Marie

Hello.

It's good to talk to you, Dr. John.

I have a question for you.

I am curious if you can speak to how do I resolve conflict with my husband when he is struggling to take accountability for his end?

So for some backstory.

Hold on.

A little bit of that.

Probably also a little bit of laughter because I'm on the Dr. John Deloney show.

That's not funny.

No, not at all.

I'm grateful to get to connect because I'm curious, especially for your perspective with the male perspective, I think might be helpful.

Just

To give you a little bit of a backstory, we have been together for about eight years, and we have two children.

He's a good guy.

He's dedicated in work.

He's involved with the kids.

I just think that we're in a bit of a toxic phase relationally, and that probably has a lot to do with the fact that we're parenting two small children.

Yeah, so...

If we have a disagreement, or I guess with children, for example, if maybe something goes away that is hurtful to me, like I maybe hear him say something to the children that's kind of like undermining me in a way.

Give me an example.