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Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Fri, 21 Mar 2025

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Chapter 1: Why are George and John hosting the show today?

0.109 - 12.797 James

Hey guys, it's James Childs, producer of The Ramsey Show. Hey, this week Dave and the personalities are living it up on the Ramsey Cruise, so we've put together a compilation of some of our favorite calls and segments from the last year. Regular shows are back next week. Hope you enjoy.

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27.637 - 51.673 Dr. John Deloney

What up? What up? This is the Ramsey Show. I'm John Deloney joined by the great George Camel. Live from Nashville, Tennessee, we are taking your calls on your money, building wealth, doing work that you love, and creating and sustaining and hanging on to great relationships. So glad that you're with us today. We're taking live calls, 888-825-5225. It's 888-825-5225.

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52.114 - 75.192 Dr. John Deloney

We have a packed house out here in the audience. Good to see everybody coming to visit us here in, actually we're in Franklin, just north of Nashville. But we are glad you are with us as well. Let's go out to Milwaukee. No, no, no, no. Let's go out to Dallas. Detone and talk to Cyrus. Hey, Cyrus, what's up, man? Hello, how you doing? Doing outstanding, my man. What's up?

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Chapter 2: Should I file for bankruptcy with $160K in debt?

77.617 - 89.35 Cyrus

So, yes, I am 26. I have $160,000 worth of debt, and I am wondering if I should file for Chapter 7 bankruptcy.

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91.173 - 93.916 George Kamel

Why did you jump to that conclusion? What makes you think you can't crawl out of this?

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96.624 - 130.376 Cyrus

Well, um, I've been working a lot, two jobs, um, constantly, um, not really able to get anywhere. Um, recently about a year ago, I caught a case, um, for a felony charge and, um, I am still going on actively with that case, trying to get probation. Um, so it's been very difficult for me to find another job now that my background check has shown a felony charge. So what are you doing now for work?

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131.497 - 159.677 Cyrus

Yeah. So I'm working on Amazon. I'm making about $4,100 a month at a minimum. I can potentially make more depending on if they allow me to get overtime or work a six day. I'm working five days there as of right now. Last year I made $60,000 off of it. I'm off of Amazon alone. But I'm just... like drowning right now with payments.

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160.397 - 183.166 Cyrus

And, um, I did, um, I rounded up all my minimum payments for all my loans and everything. And, um, my minimum is $5,300 a month. And that's just on minimum payments. That's not including food or, um, or rent or anything else. How have you made it so far?

183.646 - 185.847 George Kamel

What's getting you through every month if you're going underwater?

189.572 - 201.017 Cyrus

So, how did I make it so far? Well, I've been doing... Are you going further into debt every month? No, no. So, I'm tapped out. I can't even get the debt consolidation loan. My credit is shot.

201.457 - 203.779 George Kamel

What kind of debt is this? What is this debt, man? Can you break down the 160?

210.222 - 210.202 George Kamel

$51,000?

Chapter 3: How can I stop giving money to my ex-daughter-in-law?

408.567 - 414.491 Dr. John Deloney

All right, let's do this. Let's stop there. I don't want you to say something that's going to get subpoenaed on the air. Let's just roll back to the money part. Is that cool?

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415.672 - 444.363 Cyrus

Are you living alone right now? So I was going back between my parents and her. I was in my car for a month. Last month I was in for a whole month just because I couldn't go back to either one. So now I am back with my parents. They, you know, they stopped drinking supposedly. So I'm there for now. And this is another reason why I was thinking about bankruptcy, just because I have a case going on.

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444.843 - 453.086 Cyrus

I'm unstable household. You know, I can't rely on nobody right now. I'm a worker. I like, you know, two years ago I made money.

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453.877 - 479.912 Dr. John Deloney

you know 93 000 working doubles when i mean i've been working non-stop two jobs for the last three years but bro if you if you if you make 98 three years in a row you're out no no not three years in a row no no i'm telling you like i want you to hear george and i say we believe in you if you make 90 grand for three years in a row just straight hustling you'll be out you'll be free Yeah.

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480.032 - 487.115 Dr. John Deloney

Listen to me. You'll be free. If you file bankruptcy, you're putting a chain around your neck and you're jumping into a lake.

489.276 - 495.718 Cyrus

Yeah. The problem I have is I've been applying for jobs in my record with the felony charge.

495.778 - 520.717 Dr. John Deloney

I got it. I got it. The deck is firmly stacked against you until you get that clear. 100%. But I have never one time... I mean, I've never... The guy who mows my lawn, I don't know if he's got a felony charge. He just does a great job, right? I mean, there's work to be had. It's not traditional work and it's not fun work. And it is hard, grinding, hot, cold work. But there's work.

520.737 - 521.298 Dr. John Deloney

What do you think, George?

521.318 - 537.168 George Kamel

Yeah, there's no shortcuts here. We got to get your income up ASAP. I would not file bankruptcy. You can get out of this, but it's going to take three years of hustle throwing 50 grand at the debt. And that means getting that income up. And man, you're going to have to get creative. You might have to get a roommate or two. Keep living with the parents. Do what you got to do.

Chapter 4: What are the differences between mutual funds and index funds?

849.265 - 852.427 Dr. John Deloney

You have to be frustrated, all of it. But you don't have any money to give.

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854.329 - 857.491 Tammy

Yeah. Thank you. Yeah. Yeah.

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858.075 - 864.918 George Kamel

And it seems like there's a lack of trust on your part because you don't know what she's doing with this money, and you don't think it's going to the things you want it to go to.

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868.139 - 888.473 Tammy

That's sort of correct. I don't understand. She works like two towns over. It's an hour away. Why not get a job closer to home? Why not? I just don't know where her money's going, and it's always an excuse, and I'm just tired of the excuses. I just don't want my granddaughter out on the streets, and now she's going to be evicted in three days.

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888.873 - 892.636 Dr. John Deloney

Are you in a position to take temporary custody of your granddaughter for a while?

893.637 - 906.329 Tammy

I've told her, yes, she can come stay with me. I mean, I haven't done anything legally. I'm not sure what I need to do legally, but I've told her I can put up my granddaughter. I just can't have her in my house.

906.349 - 909.712 Dr. John Deloney

Sure, of course. What does she say to that?

911.883 - 915.786 Tammy

I'm waiting for a response. I just sent her a long message today saying no more financial help.

915.806 - 923.071 Dr. John Deloney

So let's stop communicating in messages because that's how my teenage son communicates with his friends and we're adults and this is too big of a deal. Let's make phone calls, okay?

Chapter 5: Why does Dave prefer credit unions over big banks?

1435.431 - 1437.053 Matthew

Probably like 25, 30%.

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1438.194 - 1445.019 George Kamel

Oh, my goodness. Okay. So you're going to be a multimillionaire regardless of this conversation that happens next. Can we agree on that?

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1446.88 - 1456.028 Dr. John Deloney

Yeah. Okay. Where do you live, Matt? Right outside of Charlotte. No, no, no. Do you have your own house, your own apartment? You live with mom? Where are you living?

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1456.208 - 1459.19 Matthew

No. I still live with my mom at home.

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1459.47 - 1460.131 Dr. John Deloney

Okay. All right.

1460.331 - 1462.052 George Kamel

Cool. How much do you make a year?

1462.353 - 1462.533 Matthew

Yeah.

1464.426 - 1475.421 George Kamel

Um, 80 to 90. Oh my goodness, dude, you're crushing it. So you're, we're talking, you're investing like 18,000 a year. Yeah. And you've got a 401k through your employer?

1477.664 - 1479.486 Matthew

No, I use a Roth IRA.

Chapter 6: How do I talk to my spouse about spending and saving?

1626.944 - 1643.566 George Kamel

No, that's actually factually incorrect. Morningstar did this article, and they said nearly 57% of mutual funds, these active U.S. equity funds, they beat the average index fund peer over the 12 months through June 2023. So that means six out of ten mutual funds beat the index.

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1645.567 - 1646.928 Matthew

Wait, over how long?

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1647.368 - 1655.131 George Kamel

Over a 12-month period. They looked at, here's what mutual funds did, here's what the peer index fund did. Six out of ten beat the index fund.

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1656.491 - 1659.973 Matthew

Right, but why are you looking at a 12-month period versus like, you know, decades?

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1660.478 - 1677.974 George Kamel

You can look at decades, and it's going to change depending on the decade you look at. And the truth is there's going to be mutual funds that don't beat the index, and there's going to be years the index beats the mutual funds. And so the goal here is to slightly beat the copycat of the stock market, which is the index fund. And so the index funds also do have a fee.

1677.995 - 1696.077 George Kamel

You'll see it listed as a 12B1 fee. And so that kind of makes up for the fact that the mutual fund fees there. So it's not exactly free. And here's the thing. We're not anti-index funds. There's a time and place. In fact, Dave Ramsey invests in index funds outside of retirement. You have that taxable brokerage account, right?

1697.991 - 1715.327 George Kamel

Dave would say index funds are the smart play there because of the low turnover. They're not moving things around as much, which makes the fees less. But in retirement, you're not having to pay those fees because you're not worried about turnover because this is a long-term play, and therefore he invests in mutual funds for his retirement accounts, index funds outside of retirement.

1715.587 - 1716.848 George Kamel

So there's a time and place for both.

1718.069 - 1720.952 Matthew

What do you look for in a mutual fund, though?

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