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Chapter 1: What is the main focus of The Ramsey Show?
Live from the Ramsey Network, this is The Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create amazing relationships. I'm George Camel, joined by Dr. John Deloney, and we're taking your calls at 888-825-5225. You jump in, we'll talk about your life, your money, your relationships, whatever is going on.
We're going to put it out in front of everyone to help you take the right next step. Jillian is going to kick us off in the great city of Scranton, Pennsylvania. What's going on, Jillian?
Hi, thanks for taking my call. Mine is not so much a money problem. My parents sold our family farm to my two oldest sisters without telling me, without telling anybody, without a conversation. I found out accidentally. I'm just wondering how do I deal with the lack of respect?
Oh, man. What's the story?
The farm has been in my family since 1852. It is totally my mother's farm. I understand that. It is her choice to do with what she wants. I don't have a problem with that. I'm happy it's staying in the family.
I have a problem with it. I have a problem on your behalf. Sounds like she has a problem with you if she left you out of this.
Why? Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I didn't even have to say anything.
You're welcome. If my mom just gave the kitchen table to my sister without at least letting me know, I'd at least be like, really? Right? I mean, that's a huge thing. You have a right to be upset. Yeah. Be upset. I'm not even supposed to know.
Here's the kicker. I'm not supposed to know. There is no one who is supposed to know. I found out Let me rephrase that. My son found out by accident. So I'm really not upset. I'm glad it's staying in the family. I'm upset because of the lack of conversation, that she didn't trust me enough to have a conversation with her.
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Chapter 2: How do I handle family disputes over inheritance?
And be okay. I'm upset for my daughter because she loves this property. She loves this land. Is she not allowed to go on it? She is. In fact, she's living with my parents. Great. When my daughter and I had an argument, my parents took her in.
Okay, so great. I don't think you're being honest. I'm grateful for that. I don't think you're being honest with yourself. You are upset, and it's okay to be upset. And it may come a day when your sisters sell this to your daughter. That's a problem in the future. Right. That you have no control over. You have no control over it. Let's just exhale and say, I can feel my feelings.
I'm allowed to be sad. And my daughter's living with my parents. I miss my daughter. Maybe you want to repair that relationship, et cetera, move on, on, on, whatever. But let's stop trafficking in the here's the thing they did. Yes, what they did was not cool. I'm all about having values and I'm all about putting a stick in the ground.
But an adult has a hard conversation if they're going to do something when it's related to values, period. Right.
And since they chose not to, I just, I ride then, like, say nothing to them.
I mean, I know, but... What's it going to solve? They've already proven themselves, what they think of you, and your ability to have a conversation. Okay. I mean, so, behavior's a language. You can clearly see what they think about your ability to have a hard conversation. And you've been able to see their character.
Correct. And I would say, I... I'm going to say it's my mother. It's not my father. I think he would have had that hard conversation because he's not afraid to. Is he still alive? Oh, yeah. He's very much on the line.
Then he's not absolved of this either.
No, but it was always in my mother's name. It was never even when she came into it.
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