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Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's the Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create actual amazing relationships. George Campbell, Ramsey personality, number one best-selling author, is my co-host on this very special edition of the Ramsey Show. Today is your favorite and one of our favorite shows to do in the entire year.
The entire show is dedicated to giving. We're going to take calls from people who tell us the story of having received or having given at some point in their life just to inspire generosity because we teach you to live like no one else so that later you can live and give like no one else. There we go. Look at that.
I nailed the pop quiz.
That was it. You knew the answer. A real nail biter. Give you the look and you just pick it up.
Well, I was just thinking I should have brought some tissues because usually these stories make my eyes leak.
Yeah, I cry at an Applebee's commercial, so we can be predicted that I'm going to have a problem. But yeah, the story, some of them are that way, and some of them are just, yeah, that was a good thing. It's okay. Because sometimes there's fireworks and emotion around generosity, and sometimes it's just, no, that's the right thing to do. That's simple.
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They're our sponsor for our giving show today. No irony there at all. open phones. As we take your calls about your stories, you jump in. The phone number is 888-825-5225. It's all giving all day or receiving all generosity all day. Greg is with us to start the show off. Wichita, Kansas. Hi, Greg. Merry Christmas.
Merry Christmas to you guys.
Absolutely, man. So tell us what your generosity story is.
Yeah, yeah. I think this will be better than an Applebee's commercial that
That's a low bar, man.
I know. Well, you said it.
So, yeah, I'm a youth pastor in Wichita, Kansas, and about seven years ago, eight years ago, I was meeting with a guy and discipling him, and just we were getting into a place where we were starting to share personal prayer requests, and one of ours for my family was we had a daughter that was a few years off from going to college, and we started saving, but we had a desire to see them
Both of our kids graduate debt-free, and the plan was we would pay 50% after a scholarship, and they would pay 50% after a scholarship, and beginning to go, hey, how are they going to do this? And so just praying about our kids taking their mowing business to the next level. My son was mowing three yards. He could basically put a mower in the back of a minivan and go a few doors down or a
We're praying about buying a truck and a trailer and a mower at some point, but the truck was definitely felt outside of her reach. Well, three, four months after we began to pray, I got contacted by my friend, and he said, hey, my wife and I would love to stop by the church today. We just have a brief meeting with you. I was like, hey, I'd love to do that, but I can't today.
We have a meeting at the church called Perspectives, and They were like, hey, we'd love to come. It literally will take like two minutes. And so it was like 9.30, 10 o'clock at night. They took me to the back of the church, and they said, hey, check that out. And it was a 2013 black Ford F-150 with a trailer and a brand-new John Deere 48-inch engine. zero-turn mower on the back.
Which cost more than the truck.
Oh, my gosh! Wow!
Wow, that is wild. That's crazy!
Blew us away, and man, God's generosity through them, but then just the way the moving business took off. We actually had somebody give us 10 yards. They were moving, and Normally they might sell it, and they said, hey, we want to give these to you and your kids.
And so they started with about 15 yards, and during the next six or seven years made over $100,000 and were able to graduate college debt-free, both of them.
Wow. I love it. Those kids are going to turn out.
Yeah, now I'm wondering, do they need college at this point? There's some budding entrepreneurs right there.
I love it. That's awesome, man.
Very cool. They loved college and are, you know, still growing. But, yeah, they've turned out well. And not only did they graduate college that free, but they just worked hard. And I just saw their generosity through this.
That's amazing. Yeah.
just mowing free for people and mowing for a pregnancy crisis center.
So they paid it forward like crazy then.
Yeah, and just it's cool to see what God has done in their life as they look back and just can't help but notice this generosity.
Yeah, the fingerprints, I love it. I got to tell you, that is the... The best kind, one of my favorite, it's not the best kind overall, but it's one of my favorite kinds of giving. They gave, I don't know, $20,000, we'll call it there, that turned into hard work and $100,000 plus. So when you can give into something and it causes...
you know, something 10x or 20x or 5x to happen because of the giving, because of the generosity. That's a super cool type of generosity.
Well, and that checked off about four boxes on the Ramsey plan. We're talking about, number one, generosity. The kids are going to college debt-free, and they started and launched this debt-free business and grew it. That's entree leadership right there. I mean, you got your start mowing lawns way back in the day, didn't you?
Twelve years old, yeah.
Can you imagine if someone did that for you? You might have a lawn care business right now.
I'm not getting into this. Dude, I cut so much grass by the time I was 19, God told me I never had to do it again. I'm just saying.
Oh, man.
Oh, I hate it. But, yeah, that's still just a wonderful form of giving where you – to allow someone to, you know, take the gift and can exit with their work or with their whatever. There's some other way to expand the giving. Yeah. Beyond just a one and done kind of thing. And so that's a beautiful, beautiful picture. Yeah, you're right. That did check a lot of boxes.
One of the boxes teach kids to work. Oh, that's right. That was another box.
There was no entitlement here. The kids worked hard.
They learned a lot.
Great kids.
How do you do that? That's a magic trick. They were busting it, number one. Number two, they're in agreement that we're going to pay for cash for college. Number three, then they're generous with everything. These are great kids.
Yeah, these kids are not going to be the Grinch when they grow up. They're going to remember this for the rest of their life.
Well, and they're never going to call the show and say, you know, I haven't been able to find a job in four months. That won't be them. They'll never make that call because they'll always be able to do something. That's right. Because they're not afraid of that.
And you know their kids are going to go to college debt-free. And so the ripple effect of this thing is massive.
It's a generational gift, and it's a zero-turn John Deere. Who knew? I like it. Two of Dave's favorite things. I'm telling you, man, that's an expensive tractor. That was a nice gift. Nice gift. You paint green on them, they go up a lot. That's a pretty big deal. So good stuff. Very cool. It's the annual giving show here on The Ramsey Show.
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It's our annual giving show here on The Ramsey Show. George Camel, Ramsey personality, number one bestselling author of the book Breaking Free from Broke. He's my co-host today as we take your calls on your stories of generosity, either receiving or giving. And we're fired up about that. Interesting thing, the folks at EveryDollar, I just talked to our team over there.
Our budgeting app is one of the largest, best-run, best budgeting apps in the world. It's called EveryDollar. You give EveryDollar a name, you can download it for free and get control of your money, and that way Christmas won't sneak up on you next year. But one of the things we're able to do, since obviously the app is ours, we're able to look at the app and
see what's happening there we can tell in the charity or generosity category of the budget that people using every dollar are giving around 50 million dollars a month 30 to 50 million dollars a month so that's going to be you know somewhere around 500 million dollars
this year and we just started looking at this and started tracking it this year and so as we start tracking it and start encouraging it we're pretty sure that every dollar users will be easily giving a billion a year away. Wow. And we don't know where it goes. We don't, we're not getting in people's business. We don't, we don't have categories for it.
It's just the people that they have that in their budget, in their charity line. And it's running 30 to $50 million a month right now. Americans are some of the most generous people in the world. I know we hear about all these things negative in the press or this or that and all these things out there. Everybody's got an opinion.
But when you actually get into the numbers, the amount that Americans give to each other, to causes inside the country and outside the country, there's not another country on the planet that's even close or ever has been in the history of humanity. This is the most generous group of human beings that has ever walked the face of the earth right now.
People don't talk about that, but that's the actual data. That's the numbers that we know about generosity nationwide. And just with our app, we can tell easily $500 million just on that one thing there, easily.
And I bet the people that aren't giving would like to give more, and that's the power of the budget is you've got to find the margin to be able to give, to be able to look up and see those opportunities. And so that's the best part about it. That's why we put the giving line item first, not every dollar budget.
You're exactly right. And, you know, live like no one else so later you can live and give like no one else. There we go. Got it. We can get this down, George, almost like a routine here. Grace is with us in Waco, Texas. Hi, Grace. Welcome to the Ramsey Show. Tell us your generosity story.
Hey, thank you for having me on. Sure. Um, yeah, so let's see about eight years ago, 2016, my mom tragically passed away. Um, I was just graduated high school. My whole community just rallied around me. They, you know, supported me. They, you know, did fundraisers and, um, got me a pretty big lump sum of money enough so I could buy my first car, my first laptop so I can get to college.
It was just absolutely fantastic. Um, so that, that in itself is absolutely amazing. Now, fast forward six years from then. So two years ago, um, me and my, we were fiance's or my fiance, then we're married now. We were trying to save up for our wedding and trying to just pick up extra shifts and really didn't want to go into our marriage with any debt, um, especially not from our wedding.
And so unfortunately though, we had racked up about a $2,000, um, give or take a few, um, And randomly, one of my mom's friends from whenever she was alive, she messaged me just one day randomly and said, hey, there's a bank account that is for you that we set up that has the money in it. And I don't know why, but they hadn't given it to me.
I think they had just forgotten or something had happened. Um, anyways, long story short ended up being the exact amount of money that we were in debt, um, on our mom, my credit card. And so it was just amazing. People had given money and putting this, put it in, put it into an account for us. Um, and then six years later, it was still there and it just.
just shows how good God's grace is and that it's never ending.
Amen. Amen. The timing on that's amazing. And the amount matching up the whole thing. That's, that's the way the story should go right there. Yeah.
God's hand. Very precise.
Exactly. Exactly. Very fun. Very fun. And I'm sure that inspires you guys to be keeping your eyes open for generosity as now that you're married and out there running around doing your own thing, right?
Oh yeah, absolutely. Yeah. Anytime, anytime we just,
it's really not even a second thought sort of thing it's just like if I have this and somebody else needs it absolutely we just had our first first child about seven months ago so even then having a child and just seeing how giving people were for her and just for us and it's just it's amazing how um how kind and generous people can be and it does it has it has moved us in ways that
I don't think people will ever really know.
Right.
We just have to repay what we can as often as we can.
There you go. I love it. Way to go, Grace. Good job. Thank you for sharing that. That's good. Love that one. Christy Sue is with us in St. Paul, Minnesota. Hi, Christy Sue. Tell us your generosity story.
Merry Christmas. Merry Christmas. I don't know how you do this every day. I'm so nervous.
You'll be all right. We've never lost a patient.
All right. Thank you. So there's a couple layers to this onion. So when I was growing up, my family was plagued with addiction, alcoholism, and mental illness. And my mom left when I was 10 years old. And I was with my dad then. My sister and I were with my dad until I was 13. And at that point, again, there was those layers of addiction, alcoholism, and mental illness. And
He brought us to stay with our aunt and uncle for what we thought was going to be the summer. And then that ended up being about three years. And then I went and I was in a couple of different homes after that. And so as you can imagine, I was just at the age of 17, I was just bitter and angry. And I had a teacher, I ended up in a home economics class and I had a teacher that just
took me under her wing and could see that I was angry and bitter, but I was still a good kid. I didn't get in trouble or anything like that. And she showed interest and she wanted to come to some of my sporting events and was like genuinely invested in me as a person. And now as an adult, understanding that she had three other kids that were around my age.
So she was juggling all of their activities too. And she still is. you know, made that time for me. It was super precious. And like I said, I didn't really get into trouble, but there was one day before prom, I got pulled out of class by the principal and he gave me an envelope that had nearly $200 in it. And he said, he have a good time at prom. And I begged him,
to tell me where this $200 came from, and he wouldn't do it. And to this day, I'm still very good friends with this teacher. Her name is Nancy, and she still won't admit that she was behind that $200, but it was.
But she was. It was Nancy.
Yeah, and, you know, it wasn't just that. It was the seed of compassion that she planted in me. And that has just really changed the trajectory of my life. I could have certainly followed the path of my parents and I didn't. I ended up going to college. I'm in law enforcement now.
And, you know, what I went through with my parents really helps me be more compassionate to the people that I deal with on a daily basis. And then, you know, her Her compassion touched me in such a way that I wanted to give big. So God placed it on my heart. In 2021, I donated my kidney to a stranger. And in that, I called Nancy.
My husband and I were kind of keeping it close to our chest because there's a lot of things that can go on with the surgery like that, it getting rescheduled or things like that. But I really felt that I needed to share that with her. And she said, so you're just donating to anybody? And I said, yeah, I didn't know anybody that needs a kidney. So I just was going to donate to whoever.
And she said, I know someone that needs a kidney, and it's my best friend from seventh grade. And so because I knew before the donation, the National Kidney Registry has a program. They do like paired donations and things like that. So I was able to give her friend who I'd never met a voucher so that she could then get a kidney. So I donated in February of 21.
Her friend was able to get her kidney in October of 21. And then because that was so rewarding. May of this last year, I actually donated 63% of my liver to a stranger.
My goodness, lady. You just keep going. That's amazing. Wow. Well, thank you for sharing that, Christy Sue. Merry Christmas. I've been doing this show for over 30 years, and some of the saddest calls I have taken are from situations that are completely preventable.
Yeah. And what's so hard is I feel like one of those, especially the ones that I'm like, oh, it's terrible. People that call in and their spouse has passed away suddenly and they don't have life insurance. When you have to think through how am I going to pay my bills in the middle of next week, in the middle of all that grief, like it's just it is it's terrible.
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They're immediately helping. So convoyofhope.org slash Ramsey. Be sure and check these guys out. We appreciate them sponsoring today's giving show. On the debt-free stage, live right here in the lobby of Ramsey Solutions, one of our own Ramsey team, Meg Loney is with us. And Meg, welcome. Hey, you're here for the generosity time, the giving show.
So before we get into that, you've been with Ramsey, what, about six years?
Going on seven in March.
Seven years. Okay, cool. And tell everybody what you do here.
I am a marketing operations specialist, so I make things work.
Marketing operations specialist. You make things work. What the flip does that mean?
All the back-end things that a lot of people don't want to do, I do.
She's being nice, Dave. It's above our pay grade.
We'll never understand. She's a senior digital marketing analyst. So, yeah, Meg is smart, people. That's what we're trying to say. She's dumbing it down for us. Yeah, she's trying to dumb it down for her CEO.
I tried.
Well, it didn't work. You didn't get down low enough for me. You've got to get the cookies down on the bottom shelf. All right, tell us your generosity story.
So I have my four-year-old daughter, Tilly, is here with us today. When she was five months old, she was diagnosed with epilepsy. And we went through lots of medicines, 10 medicines. None of them stopped the seizures. She was having three, four seizures a day, sometimes more.
Man, that's terrorizing.
It was very scary.
I can't breathe just hearing it.
And then ultimately we went the surgical route. So they found a small piece of her brain that hadn't fully developed or developed properly. And they were like, hey, we think if we remove this part of her brain that it will stop the seizures. Whoa. And at that point we had gotten to, she was getting rescue meds like once a week.
So she was having seizures lasting longer than five minutes that required some extra medicine to stop them. So at that point we were kind of like, we gave it to God. We said, we know that we've been praying for answers and you've presented this one. So we started down the surgical route. And at that time we applied with Make-A-Wish Middle Tennessee and which is just an extraordinary organization.
Yes, they are.
They worked with us to find the best wish for Tilly to have. And so then she had her surgery in October, October 18th. And then in April of 2024, we were able to go on this amazing trip to Disney World and so much more. So they covered, they picked us up in a limo. They covered our flights. They got us a rental car.
They have an amazing resort called Give Kids the World Resort, which is only for wish families. Wow. It is like a small apartment. There were two rooms. Tilly's room had the bathroom connected to it. And Justin and I actually had to like leave to go use the bathroom.
Only the best for Tilly.
Right. She had like the owner's suite.
I like it.
They provided meals at the resort and they have rides and a pool. So it's everything in a resort you could want. And then they give you tickets to Disney World with the Fast Pass or whatever it's called now. So we got to skip the line. Tilly went on her favorite ride, Slinky Dog Dash, three times in a row because they're like, yeah, just go back on it.
Um, we went to universal studios and she had a blast and they give you a debit card so that you can buy meals at the parks. You can buy souvenirs. It was just,
bigger than we could have ever imagined like even starting with like dreaming with them it was bigger than we could have even imagined um and it was just an amazing way to kind of cap off that journey um so because of today as of today she is 14 months seizure free yay praise god that's amazing wow she's clapping too which i love that says yeah amen everybody clap so uh
The Make-A-Wish Foundation has an incredible reputation of making these dreams come true like this. They do a great job. Did they find out about you, or do you apply, or how did you make the connection on that?
So I actually made the connection when I was in one of the epilepsy groups on Facebook, just a support group. And I saw someone had mentioned that their child was able to get a wish. And I was like, I thought that Make-A-Wish was only for children that had cancer.
cancer or had a terminal illness and then i did a little bit more research and i talked to our epileptologist and he was like yeah you should definitely apply um so we did so they have an application process that they use okay yes they have an application process okay so you did apply and then it takes a few months or whatever and they get back to you or what It wasn't even a few months.
It was maybe a week or two. They just kind of verify everything that's going on. And I know they do like to move quickly so that they can help all of the children that apply that meet kind of the criteria. So they are super quick and they meet with you. They came to the hospital when we were in the hospital with Tilly during her first surgery. because we were in there for nine days for monitoring.
So they came out and they saw us there and they took us out for ice cream. They did all sorts of things even leading up to the wish. Wow.
Wow. That's cool. That's cool. I can't think of anything better to do than make sure a child gets a wish like that. That's pretty incredible. Very cool.
We love hearing how she's doing today.
Yeah, absolutely. And the end of the story is a great one.
Yeah, it's amazing. And she's a wish ambassador now, so she helps to raise funds now for other kids to have their wishes granted, which we love to be able to then give back to the organization.
Yeah, that's good. And you did today because you just told the world.
I would love if all the donations to Make-A-Wish could just take off because these kids deserve it all. They go through so much more than anyone should have to, let alone being 3, 4, 5, 6.
Amen. And obviously you were part of this team here during all that time, right?
I was. And the generosity from Ramsey during all of it was just amazing. There was never a question of like, oh, you need more time off. You have another doctor's appointment. It was so much grace. And I can't imagine working anywhere else during the time that we went through that. And the team also, that nine-day stay at the hospital, the team also raised a lot of money.
They gave us like a $1,000 gift card to be able to buy food so that we didn't have to eat hospital food for nine days in a row.
Amen. Glory, hallelujah. I like that. Good stuff. Very cool. What a great story through a really painful and scary, terrorizing time. I mean, when your kid is sick, it just takes your breath away. That's a whole different thing. It's one thing to get sick. It's a whole other thing to have a kid or a grandkid sick. And that's a process. And then you just go through this slog of getting past it.
And now we've got a tiger on our hands. That's awesome. Oh, yeah. As it should be.
She's been playing and smiling this whole time, totally ignoring mom, just being a rock star on the stage, which is how it should be.
As it should be. Very cool, Meg. Thank you very much. Yeah, bring her up. Let everybody see her. Yeah, that's absolutely.
If you're watching on the Ramsey Network app or on YouTube. Oh, cute, cute, cute.
Love it. Great outfit for the appearance, too. There we go. A great wave from Tilly. The princess. I love it. Very cool stuff.
And now an ambassador. What a cool title at four years old.
Yeah, George. I've never been an ambassador. Have you? No, but I'd like to be. I think we just were co-ambassadors just during the segment. That's right.
Just sharing Tilly's story.
For a moment.
I feel like I'm part of it now.
For a moment, we act like we had something to do with it. Very cool. Good stuff, Meg. Thank you for sharing that. Excellent, excellent job. It's the annual giving show, the show on generosity, where we tell stories about giving that has happened to keep everybody inspired, to keep that ball rolling out there. Paying it forward, paying it forward. This is The Ramsey Show.
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Our annual giving show here on The Ramsey Show. Thank you for joining us, America. We're glad you're here. George Campbell, Ramsey personality, is my co-host today. John is with us in Orlando. Hey, John, tell us your story about generosity, and Merry Christmas to you, sir.
Hey Dave. Hey George. Merry Christmas. How are you guys?
Better than we deserve, man.
Awesome. So my story is a bit of a three part story, but it goes all the way back when I was 13 years old. I lived in Pennsylvania and New Jersey at the time and I was in middle school and it was the very start of the school year. I was in art class and the teacher from across the hall runs in and tells my teacher to turn on the TV. So he did.
And it was the World Trade Center with smoke just spilling out of one of the towers. Moments later, we watched the second plane hit the second tower. And as a middle school kid, I certainly did not understand what was even going on. And I raised my hand to my teacher and I said, that's where my dad works. That's his office building. I'd been there a million times.
And he gave me a look, and that's when I started to realize how bad and serious this was. The rest of the day and the days after are a bit of a blur, but we found out, we know my dad was outside of the buildings when the plane hit, when the both planes hit. And he called home, and he left a voice message on the machine, and he told us how much he loved us and how things were really bad.
Um, he then went back in to help evacuate and save people that day. And he unfortunately was not able to get out himself or, uh, save himself. So things of course were very, very difficult for my family and many, many other families after that. But the giving and generosity that took place for my family and other nine 11 families was tremendous. was very, very incredible.
And that was the first time I saw giving and generosity at such an extreme level. And as a 13 year old kid, I, I knew I wanted to be able to give like that someday. Many years later, um, I met my wife, my beautiful wife, and we struggled with infertility for many, many, many years. And I, Then that giving and generosity came back into our lives again with love and support and prayers.
And even our company that we worked for paid for all of our infertility treatments. Wow. IVF, the works, close to 50 grand. And again, that giving and generosity blew us away. And then a miracle happened, and we had... A beautiful little girl, our daughter. Her name is Journey. We named her that because it was a journey to have her through IVF.
And then another miracle happened, and we are currently expecting our second in the new year. Wow. Again, yeah, we have one on the way. Fun. And it just... it just blew our minds. And again, that giving and that generosity that kept coming into our life time and time again, when we don't deserve it. And, you know, things are just, it's just amazing.
And this summer coming up in the new year, we are celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary and we're doing a big vow renewal. And we are taking all of our family and all of our friends, Turks and Caicos, and we're paying for the whole thing. We're doing, you know, the all inclusive resorts and, uh, The whole shebang. And that's our giving generosity story. Wow.
So 24 years ago, you were 13. So you're 37? 36, yeah. 36, okay. Wow. I mean, because 9-11 feels emotionally, for most of us that were alive at that time, like yesterday. Of course. 24 years ago, you were a kid.
Yeah.
And now you're a 36-year-old man who's taking people to Turks and Caicos. Pretty cool, man. Pretty cool.
Yeah.
Wow. And I would imagine, I mean, I have the Todd Beamer story and several of the other stories around 9-11. I had friends that were writing the books and doing the stuff and were involved in getting the stories out on some of the heroes that were involved.
And I would imagine you kept learning for years about different things with your dad having gone back in time and time again to get other people out, it sounds like.
Yeah. He was the property manager of world trade too. And he knew everyone, he knew everyone in the building and he was just that light, that, that type of personality. Everyone would say, Hey Bobby, how are you? Hey, how are you? And we have a bit of a timeline of his morning and step-by-step and everything that, and we know people who he's helped, people who he saved and, and, and,
even though he didn't make it out, he got a medal from president Bush a couple of years after nine 11. And that was, it was very, it was very special. And we got to go to the white house and it was, it was beautiful.
Wow. Wow. That's incredible. Fabulous story. Thank you, John. Thanks for sharing the details.
Yeah, generosity in times of good, that's fun. But generosity in times of grief and trauma, that will change you forever.
Shifts everything. That's legacy. Yeah, and the thing about that is you don't get to choose your timing. If you're the person doing the giving, you've got to be ready when it happens. You've got to be ready for spontaneous giving. Exactly. You've got to have this instantaneous reaction there. Student loan debt is an epidemic. Defaulting on debt makes you feel even worse.
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And in honor of our giving show, we're going to do a giving story instead of a question of the day. So today's giving story comes from Morgan in North Carolina. An older couple came into the small bank where I worked to open a checking account. The husband mentioned he was expecting a wire of over $1 million. Immediately, my alarm bells went off.
Someone had contacted him claiming to be the executor of a cousin's estate with documents and a website to create legitimacy. When I pointed out the flaws in the documents, the customer was devastated. He had no car and had planned to get one with his newfound wealth so that he could provide for his family. Every year, I collect money and donate items in my papa's honor.
I called a friend who has an auto repair shop and asked him for help. God was working behind the scenes and he knew someone who was selling a reliable van. The lady who owned it... lowered the price to the exact amount we had to spend. We called the couple to let them know we had a surprise for them and were heading to their home. The man and his wife broke down in tears when they saw the van.
He had just gotten home after walking in the freezing cold to get a loaf of bread. I'll never forget squeezing the keys in his hand and saying that he would finally be able to provide for his family again. Wow.
Man. And that's like... Off the back end of an almost scam. Yeah. He was getting scammed and she puts a stop to it as a, you know, brilliant bank employee looking up and seeing, oh, this is not real. You're getting scammed because they were getting ready to do a switch on him is what they were doing.
She turned it from grift to grace. Oh, there's the book. They're going to make a movie about it. That title's free.
Yeah, it'd be a Hallmark movie if they use that. But yeah. Wow, man. That's good, George. I got more.
The grift that keeps on giving? No? All right.
I'll be here all week.
That's a really cool story, though. That is fun. And again, you have to be able to look up and see the opportunity. When you're so focused on your own situation, your own money problems, it hurts your ability to give.
Well, when you have a car and you didn't have a car, you can go to work. And when you go to work, you can provide for his family. That's what he's crying about. I mean, that's real. So, I mean, you give somebody a $2,000 car, you change their life. You have somebody a $4,000 car, you change their life. And by the way, you can do 10 of those for only $40,000.
That's cool to think about. Put that on your bucket list of generosity.
I mean, cars are like, you start giving away cars, you're like Oprah. I mean, come on, really. I mean, even if they're $2,000 cars or old minivans that come from the mechanic.
Yeah, if your car doesn't work or you don't have one, a $2,000 car might as well be a $100,000 car.
And this lady felt like Oprah handing the keys over to that, and he's squeezing those keys in his hand going, yes, I now got a shot. I got a chance. Well, she gave him dignity. She gave him hope. Absolutely. Both. Very cool. Very good. Every year I collect money and donate items in my papa's honor. There you go, man.
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They're a faith-based organization that partners with local churches and civic groups to provide relief to people affected by disasters and hunger. This is a trustworthy organization. They've been doing this for 30 years, and they do a great job. We want to... Honor their sponsorship today by having you guys go to their website, convoyofhope.org slash Ramsey.
It's an opportunity for you to support their mission, and they'll show up at places like Asheville, North Carolina, where they were some of the first on the ground, and they'll be some of the last on the ground because they're still there after the TV cameras left. I met Hal, the founder of Convoy for Hope, a couple of years back at an event.
And he and I got to spend some time together, had an instant connection because he spends his whole life serving people that are struggling in one way or another and has devoted what is now hundreds of millions of dollars of donations annually of food and
all kinds of things all over the world and so today we've got ed garvin with us ed is the vice senior vice president chief partnership officer at convoy of hope and ed's a former pastor joined convoy of hope matter of fact ed and i had spent some time together we were did an event at his old church down in orlando at calvary one time so welcome ed good to have you well it's an honor to be with you today
Good to have you, sir. And we're honored to have Convoy of Hope as a part of our giving show. It fits in just perfectly because when those big trucks roll in, when people are hurting, they start smiling because they know help is on the way. They know there's getting ready to be some food, getting ready to be some water, getting ready to be some chainsaws on the ground or whatever is needed.
Very cool stuff. So talk about how Hal began this 30 years ago and how this thing has evolved because the scale is enormous today. And, you know, this evolution over 30 years, what are you guys most proud of there?
Yeah, I think of everything that Convoy of Hope does, the fact that we bring lasting change and move people from desperation to resiliency, that really is the hallmark of Convoy of Hope's missional footprint.
Right. And in the old days, they just started out, and the first thing they did was what, when Hal first started it?
Yeah, so Convoy of Hope started in 1994. It actually was the outgrowth of how his background is in journalism. And he was asked to go to Calcutta, India to go write a book for some missionaries that were based in Calcutta. And while he was there, he was asked as part of the book to interview Mother Teresa. Whoa. Yeah.
And so while he's interviewing Mother Teresa, she, as one would expect, she turns the tables and looks at him and says, young man, what are you doing to respond to the needs of the poor and suffering? Just get called out by Mother Teresa. That'll do it. Mic drop. Well, and in that moment, you might think about lying, but I don't think you should really.
Mother Teresa. Yeah.
And so Hal was honest, and he said, I'm really not doing much of anything. And she looked at him and said, young man, everyone can do something. Just do the next kind thing. And as a young man, this shook him. He took 30 days when he got back to the United States, going to some of the major cities in America and seeing the plight of the poor and suffering.
And out of that, emptied his bank account and started distributing food to the migrant workers in California where he lived at the time. And out of that, Convoy of Hope was born. And now some 30 years later, Convoy of Hope last year alone helped more than 37 million people.
At scale. Yeah. All because Mother Teresa asks a pointed question and that begins the journey. And so what are some of the different areas you guys have that our listeners can jump in and support? What are some things where they would see you and know you're there?
One of the things that I love about Convoy of Hope is that it does have a neighbor's donation strategy. And so we're involved all across America. One of the big things that we do is we do disaster relief. We have responded to right at 100 disasters already this year. What that looks like, an example would be Asheville, North Carolina, that area responding to Hurricane Helene.
Convoy of Hope has delivered more than 200 semi-loads of relief supplies into that devastated area. The missional footprint of Convoy of Hope reaches around the world. We're currently feeding right at 600,000 children. We do that every school day. We have more than 40,000 women and girls that are in our women's empowerment program. Globally, we're training more than 35,000 farmers.
And so Convoy of Hope does everything from children's feeding to coming alongside rural churches in America and helping people move from poverty to that place of resiliency.
So it's not necessarily just a triage to stop the bleeding, but you also come along and help them completely heal so that poverty is in the rearview mirror. You have sustainable programs in these situations. That's important. Yeah.
So we look at, in the Ramsey Foundation, one of the things we look at when we're doing giving to organizations, we look at their operations costs and how much is actually going to the need. And you guys are, man, the numbers are, you're only doing about 10% for operations. Everything else, 90% is going out the door to serve the needy and serve the distressed. How do you guys keep your ops so low?
Yeah, so we're blessed by having an amazing volunteer army, 136,000 volunteers last year, which allowed us, like our overhead rate last year was 8.4%, and we'll probably be somewhere in that area again this year. But having exceptional partners, And an army of volunteers really allows us to make the difference.
That's impressive. So I want to speak to the person out there who wants to give their they may, you know, go, I don't know if this is trustworthy organization. How do you get someone who has not given to go? All right, I'm going to jump into this cause. What is the target demo there? What gets them to give?
Well, you know, when we think about our giving, when we think about what we're doing philanthropically, we really do want to make sure that we're operating with wisdom. And so my encouragement would be, whether it's Convoy of Hope or any other organization, make sure that you do the homework. and make sure that you dig beneath the surface.
And one of the things that I love, I was a, so I was a donor to Convoy of Hope for 15 years before I joined the organization on the team. And one of the things I love about Convoy of Hope is it's actually more impressive even from the inside than it was from the outside.
And if you look at the various accountability organizations, you're going to find that consistently Convoy of Hope, that we get the highest of marks.
Very good. Good stuff. Ed Garvin, the Senior Vice President, Chief Partnership Officer at Convoy of Hope. He spent 22 years of his life serving as a lead pastor. Now he's serving this organization as they serve distressed and needy and hungry all around the world and in your backyard. They're our sponsor for our annual giving show today.
First time we've ever had a sponsor in 30 years of this particular show. And it made sense to have Convoy be that. So we're honored to have you guys along and partnering with us and honored to let our audience know about you guys. Thanks for dropping by, Ed.
It was a joy.
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This is our annual giving show where we take calls from you to tell your generosity stories where you were receiving or giving generosity and do that to inspire everyone out there and remind everyone out there there's a lot of good human beings walking this planet. They're everywhere. Brought to you by Convoy of Hope today. The phone number here, 888-825-5225. Jocelyn is in Knoxville. Hi, Jocelyn.
Merry Christmas.
Hi. Hi, Dave. Hi, George. Thank you for having me on.
Sure. Tell us your generosity story.
I would love to. So just a quick back story. My grandfather's best friend through school, once he graduated and got married, him and his wife needed somewhere to stay. So my great grandparents let them rent a cabin that they had in Gatlinburg for a couple years.
But when they went to move out, my great grandparents then gifted them all that rent money that they had paid just as a gift to jumpstart to life. So fast forward 50 plus years, my grandma's randomly like, hey, I want you to go out to eat and meet somebody. So my family and I, we got to eat and I walk up and I meet this Older man, he's in his mid-80s.
And we sit down and he starts talking about how him and my grandpa were best friends. My grandpa had passed since then. And he's telling me all these stories that they shared. And he ended with, in his honor and because of the friendship they had, he would like to send me to school. So I got to choose any college I wanted to go to.
He would pay for my, yes, he would pay for my tuition, my housing, and also wanted to gift an allowance because he did not want me to work to concentrate on school. And the only requirements he had was that I keep above a 3.0 and that I would meet with him after every semester. And so that's what I would do. I would drive to his house. I'd pick him up. We would go eat.
We would talk about everything. He would, he would, we would talk about my grades, how everything was going. And in 2016, I graduated completely debt free from college. And I would like to add, because he did that for me years later, now my brother is about to graduate in May from college with his engineering degree. And after all his, um,
My parents will actually have put him through school with the help of what he had got from school as well. So he will graduate debt-free.
Wow.
So all because of what my great-grandparents did. Now, 50-plus years later, my brother and I have both. It came around to us. Wow.
The ripple effect of that is pretty cool.
Yeah. Yeah.
How do you even choose when the world is your oyster? What college did you end up going to? What did you study?
I actually, I went to EPSU and I got my bachelor's in mass communication. So public relations and advertising is what my concentration was.
From East Tennessee State?
Yes, sir.
Yeah, okay. Wow. So that was near home, of course, since you're in Knoxville, right?
It was. Yeah, it was, yeah.
Okay. Very cool. Very cool. That's neat. So I'm thinking, so this guy's 85, and he was 20 when they were renting the cabin in Gatlinburg and got the money back from your great-grandparents, and he was friends with your grandfather. I got that right, didn't I?
Yes, and I never got to meet my grandfather. He passed when my dad was actually young, so... I believe him and my grandma actually lost the connection there at some point, and they ran into each other randomly and started talking, and that sparked their conversation on, well, do you have grandkids, and that's how I met him.
Did your grandmother even know the Gatlinburg story before they bumped into each other?
No, she knew of him. They were best friends, and she knew him. But as far as knowing that rent story, I'm not really sure if she knew that beforehand or not.
Wow. He was waiting a long time for some payback, and he got the idea. Talking to Grandma, I went, I know exactly what to do. I really like this guy.
This is class.
Yeah. This is very well done. Since this has happened, he did pass in 2020, but he has a special place in my heart. He really did change my life. and the ripple effect to that, he, he really did make a difference.
And that's pretty serious. That is so cool. I love this story because it took so long to unfold.
Yeah. Then my grandparents just has good faith and he was a great friend. They did that. And here I am.
Yeah.
Uh, so it was, It was something that I will never forget. And, you know, I knew it was a big deal when I was young in my 20s. But as I get older, you know, that those acts of kindness, they mean more and more as you get older. You realize how much of a deal that was.
Oh, man. Well, he took that in his heart and for 40 years or whatever, 50 years, you know, he's
carrying carrying around i mean 25 60 years from 20s to 80s you're right you know and and then 60 years later has a chance to bring it back around that's pretty stinking incredible right there i love that i like the long tail on that yeah amen carla is in nashville merry christmas carla tell us your generosity story merry christmas dave and george uh thanks for having me on sure um
In January of 2021, our 13-year-old son, Brett, was diagnosed with leukemia. And the day that he was diagnosed, we were told he might not make it through the night. Whoa. Yes, his white blood cell count was 865,000, which normal is between like 4,000 and 11,000. Whoa. So they basically described his blood being like sludge. So it was causing problems with every organ.
He spent 19 days in the pediatric ICU at Le Bonheur in Memphis. And then a week of that, he was in a coma. So at one point during that, they called family in to say goodbye, and the staff was just surprised. Every day, he just kept making it. And so we had thousands of people that were following. We had a Facebook page, Brave Like Brett, where people were going to check for updates.
And we had people praying for Brett from all over the United States and from over 40 countries. Wow. So after that first 19 days in the ICU, he was transferred over. It was just five minutes away, but it took that long to get him stable enough to be able to transfer to St. Jude, where he spent the next 300 days. And so when he got there, he couldn't hold his head up.
He could barely wiggle his toes. He couldn't remember what had happened 30 seconds before, which honestly at times was a blessing in that he couldn't remember some of those things going on. He just faced overwhelming odds over and over for the next, you know, 11 months while we were there. He had a brain bleed, had lost most of his vision. He had multiple relapses with his cancer.
And in August of that year, he received a bone marrow transplant, and his brother was the donor. His brother, Bond, was a 100% match. And so... That was a huge blessing. And we were able to go home in December of that year. So his doctors that were with him from the beginning, from the very beginning, called him a miracle.
And tears would roll down their face, you know, and they would see him coming back for follow-ups. They had never really even seen him walk, you know, at the time that they had had him. And so... Brett is currently, he's 17. He's three years post-transplant. We have moved to Nashville. He is legally blind now. Continues to have the short-term memory loss challenges.
Has some mobility deficits, but he's attending high school full-time. He's involved in church and best buddies at school. So he is currently cancer-free. Wow. This all happened during COVID, so we weren't allowed any visitors. So there were so many people, though, that were so generous during that time.
And so, I mean, we had our next door neighbor mowed our yard for an entire year, just without anyone asking, just did it.
um my husband and i were both coaches referees would just sign over their checks you know at our ball games um sometimes they would do that so all your financial needs were just miraculously covered by community we had lots of help from lots of different people for sure that's special so glad he's doing so well that's pretty cool miracle comeback i love it this is the ramsey show
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Merry Christmas.
So tell us your generosity story.
Okay. Well, first I just want to say my name is Landry Johnson. I'm a sophomore at the University of Oklahoma. And now I'm going to just give a little back story. So when I was 15, my father, Noah Orlando Johnson, passed away to suicide very abruptly. During this time, I was 15 and my older brother was 17. Obviously, we're getting ready to go off to college.
And it was definitely just a lot going on. Not only did my father take his own life, before taking his life, he shot my stepmom six times. And just during this time, it was very hard financially, mentally, in every single way. Trauma. Yeah, it was a lot going on all at once, especially for a 15-year-old girl.
We were also traveling back to and from Oklahoma to Texas to see my stepmom while she was in the hospital. We were definitely very much there for her a lot of it. But obviously, hospital bills and all the things like that, it was a lot. We found out my dad didn't have life insurance.
He also didn't have a will of any sort, which just left me and my brother and my stepmom just in a very hard place because my brother, Christopher and I were both getting ready to go off to college and we didn't really have those funds set up because we weren't expecting this to just happen. No one was expecting him to just do what he did. Um,
So my brother and I immediately just started looking for scholarships and things like that once we got our heads in the right space. My brother is now at Texas State, and I'm at, obviously, the University of Oklahoma. But during our research, we found a website called Life Happens.
And through this website, it has a bunch of different scholarships for kids who have lost parents that didn't have life insurance. And one of those companies is called Zander Insurance, which is the company that so gratefully and graciously gave me my scholarship and the scholarship that I got with them, I get it every year. So it's reoccurring.
Um, and it's actually the scholarship that puts me to where I need to be. So I don't have to take out any student loans and I'm debt free from college because of the scholarship, which is truly just a blessing. Yeah. So not only has it opened doors for education, community, meeting people, it's put me in a place where, um,
my situation as losing my father isn't going to define my future based off that.
Amen.
Which is really amazing.
You're amazing. Wow.
Thank you.
You come through that trauma and you got a head on your shoulders like this and you're a sophomore in college. You're impressive.
Thank you.
I really appreciate that. I'm proud of you. Good work. Xander chose well. Yes, they did.
Yeah, they're awesome.
Yeah. So what are you studying?
I'm studying healthcare administration with a minor in marketing.
I bet. Yeah, that's perfect. Very good. Very cool. And you're extremely well-spoken, young lady. I'm proud of you. You just came on in front of millions of people and handled that like a pro.
Thank you. I appreciate that.
And wishing you the best with the rest of college. And forgive my ignorance, I didn't know Xander did that. So that's a really cool program they have.
I knew they did a lot of generosity things, and they have all kinds of different things they do in giving that we have participated in. I was not aware of that one. That's pretty cool. That's very interesting.
You'll have to ask Jeff Zander about that next time you guys hang out.
Yeah, we'll send him a clip of this. That'll make his eyes leak. That's a good thing, because I like watching Jeff cry. It's fun.
Well, it's cool to see the other side, because when you're Zander, you give out the scholarship. You may not hear from them, so it's cool to see the progress and momentum and how she's changed her life because of this, going to school debt-free.
For those of you not figuring out what we're talking about, Jeff Zander is Zander Insurance, and he's been an advertiser on the show for... We've advertised for him for people to, oddly enough, get life insurance. That's where we send you to to get life insurance, and they shop among a bunch of different companies to get you the best deal.
Obviously, Landry's dad did not have that, and that's how this all set up. And that's probably why they give to this particular fund, you know, as a way to give back, so to speak. And... So we've endorsed that company for, gosh, almost 30 years and sent people there by the hundreds of thousands over the years.
And then he turns around with some of the profits from running that organization and does this. So what a great generosity story.
Love that.
Well done, Jeff. I'm proud of you, my friend. Well done, Landry. You handled that call like a pro. You told that story beautifully. That's awesome. I don't know many sophomores in college can do that.
No, that's pro-level right there.
Yeah, well played.
Teaching her well at University of Oklahoma.
Well played. Danielle is in Grand Junction. Hi, Danielle. Merry Christmas.
Hi. Hi, how are you?
Better than I deserve. Tell us your generosity story.
Okay, so my husband and I are both educators in a small school. And in 2018, there's a theme I've noticed today in the show, but
Unfortunately, we lost two students to suicide, and it was one of the hardest things as an educator that we've had to go through, and we decided we were on baby step six, and we decided to go ahead and take a goal that we had for baby step seven, and we went ahead and started a college scholarship in the name of my brother. His name was Evan, and we give, we raise money, and we give
scholarships to students at our high school. And so far to date, since then, we've been able to give 15 scholarships, ranging from $750 to, actually, I'll pause real quick and say that where we get the funds is
Um, we don't, I have an annual fundraiser in the summertime and the students at the school will help me to put on the fundraiser and we sell, um, food burritos and salsa and the community is extremely generous.
And so, um, I'll, I'll tell people that, um, you know, the, the food costs a certain amount, but they'll tip me like crazy cause they know that every dollar that they give to us will go straight to the college scholarship, straight to the kids. And, um, The reason why we wanted to do the scholarship is because the loss felt really real to us and we wanted to have change in the community.
But we also knew that we would prefer that the scholarship be more about going to school without loans than mental health. And so our focus is on teaching kids also on how to go to school without any loans.
Love it. Love it. That's well played. And you said you've done how many scholarships so far?
We have given out 15 so far, and we've awarded over $64,000 in scholarships. I love it. Yeah, it's a community. The community is very generous, plus we have some really generous donors. And how the kids will qualify for the scholarship is they have to
listen to the borrowed future or watch the documentary and they have to come up to us and let us know how they're going to school without loans and so our scholarship renews every year for up to $10,000 and I'm proud to say quite a few of these kids, I know it's made a difference in them going to school.
We changed their mindset and they go to school without any loans and that makes me very proud and it's the only positive thing I can say that came from the losses that we had.
Wow. Wow. You ought to be proud.
I'm proud of you. Listen to this story. What a great reminder. You don't have to give a lot personally, but Danielle was bold and said, I'm going to start this thing, and the community rallied around it and made it happen.
You just got to raise it up. Have a vision. Exactly. And beautifully done. Beautifully done. And tied to it, the whole debt-free thing. They get to see George. That's right. On Borrowed Future. That's fun. There we go.
I wouldn't call it a feature, but there it is. That's fun.
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George Camel, Ramsey personality, is my co-host today. Frank is with us in Nashville. Hey, Frank, Merry Christmas.
Merry Christmas to you and George, Dave. Thanks for taking our call.
Absolutely. Tell us your story about generosity.
Well, Linda and I began overgiving about seven years ago. We were in a restaurant, and on the way in, we noticed a van, a couple of people in the van, young children. And they stayed out there. We went in. We had our dinner. And they came in just before we finished our dinner. They finally came in. They talked with the owner and the server.
They were trying to bargain for two buffet payments for a meal to feed them two and their three kids. And so we're in earshot of this, and we heard what was going on. And finally, the... The owner finally agreed to have the minimum take some stuff for the kids. But then we went over to the table as we finished our dinner.
We went over to the table and we wished them Merry Christmas and Happy Holiday. And we told them that we will buy all five of their meals. And we told them. the server that was going to be on us, and we were going to pay for it. And we then emptied our pockets of whatever cash we had, which was just over $100 or so, and we gave it to that couple.
They definitely seemed to be maybe passing through, definitely destitute, and looking for a need. So we responded.
Absolutely. Well done, sir. Well played. Well played. The good news is they got a full belly and you got a great story for the rest of your life.
Absolutely. And, and that changed our life after that. We were, we were, had already been a millionaires a little bit before that. And, uh, we said, you know, we're just not getting enough where we have no children. There's, there's no one for us to leave this to except our nieces and nephews, which, you know, we do help on occasion.
And we said, you know, we need to just give better, give more, give better, better tipping, better involvement with certain causes, you know, charities and veterans associations because, you know, I'm a veteran and, you know, we need to boost up the population.
Well done, Frank. Well done. I like it. I like it a lot. You know, and the interesting thing is, folks, Frank's story is... Merry Christmas to you, Frank. Frank's story is just a reminder. All you got to do is just lift your eyes up just a little bit and look around the room. There's somebody somewhere in the room. I mean, all the time. There's you at the gas pump, at the wherever.
I mean, you're... There's...
If you just start listening and start looking, you will find so many opportunities to give. It's amazing.
And, you know, where occasionally a hundred bucks makes a big difference. You know, just a hundred bucks. I mean, you got a million.
Well, and just the surprise element of kindness is just so shocking in today's culture that it really does change a person's day, their week, maybe even their year.
And here's what's interesting. the power of giving what it does is it it reshapes when you give regardless really of what you give to but the more personal it is like frank's situation or some of these stories we've had uh in the last you know last couple hours here are just incredible the uh When you give, it reshapes and changes you permanently.
You are moving along the spectrum from selfish to selfless. And generous people are highly attractive. Because they smile more. It's hard to find someone who's depressed who's generous. If you're outrageously generous, these are some of the smiliest people you'll run into. It's hard to find someone. If you're outlandishly generous, it spills over into your marriage.
If you're crazy generous, it spills over into your parenting. You're the one that holds the door for someone. You're the one that picks up the groceries when the bag drops at the bottom of it and stuff's rolling all over the parking lot and you help and stop. It reshapes who you are because you become, by definition, other-centered rather than self-centered, selfish.
And that's the beautiful thing about these stories is it reveals that someone was looking outside of themselves. George, we've had some great stories written in, too. Pick one of them up.
Oh yeah, this one's from Carl in Knoxville, Tennessee. Here's what he had to say. A week or so later, we found a better pair of tickets for $1,100. We decided to purchase the second set and turn around and sell the first to recoup our money. To make a long story short, we tried for over a month and could not sell our tickets.
We drove to Knoxville the night before the concert, and the day of the concert, we decided to eat at one of our favorite restaurants in Knoxville, and it was about three or four hours before showtime, and we still had the two extra tickets. Whoa. Whoa.
It took us about an hour working with her phone and hours to transfer the tickets on Ticketmaster, but we did get it taken care of and even gave her a big tip on top of that to cover her parking. The concert was fantastic, but my wife and I enjoyed blessing her and her husband even more than the concert itself. It was the first concert she had ever been to.
And the Eagles is a great first concert to go.
Absolutely.
She texted us after the concert and told us she and her husband had a wonderful time and thanked us again. Best $1,200 my wife and I have ever spent.
Biggest tip that waitress ever got, too.
That's the truth. And I know, Dave, you're a big Eagles fan. And, you know, being a Knoxville fan... It's all there. This is a very Dave story. If I had to make one up.
I had nothing to do with the story, but it does. Yeah, it's all around.
If I said chat GPT, give me a generosity story that Dave will love. It's going to involve the Eagles and Knoxville.
You didn't do that. That's not a made up. This is a real story. That's a real story. It's just really happened. And I had nothing to do with it. I'll just say. But, yeah, that's pretty incredible. That's fun. And, you know, it's interesting, again, this whole thing, the formation of character comes out in this. That's pretty stinking cool right there. This woman is waiting.
Honey, what happened at work today? I got a $1,200 tip in the form of Eagles tickets. That's wild. Yeah, that's very cool. Very cool. Hey, folks, the next segments of the Ramsey Show are on the Ramsey Network app only or talk radio only. And so if you want to tune into those, you need to download the Ramsey Network app. You always get the last segment of the show by having the Ramsey Network app.
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Folks, I can't inspire you enough, I can't remind you enough the power of giving and how it loosens up your view of life, how it changes your peripheral vision, how it changes the way you walk through this life versus You know, being so inward focused, you become outward focused, and it just makes you highly attractive.
So one of the reasons we love to teach on and preach on and encourage generosity any possible way we can. That puts this hour of The Ramsey Show in the books.
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So I've lived with crippling anxiety for as long as I can remember. How do I stop it from constantly coming up in different areas of my life?
What does crippling anxiety mean? Paint me a picture of that. All right, so you ready to jump in?
I'm ready to jump in.
We're going to check in with Kelsey 30 days, 60 days, 90 days.
I cannot even function because I'm just crying. My mom left us when I was four. I truly felt like for a while I had no family.
She's experiencing things that really hurt a long time ago. Tell me about this boy.
He triggered me a lot. Scared of losing Paul, scared of doing the wrong thing, scared of not being enough.
It just feels like it would be exhausting to be Kelsey.
It is.
Whenever somebody's playing whack-a-mole with their anxiety, when it just keeps moving, that tells me the underlying system's not okay.
How do I get my inner child out of this relationship? Because I feel like she's running the show.
One of two people that's supposed to never leave took off.
I was his burden.
Your burden, that's right. To the one person who should carry it, all of it. Did you ever tell that little girl that it wasn't her fault? I don't know what to do. You either have to choose to let this guy love you, or you gotta choose to let this guy go.