Jeffrey

You know when you have one of those breakthrough moments where you hear something and realize, oh, my God, I've been doing this wrong my entire life.

Like when you find out the little drawer below your oven isn't for storing pans.

That's for keeping food warm.

Did you know that?

It's just too convenient.

Or when Alexis realized the turn signals on her car aren't just lights to press when a fun song comes on the radio.

Well, one of our listeners realized she's been approaching dating apps the wrong way for years.

But one piece of advice completely shifted her thinking and helped her find the perfect guy.

Now, he's not calling her back, but that's not here or there.

The advice might actually help you, though, if you hear it in your second date update right after this.

Alexis, if you could describe not the perfect guy for you, but the feeling that you get when you're around that guy.

Close your eyes and tell us the three words that he makes you feel.

You know?

Like I feel a little.

Belittled?

That's the wrong answer?

No.

It's whatever you want to feel.

Belittled is one.

Yeah, seriously.