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Chapter 1: What shenanigans do Lex and Dre discuss in this episode?
It's your girl Lex P. And it's your girl Dre Nicole. And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds. Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no guests today. You know what? I read a comment in the YouTube things this morning and it made me really happy because it was a girl.
I was like, she was basically like, listen, y'all always want to complain. She said something like y'all need to stop complaining when they have guests. Because if you are a true poor crew member, you like it whenever they have guests or not. Period. You ate that. I feel like, and I've said this before, I think both episodes eat. I think that the guest episodes be good.
I think that the solo episodes be good. I don't know. I get it, though. I think every guest is not going to be everybody's forte. Mm-hmm. You know, but at the end of the day, I still think that even if you aren't a super fan of somebody that's a guest, you can find a good little noogie or a good or a good little gem in the episode.
Like, I still think they'd be good episodes, you know, and I think that one thing I like about us is that I think like we kind of bring something out of people where people get to really see people's other side.
okay so i'm glad you said that because you remember you know our nephew owen b peasy yeah shout out to owen b peasy he has a song that's going viral on tiktok right now for real it's one of his like songs that came out in like 2017 uh-huh and i just love that for him i said go ahead nephew nephew yeah go ahead nephew and i seen him at the airport i can't remember if i said that on the show or not i seen him at the airport when i was going to la oh
And he said something. So he was like, hey, auntie. Aw, we love him. And we like ran towards each other. It was like a movie. You know what I've always wanted to do? In slow motion. I've always wanted to like have a dramatic like airport scene.
I told you, I live my life like a rom-com. And I always pretend like I'm doing something important. Like even if I'm walking to the bathroom, I'm like... Everything has to be drama. Girl, okay. You know what I'm saying?
Goodbye.
I need somebody to drop me off at the airport and be like, I'll be back. I'll be waiting for you.
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Chapter 2: What does it mean to date or befriend a contrarian?
45 not saying that that's gonna be me because personally I don't want to have a kid that old right right but at the end of the day it's women out here that are doing it so you're projecting okay you know and then they be like I even somebody left a comment under one of our videos and they under that video it was a clip and they were like um cuz realistically most of the time when you have a child in your 40s you're not even gonna live to see them be 20 and
My mom and my dad adopted me.
Now, that's wild.
My mom and my dad adopted me. My mom was 41, and I think my dad was 39. My mom is still alive. My mom is 75. So, it's like... You did not eat that. You didn't eat that. Like, y'all are projecting. Because my mom had me at 20, and she died. Sex... You know? Like, you know, I'm not trying to be, it's not funny. No, no, no, no.
And I'm not, no, and I'm not trying to be funny, but I even said that in the comments as a rebuttal because it's like, you never know.
Yeah.
Somebody can pass away. laughing i'm not laughing but i'm saying no but you're right yeah y'all know what i'm saying because you never know when someone can pass away your mom can have you at 20 and not live to see you be 30 or 40 like it happens all the time so rude bitch age huh what a rude bitch yeah it was me no i'm talking about my mama oh you going to check out like this?
Like, girl, what about me? What about yesterday?
Goodbye. Her and Yvette had enough. Nope. They said it's time to go. All right, all right. Okay. But no, for real, I was just saying that to say like, Again, to me, it's just always projection. Yeah. And that's what I don't like. That's why I feel like maybe I mean, shit, bitch, maybe I am contrarian a little bit because I just feel like y'all fucking whack as fuck.
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Chapter 3: Is makeup sex a real thing?
I'll be right here. I'll be waiting on you. What the fuck was that? Hey. I'm not done. I'm not done. This is what I have to say.
I truly believe that a lot of... But we don't like to talk about this, though. A lot of women, they be like, wanting to use their vagina, too, for that. Just like men like to use their penis to do things... We like to weaponize our vaginas as well.
I know that that's things that I've done in the past, but I think as I get older, I have realized makeup sex isn't real unless the conversation has already been had. Yes. So if me and you are going through a tough time and we haven't talked about it and you want to sweep things under the rug and you want to invite me over, you got Tito sitting on the counter. The lights is dimmed.
You got a pot of beans on the stove. Them chili beans. He know what I do off them chili beans, now. Then you have sex after the beans? Hey. Oof. Stomach made of steel, now. Oof. Don't know why to see it now. Okay. But I'm saying, you showing up with all these good things, but we still haven't talked about the issue. Because one thing I can say is that people love to throw the rug over the dust.
They like to sweep shit under the rug. And sex is the main thing that I feel like people use to manipulate. Sex is a weapon. Sex has started wars. Sex is the reason behind a lot of times why people are getting murdered. Y'all know I watch a lot of true crime now. I watch a lot of true crime. Nine times out of ten, somebody is getting murdered over some dick, over some pussy.
You know what I'm saying? So I truly believe that makeup sex is a myth. It needs to be stopped. Stop trying to like cover up the issues by sucking dick. Because let me tell you, as soon as that man nut and you stop, you still don't want to talk about it. You finna get up on, you finna take them balls out your mouth, lay on his chest. And be like, so, like, did you really like her?
Or was it, like, make? Oh, come back. I wasn't done.
Come on. Come on, beautiful. I was. It's all right.
Because this is a solo episode. We can do what we want. I wasn't saying shit.
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Chapter 4: Are all women really created equal?
Chapter 5: How do Lex and Dre feel about projecting negativity?
Chapter 6: What is the significance of personal experiences in shaping opinions?
I truly realized my purpose on this earth is to make people realize, like, stick it out. Yeah. Keep going. Laugh. entertain people, make people feel good. Because I can be having the worst day of my life. This happens every time, which is crazy. I'll be having the worst day and I'll be like, what is the point? What is the purpose?
And then I'll get like a long paragraph of somebody telling us how we changed their life and how we make them laugh and how we... So... Like you said, I truly believe God has showed me like, hey, Lex, you're supposed to entertain these people. You're supposed to make them feel good.
You're supposed to show them that this is what you can do if you don't stop and you keep focusing and you keep grinding and you keep working. Because I truly believe that everything is possible. Anything is possible, but not everybody has that mind frame. It's hard. When your brain, your brain is like, It's an organ. It's a muscle. It's going to do its own thing.
So you have to have the power over it to control it. So I do agree with you on that, though. I do like certain things like the path is already there. God has that path. Are you going to follow it? Are you going to pay attention to what's going on? I think whatever is meant for you, nobody can stop it. I think that's why I don't really live my life in fear.
Like, obviously, it's times in my life where I've been anxious. And I think that's a normal emotion that everybody can, you know, identify with. I have definitely been anxious at times in my life because you just don't know. Like the crazy thing about life is you just never know what's going to happen next. And that's really scary. It's scary about it.
But I think that if you if you really hone in on having a good relationship with a higher power and it's like I don't be, you know, I obviously. Am a Christian and I believe in God, but I'm not really big on trying to push that on our platform because I just feel like, you know, like people have to. Do what they want on their own. Yeah. And have their own beliefs.
And I don't ever want that to be a reason why people think they can't listen to us because we just kind of trying to always push religion on them. But like, I just think that if you have a relationship with a higher power, with God, whoever you praise or whatever, like you got to always know that things are going to get better and things are going to work out in your favor. Yeah.
So do you believe all women are created equal? No. But I think for different reasons than most people think, though. Right. You think it's the mindset? Yeah, I think it's your mindset. Like, I think people be looking at surface level stuff like, oh, she work here. She don't make this kind of money that this man makes. So why would he be attracted to her?
That doesn't have anything to do with anything. That's why you see all the time. So many women who come from low income, poverty stricken families who we ended up bagging them a multimillion dollar man. It has a lot to do. With so many different factors. I don't think all women are created equal. I think I don't necessarily think anybody is created equal.
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