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You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's sex and relationship show for grown-ups. If you're under 18, get out of here, young'un.

Hey, Dan. I have a question. There is a lot of family drama happening around me at the moment, and I feel like I'm the only one who is sane in my life right now, and everyone else is crazy. So basically, my parents divorced two years ago. We're all in our 30s, so that's fine, though it was a massive, massive shock to us. My father left my mother for someone we know.

Hey, Dan. I have a question. There is a lot of family drama happening around me at the moment, and I feel like I'm the only one who is sane in my life right now, and everyone else is crazy. So basically, my parents divorced two years ago. We're all in our 30s, so that's fine, though it was a massive, massive shock to us. My father left my mother for someone we know.

That ended very quickly after that, thank God, because it was just really awkward. My dad is living in an apartment close to where I am. Called me last week to say that he has a new girlfriend, that he wants me to come around and meet her. I have no intention of coming around and meeting this girl because I have found out that my father is 74 years old. This girl is 19 years old.

That ended very quickly after that, thank God, because it was just really awkward. My dad is living in an apartment close to where I am. Called me last week to say that he has a new girlfriend, that he wants me to come around and meet her. I have no intention of coming around and meeting this girl because I have found out that my father is 74 years old. This girl is 19 years old.

I am absolutely outraged by this. My two brothers, who I called to get their reaction, were like, oh God, what is he doing? But like, not too bad. Like, let's go meet him anyway. He seems happy and stuff like that. There is no fucking way that I'm meeting my father and his 19 year old child bride. I told my father, I don't want to talk to you. Don't call me again.

I am absolutely outraged by this. My two brothers, who I called to get their reaction, were like, oh God, what is he doing? But like, not too bad. Like, let's go meet him anyway. He seems happy and stuff like that. There is no fucking way that I'm meeting my father and his 19 year old child bride. I told my father, I don't want to talk to you. Don't call me again.

Don't talk to me until she's not in your life anymore. Apparently she's living with him now. Apparently she has a child. It's like a Jerry Springer show. I'm not interested. My brothers said that I'm causing loads of conflict in the family group. I'm upsetting my mom by telling her about it. I'm like, why would she not want to know that? My brothers went to go meet him just at the weekend.

Don't talk to me until she's not in your life anymore. Apparently she's living with him now. Apparently she has a child. It's like a Jerry Springer show. I'm not interested. My brothers said that I'm causing loads of conflict in the family group. I'm upsetting my mom by telling her about it. I'm like, why would she not want to know that? My brothers went to go meet him just at the weekend.

I am absolutely staying out of it. I don't want to talk to my dad at all now. until this is finished. Am I crazy? Should I reach out to him? I don't think I'm crazy. He's insane. He's 74 years old. She's 19. That's like, to me, that feels like so illegal. But my brother said that I'm overreacting, that they're both adults. But I'm like, no, I don't know. This feels like a scam to me.

I am absolutely staying out of it. I don't want to talk to my dad at all now. until this is finished. Am I crazy? Should I reach out to him? I don't think I'm crazy. He's insane. He's 74 years old. She's 19. That's like, to me, that feels like so illegal. But my brother said that I'm overreacting, that they're both adults. But I'm like, no, I don't know. This feels like a scam to me.

Hi, Dan, Nancy, and the tech savvy at Risk Youth. I'm a cis bi man from London in the UK. I'm polyamorous and have a wife, two kids and a long-term girlfriend, which doesn't leave me much time for anything else. But I do have a wonderful semi-regular partner who comes over from the US every couple of months.

Hi, Dan, Nancy, and the tech savvy at Risk Youth. I'm a cis bi man from London in the UK. I'm polyamorous and have a wife, two kids and a long-term girlfriend, which doesn't leave me much time for anything else. But I do have a wonderful semi-regular partner who comes over from the US every couple of months.

We have really fun dates, interesting conversation, great sex, and she always stays in fancy hotels, which is a fun little bonus for me. She's expressed an interest in seeing what London sex parties are like.

We have really fun dates, interesting conversation, great sex, and she always stays in fancy hotels, which is a fun little bonus for me. She's expressed an interest in seeing what London sex parties are like.

I've been to a few with my wife, but she's not that interested anymore, and it isn't something I've done with my girlfriend, so I'd like to go more, and my American partner is very experienced. In theory, she'd be a great person to go with. Problem solved. But there's one more problem. She's extremely loud during sex, like way beyond anything I've experienced with anyone else.

I've been to a few with my wife, but she's not that interested anymore, and it isn't something I've done with my girlfriend, so I'd like to go more, and my American partner is very experienced. In theory, she'd be a great person to go with. Problem solved. But there's one more problem. She's extremely loud during sex, like way beyond anything I've experienced with anyone else.

When we first hooked up, I was a little surprised by it, a little self-conscious about the whole hotel hearing us, But eventually I got used to it and I grew to really enjoy it. Anyway, there's some truth in the stereotype that British people are a bit more reserved, even at a London sex party.

When we first hooked up, I was a little surprised by it, a little self-conscious about the whole hotel hearing us, But eventually I got used to it and I grew to really enjoy it. Anyway, there's some truth in the stereotype that British people are a bit more reserved, even at a London sex party.