Matthew

Not much.

How are you, John?

Oh, I'm sitting in the parking lot of my work talking to you.

I hope not.

Well, up front, just a question.

My wife has made a decision to move for a different job, and

I have a child here that's graduating school in another year and a half, so I'm not leaving.

And just want to delve into how to best navigate that whole process, keep things strengthening in the marriage rather than weakening in the time that we're going to be separate.

Yeah, so a little bit of background.

The move is to Florida where her mother lives.

She works for the VA and doesn't like the VA situation she's currently working at, and it's really grinding on her emotionally and just kind of sucking the life out of her.

So she needed a change but really wants to finish up her VA retirement.

She's prior Air Force, as am I.

the plan's always been to move back to Florida and this job opening just became available.

So it was a little quicker.

So definitely the plan long-term for us always has been to head that direction anyway, just kind of timing wise with a job opening came a little sooner.

So there's definitely a reunification plan.

That's yeah.

Accurate.

I've got a 16-year-old high school junior.