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Chapter 1: Why did Leo decide to travel to Miami?
Alpro. Is it working? Okay, cool. This is the most janky little setup. Surprise. Hi, friends. I'm back in Miami. I booked a flight. My intuition was fluttering a little bit. Really, she was wrecking me. And I had this weird itch to come back to Miami, so here I am. I obey orders, because last time I didn't listen to my intuition, I almost died. I'm happy again. I don't want to leave. I like life.
Chapter 2: What is 'What Would Leo Do?' all about?
It's nice. But since we're in Miami, everything's very sporadic. Let's do a What Would Leo Do? Everyone that's new, hey, new friends. This is where you guys write in and ask what I would do in your situation. Hint, what would Leo do? So I'm going to tell you what I would do, what I would does. Okay? I'm not planning none of this. I'm just going to pick them as we go.
This spontaneous life is a good time. Try it. Okay, first one. Why do people love Bomb? Because they're insecure that you'll love them for who they really are. That's it. They're going to try and do everything they can to guarantee that you'll love them. That's why they do it. And then when they get the confirmation, it's exhausting and they don't want to do it no more.
Chapter 3: Why do people love bomb in relationships?
How they treated you when they were love bombing you was not them. It's who they are when they were earning love. So it's exhausting. It's tiring. It's not them. So when they're trying to earn it, you like how they are when they be earning it. And then as soon as they get the validation, you like them. They're like, okay, I don't have to put the effort no more.
And then you see the real them who's not love bombing. That's tea on that. Real simple. Not fun, though. Sorry. Okay, next. My dad works at a college that I'm going to, so I get in free. Period. I don't like the people, campus, or the fact that it's close to home.
I'm afraid my disliking of this college will impact my mental health, but it seems like the financial benefit of free college for four years outweighs any of that. Should I transfer or try and find a better perspective on college? If you don't like them, you don't like them. So when I was in high school, I went to a certain school for the first three years.
High school in the United States is four years. I have a lot of like European listeners now, hey, from way over there, hey. So I did three years at one high school, got bored, I was sick of it, I was sick of everybody. So I was like, let's go try something new. So I flipped to a whole new school for my senior year of high school. A lot of people thought I was crazy.
Chapter 4: Should you choose financial benefits over personal happiness in college?
A lot of people thought I was whatever. But what did I do? Have more fun. Met cooler people. Had a shorter drive because the new school I transferred to was closer to the house I was at. It was a win-win for me. Everybody looked at me like I was fucking nuts. But that's a free thing because it was a public school.
But if you're not happy there, if you're bored, if you feel like an itch to go somewhere else, go somewhere the fuck else. Life is too short to sit over here and convince yourself to be okay with shit that you're not. Go have fun. You asking the motherfucker who got a weird intuitive thought and jumped and went to Miami. I'm always going to tell you to do what you want to do. Do what feels right.
That's what I'm always going to tell you to do. So if you thought you was going to get a different answer, no, baby, I'm not going to lie to you. Yeah, I get the financial concern. Like, it's nice. You got free school. There's other ways to get free school. Go do a FAFSA. That's what it's called, right? FAFSA, FAFSA, FAFSA, whatever the hell.
If you don't make enough to cover college, there's plenty of scholarships you can get. Start trying. And if this is a test, here's something you could do. I'm very big on tests. I don't trust nothing blindly. So if you want to switch to a new school, And you're worried, oh, I don't want to deal with like the financial burden. Say, OK, if it doesn't line up, then I'm not meant to switch.
Go apply to a different school and see if you can get any scholarships to go with it. If it's covered and you can get it discounted or you can get it for free, you know, you need to jump. If nothing lines up, that's the thing is like, throw your hands up, start applying. And if it starts lining up, you being pushed to go, you have to go. If you have to force yourself to stay.
You should never stay. And that's for everybody in a fucking relationship too. I know we're talking about college, but if you have to force yourself to stay, get out. Life's going to kick you out. And I'm only being harsh about that because life kicked me the fuck out. I knew I was supposed to go and I was forcing to stay and it forced back. It sucks. So just jump. Trust me.
I'm living proof you're going to be all right. You're going to be like me, a drunk bastard in Miami. I'm not drunk though. I'm pissed because I landed. It's pissing its ass raining right now. I'm like trapped inside. I feel like I'm in baby jail. I can't even go down the road and get some liquor. I would love to be drunk right now. But this is the universe locking me in front of this camera.
Get your podcast out. So here we are. Okay, next advice on what to do to get my ghetto ex's new girlfriend to back off stalking me and trying to fight me. She basically is trying to fight me and threatening me. I blocked her already and filed a police report against her. Your ex's new girlfriend. Do you have any contact with the ex? Why is that bitch even a problem? Don't talk to your ex.
Am I missing something? Cut off any communication with the ex and you can embarrass the dumb ass. Be like, look, I don't want to fight you. I don't care to fight over that little dick man. Embarrass her and she'll leave you alone. Just be like, that's my ex for a reason. Go play with him. But you have to not be talking to the ex to be able to like buck up like that.
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Chapter 5: How should you handle an ex's new partner causing drama?
So drop any communication with the ex. What the hell? I'm not going to tell you to back down. You've already kind of like done your thing. You took it to the police, okay? Women, I don't have, like, such a harsh, rigid view on restraining orders. You already put the police report, so if she keeps trying to fuck with you, okay, now you got a paper trail in your favor.
People don't realize the justice system ain't here to help you. So you got the police report down, so now you kind of got a leg up. If this bitch pops up where you are and you beat the shit out of her, you already got the police report backing you, so you could fibble-a-do. And maybe say she attacked me. I was defending myself. Because you already got the paper trail backing you up.
That you've already had a problem with this girl. So if she comes up or shows up and you got to do what you got to do, do what you got to do. And then when the cops ask, yeah, I tried to ask for help about this bitch. And she just showed up and attacked me. So I defended myself. If I got to get arrested, so be it. I'll let the judge hear it out. But you pick a story and you stick. Okay?
Oh, here we go. This one's kind of sad. I'm gonna clock you real quick though. I'll like jolt you out of it. How do I get over feeling like I'm not good enough? Are you not good enough or are you becoming someone that nobody else is strong enough to be? Your path's going to look very different. There's plenty of times I've felt not good enough. Doesn't mean it's true, no.
But the other question is good enough for who? Who the fuck you trying to be good enough for? Assess them, you know? And assess your attachment to them. What you trying to earn so bad? What you trying to like gain approval for and be like, what are you going to get if somebody looks at you and says, okay, you are enough? Nothing. That's not what you want is for someone to tell you you're enough.
You want to feel like you're enough. How would people have to treat you to feel like enough? You want to be prioritized? You want to be loved? What is it? You're over here fixated on, I need to be enough. No, you need to fixate on, how am I going to feel like that? So what do I need to do? Do I want to be somebody's priority? Do I need a partner who prioritizes me?
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Chapter 6: How can you overcome the feeling of not being good enough?
Maybe you don't have a relationship and you want to feel like somebody's number one. Go into that avenue of it. Because if you just go blindly into the whole, I'm not good enough and fixate on that, what the fuck is that about? You're going to beat yourself up for no reason. Don't do that. Let me save you from it. Go do the things that are going to make you feel like enough.
But you're going to see how your personal relationship with it is. Does that make sense? I hope so. The sun's coming out. Oh, somebody asked, what should I do in my early 20s? Travel. Boots. I'm going to go on a whole rant right now about traveling. It's not just traveling. Okay, do we want to go spiritual? Let's go all of it. Okay, if you feel like a weird...
It's like a grid worker thing for like energy. If your energy is being called somewhere, you need to be in that place on the grid. There's some kind of match or frequency or something you have to go to. So I've always had an itch to travel since I'm little baby. I've always loved to travel until I got to where I was like 16 and then I was 18 and I had a fake ID and I can get a hotel room.
I was traveling since I'm 18. All the time. Love to go places, do shit on my own, and whatever. But you got to be careful. You got to be safe. But the whole thing with travel. If you feel called to a certain place, fucking go. Go. Don't worry about the money, because I traveled when I had no money. I used to love going to New Orleans.
I don't know what it is about New Orleans, but I used to go all the time. When I wasn't making a lot of money, I would save up. And one time I got an Airbnb for like 600 bucks for like three nights, four days. And I drove and I stayed and I had a blast. I penny pinched. I got alcohol and drank it at my Airbnb before I went out. I would buy like one drink when I went out.
So I was like penny pinching. Go into different locations. I swear to God, it will like unlock different insights and feeling states and ideas. Certain ideas are only going to hit you when you go to certain places. Different locations have different frequencies. You're going to be a match to different shit. So if you feel called to something, go. In your 20s, go travel as much as you can.
The money will come back to you. Don't go be stupid and go spend above your means, but go travel. Like I said, you could do it penny pinching. I would not suggest a Groupon. That's not a good idea. And I don't do no brothel. Not a brothel. What's it called? Hostel? No. What's the thing where it's like shared? Not a brothel. What the fuck am I thinking?
What's the thing where it's like a shared thing where it's like a lot of people live in the same room? Don't fucking do that. Go somewhere and be by yourself. Make sure you're safe. Make sure your shit that you brought with you is safe. Going to festivals with friends and stuff like that is a blast. Anything you can do to travel, do it.
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Chapter 7: What should you do in your early 20s to grow as a person?
If you want to be a flight attendant because you get to travel for free, do it. There's ways to get to travel. especially in your early 20s. But that's something that grew my character, my ability to like perceive shit and like my respect for culture. You got to go experience different things because I'm from a small little town, Pensacola in Florida. Piddly podunk bullshit.
Like it's, your mind's going to expand. When I used to get an itch to travel, it's because where I was at, it felt like I was in like a dome where like my ideas and my thoughts could only be so big or potentials and opportunities could only get so big and I felt limited. And then I would think, okay, when I go to Houston, I feel like the ceiling lifts.
I feel like it shatters and I can go way higher. Follow that feeling. It sounds weird, but you will have shit line up that you don't expect. Like with me coming to Miami, I've been having this weird intuition to come over here. I love it here.
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Chapter 8: How do spontaneous decisions lead to unexpected opportunities?
Alpro. but I've been having this weird itch like the past four days. But yesterday I was sitting in my garage having a cigarette, having my morning coffee, and I just out loud, it's like something just like spoke and was like, I want to go to the beach. And I looked down at my phone and I was like, should I go to Miami? I looked down at my phone and it was 1222 p.m.
It wasn't my first coffee and my first cigarette. I woke up early, took a nap. And then I have that was my second coffee. That was my after nap coffee cigarette. But it was 1222. So I took the 222 as a sign of like, let's just book it. Fuck it. So I get on my phone. There was a flight for today. So I just booked it. I stopped thinking about it.
Who you are when you're anxious and when you're doubting is not you. When you have an idea for something and you just start taking the actions and letting it fold, when you shut that voice up that's trying to talk you out of it, that's when you see what you're really capable of. So for me to just book it and do it, I go get on my flight today and I use the whole different airline.
I'm not doing American Airlines the more they can suck my dick and die. But I tried out a new airline. It's like semi-private. It's like a shared private plane. And this is when I say synchronicities will line up. So I'm on the plane. We land. There's this woman that was sitting in front of me the whole time. It was like just funny little conversation we'd have, whatever.
It wasn't nothing like serious. Like I didn't know that she recognized me or thought anything or whatever. But the plane lands and she turns around and talks to me. And she was like, hey, we're just having conversation. Where are you from? What do you do? And I'm coming here to hang out. Oh, I'm coming for work. And it was just like the conversation. Then she goes, are you a model or anything?
And I was like, no, why? And she was like, oh no, I think I've seen you on Instagram. Are you on Instagram? And I was like, yeah. So she's seen my reels and she saw my hand tattoos. And she said that she saw a video of mine and was like trying to figure out what the hand tattoos meant.
and what they said and she was like it just intrigued me and she's like that's how i kind of knew it was you so we get to talking whatever is cute it's fun and then she goes i work for this airline let me give you this thing so your next flight is free i booked a one way here because i was like i'm just gonna follow my gut my intuition i'm gonna leave whenever i feel like i need to leave my flight home's paid for now on my semi-private check
But the other gag is she is a psychic medium. which is crazy and nobody knows that about her. So we like talked about certain things. She was like, you are too? And I was like, no, not quite. I'm not like talking to dead people and shit. But anyway, the whole point is like the synchronicity of it lining up. But also when we landed, it's pissing its ass is raining, like I said.
And typically I would get bummed out. I would get pissed off. I would get whatever. But the fact that I didn't logic my way into planning this trip
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