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Red Flag Rodeo!

Fri, 22 Nov 2024

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Episode #641: Bryan & Krissy dive into the plethora of red flags that our listeners sent in. These are RED red. Gladiator II Chicken Fry drama Red Flags! Being different around friends/family Producer Christina supports you, Story #2!!!!! Bryan’s “d-d-d-d-duhhhh” Polyamory red flags They = nonbinary A rainbow red flag! Guru BG & Yogi Hoadley Text us or leave us a voicemail: +1 (212) 433-3TCB Follow Us: IG: @thecommercialbreak TikTok: @tcbpodcast YT: youtube.com/thecommercialbreak www.tcbpodcast.com Executive Producer: Bryan Green Hosts: Bryan Green & Krissy Hoadley Producer: Astrid B. Green Producer & Audio Editor: Christina Archer Christina’s Podcast: Apple Podcasts & Spotify To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Chapter 1: What are the red flags in relationships?

2.208 - 21.926 Unknown Speaker

Wenn jemand Charles und Melanie gesagt hätte, dass sie nach ihrem Tinder-Match gemeinsam einen Channel mit crazy Aufgaben starten, also wirklich crazy, fünf Tage auf einer einsamen Insel verbringen, eine Zipline an einem Gurt runterrasen, eine Million Views knacken, eine Wand mit Sauknöpfen hochklettern und Fallschirmspringen in Ägypten? Das hätten die beiden niemals geglaubt.

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21.966 - 28.852 Unknown Speaker

Aber das ist das Ding mit Tinder. Es führt dich an Orte, die du nie erwartet hättest. Wohin es dich auch führt. It starts with a swipe. Tinder.

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30.893 - 49.865 Unknown Speaker

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50.645 - 64.336 Unknown Speaker

...me on the scale of caring. I am at zero. Therefore, since negative caring is impossible, or rather is simply caring of another sort, love and hate being different sides of the same coin, etc., etc., I couldn't care less.

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66.657 - 68.559 Unknown Speaker

On this episode of the Commercial Break...

69.98 - 71.341 Bryan Green

The next episode of the commercial break starts now.

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Ja.

124.994 - 125.174 Bryan Green

Okay.

125.194 - 125.314 Unknown Speaker

Okay.

Chapter 2: How do emotional shutdowns signal a red flag?

2711.135 - 2729.101 Bryan Green

I hear you. You gotta have clear boundaries right off the bat. And oh boy did the jealousy rear its ugly head right from the beginning. One night I ended up going to a concert with Alex. I'm assuming this is the male in the relationship. I don't know if Alex and Jamie are a man and a woman or a man and a man. I'm not really sure. But when Jamie found out

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2730.333 - 2745.763 Bryan Green

They sent me a text message that read, I hope you're having fun without me. Thanks for the invite. I mean, it was a concert, not a funeral, and I tried to reassure them, but it felt like I was navigating a minefield with every word. Yeah.

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Chapter 3: What are signs of controlling behavior in partners?

2745.803 - 2754.529 Unknown Speaker

Hope you're having fun without me, bitch. I'll have the dead rabbit waiting when you get home.

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2756.721 - 2768.771 Bryan Green

I mean, come on. Yeah, I agree. If you're going to be in a throuple, then you got to understand that at times it's not going to include you. Isn't that like the benefit of being in a throuple sometimes? Okay, I don't have to worry about it.

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2768.851 - 2770.772 Krissy Hoadley

One person doesn't feel like going to the concert.

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2770.893 - 2802.453 Bryan Green

That's right. Ask that guy from Sister Wives. That's working out. It's working out just fine for him. Everything turned out roses. Hahaha. Well, yeah, that's a red flag. Definitely.

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Chapter 4: How does excessive jealousy manifest?

2802.513 - 2808.238 Krissy Hoadley

If you're going to be in like a relationship... Every single one of these have been a definable red flag.

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2808.318 - 2810.8 Bryan Green

Absolutely. First of all, no boundaries.

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2810.86 - 2812.041 Krissy Hoadley

Yeah, we'll figure it out.

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2812.102 - 2813.963 Bryan Green

Yeah, we'll figure it out. You're horrible.

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2814.163 - 2817.626 Krissy Hoadley

Now you see me, now you don't.

2817.686 - 2831.923 Bryan Green

Yeah, that's like, I don't know, that's like trying to stick it in the butt the first time you make out with somebody, right? It's like, when you have no boundaries... Dann sind die Grenzen überall. Und dann werden sie einfach hier und da auftauchen. Und es wird für jeden, der verletzt ist, machen.

2831.943 - 2838.528 Krissy Hoadley

Nun, sie werden auftauchen, wenn du eine Grenze schaffst. Ja, wenn du eine Grenze schaffst. Das ist richtig. Wenn du einen Konflikt schaffst.

2838.548 - 2878.345 Bryan Green

Wenn du die Linie überschreitest. Und dann, wenn du die Linie überschreitest, gibt es Konflikte. Und das ist unnötig. Weil du von Anfang an gesagt hättest, ich mag es nicht, dass du mit... Right. Yeah. So this is, I see this, this is definitely a red flag.

2878.385 - 2897.231 Bryan Green

But I have to say this, my friend, I do believe some of this, and you're 23 and everyone's learning, but I do have to say, you'll learn this as you go along. Some of this might be on you a little bit too. Like you could have also said, hey, what are the dynamics here? What are we, what's going to go on? Or I don't like this, or I would like this.

Chapter 8: What is the significance of communication in a relationship?

2661.669 - 2686.462 Bryan Green

After a few flirty conversations and a couple of mind-blowing group hangouts, they invited me to join their relationship. Okay. I thought, what could go wrong? I mean, it's LA. We're all about love, acceptance and sharing, right? And to be honest, polyamory and the queer lifestyle in LA is spot on. It's not unusual. Spoiler, what could go wrong? Spoiler alert, a lot.

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2689.417 - 2710.735 Bryan Green

Right off the bat, I noticed that communication was like a game of charades, but nobody knew the rules. When I'd ask about their boundaries or how they envisioned our dynamic, it was like trying to extract information from some secret society. They just would say things like, we'll figure it out as we go. No. Yeah, because that always ends well, she said. Yeah, no. Yeah, no, no, no, no.

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2711.135 - 2729.101 Bryan Green

I hear you. You gotta have clear boundaries right off the bat. And oh boy did the jealousy rear its ugly head right from the beginning. One night I ended up going to a concert with Alex. I'm assuming this is the male in the relationship. I don't know if Alex and Jamie are a man and a woman or a man and a man. I'm not really sure. But when Jamie found out

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2730.333 - 2745.763 Bryan Green

They sent me a text message that read, I hope you're having fun without me. Thanks for the invite. I mean, it was a concert, not a funeral, and I tried to reassure them, but it felt like I was navigating a minefield with every word. Yeah.

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2745.803 - 2754.529 Unknown Speaker

Hope you're having fun without me, bitch. I'll have the dead rabbit waiting when you get home.

2756.721 - 2768.771 Bryan Green

I mean, come on. Yeah, I agree. If you're going to be in a throuple, then you got to understand that at times it's not going to include you. Isn't that like the benefit of being in a throuple sometimes? Okay, I don't have to worry about it.

2768.851 - 2770.772 Krissy Hoadley

One person doesn't feel like going to the concert.

2770.893 - 2802.453 Bryan Green

That's right. Ask that guy from Sister Wives. That's working out. It's working out just fine for him. Everything turned out roses. Hahaha. Well, yeah, that's a red flag. Definitely.

2802.513 - 2808.238 Krissy Hoadley

If you're going to be in like a relationship... Every single one of these have been a definable red flag.

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