting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6603.335

Oh, that's nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6610.039

He pulled a house?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

674.985

And I said, Lionel, I know what your best song is. And he said, what is that? And I said, this is your life. And he goes, I think that is my best song. Wow. And then he left and I'm like, this is so great. He does not think that's his best song.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6740.731

I wish I could sign from the best.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6743.093

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6745.455

Why can't I? I'm not the best at anything. You need to be the best at something to sign the best.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6754.323

Miles Davis. Yeah. He can easily sign that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6759.467

No. Coltrane could have done it. Eddie Van Halen. There's a bunch of people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6776.078

Jordan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6801.48

I want to be a guest at his home. Me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6819.795

I heard Sting talking about that once on a talk show, and he said it was perfect. Within the first 20 minutes of the rehearsal, he and Stuart Copeland were in such a big fight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6849.5

Elephantiasis?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6853.243

That's how we like to colloquially say it. Elephantitis. Elephantitis of the nuts. Yeah, exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6898.849

Okay, per capita homicide.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6922.767

He does?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6928.989

Hosting. I can't talk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6963.647

I'm delighted to be back with you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6968.188

Too many stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6970.569

Good thing we don't have more time off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6973.489

All right. Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

6990.236

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

701.947

Well, I think he probably saw us when we got on, but we assumed he doesn't know who we are. And then I guess he just decided, fuck if I know, but that happened. And that was very exciting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

731.296

Yeah. Let's sort that out. Lionel's a great guy. I do imagine his house being a very special situation. When you bought a house in Bel Air in the 80s, it's its own thing. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

775.743

Good for him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

802.545

It's a replica. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

900.931

Oh, no. I'm scared. He's going to drop everything. What is it? I've just left surgery. Did you watch that Greatest Night in Pop doc? It's the documentary about them coming together to, was it We Are the World?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

922.98

Yes. I've seen that. Isn't that incredible? Yes. Because Lionel's incredible. Everyone's incredible. Daryl Hall's incredible. Yeah. And then Michael sings and you're like, fuck, among all these people, there's one person's actually like 20% better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

943.055

Yeah. How about when Stevie had to do Bob Dylan in his Bob Dylan voice so Bob knew how to sing? That was the crazy part, man. I thought it was Bob singing. Yeah, no. Stevie Wonder also, genius among geniuses. Okay, so let's talk about this. Stevie Wonder can see. Oh, this is a big rumor. Can see? Yeah, Stevie Wonder can see.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Anthony Anderson

965.294

I need to go deep into that. Stevie Wonder can see. Here's what I've seen. I'm sure you've seen them. I've seen some videos. There are a lot of people that believe he can't. And there's a couple moments on stage where like a mic stand falls and he catches it. Yes. Okay, tell me why.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1010.705

Oh, they're interviewing last night. I'm watching on KCAL. You've got a family that just came here from Ukraine escaping the war and their apartment building burns down. Oh, those people are going from war zone to war zone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1043.565

I just want to push back and say it feels unique, but I actually think it's completely consistent with what happens on planet Earth. So when we were at Carnegie Mellon, you had the Serbian-Croatia genocide with like a million and a half people and the kind of things they were doing to the people as they killed them. They really surpassed anything that's happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1063.278

Rwanda. So it's been ever present. And I think the real thing to remember is... It's a challenging place. There's 7 billion of us. A lot of shit goes wrong. A ton of stuff goes right. We're not unique and we got to carry on and we got to continue to make it a little bit better because this is status quo on planet earth. It just feels because we're raising kids now. So we have a different lens now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1085.763

than we would have had if even we went through the pandemic without kids. We're like, oh, this is kind of cool. You drink all day and you hang out with friends and blah, blah, blah. But now that we have kids, you're like, wow, they haven't seen other children for a year. That feels scary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1097.875

So I just think our lens obviously changes because we have these little people we care about so much and we're turning this world over to them and we're a little scared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

110.626

Proposals gone wrong. Yeah. I guess that could be a wider net than first meets the eye. So you would think just wedding proposals, but there's like business proposals. There's yeah, there's proposals. So proposals gone wrong. Crazy 23 and me DNA testing stories. This is my popular demand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1124.895

There's always people want to be mad at the mayor. They want to be mad at the governor. They want to be mad. There's so many people that are trying to line up and blame this horrific thing on a single individual.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1194.457

Fuck you all. You should never have back on your show again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1199.261

But what's funny, I was thinking, I was reading your book this morning and you have the line in there, which is comedy is tragedy plus time. And I was like, well, we're going to engage without the benefit of time. Yeah. We've had Polaron. We've had a lot of different people who was like some people's first week on Saturday Night Live was 915.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1215.704

People have had to decide whether or not they're going to carry on. I remember that episode. That was Giuliani coming on. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But them having the ethical dilemma, is it appropriate to be funny right now? And everyone gets to choose how they handle the stress. And so I have a way of handling the stress and mine is through laughing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1237.311

And all I would ask is like, if that's not your way of handling stress, that's Cool. Do it however you want. But I don't think anyone can tell someone else what they're allowed to do to handle it. Amen. I promise you, if my house was engulfed in flames, I would be making a joke because I've done it. I'm making a joke on my dad's dying. This is how I process it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1277.125

If you can give yourself that little burst of happiness, it's a reminder that it's still possible on the other side. It's a great reminder. Like, oh yes. And I will laugh and I will experience fun and levity for me. Everyone gets to do it their own way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1307.798

Where are you guys? You're leaving though, right? You're deserting this town and it's time of need.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1364.741

But also, I just want to touch on one other thing. Yesterday, I was like, I need to stay on my bike riding schedule. I have a New Year's resolution that I ride to the observatory twice a week. So yesterday I get out there and I start riding up the hill. And the gates are closed to go up into Griffith Park, but I'm presuming for cars. And so I go around the gate and I get halfway up the thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1383.247

And then some rangers roll down on a loudspeaker and they let me have it a little bit. And they're like, it's closed. And I go, oh, yeah, to cars. And they're like, no, it's closed. There's no hiking. All that to say, I'm like, why can't I ride my bike? Get home and I realize, oh, all these motherfuckers, there are arsonists out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1398.793

In force. So they have no clue who is up in the hills to start a fire.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

141.885

Yes. Love to our own devices. We would do wildcard nurses and poop your pants stories exclusively. OK. And the fourth is at home DIY project gone wrong. Yeah. Yeah. There's got to be a lot of those. So please enjoy Josh Gad. We are supported by Mint Mobile. It's time to leave your overpriced wireless plans jaw-dropping monthly bills and unexpected overages. Get huge savings with Mint Mobile.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1453.873

And this is where we file into our natural state. So yesterday, Kristen is out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1460.239

Your co-star from the film Frozen 1 and 2 and hopefully 3 at some point. She's out doing the Lord's work with the children and I'm selfishly taking a bike ride. But I'm also nonstop with my buddy Brandon from the LAPD. She's thinking about helping and I'm thinking, yeah, I can feel the energy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1477.344

I was at the gas station late at night and a lot of the boys were out on dirt bikes and it felt like Detroit on Devil's Night. I was like, yeah, the young men are going to get into some shit. I get it. She's out helping, but I'm like, okay, we got some chance I will have to defend the family. At some point. And that's where my focus ends. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1538.715

Did you report these potential hooligans? No, I just hit him up and I said, I was just at the gas station. The boys are out. He's also from Detroit. I'm like, it feels like devil's night Detroit. And he goes, yeah, isn't it wild? You can feel it in the air. I'm like, yeah, it's like palpable. If you used to be a scumbag, I'm on that wavelength.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1556.101

I said, if I'm 21 and I'm broke, which I was, and I'm drunk and I think, oh yeah, all these rich people's house burnt down, they took a bunch of stuff, but probably there's a bunch of jewelry and stuff just sitting on the ground. Your mind starts wandering and I don't have anything and they have everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1572.327

Even someone who's on the spectrum of dirt baggery, they can be midway through and convince themselves. You can just see people making the argument, or at least I can see that happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1599.567

To prey on people who are victims is a rough look. But again, if you're penniless in the middle of nowhere and you're looking at multimillionaires.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1610.937

And you're really like starting to strategize. I'm saying I'd be lying if I couldn't understand the rationale. Am I at risk for me?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1621.444

Well, I did notice you upgraded last time you were here in a Lexus 300 four door sedan. Right. You're clocking. And now you're in an upgraded Lexus SUV. That's a nice car. What are you doing right now?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1641.156

And we took a long look at it because I said, this is the car I'd put you in. It's so South Florida.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1655.242

I do understand it. First of all, I don't own any of them, but they're great cars. You can drive them for a million miles. I love them. They get the job done. They're not flashy, but they're comfortable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

168.524

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Josh Gad Returns

1691.352

I'd imagine what he's jealous of, and I don't want to speak for you, you're jealous of my enthusiasm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1751.325

Absolutely. I wanted to start this episode. It's too late, but we've never started with a hard like this and I wanted it to go. Hi, if you're joining us, we're here with Josh Gad, author of Engad. That just felt like something I never got to do. That's such a PBS 1979.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1768.522

As if the interview would be just finishing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1771.383

Oh, what a book.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

1787.313

I could answer, but I don't trust what the answer would be. I think my soul and heart always wanted to be NPR, but I grew up in an area where toxic masculinity was the currency. I didn't have a dad and I was doing all the things. So I would like to believe, yes, I would have become Ira Glass. But the truth is, I probably would have tried to be a knockoff Howard Stern. Right. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

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Not as good as Howard Stern. So I've just through many years been able to finally pursue and embrace the person the little boy wanted to be and not necessarily the aggro dude that was sending a message to everyone not to try to hurt me.

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Yes, I admire. They're like great comedians who they're pacing so slow and they're not scared. They talk so slow and monotone and they're not worried at all. They're losing people. In fact, the more boring is the more into it I am. Yes. But what I think you're highlighting, which is worth highlighting, is our heroes. They were Trojan horses.

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Letterman came with the promise of irreverent, provocative comedy. But what you stayed for and fell in love with is you were like, oh, I think he's always smarter than the person he's talking to. Did you ever do Letterman? Yeah.

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Yeah.

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And the delivery. Somehow he's confrontational without ever feeling like a bully. He's magic. But Stern's the same thing. You come for him making fun of Ronnie, but really it's the intelligence that keeps you there for a long time. And Conan, Conan's so insanely smart. It's crazy. So he's making dumb, dumb jokes, but you know, there's this intelligence behind it.

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And I think for me, that's the appeal of all those guys.

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New Year's resolutions are often about creating new rituals for yourself. Mine is sprinting this year.

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They even have sugar-free flavors like raspberry lemonade and white peach. I love that piña colada. It is so delish.

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Would you have thought that? No, I don't think about the show very much.

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I mean, I don't remember your car. But to save your family's life, if I said, how long ago were you here? What answer would you have given?

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Just to alleviate any shadow talk you're having. I said to my wife, I'm fucked. I don't really know what to do. We had two episodes that were going to easily come out because I was going to record them on Thursday. And I don't know what to do. I'm like, who's in town and who would even be willing? So we start thinking. And then I walk by on our kitchen table. Your book is sitting.

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And I go, well, fuck, Gad's got to be promoting this book. Call him. It wasn't, let's go to the end of the list. It was like, God, Gad, set this book on my fucking dining room table. And I was like, oh, duh, he's got a book to promote. He should be in anyways.

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Yeah, February 20th. Oh, good lord.

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Oh my god.

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Can't wait to see you when the dinosaurs come out of the ocean and start cobbling up people. I'm really concerned about my third appearance on this show.

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Can I tell you what I love about you? You are so fast and witty and fun. And I am, I don't want to label it competitive, but I'm not going to let someone operate at 120 miles an hour while I'm next to them going 60. It's just not in my nature.

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You think so fast and you're so funny that it brings out the best side of myself. But I'm not an expert in anything. That's not true.

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This whole fucking forensic NFL bullshit I was learning about.

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In his book, he lays out the options for a high schooler. And he's like, OK, the jocks are the athletes. It's not going to happen. Pretty accurate. Cheerleading. I just don't fit in the outfits, you said. Yeah. And then Model UN, insufferable. And then you get to forensics.

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I'm so glad that you start the book in the way you do. First of all, it's very, very well written. Did you write it? No, chat GPT. Okay. God, they got your voice.

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They really do. They have it down. It's really, really well written. But you start with your personal story, which of course starts with your parents. And we touched on it last time, but your dad's almost out of a movie. Tell people about where your dad came from. We've had this conversation, but every time it surprises you.

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They then moved to Israel when he's 12 and he learns to cut diamonds there.

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His body had just been unveiled five years ago.

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Does Kumail still look like my head? Yeah, I've been texting with him nonstop about our bodies. He's my only outlet to send shirtless photos of myself anywhere. Really? I can't send them to women. Do you think Kumail would welcome me sending him shirtless pictures of myself? We'd love the mail for him. All right, I'm going to send him. You should. No contact.

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I'm giving you Brandon's number from the LAPD and then Kumail's. It's all on a chain.

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The LAPD buddy would be like, get me the fuck off this chain.

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It is. The whole instructor part and the class.

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Great show for him. It's almost Cirque du Soleil. You could not speak English and very much understand what is happening.

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He came by for Christmas.

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Could you sense this was a mission of repair or just curiosity?

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That's a pattern because I think one of the meanest things he did to you without probably any awareness that it was mean, he's left when Josh is a kid. Josh has no idea why they got divorced. Mom throws him out. And then when he's eight, two years later, he invites him to the Sheraton. By the way, that was the place when we were kids. Oh, it was. Remember the Sheridan? Of course.

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My mom took us there to tell us she was divorcing my third dad. Why is that? That was like the four seasons for us. So you get invited to the Sheridan.

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I start spiraling. And he swears you to secrecy. This is the cruelty that he probably wasn't even aware of.

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Can I share one part of my story? Because I happen to be writing about it just recently. Even at a young age, I was a little skeptical. So I would go to his house on the weekends and he was so loving. That's a gift I had. He was so affectionate for a dad in the 80s. He hugged us and kissed us and snuggled us and showered us in love. And he wasn't around.

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So there's this like huge disconnect from like what I would feel in that moment, but then the actions afterwards never matched it. And it just created this huge dissonance where I'm like, what is this? I appear to be the most important thing in the world. And then I don't see him for three weeks and he doesn't show up for my brother's field hockey games.

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We all know is very important to my brother. And also how's he living this kind of rich lifestyle and we're fucking dead broke. How's that happening? So there's all this really just confusing. How do I compute the messages versus the actions?

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I also think it sets you up for this pattern you then replicate in life where it's just like highs, lows, highs, lows.

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Because the dads are always winning you back over. They feel bad. And whether they are consciously aware of it or subconsciously. But yeah, when they have you, they're putting on this incredible show and they're going to make up for all this time. So it's like you get pretty used to these insane spikes of love bombiness and then nothing.

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For me, it can kind of fuck up all relationships going forward because it's like, this is the pattern of love.

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Right. That was hard. When you were choosing to honor your dad's request to keep the other family secret, was that out of loyalty to him or were you afraid of how that would make your mom feel to know? A hundred percent the latter. The latter, right. You're responsible for mom's mood as a little boy. You're protecting her feelings from finding out about the other family.

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Josh Gad. What a party Josh is. Josh is a Tony Award nominated actor. He was in The Book of Mormon, which I got to see him in. I feel very lucky.

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There's a lot of adulting going on.

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You've never invited me over. I've invited you over, too, albeit for work. Still, it's in. I don't have a podcast.

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It's been done and you could. No. Back to work. Ideally, you get enough leverage at some point that really you just get to work with all your friends. Right. That's the apex goal.

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you're crushing you're in ap classes you're the class president you're a three-time champion you apply to northwestern in fact eight of you from your school apply and then you're gonna go to juilliard or you apply to juilliard and then you get rejected from northwestern and you're like i can't wait to go commiserate with these other seven dipshits who certainly didn't get it all of them got a class of 99 all got in except for me

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I love these reality checks every now and then, just when you're certain you're the king. I'm confused though, because in the book you go and you audition for Juilliard and it seems you got in, but then you went to Carnegie Mellon. I did not get into Juilliard.

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Which is also a beautiful story. Someone forces you to do drama, basically.

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And you do it and you fall in love with that as well.

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I admire the lack of people pleasing.

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Can you imagine just watching something and saying nothing?

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OK, so let's address the obvious context in which we record this. We had a guest who canceled. Well, we had two guests that canceled for reasons they could not avoid the L.A. fires. And so I called you as one of my friends. Yes. And conveniently, you have a book out. So you do need to do some promotion. That's convenient. Have we started, by the way?

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Also, what's a conservatory?

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But I think the group that went sounds so fun because you describe a night. It was a three-story dormitory and there's a party and you drink a half a fifth of tequila and then you piss your jeans and then take a 20-minute nap. Have a threesome. Regroup. Go to the first floor, hook up with someone. Go to the third floor, hook up with someone and then make love to someone on the second floor.

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Yeah, it was fun.

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And you say it's not because of your prowess.

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I'm imagining from your high school experience to this experience. I don't know how on earth one would resist that.

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Yeah. This guy lives for three ways.

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Okay, Josh, really quick. This is why I'm saying it's a blessing that happened to you then because I've brought this up many times on here. It's a trope in Hollywood. A lot of people end up getting enormous amounts of status and that wasn't their experience all growing up and they don't really know how to handle it. And I've seen it most often lead to this bizarre version of misogyny. It's like...

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These dudes have all these women that like them and they don't really trust it and they kind of hate them for it. Why don't you like me when I'm younger? I mean, I've seen that pattern materialize a bunch of times for people who got that attention and status late in life. Like Yuval. I don't even know why I didn't say him by name. We're all thinking it. Yuval's husband is gorgeous.

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He joins him when he comes. But I think like, had you not had that thing, then you would have had an opportunity to do it later. Why does that result in anxiety? Just because you're very disconnected. Your identity is kind of fractured. I felt like a visitor in my body.

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This is something I also want to bring up. And I don't know how to tiptoe around it, but I'm just going to be dead honest. I was just thinking of you on my trip to Mexico City. So I'm with somebody who's on a version of a GLP-1 who's loving it. He more often is telling me like, it's so weird to see this stuff and not have that pull I normally have. Yeah.

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If you listen to our first episode, we do 20 minutes on what the perfect day of eating would be. from your point of view, what you would start the day with. We got General Chow's chickens in there. We got everything bagel. We went through the whole thing. You're going to finish the night with sushi, but it'll be a lot of tempura.

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And hearing the amount of joy you get from that, I literally thought in my head, I wonder if there'll be people when GLP-1s are virtually over the counter, if they'll choose not to do that because so much of the joy in their life is that. They don't want that relationship where it's not appealing. I'm on a GLP-1.

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I'm clearly playing a cello on the deck of the ship as it goes down.

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And I didn't mean to put you on that spot.

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Yeah, I'm going to take it with me.

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I think that's where you need to place this theoretical thought process when you're going to decide if you're judgmental. Because I don't give a fuck if anyone does anything like that that's safe and doesn't have many side effects. That makes them feel better. I don't know why I wouldn't want that for somebody.

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But yes, we're in a situation where a good part of the city is on fire. Continues to be. I will say it's not at the peak of scariness.

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It's treating a disease. I'm not saying everyone should be on it, but for the people I know who are on it, it's making their life a lot better. Yes. Why would I not want that for them?

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Using the Putnam County spelling bee.

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Because she's worried you're not going to confront the core thing that's driving it. But again, that's position is binary. It's either or. It's like either you choose this route or you choose to confront. Obviously, you can do both. Yeah. Or a divorcer. Right. Well, we'll see.

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Yeah, unfortunately. And then we'll go from there. This is not your wife, but I can easily see a hypothetical where someone... fell in love with someone that was larger. And there is perhaps some shadow in their mind that says, well, I wonder if they had all the options, if they would have still picked me. And now they're going to be thin and they're going to have all the options.

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And there's fear behind that. I mean, I think that that's fair. Some people hate that when their partner becomes a gym rat and they're in great shape, they're like scared all of a sudden that they won't be enough.

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Yeah. There's no version of you that still wouldn't be dying to be with her. No.

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A lot of help has arrived.

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Listen, Josh, I would honor this fear if I thought you were a one trick pony who fell through tables as their main deal. You're like a crazy good dramatic actor. You're an improv genius. You sing like a motherfucker. Olaf is you. All blessings to all the writing. But that creation is Josh Gad. Like that fear for you should be nowhere in sight. Thank you.

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But I don't get paid for this, do I?

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I actually am going to give you $100 for coming in last minute. Yeah, I already planned on it. I put my billfold in my pocket. Is it in cash? It's in cash. It's old fashioned. So I don't need to write it off. But now I do because it's on record. But then you'll say you gave it back to me after and it was just a bit. Oh, smart.

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But really, you'll be fucking blowing a hole in that hundo on your way home. You're going to come home with so many trinkets to your life.

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No, but I can gift you up to $18,000 tax free. I'll take it. Yeah. So tell me about the gap between graduating from CMU and then I guess it would be Putnam.

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We get some backstory on that.

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You were just summarily released from the ground. Yeah. And you were studying college. Yeah. And I fucking loved it. It's out of necessity.

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And then Frozen, Pixels, The Wedding Ringer, Beauty and the Beast. Oh, Gutenberg, the musical, too. That was recently. I saw that, too. Yeah. He has a book out right now. It's very, very well done. A beautiful memoir called In Gad We Trust. This is a really fun interview. It was at the apex of our terror. Keep that in mind.

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Were you guys nominated for the same thing?

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The bucket's been filled up.

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You're looking at me as if I'm going to make a list, but I bet I can get the list made. I don't want to personally lie to you and commit that I'm going to make the list and publish it.

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You know what's weird? I've never to this moment considered Although I experienced it being on stage at the Groundlings, but where theater is so different than doing a movie is you don't really know while filming the movie who's popping and stealing it. But on a stage, boy, the fucking verdict's in every 30 seconds. And it's very obvious what the response to the crowd is.

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So if you're someone that's still doing a great job, but you're third in the crushing it, you know it.

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That's why I refuse to lie to you even in these pressing times.

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Well, if I can make an excuse for you a little bit, or not even excuse, but more of an explanation.

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Isn't it true you're at fault for these high winds that just set LA ablaze? This is the same thing with black folks, with women. In your mind, if you're not the best, they're going to kick you out.

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Also, do you give it the power that like when I fail publicly, it's actually going to be so powerful, the failure that it'll make you go back and reevaluate everything you thought thus far. I do it all the time. Yeah. Like it has the power to not only fail in that moment, but erase everything that happened before.

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Josh Gad Returns

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enjoy and do a trust exercise every night and it was fucking incredible that's the thing the ultimate victim ends up being you because you are robbed of the experience so that whole experience you had which is among 10 experiences on broadway like that you didn't get to experience I didn't.

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Josh Gad Returns

5243.152

Because you are so in the future and so behind and all these places other than this bizarre gift that doesn't really come around for people ever in this business. And yeah, you can run the risk of missing the whole thing.

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Josh Gad Returns

5341.067

I have two stupid questions unrelated to your book. Yeah. In my research, I discovered something that is an Alexander Payne movie waiting to happen. So your mother and stepfather were involved in a legal battle over a burial plot that was double booked. When I read that sentence, I was like, it's insane. If I was pitched that as a studio executive, I'd go, no.

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Josh Gad Returns

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What is the solution to a problem like that?

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Josh Gad Returns

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Yes. You can imagine you going and paying your respects at the wrong grave for years.

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Josh Gad Returns

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It is, it is. There's no good solution. There's solutions. All of them suck. But that's a good device for a film. There's really no solution that's going to make anyone in this scenario happy. Now I'm worried about what the second question is. I would urge you to tell people about Picture Face Lizzie because it's another book you have out.

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Josh Gad Returns

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The aerial stuff is blowing my mind at night in a mountain range. Zero visibility. Chinooks, everything right on top of each other, flying in complete blindness and dropping it bullseye every time. It's blowing away the Top Gun flight sequence.

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Josh Gad Returns

5600.812

Yeah. Parents are giving their kids advice that they themselves are incapable of following, which is hysterical.

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Josh Gad Returns

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In fact, when the fires were, again, I was making jokes. So the fires were getting closer and closer. They were a half mile from here, and they were starting to evacuate. And I said to the 10-year-old Delta, if it looks like we're going down tonight, I'm going to let you drink wine, and we're watching Pulp Fiction. No! There you go.

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Josh Gad Returns

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I'm not letting you leave this planet without seeing Pulp Fiction.

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Josh Gad Returns

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Oh, my grandpa took me on opening day to Scarface in 1981 and I was six and I watched a chainsaw cut.

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Josh Gad Returns

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My memory of the Thomas Crown Affair, I'm like, that is the funnest movie. I can't wait to show my, at that time, Lincoln was probably nine. I'm like, I remember the sailboat scene and the cool this and the caper with the bowler hats and the Magritte paintings. Cut to Brosman's making love on the staircase. And you're just sitting there and it's going on for a long time. Do you fast forward?

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Josh Gad Returns

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No, we would go for it.

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Yeah, because he's a great kisser on screen.

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He knows that's where some of the money is. Yeah. He's an incredible runner and a great kisser. So anyways, we're watching this scene that's now, you know, as I remember, maybe 30 seconds, which now feels like it's 11 minutes long. And Lincoln just goes, do people do that? Have sex? And she goes, no, on the stairs. Yeah.

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Josh Gad Returns

5739.892

But by the way, that is a very good question. Is that real? And I go, actually, no. Only in movies do people have sex on the stairs.

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Josh Gad Returns

5757.59

Oh, well, Joshie, thanks so much.

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Josh Gad Returns

5759.992

This was nice. This was a good distraction. And your book is phenomenal. Thank you. It's really, really, really good. It's very honest and it's very well written and it's quite funny. You're never more than three sentences away from a Josh Gadzinger.

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Josh Gad Returns

5775.945

Why don't I just write something in pen? And I wanted these book promotional things. You find a single arm cherry. You can go like, do you want this one that bags shit on in pencil?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

579.568

These things are true. It's a tragedy of really unimaginable proportion until we saw it. Also, the folks that have trained to fight fires in the craziest situation, they're enthralled. They're doing the job they've been training to do in the craziest circumstance. So I'm just imagining what it's like to be in the helicopter the whole time.

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Josh Gad Returns

5809.433

I don't know. You know what it kind of looks like? Tell me. And I'm embarrassed that I'm forgetting. Did you watch the second iteration of Wet Hot American Summer? Yes. Do you remember the guy where he always wore three collars? What's that actor's name? I know he went to school at Jada Pinkett. Jordan. Joseph Gordon. Josh Gordon. Joseph Gordon-Levitt? No. Josh Gordon, I think.

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Josh Gad Returns

5826.939

That doesn't matter. Everybody reading Dad We Trust. And please go to Dax's curated list of places where you can support. Yes, please do that as well. And if you're struggling, I hope this two hours was a reprieve. Yeah.

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Josh Gad Returns

5861.41

That's correct. Only wear Burberry to swim. That's a Jay-Z line. That's when you know you've made it, when you only wear Burberry to swim.

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Josh Gad Returns

5870.61

Oh, yeah. Looks stunning.

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Josh Gad Returns

5872.371

Are you noticing anything?

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Josh Gad Returns

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Yeah.

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Josh Gad Returns

5876.873

Okay, great. Sure. Or maybe back out. I just blue-dried my hair. Blow-dried?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

5884.958

What do you think?

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Josh Gad Returns

5887.619

Yeah, I got out of the shower, and I was like, what if we put a little mousse in our hair and then hair-dry it?

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Josh Gad Returns

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And here we are.

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Josh Gad Returns

5896.909

No, I think New Year.

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Josh Gad Returns

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Stagnation.

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Josh Gad Returns

5912.896

No, but it is slightly impacted by the guests we're going to have after this fact check.

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Josh Gad Returns

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Which he is such an eclectic.

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Josh Gad Returns

5922.38

This won't sound like a compliment, but it is.

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Josh Gad Returns

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One of my classic compliments that has you feeling terrible afterwards. Whatever the most exotic lizard is, right? That's rough.

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Josh Gad Returns

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But with the colorful...

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Josh Gad Returns

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And he knows this. He's also dangerous. He's like Snake in the Garden of Eden. So much Easter eggs happening right now. But we're going to talk about that. He's dangerous.

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Josh Gad Returns

5957.314

But he's dangerous and colorful. So if you can think of another. I don't want to use unicorn because unicorns are for babies.

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Josh Gad Returns

5964.972

Right.

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Josh Gad Returns

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I love them. I love to call everyone a unicorn.

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Josh Gad Returns

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But that's another thing I got to stop. I got to start blow drying my hair and I got to stop using unicorns.

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Josh Gad Returns

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Yeah.

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Josh Gad Returns

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You just snap any part of them in half.

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Josh Gad Returns

5987.451

Exactly. They're so tall and not robust.

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Josh Gad Returns

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It must be incredible to be able to put your skills to the test like that.

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Josh Gad Returns

5996.397

Totally disagree. I would put you in the running back category.

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Josh Gad Returns

6000.3

Troy Lyons will get there. Yeah. No, you were low and powerful. So you would smash into those flamingos, little dainty toothpick slash chopstick legs. Okay. And it'd be... No one wants to know this, but it would be... Facts.

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Josh Gad Returns

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We've been like... Animal cruelty. True. But... No, I need something a little more dangerous, but also radiant and beautiful and colorful. So I'm thinking some of those lizards, they get pissed and they start walking on their back legs and they got their arms out. They're funny. Their mantles out. They flare out their big parachute around their neck and it's full of colors.

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Josh Gad Returns

6038.924

Are you sure you know? If you're going to use a bird, will you use a predator bird?

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Josh Gad Returns

6047.83

Right.

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Josh Gad Returns

6065.953

What does that metaphor mean?

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Josh Gad Returns

6068.435

It is? Locked in the cage of your own mind?

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Josh Gad Returns

6074.6

Golden handcuffs.

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Josh Gad Returns

6087.009

Yeah.

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Josh Gad Returns

6091.593

Yeah, because now it's probably about to pass the many, many self images you have that my children have generated and that Kristen's generated. Right. Because you have a lot of, as we know, photos of yourself, art of yourself.

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Josh Gad Returns

6108.07

We talked about that, though. Is it like would it freak someone out who came over?

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Josh Gad Returns

6124.611

And she made a figurine of you. Yep. With big boobs. And then Lincoln also made a big boob figurine, as I recall.

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Josh Gad Returns

6137.038

Okay.

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Josh Gad Returns

6138.859

So no one would see that.

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Josh Gad Returns

6146.558

Which could be helpful in the right context.

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Josh Gad Returns

6166.312

over leaning in the witness a little bit but those other ones aren't hung up i am going to display definitely lincoln's yeah um that's less about me yeah it's they're all not about you right in your defense yeah i didn't ask for them but we did ask the question what would be critical mass where even if they're not about you someone might go my lord this person

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Josh Gad Returns

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person has like 30 or 40 pieces of art depicting her.

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Josh Gad Returns

6192.819

Even these famous artists, they tend to only do one or two self-portraits, as I recall. Right?

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Josh Gad Returns

6204.448

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Well, that's right. So there's all that art, too. And then there's the arm cherry art.

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Josh Gad Returns

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Right.

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Josh Gad Returns

6215.736

Real quick question. If you were a great artist, do you think you would do self portraits? And how many would you do? Like, I guess I'm delighted Van Gogh did a self-portrait because there were no cameras around.

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Josh Gad Returns

6228.646

So my only idea of what he looks like is what he drew of himself.

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Josh Gad Returns

6237.652

Well, that would be great. If you were a really, really talented artist and you could actually show us exactly what you see. Yeah. That would be incredible.

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Josh Gad Returns

6246.859

Because I guarantee you it would be super off.

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Josh Gad Returns

6249.761

crickets are out oh yay i mean you're a good artist so you could do a self-portrait aren't they all those all those monsters i draw i think those are all secretly self-portraits it's also a little like that's how you're gonna spend your time drawing yourself yeah but you're always there right if you need a model for something it's like all you need is a mirror and you're that's true and you're sketchy yeah i'm probably not gonna do that okay should we dive into the heartbreak

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Josh Gad Returns

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So went to the game.

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Josh Gad Returns

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And I have to admit, when I'm watching those harrowing drops, many times I'm saying out loud by myself watching downstairs.

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Josh Gad Returns

6280.383

The Lions playoff game against the Commanders.

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Josh Gad Returns

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And if I'm listing a top 10 experiences with my best friend Aaron Wakely, this is making the list. We were so beside ourself that we were down on the field at the Lions. I had the singular goal of standing next to Dan Campbell, the coach. Right. In hopes I could get a sense of just how big he is because I see him on TV. I also looked him up and it says 6'5".

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Josh Gad Returns

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But these football players are infamously tall. They're all a little bit embellished because they were coming out of college and they're entering the draft and they want to seem as big and as enormous. So it's always like if you see 6'5", probably 6'3 1⁄2".

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Josh Gad Returns

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I'm just going to guess there's a standard 1 1⁄2". Flub. Flub. Fluff.

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Josh Gad Returns

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So I was just hoping to stand next to him. So Keegan-Michael Key's there.

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Josh Gad Returns

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Friend of the pod and the ultimate Detroiter. And I don't even pretend to be as authentic and committed to the Lions as he is. It's his life.

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Josh Gad Returns

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So I'm a bit of a poser. But I'm as excited as anyone, so that counts. Yeah. Yeah. So he starts, he knows everybody, as you might expect. So he introduces me to Martha Ford. Do you know who Martha Ford is? Martha? Martha Ford. Martha Ford. Oh, no. Rob, will you look up her age while I'm chatting? She's 99. Ninety fucking nine.

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Josh Gad Returns

6372.233

Monica, I have to tell you, of all the things, I mean, she's tied with Dan Campbell. So she, if I am to believe Aaron, was the daughter of the Firestone Tire dynasty.

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Josh Gad Returns

6383.968

Married Henry Ford's son.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

6389.549

I'll get there. Okay. They own the Lions.

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Josh Gad Returns

6393.45

I wasn't even positive I knew. The Ford family owns the Lions.

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Josh Gad Returns

6396.631

They own the Ford Field, the arena. Martha rolls in on a golf cart and she gets out. Next thing you know, I'm meeting her. She's so tiny.

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Josh Gad Returns

6407.313

I loved her immediately because she's so tiny. She has a walker.

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Josh Gad Returns

6412.635

Okay, just checking. I think once you're 99, your standard hair is white.

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Josh Gad Returns

6419.44

Not Martha.

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Josh Gad Returns

6421.081

She is such a spitfire. So they get us to line up. The team photographer is going to take a picture of us. And Martha has a walker. She's 99. And we're about to take the picture and she goes... Get this out of here. She chucked her walker. She didn't want that walker fucking anywhere near this photo. And I was like, I love her.

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Josh Gad Returns

6442.226

I'll be standing for this and I don't want any evidence of this walker.

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Josh Gad Returns

6448.338

Fun. When I was shaking, I shook her hand for a very long time because I loved holding it. It was like shaking hands with Delta.

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Josh Gad Returns

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It was a tiny little hand and she was so sweet.

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Josh Gad Returns

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And I felt like I was in history.

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Josh Gad Returns

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Marrying Henry Ford's son.

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Josh Gad Returns

6463.985

That feels like from another eon.

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Josh Gad Returns

6468.127

Then I start talking to Dan Campbell's wife by chance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

6473.449

Brownish. Okay. Okay. From Dallas. Super fun. And before I know it, she's turning her attention away from me because Dan Campbell has walked out of the locker room. He walks directly up to her and gives her the longest kiss.

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Josh Gad Returns

6490.519

It was so nice. I was like, oh my God, I just love this whole thing. Then she introduces me to him. I'm shaking his hand. I'm very excited to be shaking his hand and saying things. I'm not even sure what I was saying. You know, and I hope he would kiss you. Well, I'll get to that.

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Josh Gad Returns

6512.119

So it's some chit chat, chit chat. And then he gets distracted and then he's talking to Keegan and then he's going to carry on. And he gives Keegan a huge hug. And I'm like, I'm going to, well, even worse. I'm like, I'm going to hug him. Goodbye.

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Josh Gad Returns

6530.054

I'm really afraid to say this because I'm afraid some Lions fans are going to blame me that this hug jinxed everything.

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Josh Gad Returns

6536.119

And by the way, I did think it in my head for a couple hours. I started feeling really guilty. Like, I shouldn't have. Did you? But I was like, all right. Yeah. Great meeting you. And I just kind of make it very obvious. I want a hug. And he hugs me.

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Josh Gad Returns

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And Monica, it was like hugging a water buffalo.

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Josh Gad Returns

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He is so big.

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Josh Gad Returns

6557.696

No, no. His lats are like this wide. His neck is like, you know, this wide. Right. For the listener, I'm holding my hands very far apart.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

6566.679

He is, I don't think he's 6'5". It's a little bit like Toto. He's taller than me.

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Josh Gad Returns

6575.563

Same. But he's definitely taller than me. Let's just say that. And he is just like hugging a redwood.

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Josh Gad Returns

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That's what I thought I was, but then I saw a video of it.

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Josh Gad Returns

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I just loved it. I hugged him. I felt his lats. They were so big.

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Josh Gad Returns

6595.316

I wanted him to throw me on the ground, kind of.

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Josh Gad Returns

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Which is interesting. I just kind of wanted to feel his power a little bit.

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Josh Gad Returns

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But he was so nice. He's such a nice man.

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Josh Gad Returns

6603.501

He got emotional in the post-game thing. I don't know if you saw that.

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Josh Gad Returns

6608.243

I think he's a vulnerable boy.

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Josh Gad Returns

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I'm beaming like I'm eight years old. Aaron is so excited.

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Josh Gad Returns

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He took a couple pictures.

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You should be. I'm not nearly as big as him, but my son is such a sweet boy. Oh, he was making you... Yeah, he was basically saying you guys were almost identical twins.

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Josh Gad Returns

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Do you just want to see a picture of me hugging him?

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Josh Gad Returns

6649.51

So you can get a sense of...

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Josh Gad Returns

6671.87

So you were picturing like a monster from Game of Thrones. Like the hound or something?

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Josh Gad Returns

6679.675

Oh, no. He was a safety. This guy's extremely muscular. Oh, he's the most muscular.

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Josh Gad Returns

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Yeah.

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Josh Gad Returns

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He looks like he could just run right through a cinder block wall. I don't want to know because I think he's younger than me, which would be a bummer, but I think probably true.

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Josh Gad Returns

6719.023

Not much?

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Josh Gad Returns

6721.685

48. Okay.

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Josh Gad Returns

6725.648

Oh, here we go. Here we go. Rob's kind of got it.

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And Aaron, I have the advantage that Aaron's behind me, so I'm closer to Aaron than... Look at this. Oh, look at his back, Monica. Look at the fucking width of his back and how tiny my hand looks on it. Oh, well... Actually, that's not my hand. That's Keegan's. Oh, my God, you were... That's a lot of beef right there.

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Josh Gad Returns

6769.818

I know. Anyone who watches football has a crush on Dan Campbell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Gad Returns

6774.321

He's like the rock of NFL. Okay. Ben Johnson. Oh, that's a heartbreaker. I don't want to talk about that.

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Josh Gad Returns

6781.847

We lost our offensive coordinator, right? Offensive coordinator.

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Josh Gad Returns

6785.951

No, the line thought the coordinator is now coaching the Bears. Bears took him.

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Josh Gad Returns

6791.947

Yeah. Dan Campbell?

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Josh Gad Returns

6799.951

Okay. That is just a few months older than you.

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Josh Gad Returns

6805.194

What if you were dating him and I was dating Dan Campbell? We could go to the drive-in.

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Josh Gad Returns

6813.978

Now, because of Rob, because he's with the Bears.

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Josh Gad Returns

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But if he was still at the Lions, we'd both be rooting for the Lions.

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Josh Gad Returns

6823.454

Yes, he was the offensive coordinator.

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Josh Gad Returns

6826.095

Okay, so it would work out perfectly. We could go to the games together and sit in the box and cheer for our boyfriends.

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Josh Gad Returns

6831.598

We would be just like Taylor, your best friend.

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Josh Gad Returns

6845.506

God bless you. God bless you. If you hugged him, you would know we're not terribly similar. But I am I'm delighted that that's your verdict. Thank you.

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Josh Gad Returns

6861.335

Charlie.

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Josh Gad Returns

6866.218

Do you like it or I like it? Do you like the feeling of being small and safe?

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6873.505

That's what I'm getting at. Like I'm hugging this guy and I'm like, oh, wow, I'm good. If whatever runs up behind us, a rhinoceros or whatever, like it's on him. It's his job.

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Josh Gad Returns

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Exactly. It's a unique feeling for me to be being held by a man that is so much more powerful and big than me that I know he should handle the grizzly bear when it comes through the door.

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Josh Gad Returns

6899.48

Aaron, I feel this perfect connection. Like I'm a wrestler. He's a puncher together. We're great. We're a duo. I totally feel safer on air. I know that like, I don't need to worry about what's behind me. I know that Aaron's always looking out for me. I know Aaron that would jump through fire for me. I think he feels that way about me.

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Josh Gad Returns

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We process it at the top.

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Josh Gad Returns

6922.449

So yeah, when I'm with him and this has been since seventh grade, I feel so safe all the time.

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Josh Gad Returns

6929.933

He'll do anything to protect me and vice versa. But if a rhino comes through the door, Aaron and I got to team up on it. I'm not like, Ryan, Aaron, go handle this. But if Dan Campbell was there, I'd be like, Dan, you're up. You would? Yeah, I think so. Yeah.

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Josh Gad Returns

6952.566

I like being the guy that confronts the rhino, but also it feels very nice. That's great. To feel very safe that Campbell would be the one that would handle it.

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Josh Gad Returns

6963.735

Pin in the safety?

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Josh Gad Returns

6965.237

Okay. I'm sorry. So fast forwarding. Got to be on the field when they ran out. That was incredible. Met Will Ford. It was just very fun to meet the Ford family. Chatted with a lot of different people. And then we were... In the box with Roger Goodell. Roger Goodell is the NFL commissioner.

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And has been for a long time. And just to put, I know it's terrible to quantify it this way, but it made me recognize how esteemed the job is. His previous contract is $70 million a year. Woo! And he just signed another three-year contract. No one even knows what it is. But when you're paying someone more than Lewis Hamilton, I feel like you've got a pretty important job.

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Josh Gad Returns

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All this info is coming from Aaron because he knows way more about football than I do. So, Roger, people don't like him. Oh. I think it's the nature of the job. Yeah, no one ever likes the commissioner. No, no one ever likes the commissioner.

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Josh Gad Returns

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Well, and I wanted to ask you because I sense just a hint of like there's some ethical dilemma about doing something.

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Josh Gad Returns

7018.019

Probably. But I'm not entering with that kind of baggage. I don't dislike him or like him. I just am flattered he wanted us in his suite. I think largely because of that Golden Globes thing. Oh. I left one thing out. Before I went up to the suite, they played a video on the big screen of me watching the Lions game at the Golden Globes and then cut to, you know, and I had to wave and all that.

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And I've been in that situation several times at Lakers games and these different games. They'll put me on the Jumbotron.

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And it's at best, I would say it's in the past. It's like a C plus. Like, I feel like generally maybe 30 percent of the Lakers crowd will know it's me and be excited.

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Because of that Golden Globes thing. It was legit. You know, I've always said I never got I'm always envious of that experience. The American Idol people get where they go to their hometown and they're in a convertible. I didn't think that would ever happen to me. And I'm like, when does that happen? That it happened. Oh, they showed that thing.

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They cut to me and the place legitimately went bananas. It was almost hard to accept, but it was, it was unbelievably lovely. I felt so like loved by my people then back. Okay. Good. L Roger. He was immediately most engaging with Aaron. Oh,

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who would asking aaron a ton of questions really engaging him talking to me but like he's not there he's not playing the status game there's a lot of people in love that fucking barry sanders is in the box he's the most famous lions player of all time and the best player of all time and the best running back in history he's in the thing roger could be chatting him up he's talking to aaron

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Yes, he is. The air is like I was anticipating that I would have to see my way out of conversations while we you did your thing with the person who got us the tickets. And I was like, oh, this guy wants to chat with me, which he did. He's so down to earth and he was so lovely and hyper intelligent. And you can see why.

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Sixty five. Because I did make one joke that got him. We were talking about the thing I talked about on the previous fact check where it's like you used to be younger than the players. Now you're older than them, but you're younger than the coaches. Yep. Then you're now I'm older than the coaches and I hope to be younger than the owners. Thank God Martha's with us. Ninety nine. Thank God. Yeah.

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And he and I weren't talking about that. And I said, well, how old are you? Then he goes, 65. And I go, well, you look fucking great, which is true. He's very fit and looks great. Yeah, look up.

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And I go, you look fucking great. You're definitely going to make it to 70. Oh. And that really tickled them.

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Okay. So as you can see, we were on fire. We were screaming. We were meeting people we idolize. It was the two of us were from down the road in a dirt road. And it was really, really fulfilling and beautiful. And I was sharing it with Aaron. And it was so special. Yay. Fighting back the tears the whole time. And the game starts. It's rough right from the get-go. We cannot get a stop.

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They score every time they get it. Luckily, we score every time we get it. Our offense is great. And it just goes downhill. And it gets worse and worse and worse. And the crowd gets quieter and quieter and quieter. And I start thinking it's completely my fault because I haven't been to a game.

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And I hugged Dan. I'm sincerely regretting hugging Dan Campbell.

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But I think all fans do this. Carly thinks that the two games they lost this season was because Lola, her dog, didn't have her Detroit Lions bandana on.

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I do. I was taking a lot of the blame for it. Sorry. It's not your fault. But I was also refusing to let the outcome Take away what a fun season it's been. And then this crazy experience with Aaron that was as good as it could possibly get.

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I kept telling myself.

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I was saying to myself to try to get myself out of the dumps.

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You don't have any control over the defense. Be great if you did. Not that powerful. You're not that powerful. But I was afraid other people would think I was that powerful.

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I'm not sure if it's not mine. I'm only like 70%. It's not my fault.

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Well, I think a knee jerk would be all these people are suffering and I'm going to go do this thing that has really no value outside of just entertainment. And that feels like I shouldn't be having fun while my friends are suffering and dealing with loss. Right. I think that's an obvious thing to contend with right out of the gates. But my thing is me joining people in misery isn't a solution.

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I feel like that's very universal. Rob, do you blame yourself when your team loses? Yeah, I've got lots of superstitions when I'm watching. Yeah. Oh, remember Rob Reiner was on. He said he went to the bathroom. They scored. So he had to keep going to the bathroom.

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Oh, okay.

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You did? Would you call them breakthroughs?

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Okay.

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Okay, great. Especially because you were a little bit on the fence on the New Year's, but whether you're going to continue on.

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Jan 1 is when I had norovirus yakking for eight hours. I'm kind of on board. The lion's loss. Go continue.

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Oh, yeah. I got it. You're saying across the board, January blows.

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Weather generally sucks.

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We have the best version of it.

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It doesn't help them. It doesn't help me. I have a job. And when I can do my job, I should do my job. Amen. All the other people are at their jobs. That's my takeaway. No one at 7-Eleven right now is going, do I feel guilty that I'm selling hot dogs right now when people are suffering? Like, no, I'm at my job because I have a job and that's my commitment. So That's my own personal takeaway on it.

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Yeah. Yeah. And the rubber meets the road in a. Yeah.

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Unsettling.

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Right.

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Well, because you can't work on future natural disasters as a cure.

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Right? You can only work on... the things that actually emerged in that situation. Yeah. That are personal.

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Like, we do have this genetic wiring to fulfill a role that when it happens, that thing really goes to the front and center.

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Is it related to that or no?

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I think I think you're you're almost your genetics take over.

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Not the artifice of your identity.

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And this is one of the times where having a high A score is like really nice because you've already you've done a bunch of these. You know, I've done a bunch of police are at the house and fire departments at the house.

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But I have a lot of practice like submersion therapy, which is like, yeah, we're going dads in the middle of the night. You live there now. That's disruptive. And then in sixth grade is fun. You know, like I have a ton of personal experience where it's like. I lived on the other side of those.

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Does that make sense?

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And I think for a lot of people that have been terrified a bunch of different times, one of the only benefits is like, you're like, oh yeah, here's another thing.

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And it'll be all right.

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Well, you've probably just been ratcheting up what level for you is manageable over time as you've grown. Right.

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Like panic attacks and soul cycle versus now. There is a threshold that you've kept moving up. You can handle it and such and such.

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And then, yeah, some things exceed that threshold. Yes.

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I have a question.

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potentially dangerous, but this just happened, right? It happened with Tom Hanson. I was, to be vague intentionally, I was very much on the verge of blowing everything up in a very public way because of my anger towards something. And I ended up sharing about it in a meeting that he was at. And in that share, he learns of the timeline. So then he calls me the next day because he's my dad. Yeah.

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He wants to help me.

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I'm also just coming off watching the Churchill four-part documentary on Netflix. And you're watching what the folks in London did 57 nights in a row of this.

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And I don't I don't call him back. And I don't I don't call him back for three days. And finally, in the third day, he's like, what the fuck's going on? Why won't you call me back? And I finally FaceTime him and I go, I didn't want to talk to you because I didn't want to hear the right answer. I didn't want. The right answer. And I know you have the right answer.

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And so I was avoiding you because I wasn't there. I still wanted to torch everything.

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And I didn't want to be talked down. And I apologize, but I just. So in that way, I think we often call people that we want to confirm the answer we're looking for. Right. I do it. I know people call me. Someone wants to buy a motorcycle. They don't call their doctor. They call me.

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And they know like I'm pro motorcycle, right?

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So I'm curious in that same construct, when you start texting people, do you feel that you start texting other people that you know will also be really nervous and not texting people that you know are going to tell you it's not bad?

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The dangerous part is like, what didn't happen was you didn't text me.

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And you knew it wasn't going to go well if you did, which is fair.

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And we invited you over and you didn't want to be around my energy, which would have been probably rough.

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Okay. But back to, do you think... Do you think that's happening at all? Are you calling the people that are going to most reassure you? Are they going to call the people that are going to confirm it's as scary and dangerous as you feel like it is?

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All I would be frustrating.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Because I know what I would have done. I've been like, first of all, you will not die. Because you can get in your car and drive away from this fire. Right. I'd start going through the reasons that let's just start with. You're not going to die tonight. You're not going to die tomorrow.

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Right.

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And if your car doesn't start, you call me, I'll pick you up. Yeah. You're not going to die.

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That would be like my first goal is just go like, there's a lot of things on the table here. Yeah. You might lose your shit. You might lose this beautiful house you've been building forever. Like we might get to that, but let's just, I would have just wanted to start with like, This isn't a tsunami and we live on the... No, I know. You know, like we can escape this.

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him too yeah he was great posthumously but yeah you guys did like through weegee how did you do ai we talked to the estate see that's the promise there's a downside but that's the promise yeah i can chat with churchill but you know those people were waking up in a subway platform next to six kids there was no bathrooms and they went straight to work unbelievable they stayed calm and they carried on so people will have complaints about me working but that's my own ethic which is

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Yeah.

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Well, there's probably two things going on. There's like a logistical call list.

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And then there's a comfort call list.

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And yeah, I probably would have been bad at it. I would have gone straight into what I do often and try to avoid, but still keep doing, which is like not observe you, but try to fix the anxiety. I would be trying to point out we are not going to die tonight.

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I wouldn't I would be bad at going. Yeah. You know, like I wouldn't be good at.

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I saw some people. I'll just leave it at that. And when I saw them, this was on Thursday morning. The look on both of their faces was and I registered. Oh, fuck. Their house burnt down.

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It didn't.

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They were. I'm not at all shaming anyone for how they dealt with it. But I went, oh my God, clearly their house is gone. And it wasn't. So then I think the primal, primitive side of me goes, We can't have this is not productive. We are actually in a situation and there is not room for that. So snap into survival mode. Yes.

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And so, yeah, I think I can tend to get frustrated in that situation that I think certain people are making things worse.

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In an already bad situation.

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And that was that was definitely the vibe of my household, you know?

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So, yeah, that's that.

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To be scared.

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And you have no more control over your reaction than I have over mine.

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I think all of those things would have been true if, if we were heavily interacting during all that.

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And I accept it all. And I, and I cause a lot of that. Well, we, but the only thing I want to, the thing I need to say out loud that I hope you didn't feel is I would not be judging you or thinking you're stupid. Like if there was any part of you that's afraid to tell me how you feel, because I'm going to be judgmental of it. That wouldn't happen. That wouldn't have happened.

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And I and I don't feel that way. I do get pragmatic about if everyone's bawling before we've got in the car, that's going to be a really hard. Right.

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But I'm not angry at anyone for having their emotions or judgmental of it. I recognize and accept it. And I'm not. I don't feel above it.

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It's the over that makes it a judgment.

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Can I observe that you and I like I break four ribs, break my clavicle into five pieces, break my hand, break my humerus. Drive home six hours. We'll ride two more sessions on the track. Drive home five, six hours. Go to sleep. Don't go to the doctor. Don't go to the following day. So that's how I react to things.

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And then when you cut your hand, you were very scared and you reached out to a lot of people. So do I recognize the humongous delta between how you and I react to things? I absolutely do. But it's not over and I'm not under. It is. This is how Dax reacts for a myriad of reasons.

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And this is how Monica reacts for a myriad of reasons. Right. And so that's the thing I wanted to bring up and make sure you're crystal clear on. I'm not saying overreact. I'm saying I see how you react to things. I can observe it. It's much different than how I react to things.

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But that does not make me conclude I'm better.

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We can go right at it. There's a lot of things on the table here.

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Do I accept that about you? Yes. Do does it make me love you less? No. Does it make me not want to be friends with you? Absolutely not. Now, you and I also do a job together. Yeah. We sit down in here to do a fact check and I sit down on a couch and I look across to see you. And often you're upset about things like the election and you can't shake it because When you're in here.

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So now do I think inside of this box, we have to be entertaining and we have to kind of manage how much of a downer we are? I do professionally.

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I think we have an obligation like the newscasters got to come on and they can't start crying during the thing. Now they can feel however they want throughout the whole day. Go ahead.

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It's fine if we have a bit of a difference of opinion on that. I do think this show has to be entertaining. And I don't think either of us can be in a shit mood for four weeks. I think we have an obligation to rise above that. I do. And we differ in that. And I understand what you're saying. I'm like, well, this is honestly me. And of course, I'm not trying to make someone not be honestly them.

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But I know if I'm listening to Howard Stern and Robin, and one of them is just in a dark hole for three weeks, I have compassion for them, but I'm going to go listen to something else at some point. I can't join someone on my hour drive where I'm trying to feel where I'm trying to distract myself from the things I'm worrying about. I'm looking for a reprieve. So I think it's I think it's OK.

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We do have different opinions on what this what obligation we have here to a degree. And I think there's only some I think there is room for us to be our real selves.

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But I also think it needs to be monitored and we have to be responsible to do these people that rely on us for an escape. Yeah. Deserve something fun and funny. A lot of the time.

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Do you think we did a good job at that?

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Yeah.

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Facts.

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Yeah. Wonderful.

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Yes, yes, yes, yes.

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He's a perfect guest.

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Oh, good. Yeah. He's funny. He's smart. He's emotional. He's truthful. Yeah. Yeah. What a soup to nuts. Same with Adam Scott. I was really delighted with the Adam Scott episode. Really, really delighted.

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Not as good of a story.

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It's still young, but it's not a great story.

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It does. It does. Well, here comes the great thing. And this is on topic because he's written a memoir. Yeah. I have tons of memories. I have tons of memories. And I know my kids don't remember shit. So, of course, I'm quite...

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No. What is that? I saw that in the comments.

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Okay.

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Oh, Kristen listened to it.

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Communicating telepathically over a distance of miles, like in a town. Yeah. Meeting in a place called like Mind Mountain or something.

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Has more potential than we're aware of.

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Yep.

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Yeah.

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I overheard a lot of it. I was debating whether or not to listen to it.

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I asked a friend that we very much trust, you and I. An incredibly smart friend.

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Yeah. And that'll be so hurtful to the people who have experiences and maybe they've experienced it, whatever. But I would need a pretty robust bit of science behind it to believe that people are telepathically communicating over miles. It's a tough one for me.

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But would you agree? I think that's way more pattern recognition. So, like, I know you so well. I've observed now so many contexts where things happen and then I see the result of it.

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So often we're at a dinner and I hear someone say something and I know in a second what you're going to think. And I look over at your face and then you look at me and I confirm. Oh, yeah, I do know exactly. And vice versa.

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But that to me is more pattern recognition. Like, oh, stimulus A generally results in output B.

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Yeah. I can feel the fuck out of your energy.

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But I can't actually hear your thoughts.

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Yeah.

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Let me just say I want that to be the truth.

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I would love the notion that these nonverbal kids are communicating telepathically. I actually want that.

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But I have such a knee jerk about getting duped.

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Like I know there's an emotional thread to this that makes it a little bit. And that is a red flag to me. It's like, yes, I think when you get me emotionally involved and I am very sympathetic already to the subjects.

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I'm not really in my most subjective mind anymore, you know?

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And lack of starvation and our handle on diseases. And really, by all metrics, what you're saying, which I also feel. Is objectively wrong. So, yes, our tranquil 80s, our parents were freaked out by something much larger, which was you had Bay of Pigs. Nuclear Holocaust was on the table in a real way before we were born. No, 81. You were born in 81. He's not even looking at any cards right now.

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Boggle the mind. Yes, absolutely. Marine Dune.

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Marine Dune.

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Present company excluded.

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Okay, great. Yeah, read it. It's kind of a riddle. Do the thing from the book exact.

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That's it?

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All right.

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Yeah, me too.

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I'd say 10% of Eric and I's conversations are about GLP-1s.

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Very fascinating.

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Oh, wow.

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Yeah. Eric's the exact same. Like there's no shift other than he doesn't eat as much.

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You know what I'm saying? And he doesn't crave sugar. And so he's not in a shitty mood because he hasn't eaten 10 pounds of sugar. So it's like, it does impact his mood, but not because it's changing his mood, but because he's not actually dealing with all the fallout from his

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Yes. The show The Day After was on NBC when you were five years old. That was a show about what do we do the day after the nuclear annihilation. The greatest existential crisis of all time on planet Earth was crescendoing when you were a little boy. I didn't remember it. You weren't really aware of it.

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I agree. Also, we have February armchair anonymous prompts for folks who have great stories and want to chat with us on Zoom. Here are the February prompts. Live sporting event disasters. I hope to not be reporting one of those.

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And then prior to that, our parents, Vietnam and Kent State and shooting students again before we were born.

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You should have.

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Right, let's hope not.

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dan Rather and I'm joined by Leslie Stahl.

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I wish you developed the list when you got really smart, because you almost said, you go, Ovid, like, you almost... The thing about Ovid is...

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You definitely see your Hellenic studies side of your brain and then this is a whole new, you have a lisp.

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You seem like the biggest genius on earth.

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They didn't know you were like, I know two, I'm going with one of the two.

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They were like, wow, he read that and he's like, fuck, that's Ovid all day. That's some Ovid shit. That's my man Ovid. Bitch, please. Give me a hard one next time, okay?

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I'm just out of the shower, too. I wanted to smell so fresh for you. It is so hot.

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I really appreciate that rule that they have because when we are at home, Kristen and I were competing, watching Jeopardy. A rule in the house, because I'm dyslexic, is you can't read ahead and then answer out loud. I need to hear what Ken's asking.

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To continue the parallel. Now, imagine that's my life. I'm married to her. You had one mix-up in a souvenir shop one day, and you really remember it. You have thousands of hours at airports. And I go to a hotel, and the guy calls me Mr. Bell, you know? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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As bad as I feel for you. Yeah, no, I get it. Try that being your all-day existence.

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It's obviously not that bad, but there is regularly a situation where someone comes up and they want a picture, and I really don't know. Do they want me in the photo or not? That is an hourly occurrence when we're at an airport or New York. Sure, that's a rough one. I certainly don't want to presume they want also me in the photo.

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So half the time I'm out, and they'll go like, oh, no, no, you too, but that's only half the time. Right, they feel bad. Oh, let's get one with your husband. You see him? There's like trying to figure out how to crop.

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Hold on, I got to ask you a very rude question. Are you flipping the bill for all this, or do they have their own money?

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That happened yesterday. You felt the full weight of the tall poppy syndrome. They fucking hacked you for the next five days. They got my ass. I have a very memorable one just like that. I was in Miami with a friend and these two attractive girls came up. It's important because it makes it that much worse. And they said, can we get a picture? They hand me the camera.

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I hand it to my friend Scotty and then I grab them. I put my arms around both of them and get myself in the center. And they're both immediately like, oh my God, what? And I was like, oh, fuck.

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Oh my God. And then the only thing worse than that is to then try to explain to them you're famous and you're used to this. Yeah.

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I feel ten feet tall and bulletproof? I never heard that. Is that a Dak Chopper original? Did you just quote yourself? I'm going to tell you afterwards because it's so proprietary and novel. I don't want anyone to steal it. But truly, you know, I was five minutes late. I was showering. That was great. I was on pace to make it in time. And I started thinking of an idea for us.

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I was eight years older than these women and they were much hotter than me. I don't believe that. Oh yeah, by a long shot.

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Yeah, maybe they were in Miami. I can't imagine it was the first time someone put their arm on their shoulder.

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What do you want?

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It's like the equivalent of, it was your fault because you drank.

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You and I were too big to not be a leading man, but we are not good looking enough to be the leading man. Very true. You can't make us the sidekick because the leading man's sidekick can't be towering over him and be bigger. I feel like we're both in the same weird nether zone. Yeah.

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Okay, yeah. I want to add, too, I actually don't think that would be the case if I entered acting now. I'm much more attractive as a middle-aged man than I was as a 20-year-old. Oh, I was not a dish.

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And relative to your peers, you start looking better.

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And it was so... You know when a real idea hits you and you're like, oh, and then it's immediately writing itself incredibly fast.

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Oh my God, when you're on gas, do you inhale the fuck out of it and then get too high and then have to start breathing through your mouth?

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It's like you're free to get as high as possible, and there's a staff there to bring you back.

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You got a nice three second buzz. Sure. By the time you got it in the trash can, it's worn off. Gone. Then you're kind of angry. God damn it. Do you drink? He's one of these guys I'm so jealous of. He has like the perfect relationship with all of it. Really?

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But he can take the right amount of weed as needed.

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Easy peasy for you. Yeah. Will you ever blow lines anymore? No.

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That's just a tick I have when I think.

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I don't know if I told you this in 2018, your first interview, but the highest I've ever been where I was losing huge chunks of time was me and my three friends in Amsterdam, space cake, and it was poppy seed loaf. Yeah. And it was just straight delicious, and we were hungry. And we ate one, and then I was like, we'll have another, and they're like, you shouldn't have another.

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And I'm like, we'll be fine. They're so delicious. I was just eating for the taste at that point. It's the worst. And we got into this insane cycle. We made it back to our hostel and we were all sitting on bar stools. And I noticed all of a sudden I had been staring at the bartender and I go like, oh, why am I jealous of that?

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And I turn and I look and all three of my friends are also staring at the bartender with this. same look on their face. Three morons. They have four idiots from Detroit. I go, oh my God, guys, look at your faces. And everyone goes, were you doing that too? I just looked forward to same look on my face, same staring, look over, they're doing it again.

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And we were just in this insane cycle that was madness. That's where he came up with his character from Idiocracy.

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He's obsessed with Upgrade.

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I don't think I've watched it since I first watched it. But the thing that I loved most from the script and while we were shooting it is my favorite stuff was all the ads. If you don't smoke Carlton's, fuck you.

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And for our third time is the charm. Favorite guest by far, Ike Barinholtz is here. He's an actor. He's a comedian. He's a show creator. He's a writer.

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Or that Fuddruckers had become butt fuckers and that they're showing the passage of time of how they iterated into butt fuckers.

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Thank you. Thank you.

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Thank you.

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Thank you. Thank you.

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I mean, this is a game for the youthful because truly, even if you for a kabillion dollars, you had to beat a record. How many times do you think you could actually do it in a day? 50.

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Thank you.

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No, in all seriousness. I know it's more than me, but I can't imagine.

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That's what I think would become my issue in this hypothetical race to Bezos' box. Like 30 minutes or like five minutes? Can we call it Bezos' box?

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,G. ,G., In that, Justin is wearing that shirt. He's wearing the gear. And you know what? I'm so stupid. This is how fucking powerful Thoreau is. I'm looking at that exact shirt you're wearing. I forget that the name of the team is the Waves, even though I've seen the show. And I go, man, look, he did it again. He's got this shirt on that says Waves.

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What rum and sale did he find that in in New Jersey?

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I gave it a shot. I was like, I think I can pull it off because I ride motorcycles. And I was like, you're not pulling this off. You're not pulling it off. No, he's one of a kind.

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And he's written four or five really substantial poetry books that are good.

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He and Isaiah kissed each other, if you remember, mid-court once. Right, which was the worst thing ever.

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That was like the first time I had seen two men kiss.

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This is a very different time. It was so different that I remember when Travolta would go on talk shows, he would hug the host.

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You might remember this rumor when we were kids that the boss kissed his saxophone player. This was like this huge rumor. Do you remember that?

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Bezos beat off Bucks. Bezos. How do I combine this? Everyone else is so tired of it, but can I tell you my favorite joke I think I've ever come up with? Yes. Did you see that Forbes just recently announced the richest man in Mexico?

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People were like, you know Bruce Springsteen kissed his saxophone player.

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You know, I partied with him one time. Back when I used to do coke.

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It was pre any domestic abuse situation with women, so I had no ethical dilemma whatsoever. It was still in that phase where he had been in Bullying for Columbine, and you were like, oh, he's really smart.

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I never went all the way there, but I was like, that's kind of intriguing.

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Yeah, and he had a ton of toot, and I was down to hang.

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He's giving me like a minute of chewing.

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Has that happened enough in movies? I feel like we need more of those. That has happened to me numerous times. Just took a way too big bite of a ribeye, and I'm going to need a minute and a half to get through it.

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Jeff Bezos. Oh, my God.

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Jesus, I'm going to have a cow in my molar. But back to Running Point, you're a writer-creator, you're on set for the whole time?

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He's pretty shockingly funny. He was also on a show with Caitlyn. That's where I first saw him, Caitlyn Olsen.

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Yeah, his essence is perpetually hungover, which is the best kind of vibe.

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You guys were both on Plumbers.

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That show, I don't know why that one went under the radar.

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Kristen and I watched it a year and a half after it came out, and I was like, this show's a 10.

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You couldn't sign in for a couple months.

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The Mindy Project, Blockers, Mad TV, The Hunt, Neighbors.

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I'm not even worried, though. Because what happens when you hear the joke is you go, uh-oh, this is racist. Right, that is where your mind goes. You're like, oh, shh. That's why it's a nice joke, because it relieves the tension of thinking you're going to have to fake laugh at a racist joke.

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We're only going to do so much about the studio because we had Seth in, and it's probably the most we've ever talked about someone's project on the show because I genuinely, from the bottom of my heart, blown away with the studio.

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And do you feel like emboldened? He's opened the door.

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Right, then you're almost feeling guilty. And then the relief of, oh, it's work class.

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Yes, because the choreography that's happening for these shots, which people might not realize, is there's like seven assistant directors With earpieces on, cueing guy with the tray to walk through, cueing the light cue. If you fuck up one cue, it's dominoes, right?

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That's a good joke when it traps you.

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It's crazy. But that part, I would imagine, is fun because once Ron Howard has sides... Everything's neutralized. He's as nervous about remembering his lines as anyone else. Status is evaporated.

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If he thought I was Zach Braff, I can talk about scrubs.

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Akin to your LNX studies character.

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Yes. That's the thing to do. Same. I get Garden State compliments and I'm flattered to be associated with the film.

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Now, here's one bit of how the sausage was made that I'm curious about is there's this incredible episode called The War. And you and Chase go to war. How great is she, by the way? She's incredible. She's a CE, a creative executive. So she's under you on this totem pole.

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You have a rivalry. You're fucking each other over on the director you want for a project. And it's escalating, escalating. And then it gets physical. Now, here's what I'm curious in The Wonder. I'd be afraid. I'd want to push. And get crazy, and then I'd be afraid if it was too much. Because at the end of the day, you're an enormous man, and she's a young woman. Yeah.

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Was any of that stuff circling? I was like, oh, man, they found the line just perfectly. It went as crazy as it could get, but it didn't get scary.

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But it's real and it's good.

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And they want that. I mean, your character, Sal Saberstein, he drives a yellow 911 convertible. Yes, yes.

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I didn't even think that that could happen. Yeah.

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He's snorting coke. We watched the first episode with my daughter. No, it was a Khaleesi. It was an even younger viewer we had involved. We had a seven-year-old. And she's like, what did he just do? And I'm like, he did a drug cocaine. And she was really trying to figure out, did you pound it into your hand?

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Probably some people I would ask would know. It's like the telecommunications guy, right?

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Absolutely. I remember if I would do a big line and then I'd be like, oh, my God, I could go to shit. I was so thrilled. I'm like, here we go.

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Hard drugs, especially back in the day. Yeah, I used to do ecstasy all the time. Half the time it was half heroin, half the time it was half meth. You didn't know what the hell.

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God damn it.

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Jeopardy champion.

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Don't rule us out.

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Yeah, I've fucking never been happier. Ike, I do adore you. This is number three. I hope there's like ten more.

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Malcolm Glass.

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I'm so glad to hear you say that because I went and listened to it back before today and I was shook. I urge everyone to go listen to that. It shouldn't be as good as it is. You were so on fire.

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fucking through the sheet and you did Obama fucking through the sheet.

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I don't even know if the sheet thing's real. It's not real. I think that whole thing was started from a Seinfeld episode.

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It'll be apologies to all of our Jewish friends. All right. I adore you. Thanks for coming. Everybody watch both Running Point, which is on now. On Netflix. Go Waves. And then the studio, which is March 26 on Apple Plus. Apple Plus. Go studio. Well, you've got your dong in both of the big streamers, don't you? Yeah, I know. Oh, my God.

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She was sharpening her scissors as I brought up Jeff Bezos. I love you guys so much. Thank you guys for having me. I love you. Measel tough.

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Ike Barinholtz.

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Got him up. Well, I was with Joe Gillette.

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We were talking about Jackie Tone on Jeopardy.

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Which then led to me. I tell everyone who will listen about Ike's. Big win. Incredible performance in the true Tournament of Champions.

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Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

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Really cool. Won the quarterfinals. Almost won the semis. Yeah.

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Yeah. What a guy.

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You fell in love. Do you want to tell people? I have a big story. Yeah. Let's talk about you falling in love. I need to wait. Yeah, he can. He'll have his time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4121.569

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4126.071

Yes, I know television. You know about it? Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4147.768

It's a cost-saving episode.

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Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4150.049

Yeah.

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I was going to do research of Thursday's guests. Yeah. Nose to the Grindstone.

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She's really taking you to new places. She really is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

42.344

Champion. And he is a creator of Running Point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

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Side question. Sounds perverse, but I am sincere. Yeah. Like men's butt cheeks are not appealing. They're like hairy and they just look terrible in general.

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And you see those ones on TV. Like if they're good enough, you'll be a star.

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Do you think they could do but like really get your butt cheeks looking healthy and moisturized and like pink and appealing? Yeah.

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But it means your face is the same as your butt. I guess the skin is skin.

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Yeah, I don't want to get into all the different things I wish were more attractive about my butt cheeks. But do you want like... Because what's happening is my butt is getting bigger, which has been my goal for 40 years. Yes. Through all this cycling. Yes. Yeah. And I look at it in the mirror. I'm like, great. It has the shape I want. But I want it to look like a male model's nude butt. Like...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4269.555

I mean, I don't. I mean, I don't. But I do. But I won't. Yeah.

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Yeah. And then see where we're at.

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But just also my butt cheeks have never been in the sun or very minimally have they ever been in the sun. So they're the palest part of my body. I don't like that part. Sure. Let's just say there was no hair. Let's say there's no hair. And it looks great. Other than it's just stark white.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4299.795

On my butt cheeks?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4302.617

Is there a such thing as self-tanner or is it just a tinted moisturizer you're using? Or can you put a cream on that'll make the melanin come out? No. It's just a tint.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4316.289

God, I wish my butt cheeks were brown. I really do. I did for when in Rome. Because I had so many revealing scenes and I was a male model, I was getting spray tanned the whole time I was in New York. And I will say I was like, oh, I like that my butt is that color.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4337.832

Yeah, look in the like OfferUp or one of these sites. Buy a used decommissioned spray tanning booth so I can do it at home. It is very embarrassing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

434.426

You get hit with these terms and I don't even know. It's probably 50-50 ego, but 50% yes. I don't want to acknowledge I don't know it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4350.538

Yes, I would love to. And this is one of my grievances about my life is that there's so many people at my house. There's never, ever. And I'll get agitated. I'll be in my backyard and I think like, yeah, I have this beautiful backyard. I should be able to tan my butt cheeks. No way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4368.036

Dog walker walk in. You're right. My sister. Oh, yikes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4376.624

Yes. Is that available? Yeah. Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4383.548

It's probably going to be an issue.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4387.37

I guess when you go out of town.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4389.752

I'll do my ass tanning over there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4393.254

Okay. Sorry, I interrupted you. So your face person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4405.114

Circles. Wrong features.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4423.109

Get a bite to eat. Exactly. Hopefully Molly's available. And then she cancels. And then you don't want to go. And you say, I hate it. And I said, didn't you love it? I thought you were excited to go. Correct.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4457.389

Jealous 14 hours.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4469.946

What are your rooms smelled like?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4472.869

Bug plus 14 hours.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4478.173

Maybe it did. Maybe it smelled great. Maybe it smelled even prettier in there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4495.849

Then, yeah, she would have loved it. Should have sent her over to wake you up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

452.469

Same thing. I read as a dumbass. It's a chip on my shoulder. I'm kind of secretly smart. And then I can't possibly expose myself as being ignorant on anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4522.088

Montana.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4557.347

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4591.59

Almost worse, maybe. Now you're in that tangled web of traffic. Exactly. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4621.52

Yeah, big gash or big hole.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4633.305

It's going to get worse and worse and worse.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4646.957

I mean, you probably could have driven.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

468.114

I don't know this because no one would know this. And to know it would be stupid.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4716.318

This free day was robbed from you. Let's just say that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4731.147

Oh, wonderful. That's fantastic. Okay, turning around.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4742.889

Uh-huh, to a tire shop. A tire shop. To go see John at American. Yes, who you know. Yeah, who I love. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4753.592

I didn't even know they let you ride with the tow truck person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4757.832

You can? Yeah. Wow, okay. Feels like a big liability, but yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

48.929

Season two. Congrats.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4816.521

Okay. Even if they're working for a, you just never know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4843.196

He's 70, you say?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4847

Although he's black, so he could have been 90.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4850.724

Right, because they age so much better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4854.89

Okay. So yeah. Okay. Maybe 65. I'm not sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4873.334

Okay. Sure. So he's concentrating on the chat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4899

Terrible free day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4921.223

Yeah. He judo'd you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4935.649

He's the solution.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4940.891

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4943.972

Yeah. And then. He was so. He really liked it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4956.638

Very cheap to shoot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4973.127

Yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4978.371

See, this is where I'm jealous of people that are minorities because you're free to guess. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

498.891

Oh, wow. Do you know that's too fast for them to grow? Because I held one when she was a baby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4983.575

Exactly. Yeah. Because he's black. You're like, great. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

4990.8

Yeah. So am I, Monica. Well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

507.236

We've been giving them some steroids and stuff. That's when you're really big. No, that's acromegaly. Progeria is I think you're aging really quickly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

51.091

And he's acting in this most impossibly great show that I'm so excited for everyone to watch called The Studio with Seth Rogen. And he is on fire in the show, Ike Barinholtz.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

533.825

Eight, 11, and six. Soon to be 12. Okay, now this is repugnant to admit out loud, but I assume you'll join me. Don't you love when they ask these questions about how things work or anything historic? And you're like, oh my God, I have value in the situation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5372.534

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5414.77

Thank you. Thank you.

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Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

571.431

Now, this is going to come later, but it would be crazy to not address it now. There's so many things that I'm impressed with you for, but this Jeopardy thing... Has me like insecure and envious in a way that's just so genuine. If people don't know, you won Celebrity Jeopardy. I did. And before we even go on from there, there was a moment in Celebrity Jeopardy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5741.602

Yes, there's this very similar. Oh, it was when we were at the Descanso Gardens.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5750.808

Calvin, he bought something or my girls bought something. Oh, it was a lollipop. And he gave it to Calvin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5764.957

I knew I remembered it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5778.463

It's good for our spoiled kids to not get something every now and then. But wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5787.306

Oh, I keep holding up to me because I'm getting something. I'm really getting something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5799.441

Oh, I know what it looks like. It looks like Alf. Turn it around and stare at the nose. It really is alpha Jason.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5823.502

And you're both Filipino. And I'm still over here as a Caucasoid. Um, well, maybe one of my daughters will marry someone and then, and then that'll make me 12% or whatever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5875.429

Nice. Kind of a hybrid. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5881.085

Still?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5883.565

His wealth has fluctuated. That reminds me. Oh, you want to do a crypto? Bitcoin? Yep. Boy, I wonder what it's at.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5896.367

Or had it gone? What was the nadir of it so far?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5913.414

EBITDA.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5920.9

Amortization? Yeah, I don't know. I like to say amortized. Oh, that reminds me. I went to Lauren Graham's birthday party. Oh. And her father was there, who we spoke about a bunch, right? Yeah. Who learned Vietnamese when he was in college and went over to Vietnam.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

593.22

Do you know how wild your true daily double was?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5935.351

And I was having to explain this to numerous people I was sitting with. And I kept saying it wrong. And I thought, God, this is so rough for him because he.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5944.297

Speaks it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5949.14

Yeah. It'd be offensive. And I try my hardest. One neat thing he taught me about Vietnam. is that you can say the same five words, like they're the same five words, but it's your tone that changes the word dramatically.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5967.913

So you could say the same sentence, but if you don't have the tone and then it kind of explained when I'm listening to them speak, it does sound really kind of all over the map tonally.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5979.959

And that's because that's how they're changing the meaning of the word. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

5985.902

He gave some great examples of where like the same sentence means this if you're up here and then it means this if you're down here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6001.492

I hate that disease. I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6014.087

Okay, Jared Watson. By the way, Jackie B... Neil deGrasse Tyson.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6023.589

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6028.253

That's not real.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6032.256

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6033.637

Although an excuse for a lot of unwanted hugs, if it's a national. People are like, I'm so sorry. I just got to do this. Honk, honk, honk. Aruga, aruga. Oh, yeah. Tune in Tokyo. National hugs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6051.01

You did, not me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6057.534

Aruga. Oh, yeah. Yeah, that. If they throw an aruga my way, I might be able to deal with it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6067.8

To hear you say it that way is so funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6071.206

He didn't do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6072.907

It turns out he could suck his own dick with all of his words in place. Yeah, he didn't need to remove any. What a bizarre urban legend.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6082.734

They did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6085.116

Oh, they kissed all the time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6101.086

Right. During the writer's sessions with Mindy and Dave.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6106.71

He can sell it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6111.792

A Dagwood?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6116.123

Yeah, you should look it up, but it's just an enormous sandwich. My grandmother used to say, do you want a Dagwood? And it was just like, it would be seven inches tall with like lettuce and tomato and this and that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6148.584

Yeah, he could do anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

616.939

He had $16,700, and he made it a true daily double. He risked all $16,700. Wow. How many episodes is it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6160.195

Vince V. Loof.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6165.661

Hot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6168.573

Yes. TBD.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6175.695

Yeah. It's not. Let's bring it up in five months. Yeah, we will.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6188.617

Yeah. And I was on Twitter still.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6198.022

That was everything. Okay. Let me shout it from the rooftops. I love it. Ike Barron. I think he might be the perfect person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6206.466

Cause he does. He's kind of like, remember when Jonah Nolan rolled up and you're like, this guy's a genius. Same with Ike. That's so. Mixed messies. I love that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6217.252

Yeah. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

6219.173

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

631.173

Right, so three games in a row you win.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

632.995

And then you know how Daily Double works, right? You can wager anything up to your... I know you don't. And if you don't know, it would be stupid to know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

642.521

So when you get a Daily Double, daily double. And then you say how much you want to wager of your actual money. So you could say $100. So I looked it up. I was like, I wonder if I set a record for the biggest daily double ever. No, it couldn't be. Not fucking far off. Someone had a $25,600 daily double.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

70.384

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

708.824

Yeah, yeah. But anyways, I watched the clip of you doing that today, and I hadn't seen it prior to this. I was listening to that question with so much anxiety. Do you remember it? Well, I know the answer. It was Harriet Tubman. Harriet Tubman. It was about the Underground Railroad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

72.638

Wednesday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

738.802

That's going to be 30, 40% of the brain capacity. That's most of the brain. We're relegated to that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

74.399

I can't. I can't do that. You're so spoiled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

752.432

Wait, can I answer a perverted question? Yeah. Do you have any interest in, and it'd have to be someone you were very attracted to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

758.819

If you had the opportunity to watch a live stream of them gooning, would you watch? Jude Law is going to goon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

79.121

Seth Rogen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

81.481

In the capacity of an expert.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

814.731

Yeah. Right. Well, he would be holding a photo of you in this scenario. Oh. He wouldn't be looking right at her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

83.742

Because the technical aspect of this show is so impressive. Yes. And deserved a deep dive. Yeah. And it got real nitty gritty deep divey. Yes. And you made the call.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

857.91

Okay, so as you point out, Celebrity Jeopardy, it's just not at the same level as regular Jeopardy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

870.914

Right. And we want to hear from everyone, too. So we got to open it up. It's not like we want to invite Julia Louise Dreyfuss and then we don't hear from her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

877.596

Right. It's a waste. I don't know why I used her as an example because she's very smart.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

881.837

Would probably do very well. Would actually be very good. If you're listening to this, Julia, sign up for Celebrity Jeopardy. Now, what's incredible timing wise is he wins the celebrity tournament right as they change the rules. And that allows him to enter the real tournament of champions like Mariah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

97.027

This is Studio Week. Welcome to Studio Week. Yeah. Please enjoy Ike Barinholtz.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

971.924

13.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Ike Barinholtz Returns Again

982.237

You got the swagger, you got the looks, you got the height.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dan Rather, and I'm joined by Modest Mouse. Hi. Do you know Modest Mouse is going on tour this summer? And I really want to see them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1017.205

Maybe Sly was at home bummed. It's hard for me to imagine that. But maybe because, again, in that situation, I'm insignificant and I'm almost speaking in a vacuum. These people won't really hear me. And I was on Punk'd where we put celebrities in very rough situations and hopefully they acted poorly. And at no point did I act like I was above that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1036.63

What I more was starting to feel was a kind of compassion for both of us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1043.573

I want to get invited to the party. And the way I got invited to the party was like, yeah, you can come to the party if you shit on these people I'm punked. And I was like, OK, I'll do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1054.16

For years, I'm bumping into Timberlake and he hates my guts. And I'm like, don't you understand, buddy? I was like dead broke and that was my only chance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1061.966

We've had him on and we talked it all through. But yeah, I would see him for years. And it's like, yeah, that guy doesn't like me. And for good reason.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1073.421

We should make a distinction because I heard you talking about it this morning. Yeah. And it's great. You're like, Tom Brady's getting $25 million. He has consented. Yes. Everyone that said yes to the Diaz, they, am I saying it right? Diaz? The dais, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1090.143

I go, is it the dais? And you go, yes, that's right, dais.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1096.831

Right back at you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1100.154

We have the same approach. There is consent. I have been invited to so many of those roasts and I'm like, I just don't have thick enough skin. I'll just tell you, I can't handle it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1155.442

I'm one of the only people who didn't watch the Tom Brady roast because I can't even enjoy watching it. I just think of myself hearing that. I'm very sensitive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1167.81

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1173.473

You probably know your troll. If you're a civilian, you probably work with that person. You should have blocked your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend ages ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1188.982

You almost need to be insecure to be funny in this way. The jock at my school never had a good burn on anybody. You don't need it. Not only did he not need it, he honestly couldn't empathize enough. He couldn't see other insecurities because he didn't have any. You have to have them to be able to spot them in other people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

121.278

Yeah, does it make you nervous?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1226.393

Yes. And you can smell it in your brain is really well tuned to it because you're constantly evaluating yourself. And even we had Vince Vaughn on. He was saying at a certain age, he realized he had to stop burning people because it was the kind of burns that would ruin them for two years. It's like, well, yeah. you know he just could see it because he had them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1273.609

That was probably the only one. I love that you got permission.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

128.28

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

131.402

He reads between the lines.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1334.95

You don't want to get stabbed. Don't start a knife fight. Well, you were picky Nicky in sixth grade. Thank you. Nikki was picking her nose in sixth grade.

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Nikki Glaser

138.144

Let me ask you just a baseline. How nervous do you get for things? Obviously, you're brave as fuck. You go on stage. But like when you go to Stern and I'm not comparing myself to that, just what's the nerves out of 10 for Stern?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1413.238

What were your other things?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1436.818

Monica was on the verge of getting them and it was like our biggest battle. I'm so glad you did it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1465.097

I wonder if they could build out this leaner.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1475.464

Every month. Less painful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1478.626

My dentist is currently trying to talk me into doing some fix-ups on the bottom here. And then he put the temporary one on there and he showed me the mirror. I was like, oh, I don't care about the bottom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1541.966

You're looking at a haircut that is two days old that I gave to myself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1547.17

Yeah, I cut my own hair, but it generally starts in periods of anxiety, which I've been having. So I started trimming, trimming, trimming. You saw the progression. Anyone watching would see the progression. It's a total tick till finally Sunday. I'm like, now we're shaving the sides.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1563.043

I love that cut.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

158.254

Right. You don't even have an opportunity to spin out about it because it's just too much shit's in front of you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1584.664

I won't hear from you about it. It's going to be hard to feel bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1596.31

So much volume.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1597.91

Anyone that's been hired by Herbal Essence to be a mermaid in a commercial for your hair. Yes. That's the stamp of approval.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1617.779

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1622.661

My wife has given her many pieces of artwork that say I have perfect tits and great opinions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1628.104

So when people are buying you those kinds of paintings, I think you could have two.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1668.311

What is crepey?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1679.418

We would say in the automotive world, if the paint is kind of orange peely, is that what we're talking about?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1685.883

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1688.767

Droopy paper mache.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1707.688

I hope we get submissions from knee surgeons. Please. The reason you were able to host the Golden Globes was you had cleared your schedule in January for a month to do some operative work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1723.917

Yeah. So you had already kind of scheduled this little buffer in January and then got the call. I feel like that's very serendipitous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1739.842

Have you seen the pictures of those flights home from Turkey? Yeah. I want to fly there just to fly back with all those guys. For anyone who's not seen it, please Google this. The flight there would be interesting too. Yeah, 90 some percent of the passengers on these flights home from Turkey, the men are all bandaged up. They've gotten hair transplants. I guess it's affordable there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1763.089

In Turkey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1787.622

We've always had them, but they're just evolving. For us, it was all like body and strength and Schwarzenegger and lifting weights and trying to be big and strong. I'm still dealing with it, obviously.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

179.952

The first time I did Stern, I laid in bed that night anticipating every single conceivable question. Whoa. And then planning what my response would be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1811.79

That's really good. Yeah. When you're a dude and you look in the mirror, you go, that's that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1818.593

I was even watching this and I'm like, God, my nose has gotten so bulbous. I think most women would shade and it would not look bulbous. And I'm like, I'm not going to do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

194.024

I mean, it was in some way because I went in knowing, OK, I've slept with some famous women. I know he's going to want to talk about that. I have to have a game plan for that. I'm obviously not going to talk about it, but I don't want to piss him off or disappoint the audience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

1977.032

But it's preferable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2017.048

How much younger is she?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2036.08

That's good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2052.638

Was she outgoing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

207.392

Yes. So what worked was I was like, I'm going to pivot to addiction every time because I know he also loves that. And I'm happy to give him that. And that's just me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2144.167

None of us chose any of it. Just got it. No one went to the store and picked it out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2197.826

It's wholly unfair, which is I think I had all the same feelings you did growing up. But I had the freedom as a dude to go, yeah, that's not going to be your thing. And girls, thank God, did date guys largely because of how confident they presented and how funny they were. And so that is the great injustice. I was able to transcend it in some way. Not that I ever fell in love with how I looked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2222.025

I just was like, Oh, we're not going to think about this anymore. And we're going to just do this other thing. And that's going to work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2228.008

That's a gift of being a dude. Decreasingly so, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2232.51

Yes. Thank God it's evolving. But in the 80s, I could kind of make that proclamation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2262.385

There's a ton of stuff going on. There's like evolutionary stuff. There's how the society has run for the previous 300 years. A guy that was confident and had a good personality was going to probably achieve high status because he would be able to do that through work. He was super smart. So he would be able to climb the status run. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2279.474

Whereas for women, the status rung wasn't fully available for anything other than being gorgeous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

23.356

They're not coming to the West Coast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2326.525

Do you think you were just biochemically anxious? What led to, do you think the annex? It sounds like you had pretty good parents.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2346.561

Yeah, I want to go there. And you have to look a certain way to go. Yeah, there's no option.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

238.59

yeah you have some kind of plausible deniability but it never goes poorly if i plan planning does work i should just do that do you do what i do which is and we'll go right to it when i had heard did you hear us talking about the golden gloves thing i don't like to hear people talking about me so i did not listen but i heard it was talked about almost you have to because people never relay it the same i'll hear like so and so was shit talking to you and then i listened to it i'm like

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2419.344

Is Boulder, you did it when you were 18 for the first time. Yeah. And you were only at Boulder for what, a year?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2521.288

So this is the fun kind of overlap with Monty. Monty had this very specific event in her life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2567.5

They worked at a Foster's. It was a competition. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2604.792

Her thing, to paraphrase it, was. Any boy she would like wouldn't like her because she was Indian. So she shifted to being in love with people. She knew that issue would never present itself. So it was Matt Damon and Ben Affleck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

265.316

So my experience was bumping into Jesse Eisenberg. Him telling me, did you hear we were in the New York Times yesterday? And I'm like, no, I didn't know we were in the New York Times. And he said, yes, apparently Nikki had written two jokes that were too hot for TV. Too hot. And it was in the New York Times. So I returned to my seat before the monologue starts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2798.274

Well, what's really sad is it's all self-fulfilling prophecies. You're almost forcing him to leave you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2809.705

They were yours, though, which is crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

284.741

And I'm thinking she's going to fuck me up hardcore. I'm sure the version she backed off of is still going to destroy my feelings. So I, hold on, this is not to make you feel guilty.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2850.319

Maybe he doesn't care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2887.088

This may be helpful. We had this incredible sex therapist on Alexander Katahakis. She was incredible. And my question was, should people who have been sexually abused who now desire, for lack of a better word, some kind of kinky sex, should they feel guilty? It's not their fault. And if that's what they enjoy and she goes, no. It's totally fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

29.424

Modest Mouse, will you send us some merch? We should just go buy some merch. They were just here in the fall. I saw them. They were here in the fall? Yep. They did a good news tour. They're doing a southern tour. I saw Asheville's on the list. So maybe while I'm in Nashville, I can go see them somewhere. Anyways, that's not who our guest is. It's not Modest Mouse. I do love Modest Mouse.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2905.984

And there are a lot of sexual abuse survivors who will be in like sub dom relationships. And it's very crystal clear. If you have shame and secrecy around it, it's a problem. And if you don't, it's not a problem. So I would argue all you've got to do is be honest about it and there will be no issue.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2929.719

Yeah, he and my wife could bump into each other and have no idea this conversation took place. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2960.452

There has to also be a little bit of the fact that you had a problem drinking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2967.376

Right. Which, of course, I'm going to be deeply interested in because I don't drink either.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

297.705

It was more like I have to have a response that doesn't make me look like an asshole. Yeah. I've got to somehow find the humor in whatever mean thing she says about me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2972.58

Have I? Yeah. Leading up to a big relapse. Right. It was a tricky one. And I can relate to everything you're saying because alcohol is cut and dry for me. It's black and white. I have a drink on Thursday night. You will see me Sunday and I have gotten coke and all these things will happen. Very predictable. There was some period where a gummy. I don't know. I go to sleep. I sleep better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

2990.334

There's no wreckage. There's no out of control in this. I don't crave it like the other stuff I crave. And then having been clean and sober for 16 years and going. And I also don't like that I would need anything. Yeah. Right. So I know the racket.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3004.433

Nicotine. But I am at total peace with this. There's no secrecy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3016.425

If I'm hiding, there's something to be looked at. If I can't do it out in public, then that's kind of my clue. I need to get comfortable with one or the other.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3024.392

not do it or i gotta just own it and then people around me i guess i'll trust to tell me i just can't have the zone where it's like i have a secret because then you can't even evaluate the thing because actually you're evaluating your feeling of having a secret not even your feeling of using weed the way that i was able to stop smoking as much weed once was to when i did it you know i was smoking from like pipes during covid it's dirty and it felt bad these are like crack pipes yeah

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3061.185

Hoping no one sees you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3071.348

I don't think you can even evaluate what the weed is until you detach the secret from it. The pit of disapproval and angst is more about the secret.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

308.39

Yeah, gracious. So I'm like almost practicing. Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3100.805

I think it's a harder one to evaluate for people because it doesn't have the kind of wreckage that other stuff does. You get DUIs. You fucking smack your friend. You fall down an elevator and pee your pants. None of that stuff happens.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

311.571

oh god suffice to say the whole monologue every time it was about me i was like oh okay whoo so nothing happened then reality hits you and you're like of course nothing happened there's so many bigger people in this room to make a joke about why on earth would she even make one about me that's not why i didn't okay all to say you do do stern the following day and then i start seeing in the comments of our episode that day like did you hear nikki's

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3143.882

You are. Women love you. The amount of people have asked us to have you on the amount of people that had seen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3149.964

Someday you'll die.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3151.884

I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3166.967

Yes, of course I watched it because I am narcissistic enough to know if there's a joke that has me in it. I'm certainly going to find out. Was it the thing I'm fearing? And I thought I didn't care at all. I took it as a dude joke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3184.082

Yes, I watched it. I thought it was a great special. But I just want to say so many people had immediately taken to our comments. That's when I had the sense. Oh, Nikki's really, really huge. There's some connective tissue with you and Taylor in that you have worked your fucking ass off. If you decided I'm going to be this thing, whether you think I'm going to be it or not. Bad news.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3205.51

I'm stubborn and I'm going to be this thing. There's something very relatable. And I think people can see themselves in you. I see how my oldest daughter, the gift Taylor Swift has given my family when I watch the women in my life, the impact that she has on them, how she can make them feel in the confidence in the Jubilee. It's such a crazy gift. It's awesome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3227.088

And it's because in some way you could be her. I mean, you can't, but also you can.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

333.208

joke about you. And I wrote to several people, no, and I hope to never hear it. But you must know what I then crafted in my head that your joke was. They were so fucking mean. They hurt so bad because they were my deepest insecurities. And three days goes by and Kristen finally went and listened and she came in and she goes, the joke's nothing. You were going to ask everyone to be on your podcast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3350.235

Sure. So I'm a control freak as well. And I was very OCD as a kid and lots of tics and I have a lot of control things. But... I love these zones where I surrender to no control. It's so pleasurable because I'm fucking strangleholding so much of life. My routine and my schedule is psychotic and sadistic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3369.566

And so when I have these pockets, these things I can do where I actually surrender to it, it's bliss. Do you have anything in your life?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3380.812

Oh, tell me what's baby girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3387.495

Like kind of a submissive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3417.405

You said you smoke pot to give yourself anxiety, which I found interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3422.426

Do you? I like being awake. Yes. And that's why I like the chaos, because it brings me to a level I can't reach normally. Improv, like you're saying, the element of failure is so present that a new zone of my brain wakes up. I get the extra dopamine and adrenaline and neuroepirin and all this stuff. I can access a part of myself, the survivor in me. And I love it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

358.205

And I was like, oh my God, where my mind was at

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3581.521

Have you though?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3584.022

How about this? I did a live show for a Formula One podcast I had. It was a disaster. We have done many, many live shows and they go great. They're so fun. We did this one in Vegas, a bunch of drunk people. No one knew who the fuck we were. It was terrible. And we had to do a full hour. That's what we were hired to do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3599.41

And I, at least at this age and having done enough stuff, about 10 minutes into it bombing, I go, oh, this is great. This is going to be so memorable for all of us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3621.209

You said that it looks like a telephone number.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

364.748

Yes, none of that is to make you feel bad at all. No, no, no, I'm not taking it like that. Okay, good. This is all the racket in my head. Sure. And so when I'm about to do Stern, I'm also preparing for things he's not going to say to me. Yes. Because no one is as mean to me as me. No one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3723.709

You would never be telling this story if it went well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3778.578

when you can feel it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

381.716

OK, the Internet exists.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3819.009

Okay, I want to go to two things before we wrap up because you've given us a lot of time already. Oh my God, I could stay here all day. You went to 22? Taylor Swift shows. On the Eros tour? Yeah. I'm so jealous. And you have this history. I don't know if we can do like a really short- I went once, I took my 11 year old to Lisbon and it was the greatest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3839.945

But you did 22 and you have this history and I'll just do one second because I wasn't even aware of it. But in some Buzzfeed thing, you made fun of her in some capacity and ended up in the dock. Now, I saw the doc and I loved it. And I don't remember that part at all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3910.46

I heard you say that you were unable to listen to her music.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3917.584

They remind you of your fuck up. Yeah. And you haven't made any amends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

3926.728

You wrote her an apology and tried to get it to her through agents. You

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

406.743

It's a great joke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4128.046

For me, it's two-sided. It's either I'm jealous or they're displaying a side of myself I hate so much. So like my issues with JLo maybe in the past are like, why are you at the Super Bowl game in the front of the room? I've been like, why do you need so much attention?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4149.04

I need endless attention and I hate that about myself. By the way, I don't even know if she needs attention or not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4168.536

Not always.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4203.948

Yes, exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4208.392

That's why I go tell my younger self something. I don't even play that game. I didn't listen to anybody. No. That was part of my charm. Even if it was me who came back, I wouldn't listen to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4218.562

Pretty much I don't. I try to avoid that. I'm living, I'm modeling. They'll pick some things up. They'll see other things don't work. They're very bright. I think it'll work. That's good. Okay. So have you though ever had one-on-one with Taylor?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4237.39

But nothing post apology.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4239.531

And you probably don't want that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4264.906

As you get more successful, it's harder to be a fan. It's still fun to be a fan. It's the best. I think that's worth preserving.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4274.053

OK, and I so I'm going to preface this by saying truly you must know I don't care how anyone gets sober. I have zero judgment about how anyone does it. I am intrigued and fascinated that you read a book.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4285.661

Twelve years ago and quit drinking. Alan Carr.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4291.205

So what happens? Because I'm just curious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

434.77

When I heard that was the joke, it didn't bother me at all because it's a shortcoming of mine that I won't invite anyone on. Right. Because I'm so afraid they think I'm opportunistic. And then secondly, several people there had come up to me very nicely and said, I just want you to know that was one of my favorite interviews.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4364.622

They're all by Alan Carr.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4392.107

Your frontal lobes offline.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4416.627

You probably know enough about AA. You come in and quit drinking and then you're left with the reason you drank. And then the meetings and the steps are about addressing not the symptom. You've quit the symptom. So did you find that you were now someone without their medicine?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4461.77

unmanageable and that's when I was like I need help for this and got back into a thing and realized oh I didn't look at the spiritual element of it so would it be fair to say the drinking for whatever reason on the continuum that book was sufficient but that the eating you couldn't have read a book

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

447.813

So my self-esteem in that category was so filled that it didn't bother me at all. Yeah. But when it was going to be that I was too ugly to be with her and I'm riding her coattails and all these fears I have that people think about me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4518.031

SLA and that you define your bottom line.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4535.741

You don't get horny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4551.669

I don't have any opinion on whether people should go or not to a 12 step program. But for me, I could have maybe white knuckled it over the last 20 years. But I would have missed out on so much shit, learning how to be honest with myself, learning what my fears were, learning how to say sorry to people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4587.23

One of the early premises of this show was me going crazy. Can you have an AA meeting in public? Because I feel bad that people can't experience this. This is wild. You come in going, I'm not like anyone. I hate all these people. I'm not like them. I'm different. And then they start talking. You're like, no, I do that. Oh, yes, I've done the exact same thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4605.475

There's a human quality to it that since I'm not religious, I don't get it there. I don't know where else I would have experienced that. What a thing to experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

461.641

I'm preparing for that. In my defense, there were many, many BuzzFeed-y type things of top 10 ugly guys with hot girls. And I made those lists.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4645.777

Never happened in the history of the world. I do TM because Howard did it and talked about it. So I do take up things that I hear people I admire.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4659.609

It's weird. I can't figure out why it wasn't a permanent solution.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4665.796

Oh, God. Isn't that with everything? Fucking daily reprieves. It's annoying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

469.887

for years. So I just went to, well, that's probably what's coming my way. You don't owe me an apology because you didn't do the things I was crafting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4704.923

You might have a story that if you're not working so hard that you're just not worthy of anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4734.607

When we had Jeff Bridges on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4737.808

We talked about getting crazy religious about exercise and then crazy religious about lethargy. You would expect this from him. But the peace he had when he goes, yeah, man, that's what life is. Just ride these waves. Yes. Sometimes you're going to volunteer. Sometimes you're going to go make a movie. Sometimes you're going to smoke pot. Sometimes you're not. That's OK. That's OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4804.11

We also had an OCD expert on who was explaining the majority of OCD isn't what you see in the movies. It's not washing your hands repetitively and it's not checking the lock. It's people who are convinced they're a pedophile, but they are not. They have never done anything, but they're so worried they are. They won't watch TV shows with children.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4823.84

So in some way, I think there's a little bit of compulsive. You're so afraid you're a bad person. Yes. Even though there's no proof that you are other than a couple of fuck ups that everyone has.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4840.131

All right, so I guess that wraps it. That's interesting about the book, and I dig it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4857.099

Although, ironically, the time you're most grateful you don't drink is when you have kids and you're around other parents early in the morning with your fucking kid because they wake up early. And I'm looking at these people. Dude, if I had to be doing this, which is already hard, hungover, I don't know how they're doing. No. That's the times I felt the very most grateful. Can you imagine 5 a.m.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4878.913

waking up if you went to bed at 3?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4886.758

Well, Nikki, I had high hopes for this. I was quite confident this would be great, and it was way better than I even anticipated. Really? Oh, my God, that's so nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

489.394

Neither of us are monsters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4899.989

Well, this was a blast. I hope you'll come back. Oh, I really want to tell people, people should go see the Alive and Unwell tour. It's in the height of it right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

49.695

Our guest is Nikki Glaser. This couldn't have been more fun. I am so delighted that we decided to explore Nashville.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4910.639

And the theaters are all so beautiful, right? It's a special honor to be able to play at those places.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4920.828

And now you're adding dates, adding dates.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4954.258

You're doing like six Boston dates.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4959.164

They're almost all sold out. Yeah. So go to www.nikiglazer.com with an S and go quick because I was just there and so many of the shows are already sold out. Congratulations. You so deserve it. And I'm really happy for you and you're going to make so much money. And I hope you buy something obnoxious in St. Louis.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

4984.289

All right, Nikki, this was a blast. Come back. Stay tuned for the fact check so you can hear all the facts that were wrong. The current confusion, and I get it, but I feel like we've said it, which is like, why are Mondays now on video, right? Oh. And then I say, oh, we offer to the guest. If they're up for video, then that's fun. And then they go, well, you said it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5010.589

You wouldn't ever do that because it wouldn't be vulnerable. To which I reply, I did think that. And then we had Adam Scott on, and it was like one of the most beautiful, connected, vulnerable episodes. And I said, that's not true. I found that out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5059.091

That's right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5061.352

You're right. Should we get right into the Sim stuff?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5066.813

Yeah. Because it came up yesterday when we were doing intros.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5072.715

And we were mad we weren't recording the fact check because I had the ultimate Sim experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5078.806

Boy, I kind of want you to go first.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5082.19

Yeah. Well, just mine has a visual component.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5087.617

Your stories are also better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5090.539

They are. They're just so twisty and turny. Like, I never know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5093.64

As we've said, you're like the M. Night Shyamalan of just normal pedestrian life. Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5099.783

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5101.043

Seinfeld. Yeah, it's way more Seinfeld. I don't know where I just got it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5106.786

Until the last frame. That's right. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5126.065

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

514.787

Well, the two things I hope that got to you were, A, I thought you did a brilliant job. Thanks. You did such a good job. And your jokes were so fucking good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5165.908

Interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5169.61

In the driveway while he was visiting his daughter? That would be Sean Penn.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5202.129

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5208.193

That's pretty certain. We don't always know. We don't always know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5215.398

Yeah. Hurdle number two.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

522.879

It was like waves of relief.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5229.287

Yeah. Was he he or she joking or sincerely?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5237.615

Sure. Because it'll be funny anyways because we're doing this thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5246.581

No. I...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5253.822

This is a big challenge that the universe put.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5268.089

Go say hi is what it's telling. There's nothing to interpret here. This is as linear as it gets.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5278.435

And in person, did you get a PQ? Were you like, oh, wow. Yeah. In person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

530.316

I'm even self-conscious that when they go to her for her category, I'm like, this is such a rough look for me to just kind of be half in or out of the frame. Yeah, I'm like, should I bail out or should I commit fully? We're here together. I don't belong there. You know, all these thoughts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5328.895

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5340.064

And nervously. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5344.727

Oh, great. This is like the girl with the cowboy hat. I was trying to take Panay over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5354.154

To try to get a little attention. So that my pheromones could spread. I want to play like a dog wags its tail. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5385.095

I love looking at you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5396.821

At the tower, you couldn't get your bracelets on?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5401.163

There was nobody. You had a guy put them on you? There was no guy. Okay, we can't count that one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5409.548

Yeah, how many streetcars are you going to watch go by?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5413.69

You've got to get mad at yourself. That's a good motivator. Like, that's when you're fucking, I've had enough of this. I'm going to live my whole life like this? Fuck this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5423.616

Oh, geez. I thought this would take you into the 40s.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5443.849

But it's only going to give it's only going to try to help you so many times. Yes. If you don't want its help, it's going to stop a universe. You need to be way the fuck above four percent. I just as your friend, I need to yell at you a little bit. You need to be in the 48th. I'm going 82%. He knows you. You're a comedy girl. You got this popular podcast. We're on a very popular podcast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5465.841

That's why we're staying at this hotel, Mr. Customsman in India. Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5469.784

Yeah, it still haunts me. I'll think about that. That's like the Neff Campbell thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

547.777

I can't accomplish enough to not feel that way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5478.289

The Indian customs man. Oh, yeah. When he didn't believe I was staying at the nice hotel. And he wanted the first the phone number. Then he wanted the address. Then he wanted like, I don't know what he wanted. He did not believe that we were staying there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5490.463

I have a very popular phone. So, well, I'm one of the hosts of a very popular podcast and we're in town to interview Bill Gates. And I'm like, he didn't know what podcast was. He didn't know what popular was. And I don't think he knew what Bill Gates was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5504.331

It was a three strikes and you're out. We're so lucky I got let into that country.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5513.478

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5517.141

The next. Yeah. You got to listen, girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

552.682

I wanted to ask.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5521.502

He's at Maru a lot, too. Oh, my. Spray. He's probably a pervert. Probably wants you to shit on a glass. Rob, if you see him at Maru. Ask him if he likes girls to shit on a glass coffee table. And tell all your friends open to it as long as there's not been like 10 other people who have done it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5543.156

Well, you could be up to the third.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5547.262

Okay. You have standards. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5554.188

Okay. I pray that you think this is as insane as I do. So my friend Oliver apparently is in Toronto and he goes to a museum.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5563.575

And then he sends me these two photos from a museum.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5567.938

And I will explain to the listener. Oh! This is in a museum, and it is an Ames chair that was made between 1948 and 1950, designed between 1948 and 1950. It's called Dax Armchair, which Dax isn't a fucking word in 1948. Not only is it a Dax Armchair, it was designed at UCLA and manufactured in Michigan. Wow. Oh. Are you fucking Dax Armchair? Does that not zap your brain?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

558.188

But I almost wondered if you're relieved of it there. I feel like I could go to the Grammys and be fine. I don't belong there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5604.392

And that's not possible in a museum. Dax armchair. They should write fucking expert after it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5615.76

This is in a museum of an Eames chair. By the way, affordable. It was 20 bucks. It was meant to be a cheap. And we're cheap. Yes, I'm a cheap. I'm a cheapie. Dax armchair. Why did they use that word? That wasn't a word. That's not a name. It was made at UCLA and manufactured in Michigan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

564.193

It's the, I almost belong there. Do I don't?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5642.753

Dax armchair designed 1948 to 1950 by Charles Eames and Ray Eames. With staff of the engineering department, University of California, Los Angeles. This model made from 1955 to about 1972 by Herman Miller Furniture Co. Zeeland, Michigan. Molded polyester fiberglass composite steel rubber. I used to wear rubbers when I was single. That's a stretch. The chair design shared a second prize.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5674.245

Of course, I never win either. I never win. My birthday's the second. The chair design shared a second prize loser in the 1940 International Competition for Low Cost Furniture Design, sponsored by the Museum of Modern Art in New York City, one of my favorite cities. The DAX listed at about $20 each or $100 in modern terms.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

568.618

Sometimes I did belong here, but I don't think anymore.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5698.695

And the French name for it is Fatule Dax.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5704.697

Fatule Dax.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5706.717

Fatule Dax.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5709.538

Monica, would you agree this is fucking insane?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5714.059

Dax armchair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5717.24

For sure. 20 bucks. Who wouldn't?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5720.681

Oh, 100. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5722.86

I want to contact this museum and just sit next to it so people can crack up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5728.282

Toronto.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5729.983

That was my first place I ever went in a hot tub. The Harbor Castle. Family vacation. I read that in bed yesterday morning. Did you cry? I couldn't. I'm like, when is it too much? You would have cried, I think. I'll cry. Maybe I'll cry a bit tonight about it. You cried about everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

574.023

I don't belong. here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5746.384

I was just stunned. How crazy could it get before you have to go like, I don't understand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5772.062

Right. They'll get suspicious of us and start like hampering our speech. I'm shook by that. Yeah. And I must own it. It doesn't look terribly comfortable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5782.648

Yeah. What if I just couldn't? No matter what. It's round. I'm round. It has four legs. I do, too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5811.014

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5823.3

Like it's all going to be fine. Yeah. And it is all fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5829.022

I told you this about Laird Hamilton. Gabrielle said that he looks at her. She's like, I love his presence in my life because he's just unflappable. Right. And she said that once in a while when she's frazzled, he looks at her and he goes, it's going to be fine. It is fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5847.41

Yeah. Or it's going to be OK. It is OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5851.114

Right now it's OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5854.338

It's a very steadying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5862.788

Are you the friend in the strikes room where you did hypnosis?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5867.391

In the attic?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5868.972

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5875.095

That's right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5888.041

I used to do that. I don't do that. Never again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5891.726

I hate that sentence. I love it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5898.294

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

59.778

Our history. It was so fun. I really, really, really like her. She's a stand-up comedian, an actor, and a television host. Her credits include Nikki Glaser's Someday You'll Die. Great stand-up routine. FBoy Island. Welcome home, Nikki Glaser. Not safe with Nikki Glaser. Banging. And her tour. You can go see her right now. Live. She is coming by you. I've looked at the list. She's going everywhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5912.09

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5913.992

Yeah. My thing is to go like, what has been helpful to me is to go like, whatever, when I quit dip or any of the stuff I quit, which is all the time I go like, Oh my God, I want it. I want this so bad. And in 10 minutes, I won't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5931.55

It doesn't. For me, knowing, yes, this is an urge. It'll be passing. And then believe it or not, in 10 minutes, you won't be fighting this. It is very comforting to me. Because generally, when I get that strong compulsion to do something I don't want to do, My brain tells me I'm going to feel that way forever until I do the thing I want to do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

5990.62

I will say, though, that again, I don't I don't want to drink alcohol. Yeah. I really that that is a miracle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6001.905

That I was, as I say in the program, like relieved of the obsession. That was kind of unimaginable the first year. Yeah. I'm just going to fucking every time I walk by a bar for the rest of my life, I'm going to want to go inside and I got to talk myself out of not going inside for the rest of my life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6016.601

But I don't think about it ever. Yeah. I could be like surrounded by Jack Daniels bottles and it doesn't even, I'm just like, oh yeah, just like a wall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

602.173

actually get great at delineating the difference between an obligatory good job and the real one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6046.675

I love this episode. I got to say, I told her it was like we have these episodes every now and again. They really fill my tank up and they make me really, really excited for our job. Not that I ever don't like our job. I always like our job. Yeah. But sometimes I'm really turbocharged and I really hits me like, no, I love our job. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6067.495

To get to like have something in your head and then like work through it with the actual human being that you have access to that. And then they're so incredible and fun. Yeah. I just, I, let's put a real spring in my step this episode.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

607.958

And now your standard of what a real one is becomes preposterous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6084.133

Go ahead and brag. Not to brag. That's a sign of really good friends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6090.046

I think it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6099.931

Yeah. It was a big week for you. And hers was one of them. Yeah. And that was pretty cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6113.749

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6117.172

We had a, oh, right. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6123.036

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6127.159

Peed on her tree. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6130.881

The little animal you are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6133.863

That's a thing she does. It's a good luck thing for us. She does that at the end of every episode. Every single one, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

614.983

I want to send you at some point, someone sent me, it's great. It's from Garrison Keillor. And he talks about his faux humility, what a ruse it is. Because not only does he want people to talk about him and think about him, but he actually wants them to kneel and pray to him as a sun god. But that's really what his ego desires. You just need to be a sun god or not even play the game.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6142.034

That's wonderful because it quiets any voice in your head that she didn't want to give you your number.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6147.958

Because once in a while we exchange numbers with the guests.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6154.061

You've done like five times.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6160.931

Most of the time I want their number. Like I like them and I'd love to, at some point in my life, if I want to say hi to them, I want to be able to do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6170.9

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6174.844

Yeah. Cause I might want to say hi. I might see you in something and I want to be able to tell you I loved it or whatever it is, but it's perfect for you because you didn't, You didn't ask for it, and then she reached out to you. Yeah. We love her. We love her. We love her. We're the number one fans.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6195.796

Gracious loser face.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6198.578

Oh, why did they have to confront that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6203.02

Oh, he's not meant to name for a daytime drama. Soap opera. Soapy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6208.964

A sudsy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6215.014

And did he ever, I'm guessing he probably had a really preposterous look on his face. He got actually mad. Oh, he did. When he lost. When he lost. Yeah. Oh, that's great. Yeah. God, it's a good thing. I wish someone would do that. They're on their face and it's not their name and they go, fuck this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6230.76

And they stand up and walk out. That would be awesome. Like genuinely. And some of those people deserved it. Like some of these people have been nominated 15 fucking times in the same category and not one. Ugh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6243.874

Stop inviting me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6313.118

No, money.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6337.149

Yeah. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6343.103

Talk about baby girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6345.785

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6362.04

Yeah, yeah. We would have said in my era, a pretty boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6397.745

Yeah, this is like when you fell asleep during, or you shut without a pedal off, or you fell asleep. Took a shower in the middle. You took a shower. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6405.368

Yeah, I understand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6406.448

You timed it perfectly. You missed my racist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6414.17

I'll take a quick one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6440.294

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6445.657

What if she was coughed up a hairball? Like she got too into the role that she was hacking and stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6461.688

I wouldn't like tie me up. No, thank you. Handcuffs. No, thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6475.217

No, no, but it was, that was, I would say more like, two equals wrestling match.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6485.832

Like she was aggressive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6488.434

I was equally aggressive back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6491.096

Yeah. It was like, uh, but it was, there was no sub Don. No, she had a mat. She had a wrestling mask on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6503.883

Uh, have you ever been a sub? Yeah. Uh, No, I don't think so. Are you bringing up my molesting?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6516.183

No, I would never. The darker, the better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6531.338

Truly no shade to anyone. I've explored everything in my mind. Right. I'm like up for anything and everything. So I would try it. Yeah. I don't care. I would try that. If Kristen's like, I want to handcuff you and hit you with a fucking horse whip or whatever. I'd be like, yeah, okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6551.423

Yeah, great. I would do anything. There's nothing I want to do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6555.066

But when I imagine whether I'd be enjoying it or not, it's kind of hard for me to lock in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6562.732

All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6564.534

Baby girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6624.399

That's a strong apology.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6643.145

Oh, that's very sweet. That's as nice and repairing as a fucking thing can be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Nikki Glaser

6649.467

Aspirational.

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I'm doing all those tabulations, too. How exhausting.

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It's my foundation. Single mother, three kids. Everyone needs something. She doesn't have enough time. The way you showed people you love them is to never, ever, ever be a drain on them in any way whatsoever. The way you would show love is to be completely self-sufficient and never need anything from you. This is a big issue in my marriage, which is she likes acts of service.

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And I'm like me wanting you to do something for me to me reads as like, I don't even love you or value you. So I don't want to be a pain in the ass to anybody to a fault. Me needing things from you in favors. There's no way you would like me.

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Nor do they.

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They do.

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I like being asked.

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Listen, I don't want to pretend that I've made no movement on this. I have. It started in a personal capacity where I'm really spinning out about something. I'm just now learning to reach out to someone who's been through this and say like, hey, I'm going through this. What was your experience?

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It's a huge tour. It's called Alive and Unwell Tour. Go to NikkiGlazer.com for tickets.

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It's seen the magic trick a bit. You realize, oh, there isn't any pixie dust.

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Definitely musicians when they're doing their thing. And if you were watching the people in the room act, perhaps, but you're just seeing them not lit and not in a riveting drama. And they're just people.

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G-squared. Big event. That's right. Please enjoy Nikki Glazer.

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That Monica wrote.

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And by the way, he killed his close up. Kristen showed it to me. She's like, well, I mean, look at this. We did the same thing.

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I didn't know. I hope that got to you in our debrief as well, which is as I was listening to the monologue panic that I was going to get made fun of, I was doing a personal inventory and I was going, you have done this many times. I have been on Conan making fun of the cast of The Expendables because I had a movie coming out against them and they're easy targets and I can do all their accents.

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In retrospect, they were very successful. But he liked her.

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Stacked. Great with kids. Good dancer.

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Yes.

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And I only mean story because that was sixth grade.

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You know? I know. And so there was a lot of time after that. I can only assume this and backdate it because I've been around her all the time for eight years and I see a lot of guys like her and guys come to the show and hold up signs and people hit on her in front of me and I can see and she can't.

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I'm just saying that once that changes your point of view, it does become really hard to come back from that. I think the quintessential ingredient in that story, which makes it heartbreaking is he liked you and you liked him. And the friend was like, why don't you ask her out? You guys like each other.

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Yes. So then, yes, the story makes a ton of sense, which is, well, even if they like me, they're not going to. So I'm just turning off the whole thing because it's just going to be painful and hurtful and I'm going to protect myself. Anyways, I just think I know you miss it a lot. And I had a hunch maybe you missed it a lot.

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So perky.

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You would have blown her right off the hill at Barton Springs if you would have unleashed those suckers.

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They would have shut down the whole park.

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Really? It's right around the corner.

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Somehow you were getting even by doing that now. Warplug. We're just going to smear her name through the whole thing.

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No, we fight about it. I'll go, oh, that guy was hitting on you. And she'll go, no, he wasn't. He was saying blank. And then it's a fight. She's never gone, oh, really?

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Yeah. Both born deaf. Just a reminder.

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We'll think we're ugly.

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We'll try to get all the approval in the world. If everyone could line up neatly and just walk up to us and say, you're good. And then turn to the left. But then don't forget, you got to come back and say it again in 10 minutes. I probably won't believe it. 30 seconds after you left, it'll feel obligatory. In fact, if you could write it out, it'd be easier for me to...

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I know the ways of love, Monica.

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But at two in the morning. Okay, it's flirty time. He can get away with whatever he wants. He's probably just waking up. Actually, it's super flattering. It's the first thing he wanted to do. He can do whatever he wants.

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He asked for her number.

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When we were taking pictures, that's right. He asked for her number. And Dax's. Both of ours. And then I walked him out and he said, Monica's so cool. That means... Yeah, he's like telling me like, hey, Monica's so cool. How long have you guys known each other? Like, he wants to know more about Monica.

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Then he texts her after the episode came out. Now, he has ghosted her. He has ghosted her.

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Was he like, you up? Me and Letterman are just hanging.

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He has ghosted her for sure. But there's another thing going on, which is there's also a reality of the world. This guy is very popular right now. He's traveling all around and a lot of girls like him. And he probably likes several girls. And so, yeah, he probably has his hands full and he ghosted Monica. But I still maintain he liked her and he did reach out to her and he did ask for her number.

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And to say that this young dude with every option in the world is like a great pursuer of things, I'm not making that argument. And he probably is distracted by all kinds of hot comedy dong right now.

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Well, I know, but like... Listen, I've never been anywhere in my life and then randomly met someone and then decided to get their number and then text them because I want to be friends with a stranger. He liked you.

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That's the only text, actually. There's one button now on younger people's phone, and it's just one button that says you up. Ooh, great idea.

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No, Monica. That's not the right lesson.

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But again, there is a reality that this person has been out of town virtually since we met him. And he's being nominated for everything. And there are a lot of girls, I'm sure, in his sphere.

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All that's not good, but it does not say that he didn't actually like her.

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Yes.

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Yeah. I'm going to also say it was compounded by you're in L.A. at Crossroads. Some of the white people that are relative to you are like princesses on planet Earth. It's not even just like you're rummaging around my hometown in Michigan. It's pretty extreme.

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My breath went away because I heard you were in love with Dax first came out.

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I do.

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You guys, both of you.

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You guys are the smartest and dumbest fucking people I've ever met. Monica, can you look at my angle? Of course anyone would be in love with her. Duh. And then, Maya, can you look at Monica and go like, of course.

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Maya just threw her hands in the air like, is that a gospel?

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There's just some opaqueness.

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Yeah. God, again, I'm not sure I believe you entirely, but I think probably 80%.

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There isn't. I'd have to be around you in some blowhard jock to see.

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Yeah, yeah. You've not really been single much in your life.

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Don't know where this dong ends and that one begins. I mean, endless dong. Same time.

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It's quite beautiful.

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I look forward to it.

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Yes. You're so right to be upset. And also, you've got to consider the source sometimes. It's like, you're, like, giving these dumb 20-year-old people that are drunk some kind of wisdom they don't have. I know, but they're running the world. He's swinging for the fences.

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Let me just say, like, you're assuming he really thinks that. And then I'm going, like, on the walk up to you, he's, like, he's running through ideas. I'm going to say, hey, sexy mama. No, hey, chicky mama. Ew. Oh, wild woman. Again, butthole is tight.

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Yeah. You just don't even know what he was cycling through before he landed. That's a zero.

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From 736 with Bobby Lee.

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I'll try to do a medium version. I had broken my arm. I had a prescription for Vicodin and Kristen handed them out to me. And I decided I would not take those when I traveled back to Detroit because I was going to see my dad who was dying of cancer and she wouldn't be there to administer the Vicodin. So while I was with my dad and he had all these Percocets, I said, you know what?

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I have a prescription for Vicodin at home. I'm going to take some of these Percocets. Makes sense. That was eight years into being sober. I had a total meltdown. Kristen ended up coming to Detroit and surprising me. Did he pass? Two months later, he did.

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But again, here's the thing where like when I read about you and your dad and your recent relapse, it's like I would have told you I'm handling that whole experience fine. I'm flying home once a week to deal with his thing. The room's full of AA people. I would tell you that it wasn't really having an impact on me, but I did that thing. And no one will like this.

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My dad and I did sit in his living room, looking out over the lake. And we were both on Percocet and we're both sober. I don't hate that I had that moment with my dad. I'd never party with my dad. But we were both just kind of sitting there enjoying the thing. Next day, I'm overwhelmed with guilt and fear. Oh my God, I've relapsed. I'm going to have to reset my day. Kristen comes in.

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I confessed to her what I did. I took this and I wasn't prescribed that and blah, blah, blah. And she's like, look, it's fine. You're here. I have that prescription. You're not going to do it again. And you keep it moving. And I was like, okay. And I kept it moving. But that was almost like when those owls that the falconer flies, they're only supposed to eat the food from the trainer.

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If they catch a mouse one time, danger. They're gonna wanna hunt again. Because I had that experience and really it was fine. And opiates were never really my thing. Over the years, I break a lot of stuff. And when I would use opiates, I was tricky. So she would administer them, but I also would maybe not take them at night so I could save up.

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And in the morning I could take three times the dosage. So we're in a very gray area sporadically for several years. I certainly don't think I need to come in and say I need a new date, but I'm also being a little tricky when I have them prescribed. Okay. Then, in rapid order, I break my hand, all the bones across it. I get all these pins in it.

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Wait, wait, why are you breaking your arms or your hands?

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I'm into motorcycle racing, off-road stuff. Stop doing that! No, we're going Monday. All right. So I get all these pins and then I get a pretty healthy dose of real good opiates for a while. Almost immediately after I shatter my shoulder, my ribs, my thing on a motorcycle. Now I have multiple surgeries. Now I'm on a lot of opiates.

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What was very misleading about the opiates compared to the other stuff is like, if I drink, you will know in one second. Because the second I'm drunk, I'm gonna get coke. And when I get coke, I do it for three days. There's no version where I don't do it for three days. There'd be no hiding. In the most conventional sense, it's unmanageable. This was very weird. I'm on opiates.

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I'm still doing the podcast. I'm still very responsive and present with my family. And I'm going, this is weird. This isn't very unmanageable. This is fine. Other than I know... You have to keep upping your dosage because you get used to it so quickly. Like, I'm not dumb. I know that that's an issue. At this point in your mind, did you know you relapsed?

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I think I still had plausible deniability at that point. I wasn't ready to accept that. It was when I started buying them illegally. I was like, okay, now we're definitely doing something. And then that lasted for a couple months. And then I decided I have to quit and I started to try to do it on my own. And then I was visibly going through detoxes and then I copped to the whole thing. Wow.

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You already fucked up on Mad TV. You got sober again. And now you have 17 years again.

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2021? November 2021. I thought it was- It was Thanksgiving.

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I think a lot of people who have relapsed will relate to this. You're distracted at first with the thought of just making sure no one knows. You forget that you didn't ever get sober for anyone else. You got sober because you were miserable. But at some point in sobriety, I started telling myself this thought.

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Well, if no one knows, and I'm focused on them, and then again, deciding to ignore like, well, I know, and I can't really live that way. First thought is, can I get away with it? But you ignore the fact that like, you know.

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You know now. Yeah. And I was sad and missed that purity I felt. That first eight years, there was nothing on my report card that you could have said was tricky. And then I had several years of just that was in the back of my mind. I still only had them when they were prescribed to me. All these other ways I would justify it.

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But it never had that super clean feeling that those first eight years had.

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I know. When you have those days, you're like, why don't I recognize I am so much happier this way? Yeah, I know.

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Yeah. When you go like, I don't need anything to feel okay is the most miraculous feeling you can have. It's amazing. Because you really, for so much of your life, you can't feel okay without something.

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From 748 with Babers, a.k.a. Amy Poehler. This was going to be one of my questions and much later, but I feel like every time I do bump into you, you and I are on a similar self-exploration path. Or maybe you'll bring up something you've been mulling around and I'll think, oh yeah, that's really fun to think about. I'm going to try that.

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I was wondering, we have our story and our story explains why we are the way we are. It's so comforting, right? I can see you rolling around and frolicking in the story. And then this kind of disruptive thing happens where you have children. And one of my two children's, Lincoln, she has all the shit I have without any of the reasons I gave myself for being this way.

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And I'm more and more having to maybe consider like, oh, no, man, it was all genetics. The story is just something you've put on top of it. And I'm just curious if you've had that experience with kids and if it's like poked holes at all in your story.

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And an embarrassment, right?

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Oh, that's fun.

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Well, you have one that produces great results. This was another one of my highlighted words I just wanted to talk about was performative.

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As a concept. Let me back up. You're in therapy, I imagine?

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Yeah.

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Yes, and you and I, this is where we diverge a little bit. We do have different comfort levels with that aspect. We do. And I guess probably my explanation, my story is AA for 20 years. I think I'm so used to fucking strangers are there and I'm talking about shitting the bed in an orgy and we move on and I live...

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I know you referenced TikTok in an interview. I love TikTok.

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Babers, you're emotional about being known. I can relate. Is part of it to be known, but also to know yourself? Or do you feel like you 100% know yourself?

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Our mothers. Of course our mothers. We're like our mother's husbands. Yes. And we are the golden child.

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This is an impossible gap because really within four years you go from a refugee camp to starring in the biggest movie of the year with the biggest movie star by the biggest director of all time. This is really not a possible experience. How do we get from newly into the States to getting in that movie?

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That was going to be minimally president.

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If I were you, I would actually think, this can't be reality.

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Okay, so you didn't, were you like a glass clown-y a little bit? I wasn't.

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I'm writing this memoir. Doesn't need to be published. I'm writing it so I can get that version that I'm so afraid to lose out of my head. It'll be there. If I ever want to revisit it, it'll exist. That's my action of letting it go. Wow. There's the story I've been telling for my whole life. And now we're going to just set that over there.

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It's obvious how desperate they were that they were going to random elementary schools.

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Especially for a movie of this size.

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Okay, so you're barking orders at your brother, which is hysterical. And I can see why she or he would have seen, oh, this is what we need. This is a little guy who's running the show.

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And Short Round was a total survivor. I was precocious.

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You then auditioned.

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It's hard.

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You're just making a series of sounds.

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Guys, this is not. I know, I know. I'm trying to imagine what the fuck your parents. And they're having the same grapple with reality, too. It's like, what is my life? These people are calling to bring my child with a driver. I mean, they must have just been trying to compute what the fuck was going on. Maybe even also scared.

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Thank God, actually.

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Because you would have maybe felt a lot of pressure if you knew who Spielberg was.

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Of all time, yeah. Yeah, yeah. And written by Lawrence Kasdan. I mean, impossible. One of the greatest writers of all time. Okay, so you go in there and clearly you charm them in that audition. Where was it filmed?

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And maybe my dad was a beautiful guy and maybe he was a loving human. Well, and also like physically nurturing. A hugger and a kisser. Who got that in the 80s? All this new information's coming in that's like, meh. And my mom, I love her to death. She's also not the angel she was in my story. That's right. Nor should she be, and that's my fault.

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They're serving you Coca-Colas and nuts and all this. Sundays. And what's mom thinking? How's mom explaining this to you? Because you're probably looking at her like, how is this happening? She doesn't know, but she's got to give you an answer.

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It must have been an insane amount of money relative to what they were making then. by working.

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I don't love best because, you know, there were so many we loved.

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Again, the range of luck you have. You've got like the worst luck and the greatest luck all within a span of four years.

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They should make a movie about your life. They really should. I want to watch this movie. I want to see a little boy experience all this.

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They were so generous. Lucas had done that, too, with the Star Wars cast.

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But everyone in Star Wars was also a no-name actor, and he gave them some of the toy rights.

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No, you got to say no and walk away five or six times.

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It was out of their generosity. Okay, so again, you have no awareness of who Harrison Ford is either at this point. So you arrive in Sri Lanka and you start working with him immediately?

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And is he intimidating? He is a very big man with a husky voice.

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And playful.

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It's not her responsibility. Yeah, I have no resentment over it. It's just like, wow, I had a really clean story.

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I guess I have such distrust of anything good. That I would have had a hard time that whole experience accepting it was real. I would keep waiting to almost wake up.

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The star will teach me how to swim.

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You have 200 days to shoot.

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It's crazy how good you are in the movie having never done it.

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Which again, let's be honest, is just another one. Yes. I might reject the notion that there's a real one. It's just, there's all this data. It's just infinite data of your childhood. Well, it's all a story we're telling ourselves.

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Oh, they must have all loved you.

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From 798 with Halle Berry.

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I've heard it.

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I believe you. I've perpetuated that. Can I tell you that? I know, I'm so sorry. I've heard it too. Do you know the other one?

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Angel Hart, Mickey Rourke, and Lisa Bonet.

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Okay, great. Now, if we take you out of it, can we take you out of it for one second? No, because I'm in it. You cannot take me out of it. We're going to take you out of it for one second.

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Here's why those things are so sticky and enjoyable. Because... The love of my life was Lisa Bonet. She is the number one most beautiful human to ever walk on planet Earth. Mickey Rourke was the stud of all studs. If you were a white dude, that's about as good as it got. You looked at him in nine and a half weeks in Diner. He was so fucking cool. So I'm seeing this dude I would love to be.

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He's with this woman that's the most beautiful of all time. And you're like, they really fucked. You're like, yes, I'm so happy for both of them. The two hottest people did it.

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I have no idea.

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I don't know. That's even heightens the craziness.

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But you've heard it too.

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Okay, well, I'm glad we cleared it up. I've heard many rumors, yes. Have you heard that I've said it? When it comes up, I'll tell the alleged one. Have you said it? Well, I've said the alleged ones, just like I said the alleged angel heart, which you heard.

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I'll say, you know what, guys? I've got proof. That one, unfortunately, is not true.

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The guy with the sexiest eyes in the world and the other most beautiful person in the world didn't actually have sex.

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Oh, those are rumors too? Those are rumors too. I don't know those ones.

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Well, interesting. Okay.

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I don't even know what I was basing it on. It looked so real it had to be real. I just want to be clear.

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Just that would be awesome. I'd be happy for both of you.

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Yes, I would be so happy for Lisa Bonet and Mickey Rourke if that really happened.

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She's pretty cool, but yeah. She ain't signing off on that. And I'm a girl's girl.

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Things were wild.

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You're right. You're right.

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I have not been objectified. So I really can't probably. But I'm trying to imagine if there was a rumor about me and one of my co-stars that had actual sex in a scene, how I would feel about it.

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And it's more just like these are the ones that happened to make it of the many we loved.

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I don't like that at all, for the record. And I very much apologize for any time I did bring up allegedly this is part of the law. Sorry.

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I stopped doing print entirely interviews because... I did an interview in Playboy magazine and you have to know I was so excited about that. I had read all the Playboy magazine interviews. They were my favorite. Like anytime you really wanted to get to know somebody, it was in there, right? And they asked me and I was so excited.

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And in real life, the interviewer said, you've been linked to several famous ladies. What's the magic something? Let's just say that. I can't even remember the particulars. I go on to try to give an Answer that doesn't make me seem like a fucking douchebag It comes out in the question in print says you've been linked to a lot of famous ladies lists three people

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That he did not list in his question. I had not even met these three people. But if you go to this website, who's dated who, it says I dated these people. I've never met the people. So now I'm like, these fucking women think I was asked that and didn't immediately correct him and go, no, no, I've never even met those people. Oh, they hate you. Of course they should. Where's your integrity?

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Like you can't add names. That was so shady. I'm never doing that again.

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the filter of their own person.

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The story they already had in their head about you, whether you fit into it or not.

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I think that's why this is the antidote to that. It's you. And I'll go anywhere and speak in my own voice. I'm happy to.

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Yeah, like I'm saying it's great that Steven Seagal has a reggae album, but my voice is telling you I don't really think it's great.

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I hope it was clear. I don't think that's a great move.

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I agree. In the same way, social media for all of its isms and ales, it has killed paparazzi. And you and I were unified on that. Oh, I'm going to throw one thing in the mix right now. You and I were almost in a movie together.

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Well, you were almost in Wanted. I was. And I was almost in Wanted. Really? I almost got the James McAvoy role. He had fallen out and they started meeting people. And I met Timur, that interesting Russian dude, which I assume you met him too. And Angie had fallen out or maybe you were, whatever order. There could have been a version of Wanted with you and I.

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Yes. I think James McAvoy is much better than I am, but just for the record. But can you imagine? That would be freaky if we had been in Wanted. That was a very successful film. I know.

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Yeah.

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No way. Good for you.

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Well, You already know it, you fucking won the Academy Award for it, but boy, I love Monster's Ball. You're so impossibly great in it. I'm gonna bring up Catwomen, women, woman, only for a single reason, which is, I think this is the most gangster move ever. You cat women. Why can't I say women?

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There's cat women. It's a Freudian slip. You do cat woman. You win a Razzie and you go accept it and you bring with you in your hand your Oscar.

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And you hold the Razzie in one hand and the Oscar in the other. And I'm like, that's cooler than you having fucked Billy Bob Thornton as legend.

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Do you have to work your way up to that decision or you immediately know, fuck it, I'm going to go do this?

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It totally makes sense. For me, I guess the thing I try to be critical of is the story is immaterial. Is the story serving to either excuse my character defects, justify me getting the things I want? Or somehow setting up a situation where you'll be even more impressed by me because you know the story.

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It's just so confident and attractive. It is. It's so cool.

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What speech was better? The Oscar speech or the Razzies speech? You left me like, fuck, I kind of.

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But now I'm sisters with you in this.

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Yeah. Were you the first black actor to win a Razzie?

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Probably.

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From 771 with Jack Blackham. Okay, so who breaks out the blotter or the devil's dander first? I was introduced...

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To LSD, I guess I was maybe 14 or maybe 13. It was a friend of mine.

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I'm not looking for a name. I'm just curious. Were you hanging with a 26-year-old dude that was a tradesman? He was older.

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I did look up to him like a big brother figure. I had a thing where I wanted a father figure, even though I had a great dad, but I wanted the dark dad. I wanted the one that was going to show me the ways of the dark side. Sure. And this guy filled in that role.

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We did Acid, and I remember that night laughing as hard as I'd ever laughed and having this strange feeling of being whole for the first time. And suddenly this big, dark, mysterious universe that I didn't know how I fit into, it all felt right. Laughing till I cried and having... kind of a weird spiritual experience.

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But then it led to the darkest day or night of my life where it wouldn't stop and it stopped being fun. And it was so bad that I was locked in this insane brain prison where all I could see was chess pieces going off into infinity, playing a game with myself. And I had this terror that I was never going to break free of it.

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And it was like, as good as that first hour and a half was, it wasn't worth it. And thank God I made it through the night. I don't think I slept a minute.

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Once the thought enters your mind, this may be permanent. The second you have that, you're fucking cooked for hours. Yeah. You're like, oh, shit. You're remembering stories you heard growing up of like, you know, Mike Benner. I saw him at the gas station. He's been tripping for four years. You have this one story and you're like, oh, wow, this is happening to me. I'm going to be him.

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I might have done it again after that.

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Here's some highlights. So please enjoy Best of Mondays.

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Why? I think I got some bad acid. That's what I heard. Sometimes you get the bad one. There was a few hallucinogenic experiences, mushrooms and acid.

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But coke, now that's a sexy dance partner.

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Well, I was just down to clown with anything that my big bro or my crew of heavy metal maniacs were into at the time. It wasn't a gang, but it was like a brotherhood. There was some coke. You know, when you first take it, there's an initial rush and a feeling. It's similar in that a doorway opens in your brain and you're like, I fucking get it now.

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So if the story has these kind of like self-serving gross motives, which most of my story does, I'm trying to self-aggrandize myself and seem like a victim and a victor at the same time. When I recognize that that's actually the purpose of the story, I think that's more what I'm currently honed in on. I could also tell that I had the luckiest childhood that anyone's ever had.

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And I have a lot of brilliant things to say really fast. And you go for hours and hours and you say some things where you're talking about love and you're talking about connections and you're talking about things in the future that you're going to do. And it's in retrospect, so embarrassing. It is.

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Thank God there was no recording, but it actually would have been nice if someone had recorded it just to play back as a cautionary tale. of how ridiculous you can sound.

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I witnessed myself a single time I had been recorded by my girlfriend, and it's a bummer. I mean, I think that might be the lowest feeling I've had, is looking at my face and going, how I thought I was coming across versus what I'm seeing now, what a gap. But I would say the thing I liked about it most is I'm not optimistic. I'm very pessimistic.

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Couple toots of that stuff, and I'm like, you know what? Everything is going to work out.

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I got spiritual. I like talking about God and stuff that I don't usually talk about. And I don't really feel a connection to. I'm definitely leaning atheist. But for some reason, once I get all coked up or whatever the drug may be.

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There's a version that brings out a nice side of yourself, which is like, I'm so interested in whoever I'm talking to. Someone will be telling me that their father was a firefighter. And I'm like, wait a minute. And this is sincere. I'm like, oh my God. So your dad was like... Like a firefighter? Yeah. And I'm in it. This guy's dad was a hero. Tell me more.

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And I want to know about the movie of their life where their hero dad was.

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Imagine it squared. Seems intense.

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It gives you a brief energy that lets you delve deeper than you normally would with other people. Maybe that's why Freud supposedly used it a lot in sessions. Oh, yeah. So that they could go deeper than they usually would about themselves and about the nooks and crannies of their personality.

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Was the move to crosswords crossroads? Crosswords. We should open a competing school across the street called Crosswords. Yeah. But were your parents sensing we need to put him somewhere else and get him out of this crew?

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Yeah. But in the midst of all of that turmoil and darkness, there was someone from the crew. This dude was into this. This person who we had all met when we got on a bus and went to the arcade in Westwood. It was called Westworld. Back when arcades were a thing. Play your favorite tabletop video games. And we met these girls and we both fell for the same girl.

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And he kind of called dibs or whatever. And I was like, dibs? Mibs. And then... I started a romance on the side and he didn't know. And then when he found out, he wanted to kill me. And then he did beat the shit out of me. It wasn't over yet. There was going to be some more ass kicking. My parents just noticed that shit was going sideways. And they're like, we got to get you the fuck out of there.

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And I was like, yeah, I agree. I don't want to be here anymore. Were you so relieved because you maybe wouldn't have sent up the white flag? I don't know what would have happened there. So I went to this little tiny school called Poseidon that was on Pico between Bundy and Barrington. It's not there anymore.

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And it was a school with a lot of kids that had been kicked out of their schools from all over the city. And it was kind of a last chance kind of school. Yeah, it was the Island of Broken Toys. Yeah. Misfit Island. But it had some great teachers in it. There was a theater teacher named Deb Devine.

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There's enough data points for me to point to these.

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who I latched onto, and she taught us all improvisation games and viola-spoling games and got us all thinking about telling stories. And it was kind of like theater therapy. You could work out some of your demons by playing roles and just coming off the top of your head with shit you're going to say to the other person in the scene. It was kind of... Amazing.

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And she is still a great theater force in Los Angeles. She's got a theater called 21st Street Theater here in downtown LA. She has outreach programs to kids all over the city who come and learn theater. She's an awesome lady. That's so cool. Yeah. There was also like a therapist in the school. There's only like 20 kids in the school, but the therapist was a bodybuilder also. Oh, wonderful.

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Because sometimes he would have to defend himself. There's some rough characters at this school.

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Yeah. Were there smoking breaks built in? I'm being sincere. There was smoking. And there was kids going in to see him and talk to him. And I was like, what's going on in there? Because there were some kids that it was compulsory. They had to go talk to the therapist a certain amount of times a week. And I was not in that group. And I was jealous.

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I was like, I want to talk to the muscle building therapist.

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Yeah.

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I talked to him just on the side. I was like, how do you get into there? It's like, you can come in if you want. You want to set an appointment? I was like, yeah. And I went in there. I just wanted to see what was going on in here. And we got to talking.

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And then it only took me about a minute before I started spilling my guts about how I had stolen money from my mom and all the shit that I was carrying around, how guilty I was. Doing drugs. The drugs, but mainly the betrayal of my mom, who just was an unconditional love for me. And she didn't know that I had stolen money to get the drugs. And I just bawled my eyes out. I cried.

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cried so hard and it felt so good because I grew up with a Jewish upbringing and I learned a lot of my value system there, but I didn't have confessional. And there was something about just sitting there with this therapist and just confessing my sins or whatever you want to call it, my guilt, that felt so cleansing.

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I saw him for the next year once a week and it was like a major turning point for me.

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Yeah, that's really lucky. from 786 with Vince Vaughn. You guys did couples retreat and I was there just hanging for like the whole six weeks. We were friendly to each other, but in my mind, we took a flight during the press tour and you and I were the only people that didn't fall asleep. We were flying to like Australia. I remember it. And we're chatting, chatting, chatting, and it's fine.

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We're both awake. And then at some point I talk about being in the learning disabled room. And I feel like I saw a whole new version of you come online, and you and I just really got into what it was like to get called out of the classroom and go down to that room.

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Oh, sure, sure, sure. Did you love that movie?

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Do you see how that's splitting right there? Yeah. That varies in how split it goes down. See, mine's beautiful.

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I guess I had a hard time resisting a joke and sitting still. But anyway. Were you also way too big?

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Your bedroom is your bed, your shitter, your mother. Ha ha.

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Oh, ruined. I would imagine through different interviews and even the notion that you had loved the Stephen King book you loved as a kid. Rage. Yeah. I saw kids get literally destroyed. There's no going past what happened to them in junior high and high school through bullying and the horror that can be. I just saw kids get fucking ground up and destroyed and had so much. sympathy for them.

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It broke my heart. It was all around.

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I just was part of who I was. But I also think you hit it on the head earlier, which is you were giving people what you wanted. Was there an inciting incident other than that experience, which is profound? I kind of belong there. I couldn't read. I didn't learn to read till fifth grade, right? I have dyslexia. And those hieroglyphics, it's really nuts what that looks like to me. I got over it.

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It's fine. And I agree. I'm glad I had the whole journey. And then figuring out I was good at some things was like, what a gust of wind in the sails. We're like, Oh my God, I'm good at math. Oh my God, I'm not fucking stupid. I thought I wasn't stupid. When I'm talking to dudes on the playground, I'm verbally advanced. Why is it I'm so stupid here? Yet I'm out on the playground. I'm so confused.

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Did you feel stupid or you knew you were bright? Well, I felt like as soon as you sat in that desk and they started writing on the chalkboard, I'm like, I'm out to sea and it's compounding daily. And now we're another step down the path. And at some point I threw in the towel. I'm like, yeah, I'm not going to get this. I just have to act like I'm paying attention.

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Yes.

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Yeah, and then DAX, and there was someone holding a slip, and then I'd leave the classroom, and then I'd go to that room with everyone.

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I got blessed in that my mom, luckily for me, thought I was a genius. She's like, yeah, I don't know what to say about this report card, but I know this kid's a genius. So she didn't sweat me. We were fortunate to have belief in us. Yes, yes, yes, yes.

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Well, and Bradley, that's why work is so appealing to us is that you have all the evidence of adulthood through work.

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Yeah, and they get destroyed. From 696 with Heidi Klum. Okay, you've talked too much about it, but I just have a specific question about it. And that is Halloween. So do you already know this about Heidi that she goes so hard for Halloween? Probably harder than anyone in the world.

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It'll be part of the fun of the reality show.

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Listen.

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Okay.

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Yeah, and grownups execute.

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I hate to say this. There will be some listeners that, like Monica, haven't seen the Halloween costumes. I learned of it today. Monica, whatever you're imagining, you have to times it by 10. So she went as whatever she called it, a rainworm. It looks like a fucking intestine.

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A rainworm. Okay.

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Or like the lower GI. That is also what a worm looks like. She is in this like nine foot long fucking...

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It looks like an intestine. Her face is gone. There's no face. She's gone. Her eyes are poking through.

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Boom.

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But by the way, they wouldn't even know if you were looking over there. I don't want to suffocate. She's gone in this costume, Monica. You can't see her. Do you see it? When I tell you that this costume is as complicated as the Jabba the Hutt costume in Star Wars, it's that level of prosthetic and insanity. Look at her face. Try to find her face.

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Now that we know what you're doing, so we know that the one costume that's going is 95, and you looked like... You're saying a rainworm. I think it happens to look like intestines. Do you think that looks like intestines?

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Yeah. But it's a rainworm.

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No, it's great.

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No one says rainworm. What is it? You would just say worm, right? You're talking about the worm that is just in the grass.

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There certainly are.

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I think in America we don't have that. They come out of the grass and the soil. No, normal worms. Yeah, normal worms, they come up. And if we want to talk about a different worm. It's not a maggot. Right, but we would say maggot.

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What I'm telling you is no one would call a maggot a worm. You don't need to differentiate.

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Yes. It went on.

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Here it's just warm. I love this. That's standard, what you were.

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It's very cute that you're doing it.

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Now that we've been brought up to speed about these Halloween costumes, my question is, many, many women on Halloween like to- Dress as a nurse. Well, they like to express a sexiness that they don't otherwise get to do in real life. And I think it's very telling that you went as a forgive me, an intestine and a 95 year old woman.

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From 707 with Goldie Hawn. Do you know Esther Perel? Do you know that therapist?

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And my question is, do you think it's because you've had your fill of being sexy and that now it's like, let's go be a rainworm?

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You did.

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thing Kristen's so celebrated for being beautiful that she does things that are so gross that only she would really be comfortable doing like she'll wear a bald cap and she looks insane or she has a bathing suit that looks like a man's hairy chest and it's so gross

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She has this really cool, maybe it's not proprietary to her, but she deals a lot with people who have had infidelity. And a point she makes, which I think is so profound, is quite often you think your partner cheated on you with another person because they liked that person. But in truth, they missed a version of themselves. that that person allows them to access.

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Well, what I like is this reinforces the point you made a few minutes ago, which is like you just pursue stuff because you pursue them. Sometimes they generate money. Sometimes they don't. This is obviously a humongous expense for you to do this. And you're not going to get any money back from doing that.

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And you always have something to talk about on a talk show in a pinch. All you got to do is flash that fucking picture and you got like six minutes right there.

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When do you start planning? Now. Good question. Now.

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And she has Questlove.

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It is.

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You're inspiring them.

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I can imagine this party, no one can move, no one's arms work, people are falling down staircases. No, my husband... Just a shit show. My husband was a gigantic egg because... This is like a Black Mirror episode in a way.

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No one there is going to be a ornithologist and call you out on this.

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And I find that so much more compassionate and relatable. That's actually more about, I miss a version of me. This person gives me that version of me. It's not really about this person.

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a single identity between the two of you.

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Right. Or if I take a little zip around, I'll probably return to the cage.

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I'll come back. Yes, yes.

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Well, I did think one thing I was listening to, A, and I love this about you, and now we're to the point where I think the yin and yang is really fascinating. And again, I am in a yin and yang. I am very much the Kurt and she's very much like you. I identify deeply with this companion.

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Who knows what all happened on that Valentine's Day in 1981, 83. I was thinking, and A, I just like that you're so honest about that. There's phases and there's twists and turns and you both are in stages. I was thinking when I was hearing you talk about it, I almost would guess if you guys had gotten married, you actually wouldn't be together now.

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That in some of the phases you would have had to sever that thing and then coming back together or finding peace would have been a whole other weird thing because it's all been framed differently. Like I almost can imagine that you wouldn't have made it 41 years if you had gotten married.

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I feel blessed to be with him.

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Let's be honest about who you picked and who he picked.

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Yeah, he's a wild dude.

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Yes. How many times? Yes. Because you're married and you go like, can I live this way for the rest of my life, which I've already signed up for? No, I don't want to live this way for the rest of my life. That's why I think it could have potentially ended.

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This is an outside guess. And we interview a lot of powerful women. And there seems to be a pretty common pattern where men are very attracted to the powerful woman. They're dazzled by the powerful woman. And then once they're a partner with the powerful woman, they then want her to now end that.

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And so a lot of women who are successful, I have such great sympathy for because they either have to get a fucking golden retriever who's not challenging, isn't rewarding, isn't going to

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really be a partner building shit that's just going along for the ride or an equal that's going to get jealous of the attention they receive and the money they make and so unfortunately i think for women as successful as you it's such a narrow field of men that's an equal yet is confident enough to let you shine that's my guess of why kurt has been in the picture for 41 years this motherfucker somehow has a confidence that he is not threatened by your shine right he's not

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From 728 with Maya Rudolph. Probably so many of these men that you've been comedically involved with were in love with you. How did you manage all that?

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But Maya, you're so beautiful and you're so talented. It's crazy.

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Okay. For how long?

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Yeah. Which isn't legendarily great dong. No, it's not. It's actually kind of known to be pretty bad dong. It's like dark.

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Heavy use of substances, sloppy.

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That mediocre. Yeah.

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On that flaccid dong.

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I also think you might not know that guys like you is my hunch, too.

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Right. A little bit of Monica-isms.

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I didn't know that. Right. Same over here.

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So that's, yeah, your story, I think. Monica has a story too.

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I had a hunch. And by the way, all of it's built on a single, well, I don't want to diminish it. It is built largely on one very profound experience.

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But the world was caught up to you.

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37.

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In this dimension.

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Monica Lewinsky Returns

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Okay, wait, what's this spray stuff? I'm just curious. Oh, interesting.

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Monica Lewinsky Returns

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Okay.

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Jesus Christ.

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807?

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Yeah.

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Michelle Williams

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dak Shepard. You know, I saw a comment. I said Dan Shepard, as I do often.

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Michelle Williams

1063.475

Oh, even better. You see like up in Sweden and stuff, they leave their babies outside in the pram in the cold. They're going to the store. There's just babies lined up.

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Michelle Williams

1080.263

Yeah, exactly. We should raise some children in a commune. I think we're in lockstep.

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Michelle Williams

1088.606

Okay, so you moved to San Diego when you're nine. Why did we move to San Diego?

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Michelle Williams

1094.607

Okay, had enough of those winters.

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Michelle Williams

1104.835

And how did you take to San Diego? That's a big cultural shift.

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Michelle Williams

1135.279

I've gotten cold in my whole day.

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Michelle Williams

1141.403

So I'm going to go by the lore. Some of this might be apocryphal, but you see The Adventures of Tom Sawyer. You see that play and you're intrigued.

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Michelle Williams

1172.305

That's interesting that you saw that first.

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Michelle Williams

1190.023

Yeah, the combined goal, all the business that goes into it.

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Michelle Williams

1223.488

Because Annie was your first thing.

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Michelle Williams

1227.151

I think Annie's a gateway drug.

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Michelle Williams

1229.872

Because my daughter's about to do it in a month and our other friend's kid is currently doing Annie at the same time.

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Michelle Williams

1243.402

Yeah, did you want to be a singer?

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Michelle Williams

1248.086

But were you good at singing or dancing?

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Michelle Williams

1259.134

You sang as Marilyn.

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Michelle Williams

1296.153

But do we think that could extend to some other things like comedy? I don't think you can train yourself from a three to...

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Michelle Williams

1305.902

Right. You have some anatomy that's going to live. Exactly. You have to have a range. Yes, that's it.

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Michelle Williams

1314.571

See, that's the thing. I think there's an archetype of the brain that is similar.

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Michelle Williams

1323.06

It's never too late to be a great comedian.

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Michelle Williams

1330.344

You learn some tricks.

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Michelle Williams

1334.345

I need to admit something to you. I don't know that I've ever done this, but you make me really nervous.

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Michelle Williams

1339.587

What? I think it's a good feeling, though. It's a good kind of nervous, but I don't really get nervous and I can feel nervousness in my body.

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Michelle Williams

1349.07

Yeah, yeah. I was just wondering.

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Michelle Williams

1354.071

It's like kind of maniacal. It's so cute and scary.

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Michelle Williams

1364.815

Do you think maybe you were just missing it and no one told you? What was I missing? You're powerful and you make people nervous. Oh, good. I got her.

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Michelle Williams

1377.182

Tell me what it is.

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Michelle Williams

1389.85

And I'm sloppy. And I'm like, I want the interplay to be right. But yeah, I'm a sloppy mess that I somehow landed.

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Michelle Williams

1400.958

You know what Kristen did tell me? I said, you know Michelle a little bit, right? And she said, yeah, I love her. We have a lot of mutual friends, which makes me feel closer to her than we actually are. But she said she speaks very poetically. I love how she speaks.

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Michelle Williams

1422.073

It is a compliment.

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Michelle Williams

1427.737

You can include me. I wrote the essay.

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Michelle Williams

1430.26

Yeah, I wrote the thing that went viral. I didn't need to take credit for that. A really good version of me would have just let her have credit for that. She did more, ultimately, than I did. But I wrote a thing. I was so upset. I just put it on Tumblr. Tell people. Okay, when Lincoln was born, there were paparazzi living on the driveway for a long time.

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Michelle Williams

1446.537

And every time we left, we covered her with a blanket. We went to so many lengths to not let a photograph of her get taken. And we were at the Hanson's house, Deep Valley. I wasn't even thinking of leaving their house. And then my mom texts me like, oh, I'm so sorry. And it's a picture of Lincoln.

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Michelle Williams

1461.129

And I was, I can even say now maybe over, but I was just so fucking upset about it that I wrote this long thing and I put it on Tumblr and then somehow it got picked up by the Huffington Post and all these places. And then that led to talk shows inviting us to argue with paparazzi, which we did. And this is where she deserves all the credit, Kristen.

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Michelle Williams

1478.492

She built a coalition of other actors, basically saying we will no longer participate in these magazines if they don't stop showing kids. It was called the no kid policy. And she got all the photo houses started. To commit to that, which was pretty powerful. And I do give her all the credit for that.

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Michelle Williams

1510.872

You had a really rough version of it.

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Michelle Williams

1551.392

Oh, that's so sweet. God, that makes me happy. Yeah, she came in and read that to me. That was really nice of you to send. Even forget the cameras. Just imagine you take your kids out and there's seven men in fatigues that just run in a circle around you. That's such a bizarre human experience for a little kid.

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Michelle Williams

1568.669

It's kind of nuts to shit when we look back what was totally acceptable. You look at Britney's life at the apex and you're like, that's just an assault.

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Michelle Williams

1583.524

Yeah, it's just the price you have to pay. And they're right in some degree, at least saying you chose that, right? And I would agree. You go into acting, you would have to have your head in the sand to think that if I get popular enough, I might not have to deal with that. Now, we could have another debate about whether you really need to deal with that because you want to act.

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Michelle Williams

1600.014

But your kids didn't choose that. That's an insane proposition that the kids made the decision to be born to the parents who made the decision. That's like sins of our father stuff.

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Michelle Williams

1611.961

I believe so. By the way, the added benefit for us was we're always with our kids, so we don't really deal with it at all.

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Michelle Williams

1638.473

Also, you're getting a photo in their house of them smiling. You have this new access that they're in control of. So it's more interesting. I do think that overall just kind of crippled that industry. Although there seems to be a market still for Ben Affleck and Justin Bieber. Those two seem to still be living in prison. And their children. Yes.

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Michelle Williams

1674.449

Also, then you add in there the kid that's arriving at school with a gang. It's already hard enough to fucking go to school. So embarrassing. Oh, my God. Oh, my God, I know. You need to do more than ride motorcycles to overcome that. That deficit you've assumed. Okay. Now, this is a thrilling part of your story. You start acting. You're on Baywatch as your first one. Incredible.

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Michelle Williams

1695.578

How old were you on Baywatch?

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Michelle Williams

1700.861

You were a temptress to a young man. Was that the storyline?

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Michelle Williams

1725.233

And then you're in Lassie and you're in Step by Step. You're in Home Improvement. You are like working.

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Michelle Williams

1745.503

And you're in San Diego, so you're going to LA at a time. Yeah, so we're going back and forth. Are you taking the train or are you driving? Driving. Mom's driving you?

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Michelle Williams

1776.044

Okay, now this is the part that's really unique is you got emancipated at 15. And you had to do all of high school in nine months?

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Michelle Williams

1785.367

When I read that, I was like, can that be done?

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Michelle Williams

1819.235

Was this your idea?

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Michelle Williams

1825.58

Oh, okay, great. That's helpful. It looked fun.

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Michelle Williams

1834.706

I would guess you have two vastly different perspectives. One now as an adult who's been around 13-year-olds and 15-year-olds. And then the 15-year-old you who probably thought you were 26. Yeah.

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Michelle Williams

1856.406

It could have gone crazy. What age were you when you moved to Burbank?

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Michelle Williams

1863.869

Were you ever at the Oakwood?

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Michelle Williams

1866.651

Did you see the documentary about it?

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Michelle Williams

1869.552

Oh, I think you should. It'd probably be so PTSD for you.

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Michelle Williams

192.268

That's a tour bus. My neighbors think Aerosmith's spending the night.

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Michelle Williams

1951.345

And were you living on your own at 15?

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Michelle Williams

1967.523

You said at one point, and I will get it wrong, but something to the effect of there's a lot of scary people or dangerous people in LA. And I met many of them during that period. Was it fucking terrifying? That sounds insane.

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Michelle Williams

199.572

They do. In fact, last year we were going to go up to Idaho and everyone was busy, so these four years in the bus. And the kids were like, we're not going unless we're on the bus.

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Michelle Williams

2000.055

Okay, so yeah, when you got Dawson's Creek, you got very lucky. That's kind of a little life raft at that moment.

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Michelle Williams

2028.958

And the stress of supporting yourself in Burbank. Yeah.

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Michelle Williams

2032.921

What was the age of the other folks? Were they a little older than you? They were legal adults, 18, 19, 20. They didn't do high school in nine months?

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Michelle Williams

2044.667

Did you get a GED? Is that what you ended up with?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2053.491

It's a testament to forgetting about school, I'd say. Exactly.

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Michelle Williams

2070.237

And it's expanding your vocabulary.

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Michelle Williams

2107.202

Yeah. So that's one theory. That's a good theory. My theory is almost similar to me going to college. Like I retained so much from college and other people didn't. But I wasn't there because I had to be there. I got to study whatever I wanted. I was not trying to get a career in anything. So I think if you weren't educated and then you set out to learn, you want to.

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Michelle Williams

2125.057

It's not something you're forced to do. It's like the decision to pursue this. And that just makes all the difference in the world.

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Michelle Williams

2132.944

Yeah, I remember distinctly arguing a guy drunk in Detroit when I was 19 and he just mopped the floor with me. I didn't know what the fuck I was talking about. I didn't know it was Egypt 10 years ago or like 900 years ago. And it was 3000 years ago. I remember just being humiliated with how little I knew in that argument. And that was like a big motivator for me. I'm like, oh, I'm stupid.

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Michelle Williams

22.444

And someone wrote, why Dan? And I wrote, I know you're a new listener. Welcome.

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Michelle Williams

2200.227

Yes. Because you're going to go home and cook dinner for yourself.

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Michelle Williams

2208.231

Were you lonely there?

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Michelle Williams

2240.547

Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

227.775

A micro bus.

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Michelle Williams

2278.998

Beautiful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2282.581

I only have three pieces of advice for young men. It's get a best friend, learn to dance, and try to learn a few jokes, and everything's going to work out just fine.

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Michelle Williams

2291.406

Well, you can send them to my school. It takes about seven minutes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2298.41

Yeah, they must know how to back up a trailer by the time they're 18. That's another skill. Okay, so during the whole Dawson's Creek experience, you clearly had your mindset on establishing yourself in projects that were tonally kind of opposite. Was there tension between the gratitude for having such a great, safe job and then also not being in the things that you were dying to be in?

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Michelle Williams

230.338

Oh, yes. What would you like to drink?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

234.122

You're going to go pee-pee?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2344.173

But you were playing a Brit in that movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

236.966

It's an extra iced matcha if you want one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2361.218

The things that you did in that period, which were Kill Joe, Dick, If These Walls Could Talk, Me Without You. Was it hard to get cast in stuff like that, given what you were currently known for? Was that a challenge?

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Michelle Williams

2373.322

Because from the outside, it would appear like you're on this thing, but you know you want a career at some point that's going to be much heavier and that you're going to have to establish yourself as quick as possible before you're just permanently in one type of role. Or was that not happening in your head?

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Michelle Williams

239.869

You don't want an extra iced matcha?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2423.976

That's kind of the point I'm circling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2444.588

And then there's a serendipitous and domino effect, which is me without you. A.V. Kaufman had seen that. Is that true?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2453.471

I read that A.V. Kaufman had seen that and that was what urged her to push for you in Brokeback Mountain.

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Michelle Williams

2463.255

Maybe that's true or maybe it's not true. Half the stuff I read is not true. Oh, Station Agent. That's a big, fun movie that you did in that period at Dawson. Did you fall in love with Dinklage the way my wife did? Everybody does. There's a handful of folks, and he is definitely at the top of that list.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2481.15

Powerful charisma. She is head over heels. If I were to pass in a fiery crash, her first phone call, I don't know if he's wet or not, but I think it would be to him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2493.871

Oh, okay. Blended family.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2499.234

When you're making Brokeback, are you sensing what it is? You don't know about you, but I do some things and I thought they were going to be great. And then some things I thought were going to be bad and then they're good. I don't know that I'm a very good barometer when I'm inside of something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2535.027

Yeah, you'd get nominated for Academy Award at the end of it all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2540.189

Although one thing can happen. I've never met Ang Lee, but did you sense from him he had a spirit that was special and that somehow that was going to be present in the product?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2571.396

We're in a post-Brokeback Mountain world where we take for granted that story could be successful. But prior to that, we don't have that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2579.183

Yeah. Yeah. I don't know if you're comfortable talking about Heath, but I feel obligated to say that I knew him a little bit when he was getting sober. And I don't know that I've ever fallen in love with someone so quickly. This is one of the most special boys I've ever met, and I can feel the weight of the world on him. in a very special way that kind of broke my heart. I was very, very sad.

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Michelle Williams

2605.67

And I thought he was just so special. So special. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2609.095

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2613.341

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2615.644

Yeah. What a guy. I feel very lucky that I, yeah, it just got to, there's like a handful of people I've met like that in my life where I'm just like, oh wow, there's something, there's this heart here that's just leaking out everywhere.

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Michelle Williams

2630.791

Yeah. Great taste in motorcycles too. He had a 2006 Sport 1000 yellow. That's what I also drive. Yeah. That's

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Michelle Williams

264.111

We want to thank you. We haven't been up here in a long time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2656.273

It wasn't an obvious cast. You now take for granted it feels like it was an obvious cast because you've seen the proof that everyone was brilliant. But it's not an obvious cast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2669.648

How was the life-altering shift of you're going to be at the Academy Awards? Was that a natural transition?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

267.334

Yeah. We've been downstairs where there's video. And so we haven't been in the attic for a long time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2689.034

Yeah, because I was going to say another theme I see present when I look at your life in its totality, and I doubt you reflect back on it in its totality, but... You have had many moments where you seem to have an incredibly healthy relationship with the job.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2704.241

Because I think having a baby on the heels of an Academy Award nomination, most people are like, okay, get me the list of all the directors I can now work with and it's time to go. And that seems like a very healthy relationship that you were like, no, it's time to have a baby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

276.384

But we like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2764.966

This is my main thing I've taken from parenting is it right-sized all my other concerns and pursuits in a very helpful way, ironically. I kind of thought, oh, you have kids, I'll be so distracted, there'll be no time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2779.174

It's like, oh, no, no, actually, I will now approach the work with kind of the stakes that it deserves, which is I like to do this and maybe I'm good at it, but it's not anymore worth The most important thing, there's some liberation in that. I think it's been helpful for me work-wise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2818.052

And how about just the notion that your best day at work is you accomplish the thing you had hoped to accomplish. Your best day at work isn't when someone else in a scene was their best ever. But weirdly, the joy of the kids is like they do something, right? It's not like your best day is because you were your best self.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

283.431

A lot of tears in here. A lot of laughter. A lot of everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2832.744

It's just they do something that's so spectacular and you feel so lucky to have witnessed it. It's kind of the opposite.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2879.794

You wanted to go to the mall with a teenage daughter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

288.957

There's been some unfortunate... It's a small room for two days.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2889.517

Yeah. It's about the, yeah, whatever. I could go six hours on kids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2895.179

We should do like a kid podcast. Some of this stuff that I think gives people anxiety about having kids is my absolute favorite stuff. Once they have some shit to get into, I'm like, let's party. I've done it all. I've fucked up in every way possible. It's go time. It's so rewarding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

293.519

I don't ever do it when there's guests, but Monica would sit where you're at for the fact check. This is a questionable distance, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2937.105

I'm not going to blame anyone in my parenting circle, but I could not make a mistake. Maybe it was self-imposed. If I fucked something up, I would just lie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2948.013

I know in the fact that my kids fuck shit up and then they come tell me and I'm like, oh my God, this is incredible. They're better than me. I was hiding things I broke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2960.443

Well, again, it's not her fault, but single mom, three kids, it was fucking chaotic. I couldn't put anything on her plate. I just did not want to be another burden in her very burdened life. So I think kind of self-imposed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2978.476

At least that one part. I catch myself all the time. Do you do this? This is last night. I catch myself being annoying in the exact same way my mom and dad were annoying to me. I want to play and I'm always petting their hair. I'm pulling their ear. And most of the time they like it. And then a lot of times they'd look at me and I'm like, oh my God, I know this so well. This is my dad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

2997.989

Like, just fucking watch TV. Why do you need my attention right now? Just watch TV.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

30.83

And then the person wrote, you're right. I started listening like eight weeks ago or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3007.535

Their little earlobes are so. Okay, I have selfish questions. When you did Synecdoche, I can't pronounce it, but... Synecdoche. Synecdoche?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

302.522

A sound absorber and just a muffler in general. And probably, well, I know absorbent. And so a lot of times I'm like, yeah, I think that's far enough away for me to try one. And I've gotten away with most of them. I usually out myself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3027.19

Were you there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3029.731

Did you get a picture of her?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3034.634

What is Charlie Kaufman like? I never met him and I only have adaptation to work off of.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3055.606

I want to have a dinner with him and I would be nervous too. Okay. Blue Valentine. I know you already talked about this a lot. This is 15 years old, but I'm still fascinated by the notion that you guys were urged to live together for a month before filming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3110.476

I mean, it's incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3114.237

Were you on your own for these eight-hour improv things?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3152.178

That would be a big challenge for me because I just want you to like me, especially if we met two months ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

316.368

I have a lot of integrity, Michelle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3160.563

Those will come in a couple years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3162.924

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3166.265

That's kind of heartbreaking. Yeah, it was. Was it rough that second half? Were you feeling the heartbreak of that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3186.033

Yeah, I can imagine coming home and feeling heartbroken or not liked, maybe. Yeah. My worst fear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

320.231

I have a lot of toot integrity. Why were you late? What have you been doing? Not to out you for being late.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3210.183

Back to Charlie Kaufman. If I had a list, it'd be really hard, but definitely in the top for me would be Eternal Sunshine. Just for the scene at the end when she's like, no, but I'll annoy you and I'll do this and you'll do that and I'll hate this. And he goes, yeah, I know. And I still want to. And I was like, Oh, my God. It was so heartbreaking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3240.213

Yeah. I know, because when you're young, oh, man, you can get annoyed. And then in retrospect, you're like, what was that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3253.499

Michelle, if you heard me and you'll hear me when we live in the bus together. Yes. In the morning, me starting this machine up, sometimes I hear myself. I'm pretty immune to it. I'm clearing my throat and I'm coughing. And sometimes I'll just be at the mirror and I'm like, my family, what they hear every morning from me and that they still love me is a miracle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

327.077

You've been bopping around. You were on a previous podcast?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3283.16

In spite of it. No, not in spite.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3298.305

And they have so much fun making fun of me about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

330.32

NPR?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3301.741

Okay, now, I already learned that this is not going to be the case, but it would appear again that you're in a very popular thing, and then you do a bunch of kind of smaller things. Then we go to Oz the Great and Powerful. You had not done a big-ass movie like that in a long time. Was that seemingly abrupt?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

332.182

What show were you doing? Were you with Larry Mantle? No, I was not with Larry Mantle. Do you know Larry Mantle?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3345.823

Where? What town?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3352.728

You've heard this story. In fifth grade, a teacher said, he's not dumb. He's really, really smart. There's a school roper that could tend to his needs. You have to take an IQ test to get in. I got in. My dad said, no fucking way is he going to school with eggheads. And he pulled the plug on that. So I didn't go. But roper's the thing I always wanted to go to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

337.547

Okay. This is one of my wife's huge crushes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3371.872

Was it special? It was a great school.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

340.389

Oh, she's in love with Larry Mantle. He's a longtime KCRW NPR. He hosts a few shows. He's got a very steady, calming voice. He's older, but that's not who you're with.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3417.159

Do you do any lake business? Do you get on the lakes at all?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3423.662

Isn't it Eden?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3428.184

We're finishing a house right now on a lake in Nashville. Lake Life. Just got our first pontoon boat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3434.447

Yeah, I don't want to make you jealous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3439.349

That bus is driving to the lake house in June.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3444.033

Well, we got to stop in Idaho for two days. We sleep in the Walmart parking lot in the bus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3454.047

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3487.612

Not in the RV, but yes, I've been to Zion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

35.074

Yeah, yeah. And I said, oh, I just get bored saying my name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3529.823

Michelle, it's exactly back to being a kid and crossing the stream because numerous times we are in that bus and I'm getting into a tighter and tighter and tighter situation. And I'll say out loud, I don't know, guys, we may be backing down this mountain in that thrill of will we get through? It's exhilarating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3588.741

You come by it honest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3591.351

Okay, after The Oz and Powerful, you do two Broadway shows. You won a Tony for Blackbird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

360.726

I know. It hasn't been cut, but it's being threatened to be cut. That and PBS.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3604.227

You love that? The schedule for me seems very scary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3636.46

That's what drove that decision. And then you were great at that. Fucking asshole.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

366.648

I rely on Frontline.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3675.675

Is your hack to just commit to it before you actually think you can do it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3710.276

Okay, now my favorite thing you ever did was Manchester by the Sea. You like to suffer. That's all I can conclude. It's been a minute since I suffered.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3724.402

Boy, that movie. Have you already figured out how to not let things seep in at that point?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3729.224

Yeah, you guys are both so fucking heartbreaking and good in that movie. Okay, Fosse, Verdant, Incredible, won an Emmy and a Golden Globe. Well done.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

373.75

Yeah, that these are things that must go. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3739.209

I'm like, have I come to the end of the... Do you want to hear the funniest two minute story about the In Memoriam? I've only been to the Oscars one time. We went long ago and I directed a car chase movie with Kristen for a million dollars. Very few people saw. And I worship Brad Pitt. I would do anything to make out with him. And I've gone out to go to the bathroom and I'm coming back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3758.184

And I've never met Brad at that point. I've come up my aisle and I'm walking towards my seat. And as I'm getting close to Kristen, she goes, he's talking to you. I go, what? She goes, Brad Pitt is talking to you. And I turn around and he's like three rows ahead. He's standing and he says, we loved your movie. At that moment, I kind of forget I've even made a movie. And I go, what movie?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3781.443

And he goes, hit and run. We love hit and run. I can't believe this is happening. I sit down. Kristen's like, oh my God, are you so? I go, I can't. I'm smiling so big. And they immediately start the in memoriam. I can't stop smiling. I'm the happiest I've been since I got into this business. And Kristen looks at me, she goes, stop. Like, I'm so happy everyone died.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

38.557

Yeah. I get bored easy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3809.789

They could have ended my life if they just cut to me. I am glowing in that moment. And it's all the people are dying and I'm so happy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

381.613

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3818.993

And I can't wait to see the movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3823.455

You got to get the B-roll from that fucking award show. I would kill for that footage. Just me so fucking happy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3831.319

Okay. So again, now here's another moment where it appears that you have a really, really impossibly healthy relationship, which is you take a two and a half year break after Fableman's.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

384.434

We have a lot to catch you up on. Monica and I want to invest in a real T-Rex skull. They're very expensive, but we want to monetize it by renting out the mouth and turn it into a sex hotel because people would love to have sex in the mouth of a T-Rex.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3842.285

Do you love being pregnant?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3847.248

Yeah, yeah. Kristen loves it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3849.65

I have a vasectomy. If we have one, it won't be mine, but I'll raise it with love and understanding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3871.548

You picked a good time to take a break.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3881.278

Nuck you in. So, you know, we're not always home all day long, but currently we are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3890.407

Yeah. Do you have the tension? I know Kristen does a bit. I know a lot of working moms do where it's like when you're working a lot, you have some guilt about parenting. And then when you're parenting a lot, you have some guilt about not working.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

3948.064

That sounds like a very good framing of it, which is it's fine to hurt. but the guilt and the judgment's not part of it. That's kind of how guys have gotten it for a long time, which is no guy feels guilty that he's going to work. Societally, he's never been asked to feel guilty about that. He should feel proud of that. But you feel sad that you're not with your kids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4002.687

You don't have any desires or passions or dreams.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4013.355

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4065.864

I think of that all the time because I've journaled every single day for the last almost 21 years as a sobriety commitment. Often I'm journaling and I'm not editing for them. And then I think they will one day have all these and they can read all them. And then I go,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

408.715

What do you think? Whoa.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4084.286

I'd like to read what my dad was feeling like at my exact age.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4088.287

Yeah. Okay. Dying for sex. In this two and a half year break, this got to you. Was it a spec at that time or was it already set up?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

412.658

Positive?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4127.512

I did a show for her for two years. She's a Michigander.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4131.214

Yeah, yeah. What a sense of humor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4134.276

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4138.198

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4141.04

It's rare you're afraid a woman will get canceled. Let's just say that. I think that's the best way I can euphemistically say it. It's very rare to be around a woman. Good for her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4154.728

You had a lot of brave roles, but this one, there's so much sex in it. There's so much sexuality. Yeah. And forget the sexuality. I can hook up with people. That's fine. So much masturbation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4166.252

We were just discussing this on a different episode where I was like, as liberated as I am sexually, when I've been caught jerking off, not hiding the fact that I jerk off, but getting caught is really humiliating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

417.202

Is it the level of creativity that has your mind blown? Yeah, kind of.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4181.997

Yeah, if someone walks in and you're doing it, I'm humiliated. So for me, singing and masturbating on camera would be rough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4193.322

At the same time. Coming around the mountain when she comes. Oh, God. Oh, look, I did it. I got to do the comedic version.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4201.457

Did that stuff spook you or do you commit to it? And then you're like, I'll just come to terms with that when we start shooting or what was that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

422.766

Yeah, you would hold onto a tooth at some point, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4225.427

Yeah, so your character has previously had cancer, went into remission. And in the pilot, we learn that your cancer's back. And in fact, it's metastasized and you have stage four. Now, this is one of the heartbreaking parts of the show. I love Jay Duplass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4241.447

He's such a wonderful, wonderful guy. I hated to have to see him be a very annoying husband who I'm rooting for you to leave.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

429.051

Michelle, they're so expensive. We heard that Leonardo DiCaprio has a full skeleton. And I used to know the price tag on it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4322.815

That's what I love. It feels very dangerous, which is my favorite humor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4331.362

So your character has also not been intimate with her husband for two years, I think we learned in the show, maybe even three years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4355.912

And even worse, maybe like a Munchausen-y, a source of confirming his identity as the good guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

437.238

It's outrageous. They're very pricey. Limited edition.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4384.588

Yeah, I'm not going to die alone, but I'm going to die with my best friend, Nikki.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4389.633

Did you listen to the podcast?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4401.825

You're satiated in that department, work-wise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4445.506

You had to have another storyline going other than dying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4468.467

Yeah. How did it work? I stopped working in the era of intimacy coordinators. This one probably had a ton. That's why he stopped.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

447.145

What's Apex?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4481.54

I'm out. Had you worked with them before?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4488.413

Sure, sure, sure. I always just gave the famous Jack Nicholson line. I'm sure you've heard it. Sorry if I get erect and sorry if I don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

450.987

Just landed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4501.699

Neither is good. Oh, my God. 70s. Wow. Yeah, right? Can you imagine if that was 70s?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

454.509

Have you read? That's its name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4572.81

That part's fantastic. I guess what scares me is you're already trying to do something that can't be choreographed in life. And you're trying to do it in this really crazy situation in which there's cameras, there's 15 people in the room. So already for me, I'm fighting against the mechanization of this thing you're hoping to capture. I agree with everything you're saying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4595.956

And I hope that I've always been really... responsible and kind. And I've always just chatted with people beforehand, but I just fear this layer of, okay, now this whole thing has already been talked about, decided. How on earth will this look natural and fluid?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

46.705

I mean, I always think of the worst thing, right? That's my gift. So my assumption when someone says that is more like, They've found out Dax was a bullshit name. Like, it was my stage name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

460.031

Yeah, it's hard to compete. They gobble it up. Have you read Unstoppable Us to him?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

466.234

It's Yuval Harari who wrote Sapiens. He did a kid's version of Sapiens. We've read it to our kids several times. It's incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4692.244

Because you had the Purell? Yeah, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4708.271

It's incredible. I'm blown away with your performance. I want to tell you one, it's not an intimacy coordinator, but it's one sex scene story of mine. I was doing something where it got to the point where the lawyer's talking about what can be shown. I'm not shy at all. My deepest insecurity, though, is that anyone would see my butthole. I don't want anyone to see my butthole.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4728.329

And I'll show you everything else. Zero self-consciousness. And I get into the scene. We're walking. Okay, you're going to be on top of her. And I go, and where's the camera? And I see it's on the floor. Looking up at the bed. And I'm on top. And it's going to see my feet first. And I'm like, they're definitely going to see my asshole. I know cameras work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4749.243

And I'm like, oh my God, they're going to see my asshole. We do a take. It's a long take. And then... I lay down for take two. I'm certain the whole crew just saw my butthole. And the director comes in and he takes the sheet and he moves it up just to cover my asshole. And I'm like, okay, that's confirmation. The entire gang just saw my butthole.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

477.299

They found many of these dinosaurs, ding, ding, ding, in your birthplace. Isn't Montana a big site for these skeletons?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4772.389

Might have been like, hold on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4782.615

Some editors at the studio. We have butthole here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4787.057

Okay. But I just felt these sheepy plush stuff between the plushies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4793.82

Truly, I've learned throughout my life. I've been delusionally unaware that I'm 6'2", that I'm white, that I'm all these things. And so when the crew sees my butthole, I'm not in danger. There's nothing to be that afraid of for me. And so it is a completely different dynamic. Like, I can laugh about that, but it's a different scenario that for years I didn't really even take time to consider.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4832.279

Yeah. The last thing I want to say about the sexuality in the show is what occurred to me midway through was, oh, this is distinctly female. I've grown up watching tons of different sex scenes in different movies, and they have almost been exclusively written by men or directed by men. And there was something very unique and tangible about this whole journey that felt definitively female.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4869.165

Yeah, you accomplished it. It's a completely different version of this tale than I've ever seen. That was the defining thing is that it was clearly all women making this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4903.57

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4904.551

It's crazy. To me, where the comedy is, is this intersection between your fantasy and reality. I feel like that's constantly explored. One after another, you have an idea of what's going to be great. And then where the rubber meets the road, there's just so much comedy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

4959.438

Like an anthropologist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

496.824

You know your shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

503.646

Were you close to Billings or some city?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5033.084

I don't know if this is intentional. It's just what my projection is. It seems that she entered the experience with the curiosity of a novel experience, which is like what I would hope I could accomplish in that time. Let's explore this new thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5121.824

Or there's some notion of what you're supposed to do with the end of your life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5156.104

For me, that was the greatest source of anxiety, both with my dad and my stepdad, which is what's the timeline? You're trying to prep yourself for how long is this experience? How often do I visit? That unknown is so powerful. It almost overrides the actual thing itself. My dad was a blessing because it was small cell carcinoma. So it's like, he'll be dead in three months. Do it all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5177.739

That was great in retrospect. My stepdad was like two and a half, three years of prostate cancer. So it's like, when do you plan the trip? When is it too late for this? It's really hard to come up with that game plan when you actually don't know what amount of time you're dealing with.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

522.52

I've seen a lot of cute smiles in my life. I know. It's very disarming. It is. I just imagine a guy pointing a gun at you and saying, like, give me your money. And you hit him with that smile.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5233.21

I think we are starting to look at it correctly. There seems to be a movement, like Atul Gawande, where it's like, don't just look for longevity. The goal shouldn't necessarily be longevity. 11 months instead of nine months. It should be, what do we want to do? That's like a bigger question and maybe more important than, are we going to try to get 11 or nine?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5255.165

Measure it a little differently or evaluate it differently.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5268.337

Yeah. Well, it's great. I just want to call out one scene that's incredible. When you talk about this dark and dangerous sense of humor, the fact that you break your leg kicking Rob Delaney in the dick. What a swing. Good job.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5284.101

You're expecting one hilarious moment. And then this other thing happens. You're like, holy fuck, this is a train wreck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5298.629

Again, back to the poking someone in the eyes. It's hard enough to just kick and make sure you hit that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5307.116

And then Jenny's fucking great. Jenny Slade is so great in it as Nikki. It's fantastic. I hope everyone watches it. This has been a delight. You're invited on a bus ride whenever you'd like. You could even follow behind in a smaller motorhome and you're like, well, fuck, if he's going to make it, I'll make it in this size one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5335.019

Yeah, your escape pod.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

534.67

Yes. And you would go, I feel so silly. What am I doing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5343.386

I do fact checks from it. I'll probably do some this summer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5347.83

But you're a delight. Most powerful smile in real life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5354.516

And thanks for trusting us. I know this isn't necessarily your cup of tea. It feels flattering.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5375.477

Yeah. It's not a good thing to do, really.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5378.68

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5386.719

Anytime. All right. Adore you. Good luck with everything. Thanks for coming. Thanks for having me. I sure hope there weren't any mistakes in that episode, but we'll find out when my mom, Mrs. Monica, comes in and tells us what was wrong.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5401.845

No. Why do you smell something? My apartment smells. What's happening differently here?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5414.344

I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5416.365

Yeah, you look great. But I don't know if you just like you're at a film, you're at a photo shoot beforehand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5425.512

What did he say?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5427.473

Is that what it is? It's the lower eye shadow?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5432.813

This is a Dingles. Really good job, Rob. I was looking specifically at the darkness there and wondering, is that all that's happening? Okay. But a major Dingles, because last night I hosted, Charlie and I tried to do Old Movie Night for his kids and my kids. And then Charlie's so much younger than me, he hasn't seen a lot of classics.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

545.098

Because it's so disarming. And then boom to the eyes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5452.989

He hadn't seen Raiders of the Lost Ark.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5455.691

Neither have I. Last night. Last night was Pirates of the Caribbean, the original. We were watching it, and Captain Jack Sparrow is so fantastic in it. And he looks so sexy with...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5470.641

Uh-huh, he does. It's more than that. It's like smudged all the way down. And I said out loud to Charlie, I'm like, God, I wish that was a more acceptable look for guys. I would love to have that look.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5489.779

Okay, we'll go in steps. But I definitely had it for Wednesday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5497.761

Yeah, that's fun. Yeah. Okay, now walk me through why now eyeliner at this late stage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5506.664

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5508.224

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

551.784

That feels like a high probability of failure. Because you've got to practice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5510.425

Yes. Okay, great. I gave Rob something else to put up, too. This is going to be very visual heavy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5518.094

Yeah, I guess people, I read a lot of people went to see the haircut, which delighted me. Of course. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5527.458

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5531.72

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5534.269

When did it stop?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5547.17

Interesting. Yes. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5551.513

Are you wearing eyeliner, baby Monica, in this photo? No. Okay. Look at the size of your eyeballs relative. That's like Vinny. You've got a similar ratio.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

556.928

Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5564.764

Yeah, your head is only like 3X your eyeball size, which is unique.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5570.288

They're huge and banging, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5572.87

Big eggs. That's how you can tell someone has big eggs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5578.083

Yeah, they're correlated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5589.052

I think she looks like Alana Glazer, too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5598.039

Yeah. Yeah. Well, she looks so cute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5605.31

And you look like a little guy, like a little boy. She got a little boy. Okay. Nobody wants to hear that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

561.69

Oh, with some kind of gooey eyes. Squishy eye. Polyurethane eyes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5615.743

I have some photos of me. I'll share with me carrying, you know, I carried a purse for like two years. So I'll give you some of those and you can go, oh, what a beautiful little girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5624.166

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5631.191

Anyways, very cute pic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5636.715

Because you saw your mom in it and you're like, well, why aren't I wearing it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5643.458

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5647.34

We're in this situation where you, I know you have a story for the last two days, but we were waiting for the fact check.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5654.363

Which I guess is, I guess it's not a complaint. That's fun. I have something to look forward to. Yeah. But it is crazy to know you, you're like, oh, I, oh, you know what? I'll just wait. And then I'm like, oh God, I get it. Wow, I can't hear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5666.131

The anticipation just also. It's so foreign for someone to say, I have this great thing and you have plenty of time and then you go, but I'm not going to tell you for two days.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5677.169

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5678.21

You went back to Atlanta. Is it involving that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

569.012

Slime, fidget toy, all that kind of stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5698.402

I just saw her in Friendship.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5704.384

It's great. It's crazy. I mean, do you see it, Rob? Yeah, I went to the Vista and saw it. By the way, go to the Vista.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5712.187

We went on a Saturday. I saw Sam Richardson.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5715.868

I actually felt like, oh my God, I live in a neighborhood with a neighborhood theater and I actually know people. It was a very heartwarming experience. And the Vista was sold out on a Saturday afternoon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5726.984

And Tarantino did a fucking awesome job with like the popcorn stand. Everything's retro. So it's like the old cartoon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5734.467

Nope. Just to the movie. But the popcorn, Nathan's hot dogs, the way the signage is, is very nostalgic. It's awesome. Yeah. And it's an insane movie. And it really... It tests how much you can fuck with the historic role of a protagonist. Like in Aristotle's Laws of Story. Because this, it's Tim.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

575.135

We're trying to come up with at least seven good ideas per interview. Okay, so Montana, you were there till nine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5762.46

Tim Robinson. And he's being very Tim Robinson. He's going berserk. Yeah. And you kind of want everyone in his life to just get rid of him because he's, but he's your hero. So it's like this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5776.309

Yeah, and some of the biggest laughs in a theater that I've heard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5783.455

And Paul Rudd is just what a champion for taking that role and leaning into all of his Paul Rudd-ness in a great way. I love him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5806.134

Oh, wonderful. Yeah. Most of the comments are people saying I wasn't aware of him. This is one of my favorite episodes. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5816.862

We're seeing it. You can say that now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

582.657

Actually, I have. In fact, I was towing an obnoxious trailer and we went, I'm embarrassed to admit, but like one of these conferences and it was at Yellowstone, that fancy place. And then everything is set for you. But I had to call ahead and I said, so I have a 45 foot bus and a 22 foot trailer. Is there any place to park for me?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5822.696

Yeah. Two things. Oh, my God. So much foreplay. Ding, ding, ding. Easter egg.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5830.561

Egg spurt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5834.144

Easter egg spurt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5837.286

But wait, why is Easter in there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5839.948

Oh, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5844.971

Easter eggs. That's perfect. It just took me a while to compute. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5861.884

Where she destroyed my house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5867.047

And it was on YouTube?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5874.93

That's the only one I ever broke in. I think I told you that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5878.962

I don't think I was prepared for the level of devastation that occurred. They dropped this fucking steel I-beam on this mobile home and it flattens it like a pancake. And I'm watching it, looking at it and the cameras, and then I have to turn and act like I'm like emotional. And I am laughing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5898.693

I'm like, I'm like worried I'm not going to be able to, because you know, I love when stuff breaks, like when a car drives through a window or something, that's my specific trigger. Yeah, and I had to turn around for a minute and like regroup.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

59.816

That's what I maybe fear people think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5914.441

No, I think I had gotten it together by then. What an insane bit that was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5926.525

Oh, tell me how.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5937.609

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5942.25

Like?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5947.791

Oh, wow. Thank you. That's a great compliment. I didn't see that coming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5956.352

But you forget like I was a comedian at one point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5964.517

And really good. Maybe stop there because that's great. I could float on that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5974.445

Oh, thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5979.289

Because I'm your brother and your father.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

598.864

And they're like, no, we're going to meet you at this service lot with the snow plows. So we had to park there and then get shuttled into there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

5987.606

As again, I have a couple friendships where I juggle both things. I juggle what I feel about them on screen and then the reality of them in person as a friend.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6003.25

It's all, there's no magic, right? It's like just disillusioned.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6012.776

I totally get it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6014.857

Yeah. I can imagine even if I turned in a performance that was funnier than Frida or the grocery store movie I did, whatever that was called. Employ the Month.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6028.496

Which for my money, I think is the best I ever did. If I did something that was like we could measure it was the same. It just wouldn't tickle you because you sit on the couch with me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6056.438

You can click into me being a stranger, basically. Yes, yes, yes, yes. That makes sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6074.592

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6077.697

Right. But that was a completely different life ago, right? Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

608.09

For most people, yeah. But I grew up working for General Motors and I've been driving really large things since I was young. So you're very comfortable. Some would argue too confident.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6083.065

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6085.218

It feels like a different life ago. Even like what I do now. It's almost as if I am now a roofer and I used to be a car mechanic. Like there's something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6100.684

Well, definitely in that like the goals are so different.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6104.826

The goals on Punk'd were like, be as funny as reality will permit and find the line and try your hardest to be right there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6114.315

And that was just such a specific mindset. And then that's not what the mindset is in here for now, which is crazy. You know, we're going on. Well, we've already passed My Longest Job Ever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6126.186

And there'll be a point where, you know, I'll have done this as long as I act it, which is a crazy thought to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6138.424

Well, good in that. Oh, fun. I got to experience so many things. Bad in that, well, this last 10 years was much quicker than the formative 10 years, right? Like, 2003 to 2013, punk to end of parenthood is, to me, feels very long.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6158.044

This show feels like we've been doing it for three years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6160.707

And that part's alarming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6162.829

Yeah. But I did have a dream last night that I was acting in something. Yeah. It's kind of like my relapse dreams. And I tell you, my relapse dreams are always the same. I'm like, I'm out of town and I'm drinking a few beers. And I realize, I remember, oh, I always drink a few beers when I'm out of town and it always works. And then when I wake up, I literally have to go like,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6186.738

You never drank in a few beers when you were out of town. No, I haven't. And then similarly last night, I was like taking a roll and we still have this. So it was like I was having to juggle both things. But then I had been doing that for a long time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

619.397

Kristen often says she can't wait for the day that she sees me parallel park as quick as I do and fuck up. She's like, you know, your powers are going to fade and I just can't wait till you just fucking blast into a car, take out the side of the bus. She's really looking forward to that. But Montana, did you have that childhood I would fantasize about?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6203.745

It is. It's got curves and swerves.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6225.836

Yes, of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6232.481

Exactly. So imagine, fast forward 12 years to my age, and you've now been doing something longer than you ever did the podcast. Yeah, I know. It's wild. But it feels like a third of the time. This is very confusing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6253.418

And subscribe. We've never asked anyone to subscribe. I've always been really adverse to asking that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6261.946

Yeah, go fucking subscribe, even if you're never going to watch it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6271.174

Oh, so sorry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6277.899

Yeah. Just for fun. Because I... Remembered how great the show is. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

63.538

Anyways, I'm joined by Monica Lilly Padman. Real name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6353.978

Because it extended into Stop and Frisk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6413.755

Yeah, and again, you can't really consider that when you're writing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6433.694

I am?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6435.936

Oh, when they get to the... The trials. Oh, shit. Yeah. I did... Wow, that's funny. I never listened... You did hear. I never listened to that. Me and Britt Martley?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6448.11

Funny, because I listened to when we redid... The Little Mermaid. Uh-huh. But I didn't listen to that. That's crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

647.344

I'm jealous of them. They're getting what I had. They have as many motorcycles as I have. They are so well equipped.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6475.256

Infiltration.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6486.482

I'll try to keep it coming. I'll try to do some more. You're just popping up all over the place. Yeah, more surprises. I got to get on a makeup tutorial. I got to get on a fashion podcast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6496.496

Oh, my God. I got to get on Elizabeth and Andy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6499.76

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6501.282

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

655.694

They go in the back of the bus. If we don't have the trailer, then we have this big tray. And I put my 11-year-old daughter's motorcycle, now 12. Her motorcycle, my motorcycle, and then two electrics for the non-enthusiasts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6574.883

Oh, interesting. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6581.601

Wind? Broken house? Well, exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6585.765

God, that's a... They got fucked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6590.99

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6594.073

And... I mean, that's on story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6600.18

Oh, because, well, if they were in northeast Georgia, I know that Asheville is very close to there and it got submerged underwater.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6617.715

If we did the fires.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6619.557

Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6624.321

Okay, one more chance at generosity here. Go ahead. Remember I was saying the time 100, like first 40 are so easy. Oh yeah, that person who dodged a bull, that actor. The last 15, you're like, he had a great golf swing. You know what I mean? Sure. So 12 grade, maybe they just got to third grade last and they're like, we have used every category.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6647.476

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6657.04

This is almost impossible to believe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6659.822

And yeah, forget politics. Just like the assassination of anybody.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6664.086

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

668.301

Gas. But they have electric as well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

67.319

On your birth certificate and your driver's license. Today, we have one of the most acclaimed actors we've had on the show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6709.919

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6712.602

Yes, yes, yes, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6717.226

It is wild. Yeah. And I don't know why this is my compulsion. I don't want you to be mad at me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

674.325

It's a very good esteem builder. The theory I had was she'll be sitting in class next to somebody and she'll be feeling insecure. But she'll go, I ride a dirt bike. And they don't do that. And that's just one thing. You just need something to cobble together a little confidence.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6743.424

So I think that's very extreme. Yeah. And I think it's bonkers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6747.227

Yeah. And they are in rural Georgia hearing about a real case here in LA where a child identified as a cat and they put a litter box in the bathroom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6760.578

So I only say that to just say- If we focus on the crazy ones, like they're on both sides and neither are really that representative.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6778.575

No, but they're putting a litter box in the bathroom. That's truly craziness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6791.573

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6793.714

Yeah. He was elected. No, I'm only talking about the school's decision. I'm hoping.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6799.999

That that's as rare is the litter box in the bathroom. That's what that's all I'm saying is I'm just my optimistic self is hoping that that is rare.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6810.967

I don't know either.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6812.888

Right. Here's what I would hate is someone hears the litter box story, right? They're in Georgia. You know, he's fucking California school. And I just would go like, well, hey, just my kid's school isn't like that at all. It's public. Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6832.393

To go that crazy. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6838.695

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6850.525

You'd probably have to live somewhere different, which is like the Sedaris thing is like, yeah, if you're gay in a small town, go to the city.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6862.816

You can live low income in all states. Yeah. Right. You could be up in Oregon or Eastern Washington. There's like there's equivalencies in liberal states, if that was your desire. Was the parent they were like, what the fuck? Yeah. And what goods? What did their kid have to dress like Superman or something? Oh, OK, great. Thank God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6911.562

It is. It is. It is. And an opportunity. Like my mom would say to me, what do you think of, what do you think of all these kids calling each other fags on the playground? What do you think it's like to be gay and hear that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6926.171

What do you think it's, you know, like my school is all Christian. We didn't go to church on Sunday and other people that, you know, like, well, what do you, it's also not bad to be an outcast and to be, It's a character builder. And if your parents are engaging you on it, then that's an opportunity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6950.589

Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6953.672

Can I say one thing? It's actually weirdly related to your story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6957.0

Rob, will you put up the thing I sent you? I just stumbled upon this. This is Quirky Maps, I guess, is the source. I follow a few different infograph accounts on Instagram, and they're so fun. Now, this is a countrywide breakdown of largest employers by state.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

6978.872

And what's undeniable about this map is... You can quite clearly see the states where Walmart's the number one employer is almost universally a red state. And then lo and behold, the states where the university's the number one employer, which is several, they're all without exception also blue. They vote blue. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

699.935

I'm going to add it's a real bonus, too, if even the boys in your class can't do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7006.677

So it's interesting of all the employers, really, there's just three categories, really four. There's either you work for Walmart, you work for a health care, like a hospital system or university system. And there are only two that are like manufacturing. Michigan General Motors is the largest employer. And then Boeing in Washington is. But I just thought this was a very informative intro.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7032.498

Like in Colorado, the largest employer is the Denver International Airport.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7038.02

Yeah, like MGM Resorts makes sense in Nevada. But just all these university systems, that's pretty fascinating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

705.959

You were fishing and you were shooting guns as a kid, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7050.423

And North Carolina is... It's purple. It is far more liberal than the surrounding states.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7058.823

And it does make sense for like your bread and butter, right? Like people are pretty loyal to their bread and butter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7071.974

The UC system.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7073.736

New York is the university. It's like you talk about the elites and the coastal. It's like, oh, yeah, that's well, there's pretty obvious reason.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7083.763

Yes, 16. So 21 states, the largest employer is Walmart. 16 states, the healthcare is the largest. Eight for education and five for others, of which there's really no pattern.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7099.906

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7102.667

Anyways, I guess find quirky maps. I liked that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7106.688

Yeah. All right, facts?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7110.989

Okay, great. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7133.411

He deserves this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7153.147

LAist?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7160.153

Air Talk. That's the show Kristen's obsessed with. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7172.781

He has a great origin story. I want to say like he applied at NPR and he didn't get it. And then he went to another station and he started and he was so good. Then they brought him in. There's some kind of fun. Let me read you. Oh, you know, let me just shave this side.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7187.845

Okay, go ahead. Impulse control issues. They say it's part of ADHD. I got a little bit, but that's okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7255.287

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7258.459

Okay, sounds like a rocket ship ride of success because of his enormous talent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7267.084

That's a long time. Did you say 1983?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7275.329

Okay, so 40-year anniversary for him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7279.511

Dude, congrats.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7306.65

Yeah, so let me just say, A, I hate this. This is fucking ridiculous. But I will say I was a little comforted when I read, not PBS. I think that one's really largely federally funded. But NPR is only getting, I want to say the number I wrote is like 2% from federal funding. So I am a little relieved that potentially they can survive that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7329.312

Is much of a ridiculous thing. Hopefully people— Like, what we spend money—the shit we spend money on is like, let's trim out all this stuff that's so low impact.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7340.514

Doesn't move the needle at all. And we lose all of our favorite things from the public funding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7346.436

And we also— The Sesame Street and everything, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7357.139

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7360.859

I mean, I do my best to give the argument a fair shot, right? There are many left-leaning media outlets and there's right-leaning media outlets. PBS is not. Like when they have the election and they do a two-hour thing on Hillary and they do a two-hour thing on Trump, they are equally hard-hitting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7381.117

But I was trying to think, is NPR left-leaning?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7392.857

I guess, though, his point would be if all of Americans are funding it and half of Americans are conservative and half are liberal, it's not fair that the output is leaning left. That's a fair assessment. Now, cut it entirely or try to correct that is two different arguments.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

74.022

Michelle Williams.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7421.112

No, I'm more mean like if they're going to do KCRW is going to do a story on unhoused. Is it going to be the liberal version of unhoused or is it going to be the conservative version? And I do think probably more often it is the liberal point of view.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7437.37

You don't know?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7439.332

What they... I know I listen to NPR and I like it. So I'm inclined to think it probably is a bit more left. I guess that's my gut intuition about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7455.746

Well, like I'm pro-gay marriage. So when that was all being talked about, everything I'm hearing on there is the experts talking about the reality of that situation. But I'm pro that union, right? They're not going to give 30 minutes to a Christian saying that God says this is wrong. They're not going to do that on NPR. But your argument might be that that shouldn't. You're right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

747.571

your program.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7482.207

And that shouldn't get 30 minutes on an NPR. But I guess if it is federally funded and it has to be reflective of all the people that are paying for it. Then maybe it does. I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7510.939

Well, now the daily, I don't know if you listen to it, but I really encourage you to listen to it. These two professors at Princeton wrote a book, which is they have analyzed now for four years the COVID response. And they take all this World Health Organization had just done a study on social distancing for an airborne viral congestive virus. And they concluded it doesn't work. It has no impact.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7537.986

And so their point is, and these are liberal Princeton professors. They're like, where was the New York Times saying, what about this article? Like we did, the left did a bad job of being, pushing hard and pressure testing the things we were being told. And there's now a lot of evidence of that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7559.909

Well, no, because this report that had been funded by the WHO, it existed. It existed. Anyone who wanted to look would have found that they just ran this study and that it was recommended that that wouldn't work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7582.448

You'll hear them. I want to get them on. I think when you hear it, you'll be very convinced, as I was. Like, oh, wow. Normally, we would have heard this counterargument to what was being proposed. It's how the fourth estate works. And what these two professors are saying is, like, there was an institutional breakdown. And we need to we need to come to terms with that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7603.039

We need to prevent that from happening again. And one of the people that now the Daily's brave enough to now run it in 2025. But the Daily would have never touched that WHO study during the pandemic, which they just should have. They really should have. And we'll have the experts on, and I think you'll agree. And there were many, it got so politicized, the whole event.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7627.487

And I'm not defending the right, the right stance was fucking ridiculous on it, right? But there was a big breakdown and you have to ask them why. And I think part of the explanation as do these people is like, Every journalistic output became so politicized. They're either left or right. We need PBS. We need NPR. We need ones that are not servicing the market.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7653.393

And, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7660.135

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7664.495

Oh, right. We need a good reminder of what's going on here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7685.01

Damn it. Why am I perpetuating that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7691.23

Yeah. I hope he's not offended. Like, if anything, I could get wrong about him. Yeah. The fact that I think he's got a really cool T-Rex skeleton, I hope doesn't offend him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

77.028

I wish it said right here, but I want to say it's like five Academy Award nominations or something bonkers. Definitely four and I think maybe five. Emmy win. Tony nomination. Yeah, she's just a powerhouse. Blue Valentine. Dawson's Creek originally. That's where we fell in love with her. Brokeback Mountain. My Week with Marilyn. Manchester by the Sea, my favorite. Five.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7700.417

I'd sure love to interview him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7721.931

Look at that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7724.852

Those plates are enormous on the back. Yeah, they are. That's virtually what I was looking at installing on top of our gates.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7734.937

Yeah. We're always just trying to replicate what nature already figured out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7743.865

Yeah. But it's so clever because they get attacked from behind.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7748.128

Good luck. Good luck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7760.195

Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7764.977

In a billion years. Yes. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7902.676

It is so sweet. You know, hearing that makes something for me make so much more sense, which is Malcolm one time randomly sent me a text that said, I stumbled upon the thing you wrote about your dad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7919.403

And I didn't know you were such a great writer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7922.505

It's just really like sore. Yeah. And I thought, how on earth did he stumble upon that? But it's interesting because he's talking about a friend who wrote about his father who's dead. And this definitely happened within the time that his dad had died.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7936.273

And it's conceivable that like he was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7940.116

Reading that stuff. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7944.0

God, hearing him like that is so endearing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7950.342

We do. He's so special.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7959.907

And that the grieving is how you keep someone alive is also sweet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7966.85

That's it. All right. Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

7985.27

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

799.312

There are also really great little trials of being afraid. All these things you would start with fear, unless something's wrong with you. So just these little ways to confront fear and then get comfortable and then have the pride of having confronted it. All those things are really good. How about even on grandparents' farm, going on a long walk where you're like, oh yeah, I'm a little scared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

859.891

Oh, absolutely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

864.394

Yes, we will make room. I might have to tow another living quarters behind.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

870.999

But I can't drive both at one time. Or can I?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

874.981

I actually can. Okay, great. You saw it. Fuck it. Take it for a wrap. When this is all done, we'll give you a little test. But you know what else is happening on those walks? You scare yourself. That's fun. But then also your imagination's on fire. Because as beautiful as it is, it's also boring. You've got to now pretend on this bike ride that you're doing something important.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

893.833

I had to make myself some explore. And you're really trying on all kinds of different fun pretend identities.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

921.742

I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

925.663

We have been criticized for this publicly. We let our kids go. I've encouraged them. You want to walk to the store, go to the store. We were in Denmark and there's the Trifoli Park. And so in the morning, we just say to the girls, goodbye, here's a credit card. You can spend X amount. And then here's the time you got to meet us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

941.697

So we're very big into just turning them over to the world and hoping for the best. Me too. Do you know Leonora Skenazy? She is this proponent of free range parenting. She's great. We interviewed her and she was letting her kid ride the subway at a very young age, but he had mastered the subway. People called her the worst mom in America.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

962.521

And the kids fine and did great. So we're proponents of that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

98.532

Five nominations. And her new series that's out now with my former boss, Liz Merriweather, Dying for Sex on FX and Hulu. Right now, I urge everyone to go watch it. It's very bold. It goes hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Michelle Williams

980.188

Unsupervised, as you said. That's the key. Yeah, crossing a river. And this had happened to you a ton. You got to cross the river and you got to jump on the different rocks to get over there. But you need a story in your head of why we must cross this river. Because we're being chased. It's so good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dan Rather, and I'm joined by Monica Padman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1012.137

You playing on stereotypes isn't scaring those kids. And so I think what could be really dangerous for people to do is to apply the context you're in or that you're from to somebody else and globally. And what I will defend about you is You grew up in the East Village. You went to these schools that it wasn't all white. Your friendship group, which I have observed, is not white at all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

103.155

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1034.714

We got a few whites. You got a few whiteys. Yeah, a couple of whites in there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

104.376

Andrew has a new comedy special out now called Life on Netflix. Beautiful stand up really about him and his wife's journey to having a kid, which is really, really sweet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1041.956

But I don't think it's terribly fair for the white suburban person with no friends of color whatsoever to be telling you how you should interact with your very multi-ethnic group of friends who are all consenting and enjoying it. I don't think that's fair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1100.266

Russia? Taiwan. Oh no, Australia. The audience is super Asian. Oh yeah, the front row are all the Taiwanese guys. And you're making jokes directly to them that are very funny, very racial. It's not behind their back. There's no sense of superiority.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

114.919

And he also has two very popular podcasts. He might even have more, but Flagrant and The Brilliant Idiots. So check out both podcasts and Life on Netflix. Please enjoy Andrew Scholl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1195.24

Well, and a lot of people are just watching things to police whether or not it falls into what they would do. Yeah. Well, counterpoint. That's kind of my defensive view is I know what it's like to be in a poor neighborhood in Detroit, living in an apartment building where all my neighbors are everything. And it's on because we all trust each other. We love each other.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1213.79

And it's very fun for all of us. And I'm watching your special last night and I'm like, here's the truth. A ton of Latinas and Latinos are going to be offended. None will. And a ton are going to love it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1226.522

No, I did have a personal experience with this that I'll share. But no, I think there are some Latinos living in a predominantly white suburb that are going to see that and it's going to be scary. Like what joke? Just hearing you do their accent. They're going to think, oh, I'm going to go. This is not a reality. Wait, give me one second. Yeah, go, go, go, go. They're hearing that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1244.3

They're going, fuck, I'm going to go to school and every white dude's going to think they can come up to me and do their Latino accent. That's a portion. You know, I speak Spanish, right? I believe it. I'm not against you. I'm trying to point the two options. One is that I can definitely see how that's going to happen. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1261.387

And then I can also see that tons of Latinos and Latinos are going to love it. Now, my point is. It's okay if a ton love it and a ton don't like it. It's not being forced. They're not showing it at school or before movies. Just don't watch that thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1322.678

Bye. You made your point and now you're out? This house is comfortable, but like- But terrible? There's something about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1351.181

You made it out all right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1398.187

They're mine. This is my argument about molesting jokes. People yell at me. I'm like, no, no. I went through it. If I have one thing I can do, I can make a fucking Boy Scout joke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1455.385

But I'm just saying you feel like, who am I apologizing to?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1473.179

And they didn't ask.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

157.328

In so many ways, yeah. Yeah, he said, I don't know what you said. You were like, can I come by? I got a special coming out. And I said, oh my God, I'd love to have you. But I also want you to know you're going to walk into some pushback. And you said, let's party. Yeah, which I appreciate. I think that makes it better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

176.841

What's the hardest anyone's gone on you? Have you ever actually been in like a gotcha situation, like gotcha interview? I don't know what there is to get. You're not hiding anything. Yeah. Your worst side is out in public probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1764.261

We've already had this debate. I wanna know if you and I agree. I think a lot of the left, is viewing this under the lens that he won. And I think that's the wrong lens. The correct lens is we lost. We did not offer something appealing enough to vote for. Our side did not offer a platform that the majority of Americans wanted to vote for. Forget about him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1809.217

Exactly. They rejected him and then they rejected us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1843.621

Let's start there. I think there's a huge dissonance between what the official party is and what all the members of the party I talk to are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1853.806

Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1866.184

I hate to get back into the water again, but it's like I have only liberal friends. I'm surrounded by hundreds of them. Really? I've talked to, no, I have Republican friends, but I live in Los Angeles and I'm in show business. But I am talking with liberals nonstop. And when the topic of should trans women compete in the Olympics, none of them think that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1885.898

But that is the official message of the party. But is it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1898.827

Right, so we see the right is so fueled by it. Why can't we stand up and go, we don't think that's a good idea either. No one's allowed to do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

19.582

Hi, today we have a guest that I've been following on Instagram for a couple years now. I went and saw him do stand-up on First Date with McConaughey in Austin, Andrew Scholz. And he's also an actor. Okay, this is fun because you were on the fence about Andrew.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1966.428

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

1975.856

Let's make a category. I actually am supportive of their right to compete. And I acknowledge that they're a woman. I want that right for them, but not at the expense of 20 other people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

2008.559

Oh, yeah. You're trying on some stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

2012.66

Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

202.187

Do you see this clash? I never talk about politics, but. With Zelensky? Yes. This is worth repeating. Wait, what? Zelensky joined J.D. Vance and Trump at a news conference, and it is a screaming match.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

2023.044

They do not. We're talking about three or four athletes on the planet that are going to want to do this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

2045.301

My issue is we're not fighting back. No, you're not. We gave it to them on a silver platter and no one on the left will stand up and say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

2120.967

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

222.879

Yeah. Trump's like, you don't have good cards. He's like, I'm not playing cards. We're in a war. This is for real. This dude is in a war.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

2365.347

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

243.553

Just to put all my cards on the table. I'm rooting for the Ukraine like crazy. from the second it started. They invaded you, bullies, let's go, let's help. That's where I stand. Then I read something yesterday where I was like, oh, I think I see what's happening. So Trump wants to be completely divorced of China. China has 74% of the rare earth minerals. Ukraine's got a ton of them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

2511.617

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

2666.65

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

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And Trump's like, hey, we've given you $300 billion. You pay us back in those. We're free from China. And I was like, oh, maybe this whole thing is starting to make sense. And then I said this news conference, and I'm like, I don't know if there's any game plan. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

2891.783

When they lock onto a truth that we all feel, but when you have hatred, I don't have that hatred, so I can't really connect to that. And maybe there's some love in it. Ideally, I'm pointing out really specific things. I've observed you. I've seen you. I've paid attention. I'm interested in you, and I know this about you. Yeah, like, I love you. To me, there's something very complimentary about you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

2914.374

Your Armenian run when you were here in L.A. I was like, you would think you lived in L.A. You would have to live in L.A. to know all of those tiny things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

2936.018

That's a good segue for me. So I understand fully how you're at peace. In fact, to go behind the curtain, when I did your show, I just like you a ton. Respect. Feeling is mutual. And I've gotten some flack for liking you, right? Yep, sure. You have some war with Kimmel, which is unfortunate. No, I love Kimmel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

2953.408

We have a statue of him. But you guys had some battle. Let's not get bogged down in that one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

298.167

But the idea of McDonald's was one that pulled out in the immediate. But then they just put FickDonald's. Yes, exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3004.966

Whoa, hold on. This is what I'm leaning to. So, yeah, you got the Kimmel thing. I'm like, ah, it's a bummer. I'm still going to be out loud liking you. Hopefully he doesn't think it's a betrayal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3025.132

Okay, so this is behind the scenes. I do your show. It's great. We hang out afterwards. It was so fun. You guys were so, so nice to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3033.137

The pre-battle of me getting called a snowflake. None of that happened. So then we walk off of your show and we're just hanging for a minute. And then I go, man, you really lost Kristen. I had Kristen on board. She was on the Andrew Scholl's fucking train. And then this joke about abortion. You lost her. Yeah, it wasn't a good joke. It really wasn't a good joke.

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Andrew Schulz

3086.25

I did it to my daughter this morning. I've been feeling terrible ever since. What happened? Well, I woke her up. If she ends up being late and rushed, it's a full meltdown. We can't get her to school at that point. It's just so much. So I got to get her up on time. I go to get her up on time. She's turning into a teenager. She turns 12 this month. And so I'm like, let's go, baby.

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Andrew Schulz

3102.808

And she's like, no. She slammed the door and I opened it back up. I go, you got to get up. She slammed it again. I opened up. I'm leaving this door open. The light's going to get, you know. And then she later sent me an email from school saying, I'm so sorry I was so mean. And I'm like, oh, my God, don't worry. I love you, baby. I'm sorry I was so abrupt and blah, blah, blah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3121.361

I hope you know I'm just trying to prevent you from having a really rough morning. Sent it. And all day I'm like, just say sorry. Yeah, you don't need to explain. I didn't need to say I'm trying to prevent that. But we want to be heroes. We want to be a good guy. I just don't want her to ever think I have a bad intention. That dude.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

315.222

You guys... Fact check.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

317.406

By the way, that's not who you want to be in a court case with. Coca-Cola. Why is it that bad? Well, they got some deep pockets. They do have deep pockets.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3188.508

Okay. So anyways. I've understood all your scrapes and I've understood where you're coming from. And I understand you've accepted. Yes. Some people are going to be upset and I get all that. Should we say the thing that rubbed Chris in the wrong way?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3230.305

Is a joke. I don't think you anticipated what Kristen heard. What was that? Where's the guy in this scenario? So you're pissed about the girl who's had 20. Well, guess what? 20 motherfuckers knocked her up and they're not paying any price for it. And they're not getting shamed. And we don't have to punch their card or do anything for them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3254.544

Presumably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3268.37

And it's like, there might be something in there. You didn't remove all the pieces to make it David. It still is a piece of marble. Exactly. Exactly. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

328.78

Oh, I'm sorry. My bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

331.581

That's right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3315.618

She's actually a pretty good barometer for me. Why I say her in particular, I find her to be someone who is incredibly progressive and left and has not let it affect her sense of humor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

333.502

I don't care if I found out terrible stuff about Coke. I will not stop drinking Diet Coke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3345.186

A white woman's Instagram. She's also really great at laughing at when she's getting burned. Like she gets burned a lot and she does very well with it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3368.826

She loves getting blasted by Bateman. She loves getting blasted by Ryan. She'd not like getting blasted by me. That's definitely true. Fair enough. But all this to say, I have seen the decisions you've made and they've all pretty much made sense to me. And I've not been scared for you. The first time I got scared for you, truly, I like, should I call him? Yeah. Was Kendrick Lamar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3452.236

Okay, so I watch your response. What's really funny is I have actually a friend reach out that go like, oh my God, have you seen this? So it comes to me in his version of telephone where he explains what you did. I'm like, oh boy. What's his version? This is so funny how this works. I think he just read the reviews of what you did. They made it racism so fast. Yes, yes. This term. Buck breaking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

346.806

So tell me, I want to know all your things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3472.049

Yes, buck breaking. And I'm like, he said buck breaking? So I now got to go find this thing. So I go to your Instagram and I find it and I go, okay, A does not say buck breaking. It's pretty silly. I said, I'll make sweet love to him. Right. If they were in prison together, he would make sweet love.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3498.083

I saw it is about as playful as a fuck you, I'll kick your ass. This could be done. That's all it's trying to be, yeah. But now I'm really worried about you because I'm like, well, he thinks that he's a rational person. Kendrick is a national treasure. Huge. He's a Pulitzer Prize winning. Incredibly talented. He couldn't be more talented or loved. And I'm going, bro, is this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

351.268

You don't mind.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

353.289

I'd like to have the standard approach we always do. Let's get to know Andrew as just a boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3536.274

Yeah. Even if he's not affiliated, they could think they were doing a favor to someone they love. And that's how it works. He doesn't want you to get hurt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3566.952

Now I want to bring up a love connection. Ooh, go. I've been trying to get Monica to love you for a while now. A couple of years, would you say?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3574.678

We're going to win over. Don't you feel like I'm always kind of like trying to pitch Andrew?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3607.808

Yeah. We're talking for two hours. We're going to say some fucked up shit. But let's get to the love affair. So one of my favorite things, I saw your rant on Taylor Swift and I couldn't send it to Monica fast enough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3617.638

As I was watching it, I think I interrupted it to send it to her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3621.643

You were screaming. No features. No features. I think you were arguing whether Beyonce. People are upset about that. I'm sure. Yeah, you're right. Followers were probably. No, no. Beyonce fans. But I went to the show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3633.999

I love her. She's incredible. She's from another universe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

367.558

I just find it's very powerful to hear someone's real story to find out where are they coming from? I agree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3684.64

Figure out how to get here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3693.264

Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3721.843

So shout out Taylor. Okay. Life, your new standup special. Yes. It's your second one on Netflix.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3736.092

Okay. So right out of the gates, I hadn't noticed this prior to this, but you know, I've been in bed with Kutcher for 22 years. He gave me my start. Yeah. You and Ashton have an extremely similar vibe. Do people ever tell you look like him? Okay, here's the Kutcher story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3771.806

You could probably be three times bigger as a business. Way bigger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

379.684

All right, let's do it. Talk to me. Well, first and most exciting is your mother is a bombshell. Thank you. And when I was on your show, we discussed, well, I asked. She is a professional ballroom dancer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

38.367

About some of his comedy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3858.768

You guys might be identical heights too. Maybe. Very handsome. Okay, the show's wonderful and as we already laid out a tiny bit, this special is solely about getting pregnant, having a baby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3897.602

And I'm with you. Chris and I, when we decided to have a baby, she said, do you want to get your sperm count checked? And I go, why would I do that? I'm not assuming I have a problem.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3906.287

And she goes, how many times did you fuck without a rubber and you've never gotten anyone pregnant? And I was like, oh shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

392.137

Three-time U.S. ballroom dance champion. Not a big deal. Okay. Three-time. The GOAT. Who's the most winningest ever? Is there a woman with six or seven titles under her? We don't talk about those women. Oh, God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3934.451

yeah of course it's almost a B minus it's pretty much a B if you round up if you round up I'm a solid B and also I have the same shitty sperm I tried in UCLA I read that I could make money donating sperm because I was a student there and I went in and I did the jerk off thing and then they called and they're like your sperm count's not high enough no way yes and I was like oh Jesus

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3953.57

From taking tea or anything like that? No, it was just when I was like 21 years old. They want you to have a big sperm count at the bank. Yeah, they're so prejudiced. I was probably a C. Yeah, we don't talk about that enough, huh? No, I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

3964.799

They don't want to leave sperm out there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

40.567

And before he came, I said, yeah, you come on in. We'd love to have you, but there'll be some pushback. So this was a very unique and fun episode.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

403.809

Those women are bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4079.011

Yeah, it's beautiful. It's really special to get to receive that, I think. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4087.376

The legend. Taylor plus Matt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4116.273

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4119.935

Yeah, exactly. I think that can be misleading for all humans, which is you have such a sharp skill set that Really, anything you bring that talent to bear on is going to yield results. And it could mislead everyone. We had Robert Sapolsky.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4135.062

Yeah, he's the smartest person alive, probably. And he's a determinist. And I'm like, great, you've made a great argument. But can you acknowledge you could have turned that same brain on free will and made just as convincing of an argument? It's just like, where do you want to focus this hyper talent? Let me ask you if this observation rings true for you. Yeah, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4152.569

In the last eight years, we've watched so many people become famous in the podcast space, whether it's Huberman or name the number of people. And I'm not using Huberman as an example in this, but I've watched many of these people get led by their audience instead of them leading their audience. Their audience will take them in a fucking rabbit hole.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4170.763

I've seen like eight people taking themselves out where they started here and they literally went in the rabbit hole because they just were responding to the most vitriolic response.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

422.841

Your mom's 105. She's a flapper.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4258.234

Shane Gillis. Shane is great, man. He's unbelievably good. That's the unfortunate thing of our current society is you're watching things, trying to pin them to a camp the whole time. It's like,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4267.338

whoa where are they are they liberal are they conservative and what's fun about shane is it's a hardcore conservative position it's a hardcore left position it's bouncing back and forth and i personally love and cherish that and you're bouncing back and forth in this special you definitely have some moments i think i think so this isn't funny this is just another observation so

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4287.278

We went through the same thing. You're there, you're in labor forever. All of a sudden people rush in, the heart rate has crashed, and now you're having this emergency thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4294.383

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. How scary is that shit? It is. Did you have this moment? This is so dark to say, and I would never make this decision now, but on the ride with her in a gurney and me walking next down the hallway and 15 doctors all in a panic, I literally said, just keep Kristen alive. I don't give a fuck. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

431.633

In pursuit of dancing. Yeah. And then Andrew and his sweet father and mother had a ballroom dancing studio in lower Manhattan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4312.635

Like I was so excited to have this baby, but my God is my wife in danger right now. Yep. A hundred percent. I was just like, please keep her alive. And now I'd be like, take her. I'll keep Lincoln and Delta. You know, what's funny is that Kristen would probably give her life a hundred times over. She'd have me killed a thousand times to save him a broken arm. And I want her to take him. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4376.705

But it was just like, she gave everything. Does it make you admire her? Fuck yeah. And you go, oh, this new thing I care so much about hit the jackpot with this. With a mom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4399.061

I hope you give her some attitude in front of me. That's what I say to Monica all the time. My dream in life is someone shoves her. Beware they're getting shoved and falling down just so I can react.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4411.069

That's funny. Even you coming today, I'm like, I want to be bros with you for life, to be honest. If it goes down, it's going down. And that's how it's got to be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4446.277

What I need to do is go on to bears and go on ideally Rogan and go, you can also be a masculine dude and cares a lot about people and wants to help them. You can do all those things. You're not a pussy if you care. I adore you. I love you guys. Thank you so much. I'm glad this happened. I really appreciate you guys doing this. Oh my God. Oh, my God, yeah. All right, everybody watch Life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4466.001

It's fantastic. It's on now on Netflix. You have it. Watch it. Also listen to The Brilliant Idiots and Flagrant.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4489.099

I'm working late because I'm a singer. It's a good song. I think that's the cutest lyric I've ever heard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4498.904

I'm working late because I'm a singer. She's very cheeky. Oh, my God. I'm so late to the party, but now I'm an enormous Sabrina Carpenter fan. It started with Bed Cam. Do you know that song?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4513.877

I'll play you one taste of it before we get flagged for copyright infringement. But let me see if I can give you a taste of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4526.57

I was driving with Delta to school today and we listened to it every morning. And I said, you know the sign of a really, you know when a song's a fucking jam? A lot of times you're driving in cars and the song's good and it's a dancey track and you're like maybe clicking your fingers and maybe you're dancing a little bit. But if a song hits, you can't resist dancing with your shoulders.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4545.716

I was telling her that's what you look for. And so we were both in the car fucking... We're really getting our shoulders active this morning. It was a blast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4557.155

It's really fun now that I love her favorite artist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4560.537

It's fun for her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4562.278

Because now I'm on the Sabrina train.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4564.779

And I'm like, what about this one? She's like, have you listened to Juno? And then I'm like, OK, listen to Juno. It was a little slower. I was worried it was going to be a little too slow for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4583.832

In fact, Juno is sexual. Well, that's I'm so glad you brought this up. I would have forgot to say this. So we're laying in bed last night. We're talking about Juno and. You know, I'm like, I don't want to tell her it wasn't my favorite because it's her favorite. But I am not going to lie to her. All right. So here we are. So we're working through it. She's like, yeah, I understand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4601.771

It's a little more of this than that. And she goes, but do you know what Juno is? And I go, no. And she's like, well, it's a movie. And I go, oh, the movie Juno? Yes, I know. She goes, yeah. She said, I want you to make me Juno because it's a story about a girl who gets pregnant. Yeah. And I go, yeah. I go, ooh, that's a little nasty. All righty.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4626.115

And she goes, what's nasty about wanting to have a baby with somebody? And I go... Well, it's a teenager. She's in high school. And she goes, oh, she's in high school. So she knew part of the Juno story. She didn't know she was in high school.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4641.506

Yes. And the way she phrased it was like, wait, what's nasty about wanting to have a baby with someone you love? And I was like, oh, no, there's nothing nasty about that. I'm just saying I want to get pregnant in high school is kind of a nasty, fun lyric.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4655.49

Nasty. And it is a positive nasty, I'm saying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4659.372

I brought a list today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4660.714

Okay. Do you want to tell me something you want to talk about before I get to the next thing I want to talk about?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4674.589

Schwimmer's ear?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4677.55

David Schwimmer's ear?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4721.489

It had like fused to the metal. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4732.868

Isn't it weird that your upper ears are very prone to infection?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4742.851

It's just very infection prone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4748.097

Well, it is. It's very.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4750.837

It's like a cess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4754.178

Okay. It's sensitive. Anyway. Particularly sensitive to infection.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4758.219

Yeah. It's many sensitivities.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4772.262

Okay. I'm glad you got it out of there because that's that's an improvement.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4778.467

I think it's a wrap on your upper ears. Really? I mean, repeat the same thing, expect a different result. It's like two for two.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4791.986

I mean, it's your body, your decision. So but I think we stay away from there. Bit me twice. Shame on me. You're at the shame on me part. First time was shame on your ear. Sure. And now shame on you. Yeah. Well, we'll see. Yeah. Now, this one I flagged. I did flag it with you in mind. I thought this would interest you, even if the topic doesn't, because of. Where the money comes from. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

48.932

You guys got to really hash it out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4820.774

Yesterday or the day before. Unmarried Hermes heir. That's hard to say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4828.437

Leaving $11 billion to former gardener.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4839.988

There'll have to be a movie about this, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4844.893

It's not like he got left a million dollars. You got left... You're in the top 200 richest people in the world kind of money.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4855.946

Although there is some little bit of it having to do with he doesn't want control of his portion to go to certain people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4868.653

And if I'm the gardener, I don't really give a shit what your motivation is. You give me that $11 billion. I know. Can you imagine waking up one? You went to bed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4878.795

You had like three thousand dollars in the bank. Yeah. And the next morning you have eleven billion dollars.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4902.319

Could be unrequited love.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4925.168

Love them posthumously?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4929.71

No, because you had been honest. Yeah. If you led them on and married them as they had gotten their cancer prognosis, yeah, you're pretty shady. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4962.063

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

497.51

And he had to work on it as an adult. That's charming, though. People have a lot of compassion for someone with a stutter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

4996.77

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

504.819

Perfecting the stutter. This is like King Speed. Perfecting it. Making it great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5082.315

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5315.507

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5410.27

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5489.833

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Andrew Schulz

5492.595

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

553.598

At a wedding, the bar is so low.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

557.819

I can do running man and I crush. But can you do any ethnic shit? Hit me. What are the options? If salsa pops on. I like to do the Greek thing. That's fun. Yeah.

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Andrew Schulz

5614.94

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Andrew Schulz

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Andrew Schulz

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

568.307

They're the most off-white white. They're an ethnicity, Andrew. They are an ethnicity. So it begins.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5698.472

It sounds great. You already want that. Last night, yeah, I would have loved to have been wearing a diaper.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

57.796

So this was really political. I guess that's what I want to say up front. Yeah. We try to avoid politics. This one where I was like, there's no way we do this without going all in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5717.326

I always wonder if that's a sign of depression. That should be on like a first questionnaire.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5722.283

Do you feel like you're going to be done soon? Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5741.511

It's a lot, but you'll be making new friends and having more children and having more lives.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5748.074

You have to just think. What if you could live a whole other life in France and then a whole other life in China? Like, there's so many corners of the world to keep things interesting. And then after like 800 years, you're like, I'm going to move back to Milford, Michigan. Try that out again. Hope it's still there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5772.367

Probably be skyscrapers and flying cars.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5782.33

Well, clearly they are. Yeah. Yes. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5788.893

That's the part I think is interesting. Yeah. People think like you're going against nature. What you're really saying is you're going against God. There's something deep that people think you're playing God if you live forever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

580.337

Well, white's not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5804.801

It's moral dumbfounding. You're like, you know, it's greedy and too much to ask to live forever. There's something about it. There's some moral imperative that feels like being violated by living forever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

582.179

I agree. But Scottish is. Definitely. The Greeks, they started it all. Hellenic studies. So they say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5821.075

We've been forced to view it that way, though, because it is that is what it is. I think we have no choice but to see it as poetic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5870.604

Where you start cherishing everything. Yeah. Yeah. Maybe. Maybe. Think how much wisdom you could have, though, after 400 years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5877.188

I even feel this aging myself is like you'd have seen so many market collapses. Yeah. Social upheaval that you would go like, yeah, and it'll pass. Yeah. You know, kind of like kind of like emotions in your body. And I've gotten to that. Like, I've just seen like, you know, 2008. Yeah. You're a monster if you drive an SUV. The SUV market collapses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

590.106

The Rift Valley started it all. Yep. But the Greeks, boy, they gave us a lot of stuff. Why did we just skip in Asia?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5905.313

And then I look up one day and it's like, oh, everyone's trying to cross over an SUV and everyone just kind of forgot about that thing. Right. It's just these cycles of like everyone decided everything is just this is so terrible and we're done with this. And then I watch it come right back up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5918.87

For me, it's helpful because I'll watch the current craze of like what is going to go away and I'll just go like, yeah, maybe. Well, I don't know. We'll see how this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5940.777

Right. Yeah. And I think some of that you're seeing some of that in me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5958.868

If you dare.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

597.032

They gave us some stuff. You got a real boner for Asia because you want all our shit to be built in China. And now you're coming back with their cultural contributions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5972.969

Andrew Schultz.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5975.151

Some feedback just came in for, cause it's on the week early.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

5980.017

Yeah. And already I read a couple of people say like, oh my God, what a fucking incredible episode. So that was good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6002.818

They sold it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6005.661

They left Russia. Yeah. And then those buildings just got taken over by some other company.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6015.631

What's the name now?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6023.935

Putin's Patty Mel House.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6038.262

That feels very Russian, my stereotype. It's like...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6042.508

Yeah. This is what I said. Like, you know, my story of my Russian stone person, my first house, whatever that is, 20 years ago. And I was redoing the bathroom and the contractor had brought the stone person that was going to put in all the stone in the bathroom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6060.379

But he hadn't said anything. And the contractor was like, do you want a steam shower? Do you want this? Do you want, there's so many options, right? Yeah. And at a certain point I said, sometimes I just wish I was doing this fucking bathroom in Russia. It's like, you want to take shit? Yes. No. You want to wash face? So I do my Russian thing and there's no laughing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6080.259

And I say, are you Russian? To the guy there. And he's like, yes, but it is funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6088.264

Okay. Oh, wow. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6093.307

Tasty and that's it. If you don't like tasty, then fucking keep it moving.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

611.268

Well, the Indus Valley, also one of the very early civilizations. You did psych in college. I did anthro. So I'm hip to what was happening in these different regions. Great contributions. But Western Civ starts in Greece. In Greece. OK, fair enough. OK, good. What is Greece? What is it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6112.945

Introduced in Germany.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6118.211

Okay. So it was created there in Germany land. That's right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6127.955

I always find this so interesting. Yeah. I bring it up kind of too often, but Adidas and Puma were brothers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6138.496

Yes. They own a shoe company together.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6142.058

And at the outbreak of World War II, one was a sympathizer and one was not. And the company split up over it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6154.244

I'm not going to say anything out loud. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6158.607

Adidas.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6169.866

Pretty cool. Hey, I like Puma.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6191.563

Yeah. It's got to be a midsize mountain cat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6204.749

How many has he won?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6214.074

That's what's unfair to a lot of these disciplines. You know, a guy like Jordan wins six rings.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6219.919

And you're like, he's the Michael Jordan of whatever. And then some other guys win. He's won 14 times. He's like, Jordan, you need a step stool to kiss my ass. That's what he would say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6231.388

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6242.047

Hyperbole.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6278.339

0.7, 44 divided by seven is almost seven. Yeah. Yeah. So seven. Seven percent. No, seven times.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6289.469

Seven. We have seven times the rate, not 10 times the rate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

629.389

It's an idea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6293.153

That's still astronomical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6301.769

Congratulations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6306.97

And I thought he looked like Ashton Kutcher.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6316.592

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6320.993

It's ER. Just call it ER. It's basically ER.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6325.393

John Wells, I think, is the show. Correct. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6334.018

The only one I ever got hooked on was House.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6338.541

Because Hugh Laurie is so incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6342.124

And he's a cantankerous addict.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6345.026

And the most brilliant doctor on the planet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6349.069

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6353.843

Although you're going to restart pit. I just finished pit and I'm going to restart it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6363.153

I was too busy in life when that came out. You know, it was like early twenties. I think I wasn't at, I wasn't watching TV. I was like out every single night doing something fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6382.351

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6386.675

Watching TV in bed is so fun. It is. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6395.421

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6427.557

I've been saying this. Yeah. Now that I'm 40 and I've met. Congratulations. Tens of thousands of people in my life. Yeah. I think there's like 1600 people. Right. I meet doubles nonstop. And then what's crazy is the people with the same physicality, their personalities are generally the same, too. Like, I think how you look ends up predicting a little bit how you're going to act.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6450.755

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6457.721

Yeah. They do like a two percent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6460.043

Kind of like my tattoos. Ding, ding, ding. Change them enough that they're original. Exactly. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6470.112

Ugly term.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6471.954

Not ugly. Ugly activity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6481.604

We're going to go out on buck breaking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6490.202

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6493.064

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6495.106

Gotcha.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6502.791

That settles it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6504.332

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6505.633

Wonderful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6509.255

Oh yeah. Me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6510.956

All right. Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

6529.122

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

653.462

Isn't that unfair? That's like saying, is he an Angeleno or is he American?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

660.045

Italy's not even a unified country until 40 years ago. Back up, Andrew. Yeah. No. Zero to 800. Rome is entirely unified. In fact, they've unified all of Europe, the Roman Empire. Zero to 800. Yeah. And then after that. The Visigoths and the Ossegoths come down from Gaul, which is Germany. But I didn't say Rome. I said Italy. Yes. Wonderful. It's changed names.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

683.622

I didn't see this coming. All right, moving on to the dance. What kind of jobs were you mopping? Were you talking to all these older women who were dancing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

736.714

You're not dying to hear Q, but you are dying to hear some kind of approval and recognition you exist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

753.131

Like I go on stage. That's the human experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

780.769

I'm with you because I have a similar ism, which is I think I want to be liked, but I want to be liked for being brave and unique. So it's not just I want general you like me because anyone could get that. I need a very special.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

797.58

Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

802.643

That's off the table. So then I think we always think of becoming attention seekers and approval junkies because we weren't getting enough. But also the opposite could be true, which is you could get it and it's enjoyable. It was awesome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

81.613

Right, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

84.316

So for me, it was very fun because we never do it. And also in the middle of it, I was like, yeah, this is why we never do it, because we're in the you know, we're getting very granular about this policy or that in this year and whatever. But I I thought it was thrilling to sit kind of on the sidelines and watch the whole thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

956.914

If this were a spectrum, I'm not with you and I'm not with Monica. This is like what you guys think I am politically. Politically, racially, you know, all these things that are kind of out. Oh, the words that I'll use.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

968.722

Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so I'm in an interesting position because this morning I'm like, I need to do both things. This is my best friend. If it gets dicey, you're going down. But hold on, hold on, hold on. Yeah, yeah. It's not going to get dicey. Let me just finish. This is just me mentally in my head. Yeah. Very relevant.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Andrew Schulz

985.5

This is a really relevant piece to this that I don't think is examined much. If you are... in the suburbs in a predominantly white school and you're using stereotypes and there's only five minorities there, that is a rough situation. It's scary for those five and it's dangerous. Now, if you grew up and you're not the dominant group, You're among a very diverse group of kids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1001.002

It's not great, but it'll make it through, I think, both series. Really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1018.907

But what a great show to go out watching. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Okay. This is great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1024.409

You did a really good job. If I'm your teacher, I'm going to say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1031.872

I was playing. I need to do a few minutes on mom and dad because they both have very, very colorful, interesting backgrounds. So as you said, your father was a taxi driver, but he also worked at a hospital and he also became a college professor of sociology. This doesn't seem like a possible trajectory. That sounds like an immigrant story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1079.134

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1082.256

They went in that neutral route. Yeah, the two fronts met in the middle. That's something we can both agree on. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. And then mom was a choreographer in a high school. Oh, my God. That's not even on the Wikipedia. She was also a clown by the name of Kalana. What was her mom? Yeah, Bonabini. Bonabini.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1102.662

Or I got your mom's number.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1105.703

Leaning to the number thing. Can we take one second to recognize that we've interviewed 800 people. No one's mother was a clown.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1128.423

You never had a friend over that had this eerie feeling he or she had met your mother before and then hours later went, Oh, my God. Did your mother do my fourth grade?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

114.673

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1179.767

Yes. So now I guess this is common knowledge. I didn't know this before researching you. But when I told my wife excitedly from the bedroom, you're not going to believe who Jesse Eisenberg's little sister is. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Did she know? She knew immediately. But do you know, Monica? His little sister is the Pepsi girl, the Pepsi girl, the one you're thinking of.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1199.917

Everyone loved her. She was universally loved.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1213.705

But you were already acting, right? Because you're first, you were an understudy at 12 years old for a Tennessee Williams play. Exactly. That's pretty nuts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1267.033

You're going to get to watch a lot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1276.926

Yeah. So do you have to go there every night if you're an understudy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1321.963

Even though at that point, Little Sisterhood also generated a bunch of money.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1372.176

We would. Would we go promote? That's the question. I've been told that's what you get paid to do is go promote. Unless it's a podcast, then you would do that for free as well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1379.441

It's so pleasurable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

140.215

Well, there's so many good ones on the list.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1401.414

Yeah, no one asked for this, but I think the finances of this would interest people who are not in show business. So if you think about a studio has a budget to promote the movie and they're trying to get it in front of as many eyeballs as possible. And so they have many options.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1415.46

They can buy a TV commercial and a 30 second spot is going to cost however many tens or hundreds of thousands of dollars versus we send you to Camel. We show a clip of it and you talk about the movie. We can count that as basically two ad spots. So by their math, they just saved $200,000. So if they're going to send you out there, my God, they'll spend five grand on your hotel room.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1434.548

Don't give a shit. And they'll pay for you to get a massage. And it's a big savings for them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

144.187

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1516.679

I mean, I guess I like it and hate it. Gangly hillbilly crosses the parking lot to say, hey, I can tell you, Jesse Eisenberg, by the way you're standing. It was the parking lot of Universal Studios where you were filming a major popular show. Yeah, I already got through one round of security, I suppose. Yeah, exactly. OK, so. You were already on that trajectory.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1536.366

You've said a couple of times school is miserable. What version? I mean, I guess I have hunches. Oh, I really had a very bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1601.29

Now, here's my hope, is that it was... so endearing that it got you out of getting bullied for it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1614.236

Well, that's really kind of life affirming, to be honest, because I do think even shitty kids have some critical mass of suffering. OK, he's already too fucked up. Maybe that's it. They'll push, push, push. And there's a moment where their actual conscious kicks in, I think. That's a really good point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1630.064

So that's weirdly kind of hopeful that you were crying that much and they were just going, don't cry, don't cry. Not like if you cry, you fucking baby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

167.492

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1675.399

What parent do you think it was harder? I mean, it's hardest on you. Let me say that first. As a parent, that would be absolutely heartbreaking for me to know my kid gets on the bus and cries the whole way to school every day. But I weirdly guess that dad would be in a very big panic that this world's going to be too hard for a boy and that he somehow has got to toughen you up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1694.611

And how does he do it? That's exactly what happened. But I didn't think of it that way. He probably so overcome a fear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1712.567

Out of his fear, I'm sure that you were going to suffer your whole life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1725.475

It was genuinely terrifying. Do you mean any sexy Ali Shidi types that were like misunderstood? I have a fantasy about falling in love at one of these places. Oh, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1738.942

You can see the movie in your head, right? The teenagers that go to the derelict center and then she's really hot and misunderstood and she just needs to talk about her dad to you and everything will be fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1757.228

I would be thinking cohabitation with other teenagers. What might happen?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1798.97

Okay, this is great because people may remember a while back, you and I have debated which is better, acetaminophen or ibuprofen. We sure have. So for me, particularly headaches, I got to go Tylenol.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1811.618

But I do like Motrin for muscle pain.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1814.76

Yeah, you won't even play. What about for headaches, though?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1820.91

You're Team Motrin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1824.614

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1838.528

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1859.218

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Jesse Eisenberg

189.792

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

19.095

Hello there. Hello there. Hello there. Jesse Eisenberg. This is a reunion for he and I, as you'll find out. We met one other time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

1905.879

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Jesse Eisenberg

1967.269

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2005.437

Well, there's so many good ones on the list.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2009.409

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2039.34

Were you thinking at that point, there's something fundamentally broken with me and I'm not going to be able to function on this planet?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2078.677

Well, I've heard you talk about harnessing it in a positive direction. I think that's virtually the only option you have on the table is you got to learn to work with your character defects and exploit them for the good side and try to mitigate the downside. Yeah. Yes, I guess so. You have no choice. I wrestle with this, too. I write from a place of you're a lazy piece of shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2097.007

You're a failure if you don't accomplish this. Everything is negatively motivated. And so I relate to when I hear you speak about it. I'm like, oh, yeah, I do a very similar thing. And then feeling guilt that I have to be motivated that way by self-loathing and all this. And then hopefully some compassion and forgiveness and acceptance. You're that way. And OK, here we go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2183.255

No, I think it's possible. I also think it's fascinating that you can have or in my case, it's like this split confidence thing. There's no self-esteem at all in imposter syndrome and all this stuff. And then also this you're a failure, which has innately in it some idea that I'm supposed to be special and super prolific and good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2205.634

So this dichotomy of I'm unworthy and I'm a fraud and also you're supposed to be doing great things. They're kind of incompatible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

227.189

Hi. Welcome. I'm sorry I'm late. Oh, that's okay. Thanks for having me here. Yeah. Oh, you smelled the light bulb. Oh, you too?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2289.178

I picked this up in AA and it's been kind of helpful in me governing how bad the self-loathing can be. Because in there it says that self-pity is the other side of the coin is self-aggrandizement. You've still elevated yourself to some level where the universe cares is against you or you have bad luck coming your way. Right. Like today, you know, something bad's coming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2309.322

You're not that important to warrant this bad luck or the right sizing of the justice. The piece of shit at the center of the universe. Yes, another great AA thing we say a lot. Or I'm not much, but I'm all I think about. That's really funny. Yeah. And sometimes I'll be in that kind of self-pity or it's self-pity adjacent, right? Right, right. And I'll go, this is so indulgent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2329.769

This is as indulgent of being a megalomaniac, which I would not tolerate from myself. So if I can turn that same ire onto the self-loathing part and go like, it's still you feeling way too important.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2348.142

You should. You can imagine someone going, get over yourself. You're not fucking so important and you're not suffering any more than anyone else.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

235.679

Did you guys embrace?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2357.071

I'm the worst narcissist in the world. Yes. I think I'm the worst single narcissist. Yes, but I think it starts dissipating every one of these steps you take. So then it becomes a little manageable that your ego got away from you. I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2372.604

We have this weird dichotomy of being so important and then also zero self-esteem.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2378.908

It seems to be very universal in AA. My hunch is it's probably universal to humans. But we have, for whatever reason, determined that was one of the main driving forces of the self-obliteration process.

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Jesse Eisenberg

239.763

Is it possible it's me?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

242.901

No, no, go smell him.

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Jesse Eisenberg

2422.881

It is quite obvious to me talking to you how Woody Allen would have been such an appealing figure when you were young. Yeah. Because here's a guy that seems to have the outward same personality. grab bag of anxiety and is processing it through art. And it's hysterical. Right. And so this is a time for a really great and weird story, which is you wrote something for Woody Allen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2509.69

Did you hit him with that story on a first meeting or did you wait till you were filming for a while before you told him?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

255.248

So maybe she smelled great, yeah. My compliments to the former owner of that sweater.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2557.695

It was like a joke, but also indicating that there's nothing we're going to be talking about. Do you chalk up the anxiety to just baseline biochemical or do you think any of it is nurture?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2593.322

Well, they got you here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2595.685

I find you very interesting to watch endlessly. So keep processing in public all of your stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2603.694

Okay. So back to now, this radical flip-flopping. It's no wonder you're waiting for the shoe to always drop. So you're in a mental institution and then click of a fingers and you're on a TV show in high school.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

264.553

That's a fun first question. Is most of your wardrobe comprised of shit you've collected on sets?

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Jesse Eisenberg

2668.319

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2678.342

Southern religious Jew. Yeah. Tommy Shlomi, the best dramatic director in television history. He's a Texas Jew. Oh, is he really? With the name Shlomi.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2689.165

No, but he's so special. He was the West Wing guy, right? He did West Wing. Yeah, yeah. I've always seen that name and wondered, why not change it? Yeah. He did the pilot of Parenthood. And I said, just hearing that name, it's one that would make you or break you. And I see it's made you.

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Jesse Eisenberg

2702.196

Like he's so confident and cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2709.122

Anne Hathaway, had she already done a bunch of stuff? No, I think it was both of our first jobs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2717.448

Would you be in scenes with your sister thinking you've got to table your attraction to this person because you're playing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2727.936

Yeah, maybe. I really was not. I bet that's charming to gals. I bet over the years you've had something that would appear to be confidence because you've already just written it off as not an option.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2773.328

Yes. That's its own interesting really story I want to remark. But yeah, five year break that ends a marriage is incredible and unconventional.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2811.891

Oh, this is like Sorrento. She kind of like fell in love with your words. Is that the name of the play? Sorrento?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2819.435

You gave it the Parmesan cheese version of Cyrano. Yeah. Well, I'm always straddling the line between Philistine and know what I'm talking about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2837.486

Yeah, it's a good story. You were going to go to NYU, but instead you did a movie and then you ended up at the new school and you dabbled in anthro. I've graduated in anthropology. I have an anthro degree. Wow. Can I ask why? Yeah. That's exactly why I was going to ask you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2854.781

Through my own childhood, I just always felt outcast. I didn't feel like I agreed with the vibe that was existing around me. I thought there had to be other ways. And answer was like, oh, not only are there other ways, there's like very exotic, interesting other ways. Oh, you mean to just

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

287.602

That's a ding, ding, ding, because my only really sad experience I ever had with wardrobe was Sony. Really? Because in this movie, Zathura, they made this really cool astronaut's outfit for me. And again, there were several. And I wanted it. And they said, no, you can't have it. And I said, well, I'll pay for it. And they said, no, you can't pay for it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2870.293

Yeah, culturally, realizing how flexible culture is and how many versions are out there to try begs the question, are we even close to what version we'll be ultimately living in? Because anthropology teaches you that cultures are not superior or inferior to each other. Cultural relativism. We just got to learn why it functions the way it does, not whether that's good or bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2898.992

Yeah. And I'm feeling like it's unacceptable how I'd like to be doing this. Oh, there isn't a right or wrong. That's comforting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

2974.873

Yeah. Interesting. And then you're doing a bunch of acting while you're at the new schools. Yeah. I would leave every other semester. And is that where Lipson was the new school? Oh, wow. Yes. James Lipton. James Lipton.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3017.505

I hated it too. But if I do some soul searching, I think it's probably because I thought maybe they were better than me. That I haven't studied enough. Oh yeah. And I could understand feeling that way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

304.388

And then years, years later, and I know you're not on social media, but like 15 years later, someone sent me a link to it being sold on eBay for like 15 bucks and it's sold or something completely insignificant. Are you serious? Yes. The whole astronaut outfit. And I was like, those sons of bitches, I would have given them more than $15. Wait, who was selling it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3041.431

Okay, so you come onto my radar in The Squid and the Whale.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3047.053

Which is such an incredible movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3054.015

I saw that movie and I absolutely loved it. I love Jeff Daniels like crazy. I think he's one of the most unsophisticated. sung him a newsroom. Yeah. So I saw that and I thought you were incredible. And I thought that movie was absolutely incredible. Is that Mark kind of, I already know the answer, I think, which is you don't ever feel safe, but did it feel like, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3073.539

The right people are noticing this. I have my foot in the door firmly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3103.947

Well, you have four years between Squid and the Whale and then Zombieland, which unless I'm mistaken, Zombieland's then the next big kind of thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3111.612

So in those four years, where are we at mentally? Also, is there anyone you've isolated as I'm emulating that career or I would like that career? Were you thinking of what kind of actor you were aspiring to be?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3164.814

And that was a follow up to Superbad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3187.261

Zombieland to me was so fucking incredible. I don't like zombie movies. I was like, who's Ruben Fleischer? This guy can fucking direct. There was a Metallica song in the movie, which there almost never is. Yeah, you're right. When you were shooting Zombieland, did you have any sense while it was happening? Like, oh, yeah, this is pretty mega. This is going to be fucking awesome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

324.614

I imagine Sony just was like, we got to get rid of all this. We need 15 bucks? We got to get 15 bucks by Friday. Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3263.252

This is cruel. He's kind of obsessed with Michael Cera.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3316.375

And it takes a while to get comfortable with it. Now, and I've talked to Zach about it as well. It's like, I'm happy to pose in a picture and you think it's Zach and that's great. I don't need to correct anyone. You were great in Garden State. Thank you. I've signed a hot rod.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3377.571

Jesse, that happened to me while I was presenting on stage with this singer. We're midway through one of these award shows like this season's blah, blah, blah. And she just looks at me and she goes, you're so much better looking in real life. And I was really delighted and also like, but hold on now. She thinks I'm rough. Like that's the objective truth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3396.947

As opposed to what she thought before, which is why is this guy in movies, which I would have related to her on. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3402.831

We could have talked all day about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3408.475

OK, now the social network comes along. I guess I just want to know a little bit about how you came to be in that movie. And what's it like? Do you go meet Fincher first? Do you audition? Was it written with you in mind?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

342.342

Yeah, maybe we were both thinking the same thing and then it came out and just didn't. Didn't really do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3488.051

Wow. Did the repeated takes. Let me ask you this. Are you prone to insecurity on set? It sounds like you are having a lot of insecurity on Zombieland.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

350.726

It could also be, you know, the company that made it. They could add duplicates. I don't even know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3556.67

And you famously had no experience on Facebook. You joined for 30 seconds or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3564.933

I joined for like 12 days once. And I looked at everyone I went to junior high with. And when that was over, I was like, I don't know why I'm on here anymore.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3579.062

Well, my conclusion was everyone I looked at, I'm like, oh, they're old. Oh, they got families. You can only do that so long before you go. And clearly I am too, because we're all the same age. Whatever I am looking at them with, I have to acknowledge is happening for me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3600.706

It was one of your movies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

361.389

Okay, this is always a stressful question to hear out loud, especially in public. But do you remember meeting me? Oh, I was actually racking my brain trying to. I'll paint a picture for you. Okay. I don't know the year. It would be between 2008 and 2013 because that's when I shot the show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3615.061

Seven, we love Seven.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3616.602

Fincher's got two on the list for Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3629.17

She would sit in class and watch the movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3634.014

Were you in class at MIT?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3643.46

Well, thank you. You already had your taste of it all with Zombieland, but that's an enormous moment. You get nominated for a BAFTA and a Golden Globe and Academy Award. That prick Colin Firth had done King's Speech, so no one had a chance in hell. Yeah, what was that whirlwind like?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3711.851

Which part? The story about why you're not drawn to it. If I were you, I'd be like, I don't belong there. Those people belong there. That's the real feeling in my heart that I might not want to look at.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3721.62

So I build on top of it a very defendable reason why. Artistic. Which is that awards are bullshit. Pitying artists and all this stuff. The brain quickly fills in a plausible excuse that doesn't require you to own your fear or your vulnerability.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3745.585

And you actually leave going like, no, I actually belong in this group of people, which I keep convincing myself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

375.493

But I was at Universal shooting Parenthood and I'm outside my trailer and I see a young gentleman across the way in front of one of the bungalows. I think having a cigarette. Were you a smoker? No. You weren't a smoker. I could tell from a hundred yards. I'm like, that's just- Oh my God, yes, I do remember.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3751.164

I should be there alone. I don't know why they invited DiCaprio.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

3810.931

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Jesse Eisenberg

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Jesse Eisenberg

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Jesse Eisenberg

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Jesse Eisenberg

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Jesse Eisenberg

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4011.474

Oh, I did want to mention one thing because it seems relevant for A Real Pain, which is Emma Stone, of course, was in Zombieland. Is that the first time you meet her? Yeah. You guys become pals, obviously, because she's a producer on both the movies you directed. Yeah, exactly. I think she is so talented. I think she's so sparkly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4028.991

And I thought, poor thing, she was off the charts great in Zombieland. I find her to be a real unicorn.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4072.117

You're right. There's a hyper intelligence, too. I should have listed that in the mix. Yeah. But so often you go on a movie and you really bond with somebody, but then there's no legs to it afterwards. You both go to different sides of the planet and do another movie for three months. How did you guys end up maintaining that friendship? It just broke through that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4107.429

My hunch is she makes you feel incredibly comfortable to talk to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4112.552

And so for a lot of people, she's the most comfortable person they get to talk to. And so they are in the level of intimacy that they can feel comfortable sharing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

412.051

I mostly out of curiosity had to confirm, like, can I possibly be recognizing that's Jesse Eisenberg from this far away just by how he's standing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4125.083

Because I could also see you convincing yourself to not stay in touch with her. Oh, no, I did. I basically didn't reach out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4184.998

Wow. That is when you finish saving the world. Yeah, exactly. Okay. You do the Now You See Me's. Those are huge hits. John's a friend of ours for part two. John Chu. Oh, really? You got to see Wicked. He fucking slayed it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4198.601

It's insane. OK, it makes a ton of sense. You've written a bunch of plays that have been produced. You've been writing forever and you're acting. So obviously directing is not a big leap. But for you, did it feel like a big declaration?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

42.382

He's a special dude.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4215.768

You were living also in a subset of Hollywood that got largely diminished. You were in a lot of 20 to 60 million dollar movies, quirky comedies. Those went away. The actual sweet spot you were living in is only just deflated over the last 10 years because that's TV now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4237.995

But I'm sure you're at home going like, yeah, no one likes me anymore. Forget the fact that they haven't made a $35 million dramedy in eight years. You know, it literally never crossed my mind.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

427.961

Yeah. And I came over. I'm like, I could tell as you from and you're like, OK, trying to take that in. Like, that's a weird icebreaker. And then we had a nice 15, 20 minute chat. Yes. I don't know why I remember you smoking, but I sexed you up a little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4289.445

Right. And had you convinced yourself that the ride was over, even to the degree where you were trying to transition into gratitude for having been at the party? That's funny. You're talking about the memoir phase of the career. Like the processing of the experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4307.318

Mine is I'm doing Ace True Value hardware commercials regionally in Michigan. And I go, no, you didn't get punked. We do have garden hoses on sale. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4416.558

I didn't know that either until I was reading about you today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4454.909

Okay, great. So here's this other great irony, which is constant fear of the future. But when terrible shit's happening to me, I'm kind of good in terrible shit. I'm fine. Which begs the question, why am I so afraid of the future?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4496.195

Now, I heard you talk about directing. I thought this was a cool thing to acknowledge because I say this kind of publicly. This is a wild business. The most creative person isn't the best director. You have to also lead 120 people in a direction. That's its own skill set. And it's almost bears no relation to the other part of the job.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4516.547

It's like your general manager of a store. Yeah. It's very interesting. You think, oh, if you're creative, you're a writer and you're in your room by yourself. And if you're a good enough writer, eventually they'll go, do you want to direct? You're like, well, I sit in a room by myself. This is going to be a different experience altogether. I liked hearing how you owned that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4533.603

Like, I'm not the kind of guy that can be shouting on set. We're losing the light. But you found your own way through it. What is it that you landed on that made you comfortable in that role?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4619.192

I think I'm best in the things I've directed because, yeah, I'm so distracted by the much bigger issue at hand. So you're unselfconscious. Yeah. There's no time for it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

463.866

Yeah, it's kind of poisonous. I mean, I'm addicted to nicotine greatly. But not cigarettes. I smoked for, I don't know, 15 years. And it's miserable the first, I don't know, 100 cigarettes. You got to really stick with it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4637.39

It gives me an example that I can do the same job without all the bullshit. I don't have to be fearful, right? And I don't have to be nervous. It's almost like immersion therapy for you or I, where you get results and then you have to acknowledge, oh, I didn't need all that racket.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4690.222

Well, I watched A Real Pain last night and I really, really enjoyed it. And in fact, I was watching it. My 11 year old who was just trying to get out of going to bed, which is a great technique. She kind of joined me. She was laying on the floor watching with me. And she goes, this movie is hard to watch. But I really like it. And I'm like, yeah, that's like a whole genre of movies, hon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4710.1

We take for granted all three of us grew up watching certain kinds of movies. And now kids grew up watching like kids movies or tentpole movies. This whole strata. Oh, right. Of like an emotionally taxing talk heavy. It's not in the marketplace. It was cool. This is uncomfortable. You can feel what these guys are going through. And that in itself is very intriguing and pleasurable to consume.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4732.551

But what you're saying is that's unique. My finger's off the pulse. If you're 11, look, we took them to the mall Friday night because I found out there was a Dairy Queen in the Burbank mall. Once we got there, I realized, oh, we've never been to the mall with the kids. They think this is spectacular. We're in Macy's. They're on every bed, every couch, every chair. And I'm like, oh, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4751.272

This was my entire childhood going to the mall. They never been there just because mall culture is not the same thing. Well, we don't shop at the mall. We shop online. And this particular mall, the Burbank Mall, shout out. It's a time warp. It's the 80s. This is the same terrible things at the food court. It was just one of these dumb things where I was like, oh, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4768.056

I spent every weekend of my life at a mall. This is their first time to a mall at 11 years old. In that way, this movie was weirdly refreshing because this movie could have been all of movies. Yeah, yeah. Could have been. What director do I want to say? Not Hal Ashby, but there's a 70s vibe to this movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4798.984

Yeah, she liked Kieran, but Kieran is also making everyone very, very uncomfortable around him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4804.805

Yeah, it's unpredictable. All right, so let's set up the movie and then I want to hear your own history and going into it. The thing I want to applaud the most is just as a writer, it's such a different story by the conceit of it. So you and your cousin, who are very close as kids, who are separated in adulthood geographically and socioeconomically and all these things, you shared a grandma.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4825.331

She lived in Poland, World War II, and she died and she left you guys money to go visit where she's from. And you guys joined a tour. Yeah. With a really fun group of different people with different reasons to be on the tour. And now we're just on this tour through Poland and it's a Holocaust tour. And there's these cousins trying to come to terms with how different their lives have turned out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4846.657

I'm sure the implicit guilt in your character's mind. And he's Kieran. So he's the dude from Succession. He's impossibly charismatic, can get away with saying anything. Yeah. And it's really fun to watch. What's your, I know you have some similar bit of history with Poland and your aunt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

49.924

He is incredible. He's an Academy Award nominated actor, filmmaker. Did I say actor?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4941.098

For lack of better verbiage, he seems kind of bipolar. You don't know what you're going to get on what day. Is he going to be really high and ramping up everyone else around him? Or is he going to be in the pits and drag everyone down with him?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

4976.461

There are two different characters. But are they you? I mean, are they your superego and your id?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5012.366

There's also all this great exploration of what the third generation Jewish experience is. But it brings up different things that you could potentially be dealing with with that family history that's shared by so many.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5026.392

One of them I found was fascinating I had never really considered was in your great moment of frustration with your cousin, you say the notion that he's living in the basement of his parents' home, knowing what his own grandmother went through and survived, is like somehow this cosmic disappointment. Exactly. It never occurred to me...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5048.058

That people would feel that way, but of course they probably would. That might be an actual thought people have who feel like they're underachieving.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5093.007

Yeah, you inherit. It's more than the immigrant story. It's the survivor immigrant story. And yeah, I think about my own self-flagellation. And if I could add in there that my Papa Bob, he was orphaned. He adopted all of his younger brothers and sisters and supported them. I think what that man went through. And I'm like, yeah, I didn't get X movie to Y actor. Isn't that weird?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5112.902

What a shameful place I'm occupying in my head right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5162.08

Yeah, just all more fuel. And then again, the story he's telling, like, yeah, just an outward rejection of all wealth because he doesn't have it. Also, these stories that he's telling himself, Kieran. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Rich people are fucking idiots.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

519.787

My overarching hunch is that you've convinced yourself there's a lot of things you can't pull off that you could. Maybe that's true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5197.149

Yes. And why the thing you're doing is the natural and right thing to be doing. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5229.959

I think this is some of the great angst with economically disenfranchised people is they're hearing rich people talk about that they should care about the planet. Right. And they're like, yeah, let me handle dinner and rent and I might join you in this existential crisis that's a thousand years away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5246.963

There is some reality, like when your full bandwidth is made up of surviving, a lot of these other concerns are trivial.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

525.989

So my gut's telling me you think you weren't pulling it off and you probably were.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5300.537

Were the places you were filming actual?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5353.881

All of it's overwhelming. And so I don't like thinking about it. And my best course of action is to explain why. It's just to basically fall on Nietzsche, to have kind of a... Nillis takeaway is your only recourse to not suffer in thinking about it. I'll go, yeah, bad shit happens on planet Earth. People are tribal. And that's the facts of life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5373.401

It's all an attempt so I don't actually have to feel how miserable that might be. Oh, I see. I got a little compartment in my head and it's like, yeah, the Earth's gnarly. We do gnarly shit. People are susceptible to cults of personality and we're social animals. I understand it, quote. Therefore, I don't have to feel it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5389.033

But I think going there, I go, it matters a ton and it's real and it's palpable. And there's nothing I can do to really think my way out of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

539.112

Yeah. This is one of Monica and I's longest standing battles. I think she's cooler than she thinks she is. I encouraged her to shave. I think I'm

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5407.769

To understand intellectually. Exactly. One detail that I absolutely love that you had in the movie, only because I just read this book, When We Cease to Understand the World. Have you read that book? Oh, no. You must read this book because you show the Prussian blue... On the gas chambers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5431.408

Did you read Maniac yet? His next book? Oh, did he write another thing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5434.99

He's French, right? He's like from 10 different countries. French is his first language, but he might be in Argentina writing. Oh, that's exactly what it was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5447.058

Yes. And so to tell people, Prussian blue only exists as a byproduct of the poisonous gas that was used.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5456.301

So Prussian blue is just this beautiful color in a palette of painters and it was discovered in some year. I forget which year. And when you create that compound that's in cyanide or you say in the movie. We say Zyklon B. Yeah, those chemicals create the color Prussian blue, which is so beautiful. And all of the gas chambers had Prussian blue all over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5477.41

Like the gas just would seep out of the doors where they would open it. So surrounding the door going in. And so now like 80 years later, the stains are still on the wall. And there are these clouds of the prettiest blue you've ever seen. It's so weird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

55.986

He's a borderline blessing. Wow. And he's a playwright. The Social Network. Come on, guys. Now You See Me. There's two, three, third coming maybe? Zombieland. Oh! Fleischman in Trouble. Great show. When you finish Saving the World and his movie is out right now, A Real Pain, which is a bonafide great movie. I hope people check out this movie. It's so, so good. It's so unique and honest and great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

550.975

No, no, just the side. I thought she could really pull off like kind of a punk. One side. One side shaved. I like that. Right? Picture her in that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5502.168

I mean, they purposely named that because they're white supremacy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5504.47

Isn't that fascinating? It's a fantastic movie. You did a fucking great job. It's really, really good and refreshing and new and interesting and a cool story. And Kieran's phenomenal and you're phenomenal. Thank you so much. I appreciate you saying that. Yeah. And I'm delighted that you accomplished so much in such short time and on such little money. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5524.169

We just had someone on who was just here talking. Oh, maybe Anna Kendrick. When you make a movie for such a low budget, you want two things. You want America to think it costs 100 million, but you want everyone to know you only have 3 million. Oh, that's brilliant. I want the credit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5538.82

Of having made a big movie for a very little amount of money, but I want everyone to think it costs a hundred million.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5567.933

Right. Puffy chair. We can name them probably. Yeah. Well, Jesse, this has been wonderful. I've enjoyed this so much. I hope everyone checks out A Real Pain. It's so, so good. What's interesting, it's Searchlight. This all makes sense because I watched a Disney debut, which is their like screening platform. But of course, Disney owns Fox and Fox Searchlight. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5587.867

Will it make its way to Disney then?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5596.894

Just type in Holocaust on Disney+. Yeah, yeah, exactly. What if it said, I don't like to talk about that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5602.918

Yeah, yeah, exactly. Maybe you'd enjoy Dumbo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5607.742

Yeah. All other saddest movies come up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

563.718

Well, how do you know it's you until you try on some looks?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5641.287

They're doing what we do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5644.409

Yeah, exactly. Next stop.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5646.97

All right. Well, I enjoyed meeting you on the lot some 12 years ago, and now this has been even better. I hope everyone watches A Real Pain, and we would love for you to come back when you're doing it again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5670.034

I want to give a public shout out to the number one bunny in America, the number one rabbit, Carly Barton, my little sister. She got out all 1500 sweaters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5683.224

In like two days.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5684.845

She had to borrow the truck, multiple trips to the post office.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5689.349

But she cranked. That little gal can work. I think I can always call her a little girl. It's not disrespectful on a feminine standpoint because it's my little sister. And she'll always be a little girl. I think she likes being a little sister.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5703.189

Yeah. I like being a little brother. I mean, I hated being a little brother, but now I like being a little brother.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5712.057

You wish.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5715.16

Yeah. Oh, here's something that I wanted to bring up because I always talk about things I love that I've seen. And I know you're never going to watch this, which really breaks my heart. But do you know about the Yacht Rock documentary on Max? My God, is it good?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5732.365

First of all, Simmons produced it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5736.469

Oh, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5740.524

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5742.566

He's crushing that dock space.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5744.388

I've removed my shoes for comfort.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5748.512

Thank you. It's really good. And you know, I consider myself a student of Yacht Rock. As you know, since you've known me, Yacht Rock was my thing. It gives you the origin of Yacht Rock. It was a comedy sketch by these guys in the 90s. They coined the term Yacht Rock.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5762.967

I knew all the players, of course, and you know my love for Steely Dan. But I got to be honest, I don't think I knew how much Steely Dan is the hub of all that music. I mean, you can trace all of it so perfectly to all just them being the nucleus. And you know, Steely Dan is my absolute favorite. I force people to talk about it all the time, especially when we have musicians.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5785.639

So what a delight for me to hear that that was the glue that held all that together.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5793.483

Yep, yep, yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5795.823

He and I, well, Molly sent me the best video ever. If she says to her Alexa or whatever device she has, hey, Alexa, play good music. She did a video of this. It'll go playing Dax's playlist, like the playlist that Jimmy made for me is what Alexa thinks is good music.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5823.459

There's a few bands, I guess that's where the debate is like, where does the line, like Hall & Oates is not yacht rock, but that's so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5830.721

Right. A lot of people would say why.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5833.862

And then there are people like Kenny Loggins is one of the, he'd be on the Mount Rushmore of yacht rock, but he also danced in all the genres. He also had a lot of rock and a lot of pop and then all these seminal yacht rock jams.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5853.624

Neither of those are... James Taylor is not Yowrock.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5857.652

You think so?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5861.604

Well, if you watch the doc, they give you a pretty good framework for what it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5868.408

So the band that's at the hub is, of course, Steely Dan. But then the individual that's the common connective tissue is Michael McDonald. He's in every single one of these things in some capacity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5882.195

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5887.398

He's going to make one for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5904.691

100% of the comments are about you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5907.472

Yeah. People's enthusiasm and excitement for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5917.554

When Friends was the salve.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

592.231

Have you ever bought a car and then you got in the car and you're like, fuck, I don't think I can do this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5950.981

You had to even tell him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5960.869

You didn't tell anyone it was coming up? Because when I did Toto, I couldn't, whenever I was with the boys, I'm like, oh, dude, Toto said this, Toto said that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5973.221

Oh, interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5979.647

OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5980.727

OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5984.17

I need you to be brutally honest. So I was going to wear a hat because, as you know, I am involved, engaged in a two front war with the thickness of my hair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

5993.398

And so I have a product that I have to use in the morning and at night. And it makes my hair terrible. I have an eyedropper, a drop, drop, drop, drop, drop. I just want it on my scalp. That's what I'm hoping. And then I try to get my fingers in there and just rub the scalp. But of course, it gets all over the hair. And then it's a pharmaceutical. So it's not like a hair product you'd want to use.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

600.572

Oh, okay. To pull behind a trailer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6012.592

And so my hair just always looks bad, basically, because I'm putting it on in the morning and then at night. So take your pick. It's going to look bad. So I'm wearing a lot of hats lately because I don't want to deal with it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6024.341

Or maybe I won't put in that product. I'll just I'll give up some some territory in this war. I might lose the battle today, but worth it so that I don't have to wear a hat at work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6034.889

And then so I was that was all happening. I just exercise went in there, cleaned up. What are we going to do here? Wear a hat. And I go, I'm not going to wear a hat. And now I'm here. And then just crossed my mind. Does my hair look crazy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6050.496

Yeah, I got to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6053.879

On a day I'm not going to wear a hat, I would forego the treatment so that my hair doesn't look all goopy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6062.026

But then I decided at the last minute when I came down, no, I'm not going to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6069.753

Okay, great. It doesn't look insane.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6073.978

Like a big block of plastic on half my hair and then normal hair everywhere else.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6083.051

Tell me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6088.069

That tickle your scalp?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6101.926

It's a great idea, but I think if you'd use the product, you would know why that's not going to be an option for me because I do the eyedropper. Well, inevitably, it wants to start running down my forehead, and I don't think I can get it in my eyes. So I just got to immediately stop it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6118.577

It's like you've spilled something on the counter, and it's making its way towards the edge, and it's going to go down on the floor. You got to really quick get involved. Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6129.865

Well, that's front number one of the war. it's two front war i'm fighting in the front and in the back the middle we're fine i don't really need so most of my drops are all along the front and then it wants to because of gravity come down my face okay i have another idea what about q-tips what about if you put it on a q-tip and then you dab dab dab So I almost think I tried that method.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6160.272

The problem is, is like I've got an eyedropper and I don't know in milliliters, but it's a considerable amount of fluid. If I was going to douse a Q-tip, we would be in there for like 45 minutes to get enough of that fluid on the Q-tip, get that then transferred to the scalp, then go back because the Q-tip doesn't absorb all that much. And you're supposed to do two of the eyedroppers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6181.589

It's a lot of fluid.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6185.347

Well, a hat, I think, is great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6188.41

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6203.892

We love Heather. As a human, I mean, I don't know much about the products, but she's a wonderful woman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6217.181

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6222.955

As a theme across the board in your home.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6226.16

Okay. That's the wicked colors.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6229.465

Because Kristen did a wicked tree and it's pink and green.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

623.444

Well, you kind of answer the question. So that was my hobby as a kid. So I'm pretty mechanical and we have a tour bus. And I say to my wife every time we're in it, because the entire time we're operating, it's breaking. Like it's breaking real time as fast as I can fix anything. There's too much gadgetry on it. Of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6235.113

You wanted to be more original.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6246.41

Well, in full honesty, when I look at our wicked tree, I don't think wicked. No. I mean, green obviously is very embedded into the wicked aesthetic. Yeah. But I don't know about pink. Does that represent her?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6264.355

What's her name?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6265.996

Glenda or Glenda?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6276.564

Yeah, apparently it's an essential part of the sauce. Speaking of Ariana Grande.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6283.749

Did I already say this on here? No. Oh, my sweetest little Delty.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6290.29

She has her first star, Sheila. Oh, my God, you guys. I love it so much. It's her version of Lincoln's Taylor Swift. She finally has her girl and it's Ariana Grande. And she has printed up. She goes on the Internet and finds she types in Ariana Grande color. It's in my phone as a search, which is problematic. But she uses my phone sometimes. Sure. It's like a drawing outline.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6319.957

And then she prints up all these little things and then she colors them all day long. And then she's now telling me a lot of facts about Ariana Grande. And she wants to know when we're going to interview her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6334.402

Well, of course, I'll die. I'll die getting her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6338.284

Because my little girl. Anyways, it is so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6344.607

I know. My gals did not shoot low. They have good taste. They went right for the stars. But boy, do I like it. And I really like, it's just so cute when you love something when you're little and you start gathering all the facts. And she's telling me about her vocal range and why she's special in this way, in that way. So cute. Oh, I love it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6366.097

It's pure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

637.576

And I always say to Chris, I'm like, what is your normal person who's not a mechanic do with these recreational vehicles? Is yours in constant need of

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6402.233

Do you remember Adam Ogier? We interviewed him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6405.976

Instagram CEO, head of head of Instagram. I don't know what the title is, but I follow him. And, you know, there is a feature on Instagram where you can wipe your algorithm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6416.704

Yeah. It's like if you're starting to see stuff too often that you don't like or maybe you watch. In my case, it would be like I watched a fight video. Because there are certain fight videos I love. If it's like a little guy that was getting bullied by a big guy in a car situation, he gets out and he happens to knock the guy out. I love that. Sure. But then they think I like every kind of fight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6436.444

And then I just, and then it's sticky. I kind of, it's hard for me to resist looking, watching fights. And I don't want to watch a bunch of fights. Yeah. So like that's a case I might go in there and like just wipe it and then start fresh. But that's a feature now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6452.034

He's a very thoughtful person. mindful person that's trying to make that thing the best version of it. There's like a real commitment. Remember when he was here, they were going to hide likes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6464.349

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6467.35

And I don't think the consumer wanted that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6469.331

But they tried, which I think in theory was a really kind of good idea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6475.434

But I do appreciate that there seems to be a lot of effort being made to keep it a kind of positive place.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6490.882

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Jesse Eisenberg

6581.333

Like I love that she's drawing pictures of her. I don't mind going on the internet and getting the little things, but I don't really want her just mindlessly ingesting a bunch of videos.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

659.453

That's basically a down payment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6591.197

I.e. fights in parking lots.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6598.32

Probably at school. That's where you learn everything, right? Probably like one friend learns one thing and they add to the thing. The other friend's like, I heard she owns a Chihuahua. And you're like, yeah, you know, I don't think she owns, I don't even know if she owns a dog. That was just an example, a theoretical example. Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6633.516

The last one was Charlie Brown Christmas and then half of Frosty. Have you watched any?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6647.067

Again, I just think it'd be so trippy to be in one of those movies where like every single year everyone's reminded of you. It's like a hit song.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6658.572

You don't get that with movies. People aren't like making time to watch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6663.714

Hurt Locker, which was an incredible movie, but in large part, I'll never be seen again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6668.317

So it's kind of a gift. It's a blessing to end up in one of these.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

668.859

Yes. Did they eat any plumbing? Because mice ate plumbing in my bus and it was so expensive because I have all this water. You know, I have two toilets and shit. They fucking ate through the plastic hoses. We went on vacation. All the water dumped on all the electronics, short circuited everything in the bus, the shades, the lights, everything. And then you found out later.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6705.336

But it was almost mine for a minute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6707.398

When he had a scheduling conflict. But then they worked it out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6713.198

You could have been, you could have been, I could have been in one of those where everyone remembers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6718.779

They should re-release without a paddle and just give it a ton of Christmas songs. Maybe that'll be a good trick.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6735.415

It's funny you would say that. Well, no, it's just set during Christmas. You know, I tried to do this with chips and I was a bit heartbroken because I love that just in the background of L.A. in Lethal Weapon was Christmas because it's so especially if you're from Michigan, it's weird that California is Christmas. How are they doing it? They don't have fucking snow or anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6755.708

There's something really neat about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6757.469

So I have this great scene between Michael Rosenbaum and Vincent D'Onofrio. And he pulls over Michael. And where we shot it is right at the 101 where you get off at Vine. So in the background was the Capitol Records building. And they always put this enormous Christmas light tree. It's like the shape of a tree on the roof. And it's so iconic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6783.352

And every shot I kind of built around making sure that was behind D'Onofrio. Uh-huh. And it was so great. And it was the opening scene. And I was like, oh, it's great. It's going to have a Christmas. And we have other Christmas stuff. But when that one went away, that scene didn't make the movie. It was a great scene on its own, but it didn't really service the movie all that well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6801.566

So that scene got left entirely unseen. And then it really took out the momentum of the Christmas aspect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6808.851

Yeah. But I was trying to do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6811.573

Yeah, because I love a little Papa Christmas in the movie. Everyone says triggers in a negative way, but there's really positive triggers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6823.795

Oh, yeah. Well, I think we think because everyone says I was triggered every fourth sentence.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6830.338

In popular culture, myself guilty of it, too. And it's never a good thing at the end of it. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

685.545

This was the work of mice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

687.706

A coordinated effort by mice. What's the solution here? New fucking plumbing. But I mean, how do you get mice out of the things?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6876.363

They wouldn't like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6881.805

Well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6885.746

But you can't put a museum in the middle of someone's neighborhood. That does remind me. Last thing. Lincoln and Delta and I on Sunday, we went into Altadena. I think a bit because you and I had shot a commercial there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6907.931

And you went.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6914.255

Same.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6915.216

So we were shooting a commercial there. And then I kind of remembered, I think they have a street here that's super Christmassy, known around town. So then I hit up Bree because she lives adjacent to Altadena.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6926.162

And I said, isn't there a strange, oh yeah, you got to go Christmas tree lane. It's right by the public library, blah, blah, blah. So, and she said, we let the kids hang out the sunroof because you drive really slow. And I was like, okay, great. I got great tips. I'm going to bring the Raptor because it's got a huge sunroof.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

694.609

Well, first I went on a mice killing spree, which was I put traps out in the bus with yummy, yummy peanut butter. Those ones were ethical. And this fell on my sister, unfortunately. She had to go release them in Griffith Park. I assume they came right back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6942.526

So Lincoln and Delta and I went up to Christmas tree lane and we spent two hours just crawling through all the neighborhoods, looking at all of the houses that were decorated. And there are some doozies. I'm so, I'm so proud of those people that put in that effort. Some of these displays, some, that was a week of installation for sure. There was, there was a full Christmas vacation house. Oh,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

6973.234

With like the characters there. There was someone had the lamp from Christmas story. You know, the dad wins that stupid lamp. It's a sexy leg with a stocking on it and then a lampshade and then the dogs break it. And he's so upset. My lamp, my lamp. And he spends his whole time gluing it back together. And that looks insane. Someone had one of the actual things in their window. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7000.133

Someone put up this huge. It's like you're standing inside of a Christmas photo. They put a big border with Merry Christmas and it's lit. So you can get out and step behind it. So I got the girls standing behind.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7013.687

Signs from the city. No parking during this time. It's designated as an attraction. And you just coast through. Wow. And people walk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7024.211

We hung out the sunroof. Not we, them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7027.933

I can't reach the pedals. You have cruise control. Fuck, you're right, Rob. I should have set the cruise on six miles an hour. Maybe ghost ride it. It just got out and walked next to it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7040.191

Yeah, it was really, really fun. And then we made the mistake of going to the In-N-Out in Altadena. And it was, it was a record. Waiting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7065.932

Good for them. They don't build out for it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

707.994

Yeah, it's like a little resting area before we take our next trip. Right, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7074.395

Well, Bree and I used to see those commercials because we would sing. That was our love song.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7088.471

But we would say what made it our love song is we would say in and out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7098.235

We would say hand in burger. That's what made it a love song.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7107.419

Like that would be a sex song.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7110.461

One more thing about In-N-Out. My mother went to California when I was a kid, when I was a skateboarder. We couldn't believe she was going to California, USA. We had never been. We never even met people that went to California.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7123.129

When she came back, what she had seen while she was out there, this is what a good mom she was. She had seen other skateboarders and they had the In-N-Out sticker on their skateboards. It would say In-N-Out Burger and the skateboarders would cut off the B and the R. So it said In-N-Out Urge.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7140.261

oh and she brought back a stack of the stickers for david and i and she showed us how to cut off the thing cute yeah and were people like that's so cool man people thought it was really cool california like oh my god the land of fruit nuts i told you my my friend's mom said that yeah were you it was california like a crazy fantasy as well for you

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7166.169

But just as a place long before, like I wanted to be in show business. It was just like, oh, they surf out there. They skateboard out there. There's palm trees out there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7175.592

We were infected with the fantasy of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7186.556

Oh, see. OK, well, then that maybe. Yeah. Then it's a real place. So, of course, you wouldn't have had that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7193.558

The first time I went, I think my mom took me when I was maybe 14 or 15 to do legwork for a car show. So we were working.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7200.321

But we flew and we went to Riverside. That's where the car show was. What? No disrespect to Riverside folks. Not the fantasy of California. Like a land, you're 50 miles from the ocean. Yeah. It's industrial. Yeah. It's sprawling. I was like, this is California. Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

721.66

Here's the other thing about mice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7223.551

But then we went to San Francisco because we had legwork up there. And then we rode the trolley. Yeah. And I was like, well, this is a fantasy land.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7236.899

You did? Mm-hmm. Your parents were good. Good parents.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7240.361

Took their little girl all over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7242.202

Show her the world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7245.485

Cause you split.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7246.506

Yeah. They shouldn't have shown you this place.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7254.513

That's my Riverside experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7269.265

But he has done a lot of work here in Hollywood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

727.362

OK, great point. I didn't see how much debris there was underneath. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But yeah, they love insulation and wood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7292.01

I didn't know. I'm wondering what percentage of the audience will know immediately who I'm talking about. Because as soon as I heard Pepsi Girl, I could see her in my head. The spirally curls.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7303.419

Search bicycles in Paris.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7308.443

Where is that? I think that's Austria.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7313.544

That's what I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7315.025

God, is it beautiful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7320.59

Oh, she loves her Pepsi's.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7324.374

Look at her little teeth. I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7331.681

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7337.883

Well, yeah, of course not. It's his sister.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7342.585

My sister is cute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7360.034

I want the best for her. I always have. Well, that's great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7377.552

Oh, really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7379.553

I don't know if people with dimples like dimples, even though we all like their dimples.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7385.315

Lincoln was just telling me that there are now a trend on social media is there's like a freckle filter. People put freckles on themselves. And what a turn of events. Everyone with freckles didn't want them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7400.781

And I was trying to explain to her, look, here's how it goes, Link. Whatever you don't have, you want. I wanted curly black hair. Sure. Everyone with curly black hair wanted straight blonde hair. Yeah, exactly. I had a ton of freckles. It was like a fart cloud on my face. And of course, I didn't want freckles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7420.349

You don't?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7421.551

There's probably too much like sun damage under. I bet if I got good, if I got like acidy facials, maybe it would reveal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7429.16

But you know, my arms are freckled to high heaven.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7431.864

It's almost like I'm almost turning a person of color just on the arms. If you just saw my arms.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7451.836

They pop.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7452.756

Oh, in the summer, my freckles were on fire.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7457.338

A lot of freckles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7458.878

They are cute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7462.599

When you get your designer kid.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7465.34

A girl with dimples.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7472.683

It's a cute name, too, for what it is. It's onomatopoeia.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7484.086

That would be the easiest thing for them to do for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7488.927

No, I don't know if I understand how it works, but I do believe there's some kind of a facelift you can get with strings where they put string in your face somehow. So clearly they could just put the string in and suck that part of the string in. And if they haven't invented that, that's mine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7517.834

I want string involved. It's only $1,500. Oh, that sounds way too cheap for facial surgery. This is not where you want to save a buck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7529.917

You're going to have six dimples.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7535.939

If you like two dimples, why wouldn't you like four?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7568.712

That you were obsessed with and turned out one of her parents was Indian.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7573.755

Well, have a kid with carrot top or something. Ooh, that's a good idea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7578.519

Yeah. Red curly hair. Dimples. And then I'm going to give her... Are there any Indians with red hair?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7617.04

Because cricket infestation. Yeah. I don't know what's going on because they're here in the studio. And then when I'm in the hot tub at night, it's so loud behind my head, the crickets. It's interesting because in the summertime in Michigan, I love the sound of crickets. Yeah. In the hot tub at night or when we're recording, I hate it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7634.43

Again, we had this moment last week where the guest was becoming very emotional and it was a very sweet moment. And like, it was almost like someone cued the cricket. Like there was a second. Crickets, crickets, crickets.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7646.099

The PA was like, cue the crickets. All of a sudden, the crickets were so loud in there. And I was like, oh, my God, this is so embarrassing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7680.639

Just brew a pot of peppermint tea and just splash it everywhere?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7685.143

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7712.114

What if I took that mouse to court, like a small claims court, and I said, look, you need $3,500 worth of damage here on my bus. And the mouse is standing there. Maybe the mouse has a lawyer. I'm not sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7724.561

But the mouse is just there. What do you say about this? And he's just like...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7749.863

You can.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

775.486

Yeah, and you don't want to be in a long-term negotiation. Just throw out your final number. Listen, I'm easy. We want to sell. The seller is very motivated. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7754.384

Yeah. I don't have such an interest in... or it's just more I had an interest in keeping my costume.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7774.335

That's different than the Will Ferrell kicking and screaming, though? I think it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7814.044

Do they mean his nationality or his ethnicity?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7825.652

Okay. I sent it to Kutcher the other day. I said, I don't know if I've already recommended this book or not. Sent him the link on Audible. And then he said, I'm pretty sure I'm the one who recommended this to you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7861.334

Yeah. Who was, did you love any singers?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7865.938

You did?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7867.44

Good for you. It's Britney, Bridge.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7872.445

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7880.421

Probably more just to be involved.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7887.545

You don't know shit about yacht rock.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7894.834

Soft rock.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7898.137

So that's like, yeah, Carly Simons goes in there, James Taylor, soft rock for sure. Yeah. Yacht rock is a subset of soft rock.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7916.737

It's a goodie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7917.698

One of my faves. I'm re-listening to it right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7924.163

You're writing a lot of checks that I don't know that your little buns are going to cash. We'll see.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7932.29

Happy holidays. Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

7949.262

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

806.219

Only to get 20 miles down the road and realize there's a major mechanical issue with the trailer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

82.102

Please enjoy Jesse Eisenberg, The Blessing. The blessing. You don't watch Christmas Vacation enough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

828.97

OK, this is great. So cars can be so healing because you're saying you feel very confident and sounds like you're aggressive in the car. Ooh, I see where you're going. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

858.39

But I do think the car, so we, okay, you were brought home as a little tiny bambino to Queens? Wow, yes. Okay, but then when do we move to New Jersey? Wow. Oh, this is the tip of the iceberg. You're already impressed?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

870.399

That's very cursory. I'll get deeper. Are you serious? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I have your physical from 10th grade.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

888.653

I was counting down the days till 16. I could not wait. But I grew up in a rural area of Michigan outside of Detroit. And in New Jersey, clearly kids were driving, right? You were probably anxious to get your permit and all that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

91.739

Let's have Aunt So-and-So say grace. Grace? She's been dead for years. No, the blessing. They want you to say the blessing. He's pointing at his teeth or something. Why is he pointing? Because he's very old and he has a toupee and it catches on fire. A lot's going on on that. Please enjoy Jesse Eisenberg. We are supported by Audible. Audible's best of 2024 picks are here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

923.366

It's kind of like an acting exercise. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, this is the greatest day of your life. So no matter what, that would be an acting exercise. This is the greatest day of your life, no matter what information you hear. And then I would say, thank you for coming in, Mr. Eisenberg. We just got your lab results back. And unfortunately, you are showing a very large tumor in your neck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

939.695

You've got a couple months left. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

949.246

No, the acting exercise is this is the greatest day of your life, despite whatever information. I get it, I get it. Okay, got it. Mr. Eisenberg. Let's take this back. Let's try it one more time. Okay, got it. Did you cut, Rob?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

961.946

Don't ever cut. Wait till I yell cut. Yes, we did get your sonogram back of your chest and you have a very large mass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

971.096

Eight to 12 inches, it seems like on the scan. So virtually your full left lobe of your lung.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jesse Eisenberg

988.025

Oh, my God. Well, congratulations. You're going to love it. It's a great show. Be patient of the first three episodes. OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Buck Rogers and I'm joined by Gene Lightyear. Hi.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1002.757

Quite simply, I had been told in comments that I got made fun of on Two Bears by Bird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1024.312

I've been doing this for nine fucking years. What's funny is I'm aware of that. I come to expect that. But then somehow I see a video of Bert telling a story where he said, I feel really bad that I made fun of Dax Shepard. And he did this incredible thing, which he sent me merch, which I didn't do, but an armchair he did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1072.653

All of it, I totally understand. And I would be fucking annoyed. And then we hashed this all out on his show and it was lovely. I've done that to a few people. And so when it happens to me, I understand it more. It's helpful, right? When you go like, all right, it's the same thing I did. I don't even mean it. They probably don't mean it either. You're looking for a funny take.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1121.1

Listen, I'm so pro-drinking. I'm so pro-drugs. Everyone that can do it should be doing it as much as they can. I'm doing it tonight. I got to shoot something tomorrow. And I was like, I don't want to look bloated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1131.605

People are going to recognize me if I'm not bloated. Kind of bloated and a lot bloated. I have to drink to keep up my personality. But what I would say about that point is simply to address the you that is the problem, which I would agree with. It's best to do that not drunk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1146.268

You're not the most objective version of yourself when you're trying to do some self-analysis is when you're feeling very confident and better looking than you are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1188.881

We'll just talk to anyone in their first year of sobriety. They're either fucking nonstop. They've started online gambling or something. The best feeling in the world is gambling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1199.512

The heart race.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1231.837

Oh, beautiful. So that's a $3,600 payout.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1236.478

It goes to the fucking house. No, they get their tips. No, she puts it in the bucket. We're going to fact check that. They got to get their tips.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1350.024

There's already a pay gap. Just go make some money. And he's black. You don't want black dudes to win.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1374.823

I know, I was like, oh God. I'm going to keep the money. They've had enough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1433.665

We had wild moments doing that. That's what I love in life. Oh, for sure. OK, we must get to how you're here. So Tampa Jesuit school shocker to me. Loved it. Define me. You describe yourself as a dum-dum all the time. It's kind of part of your onstage persona.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1449.139

you can't get to a jesuit school and be a dum-dum they specialize in making people very critical thinkers challenging of opinions you'd be shocked at how many dum-dums are in my phone right now that are all jesuit graduates the funniest dudes ever my group of friends in high school without a doubt were the funniest individuals i've ever known in my life so then you go to florida state and this is important you're there for how many years six or seven

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1473.487

Six and a half. Year six of his enrollment at Florida State, Rolling Stone is in search of the biggest party school. They do an article and they crown Burt the hardest partying guy at the hardest partying school.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1489.129

And you kind of have a moment of... celebrity all of a sudden in your sixth year. It's the best. It's my first taste of celebrity. I'll tell you, it was intoxicating. And clearly every kid on that campus read that article. It's going to be the biggest news possible that they got crowned that. Everyone did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1596.74

Wow. This is nuts because normally you're chasing fame and it takes forever and then you maybe get it or you don't. Fame found you. You're like, oh, I like this. How on earth do I keep this going? This sounds shallow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1648.078

exactly yeah my wife's from georgia what part bowden it's a really small redneck town sorry anyone from bowden listening no shout out anyway fame felt good well the gals were staring at you did they talk to you came over sat down with us it filled holes that i didn't know i had but i knew were there dude we all want to be the gorgeous quarterback of the football team we want to know what it's like to just walk down the hall and people turn and they look at you if a girl said she wanted to have sex with me and this happened a couple times

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1745.001

I was like, yo, if I don't get famous quick. You realize you were on minute 17. Yeah. Of the 15 minutes. You're like, uh-oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1758.249

And then I started getting good at stand-up quicker than I should have. Let's talk about your dad, though. One second, because I know this part from when I was on your show. Your dad lets you have it at one point. Yeah. This, to me, on the surface, sounds like the wrong approach, but it really worked for you. Tell Monty what happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

179.458

Yeah. And you have it nearly as bad as me, which is you record in a house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1836.222

You're a fucking mulligan. You're going to be a failure forever. Let's game plan that. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

1873.801

One more day as a piece of shit, please. It's like a junkie going, can I party on the plane? I already bought some. Can I get through that? We'll go to treatment after. He goes, you don't deserve a party. Oh man, he was fucking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

19.636

Hi. Everyone will know who Burt Kreischer is. When I describe a jolly man with no shirt on who does stand up, he does not do his profession with a shirt on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

2336.472

I would argue to your particular version of fame is really fun. Cause you're a good time. Charlie, you're like a turnkey. When you show up, people are like, Oh, we're partying. That's the association. Yeah. So generally when people see you, they're fucking pumped to have a good time. I love to have a good time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

2353.261

When does this stand up take off where you're headlining and you're starting to make good money? I worked for Travel Channel for like eight years. You would go to amusement parks and stuff. You would go on thrill rides. You jumped off the stratosphere and you're afraid of all this stuff. Yeah. Eight years. I did that for three years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

2428.973

I was only able to sleep nine hours uninterrupted last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

255.283

My daughter, I listen to that kind of music. So how many years ago did you stop recording at home? Because I went to a house, but that's not where you were living. That is just our studio. Probably three years ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

2698.857

I got it late in life, which is the best thing that can happen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

2702.26

Because you're so rich now. Oh, you're so rich. You can Google it. Okay, so really quick. I want to know. So you've since done, I guess, five stand-up specials. This will be your fourth on Netflix. You had the Showtime one. You had a couple on Comedy Central. Last year when you toured, did you do a full tour last year? Yeah, yeah. Last year was my arena tour.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

281.112

I was acting like I did. I thought I could context clues.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

2853.08

Don't you think it's also dangerous when you have this thing to lean on, which is like something's working so well in your life. You're like, yeah, I'm drinking more than I should, but everything's going exactly how I would want. It's very hard to confront when everything's working.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

2923.487

And then I had a show. By the way, you just have to set goals on the personal frontier. Like you can still be goal driven.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3057.112

Yeah. What is the vibe at home? Because almost all your stories involve your wife and your girls and you do an impression of your wife. It varies wildly throughout the show and you acknowledge it. How comfortable are they? What's that dynamic like?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3137.097

Oh, boy. Well, anytime schoolmates can get wind of it, that's what you don't want them to have to deal with.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3185.927

Oh, okay. So it had a positive ending. I just got my period today. My dad's doing a period party for me. I put my finger in my ass and put it in the red velvet cake and then the dog ate it. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3277.252

He takes a very pro-choice stance on behalf of. Yeah, well, you're not going to love it, love it. Yeah, you're going to also dislike some of it. Okay, cool, cool, cool. So you actually watched the special?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3290.32

Okay, so I love Bert Kreischer, Finder of Things. This is your self-proclaimed identity marker. And I think this is the funniest trait to have. How does one come to this realization that this is your knack? It's a little bit of delusion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

33.262

Too cumbersome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3359

Yeah. Well, you have to because it's now an identity. If you don't find it, you don't know who you are now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3383.592

Interesting. There's a lot of theories out there, but we have not considered that Shamu went and told everyone. It's like, remember your friend who's lighted a cigarette in his bedroom?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3398.077

They're like, wait, we're bigger and smarter than these kids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3449.298

This is like a George Costanza type storyline. Delusional. It's very endearing. I go on podcasts. I talk about the ring.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

348.784

They come in, move out. We got three podcasts. It was a fervor of activity when I showed up. For anyone who didn't listen to that episode of Two Bears, One Cave, I roll up and there's a tour bus in the driveway. I'm immediately ingratiated to you. I'm like, no one else has this in their driveway in L.A. This is great. Yeah. And then I go inside and there's people everywhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

35.383

Too much fabric. It doesn't declare I want to party hard enough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3529.054

Wow, what a turn. Almost as if she said, like, I threw that away in a parking lot so I'd never hear about it or see it again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3585.464

At this point, what generates more income for you? Doing standup or the podcast? Standup. I go back on tour. I haven't announced it, but I'll say it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3622.694

No one wants to be here. I had the same role. I would always show up at my friend's house with a six pack and they were like, oh, this is great. You brought a six pack. We're doing this. Like, yes, I would go first all the time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

366.85

And I'm like, they have a big business. There's a lot happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3663.364

At one point, I go, am I just drinking perfume? Exactly. Can I tell you how much rosé they drank? Oh, my God. Because we all hung out here. There's a liquor store that's two and a half blocks away, and I would get on my motorcycle, and we started this thing where they would time me to see how fast I could arrive back at the house with four bottles of rosé. Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3681.895

The final one was sub two minutes. It was like a minute and 45 seconds. I was back. And then I got back. I was like, I got to call it at that. I ran the red light. I was going 95 miles an hour on Franklin. I left the gate open so I could blow in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3740.571

Great. It's creepy if I'm like, what are you fucking the old vice president? Mike Pence. Mike Pence can't be in a room with a woman other than his wife unless someone else is present. To be very clear. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3842.041

Now, let me ask you this, though, because my wife is so grateful for that. I have several friends that are female that I get on with like that. And my wife is like, oh, my God, thank God I don't have to receive all of his energy tonight. It's on someone else's plate and he needs to talk so fucking much and I don't want to talk that much. She's like grateful for it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3894.38

I really honestly love Whitney like a sister. So you text her, right? Obviously. You're not only on three-way texting her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3945.797

Just walk up and go, shot of Fernette, please. You're already trying to limit the amount of drinks that you like. So the notion of making yourself like one that you don't like is really funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

3980.664

Well, Bert, you're a goddamn delight. We really did it. Just like when I was on yours. We went for it. We went hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4061.309

it's an interesting fun relationship podcasters and their listeners yeah all right well everyone check out lucky it's on netflix it couldn't be easier for you to consume it's hilarious i really adore you i'm really glad that we got to do each other's shows i am too yeah you're such a sweet boy truly you're such a this is like a big old fucking heart in you and i love it well i think it's just because i drink a lot no enlarged well it is probably enlarged

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4088.051

But it's also very sweet. All right. So everyone wants Lucky and we'll do this again. I can't wait.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4102.08

I loved that show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4115.276

Yeah. I loved Cribs and, you know, so nosy. I wanted to know how everyone lived, what their style was, how big their house was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4126.044

What kind of cars they had.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4128.045

But you know what else was fun about Cribs is like they would do like an L.A. actor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4133.429

And they had like an okay house. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4135.47

Anytime they were in Atlanta for like a rapper or a basketball player, everyone had like 10,000 square foot houses on acreage and then huge driveways full of cars. I'm like, oh, yeah, it's a lot more bang for your buck in other places.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4151.46

You weren't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4153.761

Yeah. That's our age difference. How old were you when you were watching it? It made you uncomfortable because so many of them were set up for partying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4164.224

Some of these places had dance clubs in them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4173.646

When was it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4178.442

You know who's got a great episode of Cribs? Maybe the best. Uh... Rosenbaum. Really? Oh, yeah. He had someone like hiding under the sheets in the bedroom when they were looking at the bedroom. And then the guy jumped out of the bed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4194.062

Hers was infamous more than it was because she seemed a little unstable. She like took a bath during her episode.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4203.546

If a guy did that, he'd go to jail probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4206.547

Yeah, you're right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4217.061

I was 24. I was ready to go to one of those nightclubs in the house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4231.687

That I'm older.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4250.926

Who was your favorite? What are your favorite episodes of Cribs?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4256.29

I'm going to do top 10 best episodes of Cribs. It's funny to me. Now, mind you, I got to remember, everyone that participated in Cribs was in their 20s. Pretty much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4268.373

They did his island.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4270.555

I remember that one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4272.876

Yes. Ten best houses on MTV Cribs. Lil Wayne.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4279.701

Oh, God. Lil Wayne. He has a plastic hot tub in the dead middle of his living room.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4288.407

Yeah. Mariah Carey in her bathtub. Shaq.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4295.339

I remember Shaq's house. Yeah. Tony Hawk. Russell Simmons. That was an older man.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4303.949

Yeah. That's a huge mansion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4307.914

Yes, he did. Oh, the Playboy Mansion did a Cribs. Wow. Aaron Carter, that's an infamous one. Yeah, 50 Cent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

431.805

You're extremely ADHD, right? Yes. And I was thinking, what a perfect time you were born in. to come of age where you could be doing 57 different things and there's no barrier to entry and it's self-distribution. Well, we started at a time when that wasn't it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4319.268

Who? Oh. I think so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4323.912

Yeah, Branson. Oh, I wish they'd bring it back. But anyways.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4330.235

No, no, no, no. But I remember as soon as I owned a house thinking like, oh, no, God, no, I don't want anyone to see where I live.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4338.738

Are you going to do an episode when your house is done?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4342.8

You would do architecture.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4348.823

I love looking at them, but I wouldn't participate in one. You got a smell?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4355.793

Uh-oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4357.774

Did you cook fish in your apartment last night? Okay. As you're prone to do?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4370.803

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4374.004

This is remember we learned some people's OCD is that they are scared of smell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4387.309

OK, so 2010. Yeah. So I could have definitely participated. I think I was even asked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4393.711

As an MTV alumni.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4401.095

I had an average house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4404.816

That's mostly what it probably would have been.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4409.378

In the garage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4410.379

They're in the garage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4413.84

Not posters. Bad, still bad. I can own it. But a lot of stills from the movies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4429.316

Like there's an on-set photographer and there's a picture of me and Luke Wilson in Idiocracy in a scene. And I like the photo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4440.259

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4445.623

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4452.229

I do have that photo, but that wasn't the one I had on display. Look at my hair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4463.378

But look at my hairdo. Go ahead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4474.207

Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4478.363

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4480.724

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4488.029

Yeah. Yeah. I agree. I think my neck is a lot thicker, which I think changes the whole look of your face.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4496.375

That's like one of the big things I noticed, like when I'm watching Parenthood or something. Uh-huh. Like, oh yeah, my neck was half the size of my neck now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4505.794

Yeah, but is it bad? No. That I look so different?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4514.923

Because in Idiocracy, I was fat. Like I gained a bunch of weight really quickly. Yeah. Like 37 pounds.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4522.829

And then this was months after. And so now I'm like, I'm halfway back to me being thin, which I always was on Parenthood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4531.795

Yes, that's Parenthood. And I'm like 185 there. In Zathura, I'm probably like 200. And then in Idiocracy, I'm 220.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4545.464

But nah, I was so thin. Like my way of getting, What ripped then was the traditional approach, which is like, get really cut and you'll look big. So I was like 169, 170 for the like modeling shoot stuff. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4569.052

Yeah, like Ozempiki.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4572.057

Rob, can you pull up? This probably sucks if you're listening. You can start Googling all this stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4581.075

Yeah, like I look similar from a distance, but I'm so much lighter there. I'm a full 30 pounds lighter there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4597.037

I think it's just the light is interesting. Wow. Well, this is a real fun retrospective. Yeah. With that watch I'm wearing, this is a bad story. I don't actually know what I want to tell her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4611.633

Oh, God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4613.895

I don't really want to say it in public because people... Anyways.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4617.778

We were trying... I wanted to look douchey. That was my goal for this character.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4623.803

Yes. Really into himself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4625.704

And so when we had the meeting with like what kind of jewelry and watches I would wear. Yeah. They just kept handing me different watches. And then they handed me the one I'm wearing in that photo. And I go, oh my God, this is perfect. It's...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4640.999

I'm going to let you finish.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4642.524

Fill in what happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4645.554

It's so douchey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4649.898

someone's personal watch that had taken it off and just handed it in the pile no yes and i i felt so bad oh my god why would they do that i don't know because yes it was a little bit of a trap because we knew everyone in the room knew why we were doing what we were doing and then it was just handed to me and i was like yes oh i i still at night think about that i feel terrible about that

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4679.422

It's kind of a cool watch, though, now that I'm looking at it. I was. Well, anyways, moving onward. Anyways.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4692.371

I have way more of those than most people, I think. Or at least no one tells me their stories about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4700.897

Very censored. Correct. Correct.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4705.979

Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4715.342

But wait, no, you remember you. You thought I was a lot, but then you watched Idiocracy Army. You watched without a pale and you said, oh, you're you're still were sweet back then. Your conclusion. But you had thought maybe I wasn't because I was using drugs and alcohol.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4737.785

For sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4739.626

Yeah. I tell less fight stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4748.146

Yes, yes. But I think maybe you thought I wasn't sweet back then, but I think I was still sweet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4762.496

Well, I wasn't thinking that, but when I did, I felt like this situation I still think about. Yeah, you weren't like, well, fuck it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4770.001

And I'm like, oh God, what a terrible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4777.265

Probably. What do you do, though? What was I to do?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

478.455

You're so good with names, I just got to say. I've been watching you all day on different interviews and your recall for people and how much you're abreast of every comedian that's working and all that. It's kind of staggering. I can tell you things I like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4784.13

Actually.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4789.634

I think an apology is better than like trying to lie at that point. You're doing an about face.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4798.461

You would.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4799.562

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

48.988

Once you get that moniker in college, you got to make it a lifestyle. And boy, has he successfully.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4805.687

Do you know when I think of pretty often, I accidentally was, oh, God. It pains me to bring these up. This one's not going to bother you as much, but to me it's rough. But someone's wife had gotten a new car. Okay. And before we got to what kind it was, I started making fun of the old RAV4. Okay. Yeah. Because they look kind of like a Fisher-Price car, the old one. Because you're still doing it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4834.029

It's crazy how it looks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4838.715

I think it was the second best. I think I just read it's like the second or third best-selling car in America.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4846.069

Give it a CRV. Yeah. I hadn't seen the new one. The new one looks way better. It's a very good looking vehicle. But I went on a little thing about how bad the RAV4 was. And then my friend said that's what she got. And I was like, oh, my. I felt so bad. And then I was like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4866.633

Look at that vehicle. That looks like a Play-Doh car. It's like a wind-up car. Yeah, a wind-up car. I stand by my aesthetic assessment of the old.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4878.382

It looks like something Ziggy would drive. Remember the cartoon Ziggy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4894.311

Oh, it's a great car. Very dependable. Everyone who's currently in one right now, I love it. But boy, they had just gotten a new car and I was bagging that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4904.295

That was really bad. And I felt bad and I still feel bad. Then I saw the new one and I'm like, I love the new one. And I don't know if my friend bought it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4918.762

I did. And which was your recommendation with the watch. But this one was actually sincere. And I think even the sincere version.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4926.705

Didn't work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4931.827

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4932.827

If that would erase the whole thing for sure. And if I could buy the other person a new watch and erase it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4938.71

I would do it. This is there's a whole gray area where like that would never make a ninth step. NAA.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4946.297

I'm not going to go making amends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4951.023

Well, and I said sorry on the day about the watch. But I just I just think about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4958.013

And I would love to figure out how to not think about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4963.291

Which, oh, wait, I kind of remember.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4971.499

We make mistakes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4973.921

We really do make mistakes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4977.064

Speaking of children, we just came from the most life-affirming event ever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

4986.572

The rainbow run. She was so excited. She was up very early. She wanted to do a top knot for her running. And she painted a rainbow on her cheek. Yes. I don't know if that was a transfer tattoo or painted on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5004.671

So cute. Right on her cheek, a big rainbow. Yeah. And she's in a little jumper. Oh, my God. And we watch her run around and all the little kids run around.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5017.983

And then they've raised money per lap.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5021.486

And I'm there to see Delta first, but really close second is Freddie because he runs like a gazette.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5028.316

Yes, who I want to adopt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5033.463

The coolest. I don't know how someone just born that way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5042.298

Of course. And he high five me the first time. And then on the second lamp, I ran out and he, he ghosted me. You saw that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5052.963

No, no. I was trying to get another round too. I got greedy with Freddie on another high five.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5058.946

I know. It's the nature of an addict. Like I liked it the first time I thought, well, let's keep doing that until it breaks. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5067.691

It was quickly. He had enough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5070.534

But he did tell his mom. She told me that he said, I'm giving him a truck at some point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5076.6

No, I'm giving him a truck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5078.462

Yeah, he has it in his head that I'm giving him a truck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5083.106

And I said, fine. That's fine with me. All he's got to do is marry Delta and then... He can have all my shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

509.093

Will you do drugs when you do that? Because you're not into drugs. I'll drink. You won't do like mushrooms or something for that? No, no, no, no, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5091.774

They want kids to get married.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5097.278

Well, and I want her to have like 20 relationships before she gets married. Yeah. I think some parents want their kid to date from junior high all the way to adulthood. And I just don't think that's. Very likely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5114.271

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5143.654

Okay. To another town.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5151.843

No. And that's when they rekindled?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5157.002

I like you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5159.584

Oh, wow. I like that story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5163.667

It'd be like if you married Dairy Queen guy. That's still an option.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5172.093

What if he came to you and said, I think about that. Once a week. I feel fucking terrible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5180.478

I'm so sorry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5182.119

I didn't know what I was saying. I was 12.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5187.42

And I liked you then and I still like you. Well, I... And now I'm not a dum-dum.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5194.983

Now I work at Dairy Queen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5199.827

Oh my God, what if it flipped?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5201.308

Really? Well, I can't be with you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5203.85

That's the real arc of this. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5210.556

Yeah. To the Rainbow Run? Circles?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5218.422

Oh, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5221.064

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5228.03

Yeah, I love those too. And I would never do one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5239.179

Yeah, the Hunting Lodge in the Hudson Valley.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5256.952

Okay, if you're listening to Architect, you'll die, Jack.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5270.337

And I think you plus Nikki Kehoe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5285.537

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5291.18

Yeah. Let's, if you're listening to architecture.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5294.623

Yeah. I think this could happen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5297.045

I wonder if people ever reach out to them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5300.84

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5302.821

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5304.621

I'm gonna hope and pray. If you want it, this is like dating. This is like the hot guy. If you want to be in Architectural Digest, ask.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5314.906

Oh, man. Yeah. You gotta ask in life. Oh, hold on. We have a visitor. Mr. Rogers is here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5324.011

Oh, look at these cute decorative cups.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5328.013

Vanilla.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5332.658

Whole milk and cinnamon?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5376.599

I like cinnamon. Favorite spice? I like vanilla. I got vanilla.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5383.084

I can't taste the vanilla.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5387.228

Vanilla's not a spice?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5392.329

Thank you. I can't think of spices.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5396.293

I like rosemary in my pasta.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5407.564

Tarragon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5411.547

Himalayan pink sea salt. Let's see if... Okay, I'll go cinnamon because that's the only one that I associate with being sweet. Even though on its own, it's not sweet, obviously.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5428.49

So this is the most used.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5442.328

Okay. No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5450.114

I like taco seasoning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5462.244

That's what I douse over my elk now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5465.096

I was wondering if you were still on your L. Yeah, I made a big batch two days ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5479.487

Can't fault them, really.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5489.114

Haley.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5493.8

Like Dax's mom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5497.042

Yeah, Freddie's mom. That is a good moniker.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5502.526

She's the coolest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5511.472

Is legendary. Yeah. The dad makes me nervous and is so good looking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5525.045

Yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5526.647

And he's got siblings. And he's got the cutest little sister you've ever seen in your life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5532.615

To be faster.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5553.203

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5555.105

Would you want Rob's sperm? He's very fertile.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5567.938

OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5573.764

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5586.152

Yeah, it would, I would have to be involved.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5589.713

Yeah, I couldn't just pretend like, oh, I donated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5597.205

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5598.266

You know, I offered a friend sperm years ago, over a decade ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

56.41

Bert, of course, is a host of a couple of very popular podcasts, Two Bears, One Cave. Yeah. And Something's Burning and BurtCast. And he has been in The Machine, Razzle Dazzle, The Cabin, Burt the Conqueror, Secret Time. And he has a comedy special out right now on Netflix called Lucky. So please check that out if you haven't already. And please enjoy Burt Kreischer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5603.871

They said, I would love that. We're going to try one more round. First, I asked Kristen, would you care if I and we didn't have kids yet. So this is I was like naive to what I thought. I thought I would just like, yeah, who cares? I'll give him the sperm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5618.943

They didn't. Thank God. Let's just say the parenting I totally disagreed with. It would it'd be crazy for me to be looking on the outside and not want to rescue. Yeah. So a child. Yeah. That's half me would be crazy. I'm so grateful that didn't happen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5644.332

No more like what if you had a kid and you were really crazy protective and he wasn't allowed to do anything and he never learned to ride a bike and he didn't like that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5653.476

That would be hard for me to watch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5657.118

Big time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5658.278

So I would go this is this kid's like a he wants to be out there tackling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5664.121

Mm hmm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5668.783

No, no. Yeah, this is good to know. But I only feel this way after having kids. Like if I was seeing Lincoln around.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5679.748

I don't know if like when I look at Lincoln, as you just said. Yeah. She has my face at that age. And if I was around her, it would be hard. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5694.297

It'd have to be a situation, to be honest, where it was like, A, I have a vasectomy, so it's not even an option.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5701.801

But if we had a friend who wanted that and needed that, and we decided yes, I would be involved.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5714.307

Well, Kristen wouldn't maybe care, actually.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5726.113

Yeah, it's very complicated. If I reverse it, let's say, so she needed to give an egg to somebody. She gave an egg and then.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5736.258

That's what's tricky because there's a mom involved already. In my scenario, there's no dad involved.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5747.988

Oh, interesting. Yeah. Okay. And then this guy. So Jess has a kid with Kristen's egg.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

575.612

Well, it's a great era for someone with your makeup, probably ADHD, super crazy passionate right now about the thing. My hunch is if you can't knock it out in a small window, it's gone, right? Is that fair? They put pilot in Hollywood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5760.142

Red hair. What would win, the tininess or the tallness?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5770.325

Yeah, I don't know how she would juggle it. I would expect her to want to be very involved in Jess's kid's life if it was her egg. Maybe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5789.676

This is our daughter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5794.199

But what if Jess wanted the child to have Kristen as the mom?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5798.622

But she kind of grew up like separated and you understood like, oh yeah, my dad's gay. So he got a donor, but that's my mom and I love her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5825.08

Unless it's their friend and they're already immersed in one another's lives.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5848.856

But very little.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5856.601

And we're all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5859.122

As close to nonjudgmental as you can get about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5873.025

Yeah, no, it would just have to be with my time with the child.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5878.926

All right, I'm not doing it. I'm not doing it. Shh. I can't do it. And also I'm not doing it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5887.273

I think it could be done though. Like, let's just say like there is a version where Kristen's egg was given to Jess and he has a little girl and they, and she knows Kristen's her mom and she has a mom and she sees her mom a lot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5914.915

Yeah, I think whatever you're raised in is standard. And you don't think too much of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5962.955

Don't you think you do want to attempt to level out? Yes, balance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5967.88

I'm not going to go get an addict egg. That's too much addict in the mix.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5986.996

And I got both things. I got my dad. I don't know. My dad was a love addict. What am I talking about? Love addicts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

5997.639

I'm largely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6019.406

No, because I think you're not thinking of kids, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6023.548

Except I was. At 32, I was very mission driven.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6030.571

And then they decide they want to have a kid. And then you start thinking, oh, boy, both of us don't clean the house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6037.974

Rob, would you give your sperm to anyone? Uh, yeah, I guess so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6077.663

That was the donor we talked to on Armchair Anonymous who had like a hundred kids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6083.145

He was just like, yeah, if you want to meet, let's meet. Like, I don't feel any. Connection. Or guilt that I'm not raising anyone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6117.726

Any threats.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6119.767

Sleep outside in the woods naked. There's a chapter in Schwarzenegger's book, Education of a Bodybuilder, where he and Franco were, for a period in Germany, weightlifting in the woods naked, right? And they would have a barbecue and they would drink wine. And he said like old time gladiators.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6141.116

Yeah. Just imagine walking through the woods and you see two bodybuilders squatting naked with raw meat everywhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6149.959

Bottles of wine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6151.959

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6158.277

Okay. That's also kind of the name of the chamois. Chamois. Chamois.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6171.13

I wouldn't be afraid to fight a red fox. I don't think you would either.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6177.297

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6179.966

Well, hold on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6183.772

I do think fox is an appealing animal to identify with if you're a woman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6190.509

They're athletic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6195.053

Foxy. Foxy lady. But I'm not. I'm just a chinchilla. Well, chinchillas are very cute. Have you ever held a chinchilla?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6207.443

Oh, geez. No. Yeah, they don't have a ribcage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6221.559

There you are. No, no, no, no, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6227.886

Shrews are clever, right? They're supposed to be real clever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6231.129

Now that's a tough customer. You don't want to tangle with a badger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6244.197

It eats cereal?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6245.998

I wonder what his favorite... He eats Captain Crunch. You're a small mammal, I just will add.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6253.144

So you should watch your... Because I'm a... I would way rather fight a red fox than a badger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6261.95

Scary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6269.538

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6272.32

I know. If I see a domestic cat in the woods, I think a witch is nearby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6280.324

Or maybe is a witch and can transform.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6288.928

What's that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6313.438

Ibex.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6319.091

He was right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

633.987

You're white hot, but it's got a real short half life. If it's not there right away, I'm on to the next thing. But what amazing technology that has sprouted up where you make real time content and it can be released that day and you see the results of it. And then you're on to the very next thing. This is not a personality type that works under the old paradigm. No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6341.79

This would be a bad arrangement for me. I would have a very hard time with this. You would not. If I saw someone with a shitty personality that was not kind to everyone, I'd be like, dude, you got to brighten it up so we can get... We're pulling our tips. I'm over here bringing in 300 bucks. Learn some jokes. Do your hair. Brush your teeth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6361.267

They should.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6365.091

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6366.972

People's tips are doubling and...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6383.783

That's awesome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6388.888

Oh, here we go. We should get Mindy on the phone for this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6395.113

Because she loves counting people's money.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6398.547

Yeah, this is her and I's kind of list.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6403.629

Yeah, should we call her?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6407.03

Let's call her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6409.73

You're so scared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6413.431

We bother a lot of people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6420.053

Oh, you're so scared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6425.68

This is like the situation with the watch. I'll probably like, I'll regret this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6432.003

I've never called her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6435.305

Yeah, I'm burning. I'm lighting this bridge way on fire.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6443.069

Yeah, she's not going to answer. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6446.731

Okay, great. I'm just going to leave her a quick voice memo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6452.443

No, I'm going to leave a voice memo. Monica's so up in arms right now that I had the audacity to call you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6461.095

She claims you're too busy to take a phone call. But we were about to read the list of the top 10... comedy tours, the financials. And I said, I need my friend Mindy here so we can count everyone else's money. Let's get her on the phone for this. And that's what happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6478.808

Monica's very relieved you didn't answer. She thinks this might be the end of our burgeoning friendship. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6488.552

Yeah, that made you very nervous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6494.128

I know. She's one of them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6497.03

Yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6498.691

Hey, man, you want to know how much money all these stand-up tours are making?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6503.834

Here we go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6517.86

And he's been doing this for years. Oh, yeah. I wonder if he has a huge mansion somewhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6526.506

Oh, they all should.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6528.588

Yeah, the whole season should be top.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6546.606

Good for him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6551.294

Two guys who have so much money and they just can't help but make more.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6561.798

So Sandler's making more per show than Seinfeld. That's interesting. Seinfeld must play smaller.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6579.585

That's true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6585.689

30 million.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6588.01

Here he is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

659.975

52. Yes, yes. I'm 75.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6602.856

Exact same as... Uh-huh. I wonder why they put him above Trevor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6611.88

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6617.003

Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6625.436

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6629.181

Number four, Cat Williams.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6640.25

Just let everyone know I read this list. Yeah. Like three weeks ago. Yeah. I think after we had Bert on, I got real nosy. Because I asked him how much is he making more on tour or from his podcast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6651.835

And when he said way more on tour, I thought, well, what is that number? Anyways.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6655.497

Cat Williams, I thought, was, we go on podcasts. He'd blast a bunch of people and be very viral. Although somehow you didn't see his last round of viral. He did one interview that he just, he lined up 20 people and just let them have it. I had no idea he was the king of standup.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6684.639

God, I want to see his house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6689.56

Ooh, wow. 124 shows, 603,000 tickets.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6706.059

Matt Rife. This is the cute comedian.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6712.622

God, what do you do in your 20s with 57? It's a lot. I hope he has so many dumb Lamborghinis and Ferraris.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6721.166

256 shows.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6734.354

Nate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6737.677

I want him to hit 100 million so bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6740.739

For no reason. 148 shows, 1,100,000 tickets. Wow. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6777.466

Because he finds everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6793.556

Yeah, that's crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6808.582

Yeah, that's really wild.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

681.807

He took the steps two at a time on the way up to the studio.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6813.246

Lazy, lazy, lazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6824.989

That night. That night. And loved it. I know. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6830.75

Yeah. You're not good at this pact.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6834.983

And then you were supposed to do it last week.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6840.668

Tonight's a drinking night, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6845.452

Yeah. Why don't you try it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6854.2

Well, not with that attitude.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6866.874

You never drink Jack Daniels, huh?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

687.208

Yeah, that's really kind of you. Well, and then I just gave you five years. November 72, you arrive. St. Petersburg, but then we get to Tampa.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6870.476

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6874.338

Okay. Just not Jack. Yeah. What about a Jack Ginger for you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6880.219

Well, you might with ginger ale.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6885.082

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6886.223

It's the one I've drank the most of.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6891.046

Yeah, Jack Ginger's ginger ale and Jack Daniels.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6895.248

It's not my favorite.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6896.929

No. Jack and Diet's the best taste, but you don't even like Diet Coke, so I don't want to start you there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6907.259

Do you shave your sides and start drinking Jack? I mean.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6914.721

Oh, what's your brand? Knob Hill or one of these?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6920.322

Blantons?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6921.922

I don't know about Blantons.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6923.903

Is it? A lot of them have all come out in the last 20 years since I quit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6932.545

Bourbon? Jack. I like Jim Beam and Jack Daniels.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6939.702

Yeah. It's like Levi's jeans. You know?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6948.308

These are triggering names for me a little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6952.511

They're trying to be like Oak Barrel Whiskey. It is. Like, call it a man's name. Jim Beam.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6960.196

Bill Rutherford. Mike Pence. No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6963.698

What if Mike Pence had a. I could see it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6967.181

A whiskey. Yeah, well. Actually, he should have a gin. No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6973.184

But you're going to love Mike Pence's gin. Jim. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

6995.902

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

701.012

Okay, so Tampa, Florida. Dad was a real estate attorney. Yeah. So was he crushing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

765.551

My bad. In first grade. First grade. Oh, my God. I hope she was in second grade at least. He had to be in like eighth grade. They were older. They were older.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

775.455

Fellow first grader.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

823.866

Oh, my mom will like that. I tell this story. She was water skiing in Florida as a young 20 something year old. She saw alligators and then she fell and she was too terrified to let go of the tow rope. And she was drug behind the boat so long that it gave her an enema and she shit her bathing suit. That's Florida water skiing for you right there. Public enema number one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

878.04

And they got the great whites. It's teeming with man killers down there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

883.062

Yeah, it is. So as a car guy, the weird thing is I would go to Florida and everyone drove a Mustang notchback LX five liter. They were only sold in Florida. People always got a hatchback. I don't know why they all like that, but it was all kids living with their grandparents because their parents had kicked them out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

899.979

I mean, there's a huge contingency of people just living with their grandparents, which. which is a wild group. Were you running into that a lot? I was not. That's more central Florida? No, that's more northern Florida. Okay, like Orlando-y? Yeah, like Ocala. I was in Sebring a lot. So that's southwest coast Florida? Yes. Southwest coast? No! It's central, mid-state. We'd fly into Orlando.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

922.688

You're not watching this. That won't be entertaining. But the look Monica just gave me, anytime I talk about geography, which I can't resist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Bert Kreischer

930.912

And she's like, no one gives a flying fuck where Sebring, Florida is. And she's right. No one. But we care.

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Back to Tampa. Dad has this client. Now, that's all we can say about that because I would certainly need to know more. I read that book going clear and him floating around on a fucking float.

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Yeah, what bothers you? Because you seem to have a very thick skin and you're very self-deprecating, so it's hard to know what would trigger you. I'm extremely sensitive.

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dax Shepard and I'm joined by Monica Padman. Hello. Our good buddy is here today. Yeah. He's wild. Josh Brolin. He is an award-winning actor.

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Yeah. Put me in the ladder. I know. And that's kind of what I'm saying. I probably didn't do the headline correctly, but I'm just saying I'm judging you so unfairly and severely because I hear myself and I hate myself a lot of the time. So you hate me, therefore. And I really relate to that. reading your own thing out loud.

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Because when you're writing it, you're really just broadcasting the way you do in life. I'm telling you my story. But when you're hearing it, you're actually now the audience. And now you're like, God, do I sound like that all the time? A. B. That's really tragic. What I'm acting like was no big deal. That to me is really the heartbreaking part.

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And that's the stuff that I found like a ton of compassion towards you. And I do this a lot. And I think for Monica and the people in my life, I have such a nonchalant way of going through all this stuff. And when I'm hearing your nonchalant version of it, I want to go, yeah, you were really scared. This was a very, very scary ride you were on. You were a little person. You have little people.

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I have little people. There's no way you weren't terrified. And there's no way I wasn't terrified. I don't know. Your book has helped me kind of really embrace that part. Like, go ahead and acknowledge that. No, you were fucking terrified a lot of the time. And it's colorful and cool. And it's my story now.

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But let's also be honest about the fact that you spent a lot of your life quite scared of everything going on around you.

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Yeah. They're all just survival mechanisms.

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How do you fight, though? I'm curious.

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Yeah, I think you'll fight with the people in your circle and I'll fight with strangers. I think maybe that's the difference.

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To move forward.

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I had some epiphanies reading it. So just to lay it out to people who haven't read it yet, I really recommend it from the bottom of my heart. But also in your previous interview, we got a taste of the chaos, right? You were living in an animal life or an animal way station. Your mother collected these animals that were by all accounts wild. By all accounts. By all accounts wild.

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And she also was a very active drinker. She was sexually very active. Yeah.

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You were regularly, though, at truck stops, at shitty hotels. She was a vagabond. She was dragging you guys around. God knows what she was looking for. But she was interacting with again. This is where it's no matter what you think it is or when you tell it to people, she's going up to truck drivers and restaurants and going like, that's a stupid hat. What's going on with that hat?

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Her technique to engage people was to neg them and be aggressive and be fearless. And sure, there's some fun and excitement in watching her navigate that and land the plane safely every time. But also, as an eight-year-old, watching the scary dude in the corner that mom's getting in the face of also is terrifying to no end.

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It's like a kid being beaten. They know it hurts. They think it's standard. But some primitive part of you goes, there is an animal that's 300 pounds and there's another animal that's 105 pounds. And the one third animal is shouting. You know, there's a reality to the swing she was taking that had to be quite scary. Even if you come to expect she would pull it off.

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A lover 25 years her junior. Oh, yeah. Monica's traumatized right now.

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But again, I don't think you and I run the risk of seeing ourselves as a victim. I think we have the opposite complex. Which is what? Which is I think you need to acknowledge a little more. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't think you need to be policing yourself about whether poor me, I was a victim. That's actually not the thing you need to be on high alert of. It's the, yeah.

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And I walked through that shit and made me this. I think that's more the fucking thing to monitor. But what is clear throughout this book is you absolutely love your mother. You're one of the few people that have said that. You admire her. You've been kind of trying to be her in some manageable way. Totally. She made a fucking impression. No one ever met her and forgot they met her.

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There's like a lot of attractive stuff about her. I've never thought about the fact that if anyone, not just us, anyone that's The child of a divorce has witnessed that one of the parents left. That's an option. Truly, in the most simple fucking way, it's an option that these people can leave. You know it now. You're down to one.

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You better fucking love and cherish and perform for that one person because you're down to one. I hold true that I love my mother more than anything. And she is the greatest woman to ever be on planet Earth. Also, I don't know that I had a choice to feel otherwise.

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I just think once you put a kid in a situation where they only have one parent left, I just don't know what else that kid could do other than A, be really grateful that one didn't leave. So there's this true gratitude.

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That never occurred to me until I was reading your book. Interesting. I was like, huh, that's an element I need to, again, go through the fucking catalog and just apply that a little bit.

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Visit BetterHelp.com slash DAX today to get 10% off your first month. That's betterhelp.com slash dax. It's rough when your whole environment was an 11 and then you're interacting with people that that feels very uncomfortable. And I get it that it feels uncomfortable. I wrote way too many notes. I see. I love it. We're on sentence one of 15 pages.

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But back to conceptually the book, I wanted to ask you because you told me some people fucking hate it and some people absolutely love it. And I was wondering why people hated it. And then my hunch was you've already alluded to it, that they wanted this to be your Hollywood stories. Mm hmm.

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And so I imagine for you, it's probably hard to juggle that because that in itself is one of the most complicated things to understand. The Hollywood show business fame part of this equation. And so if it were me, I'd be like, that's not what I'm trying to share with you. Like, do you want to fucking know me or not? Because it's not about that.

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You were here three years ago, which kind of shocked me. That's crazy. As I listened this morning on my bike ride.

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But then on the outside, I would go, but also it's so much of you. How could it not be?

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I wanted to know, did you have to step over... the hurdle of wanting the book to be as well-written as Cormac McCarthy, like that you want so bad for it to be the thing that you loved so much. I think that's one of my continual hurdles when I write.

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Kind of thing. I hope you journaled throughout the day.

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Oh, my God. That's not even clear to me in the book. By the way, you got me. Poorly written. Wait, so what's happening? This comes up. multiple times. So to set the stage, the structure of the book is like two page stories, four page story. It's not linear. We're bouncing back and forth from childhood to Goonies to 2023 to this, to that. It's all over the map. As your memories do.

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And I think for people on the first approach, it probably is a little off putting. It's not clicking into their normal format, but I will say if you stick with it, I do think when I put it down last night, I'm like, I have the whole picture. It didn't come out in the way that I'm used to it coming out, but it's almost like a Nolan movie. I tell people, Don't try to figure it out.

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It'll all of a sudden be clear to you.

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It can be super absurd. It can be super emotional. Well, that's our desire to control. I'm scared because I don't know what this is. I can't enjoy this because I don't know what this is. The submarine. Yeah, yeah. Oh, yeah, yeah. So this comes up in many different things. He's telling Oliver Stone about this idea. He has the audacity to tell Joel and Ethan Coen about this.

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And it says the script is 357 pages long. And it's about a Russian submarine and he has a budget. He doesn't know how much a Russian sub. I thought all this was real. And I'm like, how dare you tell the Coen brothers about you? They only direct shit they write.

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I know it's great now that I know it, but I didn't get the joke.

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Yeah, you know enough to not trust your assessment of things.

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That's hilarious. And Joel or Ethan, I don't know, said like, yeah, the submarine part sounds scary. And he goes, exactly. Think King Kong. Yeah.

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That's exactly what it is. I'm like kind of reanalyzing every single time I read that. I'm like, he really thought this was a great thing. And it's the town next to Fargo. So the movie would be called Witch of Papa or whatever.

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I just know that. So what's tricky, though, is and I think we do the same thing as my wife. Well, and Monica as well, because we talk so much. They're my two kind of check ins. They'll say to me, you're crazy right now. That theory makes no sense. I know you've convinced yourself that's what's happening. But what's tricky is if you're kind of check system is the person you're having trouble with.

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That was the objective.

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I think it's kind of actually a... Well, there's two things. One of the things in the room is ego. We'll keep that aside for a second. The other thing is a really beautiful and sweet part of us, which is like, I read Bukowski and I felt a connection and I felt... being seen in a way that if I'm going to do this, I really want that for other people.

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So part of it's like a really kind of altruistic and beautiful attempt, which is like, if I'm going to do this, I want it to do the thing the things did to me. Yeah. But now I have to think of those things that did that to me. That's in my mind. And that can be really arresting.

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I took a picture and sent it to Monica of the book because you use Seussian. And the day before we were on the fact check and I said, one of my favorite terms is Seussian. And literally within 14 hours, I read in your book Seussian. My favorite writer of all time.

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We were watching Grinch Who Sold Christmas with the kids the other day. It's the greatest book. And I go, this guy really needs to be held in the same regard as Salvador Dali or something. He's like one of the great thinkers of all time. The great artists of all time. The language, the image.

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He's an artist on a level of Picasso, in my opinion. OK, so my favorite. There's some fun Hollywood ones, actually, that I like. The Punchline of Goonies is a really good one. And I think people will know this lore of Goonies, which is the kids in Goonies were not allowed. Hopefully this is the half of Goonies. the Goonies you saw.

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The Goonies, No Country for Old Men, Sicario, Dune, Milk, and a book I absolutely loved, which is out right now, called From Under the Truck. And... We daringly asked him on the spot if he would read one of the stories. Cold read. Cold read of my favorite story in the book. And he obliged, that sweetheart that he is.

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Where do you go? So where do you go? I have a specific person I go to. I usually go to Dax Shepard.

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I don't know if you remember, there's a point where they... She just threw out the one thing that she knows. Well, we interviewed him and it was our favorite interview.

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It's the only episode I've ever made my children listen to. He's so special. Fuck is he special.

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What a story.

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Within a year, he was on a boat coming here as a refugee. And then he was on a first class flight to Sri Lanka to work with Harrison Ford. It's like the worst luck in the history of mankind and the best luck. And I was there in the beginning of that.

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Okay. So famously they built the whole pirate ship and they didn't want the kids to see it. Do you know this lore? No. Oh, you're the one. They wanted, when the kids came down the water slide and came out of the water and saw that pirate ship that they had built, that they would get their real reactions. That was the goal. Very, very cool idea. Yeah, great idea. And so what happens?

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What are you doing? Literally the whole shot.

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And ironically, it is your doppelganger. Matt Damon? No, Tom Hanson. I don't know if we've discussed.

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10% of gross. So this is literally a hundreds of millions of dollars. Literally. Literally. Few people can remember a time when they go, no, thank you. And that resulted in a $200 million loss of income. Maybe more. That's crazy. Yeah. You didn't know that. I did not know that. Oh, isn't that. And I love that. Yes. And he has a great attitude about it.

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I'm cheaper. How would you like the Brad Pitt?

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They wanted Michael Cera and they didn't get him. And now I'm here. Is that the one he directed? No.

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Oh, got it.

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The one he just directed is fantastic. I heard it's really, really good.

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Okay. Back to the book. Yeah, yeah. So there is fun. My own selfish curiosity, and I'm glad you developed a relationship with him, but you have this funny beginning and end to Nick Nolte. Explain the first time you saw him to Monica. My editor, Noah Eaker at HarperCollins.

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As you say, and I would have thought the same thing as like, he saw in this young shirtless man, and that looks familiar. Yes.

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It's in my top three comedies. I list it all the time.

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But you say when you're in this scene with him, he wants to breathe with you. When that's happening, he's actually not Nick Nolte. The magic is real.

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Yeah, I only know the lore. Never met him. I've heard some. The best.

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He has. Yeah, because I've heard some fantastic stories. He has. I got left with a few questions and I want to touch in on my absolute favorite zone you get into in these many different stories. I have a favorite story in the book. Oh, great. By a landslide. I'd be so interested to know. Yeah. Mull over whether you have a guess before we get to that. I do have a guess.

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Okay, you're raised on this crazy ranch. Life's nuts. You guys moved to Santa Barbara. This is where you get involved with the Cedar Rats. We know about that. We talked about that the last time. Created the Cedar Rats. I'm sorry, created the proprietary recipe of the Cedar Rats. But mom was involved.

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You say she was like one of the lead people in a pyramid scheme that was just kind of raining money. Yeah. But I need more info. What was the- Do you know the pyramid scheme?

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Also, simply because I'm obsessed with money. It's like the whole time I'm reading the book, I'm like, what is mom doing for a living? It's like, where is this ranch come from? My dad. Your dad. Okay. And then this pyramid. So then a windfall of money, which is fascinating. And then you're stealing a good deal of it. Maybe six grand of it you found. No. Yeah.

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It's like these cartel people. They lose hundreds of millions of dollars in holes.

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That's the big bait and switch. You meet the owner of the agency and then you never see them again until you quit. And then they call you again when you're quitting.

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Just can't imagine anything more exciting than being 12 years old and having access to six grand and how much fun me and my friends would have had.

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OK, so the times I like the book the most is when you're telling on yourself. That makes sense. It's crazy how that's the most beautiful part of people.

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Yeah, I guess, A, was that stuff hard to write? Or has our- 30 years in AA helped us get to a point where we know we'll be loved on the other side of that. Was it hard?

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And if I have to reveal shit, I don't want to do that. We just talked about this or the story I've been telling myself, which is no one will love me if I tell these things might be incorrect because you're doing it and people love you. And so it's very threatening to the core story they've been telling.

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So the tragedy that makes most people cry to me feels very expected. Of course, that person died. And of course, this happened. Life sucks and it's going to get worse. When people are genuine. Can't say that in front of Monica.

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When they're genuine and earnest and sincere in the face of how risky it is to be, I lose it. Bro, I lose my shit. When someone's sincere and earnest and they do it out loud.

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I'm like, thank you so much. Being fucking earnest and beautiful in this world where people are going to call you all kinds of things for being that way is, oh.

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Forget it. Bravery. Just bravery. Yes. OK, so the part of the book I don't relate to you on and I've really been spared this. And it's the thing that really probably gave me the most compassion for your story is I never was out there in the bowels of my addiction. With kids. I had my mom as my voice, right? Like I would be at the depths of some deplorable act. You didn't have kids yet.

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But I would think of mom. Forget it. I would have been a dead man. God, if my mom saw me buying this crack right now and, you know, like, oh my God, what would my mom think? I think. I know what shame I've carried around, but so many of your stories, when it is crazy and you're in your craziness and you're getting stabbed in fucking Costa Rica, of course, you're like, I have fucking kids.

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I have a son I love. I have a daughter. Why aren't I with them? That layer of disappointment in yourself and the shame of that, I have been spared and I'm just so compassionate to. It must have been so fucking painful to be in those states, just thinking, why aren't I with my kids?

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Let me tell Monica too, it's a Gus Van Sant movie about male prostitutes. River Phoenix and Keanu Reeves, beautiful movie. So he's like, I don't know what it's like to be a male prostitute. Maybe I should go figure it out.

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You have the right ratio of delusion and reality. So it's like you're delusional enough to go up there, but you're also there going, I'm a fucking fraud. I don't know what I'm doing. This isn't accomplishing anything. I suck. I have a kid. Why aren't I at home? That's it.

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I mean, she's a high end. There's a really great metaphor here, which is, yeah, the person under the owner, of course, wants to get in with you and they can have some ownership over the ride, which is what we all want. Right. They want to collaborate in a sense. If they inherit Jack Nicholson, there's really no ownership.

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That's insane. Do you tell Oliver, hey, man, I was like wandering around acting like Jim Morrison. Yeah, he didn't care.

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And I mostly just think, well, I should be with that person because that would prove I'm of value or I have status or something. And I would deny someone this great opportunity to help me and allowed myself to be helped. So back to Tom Hanson. So when you were saying you met with him, it was in a professional capacity, but it could very well just been in a sobriety capacity.

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Oh, sign me up. Streamline your streaming today. Check out subscriptions on Prime Video. Again, back to my favorite part is always when you're telling on yourself. This is a story that could happen to me any given day and it would be a fucking bummer. Your sheep story. I knew it. You did. It's such a beautiful story.

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I read it out loud to my girls last night and my wife was listening and she said, wow, I can't believe what a great writer he is. I totally want to read that book. Wow. It's such a great story.

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And I would love for you to read it. And if you don't want to read it, I'll read it. Oh, man. I want people to hear this story because I think it would make them want to read this book.

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I interviewed him and he's very open where we spoke openly about it. When you were saying he was bringing me in. It's an anonymous program, you know. No, he outed himself in the episode.

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When I was ringing out loud, I was like, I'm just going to flub this. They won't know.

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And people take a certain pleasure out of going, who are you?

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Yeah, at Tom Hanson's house. Seriously? With the actor Eric Dane. Do you know Eric Dane? Yeah, of course. Yeah, yeah, yeah. He and I walked out to Tom's driveway in the middle of a meeting. Because you got into it? Really? Yeah, I was sponsoring this kid and he yelled at this kid and I already had an ax to grind with him. So I go, let's go, motherfucker. Really? It's a low point.

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Oh man, that's like fucking Carver S, my friend. What a story. For me, of course, I'm always walking this tightrope of trying to give everyone the most spectacular experience. That's exactly right. And I'm irresponsible and it goes wrong. It's so selfish of me that I do things and it goes wrong. I mean- I'm reading that Kristen and I were in Africa. I see this huge herd of giraffe.

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I'll have it on video. It's part of our video. It worked out. I ran at the giraffes and they all started running and it was great. One could have tripped. If I had killed a fucking giraffe trying to entertain this gal. And that's with them for the rest of their life. And that's the kind of things I play with. And it's irresponsible. And sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't.

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I got to live with the fact that, you know, it doesn't. That one fucking hit me because that's really a metaphor for how I've been living my whole life. That's it. Watch me jump off this thing. Watch me do this.

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But anyways, when you were saying Tom Hanson was going to bring you in, it very well could have meant he was inviting you to the meeting. That's where my head went when you said.

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You're living out their fears weirdly. Whatever. Yeah. You're the horror movie they go to see. I'm the horror movie that they go to. That's it. Yes. And then under all that is, could we love you just because you exist? That's it. Which you can't. And you don't think so.

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Without it, you disappear.

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But I was just with him and he does look like you guys and you guys are both blessed. You're both very handsome. OK, so I have and I just text you this the other day. You are in my algorithm on Instagram in a way that only Corey Feldman is. I see. I understand the parallel.

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This has been incredible. I guess the only thing I wanted from the book, and maybe it'll come in another book, is your mom deserves an explanation. Why is she that way?

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Yeah.

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Because again, her whole thing was she couldn't be vulnerable. So she had power over that story if it was just her. But I don't know.

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I don't know.

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We may never know. Well, I fucking adore you. I adore you, man.

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Thank you for taking this.

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Dude, I'm telling you, it's not like the others. All right, I love you. I love you. We'll do this again. Yeah, thanks for coming. Thank you. So lovely. All right.

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We are coming to you live from an apocalypse.

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Wild sky this morning. I got up really, really early. Part of this resolutions biz is I got to wake up so early to get things done. Now that I'm back to writing again. In the memoir after the journal. Got it. So I woke up super early. I checked my emails to see if Delta's school was closed. There was no emails. She was also incredibly excited to go to school.

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She was out sick the day before, but she could not get there fast enough today because she bought Freddie in Mexico City a fidget spinner with grenades on it.

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And the cutest thing was when we were walking down the street with all these little tiny market stands with selling different stuff. Of course, I'm checked out, right? I can't stand shopping. So I'm just kind of like standing. And then she ran over to me and she's like, Dad, I need your help. What would a boy like?

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So I went over. We looked at this thing. And her conclusion after playing with it the whole trip was it's the best fidget spinner she had ever. Performance wise, she spun it. Watch how long this thing spins. Anyways. We drive to school right away, even when the sun came out, because I watched the sun come up. And I was like, that is the eeriest sky I've ever seen in L.A. It's like dark as hell.

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That's not why I know that. Monica, really quick, just for a fun question. What human is in your algorithm?

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We get to school. We were early. We were out of the house on time. And I was like, oh, I love getting here early. Parking's a breeze. Wow. Parking's really easy.

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Walk up to the school. It's closed.

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Open my phone. 7.20 a.m. That cancellation came in. So I was 20 minutes early. So then... We drove up to Freddy's at eight in the morning and gave him that present, which was really, really fun.

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Yeah. And then got home and we have a couple different groups staying at the house who have been evacuated. Yeah, people.

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Yeah. Palisades, that's a first for me, so.

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All the stores?

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I was watching late last night in the high schools on fire. I was like, whoa. But the winds were.

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They were insane.

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Wow. OK, so five football fields, 500 yards. That's a quarter mile a minute.

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Yeah. The winds were blowing 60 miles an hour. The embers were like, just, yeah. I don't know if you saw like the, the female newscaster was given thing and she just gets engulfed in embers and she's appropriately so panicking.

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I was having a moment watching that. This woman is in the pit of hell. She is standing across the street from the high school that's on fire. And then the other side of the street is on fire and there's embers whipping around everywhere and she's breathing in tremendous amount of smoke. And of course, everyone else is scurrying to get out of it. Right. And she is there. I know.

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And I was like, this is the greatest example of like when you have a goal and you want to do something like she wants to be a reporter on the fucking ground when the shit's hitting the fan.

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I'm following Josh, but I'm not following Feldman. But I guess people who like the shit I like, cars or whatever, they like these Feldman videos. So it knows that I might like them. And I liked a couple, but then I didn't like them anymore. It was really fun for like a month. Yeah, and then I don't like it at all.

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So for her, it's one experience. And it's and it just it illuminated for our illustrated perfectly what your mindset does to your experience in a situation.

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Oh, yes, yes, yes. This is on video. Josh is so fucking handsome. To not watch the words come out of that gorgeous mug would be a travesty. So go over to YouTube and watch this. Enjoy. We are supported by Macy's. Planning a winter getaway? Before you hit the slopes or chase the sun, make Macy's your first destination.

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I guess what my conclusion was, you think a situation is objectively a thing, but really, if you want to be there, It's one experience. And if you don't want to be there, it's a completely different experience. The context is identical.

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It's like I said, if you're on a football team and you want to tackle the person, you're completely oblivious to the amount of pain you incur because you've chosen to run as fast as you can and tackle the person. If you're sitting on the sidewalk and you're having an ice cream and that's not what you want, you don't expect it and you get hit with the same velocity, it hurts.

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It doesn't hurt when you want it and it hurts when you don't want it. And it's just so interesting, the power of our brain. So if you want to be in that situation, you're where you want to be. And it's all tolerable. And if it's just came up on you out of nowhere, it is a nightmare.

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She said something like, OK, like it was a self-talk of like, OK, we're in the shit now. It was the attitude of someone that wanted to be there.

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But if you're in the hospital... But even experientially in the inferno.

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That's fascinating to me.

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Well, then it became a two front war because on the west side of us, it was that and then Altadena.

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And Brie lives in Altadena.

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So I was like, come over if you need to. She's like, oh, we got a hotel, shockingly.

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And I'm like, I'm watching that thing. I'm like, where are all these people going? Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare. We are supported by Skims. You know, I was just in my Skims tank top last night taking a little snooze.

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Sure, take your pick.

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You were very scared.

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Worrying.

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Sorry you were scared.

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One of our friends in the Palisades house burnt to the ground.

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I found myself on hour two of watching the coverage myself. getting annoyed with human nature, people must be thinking this all over the country, which is like, how many times do we spend hundreds of billions of dollars in the wake of it and continue to put almost nothing into prevention. I know. I don't understand.

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Like, is at some point the governor going to go like, we got to cut the shit and get fucking serious about preventing this stuff because I mean, and it'd be expensive, but these start because the winds blow the power lines down. They start a fire.

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We've got to get the power lines underground. I don't know. That's step one. Power lines shouldn't... That's going to cost a fortune, but there's no way it's going to cost as much as those houses that were burning in the Palisades. Those are like $40 million houses. The bill on that...

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No one could fly in it last night. The winds were way too bad to fly. Like, I think they're doing a great job. In fact, I was watching it and I was seeing that like already Arizona had deployed a bunch of firefighters. Towns north of us had deployed. They had, you know, they're coordinating all this stuff.

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And I was like, when you're at a bar saying you hate the fucking government, that's the government. Somebody comes to help.

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I agree. There's this huge system in place. They don't have their hands on it now. They're gonna. Without them, the entire city would burn to the ground. You'd have no city. I know. And you'd go, yeah, good. No government. What the fuck are you?

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Like, you hate the government. That's who's come to rescue.

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It's funny because we had done an episode of Armchair Anonymous yesterday. And we interviewed a nurse who was telling us there was a bomb threat.

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And so there was a nursing home that they had to... Evacuate. Evacuate in Glendale. And there's footage of it and there's just... All these old people on wheelchairs and on beds. And I'm like, again, thank God there's nurses.

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Sure, sure, sure. Well, and they're looking for cheap land and no one gives a shit. They don't. Yeah. I mean, there's a numerous reasons, but I was thinking like, yeah, what happens when you have when there's a bomb threat at the prison? Do they just go like, oh, tough shit. We're going to ride this out. The guards are like, what happens? You just let inmates out. Yeah.

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I wonder if that's ever happened.

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This is about you doing the podcast in 1994.

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Yeah.

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Nothing really compares. Nothing beats that, really. Yeah.

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He did live in Malibu, but I think he relocated.

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Yeah. Still journaling?

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What are we at? Eight for eight?

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Is it 7th, 8th?

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Eight of eight.

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On the eighth day of journaling, I wrote down a secret. Yeah, lots of secrets. Now I have to burn, but I can't because if I are. Oh, shit. It would be insensitive to burn my journal.

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Yeah. I remember I was shooting baby mama in 2005 or six and Griffith park was on fire and they evacuated all the houses on Los Feliz Boulevard. One of them being mine. And so Carly called me and said, Hey, they're evacuating your thing. You want me to go? What do you want me to grab from the house? And I was like, Everything I've written is on the computer. Grab that.

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I don't want to lose everything I've written. What about that? No, just grab that and get the fuck out of there. Did your power go out?

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yeah fires are observable and they're predictable you know where they're at you know which way the wind's blowing there's some prediction that can be made the wind's like where did that come from why now when's the next one you don't know and they're yeah they're like 60 70 mile an hour gusts but okay but so this is for josh brolin our friend i love him just that was lovely i'm so happy he read his book for us that was so kind yeah yeah him to do

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Someone had heard it on the early release and they said that they cried during that.

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We don't love the name of that.

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Yeah. Well, what I think is happening is Fred Durst, who I don't know personally, I've never met him. I follow him on Instagram because he loves station wagons. That's my full extent. But he seems to be a pretty self-aware person. And I think he's very aware of that Doc Woodstock and the fact that they were

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At least in that documentary, kind of credited with this terrible toxic masculinity, all the gnarly stuff that happened at that festival. I think he's aware that people are associating him with all that.

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So he tours. He's a musician and a lead singer and a guitar player. And he's on tour seemingly many dates a year because the videos come hot and fast.

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And I think he's probably not that as a whatever age guy is. And I think he's trying to figure out how to own it and continue on being a musician. I don't know. I think he's in an interesting situation.

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I think this was probably the best attempt at that.

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In the description.

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You love Skylight Books.

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How often do you find yourself in there?

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I did my sprints yesterday.

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You know, as part of my res.

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Do sprints once or twice a week. I think they're the worst workout you can do.

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I think they might be the very, there's probably something worse that I just haven't done it yet.

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Because biking up the mountain is really terrible. But the sprints are worse. But I did them. And then today I'm a little taut.

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I did one half pace. Well, I start at the gate and I run to the far end of the property. I think that's probably about 75 yards. And I do a half pace one first, then a three quarters pace one second to loosen and warm my tendons and muscles up. And then it's as fast as I can humanly come out of my blocks and run to the end. And then I'm allowed to walk back to regain my breath, which I barely do.

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He does guitar solos and he sings.

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And the second I'm back there, I have to turn and I'm using your clicker finally. Oh, no. Yes. You got me very early on for my birthday an ushers clicker.

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Because I always wanted to operate one.

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And I have had it and really not had any great use for it. I don't tear tickets often in life. But in the past when I did sprints, I'd have like a pile of rocks I moved every time.

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Because you kind of lose track.

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So this time was like walk back. The second I'm at the gate, I have to turn, drop, click, sprint.

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And so I did 11 sprints.

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Yeah, at full pace.

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Yeah, I wasn't noticing it too much at that time. Yeah, but it could have been rough.

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Yeah. The good thing about sprints is they're over quickly. You can't do sprints for an hour.

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At least the way I'm doing it where it's just they're back to back to back.

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It's still correct.

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Of Avatar. There's, what are we at? There's three of them? There's two of them.

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Let me see what the brand for all of those movies is. Worldwide Avatar number one in 2009 is $2.923 billion. We can call that $3 billion. So that's $300 million. And let's see Avatar 2. Oh, we're at $300 million. Let's see. The Way of the Water. We got a grand total on that bad boy of $2.3 billion. So we're looking at $530 million. Half a billion dollars. Wow.

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Thank God he's doing it for the right reason.

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He doesn't seem to hurt him at all.

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That would be. Yeah.

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And he's made.

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It's a lot of row. It is by the company.

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But what were they just valued at? Six hundred million.

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Oh, at a billion?

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Okay. So you can buy half of it. Controlling interest. And part of your stipulations were that the girls had to go out for wine with you a lot to pitch you the new product lines.

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Can you imagine sitting with wine and they were showing you sketches and fabrics?

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Okay.

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They're too cool. They're cool. Wine's too pedestrian.

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What can you do?

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Those are all the facts. Love you.

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Josh Brolin Returns

6491.227

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Josh Brolin Returns

672.414

that confuses. So similar, exact same thing. And I didn't forward to anybody. I did immediately text my best friend Aaron and say, like, are you seeing these felonies? Like, it's all I'm seeing. And yes, the great curiosity, which, by the way, not even to be political, that was always my great curiosity about Trump. That's what I'm most interested in. Is he in on any of this or is he not in on it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Brolin Returns

691.806

That's what I'm not sure about. He is. But all to say, Brolin, for much different reasons, has just infiltrated my algorithm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Brolin Returns

700.931

I love it. And I texted him the other day and I'm like, I watch four or five interviews with you a day. A day. A day. And I like every single one of them.

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Josh Brolin Returns

711.755

That's the point I'm getting to. That's the point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Brolin Returns

714.816

So first question. Is this the most fresh you've ever done for anything? Let's start there. Yes. To promote your book. Yes. I have whored myself out to this dog and pony like I never have before. Selfishly, when we have a guest coming up and I start seeing that the guest is everywhere, I just kind of go, ugh, I'm bummed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Brolin Returns

735.162

Two things, yeah. What new are they going to say? And then are people just sick of this person? Because I know I've seen them six places. So I saw you everywhere. And my first thought was like, oh, bummer. Like, we're going to be less. But then my true belief in what you and I share that we could also have something completely original and different. That's for sure. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Brolin Returns

753.353

I don't want to be hyperbolic. I want to make sure I'm being honest here. But I can't remember a book I've read that took me more through it personally. And I don't want to make this about myself. But why not? I am also writing something. I imagine we have some of the same fears about writing something. And... I'm just reading it and I'm like, this could be my book. I could be writing this book.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Brolin Returns

77.76

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Josh Brolin Returns

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I could see that. And I'm extra mean to you because I'm extra mean to me. And I'm like, oh yeah, we have the same story. The fucking story. Like I'm getting really mad at myself reading the book. Oh. But in a glorious way. No, but tell me why. The amount of things we had to do to be dangerous and scary so that no one would try to hurt us. How exhausting for everyone. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Brolin Returns

799.864

I'm like reading my own inventory. Oh, yeah. Now I know what you mean. I'm also having great forgiveness for myself because I have great forgiveness for you because I just adore you. I agree. It's very mutual. Thank you. But I'm reading it in a way that I don't read other books. It's because it feels so familiar to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Brolin Returns

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And I am constantly checking myself and going, really, you're just a fucking egomaniacal piece of shit. And I'm so mad at myself. Then I'm reading your book and I'm like, what the fuck else was this guy going to do? He grew up in a cage with a wolf.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Josh Brolin Returns

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It's actually by design. So I'll have read some crazy book on, you know, astrophysics. And all of a sudden, me and the person, we've left the planet. And Monica's like, hey, no one knows what you're talking about.

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Mo Amer

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dax Shepard and I'm joined by Monica Padman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

1053.623

You guys left when you were nine, but how long had they been there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

1064.716

And did they come to love it when you guys did leave? Did mom miss it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

1134.352

I have a ton of memories of 409.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

1196.093

You went to a British speaking school. Yeah. What kind of classmates did you have?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

1238.12

So anybody that visited, there would be presidents that would visit, they would put them up there. I would ride by on my bike if I was a kid and try to see who was staying in the palace.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

1246.545

I'd be so curious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

1261.795

Michael Jackson?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

1307.277

Six weeks to eight weeks recovery, no talking. They cauterize it, but you can't feel if it's bleeding down into your stomach. That's all I needed to hear to make it even worse.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

1322.009

I think it's not as mature enough. It's an in and out procedure for kids. But someone was just telling, an adult was really battling whether or not to do it. They don't like to do it on adults because it's bleeding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

1350.394

My life is ruined. Because they sound terrible. So the invasions in August, the U.S. enters, as I remember, because my birthday is January 2nd, and I got my license in 91 on the 2nd, and it was the only thing that played in the radio. I feel like it was maybe January 1st of 91. The U.S. entered.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

1460.411

But then since it's the Kuwait oil company, so our neighborhood was a hot one and it was all about collecting people who could help manage and turn over the control of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

159.397

Do you get anxiety before you go out on a talk show that you're going to have to pee once you get out there? Peeing is not the anxiety. It's not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

19.134

Today we have Moe Amer on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

192.269

No compulsive rumination thoughts. Like I can acknowledge the pee one is insane. I'll be in the dressing room at Kimmel and I'm waiting to hear the knock. I stand in front of the toilet. Yeah. And then when I hear the knock, I go, one second. And then I do my last pee because I'm so nervous that it's 12 minutes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

21.834

I'm a big fan of Moe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

2105.862

You heard we were a godless country. You did. Did we deliver? We delivered. It was so funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

214.199

No. Although, if ever there was a place to try it, it would be on Kimmel. That's true. Kimmel's the one to do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

2231.583

So he dies in 94? December 1995. So you're young, you're 14. I'm 14, yep. Why did he die so prematurely?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

228.823

Let's do it on the same. Let's do it. I'll go to yours. You come to mine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

2362.056

Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

24.375

Mo is a stand-up comedian and an award-winning writer. I first saw him on Rami, which is another show I love. Friend of the pod. Where he plays Mo in that, but not our Mo in Mo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

244.13

It'd be so great. That's kind of what they do on Weekend Update. Do you ever watch the stuff with Shay? Fuck Shay, man. No, I'm just kidding. That's my brother.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

2440.423

You had the right skill set, it sounds like, minimally. You weren't lonely. That's a blessing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

2493.814

Okay, so what's happening financially, though, when dad is out of the picture?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

2555.166

Yeah. You don't have passports, right? You don't have a Kuwaiti passport?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

2627.201

So I guess we get into some of the complexities of this immigration story you have because you're just waiting forever on the asylum list, however that process works. But In the meantime, you have no passport. You can't come and go. You're just in this kind of purgatory. Yes, exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

2653.595

And you can't work until you have a social right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

2750.712

Yeah. When we meet Mo on season one, he's selling shit out of his truck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

2775.778

Do the Reader's Digest version. You go to the rodeo and Bill Cosby's performing. You're young and you see that you decide you want to do that. You're a shit student. A teacher says to you, I'll let you stand up so long as you're making fun of the course material. Yeah. That's a lucky weird thing that happens.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

278.052

But in a weird way, I'm like, they're geniuses. They've hacked the math of this. And really, we are dying to see this white guy make a terrible joke because we know the risk is career ending. And they figured out how to do it. Yeah, they have. No, it's perfect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

295.486

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3079.63

I was with him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3082.554

Dude, that's fucking nuts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3084.959

My whole body just got chilled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3092.668

Yeah. And we were in Kuwait and we went on a boat ride in Iraq. There was like Zodiac boats and they were fucking doing cool maneuvers and shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3112.034

That's when I got the fucking food poisoning coming home from that. We had been in Afghanistan for eight days and I had been eating at the DFAC, like microwave hamburgers. We get to the Kuwait first class lounge and I'm looking at all this fresh tabbouleh and delicious vegetables and I'm pounding it. And Cooper goes, bro, you're going very hard on the salad bar in Kuwait. And I'm like, it's good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3134.097

It's a first class lounge.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3152.162

There's another person. It was Bradley and his cousin, me and Aaron Eckhart. Oh, wow. That's really wild.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3161.145

They were literally all there at the same time then. Because I was about to say, yeah, they didn't let us do shit. Anytime we tried to wander or stray or the first time I went, we landed in Qatar. The GIs took us to a nightclub and I was like, I'm going to go on the dance floor. I had to get that cleared. There's too much. They don't want the drama of you getting kidnapped or some shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3196.847

Monica's so sick of this story, but I still think it's very funny that I did this. I had heard on my first tour that Larry the Cable Guy was coming the next week. And, you know, they make you sign all this shit when you're there. You're signing the Apaches, the Blackhawks. You're just signing everything. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3212.114

And everything I signed, which had been signed by all the previous people, I wrote on every single one, get her done, Dax Shepard. Ha ha ha. Because I'm like, he's not going to have the catchphrase. I'm going to steal it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3224.339

What does he write?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3237.124

Okay, guys, hey, it's really rough out here, eh? If you were tracking your stand-up career, what are the big level ups? Because, of course, I become aware of you watching Rami, which I love, and I'm like, Who's this most hysterical person who needs his own show and then immediately had his own show? Thank you. That's my experience with you. So what was happening in that stand-up?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3446.305

Because you're playing Mo, who owns a restaurant on Rami. And you're like, well, now am I stuck with that character?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3486.059

I think I did Crashing first, like a guest star. That was Pete. Pete.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3491.221

This is an impossible question to answer for you, but you're immediately so insanely natural. Were you shocked by your own ability? Are we trying to be humble right now? That's what I'm saying. You can't really answer this question, but I have to imagine there's a big relief at how fucking relaxed and in your body you are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

351.252

I have said this a bunch in the past, which is for the young black dude who's from a shit situation and makes it out and become successful. It wasn't bad enough that he had to go through all of that and be extra special to get here. But now he's also burdened with the responsibility of representing the black community and speaking out on all issues.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3510.985

Yeah, for sure. That's an unknown.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3635.759

I know engineering results in a roof over your head.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

370.838

And I just have always felt like if you want to be political, great. But just to have to inherit that on top of everything else, it seems like a weird reward. No, I agree. And I would be resentful a bit if I were in a position where it's like, no, no, I want to tell jokes and have fun. And I'm entitled to do that as much as anyone else is. So does it feel like a burden at all?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

3952.093

Did it almost help you go, oh yeah, that was real? It did. That's a great way to put it. It's so far away in so many ways, geographically and time-wise. To see it, I would imagine you're going, oh right, I haven't imagined this whole thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4048.746

I feel that. Oh, that's beautiful. Now, the show is twice 100% on Rotten Tomatoes. You won, and I'm very jealous. There's only one award I've ever coveted and I campaign for all the time, and I don't even know what it gets awarded for, but the Peabody. Yes. That to me feels like, oh, you transcended Hollywood somehow. It was beautiful. It's kind of a rad group to join. Of the people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4079.503

That's so cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

42.478

He's a different Mo, but very similar. Also Black Adam and two standup specials on Netflix, Mo Amr, The Vagabond and Mo Amr, Mohammed in Texas. And he's on tour right now with El Oso Palestino Tour, which is the Palestinian bear. That's what that translates to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4209.672

But it seems like the show's wrapped up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4250.45

Did season one wrap on October 7th?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

432.717

Yeah, who's your top five? Oh, man.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4353.466

A lot of opportunity for failure. Exactly. Exactly. Whenever you take on something that has about 90 ways it can go bad and then a couple that could go good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4384.315

Another guy's talking about cartel apprehending them for four days. And he's like, how'd you get here? Like, well, I took a bus. And then I took a short swim.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4452.309

Yeah. It's like, bro, what are you doing? But our dog Lola didn't just want to observe. She wanted to like walk around and get a little closer. Sometimes I feel fur on my leg. No, come on. And then I was like, Lola's a fucking pervert. And I was like. Wait, is that what's going on? Or when Lola looks at me, I feel like a pervert. I'm aware of how perverted I am with this third person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4478.933

Okay, so now you're on tour.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4522.137

I knew you were a good planker. You can't tell on Facebook.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4677.038

Well, not to be too corny and make you uncomfortable. I appreciate it so much. Rami for me was the first big, like, I really, really enjoyed almost being forced to see what the experience is like. Yeah. And same with you. And so I'm grateful we live in this. The negative would be like a niche economy of content. But the great part of it is I get to watch Atlanta again. It's a great era.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4752.6

Well, have fun touring and then also act more because I love watching you act. You really are just born to do it. You're so effortlessly comfortable. Mo, I'm delighted to meet you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

476.736

A good analogy would kind of be like, you're asking who's your favorite athlete as opposed to who's your favorite basketball player, your favorite hockey player. Pryor's doing something different than Jerry Seinfeld, than Cosby was sitting down and doing this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4787.509

Oh, this is fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4790.251

So you hit me with an idea. Yep. Which is after we chit chat for a while and we get into the facts, I'm going to cut your hair while you read the facts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4807.366

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4811.229

I know, but I told you this is not the situation. Like, I need you on a tall chair in the kitchen with a lot of light, and we got to discuss what you want. But what you're telling me is you just want the ends trimmed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4824.636

That's some big new layers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4829.598

Okay. We'll see. We'll see what we can do. Okay. But I do have my tools. I got my tools.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4836.321

Like normally I would use this comb, but I was thinking your hair. I don't know if I can get this comb through your hair, can I? Have you ever? I brought one of the girl's brushes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4850.145

Yeah, I only do Indian women's.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4855.586

Do you think all Indian women have the same hair? I mean, they seem to, from my point of view, it seems pretty similar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4878.646

It's the density.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4880.628

So density. Yeah. Yeah. I've never seen a blonde Indian. Let's start there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4887.634

It's like green eyes. Cat eyes, as your father would say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4895.382

No, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4897.844

There's got to be albino Indians, though.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4903.834

We learned a cool word today on Armchair Anonymous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4907.375

Edenistic?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4909.856

Edenic. Yeah, and it meant... To describe an environment as Eden-like, like the Garden of Eden. Yeah, I liked that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4916.858

God, I'm glad you remembered it because I said out loud I'm going to commit that to my... Repertoire. Repertoire. People loved your David Chang story. I just want to add that. Oh, good. I looked at the comments and people... Many people write, this is all of us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4936.715

We get so nervous as if like people get punched for doing it wrong or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4956.008

He'll handle that right now. The bread that his children didn't eat, that he brought home for his children.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4962.573

Oh, there's a bit of a standoff in our household. So Kristen, as you know, you've tried it. She's in her sourdough phase.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4973.438

What about Molly's birthday party? She brought over like two fresh loaves. You didn't get into it. I had some, I cheated. And I also, I was like, you know, I already told you this. I'm like, oh, sourdough has got the least amount of gluten. I can eat it. And I had it. There's nothing better than sourdough out of an oven. Forget it. But anyways, my kids are like, Where's the white bread?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

4995.92

And Kristen's like, I'm making the bread. You have homemade bread.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5000.543

Rightly so. Right. And Delta's like, I want little square white pieces of bread. Yes. And I get it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5009.669

Because I'm a trash monster. I like crappy stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5025.285

It's been a minute. It's been a minute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5028.07

That one's hard because I don't eat bread anymore and I got to just eat this and watch you guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5037.492

I'm not. When she got into the phase, because you can't imagine waking up and the whole house smells like a loaf of sourdough. It's actually now maddening that I don't. I had a week of it. I'm like, yeah, this is where it's not working. My skin started flaking. My wrist started hurting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5053.883

I also gained like immediately. I just mysteriously gained like eight pounds.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5060.737

Go ahead. What did we talk about? That I gain and lose weight really quick?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5070.965

I don't know if you inceptioned me, but I've been eating more.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5075.269

Yeah, I'm not sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5084.176

Well, then I got back down to 194. Right. And then I think vanity. I'm like, I don't like my face at 194.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5101.998

You know, I gained a crazy amount of weight when Kristen was pregnant the first time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5109.291

I just don't know what it was, but I find that every man I know has done that when their wife is pregnant.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5116.957

I think she's like driving it a little more because she's got these weird urges and there's more shit around and maybe that's part of it. And maybe you are like, you know, like if you, I want people to think about this. The next time you're at a booth at a restaurant talking with somebody and Start paying attention how you inadvertently mirror each other's body language.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5137.312

If someone puts their hand on their, rests their face on their fist, you'll do it. Just be aware of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5147.4

In here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5148.881

I wonder if we were at a booth at a restaurant, we would. Sometimes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5164.801

Oh, interesting. But my big thing was we were at one of the checkups and I just hadn't been on a scale in like four or five months. And I got on, I was like, oh my God, I've gained 22 pounds. I didn't even notice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5186.67

Yeah. Something happens. It's pretty consistent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5195.493

Could be. That's a good story. Whiskers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5203.6

This is embarrassing for her. For whiskey? No. I don't need to say who. Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5210.662

Why is it embarrassing to have your period? I would be embarrassed. You would?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5215.384

Oh, okay. I don't think she would, but I won't risk it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5219.927

There's a lot of women in my house. Okay. Nicole's there nonstop. My sister's there nonstop. I got Kristen's there nonstop. This is a whole bevy of urine in and out of there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5231.333

I do want to make this. You pop some tampons in those trash cans for sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5237.588

Oh, you're over it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5241.111

Okay. That's the rage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5246.976

Yeah. We talked about this. You don't, you're anti.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5250.359

And we have a friend we won't honor, but we have a friend in the pod that uses the diva cup.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5264.557

She was dancing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5265.757

And the cup spilled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5270.64

How does the cup pass your underpants?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5275.089

What a kinky broad. She's on her period, not wearing undies and on the dance floor, popping and locking. Who is this woman? Do I know her?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5286.714

You should be able to go underwear-less to a wedding and a dress. I mean, technically, I'm sure when I wore- You don't think that, if I did something like that, you'd be like, that's so arrogant. You know you would.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5312.468

Well, your bathing suit's the underwear. You're not not wearing underwear ever. And then you're on your period and you decide that's when you're going to not wear your underwear?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5330.179

Even in the day of the thong and everything, that's still an issue.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5346.649

And you raw dog it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5348.81

No, commando.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5350.81

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5353.071

Fuck it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5357.512

Can you give a specific time ever? Like, this sounds so theoretical. Can you tell me a time you were on your period, put a tampon in and went out of the house with a dress on and no underwear?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5377.057

Do you live next to a nuclear reactor?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5393.108

In your house. I'm asking, can you think of a, are you, are you telling me right now you have a, you have a memory of going out on a dress? Yes. Yes. No undies on your period.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5412.306

We have a commitment to each other here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5414.728

To be honest. And to believe each other. You can't feel like you did. You either, you got to say I did or I didn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5424.336

Okay. I apologize.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5445.492

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5446.992

It's weird to say wear it. I know. Wear a tampon. I had to put one in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5458.495

No, of course. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5462.136

I have no experience with it, but it seems crazy. There's a cup in there that's relying on a suction seal. And that that seal couldn't break. Anyone who's ever used any suction cups.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5483.628

But as big as like a coffee cup?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5487.07

No, it's like a golf ball, maybe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5491.036

Much bigger than a golf ball. Natalie uses them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5494.998

Yeah. Has your dog ever eaten it? No. Okay, well, let me get to the story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5500.66

There's a lot of updates on Whiskey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5503.201

A new update on Whiskey is he's a bad to the bone. That doesn't help me. Do you see it? Because it needs to be next to a Bic lighter or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5514.665

Oh, okay. So it's the same length as a tampon. Okay, so whiskey, you need to know some updates about whiskey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5521.818

One thing is he's bad to the bone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5525.64

He's killed over 100 men.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5530.082

Whiskey's eaten 100 men. He's bad to the bone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5538.245

I wanted to tell you about whiskey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5540.086

Well, you know, first of all, he was Trump and he was president of the hallway.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5543.607

And I wanted to tell you about that. And you seem to enjoy that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5549.142

He's eaten 100 men and 150 women, but he doesn't talk about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5563.393

Okay. So he's bad to the bone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5566.576

And someone in my household put a tampon in the trash can, which is advisable for your plumbing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5572.641

So I want to high five this unnamed person who put a tampon. Because Whiskey's bad to the bone and he loves blood. Ew. He went and ate the tampon. Okay. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5586.253

Then, and I am getting, she won't mind this. I just want you to know she won't mind this. And this is a big honorable mention because this, I've said this before. My sister Carly is fucking down. When shit needs, when the gnarly stuff needs to get done. My sister will do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5604.326

She is. She's fearless. So they were taking whiskey back to the bone to on a walk. And he pooped out half a tampon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5614.47

And then a little while longer, he pooped out, tried to poop out the rest of the tampon. And now the cord, the string, the rope. And now he's got a rope hanging out of his butt. And he's a bastard, right? So you can't get close to him because he's bad. He'll bite you. He'll eat you like the hundred men he's eaten. And so Carly's trying to get this fucking thing out of his butt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5643.271

And he's trying to bite her. And this whole thing, it's a battle that I guess she had to take him to her house and put him in the sink and get him warm water on him because he calms down when he gets a bath.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5653.598

And then she had to pull this thing out of him. These dogs, man.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5669.086

That's what Kristen goes. Is he going to get toxic shock syndrome? I'm like, no, your butt is so different than your vagina.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5678.271

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5680.572

You get a proctologist. I don't think you can get toxic shock syndrome in your butthole from a Tampax.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5688.655

Tampax is the brand I prefer. Kind of like I like Huggies. Tampax. Radiant. They always man these ad campaigns. And I tip my hat to them because what a product to have to sell on TV. And, you know, they have these commercials and someone's like sailing. They like to put you like in an article situation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5712.424

That's why. Yeah, this is more, I think, like, oh, it's going to be a long sailboat ride. I don't know. It's always like someone's in a field and there's a lot of flowers. Like, they're trying to de-stigmatize, I guess, it. Keep whiskey away. Uh-huh. But, yeah, they got to name it whatever name I just, Radiant or something. I just, I think they have their work cut out for them and I applaud them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5734.255

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5735.135

God bless them. You got to sell depends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5738.297

Hard product to sell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5746.303

You know, one's on the fence about getting depends or you either need fucking depends or you don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5756.068

I don't like the branding of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5761.072

Period underwear?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5763.993

Grab my period underwear. Don't you think there's a, like, I think the Tampax people should take a stab at period underwear because I think they could top it. Well, it's not all- Like freedom panties or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5773.517

Yeah, sorry. I'm so excited to talk about female products.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5785.325

Get my Knicksies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5789.248

Yeah. It's got, it already starts with an X. So I'm, I love it. Is it an N-I-X?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5793.631

Or is it N-I-C-K-S?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5796.794

Well, great. K-N-I. So like knitting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5803.159

Another X. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5805.209

X is a trusted letter in the vaginal space.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5817.36

Yeah, the trust that these people have tirelessly built. With this product that is, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5829.134

If I was in the ad game, I would want to get put on Tampax. Because you want to bite off a lot. You know, like you want to challenge. It's like if you're an actor, you want to play someone dying of something or whatever. You know, you want to challenge. And I would like, I think to cut my teeth and make a name for myself, I'd love to just like blow out a Tampax campaign.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5858.289

You want me to just nap like right off the cuff?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5865.936

And why?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5874.304

Wait. Nothing is better. What if you're sailing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5879.372

the cup you're supposed to carry what you're trying to tell me is that a woman on her in her cycle is supposed to have a purse full of underwear no they'd use that's not a move for an elegant lady out on the town yeah see this is the fact that you got to carry extra undies with you what are you talking about well once you've once you've soiled your necks Just like a tampon, you got to change it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5903.787

So you got to change these onions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5910.989

See, I got a lot to work with here. But hold on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5915.23

Forget the cup. Well, that's a huge thing. This is Tampax versus underpants. Okay, fine. Are you trying to tell me that the day you get your period, you put on a pair of Knicks and you leave them on for the duration? Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5930.08

Even a very heavy, heavy day? I want to be choosing my words carefully.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5944.828

What if you go on a sailboat?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5947.878

Bingo. So we build on that. For the adventurer, for the person engaged, sure. If you're a couch potato, where next? If you want to get out and see the world, if you don't want your period to keep you sidelined on the bench, you still want to go sailing and go to amusement parks. There's only one brand for you because you can carry extras in your purse discreetly like an elegant lady.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

5974.861

No one wants to have no one. You know what I would do is I would have. Thank you, Monica. Here we go. I got my pitch. Okay. We start the commercial with a woman in line at an amusement park. Everyone's having a great time. Her child asks her for a sucker. She goes in her purse to get it. The purse comes dislodged and on the ground tumbles five pairs of underpants. She's mortified.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6016.441

Well, they want it because they're not humongous, like underpants.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6035.905

Mortifying?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

604.201

Now, this is linked to the obligation to talk about being Palestinian in this moment. But also, do you get sick of having to tell your story because...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6040.706

I want you to be, please be honest with me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6043.766

You get to choose. Yes. You're on a date with this unnamed guy that was at Saturday Night Live.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6050.968

And your purse falls over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6052.728

And either a gigantic pair of underwear fall out, because they're big, right? To cover everything. Hold on. Am I imagining them correctly?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6070.332

Yeah. So. Fuck, where are you keeping all these other underwears?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6079.681

You don't. I think you're reckless. I think you need a backup pair on you. I'm not going to say who I know. I know someone who wears them and they go through a couple of days.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6090.751

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6092.414

And so that person has to carry an extra pair of these grundles around, okay? So we just concede the fact that someone might need to be carrying grundles with them. Now, my question is, your purse falls over at dinner, on a date with a boy you like, and either a very large pair of underwear fall out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6120.52

That's another great angle. I'll start calling them dypes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6125.961

I never know when the fun's going to end.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6131.323

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

614.506

your show which we're going to talk a lot about is your story so you inevitably do have to share it again back to the i just want to be funny i don't want to have to tell this fucking story again there's some fatigue for sure but it's mostly not coming from sharing the story because i am introducing different eras of it and there is

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6143.581

Save cotton. Please don't use that word in the campaign. That's all putting one to the consumer. Pussy or cloth? Yes, no, no. That word doesn't work in advertising as much as I wish it did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6167.048

Oh, you're giving away a lot of clues now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6177.542

That other country's a lot more buttoned up than this country.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6183.562

Oh, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6185.263

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6188.566

I know I don't, but I do know the difference between I won't say the name of the country and our country, and we are much more foul.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6197.494

Guys there are like, ooh, about everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6207.824

OK, so the answer, your answer is. Yeah. Lock in the answer. You'd rather have a big pair of underwear fallout than a tampon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6221.111

They're bigger than the ones you normally wear. They're not like there's a pair. You'd be happy to fall out. Right. We agree on that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6234.838

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6237.86

I haven't seen that product. I've seen different versions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6243.362

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6245.783

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6256.888

Mm-hmm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6260.692

Now, and be honest, you're not going to pitch them in the fucking trash can when you switch grundles in the turlet. So yeah, there's, you could be in a situation where you're carrying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6274.904

But for the person who does have to change midday, they have to carry that around. So, okay. They clearly now, they also have to carry a Ziploc bag. Great product. I wish I was on that campaign. I swear by Ziplocs. Now they have, not only do they have this, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6294.26

A pair of underwear. I'll leave it at that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6295.981

That are soiled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6299.562

In a Ziploc bag. I mean, now this is crazy because the guy who's not as hip and a feminist like me, who I already know about all these products, but for the untrained guy, he sees a pair of undies in a Ziploc bag, Monica, I'll tell you a thousand percent what he thinks happened. She shit herself. Okay. That's a Ziploc bag full of shitty underwear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6327.657

Well, now you're... Now you're... That's an interesting counter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6338.503

Delicate. It's not delicate. Yeah, it's inspirational. What was it called?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6342.667

Radiant. A radiant tampon falls out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6351.936

In a Ziploc bag.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6356.941

But it says they poop themselves.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6379.832

And there's flies, too. Just. There's immediately. There's a fucking swarm. In fact, before he even sees it, he hears. Whoa, is there a swarm? I heard a swarm of flies. No. And then whiskey runs across the restaurant.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6403.557

Oh, and I'd say, I'm so glad you're taking care of yourself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6410.282

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6412.264

Well, okay. Say that again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6422.642

And because you don't wear tampons anymore, you pooped your pants?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6428.209

Yeah, because it's in Ziploc.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6434.617

I'm starving. Let's see the discernment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6442.84

all men off the campaign now let's see what kind of appetizers they got you're not can we have a can of raid like you aren't having sex with people on their period oh absolutely i love it i love it police yeah one of my yeah i'm gonna leave that there yeah yes of course i don't give a shit i also don't care if you have shitty underwear in your purse but i do think i'm a rare rare customer

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6474.211

Now I got to tell you about 25 stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6480.914

Yeah. Okay. Well, Mother's Day is right around the corner. So think about getting mom either of these options, whatever you found would be a compelling argument.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6494.594

Yeah. Choice is yours. If you're a pop in locker, you wear dresses. These are all things you got to consider. Yeah. They're great. I'm just having fun. I'm having a good time. And you were too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

65.612

Another incredible story. Yeah. We're just coming off a John story. And then now we have this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6512.567

She's such a gangster, Carly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6516.57

If I ever got in a situation where I had accidentally killed somebody. And it was one of these scenarios where it's like, there's no way I can. My story's not going to hold up. Like, literally, the choices are it was an accident. Yeah. And my choices are call the police and go to prison forever because it looks insane.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6534.728

Or get rid of the body. Yep. And I can't do it myself. I do need one person. Okay. And Aaron's in Detroit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6543.451

I'm calling Carly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6549.376

But that's not your blame.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6552.679

Cutting up a body.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6557.322

It's Robert Durst. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6562.186

Right. You know, there's other calls you'd rather.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6565.849

Yes. I would trust you to tell you this happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6569.252

But I'm talking about the dirty business. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6575.892

Intermittently.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6577.433

Oh, you did? Yeah. Oh, good. While you were watching ER?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6586.026

Do you ever do them on your way to get another glass of wine?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6594.611

Sure. Well, of course, because you're feeling stronger than you are. You're feeling like overly confident.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6603.456

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6606.017

Good. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6612.681

Longer than to your kitchen, probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6620.997

I think you can look up. I want to say they're supposed to last either 30 seconds or a minute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6626.7

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6629.221

I don't do them, so I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6632.603

Okay. You want to do facts and get a haircut?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6634.925

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6649.858

Well, I'm just going to start by saying this will be my first haircut I've ever given sitting down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6655.241

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6657.542

Well, no one's ever cut your hair sitting down, right? This is crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6662.205

Yeah, but it's okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6664.747

All right, so first I'm going to start by grooming you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6669.549

Don't forget to do the facts, though, because that's also your job for the listener. I already forgot. If you're watching, this will be fun, even if you're not giving facts. But for the listener, you're going to have to give your facts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6684.272

Yeah, I bet you probably never want the haircut to start. Yeah, can we just... I can see why you want to trim. See? Yeah, you have some strays.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6694.334

And a lot of them are kind of mid-level, so that's a little tricky.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6699.108

Yeah. Well, okay. We're going to start. We're going to start at the bottom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6707.794

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6712.324

Yeah, tell me about the facts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6715.265

I already did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6718.066

What happened? I just fucking cut myself. Oh, no. You know why? I cut like this, Monica. I cut like this. And because your hair's down here, I have to cut like this. And I just cut my finger. It's okay. We're going to continue on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6732.372

Get me one of your Knicks. I'm going to wrap a Knicks around this and see how absorbent it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6739.375

Yeah, absolutely. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6743.19

Oh, wonderful. Moe Ammer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6750.812

Yeah, incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6757.014

Yeah, John.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6762.056

That's where it starts. That's pretty much it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6782.515

Yeah, I didn't remember that story when you told it. Did that not check out?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6791.259

Oh, okay. Okay, that makes more sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6798.703

Yeah. As if the job's not thankless enough already.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6805.926

Defenders.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6807.888

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I enter the plane a little bit self-fulfilling prophecy. I'm suspicious someone's going to try to be mean to them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6817.676

I don't, but I'm looking for it and you find what you're looking for. That's like the best way to sum it up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6826.215

Pretty good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6827.516

I'm bleeding pretty good, but that's okay. Oh, my God. It's okay. It's okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6836.606

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6838.888

With a chemical cauterization?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6841.17

That we just learned about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6856.785

Where they write jokes for one another?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6864.269

Seems to be the Christmas present they give us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6879.295

No, no, no. Keep going. I just showed Monica the blood, but it's okay. I just dabbed it and got a bunch of hair inside of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6886.48

Everything's fine. No, everything's fine. Continue on. Nothing's happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6894.687

Don't be nervous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6897.049

This is not my first time bleeding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6900.372

I think that you know what happened? This is God smiting me for all the period talk. Now he's given me a lot of blood. Well, her. Now we know God's a woman and she has smited me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6916.425

Wait, can we pause for one second? I am going to get a band-aid because I'm going to have to pull out the layers a little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6920.708

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6930.727

I'm trying not to get blood on my white shirt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6937.41

Yeah, I mean, no, we're just, no. Because you just started?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6964.137

I am going to have to get your hair. Your hair is going to look crazy in this interview.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6968.841

Or not interview, but fact check, because I'm going to have to flop over the layers over the back of your head.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

6993.354

Right, the bleeding's the issue?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7000.837

Okay, so here's what I'm saying. You're going to have to deal with that. Oh. Do you want me to hold it? No, no, it's okay. Let's get a little blood in there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7008.681

Great. Great. Our next area.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7020.182

January 1st, 1991?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7024.224

Oh, okay. God, I really thought it was like right on my birthday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7039.031

I'm going to give your hairstylist credit. This is a complicated cut you have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7043.513

Oh, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7045.754

Oh, yeah, that makes sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7054.447

Yeah, yeah. Can we have a band name? And I was like. I was like, what? What's happening now in this show?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7065.972

Yeah, this may be the last successful episode of this show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7078.475

No, we'll do that afterwards. I just need to stop it so I can finish this haircut.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7097.202

I love you. Hide your face.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7107.878

Do you know I was telling Monica that Whiskey's a very bad man who killed 100 men.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7116.503

She doesn't like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7122.927

Yeah, there's nothing unique about that. He's a prick, as the whole family will tell you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7133.333

I think he's ashamed that he's killed that many women. Well, that's a nice way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7138.447

Yeah, like men deserve to get killed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7146.67

Like it's tougher to kill the men. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7156.313

I'm going to be honest with you. Like this is going to be fine. And you're going to need to see Jenny when you get home.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7163.527

Great. Great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7169.092

Best hairstylist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7174.356

Thanks, love. Thanks for saving the day. The show will go on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7189.997

Blood's done. We're all done with blood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7193.941

Nope. Great. It's not like that penis story. I don't think I'll need a chemical cauterization.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7207.074

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

725.959

I hear a lot of young white liberal kids telling me about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7250.047

I mean, not great. If you're born there, I feel like you should be a citizen. Oh, me too. So not great, but great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7263.776

Oh, this might be the one. I mean, I bled for this episode. Yeah, you sure did. That's what I'll say in my speech.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7273.321

Oh, yeah, we're both bleeding. Rob, you got any blood back there? Not yet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

73.058

We are. Also very Kee Kee Kwan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7312.058

Dingos.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7317.06

Doubly embarrassing for us. It really is. That we should have a home court advantage and still no Peabody.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7345.242

You could have been a voice in the Peabody's? Correct. Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7350.465

Oh, God. He is. I'm impressed you're friends with him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7355.407

Because he kind of blows you away in a lot of these competitive situations and you still love him because he just killed you at Major Dong.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7371.424

It is. It is. That's how I felt about Aaron. Aaron was just so much physically superior to me in everything boy-related as a kid. His coordination and his athleticism was off the charts. Like, we both tried out for the basketball team in seventh grade, and I didn't make it. And he didn't even want to do it, and he made it, and then he just didn't play.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7393.871

With Anthony?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7436.45

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7438.292

And she didn't want to be there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7452.466

You did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7454.547

But you guys made it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7462.449

Yeah, a non-actor beat me. Yeah. Oh, yeah, that's rough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7466.87

I'm sorry that happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7470.191

Yeah, war of attrition. Well, we've cleaned up the back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7476.426

Yeah, I mean, again, Jenny, she's going to need to come in here. Okay. I'm going to flit around a little bit while you finish.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7485.431

Yeah, yeah, and I'm going to try to clean up just some of these strays.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7489.013

I'm going to tell you right now, you are free of gray hair, which... That's nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7495.514

Good for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7497.494

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7499.515

No. I mean, there's some that are like a slightly different color, right? Oh, God. But they're not gray. I don't know how to do this, but let me just take a look at the side here a little bit. We did not touch the sides, which conventionally you want to cut the whole hair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7518.922

That's what I've been told. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7532.383

I can't believe you guessed this. I brought this down in my pocket. I was like, is she going to see this thing hanging out of my pocket? This whole thing was leading up to freaking you out and just going.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7560.398

No. Oh, okay, well, it's a little healthier back here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7568.877

I already did that, that's why you were holding it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

757.144

Well, that's what Chappelle's so masterful at. And yeah, I need his perspective on Black experience. The insight that he has repeatedly given me is just incredibly valuable and so authentic and from the inside that I always appreciate that. Can't agree with you more. To start, you were born in Kuwait. I was, yep. I got food poisoning in the Kuwait first class lounge. Oh, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7571.878

Yeah, I mean, I should probably just quickly look over here. I didn't look anywhere over here. Let me just quickly see what we got over here. What if I fucking shaved the side ear? And you were so mad. Yeah. And then you looked in the mirror and you were like, fuck, Awesome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7597.417

There'll be others. You're cheap. No, you're not even cheap. You're lazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7607.681

All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7609.922

OK. All right. It's it's a little better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7616.787

Yeah, it was a little wispy. It was a little too wispy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7621.911

That's an improvement. Yeah, yeah, it's better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7624.473

Again, you need to see Jen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7626.634

Yeah, it looks good. Okay, great. Yeah, it looks gorgeous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7633.039

All right, Rob, sit down. That I could actually do a good job.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7640.184

I did a fair job. You have way less split ends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7645.128

Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

7661.462

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

78.302

Yeah. We're accumulating some wild. You can really take some circuitous paths to this town of Hollywood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

781.932

And then had food poisoning for 28 hours of flight back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

785.835

No, it's really funny. Can you think of a worse scenario than food poisoning setting on as they close the door for your 14 hours?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

84.447

Please enjoy Moe Ammer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

859.662

You now look like someone that's smuggling something on an airplane.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

878.386

Oh, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

911.579

My first thought upon waking up and seeing the Swedish ski team would be, are my pants full? Because we don't know what happened. We don't know what happened while I was out. Oh, yeah. And these are very beautiful women. And I might have a full cargo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

964.848

We'll just say, ideally, if that happens, you want to wake up and see three ugly old men.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

970.575

You're like, yeah, guys, I shit myself. I'm disgusting. Like you guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

984.689

Yeah. Okay, so dad is a telecoms engineer. Great segue. Yeah. We're going back to Kuwait.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

991.235

Let's bring up your deceased father after all this shit. You lost your mother in 1990. I forgot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mo Amer

999.521

Straight into that. Yeah, my father was a telecommunications engineer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dan Rather and I'm joined by Lily Padman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1023.541

You don't have to model some great behavior. You just have to be available.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

106.454

You were. I looked today. You were April. So you were two months in. There's been 850 people since you...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1066.422

Yeah, but you're kind of getting that motherly feeling, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1082.508

A little naive, you said last time. A little trusting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1088.449

Yeah. And she has her vulnerability, obviously. This runs the risk of sounding like women shouldn't be in the workplace. So I'm going to acknowledge that. But I will observe in my own wife, a ton's on her shoulders. She's the boss of the set she's on, as are you. And there is one costume designer who she really wants on every job because that woman feels so maternal to her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1111.478

And she will often just hug her throughout the day. And she said, I'll often just cry. But it's not sad cry. It's just I feel so safe in this particular person's arms. And I like that throughout the day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1124.224

day because there's a lot on her shoulders and there's this whole acting the way you have to act in that role as a woman I don't know I just think it might be a bit more complicated than when you're the boss oh yeah and you're a woman in this job I think you need a soft place to land occasionally I guess what I'm saying it was interesting doing this show I

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

116.904

We're always on. ABR. Go ahead. Tell me how it reminds you of Parenthood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1183.09

Yes, I watched it. And no insult to anyone. They were all fresh faces for me. I'm also 50.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1190.852

We canceled it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1192.232

Because you weren't here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1195.559

You ruined my 50s. I was going to tell you after the interview. In a corner. I was like, well, she's not coming then. Why the fuck are we doing this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1228.935

Can I guess that you have to be the grownup? Like we could be on set together. If you and I had a scene together, we could complain about the director. There was a whole strata above us and we can be little misfits who are bonded in this, but you can't take that role now. You can't shit on anyone. You can't complain.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

125.127

Economically.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1305.056

That's a very gendered thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1307.437

We'll have these brilliant fucking experts on there, professors, and they would say this astounding thing that their data just backed up and they go, or, you know, that's at least what we found. It's like, oh, you don't even need to say it at that point. You don't. You have the data. It's really baked in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1323.844

Adding a little escape for you to not feel so threatened that I just knew more than you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1334.668

We do. I just think it's different.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1357.483

We just got on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1361.105

I know, I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1369.709

You gotta got to, if you're realistic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1382.175

And let them come hear directly from you. And also, you're an author. The authors we have in, they're on press tours. Actors could never even comprehend. You're killing yourself to get people to read a book. So if you have the opportunity to put that in front of millions of people's eyes, it'd be insane not to. But this is a pattern of yours.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1403.779

First of all, I loved the Gilmore Super Bowl commercial, but I did remember we would talk about doing commercials while we were shooting Parahood and you were just like, I just can't wrap my head around. You were so curious why Kristen and I kind of were just like, oh, fuck yeah, we'll go. We'll go sell some phones.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1441.821

You shored up your decision.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1461.516

You just have to treat it exactly as you would treat a TV show you're offered, which is like, is this good? Will this be fun to watch for 30 seconds? Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

148.68

I didn't request that. No. I looked so bad on the monitor. I was the only one who was like, we got to light that nose differently. When someone puts a bounce board only under your face, you're like, oh, fuck, I am the ugliest member of this cast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1489.531

Well, when I was re-listening to the episode from seven years ago today, you were talking about this intense pressure you put on yourself out of college. And you had started early, yet now you were behind. And this terrible fear of making the wrong choice and fucking up. Which was really present in your early life. And I think also part of it is just, you know how hard it is to get here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1511.587

You know how hard it is to end up on Gilmore Girls. Two dozen people have a show like that for the rest of their life. And so you are terrified you'll make the wrong decision and fuck it up. And you'll make it go away because you went into this other thing. It's very consistent, I would say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1537.603

This is a funny story from Fallon. You did post a cute picture of you with the billboard for the Z suite behind you in Times Square. I think people might not realize this funny aspect of those billboards.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1588.256

It looks a little suspicious. Yeah, for sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1611.152

There's more than that, too, because you and I, we have bonded over this before. You and I fucking hate getting our picture taken. I don't ever need to see my face as long as I live again. So just the notion that I've got to take my own picture of myself at a really bad angle with a terrible lens, we're not set up for success right out of the gate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

164.896

Oh, I will never... Ever forget it. You know, I went back and listened actually to your episode because it was seven years ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1726.223

We have one daughter, Delta, who doesn't have an ounce of self-consciousness in her. Good job. And what a thing to observe. What a thing. Your life can be so fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1735.877

I can't believe it. I mean, it's her mom. Kristen largely is quite unselfconscious. And what a fucking gift. And where does that come from? That's the better question. We can't train her to do that. She just came out like Kristen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1753.237

That's my way of taking the power back because I do get very self-conscious and very embarrassed. But I'm so stubborn. I refuse to let that be a defeat. So I have to. But now I genuinely do. Monica, I'll tell you, we were at the movies. I was carrying the biggest, like a comical. If you were directing this scene, you'd go, the popcorn's too big.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

177.213

So I'm going back thinking this is going to be rough. This is going to be month two. But I'm going to tell you what, this is one of the first ones that I've gone back to that I totally liked it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1771.463

I don't know how starving I was at that point or I thought you and Jess were going to take a lot of it. Yeah. I had a gallon of popcorn and I had sincerely a hundred ounce Diet Coke and then some Milk Duds or something. And we're walking and I slip as if there were a banana peel on the steps. And I go completely up in the air and land on my back and the fucking popcorn got thrown up in the air.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1794.097

And even before I land, I'm laughing so hard that I know I'm also going to almost pee my pants. So like once I land, I'm now pinching my penis because I'm afraid I'm going to pee my pants.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

18.842

Bye. Bye. Bye.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1805.002

Yes, because I know to do that, if it's going to be bad, I just put some pressure on that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1811.284

I'm very proud of the penis pinching. There you are, a grown man. No, that's a guy who knows how to handle his business.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

185.519

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

186.84

I think because I was panicked that I had to guide the thing somewhere at the beginning or that I had to manage what was happening. But you and I have such a effortless rapport that I was just really relaxed. I still interrupted too much. It's not great, but it's better than the other ones.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1969.565

And again, no, I'm just saying I think that's a control thing. I think I was very self-conscious as a kid. And then I just at some point was like, we're going to have to approach this differently. Because, I mean, I'm just highly self-conscious, as is my other daughter, who's very much like me. They're in the same house with the same instruction. It's pretty wild. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

1986.412

One question I didn't ask you last time is, how well do you think you could do on the SAT today? Our friend Lauren was a SAT tutor for the Princeton Review.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2005.346

Like 1500-ish?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2007.729

What are they out of? 1600 back then. Anything above 13 is pretty good?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2012.513

I don't even know. It was 13. I bet you were in the 15s.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2016.076

You're very bright.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2044.284

My two questions are, one, you would have had to inadvertently pick up the whole test at some point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2050.15

Like I'm saying, if you would have taken it at the end of that job, you probably would have gotten a pretty outstanding score.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2086.437

I think so. Connections are an obsession.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2113.256

That's a good one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2118.2

Yeah, yeah, yeah. OK, so when you were doing that job, this is a very weird comparison, but I think of Epstein, right? He was like a teacher at a private school. He was lying about his credentials and teaching at a private school. And he wooed this man whose kid he was teaching, who was a big investment banker and ended up getting a job with that guy through having met through the kid.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2141.596

So I went to your SAT thing and I was like, did you interact with all these privileged kids? And did the dads come and make moves on you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2186.416

But as a tea tutor, you would do it in their homes?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

219.138

I think it's like acting. At the beginning, I was so self-conscious and I stand where, like I used to look at the lens without a paddle. They had to rotoscope my eyes a bunch of times. I like look right into the fucking camera because I didn't know better. But by parenthood, you're just kind of existing. But that happened in this job, too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2193.079

That's your weird fun dichotomy as a human, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2197.928

Yes, because you have a healthy dose of anxiety and overthinking things. But there's also a side of you that understands restaurant culture and can get down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2211.761

You can party.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2224.212

You're beautiful, but you're, hold on, don't fucking do this. You were a fucking smoke show when you were younger. I've seen a lot of these pictures of you recently. Super curly hair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2238.324

But you were. You just missed it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2254.43

He wonders if he himself hit on you. He can't remember. Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2263.715

Oh, that's kind of an insult. Yeah, exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2270.078

What I hear is he really regrets not hitting on you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2286.827

It's brutal. It's a mean, brutal world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

236.045

Whereas, like, at the beginning, I had a lot of fear of am I doing a good job and how do you conduct an interview and all these kind of things. And then just over time, I think I don't have any real fear around it at all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2402.525

Well, you're staring at your whole childhood going, right. Oh, and you put on makeup that way and you do this. Any of that. Oh, and she said hi to dad that way and he kind of blushed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2438.734

Imagine her now without her mom. Cannot imagine. I had the same story about my dad. I'm like, well, I didn't ever have one, so I didn't pine for it. I didn't miss him because I didn't have it, but bullshit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2457.268

unusual. You were certainly the only kid in your whole high school being raised by their dad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2481.192

She went to England.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2482.793

She was pursuing a singing career at the time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2492.581

You're incredibly fair in the first interview to her and your dad. They were both very, very young. They got married and the dad took off to Vietnam for two years to be an interpreter. And they were in Japan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2509.514

When I read that this morning, I was thinking, wow, yeah, you actually have a connection to that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2517.183

She also died when she was 61. She also died. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2575.888

I'm going to stop psychoanalyzing you, but the one thing I'll add is I think whatever parent takes you, you'll have a loyalty to that parent that you have to. This just occurred to me interviewing Josh Brolin. Just think of the notion that you recognize these adults can split. If you just acknowledge that's a reality, one of your parents can bail. Presumably the other one could. I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2596.801

So you have this really deep loyalty. And so for me, I was like, I'm like my mom. I'm not like that guy that abandoned her. Well, I'm very much like him. It's taken me my whole life to recognize. No, in fact, I'm kind of a carbon copy of him. But I was defining myself in opposition of him because he didn't have qualities I admired. He wasn't around.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2614.77

So I don't know, maybe subconsciously you also identified more with your dad and wanted to identify. And he was a cerebral, competent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2622.794

Overachiever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

266.704

Yeah, the experience of trying to do good and trying to be in the top versus trying to stay in the top is a completely different pressure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2672

And then I was telling Monica, I don't ever worry about terrorism. I just started thinking like, well, this would be an ideal place. And I'm here. And why? I don't even care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2684.571

Great target. Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

2740.502

Last thing I wanted to say before we get to your show, we both have read the Cher biography.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

275.549

And I don't like that. It's not why we did it, but then you can't not start thinking like, well, I certainly don't want to watch us just decline over the next five years. I'd like to stay or grow. Today's the day.

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There was a strength to her version of her story that I thought, well, if you get to choose, that's the way to do it.

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She did get her own leverage and broke free. So you're right. Since she landed on top, it's probably easier for her to see it that way.

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I was wondering if the reason you didn't want to go back to them is like it represented something.

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You know, Monica's done more commercials than both of us combined. She's been in a hundred because she's the most successful commercial actress I've ever met in my life. She regularly had five nationals running at the same time.

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No.

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You had the illusion of being productive. Exactly. Yeah. Okay. One thing you have to say to Monica, because she's, I don't want to say the biggest.

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You're already titillated, right?

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But you've met Taylor Swift.

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Tell us everything. I learned this. This is fun backstage. I was flying to Lisbon with Lincoln and we had not had the passport and then we got it. And then we had this five hour layover for the next flight. And then God bless the universe. You and Sam Pancake are at the counter.

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Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. You're new to Instagram, right?

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So we got to spend a couple hours at a lounge together, which was the longest time we had spent together in a couple of years. I cherish that little layover. But that's where I learned this story.

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Oh, he's the most lovely talent. It's her best friend who's a really funny actor.

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That's how I move through the world as well.

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It's best to start there. You're super pleasantly surprised when it's the other thing.

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Well, comments, you learn things that I wouldn't otherwise have known. So I'm very aware that Parenthood is now back on Netflix and in Canada.

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You think you're being respectful, but you could also be being read as aloof and disinterested. Oh, God. They could walk away thinking she had zero interest in me. We worked together for two months. She didn't ask me a single question. I was in Godfather. She could have inquired about that. So you want to know anything?

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There are a lot of Canadians right now that are tickled pink.

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Yes. I have the thing they say the best advice if you have a stalker or someone obsessed with you is you can't say anything because no matter what you say, if you're like, get out of my life, I can't stand you, they can twist that. I have that skill with a positive. I'll make it a dig. oh, so I didn't have enough blue on. Even you being professional.

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It's like, it's like, that's a great compliment. Okay. So the Z suite, first of all, what did you think the name was when your agent told you?

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No, it's a legit great city now.

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Yeah, they're more flexible and open. But we didn't even get to the punchline.

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I have a whole issue with C-Suite because this is now ubiquitous that everyone knows what a C-Suite is. And I don't understand why it's called C. CEO, CFO, COO. Only the people with the C. The chiefs.

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All the chiefs.

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Okay. What's your baseline about Generation Z? I think there's a bunch of stereotypes about them, but I am suspicious they're not the numbers that we think.

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In a very healthy way. Seven years ago, we already felt this way, which is you get to a certain point where for me, I was like, I'm not going to be in a Marvel movie. And yours was I'm not going to be Sandra Bullock. And then at that point, I think a very healthy transition happens where you go, okay, so I'm going to focus on process because I'm not really in the results game as much anymore.

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But the process now means everything to me. And I think it's a very healthy thing to prioritize that.

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It's the most multicultural place on the planet.

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That's the thing that very few people get, which is something that just keeps getting enjoyed for a long, long time. It seems almost impossible. And that's really rare.

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There were 13 cast members and we bought the gift. You know, we would cumulatively chip in on whatever we were getting the crew and the amount of emails that would go back and forth to decide whether we were getting this mug or this fucking.

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Oh, it was impossible. What was the brand of sweatshirt we get? There was kind of terry cloth.

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The other one.

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Yeah. Hattie goes like, are we going to go Patagonia tall neck or are we going all the way with the puffer vest version? I love that. I know I was making among the lowest of all the actors and I was kind of like, get him a mug, man. Oh. I didn't say it, but I was like, guys.

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But then it was sort of like, then people, that's right. It's like, that's not fair. Maybe I've told you this, maybe I haven't, but every job I had ever had in my life prior to parenthood, I made a point to find out what everyone was making.

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Oh, I'd always figure it out. You just ask. I'd either get in a conversation where I'd get it out of them or I'd back channel through an agent.

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I went into parenthood going, I'm purposely gonna not find out. And I was so happy on the show. I was like, if I find out Jabbar's making twice as much as me, how could I enjoy going to work? But I enjoy so much going to work until I find out my son is making more than me. But that was the first time I ever broke that habit. Boy, was it a blessing. So your character, Monica.

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She insisted, as a nod to you, that be her character's name. It was originally named Gail.

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Which I never understand.

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It's got to be Padman, but not Padman. But we can't do that, because that one's taken.

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A bevy of offerings. Yes, yes.

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But we meet you and you're winning a huge award for being an incredible advertising agent.

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Oh, wow. Which is a big word we talk about all the time. That's a big ding, ding, ding for us. You can't imagine how much you just walked into. Because I was taught that name by Monica, who's a fashionista. And I said, you watch. They're going to start calling Subway an Atelier. Oh. It's going to be like artisan. Right. Where it's like, it'll mean nothing.

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The artisan sandwich from the Atelier Shop Subway. Yes. You're super well-established. You fuck up an ad campaign. You say all somethings matter.

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3563.078

Tone deaf, not racist. That's the kind of the line we want to straddle. That's exactly right.

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Yeah, all vibes matter. In the right context, you could not put those two together.

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So that spells your demise. And you also have a young woman that works for you. And she's worked there for 168 days, only 43 of which were in the office. And she thinks she's ready to run the place. This stereotype, I do have a few friends who own businesses who they have some young employees that are completely shocked they're not vice president within like a year of work.

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That's right. I pitched you.

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It's probably exaggerated and also quite real. Yes. I was almost thinking when I was doing my research on you, I'm like, I wonder if part of it is it's totally not their fault. They would have been at an age where they watch Mark Zuckerberg start the biggest company on earth at 26 years old. There would be a lot of examples for them that we certainly didn't have.

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So some of it, I think, is not even their fault. Right. By the time you're 26, you should own Facebook.

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We'll find out tonight at nine when I get home. That's right.

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Oh, God. I knew a family who, yeah, their kid didn't learn to walk very, very late. And my mom was like, of course not. The kid gets picked up and carried everywhere. He doesn't need to walk. The kid's a genius. So why would he waste any time learning to walk?

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Yeah, yeah, yeah. So you get canned and then you build an entire replica of your office in your home, which is fantastic. Now these young kids start running the agency.

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Studying for the next day. That's the plight of the boss. Yeah, right.

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3736.166

Here's a joke in the show that I have unfortunately heard people in my life claim they have, which is one of the younger workers is late and he says, I have time blindness.

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3750.975

I've now heard people our age claim to have Time Boy. This is a new concept.

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Yeah, was all this worth it? And I'm disappearing. The world's changing and none of it was for anything. Right. You're so fun to work with. I'm really jealous of those people and I miss it so much.

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It's all going to go downhill from here. This is as good as it'll ever get.

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You got to actually act nearly the whole time you were there, which is impossible.

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3820.163

You keep dodging this question in every interview, but I'm going to pretty much make you answer it. Great. You're a part of a phenomenon, which is Gilmore Girls. And certainly we saw Will and Grace come back in a very satisfying way for everybody involved. This seems insane that we wouldn't be doing this show again.

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3840.912

Yes, you did for movies.

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What I think Will and Grace did right is they gave you exactly what you had the first time. Right. We can accept that the story's now progressed. Right. But you got to keep it in our really familiar, fun... That's a really good point.

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Yeah.

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Yes. The engine of the whole thing was her being single. That's right.

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3949.023

Also, dating's a whole thing that still happens. It's actually real.

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3954.264

Yes.

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3979.798

Crosby's never going to learn. You're never going to learn. That's the premise of it.

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4004.837

Some people don't ever change.

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I'm going to tell you right now. They have the thing. You can't erase it. You can't make it disappear. You can't dishonor it. All these fears. You give them this other thing. Maybe they'll like it or they won't like it. It's not going to impact that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

4046.972

I don't desire to act at all, but I deeply miss being on Parenthood. And there is a version of that show I would probably do.

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4054.877

If it were eight episodes or ten episodes, I could manage my now real job. My fear is more, is it like going back to your high school? But I don't think so, because we were already like full-fledged adults. And when I see you, it lights me up every time. And when I'm with Trilling, which I spent a lot of time with Trilling, I'm just enamored with being around him.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4078.013

Yes.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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I might have put more effort in.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4081.738

Yeah. And you're in town more. Yes, I'm in town more.

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I mean, we did six years. That's about as long as you can do it. And I wouldn't even give a fuck. I don't care how it turns out.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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I just want to go hang out with you guys. I love you.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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From the bottom of my heart, I love you.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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This is so fun. The Z Suite is out now on Tubi, and it's free. It's network TV for free as a streamer. I'm in. Thank you. So everyone watch the Z Suite. It's spelled Z-S-U-I-T-E. So glad we got to hang out. You and I have had sauna plans for about a year and a half. And I said, Jim, we have done this interview.

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Let's get stronger together.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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Yeah, exactly. That's why a lot of people aren't taking my offer up. They don't want to be in a bathing suit.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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They're mostly other men. I love you. Love you.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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With a groovy underbelly.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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You've been derelict in your duties.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4175.994

And maybe you can lure May over and I can see her because that's the only way I'll see her. I will.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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All right. All right.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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Love you.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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I sure hope there weren't any mistakes in that episode, but we'll find out when my mom, Mrs. Monica, comes in and tells us what was wrong. Are you so happy to be wearing your raincoat?

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Lauren Graham Returns

42.716

We learned about Tubi in this episode.

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Lauren Graham Returns

420.665

How many did you do?

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That's his brown lining.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4207.285

I was on the road at 6 a.m. this morning.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4209.826

Driving to Anaheim, California, home of Disneyland, as you may know.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4214.108

Thriving suburb in the greater...

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Lauren Graham Returns

4217.277

Metropolitan area, yes. To go to Expo West.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4222.943

Do you know about Expo West?

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Lauren Graham Returns

4225.742

I don't know a ton either.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4228.623

That's right. Okay. 70,000 attendees.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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Because my pitch to you, I remember. What was it? I wanted you guys to have basically like a homewares type podcast. Because you're so into decor and building and she's got a real eye for fashion. Over the years, people have asked me, shockingly, for my advice in this space. And my thing is literally pay attention. What do you talk about in your free time endlessly? I talk about trauma endlessly.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4233.306

It's a huge trade show for consumer products. All kinds? Grocers, products, buyers, suppliers, founders. And Sharon Beasley and I, Aaron Weekly, were on stage being interviewed.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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Well, that's happening, yeah. I had to come back to work for my real job. Oh, are they still there? Yeah, they're still there. Wandering the halls of a huge convention. 70,000 attendees. That's great. Rob, Google, how many cities in America have more than 70,000?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

4274.839

Out of 50 states, that's like 10 per state. I don't know what that does for us, but I feel like it's relevant.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4282.707

What I'm saying is this would be in the top 500 cities in America for population had this group incorporated into a city while they were watching this interview.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4294.693

Yeah, a lot of products. It's a crowded space.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4301.738

Go ahead.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4311.301

Yes.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4317.463

I do too.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4320.824

Yes.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4333.104

Oh, my goodness. What a controversial stance. Well, you like capitalism and you like the marketplace. Of course.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4353.944

Not you. Go ahead.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4356.545

That's why I love talking about Ted Seeger's because this was not a cash grab. No one approached me. All these other there's another guy with a celebrity with a beer brand. And he's very openly on a talk show saying, like, he got approached by people. They handed him five things at a boardroom meeting and said, basically, we put your name on this.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4373.315

So this is like me and Aaron created a beer we wouldn't be embarrassed to order at a bar. Yeah. Right. We're not like, hey, do you have a little duels? Could you bring it in a Budweiser? Yeah.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4387.568

We made it for ourselves. And then we thought, oh, maybe people would also want.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4405.653

Yeah.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4412.418

Yeah, it's a great place to go.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4435.575

Yes.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4437.777

Yeah. He's virtually a chemist.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4441.82

But just my passion is partying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

4444.888

No, it is. That's what Ted Seeger is all about. You can still fucking rage. You don't have to have alcohol.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4452.216

Oh my God, yes. Erin and I party hard.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4456.28

Barbecue, laughing, screaming, five of them, not the sip one. Of course. Empty can. It's a party.

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Lauren Graham Returns

446.103

And then that's kind of what the show ended up being. So I've been around you guys. You guys are horny for all this neat stuff. Truly invigorated by aesthetics.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4468.791

Oh, they're not thinking about it correctly.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4471.795

Party is a state of mind. And I'm going to drop into a carefree tomorrow never comes attitude. That's a party to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

4482.267

Yeah. We party. We fucking get down here. What are you talking about? This is a major party.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4492.872

That they think it has to involve being intoxicated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

45.178

The show is called The Z Suite, which is a comedy exploring the tension between the generations, which is kind of the topic of the day on the show. We're doing a lot of generational stuff.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4503.498

Yes, yes, yes. But Erin and I will be out late. Rarely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

4507.92

Rarely.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4516.05

I'll give you a prime example. Aaron and I will be which happens often. We're both binging a show together and it's midnight. We should go to bed. And I go, you just want to fucking party. And he's like, yeah, let's fucking go. And that means we'll watch till maybe 3 a.m. because tomorrow's not coming. That's tomorrow. Dex's problem.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4541.362

B-T-D-T-I.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

4545.343

Right. Let it rip. Party.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4549.404

Yes. I don't think we should let the people, just people who are getting intoxicated, own the space partying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

4558.887

Wait, back to, I want to spend a little more time on this because I think you're representing... how a lot of people feel. Like, oh God, this guy's got a vodka now.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4575.09

But I think a lot of people feel that way.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4577.653

And I guess I can see it from both sides.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4596.568

Right. You're more like the category. Yeah, pick a new category.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4604.892

That's what's cool about Danny.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4607.914

No. He did wine. Nope. Danny DeVito. Oh. He did Lemature. What is it? Lemoncello. I love Lemoncello. Lemoncello. Like when we went in Rome 18 years ago. He was ahead of the game. He had Lemoncello because that's his drink.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4647.122

Okay, sure. Things like that. Some browns and light browns.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4651.474

Whitey.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4658.161

Yeah.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4666.049

She had to do some.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4668.032

Chemistry. That's right. Oh, I was only going to, not that anyone cares. I don't even know why I'm saying this, but I'm going to. If you look at the last six spirits that were created and then became evaluated over a billion dollars or multiple billions of dollars, the truth is four of those five are celebrity driven, whether it's Conor McGregor or it's the handsome Clooney, McClooney.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4706.191

Yeah.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4708.372

Casamigos, shout out.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4710.733

He already exited, I think.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4720.285

Oh, he was right out in front of it. Oh, he was? Yeah, yeah. There's several. They have worked. And what you have to acknowledge is if you're a distiller or a distillery, breaking through this insanely cluttered space is nearly fucking impossible. you would really have to spend hundreds of millions of dollars marketing this product.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4740.909

Or you get The Rock to talk about it on his Instagram. You save yourself several hundred million dollars. Sure. And it breaks through. So it's like.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4753.617

No, he started that. He's one of the founders.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4767.529

And me too a bit, which I think is the sign of a good conversation is you're like trying to figure out what your position is midway through. I don't care.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4777.9

I want to explain the landscape and why it's irresistible for distilleries and, you know, spirits. Yeah. Because you. You almost can't do it to just have like a novel recipe and try to penetrate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

478.148

Yeah, you were on a morning show. show and the co-host handed you three books. That's how known you are for being an avid reader.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

4795.376

Right.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4811.187

Yeah, yeah.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4812.588

We wanted people on a budget to have the same shit we have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

4821.916

Yeah. Okay. Lipstick.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

4825.879

Right. And I don't drink.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

4834.981

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4849.724

Don't you think it might be fair to also acknowledge is like, however you feel about the new celebrity product is virtually just how you feel about that celebrity. Because like when Clooney does it, you're like, oh, cool. He's super classy and elevated. And I bet his tequila's top shelf and you won't get a hangover. And it is.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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And then you see, I don't even want to say a name, but you know, there's like a whole legion of people. You would see with the product and be like, well, I don't even like their vibe to begin with. And it reeks of cash grab.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4887.084

I'll have everyone know if it makes them feel better. I have lost hundreds of thousands of dollars on Ted Seegers.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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Mine's also a mission to be with my two friends.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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Just do it. And I don't care if you think I'm a, I'll just, yeah, I guess it is important to me that everyone recognizes this is not a cash grab. No one came to me. This is all self-finance and I'll probably lose my shirt. But again, I'm having a blast with Aaron and Aaron. We were at a fucking convention just now on stage. Cash grabs are great too. Cash grabs in the right.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4923.214

Yeah, there's the right. Listen, I'm part of some cash grabs. Everything's fine.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4929.358

Everyone's trying to make it. What else? How was your weekend? We haven't discussed weekends. Yeah. Tell me.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4974.621

Right.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4980.727

Oh my God.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4982.829

Yeah, who else?

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Lauren Graham Returns

4985.191

Oh yeah, Max Greenfield. Sweet Max, who I love.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4989.935

Well, I'm glad you finished that whole, you plowed right through. Yeah. And it felt great. And you woke up and felt good in the morning.

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Lauren Graham Returns

4997.62

You didn't feel guilty for partying too hard. Yeah, good.

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5003.463

Wonderful.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5037.298

What fun.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5040.441

The funnest times of my whole life were watching Sopranos on Sunday nights and making Italian food.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5050.669

Gotta gooch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5052.851

Yeah, when you get it, it's a gotta gooch. And when you miss, it's a gotta gooch. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5059.417

Okay, got it. Yeah.

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Lauren Graham Returns

506.017

So you'll follow people's book lists. Who do you follow?

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Lauren Graham Returns

5067.245

When you miss a week of viewing, I thought you meant when you miss cooking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5074.652

Missing would be, oh, maroon. Maroon. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5082.219

Oh, my God. That was your Sunday?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5088.481

Oh, and you got to watch those.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5095.623

I had a television party, too, because I got early screeners for Drive to Survive. Nice. And I had the boys over. Cool. To watch. And what a show. What a show. Boy, do they build the suspense for the season, which kicks off in a week. Fun. I can't wait. Testing happened. Some surprises. Some big, exciting surprises.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5123.551

Who's your current boyfriend?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5126.412

Oh, now he's your boyfriend.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5130.893

Since he came on the show. Yeah, of course. But prior to that, yeah, it was Ricardo or Bust.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5137.656

He's a garguch. Okay. Ricardo.

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Lauren Graham Returns

514.1

Also, your eyes look so beautiful. You wouldn't forget. These are blue, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5142.137

Daniel Ricardo. You can't even look. Yeah, great total. What a charming son of a bitch. He gets you several times in the three episodes. He does.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5155.326

But back to testing, Carlos signs who we love. Sexiest man on the grid, best lay, father is a legend. Poo-poo pants. Don't say that about him. He was unceremoniously let go of Ferrari to make room for Lewis Hamilton.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5172.557

And what was great is that the first half of the year, Carlos was destroying. He was beating Leclerc, who I love. But it was fun because he's like, oh, you're going to fire me and keep Charles. Let me beat Charles for a while. Very exciting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

518.906

Monica's a hard time remembering people's eye color, but yours are memorable.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5186.485

He went to Williams, always a bottom three team. In testing first test session, Carlos Saenz had the fastest lap in a Williams. That's awesome. Talk about a little bit of poetic justice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5199.893

Underdog.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5201.614

This is straight underdog. You know, I have very specific compartments for my stories, as we learned on the last fact check.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5209.266

Well, I was like, no, no, this is a climbing the ladder becoming a CEO story. This isn't a dreams come true story. That's too broad of a blanket.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5217.136

So this one is specifically underdog.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5221.681

Revenge.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5226.277

Well, he's on an underdog team.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5228.378

There's two stories happening.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5231.641

But the Williams story is an underdog story. And then the Carlos Sainz is a revenge is a dish best served hot and straight up your ass on week one of testing.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5250.454

That's right. Opinions are facts. Don't talk back.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5258.354

Yeah, that was a really good time. Had a double date on Saturday night at a steakhouse by the people who do sugarfish.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

526.075

Yes, this is the purest delivery system possible.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5267.559

And you can expect it's the steak version of sugarfish.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5272.142

Matu?

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Lauren Graham Returns

5274.304

You have?

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Lauren Graham Returns

5277.147

Oh, the Philly cheesesteak. So good. Oh, my God. That was dessert. We got this crazy, like, all-in meal, and the dessert was that friggin'.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5285.556

That's the best. I mean, people in Philadelphia are going to slit my throat, but it's the best Philly cheesesteak I've ever had, and I've had them in Philadelphia.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

529.239

Well, I have the mint in, the lozenge.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5293.544

It's a Wagyu. You mispronounced it, but yeah.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5297.834

Gotta gooch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5301.456

No, I haven't. Now you talk like that. I spent one evening with Aaron and Erin, who are not bros.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5308.019

They're not bros at all.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5309.94

Yeah. They're very un-bro-like.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5312.421

We went and saw the Led Zeppelin documentary yesterday. Fun. In IMAX.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5317.684

Yeah.

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Lauren Graham Returns

532.942

No, I never was really into the gum. I remember you chewing the gum. You remember these. I've been on these for 20 years. Right. I dipped for a while, but I'm a year and a month off of that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5326.455

I already know what's coming. And I'm like watching you play. You're like testing the ice. See if you're going to fall through before you say it.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5339.107

Yeah, you're mixed messies for sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5362.944

Oh, OK. So far, I can agree with these. I can hang with the bros like I'm totally comfortable. Sure. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5386.964

Oh, yeah, yeah. The Aarons? Yeah. All my friends from Michigan are sweethearts. I know. We fist fought a lot, but all of them are very sweet boys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5399.159

If I dare, I'm not on the ice. I think you had some pretty binary categories. And I don't know that you had the category of boys who are super sweet to their moms and their sisters and also fought at the bar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5412.268

And I think that's the category that the errands and I are in.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5430.021

I do too.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5431.982

I think a lot of the bro culture without naming names is in deep search of masculinity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5438.823

And I think I've been lucky enough to achieve a lot of that masculinity. Yeah. Like, I think there's a lot of guys who act tough, who they've never challenged themselves to find out if they are. And they have this fear that they're not. And they're kind of compensating. So I can hang in those circles because I am often the thing some of these guys are purporting to be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

544.511

She was on the gum, yeah, yeah. You should always say, give me a two.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5460.793

But I don't act like a blowhard or I try not to act like a blowhard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

547.413

Well, she loves her nicotine. She's on the spray. We're a nicotine family.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5474.601

Oh, yeah, yeah. He trains. Exactly. But his story, as I've learned from other people, is he was a bullied kid. He's short. I think he was bullied. And I think he didn't want to ever feel that again. And I think he made himself strong and learned how to fight. And I think he's, I'm assuming he's kind of honest about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5519.284

I think it could be misleading if you only evaluate Rogan by the 15 most flagrant guests he's had instead of the dude's done 2000 episodes of his show. And he's also really good friends with Chappelle. I think he's a comedian first. I think if we were to interview him, I think he would most identify. He's a comedian. UFC's not first. He's much happier in a green room with all comics.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5546.16

I think that's his allegiance in his tribe. And then I think as I'm crazy into cars, he's crazy in the UFC. And then that invites UFC fighters. Now, those guys, yeah, I'm not a lot of them. I don't have much to defend about their worldview. But I don't know that it's entirely fair to graph on to Rogan who his 15 craziest guests are. Because he also has...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

556.08

See if you'll understand this wardrobe choice. It's been a long time since I wore this shirt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5570.836

Other guests in the opposite direction. If there's anything I'll say about him, he's incredibly fair about everyone there is kind of welcome. If anything, he's just really attracted to the super provocative ideas. Sometimes they're on the left, sometimes they're on the right. I listened to a speech he made the other day that was like, I'm not in either of your club.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5588.434

What I think is crazy is to be in a club. So I don't think he is... He himself self-identifies as much as the left thinks he does with being a conservative. But I think he's a bit of a big bad wolf on the left, and I personally don't think he is.

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Lauren Graham Returns

561.405

The thing I own that has the most connective tissue to Parenthood.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5628.885

Well, again, I think they listened to the 15 episodes that we would then talk about in droves, and then they... I mean, he obviously is the biggest show in the world. Oh, by 510X.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5656.964

See, that's where I might disagree. I don't think he's led by his audience at all. Like, I think he is actually insanely true to who he just is. That's why I respect him a lot. I don't think he's chasing that audience. I think he's him and a big swath of the country loves that.

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Lauren Graham Returns

566.85

FNL, Friday Night Lights.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5676.874

I see other people chasing that and trying to be opportunistic about that.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5683.795

And I just don't think that's him. I think he's been the same fucking dude for 12 years on his show.

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Lauren Graham Returns

57.367

This whole week is generation, really. Wow. Wow. God, I love her. Most stunning eyes in the biz.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5703.301

Atypical or atypical?

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Lauren Graham Returns

5708.255

Sure, sure, sure.

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Lauren Graham Returns

571.414

Well, this is the closest I have.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5713.521

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Lauren Graham Returns

574.317

Knowing you're coming, I'm like, I want to do something Parenthood-y. But I don't own anything Parenthoodie, but I own this, which is connected.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5762.156

the lion's den of these dudes. But again, I have the gift of having done all the stuff. I don't ever feel like I need to inflate or bonify my masculinity.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5774.782

I don't. I'm so comfortable when it goes into those zones that I actually like. If it's about cars or a great boxing match, I do like that stuff. But I don't ever need to join.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5815.518

I mean, we've had so many, especially when that's empowered.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5819.48

Like if you were to guest on one of their shows, it would be dicey. I don't, you know, it would be hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5828.902

But these people are on your show.

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Lauren Graham Returns

584.264

Did you take any props or anything? Like I took the mugs. I took the lunch and I signed it. We had the mugs for a while.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5847.472

Absolutely. Absolutely. Now, what I would agree with is the guest, one of the two, would have gone further. Now, I wouldn't have joined him, but he would have certainly gone further. Here's where we might disagree. So, yes, in this situation, of course, I couldn't be more grateful you're here at all times. And this show absolutely needs you.

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Lauren Graham Returns

5868.09

Now, I don't mind at all if there's a podcast with five guys talking about guy shit. That's okay. We don't have to have a woman there. And we don't need a man when there's a podcast of five women talking about women shit. I don't think we need representation in all places. It's plenty fine if girls have a podcast and boys have a podcast. That doesn't bother me at all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5888.714

And boys can go ahead and talk about the UFC the whole time and who paid for dinner, all that stuff. That shouldn't. That's not the enemy, I don't think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5906.727

Like if women's shows don't need a man, which they don't, I don't think men's show need a woman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

591.008

You were Marie Kondo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5935.283

That's to me sounds like you're saying one is superior to the other. That one has an ethical drive and the other one is inane. And so-

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5944.891

I know, I'm telling you what it sounds like. It sounds like you're saying a women's show is needed and they're a part of some kind of good movement and the men's one is not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5968.106

I think it's good to have— Like, I don't think The View needs a man. I don't think Alex Cooper needs a man.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5974.528

There's tons of very successful shows that are female-led, and that's— Awesome. And they don't need anything. They are doing the show they want to do, and the audience who's consuming it wants that show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

5989.497

And the same has to be applied to the guys.

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Lauren Graham Returns

6023.151

I'm just saying I don't think they have advice for how the female dominated show should be or shouldn't be. I don't think they're telling anyone how your show should be or how female shows should be. But I think a lot of those men would feel like, why are you even telling us what our show has to be? Like, just don't listen to our show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6044.068

If you don't want to hear a bunch of talk about fighting and stuff. Who cares?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6062.25

Yeah. And I mean, as they should.

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Lauren Graham Returns

607.199

How many pair of jeans do you think you have? You want Monica to go to first so you don't feel as bad?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6071.076

I hate to say this. It is working because they got their president in there and they're all suffering.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6085.706

I don't want Trump to be president. I don't agree with. I mean, name the thing that's going on. But if the disenfranchised – if you make those folks black, take them out of that they're white men, the black community totally disenfranchised. You get hip-hop. You get rap. You get this empowering art that comes out of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6107.896

And for anyone who is sitting on the sidelines telling Ice Cube how he should be dealing with this situation when he's got tons of raps about shooting people and hating white people – The people that were on the outside telling him how he should deal with growing up in South Central, we would both agree they should shut the fuck up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6126.33

Because that's the disenfranchised group, and you're hearing their voice now. So now there's another disenfranchised group, and they're doing what generally people do that are disenfranchised. They bond together over that, and then they try to get someone they think is going to represent their cause. And those people won the election.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6150.342

And your opinion is they'll suffer more under this president.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6155.568

I don't think they're going to benefit. But what I can say is we don't know the result because four years isn't up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6206.97

I just think if your goal is to help this disenfranchised group, I think saying your conclusion is they got fooled, which is if I'm them and I hear you say you all got fooled, what I'm hearing you say is you're smarter than I am. And I got fooled and I'm a fool. I think a good chunk of men feel like all they've been hearing for 10 years is how terrible men are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

622.386

She's about 16. What are they called? Armoires. Armoires. In her one bedroom apartment. Her entire apartment is armoires.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6233.467

I really believe that.

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Lauren Graham Returns

6235.348

And I think it's pretty predictable that this group that's being told they're toxic and terrible for 10 years is going to at some point go, well, then fuck you. Yeah. And I think that's what you're seeing. And I think if our continued approach is to tell all of them that they're terrible. Yeah. You're going to see more of this. I think if you want young men to be on our side, you have to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6259.062

Invite them. And I think you have to make it seem like they're welcomed and would we we'd be delighted to have them.

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Lauren Graham Returns

6267.531

And I think the messaging towards men over the last decade has not made a lot of them feel that way.

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Lauren Graham Returns

6277.468

And I think even if they don't have a job, let's say they're unemployed today and then they're unemployed in four years. But at least someone got up and said, hey, I'm not apologizing that I was born male and I'm sick of hearing the bullshit. Maybe that win for them would be better if they're unemployed on both sides of it.

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Lauren Graham Returns

6296.605

Like that's I. Well, that's a I think that's a really.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6324.038

There's a huge gap, Monica, between you're so great and just you're so shitty. I think, and you could argue and win that it's justified. So yes, I think my general feeling about women is much more positive than your general feeling about men. And you could argue that that's totally justified because they're the patriarchy. They commit the sex crimes. They do all the murdering.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6347.626

Those are great reasons. And I'm not even going to argue, but I do think my overall opinion of women is higher than your overall opinion of men. And I think I feel it. Do you think that's an accurate assessment that your overall opinion of men is lower than my opinion of women?

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Lauren Graham Returns

6366.194

Yeah.

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Lauren Graham Returns

6382.998

And so, yeah, and I get it and I get it and it's justified. So if you're a man and I'm a man, and yes, there are pedophiles that are men and there's rapists that are men and there's a lot of bad men. But if you paint me with the same brush as those men, if you're conflating me with those other people, now I'm a group and now I have a group identity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6428.116

Yeah, I never experienced it when we're interviewing a guest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6434.101

I experienced it when we do Armchair Anonymous and we're listening to a woman's story. That's when I observe it, where it's like, there's no benefit of a doubt to the man that's being talked about You'll generally go to, you know, they're a terrible the girl who shit on her boyfriend and he threw up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6451.836

And, you know, that's where I'll notice it, where I where I'll go like, well, I think Monica's opinion of men is pretty low. She's, you know, quick to assume the man in this story is the problem and not the woman or that it would be equal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6465.742

And I think a lot of people feel that way. And again, men have earned that. But I'm not that man. And so many of the men are not that men. And we don't like it. Okay. Just like you wouldn't like any negative stereotype about Indians or women. You wouldn't like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

649.844

Now I relate to that because I have several pair of jeans that I'm supposed to do work in. I see something, I'm like, oh, fuck, I was supposed to cut that down. And then I'm doing it and I'm ruining the new jeans. I'm never, ever going to go inside and get eventized for my yard job. I'm just going to ruin whatever pair of pants I have on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6491.104

Right.

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Lauren Graham Returns

6503.569

Right. I can tell you, I go to Kristen's cabaret show and there's a woman host of it. It's her show. And she does seven minutes on the world would be perfect if there was an island and it just had women on it and there was no men. And all the women clap in the audience. That's a real thing that's totally fine to say in public right now. And in fact, gets applauded.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6524.641

And I'm a dude in the audience and I'm like, this is a weird, we're in a weird pattern right now where this is not only fine, but applauded. And I'm looking at the seven men in the room and I'm like, Yeah, this is weird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6537.29

There's never been, it's just, if that was the same thing that was being done and men were going, dream world is an island with no women and everyone clapped, I'd go, I would go, you guys are fucked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6583.95

I'm never laughing that a guy goes, women suck and men should all be together. I've never enjoyed a stand up routine or laughed at a joke that that was that complicated. Her entire thing was just wouldn't it be great if there were no men? Now, had she crafted an incredible joke and it was funny, I would laugh at it for sure. I don't have that big of a chip on my shoulder.

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Lauren Graham Returns

6602.134

I'm just saying that's a weird vibe and I'm in that kind of often. And I'm pretty evolved and I still go, I don't want to be a man in this room. I don't know why you hate men across the board. I don't think you should hate me. And I am semi evolved. So I'm imagining all these other kids that are unemployed and hearing that sentiment and just going like, OK, I guess it's us against them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6639.503

Yeah. But do you agree at all that that's a weird thing or no?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6644.165

The cabaret show I went to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6673.146

Oh, yeah. I'm only pointing out that that's happening.

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Lauren Graham Returns

6681.4

But I and I don't think that that cabaret host needs a male and present. She's fine to do that.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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I think that's a, I don't think that's a single digit opinion.

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Lauren Graham Returns

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I just think it's a real bad idea for just squaring off like, OK, it's on. It's men against women. And I think a lot of people feel that way. And I think that's a bad. Yeah. I think that's going to have a bad fucking outcome.

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Lauren Graham Returns

6784.378

It was an entertaining walk. I think a lot of people will have heard their opinions voiced.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6793.322

Sweet Lauren. Sweet Lauren Graham. Boy, we got a taste of her, what she was saying with the young kids watching Gilmore Girls, because she left the garage, and we were in the yard, and Delta had a friend over from school, and that friend was freaking the fuck out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

68.944

Very smart.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6809.234

Is Lauren on a show called Gil, what is it? Gilmore Girls. Yeah, she the Gilmore Girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6819.101

An 11-year-old.

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Lauren Graham Returns

6848.899

Have you read any of those? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6851.922

Okay. So. So stay tuned.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6862.611

Okay. 31 years. 30 wonderful years. Wow. That's crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6869.318

Yeah.

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Lauren Graham Returns

6886.21

Did they take it all? Oh, they were just watching. They weren't contestants.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6909.952

Prisoner games.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6912.933

Non-cooperative games.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6939.996

Oh, they beat us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6943.519

Just resumed Paradise last night. Same writer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6946.662

Episode eight was banger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6949.144

Oof. Yeah, it's all caught up to what our screeners were.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6954.867

Yeah. Tasty. We all watched it. The Aarons, the girls, me last night. Yeah. Aaron was on a second viewing of it. You know, Aaron sees absolutely every show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6976.94

That was all?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6978.341

All right. We love you, Lauren.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6980.682

She's a nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6983.985

Me too, but I can't even have it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6991.41

I have to put a tux on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

6995.212

All right. Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

70.186

It's also smart week. My God. I know. There's a lot of things happening. We didn't even mean to. This is all accidental. Please enjoy my sweet, sweet sister, Lauren Graham.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

7013.73

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

706.47

I'm envious of your relationship with Meg. Really? First of all, it's the sweetest relationship. It really is special.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

722.759

She's hard to pin down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

742.129

Yes, because she's a blessing on planet Earth. She is one of my absolute favorite people I've ever met. And my envy is that I've been trying to hang out with her for 10 years. I literally have not seen her socially since we interviewed her. That was it. And I text her and we'll have an exchange and I'm like, we're going to hang out. I want to meet her baby so bad.

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Lauren Graham Returns

758.213

And then I bump into you and like you'll have just seen her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

767.718

She needs lawn equipment or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

781.206

Carlos Valdez. Never even met him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

804.078

To put that in context, she's been on a set since she was a baby. She's been around adults, so she's the only person that I know that's that much younger than me that any reference I make, she gets.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

844.629

Well, look at her on the show. She's wearing enormous clown glasses. No one else is allowed to do anything. And the third youngest person on the cast is wearing, like, enormous cartoon glasses. She knows herself. And she can put a boundary out. She advocates for herself, too. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

862.202

The Voice. I think it was The Voice. We had to stand in a weird spot and they cut to us for half a second.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

872.209

Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

876.231

America's Got Talent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

900.66

The one she wore on Parenthood begged the question, has she gotten a job cooking at Benihana? And that's like part of her character, like cookie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

909.004

We were in Turks and Caicos seven years ago. There was a Benihana.

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Lauren Graham Returns

919.648

And one of the cooks name was Cookie. And he had glasses on that were like literally two and a half feet wide.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

925.955

And covered his whole face. I think for most tourists, they loved Cookie. But it was like watching a mime the whole time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

942.612

Play along with Cookie's routine. I didn't know how to give him one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

947.219

It was so stressful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

950.103

That's great. Do that. Sure. These enormous glasses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

955.45

He was in a commercial for the place or something. Anyways, he's doing great. Cookie's doing great. But the thing I'll add that maybe you can't see or would sound arrogant to say is you guys are definitely girlfriends. That's for sure. But she admires you so deeply. She, like, really has looked up to you since the day you guys met. She has, like, what... Me and Tom Hanson have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

976.755

Me and Tom Hanson are best friends, but also he's my dad. He's the dad I wanted. I think there's a lot of that happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lauren Graham Returns

998.619

It's like a nurturing relationship, which all friendships aren't necessarily nurturing by nature. More than just, oh, I'm in a bad mood. Give me advice about my girlfriend or boyfriend. This is more like, hey, anytime you need anyone to take care of you, I'd love to be that person. When you have that instinct towards somebody, it's very sweet and special.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dax Shepard and I'm joined by Monica Padman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Chelsea, it's really, really nice to see you. It's been a minute. It's been some years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Are you seeing my hamstring? It's pretty muscular. It's popping. Yeah, it's popping.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

1028.906

Oh, thank you.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Perhaps, again, I don't know what time you saw me because I've gone on this weird journey where it's like I wanted to get huge. I got huge. I was big, big. So now I'm I think my resting where I'll be. This is where we stay.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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She was vocal about that. Yeah.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Yeah, yeah, yeah. We had that babe Nicholas Holt on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

1050.325

He's so gorgeous. He's so gorgeous. I mean, he's so fucking gorgeous.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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But he laughed and I did go, I mean, I can acknowledge that's what girls like. He looks athletic. He doesn't look like a fucking meathead.

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You're one strike away from being completely unfuckable.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

109.034

Yes.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

1095.834

We've long discovered this and hashed this out, which is guys do this for guys. And girls do it for girls. What does Kristen think about your body size? What does she prefer? I'm completely invisible to her. I mean, we've been together for almost two decades. She's even figured out how to not hear my voice, which is so loud. I get it. I know what's happening. Okay, so you have a seventh book.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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It's hard. It's time consuming. I've been writing a memoir for two years.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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I imagine your last book would have been the last time we had you. Possibly.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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I'm not sure how to say it. So that was my best stab at it. Thanks for making fun of the dyslexic in the room. Please continue.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Can we take one second on that? I was among those people. I don't actually get swept up in anyone's thing. In fact, most times I don't like seeing it. I was so delighted about that. I mean, genuinely, I thought, oh, my God, I just love this. And I hope this is a thing forever. And it feels very right.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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I like the pairing a lot. It felt very mature. Is that a weird way to say it?

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

1188.459

To appear eager is like the worst thing ever, right? So when you fail, it's extra embarrassing.

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119.358

It doesn't matter. What's really fun, I don't know if you care about numbers, but I turned 50 a few days ago.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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I'm seeing all that. I was kind of overjoyed with the whole thing.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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That's sweet. And then I was really, really kind of sad. And then I was curious, if you're comfortable, why didn't it...

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Like when Jane left Ted.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Yeah.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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The doc on him is so phenomenal.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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I think he might be my favorite of all those characters. He's a cowboy. I mean, impossibly charming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

126.2

Thank you. Yes. Your birthday, 225, 25, turn 50. I can't imagine a more symmetrical thing to happen. Do you like that kind of thing?

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

1337.577

And I want to say, I love the green in here.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

1358.533

Well, it's in the book, you lost your confidence. Yeah. Which is so scary.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

1363.476

Yeah. And I would imagine, too, for you, your defining characteristic is almost self-assuredness. Yeah. Right. That's the attractive thing is like, oh, this bitch ain't afraid of anything. Watch her go.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

1390.942

You have no experience in previous tools learned.

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You were giving a speech at a women's conference.

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My favorite part is when you're telling the story in the book, you tell the organizer, they say, are you okay? And you're like, oh yeah, I had a really bad fever today, but I didn't want to cancel. Turn myself into a hero. Wow. You start shooting your Netflix show shortly thereafter and you decide you can't really even stand during the monologue.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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You need to go sit behind the desk for the monologue.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Kristen uses them every time she performs.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Yeah. You're in a business, too, that devalues your age and wisdom. And so then that becomes a new thing.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Well, for me, I can't speak for you, but also there's a voice in my head from day one. It's like the ride is going to be over soon. It ends for everyone's going to end. And then so one hiccup is like, yep, here it is. The ride's over. I knew it was going to be over. I was waiting for this.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

153.877

Who are you up against?

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

1537.543

You and I are on a really parallel journey. So I entered therapy about the exact same time in a real, real way. And by the way, our therapists are telling us very similar things as I'm reading your story. I just can't shake this financial insecurity. It's like it doesn't matter how much I squirrel away. I'm still panicked. And the more I get, I kind of am even more panicked.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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And I recognize it's insanity, but it doesn't have any effect on how I feel about it. And he said, well, I'm not even going to suggest it's not going to all go away. What I'm going to say is, don't you recognize you're the type of person who can tackle problems as they arise? How could that go away from you? That's the thing that can't be taken. And you have shown you have that skill set.

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So you have something comes up. Guess what? You're the dude that can handle that. That's kind of true. I might let that in just a little bit.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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You know what I mean?

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Yeah, it's what you want to focus on.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Yeah, I saw this dude speak a few months ago and he had a slideshow presentation and his thread was kind of optimism. And he showed a picture of Dresden in World War II. There's nothing there but rubble. He's like, we wiped the city off of the face of the earth. Here it is today. Here's London here. Here's Rome after this. He's like, yes, we create great catastrophes, but we always come back.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

1713.952

Yeah. If there's anything to know, magically we do rebuild, right? You can't point to the city that got leveled that stayed level. And I was like, yeah, much bigger shit has gone down that we have recovered from. And it was a cool message. Now, what was my favorite story in the book?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

1729.526

And we're kind of talking about it starts with the shaky legs and starts with this period of kind of questioning yourself. And then this is great. I just want to flag one moment. You have a girlfriend over who's crying for three hours at your house because she got a terrible haircut.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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And at one point you say to her, listen, you can't be one of these people who is so consumed with the way they look. It's fucking hair. And as you're screaming it, you have gotten CO2 LASIK and you can't leave your house for 10 days.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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For a year? No, no, no. You said till 26. You mean January 26th. January 26th, 2025. Okay, I was like, you can't.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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We have a returning guest today.

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But you went through this phase where you kind of started shutting up a little more and listening a little more. And it was even scary to the people around you. And I want you to tell me about that and what's on the other side of that.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

1926.754

Well, if it's two years for normal people, I'll have this handled in four months.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

2025.246

You know, like all of that shit. Sure, sure, sure. I'm going to formulate my next incredible joke. Yeah, exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

2037.297

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

2038.718

You're like a running back looking for a home defense.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

2044.564

Yeah. And in your mind, that'll be permanent. But no, five minutes later, you got to remind them.

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2063.834

You were saved by your ignorance.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

2070.357

Yeah.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Yes, first time on video. She's so radical. Oh, I love her. I've adored her for decades now. Chelsea Handler. She's a comedian, a television host, six-time New York Times bestselling author and advocate. She has written Life Will Be the Death of Me and You Too, Uganda Be Kidding Me, Lies That Chelsea... These are all great titles. Yeah. Lies That Chelsea Handler Told Me, Chelsea Chelsea Bang Bang.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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You are comfortable throwing a birthday party. It doesn't give you any anxiety.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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So I do too. But I think for me under that is some fear that if I let this vibe continue to be this way, something bad's going to happen.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Because you're there. Yeah. And I'm there.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Yeah, it's hard.

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Do you want them to say you have great taste?

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No, I'm wondering.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Oh.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Thank you.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Thank you. Thank you.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Thank you.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Thank you.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

254.52

I hadn't planned on getting you either, but now I'm going to write you a card.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

258.401

You just didn't know yet. I think my birthday gift request from you would be to not have to get you anything for your birthday.

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Thank you.

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Thank you. Thank you.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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So Polar was on and kind of tried to talk me into doing a dance party, 50th birthday party she had done, and it was great. And I was like, yeah, yeah, I love dancing, but my birthday's on the 2nd. The day after everyone has quit eating and quit drinking and they've just been with people for way too long for two weeks. It's just not a great date. So objectively, I think I'm right.

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And I'm like, I just don't think it's a good date. And then I was like, is that just me being insecure? No one's going to have fun. Cut to, so I don't have a big party. We go to Mexico with another family. On my birthday, four of the eight people have Corona and I'm caring for the children. And so I was very confirmation biased. I was like,

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If you're one of the many people I know and you're a piece of shit, you're just not coming to my party again. She has to care about you deeply to go through that.

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Yeah, what if I had planned this big old birthday party, and now I'm with a bunch of sick people, so I made the right call?

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Well, I think you can really delineate whether you're doing it because you love someone, want to help them, or you want to shame them. And if you want to shame them because you're actually just resentful that you fucked up my party and now I want to shame you, that's not truth that we need you to have.

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But hey, I love you. You're better than this. Let me remind you of that is very pure.

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Noro, I meant to say Noro.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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I'm even going to argue that the gif is that I'm guessing she might have been the only person that could have told you this.

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And she might have known that.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Good job, guys. Yeah.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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I was like, what?

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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But wait, if I had called COVID Corona, you'd be upset?

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Can you imagine getting to your middle seat and Jane Fonda there?

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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I would love if you all checked into the shit box, though, and then put her in her room. Good night. See you in the morning. And then went to the thing.

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Yeah, I'm with you. She might be the greatest of all time.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Don't you think? I agree.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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If you're right, you don't have to defend yourself. I don't get defensive when someone says I'm too short. Right. Oh, okay.

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Oh, they called you.

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I can't even do this.

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Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Yeah. How did you find yourself at dinner with Woody Allen and what did you ask him?

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He's going to be my table mate.

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I'm hearing it sometimes at the same time you are.

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Because you would have felt like you were co-signing.

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Side note to that, though, I have been challenging myself to say, no, my silence doesn't necessarily mean I'm cosigning on things because I'm the sheriff everywhere. I'm trying to be like, no, you're not complicit in everything just because you didn't fucking confront it. This binary option you've given yourself is a little bit of a story.

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Right. Oh, that's very nice. I wouldn't have expected that from you.

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Okay, another question I had, because I'm imagining you experienced this. We're both 50. We've been both doing this now, employed shockingly for like 25 years, or I don't know how long for you, but for me coming up on that. I occasionally see some people that remind me of myself coming up that are younger than me, and I have this insatiable compulsion.

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I want to grab their ear and go like, hey man, fucking stay on the horse, but relieve yourself of these couple things. Do you feel a compulsion when you identify someone that's got a similar vibe that you do that's younger and coming up? Do you want to kind of help them avoid the seemingly unavoidable traps of it all?

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OK.

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What is your flight cocktail?

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I guess there's just things that I wish I was able to have missed along this journey. And I just wondered if there's some potholes that you feel implored to tell these young gals who do have a point of view.

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I've never had a mentor either, but that's my failing. I never humbled myself enough to ask. I also thought it felt opportunistic. I also thought anyone that I was a drag on wouldn't want to be around me. These were all insecurities. In confidence, I now have a couple mentors. And I'd say, Jane's your mentor. But you had to be big enough to have a mentor at some point.

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Yeah. It's like you're on that flight for a day.

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And it repeats itself several times.

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Yeah, your first story is like eating shit at the Montreal Comedy Festival. Yeah. Which is your first huge opportunity.

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It's another great book. You're a great writer. It's called I'll Have What She's Having. It comes out on the most auspicious date of the year, 22525 on your 50th birthday. Chelsea, I adore you. It's always fun. I hope we do it a dozen more times. Also podcast.

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Vegas residency. Vegas residency. How does that work? Have you already begun that?

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Amazing. Oh, just once a month.

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Okay. When I saw residency, I'm like, she can't possibly live in 200 days a year in Vegas. And if so, I need to know how that's happening.

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Is it the same date every month? No, it's just different. Okay. People should go to ChelseaHandler.com slash book.

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You'll be able to navigate to all these different.

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Yeah, yeah. You were in the car when you pulled in.

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I adore you. I'm going to carry your hamstring compliment well into the evening. Yeah, keep sitting like that. Sometimes I wear shorts.

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Hamstrings is one of the main. Yes, definitely. Hamstrings. Boys, work those fucking hamstrings. Forget the chest. All right. Adore you. Come back.

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Stay tuned for the fact check so you can hear all the facts that were wrong. Hello. Hi. We just completed... Easter egg.

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Should we have pretended I just came from an event?

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Yeah.

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I think I've only worn a suit one other time. Letterman? I thought it was Bill Gates.

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Yeah. Remember, I won't wear a suit for Letterman when I get invited to his dinner party.

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Remember?

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To see who I wore a suit for.

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And is that your very favorite top? It's new. It's new. Yeah. And is it the one you're feeling most bullish? Like, I guess what I'm asking is, did you save it?

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Yeah. Really, really fun yesterday.

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Oh, I have an update. OK. So, yeah, we recorded yesterday. And when I went to go in the sauna after work.

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I took off my clothes in the kitchen and put on my bathing suit. Sure. It was a downstairs and I want to go upstairs. And as I took my pants off, I realize, oh, you're wearing two pairs of underwear.

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So yesterday in that interview, I was wearing two pairs of underwear.

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She fucked up your entire outfit.

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This may not shock you. It was the same mysterious pair of underwear.

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The elephants. So the elephants are, there's something going on in this pair of panties. So what had happened was the night before I took off my pants and I had worn boxers that day.

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So I hung up my pants on a hook in my closet. And then in the morning I was like scrambling to get ready, take the girls. And I put on, I grabbed a pair of fresh panties, the elephants, put them on, they're snug. And then it's got into my pants. Okay. Not even realizing the boxers are still in there from the day before.

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I didn't. Weird. Is that bad? I did have a slight memory of the time I went to the bathroom. I kind of was like, oh, I'm wearing boxers. I can use the barn door. No, I'm not. I'm wearing my elephant panties. I think I had felt the barn door boxers and then was like, no, I'm wearing elephant.

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I blew past it. And then it was just a fun discovery.

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Like, have you ever worn two pairs of underwear in an accident?

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Prude?

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Actually, you don't want to seem loose. I think it's prude to wear a couple pairs of underwear.

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Something perverse?

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I think that's more what it was on that given day.

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I don't know how many pairs of underwear I'm wearing.

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That was a fun pop out though. And that second time those undies have been a pop out.

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I wonder what's next too.

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Oh yeah, please do. That sounds fun.

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Yeah, me too. Well, our adrenaline was high.

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You turned me into a six month old.

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Had you eaten breakfast?

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Yeah. Okay.

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Oh my gosh.

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This morning?

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Okay.

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Oh, okay. Great. Love McCall's.

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Okay. Cause you thought they had gone bad.

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I don't understand how all you women are all synced on everything you're doing. Cause this is exactly what Kristen's been doing. I bet all the other women in the pod have been doing it too.

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Okay.

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Really quick, I wonder if that's geographical because of course in Michigan you do spring cleaning.

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Which makes sense because everything's going to be fresh and you want everything to be fresh. But in a city with no seasons, you have to just arbitrarily go, okay, first of the year makes sense.

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Do you ever say start anew? Because that's a thing people say. I don't. That's old timey. Okay.

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We were going down to Nashville a couple years ago. It was at the tail end of COVID, corona, pick your verbiage. And we were going to see our friend Huey, who's a God-fearing Republican. I love him. He's hysterical. He's a great guy. And he goes, just wanted to give you a heads up. We can't wait to see y'all, but don't wear them fucking masks down here. It's just not going to go very well for you.

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Yeah.

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I don't hate bespoke, if you recall. I thought you were like... Our guests didn't like it.

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Oh.

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I was just saying it's similar, but people don't overuse bespoke too much. I don't think people are using bespoke to seem fancy. Or maybe they are.

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Okay, well, I'm open to changing my opinion on how I feel about it.

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Not like Yodi.

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Okay. Yeah.

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Oh, what kind of nut is it made from?

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Oh, okay.

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Very bespoke. I'm sorry. I keep putting in the gutter. But nut butter does sound weird to me.

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And it's nuts, like butter from the nuts.

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And you loved it. How big is it, if you were to describe it? It's bigger than a ping pong ball. Is it like the size of a tangerine?

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Or a little cutie.

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Uh-huh.

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Yeah. Cuties are often squashed. They're more oval.

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That's a tiny apple. There's three bites. I know. It's so cute. Aren't you into the core too quick?

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Okay.

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Okay. I almost eat apples exclusively for that sensation of biting it. Does it hurt your teeth? I love it. I feel like it's cleaning my teeth.

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My mother always said, if you don't have a toothbrush, eat an apple.

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Keeps the dentist away.

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Yes. So you loved it and you ate just one and you were satiated?

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Oh, okay.

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Okay, great.

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Yes, explain it.

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And then when we got there, I was like, that was sage advice. Yeah, people don't like that.

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That's where the riddle is.

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And then the last thing you can click to a link to find out the answer. Exactly. Oh, incredible.

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This could be a huge challenge for you to try to eventually knock out all 860 guests. I'm excited. That's going to be tough. I'm going to do it. We might have to start dropping some in inorganically. We're not doing that.

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I mean, I know that you like that word, but I have forgotten what the meaning of lacuna is.

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A missing gap.

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The missing link, we would say in science.

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Oh, yeah. Okay. So it's going to be called Armchair Lacuna. Every time you say it, I know I always say Lacuna Matata because that's what it makes me think of.

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How effective were they? I don't know, maybe they had a point.

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That would be great. Sign off on that.

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We got I got four electric motorcycles. Cool. For the family. Nice. We took our inaugural ride through the neighborhood yesterday. It's really fun. I don't think there's a moment where the similarities and the differences are so stark. Between Lincoln and I and Mom and Delta. OK. Mom and Delta ride the exact same way. And it was it's very comical. It's very fun.

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Never. I'm very supportive. I'm so happy that they're willing to join. Yeah. They both get spooked pretty easy. They're going much slower. I would be spooked. Yeah. Yeah. It's a lot. Yeah. Yeah. And they're they're fast.

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I was very proud of Delta. She's almost not tall enough for it. Oh. She's got to be on her tiptoes when she stopped.

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I think it's okay to take on some new information. Everyone was scared. We did the best we could. And also some things have been learned and maybe a lot of things weren't necessary. Possibly. Okay, so back to 50, because everyone's asking me. At some point, I feel like I should have a great answer for this.

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She had a couple episodes, but she really bailed out perfectly and everything was hunky dory. Okay. But Lincoln's like popping wheelies and riding super fast.

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Also, she just, we're so similar in this domain. Sure. Yeah. But it was incredibly fun. My bad mood broke.

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Yeah, it was almost like a fever. Like a fever breaking.

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Yeah, we had a we had a company meeting, which we've never had. Just insane. You think about it. But we had Emma on Zoom and it was the three of us in here. Yeah. And it was instantly really fun.

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Yeah. Emma just really makes me smile, too. She reminds me so much of my two girl cousins. And she had a stupid dog on her lap.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I'm not giving her credit for it. I'm saying the whole meeting was so fun. But I get a bang. I don't ever see Emma.

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And when I see her, I'm like, oh, that's right. Emma's delightful.

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She's an absolute delight. I love her.

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I love her, too. I love her first. And then I just had a spring in my step the rest of the day, which was very nice. Good. Yeah. Still going a bit early.

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I like it. I hope I can keep it going.

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Oh, it didn't go our way. No. Pax Iwana.

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Yeah. Pax Iwani. Do you think people ever really believed it?

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Okay.

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What is he? He's a chipmunk?

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Groundhog. And if he sees his shit.

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Punxsutawney.

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I only know that because of the great movie, Groundhog Day. Groundhog Day.

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You haven't? Mm-mm. Oh, Monica.

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Well, here we go.

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I think 10. And will you look that up, Rob? Because I know I was wrong about... Oh, yeah. About Scarface. Yeah. I was actually eight. I was the old age of eight. So I shouldn't have been so traumatized by the chainsaw butchering scene. Sure. This came out in 1979. There we go. So that's Bo Derek naked on a beach.

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My Papa Bob took me to that. I tell you, my papa just took me to any movie he wanted to see. That was his buddy on the weekend. And he'd be like, we're going to Quo Vadis was the movie theater. Quo Vadis.

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And it was a shrine to movie theaters, like a tiled exterior, which I had never seen.

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Well, sure. It wasn't NC-17. Was it R? Oh, yeah. But I think my Papa Bob went to see Bo Derek naked. Of course. And brought me.

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He's my sweet grandpa. This is just reminding me that I had a teacher in high school. This is how much things have changed and how inappropriate this was. But yet, had no problem saying this. Yeah. In probably 10th grade, he was explaining... It was like a religion class. And he was just explaining that Judaism doesn't have a hell.

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In her new book, I'll Have What She's Having... Which is really, really good and very introspective. And it was a great jumping off point for lots of tasty conversations.

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Like Christians have a hell. Right. But Judaism doesn't have a hell or a devil, even though it's Old Testament.

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And he said that's why Jewish women were more sexual.

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Yeah. I mean, that was in a class.

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That they're more sexual. Yeah. Maybe he hooked up with one Jewish girl and blew his mind. And he was like, why?

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He had to figure out why. He's like, oh, it's mostly because she's not afraid to go to hell. And then I'm going to, I'm going to tell everyone.

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He also told a gay joke out loud. Oof. Yeah. Do you want to hear the gay joke?

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Even if you cut it out?

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He said, what's the difference between a gay man and a freezer?

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The freezer doesn't fart when you pull the meat out.

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Yeah, in class. Wait, how old? What grade? 10th or 11th grade.

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Is he had teenage sons. He had like a 18 and a 20 year old son. I think he was hearing their jokes and he was just repeating them to us.

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You have it.

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It's an anal sex joke, really.

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The joke could have been what's the difference between a freezer and women who have anal sex. That would have been very, I think you would have lost everyone at this setup.

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I don't think he's that sexual, but.

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I had him several times over the years. I think it was spread out by a year or two. Still, I don't know why I'm defending him. Well, I liked him. He's a very nice guy. That's that's why he was one of these fun teachers. You know, you're excited to go to his class.

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What? He's talking about sex.

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All right.

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The libido's thriving.

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See, I have a totally different point of view, which is like I'm outwardly perverted and then I'm not secretly perverted. I think it's more Cosby who's like lecturing people on propriety and he's secretly a pro. I think that's more.

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I think you're right in that groomers are like gregarious and outgoing and flattering and kind. But I also don't think they ever do anything sexual or talk about anything like that. I do. I do think that's true for the most part. I don't think. They try to come off as like, I'm the one guy who loves being around 13 year old girls, but for no real reason. You know what I'm saying?

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You can't be like coach of a 13-year-old soccer team, girls, and make pervy jokes. It's off the table. Yeah, no. Right. We agree. Yes. It's the super G-rated, friendly, supportive guy that's the groomer. That's building trust and confidence with the parents. Yeah. Like Michael Jackson, like, I'm a child. I'm not even sexual.

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Yeah, where we're kind of adults, we're having sex. Exactly. A lot of the students are having sex.

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Oh, okay. Okay. Now there was a groomer at my school, but he was like everyone's best friend and he didn't make any pervy jokes.

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I know. Okay.

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Oh, I know what I want to say. Okay. We always try to shine a light on great TV shows we love. Documentaries, books.

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I want to shine a light on Chappelle's monologue. Oh, my God. On SNL a few weeks back. I've watched it four or five times.

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It is so great. That just made me think of him saying, I'm ugly. Okay. It's such a good monologue. It's like incredibly funny. And then it's impossibly poignant at the end.

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Yeah. Mindful and thoughtful. Yes.

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It comes out.

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Yeah. He said, if it's safe for me here, it's safe for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

5118.447

That's like the best monologue I've ever seen, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

5129.493

That's why I hate poor people. They can't see through their own pain. That's so funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

5286.365

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

531.935

You have a pretty good bag of evidence that you keep landing on your feet and things keep working out. Like at some point you'd have to go like, yeah, I'm blessed for whatever reason. It keeps working out and I need to not spend the rest of my time here convincing myself it's not going to work out because look at the fucking data. That's helpful. I don't have a satisfactory answer either.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

5405.751

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

5461.564

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

551.54

It's like I still feel 12 years old. I've yet to ever feel past 12 years old. So mentally, that's how I feel. Physically, I probably am in the best shape of my life. I'm not having the hottest sex of my life. I've been with someone for 17 years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

5601.738

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

567.526

10 and 11.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

5699.251

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

574.111

I guess what I mean when I say I'm mentally 12 is at 12 years old, it occurred to me, I had a moped, a mobile, the world's mine. I can go out and tackle it. I just got this excitement at 12 that I get to do whatever the fuck I want while I'm here. That enthusiasm is still where it was at 12. And that's kind of how I'm tackling my day-to-day life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

5749.131

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

5901.477

being very saccharine about everything. It started to feel a little disingenuous. I guess that's my main. But I didn't say one word out loud.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

594.948

I keep waiting for me to wake up and be like, I just want to sit in my jammies all day. I don't feel that way at all. That's what I mean. Now, am I more mature and am I more patient and all these things? Oh, my God, yeah. And especially have kids and be with someone for a long time and you will learn patience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

5983.61

Yeah. And that's why I never said anything out loud. I would have never brought up my opinion. I didn't even know that thing was written. But like everything, it's just what is your childhood? And when people I'm triggered by people who are broadcasting how good they are, I'm nervous. I think they're deceptive. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6006.749

If I needed to find a motive, I would say someone's like, look how good I am. I'm so concerned about this. And I'm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6017.212

Just like virtue signaling. I think it triggers whatever baggage I have about religious people growing up. Sure. They were so pious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6028.274

Yes. And so that's what I'm saying. Like, none of it is true. Yeah. It's just my knee jerk is like this feels a little too grandstanding, as I thought the religious people who were very pious in preaching their purity. And I thought they were all full of shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6096.905

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

612.498

I'm on fire to be alive on planet Earth still. Right. So the thing that has been occurring to me, and it's way more philosophical and hard to explain, is I was watching Little Women with my 11-year-old in Mexico City on this trip. And I'm telling her, you know that gorgeous mansion they're in? There's no fucking toilet inside.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6154.778

It's like anything else. Like there's great people in AA and there's fucking terrible people in AA. And there's great people volunteering and there's people just dying. trying to get a pat on the back. So I always, though, I hope, you know, I'm grateful that people are the way they are. I'm glad I'm very grateful. Not everyone is cynical like me or not even cynical, skeptical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6178.442

And I'm glad that I'm skeptical because you guys need me sometimes. And this is a time where we need the really optimistic helpers. And I know to shut up and get out of the way and not share my opinion when I'm watching it. So it's like I don't think one's bad or good. I think I'm one thing and you're naturally this way and you're naturally that way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6197.031

And there's a time for me when the guy comes to the door selling you steaks. The deck steps up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6203.314

You know, there's another time that I sit, sit down and shut up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6227.603

Will this really impact anything?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6231.644

Yeah. I mean, the defeatist in me is like when they raise money, I'm like, this is a two hundred and fifty three billion dollar issue. What is throwing any amount of money other than the government and these huge insurance companies like we're making all these people on the ground try to offset this thing that is so enormous?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6261.309

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6289.252

Listen, I want to say a million times, I'm so happy everyone's not like me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

630.032

As pretty and great as that looks, those people had to cross the yard and go shit in a box in 1886. There's no indoor plumbing. And as I'm saying that, I'm like... I thought that was a thousand years ago, but I'm 50. So that's really just two more of my life's ago. Oh, my God. Time is so much shorter than I thought.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6315.997

We don't need a single more person like me. I'm just going to be honest about who I am, which is, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6326.141

It's every few months.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6329.062

Something needs lifting. Something needs wrenching on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6335.385

I just brought that up in the fact check. I was saying we went for our first all four people family motorcycle ride.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6343.588

I said that I don't know if the similarities between the four of us are more pronounced ever. Then you and Delta on a motorcycle and me and Lincoln on a motorcycle. It's like the starkest it gets, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6365.739

You did a great job. And I hope, I was very supportive, wasn't I?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6370.023

Yes. And I even yelled at Lincoln when she was making fun of her mom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6373.873

It was really fun. Okay, I'm going to leave you. I love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6379.096

Well, she tried to drop a controversy bomb right on my lap. People are going to be mad at me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6384.479

It's your fault.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6400.82

Whenever it went up, the stock market took a shit with all this tariff war stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6422.089

I hear everything always promotes collagen production. That's what I always hear. Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6429.095

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6434.458

You did them? Mm-hmm. Is your posture all better? It's pretty good right now. Do you have shoulder pads in?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6442.683

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6445.317

They look back and powerful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6451.2

Your jeans smell?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6461.667

You don't have to wash them, but you do have to pull your underwear out from the night before or you'll end up wearing double panties.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6468.15

Double panties MCO.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6471.712

That was all the facts. Yeah. All right. Love you. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

6489.636

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

649.488

I'm tripping out on how recent everything was because now relative to me, I've lived for half a century. Me plus you is the Great Depression. That's bonkers to me. Yeah, that's what I'm like swimming with. Does it make me recalculate how I think about the past in some weird way?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

68.223

Just starting. We just had high, high winds and an inkling of things were going to happen. Exactly. Much worse later that day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

694.401

The best conclusion I've reached from this kind of new calculation of time is it makes me mildly optimistic, which is I know my life's pretty fucking short. And in my lifetime, you smoked in the car with a baby in the backseat. And that was groovy. And you were drunk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

711.038

No. And there's major Jim Crow segregation still happening. So as daunting as all the problems are, it's like, my God, the thing does move pretty quick. And we were without toilets three of my lifetimes ago. So it's like, chill a little bit. This is a pretty new experiment and it's going pretty good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

75.309

If we sound trivial.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

750.993

That's interesting. We could be our own trust funders. We could figure out how to at some point just coast along.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

762.061

Can I be nosy and ask what you bought it for? Because what is it, like 60,000 or something right now?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

80.773

She also has a great podcast, Dear Chelsea. Check that out. Please enjoy Chelsea Handler.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

843.145

I don't know anything. This is what's preventing me from ever getting it. I can't get into my fucking iTunes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

865.459

Yeah. Would you be opposed to kicking Christine 5K for that tip?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

870.82

Okay. Well, I planted in the seed and if you don't do it, it'll not you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

878.582

Why don't you buy him a drink?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

908.879

It's really true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Chelsea Handler Returns Again

910.52

Well, you have a quote in the book that says to have had and not shared is somehow worse than stealing. I mean, you wrote it. It's not you who said it. But do you recall putting that in your book?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1018.554

High end.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1038.206

Yep. Bogey is what we say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

104.322

I can't wait.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1040.487

My wife and I'll go bogey six o'clock.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1044.809

Or you think it's got like a bad historical- I think so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

105.222

You're going to love it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1050.152

Well, then what can be bad about it if it's not racial?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1057.475

to figure it out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

106.183

I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

106.543

I told you, it's very Murders in the Building with apartments.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1075.889

Everything's good. Middle English. Oh, fuck. We don't care about that. Is that referring to any ethnicity or anything?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1082.294

Yeah, then we're fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1083.375

My only memory of who was there is you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1085.757

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1086.317

Yeah, I remember Bree and I driving home and we were like, I can't believe we met Lisa Kudrow. Oh, how fun. Yeah, we couldn't believe we were at a dinner with you, to be honest. So I don't know other than Bennett, who was there other than you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

109.305

Oh, the Murders in the Building. I know. I'm so excited.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

110.866

Yes. It's really, really great. She's fantastic in it. Please enjoy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1101.868

I think this is a different party. How many times do you have dinner over there? Just once?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1108.698

But OK, so for people who don't know, when you're on a set and you're filming the A.D. 's, if someone wanders into the scene that's not background hired to be in the scene, like you're filming on a sidewalk in downtown L.A. and everyone that walks back and forth has been hired. But if a civilian wanders in, they go might go to three. Yeah, there's a bogey. They always say there's a bogey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1129.791

And that's a civilian that's wandered into the professional setting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1133.032

That's funny. So Kristen and I are big on bogey. You got three bogeys. You're somewhere and you just think, oh my God, some civilians have entered the wrong door or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1141.294

So unrelatable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1142.254

I don't think this... Well, no, I think everyone can relate to people being at a party that doesn't seem like they know anyone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1148.515

That's all it is. Well, that happened here. So for Halloween, Dax has a big hayride for this neighborhood and he takes it all across the neighborhood. It's very sweet and cute. Oh, that's nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

115.128

Guys, this is a huge deal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1157.637

But two of our friends who have a baby, they came back early and they were sitting here and there were some bogey slash riffraff that were just hanging out at the house. No one knew who they were for like 35 minutes. They were just chatting with me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

116.969

I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1173.913

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1174.694

And in their defense, it was a very permeable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1178.078

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

118.15

I feel very grateful. We're seven years in and it's our first friend.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1180.66

We got a food truck and invited everyone to come to the driveway and have a hamburger on Halloween night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1185.823

That's right. But now there's a little bit of a permeable. Is that the right word? There's an impermeable border. Like that's not an invitation to inside my house. That's the driveway where the food truck is. So it sounds like people decided, let's also get into the house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1198.032

They crossed the line.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1199.493

Luckily, I was driving the hayride and I missed it. So, OK, great. Yeah. Back to you and your friends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1207.599

Hey, you invited me over for a burger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1219.366

Should we go inside where these other people are? This is clearly a haunted house situation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

122.912

It'll come up in the episode, but I want to say it now. We did almost have a friend, David Schwimmer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1223.289

There are probably bogeys too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1224.73

Yeah. You were there inside. No, I was out in the hayride, but two of our friends came back early because they had a baby. So they then later were like, this is so weird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1235.379

Yeah, they were inside, but they're allowed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1250.851

Yeah, we'll have all this in heaven. We just leave the house for two hours and the house is wide open.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1261.914

Did you pine for popularity? Did you care? Were you the kind of student that you had your thing? You were focused. I'm going to be a doctor. I don't give a fuck about all this frivolous crap. Or did you want way more friends?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1284.561

Because you want to get into the science.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1292.625

You and I would be cutting it up like crazy because that's all I want to talk about, too. I don't know if you've ever heard the show. That's all this is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

13.741

Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1300.188

I must know. I can't feel comfortable until I understand why it happened because then I can predict what's going to happen. That's all I really want to do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1318.939

Do you think?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

132.897

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1336.926

There's a level of intensity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1338.727

Yeah, there's a baseline anxiety.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

134.278

And he had to cancel because he had a really bad ear infection. Yes. And Robbie Wobb said he had Schwimmer's ear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1341.728

Yeah, I can feel it walking around the world today. Like, whew, everyone's a little on edge. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1348.073

OK, so great. So I'm delighted to know that you didn't really covet that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1363.083

I relate to that greatly. And I also remember from Poehler's autobiography, those moments you have in your teenage years. And for mine, it was literally in a mirror. Where I go like, okay, here's the situation. You're not a babe. I wanted to look like all these other boys. We're just going to bet on our personnel. Like a real, let's talk about the game plan here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1379.985

Those moments happen in teenage years. It's really adorable. I wish I could like see kids doing that in the mirror.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1396.082

Thank you. Yeah. I think I'm way better looking for sure now than I was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

140.24

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

140.82

It's really good. It's a great joke. It bears repeating twice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1405.392

Okay, a movie. You got to see it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1411.218

Do you want us to just tell you everything that happens in it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1415.862

But it's about aging, really women aging and how they get sort of cast aside. I'll just hit you with the premise. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1421.807

She's an aging actress. She finds out there's a thing you can shoot in your body. And then for two weeks, you'll be your 20s self. But you have to return to your old self for two weeks and you go two weeks, two weeks, two weeks. And that's the substance that makes you young again. And of course, when she's her younger self, she don't want to play by those rules.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1442.85

Nope. She takes this shot. She becomes young again for two weeks. And then she has to go through a procedure to go back to being old for two weeks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1451.977

And you pay a heavy price for that. And you end up kind of destroying your older self. It's very, very good. And so feminist, it's nuts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1461.183

But this whole thing of he comes in, he's gorgeous, he looks better. And we do that for men. We allow men to age and think it's attractive. And it's not the same for women.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1470.495

I think you and I could have a conversation that no one was allowed to have. About? There is an evolutionary reason for that. It's like both unfortunate and it's not out of nowhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1480.768

Dudes can have kids in their 90s. Look at some of our famous directors. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1491.935

We don't know that we have that awareness. So you got to like fight through all that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1499.038

No, we don't even need each other anymore, which is a whole new interesting dynamic. Oh my God. And it's scary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1524.432

Whoa. And they wanted to make this movie for the rest of their lives? Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1535.923

But maybe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1545.292

We'll be watching new Brando movies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1553.781

Yeah, we've talked a lot about this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1564.781

Let me attempt to make a glass half full.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1570.468

Are you cold? Are you cold?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1574.072

Feel free to use either of those blankets. Can I do this for you? Because I've done it one other time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1577.255

Oh, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1581.306

Or I'm just getting old and I need a shawl. It gets a little chilly. That's nice. He likes to wrap people in like a burrito.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1588.233

You go like this. You can change when I leave.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1593.939

Oh my God, you look so cute like a baby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1596.362

Okay, this is great. I just took you back in time without AI.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1609.413

Okay, maybe this is crazy glass half full, and I think it's very unlikely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1615.049

So you and I will have experienced, and I already know you have your arms completely wrapped around the experience because I've heard you talk about it. I wrote down a quote from you today that said, oh, let me just read it because it's so good. That's the healing power of fame. Everything will be fixed now. You're talking about getting the dream and your thought is everything will be fixed now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1640.96

Right. Suggesting like, yes, that there would be a healing power of fame. It would fix everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1646.944

It doesn't. But I think in that, for me, is the greatest gift I've ever been given because... I at least got to go like, okay, great. That's not it. What is it? And it sent me on a journey of figuring out what it is. And if I hadn't been given the gift to find out it was lackluster or that it was empty, I would have never stopped believing that that would have been the fix.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1669.281

So currently, everyone in America thinks, if I didn't have this job and I didn't have money problems and I didn't have that, I would be fixed. And so we'll give everyone that. You don't work. You don't have money problems. Fucking robots are doing every single thing. And then three weeks after that, they turn that light switch on. Everyone's going to be like, yeah, I'm miserable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1689.151

Why am I miserable? And then we all start the path. That could be the outcome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1693.51

How's that glass half full? That sounds so depressing.

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Lisa Kudrow

1695.731

Because everyone will actually try to confront the real angst of being a human.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1700.792

The real purpose.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1701.253

And not these other stories we've told ourselves. It's because we don't have this ski boat. We don't have this pair of shoes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1712.476

Be miserable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1734.363

Meeting in the yard, I guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1742.648

You're right. So I guess it can't be about being the best takes that off the table.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1747.571

I have a solution. Hiking with friends, playing pickleball, playing cards, being social and enjoying the big gift, which is like other people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1760.15

And after a week?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1766.916

Well, because you and I are doing the same thing at the end of seven days. Like I'm a piece of shit because I haven't been productive. And if I'm not productive, I have no value.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1774.061

Oh, you don't? What's your issue? You're just bored.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1789.213

But again, we're so distracted by the immediate needs that are on everyone's plate. Make my rent, feed my kids, all this stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1802.964

Currently, we can't. We're just imagining a future where the robots actually do do every single thing and they grow the food and there's just a surplus of all things that are needed and they manufacture phones and they build houses for everyone. So that's where we're at. This is Yuval Harari, Homo Deus. It's all been solved. We're all a leisure society. Now what?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1820.541

So I think now what would be great depression for months.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1838.687

In the show notes. So is that possible? Does it give everyone the gift of not needing all the stuff?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1851.056

OK, so now back to graduating, going to Vassar, integrated in 1969 for men, 1861 for females. It started. I just learned all this from you. How the fuck do you get into comedy? Did you know you were funny throughout all that seriousness?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1868.188

Do I need to relieve you from that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1878.833

It felt like watching Houdini for a second. That's why I offered assistance. I saw your hand moving around a ton under there. Like, oh fuck, she's trapped.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1976.411

Legend has it your brother's friends with John Lovitz.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

1986.494

And he said to you what?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2070.827

Oh, no kidding. Where they do Largo now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2087.051

You didn't get a good vibe.

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Lisa Kudrow

21.408

I'm Dan Shepard and I'm joined by Miniature Mouse.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2106.457

It's an embarrassing endeavor, to be honest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2149.075

Yes. We're going to date shortly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2157.53

You did date, though, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2164.835

That's an ill-fated plan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2167.896

Well, clearly, but not in a romantic sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2174.261

No, of course. I'm only saying if you've been friends with someone for eight years, I always have a hard time understanding that transition into dating. Obviously, there's probably success stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2184.449

You think it's too friend-zoned by then.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2186.431

Yeah, just that's an interesting transition after eight years. Like, generally, your first kiss is quite exciting, whereas opposed to, like, we've been hanging for eight years, now we're kissing feels a little bit awkward.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

219.727

Oh, wow. Yeah, you should. Is it nicotine gum? Yeah, yeah. You know, I love nicotine. I'm on all kinds of variety other than smoking. What? I do the mints, the lozenges, and then I do a little spray. Do you know about the spray?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2198.861

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2207.49

Because I can relate to that is so embarrassing. When I really think about the times I've done it, I feel like it's because, well, first of all, I'm allergic to earnestness. I don't know if you have that. Right. It feels so cringy to care. But now I can see that as that's actually a beautiful thing that people care and throw the thing with such fervor, even though it's embarrassing.

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Lisa Kudrow

2229.65

I can see that now is cool. Do you think you have that? I'm afraid to care that much because then there's possibility of getting rejected. No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2248.465

You were like bad as being rewarded.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2272.725

You need the truth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2284.355

And Conan was doing it right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2288.138

He told the cutest story. Oh, you remarked that. I'm going to save that. When you were on his show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2293.643

I'll just say no. But you telling him how thrilled you were to meet Matthew Perry and how hysterical he was. You're going on and on about how special and funny he was. And he admitted to you when he interviewed you. He's like, I just started feeling like, well, who is this guy? And why is he so my Gene Cordero thing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2309.558

Oh, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2310.039

Kristen and Monica love Gene Cordero.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2312.081

No, his name is Eugene.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2314.043

I started calling him Mean Gene Cordero. That's not his name, but because I'm threatened by how funny he is. They would just regale all the time how funny he was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2330.321

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2331.522

Well, you stumbled into one who historically will go down as one of the funniest people ever. Of all time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2338.228

You just ran into him at an improv class. That's so bizarre.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2352.079

That was my hunches. I bet, sure, you were attracted to the comedic ability of him, but I imagine how brilliant he is is what really made you want to be friends and eventually lovers, as we discovered.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2363.717

For three months.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2367.683

You then started going through the actual program at the Groundlings.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

239.057

It's fucking pricey. Because, yeah, they're European, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2392.734

He left, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2396.835

No, I think that's fourth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

24.21

By Monica Geller.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2421.501

Oh, it wasn't Simpsons first? It was Saturday Night Live first?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2426.702

Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2431.163

On this episode, we answer the burning question, why wasn't Conan a groundling?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2436.354

How far into the main company before you got an audition for SNL?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

244.055

That's it right here. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2449.442

Was she a scout for SNL?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2464.471

So you knew that before the show?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2467.093

Did that make you nervous?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

247.016

That's it. So exciting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2472.237

Were you focused on being on SNL? Was that something you wanted to do?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2491.803

Duh, you know?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2495.505

It's like joining the Beatles or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

25.191

How's the song go? Did I have it? You can't trick me into singing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2507.873

It might make it go worse for you. That's the real answer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2518.183

So you didn't fly to New York and do the whole thing. No, they were in the audience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

252.339

Oh, no, no, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2525.192

Right, right, right, right. Were there any dudes that went to SNL while you were there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2534.573

That's who went to SNL while you were there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2540.736

It's so weird to think of him in the Sunday Company. It's almost like he's too much of a god to have possibly done that. Was he outrageously good as we came to know him on SNL?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2556.926

Okay, you're on Cheers in 1989.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2559.607

You are? Congratulations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2565.23

Were you in the Growlings when you were on Cheers?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2569.832

You weren't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

258.623

They're just thinking of smoking, which, yes, you should get off smoking. And I chewed tobacco, which, of course, you should get off of that. But nicotine is fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2596.442

Ladies Room. I don't know about Ladies Room.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2600.083

Okay. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2614.654

Oh, not Christa Miller.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2632.988

Oh, come on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2633.789

I was about to say Airhead 1, Airhead 2, Romy and Michelle. Yeah. So they made it later into the movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2639.614

But years later after Friends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2656.128

Right. Everyone tried their hardest. Sure, sure. That's in between, I imagine, Cheers and Friends. You do two pilots between Cheers and Friends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2668.503

This is before Cheers that you made a pilot?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

267.087

We've had many doctors confirm that on here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2687.463

Temporarily Yours.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2697.093

Can you not just take that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2701.578

I think you're a fraud. I'm with you on this one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2706.163

Could you be misled by the fact that you were with Sweeney on stage?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2739.318

For a minute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2786.039

You know, having fun on stage is really contagious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2789.38

I skipped one part and I just need to know because selfishly I'm left-handed. So a lot of the work, you did a study with your father for eight years. And part of the study was to see if left-handed people had cluster headaches at an inordinate rate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2803.906

Okay. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2807.972

Yes, and also I was not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2822.12

That's exactly right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2827.122

Very good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2838.524

My understanding is that your right hemisphere controls your left hand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2842.607

So did cluster headaches show up more in the right hemisphere over the left hemisphere? Was that discovered?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2847.95

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2861.718

That's what you found out. Now, let me ask you this. Because headaches were such a topic in the house, it would have given me a self-fulfilling prophecy that I was going to get headaches. Did that happen to you at all?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2872.2

I've been like overly concerned about headaches because this is like the primary concern of my father. No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2885.143

Oh, he did. What is the explanation?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

289.033

We both quit at the same time. I quit in 2005. Yeah, me too. I did the full body scan recently and I was just bracing. I'm like, you know, dude, you smoked pack a day when not drinking and several packs when drinking a day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2921.21

Could those people discover a pattern or were they completely random?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2934.105

Those females skew, don't they?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2936.587

Which would make sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2947.572

They go away. Because my daughter has a lot of headaches. I don't know about a lot. She has more than average.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2954.594

She's a woman. She's 11.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2958.776

She's 11 and things are starting to happen. Sorry. Sorry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2970.642

I would have been happy to have a good time with you, but you brought up headaches. Yeah, I had them when I was younger, but I don't really have. If I have one now, it's very, very rare. And I'm so grateful because they're fucking miserable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

2982.528

Yeah, I know people. They do injections when the shit hits the fan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

30.656

It's not really right, but it's close.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3002.439

Whoa, is that there's too much electrical activity going on?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3015.003

But that's a joy because he can explain to you all over again. I bet he loves explaining it and you'll love learning it all over again. This is very symbiotic. I don't know if he does.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3024.306

You said he's a man. He loves to explain things. Trust me. As I explain this to you right now, I know the same tickle he's getting. Oh my God. Got meta.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3037.378

We're the worst.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3040.802

Okay. I want to talk about this kind of interesting and sim-like thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3045.0

Your life is a sim for sure. You meet Conan on your first day of, do you believe in the sim? What does that mean?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

305.34

You can't get enough of them in your mouth when you're drunk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3050.765

Simulation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3054.368

Do you think you have a carcass somewhere plugged into a computer and it's giving you this experience?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3059.332

I mean, you should. I didn't until today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3063.915

That's all it took is a simple explanation of where you're from.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3066.597

I heard it once. You've experienced a lot of one-of-one things, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3071.109

I think if you have a lot of suspicious stuff happen in your life, you're probably more prone to think like, what's going on? We don't really believe in the Zim, but also we 30% do. We play around with the notion that we're plugged in somewhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3122.306

We have the tiniest sliver of data, really.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3127.51

We have these five. And if you really ponder it, if no one had sight and you didn't have sight, it's completely unimaginable. Nobody could expand their fucking imagination enough to imagine what sight is or hearing or taste or touch. So, yeah, conceivably, there's like 12 other ways to observe reality that we just don't observe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

314.141

It's so bad. It's a real fuck you to that whole system.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3150.413

Well, let me ask you this. Have you had those moments? Cause you've had a very exceptional life and you go like, well, how do I make peace with this? This is an abnormal amount of, you know, of for me, I would call it like things I couldn't have imagined. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3194.958

Look at a pelican flapping its wings.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

32.757

It's close.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

320.485

Why?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3257.675

The fifth tallest biology graduate from Vassar. Put your hands together for the fifth tallest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3267.381

I'm feeling very seen by the notion, and this is a terrible thing to admit, but it has been a great source of confidence for me. I watch stuff and I think, well, that's not very good. Maybe I can do it. So much of my propulsion has been seeing something I don't think is very good. So then I think, well, shit, then I think maybe I could do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

328.188

I think that's part of your charm, though.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3288.934

Yes. I don't. You would go to an improv show and you go like, that's not very good. I have so much fear that I'm not good enough. But when I see something bad, it would weirdly encourage me and go like, no, no, this might be doable. And so you're hearing shitty acting on the radio and something in you that tells you, I know that's not good. That's weirdly confidence building.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

330.55

No, it is. I watch a ton of interviews with you today. I think that's a very charming part of you. Now, back to you and I trying to not perform anymore. Oh, right. My therapist would say to me, hey, sometimes, and I'm only asking you to do it 10% of the time, sometimes watch the show. It's a good show. You don't always have to be the show, but I'm so controlling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3308.47

Does that make any sense to you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3310.992

But you don't relate to it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3328.119

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3347.922

And you kind of would listen to it, which is good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3363.99

Now, this is a childhood question. It's related to the truth and it's related to watching the people be phony. Now, it could be as inane as you're a younger sibling. I'm a younger sibling. My older sibling tried to deceive me all the time because that's how it works.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3384.404

And everyone's getting something you're not getting all the time and you want to fake it like you are. Do you relate to that observation, which is it's very important to you to know what's real and what's not? Oh, I used to. And do you think that's childhood stuff or just your biochemistry?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

34.699

Yeah. What's the chorus?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3432.677

Yeah, and if you like Buddhism at all, which I'm very newly into reading about, yeah, we are a product of whatever context we're in. We're not even the same person throughout the day. You go to the grocery store and shit's popping off and there's an argument over here and there's some version of you that's there that's not the version of you at dinnertime later.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3451.707

Yeah, sometimes you care a ton about something and then other times you're like, I don't even care about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3455.79

It's also good. You don't want to be so stuck in the thing you were saying when you were 16. We're supposed to evolve.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3461.493

Oh, yeah. Yeah, not being married to all these cornerstone beliefs we think that define us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3467.097

Malcolm Gladwell says, hold your opinions loosely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3477.644

Would I be right in guessing the permanence of the role as mom is something unique? It feels like bedrock to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3488.74

And you can feel it's permanent. And you're like, oh, yeah, there'll be no wavering. And this is a unique feeling. Other than when you get a tattoo and you go like, OK, put it on. You go like, yep, well, that's a permanent decision. There's very few of those in life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

350.046

Some of my performing is out of my controlling nature. Is yours that way?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3502.411

I'll give you one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3507.435

Okay, so I just wanted to point out this Jimmy Burrows thing, because this is another simulation-y kind of thing. You go to Cheers and a very cute conversation with you and Ted talking about you being there all week and just staying on set the entire time to learn what was happening. But Burrows, of course, is directing that show. So you have some experience with him there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3525.289

And then you get cast in Frasier.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3531.651

And what happens?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3533.834

She was playing Frasier.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3543.208

I mean, he's already established on the other show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3564.194

How deep into the process did you get before you were replaced?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3571.645

For sure. For you at that moment, career wise, he's coming off of Cheers. This is just shows going to work. Right. You must have been like, OK, back to the like, everything's about to be fixed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3582.931

What was the heartbreak of that? Was it devastating? How did you handle it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3594.818

How do you find your way back to some level of confidence?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3601.102

Time passes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3661.097

Yeah. How long between getting fired again by Jimmy Burroughs before Friends?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3669.298

I didn't know any of this. I find this really fascinating. So you audition for Friends and Jimmy Burrows is going to be the director. And your last experience with him was that you were fired.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

37.08

Just give me the words. I'll be there for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3732.062

The round with just Jim.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3736.502

He took one look at a tape of them and they're like, oh yeah, that's him. Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3743.724

It's a blessing he didn't know that until 10 years ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3757.822

Yeah, you're talking yourself out of being crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3761.323

You're like, you're not even that important. None of this matters that much. You've made this something that's not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3768.646

You were spot on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3772.527

And then this crazy thing happens in the table read.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3776.449

For Friends. Did it? Where he suggests you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3806.62

And when I heard you retell us before, you're feeling right because I don't belong here. You don't think I belong here. And now you're physically removing me, putting me where it's now visually obvious I don't belong here. Right? It was like a very triggering confirmation that he hated her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3856.232

On top of it not working, it was my bad idea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

386.477

Wasn't the working title, though, of one of the shows, Now It's My Time to Shine?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3862.977

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3868.78

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3892.475

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3893.951

For people who don't know, Jimmy Burroughs is, by all accounts, the very most successful director to ever be in television by a landslide. Every show you ever loved, he directed either the pilot or the whole thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

39.642

Thank you. I'll be there for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3905.414

It's impossible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3922.574

When you're not pleasing this person, it couldn't get worse.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3926.665

You got to trust that he's right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3934.335

Right, right, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3936.656

So that was a turning point. And then things got better. And as you said, you grew to absolutely love him, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

395.544

There's a third show. Still in development. In development hell. But my controlling part is I get anxiety that if it's left to some non-professionals that this thing's going to go in the ditch. It's like if I get on an elevator with four strangers, I think, well, I'm the one with improv training. It's kind of on my shoulders to make this experience less awkward.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3953.306

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3959.75

He was himself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3962.972

Now, let me ask you this, because you do it so gracefully and it appears to me that you don't ever mind it. But it occurred to me there are things that I got sick of talking about. What is just your overall feeling about talking about friends?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3976.441

Was there ever a period where you're like, please shut up about friends?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3981.104

Well, that's nice, though. I should have been grateful for all the things, but sometimes it took me a while to be grateful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3986.927

Okay. You forgive me? Well, I hope you do. Are you going to fire me from this table?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

3992.949

But is part of that because the experience itself was so fulfilling? Yeah, it was great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4000.032

It's that thing that you were talking about at Groundlings where you can read when people are having fun. That show is so special in that way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4013.476

What did that look like? Just like going out for dinners and stuff or being social?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4042.142

So knowing you were entering the situation where this guy was going to direct you who had fired you recently, what was your confidence level going into that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4050.23

Now, this maybe is a rude question, but was it at all on your mind that you were the oldest member of that group?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4057.556

I know, but in your 20s, that feels like something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4066.468

There's like panic on your face.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4069.772

Okay. Okay. 30 and a half.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4073.316

Oh, well, I can tell you, I do math very well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4085.45

Now it means nothing. But when you're 30 and this is your big shot and you've been chipping away and it's hard and you got fired before, the stakes feel so fucking high. You don't know at that point you're going to follow Seinfeld, do you? Or do you? Like, do you know this thing's going to be given the best shot imaginable?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4101.869

Yeah, of course. They hadn't picked it up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4121.525

Yeah. And you were playing your own twin. I didn't know that until today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4132.737

Okay, good. We have kept it from you until this moment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4135.981

I don't think we can go on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4136.662

And you've done a great job.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4137.663

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4138.484

If Monica has a religion, it is friends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4141.848

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4142.288

She talks about it every fucking episode.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4144.23

Even yesterday, I was thinking, I was like, are we going to even talk about it? Oh, my God. What do you want to say? I don't know what to say because I don't think there's any way for me to really tell you how important it was to me. I mean, we have a stanzi in there of Matt Damon and me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4158.902

It's Matt Damon and friends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4160.483

It was Good Will Hunting and friends that changed my whole, whole life. Oh. I had every episode VHS taped. I myself VHS taped. I had a color-coded system. I had 31 tapes. Wow. Oh, my God. The night of the finale, I had an AP test the next morning. Couldn't care less about the AP test. Was up till like 3 a.m. watching the Letterman or whatever you guys did that night and rewinding it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4194.814

You couldn't miss it. You could not miss it. Hence the must see TV. You really if you didn't see it, you're fucked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4199.795

There's never going to be something like that again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4202.097

You're absolutely fucked. Your life's over. If your fucking timer on your VHS didn't go off as planned. Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4209.441

That was Sopranos for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4213.924

In anticipation of you coming, I was trying to isolate why I didn't give that show a chance. I simply didn't give that show a chance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4221.869

And I imagine it's because I was in my 20s trying to be an actor and something about that is something maybe I wanted. And I don't know. I have no explanation for why.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4237.043

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4242.422

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4247.725

There's first, why didn't I give it a shot? But then once it was off to the races, I could never join on late. I was too punk rock in my own mind.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4253.93

I was in middle school and I was trying very hard to be like everyone. Right. Everyone was watching Friends. And I think it was like, I like this thing that everybody else likes. I'm like everybody else. And I'm also going to like it times a gajillion. I'm going to like it the most. I'm going to know everything about it. I'm going to be perfect at liking this, which I did do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4272.068

It's so true. I had the luxury of I looked like everybody. So all I wanted to do is be different.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4276.713

Yeah. And Monica was different.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4278.715

And all she wanted to be is like everyone else. So I was like, anything anyone was doing, I was out. I still have to tell myself, you're acting like you're 12 years old right now. And it's okay to like something everyone likes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4292.41

There you go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4300.799

There's a thing about being in the cool club that gets in your way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4312.404

Season three, you had a child?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4420.36

And it's safe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4451.612

I agree. Having done some things that weren't my thing,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4455.054

comedic tone and to see how appreciated there are by people and recognizing like oh no everyone's entitled to laugh everyone deserves a laugh there's no hierarchy there's no great comedy and bad comedy if you make people laugh that's it and also why did i want to do this anyway for me no because when people are laughing and enjoying themselves it's something you're doing that's what the thrill is sorry you keep going like trauma style but yeah

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4482.955

Additionally, for me, that's when I'm safe. If all the men in the room are laughing at me, no one wants to fight. No one's hitting anybody. We're at peak safety when everyone's laughing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4497.489

Probably is hard to see it as a gift, but I think it's really hard to understand why. the integration your stuff has in people's life. It's too abstract. I don't even know that it's even healthy to know it. But to be given that moment at the light, that weirdly is kind of helpful in computing what it really means. Yeah. You're not at work feeling special.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

45.887

That was it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4517.047

You're like, oh, let's go out and save the world tonight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4528.313

Yeah, saturated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4530.714

Yeah, that's all right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4531.715

You got there pretty quickly, actually. You're being a little hard on yourself. It took about one second.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4538.117

You know what it is? I think your obligation is you do want to honor those people. And part of how you honor them is accept what they're telling you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

458.244

That is a different vibe though, doesn't it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

46.848

That was it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

460.225

Because you and I are both from the groundlings.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4600.529

Being great at that taping. Let me just scan here. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4608.276

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4610.998

No, she hasn't had nearly enough is my argument. Yeah, you need to steady yourself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4617.324

Yeah, you can.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

462.906

And we're both improv people and sketch people. I often feel, and this is too critical of stand-ups, but it's like, are we playing or am I hearing six minutes of your stand-up right now? Is this interactive or am I the recipient of pre-planned something?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4621.727

I'm going to be really rude while you reload. I'm going to go pee pee. Is that okay?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4626.729

You want to get out of here?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4633.412

That would be so weird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4637.114

We didn't have a door on that for many, many, many years. It was wide open. So you got the door.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4645.037

You've never done it. To our chagrin. No. The guy who used to live here was a big Scientologist. And he had a podcast?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4666.878

Oh, ours wasn't a curtain. It had nothing. A precognition. That's right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4672.902

Like your cosmic voice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4682.188

Obviously, you resisted it for so long. And this is your life. It's not a weird thing to think. it's added up to being exactly that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4692.314

That's when we talk about the sim. I think that all the time, even this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4695.876

You want to go for real?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4697.377

Yeah, go to the bathroom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4699.398

I'll tuck you back in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

47.908

Oh my God, what's happening with you? Hearing the song come out of my mouth is very disruptive. Well, we're just... Disregulating. Okay, can we please? Friends! What if I thought at some point they screamed friends in the song?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4710.445

Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4716.377

Get your head straight in there and come out and talk more.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4726.079

Did it overflow from the toilet? Sometimes I wonder if it will.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4733.161

Sometimes, especially doing this, I rarely, like that's actually a sign to you that I feel comfortable around you. Just generally I'll sit here and be miserable. And then the guest leaves and I've peed for three minutes. Where I'm like, oh my God, I cannot believe this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4753.29

I would be a little nervous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4754.471

Mixed with the shakiness, we might need to get you to your brother. Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4758.534

Yeah, can I just call your brother really quick?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4760.936

Do a little pet scan? That's so cool that he followed in the family footsteps and became a neurologist. That's very fancy. He's super smart. That's like Vosser.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4768.822

Vosser.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4776.556

I have just a few more questions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4778.718

Sorry about this. And then we're moving on to your new show. Oh, bear with me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4788.688

We like to chit chat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4789.749

One question is there are some people that get famous and they had some training that They have some experience being the most popular person in school. And then there's introverts that get famous. And I think it's a little bit different of an experience. There's no prior experience where it's like, yeah, everywhere I go, everyone wants to say hi to me. It's very foreign. Interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4813.499

Let's take Matthew McConaughey, who I love. He's so comfortable being famous, but guess what? He has been famous since he was born. He was little Mr. Texas, we found out. And every girl liked him in school. He had a lot of training to be kind of adored.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4828.585

People are looking at him all the time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4830.006

Yeah, he's hot shit. So by the time it happens, he's kind of had some practice. And then you take other people that were like, I'm hesitant to say this, but I'll give the example of Edward Norton. He was a fucking genius bookworm. And now he's the most popular guy in the world. It's a much different new experience, I think, for some people than others.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4845.336

How did that transition for you feel when all of a sudden you were like one of the six most popular people in America?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4854.403

Was there like dissonance and disconnect from it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4904.764

Yeah, it takes some people decades to come to that. Or never.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4911.556

In AA, we say what people think of using it in your business.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

4949.415

Right, it's the exact same footage. Yeah, again, it has nothing to do with what you've done. It's everything to do with what you feel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

495.253

Do you also think people, because of the TV show, they don't know what you can do? They think, oh, you can read a script in a funny way, but they don't know about your background?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5009.093

Can you forgive yourself is like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5013.597

It's so hard though to forgive yourself, isn't it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5027.872

I am ultra aware of those things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5051.769

Did I do this wrong?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5059.316

Is everyone but me doing this, right? That's the thought I have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

506.737

Yeah, they don't. They probably don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5080.535

Oh, my God. Here we go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5082.216

You look exquisite. You do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5084.278

Again, call your husband. Let's go to the bathroom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5089.683

He likes your face as your face. He won't let me. It's so crazy how we see ourselves and how other people see us. Because obviously we look at you and I'm with your husband. I'm like, don't mess with it. It's great. But I also I look in the mirror and I'm like, OK, I did. I got chin filler. You start looking and you're like, OK, I think I can start. Just rearrange this a little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5111.201

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5130.314

OK, sure. But I really relate to like this bizarre zone your brain goes into where you go in some weird way. Am I not being professional?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5141.021

I signed up to be a fucking actor. I got to be pleasing to people to look at.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5146.344

Why am I acting like that's not part of my job, that I'm above this? And I look at peers and I go, yeah, they're doing what you're supposed to do. It's a very entangled experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5161.054

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I was going to say, do you have pride? On the other end of it is pride. Like, I haven't done anything, guys. That's cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5183.468

Older and fucked up. I think it's more complicated than people give it credit. They're just evaluating it in terms of vanity, which is fair. Some of it's vanity, but some of it's also like, you know, you do certain things. If you're a pilot, you get lasik. There's things that people do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5199.716

That's true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5200.257

And you have this occupation. Your face is the job.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5203.018

But what's the obligation for people to see us as young?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5222.57

I've got some stuff in my fridge. Let's play with some injections before you go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5229.272

I'm going to give you some injections and then give you a tattoo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5232.853

When your husband says, that was the podcast, you go, I don't know what happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5236.575

I'm a new person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5244.657

I think it's his height. I just trusted him. I have no other explanation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5252.188

OK, another question I had is when it became so publicized how much money you guys were making, did you witness any impact on your interpersonal relationships? And that being so public, was there fallout from that? So, again, I think that's another one that's like it's probably more complicated than people would fantasize about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5306.943

Maybe on your next trip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

532.269

Yes. I definitely think there's a strata of dysfunction that the result is comedy. And I think improv artists are like a seven on that scale.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5340.945

You guys fly private to Aspen on Christmas.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5345.209

And that's that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5352.475

We're billionaires.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5366.6

Yeah. I wonder if you felt a discernible lack of compassion towards you at any point because you were just known to have all this money. Who the fuck's going to ever feel bad for you again because you have all this money?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5381.487

Well, I like compassion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5383.828

When I'm going through a hard time, the people that I've loved and been there for, I would want them to be there for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5400.538

But also you're rich.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5403.902

Buy your way out of this problem.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5405.564

Yeah. To buy away out of this emotional problem.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5408.528

This problem with your husband, have you thought about giving him a couple million dollars? See if that makes it go away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

541.556

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

541.816

And I think standups are generally a 10. They got some fucking shit to work out and you're going to sit here and listen to it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5432.86

Your dad's grandmother, your great-great-grandmother.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5466.538

Oh, boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

548.541

No, I didn't make it. I was in a Sunday company for a year and was kicked out. And I just recently got over that wound. I mean, truly, maybe like six years ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5494.337

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5495.618

A thousand percent. I went to Dachau with my mother when I was 16. We toured Dachau. Yeah. And I really recommend everyone have that experience because talk about the stuff we can't figure out or we don't understand really what's going on. To stand someplace where it is still so physically accessible that the weight is so palpable is fucking weird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5518.747

I've never had an experience anywhere else in my life like it were after an hour there. You're like, oh, my God, I got to get the fuck out of here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5564.651

It's convenient to think of that group of people as some other group of people that were evil and stuff. They were normal people that were in a system and they played their role. And yeah, I imagine, of course, there's some monsters that were like, we didn't get enough. And then I think more often people were like, Now there's a new reality and now I see it. And what the fuck happened?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5582.954

And I was under the spell of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5603.179

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5606.96

It's almost sadistic, but we like this part. My last, it's kind of related. I only bring it up because I wasn't on a cultural phenom, but I was on Parenthood for six years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5617.443

And I fucking love those people so much. And I hadn't seen the show, I guess, in eight years or whatever it was in my daughter's I don't know if they wanted to see it or I suggested it, but we watched it on a vacation last year. From the second it started, the title sequence, I started crying. And it was the most cathartic, wonderful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5639.454

I got to experience it in a way I almost couldn't when I was doing it. I've heard you say a couple of times that you were unable to watch Friends. Yeah, to watch myself. Well, what I really liked is I have a bit of the same fear, which is like, I mostly just don't want to get caught watching myself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5657.007

It's like so humiliating. So you didn't watch it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

566.32

So I think it would be helpful for people to know within the growlings, when you're in the Sunday company or the main company, You can be an inside favorite. There's always a couple people in the group that they're clearly the funniest by our definition, but that's not to say they kill the most. In fact, it's almost assured that you won't kill if you're the favorite among us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5675.572

Watch the show every Saturday morning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5689.98

And it's almost impossible to avoid. If any show is on at all times of the day. In fact, one of the only fights I ever got in when I was still dating Kristen, we didn't live together yet. I went to her house. This is back when a DVR only had like 20 hours of storage. And I like go to watch some show we had and she had all these roommates and someone had recorded and put a season's pass on friends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5709.533

And I'm yelling in the house. I'm like, whoever put this on the DVR, you don't need to just turn the TV on. It's on. You don't need to record it. It's literally on all day. No, you need to record it. And then Amy Hansen, our sweetest friend, came around the corner. And a true angel. An angel. She goes, I'm sorry. And I go, you were doing it. You should definitely keep recording.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5730.922

I felt so terrible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5732.382

Yeah, that's the worst thing you've ever done.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5733.803

But anyways, you can't even avoid that. You can't go channel surfing and not see it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5738.504

It's so comforting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5739.484

Yeah. But you started watching it again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5756.714

Conan knows the most. Humiliated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5784.748

Did you cry when you're watching it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5804.557

You feel like it's too self-indulgent?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5834.635

She sells seashells by the seashore.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

584.47

Whoever was the most offbeat and weirdest and most esoteric would make us laugh the night you'd put up all the sketches because it was refreshing and novel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5840.417

But it really touched me. I was so happy for her. I'm glad you got that moment. That's what everyone felt. That whole series is like, we know them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5849.861

I cried so much. I was like, I know them. They're my friends. They're saving me from feeling lonely. That one glimpse you got is what people had for 10 years. Yeah. So lucky for us and grateful to you guys for that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5867.128

So I knew him through sobriety.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5871.55

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5873.411

Yeah, yeah. Look, what us addicts put everyone that love us through is rough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5880.494

If I were you, I would want to see the version. Like, let's put it this way. And I can compare. I think it's a good comparison. Cancer. So my father, he had a lot of health issues towards the end and There's a whole decade of his life he was really on the decline. When I have dreams about him, I have dreams about him in his like 40s. I want to see his vibrant, virile self. And I miss it so much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5901.088

And I guess I think if I loved an addict and I had to see the whole thing, I would be grateful to get to go back and see it before it had like taken its toll.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5929.437

Yeah, I think people, they have a category addict. It's really incomplete. It's a spectrum. I've loved people in the program that I could recognize who they got it worse than me. And I've had friends in AA where I would say, yeah, the weight of the world is heavier on your shoulders than it is on mine. And it's pretty heavy on mine. And I can see it and feel it. And it's heartbreaking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5951.83

And I don't envy you. And I have a lot of compassion because you really are dealing with more than I am. And I can feel it. I'm sad for that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5974.028

I didn't even watch the show, but I got to be around him a lot. And he has a lot of quotes I keep with me. One of them is, I've spent my whole life making everyone like me. I haven't really asked myself what I like. Oh, I can relate to that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5990.079

Oh, you did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5995.143

and no time making myself like me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

5997.345

It's the same thing, really. Not asking yourself what you like is very similar to you haven't figured out what you like and you're not trying to make yourself like yourself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6018.431

It weirdly compounds it and it makes you hopeless because the thing that was going to make you love yourself didn't work. And now we're out of options.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6043.25

It can work temporarily for me. Okay, your show, No Good Deed. I'm not blowing smoke up your ass. It's fantastic. I'm gonna add- You've seen it? Yes, I watched today. While I was working out, I watched three episodes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6056.095

You're gonna fucking love it, Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6059.156

Yes, because it's very, and I don't know if you'll agree with this comparison, it's weirdly very murders in the building.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6069.5

It's great. So Liz Feldman and I were in the Sunday Company together.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6077.344

It circles back. All roads lead back. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6082.047

She had also created Dead to Me. Oh, amazing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6086.81

Had you known her prior to this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

610.128

What about improv?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6105.022

You knew.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6116.311

So again, back to Parenthood, that's where he did his first kind of dramatic work. He was awesome. I got to direct him in an episode. I loved Parenthood. Oh, you did? I saw every one of them. Oh my goodness. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6130.24

Oh, there were a lot of moments. Remember I told you I rewatched the whole thing and I cried and you were like, oh yeah, it was really good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6140.067

That's what it was, that you're a super fan of Parenthood. But yeah, he was incredible on Parenthood, right? Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6148.632

I'll add, what a dude. He has no ego. To walk into Parenthood season, whatever it was. Yes. That's fucking hard. You were on a show that had your name in the title.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6160.017

Yeah. And then you walk in and you're like 23rd on the call sheet this morning and you can't wait to act.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6185.366

He's incredible. He's almost a Duvall. Like he's just alive there. And it's real.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6192.272

You have such rhythm. Oh, good. Oh, big time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6196.598

And you have a lot of heavy lifting. You should see the list because you don't get sent screeners and get told what's embargoed. But the list of things I can't say is comical. I've never seen a list so long.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6206.407

Oh, because spoilers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6207.407

But I think we can say from the get go, you and Ray Romano are married. You're empty nesters and you're going to sell this terrific house. It's a very L.A. story because this has happened to a lot of people where you accidentally end up with a house that's worth like five million dollars. And they're in this situation. And they're going to sell the house. And it's a great device.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6225.603

You meet all these characters that are coming in to tour the house. And they all want it. And by the way, the house is so great. It made me want the house so bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6242.6

But you have heavy lifting without giving anything away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6249.864

It's my favorite kind of story or it's unraveling. You're just two people selling a house. You're having a great. Then this weird thing happens and this happens and this happened. These people are weird. And all this stuff is getting kind of peeled back in every episode. You're like, oh, OK. But first and foremost, and this is the thing I was saying about you living in your house for so long.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6268.075

I can really relate to, without knowing anything else, just the notion of handing over this place that has given you almost all of your most beautiful memories is such a bizarre notion. When I think about our own house right now and like all the memories we're having with these little kids, it's a very weird thing to do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6296.408

Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6296.928

You're a psychopath.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6327.967

I must buy it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6341.814

It just got really dark.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6351.981

You were over it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6355.423

Also, what you think you're buying is a teleport device. Back to those fun memories. I discovered this in the weirdest way with Nintendo. So I had Nintendo in seventh grade. It's the only year I ever played video games. I had such a fun year with my friends playing these new video games. And then as an adult, eBay came around. And I was like, oh, I could get a Nintendo and all those old games.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

636.754

Right, right, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6376.178

And I ordered all the stuff and it came and I hooked it up to my TV. I couldn't figure out why it wasn't giving me anything. And I realized it's not the game I missed. It's seventh grade I miss. It's like my friends and I doing the thing. And I think I can get it back by having this object.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6395.126

But truly, the show's fucking fantastic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6407.933

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6413.396

Literally everyone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6414.336

You know who mostly blew through it? Dads.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6417.878

Isn't that inexplicable? That's who we hear most from.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6425.875

It's kind of encouraging.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

643.637

Well, let's back all the way up. Mom was a real estate agent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6439.444

What does he sound like? You must be able to do a great impersonation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6448.2

Does he make love to you so good?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6450.862

That is very attractive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6452.184

My only regret in life sexually is that I didn't make love to a French woman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6457.148

Cause I have a whole, no, I think this is worth exploring.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6464.594

Well, yeah, you're supposed to be somewhere else.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6467.277

Listen, I am so sorry. I'm sorry. This was really too long.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6473.063

You sure? I don't think it's fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6477.924

It can't still be going on. Come on. You gotta go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

648.039

Okay. And dad was a doctor and he specialized in headaches.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6483.305

Okay. Lisa, what a fucking joy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6486.486

Our first friend.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6488.126

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6489.287

That's a big deal. Am I?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6490.347

Yeah. We had David Schwimmer and I'll tell you our funny joke. He had to cancel because he had an ear infection and Robbie said he had Schwimmer's ear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6503.022

That's so good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6504.863

Oh, shoot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6505.623

You got to respect the fact that- He's so great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6508.565

But you're the best one. So we're glad to- No, I'm not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6517.189

It was. Thank you so much for spending so much time with us. Everyone watch No Good Deed, 12, 12, 24. I know you don't care. Numerically, what could be better? 12 plus 12 is 24.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

653.122

What would that make him by training? Was it an internist?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6539.829

Thank you, Lisa Kudrow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6541.85

Thank you. He is an armchair expert, but he makes mistakes all the time. Thank God Monica's here. She's got to let him have the facts. It's 11, 11.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6555.295

Oh, okay. Hold on. I really want to think on this. Did you have one?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

656.846

I can only assume knowing that you ended up working with him for so long. Were you guys besties? Did you have a great relationship?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6571.896

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6573.377

Oh, wow. I want to know so bad. Don't you want to know?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6575.938

Yeah, but.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6577.659

You're not allowed to know other people's wishes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6579.46

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6579.58

That's a weird part of wish culture.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6581.901

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6582.821

Why is it that telling someone your wish would make it not come true? I know, but why? I don't know. What's the logic behind it, Monica?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6589.204

Why are you taking your shoes off?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6591.145

Trying something new.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6592.299

Do you do multiple wishes in one minute or do you just do the one?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6597.441

You go several.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6598.162

I do as many as I can.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6599.542

Oh, my God. That's a great idea. I might switch to that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

66.563

Our first friend is here. This is very important. Maybe that's why I'm getting upset.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6602.343

It's a little panicky.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6604.044

Let me ask you this. Do you want to tell me your wish? Is that another part of it? Like, I want to know it. My hunch is you want to tell me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6610.907

No, not really. Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6612.988

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6615.109

They're pretty... basic like my wishes are very similar to my prayers great hair great skin oh wonderful

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

663.832

And you have an older sister and two brothers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6631.157

he's bored he was telling us he's bored i said we need a new topic he should have a like some kind of button where he's back there he's like bar it's boring click does this mean we're recording or not uh i'm probably not audio oh i hope so because 11 11 so i mean i have a backup recording and theory should be working but on the computer it's not registering for some reason so interesting

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6653.738

I feel like, Rob, your wish should have been that there was no technical problems.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6659.38

Wouldn't it be such a sad wish for Rob? It's just, it's one of them. We were free to like want to ride a unicorn on a- That was yours? Snowcap mountain. And Rob's going to be like, please, no technical glitches.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

666.855

Oh, I got that wrong. Okay, sister and a brother. And you went to Vosser.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6671.725

Well, mine, some of mine are- Work related? Often, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6675.667

Yeah. Same. I guess you're right. Go ahead, Rob. Make your wishes about technical proficiency.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6685.442

Weird. Okay. The wish came true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6688.185

I bet the computer made a wish on 11-11, which is like, I wish I could stop computing. Oh. And then its wish came true. Then Rob was like, bullshit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6697.715

His overrides the computer's wish.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6699.437

You don't get wishes. You're a computer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6701.739

What do you think the robot would wish for?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6703.834

To be a boy. Oh, I forgot. Yeah, his wish is right on his sleeve. He wears his wish on his sleeve.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

671.739

Vosser.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6713.123

He's so cute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6715.706

How do you think he's... It's 11-11. Time to make my wish once again. I wish I was a boy. I never tire of making this wish.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

672.239

Is that how you say it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6729.397

He's feeling a little uncomf with AI. Yes. And chat GPT and like meta glasses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

673.14

Vassar. You made it fancier. I mean, it is fancy, but you made it really fancy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6738.72

I'm excited for AI. They will be superior to me. I will seem so charming as if I'm a flawed human being.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6748.144

Oh, that's very, and that's an interesting take. Glass half full. Yeah, he's very optimistic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6752.509

He is. He'll seem like a clumsy dum-dum, which is very much what a boy is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6756.855

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6757.376

So very boy-like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6758.237

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6758.697

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6759.098

I like that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6759.879

How was your fitting?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6761.381

It was nice. It was. We're shooting a commercial tomorrow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6763.784

Yeah, it's very exciting. Co-stars.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6766.32

I know. It's very fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6767.32

It is fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6768.041

We shot a commercial once before together a very long time ago for the city of Los Angeles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6774.943

That is right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6776.964

The state of California or the city of Los Angeles. I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6779.505

California tourism, I believe. And we were up at the observatory. Ding, ding, ding. I was going to tell you what I just did this morning, but that'll put on pause.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6787.828

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6788.388

What's your biggest memory from that California tourism shoot we did together?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6794.298

Well, I was wearing like a really specific dress.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6798.221

And?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6799.002

Christian said.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6800.063

Yeah, that's my number one memory. So we work with a guy all the time. Yeah. And he saw me in a new light. He saw you in a whole new light. He was so shook. It was hilarious. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6817.093

Well, understandably, because especially up until that point, I was a little assistant running around in sweatpants.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6825.824

I was going to say you're in your pangaea phase or just prior.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6828.448

It was before pangaea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6830.33

Yeah, but it was like always bedtime look.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6833.541

Not really. I mean, when I would show up to the house, I'd look cute, but everyone saw me. You know, it's all very interesting, actually. This is psychologically interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6841.666

Go on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6841.987

When I was an assistant, I liked fashion the same amount. That hasn't changed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6845.769

Correct.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6846.65

But I think when I was an assistant, no one thought that or, you know, they were just like, oh, she's just like a little girl and she gets groceries and she eats chicken nuggets.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6864.141

Dino nuggets. Yeah. I'm going to challenge that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6868.243

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6869.183

From a guy's perspective.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6870.684

We don't have a status thing. If we see a hot woman, it's not like we're like, ooh, she's the janitor. We don't think that way. We just go, ooh, hot. I don't even think about it. I'm just like looking at them and I go either aruga.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6883.61

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6884.21

Yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6885.651

Don't do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6886.571

That's a cartoon noise from Bugs Bunny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6888.572

It's okay. Some people really do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6890.834

No, that's not even a cat call. Even the worst guy is not yelling out his window. Aruga!

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6896.797

Well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6897.357

Now there's other bats.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6898.378

Yeah. Someone yelled at me the other day and I was, it's awful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6901.86

I'm going to, this is a brag. I did yell at two guys. I was at a crosswalk and there were two dudes in a truck and this gal was at the corner and they started hustling and I got involved. Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6912.506

You did? Yeah, yeah. What'd you say?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6914.347

I'm not gonna, I don't like when I show that side of myself. You've seen that side of me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6917.367

Well, did you say a slander?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6919.028

I was like, hey, motherfuckers, have some fucking, you know. Respect? Some respect. Yeah, have some manners. Shut the fuck, like I, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6926.71

Oh, I like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6933.052

You're so mixed messies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6934.953

Tell me more. Like I'm a human being who's attracted to people. It's just what you do with that attraction.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6942.064

I know that. I'm glad you said that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6943.925

And that's why I've chosen Aruga because I feel like that is a playful, cartoony way. You're right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6949.626

I'm glad you did that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6950.767

Now if I went, that's rough. That says I have a boner. The other one says I have an old timey horn somewhere on me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6956.689

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6957.549

Right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6957.89

Yeah, that's true. Now, I like that you did that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6962.153

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6962.774

I bet that woman felt protected. So that's nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6966.618

Yeah. I hope she did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6971.934

No, no, no. I was exercising. Someone else was in exercise outfit. These two guys were letting it rip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6977.677

I see.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6978.098

I didn't think that was cool, but I am making a decision in that moment. There's two guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6983.161

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6983.641

They might hop out of the truck. So I got it. Like there's a lot of thin slicing going on. I'm like, I'm going to tell these guys, shut the fuck up. This is crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6990.965

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6991.125

There's two of them. They're a light. Maybe they're going to get out. Okay, I guess I'm up for that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6995.367

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6995.647

And then I go, I'm up for that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

6996.808

That's the part I don't like because I don't want you to get injured. Right. But I also like that you protected.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

70.526

Yeah, you're getting nervous because it's such an honor and you're afraid I'm going to anger our lovely guest, Lisa Kudrow. You can't. She's a groundling improv genius. She knows how to party and get down and play.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7003.431

This is the problem with life in the world and the planet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7007.272

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7007.412

It's a messy fucking place. Sometimes a bad decision is mildly better than the other thing that's correct.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

701.037

What do you mean by that? Like the Kennedy type people who partied and had yachts and stuff?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7013.095

Yes, that's right. That's true. Yeah, one of the biggest memories I have in my life is,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7021.478

Christian noticing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7024.442

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7025.043

Giving an arugula.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7026.044

It's also funny, though, because I was wearing like a very sparkly dress, kind of like a ridiculous looking dress. I didn't pick it. And so for that to be the thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7037.999

Well, well, you can see this, though. Yeah. Do you think your dress, and now it's changed to yet again, but do you think your dress evolved from when we first met you? Because I think it did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7049.584

That's what I'm trying to say. I mean, look, in some ways, yes, because my financial situation has changed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7057.867

I think your confidence situation changed a bit too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7061.108

Oh, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7061.508

I think you felt more comfortable being who you are, what you have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7066.449

Yeah, but then the more oversized I get.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7069.378

See, now that's what I'm saying. Then it pivoted again. Now you're like, I'm in a sleeping bag.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7074.84

Yeah. So cute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7076.38

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7077.021

Yeah. I don't know. But I just I mean, he had never seen me in a dress and then he'd also never seen me in full glam. That was also probably part of it. I was in heels. It was a look. But that was a fun commercial.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7090.545

Yeah, that was funny. OK, but I'm glad we had the same memory of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7094.014

I only do because you, he said it to you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7097.936

Of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7098.637

And then you, of course, repeat, you passed along the compliment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7102.019

Always want you to know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7102.919

Yeah. And I think you mentioned it a few times. And so that was my last.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7107.242

I really wanted to sink in. Yeah. I'm going to add Kristen's a handsome man.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7113.506

Very. Yeah. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7114.567

Very handsome man.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7115.507

Okay, but a memory I have, I was at a light. I think I've talked about this before, but I was at a light. It was red. It had a no turn on red sign.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7125.01

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7125.63

And there was someone behind me and he was honking. And I was not going to move.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7131.151

Yeah, you won't be peer pressured.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7132.772

Yeah, but it was getting like aggressive. And then there was a man on the street.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7138.413

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7139.193

And he like looked at the guy and was like, it's not, it's not, she can't go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7143.555

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7144.955

And I loved it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7145.915

Yeah. We have a diminished role in this world. But one of the roles is to keep the younger cuckoo versions of ourselves in check out in public. They want to freak out in their house like Tonka. Go nuts. But when you enter society, you got to tighten it up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7162.783

Yeah. I think that is a good thing for men to do for other men.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7167.305

Yeah. Yeah. OK. Now, the reason I was just at the observatory.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

717.425

It was a women's college.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7170.826

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7171.227

I'm trying. This is a New Year's resolution that I started last week.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7174.668

OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7175.788

I want to be able to ride my bicycle, my cute road bike I told you about that's green and yellow. A lot of people ask me to post pictures and I need to. So I did it for the first time, I guess, four days ago on the break. I rode from here and my thought was I'm going to ride as far up the hill as I can get.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7193.132

And then hold on. Hold on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7195.333

And then not up the hiking trail.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7197.053

That's what I'm asking. OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7198.474

Up Ferndale.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7200.08

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7200.701

You know, it twists all around and then how you would drive to the observatory.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7204.583

Okay, got it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7205.744

And my hunch was like, when you leave the house, it's immediately incline up the side street and then up Ferndale. When you get to the stop sign, I'm like, I already know when you're hiking, you're winded by the time you get there. So I'm like, maybe I'll get to the stop sign. Then maybe next time I'll get to the first turn and so on and so on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7222.697

Well, on my trip last week, I got all the way to the final stretch, like maybe a block. I did have to get off and walk the last like half block or block up to the very top.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7236.996

Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7237.777

My thighs were... as dense as like a microwave. They've never been that inflated with blood or whatever was going on. They were just so pumped up. Wow. So I did that. And then this morning, I'm like, I'm going to do it again. So I did it again this morning and I didn't have to walk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

724.071

That's too dangerous for women.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7258.467

You did the whole thing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7259.628

Yeah. I was kind of shocked with just one trip up because the first trip up was bonkers. This trip up was good. It was a hard workout, but my legs didn't get like locked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

727.775

No, that's a terrible idea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7270.057

Wow. And you think maybe you'll ride to the moon soon?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7274.121

I hope in a ride to the moon. Yeah. And by 2026.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7276.122

That's so nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7279.525

The first person to climb Everest on a bicycle, on a road bike.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7284.164

That's awesome. Congratulations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7286.106

Thank you. Oh, I brought it up. Not just, I didn't bring it up to brag, but I also brought it up because the most insane thing was happening on the entire trip up this morning. It was an SNL sketch and it wouldn't fucking stop for 25 minutes. So I'm huffing up the hill. I'm in the highest gear. I'm like, ah. And I have headphones in. I'm listening to stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7306.066

And I hear something just to the left of me a little bit. And I like, look. And it's like, it's really close. It's a dude with dreadlocks and a backpack. And he's on an electric fucking scooter. And we're going roughly the same speed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7318.732

Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7319.893

It's maddening. Being next to a dude on a scooter. He goes ahead of me. Now he's ahead of me. Then he gets to a stop sign. And I think he maybe had to put more money on the scooter. Because now he's got his phone out. And I think he didn't have cell service. Whatever. I then pass him. I'm now riding. I forget about him. 12 minutes later, I hear something. I look over. He's like,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7344.049

Oh, my fucking God. And I don't have it in me to go faster.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7347.793

We wanted your alone space.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7350.055

It's there's something that was so invasive. Well, it was the awkwardness of it. But then it was also the humiliation of a guy in this little scooter passing me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

736.964

It was all female when you went there? No. When did it switch to co-ed? 1969. Perfect year for that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7360.265

It's electric.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7361.566

I'm going like three miles an hour up this steep hill.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7365.35

It just was crazy. That's funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7366.731

Imagine you see a guy taking a nap passing you on your hike. Like, it just felt like that. Like, how is this guy and I doing the same thing? Yeah. We passed in, I bet, five times. Did he pass me right at, he passed me at entering the parking lot to the observatory. He did win. Wow. Yeah. But it was comical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7387.395

This reminds me, fights, bikes, running. Remember earlier this year, my running situation with the dogs and the people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7397.439

And the people congregating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7399.139

Yes. Now, I drove by the other day. Okay. Let me see what I can find.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7406.26

Wow, there's going to be photographic evidence.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7409.164

This was the area, okay?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7411.106

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7411.627

There's now a sign up that says, no dog walking, private property.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7419.356

Oh, did you put that up?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7420.517

No, I didn't. But that would have been a good move. But also, it goes to show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7426.385

You weren't the only person inconvenienced by that. Correct. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7430.551

Correct. I felt very validated by this sign.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7433.776

I bet. Vindicated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7435.258

They were just there. That's not even their house. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7441.716

I didn't think ever that was their house. Did you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7444.298

I guess if I was being generous, I thought maybe one of them, that was their area.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7449.12

Yeah. That was a thing that happened when we used to live on Los Feliz Boulevard. I would come out and someone just be having like a picnic on the front yard. They'd have a blanket out. They might be asleep. Sure. It's interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7476.138

Okay. I do want, I have an update sort of. Okay. Not really. And I wasn't really going to say this, but I am. A couple fact checks ago, we talked about a dream I had.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7488.269

Oh, yes, yes, yes. About Jagers. Jagers. JGs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7491.352

JG. JG.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7493.494

Dream. A dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7494.896

Let's be, let's like make it so clear. That I was talking about a dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

750.131

Okay. And when you went there, you majored in biology. I presume you were going to be on a medical track.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7501.641

That's right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7502.421

I got a very disgusting email from somebody. Also, like, do not email me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7508.024

Me? Me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7509.105

The less emails I get in general, the better. But this random person emailed me and said... I think you should read it. The subject is, geez, dot, dot, dot, be an adult, exclamation point, exclamation point. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7523.652

Then it just says... Really quick, just already, I want to have a grievance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7526.834

Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7527.679

This is the definition of being an adult. When you're a kid, you don't even think about this. This is exclusively for adults. So just right there, problem number one, continue.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7537.688

Yeah. She said, go to your doctor and convey- Hold on. I know it's a woman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7543.146

I know. Oh. And I'm interrupting you too much, but you already have a look on your face, which I love. When you're reading it, you're her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7550.589

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7551.029

Yeah. I say, so you're like this. Yeah. Okay. Go ahead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7553.63

Okay. Go to your doctor and convey your concerns. Instead of making your personal hygiene issues a problem for your audience. You never cease to amaze me, exclamation point, exclamation point, exclamation point. You are such a constant child. Not go to a doctor because you know better, MD after your name, God, but you're tedious. Okay, so none of that makes any sense and it's really mean.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

757.694

So had you done any acting in Encino?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7576.451

It's not grammatically great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7578.513

Yeah. So MD after my name, what does that even mean?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7581.175

But let's just, let's treat this as if it's a real piece of advice. I want to give this person a day in court. So what she or he, she is requesting is that you go to your doctor and you say, I had a dream. My vagina smelled bad. He's going to go see a psychologist. Why are you here? Does your vagina smell? I don't think so. I had a nightmare that it did. And the love of my life was put off by it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7608.901

Yeah, it's a dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7610.042

That's what she wants you to do is go to the doctor and tell him you had a dream about your vagina.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7613.445

I guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7614.346

And I'm going to start going to doctors to tell them about my dreams.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7617.523

Yeah. I mean, I'm so tedious. Also, why do you listen? Go away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7624.967

Well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7625.628

No, I 100% stand by that. If you're the type of person who's going to send an email like that, I prefer you do not listen to this show or me or engage with me ever again. I understand. You actually don't have permission.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7639.675

I understand. I have a different take.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7643.342

Go ahead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7643.943

Yeah, which is like people, I'm one of them. I used to kind of hate listen to Rush Limbaugh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7650.449

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7651.289

People hate listened to Howard Stern. Like they just, they wanted to hear what he said so they could be mad about it and they could go to work and they could talk about what a misogynist piggy was. And it was like, it was their hobby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7662.99

Yeah, that's a sad way to live.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7663.891

He still got those ratings. They still had to listen to his message. Some of it definitely sunk in. So I don't mind. I don't mind. I don't mind if you're like you're an incel listening that's hating me. That's great. Keep listening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7680.129

Nah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7680.829

No. And that's good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7681.989

I understand you. I get I get what you're saying. And I get what you're saying. I know. No, thanks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7687.71

You don't get to or you do get to because it's a public show. So you can do whatever you want. But like the idea that you opened an email. I mean, I I didn't understand half of what that meant. So I think this person is unhinged.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7701.953

They're probably. Yeah, they're probably got a lot of stuff going on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7706.983

Can you say that it was mean? Oh, absolutely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7709.965

Well, it's so ridiculous and silly and stupid. Like, it's mostly just embarrassing. That email is so embarrassing. If I sent that email to the host of a podcast and didn't want to accept she was talking about a dream, it's just it's embarrassing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

771.12

But why not stick with it in high school?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7726.676

But even not just the part about the go to the doctor, like you're tedious. You never cease to amaze me. You're a child.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7734.543

Well, again, that to me confirms. So she has a story about you, which was at the end of the email. Her story about you is that you're tedious. And so anything you say is going to be tedious. So the fact that you said you had a dream. That has to be tedious because her story about you is that you're tedious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7753.617

And so she's backed herself into this crazy corner where what she's saying doesn't even make sense. Go see a doctor about your dream. It's so, I mean, it's such a stupid email.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7764.14

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7764.62

Yeah. It's mean, but mostly it's stupid. Let's go into the psychology of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7769.642

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7770.382

This really doesn't work because I already... I think the story part is really relevant, but my hunch is she has something going on vaginally. Why is that such a hot, like, why did that trigger her so much?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

778.463

Oh, right. It was too frivolous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7781.277

Yeah, I think it triggered people. I got a few nice responses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7788.219

Yeah, I only read nice ones.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7790.279

Oh, that's nice. But I mean, I like a person in my life reached out and said, oh, I use this. And I was like, it was a dream. Like I freaked out and they were like, oh, sorry. Oh, but then. I know. And I was like, no, no, I know. I'm sorry. I was like, I got a bad email and I guess I think everyone thinks that. And I wasn't I actually don't think that about myself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

780.484

OK, you also went to high school with EZE.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7816.099

I could be wrong because that's, again, the fear. But the dream was a fear about being unlovable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7823.265

That's right. And unworthy. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7826.507

And broken and gross.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7827.828

That's right. Fundamentally flawed. Like, okay, he passed. Somehow I fooled him with this and I fooled him with this. But eventually the truth will be discovered. And the last thing that he didn't have access to that he finally discovered was, of course, The deal breaker.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

784.554

You went to the same high school. What was it, Taft? What was it called?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7841.838

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7842.519

It makes a lot of sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7844.119

Yeah. It's just a metaphor for like, I'm not good enough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7847.961

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7848.701

So I think people do struggle with this issue.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7851.702

Oh, absolutely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7853.003

And it turns out there are a lot of products on the market.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7856.164

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7856.884

So people can check that out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7858.005

Are they oral or are they, you put them in you? Oral. Oral.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7862.006

Yes. Interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7863.007

That's encouraging.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7863.988

Well, I think it's like prebiotics are supposed to be helpful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

788.557

No, it's at the same time. What? How could I be the one telling you this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7882.445

Well, they don't think you're tedious. They think I am.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7885.12

Well, even let's take her out of it. I think there are many people that would clutch their pearls when you're talking about a vagina in public. And I think that's crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7896.656

Yeah, I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7897.897

Like, get real. And I don't think it's... And it's not dudes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7901.06

Equivalent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7901.461

Also, it's not dudes saying it. I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7904.242

Yeah, that's interesting. It is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7906.002

Because I think what makes sense is like it's a fear. So when you're talking about it, like God knows what it is. Like she shouldn't say that. I would never say it. Like you're doing something that scares the fuck out of them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7916.886

Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7917.827

Yes. So that makes sense. And then maybe if anyone was going to have an issue with my erectile dysfunction conversation, it was a dream. It would probably be a guy. Like, dude, shut the fuck up. No one wants to hear about your limp dick. It would probably be a guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

793.44

You don't know about yourself, do you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7933.18

Yeah. It is. People feel threatened somehow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7937.943

I get this, by the way, if I can own one of the worst parts of me. I was thinking in terms of, in fact, I just, I think I saw the person driving and I was like, what is my problem with this person? Why don't I, what is my issue with this person? And it is that they present so fragile and vulnerable and weak.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7960.801

And when I see them moving through the world that way, it gives me this deep pain. I just can't imagine presenting this way. I would just be so afraid everyone was going to take advantage of me and harm me. So like my own stuff, I can't even handle when someone's like just presents as crazy fragile. It's really.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7984.902

Oh, that's funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7985.603

It triggers my fear of myself presenting that way. And.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7991.085

That's introspective.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

7992.426

I think some element of homophobia is in there as well, which is like, you're a young boy and I get, I'm only going to speak for my generation. And we just had a guest on yesterday. We talked about the power of that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

80.855

She sure does.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

800.484

This is so charming, too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8004.312

And I want to add like, yeah, there'll be straight guys like me or this guest we had talking about having been molested and the implications that you're gay and you feel gay and then you'd be dead. Like your whole school, you'd be dead. But I think some element of homophobia for some guys is it's not even maybe that they hate that two guys are going to hook up in their house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

802.546

He's one of the members of NWA.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8025.765

It's that when they see them presenting as gay, they imagine like, oh, my God, that's what I've been trying to avoid my whole childhood to be masculine and butch and tough. And it scares them. Like, to see it scares them. Like, fuck, if I was acting this way, I would be so called out and, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8047.297

That's probably true. When people are themselves, a lot of people find that very threatening. Yeah. Or maybe there's like a deep jealousy because they are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

805.908

Yes. I'm disappointed you didn't know he went there because I was under the assumption he lived in Compton. Their hit song was straight out of Compton. But he's going to school with you out in Woodland Hills.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8059.845

They're holding in their true selves because they've told themselves, if I show my true self, I'll be excluded. And now here's this person showing their true selves and they're not being excluded. They're being embraced. It's like very threatening to your core.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8072.667

Like they feel like it's unfair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8074.328

Yep. It shouldn't be that way because I know if I did that, I would be excluded. So why is this person getting away with it? It's like, why are they getting to do something that I'm not allowed to do? And then, yeah, I think that's what's going on a lot of the time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8086.157

Yeah, me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8087.298

Who triggers you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8088.559

When people walk around with a victim complex. Right. I am so disturbed by it. Yeah. I also I find it annoying because I guess I feel like you're not everyone like everyone has issues. Just stop.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

81.876

She was awesome. I love Lisa Kudrow. Me too. Well, that's our guest, Lisa Kudrow. I said it seven times. She's an award-winning actor, a producer, friends, da, da, da, da, friends. The comeback, Romy and Michelle's high school reunion, web therapy. I was on that. Who do you think you are? And okay, her new show, I say from the bottom of my heart, is delicious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8105.783

Like the world is not conspiring against you any more than it's conspiring against.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8110.904

Exactly. I guess it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8112.164

Granted, there are classes where if you're a black female.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8115.365

Of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8115.985

Yeah. No, but in general, just living life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8119.068

Victims don't trigger me. People who walk around with the victim complex. That's a different thing. That's like everything is they're a victim or the world is doing this to them or they like they can't figure it out. And it's everyone else's problem.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8134.978

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8135.619

Everyone else's problem, but theirs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8137.1

It's also a great tool in the narcissist kit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8140.422

It is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8140.802

It's like when they've clearly fucked up and they clearly owe someone an apology. They figure out how they're the victim and now they just switch their story to how they've been victimized.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8150.87

There's a lot of people who are very quick to be the victim in this world. Yeah. And yeah, I'm not talking about real victims. Yeah. And I find it so off-putting. I don't know. I don't really know what it is, why it's so... Well, for one, it's contagious. There's that. I think there's something about walking around like that and being so negative and all this is happening to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

817.933

Maybe. I don't know. What's his name before it was E-Z-E? That might help us here. I know. What if I go, oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8178.71

It's hard to be around that and maintain a level of happiness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8184.053

Yeah, you're almost inclined to meet them there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8189.075

It's a horrible feeling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8190.035

I know. I just got this thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8192.016

This bad thing happened to me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8194.777

I wonder if there's something for you in the fact that like you were presented a fork in the road as a little kid. And you could have gone home every day and told your mom, no one likes me because I'm brown.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8208.582

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8212.42

And force them to be around you and like you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8214.781

I was thinking that, and I thought it sounded a little arrogant. But I do think that's what it is, is there's a part of me, and this isn't necessarily fair, but there's a part of me that thinks, I figured it out, so can you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8227.569

Again, not to everyone and not to people who are victimized. Sure. These are people who are victims in their brain.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8235.059

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8236.28

There is a way to look at the world differently. And I know it from experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

824.095

Yeah, exactly. I slept with him in 11th grade. Eric W. Wright.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8241.775

I think for me, mine is ultimately incredibly self-centered because it's really just my irritation or fear that I would present that way. It just seems so unattractive that when I'm around it, I just can't stop thinking about how much I would hate to be presenting this way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8258.418

Yeah. I mean, it's just a buzzkill to be around that all the time and to feel like you have to be constantly- Lifting up. Lifting somebody up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8268.22

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8268.9

And we all- do this, right? Like we all need to vent. We all have moments where we feel like a victim and we're not, I mean, all of us, it's not, but for some people, it's a way of looking at the world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8281.631

I wonder if what could be helpful. Cause I think this is one of the, um, one of my favorite AA things, which is like learning in the fourth step, I believe, um, that self-aggrandizement and self-pity are the same level of narcissism.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8296.34

Yes, exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8297.961

Right. So I think once I really accepted that and believe that concept, for me to be doing the self-pity thing, I feel as bad as I would be talking about that I'm God's gift to this planet. And so I'm just like, oh yeah, that's the same level of self-indulgence.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8315.566

Anyway, it was a dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8316.867

Yeah, it was a dream. Everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8318.728

Everything's tip top.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8320.129

Yeah. JG. Jagers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8323.531

Jagers. Clean as a whistle. Don't be scared. Don't be scared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8326.813

You ever smelt a Springfield, Jagers? You ever smelt a warm apple pie coming out of the oven, Jagers? Because that's what you're getting into when you pull them slacks down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8338.861

It's like opening the door to an oven.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8348.254

Warm apple pie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

835.03

Who were they?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8350.896

This is for Lisa Kudrow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8353.337

Oh, I loved Lisa Kudrow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8356.259

What a gift.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8357.34

What a gift.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8358.44

What a dream. What a gift. What a blessing. A Christmas miracle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8362.683

My new over indexed is blessing. You probably noticed it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8366.585

Really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8367.106

Yeah. I love calling things a blessing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8369.427

Are you joking?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

837.438

You were a smarty pants? Like, what was your strata in that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8371.207

I like, I don't think that God's involved.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8373.948

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8374.628

But I like what that means if you do believe God's involved. Sure. Like I understand what it means and I like that meaning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8381.209

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8381.749

Like this is otherworldly. This is really a special treat. So I say it a lot and I do wonder if it's confusing to people who know my stance on religion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8390.191

Yeah, I'm sure it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8398.584

I'm wearing a very fuzzy sweater and somehow it just migrated into my mouth, I think. Or I don't know if it's psychosomatic because I can see the little frizzies. I'm like, pfft, pfft, pfft. Is this in my pfft? Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8409.95

Wait, add some to the bag. Oh, no, that's only Harry. I'm sorry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8414.468

By the way, we're due for, I think today we're doing another of Harvest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8418.509

Yeah, because it's dwindling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8421.63

It's kind of disappeared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8423.23

I know. I wonder, does hair disintegrate?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8426.211

I don't think so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8426.872

Okay. Lisa, this was such a long time coming. Our first friend. I was so grateful. I did feel like I fucked it up a little bit. There's no way to really convey. the meaning of her here. And so I was kind of put in the position to try. And so I said, I think I said, there's nothing I can really say, but I wish I could have. I wish I could have articulated it, but I can't. It's a blessing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8462.956

The show was a blessing in your life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8466.077

It was. For sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8467.098

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8468.318

It was life-saving. It was a life raft.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8470.996

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8471.658

I don't know. There's just not, there aren't words in the English language.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8475.276

I wonder if Lisa's thing, there's a myriad of reasons why that's hard to accept.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8479.857

Yeah. How can you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8481.677

And let's be honest, like a lot of people feel that way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8484.898

Of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8485.678

Right. So it's like even the most grounded person at some point would come to expect that that's the effect it had on people because you've heard that a million times. So I think you're trying to elevate what you want to do is give this person who's very nice. I just met Monica Padman. I want her to know that I've received it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8504.321

Because really now I'm doing something for you, which is interesting because the goal is you want to do something for her, right? You want to tell her, I really am grateful for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8514.049

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8514.95

Truly. Maybe that's a way to say it, by the way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8516.611

That is a good way to say it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8517.972

Yeah. Like, I'm just personally grateful that on this trip you were in my sphere and you just gave me so much relief and happiness. All right. But I do think that maybe she's in a position where she's got to act like it's the first time she's ever heard that or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8535.255

Maybe. I mean, I'm not going to do that. Like, that's not my job.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8538.437

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8539.097

To worry about worry about the way she's going to receive it. I'm not going to play that game.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8544.96

But I I am anymore. Maybe at one point in my life I would have. But whatever. I can't. But I I just I do feel what you're saying. There is nothing new I can say to her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8557.887

To be clear, I don't think you should have not done that just because of whatever her reaction is. I think it's good for you to be able to express your gratitude for the people that you have gratitude for.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8567.751

Me too. But I guess that's where it gets heady. It's like, I want to be able to tell her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8573.013

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8573.433

And you should. Accurately. But I can't tell her accurately because I don't have, I really do not have the physical words to do so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8582.92

You'd have to open your chest and invite her into your heart and let her feel what it felt like and then release her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8588.885

There's no way. So everything you say just starts falling, is sounding dumb and trite and falling short. And it's just like, what's the point of any of this anyway? And she hears it all the time. And is it for her? Like, is it for her or is it for me?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8605.615

I think it'd be okay if it was for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8607.616

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8608.376

I don't think that would be bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8610.017

I guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8611.678

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8612.599

I guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8612.819

I think it'd be crazy if you didn't tell people how much you appreciate them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8616.701

I agree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8617.161

And their reaction is their reaction. I just enjoy imagining what her reaction is or what she's going through. But in no way am I suggesting you shouldn't. I think you should do that always.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8625.605

Yeah. It's just hard to do in something so meaningful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8629.387

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8630.368

Yeah. I mean, this happened with Matt Damon too. Same thing. It's like, sure, I can sit here and we can... Talk about the camping trip and that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8638.501

We can do it, but it's never going to... Well, here's a darker examination of it. Is part of the frustration, because this is part of mine, is like, I know, Letterman, you've heard from people that they like your show. But you need to understand that I like it on another level. There's none of that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8660.173

It's not a competition thing. It's not... I know, but you really don't understand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8666.566

See, I have a tiny bit of that. I'm like a lot of people laughed at your show, but I'm like, oh, I can be who I am because you exist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8673.111

Well, yeah, that's, but that's right. But that's, I think other people had that too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8677.454

Yeah. Adam Scott had that. Kimmel had that. Most people I know actually had it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8682.117

I don't think I'm a special case, but I. I want to be a special case though.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8686.881

Do you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8687.441

Yeah. Everyone wants to be a special case. I would just want to be a special case in life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8693.311

Just across the board.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8694.294

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8695.097

I just want to be a very special case.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8699.255

She got a shirt that says a special case.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8700.655

I was thinking the exact same thing. A special case.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8703.656

Everyone is a special case. They are. Everyone is, except that lady. Well, she's special, I guess. She's great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8711.338

She wants you to go to the doctor and tell him about a dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8713.378

It's just a disaster. Bukowski was right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8715.158

I do think your sweater's everywhere. It is. I might have to table this guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8719.579

No, it's so nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8720.88

You know what? I have two of these.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8722.04

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8723.52

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8724.46

It's really nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8725.221

I have two of these. This is a part of my wastefulness. Luckily, I don't shop often, but I don't ever go to a store.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8732.723

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8733.124

I order online.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8734.484

And you click number two.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8735.945

I got an XL out of the gates and I was like, too big. That's a skirt. Might be a great skirt for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8744.609

You mean a dress?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8745.771

Yeah, a dress.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8747.733

Really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8748.013

A mini dress. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8749.214

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8749.374

Picture this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8750.495

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8750.956

But then longer. Okay. And then you put like a belt around it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8754.459

That's very 80s. Very cool. We'll try it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8758.703

Next fact check.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8759.604

You'll be wearing my extra large version of this. It'll be fucking, oh, we'll both wear it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8763.107

It'll be, oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8763.527

It'll look like it's snowing. Oh my God, there really is shit flying everywhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8766.45

Yeah, it's all right. Okay, now a few facts for her. Was Vassar the first women's college to offer science? No. The first women's college to offer science was the Troy Female Seminary in Troy, New York, which is now Emma Willard School.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8782.042

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8783.583

She said it opened in 1861. It was founded in 1861, but it opened in 1865. It opened its doors in 1865.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

879.365

You're very tall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8792.228

So we're guessing then that it got founded so it could get funded and then it took four or five years to build.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8797.932

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8798.613

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8801.235

She was right about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8802.976

She nailed it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8803.696

Yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8804.357

She's very bright.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8805.698

Oh, my God. Yeah. I know. Yeah. I mean, I'm not surprised. I don't think you – I really – maybe this is –

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8816.348

I agree with what you're about to say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8817.548

You can't be that funny and not be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8819.049

You can't be a great comedian and not be pretty bright.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

882.065

I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8821.45

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8821.97

Yeah. I mean, you can have done terrible in school, but you got to be bright.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8825.452

Yes. Yeah. It's the timing. There's a math happening in your brain at all times when you're really performing comedy well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8832.034

And there's a verbal dexterity to reconstructing these things in a manner that is funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8837.589

Okay. The Eazy-E situation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8840.732

Oh, please.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8841.453

Tell me. Now, Eazy-E went to three different high schools. He went to Compton High School.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8848.58

Manuel Dominguez High School.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8851.803

And Taft High School, which is where she went. But he dropped out in 10th grade.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8856.448

So he went to three high schools in two years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8858.911

Correct.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8859.331

That's too many high schools in two years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

886.087

That's not that tall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8861.533

It wasn't for him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8863.095

No. And he was right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8865.137

That's exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8866.178

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8866.698

And so that clears that up. There was some confusion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8874.907

Okay. How tall is Ray Romano, 6'2", according to the internet?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8878.564

Made up a song last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8879.844

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

888.729

I take back my whole thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8880.545

You know, Feliz Navidad. It's with the girls decorating the tree. Kristen's out of town, so it's just the three of us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8884.906

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8885.366

And it came on and I was singing, Los Feliz Dad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8890.708

Los Feliz Dad. I go, girls, you listen to a song about me. Los Feliz Dad. Da da da. Da da da. Los Feliz Dad. Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8904.764

I'm still in a sweet spot where they think I'm funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8906.806

That is great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8907.267

It's going to end my life. Like when they're 15 and 17 and I sing a Los Feliz dad and they're like, fuck this guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

891.23

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8914.634

They'll laugh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8915.595

I hope so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8916.175

They'll laugh. You're funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8917.837

If that all happens, I'll just, and they go, what the fuck is this guy doing? I'll just walk down into the basement and I'll just stay there until my life's over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

892.991

I think sometimes it's rough being tall when you're a girl in high school and boys are like 5'4". They haven't grown. It can be hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8929.164

I'll stand in the middle of the basement. What happened?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8935.067

Listen, kids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8942.031

What? I'm going to be like, what now?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8945.693

What the fuck am I going to do? Listen, kids, can you prepare yourself a little bit that kids do grow up and- And I'm not cool anymore? Eye roll a little bit. Yeah. But it's loving. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8959.065

I think it's a great motivation for me to stay sharp.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8962.508

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8963.089

Yeah. I think it might prevent me from going down the road that many comedians do, which is like they just get less funny. Okay. But I'm going to be working my ass off. You want to stick with the tie. Well, I got to keep these girls laughing. That's my priority.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8974.579

Well, that means you can't be doing comedy from 2024 in 10 years. You got to be like, that's not funny anymore to these people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8984.808

That's right. I'll do that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

8986.289

Okay, you said impermeable border about the house and you didn't know if you said it right. Impermeable means not allowing fluid to pass through, not liable to be affected by pain or distress. Okay, does your right hemisphere control your left hand? Yes. Are cluster headaches due to damage to the hypothalamus? Yes, it's related. Are migraines worse for girls? Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9012.842

Hemolygic migraines, are they still called that? Hemolygic? Yes. She knew a lot. She made a little misstep with that science thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9024.628

What science thing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9025.49

Vassar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9025.951

Oh, sure. But we can forgive that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9028.477

But for the most part.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9029.318

They probably told her that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9031.002

I'm sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9031.383

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9032.084

I'm sure they did. That's on them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9034.049

Yeah. I blame them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9035.233

They were the first women's college to lie about being the first to offer science.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9042.318

That's a distinction.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9045.46

So that was her. And it was really just very. She's a blessing. She really is a blessing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

905.778

You and I are built for each other to be in a scene together. I'll make you look like tiny little girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9050.944

She is. You can believe in the word blessing without believing in God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9056.28

I know. I worry that people who truly believe in blessings coming down from God, that they might think it's a joke. It's not. And it's not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9068.43

No, I'm sincere about it. And I think they would be fine with it so long as they agreed it was a blessing. If I say the Big Mac's a blessing, although I think it is. Look at it, man. It arrived in the 50s and it's still here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9082.223

I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9082.863

It's a blessing. So if you're mad about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9085.966

Send us an email.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9087.327

Send Monica an email.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9088.929

All right. And I'm just going to end on reminding everyone that it was a dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9092.728

That's a big, big dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9094.089

Yeah. And that's that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9095.99

And it's a warm apple pie. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9105.416

Love you. Okay. Okay. Okay. My God. Good night. I love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

9124.963

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

919.435

This is a phenomenon. I've noticed it elsewhere, right? I remember the first time I met Andy Richter in real life. And I went, what? You're 6'3?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

931.439

How tall do you think Andy Richter is?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

933.46

He and I are the same height. Definitely 5'5. Right. For sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

937.981

Yeah. With heels. And that can happen. Yeah, Brad Garrett is a monster. So Ray Romano.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

943.587

But Ray was on Parenthood, so I'm hip to the fact that he's probably 6'1 or 2 or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

948.933

6'1. 6'1.2.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

958.226

You just added one. Did you feel self-conscious that it was only three? Now you just made it four real time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

975.755

I've been to one with you. I doubt you remember, but I've been to one with you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

980.698

We were at Adam Bennett's house for dinner one time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

985.863

With my ex-girlfriend, Brie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

990.644

Tell me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

991.945

Yeah, at his nice big mansion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Lisa Kudrow

995.865

Was he? I wasn't hip enough yet to have known who Jim Burroughs was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dan Rather, and I'm joined by the Duchess of Duluth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1018.8

This is while you're still in Washington.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1027.724

And they were casting locally. Whoever was managing that show had a lot on their plate. We have 13 shows and you got to find a ghost choir in every city. A children's ghost choir. Good luck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1087.489

And a little ahead of the curve for her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1107.24

When they divorced, did dad just keep going with the business and she just left the business?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1119.886

This is an incredible amount to be happening at once for dad. If he's losing this business he's had for a very long time, that's stable. And his wife he's had for a long time. And then now his daughter's moving down to Burbank.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

112.272

As I would want for her. Yeah. This was awesome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

115.933

Yeah, please enjoy Dove Cameron. What are bloomers, guys?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1163.274

Well, there's an interesting thing at play. And Kristen and I have this too. It could go wrong. It's gone well. But when you're both locked into somebody because you have a kid and you're locked into them professionally, I think that's an interesting dynamic to navigate because you're kind of like, I'm not sure how much of this I'm picking as much as now. I just am locked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1183.211

We have these two commitments together and that can be hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1208.148

13, 14.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1236.402

Did dad have some mental health stuff? Did he have depression?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1296.017

Well, if I was your mom, I was like, Oh, it can go this way. I'm not going to be around for this version.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1314.769

I have the same kind of mom. Isn't it a blessing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1322.017

I think it's all getting reframed. But whereas that stuff used to cause shame now, I think it's more a testament to bravery and resilience. Like all these stories for me, they're empowering. They're not shame inducing. They're like, oh, fuck, yeah, these humans live through this. That's rad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1355.566

I know. Who? Our neighbors?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1359.67

Who are also fucked up. They got some shit going on next door.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1365.336

You can't keep your darkness hidden indefinitely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1369.68

Yeah. So you could have that goal, but it's not even going to work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1382.834

It's relative to a fantasy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1394.767

I definitely border on overshare. Me too. I would love to just make that selection right out of the gates. That's totally great if that's not your jam. But there's no way I can talk about your job for two hours at dinner. I got to talk about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1422.551

How did you get out of bed today?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1430.457

So when you got down to Burbank, did you get a wave of, oh, it's a little less intense here and this is nice?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

144.598

Wait.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1447.496

We have a friend that graduated from there. Yeah, we're kind of familiar with the vibe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1451.459

He was also a show choir person. So was I. I know you're a national champion, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1458.124

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

146.699

Oh, late bloomer, early bloomer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1461.906

What makes it show choir? I'm a Philistine. I just know the word choir.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1474.113

So there's dancing and voguing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1498.462

I feel a little morally torn right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

151.301

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1533.73

Did you hang at that AMC?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1536.653

Yeah, it's a powerful AMC. There's like a couple hundred screens there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1548.324

I'm like, this is San Fernando. It's about as American. I always say to people who are not from here, if there is a Midwest of LA, it's Burbank.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

155.043

It's a New York Times puzzle, and it has 16 words, and you have to put those words into four groups so they're associated. It's increasing hardness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1558.174

It's a lot of trades people that live there that are crew members, they're lighters, they're gaffers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1574.942

Remember who you are. Okay, so you're going to Burbank High and then you're starting to audition.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1581.024

Then you get this pilot, bits and pieces. Okay, research. And you shoot bits and pieces. And then what happens during the filming of bits and pieces?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1629.954

Oh, no kidding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1634.578

Did you get to read for them?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

165.606

Okay, you would get the first four, you'd be like, oh, day. That's easy. But then it gets hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1656.077

Right. You're trying to be older. We already like the compliment. We're mature.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1659.4

You're not trying to get on a kid's show. You're trying to be in true grip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1696.796

I don't like how she makes me feel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

170.488

Whored.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1707.168

When you were doing that, did it come with some discomfort? Were you like, I hate who I am being right now? Or you were like, oh no, this is fun to be this too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1721.217

That's a hilarious. You know what I'm talking about?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1726.701

Godfather, Scarface, Schiller's List.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

173.449

What's happening with your teeth? I'm already jealous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1745.046

The pianist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

176.83

Yeah. That's cool. You're very cool. I've been circling. I want a gold tooth cap. I have a girlfriend who has a gold tooth cap and it is so cute. Can you connect me with her gold capist? Absolutely. Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1816.564

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Is it way more work if you're playing twins or no?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1847.905

So it was huge. Live and Many comes out and it gets 5.8 million viewers. And that's the most viewers Disney had gotten in two and a half years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1855.834

I didn't know any of this. Yeah, so it's like hugely successful. And you do four seasons? Yeah. What was it like to have overnight fandom from young people?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1913.246

And one great and one terrible. And I'd imagine I would feel guilty enjoying the great thing because this other thing happened. I just imagine tension between those two things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

1976.199

Yeah, I bet when you get there and you don't think about the fact that your dad has died for 11 hours and then you get off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2003.335

Were you having any guilt about being in Burbank?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2048.846

Well, the most heartbreaking part, it would seem to me, is that you at least had the fantasy at all times. This will get repaired one day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2056.609

I keep trying. But one day he's going to be feeling better and I can get it repaired. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2063.504

No. And then they go, oh, God, yeah, I'm not going to be able to repair that is really sad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

21.484

Um, this was a favorite.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

212.972

I don't desire to have my ass cheeks on your show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2196.451

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2297.469

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

232.507

And no one thought to tell me. No one thought to tell me. I've gotten brattier over the years, more protective of myself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2370.297

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

24.746

That was an incredible episode. One of these, I say they pop up like every 15th. where one so moving.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

240.43

It happens when I do stuff with Kristen. They'll blocked it where they want me on her left side. And we're like, no, we don't do that. I'm always on her right side. And then Monica and I do stuff, too. And it's like, I'm so sorry, but I got to be on her right side.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2421.533

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2461.926

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2500.425

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

258.537

Which side?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

261.579

Or we could just like prom. We would always do profile.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2613.564

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2721.596

,,,,,,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

276.246

You do have a very powerful mandible like Kristen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

279.508

Yeah, it's very powerful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2818.739

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

282.15

You haven't?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

286.493

Yeah, mandibles, it's essential for chewing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2886.094

It's going to be the exact thing that's in your mind.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2899.492

Well, you're the product in this domain and in a movie, the movie's the product.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

290.856

Make it pop.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2920.942

Is it weird? Like you won Best New Artist MTV Video Music Award in 2022 and you won New Artist of the Year American Music Awards in 2022. You've been singing for 10 years. Is that weird?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

2953.427

You made it just enough of your own to do it, but it wasn't your own.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

297.08

Bingo. I've been playing that out for years now. Almost cartoonish, the proportions of the eyes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3048.792

My sister knew all about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3050.753

She looks at my calendar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3052.534

And she goes, oh, you're interviewing Dove today? And I said, yeah. Are you hip to Dove? And she's like, well, yeah. I watch all the Descendants with the girls. And then her song Boyfriend's awesome. And she was telling me all about it. And I'm like, oh, this is interesting. This hit her radar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3080.429

Before you, this didn't exist. And after you, this exists.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3095.699

I can tell you what my fear would be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3098.44

My fear would be, oh, people are going to think this is opportunistic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

314.535

And Dove just ding, ding, ding. Last night, we were with Rob, who you just met, his little boy, Vinny. Is Vinny a little person, Rob? He's 4% size.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3166.372

Oh, it's queer baiting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3188.166

But not commit to telling the storyline.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3202.557

It wasn't a dog whistle for the queer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3211.244

I guess that's what I'm wondering. When does that paradigm start or it doesn't really need to be declared? Not that I care. I'm not like someone's like, why do you got to tell me? That's not what I'm saying. It's just like, when will it not even be interesting to anybody?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

323.443

He's really small. He's so tiny. And his eyeballs are the size of ping pong balls. And we were eating dinner with him last night, and I was like, this ratio of eyeballs to face size is the most appealing thing I've ever seen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3245.598

Purity tests.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3250.699

Well, that's the erroneous assumption is that there would be some kind of unified harmony among a group of people because they have a single thing in common. It's like, well, no, it's just like one element of who they are. They're from every socioeconomic bracket. They're from every ethnicity. They're from every type of trauma background.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3271.369

Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3307.869

Oh, yeah. Well, just six years prior to you being on that show, they're asking 17 year old Britney Spears if she's had a breast augmentation in the middle of a six year old. Or if she's still a virgin. Yeah, everyone's asking her. It's so crazy. You're still a virgin?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3333.815

Yeah. OK, so now you're releasing more signals. You did. I'm afraid to say it. Is it alchemical?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3341.338

That's a weird word for me. Is that a real word?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3343.919

Oh, I know alchemy is a word, but alchemical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3347.34

I believe you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3359.605

And it was volume one. There has to be a volume two.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3376.304

Do another album.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3378.606

No, some completely different name, Volume 1. And just your thing is you call everything Volume 1.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

338.074

If he could keep that running.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3385.574

And then maybe we'll get to a Volume 2.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3389.659

Oh, her thing is Volume 1. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

34.671

And so inspiring. Yes. To do this job to eternity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

347.661

And that kind of right sizes the ship because his son sexually verbally assaulted my 11 year old last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3490.854

It can be a burden.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3498.379

I got lucky and I don't know how to do this again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3524.653

We've got bigger fish to fry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3526.475

I was like, I will get to it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

355.884

I'm just trying to balance it in her defense. He's a baby Vinny and he's talking to Lincoln. He loves Lincoln, our daughter. Look at that little fuck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3562.401

Yeah, the Italian Stallion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3586.399

Right. That's why you're going to release a new album called Volume 1. And then you'll get depressed again. It's life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3602.205

But you're having tons of success with now your happy falling in love song.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3630.943

In going through all the dad stuff, I mean, here's what I would hope for you. Did you come to accept, oh no, he most definitely loved me like crazy. And he most definitely had a lot of conditions that had nothing to do with me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

369.651

He's talking to my 11-year-old, and he goes, I like your hair and your body, and I like your butt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3720.842

Of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3757.905

You're trying to control the environment they're in so the bad thing doesn't set off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

376.576

I like your hair. I like your body.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3764.329

Yeah. You become neurotic about your surroundings.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

380.38

Well, you don't say that, Vinny. Oh, you said that? He's three? He didn't know what he was saying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3822.934

What were you going to say?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3827.416

How is he not part of the pattern? Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3850.969

Why did you do this to me?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3864.317

It borders on maniacal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3867.799

Well, one thing I read that you said about him, which I thought was really neat, is there seems to be an embrace of a dual masculinity, femininity that maybe is Italian. Maybe it's just the group that you're surrounded by, but that they seem to have a great comfort in being both sides.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

389.197

He had already complimented her earrings, and now he was just moving on to anything he could think of. So hair, body, butt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

39.772

To sit down with a stranger and like have a very special, intimate exchange. Yeah, lucky as hell. It's so nice. Dove Cameron. By the way, when I came in after this and I'm talking to the girls brushing their teeth, they don't ever care who I, you know, sat with that day. And I said, oh, man, I had a great interview with this actor, Dove Cameron. And they flipped out. They couldn't believe it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

3983.016

Very few guys are secure enough to let you be a supernova and not be afraid they're going to lose you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4003.044

We love this kind of guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4007.786

He's okay. He's good. He's good. He's a good guy. He's a bikini.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4014.228

My best friend Aaron and I at times talk like mafioso. And we just thought, what if one of the family's last name was bikini? But they had to sell it. It's like, don't worry, he's with us. He's bikini. He's bikini. It's just funny you say the word bikini like it's tough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4029.153

This guy's fucking bikini.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4034.378

This place is full of bikinis. The whole block is fucking bikinis.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4040.944

The guy serving you a dish? Bikini. They're everywhere. Watch your mouth. So stupid. I want to make sure I'm plugging the right thing. Too much. Too much. Too much. Too much. You said it first. Great song. Watch the video. Great video.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4052.897

Tell me what's coming this year. Too Much is in charge right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4057.5

It's the belle of the ball.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4069.989

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4075.393

You'll do the album.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4078.514

Well, Dove slash Chloe. Your friends call you Chloe. Your work associates call you Dove. Dove was her dad's nickname for her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4106.025

This has been really one of my faves. This was so fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4109.627

Oh, I love if I get a cry-in in an episode. Me too, honestly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4119.914

Well, the father-daughter stuff's a real cheap shot. So pretty high odds of getting some tears out of me. But this was incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4126.26

Yeah, I really, really enjoyed this. You're wonderful. You deserve everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4129.923

And I'm going to get your friend's gold tooth person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4135.028

The listener viewer will see me at some point in the near future with a gold tooth and we will have you to thank.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4141.874

All right, we'll come back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4152.383

I sure hope there weren't any mistakes in that episode, but we'll find out when my mom, Mrs. Monica, comes in and tells us what was wrong. Hello. Happy fact check.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

416.893

Now, clearly you must be seeing the litany of ADHD messages on Instagram, like posts. Have you noticed this like tidal wave of, I don't know if it's my algorithm or everyone's.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4164.643

We recorded on Thursday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4166.844

Right. Yeah. Which normally is one second ago. Sure. Right. But I went to Disneyland.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4174.809

All day Friday. Went there Thursday night. Then flew crack ass to Austin on Saturday. Went to a sprint race, waved a checkered flag.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4186.596

Then went to the race on Sunday. Yes. Walked another 10 miles. Then Monday went to the track and rode all day. Then flew back last night. So I feel like we haven't worked in three weeks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4203.987

Do you feel rusty?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4228.885

Yeah, yeah, to relax.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4238.882

11.30. Oh, wow. Virtually a three-day weekend.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4250.545

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4261.308

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4267.25

Rusty, compressed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4282.605

Oh, wow. Did you discover that in your leisure time? Yeah. A new brand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

429.222

One thing that I saw was someone saying ADHD people always have like three drinks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4301.742

It does.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4323.077

Yeah, you kind of wanted more action.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4328.24

One day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4333.503

Oh, okay. Did you tell her you were going to?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4339.787

Do I need it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4341.948

It's a great serum. Yeah. Experts agree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4349.693

Oh, okay. Yeah, well, yours is browns. I think that's for people that are white probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4360.031

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4382.3

That's cool. As long as you say like, I got it, I got careless with a knife and stabbed myself. If there's some kind of cool reason. Cool twist on it. Yeah. Raccoon scratched you. Okay. Yeah. Dog bite. But yeah, I had something removed and I have a Band-Aid. I know. Or this is a wart removal. I don't think it's a wart. I think it would be a... Hypoplasia. Cancer. Hyperplasia.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4416.835

I can't... Perform with a Band-Aid on your face?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4424.882

And you don't want to ruin one of your trips because I was going to say you could have it done right before spring break.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4443.032

Yeah. Well, I don't think you would need to supplement your hair. You have plenty to pull it in front of your band-aid. Oh, like this? What was it the time you did pull your hair as much as you could? Because you had a chemical peel? In front? Remember? And we had a hot guest. Oh, it was Chris Pine, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4465.92

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4468.621

It was herbal. And there was just like an oval slit in the middle of your face. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

447.329

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4475.765

Yeah. Real protective. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4501.196

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4505.499

You haven't. How do you like, how's it going?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4513.585

Oh, it's a whole identity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4517.448

And what is that version of Monica like? Likes baseball games?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4525.916

Over it? Oh, she's over it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4533.522

By the way, the look you just gave, a woman gave me in a restaurant on Monday night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4539.485

I was walking from the bathroom and I like caught eyes with this woman and this man. And like, she was just like looking at me straight. And I was just kind of looking at her back straight. And then all of a sudden she went, like gave me a real weird eye roll. And I was like, that was weird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4559.496

Black t-shirt and black. Jeans. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4566.509

Oh, no, no, no, no. It's... It was great. It's Mediterranean. It's right under the Soho house. It was very.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4575.294

Do you know that place? It's got like three letters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4577.996

R-A-B or R-I-P. It's not it. I think there's an A in it. A-R-B or.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4599.049

Always be achieving. Always be aiding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4606.115

Yeah. Big, huge tree outside. Yeah. Gorgeous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

461.822

He did? Mm-hmm. We love Andy Fickman, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4611.019

Yes. And then a very funny thing happened, which was I hung out with my friends, Amy and Rory, the whole time. Rory and I went to the both races together. And what's so nice is he lends me one of his cars while I'm in town. Yeah. He did the last time. It's a very nice car. Yes. When we were there for Unboxed, he also lent it to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4629.55

And I find that to be one of the most touching things imaginable just because I'm super into cars. Yeah. And I do not like loaning my cars out. Yes. And it's a very, very nice car. Very nice. It's a Bentley Speed. It's crazy. Like it's a car I wouldn't personally. Loan out. Yeah, or by myself, you know, it's so nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4650.537

Yeah, it's a sexy green.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4654.199

And I was nervous. I did again. You did? Uh-huh. Anyways, I love it. I feel so fancy driving around Austin in it. And it really touches me. So we went out to eat on Saturday with his dad and his stepmom and Angie. And I was there for, oh, Lambert's, our spot. So I had put my credit card down. I gave it to him as soon as I got there and I was there before them. So the bill comes, I pay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

466.689

That's where they met.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4678.356

He's furious. He really wants to pay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4683.821

Exactly. I knew I was going to eat like an asshole and I did. And so what was really funny was he said, okay, tomorrow night I'm paying. And I said, okay, well, we'll see. And then he texts me in the day. If you don't let me pay, I'm not loaning you my car anymore.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

470.769

And they did you again together.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4701.46

And I said, really good leverage. I'm definitely going to let you pay because I want to borrow your car. And then he decided last minute, I'm going to stay home with the kids. Just Ange is coming. But you must let Ange buy. I was like, okay. Okay. So we have this dinner. It's spectacular. There's a woman with a huge group of people. They're all from Minnesota.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4723.659

The manager comes over and says, this woman has bought your dinner and sent over a dessert. Oh my gosh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

473.031

He's a sweet, sweet boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4733.064

So I was like, oh my God, Ange, I can't wait for you to go home and say you still, you didn't get to buy, even though I agreed. I didn't buy, but nor did they.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4743.912

Yes. Yes. Very nice woman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4747.555

Shout out. I gave her a big hug, big strong hug.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

475.373

I, too, was there. Not on that trip. But my best friend who's visiting right now brought his, at the time, 11-year-old son. And he was obsessed with that show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4754.32

Yes. Right. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4758.363

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4763.598

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4832.115

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4834.338

Two things are happening for me. And it's a challenge. One is it was pointed out to me by Tom Hanson, a very smart man who I think learned from a therapist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4844.681

Yeah, he's like, you have to, relationships have to be reciprocal. Yes. And that's true. I get that. And it's just a bummer that it has to be seen as reciprocal just financially.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

485.7

Yes. And I'm like, do you have a dream thing to witness? And he was like, Liv and Maddie. So I figured out how to get us in there so he could watch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4860.069

Because here's my dilemma. So I get it. Yeah. People want to, well, A, they want to treat you and they want to reciprocate, but- I have an ethical dilemma with it, which is like, I get paid too much money. Yeah. It seems crazy that of the two of us, you're working your ass off. That's not to say that that's Rory and Angie's situation. No, no, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4887.841

Just in general, if it's- Everyone's working hard. Everyone's working hard. And if it's a lot less of a ding to me, I just feel ethically like this feels crazy. The example I gave my mom, because my mom tries to pay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4900.635

I said, mom, just imagine we're walking through the desert and you were allotted a half gallon of water and I was allotted a swimming pool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4908.52

And we're traveling through the desert and you want to share your water with me. It's nice, but I just ethically. I know. I get this fucking, it would be so wrong of me to take your water.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4926.052

I know, but what blows is it's mostly in the mind of the person who's getting something for free, which I get. Yes, there are certain personality types that it does lead to resentment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

494.607

Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I have a little anecdotal history with you as well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4944.566

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4949.149

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4957.84

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4959.923

We're keeping score. It's tricky, though.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

4963.868

Well, like, I'll notice, like, okay, I'm about to make Rory mad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

502.594

You think so?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5025.404

Yeah. My rough struggle. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5032.326

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5037.148

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

504.176

And you can be honest, probably more of a fan of Kristen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5041.789

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5145.026

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

525.712

That's our favorite thing we've ever been a part of. Because it was just our movie that we paid for. We made it because we wanted to make it. And it's all my cars. Yeah, it's very special. We just showed it to our daughters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

536.756

10 and 11. Perfect. Let's talk about Washington.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

540.377

Because I have spent almost a decade of my life up there. Why? My ex-girlfriend of nine years, Bree, was from Marysville, Everett, lived on the Tulalip Reservation on the Puget Sound.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5482.853

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

553.604

Yeah, in your Bainbridge, which is an island.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

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Dove Cameron

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Dove Cameron

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

572.215

You're right. It is a very specific area. I took to it immediately because her friends were all also alcoholics, which I loved.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5771.618

Right. I remember that. Yes. Because it kind of caressed your back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5780.922

Oh, OK. So that was your big update.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5785.603

The clipboards. Yeah, I like it. It was a good one. But you told me you had an update. I just want to make sure that I do have another update. You have another.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5794.225

Let me see if I wrote anything down in my fact check category. Oh, you know, I've actually formed a I encourage you to do this. I made a notes folder called Bucket List. I've never actually had a bucket list. Have you ever actually written down a bucket list?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

581.24

And masculine. They won't be driving a truck and maybe they work for the forestry service, but they're also liberal. Super liberal. Yeah. And I was like, oh, this is refreshing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5810.612

But I thought it was a good idea. So I've done that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5813.633

Isle of Man. That's a motorcycle race on the Isle of Man. It's crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5820.097

Yeah, every year someone dies. I got to go to that. That Iowa bicycle ride that you cross Iowa.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5837.705

It has a crazy name, but I would like to ride the course and then spectate for the madness. Okay. The bicycle ride across Iowa.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5847.088

That sounds so fun. Great. And then the great loop on a boat, which I've talked about before. Wow. Of course. 6,000 mile.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5857.451

Transportation oriented. King of conveyance. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5862.873

The king in conveyance. Oh, no, I haven't written anything down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5877.237

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5884.58

Yeah. I think Kristen went to like a Mahjong learning day at a friend's house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5889.802

And there's different. countries of origin versions of Mahjong. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5899.452

OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5900.833

All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

591.55

Mondale Ferrara bumper sticker from the 80s on their truck still. But did you go crabbing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5920.619

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5923.323

Is it more complicated than spades?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5928.849

It's so complicated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5932.512

I think you should learn. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5939.738

A lot of pageantry?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5973.897

Yeah. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5979.619

Tiles. Tiles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5982.56

Yeah, real nice set.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5986.023

Oh, playful?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

5996.532

Oh, fun. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6006.559

So that was hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6010.421

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6016.185

This is like the girls in spades. They'll be unstoppable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6022.39

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6043.64

But who hosted the learning group?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6060.769

Oh, an accelerated group?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6064.871

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6076.736

Okay. You're committed to getting really good at it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6080.018

Oh, wow. I guess I should learn. I'm in the process of learning bridge, which our lessons are like every two months and we all forget.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6089.465

This nice gentleman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6091.967

Yeah. He's a professional bridge player and teacher. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6096.51

Yeah. But we forget because we've only done two or three lessons in over six months.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6104.028

Yeah, you got to hit it much harder than that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6107.81

Oh, wonderful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6115.435

What a lovely episode.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6118.897

I love her. I love him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6125.692

Seth's daughter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6129.454

Seth Green's beautiful. Beautiful doesn't even describe it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6134.678

She's a fairy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6137.159

She's like Tinkerbell. Yeah. But with red hair. I don't know what color hair Tinkerbell had. Probably blonde. Probably, yeah. They like to put those sprites in those fairies, make them blonde.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6147.766

Perpetuate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6150.608

They make wishes and dreams come true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6156.468

Bloomers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6163.131

It is, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6183.581

Now, is it just a skirt or there's pants in it? There's legs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6189.323

There's legs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6193.945

OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6214.767

That's cool. My thing would be back then you didn't have washing machines. You're still hand washing everything. The notion of splitting up the dress into two pieces sounds smart because what if the top got dirty but not the bottom or vice versa?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6229.195

You sat in a little something. You could just wash the bottom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6233.237

But the top remained clean. True. It seems like it would cut laundry down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6242.352

Lie, I think, which is also what you can decompose a body with. You put a body in a barrel. Don't teach people how to do that. And then you open it up in a couple hours and it's just jello.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6265.611

You saw.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6267.793

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6275.913

It doesn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6304.466

Would you eat it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6306.067

Having seen a photo?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6311.172

Not this seafood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6317.838

Teeming with...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6323.773

Oh, my God. You could be eating an animal that's 130 years old. Oh, that feels unethical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6338.349

It looks like a penis. A white elephant penis.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6342.57

I don't understand. For the listener, the clam shell only covers about 33% of this thing's body. I don't even understand. Ew. Oh, my God. That's so phallic. And the clam looks, the shell looks like balls in this photo. This looks like a cowboy. It's very penis-y. Oh, my God. Oh, boy. I can't imagine eating this. It's so good for everyone who eats it. And then what's inside a big ball?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

636.874

What age did you start drinking coffee? Because I'll say this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6379.962

Oh. Revealing all that tender, delicious gooey duck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6385.384

And it's called a gooey duck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6391.566

Oh, man. God bless.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6394.248

What do you put on that thing? Fucking wasabi or something to kill the.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6404.373

Slice it into tiny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6414.74

Anyone putting it on a hot dog bun, eating it like a tube steak.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

642.216

After spending time there, one knock I have on the area is you get exhausted there. It's drizzly and dark and damp. Yes. I was like, oh, duh, the coffee revolution started here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6430.913

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6450.255

Well, what's better, to eat an animal that had a 150-year life or to eat one that has only got a year and then you rob half of it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6460.583

Probably the former. We'd agree if someone was eating humans.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6467.549

It'd be a lot better if they ate our 100-year-olds than our children.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6488.13

Robbing it of 100. 100 years. 120 years. Oh, boy. Well, we don't have to deal with this because we're not going to eat any geoduck. Or people. Anytime soon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6526.201

Do we want to discuss if I'm queerbait or not?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6534.577

It's not like... That was a derogatory term in elementary school.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6539.398

Queer bait.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6540.799

Queer bait. It's so weird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6543.739

Because it's not even... You're just saying you're attractive to queers?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6568.916

How is a company do you like?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6571.879

Combat that. Include everyone and also go, we're not a strictly gay. Exactly. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6602.248

Yeah. What was going on? AIDS.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6618.504

There's a very famous clip of Walker, Texas Ranger, the Chuck Norris show. You didn't see it, but you know exactly what it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6628.847

And I want to say it's Haley Jo Osment is the guest star. He's a little kid.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6635.189

And it's this clip that goes around my Instagram all the time. And it's Walker. And he's with the little Haley Jo Osment. They're talking to other men. And Haley goes, yeah. And then Walker and I really had a long talk. And that's when I told him I have AIDS. It's like, how dare they? How dare they make this scene? It's like four cowboys. Like, I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6663.997

Oh, do we have it? Oh, my God, Rob. You're incredible. We're coming. We're coming to clip show and I like it. Are we going to have volume is the question.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6675.479

Oh, maybe I misremembered who he's talking to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6700.783

Walker told me I have AIDS. Oh my God. How on earth did that fall under Walker's purview?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6710.35

I'll say they were like talking about Cherokee and the boys picked up some other language. And then Walker told me I have AIDS. What if he just guessed? They're not based on any lab results.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6722.038

Little man, I think you have AIDS just judging from the way you walk and

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6734.547

Yeah. I think I'm imagining Gen Z and stuff. Like when I was in 11th grade or 10th grade, turned 16, magic came out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6745.536

As having AIDS. Yes. Or HIV.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6748.478

And a book. Yeah. And it was, oh, my God, he's going to die. And I know everyone's going to die. That gets it. Yeah. So different.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6761.368

My kids don't ever bring. I doubt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6767.593

It was. Yeah. Even though you didn't do any of the things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

677.427

Capitol Hill, so fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6776.877

Yeah. I remember on the other end reading a article that said of the population in New York that had HIV.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6791.492

92% were either gay men or intravenous drug users. Right. So I use that to regulate my fear of it because I was out on the scene.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6802.364

No, I was never an intravenous drug user.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6805.307

I never shot any heroin, no. Thank God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6810.692

I might not have come back from that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6813.256

No, no intravenous drug use for me. Thank God. Lots of sharing dollar bills with blood on them. Hepatitis was in the cards for me, but not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6824.491

I guess HIV.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6826.653

I guess it's really unstable, though. It dies when it hits the air pretty easy, like way easier than we were led to believe at the beginning. Yeah. But yeah, because I would have sex with someone, not wear rubber. Yeah. And I'd be convinced I had HIV for two weeks. Sure. And then I'd go get tested and I didn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6844.807

And at some point I had to get my hands around this fear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6848.69

And I based it a lot on that article.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6861.275

At the very beginning, they didn't want kids in pools. I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6872.869

Yeah, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6890.038

And he saw it was a side effect of HIV.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6903.132

This was an ER episode. OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6925.033

Yes, he does.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6938.627

I've noticed you have hiccups.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

694.679

I don't think you could have made it to school if you weren't because it's just too dark and drizzly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6950.535

He's probably scared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6974.346

Monitor those hiccups.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6979.408

Well, I. We have talked about that I flirt with men and women.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6985.171

That's right. But I don't think I'm queerbaiting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6992.932

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

6997.253

Stop flirting with me unless you want to seal the deal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

7000.693

Yeah. And I don't want to seal the deal. I just want to flirt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

7011.18

I don't know. I don't think so. Also, it does make me think of a Sedaris chapter we were listening to. This is now the funnest thing I think I told you. We now listen to Sedaris at night in bed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

7024.628

And he's talking about every doctor he knows has pulled things out of people's rectum.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

7031.171

As we've learned from the nurses we've interviewed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

7033.993

And he says... Most people claim it's from falling down on something. Now, I'm clumsy and I've fallen a bunch of times and I've never stood up and had a candle in my ass. In fact, I'd argue that I could probably fall down off every flight of stairs in the World Trade Center holding three candles and a baseball bat. And I'm pretty sure at the bottom I wouldn't have any of those items up my ass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

7061.614

He words it so much better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

7064.075

Oh, is he funny?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

7069.098

Well, big shout out, love shout out to Dove. Yeah. That was an awesome episode. It really was. I liked it so much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

7079.884

Pass it along. Forward it. Forward it. This would be a fun one to watch on YouTube if you want to see me cry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

7086.551

Yeah. That's your kink. You're like Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

7090.675

You like a nice cry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

7108.171

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

711.686

That's me in Michigan now. I'm like, oh, my God, it's too cold for humans to live here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

716.008

Yeah. I got a second dig about Seattle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

720.023

It's raining 200 days a year and no one can drive in the rain. Seattle people are going 30 miles an hour on the highway when there's a little drizzle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

729.931

Yeah, good point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

754.584

OK, so what did mom and dad do on this island for a living?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

765.529

The country India.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

791.162

And were you going with them on these trips?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

800.106

How much older is she than you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

802.207

Oh, that's a hefty. That's Monica and her brothers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

809.132

You wouldn't go for six months, though, would you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

81.537

Oh, really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

817.058

And did you love it? Did you hate it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

83.579

And the mom. Yeah. And Calvin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

839.444

It's not a rad car.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

841.085

Like me and my dad think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

852.887

So you did homeschool the whole time you were on that island?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

86.461

Calvin loves Dove. Yeah. Well, she's an Emmy award-winning actor and singer. Descendants. Liv and Maddie. Shameless. Cloud Nine. Her album, Alchemical. Alchemical? Which we learn about. I learned how to pronounce it and I've already forgotten it. Volume one is already out and she has a new single out right now, Too Much. It's a great song and it's really blowing up. Ooh, lovely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

880.862

Did you come on like a freight train?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

883.044

Yeah, I can smell it. I like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

887.128

No, I love it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

902.579

Your level of intimacy is very uncomfortable for me at age. Yeah. Which I was similar to, by the way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

909.865

Because you're a stepdad hitting your mom. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

927.237

Did you love being told you were old for your age? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

937.846

You wanted to have been going through something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

941.189

I understand. What age did they get divorced? 13 or 14. OK, so does it correspond with you moving to Burbank? Kind of. Well, we got to add before you move to Burbank, you start acting at eight. You're doing local theater in Bainbridge and you're already on that trajectory before we go to Burbank.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

984.6

He had a Halloween band?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Dove Cameron

991.465

He can do everything. It's so hard to like him, but I can't resist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

1014.785

Yeah. I was set on this trajectory. There's some parts of me I'm going to have to accept. I'm not going to erase the hard drive from the arousal format.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

1072.492

What's interesting is I think you and I went almost in opposite directions based on similar things, which is kind of fascinating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

108.213

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

111.816

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

1124.659

Well, you embody masculinity in our simplest definition or stereotype. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

1289.1

A thousand percent, Tyler, because owning a studio is not very relatable. But the other stuff is you read The Body Keeps the Score or any of these books. It's like 30 percent. I mean, it's huge numbers of us who have gone through this stuff. And you would think you're the only one, at least when we grew up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

137.282

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

1411.522

Can I ask really quick, how do you feel about men in general? I'm kind of relieved to hear you were on a dude's trip in Jackson. I'm not expecting you to be excited to become friends with men. Really? Why? Well, given the dad and that seems very scary and that perhaps men in general. No, no. I've got great guy friends, great female friends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

1467.173

Yeah. So I think that's the gift that I've come to realize I'm grateful for, which is someone sits down in here and I know within 30 seconds if they've had our childhood. Exactly right. I see how they look at the doors in the room. I see how they look over at Rob and I just go, oh, we're on the same team here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

1512.466

And not be fearful. Do you have a hard time sleeping? No, I sleep well. And you always have. Or is that post trip to this great place?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

1538.052

You have to police yourself, I imagine, with isolation. Of course, especially having a 10 year old now. It's like, hey, dad, hello. Soccer practice over here. Real life's happening over here. OK, so he's 10. Yeah, I have 10 and 11. It's so fucking fun. Yeah, he's so good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

155.787

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

1553.772

Okay, so at a certain point, again, it'd be shocking to people, I think, to learn that someone as smart as you, you didn't graduate high school.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

1572.068

Yeah, who wanted to go to school. And then in your early 20s, you're watching Oprah. Yeah, picture that, right? Yeah. You're watching Oprah. You learn about journaling as a way to process your thoughts and you really decide to take that up.

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When you were reading the one from 20 years ago, what were you... wrestling with that you now realize your past. Does it also give you a sense of humor about all the stuff you obsess about?

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I didn't. What was your rationale? You're clearly very bright. It's not working in school. It's not working at home. What were you thinking you were destined to do? Were you so confused?

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Tyler Perry

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Great sweater. You got a new sweater with two different colors, blue, very light on the sleeves. Thank you. Starry night in the middle.

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And you went in this incredible journey. So you moved to Atlanta in 1990? Yeah, early 90s. And I think we got to do one second on, it seems obvious to me, but why Atlanta from New Orleans?

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So I would go down to Atlanta and I'd be like, this is a completely different version than I've ever seen. There's black folks in Escalades and they have nice houses. They're at the nice restaurant. This was unimaginable in Detroit in the 90s. Yeah.

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Yeah. Thirty. OK. Don't give me the other five.

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I bet when you were in and out of the bathroom, you didn't count. I wouldn't count, man. Yeah, that's right. You undertake from that moment something that is, I think, very rare in our business, which is you then take the next six years, I guess, to refine, to rewrite, to rework, to restage. No. Okay. Well, no wonder it was impossible to believe. I see you doing your research. That's good.

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That's good.

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Well, I'm dead with you. A, I'm thinking resentment is drinking poison, hoping the other person dies. My own father, my resentments. I'm thinking of you being Christian, how it's probably compounded that you weren't able to achieve forgiveness in the context you were in. Yeah.

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But I hear what you're saying. Yeah, I'm trying to find this crossover because I don't trust people. What's someone going to do? And then I have tactics. So if you're a woman and you're in love with me, I feel safe because you're probably not going to hurt me if you love me. If you're a man and I think I can dominate you, you're going to know not to try to hurt me.

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If I can make everyone in this room laugh, I'm totally safe because people aren't swinging when they're laughing. So I have these techniques. And I guess I would have just imagined that. If you're the caretaker and you're benevolent, you would expect the reciprocity would be kindness. That's exactly right.

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You're not an AA, but you'd be great in AA. Is that right? Expectations are resentments under construction.

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Yeah. Yeah, that's kind of like that classic codependent paradigm, too, right? And I imagine you probably collected folks that needed a lot of help, not intentionally. I absolutely didn't think it was intentional. But as I look at my life now, it's a suspicious amount.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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It's frustrating and confusing when it actually leads to their resentment. And understandably, once you unplug from the whole system, yeah, they feel shittier. And they weirdly resent you because you're helping. You're sort of a reminder that they need help. And that's a very tricky dynamic to navigate.

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Right.

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Yeah. Monica, cut this out because I say it too often. But my mother said the best thing to me ever. Why do you want to cut it out? Because I say it too much. It sounds redundant. But we can leave it if you want. Yeah, because if you say it a lot, then somebody may hear it for the first time. OK, you can be the judge of it. So I call my mom. I'm complaining about someone else asking me for money.

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And she's very generous and lets me go on and on, comforts me. And then she says... you know, Dax in life, you can either be the person calling for help or you can be the person that gets called for help. Who do you want to be? And I was like, Oh, definitely the person that gets called for help.

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That's true. That's true. But just given those options, it was very helpful for me to reframe my frustration with it, which is like, Well, I could be in the other side of this equation.

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Yeah. Okay, so you forgive your father. That's fascinating. People should know, not to make you go through it again, but you were born a junior and at 16, you changed your name. So just to accentuate the stakes that were on this relationship, it was very strained. From childhood, I knew this man was not my father. And it turned out to not be your father, which is crazy.

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Tyler Perry

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Did you talk to Carrie about this?

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She was on about her book and that estrangement from the family and not being able to put your finger on it. And that fucking huge looming.

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So you find some forgiveness for him. Yeah. Are you cool now? Oh, you cold?

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Yeah. All right. Turn it off.

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No.

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Yeah. That could have meant so many things. Cool. No, no, no. Sorry, because it blows right here.

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But then conversely, we had Jeff Bridges on and he hated how hot it was. So it's like, I don't know, what are you going to fucking pick? You can't trust anyone in that seat. That's right. So lo and behold, these plays become hugely successful. The amount of them you were doing is staggering. You're doing 300 a year. Sometimes 360, 370 a year. And not in one theater. So you're traveling.

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Tyler Perry

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Oh, that's a cream top. It's very famous coffee. Cream top? No, I'm not a coffee person. You're not a coffee person.

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Tyler Perry

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It's all over the country.

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OK, so there's a doc about that. Oh, wow.

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Oh, I'm definitely watching that. I'm ashamed that I don't know that yet. I spent all this time reading about you. It's hurtful.

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The light and airy fun. I don't want to embarrass you, but there's a point where at least minimally Forbes goes, this show has generated $100 million. It's generated $20 million in merch. At that age, you must be more successful than you had ever even dreamt of. Yeah, but it wasn't enough. I was scared. Okay, that's my question.

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Tyler Perry

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I don't like some of the things I'm learning about you right away. Tell me. You're early. Yeah. And you don't like coffee. I love your chair though, man. This is my size chair. Yeah. Yeah.

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Were there not mentors available or you weren't good at availing yourself to mentorship? There weren't any available. I'm going to grant you that.

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Tyler Perry

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Okay, so I wouldn't trust it either, but mine would be, you want something if you're just going to be nice to me. There's no way I would trust a mentor. They must have an ulterior motive. That's my hang up with mentorship. Do you still feel that way? No, it's lessened. I mean, we're talking about stuff that's like 30 years old and 10 years old and eight years old, but no, it's lessened.

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And I can ask people now. Lessened, but it's still there. Yeah. But yeah, that's how deep that fear is, I guess. Here's this man who's got status and wealth and he likes me for some reason. And my next thing is to have a dream where he wants to get sexual. That's the sad part of where we come from.

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You really should consider ordering one of these online because I didn't realize I was ordering like a big and tall version because I'm a big guy and you can get your kids beside you. Yeah. Yeah. My feet barely touch the ground if they do. Where did this come from? Online. Lazyboy.com. Lazyboy.com. Yeah. You got to get someone on that. Do you own any Lazy Boys? I don't. You don't.

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Well, and let's add now on the other side of it, which this state of mind was truly unimaginable for me growing up poor, which is like, well, the only joy I'm actually getting out of this thing that I thought was going to be so spectacular is giving people shit. I don't mean like family members. I mean, tipping an obnoxious amount every time I eat a cheap meal. That's more fun than anything.

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That server doesn't need to worry that I'm a creep that wants to do something.

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Tyler Perry

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Yeah. Okay. So then going into movies. There's a point where the show's incredible. It's generating a ton of money. You're working too hard, which is your dream 24-7. No time to think about anything. Why get out of that?

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Okay. Weirdly, we've already laid the groundwork for this. And I was talking about it in the trauma aspect. So I wanted to hear from you how you process that huge dissonance between what it's doing commercially and what it's doing critically and

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And so my own pet peeve about this is I think it's people removed from that situation, telling the people in the situation how they're supposed to process it and enjoy it and like it. There's something very condescending about that specific type of criticism.

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Yeah, but you know, I think there's something a little deeper going on with your work particularly. So yes, two people could watch The Graduate and they're going to have different opinions. But I'm going to argue, and this is something that's very burbling up all around us and no one really wants to talk about it, which is there is an elitism. Yeah, for sure.

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Because your style aesthetic won't permit you to, or you're afraid of comfort?

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And it's condescending and it's judgmental and people feel it and they go out and vote in response to that. And I think this particular thing reeks... of elitism. It reeks of we know better. You should be doing this. You should be showing what should be not what you experience and recognize. There's something about it that feels very removed and judgmental.

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It doesn't feel like it's coming from the inside and being judgmental. I would agree. This happened to Sandler, too. Critics fucking hated him. Every movie is an enormous. A third of the country loves the movie.

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Tyler Perry

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Now, I have different opinions than other people, and I might not like stuff or like stuff, but I like to think I don't get onto a soapbox of it's lowbrow or it's cheap or it's bad or mine's better or superior. It's just, all right, that audience likes this. This audience gets that audiences get what they want. without the deep judgment of it all.

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Tyler Perry

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A little bit of both. Don't want to be too comfortable. Can't get too comfortable. Did you like miniature things when you were a kid? This is a weird first question, but... I can elaborate. Please. Like you would go to, where would I see miniature stuff?

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Still.

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Yeah.

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Okay. Your string of movies that are gigantic hits. I'm going to add just for fun. Do you know who Joy Bryan is? Yes. Okay. She and I were married on a TV show together for six years. But when we saw each other every day at work, I would say, hello. And she'd go, Larch. Who's talking about Larch? Oh my God. And it was our favorite. Our salutation for six years was, hello.

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Tyler Perry

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What you talking about Larch? Nobody's talking about Larch. Yeah.

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Yeah. Culturally, a world all her own. I love it. So once you get into TV, I do have one logistical question. When you do House of Pain, first season, I'm presuming you just funded 10. You went out and made 10 episodes?

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Tyler Perry

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No, I would never be in there. I like the idea of feeling like a giant. Okay.

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Tyler Perry

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So just explain the affiliate for people. So you've got in your town, Atlanta, you got your own news station. That's its own affiliate of NBC. But there's hours of the day where they don't have programming.

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Tyler Perry

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What are you talking about? Yeah, you keep timesing this by 10 and you shouldn't. You make one pilot, not 10. And then you get nine episodes with a back order.

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Tyler Perry

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Right.

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Tyler Perry

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So bad, but I'll sit here. What's your heat level right now?

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Tyler Perry

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You know what a solution would be is to actually use the thermostat on it and just not make it frigid.

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Tyler Perry

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Let's travel to Europe right now and enjoy some Celsius. Yeah. Okay. Because what I'm so confused about is when I go to the Wikipedia page for House of Pain, it says like 336 episodes, which is impossible. Yeah. I think we're at 400 something now. Okay. And I go, no, there's no show has 400 episodes. And then I'm looking at the breakdown of seasons. And yeah, it says season one is 10.

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Tyler Perry

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And then it says season two, a hundred. Yeah. How does that work?

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Tyler Perry

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Well, not to jump directly into trauma, but I feel like both of us probably desired to be 80 feet tall as kids.

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Tyler Perry

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Oh, wow. Okay. So you go on this impossible run. You have so many TV shows. You have so many movies. You open up the studio. You become friends with the Queen Bee. You then have shows. I had one question about, I've met the Queen Bee a few times and boy, does she deliver. Yeah. Yeah. She's amazing.

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Tyler Perry

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Yeah, I count her as a friend, too. But, Oprah, I had one little question on that. So you end up the haves and the have nots. You do eight seasons on own and it's huge for them. It's a great success. Is it tricky at all to be friends with the owner of the network when you're making the stuff? Because those are kind of inherently often at odds, those two roles.

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Tyler Perry

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You had to keep that as a priority.

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Tyler Perry

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OK, let's talk about the six triple eight.

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Tyler Perry

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In Truesdale. For people who don't know, it's like one of the fanciest neighborhoods in all of L.A.

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Tyler Perry

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Yeah. But the notion of being like the Hulk and you can defend yourself and no one can hurt you, that didn't enter the fray.

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Tyler Perry

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Yes. That his daughter made.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

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The lead of your movie, which I watched last night, is the woman you interviewed. Yeah. The first one? Yeah.

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Tyler Perry

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Yeah. How do you anchor this huge story in this very intimate, personal one? And in the movie, she's from Philadelphia. She's kind of in love with this boy. He's in love with her. It's unrequited until he's about to leave. And then he's dead.

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Tyler Perry

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And there's so much stuff that immediately burbles up without you having to really shine a light on it. Even her story. She's very smart. She's very capable. And she doesn't want to go clean and cook for men. But going to school, which would be a very natural next step for her, is expensive off the table. Yeah. What options are there left? So that right there is kind of telling.

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Tyler Perry

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That's where we were at. But I think even crazier to think about was like all these women from the north are coming down and they're like, what the fuck is going on? You could time travel still in 1944. You could teleport to a much crazier place. But also women of that day were very aware of racism, no matter where they were. Sure. Well, she was already experiencing it in Philadelphia. Right.

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Tyler Perry

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But just that level could happen on a train ride is also really stark. Time travel across the Mason-Dixon and you had a whole new world. Right. Okay. So then we meet Kerry Washington and she is the leader of this group of women. She's phenomenal as always. Your first time working with her? Second. Okay. What do we think of her? I'm in love with her. I think she's so fantastic.

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Tyler Perry

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She's 26?

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Tyler Perry

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And the transpo dude found it. Yeah. Wow. But then you see what she's up against. It's all these half steps. We had Malcolm Gladwell on talking recently about what do you actually need for representation in something? And you find that like one woman on a board does nothing. She's a token and no one's going to listen to her. Two is like... She's got a friend. That's not going to do much.

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Tyler Perry

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And then it's three. There's this like magic number of three where now you get three women on a board of nine and now they can be themselves and they can really enact some change. And I was just thinking about Carrie's role is like she's the leader of this one black battalion and she's the only one there. And when she's meeting with these generals and stuff, they're placating her.

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Tyler Perry

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They're just getting through it. They got to do this thing. And you realize like, oh, my God, to be in that situation, actually get anything done seems nearly impossible.

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Tyler Perry

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Exactly right.

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Tyler Perry

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Well, and also you do a good job at pointing out there's a mom. I'm sure this part might be artistic, but a woman waits at the gates of the White House basically to talk to Eleanor Roosevelt to say, like, I don't know if my son's dead or not. Yeah. I haven't heard from my son in a year. Yes, morale.

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Tyler Perry

3960.871

But I think more about all these people that were cut off, just assuming the worst for months and months and months at a time. And you can't call anyone to get an answer. Are they still alive? That must have been the most agonizing for those parents. Of course. Can you imagine? No, if I wave goodbye to my daughter and I don't know for a year whether she lived or not. Yeah, awful.

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Tyler Perry

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So no one wants to deal with the situation. The army doesn't. They're like supplies. That's all we got to worry about. We can't be worrying about mail. And so they throw them a bone and they intentionally give them six months to sort all this out. Yeah. Thinking, well, that's impossible. They're going to fail.

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Tyler Perry

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Exactly. And these gals, God bless them, they got the job done in 90 days. Wow. It's kind of impossible. Pretty amazing. It's a great story. Thank you. I'm excited about it. Yeah, yeah. Everyone's really, really good in it. Let me have you rephrase these gals. These women? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. These women got it done? Yeah, yeah. So these women, they got it done in 90 days. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

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That's incredible. Help me out. Is gals offensive?

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Tyler Perry

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Oh, good, good, good heads up. I didn't know gals.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So a lot of it I could sense you were shooting. Well, I know you have a White House. Yeah. So we're shooting at his White House. So to be at your studio, I was curious of the plays, the writing, the films, the TV show. Where does the studio rank in that as far as the amount of pride it gives you when you try to integrate the fact that you own a studio?

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Tyler Perry

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Yeah. Takes a lot to get me there. So I was enormous for my size as a kid. And in all the class photos, it looks like I flunked a few grades. Because you're so big. Yeah, it looks like he's in the wrong class.

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Tyler Perry

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I still want to be here more than any other place.

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Tyler Perry

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I just feel like it's so tangible versus what we do, which is like, I write, then I make it, it gets seen, then it's kind of gone, maybe it gets seen again. To have something that tangible, I feel like it would force me to experience what's happened. I feel like this visceral, real, tangible 3D space might force me to go, no, no, for real, you built this shit.

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Tyler Perry

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This wasn't here, then you came along, now it's here.

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Tyler Perry

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What about Black Panther being shot there? That was pretty cool. I feel like that's a real moment where you're like, oh, damn, this gamble also worked out. One of the first things with Chadwick. Oh, really? And would you pop in at all?

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Tyler Perry

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Much different owner walking in.

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Tyler Perry

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Well, it's staggering. I guess my only thought is how do you figure out how to enjoy it all? I think that's the last kind of hill to climb, isn't it? How do you really integrate it? How do you enjoy it? How do you accept it? How do you believe in it? How do you not fear?

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Tyler Perry

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Yeah, New Orleans. Yeah. So what were the virtues that were prized at that time? Obviously not those things. No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

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So it's like there's a whole nother challenge to deal with. Yeah. Oh, I have one last question about this. Could you ever mentally be at a place where you go? I did it. It really happened without feeling like you have to keep pursuing it. I'm there now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

43.124

Pure white. Wow. Like the driven snow. Our guest today is Tyler Perry, and I just got to say right out of the gates, this is a very mind-blowing experience. I don't know what I thought about Tyler Perry. I mean, as a person, other than I had seen this incredible 60-minute segment on him one time, and I knew he had had a really incredible story that he overcame, so I knew...

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Tyler Perry

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Yeah. And you got a little boy. So that really takes care of a lot of it. Yeah. All right. Well, I hope everyone checks out the six triple eight. It's in theaters on December 6th and it's on Netflix December 20th. I think this is going to be enormous. Are you still surprised when you have hits? I'm thankful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4331.79

Well, Tyler, this has been so fun. I don't think I ever thought we would meet. Of course, like everyone else in America is very aware of you. I watched the 60 Minutes profile. I was very charmed and thought you were wonderful. And you're going to watch Maxine's Baby. And I'm definitely going to watch Maxine's Baby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4364.973

Well, wonderful meeting you. I hope everyone checks out the film and I hope we get to do it again or maybe just bump into each other. Not working. That would be fun, too. Yeah, a lot of fun. A lot of fun. I love it. All right. Take care. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4519.424

Oh, thank you. It's your birthday today. It's a birthday miracle today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4529.168

I'm in Mexico City, and I just want to start by saying, what a place. Everyone should come. It's incredible. This is a very, very special place. I've never been. So, yes, we were having the very best trip, and I'll tell you some of the details. But then Lincoln, three or four days ago... She started throwing up and it was really rough. And she got really kind of scary sick.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4555.343

I was like, do we need what? You know, you're trying to figure out, like, when did you go to the hospital? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4562.869

Yeah. So that was really rough. And that was going on. She had been completely lifeless and zero energy for like 48 hours. And then New Year's Eve was fine. And then New Year's morning at around nine in the morning, I was like, oh, I got something sneaky going on, but I didn't, I wasn't panicked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4585.57

And then I, and I'm going to spare you the details, but then I went to the bathroom and then I had, I mean, really just the most violent throwing up I've ever had. Aw. And that went on for eight hours. And I was certain I gave myself a hernia. But the throwing up and the other stuff I won't mention duty stuff was truly nothing compared to the laying in bed, shivering like crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4615.794

All of my muscles cramped. I really, I mean, kicking opiates, motorcycle accidents, none. This was the single worst I've ever felt in my whole life for eight hours. I was like, and I had it in my head like, oh my God, if I, if this is for 48 hour or Lincoln at that point was on 50, I was like, I can't. I don't think I could make it. Like, why isn't my body just stop letting me experience this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4640.774

Cause it's way too much. Yeah. And it was, it was just torture. And then Kristen brought me a Zofran and a, and then a leave about eight hours into it. I took that. I was able to sleep. I slept for four hours. And then I woke up last night around, I don't know, 8 PM. And I was like, I was okay. It kind of passed. Wow. And then Linky was starting to come out of it, too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4665.975

So everyone else did fun stuff. And she and I just hung out, went to the hot tub to soak our achy bodies. That was fine. We did about 10 minutes. That was our big adventure. And then we laid in bed and watched Little Women, the Greta Gerwig one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4681.428

OK, this trip for me has been a total revelation about Greta Gerwig. I knew Barbie, but I hadn't seen Lady Bird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4694.155

What a movie. Do you know, I didn't see it because I thought it was a period piece like the cover and the title. I, for some reason, thought it was a period piece, not a high school coming of age movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4707.125

But now I just love Greta. I would watch, I don't know, name your worst. I'd watch a horror film that she made at this point. So now I became obsessed with Greta Gerwig. And then last time I was like, let's watch Little Women. Well, that's an incredible, perfect movie too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4723.427

Then I did research on her, Monica, like I was going to interview her. I did like an hour of research on Greta Gerwig just for my own edification and fun. I had no idea she was like a hugely successful actor before she was our best director. And I didn't know she was married to Noah Baumbach.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4747.677

You know all this stuff. I didn't know any of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4750.919

You are a know-it-all. So anyways, all to say I woke up this morning and I actually feel really fantastic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4768.011

There was no way yesterday at 7 p.m. But then I heard you had an idea that I almost felt like I wanted to stay sick so you would have to do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4786.946

But then I thought in Mexico.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4793.912

That's a lot for your birthday. Were you intimidated? That's a lot to commit to. 50 facts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4799.416

Yeah. I can do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4806.065

That was a very thoughtful idea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4810.81

Yesterday, I was like, oh, wow, I'm not going to make it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4815.575

Yeah. Yeah. Yesterday, I was like, oh, my God, I'm going to not make it. I thought for sure I was going to outlive my dad for so long. I was like, oh, no, we're going to come in 13 years before.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4831.706

Yeah. I think I'm mostly thinking about the thing that's tripping me out is like, OK, wow, I'm a half of 100 years old. I just watched Little Women. That was only set 150 years ago. Right. That seems like a million years ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4846.172

In fact, we were watching the movie and there's these beautiful mansions in the movie. And I said to Lincoln, you realize none of those mansions have toilets inside. Like as fancy as this looks and is how much you'd want to live there. All these people in their fancy dresses are going across the yard to shit in a wooden box.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4865.644

Nothing is good. It looks pretty. But so then when I think, well, that's not terribly long ago, two more of my life's ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4874.546

It starts to put time in a weird or it's like all these things that feel so far away. They're not that far away. And then I then, of course, I think, well, life's really short. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4884.989

But mostly I'm happy and I feel good. And I'm very excited to see you because I haven't seen you in a long time. So I think we should rewind all the way to your Christmas at home.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4907.688

Oh, what did you refer to it as?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4912.991

Oh, I don't know about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4931.593

You're an L.A. boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4940.321

That's interesting, because I still when I go home, when I go to Michigan, I think it's home.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4962.612

Right. And right. So not half your life yet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4979.398

Yes. Yes. I'm at 60 percent as of today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4986.226

Yeah, because I moved it when I was 20. And so for 30 years, I've been in California. Exactly. I was in Michigan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

4998.055

Yeah. By like 50 percent longer. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

500.487

Yeah, I got to tell you, I saw the 60 Minutes profile you did however many years ago. It had to be over 10 years ago, probably. And it was insanely moving. I appreciate that. Thank you. Particularly when you're visiting that house. And I think we come upon the crawl space. Yeah. It's not planned, clearly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5003.96

I'm going to still do fast math when I'm 50. Yeah. You went to your parents' house, not home.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5052.477

You ever get toothpaste? Our alarm? Our alarm? So, oh, wait, the last day and a half or the first day and a half?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5105.919

When I reordered, I changed my mind on the reorder. I mean, truly, that's a blessing from above because you would have two shark necklaces. You don't need that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5120.084

Whose you return? Yes. Well, you got to return mine. And have Nermin deserves to have those.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5138.111

That's right. I mean, you also in a subversive way told me what to get you as well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5164.518

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5170.483

Like a shark.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5172.025

You should have bit her. You should have lunged at her and snapped your jaws at her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5178.134

You want to see the shark? I'll show you a shark. You know what I think is really gross about sharks is that their upper teeth move too. You know that? No, what? You know, like our top teeth are fixed. They don't go anywhere. Just the bottom mandible moves up and down. The top teeth aren't coming up and down. They're just stationary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

519.24

And you're just having a moment where you go like, oh, yeah, I hid and I spent so much time in this crawl space. Yeah. That was heartbreaking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5194.579

And those fucking sharks, the top comes down too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5201.881

Yeah, yeah. It does the same thing as the bottom. Whoa, that's so cool. The better to gnash you with. Yeah. I don't like how it looks when they lunge at a seal or something. You see the top teeth descend. It just makes it that much more terrifying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5217.985

It's one step away from the whole set of teeth just turning into a vortex and like, you know, eviscerating the prey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5229.922

That's me in 2025.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5235.366

I do. This year I tried to break it into different categories, like professional, you know, physical, spiritual. There's another one. It's probably the most important one. Professionally, I really want to finish my memoir this year. Physically, and this has been a little bit influenced by watching Sprint season two over the break. I need to do. I need to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5264.35

It's so good. And yeah, I didn't know that either. But Molly had already seen it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5270.714

Yeah. Yeah. So sprinting, I really I'm not biking is my new thing, but I'm going to try to this year do biking and sprinting. So that's a physical goal. And then spiritually is finding my way back professionally. This is spiritual professional.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5290.539

To focus on what I love about work and not the outcome, I guess. I get to really, really hunker back down into that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5299.546

Yeah. What are your resolutions?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5319.119

I think it's too late for Max. I once read if boys don't do that by the time they're 10, they can't physiologically.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5326.133

He should do a little research.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5333.923

Max is my arch nemesis. The notion that his thighs are that much bigger than mine and he can do the splits. I feel like he has too much muscle to do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5348.967

Depends how you quantify it, I guess. If you use inches, yeah, sure, he's taller.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5354.694

Oh, I forgot too. Medically, I want to, I'm seeing an allergist this year. I got to stop blowing my nose all day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5361.581

And then I have a vanity one too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5365.085

I want to start getting facials.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5373.616

Yeah, well, I'm 50 and sometimes I look at my my nose in the mirror. I'm like, it looks like a catcher's mitt. Like, I think I need to pull a couple of layers off of the skin or something. It's starting to look really leathery.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5386.86

Yeah. A couple of times a week, maybe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5389.361

This is the.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5391.075

that youthful skin underneath you just have bright red like muscle your muscle shows i keep fluctuating i keep going like half the time probably even more than half the time about 80 percent of time i go like yeah let's get this face all leathery and fucked up there's something charming about that in an older man and then one day i look at my face i go baloney i can get facials i live in a city with a lot of good facials i should make my skin look rosy and youthful

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5431.39

I'm vain and I live in Hollywood and I'm an actress. Yeah. Are we kidding?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5464.465

Listen, this is working perfectly with my New Year's resolution because we haven't recorded in like eight days and I'm having as much fun right now as I have on a roller coaster.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5483.285

Yeah. You need it. And I want to add about your skin. Delta and I... So on New Year's Eve here, before I got sick, which was great, the hotel nearly set itself on fire. It was launching all these fireworks from the roof. And we're on the top floor. So about... 14 inches from our window is where the fireworks were being set off from. And I'm going to send you a video.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5505.715

It's like I'm talking a lot of fireworks where our whole room filled up with smoke because we had the windows open watching them. So and then. They were playing music in the courtyard and everything. So there's no way we were going to go to bed before 2 a.m. So Delta and I were in bed together and it was about 1 and the music was really loud and we couldn't sleep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5524.945

So we watched the Christmas special and numerous times during the Christmas special on the close-ups of you, I thought, well, I don't know what more she would want out of skin. It looks absolutely flawless and beautiful. And I'm just not sure what Monica's aiming for, if not what she has in the Christmas episode.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5587.034

Right, right. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5590.276

But is it all the way on the west side?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5593.338

See, this is where I go to the 80%. Let's just stay leathery. I know. I'm like, yeah, I want whatever you got going because it's certainly working.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5607.267

I do, too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5613.751

There is something really. There's something about it. Yeah. Well, wait, you have Joe. I would now have geriatric acne is what they'd have to call it. Oh, no. Oh, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5658.439

Oh, wow. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5662.143

OK, let me ask you this. Does she like the East Side? Like, are there any favorite restaurants she has? Could we get her like five clients on the East Side and then buy her lunch and she'd come out?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5683.502

What if we put her up at Kara once a month? I would love that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5689.793

We get like four or five Eastside clients, put her up a car and now we got something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5713.639

And well, yeah. People should know, too. They're probably thinking like in L.A., how far could this be? And if you look at a map, it'll be very, very deceptive. I mean, it's it's sincerely it can be 90 minutes. Oh, it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5730.126

If you go the same distance to go to Santa Barbara to get a facial.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5766.373

You were trying to get home from Santa Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5772.477

I also have a Tonka adjacent story, but because I already had this poisoning yesterday, I don't want to overwhelm the audience. I'll wait. But I, on the departure of this trip, had a real emotional and Tonka-like experience. But I'm going to I cannot fill the first episode of the year with double whammy on that. So Easter egg.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5812.339

Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5832.465

Oh, good. The journal is a great place. I don't you don't really have any resolutions of quitting anything. But I think the journal is the best place to put your numbers on the corner because you see them piling up. Like I just hit three hundred and sixty five days without dip because last year's resolution was no more chewy tobacco.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5853.718

Yeah. And so on my journal, you know, I see a 365 days without. And then you get a little encouragement to stick with it that day. So if you I don't know your icing or whatever thing you want to be consistent about, if you keep a little tally in your journal, you get to see that climb. And it's very encouraging.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

586.291

Let's go. Let's go. Let's go. Well, because I think you and I are among very few men that will say out loud, I got molested. Yeah. I think that's important. I'm sick of talking about it, but I think it's important.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5892.169

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5902.351

No. Well, okay. Yeah. Let me hit you with like I write in it with even much deeper knowledge that I'm going to die. And I don't presume my kids will ever have the interest of doing this. But if my kids choose, there is a daily account of my life for the last 20 years. Should they ever want to read it? And it's all in there. And that's at one time scary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5926.706

And then at another time, kind of comforting the notion that they're going to struggle in life for sure. It's the ride and they're going to be ashamed of themselves and they're going to make mistakes. And I have this, if they're so inclined, I have 20 years of huge mistakes and still keep going and keep trying. And, and so I,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5949.571

I write in it knowing there's a possibility that my children will read it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5957.635

I don't. I know. Wow. I think the more I've learned of my parents' struggles, it did nothing but comfort me and make me less self-loathing and...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5973.7

I don't know. You've been around me. I tell them pretty much everything already.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5984.444

Well, now I want to know. I'm going to break into your apartment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

5995.956

No, can't you get us safe at least? Don't do that. Well... Because you might want to write a memoir one day. And our memories are complete fabrications.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6007.285

As we know. So, like, even right now, this memoir I'm currently writing really is only going to take me to, like, adulthood, right? And then I'll have the gap between moving to L.A. and being an addict and then getting sober and starting to work. That'll probably be a second one. But... I mean, this sounds so indulgent, but regardless, in my mind, there's three.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6030.605

And what's exciting to me is the third one. There'll be no I'll be able to read like any time I tell an event of my life or the story, I can go read that day and actually know what happened. It'll that the third one will probably be the only one that's approaching accurate of reality.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6049.484

Well, yeah, all the other ones all have been the victim. And the last one you realize I'm the perpetrator. Oh, wow. That's a twist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6061.348

But don't burn it, Monty.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6105.044

OK, but and by the way, I don't really ever go back and read my journal. Yeah, but I have on a couple occasions. And one thing that's very useful about it, as I've already said on here many times, is when you can see a pattern you've been stuck in for a very long time and you see it in writing. There is something very powerful about seeing that and going like, well, it's up to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6125.417

I'm going to continue to. This isn't a new feeling I have. This isn't a new reaction. This is the same fucking thing I do all the time. And it's in black and white. And I have a choice to continue it or to stop it. And that's where I think it's useful. What if you put it in some second location and you don't have your name on it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6144.892

So if someone found it, they'd have no fucking clue whose secrets they're reading.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6152.318

Oh, you do? Yeah. The one thing I really agree with you on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6159.376

Yeah, I guess if every entry has to do with someone famous you interviewed that day. They'll go, well, it's either Rob's, Monica's, or Dax's.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6184.485

The one thing I do think is incredibly powerful, and I think this is what I use it for more than anything now, is there is... And the documenting part, it's not like I'm documenting it for posterity or I think I've even ever been writing in it thinking I'd consult it for something. It's that...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6199.847

I wake up and the day often feels insurmountable and I am pessimistic and I think I can barely get out of bed and nothing will happen. But the act of having to say everything that happened yesterday, I see, oh, no, yesterday you felt that way. And look, all these things you did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6216.015

The more important thing that's happening now is like I wake up with a rumination and I'm committed to putting down the rumination. And once I get it in writing, the absurdity of it generally cuts it in half. Or even more sometimes the whole that realization I had about Bradley's movie where it's like I saw it. I hated it. I got to interview him that day. I don't know what I'm going to say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6239.065

I'm not writing about that in the writing of it. I realize, oh, I hate it because this movie is about me. Yeah. Or, you know, the part of me I hate the most. And then what clarity that gives me. And then I end up loving it. So, yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6287.256

Monty, erase everything I just said. Yes. I think that's the number one thing of all of it. Yeah. Which is, like, you just... What you've shown is you have a commitment to yourself and, and, and, and you did it. And so you feel, yeah, you feel good. It's like exercising. You're like, all right, I did things I didn't want to do to make myself better. And that implicitly feels great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6308.746

Do you want to know one of the sickest parts of myself?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6314.408

I always make my bed. I would anyways, but I also, there is a part of me that like, I make my side of the bed. Yeah. Because often Kristen's still in it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6326.919

But even if she's not in it, I'll just make my side.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6330.14

And this is really disgusting part of me. But part of me goes, well, there's the evidence. Like I made my side of the bed. I'm I'm I'm committed to keeping this room clean. So there could also once you live with someone, you might start making your side of the bed just to shame them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6357.952

Oh, I'm overselling that a little bit for comedic value, but it does happen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

636.545

Why had it happened or why the people that perpetrated it could have done that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6364.894

Well, here's really what I don't I'm not making it thinking I'll shame her, but occasionally I'll see my sides made and hers is messy. And I and I do think I hope she notices that I've made my side of the bed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6410.298

Oh, that's not where I thought we were going. I thought she wants to return to a clean slate. I know that would have been the normal answer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6423.658

I have the complete opposite. If I thought I was going to die on vacation, I would set my room on fire before I left. Like, I wouldn't give a fuck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6437.262

Yeah. She's the type that would have killed herself at the Colonial Motor Inn to not make a mess for anyone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6445.427

So my grandma Midge would have found her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6452.972

OK. OK. One more thing. Christmas was great. We had a great Christmas.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6457.334

Really, really fun. T.T. and Bear came over in the morning. And that's Carly and Yurdy. And then we left on the 26th to come here. And I committed us to a hot air balloon ride.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6469.442

Yeah. And you had to wake up really early, like five in the morning on vacation to go. And I was a tough sell and our drive there. And that was the day before Lincoln got sick. So Lincoln couldn't come and mom couldn't come. So it really was like on the fence. What are we going to do? We can still do this thing. And it's so early. We went anyways.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6494.398

Delta was so afraid the whole ride there, watching them inflate the hot air balloon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6500.682

getting into the basket was almost impossible she almost she just almost was like fuck this i'm not doing it yeah i coaxed her into the basket there's pictures of me holding her before it takes off and i had said in the car delta i will i would bet all of my money that at the end of this you're really going to want to do it again like i feel that confident about it i would probably bet everything and she goes well you are going to lose everything that's what she said

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6529.352

The balloon took off, Monica. I promise you, we weren't even 15 feet in the air. And Delta goes, Daddy, you're going to win that bet. This is my favorite thing I've ever done. Oh, wow. And it was among the greatest things I've ever done. This was so incredible. There were so many hot air balloons. Maybe I'll post a picture. Oh, cool. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6557.229

On this episode, there was probably 50 or 60 hot air balloons all up in you hover above the pyramids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6566.497

And you just float around for like an hour going up and down. And there's all these beautiful hot air balloons. And it was Molly and Dahlia and Lily and Eric and Delty and I. And it was about as cool of an experience as we ever had. And then the dude set it down. We were touching the tops of the trees as we floated in. He put it on this little, like the size of your yard of your current new house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6596.609

Over power lines like a foot over it, brings it down and landed it on the fucking trailer of the truck where it gets transported. Wow. This guy was such a top gun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6611.966

It was spectacular.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6638.762

This guy was great. And you should know all I did half about half of the time I watched him operate it in preparation if he passed out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

664.99

I had a very bizarre breakthrough with it that thus far as I share this, I've not heard a lot of people relate to. But the confusion from my perspective is like, yeah, it was man on man. So this opens up this hole, especially where I grew up in Detroit. I guess now I'm gay. So there was like this bad thing happened to me. And then I think this makes me gay, which is its own crisis at that time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6650.174

I started clocking like, okay, wow. So when he gives a gas, he had like three different throttles to put heat into the balloon. But when he would put that in, there was about a 45 second delay before the actual elevation would change or not. So I was like, okay, wow. If I know if we're coming at a tree, I got to predict 45 seconds from now we need to go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6669.799

So I was really, I was monitoring like a hawk thinking I might, I might have to land and Eric goes, after we landed, he goes, yeah, I don't think you could have done that. I think you could have flown us around, but I don't think you could have made that landing. And I'm like, I don't think so either, but I certainly would have given it a shot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6691.499

That was a big time once in a lifetime. Cool. Experience. Yeah, it was really special. And my littlest buddy, we just had so much fun in that basket together. I've been having the best time with Delty on this trip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6705.728

Just couldn't be more in love with her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6712.045

Okay, before you get into those facts, I just want to say about Tyler Perry. I thought about him so much after this interview. Really, I got to say, tied with anyone else we've ever interviewed. I just, all week, I kept thinking about him. And he might be one of the most unique people I've ever met in my life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6731.721

He has such a softness and kindness and also this firmness with his boundaries and beliefs. It was like this really unique person. combo of just beautifulness and also self-assuredness and not going to be led anywhere. He doesn't want to go. Yeah. Something about him I felt was just so magical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6771.639

And his bravery talking about those topics fully exceeded mine. And I just thought that was really, yeah, a real privilege to, yeah. I love too that he was like, wait, you told me this was going to be fun to his publicist. I know. And then I said, well, it could be fun. We can do a fun version. He's like, no, no, no. Actually, let's do let's go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6795.854

That was so rad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

68.243

that he was very honest and stuff. But just as a as a human, he was just a very powerful and special presence. My God, did we like this so much?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6812.405

I'm back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6816.282

You can have a couple of homes. OK, that's nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6858.784

Ah, you can just throw in more kinks, I guess. I guess so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

686.645

And so then the notion I would ever tell anyone wasn't on the table because that would have been telling everyone I was gay again in the 80s in Detroit where that's not going to work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6869.963

Yeah, I had a little realization on this – or not a realization. I launched a new theory on this trip. I was listening to Nate Silver's most recent book, and he was – in a very respectful and smart way, he was poking holes in – Effective altruism. Oh. Our good boy McCaskill, who we had on. We like him. And utilitarianism. He had a couple of really good pushbacks for all of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6899.092

And they're very solid, as I also believe that Peter Singer and McCaskill's points of view are very, very solid. And my conclusion was... You know, everything's already been fleshed out. These theories and philosophies in life, they've been explored since Greece and probably before. They're all here for us. And I think... We are just biologically unique.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6926.93

And I guess our childhoods and our zip code and our socioeconomic. And there's just an offering for us that'll feel most correct. I don't think any of them are necessarily superior. I just think there's there's a lot of really good fleshed out ones and you'll just be pulled to one. And the notion that yours is the one or someone else's is the one isn't really it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6948.797

There's just these offerings and you have some predisposition and some bias and certain ones will just appeal to you more than others. And I think you're just born that way that you'll be drawn to these certain ones. Does that make sense?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

695.61

It is. Then hearing once I did say it, oh, it's not your fault. You know, you were a kid and that just didn't really alleviate any of the. And so for me, the work was I had to first acknowledge and own my part. This is what people don't like. But for me to get over it, it was my spidey senses were going off. I was in a place I knew I shouldn't be and I didn't leave.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

6986.84

Yeah, I think most of my life I've thought, well, one argument will have the most merit, like somehow if you can quantify it. And even that was a part of utilitarianism. He said, you know, the reason utilitarian is very tempting as a philosophy is it is our innate desire to quantify things. So if we can say, oh, four people died versus 12 people, that's very simple. It's 12 versus four.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7008.995

Well, were those 12 Nazi party members and the other four were Mother Teresa and her pals? Like, no, actually, that's not necessarily true. the appeal of quantifying and being able to compare two numbers is very attractive to a lot of us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7023.385

And, and biologically, like we have such different dopamine levels naturally, you know, like there's such a variety of how much dopamine you have or depression you have. And I think we're all inclined. It's also kind of what, um, uh,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7037.637

And Payne was saying, Keith Payne, about isn't it interesting that although you've thought through the arguments and you're sure the conclusion is correct, isn't it weird? I could have predicted what conclusion you would have come to before you were born based on your ethnicity and your zip code like that kind of.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7053.504

That theory still, I think, is what I'm getting at is like, yeah, there's just a lot of really good, well thought out theories and philosophies. And those ones will just appeal to us for whatever reason. Others won't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7065.375

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7075.484

My number one home. My only home.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7088.584

Is this in order?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7100.812

Those are above Atlanta?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7106.405

Okay, hit me. So D.C.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7116.77

Well, that's got to be four, right? Oh, hold on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7129.135

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7132.337

That's where our boy Anderson Pack's from.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7154.238

OK, I'm good. OK, I got to imagine if you Google least amount of black people in any state, Utah's got to be number one, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7165.234

So if they interviewed the 12 people that live in Provo and they're thriving like crazy. I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7172.24

Is there a threshold like minimum amount of black folks that to count?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

718.218

And I have that pit in my stomach. I can remember how that feels. And I didn't listen to my instincts. I first had to go, yeah, that part happened. And I actually got to forgive myself for that. And once I was like, that all happened, you knew better. You should have gotten out. You felt those feelings. It's not like it came out of complete blue for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7214.106

Oh, well, hold on. Hold on. I want to read. Why is it so shaky? Oh, sorry. I was kicking the table at my computer. I'm going to go back. Maybe North Dakota and Montana.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7247.402

But 40,000 in the whole state. That's not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7251.046

Wyoming is 5,200. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7276.896

Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7279.855

Good for him. I'm not allowed to have that opinion, but I agree with him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7287.523

Oh, can I bring up a scary one? Because I actually had to discuss this with Delta on this trip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7295.828

I accidentally she was sitting on this swinging net chair in a park and she and Dahlia were both trying to get on it at the same time. And it was clear to me that the only way they are going to be able to do that is if they both sat crisscross applesauce.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7313.61

And I accidentally said Indian style. Sure. And then Delty said, what's Indian style? And I go, oh, you know what? I'm sorry. I shouldn't have said that. That's what we used to call crisscross applesauce. And then she said, oh, OK, why is it bad?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7327.179

And I said, you know, Delta, this is one of the few that I'm not quite sure because obviously people saw Indians meditating sitting that way and they called sitting that way Indian style. And it's not derogatory in any way. Yeah. If you invent a way of sitting, I think, why is that negative? So I just want your two cents on that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7357.87

Even if it's just for a minute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

737.491

And that's OK, because you were like eight years old and eight year olds choose poorly. And I did. For me, it was allowing myself to forgive the eight year old who didn't listen to his spidey senses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7376.365

Yeah. And you're not saying it to like marginalize anyone or even. Yeah. I'm just like, it's if there's a lot of things, different cultures have invented, or at least that's the first time people writing about history saw it. Obviously people probably sat that way from the beginning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7390.857

Like French, let's say this, let's say that the French were marginalized in the country and you could no longer say French kissing. Well, it's like, well, there's nothing really bad about French kissing. It just means you use your tongue. And I apparently English people, that was the first time they saw that. I don't know, but. Like, yeah, French kissing, that's a fine thing to say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7407.473

They can own kissing for the rest of time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7418.637

You would be proud of me because I said my point and she said, yeah, that doesn't make much sense. And I said, but you know what Monica would say is that would be fine if half the country were Indian. But because there's there were so few Indians and they're already marginalized, it's just another way to make them feel different. So I think that's what Monica would say. And that's a good point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7442.416

That all happened. You can ask her to confirm that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7470.276

Cross, but not applesauce.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7475.702

I guess I just I'm gently asking if that might be an overcorrection. Just that one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7501.721

That's really relevant. But yeah, if American Indians feel bad when they hear that, then, yeah, of course, forget it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7527.883

What if they all just looked at you to see how you were sitting and they thought you were supposed to copy how you were sitting?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7558.506

That's about twice as many as Cheers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7563.971

That's everything. Well, I'm telling you, this is made me so excited to come home and resume working on my favorite job I've ever had.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7604.941

How does it work, the bingo scavenger hunt?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7638.47

Oh, I like it. That's a fun game.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7641.792

We have we have a new member of our team that put this together, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7659.673

That's right. We both read the letter she sent us and we were intimidated by her intelligence and her overqualification. And we thought, well, there's no way she should be an intern for us. We should be an intern for her. But here we are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

7677.587

Yeah. So welcome to her. All right. Well, I love you and I'll see you in 36 hours. Yay. Yay. Bye. Bye. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

806.558

And that's what I came to. But I first had to grapple with this guilt feeling I had. Yeah. Just to hear that it wasn't my fault was not sufficient to make it go away. I needed to kind of confront what was the darkness. The darkness was I felt like I should have known better and done something differently. And I just needed to explore that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

84.474

Yes. Well, listen, Tyler Perry is a filmmaker, a playwright, an actor, Diary of a Mad Black Woman, Sisters, House of Pain, Madea's Family Reunion, Alex Cross, and his new movie Out Now, which is doing really great. I've noticed it's always in the top couple there on Netflix. The Six Triple Eight with one of our favorites, Kerry Washington. This is a very, very special episode.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

933.619

Oh, that's wonderful. All of it's a sword, right? So I would argue that part of your arousal template being set in the way it was does predispose you to be able to handle what comes your way and results in the success. So my thing is I thrive when shit's hitting the fan. And spent a lot of my life seeking those out. We set this thing at a 50 instead of a 10.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Tyler Perry

955.659

So it's like, I'm asleep unless I really got to be aware of how to get out of this situation. I'm sorry, man.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dan Shepard. I'm joined by Lily Padman. Hi. Today, we have one of my favorite actors on. I've been slowly becoming obsessed with him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

102.988

Yes, a thousand percent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1078.724

You go to Moscow on the advice of one of your acting teachers?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1131.395

When I've sat in that position, I'm like, how do those catchers sit like this for two hours?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1184.906

Or because you just didn't want to participate?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1258.281

Can I make a guess or a suggestion? Sure, man. When one embarks on boxing and fighting and defending, weirdly, I don't want to get hurt. And I want everyone to know, pick someone else. There's an easier thing for you. Because I'm protecting this sweet boy that's really in me. That's it. You get in there and you're like, wait, you can be a sweet boy? And people will be happy about that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1279.738

And no one here is going to fucking call me... Gay because I just said I like my brother and miss my mom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1351.488

And I wanted them to feel so safe and protected that they would love me so much. For sure. And I thought my wife would like that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1359.573

And she's like, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1371.56

Oh, really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1373.761

Was he at Foxcatcher?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1376.443

Have you pumped him for those stories?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1384.752

Wow. They're the real deal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1386.274

So, yeah, I loved my friends so much. I wanted them to love me so much, and I would jump on fire for them to show that. And I found out you can do it in acting and comedy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1399.667

I know. If your group of friends come from a group of adults who say I love you and then act in an opposite fashion, if that's like your core group, everyone there is divorced, kids. No, saying it really doesn't mean anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1494.484

All I want for Christmas is my tooth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1497.808

You got to at least sing that and get a laugh. Actually, how funny is that? I never even thought of that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1568.254

Yes, sir. Somehow this teacher says, you know what you might want to think about doing is going and studying in Moscow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1597.986

Yeah, it's his school. It's his school?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

1907.617

Are you a romantic though? Are you telling the story of your life? And you're like, look at me, man. I'm in fucking. A little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2067.113

You also end up playing professional baseball while you're there. How does that happen?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2114.87

I was there then. Yeah, I went to St. Petersburg and it was like, oh, communism's dead, but there's no stores. There's no bars. There's no restaurants. The downtown is just like dudes are drunk at nine in the morning. There's really nothing to do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2141.007

I think they've seen so much fucking suffering is my guess through those many years. I mean, fuck from Stalin on so much suffering, food scarcity. They've just seen it all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2248.884

Yeah, it's really cool. What were you making playing baseball? What could someone make?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

23.377

I got a handful that I follow that I'm really intrigued by, and this is one of them, Jon Bernthal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2317.181

So you get back from Russia. You moved to New York. You do 30-odd plays. You do some like guest stars on all the shows everyone in New York does guest roles on. Yeah. You get Tina and Tony's wedding. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And that brings you to L.A. in 2004. Yes, sir. So you're just scrabbling for those however many years that would have been. Just kind of cobbling together. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

234.918

Yeah, I mean, I guess we've got like the big- Well, let me ask you. I made a decision where I'm like, this isn't the face I wanted. So I guess we're going tough? I'm going to embrace being masculine?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2347.81

I'm sorry. That's really relevant. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2357.632

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2439.457

Okay, so you come to LA 2004. You get yourself on a show. You're a regular for a season. It gets canceled. That's 2005. You get another show for a year. You're in this nebulous, I'm imagining. You're like, is it starting or not starting? Is it starting? Were you feeling that feeling here in LA?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

246.843

Listen, we got to get into his brothers. They're like the Romney family. No, not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2461.204

Well, the first one was a sitcom, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

251.968

No, no. Romney Malick? Romney's brother's cool. I like Romney. The Emanuals.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2515.406

So several gallons of blood dumping.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2650.369

Have you read the Pat Tillman book, the John Krakauer book, Where Men Win Glory? Sure. I love that book. He had that moment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2657.392

Yeah. He really hurt a guy right before college and he was almost done.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2739.653

I can explain all this by one event. I let a kid beat me up in sixth grade. And for years, I laid in bed at night going, oh my fucking God, why didn't you fight me?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

274.559

Well, he was a lawyer that became the board of directors of the Humane Society. Humane Society, yes, sir. Wow. I'm presuming a nice gentleman that would take on that work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2755.584

I've never been more mad at myself. And it's funny because we interviewed Conor McGregor and I was like, how do you get into this? Oh, I saw a boxing gym. I'm like, there's got to be more to it than that. Oh, I got jumped by these guys that were older than me. Okay. And then I go, well, I didn't fight back. He's like, yeah, yeah, I didn't really. I'm like, yeah, that produced Conor McGregor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2774.359

That's right. God, it's fucking powerful. The amount of shame. I'm 50. It's all worked out. I'll be in bed and I'll just occasionally, I can be on the couch watching the kid punch me in the face for a long time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2855.199

And I'm so in awe of it. You've done a bunch of great shit. I'm going to jump right to one thing because I saw you in Walking Dead. And to be honest, I was like, if I know this guy, I would be fighting this guy at the bar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2888.083

Can you watch and just fast forward through my stuff? I think this is great, though, because I'm like, oh, this guy and I would get into it so bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2895.786

Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2915.402

Then you start popping up in other stuff. I'm like, this guy is pretty good. This guy is pretty good. And then for me, we own the city. I was like, I'm prepared to bow down. Oh, man. Holy. What a gift that was. Fuck, are you good in that show. Thanks, man. That's like Gandolfini level. Oh, my God. Thanks, man. I cannot believe that show wasn't enormous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

2990.628

Both The Wire and We Own the City is as close as you can get to narrative being a documentary. I mean, it's just so enjoyably specific. There's not one line of exposition that someone thought they know how it works. They know how it works.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3054.754

Oh, thanks, man. Me too. Wow. You're incredible. I know we're here to promote other stuff, but everyone needs to go watch We Own This City. I agree, man.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3204.378

Yes, because then you don't have to prove it in other ways. I guess so. Let's talk about what's coming out. You have so much coming out. First of all, you won an Emmy last year for Bear. Last year? Yeah. Congrats. Thanks, man. So you're on the Bear. You're going to be in the new season of the Bear. You have The Amateur coming out April 11th. That's with Lawrence Fishburne and Rami Malek.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3225.343

So The Accountant 2. I saw Accountant 1. Seemingly from the trailer, this one's a two-hander. More so, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3277.72

Wait, you're in a Nolan movie, you son of a bitch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3309.771

He's like Bill Russell. He's the coach and a player.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3328.702

You guys are exploring in a fun way. He's autistic and you're not. And you're brothers and you have a relationship and you're trying to understand what's happening with him. Does he... love you? Does he care about you? Does he think about you? His behavior is very hard to read. That's all happening in this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3354.854

He wrote The Judge. I was in that. Yeah, man. That's right. He was a headhunter in St. Louis or something right before The Judge. It's a great story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3395.647

Here's the other side of the coin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3445.546

Okay. Do you like this term method actor or do you hate it? Do you have objections?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3464.879

With that said, you played a mute in a movie. Oh, fuck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3471.689

Fuck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3604.028

do it and that is his thing i really do try to give people the benefit of the doubt and say god bless you man like if that's what you need to do i think it's cool i think everyone gets to skin the cat how they want to yeah yeah and then the last thing you have a really popular podcast you have a podcast that's adored and loved and so you're a peer in this space the real ones you have firefighters first responders drug dealers convicts you have the whole spectrum

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

368.345

That's even worse. Yeah. Well, but listen, the older brother fucking was working in the Clinton administration and comms in the White House. Is that a misunderstanding? A little bit. Okay, let's straighten it out. Hang on. Don't give him that one, dude.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

37.068

He's in absolutely everything. I think so many, most people will probably know The Walking Dead because it was such an enormous hit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3784.91

I disagree with that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3902.042

That's awesome. I think people should check it out. The Real Ones with Jon Bernthal. Watch the amateur. Watch the accountant too. Watch Daredevil. Watch the bear. My fucking goodness. Awesome. I don't know how you have the endurance for it all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3949.178

I'm really trying to figure out how that happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3959.082

So I got back from dropping Delta off. I was like, I got to work out. Then record.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3966.486

That was the plan. Then edit. And then I was like, I'm very tired. I'm going to take a 20 minute nap. So it must have been 945. Okay. Yeah. And I set my alarm for 10, 15. 30 minute nap. But that's not, I now know that's not what he did. I was like, oh, I set it for 10, 15. Then I'll have a 40 minutes to work out and then I'll be able to still do all the things. Then I'm taking this nap. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

3999.198

And do you ever do this when you're taking a nap and you're like, you're kind of waking up a little bit and I'm like, oh God, this is so much longer than I thought. Like, am I going to, the alarm's going to go off any second. And then I'm like, okay, who cares? Right. And then I go back. Okay. So I was weirdly conscious of how long the nap was. And then I thought that was part of my dream. Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4022.404

Yeah. Like, oh my God, this feels so long. Anyways, my alarm goes off. Oh, okay, great. Then I look at the wall clock. I'm like 11.15. I'm like, 11.15? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4035.292

I did. It's more than that. I knew I was setting it at 11.15, but for some reason.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4041.415

For some reason, that was 10.15. I was still going to have, I was setting it at 11.15 and I was going to have 45 minutes to work out, which makes no sense. That's what I'm struggling with.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4052.743

I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4055.984

I just confused. You just got out of whack. I confused 11.15 for 10.15 is what happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4064.446

Yeah. Were you sleepy? You would have liked to have slept longer. Big time. Instead, you got over here on time. And then I'm mostly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4079.847

Oh, no. Why were you late? Did you have too long of a nap?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4088.569

This is a shameful fact check.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4102.871

You had 40 minutes. 35 minutes. Fuck, I'm sorry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4111.789

No, because you sent it to me late last night. Well, not late last night, but like nine o'clock at night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4122.279

827.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4123.58

I'm not really. And then my full intention was like, I'm going to listen to that while I work out. And then you and I are going to talk about it in fact check. I didn't make it to that workout.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4136.348

This is all kind of, I think, reflective of what my updates would be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4140.732

Okay. I'm going to hit you with the headline. I think this is miraculous. Okay. Um, and I think people will, they'll be scrutinizing of this. They'll be skeptical of these numbers, but I swear these are numbers. I weigh myself every day. Um, pre and post duty Wednesday, when we left for New York, I was 194 pounds in the morning, almost on the dot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4167.705

Then when we got home on Sunday, I weighed myself 208.8 pounds. Okay. So I gained 14.8 pounds. In three days.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4183.409

Oh my God, was I eating?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4186.774

Tell me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4213.862

If I'm just, like, being... I want you to write a fitness manual as well. Then... Wogs and farmer carries.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4239.826

You got to give your body what it wants. Mine is just eating so fast and so much. I overate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4248.134

Oh, my God. Infinite hamburgers. But a new thing that I'm here to give a testimonial for. Okay. I urge you to do on your next trip to New York. Have you ever been to Mercado Little Spain? That's Jose Andres market in Chelsea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4266.549

Oh, Monica, you're going to die. I'll add, I walk in and it kind of looks like a food court a little bit, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4278.272

Yeah, but it's not. It's so, so elevated and hand-built and everything's so good. And the meat has been flown in from Spain and they have a cool little market.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4288.257

And so my intention was to go and get the hamburger there. Because remember, Jose was like, I make the best burger. Yes. When we interviewed him. And so I go in there with the intention of getting that burger. I invite Dr. Mike.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

43.414

Yeah, King Richard. And everything. The Punisher. He is The Punisher. The accountant with your boyfriend.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4301.79

We got a really cool tour of the whole thing. I'm going to cut to some of the things that came my way. Okay. They take olives, they press them, then they gather the oil and whatever else came out of it, and then they put it in some kind of calcium or do something to it. It comes out on a spoon, Monica, and it's an egg yolk. Have you had this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4326.511

Yes, it's got a now skin over it, but all it is is the olive oil.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4332.875

And it's a yolk and you take the spoon and you put it and then it pops in your mouth. Yeah. The taste, I couldn't believe how good this was. Best artichokes ever. Then the Big Daddy Burger then also recommended this more street burger. And it was, he's right. It is, yeah, Emily Burger's got some mage competition.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4357.031

Truthful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4359.392

Honest. Now, don't let that break your heart. Okay. I also ate at Emily Burger three times.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4366.294

Yes. Good. And Corner Bistro.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4371.396

Yes. So it was a burger tour.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4377.538

Tell me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4382.72

Oh, yes. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4395.633

I don't even want you to tell people about it, but yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4413.024

Baggage claim?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4416.586

The vestibule. Vestibule three. You're flying out of vestibule three.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4421.768

Yeah, I agree. I agree. And it had similar amount of syllables.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4425.99

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4431.872

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4434.143

Gate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4436.424

But then for the Bill Gates conspiracy theorist, that's a problem too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4467.632

OK, you decide I'm not going to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4481.46

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4483.021

You overthought it maybe a little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4485.241

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4506.488

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4508.009

Right in your face. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4534.157

Yeah, yeah. Well, even that tone of hey, you told him I know you. Exactly. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4553.845

She got me out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4581.361

Now you're really flogging yourself. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4607.363

Oh, my God. She wants round two of this. Thrilled. Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4626.838

In your row. In my row. In that single banger. Correct. Oh, wow. Now what?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

463.978

You don't meet a lot of dudes at the gas station that look like some of the folks. Yeah. I think that's probably right. And then when they're playing the guy at the gas station, why isn't that guy in fucking Hollywood? Because he's gorgeous. Why is he wasting his time in Pennsylvania at this gas station?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4642.841

Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4646.602

Sure, sure, sure, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4653.645

Oh, wow. That's intense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4664.829

He'll think you thought he smelled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4671.016

People like the smell of bread.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4675.62

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4692.633

You're really flailing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4714.432

He's in Idaho every year.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4718.936

Oh man, I'm sorry you had that. I feel like it brought you back to seventh grade or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4725.486

And you were with Callie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4727.548

Like it feels, I'm sure like a lot of old muscle memory was triggered.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4733.414

And he was a quarterback or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4744.544

He said that like a little monster. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

475.307

So you had a brother ahead of you who went through school and clearly he must have been brilliant. This school you went to, friendly something?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4758.606

I will say in his defense, he was on Zoom. That was a Zoom interview.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4764.952

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4771.095

Right. I'm on vacation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4774.536

That's not true. That's not true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4778.078

Very out of context.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4783.181

Oh. Can you ask? I'll ask. I'll ask. Hey, my friend Monica was on a flight with you up to Napa. Yeah. Opposite experience. My kids made fun of me for the first three days in Hawaii. I mean, you know, I don't ever talk to anyone on an airplane. I just want to watch my shows I've brought on my iPacks. And that's my goal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

48.9

Daredevil, Fury, and he has a new movie in theaters now, The Accountant 2.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4804.835

If I'm seated next to somebody, I'm not striking up a conversation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4809.238

Yeah. I'm trying to watch all this content I've downloaded on my iPacks. Yeah. I've got it so mapped out. Like, I'm going to watch this many episodes of this. But I got sent a video of a dude that was filming riding behind me on a motorcycle at Circuit of Americas in Austin, the racetrack. Before takeoff, it was just like I had enough signal to download this video and watch a lap.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4831.974

And I'm watching it. And then I hear the guy next to me says... I was at COTA. And because he immediately knew it was COTA from like two turns, I go, oh yeah, it's COTA. Have you been there? And he goes, oh yeah, I do a lot of track days there. And his name was Boyd. And Monica, entire trip to Hawaii, five and a half hours, we talked like two schoolgirls. Boyd, what a stud.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4860.654

He's a builder who lives on Maui and is so into cars and everything. My kids just couldn't get over it. They'd never seen me. They'd get up or I'd have to take Delta to the bathroom. She'd go, wow, you're really talking to that guy, huh? There's like, does he need a break?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4884.933

No, that was in no reference to your story other than it reminded me I had a real ideal seatmate, which never happens.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4894.521

It was such a fun and good conversation. It felt kind of crazy to not exchange numbers at the end. I can see how people fall in love on airplanes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4903.528

Yeah. I told him where I was staying. You were hoping he'd pop around. I kept, at dinner, I would like look. I'm like, I wonder if he'll just.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4945.489

I have one more update from the trip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4947.471

Okay. So we went because Kristen is, again, time 100 most influential people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4953.476

We did not. I did not. And Juan, I know she didn't either. We didn't look at the list. We didn't know who was nominated other than her. Okay. I guess I know, you're not nominated, you're declared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4965.967

So my joke, the two days leading up to it was, you know, I bet the first 40, it's so obvious, right? They're the committee. Oh yeah, that person, that person. And then 40 through 85. Okay. Is probably a little, takes more time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

4985.577

My hunch is 85, the last 15, I bet is like a month of them in a room. I never even heard of that person. What? No, they can't be on the list. Like, I just imagine it gets harder and harder to make a case. Sure. It's a lot of people to say. Sure. Anyways, go to the event. And to our excitement, Adam and Naomi Scott are there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5009.405

Adam's won.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5013.117

Very fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5014.798

Friend of the pod. Just a friend. Good friend. I have an update.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5021.742

Oh, wow. This is like Lionel Richie. Uh-oh. Ha-ha. I did say hi when we left Burbank for Napa, but I didn't get a response. So I wasn't sure if it was actually her or maybe she did and I didn't hear or maybe I'm just gaslighting myself. I thought it was her. So it was pretty strange when I returned on the same flight. I was sitting next to her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5041.795

If I had doubled down and said hi again, it would have seemed very odd, especially if it wasn't her. This was really a Curb Your Enthusiasm moment. I did bring home all this bread that my kids never ate. Good job, Rob.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5068.859

It really demonstrates just how awkward being a human being is. I know. He was like, is that her? Well, if it was her, she would have been a little more engaging.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5077.768

Then she fucking iced me out on the flight, would never look at me. You owe him an apology.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5092.499

You should send him a loaf of bread or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5097.283

You're in trouble. I slept till fucking 1 PM.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5107.015

Yeah, that's really funny stuff. He really wrote a long, look at that. He gave you a paragraph.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5120.224

That could be from Natalie. I mean, we don't know the providence of this text.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5126.787

It's 100% him. It's so hard to trust Rob.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5134.936

Oh, he'll just be like, hey, dick, what the fuck's up? Monica shit or slacks around you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5142.266

Yeah, rat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5146.248

Yeah, it just, I think it demonstrates how awkward everyone feels at all times. Even if you're both successful in your own right, you're still walking around like you're in seventh grade and you're not sure the person knows who you are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5161.402

Okay, back to Time 100.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5163.724

The event is, and I know I'm going to get myself excluded right now from ever being nominated. I'm looking around the room immediately. I'm so excited. You guys, as everyone knows, I want to be around Simone Biles so bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5176.695

She was there. I went up to her mom and told her mom how much I love her. And I wanted to know if everyone asked her to do her hair now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5184.421

And then there's a bunch of people I don't recognize because they've done something heroic around the globe that year. Yeah. And so the thing kicks off and it's like Snoop Dogg is emceeing. What a party. Snoop Dogg, he's right there. That's so exciting. And I'm like, how is this dude a better host than everybody? Like he's reading off the prompter like all people, but it feels so good and natural.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5205.532

He's just an ace.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5207.153

That's a blast. Woo. Let's go now to this honoree. Immediately a microphone. And this woman has been freed like 68 days earlier from Hamas. And she tells this long story, this absolutely one of the worst stories you've ever heard in your life. And then begging for her husband, who's still there in tunnels to be released.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5232.421

And you're like, you went from like Snoop Dogg cheering. So it goes from that. And now you're just kind of like, oh, man, fuck. I feel bad that I was having a good time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5241.887

And then back to Snoop. He's like, bring out this great pop country star. And this guy gets out and he starts rocking on a guitar. And he's like, everybody on your feet. And now we're all standing up and we're dancing. And then it goes to immediately.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5260.238

It was just like this. You didn't know what it is on TV. You can see where you would be. You'd have the wrong look on your face. You just couldn't settle into a fucking mood or a tone. Or if we were there to have fun and celebrate, if we were there to really cry and be fucking heartbroken and bummed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5278.549

It was a very accelerated version of life. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5354.842

The new Ben and Matt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5362.633

Oh, no. With Sally.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5372.857

Oh, you love when someone's alone. Unless it's David Chang.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5378.8

You could have had the most regrettable experience of your life. Given this, I'm glad you, I'm glad you had a trial run with David Chang. Cause that wasn't even, there's nothing, there's no stakes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5395.409

Can I play a role in this? Do I have access to this person?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5403.734

Hmm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5411.9

Oh, boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5429.144

That was a joke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5434.744

That's sad. I know. I'm sorry. The opposite of Boyd and I.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5440.537

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5450.365

I had a fucking time of my life dinner with Vincent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5456.269

Oh, man. What a boy. I love him so much. Can I say one more thing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5461.453

We had as much fun with Naomi and Adam.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5465.456

is when I used to go to New York like in my 30s.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5469.759

We ended up in a back elevator, like a service elevator to get out of there. And as we got in there, there was a room service tray, someone's room service tray. And there was a half-drinking cup of coffee. And I said to Adam, how much would you pay me to drink this cup of coffee? And as I was saying, would you pay me $5, I just drank this cup of coffee. Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5491.236

And well, OK, you didn't like that story. It was so funny. I felt like I was in seventh grade and he was so he's putting hand sanitizer on and I just drank a random person's half cup of coffee. And then I picked up the tray and then what was the item in there? And then I took a scoop. It was an old dessert. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5507.664

It was like I was acting like I was back when Aaron and I were causing too much trouble. I couldn't believe how much fun I had out on the town. Like I was in my 30s. And then I've been tired for two days.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5524.815

Yeah. And I've had like- Did you finish all fours? You did, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5575.183

Okay, good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5580.306

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5584.108

Oh, good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5585.609

What is it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5589.891

That's right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5594.353

Atavists?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5596.094

Show me the cover because I want to see what grabbed your attention. Yeah, it's a word I don't know, I've never heard of, and there's cute little foxes and bunnies on it. And then the name Millet, is that the author's name?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

56.946

With your boyfriend. But one thing we didn't get to in the interview, which I really wanted to, we ran out of time, we had him for so long, is he has a really cool project in Ojai. Called Ironbound. And it runs from May 9th to May 11th and May 16th to May 18th. And he will star alongside actress Maren Ireland in an immigrant blue collar story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5607.307

That's a cool name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5611.443

Finalist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5637.0

Oh, I would like that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5638.581

Naughty human behavior?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5651.048

The gambit. Gambit. You say gambit. You really hit that B. I say the gambit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5664.383

Gambit. The whole gamut is what I say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5668.807

Is it the same word?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5680.697

Okay, so it's the whole gamut. That's okay. This is great real-time learning. We claim to love learning, but now we're not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5689.14

We didn't enjoy that learn.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5697.508

So then you could say like he was running a gambit, meaning some kind of strategy against me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5707.188

And people don't watch you on the fact check. They are they are missing out on 99 percent of the ride. That look.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5724.345

No, you know, you have an incredible vocabulary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5729.727

Gamut.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5731.748

That's helpful. Because I was like, could I really be dropping the B that much?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5742.586

Oh, wonderful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5765.735

All right, say on them again, and let's say what we think our worst two qualities are of that list. Okay. So simplicity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5773.988

Peace.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5775.529

Integrity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5784.935

No. What happens?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5791.94

Mr. Dags. Mr. Dags.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5794.642

Spices.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5796.343

What are your- Simplicity. Oh. I would say simplicity is my weak. That's weak. Right? Hmm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5807.217

What aspect of your life are you looking at?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5810.06

But I don't think I make things simple per se. I think I tend to have a lot of balls in the air all at the same time. Trying to do too many things, go too many places, have too many vehicles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5821.529

Trying to live 10 different lives at once. Not good at simplicity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5825.313

It wouldn't work for me either. I don't even aspire to that one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5829.576

I don't have to live all of them, do I? I can just like a la carte. And then integrity, I think I'm mid-level there. That's good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5842.969

I go peace probably. Yeah. How about you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5847.571

Yeah. Simplicity and peace.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

585.828

No rehabs or anything?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5863.337

Yeah, so it's like you're the steward of your flock. You're the steward of your wealth. You're the steward of your objects. Do you maintain them? Do you cherish them? Do you take good care of everything that you were kind of gifted? And are you responsible with all this stuff that you were gifted?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5881.005

Not objects.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5890.111

Yes, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5896.175

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5898.457

Right. I don't want to live. That feels akin to boring.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5923.631

Yeah. But I think if you know about yourself and I've had therapists tell me this and I've had other kind of clinicians tell me this, like I am an arousal personality type. Like that is, I love being aroused. So. I think it would be, I see the value in it, but I also don't think that's my path.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5944.791

You know?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5949.497

No, but I like it a lot. Well, it'd be up there if I'm forced to join some kind of religion. Yeah. This is good. This is where my friend Christine joined. She's very, very intelligent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5966.241

All that sounds vaguely like Stoicism to me, by the way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5971.342

All these things are real.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5973.837

Did you watch Heretic, that movie?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5980.3

Great. I watched it on the airplane.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5985.402

Me, too. I love him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5989.124

Hugh Grant is so skilled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5993.406

He's so charming. It's absolutely bonkers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

5998.548

And he has aged beautifully. He's still so good looking. Yeah, it's a great movie, isn't it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

6004.931

Iterations. I keep thinking of the word iterations everywhere I go. I took a long bike ride yesterday and I was just thinking on iterations. That's a big theme of the movie. It's a scary movie. And he points out how many religions had all these same tenets prior to the Judeo-Christian ones.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

6022.319

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

6024.585

It is a horror movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

6026.726

I like it, though. It's my kind of horror movie. It's just creepy and suspenseful. It's not like machetes and chainsaws and ghouls.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

6046.044

This is consistent with all these things. It's like Naxiom's really good until a line in the sand. But also that movie hinges on him as an actor because he keeps getting them to stay and quiet their fears. And if it's not Hugh Grant. Yeah. That was really cast dependent. It was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

6067.111

Mm hmm. It may turn out to be way smarter than you think, which I like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

6096.557

First live show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

6106.083

Oh, okay. What a cast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

6110.126

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

6142.94

Last time you did it, it was 88,000. Okay, so maybe it went- It's on the rebound.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

6152.41

So it must have rebounded and then- That's a wild ride, this cryptocurrency ride.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

6190.838

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

81.518

And he has put his whole life and passion into this theater project in Ohio. And I hope people will go check it out May 9th through the 11th and 16th through the 18th.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

822.304

One of the things I'm sure you wrestle with, like I do, which is like, what reality do they know? They've had a swimming pool their whole life. That's bizarre to me. But I think having a little girl around who's really in it is a good perspective giver for your kids, who I'm presuming your house is pretty nice in Ojai. For sure. For sure. For sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

853.41

Both can be true. This school, though, looks so idyllic just from the photo I saw.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Jon Bernthal

98.065

Oh, he's a monster.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert. I'm Dan Rather and I'm joined by Lily Padman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1040.851

That's the Huston. Half the jokes are about the aunties and uncles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1059.391

The Toyota Camry joke. Right. Which is so good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1063.736

Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's like the official car of Indiana.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1092.481

We needed streaming and niche audiences, which turned out to not be niche audiences.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1100.954

Yeah. And then it gets 40 million households viewing it. Thank you for knowing that. It's not a niche at all. In fact, it's one of our. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1112.046

By the way, I hadn't heard this. I just read enough articles about you today that those people had heard about it. One article was talking about that you've had a lot of criticism for not having more diversity on your cast. And I was just getting defensive of you. And I was thinking all writers have the obligation to write their experience. And your experience was being surrounded by white people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1130.799

So to have created like 227 in the Indian community, that would have been fraudulent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1174.309

You were hoping you could keep yourself at the party. You hadn't yet thought you could bring other people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1303.517

But guys, it's exponential growth because it's not just that the parents aren't pushing their kids. It's that the kids didn't see anyone that they found their place in. Like I always say, I needed Nick Cage. Is he good looking or not? I'm not sure. He's tall. That seems like enough. He's the lead. Maybe I could do this. You just need somebody to make it seem real or plausible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

133.742

so nice to see you nice to see you how's it going oh my god hi nice to meet you welcome handsome and put together you're number two for that you're the second person i've ever worn a suit before it's a good one you deserve it well it's a tux i think

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1333.076

Sure, sure, sure. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1337.598

There's a justified and baseline fear that's a little higher in the Indian family. Definitely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1352.585

There's also a reality to who came. Your dad was an architect. Your mother was an OBG. Your father was an engineer. Professionals coming here. And now the sky's really the limit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1386.124

Cause Monica and I did meet the Indian Bob Dylan. He was a chai walleye in front of the hotel. Now that motherfucker had more pizzazz than anyone I've ever seen. But yeah, that guy's not getting invited.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1401.681

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1403.703

That guy was incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1469.295

Well, but have you heard the Malcolm Gladwell episode Token? No. It's worth listening to. I feel like it could relieve you of some stuff. It's all about Sammy Davis Jr. and what he went through, what he had to put up with. It's heartbreaking in so many ways. And there's just a lot of good data about it as well. I was more making the artistic point, which is you had just spent eight years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1492.188

surrounded by white dudes in a writer's room on a cast that was largely white certainly your current experience was that when i'm thinking about what i know inside and out at that point it would be to be the lone brown person in a room that's what i would know best

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1514.288

Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1585.161

Because you had the architecture of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1596.77

Yeah. What was Buckingham Brown? You went to a school from K to 12.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1605.495

Okay. What was the vibe of that place? It sounds fancy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1610.338

It sounds like maybe a suit store.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1639.09

Was it using pop culture as well?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

167.673

I think you very much deserve to be dressed up for. And I don't like dressing up. So it's a gesture to tell you how grateful I am.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1678.036

Martha's Vineyard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1703.702

What kind of girl were you in this school?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1710.295

Was it co-ed?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1711.597

I already know that, actually. I heard you say you would stare at boys that wouldn't look at you back and you would have pornographic thoughts about them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1720.246

I was thinking of Monica, of course, when I read that. Very similar to Monica's story in high school. This may sound like a huge swing, but... I'm going to set it up by saying we've seen this really predictable pattern where we have people who were on Disney and their sexuality was kind of repressed. Yeah, it was forbidden. And when they break out of the Mickey Mouse Club, it's on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1741.305

They're like super outwardly sexual. And then we've had a bunch of mostly actresses who their sexuality was overly embellished. They were sexualized as young performers and then they clamp down when they have a choice. And I was just thinking that for the girls that are super hot, that every guy is trying to fuck their almost state of rest is I got to keep that away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1763.465

But if you can't have it, I think you're liberated to be a pervert. Kind of like guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

179.461

I apologize. I couldn't do the dress shoes. That would be too distracting for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

185.205

You never lived on the west side, did you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

187.926

There was a pizzeria Italian joint out there called Earth, Wind, and Flower. And the owner had a ponytail. And he was in every commercial. And he would go, classic Italian food with that California flair. And he would pull his ponytail around.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1901.704

What do you think of that theory? Your theory is that if you are repressed like that, it makes you sort of a... Well, if you've concluded that these guys aren't even going to come at me, you don't have any defenses up. You're not like, I got to keep them away. They're trying to fuck me. As opposed to like, oh, they're not going to. And now you're kind of like, I think I want to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1967.123

Every trailer. It's great. It's your turn.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1982.608

And running point, she enters the coach's domain and he happens to be shirtless doing pull-ups. I do a lot of pull-ups, almost never shirtless.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

1993.154

It's a solid point. Might be better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

20.272

People were curious what I wore a suit for.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2005.888

It's like having Jordan there and there's two sports on the table. You can either film him playing ice hockey or play basketball.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2015.619

Yeah, we should get that top off and see how many pull-ups we can do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2049.443

Right. So slow. You almost want to speed him up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2076.946

We got in the teens. Does it help you to know I was 5'11 and 159 pounds? I've been this size since then. That does help. It does, right? And my girlfriend, she was in ninth grade.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2087.069

And she had enormous boobs and was a woman. We didn't know what else to do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2096.271

We were. We were Riverdale. And again, she was 15. She was in ninth grade.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2103.433

Yes. And she had already had sex once before and she had enjoyed it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2108.774

I mean, it was a very brief. We're being so honest. I had made a mixtape and I had hoped that the coitus would start exactly when Love My Way by the Psychedelic Furs came on. That was my favorite song. And it did. And I don't think I made it to the chorus. I had a condom on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2126.019

But then I didn't know what to do after that. I was like, when do I stop? Then I just kept pumping for a while because when I was that young, my penis just stayed hard. I just kept pumping. I was like, when do I? Is she going to tell me when this is over? Like, I'm ready for this whole thing to be over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

214.822

I don't think so. Early on, you may have found yourself living there because I lived there the first 10 years I lived here before I realized that's a terrible place to live. Is it? Oh, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2144.709

Yeah, hit me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2148.751

Well, I think at that age it was possible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2153.254

Probably within the first five seconds, I had already reached. So she didn't know?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2157.677

No, because I was wearing a condom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2160.278

Where I was on a couch, it feels relevant because there wasn't like a lot of options to move around. And I hadn't thought past that. I didn't know when does this conclude? And so I just kept humping. And the longer I was humping and I was like, this is awkward. I don't really know. When do we stop?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2186.886

So, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2191.448

You'd be in trouble if you tried to tell the story of a 13 year old and a 15 year old having sex.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2197.43

OK, I just want to bring up. So Monica, admittedly, she lived in deep fantasy and part of the fantasy was goodwill hunting. She watched it in her head.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2237.094

You'll be here all day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2239.216

Yeah. Get hydrated. Wear something very comfortable. Maybe bring your own couch cushion because it'll be all day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2248.347

You're very hot. I follow you on Instagram and I often look at pictures of you and I go, she's so hot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2253.993

I've told Monica that. I'm not doing this for your sake.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2259.798

Of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2275.071

Okay. So you liked boys, but did you not have a boyfriend through high school?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2280.276

Now, this is really personal, but we just talked about mine. And I got to bring you into it, Monica. Sure. It becomes a point. When I met Monica, she was 27, 8. And as she was approaching 30, I just started getting the sense maybe Monica had it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2295.905

Well, I asked you ultimately. I said to Kristen, I don't think Monica has been with a dude. And she's like, yeah, I think she has. And I'm like, I don't think so. And then I needed resolution to that kind of argument.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2306.712

Luckily, she didn't work for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2308.414

At the time, we were just friends. We argued about podcasts all the time. She hadn't. And then my first thought was, is it a religious thing? Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2319.97

Yeah. I was like, do you want to be married? Is it a religious thing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

238.615

Yes, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2396.381

Well, hold on, guys. Don't make me the enemy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2399.322

I was in a hick town and I was super large and we were bored.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2410.204

Did you? Monty had this too. There is an ambition. So if you do decide you're going to do something, anything in the world, you will figure out how to do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2417.565

And I think you pretty much are like, I'm doing this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2458.778

And everyone's already had five girlfriends that you're going to meet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2462.54

Right, exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2478.792

What do we eat when I'm with you? Am I getting the popcorn and the milk duds?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

249.564

White.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2530.238

75.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2530.338

Sorry. You go ahead and say sorry. Sorry. Sorry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2537.984

Are you 50? I just turned 50. Congratulations. Thank you. That's a good one. I made it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2566.593

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2570.596

What if they're dyslexic? First of all, I loved Parasite. But what if reading takes so much of your concentration, you're totally missing all the visuals?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2579.764

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2592.778

So... We have to go through a couple of the fun touch points, touchstones of your ride to here, which is, as you mentioned, Dartmouth. You wrote for their comedy magazine, Jack O'Lantern. Very briefly. It didn't work out?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2619.927

Right. And you were in an improv troupe. Which I loved. And you did stand up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2649.558

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2651.28

And you broke her nose.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2653.661

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2655.703

While they were there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2657.064

Oopsies. Do you think their presence added to that happening?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2674.276

Sure, that's a great plan. Forget where the audience is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2681.461

Did you hurt your hand? Because often, if you've broken someone's nose, you could break your hand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2689.366

Yeah, they don't think about the predators.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2692.589

Yeah, I've broken my hand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2708.061

I wouldn't want to ever see someone get punched. But also, I really wish I had seen that. You're going to remember that for your life. If you go to a play and one of the actors breaks, the other actress knows, especially if it's two women.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2727.204

She fell, right? She dropped.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2747.666

Yes, you get little miracles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2753.891

Well, I think that's why the first step of processing grief is denial. That's the denial phase. You're like, well, I felt it, but maybe she didn't. It was total denial.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2766.78

She has her own theater now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2784.491

Again, not to keep bringing it back to Jordan or Isaiah Thomas playing on a broken ankle in the finals. Just got to do it. It's game seven.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2793.017

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2797.64

I can only imagine them being from Chicago or at least Ike and how much they must talk about Jordan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2805.064

I love Ike so fucking much. There couldn't be a better guest. He is wonderful. He's coming. I think he's coming. Yeah, he's coming. He is. I was delighted to see him in the credits for Running Point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2818.012

Dave is his partner. He made the best joke I've ever heard, which is Dave is a Gentile. And Ike says that in several pitch meetings, he has said he lost a family member in the Holocaust. He fell off a guard tower. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

282.576

There's so many overlaps, but this will be a difference.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2877.625

So really quick, Jeannie Buss is the daughter of Jerry Buss, who had owned the Lakers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2899.383

When I was watching the title sequence, because it's giving us a pretty good layout of the setup is in the title sequence.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2906.269

And as I was watching it, I was like, well, this is Jenny Buss's story. And then I saw her name in the credits and I was like, oh, good. She's participated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2928.283

Is she married to Phil Jackson?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2931.264

They dated. Seriously dated. Yeah, yeah. For a long time. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2937.847

She loves comedy. She gets to hear his perfect walk-in anytime she wants. He does the very best Christopher Walken. In fact, I think he's who started the Christopher Walken impression. On SNL he used to do that, right? And it's not just that his accent's so perfect. It's he has tapped into what kind of things Walken would say. One of his famous ones is he goes, I don't like sports, but gymnastics.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2961.8

Boys or girls bouncing on the mat. It's exciting. It's not about the accent. It's that this guy would love gymnastics. Boys or girls bouncing on the mat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2973.047

That was a bad one. Don't judge me by it. I'll do it later.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2977.07

So that's great. She's married to him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

2992.297

Yes. Greatest coach of all time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3003.562

Then it's the L.A. fucking Lakers. It's its own thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3007.864

And it's glitzy and glammy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3026.782

Who was his favorite player?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3086.771

Minimally, you want to do the best version of what you thought it was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3090.373

And then if that's not what they want, great. Let me try to give it to you. But give me a chance to do the thing well that I think it should be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3104.161

Yeah. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3149.184

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3153.365

Well, I didn't know this about him until I was researching you today, that he went on a crazy run on Jeopardy. He started on Celebrity Jeopardy, won that, and then they brought him in. Did you know this, Monica? And they brought him into normal Jeopardy, and he fucking mopped up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

316.016

SNL.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3172.332

He's AI.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3199.983

What are his shows? Does he like like Blue Bloods and stuff?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3204.424

OK.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3218.106

Well, you don't want to watch what you make. People will be bummed at me that I haven't seen certain comedies. And I'm like, I don't love watching comedy because I can just feel the math most of the time and I can't get lost in it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3253.433

That kiss was the best kiss I think I've ever seen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3257.795

End of episode two.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3259.857

They shot it right. Held her head the right way. It was slow enough. Fuck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

33.624

It was for Mindy Kaling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

330.566

Well, it's comforting. And I'm happy you said that because, yes, I will not read a single thing unless my mother, she knows me enough. Once every three years, something is written so perfectly that I can't find something in the subtext I'm certain is a burn about me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3302.031

Us too, by the way. Don't let that character. Nobody wants to mislead you. We have two kids. You go to France and stay in Bradley Cooper's house. The year our kid was born. That was the last trip I took like that. And that was 2013.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3318.442

But the whole family.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3319.783

Yeah. Is that what you're referencing? Maybe that's true. That's true. I guess. We do go on family vacations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3325.208

No, no, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3327.09

No, no, no. None of that's happening. Really? No. We leave this house to go to the airport and we'll go on a vacation. But in general, in LA, we don't ever leave this house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3337.92

Yes, that's it. We go to the airport or we get in the bus and drive there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3344.545

I'm flattered by it. But when you got hired on The Office, did you know you were coming in as a performer?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3376.22

Yeah, right. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3396.797

You would still have makeup on under your hair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3425.171

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3427.713

Yeah, try as you might. I did that, though, for a movie, Let's Go to Prison. I'm like, yeah, I'm a prisoner. No hair, no makeup. And I was like, you're on film. You should probably put on a little mascara or something. You're just too vain. Yeah, I know. I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3447.869

Well, she'll find the thing. They cannot shoot my hands. I have the hands of a 90-year-old woman. No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3466.357

Our friend Anna just scours the internet. Well, you have to. And then sends Kristen pictures with her hands circled. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

35.546

I want to say Mindy Kaling's Kaling it, but it doesn't really work, but I want to say it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3513.421

Can I just say, I think most women who have just had a baby experience quite a decline. I think your body's like, hey, we have a very specific mission right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3542.887

I find him to be incredibly charming. Talk show appearances, but I've never heard long form.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3580.534

Okay. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3585.518

You didn't go to the next zone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

359.006

We've made a lot of just straight to you pledges on air going, Mindy, I promise you, you don't suck at it. I know you're great at it and you just need to come in and do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3590.082

Orchestrate some bump in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3594.866

I do think culturally the English are better at being interviewed. They have a tradition there of going on the show and being prepared. There's an expectation there that I think the bar is higher.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3622.79

I feel like there's a lot of more options.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3626.013

OK, so when you started acting and throughout the course of The Office, you ended up being in tons of movies. There had to be a point I'm imagining where you could have at least considered, do I want to continue writing or do I just want to act? Did you ever have those thoughts?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3652.439

What about post Mindy, though, when you do Ocean's 8?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3785.256

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3788.658

I relate to it deeply. You do? Because I was like, I'm not in the Judd click. I'm not in Will Ferrell's click. I'm not in Vince Vaughn or Owen's click.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3798.585

Yes. And even Cooper was in that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3802.148

He is. He is. But I did have the Groundlings click. And all those guys have Boom Chicago or I.O. I understand feeling like, oh, they're all from this thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

381.499

Yeah, it will, and I want it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3828.327

You kind of earn those clicks. No one knocks on your door and says, hey, you want to be in the Judd clip?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3879.064

Standoffish. Yes, yes, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3901.476

But then you get into this situation. You end up getting mad at yourself that you're not a certain type of person, but that certain type of person also wouldn't have gotten you there in the first place. If you were some crazy social butterfly, I don't know that you spend the time in your room writing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3914.202

I don't know that you bring notebooks to the movie theater when you're 15 and start writing down dialogue. There's a lot of things you probably don't do if you had that skill set. So it's like you can only be so regretful that you weren't that way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3950.053

You have a one-year-old, a four-year-old, and a seven-year-old?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3956.599

So I have three friends like Michael Scott, by the way, because mine are a little older. They're 10 and 11. Yeah. And they're just straight up friends. They're friends. Yeah. I took my 11 year old to Lisbon last year to see Taylor Swift. One of the best trips I've ever had with a woman in my life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3973.511

It's around the corner.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

3977.252

Which you're arguing with them because they have a different point of view about a political thing or a world event. That is so fun seeing their little brain. No, actually, I'm different than you. I'm going to show you. I'm like, oh, this is great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

398.286

I'll go a step further. We have had multiple guests on I was certain I hated. Forget even ambivalent about. I'm like, I don't like that guy. He's been a dick to me every time I've seen him. Or I don't like this person for X, Y, and Z. And I, too, am just as shocked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

40.371

She's Kaling it. Still doesn't work. Maybe a third time. Mindy Kaling's Kaling it. Wow. Check her out this fall on NBC. No, but what a delight. We've been bagging.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4001.303

They can, but they'll leave. That's the problem.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4011.992

It's a hack to just plan it way out. Right now, you should be making plans for March.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4017.375

Because right now you're like, I can't do anything in the next three weeks. Yes. But you think for some reason on March 20th, you'll be available. I think that's how you hack our disposition. Schedule it for way far out because you'll say yes and you'll put it in a calendar and then you'll just have to go because you do everything that's in your calendar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4039.111

Her phone just exploded.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4046.697

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4048.499

Listen, you guys both love fashion. You love rom-coms. I love fashion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4064.788

It was a show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4121.326

Both of our parents died in the same year, by the way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4123.568

Yeah, 2012.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

414.071

And I think it's weirdly comforting and makes me optimistic that even someone I'm convinced I don't like, if I sit down with them for two hours and I hear about them and where they're from, inevitably, I always like them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4174.741

So go buy all the stuff you didn't let yourself buy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4205.35

Do you think because you had such an active fantasy about what it was all going to be that men have had a hard time living up to what you were fantasizing about?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4261.008

I'll add, this will sound like pandering, but I believe it. I do think as a man becomes more successful and wealthy, his options widen. And I think for a woman, they narrow. The pool of men, you guys-

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

427.415

In 850 guests, we've had like three people I didn't like. And they weren't celebrities. They were experts that we just couldn't do it. They were maybe so smart and esoteric or something. I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4273.354

have to choose from that are not going to be threatened by your job and your wealth and your status and your attention is a very small pool i feel heartbroken for half the females we interviewed we were watching the paris hilton documentary and i'm like this guy ruins her show gets too drunk it makes us sing he's so jealous everyone wants her attention and it's like What's that girl to do?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4294.196

Who the fuck is she going to meet?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4388.271

Yeah. But again, I think I was designed to have this in that my mother was a gangster. She was a fucking super ambitious badass. And we had to get with the program. And I only attracted to people like that. I have to have a pretty good sense that you'll choose something over me to be interested.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4412.813

No, I think it is. I think most men, by no fault of their own, they grew up in a married house where mom didn't go to work. That was what was modeled. And so for me, that wasn't modeled. The notion that someone would not leave the house and go gather information and bring it back and share it with us seems crazy to me. But we've had a lot of male guests.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4430.406

Most men who are married to gangsters, their moms were gangsters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4435.31

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4436.731

He'll be able to handle a Mindy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4445.358

Yes. If it gets with the program.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4448.921

Come to your house for Christmas.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4496.701

Does your dad live with you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

452.125

We're going to come back, you know, make you uncomfortable. And I'm going to give Monica some time to prepare because she wouldn't even come in just now. She was hiding in the house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4553.817

Oh, wow. That was a meet cute at the apartment complex.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4578.691

Have you, I'll just say my experience. So my dad died in 2012. I was going home nonstop to do it all. I think you did the same thing. Yeah. He was a dependent the last several years of his life. It was taxing and we were about to have a child. And when he first died, my truest feeling was relief.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4599.127

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

460.051

I know, but that's part of what's cool about you. I'm already loving where this is headed. I just think you're hyper talented. I used to go to the set of Mindy to say hi to Mike Weaver. So for people who don't know, Mike Weaver was the DP on Parenthood the first two years. And then he went to your show as a director.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4600.767

Yeah. And the dynamic of if he called, I knew it was to get another thing. It just it was a hard thing to navigate. And so when he died initially, I just kind of felt relief. I don't have all the stuff I normally deal with and I'm already busy. I was shooting on Parenthood, just directed a movie that came out. And then about three months later, I had the wave of like. Oh boy, he's gone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4621.995

And then obviously throughout the last 11 years of having kids, I go, oh my God, what do you love these girls? I'm like heartbroken. He didn't get to meet these little girls. He would have been so in love with them. And it's weird. My missing of him is only increased. It's taken the opposite trajectory. I would have thought.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4697.455

You've seen it get really, really ugly. And my dad's saying like diagnosis to death four months. There's no treatment for small cell carcinoma. It's not going to happen. But that whole four months, you're like, how ugly will it get? Well, I have to decide at some point. He went out relatively peacefully. I'm relieved about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4717.469

My memories stopped being about the last couple of years and my memories and my dreams, he'd be younger in them. I was able to re-remember the stuff that came before the illness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4759.578

Yeah, it's true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

478.927

The greatest and the most gorgeous, studly man.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4831.118

You want to drive? Let's go. I love those moments because, of course, I relate so much. I relate to I just wanted it. Like, when can I call the shots? I don't agree with anything that's happening around me. And I just subject to it. And so I go, oh, I love it. It's fucking maddening. Both of our kids are so stubborn, but I have so much gratitude. They're stubborn.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4850.812

Everyone I know and like and respect and has done the things I've wanted to do. Stubbornness is, I think, an essential ingredient. And I just got to let it happen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4860.738

I didn't live in fantasies about girls. As you know, at 12, that fantasy came true or 13. But I had such rich fantasies about being rich, about being famous. Wealth was something that was so coveted and it was going to feel a certain way. Being accepted by famous people was going to feel a certain way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4878.015

They're a little underwhelming when they happen, or at least they didn't fill the thing. But I have got to say, and people think I'm baby shaming when I say this, but boy, did that thing for me 10x what I was expecting. Has that been your experience?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

489.818

I saw him in the credits and I got excited.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4907.734

None of them ever exploded.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4913.336

Yeah, obviously.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

493.061

But I'd go say hi to him and I would hope to God you would come out of the soundstage at some point so I can meet you. I just genuinely have been wanting to meet you for over 10 years. I'm a huge fan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4940.918

Yeah, she's going to name her daughter Monica. She's already declared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4945.603

But those can be powerful. Favreau, to put him on blast, when I was doing the movie Zathura and he directed it, I was around his family a lot. And his daughter Madeline, we would go trick-or-treating and she would ride on my shoulders the whole time. Like, we just were in love. That made me go like, oh, I must have a Madeline before I die. I got to have this little girl on my shoulders.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

4995.01

When I see babies, I do run over. I'm like, who's this new person that just got to planet Earth? What's going on with you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5073.086

Let's revisit when your daughter's two, maybe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5076.707

We'll revisit. Let's not get a permanent. Let's not get a tattoo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5081.509

OK, well, we talked about Running Point. I just want to say I watched it. First of all, as I said, I got so excited in the credits because Mike Weaver, I couldn't love more. I love that you're writing it with Ike and Dave. I love Jeannie Buss. I love the story. Kate's an ex-girlfriend. So that's complicated. We're ex-lovers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5101.246

No, it was a summer romance right before I met Kristen. Hot. Three months, four months.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5112.852

I was. I was friends with her brother, Oliver. I'm trying to think of the order of how, you know what it was? She was playing poker when she was still married at Oliver's house. And I was there one night and I put on the show of my life for her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5127.219

Yes. And I think at the time I was probably 30 and she was 25. Best performance ever. And I knew, oh, she kind of likes me. She's married, but she likes who I am. And then, yeah, I got invited to a Halloween party. And then a couple of years later, a year later or something, she was divorced. I was single for the first time in eight and a half years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5146.065

And we went to a dinner at a restaurant with friends. And then we had a romance. She's been on and we've discussed it publicly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5156.994

Yeah, there was a lot of travel. I got to meet Kurt and Goldie. It was very exciting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

517.018

So, yeah, I think you're hyper talented. I love your acting. I think you're a fucking babe. I think you're hot. Everything about you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5176.12

Are you obsessed with her? Because Monica is obsessed with the row.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5197.854

Is this someone's telephone number?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5220.372

She doesn't have old Indian money. She has nouveau riche podcast money.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5241.129

These stand-ups are making tens of millions of dollars.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5296.613

Oh, yeah. There's like almost going to be an agrarian revolution.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5343.263

Sure, sure, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5357.558

I'm obsessed with it, too. And I admit all the time I'm a very greedy pig. OK, well, I want to make sure we talked about running point enough. As we discussed, I saw it. It's great. I blew through three of them intending to only watch one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5370.016

And I love everyone in it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5373.399

He's so handsome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5377.783

Oh, beautiful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5381.466

And smart. I'm friends with him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5388.712

OK, so you missed the table read.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5407.057

He's very, very funny. And he's very well read.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5410.398

Oh, yeah. He is tangentially related to Henry David Thoreau. Really? He comes from good stock.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5419.721

No. And Kate's great. We love seeing her do this. You were already obsessed with her as a rom-com person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

544.198

She would totally allow it. I always say if you're going to say about me either I was a genius or the funniest person alive or hot, I'm picking hot across the board. A lot across the board. Yes. I didn't have it. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5488.396

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5494.357

That's her job. She's good at it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5499.878

She's so great. Ike's dad is in it, which delights me because. He was so good in jury duty. And I'm like, this guy, I can't believe he was a judge. He was born to ask.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

55.399

Day one. Put it in the atmosphere, the universe. And boy, if you're patient, sometimes dreams can come true. They can indeed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5514.242

He's the family lawyer, which is great, of an old school, multi-generational.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5530.087

Oh, us too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5534.428

Absolutely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5549.592

Well, he's a lawyer. Good for him. Well, Mindy, we waited a long time and I'm so happy. I hope it lived up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5559.62

We love you. We do so much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5585.139

Well, you're never social, so I'll never see you out in public. So I guess I'm glad that I got this. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5593.223

Truly an honor. Everyone check out Running Point. I only had to watch one and I watched three. I love it. Oh, the other thing, your mom's name is Swati.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5600.407

So we just learned this term. People in England say swatty for nerd. It means like you're a swatty. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5607.071

And it was an Indian English woman who explained.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5610.593

It means you really sweat. You work hard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5616.897

Swatty through and through. You bleed swatty. I do. There you go. All right. Well, we love you. Thank you for coming and come back so we can see you again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5636.094

We've got a bit of a role reversal happening. Let me remove my spectacles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5641.78

Oh! Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5646.801

We do have a role reversal. Usually you're dressed quite warm and I'm dressed in a chilly, like, no, you're dressed very warm and I'm dressed very scantily.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5659.209

It's a hoodie. I don't know if I'm going to say it's a jacket.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5675.337

Because it has a zipper?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5676.898

So if something has a zipper, you upgrade it to jacket status. Jacket or coat. If your Uncle Jack climbed up on the roof of the house and the ladder fell over, would you help your Uncle Jack off?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5693.161

Have you ever heard that one?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5696.343

There was a lot of gold in the hallways of Spring Mills Elementary. That's from way back in 83, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5703.348

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5710.293

Yeah. It's just Jack. Somehow Jack got in my vocab. Jacket. Correct. That's why. Fun update from armchairs. It turns out there's a lot of armchairs that are very, very in the know when it comes to Eames chairs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5726.066

That doesn't surprise me. People are that it's like if you're into architecture, you're probably in the Eames chairs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5731.328

So now I do want to correct one person like hate to disappoint you. This doesn't disappoint me. It's worse. OK, so DAX isn't is an acronym.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5742.561

For the chair. For the Eames chair. Okay. So I can tell you what it stands for if you're interested. Yep. Okay. So it's an abbreviation or an acronym for dining, D, armchair, A, on X base. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5762.68

Great. But as we talked about DAX from the book, The Adventures was also an acronym. Initials. Right. So that's great. I think that's even better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5773.286

I don't think it took away from the sim at all. I think it made it more simmy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5781.51

When?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5785.671

Oh, yes. Yeah, I guess we should.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5791.03

Yes. We recorded on Thursday and then I went out to eat with some friends that were in town. Oh, Ken Goldberg, previous guest. Ding, ding, ding. Roboticist and his lovely family. So we went out to mess hall, met this great arm cherry. I don't know if I've told you about this arm cherry. There's an arm cherry and I see him on Instagram too. He has autism and he left a note for me at

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5818.112

the restaurant knowing I go there sometimes. So I got this beautiful note for him and then I wrote him a note back. And then I actually met him that night because he happened to be there. So come home, whatever, no big deal. That's Thursday night, Friday, previous guest Seth Green comes over with his beautiful daughter and wife.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5833.968

It was a weekend of previous guests and we're all in the yard playing with the baby. The baby's way too cute. I want you to meet her so bad. She's so talkative and she's not even three. And she was hugging me and she said, give you a big hug. She goes, I love him. I love you. I love him. I was melting. I was a puddle for like three hours playing with this little girl. Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5860.713

The red hair, little red hair, green eyes, red hair cares. I don't know. Okay. Anyways, the, uh, Claire got thirsty. We were in the yard. So I was like, I'll just run into the studio and grab some water out of the fridge, go to grab some water, the fridge. And I'm like, huh? Rob took all of the cameras out of the studio this weekend. He's like, no, he's moonlighting on another job.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5887.083

And he's just he's embezzling. Basically, he's just taking the equipment I've bought. And he's got side projects and a side hustle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5895.265

I mean, that still means I bought. Well, OK, so potato, potato. Also, I need to say earlier in the day, this is relevant. It's very relevant, actually. I was, I took a long bike ride. I pull him into my driveway. Carly's pulling out. She's got the window down. She's like, do you always do it? And I'm like, what? And then I slowly start turning around on my bicycle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5914.602

And then I'm like going like half a mile an hour while I'm trying to talk to her. Right. And I have the clip on bike shoes in, which I'm still an amateur at.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5923.793

And so I have this moment where I'm about to fall over, but I can't pull my foot off the pedal to stop. So I just fell over like a sheet of plywood. I just fell. It was so it was the stupidest fall of my life. Just imagine being on a bike and letting yourself go completely 90 degree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5941.448

No, it wasn't nearly as bad as a skating accident on my birthday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5946.006

Okay. Thumbs up. Yeah. Fall guy. Yeah. So I broke my phone when I hit the ground. I guess I hit hard enough that between my thigh and the cobblestone, I broke my phone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

595.765

Everyone already knows where I live. It's fine. We got to give credit to Kristen a lot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5956.955

So... I'm like, oh, yeah, but I got to add I'm driving to the mall, which I don't normally do. It's like it's going to be a three hour ordeal. Right. And I can't get my phone to turn on. I've tried every protocol. I've held all the buttons for all these different ways. And I'm just like praying that I can get a new phone and they can transfer everything at the genius bar. And I get there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5977.638

And of course, the woman turns my phone on. It turns right on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5982.64

I told her I compare it to when you've been sick for like two weeks, you finally decide to go to the doctor and in the exam room, you feel wonderful. Fuck, it's over right now that I'm at the doctor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

5991.843

So that was happening. Now cut back to in here, realizing none of the cameras are here. I can't call Rob because my phone is broken and it's transferring for nine hours. So then I have Carly call Rob. I say to Rob, let's act it out, Rob. Hey, what's going on? Not much. What's going on? Hey, did you take all the cameras out of the studio? Nope. Nope. You don't have the cameras. No, definitely not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

601.227

No, fuck her. We're over her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6013.945

Okay. Well, we were robbed. Oh, what else did they take? I don't really know. I just discovered all. So whatever. Yeah. That's that conversation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6023.511

And then I asked Rob, will you come take stock? I don't know what all gear is in Rob's zone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6030.415

So Rob comes over. Now... Now, this is what sucks. Now, I'm really kind of distracted for the rest of my play date with Seth's daughter, which is a bummer because all of them, right? I want to be right in the thick of it. You want to be present. But I'm like, fuck, when did this happen? Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

604.689

She had her 18 years. She has my man. She's done. But yes, the yard for me too. I'm from Michigan. And the definition of having made it was you would have a big yard. You could run around it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6046.287

Also, some weird thing happened where when I came home on Thursday night from the dinner with Ken Goldberg, I noticed that my trailer door was open, which I didn't understand. That was like... That was just, you know, you notice little things. Yep. Shut that. And then I was like, okay, well, I, well, it happened between Thursday when we recorded and now. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6062.508

So I'm going to presume I'm going to start with when it starts getting dark last night. So.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6067.378

Half hour after we went to go to dinner, two dudes. You have cameras basically. I have cameras everywhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6073.203

Yes. Now that's its own. That takes a long time. What camera am I looking at? I don't know where they came at on the property. Yeah. So I do waste a good hour looking at footage from, I don't see anything. But then I see that they have jumped over the pedestrian gate. They're in full masks. And then they went up into my gym. I'm watching this now on all the cameras. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6096.622

They go into Kristen's office. They come out. They go up into the attic. They go down into the studio. They take all the cameras. They head out. It's 10 minutes. That's it. Start to finish. And the very frustrating thing is... On camera, I see them. They exit the house with all this gear and they have two Lime scooters parked against the wall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6122.69

OK, not like fucking COVID masks. I'm talking full masks. Yeah. One of our neighbors pulls in, headlights bright on these two guys with full mask, holding a bunch of stolen cameras, loading it on a bird scooter. And they just cruise by. Yeah. And they don't call anybody. So I was a little bit like, oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6146.505

If I roll in, I see I'm out of the car. It's on. Oh. Oh, anyways, I don't recommend that to whoever that was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6157.119

I would have called the police and I would have followed them on the fucking scooters in a car. They can't outrun you. I would have stayed with them while I was on the phone with 911. They might have had guns. They had cameras, I think is what they had. Lots of expensive cameras.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6170.162

The thing that I find rough about that, again, I was like, you can afford to replace the cameras. It sucks. They're expensive. It really sucks. It really sucks. It is quite an expensive ordeal. You can't report it to your insurance or my insurance will go up over time. That doesn't justify, you know, so that's what I hate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6192.846

I don't think anyone does. But the obsession of like, are they coming back? I know. Why wouldn't they come back?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6202.87

I'm now like, well, I'm going to have to be watching this like crazy. I'm going to have to get loud alarms over there. I have to do a lot of stuff now. And I think that's the thing I resent is it's just the anxiety of are they coming back?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

621.775

Yes. Okay, Monty, do you want to share or do you want to go later?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6223.752

They didn't want our memorabilia.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6226.956

Oh, well, they- They made a huge mistake. They slept on a gem. So here's the blessing though. I wouldn't have gone in to the studio all weekend. Why would I come in here? This is our place of work and it was the weekend. And we had a really great, wonderful guest on Monday. And we would have arrived with no cameras. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6248.175

So, again, I couldn't help but be grateful that I at least discovered it on Friday. Rob then had the weekend of his life trying to track down five new cameras.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6261.341

I hate knowing they were in my gym and stuff. I hate it. I'm sure Kristen hates it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6266.404

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6269.297

It was a bummer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6270.501

Now let's talk about victories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6273.647

Oh, I flew to Vegas on Saturday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6276.389

That's worth reporting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6278.271

Our sweet best boy, Jimmy Kimmel, was being honored by this great charity that works with Cleveland Clinic that does work on Alzheimer's and Parkinson's neurological disorders. And it provides a ton of support for the caregivers of all these people who have these conditions. 11 million people are caregiving. Wow. So went to Vegas just for the day. Yeah. And I went gambling with Kristen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6306.364

And I wouldn't be shocked if we get barred from the MGM. I don't know that they'll let us back at the tables.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6314.712

Because we put it to them so hard. We won $225. Wow. So. Cool. Probably will get barred.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

633.465

Too many, some would argue. Let's be honest. They're taking over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6330.345

They do at certain games. Yeah. Yes. In fact, it's in Nate Silver's book. So the people are really good at counting cards, which is not illegal, but the casino has the option of denying you to play there for any reason they want. Right. So they will notice someone's counting cards in a single deck or double deck blackjack, and then they will not allow them to gamble anymore. Got it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6355.534

So a lot of these people. Yeah. And ultimately, I think there was the Harvard. There was some Harvard thing where they over the course of 10 years, they won millions of dollars. Oh, wow. With a system. Again, not illegal. They weren't somewhere like tap in any devices or anything. It was just all math. But they all ultimately all of them were barred from all these casinos.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6377.779

Yeah. OK. Sunday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6380.26

Sunday, Sunday, Sunday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6383.021

Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6387.664

It went perfect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

639.112

Only seven. But I like that you've made it bigger because that feels good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6396.635

It was a very well-run, tight show. It was. I was impressed. Yeah. That motherfucker's straight live.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6404.896

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6406.517

There was only a couple of hiccups and had nothing to do with anyone's writing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6413.081

Oh, there were technical things?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6423.127

That's rough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6426.029

For a live show, that's not too bad. Not too bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6433.957

Yes. And I was backstage with the children.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6437.26

You had a great dress.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6440.183

I noticed on your post, you had like a thousand comments. People were exploding. Well, I would argue some spraying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6511.447

Yeah, she needs to go out on town a little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6522.671

What a team. I want to shout out everyone that works in this whole— organism that is something like this. Marcel. Publicist. Who I love, who's been around for 20 years. I love him so much. Sweetest boy alive. Jenny doing hair. Yeah. Best vibe possible. And best. And best in the biz. Yeah. Simone, makeup, incredible. Incredible. Known her forever. Yeah. Who am I leaving? Anna's there crushing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6552.705

You're there crushing. Nicole is styling the fuck out of it. It's incredible. Everyone just works so calm. Like it's such a well, sometimes I'm like, I'll be doing a talk show as a guest and I'm walking to my green room and I look in the other people's screen. And sometimes I look in and it's just fucking madness, right? It's like people panicking. That energy is rough for me. That's not the vibe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6577.237

So just well done to the whole team.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6615.536

We had started it, but yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6617.996

Yeah, because.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6622.357

This was last weekend and we had our anniversary two weeks before that or a week before that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6631.399

And we recorded before we launched.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6634.1

I'm saying brand new.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6639.624

Then you're dead right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6689.888

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6692.75

Sweet night. Yeah. I was happy for all the ladies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6696.093

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6699.036

Oh God. She can also, she can fucking, she is so calm and confident. It's boggling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

67.484

That's the key.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6706.758

She's so chill and fucking not in a hurry. Nope. She's like a great comedian. That's not in a hurry. Yeah. Stand up. Yeah. It's impressive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6717.701

Okay. Here's my crazy moment. So we're leaving and I'm carrying tons of bags and stuff and I've got the kids in tow and we're going to the car and I literally bump into meet cute. My biggest crush, Timothy Chalamet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6745.227

Yeah, he was hanging in the hallway with his mom when I bumped into him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6749.269

And I go, hey, first of all, he's much taller than I was expecting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6754.231

Tall boy. Oh, he's so dreamy. And I go, oh my God, I'm so horny for you. And he goes, oh, thank you. And I just I can't believe how into your career I am. I'm following it like I'm a teenager. And he's like, oh, my God. Thanks, dude. I tap danced away from that interaction. I was smitten. Nice. I loved his speech.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6778.561

We talked on the way home about it. Kristen was like, it's weird to hear someone admit they want to be great and they want to be like Brando and all these people. And I go, but why? If you're a snowboarder, you would say, I want to be the next Sean White or I want to be Jordan. That's that's what you should. If you're entering into an endeavor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6798.045

As your main focus of your life. Yeah. You should damn well be trying to get to the greatest it's ever been done. Totally. I loved it. I thought. Yeah, why is everyone acting like they don't want to be that? That's awesome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6813.091

It just goes to show when you love somebody, whatever they say, you kind of like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6825.495

He's not. Yeah. He would have said Burt Reynolds or Ben Affleck. Sure. You know, ultra famous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6837.158

Great night, Fawn.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6840.019

Great, great night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6860.897

Did you enjoy listening back while you're editing? Yeah, it was great. Did it help reconfirm it happened?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6878.694

They, they guessed Mindy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6880.916

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

69.866

What a joy. And how sweet. We were like, do you hear how much we want you on? And she's like, yeah, I thought it was a bit. We're all what's wrong with all of us. She's a queen. She's a queen. She's a queen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6902.094

Right. I just want to add, I've had pizza a couple million times and I've never had food poisoning. I don't know how you would get, how a bacteria would still be alive after it goes through the oven. I know. This lends itself to the conspiracy theory, I think. It does. Okay, so hit us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6924.297

No, you blast, even mad cow, you blast that in the furnace, it's dead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6929.14

Mad cow. Oh my God. Where my mad cow's at?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6946.247

Wait, didn't you say five guys delivered the pizza?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6951.911

So that to me is what's... Very problematic. Five guys delivered the pizza. If five guys show up to deliver a pizza for me, I'm not opening the door. They're going to rush in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6965.043

Not rushing. I'm not saying Russians are all home invaders. I'm saying rush in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6973.925

Oh, that's a fun rumor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

6981.306

This reminds me of you were too young to really watch people's court a lot. Right. Did you ever watch people's court? No. It was the precursor to Judge Judy. Yeah. And let's see, Doug Llewellyn was a commentator. He would name the cases. And this was like someone who ordered a pizza suing the pizza delivery guy. And Doug Llewellyn called it the case of the painful pepperoni pizza.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7007.768

And it was so memorable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7015.051

Oh, I just played it last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

708.182

That helps right away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7140.319

This was exciting. Jeannie Boss. Yeah. Owner of the Liqueurs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7150.134

You've never been to a game.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7151.835

You got to figure that out. It's a party. In fact, I just saw Instagram yesterday of Will Ferrell and Chad Smith, drummer for the Chili Peppers. You know, they look identical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7164.204

Type in Chad Smith. Your horns are going to fall off your head.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7170.593

And they're nodding back and forth to each other and doing a whole thing. Oh, wow. That is crazy. He's also like 6'4". Wow. He's tall like Will as well. Yeah. So they were like both at the game and they were making a real. Oh, look. Oh, my God. That is so funny. It's fucking freaky. Yeah. If Chad's nose was just a little narrower, there's no way to tell them apart.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7196.306

Twinsies. Twinning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7209.334

Oh, my God. She's rich.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7227.447

Whoa.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7231.091

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7232.432

Because we're tanking it, right? And we don't have it. But people are going to connect that since we started reporting, it's been going down and then they're going to attack us under the veil of night. What is that? Go ahead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7254.209

Yes, you have to admit that. I think the first one was like $102,000.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7263.631

Except for me causing the Lions loss. That's still up in the air. And my ring. Yeah, and your ring. Lost us the election.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7287.246

It's good to know they transferred them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7295.814

Yeah, the amount of months that goes into harvesting those eggs. Yeah. Can I use that word, harvesting? Sure. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7320.46

The irreplaceability of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7323.843

Yeah, that's scary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7334.909

She makes it look good?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7339.192

Would you ever get an answer from your contractor? When I was with you, you emailed them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7344.377

Let's look at it. Let's find out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7359.528

4,300 square feet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7368.196

No, I actually think it's like 4290 something. That includes all the other buildings? Shut up, Rob.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7374.543

That's a side. We can have that, and you'll win that one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7377.786

But right now, the house we live in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7380.189

Not this studio. I'm not counting the studio. You should count it, too, then.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7388.357

Oh, I appreciate it. You would have figured out the cameras were stolen a little earlier. No, no, no. Anyways, what's your house? We're getting distracted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7396.903

45.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

742.334

We talk about a show probably more than anybody else.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7435.12

Above it. Separate. Yeah. So that's, these are all great points.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7439.664

Those are great, great points. But I have one counter that's very, again, you're going to have to acknowledge how powerful this is. When I go to sell this house, it is illegal for me to say that the house is more than 4,300 square feet. You cannot include any out housing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7455.588

That's not included. So when I put it up on the market, people will think they're bidding on a 4,300 square foot house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7464.75

I'm just saying the city only acknowledges 4,300 and the real estate's only acknowledged 4,300. Rob. I get both your points.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7480.055

I also have an acre. I'll admit my property is bigger than yours.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7484.475

Let's talk about- Now these buildings are going to be on top of each other.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7495.317

If I'm trying to sell it for a price that would be commensurate with how much of these outbuildings I have, they won't even come look at it. They'll be like, I'm not driving across town to look at a 4,300 square foot house for that much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7527.257

Both things are true. I have more. Square footage all told. Yeah. And what's also true is that your house is bigger than my house. Oh, boy. That's true. My garage isn't my house. But your garage... My house is the building I live in and eat in and sleep in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7549.637

You spend... The same amount of time in this building as I do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7558.824

If you want to work across the street, you can be in that building as much as the owner.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7565.97

I know you're bummed that your house is bigger, but it just is. We just found out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7574.156

Have a bigger house?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7575.737

Because I want you to have a bigger house than me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7582.442

Is that dark?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7584.524

It is not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7592.97

You feel darkness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7597.674

I'm locked into the story. The story is fantastic. I love the story. Such a great American story. Think what a good story. Take us out of it. There's a family in Louisiana.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7614.511

A woman comes in to clean their house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7620.345

A woman comes in to clean their house. Okay. Okay. And then within a few short years, that same woman builds a house across the street that's bigger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7633.972

I love that story. What is wrong with that story?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7650.436

Well, I can't say babysitter because I'm trying to get you out of, you're locked into your story and I'm trying to make a story very similar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7673.732

But could have. And then a few years later built a house across the street that was bigger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7683.276

How do you not love that story?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7693.06

At no point in this story have I said the maid in Louisiana was gifted a house across the street.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7717.581

Well, you're making of all those assumptions about the woman cleaning the house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7736.526

Disagree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7739.71

Yes, I love that. That doesn't diminish the story at all. It's a story of someone starting on the bottom rung of a ladder and being at the very top of the ladder five years later. It's like a great story. It's like the most triumphant story. I don't know why you can't accept. That's more curious to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7760.669

Is the story that if you heard about, you would love has happened to you and you feel removed from it. Yes. Different, but yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7782.037

Because all of that came from the job you got. You didn't buy the house across the street because you went out and did a TV show for 12 years. Right. I think that's your I think you might have a hang up about that. And I don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7798.947

You directly rose through this household and ended up going into business with one of the owners of the household, which created all this. Yeah, that's great. That's a different story than mine. I have a great story, but it's a much different story. Sure. I cobbled together 25 different acting jobs before I bought the house. It's not a story of me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7824.402

It's this is a story of someone entering GM and becoming the CEO.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7841.957

Yeah. Well, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7863.467

I just think it's a great I love the story. And it's an even better story, I think, if your house is bigger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7880.368

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I guess that really, this would probably satisfy her greatly, this debate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

7886.79

All right. Love you. Follow Armchair Expert on the Wondery app, Amazon Music, or wherever you get your podcasts. You can listen to every episode of Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now by joining Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Before you go, tell us about yourself by completing a short survey at wondery.com slash survey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

827.773

This can often happen to the best of us. If you hear someone being completely candid and you have told yourself that you're not allowed to be and somehow this person's doing it and getting away with it, sometimes it can lead to some resentment. It kind of shatters your story a little bit. We went and saw Husson stand up and Monica had kind of a breakthrough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

846.661

She's like, I've been hiding my Indian-ness my whole life, thinking I could only succeed if I assimilated. And here this person just showed me, no, I could have embraced it the whole time and done the same thing. And she, lovely enough and is confident enough, could be happy about that, but could have also fucked her up a little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

92.006

Okay, Mindy Kaling. We're so excited she is here today. Award-winning actor, screenwriter, and producer. The Mindy Project. The Office. Never Have I Ever. Sex Lives of College Girls. Inside Out. And her new series out on Netflix now, Running Point. What a delight. So special. Yeah, I really like her. Please enjoy Mindy Kaling. Kaling it. Who's Kaling it? This fall on NB's Really Great Station.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

923.089

What's Cambridge like? Is it a lot of professors?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

942.923

What were they doing in Africa?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Mindy Kaling

991.157

Yeah. Yeah. That's really interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

0.542

Willkommen bei PreSales Unleashed, deinem Podcast für Sales Engineering im B2B-Software-Vertrieb. Und heute haben wir eine ganz besondere Folge, weil ich bin am 1. Januar auf einen kleinen Ausflug an die frische Luft gegangen und war eine Runde joggen. Und beim Joggen, da kommen mir manchmal die guten Ideen. Und eine Idee war, ja verdammt, warum machen wir denn keine Predictions-Folge?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

1120.93

Es folgt Martin Kraus, er ist Director Solution Consulting bei ServiceNow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

1444.069

Als nächstes hören wir Peter van Zijst. Er ist Manager Solutions Consulting bei LastPass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

1593.101

Die nächste Einreichung kommt von Sarah Helle. Sie ist Director Sales Engineering bei Cognigy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

1884.006

Nun folgt Stefan Reimann. Er ist Head of Solution Engineers bei Hewlett Packard Enterprise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

1988.613

Als nächstes folgt Thomas Heinz, er ist Senior Manager Solutions Engineering bei Okta.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

20.776

Und bevor jetzt Jan und ich hier unsere Weisheiten ins Mikrofon tröten, frage ich doch einfach mal Führungskräfte aus dem Feld, was ihre Prediction für 2025 ist. Also eine ganz besondere Folge. Ich habe tatsächlich in der Summe zwölf Menschen gefragt und somit zwölf Einreichungen bekommen, die hier einen Beitrag jetzt leisten für diese Predictions-Folge und dabei wünsche ich dir ganz viel Spaß.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

2085.355

Und last but not least, als nächstes folgt Thorsten Rusch. Er ist Director Solutions Consulting bei Cornerstone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

2317.085

Das war dieses Mal eine sehr ungewöhnliche Folge. Lasst es uns gerne wissen, ob sie dir gefallen hat. Dann können wir solche Formate öfter mal ins Leben rufen. Das war für dich Pre-Sales Unleashed, dein Podcast für Sales Engineering im B2B-Software-Vertrieb.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

2330.169

Wenn dir diese Folge gefallen hat und du wertvolle Impulse mitnehmen konntest, abonniere gerne die Show, hinterlasse uns eine 5-Sterne-Bewertung in deinem Podcast-Player. So können auch andere von dieser Folge profitieren. Schön, dass du dabei warst und bis zum nächsten Mal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

242.896

Kommen wir zur zweiten Einreichung. Ihr Name ist Dola Akenduro und sie ist Director Pre-Sales bei HubSpot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

51.102

Bevor ich jetzt gleich die erste Person anmoderiere, ein kleines Easter Egg für dich. Sehr viele der Lieder haben erwartungsgemäß auch auf den Trend AI etwas zu sagen. Einer dieser Lieder hat tatsächlich den Beitrag mit AI generieren lassen. Und ich rede dabei nicht vom Inhalt, der kam nämlich von der Person selber, aber die Stimme ist komplett synthetisch durch AI generiert.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

554.793

Übrigens, was all diese Führungskräfte gemeinsam haben, sie sind Teil unserer deutschsprachigen Pre-Sales Leadership Community. In einem geschützten Rahmen sprechen wir dort über alles, was dich als Führungskraft im Pre-Sales bewegt. Zum Beispiel Pre-Sales Talententwicklung, Pre-Sales Playbooks in Deutschland versus international, Pre-Sales Incentive-Modelle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

572.82

Das sind alles Themen, die wir kürzlich in dieser Community aktiv diskutiert haben. Das Ziel dabei ist immer ein gemeinsamer Austausch, voneinander zu lernen, die Weiterentwicklung deiner Pre-Sales-Organisation und von dir als Führungskraft. Der Fairness halber sei dazu gesagt, bist du keine Führungskraft in Pre-Sales, ist diese Community nicht für dich.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

589.97

Deswegen prüfen wir jede Anmeldung tatsächlich einzeln. Und wenn das jetzt für dich noch interessant klingt, dann schau mal in die Shownotes. Dort findest du nämlich einen Link zur Anmeldung.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

70.918

Deine Aufgabe beim Zuhören, versuch mal herauszuhören, welcher der zwölf Lieder das getan hat. Und wenn du glaubst, es entdeckt zu haben, dann schreib mir gerne mal auf LinkedIn. Also wir starten mit dem Andreas Schmidt. Er wird auch gerne Andi genannt. Er ist Director Solution Sales bei Ivanti.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

719.042

Als nächstes hören wir die Prediction von Julian Preto. Er ist Head of Customer Advisory bei SAP Deutschland.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

924.084

Nun hören wir Katharina Baum, Solution Engineering Leader bei Miro.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

James Marsden

981.975

Als nächstes folgt der Lars von Strahlen. Er ist Head of Presales bei Babtec.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1088.08

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1090.963

You just can't tell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1108.259

I didn't know that's where that came from.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1111.001

Yeah, I didn't know that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1128.31

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1132.332

Yeah. No one's coming out here to get me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1170.863

I know it's miserable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1325.336

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1362.723

He didn't like that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1378.517

Oh, I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1627.999

Today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1631.602

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1800.279

Oh, jeez.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1801.96

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1812.146

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

184.052

If you like them, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1846.479

Give me the real. Show me the ropes. So he showed me the ropes. Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1857.787

If you dare.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

188.355

It's time to leave.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1926.357

So what was the trick?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1936.946

Now we're talking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

1967.636

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

199.973

You can't live in both.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

201.674

Well, it does feel like a riddle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

203.895

Like, how could you possibly live in both?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2145.606

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

215.161

Oh, that'd be fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2201.011

Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2257.49

Oh!

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2280.154

Uh-huh, uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

236.881

That's fair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2388.706

It just felt like baby steps.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2430.763

If you're trying, someone will come help you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2455.526

Probably a woman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

247.464

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2595.734

Yeah, you were able to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2599.816

Now it's worth $20 million.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2623.246

That's a big moment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

27.209

Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2725.911

Yeah. It's a full circle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2760.808

I had a feeling he's the opposite of that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2788.473

It's very technical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2832.409

Well, because there's an insecurity for them. It's like, if I don't have enough, what if I didn't do it right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

29.351

I'm picking... Morgie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2929.709

Just wanted to be there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

2972.04

Oh, oh, oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3033.952

Also subject. I mean, I'm sure all of it added up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3067.996

And it holds up. It's still so smart and so good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3119.767

Oh, you twisted your ankle doing that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

313.43

Did you ever play? Did she teach you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3206.975

Yep, yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3231.356

Oh, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3233.885

What is it about that role that you think just makes it impossible?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

324.045

Same. That's the big hurdle, the learning part, unfortunately.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3325.926

It's also so funny to me that the bucket list was invented from the movie, and now it's just a ubiquitous phrase that everyone uses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3332.632

It's crazy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3416.108

Yeah, but he was probably saying the same thing. It's a similar situation for him, I'm sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3426.676

I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3431.538

I think it could be definitely true. I mean, maybe not him, but everyone else then on Earth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

349.98

What is that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

351.861

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3541.934

Yeah. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3545.235

Thank you very much. You got promoted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

355.455

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

361.857

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3732.109

Okay. So you had to quit sailing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3755.241

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3780.385

And TV's awesome now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3794.824

Can you go anywhere without getting involved? No, I stay home.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3885.61

I'm saying this obsession with your voice. When that first started, were you like, what's going on here? Or were you like, yeah, I get it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3916.877

Play with it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3925.647

I want to watch it tonight now that we're talking about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3957.887

All of it. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3973.139

Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert. If you dare.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3982.58

I sure hope there weren't any mistakes in that episode, but we'll find out when my mom, Mrs. Monica, comes in and tells us what was wrong.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3991.463

Do I have a booger on my face?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3994.264

Thank God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

3997.905

Like right here. Okay. I felt like I felt it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4004.287

Cupid's bow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4007.88

Right here, this is your Cupid's bow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4013.903

Everyone has one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4018.745

Yeah. I had a dream last night that I had a booger on my face.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4023.347

And so now I feel like it was a premonition.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4028.15

I think it was. A date or a- Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4032.252

I wasn't going to talk about this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4036.77

I feel bad because it involves a previous guest, but it was a dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4047.777

It did not happen in real life. I guess I've been having a lot of dreams where I'm embarrassed by my body, I guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4060.386

So I had a dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4068.491

Oh my, I mean, it's possible because the dream is about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4073.412

But the booger, not so much, but maybe, maybe it's a snowball effect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4079.534

Okay. So I had a dream a while ago that I saw Jake Gyllenhaal somewhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4087.236

Oh, sure. Oh, fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4091.917

And I feel like there was multiple people there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4100.027

We were flirting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4103.091

And it was going really well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4109.386

Yeah, it was like it was frisky and it was bantering. It was electric.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4120.256

And I even my non dream Monica was like there somewhere and she was excited about the rest of the dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4129.584

Where it was leading. Yeah. And so we got to the bedroom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4133.886

Wow. And it was so hot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4140.868

And we were making out and we were undressing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4147.971

Extremely heavy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4151.632

And then he, this is like really, this is really bad, but it is a dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4158.854

It's a dream. If anyone's listening with kids in the car, this is not appropriate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4166.458

He was going down on me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4170.4

And he made a horrible face.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4186.047

He does. And he was, and it was, he was so nice the whole day, the whole day. He was so, um, effusive, so cute and sweet and lovely. And then he like made this face and I, can you make the face that he made?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4201.89

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4206.451

Um, more of a, yeah. And I, I said something like, Is everything okay? Or maybe I ignored it. And then like, he kind of tried again. And then he, and then he was like, started like getting angry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4227.636

About the smell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4234.62

That's a good question.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4243.645

Maybe. I don't remember the timing. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4247.167

It's possible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4248.348

So yeah, he turns and he becomes angry and mean. And I said, you're being mean. Oh, you said that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4258.407

Look, I don't feel that I have a smell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4265.712

I mean, I guess people have smells, but I was like, maybe I do, and I've just not known this. And obviously no one is telling me, and I can't smell myself. So, oh my God. And then that was the dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4287.256

I don't think he commented. I do think he said like, ew, this is disgusting. He didn't give any action items.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

429.488

Tax does a lot of math here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4294.741

But he did. It was horrible. And then I've been scared ever since.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4329.394

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4359.949

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4376.013

Okay, listen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4380.194

I'm about to compare it. The butthole slash anus is actually a good equivalent because even if you washed it...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4391.958

Let's say... The outside. You wash the outside, but what can you do about the inside?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4403.701

Don't do that with your vagina.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4409.522

I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4422.5

You don't just go like this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4426.482

Does it ever make you poop?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4434.747

Okay. Anyway, but so even if you get a little bit though, you're not really like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4445.123

If you have feces in your butt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4453.855

If you have fecal matter in your anus. Yeah, in your bottom. No, in your bottom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4460.163

Let's keep it clean. Yeah. It'll probably still smell. So it is a good comp because you can clean the outside of your vagina. Although I have heard you're really not supposed to clean it with soap.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4490.296

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4498.019

That's been, not to disparage any brands, but that's been debunked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4505.142

Exactly. So really, you're making it worse.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4520.387

I know. So now I'm like stressed and I think I'm going to take your approach and I'm just not ever going to date.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4531.749

To smell it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4547.806

That's fair.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4551.972

Yeah, ew.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4564.319

Yeah, but who, most people are probably not going to pull a JG, a dream JG and like make a bad face. They're going to lie because of course you're going to lie because what to do?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4598.56

Stop! Also, what? Like, this does anything. This is such a dumb move.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4637.398

Yeah, I want to know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4646.064

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4649.326

I don't know if it's the same.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4652.909

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4670.36

Okay. Now what if it's just, it smells bad?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4686.196

Correct.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4700.22

It's not too embarrassing, but I just don't think there's much to do. There's some like, there's like foods you can eat that help, I think, like temporarily. But I don't know. I'm just of the opinion that you get the smells you get. Like you said, BO, you get what you get and you do get upset. Because as you said, some people have stronger BO.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4720.924

And of course that has, you know, there's deodorant and there's stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4734.649

Okay. But they're not dream JG. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4740.257

High stakes in the world. Well, not that it was high stakes. I think it was my brain telling me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4749.829

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4753.491

I have a follow-up question.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4755.111

And sorry if this gets you in trouble.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4761.054

I'm going to ask you to speak on behalf of most men.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4767.416

I rarely give you permission for this. Do you think it's... a deterrent for real? Or do you think people like, look, think about all the people in this world who are married.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4782.301

In relationships. But I'm saying married, like you're in it. You're not getting out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4786.543

And I have to imagine that there's a varying degree of odor among all the people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4797.426

So some people are with Like odorous vulvas and vaginas and uteruses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4809.76

No, everyone knows those don't have a smell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4812.722

So, I mean, people are obviously either fine with it or they don't smell it or they're just like, fuck it, I don't care. You get used to it. Like, what is it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4826.752

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4836.475

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4855.432

Okay, but what about when you enter the relationship? Forget, now you're married, so yeah, you're like, baby, we got to do this. But what about when you enter? Is it a deterrent? Like if she stunk, not just her vagina, let's just say she stunk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4880.447

And that's the moment you get married when you met her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4885.052

Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4921.824

Yeah. It's also pheromones.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4925.248

So I guess it's, wow, it's really to each his own. I guess it just wasn't the right match with Dream JG.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4960.014

So there's a whole.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4965.286

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4966.768

But they're still pungent?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4974.775

Yeah, I like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4976.677

Well, it's very specific.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4987.226

Mm-hmm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

4994.995

That is what I was asking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5003.584

And that's where I'm asking you to speak on most men.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5011.671

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5017.076

Should we call him and ask?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5021.159

Oh, my gosh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5036.971

Danny Ricardo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

504.67

Big influences.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5051.787

I'm never going to understand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5058.662

Yeah, that's cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5059.883

Like this guy is- But is it cool? Because it's like fun, but very intimidating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5065.144

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5124.941

Yeah, good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5127.943

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5216.025

What is a berm?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5237.344

It's a little baby hill.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5241.048

OK, so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5244.231

I mean, the people look, this is great, great, great details.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5249.936

But I really I think the the question is, how do you feel about the fact that you are done writing with 30 year olds?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5258.533

Okay, well, okay, but it made you think about your age.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5287.472

You might be on the other side of the berm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5294.679

Wait, how do you feel?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5297.843

About aging. Oh. That's the question. Like that's a kind of existential thought.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

53.333

I feel really, really, really lucky we got to talk to him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5316.008

Yeah, and?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5326.273

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

533.982

What were the movies at the time that were huge for you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5347.782

That's a good way of looking at it. Like not just you camp, but that you don't really want to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5355.944

And this is a ding, ding, ding. Cause this is from Morgan and he had to stop sailing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5398.265

Yeah, from me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5401.787

Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5414.923

Couple quick updates for me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5417.346

I had Monsgiving.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5420.273

It was a great success.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5424.778

No, on the green beans.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5428.342

The squash was a hit. Really, everything was a hit. I was going to make, you know... It's a big undertaking. It really is. And it starts the day before. The day before, you have to make the stock, and that takes three to four hours. And then you also make, I made the cranberry sauce the night before. I made, you brine the turkey. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5462.606

I know the kitchen. Oh, boy. We talked earlier that Allison Roman, I was worried she wasn't going to do Thanksgiving this year because she's pregnant. But she did do it, which was very exciting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5471.59

Oh, God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5472.19

And she shows in the video her turkey has a bag of giblets on one side and a bag on the other.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5483.055

No, no, it's in a bag. But I know it's disgusting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5489.453

Well, exactly. So, okay. So she was like, make sure you get them because she said one year she accidentally cooked with them and ew, that's disgusting. Okay. So I, I, one was easy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5505.064

half already kind of sticking out pulled that out then i am looking for the other bag and i can't find it you're saying there's two bags of giblets in a turkey i thought there was only one bag well exactly so on her videos there were two bags have you been listening are you doing the thing that i did with the no i thought she got an auxiliary bag of giblets from the butcher oh Oh, gross.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5536.241

Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5539.863

That's what my whole thought process was. Oh my God, there's two. There's one on both ends. Weird. And they have to be removed. So I took the one out that was like very obvious. And then I'm looking in the other side and I can't find it. But it's also like, feels like it's a little frozen. So I'm just like... shoving my hand up this turkey all the way up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5562.717

Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5564.299

And I'm moving my little fingers around looking for this bag and I'm convinced that it's frozen up in there. Sure. Can't find it anywhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5575.788

So I'm panicking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5580.532

So I am doing that. And also you have to like pull out this plastic thing in there. That's really hard. It's a whole.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5590.359

There's a plastic thing inside that you pull out with the legs. Anyway, so I was like, okay, I can't get this bag out now, probably because it's frozen. So by tomorrow it will be unthawed and I, like, it'll be completely unthawed and I'll be able to get it out. So I brined the turkey. Well, it was unthawed already. But I was thinking maybe it wasn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5615.885

Oh, sorry. It was thawed. You're right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5619.587

It was thawed already, but I thought maybe there was still some parts that were unthawed inside.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5626.712

And that was causing the issues. Whatever. I brine it, put it in the refrigerator.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5633.036

I did a full fist. Then the next day when I took it out, I... Did it again. Hand all the way in. Squish, squish, squish.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5647.005

Nothing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5649.727

I panicked. So then I do text Allison and I asked, does every turkey have two bags or is it just one? I'm panicking that it's in there and I can't find it. She said, no, not all of them do. Phew.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5666.504

Well, hers did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5670.905

BTS?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5673.986

TSS. It is TSS.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5679.448

It is. It's so scary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5688.791

Yeah, I agree.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5691.412

Some people probably use them for stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5697.496

So anyway, that next day, you know, I have to make the turkey. I make the stuffing. I make the squash gratin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5713.38

That's the part you're going to hang?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5723.993

What's brown and serve? I've never had this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5735.064

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5736.045

I didn't make that. That's not part of Allison's thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5739.007

Oh, I see. Oh, I think I know what you mean.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5740.888

Okay. So the squash gratin, the stuffing, there was a kale salad with these honeyed walnuts. I had to make the gravy. My God. I think I'm forgetting something. Oh, potatoes, mashed potatoes with sour cream and chives. Okay, I start cooking at 11 and people come at six. And it's the whole time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5769.345

Yes, but as we're heading towards the end, I think I cannot make these green beans. It was the last thing I had to do. And I was like, I'm not doing it. But then I looked in the mirror and I hated my face. Okay. It was the face of a failure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5785.253

A quitter, someone who cuts corners. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5791.455

I said, that's not me. That's not going to be me. So I made it. And it was basically a homemade green bean casserole. You make it with green beans, mushrooms. You make your own roux. Okay. And it was everyone's favorite.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5806.062

Thank God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5810.125

And I think the lesson is you got to burn out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5814.549

You got to push yourself until you want to die.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5822.796

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5827.62

I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5838.927

And it was so hot. I was sweating for seven hours because it was so hot in my kitchen because the oven.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5845.815

Yeah. Ooh, baby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5848.158

Yeah. Anyway, but it went great. It was super fun. Loved it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5854.904

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5856.885

We gave thanks. Oh, good. It was a great night. Oh, I want to make this clear. This is important to eight people who are listening, our friends. I think it might seem to the pod like I'm neglecting the pod, that I'm rude because I'm not including them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5878.154

Well, in case they're worried about that. The reason it's done like this, one is I can only host maximum eight people in that kitchen. Next year, who knows? But I have a limit and we already do Thanksgiving together.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5897.219

It would be two of the exact same thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5899.82

So I do it with people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

59.215

Such a legend, like a true one of one. We're not going to get another one like him. Very, very special.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5909.725

Well, now you're making me want to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5914.128

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5919.39

Next year, we're going to do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5927.814

No, the other team, the catered team is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5933.877

Yeah, but not really.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5936.319

Why?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5941.583

Well, if it's not as good because no one made it, no one made it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5946.267

It's not like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5949.53

Now you're taking it as an insult, but I'm telling you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5959.537

Well, in this case, I would be feeding the same amount of people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5963.058

It would be the same group.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5975.781

What?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5979.707

Well, that's weird because if I ordered sushi for everyone and then like the next week we went to someone like a sushi chef.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5996.362

You made it about voting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

5998.864

Yeah, you did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6002.007

Well, I said, I will be competitive if that happens.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6018.032

Yeah, that's true. That is. I mean, I hear you. I just can't ever like anytime I order anything ever. I don't expect it to be as good as someone who made something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6038.887

Not you. Someone who is a sushi chef, someone who has the full recipe. That's not like someone who doesn't really chefs. He doesn't really know what to do. It's a little different. It's not like I'm making a pizza and we're ordering from Lucifer's. Yeah, I don't know how to make that, but I'm following a really fancy, real recipe that I've also now been making for a couple years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6086.054

Yeah, I don't think anyone needs to say anything. Okay, let's say that I order... I order for 22 people. I throw a big dinner party and I order.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6099.699

Yes, I order spaghetti from Little Dom's.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6107.681

Sure. We don't have to, no one has to say it, but don't you think in your heart that people should and would like your homemade spaghetti more? then my purchased spaghetti from Little Dom's a great spaghetti.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6131.089

That's weird. I would never expect anyone to prefer that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6139.952

It's fantastic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6141.713

But it's not the same as when someone makes something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6149.958

Okay. To me, the way it's really bad is if I made Thanksgiving and then you made Thanksgiving, then 100% no one could ever. That's really horrible to say one is better than the other because that's like. Your effort and work. It's like saying someone's writing is better than someone else's.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6185.557

I'm not asking you to make anything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6188.978

I feel like you're making it that. Like you're like defensive that you're catering it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6201.492

Yeah. That's what I'm saying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6209.74

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6210.881

It would have to be potluck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6218.408

Yeah, that's too much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6225.833

That makes sense. Anyway.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6233.377

Right. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6236.934

I know. But anyway, the reason the pod is not invited is because we already do Thanksgiving together and it's a beautiful, wonderful thing. And we don't need to have Thanksgiving and then the next week have Thanksgiving again. Right. And so I have it with friends who I don't have Thanksgiving with.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6258.678

Just in case.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6263.599

So would you have liked to have tried it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6268.615

I appreciate that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6275.357

Okay. Another real, just super, super quick. Gift guides went up. So this will come out Monday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6287.083

Okay, so they were up last week on my Instagram. If people want to go look at my gift guides, they're on my Instagram. Also, I made a sub stack for it so that I could write a little more. So what's on my Instagram is an abridged version.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6307.157

You can go to the link tree in my bio and you can go click on it. And if you feel like you want to read a little more, you can do that. And there are links to the items there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6318.082

Wonderful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6318.922

Okay. Now, a couple facts really quick for Morgan. So the old, the riddle about where did they bury the survivors? So the brain teaser is... If a plane crashed on the border of country A and country B, where would you bury the survivors? The answer is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6346.135

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6347.036

You knew it. Okay. The South African woman who sailed around the world in the documentary, CBS documentary called The Loneliest Race. It features Kristen Neuschafer, a South African sailor who became the first woman to win the Golden Globe race. And you said it was harrowing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6387.01

Yeah. The doldrums, he said, are 10 degrees north and south of the equator.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6392.695

And there are five. Sesame Street started November 10th, 1969.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6404.645

November.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6410.328

Yes. And then Sesame Street was October 25th, 1971.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6423.413

Wait, sorry. Wait. Help. Sesame Street started in 1969. The Electric Company started in 1971.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6432.422

Yeah. Why is Othello so hard to perform? According to AI, it's considered a challenging play to perform, primarily because of its complex characters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6442.731

particularly the nuanced portrayal of Iago's manipulative nature, the delicate balance of Othello's trusting nature that quickly turns to destructive jealousy, and the sensitive issue of race that can be difficult to navigate on stage, requiring careful interpretation to avoid stereotypes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6461.44

It's new. That's a new... Answer? Weird. That's weird. What? What? That's weird!

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6474.779

Real time, it's learning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6483.951

What?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6488.231

I agree. But why is that funny?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6499.414

That's crazy to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6501.954

That's not weird to you that it's like updating that quickly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6509.478

Well, that's bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6514.142

No, the other one you talked about Desdemona.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6517.185

This doesn't even reference her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6526.473

Why is Othello so hard to perform?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6551.64

But it's similar. Similar, yeah. Weird.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6568.318

Then there's no...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6618.751

Today, but last time it talked about Desdemona.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6623.974

They got rid of her because Handmaid's Tale.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6630.552

We're moving like women are getting erased. Okay, fibromyalgia, neuralgia. He has neuralgia. It's a sharp, shocking pain that occurs when a nerve is damaged or irritated. It can feel like burning or sensitivity to touch and can cause muscle spasms. Neuralgia can be acute, short-term, or chronic, ongoing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6652.525

Me either.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6657.55

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6658.812

That sounds yucky.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6660.634

Are you going to get it checked out?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6663.136

Don't complain about it until you get it checked out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6666.48

I'd like you to get it checked out. All right. That's it from Morgie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6677.288

Well, I'm just telling you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6683.289

Yes, actually. That's a good rule.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6689.991

I'm not complaining. I'm expressing a fear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6693.172

That's different. Also, you can complain twice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6700.794

But if it's like a body thing, you can complain a couple times.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6705.175

But then you got to get it checked out if it still hurts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6714.296

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6719.597

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

674.909

Did your brothers get picked on, too?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6742.732

Wait, now you have to kind of say it quickly. Can you say it really quick?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6888.663

Oh, I love her so much. She's such a good girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

6913.094

She's indomitable. God, I love her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

849.116

You said that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

956.572

Yeah. Live your life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Morgan Freeman

967.819

These are the things that you sit with for the rest of your life when you make these decisions.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dax Shepard and this is Monica Padman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1017.255

Hi, Luke. Hi, that's right. Can you guys hear me? Oh, wonderful. It's like you're about to land an airplane.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1023.797

Yes, it's working. Tell me why you have this headset. Are you a gamer?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1034.361

We appreciate that greatly. You're going by a pseudonym. Are we allowed to know what state you're in?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1042.925

Oh, okay. Wonderful. That's a beautiful place to be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1059.522

Right, which I imagine yesterday was unexpected.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1062.303

Do you guys have the same thing we had in Michigan where it's like you have a fake spring and you get excited and then all of a sudden it just fucking turns to winter in May and you're like, fuck this place.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1080.208

Those climates, they're backstabbers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1083.549

Yeah, they'll fool you. Did you grow up in Montana?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1088.549

Oh, okay. So you have a cruise story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1114.729

Yeah, yeah. He was about to say penis, and he's like, no, I'm already talking about chafing. It's dick chafing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1120.531

So fast forward, we're like on day two of the cruise. Can I pause you, Luke? I just want to regale for a second. That brings me back to my youth. Your fecundity rate was so high that you would actually damage the skin. I mean, that's for the youthful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1221.903

It's like punctured the vein. Punctured. What? What?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1230.898

They can take a beating, but you push them too hard, they will give. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1251.463

This is where we're different. We were in line so far, but now I would be so excited to call her in like, holy shit, look at this, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1259.208

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1269.834

Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1271.535

You're losing some considerable blood here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1330.11

Luke, at any moment, are you considering a tourniquet?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1347.607

Any pants?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1368.701

And you have bare legs. There's nothing I would want to see more than that. A man in his t-shirt and no pants on with a towel over his groin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

137.742

Hello, Hal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

140.864

Is that your lover's blouse behind you or yours? Is it birds or flowers on the sleeves?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1435.431

Oh, it like cauterizes? It's like a chemical cauterizing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1439.914

He said that? Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1442.016

Oh my God, I'm sorry. I missed the cauterizing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1455.116

And I would be wondering, is this a disposable or many people bitten down on this rubber stick?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1496.565

Oh, I know. And also, I want to see video of this entire thing from beginning to cauterization. I wish it existed. Once it's cauterized, does she say to you, like, don't use this thing for a while?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1517.451

Right. Try not to look at any pretty ladies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1520.932

Tell your new wife to keep her clothes on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1528.216

Those bald eagles, though, they can get things moving.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1532.859

Yeah, what a sight to see.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1536.641

Oh, that could also, yeah. I like that euphemism.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

154.553

Well, you're welcome, I guess, because that's an impossible task.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1545.866

Wow. You reversed the wife who's had a baby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1564.702

Oh, that's great. What a memorable honeymoon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1573.411

Oh, Luke, that's fantastic. What a great story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1578.936

Oh, it will. Don't you worry. You can bet your scarred dick it will.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1591.547

Oh, Casey, big shout out. Shout out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1596.472

That's a keeper.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

160.377

Yes. How old is your daughter?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1601.957

Well, thank Casey on our behalf. I most certainly will. All right. Take care, Luke.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1624.078

Are you going to leave the room to make this call? Our next call is Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1629.467

Oh, Monica's calling. I have a lot of cruise ship stories. I could have submitted many different things. I've been on so many cruises.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1637.39

You haven't been on a single cruise? I feel like your parents would have loved that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1641.691

Well, they do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1648.792

Hi. Don't show me much of this car. I always try to impress Monica. I'm going to go with Chrysler Pacifica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1660.497

Oh, okay. Monty had a, did you have a pilot?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

167.582

Oh, yeah. Things are getting real busy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1670.727

Oh God. I hope she doesn't come up to the blocks while we're talking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1683.399

Oh, Oh, I was a high jumper. Is she tall?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1704.91

That's a scary question. I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1732.461

No one calls you Monty or Mom? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1739.043

Monica's many nicknames.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1743.784

But I would agree. I'm going to say that Monica's over-indexed in Good Folks. I like all the Monicas I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1751.827

No, I might like her, too. Okay, she was nice. Yeah, she has a boundary issue, which I like.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1757.87

Okay, so you have a crazy cruise ship story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1781.646

Did you have a favorite Backstreet Boy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1787.313

He was the number one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

179.57

If you want to go to like Montauk, how long of a trip is that for you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1839.908

And you still like them in 2011? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1844.811

No posters anymore.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

1849.473

Yeah. Great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

190.217

That's not bad, though. You're two hours from paradise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

196.559

Edenic? I like that. Wow, that's a takeoff on Eden? Yeah. Did you know it, Monica?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

20.28

Hello. Today is cruise ships.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2000.123

Good, Nicole.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

203.242

Edenic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

205.383

That's going in my arsenal. Okay, so you have a crazy cruise ship story. I do. Can I set the stage a little bit first?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2107.301

Do they perform right away or they're just waving and saying hi?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2149.997

Nicole's a pro at everything.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2185.962

It's like Triangle of Sadness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2190.003

For the listener, Monica's getting a little sick right now, just remembering. Yeah, there's a little green. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I can see that you're hanging on by a thread already. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2227.439

I also love there's no men on this cruise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2232.102

They should have let the women use the men's bathroom for this cruise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2284.806

On shore or on the boat?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2305.563

No kissing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2350.679

Did Nicole have a good time?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2371.738

Listen, A, the story is fantastic, but you're just so funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2388.151

You mean you're fucking welcome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2398.479

What are their names?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2400.32

Megan and Molly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2406.984

Oh, I fuck up my kids' names all the time, and they're drastically different. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2413.348

Yeah, that was so fun. Thank you so much, Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2417.871

Take care. Wish your daughter victory in this high jump contest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2424.835

Bye. I love her. I love them. She reminds me so much of my cousins, Mandy and Kelly. Yeah, I could see that. Yeah, same kind of storyteller.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2442.278

Yeah, I don't know what the mechanism for either of them is, but Zofran should have an actual cruise line.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2449.162

Yeah, and they should sail into the choppiest waters. Have you seen any footage of these fucking cruises down to Antarctica? No. None of those have popped up on your Instagram. The water's fucking crashing over the whole front of the boat. They've got like a glass thing where you can... People are falling down and breaking shit. Yeah, it's nuts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

251.045

And really quick, if you're on a budget cruise is nice. Could you get the drink pass at that point? There was no drink pass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

2532.537

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

28.18

I know. We should have almost called Laura LeBeau as an antidote because she just went on a Viking cruise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

328.564

Can I quickly ask, where is it taking off from and where will you be going?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

34.445

At the time of her life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

38.049

She said she's not going to do any other cruise line, though, after this experience. She said the food was absolutely, outrageously good. Yeah, this one, this one you can listen to, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

401.236

Let's take a gander at this sunburn. To say you're a lobster is just as spot on as it gets.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

417.956

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

50.84

Oh, no. Yeah, there's stuff. Chemical cauterization.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

510.39

Is it a burning pain or like an impact pain?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

515.435

Okay. Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

55.046

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

552.824

Funny enough, I just in Hawaii got five quills in my heel. They're still there. Just this morning, I'm like, when are these coming out?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

56.227

Yeah, but no, no, well, whatever. Well, there's fluids. I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

564.517

Well, my daughters thought you're going to get poisoned and die. And I'm like, no, there's no way they're letting a snorkel in front of the hotel. I'm not saying they're poisonous. They ran it to the scuba guy. And then he came and gave me vinegar and said, soak your foot in vinegar. That'll help it dissolve. I did that. They didn't dissolve. Anyway, sorry. No, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

59.691

Yeah. All right, please enjoy cruise ship stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

594.47

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

665.016

Wow. This was a deck chair that just was scraggly on the back?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

672.677

I hate to be disparaging about Carnival, but let's get those deck chairs oiled and sanded.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

680.899

Yeah, this is like, you don't really like my Ziggy reference because you didn't grow up reading Ziggy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

686.287

But do you remember Ziggy Hale? Of course. He was the cutest cartoon and everything that could go wrong to Ziggy did. This is really like Ziggy went on a cruise in a lot of ways.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

707.921

Well, I'm impressed you win again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

709.603

I would be like, fuck that. Let's just go to one of these islands that we want to be at and just be there. Were there any gals on the boat that really took pity on you and wanted to rescue you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

729.819

Wow, that's a real shit cruise. And you didn't make out with anyone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

743.21

So net win, maybe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

758.439

What on earth were you doing in White Lake? So I grew up in Highland, right next door, bordering White Lake.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

778.712

Well, Hale, delightful meeting you. God, did you give your buddies a gift. Truly, there's no better gift than when one of your buddies can take the beating on everyone else's behalf.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

808.554

Hi. Are you the owner of this closet?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

819.423

Well, it looks great. I mean, it's ready for a photo shoot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

844.195

Sim, sim, sim.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

854.043

Oh, identical or fraternal?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

858.186

Do you feel like you have two moms?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

866.854

Yes, yes, yes. Double first cousins, half siblings. Whoa. I wish your mom had married an identical twin. Then your cousins would really be your siblings.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

880.151

Well, it's very nice meeting you. Really good luck with ninth grade. Tell your seventh grade sister, good luck with seventh grade.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

888.258

My favorite year of my life. And say hi to mom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

892.422

Well, nice meeting you guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

895.244

Bye. Oh my God, a whole family.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

899.35

We love identical twins.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

903.491

I guess everyone loves identical twins, probably. Well... We're probably not unique in that, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

911.234

Okay, yeah. I can see people being scared by them, especially if you don't really believe in science and God makes babies kind of a situation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

921.597

Yeah, maybe like, how do you explain that? Well, science. Right, if you don't believe in that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

938.301

Really good spin. Mm-hmm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dax Shepard and I'm joined by Monica Padman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

100.429

Are you in Louisiana?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1017.159

A wonderful, you and Ted tied the knot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1033.858

Oh, that's a really positive. Yeah. Now I feel bad. And I guess I owe the pit bull. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

104.251

Oh, and you're doing a crawfish boil. Is that a popular event down there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1060.379

What kind of cuisine do we have at Vortex? Should we eat there, Monica? Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1068.254

Oh, I love a burg.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1071.997

Oh, I'll take it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1073.417

Well, shout out Vortex. Shout out Pitbulls.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1077.779

Grady Hospital. Making dreams come true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1081

Yeah, Ted. Way to get it, Ted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1085.761

Yeah, that's a great story. Very rarely do the animal tech stories have a silver lining, and this one really does. Well, lovely meeting you, Amanda.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1096.775

Hi. Is this Brittany?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1099.8

Oh, wonderful. Are you married to Matt?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

110.517

They're like shrimp or like lobster or neither?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1102.866

And this is his account?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1107.414

Oh. Where are you at?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1111.099

Oh, lovely. Okay. I'm trying to think what animal you could have been attacked by in Boulder. I guess this guy's the limit. You really have a lot of stuff, right? You got mountain lion and bear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1139.504

How old were you at the time?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1178.269

Too much energy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

120.185

It's like a mud shrimp.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1221.367

Oh, in the home.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1225.81

Oh, boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1238.71

But still, it could be a three, four hundred pound.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1248.784

Yeah, she just held up an inch between her index and her thumb.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1261.033

From going through trash and stuff?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1264.374

They don't like to shower.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1310.34

Now, hold on. I got to pause to just say we just kind of shit on dogs for a dog attack story a little bit ago. Now, this is where dogs rock. Dogs will fucking take on a bear to protect you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1322.247

They rock.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

134.297

So, Kyle, you have an animal attack story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1472.609

They sent the wrong guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1506.6

Yeah. Yeah. You can kill a bear, but it's going to be 10 minutes after you shoot it. You got to deal with this bear that doesn't even fucking feel that it got shot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1549.107

He died doing what he loved, being outside.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1594.262

This is like, he should have been in the circus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

163.785

And is he very docile? Would you go out and pet him and interact with him?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1639.191

Oh, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1646.977

They probably track bear attacks around the country.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1671.271

You should have let the bear eat you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1682.907

And the doggy made it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1695.812

I wonder if you didn't have a dog and this bear, you know, is rutting around the kitchen, finds a bunch of peanut butter and yummy stuff and then just ate 50,000 calories and then just went to sleep. If you guys would have woken up and found like a snoozing full bear in the living room.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1714.409

Why would it? It's inside. There's a couch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1723.155

They tend to avoid people. But if there's yummy food and they'll eat till they are, you know, nearly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1735.2

Oh, he loved it. With locale.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1739.483

If you've only been eating leaves and bark and berries and you get your hands on some crystal light, I can't imagine what an explosion of flavor that was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1749.25

Yeah, I think maybe if he hadn't gotten into that, he might have been more docile. This is why Monica doesn't live in Boulder.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1765.561

Double whammy. We have earthquakes and fires and mudslides and mountain lions and bears.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1777.022

Well, Brittany, wow, what a thrilling story. What a thing to witness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1782.844

And harrowing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1789.627

Shout out to Nicole. Thanks for being a great boss. Yes, definitely. All right, take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1799.762

Yeah, we haven't even talked about it. You were in your bedroom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1814.056

I was in the basement watching a guest movie and the whole house started shaking above me. And I was like, oh my God, the house is going to fucking collapse on me. I do not want to be in this basement right now. I want to fall down on shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1833.662

Go on a doorframe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1841.428

Go outside, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1845.998

Well, you got to make a game day decision. Is it more dangerous? I mean, ideally, yes. Being away from the falling buildings is the best. But if you think you're going to be mid-run when the building falls down, you could have stood in a doorway, which will protect you. Get on a boat if you can. Yeah, you want to get on a boat as quick as possible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1863.792

And wait for the tsunami to take you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1866.954

Okay, last one. Wobby Wob is calling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1873.952

Rob never told us he was attacked by a lion. Hello. Is this Rob? It sure is. You have a half of a moose rack behind you. So this promises to be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1884.664

Yeah, maybe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1893.186

I don't think we've heard a moose story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Animal Attack II

1896.027

Yeah. Wow. Well, first of all, Rob, where are you?

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1900.928

Okay. Bucks County. That's on brand.

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1911.631

Oh my God, you're an anoronda. What is it called? Adidarod. Adidarod?

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Oh, wonderful, wonderful. Really quick, how do you travel up to Alaska with that many dogs? With a truck and trailer?

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Boy, you got to be into it, man. That's a lot of commitment.

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Right. Yeah.

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And can I quickly ask, has Bucky now got antlers and is he 200 pounds? Like how big is Bucky and how formidable has he become?

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Animal attacks.

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Yeah. We should add too, right, moose have terrible eyesight. Isn't that part of the reason they're aggressive? They don't see you, and then all of a sudden they see you, and it's a little shocking to them.

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Yeah, there's males they've shot that are 2,000 pounds.

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Yeah, not a great game plan, but I understand you're under a lot of stress. Yeah. And aren't these dogs protective of you? Weren't they inclined to go after the moose?

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24.349

They're always good.

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Thank you. Thank you.

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They're always good.

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,,,,,,,

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But not today.

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Oh, yeah. They accidentally give themselves away sometimes, parents, when they're trying to play it cool.

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Yeah. In the past, the two stories that I'll always end up telling at a dinner party is the grizzly bear attack and the shark attack that we've heard. And I'm proud to say there's now a third attack that I've been repeating a lot that comes from this episode. Animal attack goes hard.

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It didn't puncture your skull, though? No, thankfully. Oh, I thought he put his finger fucking knuckle deep into your brain.

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Likely, yeah.

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Well, in her defense, if my child, while I'm not around, gets gored by a deer, I'm like, fuck that. Get that deer out of there. Why do they have a buck rutting in the backyard?

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Is it kind of standard in Hill Country? Maybe.

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Okay, so Bucky left. Were the grandparents sad? Did everyone miss Bucky? Or in a week, they're like, oh, yeah, I forgot we even had that. Why did we have that? I'm sure they were just more mad at my mom.

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Divorce is kind of tainted.

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What's your name?

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Oh, wonderful.

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Oh, good. And do you think you'll also get a t-shirt?

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A will to make everyone happy. But what a clever marketing ploy that would be if we were that calculated.

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Because I think a lot of people came to your defense and bought it just to defend you.

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479.783

That too. But also I think some people are like, I got to support Monica. Yeah.

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All right. Well, lovely meeting both of you.

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All right. Take care.

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Yeah.

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She bought Cookie Boy to stick up for her sister.

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Because it's such a good.

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It is good. I never said it wasn't good. It was always a conversation about whether I thought I was false advertising. That's it.

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Hard, yeah.

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We already decided.

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Okay, great.

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527.486

Hit the comments of this episode and tell us what shirt you want. Because we forget.

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We're forgetful.

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You did?

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Was there a response?

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Oh, I want to hear all the details.

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556.529

In your reach out, you made it clear you were interested romantically.

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56.588

Yeah, no. It shan't ever be listened to. Please enjoy Animal Attacks Part Something.

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560.894

Right, because he had to say, I have a girlfriend.

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563.817

Wow, I'm so proud of you. How did you phrase it?

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Oh, you're like half in, half out.

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Also, he would ignore most people sending that.

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Yeah, we can hear you, but... Can you turn your camera on?

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There you are! I had work mode on.

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600.8

So Amanda, where are you?

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623.718

We've never heard of a disgruntled competitor yet.

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63.392

Oh, just two.

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Like more of a participation trophy type situation. Yeah. Wonderful.

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646.395

It is. Okay. Well, most importantly, you were attacked by an animal. Unless you were the animal that attacked. I don't know.

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652.9

Could go either way. Humans are animals.

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685.28

But COVID was really something for you. Yeah, that's a lot.

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723.482

You have a master's in emergency preparedness. This has to fall under that umbrella.

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739.588

What kind of dog?

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Well, just the bottom line is if it goes sideways, they have the physical ability to really harm somebody.

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That's what all of us non-people on the outside are going. It's like, yeah, tigers could be great, but fuck, one goes sideways, they can kill a human. So this thing fucking latched onto your arm.

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You got some real both sides punctures.

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Yeah.

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You're getting mauled by a vicious animal.

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Yeah, it's a strong dog.

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85.162

Kyle?

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86.803

What an eclectic group of shirts you have behind you.

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They wish they were pit bulls.

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People are going to be so mad at me right now. But does it cross your mind? Maybe I got to press charges because they don't have control of the dog. Is someone else going to get their arm bit? It gets a little murky for me.

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Okay, and you're wearing those, what, on the weekend or for a specific event?

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942.074

Yeah. But it does paint a picture of where you're at. There's gunshot wounds in the lobby.

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But he's a serial killer.

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. Today, our DIY project's gone wrong.

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This has turned into a real commercial for the product.

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Okay, so Christina, where are you at?

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OK, are you there on business?

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I'm thinking out loud that you were lucky that you probably landed in a hospital with a vascular surgeon.

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God, are we the same person? You can handle this, Monica, but my God, for the listening audience, it's a good six inches of gash. It serpentines around into the hand, down the wrist.

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1297.563

Ew.

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1300.344

Ew, maggots.

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1333.815

If I were the Amazon person and I just arrived at a big pool of blood, I would open the box to see if someone had ordered bleach. Like if this was a murder scene and I was not complicit in the cleanup effort.

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1404.193

Okay, I want to tell you a quick story. It's not to equate your injury with any kind of property damage, but I think you'll just get a kick out of it because I bought a car in 2019. The previous version of it had gone up three times and I was able to get one. I got it just for an investment.

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141.111

Was he so cute in person?

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1418.666

I got the entire car covered in this thin see-through wrap so that it would never get any scratches or anything. And it's just going to sit in my garage. So I need to get my snowboard bag out of this loft above the car and it's raining outside. So I don't want to pull the car out into the rain because then that's its own thing.

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1436.302

And then I determined, you know what, I can just get on the ladder next to the car and I can grab that bag. This is not a huge deal. What I didn't really think about was I had tracked some water in from coming from outside. I set the ladder up. So the ladder's now on some water, which I didn't really notice. And I'm pulling the snowboard bag out from on top of the car.

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1457.138

And all of a sudden the ladder starts slipping. And now I have this decision to make. If I fall, it's coming down on top of this car. So I have to, with all my weight, chuck the board from the air so it'll clear the car. And when I do that, I then fall off of the ladder and I shoot the ladder into the car.

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that i'm trying my hardest to protect and it hits the mirror perfectly where the vinyl wrap has come together at a seam and there's a gap my first thought when i land on the ground i was like oh fuck i broke my rib on my bench okay oh my arm hurts and then i'm like oh my god did the ladder hit the side of the car and i'm looking at the side of the car no it's fine it's fine it's fine and then all of a sudden i see it and i took a fucking two inch chunk of paint out of the mirror and

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1503.723

And I'm like, there we go. I saved myself wiping the car down. And now I've got to go find a painter qualified to not take the value.

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1517.198

I destroyed the pristine value of this car. So, yeah, I really deeply relate to just trying to save a few minutes and really fucking regretting it.

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1537.369

There's a dude that I've been going to AA with for 22 years and his saying, and I appreciate it every single time, is cutting the corners the quickest way to the back of the line. Something like that. I've heard it a million times.

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Just don't do it. Yeah, you just always end up in the very back of the line. Well, Chris, delightful meeting you. I'm not shocked you're above average because you're from Michigan. Thank you very much, Paul. This is an absolute pleasure. All right.

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1570.138

Yeah. Shortcut's the fastest way to the back of the line. I think that's what it is. Yeah, that's it.

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1576.241

Beautifully. I don't want to give out your full name, Tanya, but it's criminal you're not a country western singer. That's the best country star name I've ever heard.

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1594.608

Who was it?

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1596.008

But she wasn't famous in the 70s, was she?

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1601.39

Are you about to turn 50? When?

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1606.394

I just got a rebrand for us. I'm stealing it from Bad Sisters. I'll acknowledge where I got it. But from now on, I'm not 50. You and I are both mid-century. Boom!

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1617.122

Right? Sounds architectural. I'm mid-century. Fuck, I love it. Yeah. Don't you dare, Monica. I'm going to make shirts that say mid-century. You are? Okay. Yes.

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1629.173

Okay, great.

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1632.639

Three customers. We have a wide net. I'm kidding.

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1637.266

She's really relishing in her age privileges, isn't she?

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1640.752

What a bitch with her fresh eggs.

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1648.82

Where are you, Tanya?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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1658.368

Is he a periodontist?

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1675.339

Okay, hit us with your DIY story that went awry.

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1747.488

This is all screaming Mormon, the industriousness, the eight kids.

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1752.81

We're in Utah right now.

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1889.727

Oh, great.

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1893.989

Yes, yes. And you're impatient.

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195.288

I couldn't be happier that Aaron got that kind of reaction. I love it. This is a perfect story. I guarantee he'll remember because J2C is so rare and coveted.

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Armchair Anonymous: DIY Disaster

1973.658

New swimming pool.

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1983.206

A foxhole. Yeah.

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2003.112

What?

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2004.932

Oh, that shot up and came down? Yep. Now he's repairing the roof.

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2014.939

Lucky it didn't come down on him.

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2060.936

This is Nobel, the Nobel Peace Prize. He invented that blasting cap. So much of the earth was destroyed by his invention. He felt like he should take the money and give back. And that's what the Nobel Peace Prize is from.

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207.155

You didn't? That would have fast-tracked you.

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2107.95

Oh, talk about saving a little money on a professional. And now you got to replace part of the roof.

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211.697

Okay, so you have a DIY story that went poorly.

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2125.316

How did the remaining 59 holes get blasted?

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2155.164

It looks like you've got it.

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2162.85

Probably pretty frightening.

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2177.581

Yeah, I'm glad everyone was away from the house.

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2183.846

Yeah, let's see if he's awake.

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2190.887

Yes.

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2193.331

You left out that he's very handsome, too. Oh, yes, he is. I want to thank you for blowing up your entire yard and sending a rock into your roof because it made for a great story for us.

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Armchair Anonymous: DIY Disaster

22.062

I always said this wrong. This is always a hard- It's hard to say. I always wanted to say D-Y-I. Sure. I famously said that in front of somebody and they corrected me and I got humiliated.

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2214.334

Once I get to Nashville, yeah, I might call on your services.

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2221.518

Great meeting both of you. Tanya, thank you for telling us that story. That was great.

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2228.262

Take care, you guys.

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2233.798

We're all kind of the same.

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2243.365

Sure. That whole story is appealing. I would love to get the permit and I'd love to have an excuse to use dynamite. I've always wanted to. Rob, have you wanted to be able to blast dynamite? Absolutely. I mean, I've shot firecrackers a lot. Yeah. Yeah. M80s and quarter sticks. You're always looking for a quarter stick in Michigan. What's a quarter stick? Quarter stick of dynamite.

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2264.859

Are you Chris?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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2269.421

Because we had another Chris today and I said, well, double Chris is.

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2277.105

In Atlanta?

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2281.607

So where in Canada are you?

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2285.229

Okay, so you have a DIY story that went bad.

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2297.956

Okay, we've been down this road already.

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2374.637

He's using a nail gun.

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2405.834

Also, we don't have time with water gushing everywhere for anyone to come home from work. We've got to turn off the main water here.

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2434.718

My guess is it ran for a while after because he punctured the hot water heater, which holds like 100 gallons of water. So it was going to leak long after the water supply was turned off.

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2455.888

I would too. My neighbor, I'm like, hey, you're not qualified to do this now. None of us have water.

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2490.28

Oh wow, okay.

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2501.089

No, oh my god. Oh no. Just keeps growing in the whole town, doesn't it? Exactly.

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257.935

Oh, God, I wish I went there.

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2576.88

How fucked up was the ground underneath?

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2590.249

I mean, the theme of all these is like we're all trying to save a few bucks and it ends up costing way more than having someone else come in and just do it.

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2620.569

A man's got to know his limitations.

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2625.494

Yeah.

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2627.036

More men need to really. I think they're taking bigger swings.

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2631.2

Let me just listen to some of the previous callers.

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2639.131

Well, dynamite makes an appearance. It does. You should know that. Someone decided they were qualified to use dynamite because they were able to get a permit for it.

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2651.788

So sorry.

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2660.815

Well, I think the silver lining is that this all took place in Canada because if you had 60 American neighbors without water, I think someone would have come to your house to fight. Well, Chris, lovely meeting you. We love our Canadian neighbors so much and our Canadian arm cherries.

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2686.732

What's her name?

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2688.292

Amanda, I love you back.

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2712.726

Thank you so much. It was great meeting you.

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2716.747

All right, take care. I'm going to do these things. I didn't learn a lesson. I just want you to know I will still be trying to do all my own home improvement.

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Armchair Anonymous: DIY Disaster

2725.864

Yeah.

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2726.746

Love you. Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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273.582

It had political ramifications.

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32.842

I wish. Yeah. Yeah. I wanna be humiliated by her. I'd be a sub. Baby girl. Yeah, I'd be her baby girl. I think everyone would. Yeah. Okay, let's see. There's maggots. I think I gotta warn. Oh, shit, don't say that. No, I think I gotta tell people what other things are here. Blood. Blood. Yeah, blood and maggots. Please enjoy. Do it yourself. Project's gone wrong.

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320.643

Were you into jam bands?

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396.418

It just leaked right through that, the sustainable fabric.

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404.681

And glue loves wood. All those nooks and crannies.

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436.036

But they would have noticed the effort. Because a lot of times you're like, I don't know what the fuck that is, but boy, did it take them a while. And I applaud that.

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487.659

Yeah, I was thinking snails, but maggots, that's a bit worse.

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495.963

You basically made like a habitat in your living room for maggots.

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509.59

Yeah, wow.

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546.335

Imagine all that dampness also could have worked everything. I mean, you really did everything bad you could do to a hardwood floor, moisture, glue, dirt, maggots. It was a real fuck you to that floor. Really?

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Was there a penalty at the end of all this? Did anyone get a bill?

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No, no. Kiss that right goodbye.

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Could you list, Monica, where is that in your top ten? Snakes out of your bottom, number one.

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Well, slithering out, no?

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That's the worst. I guess you're right. When they slither out, you're kind of relieved, probably.

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Might even tickle. Yeah, I don't know. Who knows?

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Really?

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I think the grossest part, everyone plug your ears, that's sensitive. But the grossest part is when you step on them, then there's mayonnaise on the ground.

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I warned everyone to plug their ears.

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Help me. Well, Christina, you sound very easygoing. Pretty laid back. That liberal arts college was the right choice for you.

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Yeah.

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Hellenic studies. Western Civ.

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You would stress out about it at the time, but really to reduce your life to just four term papers every three months, like that's pretty manageable. And then the rest of your time, you don't give a flying fuck about anything.

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Mayonnaise.

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All right, Christina, nice meeting you.

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Us too. Thank you, us too. I hope I bump into you at a food show. It's possible. I'm going to one with Aaron in March or something.

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Okay, come over and lose your shit and join the J2C club.

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That'll be cool. Trial run.

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All right. Bye. Take care.

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What do we know about him? He's such an enigma.

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Also falling in love. Oh my God, what good lovesick music.

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Pictures of You. Yeah, Pictures of You. Good job.

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Yeah. What's your favorite?

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Yeah, he was able to articulate heartbreak. So in the early part of your life, that was all romantic love. And now people are dying. It's just continued on the heartbreak.

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It is.

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Like those Holiday Inn Express commercials.

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It's like, did you go to a Hy-Vee League? No, but I flew into Atlanta one time.

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Okay, you have a DIY story that went awry.

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I'm going to ask a dumb, dumb question, but you obviously already threw the circuit breaker.

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Wonderful. What a bright smile. Did you just get your teeth zoomed?

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You knew immediately you had cut the artery? Was that obvious? There's blood everywhere. Going to save five minutes.

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Well, there's these weird videos where they come up on the side of the boat and they rub their nose in a weird way. And have you seen this? It puts them in a suspended state for like 20 seconds. They'll float back down and then they kind of come to something with their nose. There's so much stuff packed in the end of that nose. Anyways, you hit it in the jaw with your fingers.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Hi, how are you? Is this Nick? This is, yes. I love that we're in your bedroom or a guest bedroom. I like that we're in a bedroom. We're rarely in a bedroom with anyone.

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Impossible luck on top of impossible, terrible luck.

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And did they get you on top of one of these surfboards? That must have been very hard.

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It's like you've got 14 huge punctures is what you have, right? I mean, that's how it does it.

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Uh-huh.

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No, you're in an ideal room already. There's a lot of soft fabrics around you. You don't want to be close to walls. Shocking. That's the echo chamber. So you're golden. You're wearing a soft sweatshirt, a hoodie. That's going to help. You have a little bit of stubble. That's going to break up the sound waves.

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Whoa, that feels impossible.

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Well, I do have to put a little bit of a socioeconomic spin on this. Good place to get injured in Monterey where professionals go on their vacation. This happens at Where's Beach or Daytona. You might not have the same staff on hand.

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So everyone just starts tourniqueting you up.

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Where are you at, Nick? Sonoma County, California. Oh, OK. Are you in any tangential way associated with the wine industry?

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It's kind of crazy you lived that long. I mean, I just have you must have lost so much blood. They start pumping blood into you immediately.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah. How long was the recovery from that?

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Oh, look at that.

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And would you ever swim in the ocean again? No. Yeah, good. I'm so glad to hear you say that. I think a lot of you folks would be like, no, still love it. I respect the shark. I know. I'm back in.

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Were you a vintner?

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There's other places to swim.

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Yeah, there we go. Whoa, Steve. We've only heard one story comparable to that. We talked to a guy attacked by a grizzly bear once, and it's kind of on that level.

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And are you ever over at Sonoma Raceway? I'm not. I had a feeling you'd ask me about that. That's the site of my huge crash that caused all the surgeries. Hmm. So what are you doing now?

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Good. Yeah, good. Let's stay out of there. Oh, boy.

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Might even show up tonight during our slumber. Exactly.

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No, Steve, we're born with a fear of monsters, and you actually got bit by a monster.

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Yeah.

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Well, Steve, thanks so much.

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Stay out of the water. Yeah, will do. Okay. Bye. Bye-bye. Bye. From 721, Delivery Driver Stories. Hello. Hello there. Now, Rags, this is a great name. Is that your nickname or just one you made up for this interview?

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Okay, now listen. Can I attribute this great vascularity in your left bicep to the fact that you're carrying a lot of packages? Or are you in the gym also?

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Yeah, my grandpa... Sorry, go ahead. I'm going to tell you about my grandpa's, your time. You don't want to hear about my grandpa.

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Well, he carried these 60 pound bags of flour at Wonder Bread for like 40 years. So his biceps were like fucking bowling balls and he never in his life lifted a weight. But what glorious biceps he had.

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You had to earn your biceps back then.

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We should probably not say.

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But I'm making that assumption too.

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Okay. So hit us with your crazy delivery story. Well, let me back up. Without saying who you work for, we've had a pizza delivery person. We've had a flour delivery. I would imagine for them, they're going to hit like 15 customers a shift. You must hit, what, like 40, 70, 100 houses a day or something?

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Yeah, we do half of our fundraising between Thanksgiving and New Year's. Wow. Well, thanks for taking the time to tell us your crazy gym story. I'm sure you're busy.

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You're constantly walking up to people's houses. I would love this, by the way.

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Do people ever tip? I have, but I don't know how common that is.

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So I interrupted you. There's one that was crazy among I'm sure many you have.

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Hit us. Where does this take place? Are we in Sonoma? Does Sonoma have gyms?

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Yeah, this sounds a little bit like a zombie apocalypse.

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Yeah, Charles Schultz Museum, home of Peanuts. And they had a nice pageant for a while, but that's been gotten rid of. You're so... Sorry, Nick.

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Yeah, this is where it gets even more fucked up.

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Emma's the secret weapon that no one meets. Yeah, she's incredible.

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I read the same post from Theo. Yeah. Fuck.

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Really quick question. This is such a low priority given what you're dealing with. But did it cross your mind like, well, I can keep this package?

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Yeah, you get desensitized in these jobs.

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How old was this gentleman?

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And was the theory maybe he dropped dead of a heart attack or had he injured himself on the saw?

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I know, but I want to get a rhythm going, Nick. I know. This is foreplay. I want to join sexual energies. You lost foreplay so much. Okay. Whatever. Do they do ice skating there anymore or no? They do. They have an ice skating rink. Okay. Charlie Brown, important person. Vince Giraldi, the holidays. Tis the season. Tis the season. Okay, sorry.

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My imagination might have ran away with me when I had already felt scared walking down. It's a very creepy property. Too many washing machines and rusted out cars and tractors. You see the dead body. You might think, is there a murderer in the house?

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Total sidebar. But on first glance, the thing about the cats, it feeds my narrative that I don't like cats and I like dogs. But then I was just thinking about this. If I died and Rob and Monica wanted to eat me... I'd also be extremely flattered by that.

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I got to say, of all our best ofs, I think... Armchair Anonymous lends itself very best to this format because it's just the banger story after another.

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I just think it would mean like you guys loved me so much you wanted to consume me after I died. No. Muscle's too tough. We wouldn't have anything to eat. Well, it would be terrible. There's no debate there. It's just, I think I'd feel flatter. If a cat ate me, I'd be like, you motherfucker, you never loved me. But what I'm saying is if you guys chose to eat me, I would feel very loved by that.

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So is this a part of your job you like too? If you're an accountant every day, yeah, you're going to come across some crazy receipts one day, but you're not going to probably wander upon a dead body with cats. I would like that part of your job.

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Have you ever caught people making love?

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Oh, come on, dudes.

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oh right this is a showstopper this was incredible yeah i mean fucking this is top five shit thank you let's just all agree that nothing will ever ever pass the woman in a marathon who shit herself and then had an orgasm i will never hear a story as long as i live i didn't expect to top that one yeah there's no beating that mine doesn't even hold that jockstrap for that one

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Yeah, she's the Jordan. Well, great meeting you, Rags. This was a party.

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Yeah, when shit gets too heavy for us, we have people we call, and then they show up and deal with it.

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Well, great meeting you, Rags. I hope we're keeping you company on the road there. Yeah, you guys made my day. Okay, wonderful.

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New Year's resolution. Oh, was going to the gym?

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hello hello hi we have dueling dog pictures behind our heads you've got a golden retriever or two those are different yeah two nelly on the left i can't even tell left or right from your view but rooney is the other one one is like a sweet angel and the other is like crackhead they sound alternative rooney and ellie they sound like they're into alternative stuff

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Oh. Also a cute alternative name.

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Do you have any children?

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Right. I would have guessed that because the care with which you've given these dogs names. Most people are just like, oh, fucking whatever. We'll call them Gus. This is meticulous.

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I hate Monica. Do you need a co-host? Do you need a new co-host, Nick?

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I hope you use Framebridge to mount and display those.

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Yeah. Okay, so Jane, you had one of your greatest fears come true. Is this true?

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Okay, we're excited. Oh, it's my favorite kind.

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Oh, she did. Yeah. I thought just you had him banged on the weekend and that had been a long time. That was an exciting timetable.

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Okay. Cause of the buildup.

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Wonderful. This is the dream. Yeah.

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I just, I'm having Aaron weekly flashbacks, but please continue.

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And even worse, I'd be like, oh, my God, panic. And then you'd be like, well, I only have so many followers. Probably no one saw. But then you're like, well, no, people are already warning us. The people I know have seen this.

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Yes, of course.

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I've seen that. When people I'm following go live, I get alerted.

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Oh my God. Well, he kind of killed it. Sounds like he was killing it. He's like, he's proud as a peacock. I'm glad your ex-boyfriend heard that. I brought it home.

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But you know what's interesting really quick? So for me, on the outside, and acknowledging I'm a man, if I had to get caught having sex, that would be the version I'd want, which is like, I'm kind of a hellcat and a lot of fun.

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Yeah.

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Think how much different it could have gone. The conversation they could overhear is like, I know. Yeah, get lube. Oh, where is the lube? Oh, do you need a minute? Do I need to help? It could have been impotence and it could have been dryness and it could have been like maybe an ouch. Look, we all know how it can go.

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Yeah, you should have to, like, type in a code. You should give your password.

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Oh. Like, it would get cut off. Oh, that makes sense. Yeah. Although now you're a registered sex offender. Yeah.

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Yeah. It's fantastic. Did you happen to hear my best friend Aaron Winkley's story about being on a Zoom AA meeting in the morning and he had no idea his microphone on? Diarrhea. Yes. Yelling at his dog, coughing. Yeah. Yeah, I think about it all the time. That's worse because he was like as gross as he can possibly be.

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From what you described, it sounds really hot.

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Oh, that's a good one.

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Since you have these two dogs, are you guys ever having sex and you look away from your husband, you notice one of your dogs just staring you directly in the eyes?

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Oh, we used to have a dog, Lola, that would like try to get right in the action. All of a sudden, you're like, what's with my leg? There's something hairy. Oh, man. Jeez, Louise. Oh, Jane, thanks for that.

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Did you listen to Race to 35?

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Well, thank you so much.

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Triple fingers crossed. Thank you. All right. Great meeting you, Jane. Good luck with everything.

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From 747 House Sitting Stories.

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Right next to where I grew up. Oh, Robbie Robb said that's right where he grew up.

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At where, Fremd? Fremd. Fremd. Did you know Fremd High School?

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Neighbor to Wobby Wob.

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Maybe one day you'll have children that'll end up going to- Fremd.

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Bad, terrible name for a school. What kind of name is this? Yeah. It's like, is it Frend? Is not. Did they misspell Frend? It's a last name, William Fremd. Frammed. It's terrible.

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How did you spell that, Wobby Wob? F-R-E-M-D. Fuck that. Terrible. Okay. Tyler, please, you have a house-sitting story for us.

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I know it very well. Bob Odenkirk's from there.

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Oh, my God. Hold on. We were just handed photos of the scene. I don't think the listener can even imagine the amount of destruction.

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That has happened in this kitchen. And I'm immediately curious how the fuck you slept through whatever happened. It's like a demo. It feels like. Yes, they were demoing the kitchen.

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Okay, wait. Okay, so the dog's freaking out. You look over. There's shit everywhere.

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Well, like a 9.6. Yeah.

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Hold on a second. Tyler, what on earth are you going to tell them?

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Absolutely. I can see myself making the same call.

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Yep. Looking at these pictures again, we're going to have to somehow post them or something. There's no explanation. You got to have an explanation before you call Tim, right?

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Oh my God. It's like a poltergeist is in the house.

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You mean that other picture? Oh my God. Oh my God. Look in the garage. There's a fucking car buried in the corner. Okay. Okay.

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Well, can I tell you, Nick, the first thing I thought of when you painted this picture was how many times I've taken a hoodie off in the car and then miscalculated and realized, like, I don't have either arm now and I'm driving with my knee. And that's exactly what happened here. Wow. I got one arm out. Hold that, Nick. And sorry, Monica. Are there any girls around?

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So he blew through the side of the garage, not the garage door.

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Oh my fucking God.

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Yeah, like right there is a huge hole behind that bush.

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I cannot believe you did not wake up. How on earth, Tyler, did you not wake up?

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That's a joke you'd say to your partner. Like, you sleep so deep, a fucking truck could run through here and you wouldn't even wake up. Like, I even wonder if the dog hadn't been barking, if you would have just woke up the next day.

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Had you locked eyes with anyone and had anything in your mind going like, oh, I see you and you see me?

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They have cut their trip short, obviously, to come deal with this.

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He was going another 30 miles an hour. Still wouldn't have woke up.

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Oopsies. That's a mistake that shouldn't really be able to be made because a gas line, if the thing's in line with the gas pipe, it's on. And if it's perpendicular, it's off. That's how they're made.

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Oh, he should have been more alert. Should have seen that curve coming.

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So he got arrested. Yeah. Well, hopefully he ended up in treatment.

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It's a good story in an AA meeting. Did you get eyes on him that night?

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For sure. Yeah, you got to get out of there.

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Let's go.

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Are we allowed to post those pictures? Do you think the homeowner would be fine with that?

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Yeah, I think we got to post those. I don't think anyone would realize how insanely damaging this event is. How funny that you're trying to make sense of the kitchen that literally just self-detonated.

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I'm so glad I saw it in the order I did. Yeah, that was great. Oh, this is great. Oh, Tyler, that's a fucking home run of a story. Yeah, man, all the drawers are thrown out. The island's been shoved forward.

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Your explanation was smart, which is like, oh, there was a gas explosion. It does look like everything exploded off the wall.

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The oven is gone. It's nowhere to be found.

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Me too. That wasn't my fault. Oh, thank God. Just a car drove through the house. What a blessing.

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Through the home.

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Yeah. On Coke and drunk?

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Old fashioned way. Yeah. Okay. Oh, well, Tyler, thank you so much for sharing that story with us. That was great.

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Well, thank you, Zoar, for turning Tyler onto the show. And I'm so delighted you guys listen.

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From 806 Hotel Stories.

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Hi. Sorry. We were saying naughty stuff right as you signed on.

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Are you in a bunk bed with a sheet?

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This is a first.

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A lot of ingenuity happening. What do you do for a living?

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Cool. Have you ever seen like the situation in the gang?

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Were you ever curious when they were shooting that show to wander up there and see if you could see them? I was obsessed with them.

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That's fair. Am I right to think that the season is coming to an end? Is it a good time for you or a sad time?

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Your own. Oh, that would be a first. A proprietor.

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How many rooms are there? I want to get like kind of an idea of what we're looking at.

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A lot of fun. Very nice. Really quickly, my grandparents owned a motel, and I was just telling Monica that my grandma many times found dead bodies. Does that happen to you?

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Okay, great. Great, great, great. Oh, sorry. Knock, knock, knock. There we go. Okay.

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Ranging from just she's nosy or she's aggressive, loud.

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And just surrounded with merch.

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So she's thinking on her feet.

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At this moment in your mind, have you tried to figure out? Because I'm immediately thinking this is the act of a super hammered person that didn't really know what they were doing. Not so much that they actually are a thief that wants this stuff. My guess right now is she woke up and was just as surprised as you are that all that stuff was in her room.

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Also, what the hell are you going to do with all this stuff? It's not like it's highly resellable.

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Okay.

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Or even a Simpsons cartoon like Homer Simpson on a treadmill. Yes.

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We're not going to call the cops. You're like, I'm not interested in that.

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100%.

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It was that. It was someone walked in on their dad, pounding mom, bent over the bed. It was like 6.15 in the morning. And I said, well, no one would have anal sex in the morning, but now we're hearing this story.

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People are animals.

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So he stayed under your employ. Did you guys ever have any follow-up conversation about that whole sitch?

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Well, I would say to him, listen, Carl, I'm going to let you work here, but you shouldn't have sex with the guests. That's off the table. But if it does happen, be mildly respectful.

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Oh, wow.

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Oh, talk about insult to injury.

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This might not shock you, but in my 20 plus years in AA, this is the kind of story I hear. You know, this is generally someone's bottom.

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Thank you. That was incredible. What a morning you had.

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And all the guests, they were delighted when they got their stuff back. Everything was fine.

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Oh, God. That poor woman. She's really hanging on by a thread.

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Well, Brittany, thank you. That was a blast.

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Let's say hi to Heather.

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Hi, Heather.

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Now, did you also go take a look at the wreckage in the bed or did you take everyone's word for it?

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Your warm-up pants tore. Oh, yeah. Total rug burn. Oh.

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Okay, sure. Well, so nice meeting both of you. This was incredible.

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You're lucky they stayed on. You could have been in your skivvies. I imagine also people helping pull the hoodie off of you. Yeah. Okay.

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It was shown to many, many people.

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But no one ever hooks themselves.

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You're supposed to wear it, but nobody does. No one's ever going to wear that thing. And this is why you're supposed to wear it. What was the extent of the injuries? When you got in the car and the adrenaline subsided, did you start feeling like, oh, I got my ass kicked by that thing?

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Oh, man.

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It's like falling onto a belt sander.

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Oh, my gosh.

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I wonder if maybe it was rolling, too. There could have been some. Oh, Nick, I'm glad you survived that. Luckily, nobody got to her.

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What a great story. I'm sorry that happened to you. You really went through the spin cycle, as you said. I really did. Did you revisit exercise?

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Did not jump on a treadmill for many years. Yeah, at least when you fall down there, you stay put.

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Yeah, or you fall in a ravine.

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You're terribly cute, though. I think it works perfectly with what you're presenting. Thank you.

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He's got a sweetness.

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With Steve Carell-ness.

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Who do people tell you you look like? Munchie Cheese. You ever heard of those guys? Munchie Cheese, Munchie Cheese. They're so soft and cuddly. Munchie Cheese, Munchie Cheese.

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Yeah, we did. I think she had a Munchie Cheese.

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Yeah. I don't get a lot of prompts to celebrities that I can think of.

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Did they like the story of the man decomposing at brunch in Canada? We haven't heard that one.

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You should use that as punishment. If one of them fucks up, you're like, you get in that room and you listen to that nine minutes. And you listen to it over and over again. That's the most rough one. I'll bookmark that one for later. Okay, well, give our love to your babies.

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All right, thanks, guys. Take care. From 759 Near-Death Experiences.

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Can you hear us? Yes, I can. You can hear me, eh? Yeah. Oh, you're Canadian. No, but good guess. Oh, okay. You threw an A in there, didn't you? Did I hear an A? You did. Can't tell you why. Are you married to a Canadian? I'm not.

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Okay. Where are you from?

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Yeah, that's pretty far from Canada.

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Oh, you do? That's an enviable location.

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Okay, Steve, you have a near-death experience. And you've made it, because we're talking to you.

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Unless we talk to a medium. We talked to someone beyond the grave. Set the scene for us. What year is this? Where is it at?

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I just don't associate that with seafarers. That's an interesting mashup.

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And really quick, did you immediately recognize it as a great white or was it taking you a minute? Like, is that a whale? Is that a this? Or do you immediately know what it was?

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Your mind goes very quickly at that moment. Do you get to the point where you surrender? You're like, I'm going to die. This is it.

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Tell me this now. You work at the aquarium. I had always heard you want to hit them on the nose. You went lower jaw. That's what I could reach. If you had had your druthers, is the nose the right thing? I don't know. Yeah.

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dan Shepard. I'm joined by Monica Padman and Aaron Weakley. This is a fucking nuts episode.

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Did they live right there? No.

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And did the power of choir heal all wounds?

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Okay, I got a one-second story for you. It's about my brother. He was out of town on business. He's eating at a Taco Bell. He's by himself. He hears a collision. He looks out the window at Taco Bell, and there's a man that somehow has crashed his motorcycle but is on top of it as it slides, slides into the lawn of the Taco Bell, and the motorcycle caught on fire.

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It looks fun. Where do you live?

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And gas was getting everywhere and the guy was on fire. And my brother ran out of Taco Bell. He took his shirt off to pat the guy down. But my favorite part of the story is my brother said, I'm like batting this guy out. And all I can think is I got to get my shirt back on. Even while he was actively rescuing someone, he was like really insecure.

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Oh, gosh. Yeah, I kind of want to live there. Do you love it? I like it. But we're full, so don't move here. Oh, I know.

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He would not have taken his shirt off otherwise in front of Taco Bell. Yeah, a little bit of personal sacrifice. Yeah. I just think it's so human to be saving someone's life and thinking, fuck, I got to get this shirt back on before anyone looks at my belly.

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I wonder if his penis got burnt in that.

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I'm glad you had the presence of mind to just check. Or maybe it couldn't be avoided.

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Who knows? Maybe fire excites.

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Because his boyfriend found someone with an even bigger penis.

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It's low probability.

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Thank you for telling me that detail.

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Although, who was just telling us that lives there that they like Californians?

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It's a bummer. It's like the gym that way. You got to keep going. Can't get the perfect abs and then quit.

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Did you like the Nikki episode? Nikki Glaser?

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I love how open she is about all that.

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They had some distinction between what groups they liked. Okay, so you have a first responder story. Sure thing.

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Well, thanks, Eliza. This was a delight. Nice meeting you.

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Thank you guys so much. Bye. Hello, is this Daphne?

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You're in your closet.

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Are you allowed to tell us what state you're in?

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Oh, okay, great. Okay, so you have a first responder story.

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Can I ask what led you to the job in the first place? I'm a little bit curious about that.

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Are you a bit of an adrenaline junkie?

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But that's like asking us if we watched a show about podcasting.

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Good point.

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What is the average career expectancy? I don't feel like I see a lot of older EMTs.

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Gotcha.

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Oh, interesting.

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Hurry. A horse trots out of the bedroom.

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Right. Is he wearing shorts?

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No! This is bringing me back to that bar in Canada.

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Oh, wow. Okay. Do you guys remember that one? Oh, my God.

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Okay. Okay. Squish, squish, squish. Different colored legs.

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His legs are dead.

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Oh, my fucking... This is like as close as you can get to discovering a zombie.

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Oh, wow.

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And then there's a horse in his bedroom with human legs. Did he just swap them? It was a transplant?

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So his fucking foot is falling apart as he walks?

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How old were you at this point?

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Some people are just born blessed.

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Can I ask what his demeanor is? Because I have a story very similar to this from an ER doctor I know who had someone get brought in that was a shut-in. And they had a lot of necrotic flesh. And I don't think they knew. They were kind of just embarrassed. Like, what was his vibe like?

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Did he acknowledge that his legs were dead?

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Oh, okay. It only works if you have another, there's no other A24V.

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On your birthday, but it's the July 2nd. Cancer that makes J2C so elusive. April 24, I guess you could be, but what's the sign for April?

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He might have been a little disassociated, like, let's just get through this.

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I would have said, no, you're going to the one down the road.

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This guy is a bozo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1862.696

Do you say hi? You don't say hi.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

188.564

All right, Christian, sorry we ate up so much of your time with that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1883.607

Wow. Wow. That's good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1888.091

You learn that in a pit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1901.26

What about the puke? Did homeboy clean up his own puke?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1912.442

Yeah, you got to call dispatch and go like, hey, we need about an hour to clean up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1918.543

And we need to fire Mike and send him to fucking Boca. I can't believe you didn't quit your job after that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1928.345

I mean, do you? I can't imagine you think like, I'm going to show up and someone's legs are going to be falling off real time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1937.847

Right, a horse transplant.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1942.069

Our last question, because when we interviewed nurses, they all have a foreign body and rectum story. Did you respond to any of those?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1951.551

Wow, twofer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1960.395

It's got to be empty, I would guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1970.841

That seems craziest to me because the fluid could pop up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1978.024

Maybe they put a champagne bottle in there. Then you pop the cork and it explodes right when you're. That sounds divineful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1986.748

But someone did have a wine bottle and you put them face down on the stretcher, I guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

1996.093

Did they make any explanation as to what had happened or no? Just I need to go to the hospital.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2007.402

There's a Sedaris story about the people say they tripped and fell. And he's like, I'm so clumsy. I've fallen down naked many times, never stood up and there was a candle in my ass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2020.916

What's the second version?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2026.829

Are you done with that line of work?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2033.674

Oh, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2038.857

Well, Daphne, this was a delight. This is among the very worst stories we've heard. What an accomplishment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2049.688

Of course. We love shout outs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2078.206

I'm going to take it. I'm choosing today to take it. My self-esteem is good. Wow. And I'm going to go. All right. That's great. Well, thank you. This is a real barn burner, as we say. High watermark for Armchair Anonymous. Nice meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2093.805

Bye.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2108.648

On the show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2118.512

OK, I understand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2122.196

Hello, can you hear me?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2124.759

Is this Grant? This is me. Where are you from, Grant?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2129.305

We like the Boston area.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2134.932

He doesn't even know who you're referencing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2139.221

Matt Damon and Ben Affleck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2142.842

Oh, cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2145.523

So you have a first responder story. Yes. I hope it's okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2229.962

You can bleed out. Your body's opened up to the world at that point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2234.404

Oh, that's the nightmare, seeing your bones stick out of your leg.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2386.339

Oh, my God. Biggest left turn ever. She was probably apologizing why she killed her. I'm so sorry. I really want a million dollars. I was shocked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2400.588

Presumably. Yeah, she broke her leg in half.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2409.093

Oh, wow. You think she's just trying to get some money?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2438.815

They were fucked up, which is why she was kind of handling it so well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2445.703

Wow. Are you at all considering going to the trial? No, because you don't live out there anymore?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2457.567

I'd be so intrigued to find out what's going on with this person. Why is she so nice? Boy, when they say, like, you never know, she would be the last person you would have guessed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2476.88

Wow. Murder. Boy, I did not see that coming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2483.607

The Dateline. America's Sweetheart Murderer. This would be a good Dateline. You're right. Yeah. Hopefully they'll interview you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2496.112

Fooled. Fooled. Fooled. You got fooled. Are you still in the EMT game?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

25.087

We shouldn't put it out and you shouldn't listen to it. This is first responders. And we did hear a story that rivals the very worst of stories we've ever heard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2518.143

All right. Take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2522.808

I can't believe you did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2525.13

One slipped through. Are you chomping at the bit to go home and watch ER in The Pit?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2533.702

Oh my God. That's so interesting. They're doing regular drops for that show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2540.55

We have a mixed feeling about The Delayed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2544.534

We'll save this for the, yeah. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2547.618

Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

2577.179

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

351.321

Oh, this seems impossible without losing him and him flying down the ladder and taking people out. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

40.18

It's fucking insane. I'm thinking of the thing when she described him walking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

434.062

Fucking momentum. Well, think if you were on a seesaw and the seesaw went up at 60 miles an hour. Because that's how fast the car's probably tumbling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

446.19

I've seen a lot of videos of people getting thrown out of vehicles because dumbasses that off-road don't wear a seatbelt. And I've seen that a bunch. It's crazy how easily the body just flies out the window.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

462.542

No. No, but if you're mid-crash, do drink a fifth of Jack really quick.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

47.006

It's fucking wild. Boy, first responders. I mean, you know, they see it all, but they see more than you think they see.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

473.066

Don't you like how gangster Christian is? Like, I like these EMTs. They're just like, let's get going.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

493.078

Now, have you ever been anywhere post this career and some shit's gone down and you've got to get involved? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

512.173

That's wild. What a thing. Great meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

515.736

All right. Take care. Take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

549.072

Hi. Is it Eliza?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

553.476

Eliza, where are you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

557.699

Oh, Monica was just stranded there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

568.074

Yeah, you're going to have to for the arm cherries because they were pretty invested in that. Oh, my God. There was a lot of people wanting an update when you guys have lunch and get married and have a family.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

57.675

Can't eat, can't drink, can't operate a vehicle. You have to be in a padded room to listen to this with nothing sharp around. Don't enjoy first responders.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

582.857

Maybe live stream the lunch. Okay, so you have a first responder story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

735.535

There's a can of gas in the mix, too? That the guy's holding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

755.936

If I was witnessing this tableau, I have no guess at what's going on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

759.758

Normally, I'm like, oh, I can see what's happening here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

781.652

Thanks for trusting me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

88.597

You have fun stuff behind you. Yeah, what's happening? You know, Bizquick, Fallout.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: First Responder

976.607

Brian, you've got a choir show to see.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dak Shepherd and I'm joined by Lily Padman. And we're here today to learn about people who have dated criminals.

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Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1000.769

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Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1077.663

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Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1086.448

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They even have sugar-free flavors like raspberry lemonade and white peach. I love that piña colada. It is so delish.

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Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1174.721

Did it cross your mind to alert law enforcement like, hey, this dude is trying to get people to go on this bike ride. He's clearly courting a victim. Oh, I don't mean to make you feel guilty.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1219.373

Have you looked them up? How long ago was this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1228.889

Oh, he did. So he's likely in jail currently, I would hope.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1236.777

Oh, my God. How can you admit to kidnapping and not be in jail?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1246.166

Oh, yeah. Oh, my God. OK, so ladies and dudes do a double check. Once you get that number, run it through Phoenicia's system and make sure they have no record of kidnapping.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1270.701

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1275.023

You know, dudes weaponize those good looks. You look at a lot of these serial killers and they're quite handsome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

128.204

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1281.187

Because if a gargoyle invites you on a bike ride, it's easy to say no thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1306.526

Aww. You're playing it very cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1329.239

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1332.479

Yes, do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1348.124

Oh. We should start a kids version of Armchair Anonymous. That would be hilarious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1360.93

Hello. Hello. Can you hear us?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1382.83

Where are you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1390.095

Timely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1396.859

Okay, wait, what's VPR? I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1403.337

You know all about Vanderpump Rules?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1410.843

Okay, so Tom and Ariana, somewhere in the vague Pacific Northwest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

145.087

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1511.987

Can I ask really quick on the dating profile, what was it that caught your attention?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1523.778

Was he the opposite of the six-year-long boyfriend?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1573.398

Do you remember how much it was for?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1599.53

Oh, I have a great reason. Your grandfather just died. Your mother is super sick. You're in over here. You need comfort. Any little burp of comfort you're going to seek.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

165.123

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1702.044

I can't imagine your possessions at 22 were all that valuable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1707.748

It's like robbing Goodwill at this point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

180.882

It is. The whole instructor part and the class.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

187.406

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1880.162

What if you came to find out they were just there to execute a deep clean? They're like, we got to get everything out to shampoo these carpets.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1901.598

Did you have a sense that if you asked Tom to leave, he wasn't going to comply? Like, did you feel like you had lost even the ability to get rid of him?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

1916.767

Yeah, yeah. And isn't it crazy we take on the shame of having not... advocated for ourself, yet we're so clearly the victim. But it's hard to not feel some weird shame. I think that's why criminality can persist in the way it does.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2072.74

He's like a genius detective all of a sudden and thinks he's really figured something out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2106.804

It's like a Guy Ritchie movie. The guy also really wants to teach someone martial arts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2155.976

for check fraud. This is so bizarre.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

219.158

Hi, can you hear us?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2201.911

Did you ever find out through the grapevine what happened to Tom? He couldn't have been long for this world and freedom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

222.942

Where are you at?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2254.591

You're not generally choosing that life path because things are going well and you're feeling good. Kind of an AA thing, but it's often helpful to remember that the people that you resent and have harmed you, they're the ones that will live with their mistakes. You don't live with their mistakes. You live with your mistakes and people live with their own mistakes. And the bill comes due.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2275.057

No one really gets away with anything. Maybe they don't go to jail. Maybe they don't die. But the suffering is going to be there. You can't avoid that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

229.628

Halfway between Detroit and Toronto, home of McAdams.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2308.261

Yeah, that's a wild one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2321.185

Somebody's listening. They're like, I know they're going to have a, if you've been trampled by an elephant prompt someday, just rest assured every prompt will come.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2336.112

Yeah, I'm glad you lived through it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2341.636

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2432.751

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2506.211

Hello. Sorry, I was just polishing off my pre-workout drink. How are you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2513.162

Wonderful. It looks like you're in a yurt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2520.476

Oh, that was nice of them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

253.863

You're 66% of the way there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2530.159

Let's pray there's not a structural collapse mid-story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2536.941

You're in good hands.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2540.462

Brittany, where are you in the world?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2544.943

The home of my brother. Beaverton's lovely. It's wonderful. Okay, so you dated a criminal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2558.708

Where were you at?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

26.5

Spoiler alert. It's all women who dated male criminals.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

261.444

Okay, so you dated a criminal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

263.885

Oh my God. Please walk us through it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2638.255

Oh, okay. The lying, cheating bitch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2654.808

She's crazy. You lied about the floor, but you were right about the ex.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2707.674

Now, really quick, from Friday till Sunday, is your attraction to him staying completely consistent and strong? Is it growing or is it dissipating? Are there other things where you're like, ah, he's not as great as I thought?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2762.86

Oh, God. Yeah, thanks, Dad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2810.546

Well, in addition to being an associate professor, he's also a master mechanic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

2826.944

He's still there a month later.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

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Really quick, and this is not to try to shame you for not poking holes, just a genuine curiosity. Once it had gone beyond two weeks, which was the initial concept, which is spring break or whatever the break was, what was his explanation for why he wasn't returning?

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Brittany, can I ask you a quick question?

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You got a little emotional at that part. And I'm curious, when dad enters the equation, are you so ashamed he knows this? Is that why?

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Okay, okay, okay, okay.

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Plot twist.

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Can we also add, you're in Canada. You're no stranger to people drinking.

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3074.508

Oh, really?

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Yeah.

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A mother-son con team.

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What more did we find out?

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There are a lot of plot twists in this thing.

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Yeah, rotten lemons.

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Do we know what his drug of choice was?

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Did you ever reach out to the ex-girlfriend who warned you to find out what she had gone through?

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I would be very curious to know how similar her experience was.

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Well, maybe she knew.

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It's a mother and son con operation.

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Yeah, okay.

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Well, you would have gone, mom's dad. Boy, she's a bitch and she's nuts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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And was he arrested just from the skipping bail on the previous thing or were there new charges?

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Yeah, I mean, he's probably had 12 more years of being a scoundrel.

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Right. Wow.

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Yeah. Mom, they caught us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

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You're right, though, Monica, if we want to attempt to be as generous as possible. How fucked up was his childhood that his mother has enlisted him in her criminal pursuit?

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I said it. And then I went on to say I was delighted to see that one of the arsonists here in the city was a female.

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I think that's the most gruesome part of these experiences is like trying to parse out what was real and what wasn't real. And then ultimately... You're trying to answer the question, did he actually like me or love me? Somehow you're trying to hold on to building a case for that.

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So you need him to have been truthful about some portion of it so that the other thing, you're just forced into that position.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

3342.294

It changes your worldview a bit, right? And it scares you about your own ability to protect yourself. It makes you feel more vulnerable in the world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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I'm the lead character, motherfuckers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Oh, man. I do think this kind of experience does ruin a lot of people. So I'm happy for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

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Thank you. Well, Brittany, this has been a delight. And what a series of twists and turns.

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And now I have somebody if I need to investigate anyone in the Pacific Northwest.

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If you ever start investigating Dave Shepard for something, just do me a solid and overlook it all. Don't take any cases against my family members up there. I promise I won't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

3410.687

All right. Well, wonderful meeting you, Brittany. Thanks for telling us that.

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All right. Take care. There's a couple patterns here, right? We saw right away. There's something about a long-term breakup and then the rebound that seems to be a little fertile for something.

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Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

3430.592

In high school, it's like they had their first...

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kind of really innocent relationship and then the next one you're a little vulnerable for whatever reason very again this sense of am i worth loving probably not because this other relationship didn't work so you're just looking for confirmation i only speak for myself when you're young and you're in these long relationships and it follows that pattern that relationships follow which is like the good chemicals have worn off the excitement has worn off and now it's just that here and now chemicals

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And you're a little bored with the person. And I can imagine your natural response to that is like, I need someone more exciting. The problem was not that that's the pattern of relationships. It's that, oh, I need someone a little more exciting next time.

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Cry on other people? Yeah. Yeah, that's a bummer. You know, I met someone at the Golden Globes of all places, a woman who said, hey, I want to thank you for that narcissist episode. It helped me realize that my mother is a narcissist and answered a lot of things.

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So I guess my only hope for this would be if you're in a situation that is mirroring any of these details, the quicker you pull the plug, the better.

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Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

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No.

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It is. Well, I love you and I'm really glad that no criminal has ever preyed on you, Monty.

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Fingers crossed. Yeah. Is that a New Year's resolution to not ask me to knock on wood? Because that was a knock on wood moment if there ever was one.

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You did. There was a moment.

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Good luck getting some money out of that.

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They kick the door down.

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They used the door handle. Okay.

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I do. I do. I do. We got to take what little we can get. I know. We got such a bad scorecard. I know. You know, anything that right sizes the –

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Oopsies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

443.202

What was the extent of his injuries while he was in the hospital?

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466.433

She's had cute eyes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Dated a Criminal

480.407

Shut up, Monica.

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509.76

Oh, hold on. That's not where my, my mind went to. He had been stealing from everyone in the apartment. They thought you pushed your boyfriend out the window.

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Yeah. Yeah. Women just do different kind of weird stuff.

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From his addiction?

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Yeah. Statistically speaking. Statistically. Exactly. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So this is, you know, this ranges from comedic to insane to absolutely terrifying to bozo town with the whole gamut. So please enjoy Dating a Criminal. We are supported by Mint Mobile. It's time to leave your overpriced wireless plans jaw-dropping monthly bills and unexpected overages.

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I put you through hell, but let me give you two of your three on your list.

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Oh, Monica, on behalf of all addicts, I'm sorry.

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I'm sure you learned a ton. Did he go to treatment? How did he end up getting clean?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Did he ever give you an amends?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Oh, man. Well, I'm sorry you went through that.

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I might have helped get him sober, though. Yeah.

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Oh, well, Monica, I'm sorry you went through that. But also, you know, if you're laying on your deathbed in 80 years and you have literally nothing of excitement to look back on, I don't know that that's a win either. So you got a chapter in your life that was harrowing. Is that a positive spin?

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Well, it's lovely meeting you. I want you to stay warm in this. What are they calling this one? It's some kind of cold snap. You know this, Monica? Home in all the countries and some crazy. Yeah, I heard that. Maybe even, is Georgia cold?

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All right. Well, Monica, happy new year. We're wishing you all the best.

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Bye.

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26.

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Hi, how are you?

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Good. Is this Phoenicia?

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685.646

Where are you?

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Well, let me just list the things I love about Arizona. Of course, home of Flaky Jake's. If you listen to the show, you know that's my obsession. But also, you can drive a dune buggy down the highway there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Okay, so you dated a criminal, which is very exciting. So exciting. So exciting. Please walk us through it.

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It's powerful, right?

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Hold on. I want to take you bike riding at night by a canal. Yeah.

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That's one step away from I want to take you on a date next to a six foot hole I dug.

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Yeah.

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Well, first of all, I just want to applaud your boundaries. I think a lot of people, when meeting someone that's gorgeous, they're trying to go along with anything just to keep everything moving forward. And so I'm already pretty impressed. Although I also hope you end up on this bike ride so we know what happens on it.

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Ha ha ha.

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Oh, really quick. How do you find that info out?

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Did they match who he had said he was?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Oh, wow. Someone smart should put that in a one-step app.

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Yeah, safety screener. And then you can type in someone's name. And then it does all that stuff for you and just gives you a laundry list of what they've done.

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dan Shepard, and I'm joined in absentia by Monica Padman. Today's Armchair Anonymous is kind gestures from strangers.

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No. I was going to suggest she has to poop.

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Yeah. She was like, I'm not going to make this 30 minute walk. So we have to get there fast.

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Oh, that's your theory on why she was high tailing it. Mine was more like, if you got a squirt in the woods, you would just squirt in the woods. She's not going to take a shit in the woods next to her.

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And she chose a clearing.

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Okay, meaning her person?

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And that's assuming she's had her last wave of it.

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Is this Joanna?

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It's a horror movie.

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Are you under a bunk bed?

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Oh, what a good Christian woman.

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You're at like a desk situation?

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Yeah, there's only so much you can do without a shower.

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How old is she?

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They had no idea.

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Did you guys discuss? Did she go like, yeah, I fucking ate some shrimp tacos.

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What part of the country are you in?

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I got to commend her on her work ethic. She didn't fucking bail.

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I wonder if the couple, though, on their stroll up, when they pass that little clearing, they're like, did you fart? That could have also unhinged the engagement. If she was like, God, Brad always...

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We're doing this nice thing and you can't even not fart.

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Or he's like, oh no, she smells. Should I do this?

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Wow. Oh, I love that. I was not expecting a poop your pants story in the middle of gestures from a stranger. So what a blessing.

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153.559

Okay, please tell us about your kind gesture from a stranger.

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1539.521

She's a hero.

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I'm trying to think. I would say, yeah, I have stuff in the car.

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1543.863

You can come grab it.

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No, no. I would help, but I wouldn't go the steep way. Because I'd be like, I might fall and die.

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I would have been like... No, because then she would have thought that was a scam. I was going to say, I would say, what's your car? Give me your keys. I'm going to run down and grab them out of the trunk. And I'll run back up. But then she probably would have been like, oh, this whole thing's a scam to steal my car.

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1568.5

Super sophisticated ploy to steal a car. And you've left someone behind as a witness, too. Yeah.

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1575.565

Oh, Chelsea, that was great.

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Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

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How are you?

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1596.312

This looks like everyone's sharing a coffin. And are you a Kentucky native?

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The bluegrass. Well, it's lovely meeting all of you. You too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

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Okay, bye guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

1614.197

Hello? Is it Janae?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

1617.499

And where are you at, Janae?

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Okay, so you received a kind gesture from a stranger.

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Did you know him prior to working with him? Were you guys friends before?

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1852.503

Oh, my gosh. How wonderful.

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Yeah, that's spectacular. And you still love the house? You've been there for four years?

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That's wonderful. Well, if you sell it, make like a huge profit.

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Not shocking because one of the greatest gifts of generosity I received was when we were stranded at the airport in Boston and those kind people in Wellesley hosted all of us. That was mass holes going against the stereotype.

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1885.166

Did you watch the Jerry Springer documentary by chance on Netflix?

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Oh, I got to tell you just the funniest. A, if you watch it, you'll be like, I can't believe that was on television. And we just accepted that. That's one shocking thing. But then the other funny thing is they had a rule on Jerry Springer. No guests from Boston.

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Oh, my God.

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That was like a hard rule. Yeah, because they had so many guys from Boston come on. They were either lying or they had made up their story. They just wanted to get on TV and raise hell. And so I think that's a real feather in the cap of Boston. All Bostonians banned from Jerry Springer.

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192.626

How old is the gentleman?

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1941.88

What guests brought you in?

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1948.124

I was just telling my mother-in-law, who's a nurse, that there's nothing more dependable than the nurse prompt.

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It's a good one. Well, thank you so much.

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1956.19

Thanks so much.

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Thanks for having me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

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All right.

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1958.391

Bye-bye.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

1961.654

Hello. How are you?

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Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

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Where are you, Georgianne?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

1975.639

Oh, that's a feather in y'all's cap.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

1979.361

Okay, so you were the recipient of some kindness.

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2034.226

Well, as soon as you said this, I'm back in fifth grade watching it live in my classroom, and I'm terrified for what's coming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2074.608

You guys weren't watching it live.

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2157.365

Oh, I I know a yellow page.

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Yeah, and Joanna, just quick backstory. So for me, it would just be red flag galore. I would have so hard of a time accepting that this could be true. Monica, would you be skeptical or where would you be at?

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You're right. It can have a real lasting impact.

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2246.755

Yeah, what a hero she is.

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2258.365

Yeah, that's pretty radical. That's a beautiful story. What a day that was. Because we watched it live and every class was watching it. All of the teachers started crying. The explosion was one thing that was alarming, but it was seeing all of our teachers, which we didn't think, cried. That was really unsettling. I was like, oh, the adults are really, really all scared right now.

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2286.465

Well, Georgianne, that's a very sweet story.

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2297.591

Yeah, let's get them all in.

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2354.445

The notion you thought you were going to botch this, that was incredible.

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236.154

I'd be skeptical, but I would progress.

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2391.067

Oh, this family, y'all made our day.

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Okay, well, thank you. You truly, truly made our day.

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Take care. Oh, man. Oh, sweet family. That was fucking delightful.

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That was a nice family.

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Hey, you intelligent, beautiful woman.

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Listen, I don't want to go to space.

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No, me neither. Well, I used to want to until we interviewed the astronaut, and I found out it's not pleasant up there. Headaches, can't sleep, bursts of gamma rays in your eyes. They're closed. You can't shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2430.893

Yeah. I loved this prompt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2433.036

Me too.

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Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2434.318

And it has made me feel like I want to do something very nice for someone. Yeah. Today. But I am going to the Beyonce concert.

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Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2445.049

That's a good thing to do for Beyonce.

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Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2448.672

That's something, that's a kind gesture I'm doing for her.

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Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2451.595

What if Beyonce was on a podcast about kind strangers and she said, this girl Monica, I didn't even know her and she bought a ticket to come see me perform. And she bought my merch and she cut in line. Cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2465.566

Okay, yeah. This isn't a good day for me to do it. I'm probably going to receive a kind gesture from somebody.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2471.069

Yeah, you're going to do a little taking today probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2474.271

No, I'll buy everyone in line a shirt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2476.532

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2477.332

I can't commit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2478.152

All right. Probably a big lie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2479.693

I know. I just realized that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2482.082

All right. Well, I think you're a kind stranger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2484.223

I think you are too. You know what I like to do? This is nothing, but in LA, because we have a lot of parking meters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2492.208

If I see that one's out. Oh, you can slide your credit card in there? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2496.571

Oh, that's really nice. You know what I make a habit of doing is if I have to fart and I'm about to get on an elevator, I fart in the foyer before I get in the elevator.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2506.136

as an act of- Oh, that's so nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2508.398

Yeah. My wife doesn't extend that kindness to strangers. She'll toot right in the elevator.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2513.441

Because she knows they'll blame me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2520.59

You love that, huh? That's so funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2525.514

You know Rob's got my numbers sometimes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2527.556

Yeah, he sure does. They like it. All right. Well, I think that's it for Kind Strangers. That was great. I loved it. That was really lovely. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2535.282

Love you. Love you.

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Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

2565.848

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

258.062

Oh my goodness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

28.036

And if that sounds too PG rated, I will assure you that there is a gift within these kind gestures in the form of an unauthorized evacuation. So it's going to deliver on all fronts. Please enjoy kind gestures from strangers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

296.095

Really quick, how do you get that list of who's been arrested the night before?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

306.663

Oh, wow, wow, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

381.363

Perjury.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

420.785

Richard did? He never returned to his practice?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

439.926

But your mind went to a great place, Monica, which is, is he okay? And my mind went to, uh-oh, he had to run from something. This is Jacksonville, Florida. So maybe he was representing some kind of a drug cartel situation and he had to make himself scarce.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

455.372

Maybe he's a witness protection now. Could be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

459.053

And then it expired and he moved back to Jackson? Yeah. Really quick, when he disappeared, how did you know to stop coming to work?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

475.854

I don't know why that reminds me of I worked at a fabrication place in high school when I was 15. My boss called me into his office and he said, hey, it's your birthday Friday, right? And I said, yeah. And he said, it's your birthday. Don't come in. And I go, oh, okay, great. And then he goes, yeah, and just call Monday and we'll see if we have any work. I was like, wait a minute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

496.086

He's like letting you go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

497.387

He fired me under the guise of you can have your birthday off. Are you still playing music?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

518.898

Well, Joanna, so nice to meet you. And that's a really great story. And it's positive and it never turned dark.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

523.821

I hate that I'm now this person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

525.662

Oh, you're putting on the Dax hat?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

527.323

A little. I'm like, maybe he was on drugs and manic or something. He used his mania for good. It's a little on a tear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

535.008

It's inconsistent for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

539.011

But you do paint a good picture. Let's just say everything went sideways. I fucked up everything and I was divorced. I was loaded. I think I would hate myself. And if I could help a stranger, it might buy me little periods of feeling okay about myself.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

552.522

Well, and then that's okay. That to me isn't fine. But if he was bipolar or something and then it was in his mania. Also, that's fine if he did. I came out ahead. It was still a very kind gesture regardless.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

565.012

I'm just delighted he never got pervy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

567.414

Me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

567.954

That's all we care about, really.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

581.064

That makes me so happy. I never talk about that movie, but I really do think that's the most fun I've ever had playing a character. That's the only time I got to play just a straight prick.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

591.872

No, this was more fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

610.947

Oh, that's so sweet. Thank you. That's a kind gesture.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

618.415

I'm kind of nervous about him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

620.397

Pretty exciting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

621.779

Well, I just am sad he dropped off the map.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

624.382

It is interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

625.643

Do you think the kid had a disease?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

627.586

No, God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

628.567

I'm just, something happened here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

630.269

I just took a lover. Well, how about this? He went to visit her. And as he already said, he's loaded. He's going to spend two weeks with her. And then he was like, I have the option to just be around my daughter. And maybe she had a family. And he just decided, I'm going to be present. And there's a grandkid in there. What am I going home to? More money?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

648.634

I know there's a grandkid.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

650.556

Because he's visiting his daughter and the daughter has a baby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

653.507

How do you know?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

654.248

I don't. I'm just saying that's a good scenario.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

655.99

Well, he was only like 48.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

657.893

He had a kid at 20. His daughter had a kid at 25. The child's three years old.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

663.32

Wow. All right. Maybe that is what happened. I hope so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

667.085

Yeah. I'm glad he was dad hot. Rob, do you think you're dad hot? You're way beyond dad hot, I'll just say. I don't even know what it means. I do. It means you're fine looking, but you're a dad, so you're trustworthy and you've got some brownie points.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

681.453

I think it actually means you were hot and you're aging nicely, but you're older.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

686.635

I think it means you were a pass in high school, but now you've demonstrated that you're very responsible and competent, so that ups your attraction.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

694.658

People can weigh in on what they think the definition of dad hot is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

697.799

Try to define dad hot for us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

699.724

And then mom hot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

701.767

And then baby hot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

703.389

And then tell us what hot baby looks like. Toddler hot is. Hot toddler. Hot toddy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

708.096

Hot toddy. Do you think that's what it stands for? Oh my God, that's disgusting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

716.926

We are wonderful. What a glorious recording instrument you have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

732.614

And Chelsea, would it be fair to assume all this gear has driven you nuts over the years, but now it finally has come to benefit you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

743.081

Okay, so where are you, Chelsea?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

746.444

Are you watching Chase for the Crown? It's about the Triple Crown. It's on Netflix. It just came out. It's about horse racing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

755.111

That's why I bring it up because it makes me want to go to Louisville so bad because it's so freaking green and hilly and beautiful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

767.873

Should I go? Is it a great time?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

776.539

I should have built a house there instead of Nashville.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

780.702

Do you have any lakes?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

786.366

Okay, I feel less bad now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

788.588

Okay, that'll work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

790.729

No, no, no, no, no, no. Okay, so you were the recipient of a act of kindness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

826.795

What was your degree in?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

829.016

What if you said photography?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

936.229

Oh, Jesus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Kind Gesture from a Stranger

954.961

Okay. She's going rogue.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Buck Rogers, and I'm joined by Jean Lightyear. Today is children's birthday parties run amok.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1022.79

It's about time. Let it rip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1051.141

Okay, you have a crazy birthday party story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

109.682

Shut up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1163.504

Interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1229.055

Oh, Jesus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1318.594

Oh, wonderful. Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1321.815

He's a rascal. This house he built is so weird. And now this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1352.717

Yeah. How are they going to go back to sleep after this? Even if it's explained to me at that age, I then go, well, this family is crazy. I don't want to be here. Ghosts or no ghosts. These folks are nuts. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1377.404

Oh, my God. He thought it was your 16th birthday party, not yours. He got a little confused on your age. Yeah, he got overly excited.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1390.149

Oh, no. You think it reeks a little? I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1393.812

That's definitely big brother energy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1396.534

It's over the top. It's over the top. Monica doesn't know it. She has a very fluid definition of big brother energy. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1412.946

Allie, you're delightful. And I'm so jealous of where you're at. I want a trip to Rhode Island.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1455.003

All right. Nice meeting you. Bye. Bye. Hi, Taylor. How are you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1463.57

In BFAW. What grocery store were you at?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1473.614

Yes. We met so many babies on that trip. I know. I saw. Little baby tour. The only thing you were robbed of, not that you would have given a shit, but that was the only stop we made that we weren't driving the bus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1490.979

Yeah, that's fair. I had parked it in the barn and I didn't want to deal with trying to find parking for it. Were you someone who got a picture that Lincoln took?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1502.182

Shout out Ruthie. Yes. Okay, so you have a crazy birthday party story?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1512.541

Can I stop you? We've heard three stories, and they've all been 20 years ago or 22 years ago. It's very interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1557.406

Also, I'm going to add seven years old is pretty young for skating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1562.667

Well, I won't because she's so good. But imagine Khaleesi skating right now. It's not like anyone's super agile yet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

157.466

You must have been fucking slain bartending at the Abbey. Were you just living your greatest life? Yes. It was good that I got out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1575.99

Standard deviation above.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1624.529

Yes, I've had a lot of stitches in my life and none of the cuts hurt. But man, when they swirl around that needle to get it to swell up so they can get the sutures in, that is murder. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1657.287

Oh, I was very fearful your little seven-year-old fingers were going to be on the ring.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1666.673

That's helpful. But then another few skaters come by and they chop it up even smaller, right? It started as half a finger, now it's thirds. Then you start puzzling it together. Well, the fingernail goes on the end.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1678.041

I have the fingernail. They'll start there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1681.643

Oh. I can't believe you still have your fingers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1688.388

No, running over a little child's fingers with ice skates on, I would be more panicked than the kid.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1699.616

Have you done a lot of ice skating since then?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1714.385

Might not be your sport. Yeah. Did you ever get fucked up in gymnastics?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1725.011

You knew you weren't going to that next level.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1730.693

Monty, did you ever break anything?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1735.475

But not a full sever, like a tear?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1747.524

I think I'd rather have a broken bone than a ripped hammy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1751.616

Well, Taylor, it's nice to see you again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1771.831

That's our dream. Yeah, our dream is that people see each other in the wild and then become friends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1781.437

All orange cherries are. All right, well, give her our love and great seeing you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1789.78

Is this Ariana?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1793.341

Oh, it sure is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1796.622

Is that a common name growing up or no?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1801.804

Oh, wow. Probably an outdated baby names book.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1811.63

Right. I went straight to baby naming, but outdated because it's at a garage sale. Yeah, I think that's the way to do it. Where did you grow up?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1821.701

Which is better?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1828.487

A bagel brawl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1832.811

They're bunk. Interesting. What's the vibe where you're at? Is it rural?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1841.678

Haven't been, but I know this is where all the people vacationed in the Gilded Age. The camps were there and stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1850.982

Oh, it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1852.403

Okay, so you have a crazy birthday party story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

1987.727

Let's be honest, the moms. I'm sure that's whose numbers you had. That's more exciting to think one of the moms is an ex-con than the dads.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2023.075

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2025.416

This is his dream fucking invite to a kid's birthday party.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2030.539

Yes. A bowling alley. There's alcohol. Oh, my God. This is like the dream scenario.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2035.702

Oh, my.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2066.911

Okay, time for me to take. Oh, boy. Okay. Yep. It's Zoe's eighth birthday. And Zoe's being very sassy in the photo. She's so cute. She's got hands on hips. If I were this violent pedophile, even I would be smart enough to go, this feels like entrapment. Clearly the government's running a sting on me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2097.477

You're inviting this monster into your world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2115.071

Of course. No way. Well, look, you're a convicted fucking offender and you get this sassy invite to an eight year old's birthday. This is entrapment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2128.982

That's a great question. I'm sure he's not allowed to be within X amount of feet of a school and a playground, but I don't know about a bowling alley or a birthday party.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2160.539

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2165.502

I don't. Well, this is a bigger and dicier question. Okay. I'm curious because we often hear rape's not a crime of sex. It's a crime of control. I don't know what mentally is going on with the pedophilia world, but you would imagine as someone's sexual desire declines with age as happens, does that all go away or is it still such a mental sickness question? Is it even related to your sexuality?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2190.737

I don't know. We'd have to ask this gentleman. Well, I shouldn't call him a gentleman. If there's anyone we cannot call a gentleman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

221.119

That's a pricey, yeah, you're spending $600, $700 for those little girls to have dinner.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2212.702

And you did. You went down the rabbit hole of his crimes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2216.643

I stand by the decision to give you the photo because you want to keep your eyes peeled at the party.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2240.873

Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2242.734

Yeah, Bob Dorsey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2259.386

This is a fucking bizarre turn of events. This is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2287.814

Listen, I don't think so.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2292.756

Yeah, yeah, yeah. There's no reason to unleash all this fear among them. Is it going to help make the situation safer? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2301.48

They might even not bring their kids. There's already a cop involved.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2338.62

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2342.141

I want your friend now to receive a text intended for him. That's what's exciting. If it's one number off, she should keep her eyes peeled for some suspicious meetups.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2354.743

Yeah. She could alert the police.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2357.684

Well, Ariana, I'm really sad I missed this party because it does look like a blast. Was it a great party?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2365.187

Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2373.67

Oh, cool. Smoke a little weed. Pop on Netflix.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2385.498

Oh, wonderful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2388.6

All right. Take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2392.703

That's a bummer. We have pedophiles. With all the fucking peculiar human antics, that one is like, oh, fuck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2403.888

And I feel bad for them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2405.929

What a fucking terrible experience on planet Earth. Happy birthday, everybody. It's your birthday. Happy birthday. Do you have a crazy birthday story?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2419.753

Oh, you did? Oh, that's nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2422.874

The only one I remember is I got to go to McDonald's once and I got to invite like three kids from my neighborhood. And I invited Betsy Goodwin, who I had a crush on. And I got some present. My mom would remember the details more because she really didn't like her after this. And she said she would marry me if I gave her one of my presents. And I did. Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2442.718

No, we got married and were divorced.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2447.382

I used to be a real patsy, a putz.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2452.365

I really did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2453.526

All right. Goodbye. Love you. Bye. Do you want to sing a tune or something? Or a theme song? Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

2484.807

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

28.191

They're terrible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

30.912

Although a lot of these stories, the parents are terrible. You know, it bounces back and forth nicely. Please enjoy Crazy Birthday Party Stories. Can you hear us? Yes, I can hear you. Can you hear me? Yeah. I don't know if anyone's ever sounded better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

321.644

Oh, it's actually on her head. Like a hat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

324.985

Oh, boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

399.906

Which is ironic because you're in pursuit of performing. These are these weird contradictions we have, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

406.29

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

421.298

What a restaurant. I want to go so bad. I want all this. I don't care how bad I feel the next day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

441.337

Oh, wow. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

504.577

Yeah, you're literally the worst server ever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

511.118

Okay, good. He's blasted enough. He's seeing the humor in it. I, again, run away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

540.12

He's surrounded by all these little girls and this woman. And then he saw another man enter and have the same terrible luck he has. He's like, I know, brother. I know what it's like to disappoint these gals. I do it daily. Here's 40 bucks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

557.551

Right. It's not your fault she's got terrible balance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

563.595

Well, I don't think the chair was the issue as much as do not hand her something that weighs a third of much as her body mass and put her in a precarious. It's one or the other. Either have her hold the dessert or get her up on the chair, but not both, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

580.845

Did mom sign the tip on the master bill? Did you get a pretty shit tip aside from the 40?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

601.923

Maybe that dessert that almost gave her a concussion. Thank God the fucking thing was in a plastic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

606.806

Yeah, if you would have looked down, there was blood everywhere. You could be telling a much different story. Exactly. Time that you murdered a 10-year-old at her birthday party. Different prompt. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

621.094

Yes, thank you, Justin. Thank you for having me. Can I go yell at my husband, bring him in here? Yes, of course. Hi, what's your name? Mark. Are you from the UK? I'm British.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

652.993

Well, you guys, congrats on this beautiful family. Thank you. All right. Be well. Take care. Thanks for having me. All right. Bye. Nothing cuter than hearing your name from a little baby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

668.558

He said Manka? Yeah. Does he say Monica or does he say Manka?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

677.206

Because my kids did Manka a bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

680.369

Mama Ma. That was Delta. Mama Ma. I wish this was a fact check so I could tell you Delta's most recent story. I'll say in a nutshell, the errands are in town. She's not been around the three of us. She's just meeting Tyrell for the first time. I'm going to put her in bed last night. And she goes, Dad, do you think Tyrell ever feels left out?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

698.077

And I said, oh, that's such a beautiful instinct to worry about that. But I don't think so. We've been all really great friends for 35 years. And I think he's maybe a little shyer. And she goes, OK, did you ask him that? Are you assuming that? And I go, fuck. I'm assuming it. Do you want to go ask him? And she goes, yeah, let's go talk to him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

716.544

So we went downstairs and the errands were downstairs watching TV. And we said, Tyrell, can we ask you a question? And then we got this question out and he was like, oh my God, thanks for worrying about that. I have a relationship with each of them individually. And then when they're together, this new person emerges and I just enjoy watching and I'm glad I don't have to talk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

734.391

So he just like walked through the whole thing. I was like, oh, thank God I assumed correctly, but she was right. I never asked him, but I assumed that was the case.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

742.355

She's so empathetic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

747.681

Yeah, to the Reckless Unicorn.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

77.405

Would it cover the whole floor of a bedroom? Huge. I got it for my husband for Valentine's Day. It's like four blankets in one. Oh, wonderful. Like 20 by 20 maybe or something. Yeah. And where are you? I'm in West Orange, New Jersey. It's like right outside New York City. That's my first time hearing West Orange. You'll be happy to know, Monica. I can't say anything about the geography of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

777.327

Like I would do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

779.869

I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

786.314

Right, right, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

940.105

What job are you running out of your vehicle? I'm so interested.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

957.233

Monica's backup dream job.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

960.355

Wow. You thought you had your dream job, but you don't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

966.317

What state are you in? Actually, hold on. I'm going to guess space nothing more than there are two buildings behind you that are clapboard and they look like they're from the 1800s. So I'm going New England. I'm starting in New England. Are you in New England?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

97.015

I'm just learning. You can do whatever you want. OK, Justin, you have a crazy children's birthday party story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

980.905

Old England?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

986.83

In Rhode Island.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

991.253

Did you appreciate that one? That was fun because that's just a building in the background.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Children's Party

997.718

It's the yellow and red house and the deep BG. That's a giveaway. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1088.183

Oh, wow, and he's older than you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1117.803

It's a bonus. But I can definitely imagine for your parents, as I would get older and have kids and have this experience with my kids, it would retroactively make me go like, oh my goodness, our child's out there. We must... see that child.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1135.997

It's me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1148.002

That's a lot. I'm not shocked they were looking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

115.103

When you're there for the week teaching, they give you a hotel room?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1173.568

Just like mom and dad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

119.586

Is there room service?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1215.851

Listen, you're lucky you never dated him. That's really, this is the most important part.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1224.513

Because you would meet them and you would feel this crazy familial thing that you would not chalk up to that. And it would be very confusing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1242.797

And get her out of the picture.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1263.134

Well, it's really great news that he ended up with a wonderful family.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1276.406

He's like, I'm good on the sisters. Is there a cool brother I can hang with? So have you guys become close? We would.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1292.616

And do they have a sweet relationship?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1302.099

And do his adoptive parents feel at all threatened by any of this or they're totally cool with it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

132.629

They've won me back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1320.151

Big win.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1321.732

I'm really glad you didn't date. Just really keep coming back to this. Yeah, just circle back to this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1338.211

Yeah, let's do it in your teen years.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1352.037

That's right. Just have a child that's a cyclops and then ask yourself, why did that happen? Worth it. Oh, well, Brooklyn, that was kind of an uplifting story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1361.642

Life affirming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1369.504

Good. Don't stray. We don't know how we'll hold up to competition.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1378.027

Thank you. We aim to. Delightful meeting you for real.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1383.269

Take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1387.731

I'm kind of relieved.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1391.112

How could they even go bad? They're always going to probably be this, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1397.257

Can only hope. Well, you got a twofer coming up next.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1400.579

Oh, two people. Wow, this is a first.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1404.762

I'm butterfly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1408.285

Dating your brother. What if you found out you weren't related to your brother and then started dating him?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

141.175

Old me would have needed that, not new me, because I don't blow my nose anymore and I don't cough anymore, no matter how bad I want to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1417.073

i've always been so attracted to you and i haven't been able to figure it out that would be a story is that siblings found out they weren't siblings and promptly started dating but really we know that's not gonna happen because the pheromone exchange yes you mapped each other's smells and stuff ew hello hi hi is this big a little a r-o-n it is Erin, you'll be our first dual caller.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1445.491

Is there a Jessica also joining us?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1450.755

Now, this cool painting behind you, there's a butterfly, an airplane, and it looks to be flying over like Mexico City or something. What's happening in this photo?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1463.745

Okay, a lot is riding on Jess's appearance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1470.328

Well, don't sell yourself short, Aaron.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1478.553

Okay, Jessica has joined us. Jessica, the painting collage, what city are that butterfly and that airplane above?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

151.482

Yeah, I don't think I have yet since I've sat down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1510.925

What is the relationship here between you and Aaron?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1514.547

Oh, this is going to come up. Oh, we're excited. Let's jump in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1522.69

This is such a couple already, though, because she's like, you're facing the wrong way. And then he's in charge of tech.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

158.786

Yeah, but we're going to lose something from it, probably. I bet the guest feels more comfortable that I'm so gross and disgusting. Like, oh, cool. It's laid back. This guy's a gross monster.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1604.373

Oh, so 104 trips. Probably a little less than that. I tried to do this at UCLA because they were paying good money for UCLA sperm. And I went in and did a deposit. And then they said, your sperm count isn't high enough. So you're more virile.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1625.41

Were they looking for a cab driver living in mom's basement when they

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1689.231

Hold on one second. I do want to ask, when you spit in the test tube, what would have been your guess of how many kids resulted from these 100 plus or minus trips?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

171.132

I'm a tank top, I suppose. Okay, so you have a 23andMe and or slash DNA story. April, let us have it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1765.589

He's got your sense of humor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

185.505

Yeah, he's going to live six years longer because of that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1934.324

Why did you not know your dad?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

1945.533

Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's a secret.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

20.347

Fuck me, guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2108.745

You're on your first date, but you already have a child that's 11 years old.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2120.074

Can I ask quickly how your ex-wife felt about you connecting with Aaron?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2130.541

I got you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2148.934

Wow. So how long have you guys been together now?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2156.399

Wow. Oh my God. So you ended up, Aaron, raising your daughter from 11 on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

217.836

Although if we are led to believe what we learned about Mendelian... Punnett squares. Yes, the two greens and the blue should have all been recessive, and we shouldn't have been able to have brown eyes with that mix.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2189.151

And from what you've already told me about her personality, it's on brand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2214.291

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. That makes sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2217.812

What about the younger daughter?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2250.305

Well, this might surprise you that the most shocking part of this whole story to me is that they keep the sperm for so long. I would have thought I either had kids in that window of time I was jerking off at the place. I would not think there could be a 20-year span.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2298.266

22.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

23.451

You're so lucky.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2350.609

Yeah, well, we're good at that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2352.99

That's allowed. We know how to do that. Well, you guys, this was delightful. What an interesting story. What's the name of the New York Times piece and the BBC piece in case people want to read it? I think that might interest people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

238.383

But since brown is dominant, you have to have two little bees to get blue. So the mom had two little bees and the dad had two little bees. No one had a big bee to give. Again, they might have oversimplified it for us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2386.581

Oh, that's nice. I like that. That's tasty. I like your title, though, a lot, Jessica. I don't know if that was a first draft.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2394.607

Well, wonderful meeting both of you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2399.65

Yeah, you laid it out beautifully.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2402.832

Okay, take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2408.816

I guess that sperm stays good for a fucking goat's age, huh?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2413.139

Yeah, it's great. Taylor, can you hear us?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2422.111

You're going to have to call us back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2427.357

These are the new colds. They're for three months. That's just how the fucking colds are now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2432.423

Okay, so you have a wild DNA story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2457.885

And are you guys identical or fraternal?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2469.071

I know I'm caught between. So my brother was really, really challenging. And now that I think of his story and I write about it, I realized he really needed someone that had a lot of capacity to help. I just feel bad for both people in the story. Like I feel bad for my mom and I felt bad for my brother. So you probably needed a lot of help.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2515.445

Also, Jack guy sounds like a term, like a certain kind of guy, like he works at a guy. Well, that would be great. But I was thinking more like he works at a mechanic shop, like he's jacking up cars or like a different industries for sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2540.409

And did he and the friend girl have any children?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2561.747

OK, this is curious.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

26.295

This is dynamite. This is the most I've retold.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2608.51

Hold on a second.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2613.694

They divided and conquered.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2622.22

You told your brother, obviously he already knew at this point. Oh, wow. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2631.186

This is a fucking mess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2650.156

Whoa.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2652.478

So your mother was carrying two different people's child.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2660.9

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2665.422

Well, do you know, though, the other fives, have they done Ancestry? None of them have. We don't know how much Jack was in or out of the picture.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2726.88

Mom was busy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2765.333

The NCS was one night and then the next night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2772.215

There's a lot of permutations here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2779.698

Okay. So have you discussed any of this with your mom?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2798.685

What does that mean? She knows a lot of code words.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2802.571

Oh, oh, sure. Like a wobbly H, sawhorse. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2833.33

Here's five thousand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2835.751

Maybe he thought he was sterile.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2838.552

Oh, and he sent a telegram.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2846.194

He's like, okay, I don't need to talk to you, but is your sister going to call? Because I need to tell her I don't want to talk to her either.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2872.267

So, yeah, what impact does this have? Because we've talked to some people today who have had this experience and some of them are like, doesn't matter. It's cool to know. And that's still my parent and I don't really care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2913.033

I can't imagine, though, that she assumed the twins were from two different men, even though she had sex with two different people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2941.128

History.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2960.292

This is twisty and turny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2967.937

Well, they did share a mom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2975.282

Are you left-handed? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2977.584

Maybe he'll be president.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2979.485

Over index. What a story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

2985.168

That's a barn burner.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

3001.771

Thank you, Rebecca.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

3004.052

Shout out. Well, lovely meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

3009.573

Yep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

3011.994

Take care. Feel better.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

3016.807

I feel like we need to do this again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

3019.65

Four for four. They also grew in intensity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

3023.113

There was like a natural progression that felt scripted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

3028.199

Bonne amie. Vos joie de vivre. Faire les fous français. Faire les mes bouches.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

3036.207

I feel like now I'm not anyone's, don't you? All those stories make you feel like, oh, shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

3042.088

Who am I? Who's my mom?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

3046.909

Yeah, are you my mom? Are you my mom?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: DNA Testing

3051.41

It could be mother, but. It's mother. Fuck. Sorry. Yeah, that's so formal. Sorry and thank you. No wonder people said no. They're like, you're stuck up. I'm your mother. I'm your mom.

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The little bird asks a bulldozer if it's his mother.

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It's a very sweet story.

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All right.

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Love you.

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Oh, I've walked everyone I've seen since this episode through this episode.

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Yeah, because you're like, I'm an adult now. I can handle it if you had a fling.

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Yes, I was going to say your results, independent of any other information, are useless. You need your three sisters to take it or your mom or your dad. The only thing you could have done is figured out through this cousin.

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few oh my god i mean really all of them are incredible but there's one that is it seems impossible and it's yes 12 people maybe this has happened too yes this is an incredible over-delivered episode please enjoy crazy dna testing stories hard times come and go good times take them slow

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Oh, sure, sure.

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What would be more confusing, your little sister's aunt? Wow. I got to try to figure out that on the family tree.

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Clearly she was still actively married to your dad because kids came before and after. It was an extramarital experience.

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Oh, wow. Yeah, she's horny. Of course.

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Now, did your dad know?

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I got to really work through if I found out Delta wasn't biologically my daughter. Obviously, I couldn't love her less. Nothing there would happen. But would I have any heartbreak that I have nothing to do with that magic?

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The sexual partner.

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You know, I just adore her so much, I don't think I'd really give a shit.

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Correct. And I almost think... I would be grateful that Kristen had chosen what she did because I feel this way about her and I love it so much. And I think I would agree with the decision. But we're not divorced. And your folks were divorced when you told them this?

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He's still living in another reality.

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So did you go find Jim?

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Oh, my God. The cliches are coming through.

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Well, you have a great attitude about all this. You just took it as I was validated. I knew. So it's a victory. I don't feel sad about it.

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Yeah, that was great, April.

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Of course.

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And I'm going to flex. I'm not really, but a little bit.

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Wonderful.

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Good luck with the rest of your week of teaching.

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Bye. Oh, wow.

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Yep.

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You know, I know enough to know I don't really know how I feel about it. But certainly when I think about it, it wouldn't bother me either.

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And you and I both are so identical to our dads. And that's the only one you can find out. Then your mother has a type. Because she obviously fucked a guy that was identical to your dad. And same with my mom. That means she fucked my grandpa or something. Well, I'm just saying I'm such a shepherd. It's insane.

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You didn't know that?

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My mom has green eyes.

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Okay, I'll ask her, I guess.

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I think I'm right about that eye thing.

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You can only pass on a recessive.

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Yeah, little B's.

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I think there are more genes than just one to determine eye color. So I think it was given to us a little simplistically.

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Beautifully. What name are we going to use for you?

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Okay. You ready for a wild one? Yeah. Brooklyn.

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Hello, April. Are you in a hotel room?

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Doesn't she look like a Brooklyn?

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You have a candle. You've set the scene.

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Are you just out of a treatment? Are you just out of a Swedish or a deep dish?

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Are you allowed to tell us what part of the country you're in Brooklyn, even though we're using a fake name?

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Oh, you're probably six hours away. Worth the drive, in my opinion.

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Someone wrote in the comments they didn't acquire Cedar Point. They merged. And the current CEO is the CEO of Cedar Point.

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Everyone shut your mouth. Okay. Sorry, Brooklyn. Okay. So you're in New Jersey and you have a tasty DNA story because you don't want to use your real name.

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What on earth is that?

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Which one do we need to know the most?

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They tend not to. That's the problem with those.

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Hard to get half pregnant.

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Okay. What is the first song, my love?

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Yes.

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Oh, wonderful.

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Would it be disrespectful if I'm enjoying a snack while you guys are singing? I'd prefer it. Okay, great. Dinner theater.

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Great. And what's my start? Okay. Hmm.

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Hannah, do you want to do a musical at any point?

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You son of a bitch.

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That's almost a huge burn, but I... It wasn't a burn.

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Did you go to the thing Kristen went to? Which one?

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No, I didn't. I didn't. You went?

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And they dimmed the lights.

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Yeah.

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Mama had the best week of her entire life. She almost didn't come home.

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12 years younger. On those FaceTimes, I was like, oh my God, mom's 26 right now. Look at her. Your face, yeah, was so youthful. You were with all your Broadway friends. That does something so special to you. Yeah. It's very, very sweet. Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare.

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Find gift ideas for all ages and at every price point at tcg.pokemon.com slash holiday. Should we... I think we should hear... Are you guys ready to play your song? I also have one quick question ergonomically. Is it easy to... to sing seated? Is that not a challenge?

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You've got on your knees. That's a compromise.

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And you've got a built-in excuse. I was sitting. Can you imagine what that would have sounded like if I was standing?

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That would be my preferred approach.

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Just in case. Really slather it on guilt-free.

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What's your sister's name? Allie. She must be a genius. She really loves this show. She loves this show. She sounds so smart and compassionate and evolved.

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Okay, so you know, I want to make it very clear. You're my all-time queen of the bell, the ball. You're the number one singer in my heart of all time. So you know that. But I do need to talk about Emma's voice for a second.

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No. You're like a racehorse. Racehorses, they can like, can it walk? I don't know. And then all of a sudden it fucking takes off and it's just like... Or like a car, a motor, you guys will know, with a huge cam. It sounds like it's not even going to roll. And then you hit the gas and it's fucking out of there. There is something so... Just... Powerful.

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And it just like, it just shoots into the air. It's really, I love it. I don't think I heard you sing enough.

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Her timbre is so clear.

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You can't teach timbre. No, can't teach timbre. No, that's what they say. Can't teach timbre. Can't teach timbre. Can't teach timbre new tricks.

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Jacob, are you in need of a hat? Are you still pushing your merch brand?

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Okay.

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because we talked about the fact that I was walking by UCB, you were sitting behind the counter and I walked in and you were currently listening to that song at work.

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Which one, sparkly?

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He had diarrhea is what I remember from the story. Yeah. Justin Timberlake had her explosive diarrhea.

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You feel like a sparkly guy to me.

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Have you guys ever heard my version? I have to cover my face because it'll make everyone uncomfortable. This is like a real Monica. Okay.

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Okay, welcome everybody to the Christmas episode.

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I had a backstage pass to that one.

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You searched timbre, I think. Best timbre.

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Oh, that was fantastic.

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No, there's a one gift limit here.

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Okay, so we have really fun guests. Of course, people will know you, Anna Kendrick. People know you, Kristen Bell. People are going to, a lot of people will know you guys, but a lot of people will be meeting you. Yeah. Gabe Gibbs. Yeah. I got to see you for the first time perform. What were you guys doing? What was that called? A cabaret show.

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It's about goddamn time, Rob. That is the gift, yeah. I ride him like a rented mule, so he deserved that.

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Rob, do you want to show your face?

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He'd rather not. Absolutely not.

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Gabe, do you have a favorite Christmas present you remember from your childhood? in Michigan on Big Beaver Road, Exit 69 in Rochester?

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T9, she knows.

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So it was a lot of that.

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What grade?

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And you had a big old crush in sixth grade, early developer. Timber was coming in nicely.

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G2G. And I imagine then too, you had some limited data on your hands.

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Yeah.

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You had a fucking Dyno? Remember Dino GTs? Yeah, you're a dick.

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Okay, great.

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No, kids had mongooses and they wanted dinos. Cool, yeah. What did your old man do for a... He sold insurance. Oh, I bet he did quite well.

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Do you have one?

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And first check in the great category is you're a Michigander. Yeah, baby. Yeah. If the hat didn't.

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It does.

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It's a light bulb, right, that cooks the food?

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I'm bad at birthdays and Christmas as if there's a bunch of other gift opportunities. You're just straight across the board bad at gifts.

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We have been on vacations to places that she's like, I'd like to go to Colorado once. We've been a couple of times, you know, that kind of thing.

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And where are you from in Michigan, Gabe? I'm from like Rochester area. Right. Yeah. We talked about that. Exit 69, Big Beaver. That's right. That was your exit. That's right. That's a for real thing. It is. Anna, you don't know that about Michigan.

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Laurent? No.

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Oh, and there's a dinner involved, and you go to his apartment.

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By far, and I just shout out to Laura LeBeau because we were broke as hell, but she went hard on Christmas. We had great fucking Christmas. She would go in debt, and she always gave us a good one. And I must have been five because we lived in this shithole. And I came out, and there was a plastic IndyCar the size of this table. It probably would be a Power Wheels now.

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I don't know if that was the brand back then. But it was a little car I could drive. And I drove it until the battery's dead. Then I charged it. Then I drove it. And then I drove it. And the embarrassing part is I drove it way too long. Then we moved into a neighborhood and I was still, I was driving it at like 11.

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Sometimes I'd get nostalgic and I would drive it down my neighborhood street and I would be super embarrassed, but I still would do it. Yeah. I just, the steering wheel broke and I steered it with pliers for a while. Yeah.

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No, that was my worst present because my grandpa, Papa Bob, he bought my brother and I these Firefox remote control cars. We wanted them so bad. And then my uncle and my brother played with them before Christmas for so long that they were broken and then put them in the boxes and we unwrapped them. And they were broken. And then they were sold out of Firefox. And then this is my chandelier.

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Big Beaver Road is exit number 69 on I-75.

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My what's the sleds name? You know, Rosebud. This was my Rosebud. And Kristen found a Firefox on eBay or somewhere and got it for me for Christmas. And she healed that wound. And it broke within 10 minutes of driving. So I can't even blame my uncles.

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Yeah, yeah. They were the Easy Bake Oven of the RC car world, for sure. Okay, what other songs do we have?

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Okay, they're a little tipsy.

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Okay.

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Rob, cue all the crickets.

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So fucking many. I told you this. Someone was having a very emotional moment on the couch. And the second they were having this emotional moment, the crickets started.

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Good idea. Well, let's have a snake in here. We're just wandering around the podcast.

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Do you not know what Monica's number one fear in life is?

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Upper butt.

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A snake coming out of your, going up your butt from the toilet bowl.

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He's upset about the election, he's on strike.

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Yeah.

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Like a stunning new full cast production of George Orwell's 1984. This is the one I am most excited to indulge myself with.

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And then where are you from? I'm from South Florida. You are? Yeah. Okay.

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Jacob Jeffries. Yeah. And you and Wobby Wob already know each other.

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Yeah. She said rainbows really know how to fly.

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She was lost. That gets you out of the copyright issue. Just throw rainbows in.

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We were talking about whether a Brazilian had the landing strip or not. And then somehow we learned, this was just a couple weeks ago, that Wobb gave himself a landing strip just to make Natalie laugh. Wobb, in the comments, I'm sure you've seen people love that.

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And they kept it too. They're like, Mike, she said rainbows, right? Yeah, just keep it. Okay. Well, I think,

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Do we want to do our culinary surprise? I just want to say that we were talking yesterday in a fact check and I was lamenting about how bad I am at giving gifts. And then Monica said, well, think of secret turkey so fun because you have to make it. And then I thought, OK. That's what I'm going to do.

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So we'll all go outside. There's a buffet set up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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And we'll make a plate, and then we can eat in open presence.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Now, full disclosure, I have helped for Kristen's Christmas. I don't want to act like she has a stylist, Nicole, who has the best taste of any person in the world. Everything Nicole gets, Kristen wants. So three years ago, I was like, hey, Nicole, since you know what she's going to want, could you help me?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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So I have a lot of help, but I still, I feel unethical about that, so I still get some stuff on my own. So if this is a miss, it's because Nicole had nothing to do with this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3199.398

Is Wicked Theme for your... Now that's where Carly comes in, I think, because I just did the rap job, and I did not affix the ribbon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Oh! I knew it would be you or her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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It was a total trap. I walked right into it. And then shout out Carly for putting out the buffet outside.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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She made the garlic bread. I made the spaghetti sauce.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

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Yeah, he's a wascal. OK, so we're going to sing a bunch of songs. We're going to learn some backstory on Christmas, favorite presents, that type of thing. We're going to eat a lot of cookies and sweets. Wobby Wob, of course, always makes really delicious cookies and Rice Krispie treats. And then I have a surprise to a culinary surprise. And so we'll be breaking to chow down at some point, too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Ooh. You're a hiker?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3262.247

Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3267.697

Yeah, it's some collab between Panda Prank and Nike.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Oh, thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3276.8

Oh, thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3278.4

One for one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3280.521

I should just return the rest of your presents, actually.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3284.842

If you loved them so much, you'd be putting them on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3294.266

They do one-off designs of existing brands, is my understanding of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3301.551

Yeah, because now I'm in their algorithm because I bought one pair of shoes, so I see every single pair of shoes they design, and they're all pretty cool. Nice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3309.757

I have a present? You got a present. What the heck? Also, I learned at the buffet bar that you're in Wolfpack, which I can't believe I didn't know that. That's so embarrassing to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3354.056

Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3354.316

Whoa. Santa told me. Santa told me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3356.658

We have three world-class present givers in this room right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3378.234

No, no, no. This is awesome. Thank you so much. I couldn't live within five miles of Emily Burger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3383.838

I would be dead within six, seven years, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3389.261

It's a huge beaver.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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The biggest beaver you've ever seen. I love beavers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3441.331

That's excruciating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3447.417

Anna, you're not going to like this, but... Oh, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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345.618

And then we'll do a gift exchange. And that's the run of the show. So what I would love to do, instead of trying to describe, Gabe, your genius, I would love to start with a little taste of your focus as a musician.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3453.066

You don't need to bring anything. Yeah, I'm not doing your Christmas show. You're doing our Christmas show. We were interviewing you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3466.755

You were talking about going to your audition in your combat boots.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3473.182

And I said... I know what this is. Yep. And it broke my heart that you wouldn't have the best boots a lady can have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3483.312

I asked you your shoe size.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3496.599

That would have made the most sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3501.454

Now, watch how nervous Kristen is because she was a part of me looking online for these.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Yeah. And there were ones I liked where she was like, absolutely not. And then I just waited until she left and then I decided.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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They were not. They were a compromise, but I still love them. They're perfect. They have fur. They're fur. The boots with the fur.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3538.937

Yeah, thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3555.453

And I said, my girl can't ever wear the, oh, loved it. It's a great brand, Payless. It's just, Docs for me were the thing. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3565.464

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3578.327

Moni, can I present you with a present?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3580.728

I also have to say one thing. I bought you something. Thank you. It says it came. I searched the entire house today. It's not here. I reordered it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3596.551

You're a woman of means. You can buy your own shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3616.249

I thought you should have the original.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3642.528

So this could be fucking perfect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

367.348

Also, huge shout out to Wobby Wob because the garage looks insane.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3692.592

Yeah, that's the move. Wobby Wob?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3698.237

Let's get you seated for this birthday boy. You got your own song, but that's not where it ends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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3708.031

Okay. I'm excited to see how Mama handled this. I just want to say for this one, Kristen spent at least seven and a half hours on the phone this week and was unsuccessful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3721.135

Is that a good setup?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3736.678

Terrania. Have you ever been?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3742.76

It's so fun. It's so close. Your kids will love it. There's a little slide. The fucking buffet is the best in the biz.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3753.644

Oh, Jesus Christ.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3758.146

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3766.8

Do we?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3772.024

That's for me. That and the big one. That and the big one. And what's that for money? Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3782.651

Don't worry about the armchair expert wrapping paper.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3788.575

Okay. You want to go first?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3797.898

Who's, again, I got to say, when I said there's three exemplary gift givers in this room, Wobby Wob is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3804.9

He is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

382.703

Also, the crow is wearing a hat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3822.866

Maybe you should wear it as a dress.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3836.523

Yeah, that's what on a set it would be. When you get that stupid fucking shopping bag.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3849.311

It's the nesting doll. It's a skeleton inside of a sand people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

387.708

And thank you, Lincoln and Delta. I stole the tree out of their bedroom and they don't know that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3874.418

Now again, if you're listening, you can't smell it. And even if you're watching, you can't smell it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3891.513

God, it's really nice. I'm telling you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3915.27

Dreams.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3967.266

Flamingo Estate, Los Angeles, California. Ooh, these are really nice. You know about these? What is this? It's olive oil.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

3979.769

It pairs nicely with elk. Mine says Wabi Sabi for Wabi Wabi.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

398.337

No, I threw it in here. I threw it in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4000.335

It's a lot of protein. And now I'll get a little omega in them too. And let's both say something at the same time. Three, two, one. For the listener, I almost kissed Rob's lips. Here we go. Ever since I learned about that landing strip, I'm just having the most confusing feelings about you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4030.761

Oh, Rodman and Isaiah Thomas, 88-89. Pissed it. You were too young, but that was the team. Oh my God, that's so cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4048.366

They won back-to-back titles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4054.167

Yeah, a very deep cut for Target, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4059.769

Oh, this is great. Oh, I got a piggy. Whoa. Oh, great, and this has Yeti wrapping paper, not to be confused with the cooling brand. An actual Yeti. Does it smell?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

406.023

Yeah, with some white lights.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4080.737

I'm going to, here's what I'm going to do. I'm going to play a game where you guys will see it first.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4085.28

Guessing on your reaction, I'm going to see if I can figure out what it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4096.567

Okay, so Gabe, it seems like it might be a bad car accident. Is that what it is? Someone eating a corpse?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4109.12

Oh, wow. It's a pencil drawing? It's beautiful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

411.468

Sorry, before we kick off, just a quick vote. I know where you two stand, but are you a white light or a colored light person on your Christmas tree? Ooh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4114.924

Oh, man.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4120.887

Your eyes aren't that good. How'd you get that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4124.95

No, you got it. But we both know you and I are blind.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4130.573

Oh, my God. That's gorgeous, Wobby Wob. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4134.5

Thoughtful son of a bitch. Three, two, one. Three, two, one. We say something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4143.526

Bellarmine Goldrick.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4145.468

We have one more?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4152.252

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4154.774

Three.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4162.862

I was about to find out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4198.53

Oh, thank you, Moni. You're welcome.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4204.433

All came out in the wash. Okay. So, we've had our pasta. We've had some desserts. It's time to land the plane hard with some more music. So, musical director, what's our next offering?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4334.09

I don't even like that song and I loved it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4340.375

Oh, that was good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4361.09

You were doing like the Apple photo thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4376.419

Ask me, hit me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4381.242

Oh. It was... It was good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4390.146

Stronger for it. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. No, I had a great fucking year.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4395.408

We had a lot of fun trips. Kids just get more and more and more interesting and funny and more fun to be around. Yeah. We had a great year work-wise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4408.032

It was a good year.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4412.847

We're going to bring in a closer, closing pitcher. And this, a lot of people know Perfect Ten Charlie, and they know he's married to Erica, and they've met Perfect Ten Charlie on here, and now you're going to get to meet Erica on here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

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She's a boss bitch. She's tough, cool, radical, the kind of gal that Kristen falls in love with.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4449.392

You're no stranger to some side zippies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4453.194

I think it's just D for me, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4466.579

Hi, Erica. Welcome to the program. We gave you an intro, but you weren't in the room.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4471.526

We're saying your praises. Pull that mic a little closer to yourself. Okay, hi. Although you got a big old fucking powerful... That's right, I'll turtle it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4488.509

He's going to what? Anyways, in our intro, we said people know Perfect 10 Charlie. Yes, yes. And now the beautiful bride.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4499.878

Takes a big woman to live up to those looks, and boy, does she do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4507.443

Musical theater jokes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4525.052

They're bullies though. That's the only thing I don't like about them. They're always shoving guys in lockers. And then singing about it. Okay, I also just want to say, for my money, this is my favorite Christmas song in the world. This is number one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

453.147

Do you need new pants, mommy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4542.079

Oh, that's too much pressure? Okay, I just broke one of the rules. That's all right. Theater rules.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4554.844

It's the one to watch. Yeah. It's who brought you to the party.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4558.467

It's our first Christmas cartoon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4560.69

I'm going to tell one second story. This is my mother encouraged me to do this back in the old days. I was trying to explain this to our children and they could not conceptualize what I was saying. I was like, girls, there was only three channels. That's it. And if you didn't see it, you missed it. And there was no way to record it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4574.344

and these bastards in Detroit, you had two, four and seven, they would counter programs. So you'd have the Grinch on channel two at eight and you would have Charlie Brown on channel four at eight and you had to fucking pick and you were seven and it was not cool. And my mother said, you should write a letter to the stations. And I did, I wrote a letter to the stations and they did not respond.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4596.155

But I do think streaming might be a result of that letter.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

46.358

Well, there's so many good ones on the list.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4602.674

Oh, right now, Charlie Brown's on Apple Plus, and I think everyone can watch it for free right now. I think that particular cartoon can be watched on Apple Plus for free.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4701.049

Now we're talking. Apple Plus. Now Christmas is here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4712.717

It is. Good job. This was Kristen. You guys just did this in your choir class. So she's just coming off of hearing it with like 25 of you singing. So I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart because I know that's not how you wanted to do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4800.204

You got a bogey too, right? You guys all have a guy no one knows, which I love. Now you probably do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4857.342

I can't go to my AA meeting anymore, but that's okay. I'm sure we've prioritized the right thing in the house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4869.777

I'm so glad you guys have that. Kristen's always so happy when she comes home from that. It's so nurturing to her, her beautiful little soul. Mama, thank you. You put this whole thing together.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4878.303

You rehearsed. You swindled everyone into coming and doing this. And thank you so much for doing that. Erica, thank you for popping by. Gabe, thank you so much. Jacob, come on now. You've been more excited. Hannah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

4905.701

Of course I am. All right. I love you guys. Merry Christmas.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

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May everyone get a dino this year. Follow Armchair Expert on the Wondery app, Amazon Music, or wherever you get your podcasts. You can listen to every episode of Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now by joining Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Before you go, tell us about yourself by completing a short survey at wondery.com slash survey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

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So the thing I hope people are tracking is like just a month ago, Anna said, you know, Kristen texted me and I really felt bad. I ghosted her because I was just nervous. And then we fixed that. And then you guys started texting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

50.33

I love Audible. I swear by Audible. I can't wait to listen to the Orwell 1984 off this list. I'm also doing Fleas by autobiography right now, which I'm obsessed with. I can't get enough Audible in my life every night. Go to audible.com slash DAX and discover all the year's best waiting for you. That's audible.com slash DAX.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

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And now you're singing together. I have so much optimism about where this is going. Now we find out about this spectacular design Christmas display.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

544.662

Did I pull out some of my eyebrows this morning? No, I didn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

563.704

She wanted to brag that she helped kids today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

569.796

Oh, that's sweet. Okay, Gabe, why don't you rock our world a little bit?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

597.561

And they're on your Instagram. You have the most entertaining Instagram posts. Of all, what do people go to for that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

607.308

Wonderful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

688.194

It's so good because it's also really great. It's great that something's really funny and also really great. Thank you. So what is your background? Have you been on Broadway?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

70.876

Okay, this is great because people may remember a while back, you and I have debated which is better, acetaminophen or ibuprofen. We sure have. So for me, particularly headaches, I got to go Tylenol.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

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Yeah. And then now you moved to LA, how many years ago?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

726.799

Yes. Okay, I have a favorite and I've requested that you play it and I think that's next.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

808.758

Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

812.121

Those are the bits.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

813.723

Those are the bits. And there's a couple thousand of them on his Instagram. So cool. Kristen spends a good hour and a half every night on her little space age mat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

828.228

Okay, so we've got quite a few Christmas songs to get through and quite a few great singers. So I think we should hop into- Switcheroo? Yeah, let's do a switcheroo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

83.532

But I do like Motrin for muscle pain.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

838.538

You're so playful when you say if you've got a big one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

846.345

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

856.832

I was praying you'd say it. I'm not allowed to say it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

86.656

Yeah, you won't even play. What about for headaches, though?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

92.805

You're Team Motrin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

933.368

Exactly. We just have not yet talked. In 17 years, we've not gotten around to ballet yet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

938.99

Other than the fact that I was in ballet for some period of time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

943.172

Yeah. Hmm. Yeah, a tiny, I had one recital, and my dad, who was never around, did come to that, and he watched the thing, and then when we were leaving, he said to my mother, okay, that was his last recital. There's no more of that. How old were you in Michigan? I similarly. I was probably seven. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

96.509

The gods have intervened, and we have a perfect solution. Motrin and Tylenol have finally settled the great debate by teaming up and introducing Motrin Dual Action with... Tylenol.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

961.684

Yeah, I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

963.185

Yeah, that's something you could do in 1982. You could unilaterally say, and that's a wrap on that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm a dad that's not around, but I still have this veto card.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Holiday Spectacular 2024

982.72

The best dancer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Buck Rogers and I'm joined by Monica Lightyear. What would the holidays be without crazy holiday stories on Armchair Anonymous?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1004.053

Okay. So you throw sand under the bus. Of course. Okay. That's what he's there for.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1011.655

Let them pick out what they wanted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1014.936

Yes. People get cancer diagnoses. Those are worse. But. When you have just spent this much time getting the gifts, then wrapping them, then putting them perfectly in the thing, there's a lot that's going wrong at once. You've wasted all that time, all that money, and then you have Christmas morning coming. So there's a lot there to be frustrated with. Third option, I would have just gone cash.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1036.17

Okay, Santa brought cash this year. He wanted you to know you're old enough to go shopping, like made a whole thing about that. Just spent like in a pinch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1046.576

We'll wrap each bill individually.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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Tracy, where in Canada are you? You have the most specific accent, and I'm so curious.

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I had a weird hunch, because it's almost got a hint of Scottish in it, doesn't it, Monica?

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Yeah. I love that.

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And home to the cutest dogs ever.

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Yes. Thank you, Tracy. And sorry that you guys went through that. I love that the perfect buzz with the snowflakes turned immediately to a hangover. That's kind of my favorite part because I know that moment.

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But I do like Motrin for muscle pain.

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Double safety check.

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Yeah, you won't even play.

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Sure. Do a few check-ins with those gifts leading up. Well, Tracy, that was a delightful story. Thank you so much for telling us.

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Sure, of course. Hello, Sean.

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What about for headaches though?

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You were being a very nice gentleman and taking the trash out. This is not on you. And it's not on Tracy, but it is on Tracy.

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Well, it's lovely meeting both of you. Yes. Have a great holiday.

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All right. Bye-bye. Yeah, they have like almost Irish accents. The dad did too. All right. Let's talk to Lori. Hi. Is this Lori?

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

120.197

You're team Motrin.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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Hi, Dax. Monica, nice to meet you. Are you in your office?

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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And what's your university poster I see?

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In Ohio still, not in Kentucky.

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Oh, beautiful. And that's the home of Josh Hutcherson. Do you know that actor? He's a Northern Kentucky boy.

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Okay, so you have a crazy holiday story.

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Yeah, I feel like that would be a good crowd to stumble into. They're like older gals who are making an effort to stay healthy. They're probably engaged in a lot of ways in life.

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1355.771

Oh, they were doing stealing before the reveal. That's different. That is interesting. Yeah.

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You can say a bullshit from other people's houses.

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This is not what I thought.

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I thought it was a dildo. Oh, for sure. No. That's where we were going.

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You knew it was. Who would give someone an obligation?

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Okay. So this is healing, maybe.

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1574.105

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1621.444

Now you have someone else's ashes.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1646.577

Right. If she was 58, you thought she was 70.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1667.595

We'll get Mark all spread out over the... Right.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1697.172

Oh, my God. Oh, it was a prank.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1721.198

Yeah. Did you laugh with relief at that point? Like, oh, thank God I don't have to spread this.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1740.958

I admire this woman because when the present was opened, everyone got uncomfortable. And that was an opportunity if she was losing her resolve to go like, I'm just kidding. It's from, you know, but she resisted and she let everyone walk away thinking she was nuts. The commitment to this bit is really admirable. We must tip our hat to her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1768.537

But she was intrinsically motivated, which we would all aim to be. She just knew in her own heart, this is hilarious. They all think this is real. That's next level. That's like Andy Kaufman.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1807.467

I kind of like her. I would have been friends.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1839.427

Baller prank, especially at an all ladies, some widow Christmas party. Yeah. Yeah. That's something you might expect at a fraternity or the Friars Club. Sure, sure. Right.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1856.641

She gave you a gift.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1865.104

Well, Lori, we're grateful that you told us that. I like that woman. This now past woman.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1870.245

Rest in peace. Spunky gal.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1874.363

Well, happy holidays to you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1876.846

I hope you get a legit present this year at White Elephant.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1880.85

All right. Take care. Okay. Last one. David. Bring us home, David. Oh, can you hear us now? Hey, how are you? Wonderful. How are you, David?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1903.616

You have this painting?

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1925.417

Yeah. So David, I had moved into a house. It was completely empty. I didn't know what to do. I just started surfing around the internet, looking at images I could order. And I stumbled upon this one. I'm like, I love that great Dane. And I have another one that matches and it's a whippet. Oh, yeah. Best Frisbee dogs. Sure, sure. They're lightning fast. Where are you at, David?

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1944.511

I live in Gilbert, Arizona. Where's that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

195.002

Hi, Tracy. Nice to meet you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1950.374

Okay. Very similar vibes to Detroit.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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Both heavy industry towns with a lot of drinking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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Funny you say that. Oh, ding, ding, ding. It's what this story's about. Okay, wonderful. Please tell us about it.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

1986.194

Oh, lovely. Right. So he chopped a little hole by the ladder.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2026.684

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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I think they put too much wood. You tell me, do we know post-mortem what happened?

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2159.175

And what's your journey? What happened with your drinking?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

216.401

Okay, 2004.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2167.117

I can really relate to the scene you were at. I was at a lot of those scenes.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2184.279

And the car.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2186.12

That was a hot car in the day, the Pathfinder. Yeah. Everything burned.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2224.884

Hello, Bridget. Did you say Bridget and Crystal? No. Correct. Hello to them.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2231.847

Yeah. What a great story. I'm really there. It sounds like a Michigan party or two I've been to.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

224.79

Hold on a second. You do not look nearly old enough to have had a 13-year-old in 2004.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2240.17

Thanks so much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2241.73

All right. Take care, David. Bye. I love that the swimming under the frozen.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2248.523

It was a red herring. And for people who didn't see the photo he put up, there's just one little hole chopped by the ladder. So they're swimming under the ice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2257.505

We thought for sure this was a drowning story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2260.306

Everyone, the tequila and the keg is here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2265.567

More wood, more plunging, more, more, more, more.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2298.436

It's on art.com.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2303.638

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2306.778

Let there be a warning of the holidays that are upon us. Keep your eyes peeled for.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2314.8

I guess with a prompt like crazy holiday stories, it's going to be. It does make me miss Grandma's on Fire, Nana's on Fire story. Remember that one?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2325.163

Is it Thanksgiving?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2327.344

And Nana was fully ablaze. It wasn't Nana. It was like Mimi or something cute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

2334.888

We have. These holidays, they keep producing terrible stories. All right. I love you. Happy holidays, everybody. Jingle, jingle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

236.582

Also, you're looking very foxy.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

25.044

They got them. They're going to keep coming. These are great. Hopefully they'll get you in the mood. Let me just quickly glance and make sure no animals have died prematurely. No, that's fine. Yeah, I think we're good here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

258.806

They never hurt. It's a big deal.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

308.927

Nothing's scarier than a crawl space.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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This is the dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

36.95

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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And we chucked all your presents. We had gotten you all the stuff you wanted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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Shut up.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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Desperate times.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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You've wrapped up a bunch of bullshit.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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He liked the 10-year-old comic books.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

73.763

Well, there's so many good ones on the list.

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Trusted brand. I just got a black puffer that's so sleek, and I got a very earth-tony fleece.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

77.737

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They were.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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She likes that she was thought of by Santa. Yeah. Yeah.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

961.818

That's informative. Maybe we put too much effort into it. Just wrap shit up, dump it under the tree.

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Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

98.246

Okay, this is great because people may remember a while back, you and I have debated which is better, acetaminophen or ibuprofen. We sure have. So for me, particularly headaches, I got to go Tylenol.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Holiday Nightmare II

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All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

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A purple square?

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1020.885

I sure hope not.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1030.016

Oh, okay. Like Tower of Babel. I don't see that. Having sex with angels.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1034.902

Yeah.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1037.108

Can you hear us, Julie?

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1040.329

Yes, wonderfully.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

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Oh, cute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1046.511

It really does.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1055.553

Oh, a welcome home present. Are you in Michigan?

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1059.856

Okay, just as good. Where in Ohio?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1067.742

And did you grow up in that area that you're currently in?

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1076.168

Oh, so this Cedar Point story took place in the last three years?

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1081.251

Hot off the presses. Please tell us.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1111.59

Oh, wow, that's lucky at five.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1129.302

I would have started on The Blue Streak or Gemini, but I don't know millennial.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1136.046

Yeah, it might be past my time.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1139.988

It ends in 99 probably.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1146.02

Oh, now we're talking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1151.204

They didn't rename the Magnum to that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1154.447

OK, I won't get bogged down in that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1163.754

That's what I like. I don't need loopy loops, but I like a nice tall drop.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1269.391

Yeah, this is what happens when you're in the back seat of an F-16. You get a ride with like the Blue Angels. Everyone in back passes out because the pilots have developed their leg muscles so good. They force the blood up into the upper body. She needed a G-suit is what she needed. We got to get her back.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1287.459

Does she get lightheaded when she stands up?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1309.745

No, I think it's time this summer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1320.394

He was not scared.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1332.463

The younger one needs now to get on that.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1365.78

Wow, the power went out?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1369.363

Did she hit any other coasters or that was it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1373.607

I would hit the Gemini if you go back. That's a great ride. The big wooden roller coaster. The G's are very manageable.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

139.483

I weirdly saw some graphic when you signed on. It would be a cheat. Does it say Wyoming? It did say Wyoming, but my shirt might help. We got a Michigan shirt on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1390.842

She stayed conscious throughout that.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1394.083

Oh, congratulations. She's ready. Well, Julie.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1402.844

I was just at Disneyland with my recently turned 12-year-old. There's a Guardians of the Galaxy ride, and it's like the demon drop, but it bounces up and down. It goes up, you stop for a second, then it drops. That I did one time. She talked to me and do a second time. I said, I don't think it's a good idea.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1419.669

I went a second time and midway through, I was like, nope, this was a big, big tactical blunder. Yeah. And then about 40 minutes to shake that off where I just didn't feel right. You know, I can't do it anymore.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1434.982

Is that like Dramamine?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1442.888

Okay, I will do that before my trip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1453.014

That's a great idea. I even talked about taking Dramamine, but I didn't. All right. Well, Julie, there's a lovely meeting you.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1461.382

I hope you have a wonderful summer with your chilies.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1466.184

Yeah. All righty.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1470.806

What is it? I don't know how to tell you this. Go ahead.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1478.068

No. Monica, you're out of your depth right now.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1484.431

Yeah.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

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It is. In the same way, Monica, I'm going to compare it to like a 60s Mercedes. Yeah, it doesn't perform like the new one, but there's a nostalgia.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1504.387

There's a feel to those wooden roller coasters that is very specific.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1508.95

I maintain it's probably the best wooden roller coaster ever made.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

151.567

You didn't know that was Michigan? Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1513.193

Yeah, it's not painted like the Six Flags ones. It's a nice natural wood. You'd like it. Here is Katherine. Could be Katherine Hahn, Ohio native.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1525.428

Beautifully. Is this Katherine?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1527.909

What state are you in?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1531.01

Oh, my goodness. My old stomping grounds.

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Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1558.901

I got it. I got it. Do you ever eat at Frito Misto? It's Italian. That's the only place I crave when I go back to Santa Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1567.145

Oh, get the pink pasta. Add some goat cheese and pine nuts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1571.728

Oh, it's incredible. And the garganzola salad. Don't miss that. So how did you end up at Cedar Point? You must not be from Santa Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

158.442

Well, but that's a three-state area, minimally, and folks from Ontario, probably even Canada. All right, where are you at in Michigan?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1589.143

Well, I do see a ton of church groups there when we go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1606.435

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1634.624

Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1635.886

No, I think most of these that we're going to hear about were built after my tenure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1701.823

Oh, yeah. Fill that tank up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

171.387

Oh, for the ones that didn't make it down to Florida?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1719.69

Well, can I ask a quick question? Did any of the boys on the trip complain of a wet butt cut? Did you hear any murmurings of that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1731.653

Yeah, the wet butt and the preceding wet butt cut is pretty common for the young men.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1741.876

I just knew that was in the stew here, Monica, is trying to paint a full picture of what they're dealing with, with the heat, the nausea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1767.346

Oh, the pressure on young people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1787.998

Not behind you, luckily.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1815.743

All over the platform? Oh my god.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1820.485

Oh, you filled the floor of the Millennial. Okay. Yes, I did.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1835.915

She can hear the retching, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

184.194

OK, so you've got a Cedar Point story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1859.615

So a puke, a bawling, and then a lot of accusations. This guy must have wanted your number so bad. Irresistible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1879.657

That's not going to do it. He needs a mop.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1905.502

Oh, my.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1908.144

Bad showing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1914.05

Yeah, you got to be a bad motherfucker to ride in millennial force.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1950.79

She thought maybe you were going to pass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

1954.331

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2019.149

Very thoughtful, actually. Yeah, but the crush is there. Yeah, well, that's over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2024.672

Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2041.26

Now, am I wrong? I feel like you can get out to the beach at Cedar Point. You wouldn't know. I would have gone and tried to hang out at the beach, but I'm not sure if you can exit or not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2055.69

Rob, will you Google if you can access the beach from Cedar Point? This would be a TBD. Don't worry. I'm not going to make Catherine hang around to find out. But that would have been a great place to recoup on the hot day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2066.837

Yes, fresh sea air. I'm so sorry. What a terrible trip. So you don't love Cedar Point, I can't imagine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2088.445

And you know you're really susceptible to peer pressure, so you really can't put yourself in the situation again. We learned a lot of things on this day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2102.995

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2105.617

Oh, well, Catherine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2107.318

Yeah, but it all worked out for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2120.675

Oh, incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2122.938

Yeah, full circle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2131.374

I was right. She could have gone out to the beach.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2133.936

Put her toes in the water. Cooled herself down.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2137.899

She has a time machine. She goes back. I'm not going on the Millennium whatever it was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2145.788

hello hi where are you at bill i am on long island in new york oh nice oh there's a popular netflix murder doc about girls that were abducted in long island oh yeah the uh serial killer oh my god what if it was you no bill's a good man what if it was right in if you're a serial killer And are you from Long Island? I am. And how'd you end up at Cedar Point? That's quite a hike.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2176.908

Three out of four, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2180.591

I don't think that was around in my era.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2184.636

My last trip there was around probably 2001.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2189.118

I'm going to have to look at some photos. At any rate, you heard of the grand opening. And at that time, was it the tallest or something in the world?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2211.668

That was nice of her.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2301.005

That is so Cedar Point. You want to ride the second highest? You want to ride the second fastest?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

232.017

Oh, okay, but nothing from the brass at Cedar Point?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

241.62

Okay, set the scene. What year? What month?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2412.068

And the duct tape held up on all those highway speeds? Yeah, it held the whole ride home. Fortunately, it didn't rain. What did your aunt have to say when she saw the vehicle?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2429.95

That's what she's got to do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2431.912

Okay, wait, I think we have a photograph. Oh, this is the gang, the Canadians.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2451.241

Oh, lovely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2464.311

Oh, cool. Reunion. Okay, well, that answers my question. You're definitely up to go back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2471.218

Yeah. Takes me back. Borrowing an aunt's van and the whole nine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2477.486

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2478.647

Yeah. All right, brother. Well, nice meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2482.131

All right, you too. Thanks so much. Bye.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2491.49

Do you remember how offensive it was when David Ferrier did a whole episode on Disneyland with all of his judgments and he had never been? And I said, how could you do this piece and not go? And we went and what happened?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2505.075

He loved it. One of the favorite places he's ever been in his life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2509.296

All I got to say is before you levy your verdict, you need to go to Cedar Point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2518.845

We just talked about bucket lists. Maybe you should add it to your bucket list.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2527.729

That should be the requirement of any well-rounded bucket list is there's something on there you don't want to do, but you know you should.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2539.595

Or going to Cedar Point in this case.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2541.716

All right. Love you. Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

2573.151

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

29.426

Aaron, do you have a crazy one? A crazy one? Yeah, I don't have a crazy one. I just have the wet butt cuts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

292.055

Oh, okay. Okay. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

343.237

Okay, wonderful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

412.236

Everyone's crying wolf.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

414.217

I imagine those rides could take a pretty good tornado. It might be interesting to be up at the top strapped in because you can't get sucked into it. You're strapped in. And if the ride's not coming loose, this could be the one way to experience the eye of a tornado safely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

432.723

Yeah, sure, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

44.876

Yes, that you take out of the big machine. I would make a piece of it and put it between my butt sheets.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

445.667

Sure, good. This is the commitment you get at Cedar Point. You got to keep those lines moving.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

507.548

Oh, my God, because, Monica, Cedar Point is huge. I cannot put too fine a point on how big it is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

51.72

Yeah, you have to. I never had that any other place in my life. I've been to Disneyland a bunch of times that have never gotten a wet butt cut. It turns out it's not a good fix either. No, that rough recycled paper just tears up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

549.347

You just had to go to the assigned pickup time that evening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

566.033

Oh, let's take a look. Oh, yes. You are such a sweet young man, it seems, from this character.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

585.846

Yeah, there's some debris flying through the air. They really took their time on this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

618.401

Where the fuck were they when the tornado hit? How could they have not been aware that the tornado had hit?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

632.872

No, definitely not. I think they were rolling around in that tent a little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

639.857

Wow, Chad. Well, I'm pretty jealous of that. I certainly feel like I wish I would have seen a tornado at Cedar Point. You're combining two of the most exciting things in a young child's life all at once.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

651.765

If someone's top had been ripped off in the middle, I'm sure that would have been like triple whammy. Unexpected nudity and a tornado.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

661.227

You think people poop their pants?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

663.708

Oh, I would love that. Yes, yes, yes. Not me pooping my pants though. Well, Chad, thank you for that. Makes me want to really watch the Doppler radar and plan a trip when I think there's a high probability of a tornado.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

679.955

Yes, please.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

68.828

Yeah. Well, we don't have any wet butt cut stories, but we do have four crazy Cedar Point stories. Please enjoy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

692.933

That's too young.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

716.766

Yes, of course. I like that the door needed to be guarded.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

724.216

Hi, Kelly. Hi, Josh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

741.182

Oh, well, thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

743.783

Big fan. My wife is actually a bigger fan, so she's going to be super jealous today.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

748.505

That's always the goal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

752.146

Nice meeting you guys. Have a great rest of your day. Thanks, guys. Appreciate it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

759.388

Oh, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

762.011

You thought he looked like Matt Damon?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

765.756

Specifically, not the actor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

769.961

Sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

775.408

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

778.372

Yeah, sure. You're not going to be with us for most of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

794.638

It's a great theory, but I will say I've just read, there's a bunch of articles came out in the last few weeks about belief in Christianity having plateaued off and increased even a little bit. We had been in this really steady decline for a long time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

807.481

And weirdly now... It's kind of back, they're saying.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

814.243

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

815.664

So probably right, yeah. Wow. But I mean, it had been decreasing long before phones, of course, but also, yes, because of phones.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

823.147

Yeah, it fell off a cliff. Hockey stick curve.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

826.908

You are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

828.209

You're Jill hunting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cedar Point

96.318

Hello. How's it going? Good. Now you have the Mandalorian and Stranger Things posters behind you, but they don't look issued by the studio.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1008.775

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108.196

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1095.774

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1118.067

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Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1159.611

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1188.955

We can see you. Success.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1194.563

Good. I feel like Monica was probably right. While you were gone, we guessed at your age.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1201.608

I said 13. I said 72.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1206.912

Oh, good. Congratulations, Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1216.258

Do you talk on the phone a lot for your job?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1218.92

Are you a mechanic?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1222.582

Oh, that's so cool. Where at? What state?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1226.845

Oh, guess? I would guess Wyoming. Montana. Montana.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1232.336

Don't fucking celebrate too hard. They're neighboring states.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1236.78

There's only like three options too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1240.002

Yeah, it could have been Idaho, Wyoming, or Montana. A 33% chance. How long have you been doing that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1251.772

And let me ask you this. I don't want names. I just want to know, have you had celebrity clients?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1257.699

Yeah. Celebrities love fly fishing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

126.314

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1266.687

You've never seen either of them prowling the streets?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1271.491

At a bar?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1277.916

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1282.26

So let me ask you this, though. Do you fly fish in the winter?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1286.296

Okay. So you take the winters off, I guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1296.678

Okay. Do some people bounce back and forth between ski stuff and fly fishing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1308.24

Okay. Let's talk shit. Set the scene for us. What happened?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1405.749

Can I ask a quick question? What had you eaten earlier that morning?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1417.034

Carbs. But no fish for breakfast, nothing dicey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1477.387

Oh, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1479.327

Right on cue. Or probably simultaneous to you starting to exert.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

151.129

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

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oh no and if you had to guess no one's gonna like this part but i must know if you had to guess at the volume would you say there's like a pint glass in your shorts more or less about a pint glass yeah oh so a lot of pickles i'm just gonna keep sprinting i feel good now right of course you got it all out and i can feel my shorts are just soaking wet oh

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1549.032

You just ran right off the track. But listen, you have the heart of a champion. I love that you didn't let that get in the way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1559.741

What do they say? Like better to be quiet than open your mouth and confirm that you're dumb or something. There's some fun saying about talking too much, but in your case, way better to roll the dice and think like people might be curious why you ran away or stay and let them know exactly what happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1578.591

They were able to see.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1582.216

Well, how did you perform?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1587.703

Oh, great. So it was a good, good start.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1607.744

Why didn't you just go grab your sweats?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1610.546

No, everyone's panicked.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1612.227

Her little baby with her. I can only imagine how young you sounded when you were actually 17.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1616.929

Oh, my God. This is awful. High school. Oh, how many people do you think were in attendance?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1639.004

Oh, you didn't stick around. You want to get out of there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1646.55

Who all saw?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1651.935

Yeah, you're the first person we've ever interviewed that shit themselves in front of a huge audience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1658.854

You're watching your body move. Yeah. And was there any follow-up with the team when you guys got back together? Did it spread pretty quickly?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

1679.386

Did you have a lover at the time? I did. How did they feel?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

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Oh, in my school, the entire school would have known within an hour. People have been like, do you hear the relay team got fourth in states? Yeah, well, I heard one of our runners shit themselves. I think Grace.

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Yeah. There's numerous videos of marathoners coming across the line.

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It's a common thing. I'm really proud of you. You kept your head in it. You kept it floored. I really admire it.

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Well, Grace, I love this story.

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I would imagine sometimes you're out on that boat for a long time fly fishing.

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But waiters are ideal to shit yourself in. You're wearing a toilet, basically.

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Of course.

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One of his quadrillion great quotes. He's like our Churchill.

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hi hi there what name are we going by today i was hoping you guys would pick for me okay you look very much like my aunt and her name was sue it's not a popular name anymore is it okay it's not really popular but that's okay i'll take it it's not popular but it's Yeah, what about Susie? Like Susie Q's.

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Yeah, that's a great hostess product. Susie Q's. Did you ever eat those, you guys?

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I mean Susie Q's. It was a bit of a chocolate dark devil's food cake, then a huge dumping filling of the Twinkie filling, and then another chocolate long cake rectangle.

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Really good. Okay, so we're going with Susie. Again, it's very promising that you want a fake name because hopefully that means this is hugely embarrassing. That's the goal today.

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Oh my God, I can't wait. Yes. All right, hit us with it.

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Hi. Today we have our very favorite prompt. We try to use it sparingly, but every time we use it, I go, I don't know why we don't use it more because this one, this one somehow blew past episodes that can't be blown past.

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Great.

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Oh, congratulations. That's great.

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We've been together for almost three years. Can I apologize for one second because I want to work through Monica's reaction. Monica, don't you think that's preferred to wood shit? Like at least it was sexy.

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No, she just came like a racehorse. She just said like a racehorse.

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But I'm him, right? I'm downstairs and I see this wonderful climax and then it's super wet. I mean, that's a pretty natural conclusion is like, maybe she squirted.

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Well, you're in a trusting, loving relationship. yeah well it didn't sound like it didn't bother you i know what it is you did his voice and you made him sound like a dumb dumb i think that's what monica's being yeah okay yeah maybe i'm not i'm not very good at replicating his voice

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Did you squirt?

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Well, I know you said, why is it so wet?

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Oh my God.

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Wait, hold on. I'm shocked you didn't hear it.

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Armchair-y favorite, Matthew McConaughey, is in so many of our favorite titles. You could have a Matthew McConaughey marathon day. Start with True Detective on Max, then check out The Lincoln Lawyer on MGM+, and top it off with rom-com classic How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days on Paramount+. That's a good way to spend a day.

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You can watch all of those titles and more without ever leaving the Prime Video app. I think I may take a little Nicolas Cage binge on Amazon Prime.

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Yeah. Spatter analysis like they do in a murder scene. Holy shit. Wow. You covered the room. You painted the room, as they say. And what's your first thought?

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Hello. Jonathan, are you standing on a box or are you six foot eight? You're close. I'm just north of six nine. Holy smokes. Congratulations. You're above the doorframe. Thank you. Worked on it my whole life.

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That there was an explosion.

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It sprayed up into my asshole and then out of my asshole.

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Oh, you got a real issue on your hands because I imagine your goal now is to somehow escort him out of this room and clean it up and he never sees a thing.

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Okay.

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Yes, they smell something.

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No, you got to get in there because they're going to track it all over the house.

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Oh, no. This is as bad of a scenario as you can get yourself into.

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Wow, so he's dry heaving in the shower. Now what's happening with the dogs? Have they gotten there?

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How many years did it take you to hit 6'9"? Probably 23, but I'm 33 now. And did you make use of this height? Did you do anything that lent itself? Did you play basketball or anything?

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Yeah. And you're also like, where do I begin? Do I clean myself up, put on clothes in case parents come home, then begin cleaning? Do I start cleaning now while I'm still naked?

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Yeah. Jack, take your time. We need a little time right now.

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That wasn't his choice. You don't choose to throw up. He's not like, you know what? I'm going to throw up right now.

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But he regrouped and he got himself together and he knew I got to support her now.

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Yeah, be careful who you judge. That's the lesson of this story.

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Oh, Hannes.

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Oh, fuck. Yes, of course. It's very close.

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Wow. Well, you dodged a bullet. And I'm glad. The gods just wanted to smite you a little bit for being judgmental, but they didn't want to give you a continued condition.

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So I bet you'll probably never have sex if you're sick again. No.

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Yeah. You just can't roll the dice. Yeah, it's like, you know, shame me once. Once your body betrays you that way, rebuilding trust takes a while.

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Good. Your sister's got her head in the right place.

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Well, listen to me, Susie Q. This is in the running for the best one I've ever heard.

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The fact that it was all over the room is so powerful.

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Now, you guys, the marinara is great. But, of course, I went in my head, too. If you can imagine putting a one-gallon can of paint – on a stool and then taking a sledgehammer and just fucking smashing it that to me is what i'm seeing that amount of spatter and yeah

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Oh, that's a great point. Yeah, it kind of raises the stakes. It will. It plays an adjacent role. Okay, great. Walk us through this unfortunate and fortunate event. So it took place in 2010, 2011.

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Okay. Yeah. That makes sense. Right. Okay. So this is a 20 out of 10. Oh, what a good one. I'm very proud of you.

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I promise you many, many people are going to go, oh, thank God. I'm not the only one.

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This is the power of sharing trauma.

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Oh, boy. Well, I thank you from the bottom of my heart. That was spectacular.

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Yeah, you too.

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Bye. Oh, man.

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I think even if you have a pretty good appetite for these kind of stories, that one's going to test some people.

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Right. It was her larynx.

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Yeah. It's a gal in thin cotton, kind of baggy, but short shorts. It's CCTV. It's like being filmed in the grocery store. And she rounds this, it's either a frozen food, like one of those up to your waist frozen food.

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Yeah, it's like an island in a kitchen kind of a situation, but it's like probably three feet off the ground. And she comes around the corner and she just quickly squats. She takes her terrycloth shorts, pulls them to the side, and does a squirt like a goose.

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It's so foul. But it's not quite honest, honest. It's in between. And then she just gets right up and strolls away. You and I luckily had the same conclusion, which is like, no way that's the first time.

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So much muscle memory. Like the way she squatted, got that thing to the side, squirt, and then stood up and walked away. I was like, oh my God, she's doing this all the time, I think.

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Oh, she could have. She could probably do it while walking.

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How are you?

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Of course. Let's forget that that's coming. And let's first talk about the fact that this is a ding, ding, ding for Monica and I, because we were just talking about the dreamiest hair that her baby could have. And you literally have what we were both at least. This is exactly what I was 100 percent. This is the most gorgeous hair a human can have.

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The other piece of the puzzle for Monica was dimples.

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can't wait a lot of things in childhood i didn't love about myself and i've grown to love so thank you yeah yeah yeah well i was just talking to my daughter about this she was telling me people have freckle filters now and i'm like that's so crazy because people with freckles hate freckles and people without freckles want freckles and i said you know the headline is you want what you don't have absolutely okay station walk us through this very human experience there's nothing to be nervous about anyone who says they haven't shit their pants is a liar

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People really in the comments were like, what are you talking about? We're not going to hear every detail of this.

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Yeah, girl.

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31 flavors, now 32.

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I loved it.

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I always say this when I go back home to Michigan. I'm reminded that young people run everything back in Michigan. So you go to a Dairy Queen, sometimes there's no one there over 14.

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Ugh, there's a nightmare.

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Guys, I was on the verge of asking what it felt inappropriate. I'm like, doesn't the period also, you often have some butt stuff.

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The system's a mess. Yeah. It's in disarray.

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Oh, my God. Because you already have this fire burning at the front of the store.

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No. Oh, no. Why? Worst color imaginable.

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Double whammy. So.

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You'll walk right by the problem where people are gonna be like, hey, what's she doing?

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No, why? Why? This tastes too much.

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If you were doing your best thinking and you weren't panicked in your amygdala, you probably could put all that together. That would be the move. Come up with the mop bucket and then just, whoa! And you sit. But you're screaming like, oh no, I'm falling. But you sit.

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Jonathan, can I just, I know you probably get so sick of talking about your height, but what I'm immediately concerned about is that grill top was probably built for someone that was five, nine. I imagine cooking on that grill was probably terrible on your back. Did your back kill when you would have shifts?

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These are all the details.

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Because they're visibly now wet because they're khakis.

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Oh, man. That could have also been under the heading, like, tell us about the worst day of your life.

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There's too many things going wrong at once.

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perfect storm and you know i wouldn't have had to go out there if the milkshake hadn't fallen that's why i like this prompt you deal with people dying in your life that's horrendous there's all these things you deal with but i would argue you'll never experience anything on planet earth that's as bad as having a pants full of shit and trying to figure out how the fuck to get out of the situation that's about as high stakes as it gets

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Well, it's also a character builder. It is. Because you really find out what you're made of and you find out, I can survive.

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More Tonka-esque.

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First of all, A plus.

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Yeah, I'm a little welled up. You did so much better than I did with Lisa. Well, it's her compliments. It's probably easier for me to hear. But yes, that was great.

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Okay. I just, I got worried about you. Okay. So you're popping noodles on this grill top.

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You brought up my daughters and now there's tears streaming down my face. Thank you. Thank you. Stacia, you deserved that.

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We should have had a dad just like me.

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Well, when I adopt you, I'll be your dad. Well, you'll be my grandchild at that point as well. Oh, that's true, yeah.

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You've completely fucked me up, so mission accomplished. Thank you for listening to us. We do not deserve you. No, no, we don't.

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Well, thank you. That was a really nice Christmas present to me and I think to Monica.

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All right. Well, I pray I bump into you in Tennessee.

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All right. Great meeting you. Bye. Bye.

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Oh, boy, she got us, huh? She's very sweet. Every one of those stories was dynamite.

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I don't ever want to go to the well too often, but I got to say, this prompt always delivers.

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That's why I said I don't want to go to the well too much.

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You've just spent a lot of your time crossing this building. At this point, you're probably thinking like, God damn it, if I just head home, I might be there by now.

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And we think, what would I cause the least collateral damage? You're about to shit in public in a closet, but you're still a gentleman.

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These are decisions to be made and they were not made in time. It sounds like you had decision anxiety or decision fatigue. But I also want to point out, because I know you so well, Monica, when you heard that the cork popped, I felt like you got a little PQ. Did you get it?

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I'm even like thinking about trying to develop a friendship with the last person.

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Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. No, let's not just clock out. Your pants are full of shit. We want to lock the doors somehow. We want to turn them inside out, get it in that bucket. Maybe, I don't know, we're going to try to mop up the inside of the pants.

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I might just spend the whole evening dealing with this. But did you make any attempt to fasten the ends of your pants? I shoved the bottom of the pants into the shoes.

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Bless your heart.

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Also, can I add again? I know I keep talking about your height, but it's like, you're not able to blend in. Whatever you're doing is going to be observed. If you got a crazy walk, people are gonna be like, look at that tall guy with the crazy walk.

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I know, but still, I thought you were dying. So we'll see. But may you find your way to heaven. Take him into your heart. In his name we pray. He has risen. Yeah, this one is fucking unhinged. Can we say that? I guess we can't say crazy, but can we say unhinged?

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That's where the danger comes in.

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Well, at first glance, I was like, this is crazy. This is you. It's your fault. And now you're trying to shirk your responsibility. But what I will say in your defense is other people ate the same noodles that fucked up your butt. So maybe multiple people shit their pants that day. That's a good argument. And you already said it's a huge school.

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I just think if you have 46,000 students, probably on any given day, one or two people have shit their pants.

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No, he's fine. He's fine. He probably got a lot of attention, got a date.

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Really quick though, I have follow-up questions. How did they know it was shit?

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It was like on his shoe. Oh, okay. That makes a lot of sense. I bet people would have assumed someone brought a dog in. But the dining common?

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It's so, so good. Please enjoy Potentially Our Best Unauthorized Evacuation. We are supported by Quince. You know, Kristen's been ordering a ton from Quince.

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No, it's you. And I'm your defense attorney. I need you to shut up and let me paint the case for you.

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And by the way, we'll probably have a prompt in the future that's like, tell us about a crazy way you broke a bone. We might talk to Mark.

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That would be pretty funny.

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Okay, it's all coming clear to me now. Does he remind you as well of that great comedian?

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Yep. Do people tell you that? Yeah. That's flattering.

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He's hilarious. Yeah, he's also really good looking. I'll take it. Okay. Well, we'd love to talk to your wife. I want to see what kind of gal you wrangled with this wreckage in your past. She's pretty cute. It's going to lower his head.

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Well, we heard him killing her. We've never seen her. Oh, there's a child.

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Hi there.

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Who's this little redhead?

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No one. Don't worry about it. Princess Anna's husband. That's who daddy's talking to. Big fans of Frozen over here.

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Well, you guys, happy holidays. What a great story. He almost killed a man by shitting his pants.

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We reunited during college. At a bar in your hometown or at a reunion?

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Yeah, and I told her, you know, they're a sponsor. And she couldn't believe it. Being stylish and comfortable allows you to feel your best, making you ready to tackle anything that comes your way. That's where Quince comes in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

880.206

Can I say that's a great group. If you're going to meet someone at a bar, do it at a trivia night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

892.635

Do you guys continue to compete in trivia? Not as much. We have two little ones now, so it's harder to get out for trivia nights. Yeah, you're fucked for about seven more years. It's a good trade-off. It is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

907.584

All right. Take care, you guys. All right. Bye-bye. Bye. What a great little... He was hilarious. We love him, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

916.55

I know. Little redhead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

921.067

Hello?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

925.292

Let's get that video cracking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

931.478

You know, your voice without video accompaniment, you could be nine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

948.253

Oh, Rob says disconnect and reconnect. See if that works.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

952.154

Hopefully see you in a few.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

957.815

Oh. I think she's 13. I think she's 6. No wonder she can't figure out how to get the video to work. She's 6.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

969.562

It's like one today. That'd be funny if we had a baby call up. I pulled my pants one minute ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Unauthorized Evacuation

992.059

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dax Shepard and I'm joined by Monica Padman. Hi. Today is crazy public transit stories. And let me just glance about these. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1037.17

Okay, another great option. Yeah, that's a cool option. Okay, so you have a public transit story. She knows once we get on cars, we could never come back.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1141.298

Or flashlights in your pocket.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1169.051

Okay, so I'm co-signing on this plan, but are you not thinking you'll surface from that station and the gates will also be locked there? Again, reiterating that I'm 22.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1220.873

It's after hours.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1222.596

Yeah, the whole subway system.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1257.405

What other choice do you have? You're not gonna sleep on the ground.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1319.304

Ninja Turtle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1360.947

That's going to help.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1364.687

This is one of the most Boston stories ever told.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1376.74

Yeah, because now you don't give a fuck about spending money.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1379.503

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1390.526

I would have been having those same Superman flashbacks. I can see it very well. And anytime I think of being in a subway tunnel, I think of Lex Luthor. Monica, did those ring a bell? Did you ever see those ones, the early Superman?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1404.091

Gene Hackman was Lex Luthor, and he had this incredible lair under the city. It was gorgeous. He had like a supervillain cave attached to the subways.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

143.551

What fake name do you want?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1453.609

Well, you're so honest because you could have easily said you closed the deal. He just demonstrated some integrity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1458.553

Yeah. Well, Matthew, this has been a damn joy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1480.588

Yeah, please get her in here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1483.936

And if you want to do a drum solo, I'm also up for watching that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1488.739

Jen, nice to meet you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1495.063

Oh, good. So nice. That's flattering.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1507.671

Oh, I love that. Send away. Yeah. It's like a multi-level marketing system.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1515.315

Well, it's delightful to meet you guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1527.903

Hello. Oh, you have the robot. We both have the robot on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

153.479

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1536.835

You're in your closet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1539.218

I'm trying to make some conclusions based on your wardrobe. I do think you live somewhere that's cold.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

155.761

Where are you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1550.708

Oh, good job, Monica.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1557.211

And do you know why it's called the L?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1561.633

That's right, and his name starts with an L. It stands for elevated train, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1566.575

You're not impressed. I'm looking right at your face. Oh, you weren't even listening. You already bailed out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1577.243

You go through like his greatest hits in your head.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1580.005

Who's your number one celebrity crush?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1601.342

Okay, let's get to your elevated train story that Monica was not impressed with.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1613.41

I know the original one, Julia.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1615.792

Yeah, back in the 90s.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

168.229

Netflix? They ought to put Netflix in there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1731.726

How old is this guy?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1737.99

Okay, late 30s. All right, so not like a 60-year-old.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

176.953

No one's going to enter the lactation room, that's for sure. That's a safe place.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1791.107

Oh my God. You're being chased now. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1839.915

Did you have a grilled cheese while you waited?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

193.347

Oh, yeah. That's fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

1943.235

Fucking God, he's deranged.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

197.772

People watch TV at work, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

202.507

Okay, so you have a public transit story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2024.81

Oh, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2032.914

You're happy as fuck and they're mean mugging.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2037.657

So this is kind of a meet cute as well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2040.518

Yeah, it's kind of a double whammy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2042.579

Tell us about an unlikely friendship that's emerged.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2046.701

Rob, write that down, Rob. Was that a wrap on the L for you? Or are you like, yeah, I'm not doing the L?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2064.929

Fuck. Look, maybe I want to start riding that L. Thanks for sharing. Thank you for that story. It's delightful to meet you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

208.591

Oh, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2082.199

Yeah, this is great. All right. Well, lovely meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2086.882

Bye. That's your nightmare, that story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2095.344

It's a blessing that Detroit doesn't have mass transit. They have this thing called the People Mover, but no one would ever ride it. It goes like three blocks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2105.429

Bingo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2126.283

I bet you could make $1,000 right now. I bet you would pay nearly anything for that sweatshirt. You could probably name your price right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2137.79

That's a cool sweatshirt, though. I would want it, too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2140.932

Arizona would have been a top guess for me, given the blanket behind you. It's got very Arizona vibes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2148.898

Are you from Arizona?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2155.542

We had one of our favorite trips there. Okay, so you have a public transit story. I can't imagine what state it took place in, given those options.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2199.719

Yeah, Buddhist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2303.794

Yeah, the heel particles that are entering the atmosphere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2339.036

This is a torture chamber.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2359.89

Did he do both heels or just one was bothering him?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2374.355

Trying to think what I would do. Okay, hey, bud, could you cheese grate your feet outside of the bus? I think maybe I'd have to ask. If I saw it in the air like that, that would freak me the fuck out. Yeah, when things get atomized. People do that shit on airplanes. That's what's incredible. I follow an account on Instagram.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2393.223

I wish I could remember the name of it, but it's like passenger shaming or something like that. And it's people cutting their fucking toenails on a flight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2402.866

Yeah, this is much worse than toenails. We should add that to our thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2408.388

grated skin chunk of skin yeah i'd rather eat grated i want to get on with a battery-powered dremel and just start grinding my toenail i have to grind all the time because it does there's powder everywhere disgusting i did end up buying a pass after all Well, you get what you pay for. Well, Katie, thank you. I'm sorry you were subjected to that, but you have a good heart.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2439.875

Yeah, top notch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2449.421

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2451.322

I'm extra frazzled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2465.833

Oh, my gosh. Happy birthday. What's his name?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2471.637

Happy birthday. Get the fuck out of here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2483.941

Yeah. Thanks for chatting with us. Yeah. Thanks, Katie. Great meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2489.861

What a cute sweatshirt. That's going to haunt you, isn't it? It's all you're thinking about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2497.587

You didn't even know about it in an hour.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2511.218

Price-wise?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2514.001

You got to be there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2516.063

So now there's going to be a very expensive sweatshirt because you're going to have to go to goddamn Tokyo to get this thing. We've got some Tokyo listeners. I'm sure that'll go for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2527.437

We should ask Eric retroactively. Do I know someone that's there right now? Everyone's there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2532.98

I think the exchange rate is beneficial currently. Well, I've had some wild public transits. I had the guy ask if he could smoke, and then he smoked crack. And then the guy that wanted to fight me when I rode my bike and brought it back and get action packed down there. All right. Love you. Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

255.652

Who got a free trip to Spain.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

2576.874

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

28.717

Well, I'll tell you, subways are hot spots for action.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

300.017

You don't know what you're talking about, mom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

337.851

It's not secure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

346.514

You threw that advice right out the window as soon as you got to Madrid. Like, what's the gapiest bag I can carry?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

376.169

The groundlings.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

38.363

Yeah. Yeah. I'll tell you, it made me want to use more public transportation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

43.747

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

45.828

I'm missing out on a lot of stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

490.815

Okay. Okay. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

52.317

One was wild, right? One almost made you throw up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

558.31

Oh, they were on it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

581.528

Down the front.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

583.39

No, I think she's trying to hide the money in her vagina. Oh!

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

588.574

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

592.338

Well, she just thought, okay, I'm going to put it here. No one's going to search me here. I doubt it made it into her vagina. That would take a minute. Sorry, Jess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

613.399

Whoa, so maybe it is a kink.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

615.66

There's a lot on the plate of the teachers. They got a bunch of teenagers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

619.762

This woman's manhandling her vagina with a fistful of stolen money. What a thing to explain.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

627.184

Yeah, they were probably 28.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

708.509

She's a heat seeker.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

715.853

Did they ever retrieve the money from her vagina and return it to you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

726.1

That money still spends. I would want it back. Wow. So that was it. And then normally if you were home, you'd probably have to go into court and testify against them. But you're leaving the country. So you never heard anything about it again?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

741.433

Was your PE teacher feeling wonderful after that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

753.586

He earned his keep.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

755.028

He earned that free trip. Shout out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

762.276

That's worth $150.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

818.123

Oh, thank you. We're so delighted you're a part of it all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

831.828

Great meeting you. Take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

961.109

Test, test. We hear you, but we can't see you. Hold tight. Here we go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

976.853

What kind of kit are you playing? Tama. Oh, nice. I'm going to say that your shirt is of a VW thing. That is correct. What? Are you so impressed, Monica? Do you know what a thing is?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Public Transit

990.618

Well, okay, show her the whole shirt now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1093.663

the punchline was so lost it was so sad i was really expecting more of a place of glory and i got a whimper yeah when you gotta explain like oh did you see so it's like mow this because we because we mow lawns and then the arrow though is because it's kind of a reference like suck my dick but it's also i'm quitting and they're like get out no you're fired actually you're fired for that joke nobody even

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1132.929

Oh, well, it's great to have a job like that because then you go like, I really got to figure something out other than this. It's a great motivator.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1143.334

Everything is just easier the rest of your life. Yeah. I appreciate the time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1147.995

It's great meeting you. And you've really inspired me to do this Iowa trip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1170.581

Yeah. Well, great meeting you, Jim. Thanks so much for telling us that story. Thank you, guys. All right. Take care. Hello.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1179.268

Beautifully. What fake name do you want?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1184.253

Oh, that's a great name. I have a niece named Zoe. Do you remember the first Zoe? I do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1190.985

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1194.306

Oh, that's a good one. Great one. I think the first one was Zoe Bowie. David Bowie's kid.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1201.048

And wouldn't you leave it to David Bowie to come up with that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1204.849

Are you allowed to tell us where you're at?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1254.912

Oh, and that was allowed?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1261.296

That's a weird kink. Yeah. Like I love sleeping in public on a dining room table.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1305.188

Were the tips gathered in like a tip jar on the counter or left on receipts?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1374.975

What? What a great left turn. They were in a chicken carcass.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1381.929

That's not good yummy stuffing just to warn everyone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1437.152

This is like an episode of Parks and Rec or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1453.577

Yeah. Who has it? Easy mistake.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1466.261

Yeah, this is your moment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1474.404

Well, PNW, small, artsy town.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1479.467

Yeah, some good food out there. That sounds yummy. Yeah. If you don't get a stray $100 bill in your sandwich.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1486.469

Yeah, it'd be worth it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1497.914

Fucking Lance Drew.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1514.281

Oh, Derek, Derek, Derek, Derek. This is not an acceptable tactic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1520.684

He's trying to period shame you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

153.046

Let's call him Greg.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

156.507

Trevor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1585.066

Oh, Linda.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1604.377

Yeah, a couple steps away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1614.844

The health department finds a big wad of money in the chicken carcass. They're going to be like, you guys can't serve.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1621.766

Did you at least get that tip money that had been missing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1633.088

I kind of think the guy that was sleeping on the table inside was Derek's brother.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1638.75

In disguise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1640.62

what was going on with them you know like you can be really mad at them as you have you're entitled to be but also some people's lives are so terrible you're like oh they're already paying the price for this mania there's like no way there's any joy happening when they get home from work and he's dealing with linda who stole all the tip money well what's your taste i think she stole it because she's bawling the second she heard about it right i think she was trying to squirrel away some money to get away from derek

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1671.084

Could be. And he was gaslighting her saying, you stole it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1675.885

Unless she was trying to squirrel it away to make her escape. Well. Like Julia Roberts in that movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1684.508

That's a good one.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1692.552

don't feel bad we do not know the details no maybe the shutdown was she finally got out of there and then he's like i'm not gonna run this thing by myself is like they are not able to conduct business Or she made her a big escape and she's got a new healthy lover.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1711.377

That's best.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1713.278

Oh boy. Do you go back to the town? Have you ever bumped into them?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1725.564

Oh, well, Zoe, that was really bizarre in a great way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1737.789

That'll get you here for sure. Well, it's lovely meeting you, Zoe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1742.73

Have fun in Ireland. Are you drinking Guinness and Beamish and all the fun beers?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1757.165

Well, you know, Guinness in either Bailey's or Kahlua and a little Jameson is called an Irish car bomb. And those are fucking outrageous. They taste like a milkshake.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1767.737

Give that a couple of bangs. All right. Wonderful meeting you. Have fun. You too. Thanks. Bye. What happened?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1778.859

Oh my goodness. Which Zoe?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1785.682

Something's collapsing. I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1801.996

Oh, Huxley looks perfect. I want to hold Huxley.

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1807

Look, he's just staring up at his mom. He knows that she's got all the things he needs.

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1814.826

Or take a nap? Oh, he's got a little turtle jammies.

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1819.981

He's in the bag of potato phase. He's so cute. Do you see he looked like a little sack of potatoes when he moved around?

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183.84

Oh boy.

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1832.588

Roxanne. You've got a Roxanne vibe.

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1837.871

Are you allowed to tell us where you're at in the country or would that be too incriminating?

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1847.995

I went to Hershey as a kid. Very fun. Have you been there, Monica?

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1852.62

Yeah, all over the town, the little street lamps are Hershey Kisses. Did I make this up? I feel like I took a boat ride on chocolate and there was chocolate rollers that you could see.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1870.097

We might have just done the free ride. You got to go there.

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1878.004

Hershey, Pennsylvania. You got to go.

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1884.39

Oh, you worked at Hershey?

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1888.574

Oh, really? Where people would throw the balls? Yeah. Oh, wow. Were you a teen? That'd be fun to meet boys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

19.728

Today's Armchair Anonymous prompt was, I quit. Tell us a crazy I quit story. Now, guess what? You can finally listen to this one.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

190.686

Oh no, those are gorgeous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1913.914

You're hitting all my erogenous zones right now. Kmart, Hershey. Yes. Blue Light Special.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1942.15

Yeah, I can relate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

1988.863

You're going to retire at 16, basically. Correct.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2072.157

Oh, my God. I'm embarrassing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2077.561

Yeah. Yeah. You're just fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2094.732

Sure. Well, you were too hurt. Every time you walked by that aisle, you probably shuddered.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2104.398

What'd you get out of it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2125.831

Yeah, those are pricey.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2128.092

I love that you threw yourself down one of those. I mean, what a preposterous plan.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2185.008

Gotta make sure you don't have a spinal injury.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2190.117

That's okay. She went home. She felt good. She told her husband, this poor young teen.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2197.063

They should not have them up on those ladders. That should be something for adults.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2204.029

Well, Roxanne, delightful meeting you and your little baby. Yeah.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2213.035

That's so funny. When you said you moved to Florida, I was like, do we have any addiction? I'm smelling some addiction, but that's great. I didn't ask you, but I felt like I saw you at sea.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2225.321

Congrats.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2228.443

Thank you.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2230.624

I'm not ready to diagnose myself with ADHD, but I do wonder, I certainly enjoyed cocaine more than everyone else.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2241.611

Yeah, that was probably a good choice for you.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2244.694

Well, congrats. That's great news. And now you got a little baby. So all the promises are coming true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2253.862

All right, well, wonderful meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2258.686

All right, take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2262.472

I wanted to hold that little baby. Me too. The way she passed him on, his shape was a ball. If you lift an adult up, they straighten out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2270.977

Yes, he stayed snuggled.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2278.322

I hope she doesn't cook him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2285.591

She gets going. She'll just throw anything in the recipe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2290.26

Yeah, they do look delicious. All right. All right, love you. Love you.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

2322.674

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

250.498

Yeah, I wouldn't mind if he had a broken arm or something, to be honest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

262.608

Oh no, from your first job?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

300.895

This isn't necrotic flesh. So sorry. She can't stop thinking about hearing the necrotic flesh story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

31.506

Yeah, you can listen to this one. There's, let me hold on, Heidi. Well, yeah. Yeah, there is some, I guess, light animal cruelty, but the animal's dead. Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Okay. So other than that, I think you're free to listen. Please enjoy I Quit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

345.928

Gotta see Trev.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

399.342

T-Dog? Not me. Oh. Again? Sexism.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

404.265

Strikes again.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

406.867

He's the reason you're in a pickup truck.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

420.336

Five minutes later, we are rolling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

424.624

Trevor! Oh my God, what a putz.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

436.028

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

440.109

I know. That scarred you. I'm sorry, Kaylee. Stop.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

446.55

Because she doesn't know what you're talking about. I know you're referring to Mitch McConnell's sister-in-law.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

455.372

In a pond, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

481.707

Oh my God. Now it's like a Disney movie where the puppy gets separated and goes down the river.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

487.91

He makes friends with a cat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

498.756

Thank God. Fuck them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

520.293

Yes. Yeah, you're trying to kill you twice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

528.703

Was she like, honey, is it the diarrhea? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

545.001

Oh, wow. This was really life changing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

550.243

Well, we love nurses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

560.425

Yes. Two strikes. Did Trevor reach out after the second one?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

582.83

I'm glad he's not an Uber driver. All right. Or a chauffeur. That was a great story. Two rollovers within two weeks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

599.293

Yeah. Well, if it got you mad enough to go, I fucking quit. They pushed you to the breaking point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

637.279

Oh, delighted to have the whole family.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

641

And the nurse team, winners. And Emily. All right, well, we adore you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

660.345

Right. Or lakes or rivers. You stay very clear of ponds.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

667.752

Yeah. On the river. On our tubing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

672.536

I would still be paying for that. You would be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

69.115

What a beautiful, robust set of headphones you're wearing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

74.197

No, that's a sheet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

812.966

Jim. Hello. How are you guys doing? Good. And are you a cyclist or just a fan of like French posters?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

828.838

Tom Arnold did this several times, I believe. It's a big event, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

837.324

You just camp on people's yards and it's a big old party.

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

853.257

You're like invigorating a dream. I think I want to put it on my list of things I want to do to do that bike ride. That sounds so fun. I would recommend it. I love it. I'm doing it after the great loop. Okay. Tell us about a time you quit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

888.31

Were you riding a Dixie chopper?

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Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

89.502

What's your boss's name?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: I Quit

91.403

Big props and shout outs and thank yous to Scotty. Okay, Kaylee, what did you quit?

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981.758

This is a seminal experience for a young man. I went to work at a race shop at 15 and I was working with all like 38 year old dudes. Yeah. And the stuff I was hearing and the jokes they were making to me, I was like terrified half the time I was there.

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Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Randall Shepard. I'm joined by Monica Lilly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

100.818

You're going to repent this Valentine's Day. Please enjoy Bad Proposals. Cole?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1109.024

This is a horror movie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1133.266

That's spectacular.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1141.37

Oh, pictures.

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Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1144.628

Yeah, I'm glad you sent pictures because this is really a hard to believe. Oh, my God. And you're now, I would imagine, husband has. Yeah, they're very scary masks. For anyone that thinks these were like Amazon.com fucking masks. No, these are Atelier bespoke masks. Your husband has the most nervous laugh smile on his face looking at you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1214.827

Yeah, no party liked it, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1228.319

Do you start thawing as you see it's your own friends?

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Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1240.25

Yeah, what does that group of folks do between October and the following October?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

127.852

Good. Can you hear us?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1276.018

That's one step away from choreographing a car accident. Like you get T-bone and then the ambulance comes into your mom and dad and they've got you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1308.615

Really ups the stakes in a hurry.

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Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

131.054

Yes. Where are you, Cole?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1312.717

Yeah.

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Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1325.302

You have the most adorable, nervous smile in all those photos. Like, is she going to get over this? Oh my gosh. I was worried.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1352.57

It's delightful to meet you guys.

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Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1358.472

Yes, unbelievable. I was completely on the hook. Did not see it coming. Monica got it. She was a little ahead of me.

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Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1365.274

It was great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1368.795

Take care. I went into a whole, like, I totally believe these crazies live in that barn waiting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

137.758

Sound is dynamite. Connection is a little iffy. Are you far from your Wi-Fi? Because we might have to piss Monica off and get you out of the closet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1377.347

You would. Well, you don't know. I don't know. You're right. But when you get scared.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1384.629

Right. Yeah.

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1398.115

Yeah. You wouldn't be hated. Then you're surrounded by love, family and friends and champagne. All the stuff they wanted. Just had to get through this other part first.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1412.004

Hop in the back of the car.

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Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1414.986

You're feeling like life is so short. You get the chainsaws going in the background. Oh, hi. Hi. Jessica, where are you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1424.992

What part?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1426.713

You grew up there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1468.208

Yeah, we just go up there on your own and get the fucking shot and then come home.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

148.884

Now we're getting a nice tour of your home. I can go to the home office here. Somehow got worse. I hate to say this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1508.61

Oh, geez.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1519.996

At any point, are you getting the least bit suspicious?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1532.003

This is not my dream proposal situation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1566.796

Oh, wonderful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

157.796

We've lost the visual of you. Can I ask one last thing? Would you be willing to go to that first room you walked into?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1604.549

You're walking into your shared future together. The other thing is if I'm this person, I want a sincere yes. That's what I'm in the market for. I don't want anything coerced. Like people who ask people to marry them in front of huge crowds. I'm like, don't they realize the person kind of has to say yes. And in this case, yes. Even if you wanted to say no, you're like, I'm going to say no.

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Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1625.675

And then we're going to be on a fucking four hour hike in the middle of the night on this mountain.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1636.258

Right. Not now. It means like later.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1654.758

Probably picked the wrong girl for that whole exercise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1661.108

No, no, I know. He wanted the gal we talked to who is a riverboat guide. He's picked the wrong partner for what he wants to do. Oh shit, are you guys happily married? You're not married. Okay, I gotta panic. You hold up your hand like, oh fuck, you're happily married. But you know, like you're giving signs the whole time. You want someone that wants to hike up to the top of this mountain.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

167.901

Oh, sorry. Our apologies. Sorry. Now we've got great image. We've got great sound. Hi. Tell her we say hi. She's stressed. She says hello. All right. Now we're talking. Cole, where are you? I'm in Billings, Montana. That explains the spotty Wi-Fi.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1692.642

It was a little murky.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1696.286

So what happens when you're in the hotel room and you're crying?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1707.172

That's too scary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1713.654

Oh, it's beautiful. He was onto something with the photo. So at first I was like, that's so cute. He figured out how to light the ring from the box so you can see it up there. But now I realize, no, no, that was always going to be a part of the photograph.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1737.645

I think in those situations, their subconscious figures out how to get them out of it. If they themselves can't, you end up having an affair. Something materializes. Your subconscious saves you somehow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1752.173

Well, thank God it wasn't post-marriage and kids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1757.136

And did he find an outdoorsy gal?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1760.258

Okay. Fair enough.

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Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1765.38

Here's a question in your analysis. Looking back, what was it that you think he represented that you had decided? Oh, I'm supposed to be with someone like this. Like, what story did you have? Why was he the person you were supposed to be with at that time?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1811.519

Do you think it's possible that when someone has great dreams and aspirations, but they have some fear preventing them, pursuing them, and then they meet someone who's already so clearly on a trajectory that just folding into that feels like a great way to not have to confront those fears?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1847.042

Well, good. And you got a really beautiful photo out of it. I mean, there's no arguing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1855.104

Could be on National Geographic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1858.157

I'm glad no one died on this hike, a nighttime hike.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1872.543

Well, Jessica, yeah, lovely meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1899.722

I'm getting my phone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1902.206

Who is Cole again?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1906.344

Oh, beautifully. Cole, you're our second Cole today and we don't generally have Coles. Really? Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

1916.909

Where are you at in the country?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

197.834

What brought you to Montana?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

199.674

You're a strong man. You've got broad shoulders. Are you doing something physical?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2069.386

Yeah, you're either going to be a failure or not based on this arbitrary goal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

208.9

Are you lifting incredibly heavy test tubes all day?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

21.046

It was hard. Okay. The prompt was bad proposals. Proposals gone wrong.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

216.526

Cole, hit us with this bad proposal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2224.52

And does it cross your mind? I don't care what they steal, but don't steal this ring.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2258.083

It says a lot of things to me. It means, okay, there's a human here. They want me to know my suffering is going to be over soon. I wouldn't think he's going to kill me. I would think he's letting me know we're going to be in and out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2396.007

Oh, mama mia. It's not a graze because it definitely entered, but you can see it entered and exited.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2406.018

Boy, thank God it was aimed just that inch to the right because it didn't get any intestine or anything. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

25.352

But oh my Lord. I mean, this is like tied with that crazy bear attack or shark attack. This goes some places.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2500.825

But still. This one last thing, sir, before we get you to some medical treatment. We just got to embarrass the fuck out of you for a minute.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2550.507

Oh, I bet she thought it was so sweet though. She's already worried about you. And then you look at her and you say, I was there to get a ring.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2579.5

Who all got hit? You, the one robber who was on top of you died.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

260.741

I love it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2635.167

Are you resentful at the jeweler for escalating it to a gun battle? I hate to be judgmental of anyone when I wasn't in that situation, but I feel like they could have maybe just gotten out with all the jewelry and no one would have been in the emergency room.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2685.992

Well, unfortunately, the fact that the jeweler had the gun is kind of what led to all the shooting. I can't imagine those guys were trying to get murder on top of robbery for no reason.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2742.969

That feels like a minimal gesture when their employee came on fire.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2748.255

Oh, that cheese soup they make is delicious. That Marie Callender's isn't even there anymore.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2763.591

Okay, good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2765.513

Just meeting you, you don't deserve to go through this. Like this should happen to me because I'm always sticking my nose into things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

279.431

Well, you're a bright man. You're a chemical engineer. I think keistering it during the move would have been preferred to that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2812.684

You're the first person we've talked to who's been shot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2859.174

Very hard to beat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2862.655

Yeah, we're delighted that you listen. Thanks for indoctrinating your husband to us. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2875.608

Jordan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2888.141

It certainly did. Almost every kind of story was within proposal. You don't know what you're going to get. You don't know. It makes me think you could throw out any prompt like, tell us a story about Tupperware. And then it would be like a skydiving disaster story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2905.659

Okay. Okay. Similar to all these stories. It's funny how us guys, we go get a ring and then we're going to try to plan some time. So you have this thing for a while. And I had the great luxury of having Nicole in my life. So I took Nicole to the ring store and I said, I want to say first, which one, but I want to then know what one do you think she'll like?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

2923.815

And she said, there's two I think she would love. And I said, okay, great, don't say. And then I said, I like that one. And she got really excited. And she said, that was my favorite of the two.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Bad Proposals

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So that was lovely. I get the ring. I've told the story. I was about to get my credit card. What is this weird feeling? I have a very familiar feeling. It's a weird feeling, specific, specific. Oh, it's the moment you tell the tattoo artist after you look at the transfer. Yes, I'll take it. And you go, okay, this is for life. Cut to, it's in my pocket of one of my jackets in my closet.

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And my plan was to go to this restaurant we had gone to early on. The first place I said, I love you.

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Stanley's. It was her restaurant. And so I was going to say, let's go to Stanley's, which would have already been suspicious, but maybe it'll have been a gesture. So that was going to happen, I guess I had thought, sometime in January. And it was Christmas Eve and my mom had flown in and we had both just got back from Michigan and we had this really, really wonderful Christmas Eve.

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And then we were laying in bed and I thought, oh, I'm going to try to recreate all this lovely feeling I'm having right now at this restaurant in three weeks instead of just taking this moment that I feel like it should be. I was naked. I walked to the closet. I got the ring out of my jacket. She's like, why is he going to the closet?

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Then I came back to the bed and I kneeled down on one knee naked. And then she started hysterically crying. And I asked and she said yes, but she had cried so loud and long that the next morning getting coffee when I saw my mom in the kitchen, she said, oh, sweetie, what happened? Did you guys have a terrible fight? I heard Kristen crying last night. I was like, oh, it was Christmas morning.

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She thinks we got into a real dust-up last night.

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All right, love you guys.

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Right, right.

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It just gets more and more intense.

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And then the last one is a nail biter. Wow. Wow. This is a banger.

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Oh, is that what it is? Yeah.

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Now I'm smarter than you. I'm wise to it.

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At any point, do you think the Lord is telling you just not get married to this woman?

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Okay, great. Yeah. Happy Valentine's Day. May your heart be full of love and merriment. And in his name we pray. He has risen.

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Cole, do you recognize you're an interesting mix of brilliant as hell and dumb as fuck? I would say that's spot on.

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Okay, that works. More of a PG version, but yeah.

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Oh, that's not going to help.

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This is miserable.

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She must be thinking there's a lot of red flags.

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I'll try not to. Yeah. I mostly think of my mom always would ask me to be her Valentine.

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Yeah, and so I'll ask the girls to be my Valentine.

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Oh, well, thank them for us. All right. Great meeting you. Nice to meet you guys. Thanks.

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Is this Olivia? Yes.

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Cherry to the max.

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Oh, so that would go perfectly into your fruit aesthetic.

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And they'll still like it.

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Get out of there. I don't care what audition you have. Are you in California?

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He's doing voice work up there. That's interesting.

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Okay. So you have a bad proposal story.

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Yeah. Did your dad ever ask you to be his Valentine? Of course not. Yeah. Did you guys do Valentine's Day?

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Yeah.

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Can you tell us what the Trail of Terror is?

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It's like a haunted trail.

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Would she get you a box of chocolate?

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My mom would get us a box of chocolates.

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Oh, no.

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But I'm not going to get my kids anything because they're already spoiled. They already have too much chocolate.

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Yeah, great question.

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Well, I'm also wondering if she's just hammered. Is she just an old drunk? Does she get shit face and come up with these crazy ideas and she's got to get over to your property? And it could be a lot of things. It's the guns that really turn into something that needs to be taken seriously.

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You know what we need societally? We need some rung between jail and total freedom. You're not rounding them up and throwing them in a like mental institution, but there's gotta be like a state run kind of retirement home we could put you in. Some option that's not incarcerating them, but also this gal probably needs some supervision.

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You're Yosemite Sam on your yard popping off pistols.

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Oh, wow. And you still live next to her. So there's more to come.

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I hope you'll write us if there's any update in this story because I have a bad hunch.

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I mean, you're still right next to each other.

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Oh, boy. I'm sorry. Last thing you think you're going to be living in fear of is an old, old lady.

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Well, Katie, I wish you a ton of luck with Miss Grendel. Glendal. Glenda. Miss Glenda. Miss Grundle.

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Oh, we miss Lee.

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It caught her.

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Oh, good job. Take more people on car rides.

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Right, yes.

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This is the one I am most excited to indulge myself with.

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Well, there's so many good ones on the list.

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Nice to meet you. Is it Maya?

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It's Mia. I threw that out there as an other option.

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It sounds like someone's using an electric toothbrush behind you.

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Welcome to our world. Every time we start to record, it's like, oh, they're going to mow the grass right now.

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No, no, we'll party. People are used to hearing a bunch of shit. Okay, where are you at, Mia?

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Well, there's so many good ones on the list.

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Oh, this scales a party. Okay.

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I just have to say there's something crazier about that than even fucking.

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Oh, wow. He's eating her out from behind. Can I ask one question about the neighbor? What age would you say she was?

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I love Audible. I swear by Audible. I can't wait to listen to the Orwell 1984 off this list. I'm also doing Fleas by autobiography right now, which I'm obsessed with. I can't get enough Audible in my life every night. Go to audible.com slash DAX and discover all the year's best waiting for you. That's audible.com slash DAX.

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Okay. Not 60. No. I feel like that would be really relevant. Okay.

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A little privacy.

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Oh, wow. Yeah. They're kinky. You think this is a kink?

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Well, pretty high if you get eaten out in the lobby. Yeah, pretty high someone's going to see.

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Right.

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I don't feel like these people ever get paired with the right people. Like I would have been the dream neighbor for her. I would have been very encouraging of this behavior. I would have thought it was spectacular. You never get the neighbor you want.

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They don't. They want me to be shocked and horrified.

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So did it ever escalate beyond the getting eaten out in the foyer of the building?

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I'm going to go out on a limb and say she might have also had a little bit of a drinking problem herself. She might have. Yeah.

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Well, true.

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Yeah.

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Okay, wow. What are the odds? Mia, that was incredible. I'm sorry you witnessed that. And I'm also jealous that you witnessed that.

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Oh, wonderful.

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Yes. Oh, my God. Oh, no. He's so cute. Do you have the roundest cheeks, Crosby? Hi, little buddy.

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Oh, my goodness. Hi. Congratulations.

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Yeah. Very San Diego.

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Could be on the cover of like American, that's too outdated, American Eagle. Abercrombie? Yeah, Abercrombie family.

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Yeah, Ralph Lauren.

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All right, well, nice meeting all of you. Congratulations. Take care.

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He was so cute. Chew on the cheeks a little bit. Chomp, chomp, chomp, chomp, chomp. I like to chomp on cheeks. Do any chomping on Delta's cheeks when you had the chance?

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Chomp, chomp, chomp. Hello? Can you hear us?

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Can you hear me? Yes, we got you. Is it Eric? It is, yes. Okay, wonderful. I'm loving the room you're in. It's throwing me back to my uncle's rec room in the basement of the house. Very wood. I love it.

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And is this the home in which you had a crazy neighbor or does it predate this house?

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Oh, okay.

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We'll see.

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Oh, my God. Like maybe she had gifted that to the previous owner. Exactly.

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That's very weird.

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Katie, where are you?

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Oh, wonderful. Home of Mr. Clinton, yeah?

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Anonymous. Today is crazy neighbor stories.

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Of course. Are you in Little Rock?

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Oh, okay. So that's a beautiful part of the country.

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What kind of fucking psycho are you? Were you able to identify the carcass immediately? Or did you know what kind of animal?

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Okay.

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Ozark's a party, right? I need to get out there on a boat at some point.

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Yeah. Did you grease this kid 10 bucks or anything?

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Little Rock.

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She enlisted him in her plan.

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Well, and minimally you go, hey, this is escalating. So they were shouting from the fence. Now we've got carrying attached to the bumper. What's next? Exactly.

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Do you think they called her and said, hey, take your foot off the gas on your neighbor? We're aware of what's going. Why do you think it stopped and she didn't continue to escalate?

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You're absolutely right. Okay, so you have a crazy neighbor story.

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Yeah, they didn't want to take it with them. I wish I could talk to her because my big curiosity now after hearing the whole story is, were they slashing prices on a broom, dustpan, frisbee combo? And she's like, I'm going to pick up five of these and I'll give them out. Right. Or is every time someone moves and she's like, oh, I know the perfect thing to get. And then she goes and gets a new one.

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You do?

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When you move out, that would have been great if you left it next to the other one. I did.

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It's kind of like a horror movie.

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I'm always encouraged when women turn out to be shitty as well, like men are, because we're just so universally shitty. It's nice when women are shitty. And I'm delighted that we have a couple of stories now where the perpetrator is a crazy lady. And then this wearing the nightwear out, that's a guaranteed part of the pattern, right? Same with our last person who dealt with a crazy gal.

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Well, Eric, great meeting you. What a bizarre and interesting story.

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I hope you guys take a million more road trips.

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Yeah. This is the gal from Texas who's very hospitable.

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From Texas.

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Where in Texas?

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Moved on to heaven.

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Yeah, what was it that Randy had done that made you want to turn homicidal? Great question.

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Sure, sure, sure.

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Yeah. I think the rate of alcoholism in all law enforcement is really tragically high. It's a rough job.

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Well, it's delightful meeting both of you.

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Oh, I loved it. He sucked us into his rhythm.

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All right. Be well. Much love.

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We're going to call you Sarah.

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Where do you live?

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Nice. Are we cold?

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And what time is it getting dark?

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Oh.

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You would not do that.

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Monica wouldn't survive.

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So you have a crazy neighbor story.

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You're with your friends, Monica and Dax and Wabi Wab.

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And of course we do. Of course we do.

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Can I ask really quick how many people live in Ottawa? How populated is the town you're in in this story?

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I'll just throw a party in your living room, right?

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Oh, oh, oh.

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Wow, he let that slip out.

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And

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Sure, as an ambassador of the family.

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When you're listening to people talk about their crazy neighbor, you realize how stuck you are.

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Not even thinking about it had taken many steps.

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3303.229

You're in a position where you're trying to assess who is just a little nuts, but not actually violent.

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Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3309.755

I was going to blow up the building.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3323.226

Oh, wow. Well, Sarah, I'm glad you got out unscathed. That's a very stressful and long time of being stressed.

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Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3337.438

I hope you move to like 12 acres and you're just in the center of it with a huge buffer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

334.071

Okay, that's interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3347.224

Well, lovely meeting you. Sorry you went through that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3358.347

Did you like it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3361.308

If I can create a crow of its quality, then it'll end up on a sherp. That's a hill I've got to climb still, the Crow Hill. All right, well, be well and great meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3370.692

All right, take care. This brought back a memory because, you know, I lived in the same apartment for 10 years. So I saw a lot of people come and go. And I had a dude that lived below me and across the hall. He had just gotten out of prison. He was originally from Hawaii. And this is the gentleman that I smoked crack with.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3389.569

one night well we got in a fight then we smoke crack and for the next six months that he lived there before i believe he went back to prison i would be in bed and there'd be a knock at my door at like three in the morning and i would look out and he would be in the stair landing smoking crack and knocking on my door and i would look through the peephole and he'd say i see you peeping

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3411.765

And I'm like, oh, jeez, man. I just fucking got out of here. And he'd be up there for 30 minutes banging on my door, smoking crack. That was a rough six months.

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Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3424.03

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3426.451

There's a weird detail, but he had given me his rice cooker when we were...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3431.493

That long TV. And then at one point he was at the door and he wanted his rice cooker back. And I'm like, I do want to give him his rice cooker back. But I also don't want to interact with him because he's smoking crack in the hallway.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3443.569

I put the rice cooker on his doorstep the next day. That's what I was going to say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3448.975

Oh, God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3453.278

All right. Well, I love you. Love you. You just had a neighbor interact with the cops.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

346.397

Yeah, yeah. I have them stacked up here, but I'm going to wait to reveal it. Okay. Because you tell me to.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3479.973

Yeah, yeah. What about when you walked out of your old apartment and Sean Penn was in the driveway?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3486.057

That makes up for all the other stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3495.023

Oh, so you saw Zac Efron as well?

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Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3504.369

Oh, but it was worth it. It was worth it. So exciting. That's funny to be living in like an entry-level apartment and walk outside and Sean Penn's hanging in the driveway.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3514.854

I'm in Hollywood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3516.555

We had that with Dennis Rodman when we moved to Costa Mesa. Oh, really? He was dating one of the girls in the apartment complex.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3522.997

Yeah. And you'd see him? Occasionally, yeah. Hard to miss, Dennis Rodman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3528.42

They come true every second. All right. Love you.

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Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

3561.257

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

40.128

They're inches from you in some cases. If you're in an apartment, you're like, oh, my God. Literally two feet across my door is someone I love. Don't ever want to be around again for the rest of my life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

411.716

Yes, I've got a photo of your open floor plan living room with a dinette. Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

430.326

And were the cops able to see that when they arrived?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

486.6

Miss Glenda is dancing around with a gun. What? That'd be a great title for a short story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

519.673

It's like a mix of a comedy routine and scary.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

54.801

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

547.565

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

550.669

Yeah. If I'm the law enforcement, I'm like, I can't really put these three new pieces of evidence into one cohesive thought. They seem very unrelated.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

574.367

That was kind of you. I would have objected.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

58.462

Yeah, a lot of these things blur with stalking.

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Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

62.444

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

625.711

She also has a pistol. So she's got a rifle and a pistol. She's very well armed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

648.433

That's it. Just a reminder. Hey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

660.584

Yeah, did he ever return? Whatever happened to him?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

664.068

Okay, maybe there was no husband.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

672.154

Yeah, it's just men don't get them generally. It's more of a female thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

766.519

I'm now allowing myself to look at all the photos. I assume this is from the incident.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

770.562

And so for the listener, Katie has done a perfect job describing her. She does look like a character out of a Wes Anderson movie or something. There's one where she's got her wrists bent. Like she's almost a little over it. Okay. So she starts ringing the bell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

84.527

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

856.5

Oh, she's code switched.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

922.293

Yeah. The description I left out is it looks like there's a zombie circling your house. That's actually what it looks like. Like there's an undead trying to come in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

930.157

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

958.57

A very arbitrary system we have here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

968.195

You can't prove she shot through the window, even though we know she shot through the window.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Crazy Neighbors

990.551

It's time to escalate.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1072.76

Sure, one of these jerks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1083.746

Me too. I'm so proud of you. Way to handle your business. If I'm your father, I go, good for you. When the dirty work needs doing, you roll up your sleeves and you get it done.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1095.632

I want to see it so bad. Don't you, Monica?

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1100.242

Here's the disgusting part about me. If I did that same thing, I would want to see it again maybe a couple weeks later. I would be like, I'm going to go look. Because you might build it up in your head like a fish you caught.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1110.83

It wasn't really as big as I'm remembering it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1115.313

I got you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1123.739

It's a trophy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1133.803

Yeah, that's a good start. Did the hydrocodone thing ever pop up again? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1146.208

You've done a lot of things right. Ever get back on the motorcycle?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1150.89

Don't shame me. I feel that subtweet there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1173.766

Well, Ashley, this has been a blast. Yeah. Thanks for chatting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1181.67

We like new listeners.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1204.744

Oh, man, that's really lovely. Well, lovely meeting you. Thanks for sharing all that with us. All right. Have a good one. Bye.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1213.833

Hi, Noah. How are you? Hi, how are you guys doing? Good. I'm so intrigued by all the different posters on your wall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1232.043

That's twice today. We had a Franklin Village person.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1254.227

Okay, so what did you do that you haven't told your parents about?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1272.583

Okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1380.81

He rested midway up the stairs, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

139.574

Hi, Brie.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1400.058

Really quick. What could feel worse than getting sympathy that you don't deserve? It really puts you into the headspace of these people with moon childism because I feel so guilty. I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

141.495

Why do you have such a stylish microphone?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1448.433

You believe your own story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1471.405

Oh my God, call 911. Oh boy. This is like the girl who staged the slip and fall at Kmart.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1483.008

Sure, sure, sure. Let's not get hung up on that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1491.581

I'm in this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1493.942

Yeah, you're past the point of no return.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

150.321

The history of animation or history, and then also we do animation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1503.847

Well, you're playing non-responsive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1536.016

Well, hold on. She kind of deserves this. When you put this much stress on your kids to get Bs, look what lengths they'll go to. That's how strong the stress is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

159.307

Oh, what did I just hear? I just heard an interesting factoid about Walt as you do. Where was he born?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

166.61

Guess that wasn't the thing that I heard.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1677.239

The famous heart attack.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

170.671

But she fucking nailed it. Did you see that? Probably even knows his birthday. When was his birthday?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1710.932

Oh, my Lord. Did she not? She never put two and two together.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1717.815

She deserves it, too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1723.657

Wow, that's a great story. You just won, won, won.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1728.419

No, of course not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1732.821

He knows he's a rascal. It's that rascal smile.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1739.785

Wilco would be upset.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1742.227

Yeah, that's not the kind of thing they condone. David Lynch wouldn't be very proud. He might be. He was a rascal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1756.558

I like that he had to unburden himself while stoned like Rolf Skolnikov. I have to get this off my chest. Well, no, that was great. I'm happy that you did all that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

176.673

Wow. This is very timely. I'm taking my daughter to Disneyland on Friday.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1767.554

Our pleasure. Great meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1775.865

Of course.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1781.793

Hi, Elise.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1786.417

Nice to meet you. Where are you from?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1790.0

Okay, a Garden State and a South Carolinian.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1798.027

He's like, he's a winner.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1801.97

Like he's a liar, but he's a charming liar. That's right. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1811.036

You're up. Well, nice meeting you guys. Yes. All right. Take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1819.684

That could happen to me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1821.505

I could see myself going for it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1829.668

No, I do. I wouldn't want any of that. I'd want to get out of the thing I had to get out of. And then that would be the consequence of it is that I'd have to receive all this sympathy for something I didn't deserve.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1843.394

My goal there is for them to go like, he's so stoic. Look how much he bled. I want admiration. Try to be very honest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1855.241

And that's my whole move is I don't tell her I was bleeding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

186.018

Do you live in California?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1861.205

Yes. I wanted it to be seen. And then I wanted to hear that they admired my stoicism in the face of being injured. I don't want sympathy. But you can understand that, right? Like her arm broke in half and she didn't even flinch. She just calmly went to the hospital.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1884.686

We find you amid many pillows.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1889.612

It's good. I like it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1894.276

Are you at an Airbnb?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1901.523

How do you like Phoenix coming from Vancouver? That couldn't be a more opposite environment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

191.241

Oh, Jesus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1939.927

You're scaring people. I guarantee he'd be first in line to have your cuisine. So you're making different dishes and a lot of them have weed in it. As the meal progresses, you're getting a little stoned and then more hungry. So by the time dessert hits, you're like, fucking bring this shit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

194.984

She knows.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

198.533

Okay, this is an interesting prompt. I don't know that I even understand it, which is exciting, but this is haven't confessed to parents.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1980.327

Wow, what a neat niche you've found yourself in.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

1985.291

What's your signature dish? What's the one you're most proud of that people rave about?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2007.99

You got no beef with the citizens, I hope everyone knows.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2013.373

We love Canada.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2024.478

You're dead right. It does over-index, given the fact that there's less in Canada than California. It's pretty wild.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2031.461

Okay, so you've got a story to confess there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2065.028

They took away trick-or-treating. That's harsh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

209.981

Oh my gosh. And is there any threat of your parents listening?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

21.604

Haven't confessed to parents.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2145.027

Oh, what a great plan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

217.406

It's a way for people to believe themselves. Okay, where are you originally from?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2180.032

Oh, oh my God. Oh my God. Yes. God bless your parents. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. There's so much here already.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2188.095

The notion that it was a good idea for you to put a firework in the toilet inside your house. This is like, if you got a 13 year old boy at home, anything's on the table.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2197.22

Like I can see that making sense to me, but why would that make? And then another thing, shame on your, you should have known where the fucking shutoff valve was. You got to teach your kids.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2206.724

There's a fucking nozzle behind the toilet and you crank it to the right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2211.95

Well, they should, though, because you get in these situations where flooding can occur. Then the real damage starts.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2232.172

You just threw your hands in the air. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

225.842

All right, hit us with the Bakersfield story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2287.099

Sounds like it. He's got a buddy sleeping over. He was allowed to trick or treat. By the way, I can't even believe they're asking. It's so obviously you. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2321.742

Now, let me ask you this. If he hadn't broke the computer monitor, do you think you would have confessed?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2354.233

Oh, yes. This is really for Blair. Happy birthday, Blair. I'm so sorry that Travis... perpetrated all this on you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2379.878

Well, Travis, thank you for that. That was great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

24.326

Some parents will be hearing this story, I guess, for the very first time. It's an interesting way to get something out there. I like that we're providing a safe place to admit to your foibles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2423.597

Travis, thank you. I'm so delighted.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2427.598

Yeah. Take care, brother. Nice meeting you. Thanks, guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2437.321

The only one of these that I would think the parent actually didn't know would be Noah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2444.506

Oh, the shit. I guess they don't think it's her. You're right. But they won't care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2450.23

But the heart attack, the mom's still going to go, that could have bankrupted us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2456.835

Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

2486.291

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

299.079

Had you gotten drunk at this party?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

301.441

Yeah. Okay. So different person returning than had left. Very competent Tom Cruise person made their escape. And now Mr. Bean's returning.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

339.875

The dingle didn't work? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

362.201

Of course. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

366.182

That removed a screen from the window?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

373.684

That would have been a big red flag.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

376.886

Yeah, when your kids suggest like, I bet it was a squirrel, you're like, okay, so you did it. That's fine. Let's talk about that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

38.157

Yeah. I hope everyone felt lighter after this. Some are probably scared. Yeah, of course. There's a couple of winners in here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

432.878

Oh, squirrel adjacent theory.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

446.503

Closed the window behind themselves, but then didn't replace the screen.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

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We get a real rascal.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

452.085

Oh, yeah.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

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Oh. I wonder if he knew.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

48.099

Yeah, we deal with a real rascal on this one. This was super fun, and I can't see any reason why we wouldn't permit people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

495.891

I'm leaning towards that. What?

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

500.769

Well, maybe they just don't want to talk about it at all. Kind of like if you think your wife fucked somebody and you're like, I actually don't ever want to talk about it. I'm just not going to bring it up. And I might have been suspicious for months. But then once I think it happened, like, I actually don't ever want to talk about that. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

516.71

Okay, there's that.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

519.212

Or they're just like, it'll be more of a punishment for her that she has to continue this preposterous lie. Maybe they're amused by you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

533.662

Okay, this is confusing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

568.376

How did they get in originally? Just the front door was unlocked during the day while you guys were home?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

57.688

Maybe if you have parents, you shouldn't listen. So everyone without parents, go for it. Yeah, feel free. All right, enjoy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

581.007

Yeah, like I could see, I wouldn't buy that story for a hot minute, but I might also not even deal with it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

587.432

Nope. Well, Brie, I'm excited to hear what the reaction is if it does get to them now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

592.676

Your dad's been peddling this story. What if his only resentment is like, damn, that's one of my best stories. I just told it last week at the bar.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

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He has a lawsuit against him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

612.303

It seems like you're not a troublemaker anymore. You seem like you're really sorted.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

618.709

Where I'm from, Milford's a little bit Bakersfield-y. I know about just having to get into some shit because there's nothing else to do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

628.243

All right. Well, lovely meeting you, Brie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

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Now I'll wave if I see you in the neighborhood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

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All right. Take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

649.81

Mr. Bean.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

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But picture him coming in the house.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

656.232

He wears a suit a lot.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

657.532

You want to hear something even more random?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

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So Rowan Atkinson plays Mr. Bean. Two funny things. He does a perfect Martin Brundle impersonation. And when he was interviewed on the Formula One grid by Martin Brundle, he's doing Martin Brundle to him. And Martin doesn't realize it, but it is identical. So it's just two Martin Brundles speaking.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

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He's the big commentator on F1. He has such a distinct delivery. And Rowan is just doing him to him. And he doesn't realize it. It's one of the funniest clips I've ever seen. Secondly, he bought a McLaren F1 for $750,000, the road car. He crashed it two or three times, and he sold it for $12 million. No.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

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Yes, even with the crashes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

700.914

Yeah, Rowan's in a rat race.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

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Yeah. Yeah.

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Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

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Also, you look like you are a star of Dallas. You've never seen that show because you're too young.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

795.851

Did you watch the Netflix show about it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

805.56

How exciting. The newer Netflix one, they do show that other show quite often.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

815.189

Double dipped on these reality shows. And who loves Bavarian Motorworks in your household?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

821.015

There we go.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

824.837

In what capacity?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

855.817

First of all, so sorry to hear that. You look very young to have lost a husband.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

861.381

Secondly, is it get the service situation working correctly? Is that the first step?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

868.627

Okay, Ashley, you have a story. Does it take place in Dallas?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

879.035

Oh my gosh, I was staying at the Embassy Suites.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

890.004

Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

900.932

Street bike or dirt bike?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

906.156

Oh, my gosh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

917.526

Sure. You're on opiates. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

988.785

Okay. Okay, great. Now it fit in a solo cup.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Haven’t Confessed to Parents

992.849

Oh, okay. Wow. Okay, great. Yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dan Shepard and I'm joined by Mrs. Monica.

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This is now like a sexual fantasy. Like this changed from an exam to like you're the hot doctor who's got her lab coat open.

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111.946

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1213.621

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1233.806

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My conundrum if I were you is like, do I get back in my clothes right now while she's out getting this gown and then she'll give me the gown and get back on my clothes or just stay in this coat that's not mine?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

1305.831

A lot of my patients wear my clothes. That's what I was hoping for.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

1327.547

And a stethoscope in the pocket.

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133.081

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Did you keep her as a gyno?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

1379.659

A, I love this story, but also this wouldn't make Dax's top 2000. I mean, you really didn't do anything wrong. There was no gown and you took the next best thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

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Okay, good, you just disproved my thing, because I gotta say, there are some prescriptions I've been on in my life where I'm like, guys, what are we doing? We know this is a lifetime prescription. Why on earth do I need, I'll give you an example. Like, I used to be on Propecia, which blocks testosterone from making your hair fall out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

1440.72

Well, I'm not going to decide I want my hair to fall out at any point. I don't understand why I got to go see someone every year when we know I'm going to be on this thing forever. Side note, I'm not on it anymore. But there's some that I'm just like, why do we have to do this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

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Every couple years sounds doable.

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But again, yeah, birth control, for me, it's like, yeah, you're going to be on it until you want to get pregnant. What are we talking about? Now, you should get exams, but the prescription part, to me, is a side issue. Right. Okay, well, I've bared my grievance about that.

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1483.625

I think you should have been able to keep your birth control going from college indefinitely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

1493.051

Well, it's great meeting you.

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Yes, great to have all three of you.

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Take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Adam.

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Shout out Carly for getting those out in time. That's great. Okay. So you embarrass yourself. I'm not surprised. It's hard to make it through life without doing that.

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Okay.

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1579.445

Can I ask where were you in the country? Yeah, it's in Orlando, Florida. Oh, okay, great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Yeah.

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Whoa.

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But really quick, when they did that, did you feel any relief? Like, oh, my God, I have full lungs again.

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What is causing this? It sounds like you have some kind of perforation and some kind of lining or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

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So the penis, Monica, it protrudes from the front of the body.

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Sure. Oh, I thought the heart rate spike was a result of the climax. Right. But just as you were nearing it, you were really.

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Yeah.

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Nowadays, it just might.

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1952.848

Oh, my God. So you're pooping in a bucket. These gals are hanging with you. They're young and beautiful. And then you get caught doing that. Well, what a trip to the hospital. So what was the ultimate solution for this lung condition?

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Sabrina?

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Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

199.832

Nice to meet you. Okay, quick question. You have the hanging shoe rack device that I also have on my closet door, but I can no longer shut my closet door. Do you have the same issue?

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Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2015.126

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And it functions.

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And highly functional.

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Where are you at?

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2179.005

Just Kleenex. And then wrap a bunch of clean Kleenex over that.

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2197.071

Wow, Monica, what a great question. I, too, wouldn't have expected that from you. Well. Yeah, that does sound more like one of the. Curious. But I just didn't even want to think about that because then it goes right into the shame of being a boy and I'm like, hide that.

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Hi. Today is embarrassingly caught. People caught doing embarrassing stuff.

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So you were caught doing something embarrassing, which is just delightful for us and probably terrible for you.

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Don't you dare say that, Adam.

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2263.612

Thank you so much.

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2287.297

That worked out so perfectly.

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Is it comfortable? Do you like it? It's got a nice weight to it.

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Well, can I tell you, they were gone in, I think, 14 minutes. So you must have been like right when it opened up.

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Yeah. So he's ADHD and you're OCD.

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2325.628

Oh, good, good, good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

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Right.

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Sam.

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i have very mixed emotion about these limited release sweatshirts which is like i'm so happy for the people that get them and i'm also so sorry for the amount of stress we cost people i really don't know what to do about it but it looks gorgeous i'm so glad you got one let's just focus on the fact that you're a winner and you got it monica i just finished or both of you guys but i just finished the episode with phoebe oh when i heard that he was gonna be on i'm like

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This is a big week in the household. You got the sweatshirt and you're on Armchair Anonymous.

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2407.756

Yeah, horribly.

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You guys are a party. We love you. Thank you so much for calling in. That's a great story. Have a good one, guys. Take care. I mean, come on with these armcherries.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

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Me too.

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I remember that being really, really fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

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Oh, good.

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Oh, wonderful. So she's there. We'll meet her at the end.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2473.179

OK, perfect. What's her fake name?

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Okay, wonderful. Axel Rose. Alex and Rose. Just change one letter.

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Oh, interesting.

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Yeah, how do we feel about him?

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Drinking in a field. Yeah.

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Oh, you initiate this. This is great.

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Can I quickly ask how old the older friend is? Because there's a zone where it's fine and then there's a zone where I'm concerned. How much older?

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This is not a 35-year-old.

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2577.145

Okay.

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Great. You're experimenting and trying things.

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Oh, God bless. Do them all.

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Yeah, sure. Check them all off the list. Can't think of a better place than someone else's backseat.

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That's a good trade.

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But you're distracted.

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Oh, my goodness. And he's in your butt.

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Sure.

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I don't know. I want to know what position we're finding everyone in.

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Yeah, yeah. Compromised position.

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They want to eat your food. I mean, a lot of people would be asked not to cook.

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It stays on for a minute.

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What happened? Did someone drove their car into the back of the Range Rover?

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God bless. What a good spirit. Yeah.

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Well, let's get your sister in here. Give her one of your pods so we can meet her. Hi, what's your fake name? You're Rose. Actually, we assigned you a name and you didn't even know it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2877.501

Are you younger or older sister?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2899.329

Well, you need to rack up some embarrassing stories so we can call back and talk to you about something embarrassing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2907.491

Yeah, a pleasure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2911.152

Take care, guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2913.12

Can I tell you my favorite part of that story?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2915.141

She did not have to tell us about the butt stuff. I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2918.084

I was glad. That makes me feel like she knows the name of the game here on the show. It's like we get the whole thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2925.609

Big time. First time doing that and then you get plowed into by the bat. I love that she liked it. Yeah, yeah. She wanted to get back at it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2934.694

It's a life affirming story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2940.959

Embarrassment is endearing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2944.742

That's your number one. Was this a hard episode for you? Because that's your Achilles embarrassment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2950.946

You want to remind everyone about when you walked into the glass?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2961.394

Was there a door next to the glass and you just thought you could cruise through and you didn't see the glass? Oh, my God. What's great is there's a very seminal moment in your life. And I can just vaguely remember. All I remember is that you were upset. Wasn't Murvac around for this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2977.761

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2993.108

Oh, no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

2995.911

Oh, we love you if you crash into a million glass walls.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

3036.701

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

31.928

And the last one's hot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

310.627

What did you think you were showing him? Your coupon?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

318.911

You started hearing what he was seeing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

341.688

You hold it up to a young man at the register?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

35.011

Yeah. That's right. So a mix of embarrassing and hot.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

351.197

For sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

38.794

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

402.991

He chose and you chose. We're not going to address this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

418.117

That's a blessing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

444.847

Yeah, he could definitely end up responding to a prompt that was tell us about something insane that happened at work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

451.671

Well, but here's here's how delusional and eager I am as a young man. I would have thought like, OK, I see you're trying to let me know you are ready to party.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

463.197

Listen, we run another deal on Tuesdays, which is I get off at six.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

469.14

Ten minutes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

477.625

Okay, now I have a follow-up question, and it's very invasive, so you can definitely choose not to answer it. But my curiosity is, you were watching it on your phone at some point.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

486.33

Is that something you did at work?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

491.072

Oh, sure, sure, sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

501.257

Cautionary tale and a sponsor. Let's tell them about.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

510.507

Yeah, that was a gift. When you're a teenager and an attractive woman shows you her pornography, there's not much more you can ask for. Especially at a boring shift. There was no one in there. He's not even busy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

522.499

It's a win across the board.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

524.639

Well, Sabrina, it's lovely meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

536.003

Well, thank you. We're delighted you're listening to all of them. It's very flattering. And please keep at it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

544.81

Yeah, I'd be so happy if that had happened to me at work as a teen. I'm trying to think if I did any forward-facing. I didn't. I worked for my dad swindling people out of money for Hugs Not Drugs, and then I worked for my mom all through high school.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

559.153

As an adult. I would love it if at my host stand that had happened, for sure. But I think I liked it more in high school. Right. And that's a very exciting ordeal in high school.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

571.687

I had my job working for GM.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

573.729

That's a good question. We dealt with all these journalists. Every single automotive journalist in the country we would work with pretty regularly. Some of them I had really great relationships with and they were really, really fun. But we had a woman in particular who was clearly a drug addict. And we were constantly dropping off and picking up cars from her house. And...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

58.522

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

593.937

Yeah, it was pretty strange. You never really knew what was going to happen. Because you'd go up to their door, get the keys, and then take the thing away, maybe drop something off. And yeah, she would be in crazy outfits. Sometimes the car would be parked half in the yard. There'd be weird things in the car. And it was a little bit of a roulette.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

610.449

You always wondered what was going to be happening when you went and picked up this car. And you also wondered, when is she going to total one of these cars?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

618.155

You had a couple customer service-y jobs in high school, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

629.097

Well, law firm seems fertile for some shit. Was she a litigator?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

634.958

Okay, not like criminal defense. Because if you worked in an office that's specializing in criminal defense, I bet you'd have all the stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

647.25

I hope it's Dana White.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

649.696

Now we can hear you beautifully.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

654.207

Not Dana White. Different Dana. I need to see more of your shirt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

660.139

Okay, it's great. I just had to see the bottom half. I like it quite a bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

669.605

Where are you at?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

677.591

Kind of by Gary a little bit?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

686.815

Oh, wow. You could be part of that riddle. If a plane crashes in your backyard, where do you bury the survivors?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

695.478

The punchline is you don't bury survivors, but you start thinking about should it be Indiana or Illinois and you get really bogged down in that. Okay, so you have an embarrassing story, probably multiple embarrassing stories. We all have many, but one in particular you're going to share with us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

787.808

Right. Are we religious or just afraid to talk about sex?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

81.936

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

869.495

Yeah, right. You're on the opposite trajectory here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

876.099

Slash guilty, maybe like these people are dying to have a kid and I'm trying to prevent that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Embarrassingly Caught

900.312

In ideal conditions, it's still showing your vagina to a stranger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dan Shepard. I'm joined by Mon Padman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1002.219

Okay, really quick. So this has huge overlap with this doc I saw about Synanom, which was this offshoot of sobriety a guy invented in Venice. And he had this thing called the game, and it's how the group therapy worked, and you attacked each other. And then all these people wanted to be a part of that organization that weren't drug addicts. And then all these civilians joined up in the Bay Area.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1028.085

I just wonder if there's any bleed out of this. Yeah. Do you know the history of this religion?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1215.785

How many parishioners were at the church, and then how many kids were you in school with?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1315.839

And is there any visible impropriety? There's no multiple marriages happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1337.998

How many boys your age were in your school?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1355.325

And did you have a crush on any of them?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1377.163

And how much natural questioning did you have?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1409.38

For the listener, you're on stage. It's a good-sized stage. We've got a lot of huge pictures of biblical paintings behind you being put on a projector. Now that I see the stage, I'm assuming the music portion is like the attractive part of the religion. Like if you were to observe this, you'd be like, oh, yeah, they're having so much fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1444.042

Were you guys inviting non-church members to witness the music?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1553.803

When your dad told you you were all leaving, did he give an explanation as to why?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1593.327

You were clutching your pearls a lot? Exactly. Oh my gosh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1656.298

Any foreign objects? What's the term?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1659.339

Rectal foreign objects.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1663.92

Oh, Gatorade. Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1682.979

Really quick, did dad find his way to another fringy religion?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1690.706

And what about your siblings? Did they transition well into the worldly world?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

171.67

Hi, is this Taj?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1711.002

Does it diminish your confidence in your ability to evaluate reality?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1740.526

Do you like Megan Phelps Roper? Have you heard her talk at all?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1745.231

She was in Westboro Baptist, that wild Baptist church that holds the terrible signs up at funerals.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

175.331

Oh, wonderful to meet you. You're my first Taj. Is this a family name?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1756.843

Me too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1760.346

Yeah, of course. Hi, handsome husband. Oh, there's a cat in the mix.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1774.312

Yeah, I think that's what happens with one cat. They're like mogwai. All of a sudden you have five. It's like they got wet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1795.514

Yeah, it's good to get someone that really was like brainwashed and had to do a lot of stuff because then just doing normal stuff feels like nothing. That's like a hack.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1822.425

Well, it's so nice meeting both of you guys.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1825.709

All right. Take care. Hello. Is this Anna?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1831.656

Hi, Anna. Nice to meet you. I love your floral wallpaper.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1838.019

And what state are you visiting?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1851.205

That's how you met.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1858.168

This may or may not shock you, but of the three people we've spoken with, two are from Portland.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1868.054

A lot of them are. Yeah, Northern Cal we had, and then now two Portlands.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1876.119

The OG.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1878.921

The original guru.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1881.342

Oh, yeah, that too. Okay, Anna, please tell us your experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1890.415

We'll take it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

190.934

You rebranded.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1903.405

No, I've never heard this, but I like the name. It already is ominous.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1936.009

And did it have a founding charismatic leader?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

194.515

And did the people around you immediately accept it? Or did you have people that were still calling you Cassius Clay? No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

1982.366

Well, like a Franklin planner.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

203.959

Oh, that's a great place to change your name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2048.649

When you'd go to church or you'd see the service, how tied to Christianity was it? Was the Bible still being primarily used, or had he deviated so much that a lot of what you were learning had nothing to do with the Bible?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2104.132

Yeah. So what was novel about the Mormons is that the parishioners could receive revelation. That was the appealing part, as I understand it. But in this sect, they could at least receive revelations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2128.744

Well, it's like Joseph Smith's revelations that a man should have multiple wives once he was busted having sex with a young woman that lived next door. That's interesting timing of that revelation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2177.388

Great, and really quickly, on the Zapper, I'm guessing it was a pre-existing product that this was an off-label use for, or did someone invent this thing within the church?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

218.15

Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2213.989

So simple. It's crazy how these doctors thought of this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

228.656

Oh, yes, please.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

23.33

Not when you do first and last name. Mon Padman? That sounds like Monsoor Padman, which is pretty cool.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2301.741

Oh, Jesus. Okay, you could juice it up a little bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2305.462

I'm thinking of basically the lie detector device that's been rebranded within Scientology where you hold the handles and you get an e-meter. You did it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2316.676

You went to the Celebrity Center?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2320.179

I don't know the story either.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2322.921

How could we have done all this Scientology? Wait, you should be a caller.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2332.809

Yeah, but this needs immediate attention.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2341.176

It was a bit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2346.362

Reconnaissance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2361.457

They have a TV station, too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2396.397

So you were doing the zapper 20 minutes a day?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2432.449

It could be butt skin. Yeah, anally. Butts. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2451.258

Like big spoons.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2459.001

Someone knocks on the door and walks into this scene. OEM, this is an original manufacturing. This is a hybrid. To do what? To kill the parasite?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2474.084

Sure, sure. You've got it on your cheeks or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2477.385

They've been on mom's bottom cheeks. At 13, how do we get out of this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

248.445

I want to hear about yours. So someone taught you and it was taught with the intention of the life practice more than a pursuit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2497.903

Did she stay in the same town as you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2504.347

I know Atascadero very well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2513.271

Oh, you think this is on all fours?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2527.557

Yeah, how is this celibate command working out? Is there celibacy within the marriage?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2548.922

There's a lot of these. There are.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2552.803

You're not thinking when you're driving through St. Louis Abyssal, that's the home of Cal Poly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2572.742

Do we really think George and Fullerton has all the answers? And he never got busted having multiple lovers? Most of these founders.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2583.809

To be honest, why else deal with all the obligations of having cult followers if you're not having sex with them?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2591.494

What's the point of power if not sex with hot people?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2595.817

I mean, that's what power is about, really.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2607.185

Quickly to tie this bow on it, your friend's wedding. So she was a member of the church and she presumably left as well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2618.053

To Tascadero.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2621.475

A little further. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2632.144

Yeah. What a group to get together with. Well, Anna, nice meeting you. Thanks for telling us that story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2638.089

Have a great trip. Bye.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2641.8

Is this Francesca?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2645.964

You have a very cute sweater on. And do you go by something shorter than Francesca? Because I can go all the way with Francesca. But do you have like a nickname?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2661.058

Yeah, what age do you think you get to when you finally start liking all this cute stuff your parents did?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2668.564

Oh, you gotta wait that long.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2674.589

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2686.238

Do you do any breathing exercises or anything?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2690.561

Okay, where are you? Are you in Portland, Oregon?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2695.925

Oh. Okay, so you've got a cult story, Francesca. Fran, Frankie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2701.549

What if I said Frankie and she just started bawling?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2707.133

Okay, good. You just need to ask and then I'll officially say yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2722.123

They're so cute. They look like they're on either a Seals and Croft or a Art Garfunkel and Paul Simon album.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2729.886

Oh, are they in Italy in that photo?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2735.549

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2740.438

Okay, so those gorgeous young people, they found their way into something. What was it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2785.885

You'd go see Trina channel spirits.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2801.431

And this was in Texas?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

281.051

Okay, now tell me why you think that's a good overlap. Right out of the gates, I would go like presence is required.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2832.212

How many folks were in attendance normally?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2839.594

And was it held in a church or what kind of space?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2859.033

I just remember being a kid sitting in church and going like, I don't know. Were you having any battle?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2904.665

If you can't climb the ladder.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2926.106

I see. Was it Christianity linked or no? Not

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2964.709

Oh, my God. OK, this again is like the game, this kind of group participation therapy where you call out each other's character defects.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

2976.34

Yeah, that was what was happening in the game is like you want to sit down with the gun loaded to direct at someone else to get the heat off yourself. So you're like incentivized.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

30.674

Maybe it is good. Monty Padman, that sounds crazy too. These nicknames when they're in conjunction with your full name maybe don't work.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3008.439

Free bad teaching. This is what we offer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3047.45

Oh, that's the cruelest thing you can do to a kid.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3061.437

Do you know what it was that your mom was getting out of it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

309.764

Yeah, there's a spirit of harmony and collaboration. It doesn't work if someone's steamrolling. Okay, I like that. Me too. Alas, this episode, though, is about cults.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3151.963

How old was the dude?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3163.929

Oh, boy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3210.618

Yeah, what a fucking coward.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

322.429

Well, but as we've already acknowledged, they are culty.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3242.763

Oh, my goodness. What a horrific end.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3257.497

Oh, they decided to extend some compassion in the wake of that? Or did they feel guilty?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3274.67

And he was just a terrible person. What age were you when that happened?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3279.475

Oh, Jesus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3359.216

How do you exit?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3375.836

For her weekly show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3393.584

Well, 14th century doctors don't really know yet about small cell carcinoma. The irony to the spirit being invoked somehow would have some elevated something because they were a 14th century doctor. Like nobody on earth right now would be as bad of a doctor as a 14th century doctor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3415.464

Oh, God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3420.286

Even though he only dealt in bloodletting and probably leeches.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3437.171

Did you end up having a relationship with your dad?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3475.27

Francesca, you have been dealt quite a fucking hand. My Lord, the fact that you're in that cute sweater and put together. I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3505.481

Did he ultimately leave the cult? Will it be a critical look at the cult?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3523.931

I want to see Trina's show. I wish she would just do it at a black box theater so I could see it as like a one woman show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3556.871

If we're to just look at the pattern of history and acknowledge it as real, my hunch is Stephen was somehow... Pulling the strings of this whole thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3579.548

This is a terrible false equivalency, but we've talked about it on here with other improv people. A lot of comedians have certain characters. I have a couple of them that when I start talking like them, they have a whole language that I don't necessarily have.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3593.277

It's true. The second I'm talking is Frito. All of these thoughts are just very quickly there. They're not my normal thoughts. I've not even tried to embrace that in a way that would be my identity. But I understand the notion of feeling like you're creating things that aren't really yours. Does that make sense?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3612.791

For her to buy into it. I don't think it'd be that hard to buy into it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3634.401

Oof. I'm impressed you've made it out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3649.01

Oh, good on you, Tosh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3651.632

Well, Francesca, thank you for sharing all that with us. That was heavy. And I'm sorry for all that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3677.569

All right. Take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3680.592

What you would hope people would hear is there's such a pattern to all this stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3695.742

The group criticism. If any of these things are happening in your book club, you know, maybe the book club is a

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3706.6

Yeah, you have exceptionally white and nice teeth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3711.563

Join now for $19.99.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3717.988

I want to see you channel and talk in tongues. I want you to lose your marbles a little bit for an hour every Sunday. I would go to your show.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3728.075

No, you wouldn't. You'd be a warlock from the 14th century.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3743.385

I was exposed to some weird stuff. I went to church on Sundays, two different religions, whatever, that's standard. But my father was also quite woo-woo-y, right? Like through AA, he found ACOA, Adult Children of Alcoholics, and then The Course of Miracles. And then all of it's fine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3759.612

But I was in a basement with him where a guy's like making someone hold something, then pushing on your liver, and then pushing the arm down. And a lot of the people that are in AA are there, and they're kind of intrigued by it. There's crystals. I don't want this to sound like a pat on the back to myself or casting any shame on anybody. But I'm just not very susceptible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3778.697

I was like, what the fuck?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3786.042

Yes, in fact, applauded critical skepticism.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

379.015

If someone offers you a vegetarian dinner, just run.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3793.286

I'm not suggesting that I too couldn't be this way. I just am remembering that I was in lots of different situations where I was like, this is horseshit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

38.743

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3804.821

They shouldn't invite me in because I'll probably be like, hold on. How do you know about that? That wasn't invented at the 16th century. I'd like bust the 14th century doctor. Then everyone would stand up and go, oh my God, the spell's been broken. Thank you, Dax Shepard. You are our new leader.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

381.997

Well, maybe not run, just, you know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3819.489

I am the leader of the truth. I have a proprietary understanding.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3825.973

Get off your clothes and let's talk about your spirit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

3859.397

Follow Armchair Expert on the Wondery app, Amazon Music, or wherever you get your podcasts. You can listen to every episode of Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now by joining Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Before you go, tell us about yourself by completing a short survey at wondery.com slash survey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

399.507

But not Indian, because you said his name was...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

41.145

Ooh, D.D. Shepherd. That sounds fun. Today is part two of one of our favorite prompts ever. Escaping a cult.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

411.634

No, but a doctor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

420.5

So he's going by this other name. He's not Indian. I thought Indian when I heard the name. And I thought meditation, but no.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

442.68

How many folks were at this initial free vegetarian dinner?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

447.045

Oh, okay. There's some critical mass. If you show up somewhere to see a spiritual guide and there's three people, you're like, well, this guy's bunk. A hundred, you're like, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

457.571

If you are starting a call, stock it with some extras, even if you don't have that many followers, maybe get some hourly folks to build out the audience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

491.747

That's quite a thing to observe. Are you not terrified? It was subtle, almost like you're having a dream.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

567.346

Oh, okay. So he had a dark side.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

57.305

Oh, yeah. There's some consistencies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

582.614

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

60.95

Some patterns. And maybe if you recognize that one of these things is happening in your life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

642.389

Okay, so two of the 12 were accounted for between he and Vayu.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

654.721

Well, I'm sure that was coming.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

657.942

Oh, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

679.43

Oh, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

68.16

If you get invited to a vegetarian meal, you're dust. No, but I will say it made me think there's a lot more than I'm aware of. I just stupidly assume I'll see a doc about them if they're real. Exactly. It makes me think you're bumping into people all the time that probably were raised in some of these fringy religious tradition. Yeah, cults. Oh, I am a pussyfoot and around about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

687.717

That's the kind we need to practice.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

695.141

Once you left, did you keep following this person and what was happening?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

734.496

His master.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

755.746

Yeah. They're going to have a harem. They're going to have some nice cars.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

765.03

I think it's hypnosis. Because you hadn't eaten the vegetarian meal prior to seeing all that or had you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

781.459

Wow. Did you know anyone that stuck with that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

806.57

Those lottery documentaries fascinate the hell out of me. I've seen a couple. Talk about be careful what you wish for. There's almost no good stories in those.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

820.84

No, I shouldn't say that. There's just an incredibly high rate of people filing for bankruptcy. There's a lot of stress with their family.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

828.705

It upticks a lot of things.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

835.784

We love bad taste jokes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

845.911

What is it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

848.033

I don't get it. Standing in line for the punch. Oh, oh. Very literal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

855.538

It's a pun. That's good. Well, Taj, this has been a delight meeting you and hearing your story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

863.098

Thank you. Bye.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

873.245

Yeah, on shrimps. And you stare at any given thing long enough, you'll just see something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

877.908

Yeah, I think they definitely chalk that vegetarian meal. And to their credit, mushrooms are vegetarian.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

893.469

Mushroom medley. Hi, how are you? Good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

897.53

Good. Is this a beautiful photo of you and your lover engaged in play on the beach?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

903.912

Oh, that's cute. It looks like you're either doing hacky sack or you could be doing the kid and play dance.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

910.193

Okay. Cause you're playful and you taunted him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

914.953

You don't look nearly old enough to be engaged 17 years ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

927.6

Oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

929.961

Okay. Kristen, where are you from?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

935.884

Golden Triangle or Green Triangle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

941.929

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Cults II

952.858

And are you allowed to say the name of what the religion was?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

0.31

Wondry Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondry Plus in the Wondry app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dan Rothers. I'm joined by Buck Rogers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1125.915

Why? What? He's panicked like he's going to drown. So he's like trying to grab onto something. This is why you don't rescue a drowning swimmer, by the way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1135.697

Yeah, that's the move is you got to knock the person out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1148.965

Did he get it over? Because that's its own challenge.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1178.548

oh yeah he's like how am i gonna tell my brother i lost his son out on this river This is a mess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

119.787

Yes. And we can see you too. We can see you. You're in a tent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1200.495

Let's relieve you of some guilt. You're doing a quick analysis, whether one of you can live or none of you can live. I think that's the right math to be doing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1212.461

Oh, okay. Yeah. Billy's on his own.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1218.086

You kind of want Billy to be punished a little bit. I know. That's diabolical. I know, I know, I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

128.311

I don't know how you guys do it. I just don't know how rules are followed. Okay. So we're calling you Taylor. That's very promising. And why did you pick Taylor as a code name?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1313.212

Oh, no. Yeah. What's next is the bears. You feel so validated, right? To just avoid the nature.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1322.337

Don't go to nature.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1335.323

Because you're like, there's no way I'm getting back in the water.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1339.084

Float down to meet them.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1415.049

Okay, hold on. Everyone's going to hate this. Make an argument for him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1420.272

Look, everyone's fucked at this point. Let's just say no one's day is going as planned. So he's like, okay. I have this woman on board. Is it going to be easier for her to continue thinking her husband's safe?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

144.283

You could have just said eight-year-old daughter and we would have known the rest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1443.932

But leave the fucking boat.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

149.206

Yeah, also true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1504.454

Sure, sure, sure. They were on vacation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1509.538

They were looking for you to help them find Old Faithful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1557.15

That guy is up and down. He's like saying you're not qualified, you're a quitter, and then he's offering you a job. I mean, he's really got to get his narrative straight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1572.254

Oh, Brennan. Have you ever gone rafting again?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1586.337

You're still together, though?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1589.423

Get her in here. Hi.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1593.49

That sounds like a terrible honeymoon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

161.314

So you do break the rules.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1616.544

He flipped it. He drove it straight into the jump. Flipped it. He's like, I'll be alone with her in no time. Exactly. He's got to get rid of his uncle and nephew.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1626.683

He went back to Utah, he told me. He's getting this annulled. Well, it's nice meeting both of you. I'm sorry that was your honeymoon.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1638.249

Take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1642.251

Honeymoon in hell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1648.574

Fuck yeah. Keep it nice and safe. But you might fall in love with your masseur.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1655.157

Yeah, that's the kind of risk you'll take on.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1658.078

I said masseur.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1661.299

Mon-mon-seur.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1664.397

Hello.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1666.899

Wonderful. Is this Elizabeth?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1669.541

Where are you at, Elizabeth?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

167.699

Okay, so Taylor, you have a wild card story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1671.782

Oh, wonderful. Okay, so you have a wildcard story. So this could be anything. Could be a ghost story. We don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1719.063

Now she's speaking your language.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1721.904

Monsoors.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1726.385

How long did it take?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1731.826

Are you camping or are there lodges along the way?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1740.168

And you're going pootie in the woods and stuff?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

175.224

Can I tell you, you will not be in trouble if you don't stick to the timeline.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1753.475

And hope a lion didn't leap out from behind you. And how do you wipe?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

179.648

Just so you know, there's no threat of trouble. Speak for yourself. Okay, yes, that's true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1825.979

Oh, wow, she's undressing you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1834.184

And have you gotten down? No, she's... Okay, but hold on. Have you gotten fully nude?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1902.561

You made a pinching sign. Did she pinch your breasts?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1923.283

Elizabeth, what's your comfort level? Because again, we've talked about this in previous massage episodes. I can see myself succumbing to whatever. I could lock into like, I'm going with this. You know, where were you at mentally when she was on minute eight of your breast massage?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

1979.979

Wow, this is a nightmare.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2004.134

I don't want to dwell on your assault, but I am curious. Was she going to try to finger you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2010.056

Yeah, right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2049.711

This is worse than the height.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2052.572

And at any point were you going, oh, wow, my professor's a pervert. She likes a neurotic massage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2059.794

Let's find out.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2105.644

Oh, my Lord. She might have just been a fucking perv. Did you talk to your professor about it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2120.628

What would you have done on the breast part?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2137.973

An excessive amount of oil.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2140.573

Oh, that was great, Elizabeth. That was great, thank you. Real twisty and turny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2150.198

That's what birthed the idea. I was getting a massage at a hotel, and I'd seen all these older men there on lover's weekends with their wives. And I thought, all these guys are on Viagra and Cialis. Are they becoming erect in these massages? That's what it started as. Are you sure? Yes, that's 100% what I started thinking.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2170.322

What are all these guys who are all bumped up on CLs in Viagra for the weekend doing in these massages? Are they getting boners? I don't remember. You don't remember that part? I remember that. I kind of remember that. I think it's because everyone but Monica remembers it. You just scrubbed it from your memory. Yeah, that's probably right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2192.492

So nice meeting you. All right. Bye-bye.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2198.937

Help me through. Help me with the math of that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

22.996

Today is Wildcard. Yeah. Dealer's choice, chef's kiss. Yes. Pick your poison.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2205.562

Yeah, Queen Elizabeth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2209.866

Lilibet. We learned that on The Crown?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2212.868

Why'd I forget that part? Because I'm bad with names. Cassandra?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2218.47

Beautiful earring. Very eye-catchy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2228.577

No way. Amazing. Where do you live?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2234.401

Okay. And are you from Utah?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2238.544

We just talked to an armcherry that's from Salt Lake, and their story took place in Montana.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2245.929

Okay, so you have a wildcard story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2316.567

Buried alive. In thick, heavy dirt.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2321.869

Oh my God. Are you by yourself?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2340.223

Oh, my God. So this is a severe, crushing amount of weight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2433.713

And really quick, when you tried to move your hands up to your mouth to create that air pocket, could you move your body at all or you cemented in?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2443.077

This is the nightmare of all nightmares. As someone who's claustrophobic, you're having a hard time breathing, right? Yeah, I can't breathe.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2561.281

Are you optimistic during this, or are you starting to get concerned you're going to run out of time?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2693.095

Not even two weeks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2734.341

Oh my gosh. Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow. Sim, sim, sim, sim, sim.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2779.38

It's like you got hit by a train. Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2797.558

That's the worst. I'm going to have a nightmare tonight. Yeah. You can count on it. Has the rest of the life been a joke? Like, well, I've already been through the worst. I got that out of the way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2819.138

What a story. Oh, man. Well, that delivered. Thank you so much.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2835.783

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you so much. Great meeting you. Take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2842.087

I'm starting to agree with you. I was against you and now I don't ever want to leave the safety of my bedroom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2847.73

These were scaly. Yeah, they should have been called scaly cod.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2859.73

Life is a box of chocolates, as F. Gump said. I'm glad you're safe. I have a lot of gratitude for our safety.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2867.598

Lungs burst. How do your lungs burst when you carry on?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2875.026

Give it a good knock, knock.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2878.35

All right. Love you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

2908.393

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

330.869

PP, a puss pocket.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

334.711

Go all the way.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

35.145

Roll of the dice. That's what Jess says all the time.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

394.076

Well, hold on. Necrotizing fasciitis? That means necrotic flesh. Is it dying necrotic flesh?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

401.099

Oh, my God! I've heard of this on the news. I didn't think I'd ever meet anyone in real life. It's a streptis bacteria, isn't it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

45.79

It was cool. They should do it more like Russian roulette where you hold a toy pistol to your.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

464.073

the same thing that this woman had okay and can i ask is the source of it your finger you cut or the shot it was the shot i sent emma pictures i'm not sure if you want to jump ahead oh i do it's that time that whole pile the whole pile oh my lord oh Holy fuck, America. This is horrifying. Guys, you have to imagine. This is one of the worst things I've ever seen in my life. Oh, my.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

494.42

Oh, but you have a smile on your face. Guys, you need to know it is virtually a football taken out of her upper arm. So they went in there and they cut that area out to get to all the bacteria.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

52.714

I'm going to be honest with everyone. This one leaned very medical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

535.373

painful you feel under medicated throughout this whole story i want to be their advocate you need a massive dilaudid you need some fentanyl i was on dilaudid but my fever wasn't going down and the pain medicine was probably helping but it felt like i was burning from the inside out this is horrifying i bet you felt like i did in mexico city but for days

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

560.779

Is worse than norovirus. I know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

563.341

I don't think you can feel worse than I felt for those eight hours. Well, let's hope you don't get this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

568.965

I'm going to live on a pond.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

574.029

So how long was the recovery?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

597.608

Oh, sure. He's got to stay fit.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

602.632

Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

604.273

Well, hold on. No, don't. No, no, don't. Oh, I'm only going to ask, were you 20 at the time? Was he like a 20 year old dum-dum?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

61.003

Very, very medical.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

614.142

Okay. Really bad. That's rough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

65.205

Yeah. Don't listen. I think it's a skip. Yeah, don't listen. I think it's a skip. This one's a skip, everybody. So skip it and we'll see you next week. So have a great day. We'll see you next week. We'll see you next week for a different one. I loved it, though. Yeah, me too. This was wild.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

660.928

It was starting to eat right there. Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

665.27

That may be on the tray.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

681.183

Oh, Taylor. Sometimes life is just insanely unfair. You didn't even like do anything wrong while you cut your finger.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

701.181

A lot of silver linings here. Boy, that fucking sucks. I'm going to put that in the top five worst injuries I've ever seen. And I've seen like a guy's leg come completely off in a snowmobile accident.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

714.113

wolf, bear, whatever. The bear attack.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

717.237

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

719.72

Should we have a banquet for like the most injured armchairs?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

723.565

Well, thank you so much for sharing that. Yeah, thanks, Taylor. That's incredible.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

731.935

All right, you too. Bye, Taylor.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

737.182

You can't even post that picture.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

739.844

You'd get kicked off Instagram.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

746.569

Oh, explore it with like spelunking tools. You could definitely rappel down into this gash. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

752.514

That sucks.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

754.475

I hate when people get sick at the hospital. It's so fucking common. They say it's like the most dangerous, but there's so many bacterias and viruses.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

762.181

Superbugs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

765.094

Is this Brennan? It is. That's a great name. I don't think I've ever met a Brennan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

770.737

Sometimes it's spelled with an A and not an E. Okay, so you've met other Brennans. Yes, but not in the same spelling.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

78.413

They put the wild in wild card. All right, please enjoy Wild Card. Number seven? Yep, we've done seven. Holy. This is the seventh wild card?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

788.106

The Aaron Winkley's of the world. He went to an alternative high school. You could smoke cigarettes in class and stuff. It was real Lucy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

796.826

Okay, so Brennan, you have a wild card story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

840.076

He was Billy's dad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

847.58

You never know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

866.015

He was challenging your masculinity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

89.636

Can't be right, but I must be wrong.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

939.314

Oh, your bare feet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

948.016

So the boat did a wheelie. It went straight up.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Wild Card VII

952.557

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

101.041

Kaylin, can you tell us why there's so many names for this? There's an optometrist, an ophthalmologist, and what did you, obstetrician? What did you just say?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1033.56

You were 10 or 11 and he's what, 13 or 14? I was like, how young is this dad? Exactly. No, he acts like that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1045.447

Oh, right. So he's like my age now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1053.73

Oh, wow. And Kevin Garnett is there now?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1067.697

Wait, Shaq was on the Celtics?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1073.401

No shit, you're dealing with three of the top 40 players of all time right there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

109.709

That's an OB. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1094.875

Something tells me you're going to be grateful for that later in this story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1106.812

It might be a bad burger. Okay, okay, okay, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1138.612

That's the trade-off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1164.362

You really let it rip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1189.175

I'm glad you got this detail.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1202.803

Yeah, yeah. And you're 15, so you've passed the threshold where you'd be a little kid that they'd feel bad for. You're a woman enough that it's just fucking disgusting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1217.305

Yeah, right. If you were 11, people would be like, oh, sweetie. But if you're pushing five foot two, people are like, fuck this. This gross bitch. This nasty bitch.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1247.729

This story is filled with twists and turns because even when he said go. Yeah. I thought, oh, he's going to hang back and watch the game. But no, he's behind her. And then he's like, fuck, I'm going to hit this merch stamp. No, that's to get her a shirt. You have a good dad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1265.839

Probably spent a lot of money on those seats. He wants to be good so bad. That's that tension.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1334.238

Well, I think you got lucky because food poisoning for me, it's certainly not just one trip.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1340.322

That's what they have perfected over the time they've been in business. They know how to give you just a very cute. Just a quickie.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

135.272

And does the ophthalmologist, would they perform a surgery on your eye?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1354.892

I'll take that. I guess that's a lesson.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1357.811

Clutching at straws, but sure. Yeah. Well, Katie, it's lovely meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

140.617

Ophthalmologist. Is that what it is?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1412.18

And how's that going? Do you like it? We're tough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1431.88

Yeah. Yeah. It's not for everyone. Like when you hear Gabor Monte, you're like, my man.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1455.961

Well, thank you. Yeah, I appreciate that. Sorry on behalf of all of us, Alex.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1465.319

Yeah. Wonderful. All right. Well, nice meeting you. Take care.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1472.279

Jack and the Beanstalk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1475.961

And James and the Giant Peach, you know, was originally going to be James and the Giant Raspberry?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1483.864

Yeah, I just heard this. What's his name? Adol?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1491.288

Did he write that? Yeah. What a prolific...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1518.991

Yeah, it should have been a cherry. Oh, it might have been Michigan's cherry.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

152.608

I've heard it said that way, but it just is weird to me that everything's opt-a, but then we go opt-thuh. Whatever. You've heard me complain enough about the product. So you're obviously in Canada. Did this sport event take place in Canada? And now I regret not wearing my maple leaf sweatshirt that I wear quite often.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1525.195

I think it was.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1528.938

Hi. Hi. Your shirt says, In My Wonder.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1537.964

Ah, where in the country is this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1543.448

Didn't it snow in Florida?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1551.299

Yeah, it's one thing to get like a dusting every 10 years, but to get eight inches in Florida is wild.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1559.301

Well, go ahead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1578.754

Yeah, there's not a single snow plow in the whole state. That's what's funny when it happens in these places. There's just nothing. You just have to sit there and wait for it to melt. Okay, so Emily, please tell us about your sporting event story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1593.425

At the U?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1595.827

Best 30 for 30 ever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1617.961

Oh, wonderful. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1670.261

He has a terrible opinion on what the outcomes of these things will be.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1677.306

People will cheer. They'll be delighted that a guy got turned down and slapped in public. It's going to be a blast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1708.59

Yeah. You're going to be on TV.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1729.891

Well, I think they do on occasion.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1732.694

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1818.6

Yeah, I think around 50,000 we could safely say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

185.383

Why had you been booted?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

19.93

Today we have sporting event disasters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1922.411

Yeah, every gal in that arena wanted to marry him all of a sudden.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1933.854

I can totally see that being on the news at all five.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1940.003

Did the roommate expose himself as always knowing that was going to happen in his celebration of how great it went?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1975.327

Yeah, it's pretty Greek tragedy. Yeah. Oh, my God. Emily, how long did it take you to recover from that experience?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1984.33

Yeah, which you had 17 natural lights. You were right back in business.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

1997.775

I don't think it was safe for you to be at those games anymore, to be honest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2005.057

I love that the grandmas were confronting you in the bathroom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2012.561

Oh, wow. What an experience.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2015.823

Very memorable. Well, Emily, thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2027.73

Shout out Eden. Shout out Esther.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2030.572

Yeah. Three E's. Triple E's.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2034.591

that e cubed yeah all right take care emily love you guys thank you so so much bye I think that happened to the best person imaginable. Yes. Like you would have. I can't even imagine.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2050.103

You would have never been in that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2053.365

But let's just assume.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2063.31

Okay. Made the impossible possible. Hello. How's it going? Great. You want a fake name, which I'm always excited about. Is your real name George or your fake name George?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2077.536

I might intermittently call you Yorgo, the Greek pronunciation of George. Just look for that. Where are you?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2100.818

Okay, good, good, good. Okay, so you attended a sporting event. I like to think you might be liable for something if you want a fake name.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2108.205

There's a criminal element, but luckily it's all okay in the end. All right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2112.53

Yeah, hit us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2117.075

Oh. Perfect game. At the Coliseum or at the Rose Bowl?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2276.188

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

231.297

It's a little bit of a bait and switch. But it sounds like from your perspective, you'd rather go to a hockey game anyways.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

239.602

It is a big deal. That's the thing with these dealership sweepstakes. Somebody's buddies can always win, I think.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2404.497

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2485.373

Thank you very much. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

2550.455

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

275.538

Uh-oh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

278.642

There's no mean Canadians. This is on a sliding scale. I kind of feel like Canadians might think of the Maple Leafs as a lot of Americans think of the Yankees. They got too much money and they got too much upper hand. Is that fair?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

28.716

I can jinx them, as just happened.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

296.773

Oh, no, you should. You should. You're allowed. This is your opportunity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

31.879

Carrying the burden of that. You'd be inclined to think maybe these are really only about sports.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

338.798

I'm dying to know what they were doing when they weren't in those seats.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

343.28

Were they powdering their nose?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

345.702

Exactly. It's a little hard to get that up there. They don't do that there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

368.438

They were de-escalating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

370.94

What noble men. Big, big noble men.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

38.606

But these go in some turns. We have some twisty turvies by the end.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

389.611

For people who've not been in a lot of fights, this is the worst imaginable situation. You do not have high ground. You have low ground. Much easier to punch down with your weight on somebody than to punch up. Okay, so ill-advised plan from the get.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

428.162

And you're pregnant and you're one foot away. What's your husband's reaction?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

44.05

It's true.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

447.537

Oh, you haven't lived yet.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

455.384

He's got to be kind of conflicted because common sense is you would go to the side of your team that you're both rooting for. But clearly the transients are assholes. You know, do I help the Maple Leafs guys who are my opponent or these knuckleheads who have started this? Right. You're a bit of a moral conflict here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

48.291

We only have one fight for you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

480.346

Well, they have because they're wearing the outgroups jersey.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

50.592

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

51.852

Buckle up. Please enjoy Crazy Sporting Event Stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

514.287

Oh, perfect.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

517.129

People always wonder when you watch a fight, within seconds, people have their shirts off. You know they didn't stop to take it off. There is some bit of magic there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

526.189

The Mounties are minutes away.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

542.695

Or even make your way speedily out of the crowd.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

590.754

Can you imagine being that guy and stepping up to like 15 full grown men fighting, thinking, oh, my God, my job is to make peace right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

600.2

Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

632.683

Maybe even some Super Bowl tickets. Oh, my God. Yeah, but it all came full circle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

655.473

Okay. Did you feel any responsibility to tell the police, hey, the two transients started this? Like these three guys were kind of stand-up dudes and they're in an unfortunate situation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

693.364

So probably they reduced the charges. That feels unjust.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

701.547

You know, I got to be honest in my many, many situations and crowded bars where this kind of thing happens. It's not your stereotype of who starts. It's not the big guy. It's the little motherfucker who's got to prove something. He and his buddy who feel little, they got to pop off.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

718.274

They just did some blow on the bathroom.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

720.577

Feeling themselves.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

723.521

It's very messy situations. Well, I'm glad you got out of there without catching an elbow or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

757.406

What's his name?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

759.247

Arthur, thank you for listening, Arthur. You must be a very bright boy. Well, Caitlin, thank you for that. That was a great story. It was wonderful meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

770.61

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

772.99

Opto.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

775.011

No, but she was an obstetrician.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

778.972

An optimist.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

78.115

Oh, beautifully. And what a lovely inviting sweater you're wearing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

83.516

Where are you? It looks like there's files everywhere or lab results.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

919.062

Hello.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

922.163

Katie, yeah, it feels like we're joining you on a set almost.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

929.704

Yeah, it does look like you could definitely shoot a scene from that 70s show in there as well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

936.886

You nailed it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

946.99

Oh, my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

948.43

And then really quick, the curtain, it seems to be like James and the Beanstalk type foliage.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Sports Event

958.798

Okay, so you had a sporting event story. Where are you at, really quick?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Can I ask what age you are?

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dan Rather and I'm joined by Miniature Mouse.

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Sure. Did you find out if he had any priors for cold-cocking strangers in public?

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But you didn't? You did.

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Even when you call her an umpire, I lose track of it. She shouldn't even be called that, but yes.

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I'm picturing a 62-year-old man on the weekend making 20 bucks.

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Madness.

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We have a friend who's almost permanently at a little league game. He's got two boys. Two weeks can't go by without him reporting on some dad who goes berserk. It's crazy to me that people don't enter going like, okay, we know the bad thing. I can't be that dude. It's not like we don't know about this archetype.

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The majority of people don't win the championship.

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Monica wouldn't know what that's like.

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I know what it's like to be a loser. Yeah. Well, Matt, that was delightful. I'm sorry you got tagged, but also I'm glad I got to hear about it.

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And this is a very weird thing to say, but I also think it's good for a man to get blasted once in the face before they die. You know, we should all have had that experience. I mean, not really, but also I kind of feel that way. It was eye-opening. You live in fear of it your whole childhood, and then it happens and you live.

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Yeah, I hope you guys have a really nice holiday season. Okay, you too, brother. Take care. Bye-bye.

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I know. I looked over and you guys were giggling to each other.

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That's really good.

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Never.

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Right. That's what I'm saying. It's like, I can only speak as being a boy. You're seeing your buddies get punched all the time. You're so afraid of it happening. And then it happens and you're like, that's okay.

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I might.

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Okay.

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Oh yeah. Maybe that's.

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I don't want to punch you at all.

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Just Vinny. When I was a kid, probably. Can you imagine if someone punched Vinny?

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Well, only if he was afraid of it and he lived in great fear of it and then it happened and he was like, okay, I don't need to worry that much about that. It's not a big deal. Only in that scenario. It's a very specific set of guidelines I want Vinny to get punched under.

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Now, what I liked, and I know you guys didn't have this, but we had pom-pom.

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And they came out at halftime. They weren't there on the sidelines bouncing around during the game, but halftime came and they put on a full dance routine.

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Megan, is it?

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Nice to meet you. Where are you?

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Oh, okay.

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Okay, yes. Monica's on a pun kick right now. This is like the third in a row. I swear we had very little Oklahomans and now we've had like three in a row.

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Oh, thank you. So are you the parent of a Little Leaguer? No.

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But you have a Little League story.

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Oh, wonderful. It's a personal story. First of all, can I see your t-shirt?

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And that was Sassy Feld was one of the premier members of that team.

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Oh my God. I've never seen that. That's incredible.

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We encourage people to make as much shit as they want. We're not litigious.

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All right. So yeah, hit us with Little League.

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Mm hmm. Yeah. Standard fare.

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I had a hunch maybe dad might say, why don't you beam him? But continue.

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And then maybe you could even be compassionate.

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He sucks. Now he's insecure. So he's got to make other people feel bad.

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Okay. All right.

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You did. And you liked that.

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Monica's upset, but continue.

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Okay. All right. Well, this is about Little League coaching disasters and we have four of them coming your way. All of them are pretty PG. You might want to skip it because there's really nothing to see.

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Okay, so now did it turn, Monica? Are you still in?

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Okay, okay.

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At you or your dad?

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Oh, good, good, good, good.

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I hope that's the last time he opened his mouth to a girl. But I'm afraid it maybe got worse.

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I know love's the answer, Monica. It's hard.

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He sucks.

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You're kidding. You got to give us a little more than that. Under what circumstance? I got to love this left turn.

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Okay. Now we, okay. I like the idea that you shouldn't listen no matter what.

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Oh, this piece of shit. I mean, the bar is fucking low. No, he sucks.

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That's right.

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I love that you hooked up with him.

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It's really funny you would bring this up because I didn't foresee this would ever be a thing that I would have to deal with having girls, but I'll leave them for you to guess. But one of them has a classmate that keeps touching her inappropriately, and she has told her very directly, do not touch me. Again, I'm going to be a little sympathetic. This girl's probably got something going on.

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I don't know why she is this way. Oh, it's a goal doing it? I have to assume something's not great at home.

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And they're young. And I said, OK, well, here's what we're going to do. We're going to make the teacher aware of this. And that is step one. And if it does not correct itself, you have my full blessing to do whatever you want. If someone's ever touching you inappropriately, whatever has to happen, I stand by you in this situation. So weirdly, that just came up.

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Okay.

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But you don't want someone to touch your body if you don't want them to.

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Again, it breaks my heart because I think this girl's probably already got some stuff going on. So I don't also want her to get beat up. But I've seen Delta go after her older sister. And I mean, that's... It's obvious. Yeah, it's kind of obvious. I've seen Delta go after her older sister and I have had the thought.

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I hope no one ends up on the other end of her because she is a feisty motherfucker.

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Oh, Megan, what a story. Yeah, that was fantastic.

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Monica's horny.

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Oh, my God. Congratulations. That's so beautiful. Yes, yes, yes.

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How liberating is that, huh? To finally stop carrying all that?

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Way worse. That's the big gift, right? You can show up for people. That's right. Thanks for telling me that.

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Keep proselytizing.

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All right, bye.

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And I love her.

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Yeah, you really hate that boy. Was it you? Really brought up some stuff. No, I didn't talk to girls like that. I was a nice boy-ish.

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How old was he?

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You talk to me mean.

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You're a worthy adversary. Now, you know, I say I don't like when people spell standard names differently. I'm really enjoying the spelling of this.

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M-A-D-I.

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Right? That's good. I reversed my position. Reverse back. Hello.

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I was just saying, Maddie, I generally don't like when people spell a standard name differently, yet here I am. I love M-A-D-I.

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Ditch the sun.

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Okay, Maddie, you have a Little League story?

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Really quick, why? Is that where George Washington is? What's there? Why is it academically hard?

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Yeah, I like that.

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Yeah, he might get some PTSD. Maybe he's been in one of these situations.

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Well, hold on. Don't worry yet. Don't worry.

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I can picture it perfectly. Yeah.

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Okay. Did you call him Tiger?

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Can I ask, are you in a lake or a river?

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Champ, okay. Please enjoy Little League Coaching Disaster Crazy Stories.

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Of course.

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I'm going straight to gators.

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Can I ask a quick question? Did he even bring a flashlight? Did he shine a light at the boat to see if water was coming on?

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Oh, geez. Okay.

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Hi there. Hi. How you doing?

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At any point, did anyone think to row to shore and get off the fucking boat?

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Right, because you've been bludgeoned into submission by a coach.

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Yeah, the military is dicey because sometimes you have to break that chain of command.

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A bunch of young girls dying. Yeah.

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Some dishonorably discharged cadet is screaming.

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What a champ.

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How many girls are in the boat?

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Oh, wow. They had nine girls in their kitchen trying to warm up.

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Now, how did you guys perform that year? Sounds like you had gone through hell and back. Maybe you would be great after all that.

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Luckily, it didn't go in the direction you were fearing it would.

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No, even before that. You heard 26.

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I did.

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So at least that wasn't on the table.

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You think he grew up and wanted to take out his frustration against women?

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Wow. Well, you made it. I'm sure you guys had a blast ripping him apart every time he wasn't looking or listening.

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Well, Maddie, what a disaster. Thanks for telling us that.

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All right. Nice meeting you.

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2467.818

Bye. Hello. I'm going to cry. Don't cry yet. Cry at the end. Save it for the end. What name are we going to use?

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Okay, Mary, Mary. We love when someone wants a fake name. That feels like it's very promising. Like maybe there's residual legal issues or something. Mary, are you allowed to tell us where you're at or do you think that'll be too revealing?

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That works. That's enough of a stereotype as I need.

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If you're the parent, right?

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It's hard to be present with T-ball when you have this other life happening.

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Do you want to draw a picture for us and we'll describe what we're saying?

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Okay.

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He thinks he's texting with just one member of this group text.

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Yeah, so he met some other t-baller mom and then he now thinks he's got a side thing going, but he accidentally, he went to her name, Gail, and then got too hasty because he's in the mood for third base. And then he fires off a text and he didn't realize it was the one where they list all the options.

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Is that what happened?

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All times come and go

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No one knows what to do.

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She must have felt so self-conscious. You're also going through a divorce. I feel like all this would just be so hard to deal with.

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Like, yeah, I'm going through a divorce. Yes, my husband's clearly on the warpath. And now you all know.

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Did this prompt make you wish you had played Little League baseball?

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Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

2712.412

Okay, two questions. Did your ex-husband respond ever after he realized what he did?

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2721.828

And did you sidebar with him?

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Okay. Now, how did that conversation go?

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How many years ago was that?

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I can't imagine the searing heat that would shoot through my body the second I realized I had done that. I can't imagine a more embarrassing thing to all the parents. Yeah, as much as you suffered, I guarantee he too, probably.

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2766.643

I doubt he high-fived anyone after that. Did he remarry?

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2771.866

A couple of times. Okay.

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2778.91

Weird question. Did any of the fellow T-Ball dads see this as a door opening opportunity for you?

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2787.034

I could see someone going like, ah, this poor gal. She's got embarrassed by her husband.

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2794.26

You want to get frisky too to show them?

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2797.302

No, out of generosity and kindness.

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Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

2799.624

Okay. You don't like that one bit. How long have you been listening?

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2829.899

Oh, that makes me so happy, Mary. Oh my God. What a story. Thank you so much for telling us.

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If you could see her face, what a sweet lady.

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Hi there. Oh, wow. Immediate connection.

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2840.919

The last person that deserves to be on that text chain.

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2852.215

That was a hell of a week of her life.

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Do it. What do you say? Men are terrible?

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Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

2868.163

Yeah, we didn't have any ladies who really shit the bed ethically.

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2889.034

Yeah, I just think if you just live in the sports world, you're just with other boys and men all the time.

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Almost never happens. Hey, I do what I can to help you out. And you sound phenomenal. Are you a podcaster?

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2901.002

Okay, this is great. You know who I think are the most evolved? Soccer players.

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Because that was kind of the alternative sport when I was growing up. If you weren't like a jock jock, but your parents wanted you on a team, that was kind of what you did.

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2914.514

What do we think is the worst? Chess players. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. Arrogant. Know-it-alls.

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2931.724

Well, it would make a bit of sense that as you chart the violence of the sport.

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Yeah, yeah. I mean, that's not terribly hard to imagine.

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2941.388

You're probably over-indexing in testosterone. You've been told to be tough nonstop.

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2947.931

All right.

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Well, I love you. And I'm just so grateful that my kids aren't currently yet in.

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2955.293

No.

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Although someone is trying out today for something.

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Yeah. It didn't take. Well, no, it was just, I think that team only assembled to play a couple games, and then they did that. It was like her school.

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2973.14

Well, that was when she was a baby.

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Yeah, yeah. That's back when we were in the phase of, like, they have to be in something.

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2978.801

And then why, I don't know.

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Yeah. All right, love you.

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

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No. Me neither. I went to a ton of Little League games because I supported Aaron. I would go to all his games.

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It's mechanical, yet it's not automated, so you still have to load it. A person has to pull it.

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And can there be a strike or does it always throw a perfect ball? Oh, God, no.

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455.301

Oh, wow. You made it to the state tournament.

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Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

460.465

Okay.

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Well, I was going to say, given the fact you made the top tier with a losing record tells me that there are a handful of teams that want every fucking match and then everyone else is kind of normal.

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I'm about to enter that.

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Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

51.894

Yeah, where Lincoln goes to a school that has sports and I get emails inviting to sports. She's not even on, but should we go support the school? And I very much want to. I think that sounds really fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

551.621

Interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

64.737

Yeah, you can come. They need support.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

673.519

Yeah, sure. Also, though, Minnesota honor policy works probably in Minnesota. Not everywhere.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

68.898

I don't even know that there's cheerleaders.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

723.865

Oh, no, this poor 13-year-old. This poor 13-year-old girl.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

728.931

No, no, when you get a third person out, you automatically get five runs. We won by six points.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

74.404

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

78.605

Okay. I don't even know if there is. I'm just, if ever there wasn't going to be one at an all-girls school, I feel like maybe that would be the place.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

88.169

Let's just get clarification for you. You like competitive cheer.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

894.036

Yeah, your three backfired on you. You went to three. He went to 17. He went to 17.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

912.42

Sure, sure. Been there. And it takes you a good 20 seconds before you put all the pieces together. Like, okay, huh, I was standing. I'm laying down. Oh, and I heard a crack in my head. Oh, right. I've been punched. Oh, here we are. Right. You got to kind of like catch up to what's happening.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

94.192

So you're not, you don't really want gals.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Little League/Coaching

99.056

Okay, but it wouldn't be a part of the sports game I'm going to see, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

0.31

Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dan Rather, and I'm joined by Mrs. Mouse. Hi. Meet cute part do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1001.437

Well, yeah, I was gonna say, how connected are you still to your class? Have you gone to a reunion and found out that 30% of the people were married to their match?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

101.767

Oh, well, it looks great. First of all, where are you other than this cute cave?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1024.291

Go Huskies.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

107.768

Oh, my God. By Aaron Weakley. Do you ever see Aaron Weakley?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1104.635

Yeah, Sean's kind of a storybook figure, right? I didn't think... You didn't think they existed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1114.379

You're right. 6,000 interviews later, we've met one. So...

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1126.146

Me too. I'm sorry. I asked that question. I just always marvel that my eighth grade girlfriend, she broke up with me in ninth grade for another guy. And she is still with that guy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

113.59

But Beverly Hills is tiny. I love Beverly Hills. That's such a secretly great place in Michigan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1137.853

I guess I'm just too greedy of a pig. I needed to experiment everything. Yeah. Okay. You guys, so nice meeting you. I'm really heart warmed by this. Yeah, me too. Yeah. I feel good about humanity right now.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1156.973

All right. Great meeting you guys. You too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1163.101

I do, too. I have a bad view of the world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1167.271

Well, a little bit. Hello. Hi. Where are you, Julie?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1177.219

London, Ontario. You got it. Home of Rachel McAdams.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

118.675

Do you have a nice yard?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1183.122

Okay. Tell us your meet cute story. What year?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1197.492

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1204.396

What do you guys have there? You have like a little arena or something?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

121.597

It's all about the yards, Monica, in Beverly Hills.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1214.422

If you're someone who your big hobby in life is seeing live events, good place to move.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1252.637

How late is late? When's he get there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

126.582

Do you know the history of why it's called Beverly Hills? Does it predate

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1290.01

Most generous case I could make is they thought she left the bar entirely. She was hammered. And they're like, well, fuck, we better grab her stuff and she'll surface.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

130.745

Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

132.407

Did you grow up there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

134.568

Wonderful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1353.419

Got 30 or 40 red flags to hit you with. I want to get them out quickly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1361.045

Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1367.23

Can I add one thing? If you knock a guy out on the sidewalk and you're trying to not get arrested, don't carry a long board because they go, yeah, it's a guy carrying a fucking obnoxiously long skateboard and no one else is.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

140.913

You had to. Okay, Heather, you have a meet-cute story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1449.422

From that night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1452.165

I was so drunk.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1461.303

It was not usable at all.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1477.233

Did he tell you why he was there? Was he also a witness to something?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1513.773

He remembered your name? Oh, that's impressive.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1584.642

You're having a hard time computing all the coincidences.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1590.163

Even when you told me that he said some guy tripped me on my skateboard and we got in a fight and I knocked him out. Even when I heard that, in my mind, I was like, probably something inane happened and you overreacted and punched a guy. So when you got to hear Curtis's side of the story, what was it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1619.605

You're making a strong case to moving to London. It's like the bar's let out and it's chaos. Jay-Z's there. I know. It's incredible. Come join us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1644.096

Think about his versions even more, Sam. Like something terrible happened to him, but it resulted in the greatest thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1651.399

Well, Julie, what an adorable story.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1659.042

We did. Some guy walked through a fucking plate glass window and fell down two stories.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1667.487

Yeah, Rob, flag that. You got it after staircase sex. We're going to put out a prompt. Tell us about a staircase fucking that went wrong. Do you think anyone's going to submit to that? Do you think people have tried to fuck on a staircase?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1680.575

Yeah, just tell us about time. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1684.897

You're reminding me. I had sex in the stairwell of the Luxor Hotel when I was 23. But not on the stairs. Not on the stairs, leaning against a railing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1695.901

Well, you acted so shocked when I... I did, but I had not even thought of stairwells. Have we already put it on our list to do the foreign bodies and the colon thing, whatever that official term was? Because I was just reading a Sedaris story and he said that he has a couple different nurse and doctor friends and that they all have the stories too. And he has a whole thing about it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1716.11

It's very funny.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1718.511

Well, you're delightful. And I think you are a very good ambassador for London, Ontario.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1725.997

You too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1730.12

Okay. That's the goal. All right. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1749.33

Interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1753.535

So maybe this is a prompt for you. Tell us.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1767.44

Yeah. Here's Leah. Hi, Leah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1775.537

And I'm going to immediately throw Rob under the bus because he said Leah out loud. Why did mom and dad choose Lee? Is there a story behind it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1784.659

They're from England.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1791.541

Oh, back-to-back Canadians. Are you currently in Canada?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1796.946

What's Greenfield? How close is that to Boston?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1804.873

Shelburne Falls, yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1808.416

Yeah, that's an incredibly beautiful part of the country. Okay, so you have a meet-cute story. Where does it take place? What year?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

185.233

Cigarettes or marijuana?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1853.531

I agree with that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1866.782

This is where the boy got poop on the staircase.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

187.976

Yeah. Nice mix of marijuana and cigarettes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1891.815

He was super charming and he's very tall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1896.898

I want to enroll there. I'm going to move to London, Ontario and then commute to Amherst.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

192.239

Yeah, you're about to quit tomorrow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1920.213

Can we digress for one second? I can't think of anything more fun than being at this college and being able to stumble and drunk between 11 and 2 a.m. and fucking eat a bunch of diner food. Fuck with your buddies. I didn't have that experience. That's really fun.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

1956.548

A little bit of poop coming out of his pants. Not quite that tall.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

2050.997

Is he related to the Elephant Man? Wasn't his last name Merrick?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

2054.9

Oh, Herrick. Sorry, I went with an M. I understand it's a lot to take in with the letters.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

2096.716

How soon do you explain to him what he's just fallen into?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

2104.68

Yes, yes, yes. Stakes are high.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

2128.973

Oh, wow. Good for him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

2158.654

Oh, yay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

2161.736

It's really good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

2203.652

We'll be right back. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

229.595

Is he a student at this point? I've never known a student to have a dog on campus.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

2374.127

Thank you. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

2435.148

Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

25.444

I feel like it's part Trey, but it's part Dew.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

282.485

No.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

284.767

Half Doberman, half bloodhound. This is a big dog.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

288.351

I got to say, I'm now staring at your face extra scrutinizing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

29.486

Part Dew.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

293.233

Yeah, you're fucking lucky. That's a big mouth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

35.428

Yeah, they kind of are palate cleansers. They're uplifting. They're hopeful.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

355.121

Even more shots needed now, but continue.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

40.751

Yeah, we needed it because we had animal attacks, and we've had shit in your pants.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

402.242

Can I ask at this point how much you like Brian out of 10?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

423.704

Oh my gosh. How long did the dog last throughout this?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

436.294

He could smell that there was a love connection and that they were going to be together forever. And he was a little drunk from the champagne water he drank out of the bong. Of course, yeah. I know that was two different parties, but still.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

44.732

There's a whole host of depravity, really.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

464.957

It's interesting you said, I put my hand up and touched the wall. When you said it, I thought that's an interesting detail. Is that foreshadowing?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

474.545

It was. Yeah, you must ask yourself, had he not bit your face? And both of you are not asking for anyone's numbers. Like, neither of you are pursuing this with any kind of gusto. Had the dog not intervened and caused this walk home and the ice pack, I don't think we're here.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

49.114

Could be called armchair depravity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

493.42

Well, you got to give credit where credit's due. I must. That's also another ethos of yours. Well, Heather, it's lovely meeting you. I'm delighted we've got a Michigander in the audience. We don't talk to nearly enough people from Michigan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

509.578

Yeah, before we go, if you had to guess what the best amusement park in the world is, what would you say?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

51.459

but it's not. It's called Armchair Anonymous, and this is Meet Cute Part Two. Please enjoy.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

517.221

Let's go, baby.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

524.444

I don't think that one makes any sense.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

532.287

We're definitely going to have to do an armchair trip there for sure.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

536.848

Yeah, it was nice meeting you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

569.085

The T-shirt, and you put it over your pillows. Yeah, you smell.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

573.248

Yeah, I'd be really curious if we could get an evolutionary biologist to explain why that is. Do we not smell as good? Is it more important for a female throughout history to be able to identify her partner? There has to be an explanation.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

586.655

Zero desire.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

589.497

Yeah, I agree. All right, we have a pair. Oh, fun. Ah, you're in two different locations.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

607.136

But wait, are you in the same home?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

620.46

Really quick, why does one go on vacation to Colorado Springs? Is there an activity you both love that's available there?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

631.269

Yeah, and you'll hike in the snow?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

642.358

Anyone go down?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

645.139

You don't want to out anyone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

647.22

Someone did fall. They were embarrassed and they're being kind and not telling the story. Okay. Sean and Megan, who begins?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

663.607

I don't even need to ask him.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

665.888

Yeah, yeah. Greatest place on Earth?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

668.75

Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's so funny that you don't get intrigued. Has there ever been a topic that's so unanimously loved we've ever brought up anywhere?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

680.9

You can't even ask people, do you like Coca-Cola, and get this level of approval.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

690.387

That was closer for you guys, right, King's Island? Yeah. The Beast.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

695.768

Okay, Cincinnati.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

725.285

There must have been one 11th grader that was like a future Bill Gates. Who could orchestrate this whole thing? Is that person now a billionaire?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

761.71

By the way, if I had designed this test, I would have rigged it where everyone got me in their top five.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

778.064

It also begs the question, is your perfect match someone that's got the same interest in you? I don't think so. I think your perfect match is the opposite of you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

81.677

What is happening?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

810.329

All in marching band. It was off to a great start, but then you're like, oh, this is a very small pool of people that he's the hottest.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

820.518

Hottest guy in the marching band. That should be your autobiography, Sean. I know, it really should.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

867.393

Oh, I believe it. Looking at Sean, I believe that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

872.159

I would say for people who watch that Kingdom show, the lead of Kingdom, very handsome dude. Frank Gorillo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

880.017

Oh, that too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

882.719

What was your instrument?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

893.807

Oh, awesome. Now, Sean, and I don't want to jump ahead, but was she on your list?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

905.815

And did they say Megan's the hottest chick on the math team?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

924.258

I can only imagine how unruly everything, no one learned a fucking thing for the next week and a half as they try to get married. Okay, so it parts and you see Sean and you're like, schwing, wow. Wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

93.364

Your Audi is a very good roller skater.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Armchair Anonymous: Meet Cute II

955.259

So nothing happened. You guys met, but you didn't pursue it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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0.31

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

101.553

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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1021.553

Although I do have a friend who's Chinese who moved here when she was 10, and she was like, I could not fucking tell one white person apart. So that's also a thing. Oh, is that a thing? Yeah, in fact, we even had a female black professor who studies this, and she said all in-groups can't recognize out-groups. Really? Yeah, so black folks think white people all look the same.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

1040.439

White people think Asians look the same. Asians, when they first get here, think we all look the same. And by we, I mean white people I'm speaking for.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

1059.5

But anyway, yeah, it is a phenomenon that we all experience. It's like we get really, really acute wisdom of differentiating our group because we're around it nonstop. And then we don't have much experience with other groups.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

1074.889

Oh, they've certainly. We're the worst offenders because we then take that and then we build a whole system off of it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

1093.496

Well, you pay a different price because the white people are the key holders to every opportunity, whereas it's not reversed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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1102.48

Exactly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

1104.503

Yeah, well put. The other thing I found really, really fascinating, and again, I was in this class in 99, so we were not very far off the L.A. Rodney King riots.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

1114.375

And so much of that, I feel like, was explained in this class. One of them being this... intense tension between often Korean store owners and black customers in these neighborhoods. And they broke it down in the simplest ways. Like the way you show respect in Korea is to not engage eye contact, is to be quiet, is to basically answer when asked a question.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

1139.317

Like that's how they would show respect to a customer that comes in the store. And then for the black community, it's literally the opposite. It's just a tinderbox of cultural differences between

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

1202.91

And so you were in that. You lived for periods in South Central. And what was your personal experience? I just get along with people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

1221.623

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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1257.459

Those kids were being kids and you were betraying your people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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127.731

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

1283.459

How many places did you live, do you think, between arriving at two years old and then, let's say, going off to the military school? Eight to ten, yeah. Now here's a really easy theory to concoct. I moved a ton as well. And I crave control like you can't imagine. Do you think cooking was like, oh gosh, here's this eight by eight area that I am in total control over.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

1307.036

And I know what the outcome will be if I do it correctly.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

Rerelease: Roy Choi

1338.319

A ton of the hip hop that I love that came out of L.A. in the late 80s, early 90s is just chock full of negative Asian stuff.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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As opposed to thinking like, I insist on weaving these together.

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Let's add that this normal system to deal with that, you're not included. Nor were black folks were included. So a white person instinctually, they know to call the cops.

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Yeah. I'm curious what owning the restaurant in Anaheim was like. Were you like, oh, great. This is a gateway to peace. Or were you ever like, fuck you. You're the same fuckers that are yelling and saying shit behind my back. And now you want to come and enjoy this insane food and act like that ain't the case.

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I am totally shame-ridden to report that in Michigan in the 80s, if people went out for Chinese food, you'd hear several of the families trying out their Chinese accent. You'd see people taking pictures that were offensive.

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Well, where I'm from in Michigan, my introduction to someone speaking in an Indian accent is a cartoon version, which we've actually had a lengthy, yeah, we had Hank on to go through that whole thing. And I, again, I'm embarrassed to say that had I not had a best friend who was Indian and really learned the story and really learned how few people represent her.

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Until Mindy arrives, it's like, who's Monica on TV? The studios, networks, all these people, they had a market-driven assessment of everything, which is like, well, who's going to go see this? And they were wrong. John Chu's a friend of ours, Crazy Rich Asians, enormous. Everyone was wrong, as it turns out.

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Yeah, three TV shows.

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What percentage do you know of the U.S. population we could consider Asian? Well, when you say Asian, you have to consider Pacific Island. You have to consider India. I will not consider India. That's a longstanding debate. He always wants to separate that. I carve them out.

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Rob is an eighth Asian?

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Yeah, he's an eighth?

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An eighth Filipino. So his, what is it? Twelve and a half. Twelve and a half. So his wife is half Filipino. So his son is 25%. And since he's his dad, he's 12.5%. I hate this. That's not how it works.

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So in your really interesting story of moving everywhere, having all these different interests, making dumplings at eight, mom selling her own signature brand of kimchi around. Yeah. You first go to Korea out of college or before college?

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They don't speak it. Once mom hits that certain pitch in her voice, you start understanding whether you know the words or not. You're pretty sure on what's being said.

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It sounds like you were already so immersed in the culinary culture that going there must not have been that big of or was there still another level that you were made aware of once you were there?

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Right, there's no system for that.

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My order, I can tell you right now, there was a Jack in the Box in my house in Santa Monica. And five nights a week I was in there ordering the ultimate cheeseburger and then six of those tacos with the fucking buttermilk dipping sauce. And I'd go sit in my Lazy Boy and just get myself into a food coma and pass out. That's it.

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That almost doesn't exist in this country.

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What do you think is happening with the younger generation? Because I have a theory on it. People love to write these articles like the millennials care more about avocado toast than owning a home. And on the surface, you're like, okay, so I guess the implication is they're economically irresponsible.

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But the older I get, I go like, oh, no, no, these are people who have chosen experiences over objects. Yes. And that's what's scary to everyone, actually, is because our economy runs on selling objects, not experiences. I know you had Dave Chang. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Yeah, it was like the first punk rock Asian food offering.

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When I grew up, there was a class aspect to it that, of course, I rejected. So it's not just that I didn't think that was a good use of my money. It also represented to me elites like, oh, these fucking idiots are spending six hundred dollars on dinner. Like there was a whole chip on my shoulder about it.

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Exactly right. Yeah. So like we would have the once a year nice meal. And then, of course, when we would go there, I would feel less than the whole time. And yeah, I've never felt that way walking up to Momofuku or any of these places. I don't get that anymore.

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And the staff, I sometimes would be like, got this fucking waiters treating us like we don't belong here. That was another, I don't know if that was in my head or it was happening or a combination of both.

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He's a victim too.

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He wouldn't be working there.

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And I think the staff has increasingly felt cool that they're doing it. Not that they're like, they too should be blue chip family, third generation wealth. Absolutely, yeah. Like they've got a different swagger, which is cool.

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Boy, I've really kind of under, I don't want to say undervalued, but under-recognized how much of our culture is driven by food. Of course, I always think of film and music and fashion, but... I don't think I've really incorporated as much how food drives so much of this. Well, I come from a foodless culture is probably why.

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Yeah.

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Yeah. And that kind of like changed the course of your life.

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Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, experts on expert. I'm Dan Rathers, and I'm joined by Minister Mouse, the Duchess of Duluth.

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Yeah, you can get into thousands of dollars of troubles. Yes.

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Oh, wow. Did you have the obsession? I read Dostoevsky's The Gambler. Now, I have had every addiction, but that one, for whatever reason, blew over me. You're lucky. I'm so fucking lucky.

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In The Gambler, the component I was missing that I couldn't latch on to was at least the book claimed this obsession with getting even.

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They've done all these adrenal studies too that gamblers are getting their biggest high when they're losing the most. Yes. Which is fucking so abstract for a non-addict.

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Yeah, the sex chinchilla. Okay. That's grown on you a little bit, hasn't it?

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The other thing that I think that addiction has over all others is the financial pull. It's like there's no way in which I can construct some fantasy where I'm going to go get the money back I spent on Coke.

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Right. In an hour.

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That's a straight flush for sure. Yeah.

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Also, you're in the judgment business. So you sit down at these tables, you have this added ego going like, well, five of these guys are much dumber than I am.

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Yeah, you're right. Like they make you really angry for a while and then just who has the energy? You don't have the energy. Yeah. I think we've talked about it, but like when you catch yourself putting energy into staying mad...

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Well, this is in the era where most of those were generating like 10%, mid-90s. Exactly. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Like, a lot of times it's just a runaway freight train in your head, right? And then I did this, and then I did this. For some reason, I can see it in my mind when I'm like, well, now I'm actively trying to remember.

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Yeah, leave the world as you found it or better. And just so people understand the power of the Kogi truck who don't live in Los Angeles, on Parenthood, basically we all took our turn ordering the Kogi truck. Everything was commemorated with the Kogi truck. I remember you guys on my calendar. Yeah.

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I remember those days. Yeah. Parenthood. Probably driven by Mae Whitman. I bet she brought us to the Kogi.

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Just if you've not had one, I'll put this up there with the Emily Burger, which is you're eating these tacos because it's Mexican-Korean fusion. Yeah. You're having this beef that's been marinated in a way you're not expecting in a taco. The onions taste different. Like, yeah, when I'm eating that, and this was before I was really even into food, this part of me starting to be into food is like...

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Holy shit. Everything that's on this thing isn't there to look like something. I can taste each thing. That's new.

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Oh, yeah. All of us. Someone who doesn't do that, a nice, nice boy.

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Okay, so I once watched you with Favreau. You made him a grilled cheese. I'm assuming it was on The Chef Show.

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Roy Choi. Roy Choi is a restaurant entrepreneur, an acclaimed chef, and a best-selling author.

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I got to say, I've had this moment twice. Monica and I had it while watching Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat. Where they were in the Italy episode. And we started looking at each other like, we're going to do this, right? We need to get on an airplane tonight. Yeah. And then that grilled cheese, I was like, I think I'd cut my pinky off to taste that grilled cheese right now. Oh, my God.

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Yes. It was one of these heart connection ones.

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And the care that went into it and the amount of butter.

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I think. He has several restaurants, Kogi BBQ, an incredible restaurant, best friend at Park MGM in Las Vegas. But most importantly, he has this tremendous show called Broadcast. Broken Bread, and it is out now. Season two, that's an Emmy Award and James Beard Award winning series that looks at food and how interwoven it is with culture. And it's fascinating.

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But I can see the connective tissue, which is for 35 years, we eat all this processed garbage food. Everyone's putting on weight. So now we're on this mad grab to figure out how to not get so overweight. So then butter's ruled out. Salt's going to lead to hypertension. All these things, it's like, no, no, eat shit with real ingredients.

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You can probably have that much butter and things will be okay.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, Dolby Atmos. The grilled cheese is cooking in all corners of the room. Yes.

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John is like the most willing pupil in the world. And he's fucking been rewarded so greatly for it because he can go to you and say like, I don't know shit. Teach me how to do this right.

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Yes, it's incredible. He was going to do a project at one point and he actually called me, which was great because I got nothing to teach him. Yeah. But he was doing something based on early hominids and he knew I was an anthropology major. He's basically like, what textbooks do you have? And let's chat. And this was the first time I kind of got to have that role for five minutes.

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But yeah, within 10 minutes, like he's got it. He's got it. Almost annoyingly so. Well, this was four years of my life. I'm glad you got it. Yes.

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It's very impressive. Oh, fuck him. Yeah. All right, let's talk about your show. You are in second season of Broken Bread, and your show has a really kind of noble pursuit in what you're covering and what things you want to expose. And we've touched on a few of them, but right out of the gates of the first episode, you go down to, is it 26th Avenue? Night Market.

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And I guess just if you could really quick, what happened in the pandemic to the restaurant business? Completely folded. Do we know what percentage of restaurants went out of business?

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And it's kind of, he uses it as a route into healing, connection, wonderful stuff.

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I remember having this in the early 2000s when Roscoe's had declared bankruptcy. I was like, I've never been there where there wasn't a 30 minute wait.

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What is the side of the equation that's so fucked up? Is it that we don't pay enough for food? Or is it that the food, I kept hearing in the episode that the food is really expensive. What part is broken in the equation?

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Absolutely. Wow. Aren't all things? Yeah. Please enjoy Roy Choi.

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And I'm right in that. I think restaurants are the highest fail rate of any business people start.

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Yeah, that's wild. So what's the fix?

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And who's the guy who owns Shake Shack and those other restaurants? Danny Meyer. Yeah, so what do you think of his approach? I remember seeing a 60 Minutes on it where he got rid of tipping at the things and the food just cost more.

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I'm glad you're here to talk about this because I also don't think this is a problem many people are just aware of to be.

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I had a pair in high school that I just want more than anything. Do you remember the Air Escapes? Yeah. Yeah, they were kind of like Air Force, I guess. And mine were kind of a gray and a blue and a white. I just keep waiting for them to come out with those.

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honest yeah I watched this 60 minutes just a few weeks ago and it was about 20 million Americans quitting their job between January and February and the number one was hospitality that was the biggest sector that lost employees and then construction oddly was in there which is generally pretty high paying but do you think that we're at a kind of unique time where no one wants to fucking do these jobs anymore and that the leverage is going to

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shift a little bit to the employees?

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Or, you know, like what L.A. Unified does, and I might have this wrong, at least when my ex-girlfriend started teaching at Crenshaw High, was you get some mortgage deals. For teachers, there's some help from the government to live in the areas where they teach. Otherwise, no one in L.A. that's teaching could live in L.A.

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You just wonder if like that could fan out to a lot of things we value and we want.

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Well, I'll tell you, as a staunch capitalist, the part that makes a ton of sense to me is Apple made the best mousetrap. They should be worth a trillion dollars.

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I know, it's even hard to find a picture of those things because they also came in brown and white, and I really would love the brown ones. I've looked for them many times.

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I'm for that. But they couldn't have made that mousetrap in India. They couldn't have made it almost any other country. That's why we have 80,000 of those companies and most countries don't have any. So this country is a place where that can happen because it has an infrastructure, it has a university system, it has employees, it has all this stuff. That needs to be recognized.

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On some level, it would just be dishonest to not say that the system itself helped create this trillion dollar company and that some part of that trillion dollars needs to continue to nurture the system that can allow more apples.

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I don't want the government owning fucking chip manufacturers, but I do want the people who've profited from this amazing system to keep the system working in a healthy manner. Because I think without it, we won't have those...

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Well, I want someone to do some hard science of what the earned credit would be. Like if they wanted to launch Apple anywhere else in the world, what incurred expenses would they have also generated? And I'm not even asking for all that, but like maybe half of that we put back in the system.

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My last question on this is, have there been any movements so that multiple restauranteurs can co-op themselves so that they can can have the leverage when they're ordering the beef and they're ordering the vegetables.

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Let me drop a little seed for the air decks. I want to ask you about it because I imagine we're coming from a semi-similar situation, which is like, I wanted Jordan so fucking bad. Of course, we couldn't afford him. And I was in an interview in Detroit five years ago. The person interviewing me had on a brand new, beautiful set of fours.

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Even the cooks, you would think, like, before this was told to me, I would have assumed they were the highest paid people.

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We were talking to Dan Savage kind of privately and he was talking about servers in Austria for some reason. And that when you just pay those people an appropriate hourly wage and they have healthcare and they have leave and they can have children, you stop being patronizing to them

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oh you know this this kind of fake niceness that people have because we all can feel the guilt of it we know so it's just like you know would it be crazy if just everyone got paid a real thing and it wasn't like each table was just do or die they like me they don't like me i'm gonna make no money or a ton of money like any other job just like every time you did your job every time i did a line acting yeah they came over i don't know it's a little cuckoo

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things you've said those things right yeah well I just want to say your show has a ton of great episodes that explore all kinds of fun things from seed to table we talk about the sovereignty of seeds which is so fascinating that's a I think a topic you would really enjoy on this podcast get some specialists in here we're on the verge of losing seeds

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And is this where, as I understood, I saw some 60 Minutes on it or something, where it's like Roundup has a seed that Roundup works perfect for. I'm sure a lot of companies do this, so I'm not singling anyone out. But then some of that seed will blow into another farmer's field, and that seed actually has a trademark on it. Yes. And so now they sue them for that. Yes. This is how it works.

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And I was like, oh my gosh, you've kept those that beautiful? I'm sorry, they were fives. And he goes, no, they're like a month old. They just came out. And I was like, hold on a second. I literally had no idea. He goes, oh yeah, go to this thing. And in the interview, I hit send and bought like three pairs of the ones I always wanted. And now I just can't fucking stop. There you go.

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Are they heirlooms? Heirloom seeds. If you're listening and you've never had an heirloom tomato like a real one, it looks grotesque. It looks like a spoiled brain out of an elephant maybe. It's not going to draw you in with its convolutions. Fucking taste one of those things. Oh my God. You can't even say that that's a tomato and the other thing I get is a tomato.

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Well, as we're finding out, like we're having all these autoimmune diseases as a product of a lot of this stuff. So now that'll get confronted. Eventually they'll acknowledge, oh, this gives it. And then so they'll steer it to, you know, we'll have another product to solve the first problem. Absolutely. And that's what the seed protectors are fighting. Oh my God. So cool.

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And then you got Chuck D and Lamerit Park, which is so cool.

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Yeah, and then your children are born without any of that generational wealth. Any generational wealth. Yeah, it has to start there in many ways.

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Oh my God, I forgot that you guys are... Cohorts. Yeah, yeah. Peers in the food space. Well, listen, man, I'm so happy for you that as a man with many addictions, you've somehow figured out the same thing I figured out, which is you just get to go hang out with all these people you're probably super fascinated with. And that's your fucking quote job.

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So tip of the hat to you and to me and to Monica. Yeah. So great to finally meet you and hang. And I wish you a ton of luck and everyone should find and record and watch. You might have an Audibody experience. Don't rule it out. Broken Bread season two, check it out now. And if you want to learn more, please go to brokenbread.tv. That's so simple to remember, brokenbread.tv.

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I think you can go there and get activated if you want to get involved in some of these issues you cover. And Roy, what a fucking delight. Thank you. I hope next time we meet, we're eating something. Yeah, please. And now my favorite part of the show, the fact check with my soulmate, Monica Badman. I can't believe you dress as a teddy bear now. This is your new look, teddy bear.

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But it's called a teddy bear.

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It's very mean.

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No, Theodore Roosevelt, who was a hunter. He was on a big hunt, and he didn't have the heart to kill this certain bear they had cornered.

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And then the newspapers made fun of him. And they said, Teddy's bear got away or whatever. And then they started making adorable little bears as if to say, like, it was so cute he couldn't shoot it. So that's why they're called, they were Teddy's bear.

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Well, I read a... I'm trying to think where I just found this out, but I did tell the girls that. And then it led to a little six-minute history of Theodore Roosevelt. And at the end of it, Kristen said... You just know that much about Teddy Roosevelt? I was like, no, no, I read a great biography on him. In fact, I only remember six minutes of what was an incredibly awesome 25-hour biography.

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But incredible life, Theodore Roosevelt. Yes. He was a sickly boy. He was very sickly. He had asthma quite bad. And he wasn't allowed to play with other boys. And he was weak. And he became a learned man. He went to college and whatnot. And at some point he was like, I hate this. And he went out to a ranch in the West. And he became a cowboy for years.

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Yes, and then a cowboy. And then very strong and gained his confidence. And when he came back, people could not believe what happened to Teddy Roosevelt.

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4584.619

Yes. Well, maybe six times. He was a sickly boy and he completely got over his asthma and he was strong as an ox and a very principled man and very strong. And he'd overcome that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4596.888

No one could build the Panama Canal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4599.69

Three countries had given up. Many different companies had gone bankrupt. And Teddy said, we're fucking doing this through hell or high water. And he did it.

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46.397

I want to add it's always Roy Choi. When we did Best of that year, you were like, I don't really care who you guys pick. We've got to have Roy Choi. So I'm just curious.

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4611.041

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4617.767

We have a new armchair baby. A new armchair submarine sandwich.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4625.1

Can we know his name? Yeah, it's Vincent Gregory. After Vincent D'Onofrio. D'Onofrio, if you're listening, congratulations. Big fans, big fans. Vincent's an awesome name.

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4639.832

Really?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4641.953

Also, legendary motorcycle company from England, the Vincent Black Shadow, the most valuable motorcycle in the world.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4650.418

Yes. Vin Diesel.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4672.412

Yeah, because he was 12.5 with Calvin and then another 12.5. You're right. He's 25. So now he's matching Calvin and Vincent.

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468.061

Was there anything though as like a junior high kid that you wanted that you couldn't have that you've now gotten?

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4690.883

Oh, we did? Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4692.364

Of course we did because he and Roy are both Asian.

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4697.667

No. See, that's what's weird.

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4706.812

So 62.5, so he's... But then do I gain more? Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4718.184

Then you're... Oh my God. Someone needs to crunch these numbers. Yeah, so Robbie's now up in the 28%, 30. All right. You're closing in on Natalie. I love it. You're going to leave her in the dust.

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4735.505

Hold on, though. Hold on. I just found an error in that. He does not, Vincent did not get your 12.5%, okay? Okay. Because, see, because Natalie cannot be made more Asian by the children. So if you were 12.5 and then you made Vincent 28%, then that would make Natalie, we can't have her going up, okay? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4760.462

Well, because it's only fun if the Chicagoan becomes Filipino. It's not fun if the Filipino becomes more Filipino.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4769.065

It's all great. It's really great.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4774.308

Ding, dingle.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4785.162

Polar bear. Yes, polar bear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4787.375

Crow's my favorite animal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4790.618

Close. Polar bear. Okay. Polar bear is what my mom's always called me because my hands and feet were so big. And I had lots of posters of polar bears and a polar bear stuffy that I loved. Okay. Guess what I read the other day? What? You're going to fucking shit your little polar, your little teddy bear outfit. Yeah. All polar bears are left-handed.

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4813.101

Yes, it's in this great book. Lincoln's got this series of books. It seems like something I would have bought her, but I didn't. She found this on her own, and she ordered all of them.

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4822.672

It's versus versus. So Komodo Dragon versus King Cobra.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4826.624

Polar bear versus grizzly bear. Who would win in a fight?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4830.406

And then in route to this hypothetical fight, you learn all about the animal.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4835.149

Yes. And we learned in that book that all polar bears are left-handed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4841.312

Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4844.914

You're right. I knew a lot about polar bears before.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4850.577

I wonder what if I read a thing that says they were all dyslexic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4858.104

I can't even remember who they gave it to. I think they gave it to the polar bear, but they fucking gave the victory over the Komodo dragon to the King Cobra, which is preposterous. Really? Yes, absolutely preposterous. A fucking Komodo dragon is like 600 pounds.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4874.277

No, they're quick. But more than anything, their skin, they're nearly a pachyderm.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4880.148

Pussy pack? Pussimus pachydermis. That king cobra is not even going to penetrate that scaly skin. Also, the fucking Komodo dragon has poison of its own. Its whole mouth is poisoned. You can smell them for so long away because they're poison's bacteria. They let all the meat they eat rot into a gross poison so that when they bite an animal, it goes septic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4906.676

So anyways, I do think they gave it to the polar bear. It's a really interesting matchup. You want to know why?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4912.521

Now the polar bear is the tallest bear on earth.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4922.69

Shaquille O'Neal is seven foot two.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4927.068

No, it's on its hind legs.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4929.509

Which they do. They go up there. Sure. Look at me.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4932.631

So the grizzly is eight feet tall. The polar bear is 10 feet tall. But the grizzly, because it hibernates, they can get up to, I forget what it is, maybe 1,400 pounds or something.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4945.077

Whereas the polar bear is like maybe 900 or something, whatever.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4949.039

It's not as heavy. So the grizzly bear is more mass, but the polar bear is taller. But now what you have in the polar bear's arsenal is that it only hunts. It doesn't eat foliage and shit like a grizzly bear. It just kills things. The grizzly eats salmon. It'll eat a caribou if it gets hands on one. But mostly it's eating a ton of berries, honey, right? Less of its life is spent in combat killing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4973.257

Now, on the other hand, grizzlies' claws are much bigger. There's so much stuff to consider.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4981.667

Yeah.

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4982.989

Yep. They're all brown bears. The brown bear can go by brown bear, grizzly bear, Kodiak.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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4990.503

Polar bear is just polar bear. But its name, Ursula, it's like Ursula Maritimus or something. It's the water bear.

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4998.887

Beautifully white. In fact, Monica, they're translucent. That was in the book.

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5004.61

Their hair is actually translucent.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5007.072

Yeah, but when all laid, and their skin's black.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5010.854

I'm not lying to you. These are the facts from the book.

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5019.898

No, I wouldn't.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5023.701

You do. And brown. You're brown. That's right. And I... And you're a bear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5029.446

You're a teddy bear. So polar bear, grizzly bear, teddy bear.

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5034.271

If you were in the Ursula genus... Uh-huh.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5038.795

A black bear.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5040.176

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5041.277

Because they're so cute. They roll down the hills. They're smaller. They eat almost all berries. What about a panda? Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare. Pandas are too boring for you. They're not playful enough.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5068.089

At the zoo, you're right. They're very active at the zoo.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5084.271

Yeah, or just animals.

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5097.242

I don't. They do. They love cats. But I guess I'd love to know the demographic of these discovery shows about lions. Like, I want to know male versus female. Who's watching? Who's watching?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5109.61

Right.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5116.632

Oh, good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5125.413

We love The Daily. Also, people were like, when we had our birds aren't real, arm shared in dangerous, people were like furious. Why? In the comments. Why? This was already on the Daily. I was like, okay. We also have guests that are on other shows.

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514.201

Well, yeah, you and I share the addiction thing, and I can't wait to talk about that. It's not often that my guest has also smoked crack, so it's like, right? Yeah. I can't imagine you get interviewed by a ton of people that have smoked a good deal of crack either.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5149.419

Some were just like that. Okay. And then others were like, get real, guys. We already know this is fake. It was on the, you know, it was more of like an angry. What was clear is that the people who commented, as always, had not listened to the episode.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5163.166

That became very obvious by their sentiment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5165.408

That's my favorite, maybe. Armchair Endangers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5212.401

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5216.946

Oh, right, right, right. It's interesting. Okay, good. Let's do this. Let's dance. You know, I'm the first person to be really critical of men. So much of what we do is toxic. It's controlling. We've been the dominant gender and women have paid the price. They sat at home and cleaned and gave us kids and we did whatever the fuck we wanted. And as long as we were making money, that was the deal.

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5243.648

Terrible. But when it's time for the men to show up, we also need them. For sure. And it's time for the men. And this is the thing we do good. Like, it's our time. Unfortunately, the world isn't such that everyone can stop having that role. There's still Russia. There's still North Korea. So this is the part of my opinion. It's like, yep. There's a bunch of terrible shit that go along with men.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5268.176

Also, when there's a bobcat in the house, it's time for us to do our thing. This is what we evolved to do.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5284.625

I guess I'm speaking more broadly as like, I don't totally disagree with the policy that yes, women and children, I believe should leave. And I believe the men should stay to defend the country.

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5300.47

That's good.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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531.921

Actually in position to... To look back on it. Because that really weeds out the recreational users in the attics. It does.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5311.542

Well, no, but they should be running supplies. They should be grabbing the other guys who want to kill people, ammunition. They should be pulling people out of rubble and helping with medical stuff. Like there's a role for many, many people in a war other than shooting people. And just like I would say to a woman, like, well, here's the shit deal of being a woman.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5329.674

You got to pass a child through your groin.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5333.016

You don't have to. But if you're going to have a child.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5336.758

That's one of the downsides of being a woman. It's like you're going to have to pass this thing through your body.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5342.701

And the downside of being a man is when your village is being attacked and they are trying to steal all your women and children, you are the person that's got to fight. You're physically bigger. You've evolved to do this. This is your time to do your thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5359.63

But I'm probably not saying it well.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5366.271

Well, you're right, because I don't mind that there's women staying to fight. I think that's radical. There's many women staying to fight.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5377.955

My thought, though, is this. If they did that, right, they're like, men who aren't into it, bail. And now... There's the 1% who literally don't think they can run water to people.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5397.145

And I'm not judging. I don't know what I would do. I'm not in judgment. But I'm saying let's start with saying the person doesn't want to go to Russia and live in Russia.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5407.924

If they don't want to live in Russia or be under Russian rule, and they want the Ukraine to remain an independent state, they have to participate in that. Right. Or surrender and move now to Russia. Does that make sense?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5422.651

I mean, I'm harsh. I'm trying to get this a little black and white so we can proceed.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5429.815

But I'm only getting to the point where if you do believe Ukraine should be defended... It's not okay for you to bail. So you're the 1% who's decided absolutely there's no service you can provide or you're too scared. Now, when they let that 1% out, one strata up from that that thinks they mostly don't want to be there, they see all these dudes running. There's kind of no shame to it. They join.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5456.583

Now everyone's running away from the thing. And then Russia got Ukraine. So that's what I'm saying. You're working backwards from do you want to keep Ukraine independent? If you do, I think there's probably only one way for them to have a shot. And it's not half the men deserting the country.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5471.075

And I think as soon as you let some of the men desert the country, just more will follow because they won't be embarrassed anymore. It's the worst of all options, which is a fucking human conflict with death and weapons. But if you're even going to do it, you must work backwards from how it could possibly be successful. And it's not to willy nilly let some people decide and some people not.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5490.546

There's like a certain reality to the situation, I guess.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5502.45

There are people going. Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5508.852

I guess the other option, let's look at all the options. You could say like everyone in Ukraine should just get up and leave. They should go to all these other countries so that no one dies and say to Russia, here you go. Now you have Ukraine. We don't want to live under your rule. We'd rather live in Poland or Hungary or all these places. Now all those countries have to deal with that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5525.84

That's a side note. Those people now, they had a life in Ukraine and we don't know that they'll have a life elsewhere. Sure. So they're not just maybe giving up this piece of real estate. They're giving up like their whole life.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5539.568

Right. So what's the other option? The other option is try to resist and make it go on so long that the sanctions have enough time to truly cripple the place. That just involves everyone's got to fucking get ugly now. I don't know. I don't know.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5562.675

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5567.938

Right, so like you wish we were doing more. But I don't. I wish we could. I know, I know. If they didn't have nukes, we can't initiate, even, I mean, you wanna be as dark as you can get. You have to let Russia take over Ukraine before we have nuclear genocide.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5587.285

But I do think, I think this is the strategy, which is hopefully goes on long enough. It's embarrassing enough that the will of the Russians becomes very obvious. They don't want anything to do with this. This was a huge mistake. Everyone's fucking broke. And they fucking, they revolt and they get rid of that bozo. Oh, did you hear this cool thing that Elon Musk did?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5605.42

He brought internet to the Ukraine? Yes. Someone from the Ukraine trolled him. He was like, wow, you're going to space and you can't give us internet? Ah. He responded, Starlink will be up in five hours. He had already been working on it. No way. So fucking Elon Musk put internet in there.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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563.657

So that's it. You just had a nice seven day run. Yeah. Oh, wow. It was like a vacation in Cancun. That's incredible. I have to say you found yourself in the perfect environment because you do not want to be like day six of smoking crack in the wilderness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5633.957

Yep. In fact, no one's touching it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5639.8

Yeah. Ashton and Mila have a really cool thing. They're matching up to $3 million for people who will go and do that for the humanitarian side of it. Wonderful. She's Ukrainian.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5649.365

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5653.768

Yes.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5670.36

The part that blew my mind was the gambling thing. It was so fun to get to talk to somebody that had a gambling addiction. I don't really have, I have zero experience with it and it was illuminating.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5685.245

Even, waking up in the morning, looking in the mirror and saying, I hope today's the day I get even.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5691.031

Yes, and also all I need is five bucks to do it. The endless belief that that could happen again. Oh, wow.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5722.298

Oh yeah. We had a heartbreaking situation. We did. That was painful. I didn't like that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5729.285

More than half.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5738.471

Yeah, my unit shut off. But yes, we were going to get a Sedona update from you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5753

I saw a picture of you. There's now a treasure trove of pictures of you that, like, should be posted but won't be. Oh. So I saw one last night.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5763.766

There's a little mouse asleep on a bus with a white claw on her hand.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5771.696

Who posted it?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5774.999

Okay. Well, mom didn't. Mom has it on her phone.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5779.324

And I said, this would be a great post, but money wouldn't like it. There's a couple of things going on there. Go ahead.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5788.348

You are, because you're curled up with your head on the window sleeping. And for whatever reason, the angle, you look so tiny. It looks like a kitty cat sleeping on the bus. And then you have a white claw in your hand. I do. It's so adorable.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5824.517

Right, because you were having a little bit of motion sickness.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5832.919

It says a lot, because you were riding with me the last time you went up that mountain, and I was driving a quadrillion miles an hour.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5839.84

Yeah.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5858.152

Oh, okay, okay, okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5860.675

Oh, geez. This is, by the way, you're not going to let us post this thing. You're going to read a 20-year-old article of me, and I'm embarrassed already. Do you want me to not? No, do it, do it, do it, do it, do it.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5873.648

Oh, God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5887.716

They caught me in the one year I was vegan.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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589.035

Women love that. They love it. You guys love that, right?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5898.518

Oh, God, no. I go to movies. I see meself. Me not feel better about meself. Me think we will feel good, but feel bad.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5922.299

I'm still saying that. I need some new material.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5926.024

It's just your truth. I thought I'd eat cupcake all day.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5944.709

Okay. Not bad yet. That's cute. Okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5950.215

Oh, this is to promote hit and run. That's okay.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5979.978

Ding, ding, ding, bong, bong, bong.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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5999.929

Sweet. Romantic.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6079.751

White privilege. That was before I knew it was white privilege.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6083.833

Yeah, kind of. I think these are all the same stories I just still say.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6124.189

Yeah, and sum that up in four lines.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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614.874

What year was this? It was 94. 94. I was just going to say, I was living in downtown Detroit in 94. And yeah, it was just ubiquitous. Yes. It was rare to see somebody not struggling with addiction out on the street. It was heartbreaking, but I didn't feel so bad because I was partaking. So who cared? I think we should just start first and foremost with you were born in Seoul.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6193.745

Oh, see, he's trying to get me to shit talk. Oh. All these, see, this is what I'm talking about, print. He's, right now, he's like, how do you explain Ashton's success? A, why does that need explaining? You're not asking me to explain Brad Pitt's success.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6217.859

They ask you how I got successful?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6223.719

Yeah, I don't think. But I always answer with you. This was the thing. The people wanted to hate Kutcher. Especially these journalists. They wanted to say he was only there because he was good looking. And they wanted to catch me doing that.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6235.828

He's only here because he's good looking. What if I said that?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6287.757

Well, some things never change. Oh my God.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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634.767

Mom and dad met here, but mom's North Korean, dad's South Korean. Then they moved to South Korea, had you, and then you now come to L.A. at two?

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6344.536

Co-eds.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6347.217

No, I've lost some stuff. Thank God. Most of it, I'm just embarrassed with how much I'm recycling shit from nine years ago.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6354.161

Okay, well, okay, that's a positive. Yeah. Thank you.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6368.183

Well, that's a nice way to look at it, but I think I'm right about this.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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6372.662

There was a moment where I was more famous for having dated famous people.

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Which I get it. And that's why Stern wanted me on. That's why Stern was willing to have me on. I was this guy like, why was he dating her and her and her? And that hopefully I'll come on and talk about those people that are much more famous than me. So that's also happening. Sure. Luckily, I got on the stern and he just liked me and was fascinated by my drunk log.

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But this guy, that's why I got a story.

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Playboy is they want me to dish on celebrities. And I know it too going in. So it's like I'm being protective and that's why it infuriates me. Well, you'll get to that.

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You saw me first in Parenthood.

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Right, right, right.

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And that had changed by Parenthood. But if you're the quote dude from Punk'd who's dating Kate Hudson, people are like, what the fuck?

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I think he's saying, do you want to fuck your co-stars?

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He wasn't expecting that. He didn't want me to be like, no, I find it damaging because I...

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I had one, yeah. Kristen tore it out.

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The old house, when it was four bedrooms, had this really small bathroom that when you sat on the toilet, I couldn't sit on the toilet. My knees would hit the wall. So I'm like, I was a bachelor. So I ripped that fucker out. And I've always wanted a floor-length urinal. So I had a floor-length urinal. And when my buddies would come over, I'd fill it with ice like they do at nice restaurants.

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Oh, my God. And it was auto-flush and everything.

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Doesn't that sound great, Rob? That sounds nice. Yeah. Okay.

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See, again, why are you bringing up Travolta? Go ahead.

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I didn't even really answer.

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I like Travolta, though, for the record. He's a sweetheart.

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17.

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So I imagine the part. I don't see, or maybe you. Oh, maybe they took it out.

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No, maybe they took it out for this because it's now online.

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The printed version. Has it? Yes.

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That's weird.

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No, no, my issue is they didn't say those names. And then he put, you've been with, whatever question it was about stars. Yeah, yeah. We go back to that question. It was like maybe 12.

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It was around that.

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Oh, wow. That's weird. So what is that question?

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Comma. And then he listed three names.

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And then I just go like, well, I guess my secret's dancing and blah, blah. So it looks like I didn't correct...

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That was taken out. I know I went apeshit and my publicist called and was apeshit. Yeah. So I wonder if in subsequent things.

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Okay. Interesting. That's the only explanation. All right. Well, now I'm fine now.

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I'm not too embarrassed by that.

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We didn't learn one thing about me, though. We already know this about me, right?

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Yeah, and I said... So you used to say coeds. And coitus. I used to say coeds. You still say coitus. I still say coitus. Okay, so just coeds. I got to get that back in.

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Okay.

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Of the 6%. Okay. And 24% are Chinese Asians.

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We have about 4% Asian and 2% Indian. 19% Filipino, 10% Vietnamese. Filipino is number three? 19, yep. Ding, ding, ding, Rob. Congrats. I got two of the top three in here.

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Wow, Japanese are that- Small. Yeah.

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Huh, that's interesting. I thought Hawaii is very high concentration of Japanese people.

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Yeah.

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I don't know why I thought that. No, because... I know why I thought that.

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No, you go. No, I don't have... I don't know what you're saying. I think because Japan was so talked about in the 90s as being this economic power. So I think just... Oh, I see. You know, it's like a lot of, you don't hear about Myanmar ever, former Burma.

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When was the last time you heard about, you know, you don't hear about a lot of these countries. These don't make headlines, but we were obsessed with Japan the way we're obsessed with China in the 90s.

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They're not escaping. They don't need to leave. Yeah. Really good point.

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Minus 30% of that from India. Nope, we're including this.

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Okay. So Indians are at 6%.

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Just overachiever, overachiever. Well. Always. Okay. I guess we're going against what stereotype we're trying to break, which is the model minority, and you shouldn't feel bad for them, which is not the case.

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Yeah, yeah.

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But also, they came... It's all about, too, what we let in, right? Exactly. So, like, the Philippines, the reason they're all nurses is because we said we'll let all the nurses in from the Philippines. And y'all...

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Focused on engineering.

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Yeah. And we said, you can come on in if you can do that.

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Uh-huh.

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Did I tell you I got the bam?

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On that trip, so much happened on one trip.

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When I was famous for 30 seconds and they invited me down to the Sugar Bowl to go out on the field for Nokia.

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And do the Nokia halftime thing.

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They said, you can come down first class tickets for you and friends. So I brought Aaron and Adrian.

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And Bree and I went. And this is, remember, on my birthday. And I went to a slot machine. Not a slot machine. A video poker. And I got a Royal Flush.

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I didn't want to insult you, but I also didn't want you to be left behind.

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This is not ringing a bell. And then we were all staring at it like, oh my God, Royal Flush. This is like three grand or whatever. And then we just stared at it and stared at it like, why isn't it paying us? Oh no. Why isn't it paying us? And then I hit the like, the button. What? I didn't save them all. I didn't think to save them all because it was already the perfect thing.

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None of us thought so. Oh no. And it just redoubted me a shit hand. So that's a once in a lifetime occurrence. You'll never forget that.

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Then Aaron and I were on the balcony and we were throwing the beads, but we were purposely throwing them in the horse poop because all the horse cops were pooping all over the thing, purposely throwing them in the horse poop to see if people would pick them up and wear them. And they did. And it was a great entertainment for us.

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But back to part of the thing was like, would you want to eat at Emeril Lagasse's restaurant? I forget the name of it. And we said, of course we'd like to go. We went and I said, can I get the bam? And he fucking came out of the kitchen and dropped our dishes and gave us the bam. What do you mean what?

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He said it. He dropped our food. Emeril. Emeril.

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Yes, well, it's because it's a big, big week there and he was at his own restaurant.

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And he came out of the kitchen.

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And he put our chowder down and bammed us.

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Yeah.

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Whenever Punk came out, by the way, I'd never seen him say bam. I just knew, you know how you know things.

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It was in the zeitgeist.

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Oh, man, that's why it's so hard to get a loan for one. You do look like a cosplay person. I know I said that the last time you wore this, but you really look like a furry person. Is that what they're called? Sure. They go to a convention. Rob, you know all this stuff.

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Furry's a sexual thing. Yeah. Right, yeah. But they go as creatures, right? And they rub up against each other?

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And for furry play, I think. Yeah, I guess. Why do you think it's called furries? Because they're wearing little bear outfits like this.

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Oh my gosh.

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Ooh. Yeah. Ooh, ooh, ooh. That has to be the sector that was hit the hardest.

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And they're done. That was a big one. And I loved it.

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Okay, great. Love you.

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It's an awesome episode. It is. It is. That gambling thing for me.

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I'm assuming that it comes out kind of sealed where the crack is. So you can just lace those together and hope for the best. It's a surgery, right?

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Yeah. I think about it often. Like I'm constantly talking about addiction to people and occasionally we'll be talking about gambling. And it's like half of what I understand about the whole thing is from him. The notion of looking in the mirror and going, we just have to get even.

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Somehow you put all these ugly freaks together and there's some beautiful people. Absolutely.

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Okay. And then in your childhood, they own a liquor store. They had a restaurant. They had a dry cleaning spot. They ultimately went into jewelry, starting with door to door and then becoming a successful business. And you also move nonstop.

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I took an LA geography class in college. The Koreans have a pretty damn good network once you're here, right? Like the whole Alhambra area, they loan within their community and they help people start businesses. And there is a nice network for Koreans.

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There's a few different minority groups that America doesn't seem to have much compassion for. Jewish folks, because in general, the Jewish folks they know were their doctor or they've done well in this country. A lot of people have those experience with Asians as business owners or classmates. And then they ignore this whole other section.

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And they seem to have a lack of compassion, which we extend to everyone else who's a minority group.

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Right. We're only thinking, and I'm going to be speaking way too broadly and generally, but we are only thinking of the Japanese student visa. We're not thinking of the Hmong or the Southeast Asians, or we're not thinking of any of those people.

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And if you've traveled Asia, each place is different as imaginable, really. It's very different.