Rick

I agree. It breaks my heart. We've had, you know, both our sons, great kids, great growing up life. And I think the thing that breaks my heart is I've I always had a safe place to land in my parents' home. My grandparents were the same way. And we raised our boys, you know, a home is a safe place. If there's something goes down, you can always come home, which our son has done multiple times.

I agree. It breaks my heart. We've had, you know, both our sons, great kids, great growing up life. And I think the thing that breaks my heart is I've I always had a safe place to land in my parents' home. My grandparents were the same way. And we raised our boys, you know, a home is a safe place. If there's something goes down, you can always come home, which our son has done multiple times.

I agree. It breaks my heart. We've had, you know, both our sons, great kids, great growing up life. And I think the thing that breaks my heart is I've I always had a safe place to land in my parents' home. My grandparents were the same way. And we raised our boys, you know, a home is a safe place. If there's something goes down, you can always come home, which our son has done multiple times.

And that that's fine. But we, we get him in, get him on his feet and gets gone. And this last time I said, Hey, this is it. You know, we can't keep this cycle going. You're going to have to make it. And he was set up for success. But once again, it, it, it failed. And I think the thing for me this time was he covered it up. He lied. He wasn't truthful.

And that that's fine. But we, we get him in, get him on his feet and gets gone. And this last time I said, Hey, this is it. You know, we can't keep this cycle going. You're going to have to make it. And he was set up for success. But once again, it, it, it failed. And I think the thing for me this time was he covered it up. He lied. He wasn't truthful.

And that that's fine. But we, we get him in, get him on his feet and gets gone. And this last time I said, Hey, this is it. You know, we can't keep this cycle going. You're going to have to make it. And he was set up for success. But once again, it, it, it failed. And I think the thing for me this time was he covered it up. He lied. He wasn't truthful.

He ended up putting us $8,000 in debt because we had to bail him out on something that I'd never swore I would do a sign alone for my, my kids, but we did. And he is like, like Gail said, he is basically living on a mattress in somebody's basement. And he asked if he could come home, and I said no. And that hurt so bad.

He ended up putting us $8,000 in debt because we had to bail him out on something that I'd never swore I would do a sign alone for my, my kids, but we did. And he is like, like Gail said, he is basically living on a mattress in somebody's basement. And he asked if he could come home, and I said no. And that hurt so bad.

He ended up putting us $8,000 in debt because we had to bail him out on something that I'd never swore I would do a sign alone for my, my kids, but we did. And he is like, like Gail said, he is basically living on a mattress in somebody's basement. And he asked if he could come home, and I said no. And that hurt so bad.

When you said no, what did he say to you? He started to cry. And he, you know, he just didn't know. He wasn't used to saying no, for us to say no, that he couldn't come home. And it took, we even had to call, you know, a trusted family members who said, hey, this is what we're about to do. This is hard. And, you know, they said, yeah, it's hard, but do you feel it's the right thing?

When you said no, what did he say to you? He started to cry. And he, you know, he just didn't know. He wasn't used to saying no, for us to say no, that he couldn't come home. And it took, we even had to call, you know, a trusted family members who said, hey, this is what we're about to do. This is hard. And, you know, they said, yeah, it's hard, but do you feel it's the right thing?

When you said no, what did he say to you? He started to cry. And he, you know, he just didn't know. He wasn't used to saying no, for us to say no, that he couldn't come home. And it took, we even had to call, you know, a trusted family members who said, hey, this is what we're about to do. This is hard. And, you know, they said, yeah, it's hard, but do you feel it's the right thing?

And I just felt like, yeah, I felt this is it. You're going to have to, if everything goes from beneath you and you're out on the street, I can say to myself, we've done everything, but man, it hurts. That hurts.

And I just felt like, yeah, I felt this is it. You're going to have to, if everything goes from beneath you and you're out on the street, I can say to myself, we've done everything, but man, it hurts. That hurts.

And I just felt like, yeah, I felt this is it. You're going to have to, if everything goes from beneath you and you're out on the street, I can say to myself, we've done everything, but man, it hurts. That hurts.

So he, he, We set up for, it was around Christmas time, and he had been at the job six months plus and everything going fine. And he had his own condo, his own transportation. And I said, hey, come over for Christmas because it was Christmas time. We'll do our Christmas dinner. We'll set up, see if you can get off. He goes, oh, yeah, yeah, I can get off. He goes, but my vehicle's not working.

So he, he, We set up for, it was around Christmas time, and he had been at the job six months plus and everything going fine. And he had his own condo, his own transportation. And I said, hey, come over for Christmas because it was Christmas time. We'll do our Christmas dinner. We'll set up, see if you can get off. He goes, oh, yeah, yeah, I can get off. He goes, but my vehicle's not working.

So he, he, We set up for, it was around Christmas time, and he had been at the job six months plus and everything going fine. And he had his own condo, his own transportation. And I said, hey, come over for Christmas because it was Christmas time. We'll do our Christmas dinner. We'll set up, see if you can get off. He goes, oh, yeah, yeah, I can get off. He goes, but my vehicle's not working.

Can you give me a ride? I was like, absolutely. Cause he had trouble with the vehicle back and forth. And so I go to pick him up and there's no answer. His vehicle's not there. I'm thinking, did he go somewhere? So I text him. He's like, Oh, Oh, I've got to tell you, I moved out. I'm at a buddy's house. So I'm like, okay. So I go get him from his buddy's house. And I said, what's going on?

Can you give me a ride? I was like, absolutely. Cause he had trouble with the vehicle back and forth. And so I go to pick him up and there's no answer. His vehicle's not there. I'm thinking, did he go somewhere? So I text him. He's like, Oh, Oh, I've got to tell you, I moved out. I'm at a buddy's house. So I'm like, okay. So I go get him from his buddy's house. And I said, what's going on?