Lex P
Appearances
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I'm not trying to see you hoes on Valentine's Day, bitch.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But I think it was just young and dumb being stupid.
Pour Minds Podcast
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And I think what it was is like, instead of being like, hey Lex, I want to hang out with you just one-on-one. Like, we want to spend time with you. Just say that. Because I'm bringing my friend along because I'm like, oh my God, y'all are going to love her. Yeah. Because you know me. I like to mesh my friends. I do. I'm that friend like, oh, wait till you meet her. Wait till you meet her.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Like, literally, I told... Because, like, my newest friend in my... Y'all know I love a new friend. B-Lynn is my new friend. So I'm like, oh, my God, B-Lynn, you have to meet Lauren. So I just like bringing my friends together. So in my head, I'm like, let me bring Drea because I love her. It's lit. It's a good time. They're like, oh, we want to just spend time with you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But I don't think it came off that way. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. So... But anyways, shout out to Jazz, the new mother.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But the other ones... You concerned. And to the rest of you hoes. And to the rest of you hoes. Because Lauren, do you remember when that girl Taylor? Yeah. She attacked me. Who the fuck is Taylor? She was like, she said, my mother has readings in her mind. And she said, you're not a good person. I said, I'll fuck you and your mama up, bitch. Who in the fuck is Taylor?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
It was another girl that ended up showing up on the trip. In Atlanta? Yes, yes. And she was like, my mother had visions about you. And she said, you're not that girl. I said, do your mama want to get whooped? And this was your friend? No, this was another girl.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I was literally... Now, I'm not a fighter. I was about to whoop that girl ass in the hotel room. Jazz was like, Lex, I love you. She was like, just leave because it's not worth it. Jazz was mad at the end because she was like, what the fuck are you doing? Why would you try to fight my friend? And Jazz is a very calm person, so it was just a situation. We were young. We were young. I wasn't there.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yeah, you weren't there. But I remember I called Lauren. You did. And I was going, I think that was like around the time, like, because we were always friends. But during that, after that trip, we really got close. But came closer. Yeah, for sure. Because I was like venting to you about it because I was like, I cannot believe they came here and did that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Oh, no, you took my wig off. We wasn't fighting for real.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Girl, we was just playing. It wasn't crazy. Okay, Lynn, what was your first impression of me? I don't remember. I just thought you were silly. Did I scare you because I was so loud? No. See, because sometimes I feel like with quiet people and I come along and be like, oh, she doing a lot. She doing too much. You didn't scare me.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Ooh. I be scaring the quiet folks off. Maybe like... Not you be scaring her. Is your friend Lex going to be there? Okay, okay. So what did you think about me, Lynn?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
No, you don't. And approachable. You have that Kim Kardashian face. It's always like... But I don't know, because I feel like you got a resting bitch face, too, but people still think you know. No, that's because I be gassy, bitch. What? Gassy? I be looking... I don't... I'll be happy to go to the bathroom.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I got an old bladder. I'll be happy to go to the bathroom. It'd be all the beans.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Please don't bring up... I cannot wait till we done recording. I know what I'm ordering. Chipotle. Extra pinto. Okay. Okay, so I'll say this. My first impression of Elise because, like... The way Ryan ran it down to me, he's like, yeah, like, come, this and that. And, you know, at that time, we hadn't had a lot of experience in the industry yet.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
So I was like, oh, my gosh, Elise is a serious person. Like, she's going to come and be so, like... Oh, my God. So I was like, let me, you know, put on my tie, my Avril Lavigne tie. You know what I'm saying? Like, I was... A flip point. Yeah, I had to get serious. But, like, once I got to know her, I was like, oh, she's very down to earth.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Don't call me. Don't text me. I'll talk to you on the 15th or the 16th, bitch. But if you're single, what you going to do? Somebody finna fuck me.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And I can see why you have your job because I think to have a job like you have, you have to be plugged in. And, like, no, like... Because you are very, like, young-hearted, like we are. Like, very much can hang with the girls, have a good time. So I was like, okay, I thought you were, like, a very serious... Even though I was on y'all asses at the Houston show. Oh, let me tell you, though.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
So on the couch, we have Lauren. Yes. We have Elise.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Ooh, I'm glad you brought that up. Because we were so drunk at that show.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We were drunk as hell. It was so bad. When we got back home, Elise made us go to her house, and we had to review the live show. And till this day, do you know me and Drea limit ourselves? We can only take two shots before a live. Till this day. We don't play.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I was like, oh. I was like, let's get us to the bed.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And we have Lynn. So, I want y'all to, like, go through each of y'all. Just, like, give a little introduction about yourself. Like, let the girls know what it is. What's up? Yeah, and, like, maybe how we met or something. Yeah, yeah. Tell a little, you know, a little one-two.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We got a pipe. Yeah, they were on timeout for a little while.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
She said, turn it up, turn it up. I know that's right. And I want a shot. This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Drea Nicole. And one thing we do as humans, we love to talk about red flags. Red flag, don't talk to him, don't be friends with her. But what about the green flags in relationships that you should probably focus on?
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Pour Minds Podcast
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Ever since I was a little girl, I've loved being on camera. Entertaining myself and everybody around me by sharing my thoughts and opinions on anything pop culture. For the past few years, I've heard your requests, but now it's finally time to deliver. Okay, y'all, let's get into the tea with Love Lex P. Mmm, tasty.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
What is your take on having a lot of female friends?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Okay, we're going to get into the first game because, you know, we're going to sit here chatting all day.
Pour Minds Podcast
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So, yes, let's get into the game. Okay, what are we playing? We're going to play, you know, I know y'all heard of we listen and we don't judge. This game is called we listen and we might judge.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I'm judging. I'm judging. I'm for sure judging. I'm going the fuck off. Like, if I found out anybody that y'all were dating and you're like, well, you have to understand. I'm like, you a weirdo and your nigga a weirdo. Yeah. Yeah, I'm judging. Yeah, so we can all agree we judging? Okay, okay. Ooh. Poor hygiene.
Pour Minds Podcast
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If your friend told you they've dated someone and realized they don't use rags, don't shower frequently, and don't wash their hands, are you judging your friend for that? Hell yeah, because bitch, you must don't bathe neither.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
You're dirty. I don't like that. You're dirty. Let me say this. Let me say this. I had a friend. I started off wrong. Nope. I had a friend who I would like, the guys that she would date, I would be like, why? Why? And we talked about this on the show before. And when I went on a trip with her, I realized this is why you're dirty. You're dirty. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
So now, back then I didn't judge because I'm like, oh, I'm being a good friend. You know what I'm saying? I'm like, I don't judge the men you date. But then once I realized, oh, your booty hole dirty too. Yeah, you don't be wiping. So now I used to not judge, but now I'm judging. Yeah, for sure. Lesson learned. Lesson learned. All right, what else we got? Dirty living space.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I know men can be messy and a lot of women too. Is this a deal breaker? Yes. Talk about it. You know who I'm talking about. Kay. Jazz's old roommate. Oh, my God. Oh, I thought she was talking about y'all old friend. That's who Kay is. Lauren, tell the story about how, what you found in that room. Tell it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I feel like every time I go to Houston, I stay with Lauren. And, like, Lauren has a two-bedroom, but I love her couch, so I usually sleep in the living room. So when she got, get out of my room! Because Lauren is, and then she's a decor queen like me. I think that's where we relate a lot. For sure. Me and Lauren will be on the phone talking about home decor for about four hours. Dry.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Like, so... I have to have clean friends, because sometimes if I need to come over and sleep on your couch, I need to do that. Yeah. Drea is clean, too, but she be doing things on her couch. So I got to make sure. I need to start putting that plastic on the couch. You need that plastic. That plastic on the sofa.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Because Drea is very clean, but I be having to do some inspections.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
It's not no substances in the sheet. Okay, okay. So is a dirty friend a deal breaker for y'all? Yeah. I can say all of y'all are pretty. Yeah, yeah. Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. And honestly, like, because Lawrence ain't with me. I said, friend, look, I ain't done my laundry. Like, I'll give him a little warning. But my house, it ain't like you can't walk on the floors.
Pour Minds Podcast
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It's so crazy because... When everybody was telling me, like, oh, you're Lauren's replacement, that's what everybody kept saying to me. And then I was like, okay, I remember you came in and you were walking through the kitchen and, like, we just walked by each other. And I'm like, girl, you ain't getting your job back. But I remember J. Bone started playing your music. Oh, yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Because we had a friend, we used to walk on her floors and we looked at our feet. Oh, my God, they would be so black at the bottom.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We used to drink a lot, though. We used to be drunk over there, so. It was literally like a dungeon. Oh, my God. Because it wasn't no window.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But your house is very tidy. It is. Very tidy. At least don't play. Take them shoes off.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But I hate the clean police. I hate when people be trying to clock people's cleanliness. Like, oh, my God, you don't take four showers a day? Yeah. Oh, my God. Now, Elise, I get it. I do believe you don't fall asleep with dishes in the sink. Some people really aren't like that. But, bitch, you might get a bean plate in the sink. Yeah. A bowl of beans might be in the sink, bitch.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Might be a little fork in there. Yeah, for sure. You fall asleep with dishes in the sink?
Pour Minds Podcast
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I don't like to have to wake up and... So you're kind of a clean freak. A little bit. Lauren has a thing about water on the floor. Really? Oh, she will have a heart attack.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Me and Allie share... Like, we had the house in Miami, remember? And me and Allie had the master bedroom. You know my bundles be everywhere. Allie was like, Lex, get it up.
Pour Minds Podcast
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We listen and we might judge still living at home with their family. How old?
Pour Minds Podcast
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Yeah, friends, boyfriend, somebody you're dating, anybody.
Pour Minds Podcast
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I said, oh, she sound like me. The girl can say one thing about it. She can catch a tune. Goodbye. So I really, honestly, I fell in love with your music before I fell in love with you. Really? That boy, she said, I said, oh. I never knew that, friend.
Pour Minds Podcast
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So, I feel the same. I feel like a friend, I'm more understanding because I'm not fucking you. Right. But the reason sometimes I don't have as much sympathy is because I have been the brokest of the broke. And y'all know that. Like, you especially know that. And I feel like if I can get it out the mud and make something happen... And, Lauren, you know how hard I used to work.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Like, day in, day out. And I feel like if I can make ends meet and figure out a way, anybody can. And I get it. Now, if you do have the help of your family, you're very blessed. There ain't nothing wrong with that. But I do think there's a thin line because... Are you staying with your family just to stack it up, or you got comfortable there? Right, yeah, it all just depends.
Pour Minds Podcast
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You don't need to be asleep. Yeah. I don't care. You don't take no naps, nigga. Go look for an apartment. Yeah, if it's my man, no. Get up!
Pour Minds Podcast
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Hey! You need to be standing outside waiting on them to open the doors. Putting the alarm code in, bitch. Mm-hmm.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Absolutely. Read it down. Okay, next one, Drea. Okay. We're going to do two more. Okay, cool.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Okay, can I say something? Yes. I used to think it was so weird... Until I wanted to give some pussy the top dollar sign. And them nails be done. And he can bend me over all type of ways. So I used to judge. But sometimes they rock it. If that's your style and you do it a certain way, I'm not going to lie. So rock it. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
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So I think if that's your style and you do it and it works for you, I'm with it. Wiz paint his nails, but Wiz is in a relationship, so I respect that woman. But we... We can... Okay. Okay, sorry. But you know what I mean, damn it. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
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He gets his feet done. Wiz's feet be like green sometimes. For real? Their toes be green. Green is my favorite color. It is? I never knew that. It is. I don't know why I didn't know that.
Pour Minds Podcast
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I ain't gonna lie. I like that clear. I do like the clear gel. Buff or the clear gel. But I like, yeah. I like it. I like a little buff. I like a buff. Shine it up. What about you, Lee? Buff is it. That's not... Okay. Lee is strict. You know Lee in Jamaica.
Pour Minds Podcast
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So I do like the gel. But I just like a man that goes and gets manis and pedis, period. Period. Like, go get your feet done and go get your hands done.
Pour Minds Podcast
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You be scratching your leg. Dre, remember we saw that person? that had dirty nails, and you was disgusted. Yes, I can't stand no dirty-ass nails.
Pour Minds Podcast
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There's no way you can take a shower and your nails are dirty after a shower. Because that water going to graze down there.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Somebody finna fuck me, Elise. She said she don't want to see us at all. Somebody finna lick this coochie clean. If I can't find no dick on Valentine's Day, that's going to be my 13th reason, bitch. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, Lex P. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole. And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds. Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. We got a lot of guests today.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Agreed. He was not. Shreya, shut the hell up. What?
Pour Minds Podcast
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Imagine coming somewhere and not taking a bath before you go.
Pour Minds Podcast
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All right. Oh. We've taken that out. Had a few months. You said one of them smelled like sausage. It is. Sausage is wild.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Never. It's never been a musty woman. It be the men. Musty layer. I just... Last one, last one. I want to get... Okay. Okay. They consume male chauvinist or male-centered content. For example, Kevin Samuels, Charleston White, etc. Do y'all judge people who kind of do the red pill content type of stuff?
Pour Minds Podcast
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You know what's... No? You judging a little bit? Are you kind of... Lynn's probably like, I like it. No. Lynn, you are making America great again. I don't... I don't like it. No? Okay. I don't like it. But you know what's scarier than a man listening to Kevin Samuels and Charleston White is a man who follows them accounts that be like, fellas, listen to your queen.
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If she in the bed crying, go hug her. Those be the worst ones. Those be the cheaters, the liars, the deceivers. The men that... Get into that content. Those be the ones that be learning how to manipulate because it be the women like, I wish I had a man like that. No shade, no tea. Do y'all remember that Derek Jackson debacle? Because he used to be sitting in his car. Treat your woman like a queen.
Pour Minds Podcast
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If she gets off work and she wants to talk, listen. If she needs help, it's a dish in the sink, wash it. And they're like, the girls are eating it up and the men are like, yeah, I need to do that. But all you're doing is you're pandering. So, to me, listening to Charleston White and Kevin Samuels, yes, that's probably bad, but
Pour Minds Podcast
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Because people probably act like if she listen to poor minds, fuck that hoe.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Yeah. And I like a man who, like, stands on his own, too.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Like, you're not looking to your internet father to tell you how to handle a situation. Right. Yeah. But it really be, and no offense to anybody, the 85% is, but they be like, let me see what Carlos said, because that's what I'm going to do. Yeah. Uh,
Pour Minds Podcast
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Okay, go ahead, go ahead. Being too well-kept, eyebrows done, super clean cut, is this a red flag or a gay flag? A metrosexual, if you will. That's what they're called.
Pour Minds Podcast
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But no, I will say an arched eyebrow, it doesn't need to be arched.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Arching your eyebrow is crazy. But I think you should go get facials, you know. Take care of your skin.
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We said this on 85. Do not use the six-in-one soap. If you got something that's shampoo, conditioner, face wash, and booty hole, leave me alone.
Pour Minds Podcast
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So, yeah, you need a little one-two, a routine. You do. I agree. It's definitely a line. Right. For sure. If you got acrylic on that big toe.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Okay, okay. So, we agree that we don't judge a metrosexual, but it is a fine line.
Pour Minds Podcast
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You're judging a metrosexual? I mean... Yeah. Why?
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You know, I dated a guy that had an intensive skincare routine, but I liked it. Your dad. Your old dad. Yeah. You remember dad? Oh, dad. Give my baby that blanket. Oh, I miss dad. Dad definitely had an extensive skincare routine, but I liked it because he had beautiful skin. Yeah. But I'm like that.
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I'm very, you know I'm a skincare girly, so it be certain things like, you know, it's just like, take care of yourself. We're getting older. I agree. We can exfoliate each other.
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You know what? What? Y'all exfoliate leads to squirting. You stay out of this.
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Alise is a very, like, go with the flow type girl because she's so busy. So she be like, it's cool, it's cool, but she be like, oh, you my man. They didn't have a discussion about it, but she don't give a fuck.
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That was a lot. Or is a lot, or whatever. That's your man, bitch. And I mean, and the reason I say that, because it's like, a lot of times I think men and women be in denial because they don't have that conversation. But you're doing the things in a relationship anyway. No? You don't think so? I think that you're not in a relationship until y'all in a relationship. That's how I look at it.
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I feel like once we... Like Lauren said, it needs to be an understanding. Yeah. Like, we need to have a conversation. It needs to be an understanding.
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Because, you know, some people be cool with that. Oh, ain't shit open over here.
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Bitch, I'm going to beat all y'all asses. Right. But some people be cool with that. So it's like if you a person who's cool with an open relationship, then no, it don't really need to be... But I did.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Okay. So, for topic number two, we wanted to talk about, do y'all prefer to spend Valentine's Day with your girls? Do y'all like a Galentine's?
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Why you have to do a Galentine's Day? She finna raise hell the whole night. Oh, this is what y'all got to eat.
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We had a grand old time. A few days before. Because on Valentine's Day, you be with your man. Yeah, when I have one. Exactly.
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Dessert. Because she know what time it is. Elise gives me, you walking in, take them drawers off.
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I'm not trying to see you hoes on Valentine's Day, bitch. Where the dick at? You don't want to see me? Well, that's the thing. I knew you was going to say no. I do not want to see no bitches on Valentine's Day. And I'm not sorry. Don't call me. Don't text me. I'll talk to you on the 15th or the 16th, bitch. But if you're single, what you gonna do? Somebody finna fuck me.
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So even if you're single, you don't wanna be... Somebody finna fuck me, Elise. She said she don't wanna see us at all. Somebody finna lick this coochie clean. If I can't find no dick on Valentine's Day, that's gonna be my 13th reason, bitch. It's the day of love. None of you hoes can love me. That is not That's true.
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You got 364 days to love me, bitch. Give me one day for some dick. That's the one day. That's crazy.
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It's always a man in the bushes for me. No, thanks.
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The fuck? That's the day of dick. We ought to go back in time. The day of the dick. You know, the Mexicans got day of the dead. Valentine's Day is day of the dick. Valentine's Day is day of the dick, bitch. Leave me the hell alone. I love y'all, but 13th... The 13th I can do for y'all. 15th, maybe. Maybe. In the evening. Or the 16th. February 14th, leave me the hell alone.
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You and your coochie need to be... Go away with me. Go away with this, Apollo. I don't know what the fuck y'all talking about. Oh, I love my girls. Bitch, I love you on the 13th. Leave me alone. I talk to you every day. I'm calling you.
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I'm calling. 13th at midnight. Happy Valentine's Day, bitch. I'll see you on the 15th.
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I ain't going to call y'all. I'm going to be mad as hell. She ain't going to be mad. I ain't going to talk to y'all if I have a date or not. I ain't going to talk to none of y'all. I don't care if I see y'all in y'all pajamas flipping pancakes and mimosas. I don't want to see y'all. They gonna be like, these stupid ass bitches. Whack ass hoes. Damn. We all mad and lonely, bitch.
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But no, Valentine's Day versus spending it with, spending it with my boo, please. Yeah. Now I do, like I said, if it's before or after, cool. Or if it's like, maybe he can't, like if he got something to do and if he do got something to do on Valentine's Day, you decide, bitch. You know, but the main Valentine's Day celebration to me is with your boo. Yeah, of course. That's romance.
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Yes. So these are our friends. These are our besties. We love them. So let me ask y'all this. How do y'all feel about, like, because, well, besides Elise, because you met us kind of when Poor Minds was in its growth stage.
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Valentine's Day is romance. And that's why I say I love my friends. I love y'all. But Valentine's is romance. Y'all aren't romancing me. Y'all finna make me some mimosas and we finna eat Rotel. You know we love some Rotel. I know. We might do a little Rasta Pasta.
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and it's your girl Dre Nicole and we have a very exciting announcement today we have a brand new show dropping yeah so we have a brand new show dropping y'all on Patreon it's gonna air on September 2nd and it's called Porn Chronicles we're gonna be doing so much stuff on there we're gonna be doing challenges if you can't go to Bill and O'Shea where the hell could you go?
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Even when we first met you, Poor Minds isn't what it is now. So how do y'all feel about, like, knowing us before, like, the show became what it is now? Like, did y'all feel like, oh, I knew this was going to happen? Yeah. Or were y'all kind of, like, surprised? Like, how do y'all feel about seeing where the show is now? Exactly.
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oh my god everything y'all been wanting to see we gonna be doing it right here on patreon yes y'all ask us for so much but we finna give it to y'all every single monday and it's gonna be a time y'all know poor minds has grown into its own little entity well we gonna have a lot of fun still over here at poor chronicles so make sure y'all tune in september 2nd it's going down thanks
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You don't want to. Muumuu pussy. That's... Mama's tired. All that dick up. Just be naked.
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Especially y'all two, because I feel like y'all remember the floor day.
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So, yeah, you know you got to spice it up. But, okay, so, Elise, you said you're 365. So, but what can you do on Valentine's Day that's, like, out of the ordinary? Mm-hmm. For somebody who's, like, freaky all the time.
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Maybe y'all should come up with a fantasy list together and then take something off every balance. That's a good idea.
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That's a good idea. That is good. But I do think Valentine's Day is something that you should do that y'all don't normally do. Because, you know, when you're dating the same person, y'all tend to have sex the same. Like, let's be honest.
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Like, the sex be great, but it's the same. So I do think, like, Valentine's Day, like, y'all probably don't went out to dinner. Y'all are drinking. Y'all don't exchange gifts. Like, do something that's out of the ordinary, whether it's lingerie. Adding a toy, maybe role play. Oh my gosh, you know what I love to do? What?
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We had a time last night. Why are you looking at me like that? I'm going to start calling you the sprinkler. Oh, my God. No. You know how Batman got the Joker?
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I dated a guy, he used to send me things to get, you know, this is what I like.
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I was like, that was your dad. Her dad? I can see that. Me too. You guys inspire me, honestly. No, dad was a wild boy. Dad was a wild boy. It's not her real dad, though. No, no, it's not my real dad. Her real dad could be. He is fine. Y'all got to get off my daddy.
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Your best friend will turn to your stepmom. Ooh. He calls and she be like, hey.
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Out of town. Honestly, to me, it was cool, but I think the internet kind of overhyped it a bit. Okay. Because it was like, oh, it's funny because it's between you and me, but it's not like I'm sitting at the table like, oh, I can't take that.
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Please. No, it wasn't like that at all. It was just like, okay, this is cute. Okay, so it's hyped up. Yeah, I think it's more cool if y'all are maybe having phone sex because he's out of town and he's like... doing the controls to, like, what he's saying to you so it feels like, you know what I'm saying? Like, you know how a guy would, like, talk you through it?
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So it's like he's doing the motions of the vibrators to, like, feel that way. I think that's more exciting than the actual, oh, nobody knows the vibrators in you, and we're trying to order a steak. Like, no.
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They can control it from their phone. She got that AI coochie.
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So he could be on FaceTime and, like, control it. Our robot, too? The rails of that motherfucker cutting up. Now, holding it down. You have to keep it spicy. Okay, so now it's time to get into the item of the week. What you got, Drea? What you got? So, yes, of course, her usual. I have Muse Beauty. Go to musebeautycollection.com.
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Get your lip glosses, lip liners, matte liquid lipsticks, jelly blushes, all of the above. And I have some new products that are going to be dropping really, really soon. And we're also doing a Valentine's Day sale. It's going to be 20% off of the entire site. So, go to the website right now.
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Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of the Week. But do you have a product or something that you want to promote and you want it featured on Poor Minds? Your opportunity is here.
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Send us an email and we'll work it out. We're going to figure it out. Get your product, get your business sponsored and yeah, make you some money. We love to support a small business now. And a black business at that. But I mean, we don't discriminate. Any business is welcome. All right, so now it's time to get into the bop. The bop. Bow. Bow. Bow, bow, bow. Okay, my bop of the week this week.
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Y'all know I love me a good Afro beats tune. And I feel like 2025 for everybody should be the year of inspiration. We are reaching our goals. We're doing what we want to do. And we getting to the bag. So, Tenny... is an artist, Afrobeats artist, Nigerian artist, and she has a new song called Money. And it's just about, like, I'd rather cry on a Bentley.
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Like, I'd rather be in Ibiza, like, turning up. Like, I don't want the regular life. I want to get to the money. I want to get to a bag. So when I heard this song, I was like, this is giving what I want for 2025. I have made a lot of financial goals for myself this year. And I think when you manifest certain things, you have to vibrate in all the types of things that you want in life.
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So it's the things that you say to yourself. It's the music that you listen to. It's the TV that you watch. All of that goes into manifestation. So shout out to Tini. She got a song called Money. And we manifesting money this year. Okay? Period. What y'all been listening to? Me?
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Yeah, yeah. I fuck with that. Okay, I like that. You know, we fuck with a little Larry June around. And you know he from the Bay, so you know. Yeah, look. We get to talk about a... She out here trying to function.
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Tell them, Elise. Tell them. Ooh. Jesus Christ, that dress so shaky. I ain't got none, but I plan on growing some.
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That's the, um... I didn't want to... That's the one that had that song, I hope you're happy. Yeah. Got you a mini me. I thought she was speaking Korean on that song because she said, bet you meet your mom. I don't think I've heard that song. That's the first one I heard of her. So she got the remix with Summer Walker. Yeah. Really? Yeah. But... I'm going to have to listen to that one.
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You haven't listened? Oh. It's cute. It's a cute little one, too? It's cute. Okay. So, Lauren, do you like that song better?
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Yeah. I'm about to play that in the car. Yeah. Yeah, I thought she was saying, bet she meet she mom, bet she meet she mom. I didn't know what she was saying.
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That's how Lynn is. Oh, my God. It don't matter what's going on. Like, literally, it could be the worst. Lauren's like, just breathe. Just breathe. Like, do you have your crystal?
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She said, bet she meet your mom. Hey, Pookie. Yeah, but it sounded like she was speaking another language.
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Because one thing about me, I am bilingual. But I'm bilingual. Girl. What does that mean? I get money, I'm a star. Oh, that's what that means?
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It does. Okay. I didn't know that. I don't know what I thought it means. And that's the sad part.
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I don't care. I don't care. I lied. What y'all gonna do? I see. Because it matters how I say it because you don't know it. You thought I cursed you out.
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You like that one? You know what's crazy? I never really do mainstream artists on the show, but I almost tweeted that like two days ago because I was listening to that in the car. I said, Push to Start by Tyla is such a good song. I love it. I don't know who her producers are, who her writers are, but they got it right. They have a formula with her right now. And it's working. Yeah.
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You know who I'm rooting for? Do y'all know who Tate McRae is? She's like a pop girly. She's a pop girly, and she's actually really good. She can't really sing, but who needs a singer when you can dance, right? Her name is what? Tate McRae. She had this song, I want to dance myself. You know? I do that song. So you know who she needs? She needs a Timbaland beat.
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Do you have your... Did you... Okay. About what do you think, Lynn? Yeah.
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Remember when Timbaland did that run with Nelly Furtado and Britney Spears? She needs Timbaland real bad, and they can eat it up together. So I like the young girls. Tyla has that formula with her team, so she's got that sound. I think that's what the people are missing, that signature sound. Like when SZA hops on, you can hear a beat and be like, oh, this is a SZA-type beat.
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You know what I'm saying? Yeah. I agree. Yeah. So, that was a good one. I like your ear, Lynn. Drea? I haven't been listening to nothing new this week. Drake dropped a clip, I thought, of something. The snippet. Yeah, he dropped the snippet, but the album actually hasn't dropped yet. Oh, yeah. Then what did you think about the snippet? The snippet was good.
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I mean, anything that Drake and Party Next Door do together, I think is always, uh-oh. Oh, Lord. I was like, we don't got insurance time. You better sell them calories, baby.
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But I've been listening to that because I was like, wow, I forgot how good this album is. And I have to prepare for the show. Because this ain't Texas. It ain't no Holder. Lay your cards. Down, down. But it's such a good album. Like, it's literally so good. So, yeah. Shout out to Beyonce. Now, what if you saw her? Girl, fuck you. I would never tell my queen that. You don't even know what she mean.
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She know what I meant. She know my heart. She know my heart. God damn it, I lost water on the car. Thank you, Ty.
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I'm not unsure. I really do give good advice. I'm not going to lie. Lauren gives great advice. I don't listen all the time. No. But when I do listen, it always works out. But Lauren gives good advice, but she don't listen to her own advice.
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But, like... It's easier on the outside looking in. Because me and Lauren had a conversation this morning. We were talking about, like, guys we used to deal with and date. I was like, friend, what were we doing? Cringeworthy. Like, what the hell? When you told me the khaki... Kaki killed me. You got to relax, bruh.
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You have to relax at this point. Okay, that Kasegu Atashiwa. I'm going to stop. Yes. Okay, y'all.
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Everybody give good advice. Oh, my God. Don't lie on me like that. You don't got to lie. Everybody on this side. Okay. Everybody on this side. You can be honest. Yeah, everybody on this side. So, yes, we're going to ask y'all some questions. So, it's time to get into Ask Poor Minds.
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You saw what it was. Okay. What about you, Elise?
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He hits me up sporadically and then at times he doesn't even respond when I reply back. So whereas I sent a message and he literally read it and didn't respond. My question for you guys is, am I wrong for feeling it's another woman he's with? And would I be wrong to just cut ties while he's on vacation?
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Exactly. That's the answer right there. Y'all been cool for five months?
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Yeah. I'm not being cool with shit for five months, but my fucking refrigerator, bitch. Get the fuck on. Hang it up. Hang it up. I just feel like, you know, when I was younger, and this is me just coming from an older woman, okay... A man knows if he's going to take you seriously and be with you. You don't need a year, two years of keeping it casual and being cool.
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So five months, I'm sorry, but I feel like at like the third or fourth month, we should have, okay, so I'm not saying get in a relationship, but it should be like, okay, what are we doing? Are we on the same page? Right. Are we both looking for a relationship? We're trying to be serious? What are we doing here?
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Because at five months, if he's on vacation and you still don't know... Because let me tell you what I was doing at five months, baby. Like, you know what I'm saying? I knew what we were. Whether it was casual and you can go on vacation and not talk to me, or whether we were like, okay, you're on vacation, but you, hey, babe, this is my day, I'm starting my day, and we're checking in every day.
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Yeah. At five months, you should know what y'all are. Yeah. And I'm not saying in a relationship, but you should understand. It should be in black and white by then. That's all I'm saying.
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Hey. What's going on? You know what I'm saying? And like you said, we've all been on vacation together. And one thing I love about y'all is because we're not the girls that be on vacation on the phone with they dudes all the time. I cannot stand being on a trip and the girl's like, I gotta go call my man. We call our men in the morning and we call them at night. Yeah.
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During the day, we turns up having a ball. We do. Like, we don't be on the phone with our dudes the whole time, like, killing the vibe. So I think that's important, too. But bare minimum, a phone call in the morning and a phone call at night. He's hiding something that's not your man. And like you said, y'all are cool. Y'all are cool. He's just giving cool behavior. Yeah.
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I thought she was going to say I could be heard. Cheeks spread. I could be doing that with Tasha White. Stop. And see, y'all knew what I meant when I gave that, you know? I did. Oh, my God. I did. Okay. Bilingual. Good point.
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But, I mean, that's what I'm saying. He ain't the one. The biggest thing is men are jealous creatures. So, not that you're worried about what he's doing, but if a man not worried about what you're doing, that's when you need to be like, uh. Because I can tell when my phone calls start getting more frequent when I'm going like, what y'all doing? Yeah, I'm chilling at the crib, though.
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Yeah. All right. I've seen what y'all was doing, though. I've seen me shoot you at the house. Yeah, they be tapped in. Watching your stories, you barely post that motherfucker. Views, that first, it be one view, him. Mm-hmm. I've always been seeing him.
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Let me ask y'all a question. Do y'all put y'all man in y'all close friends?
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I'll be like, yeah. I did, I did. I posted him. He be posting me too, though. No, he started it. He started it. He did.
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But I feel like that's how it's supposed to be. He supposed to post you first. And I love that. Like, I can't say that.
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He not playing about his baby girl. He don't play about his baby girl. He don't play about his baby girl. You do not. So, I'm being in the close friends. I thought you meant, like... No, I didn't mean in your close group chat. I meant close friends on Instagram. No, I thought you meant, like, adding him to your close friends.
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Oh, for him to see. Yeah, like, he can watch your close friends.
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Yeah, they thought you meant, like, posting him on your close friends. Like, people to see him.
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No, I meant, like, is your man in your close friends?
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My man and my close friends. I don't care. But he's been in there. I've been posting him in there. So he got to see himself.
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Like, I'm like... When my man don't watch my stories, I can know when he mad at me. That's what y'all think. Oh, they got a baby having burners. Baby having burners. Oh, no. Right, because she not talking about... What Lynn was saying, what Lynn was saying, the men sometimes be viewing from other pages. Or they'll get a friend to look and report.
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Or they just be looking from the homeboys page or something like that. They looking from somewhere.
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I'm looking. My ass be retweeting stuff. I want you to know I'm here. Yeah, I see you.
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Y'all are crazy. Oh, gosh. I love y'all. I love you ladies. This is what the memes say. This is a long ass meme. Let me eat another cupcake. Oh, sorry. I was reading something. Hand me a cupcake while you're at it. Yeah, get a cupcake. I got a long message to read. Yeah, so while you read this, I'm going to... No, no, no, no, no. I don't want to look pregnant, bitch. Let me tell y'all something.
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I'm not fucking pregnant. Leave me and my belly alone. A bitch had a little one too many burritos on vacation. Now, Lex, you done told these people these three times on three different shows. I said it on the show already? Yeah, three times. I'm sorry. I had to make sure they knew. It hurt my feelings.
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I'm finna, I'm finna, you know, once I get on the zipper, y'all gonna be mad because my head big and my body small. Girl, she gonna take it and run with it. Okay, all right, all right. You right, you right, y'all right. I'm sorry, I wrapped it up. You right, you right, you right. I love you ladies. I've been with y'all since the beginning. The growth and elevation is amazing and so inspiring.
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Wishing you ladies continued blessings and success. Should I end my friendship with one of my closest friends of over 15 years? We recently had a fallout because she started dating my ex, Sneaky Link. To give some backstory, me and my homegirl met junior year of high school. As friends do, I told her about the guy I was dealing with. She shared that he was her ex-boyfriend.
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They dated a couple of years prior, freshman year. They never fucked, and they're just friends now. I gave her the courtesy of asking, are we good if I see him? She said, absolutely. It's cool. And it really was. Never no beef. I would tell her all about us. No issues. She was dating new men and very happy. Long story short, I was dating him for about three-something years on and off.
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Never an official relationship. I know now I was young and dumb as fuck for not getting the fuck on, but the dick was too good. We ended without closure. He ghosted me one day, and I ain't seen or heard from that man in over ten years. Fast forward to the present day. We're in our early 30s. I'm happily married with a family.
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And out of the blue, my friend went from telling me she reconnected with my old sneaky link, her ex BF, on some friend shit. Now, a few moments later, feelings are involved. She loves him, wants to rekindle their relationship and their dating. What the entire fuck? Am I wrong for being upset? And side note, I summarized my letter down three times just for you, Drea. For Drea. Drea can read, bitch.
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I'm the bitch. Tone it down. Tone it down. I summarized my letter to him three times just for you, Drea, so don't zoom in.
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Damn. I mean, she ain't wrong. I mean, no, no, no. You're married with a family, but this is why people are scared of marriages and people don't... Because why are you married with children and a family and you're worried about somebody from 10 years ago? Yeah. You're talking about somebody from high school.
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You are in your early 30s talking about somebody you fucked your senior year in high school? And they were never in a relationship either, she said. Mm. Like, that dick was not that good for you to be talking about it 10 years later. Not in high school.
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Why are you... Many, many, many, many men. Yeah, I agree. Why are you dating somebody that your friend used to fuck with?
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Like, I wouldn't have wrote a letter to poor mine.
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Like, that's weird as fuck that she did that. But, like, you shouldn't be so passionate about the situation. She losing sleep. Baby crying in the crib. She ain't happy. Runaway, love.
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She supported you. You was messing with him. The only reason I say that, because I'm thinking the friend's thought process was, you're happily married. You don't care about other men. Because when I get married, I want to be obsessed with my husband. So she was probably assuming...
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that her friend is obsessed with her husband she's married she's happy and they reconnected probably she was probably like oh let's reconnect on some sneaky shit and they ended up finding love they found love in a hopeless place they found love fuck no yeah i don't know then i would be like well damn bitch was you thinking about this 10 years ago
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Come on now. I don't know. Nobody was thinking about that shit. I don't know. Sometimes people cross paths.
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But that's her soulmate. But bitch, you wouldn't know if you didn't go fuck the niggas. But I did, and I found out. No, y'all. And you're going to get cut off.
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She shared that he was her ex-boyfriend, and they dated a couple of years prior, her freshman year, and they never fucked, but they dated. They dated. They were actually in a relationship.
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And then your Uggs at the bottom. And my Uggs at the bottom. And let me say this about Elise. I always, I be talking about Elise all the time because when I tell y'all, Elise is that girl. Like, Elise is the behind, like, that girl. So she, can I say who you work for? You don't want to say it because I don't want people to know. You can say it, but I said it. You can say it.
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They were in a relationship. But they wasn't fucking.
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Lauren said, where is one man? It's time to go, baby. We don't have any problems.
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He might. He's fine. Yeah. That dick. He probably the only fine nigga. And guess who can try it? You're watching, man, because I'm finna try it now. Ten years and you still thinking about it? I'm next.
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You finna write in about me. I just let y'all have it. I've been watching this show. Whatever y'all say. I've been watching this show for four years and I wrote in a letter and then the host started fucking my man. Shouldn't have bragged about it. Lesson learned, bitch.
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You can send us pictures all the time. If you're watching this episode, I really hope you see this. Shay, can you actually send her an email back and tell her we need an update?
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And thank y'all for always supporting us. I know it's not easy because we be everywhere. And y'all don't do this either. Yeah, y'all don't do this. So really thank y'all for showing up for us and always being like the support system that we need because believe it or not, this job is not easy.
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But a lot of it comes from y'all being supportive and being there for us and keeping us level-headed and grounded. Well, I'm glad we can provide that for y'all. Did y'all have fun?
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You were all nervous. I was a little nervous. I feel like I can tell y'all a little nervous. I was a little nervous. No, I can tell. Lauren has been very reserved.
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I mean, I feel like they all have. You are not like this at all. I like it.
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Okay, so she works for BET. And she has a resume. A big, long resume. It's made it happen. So I will say, even that we're friends, I feel like you are the type of friend that people need in their corner. Because I said this at your birthday, like...
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And I'm like, Lauren is like... Y'all remember when Lauren kept falling asleep in Miami because she was so lit? And remember when she went off on us about that chicken? Wait, because why?
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You were. So I didn't even remember. I really did miss everything because I'm like going around. So this was the me and Drea drunk moment? No, no, no, no. This was everybody in the house. No, this was all drunk. So, everybody was drunk. I'll give y'all a rundown of the story. This was for my birthday. We went to Miami. I rented this beautiful house on the water.
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I knew you was going to say no. I do not want to see no bitches on Valentine's Day.
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One of my friends, shout out to Jazz, my old roommate, she was like, okay, we're drunk. We need to order some food so we can get ready and go to the restaurant. So, Jazz orders a bunch of food for the house or whatever. I don't know if Lauren maybe thought she ordered something. I think I did. I think I thought I... ordered my own. Something separate.
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I think she thought ordering you bitches was eating my food. But what happened was, either way, Jazz was like, don't worry. I think what happened was, Lauren tried to order something different and Jazz was like, I got it. Don't worry about it. I'll order for the house.
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So when the food came in, it was like one box of like chicken. It wasn't even that much. And it wasn't that much because it was supposed to be a little box.
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Lauren... has been dead outside by the pool for, like, two hours. Lauren smells a chicken thigh. Where is my food here? Lex, where's my food? Is my food here? No, I ordered this.
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Elise is that friend that you need in your corner because even when you're not in these rooms, she's that girl that's in the room fighting for you and making sure that your name is being said among the people that it needs to be said among. Because I feel like one thing about me, I think Warren knows this about me,
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They was like, this is for everybody. And she was like, well, I'm not taking it off my plate. She said, I don't know what y'all finna eat. I don't know what y'all finna eat. I know what I'm finna eat. I said, look. And Jazz is so sweet. My sweet little shit. Jazz is so sweet. She was like, I do not remember none of these. I'm just like, you know, like. Everybody's hungry.
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Lauren's plate is so cool. It's so cool. Wait, are you serious?
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Yeah. 50-50. Cut it out, bitch. Well, that was a crazy day. Cut it out. No, was that tonight I got in that fight?
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I loved Ash that night. Yeah. It was a good day. It was a good day until me, because I fights niggas. I didn't make it that far. I was talking about old that night.
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I was finna beat his thick ass. I was. It wasn't anything to promote. Okay. I promoted that song that you had and you didn't even have it on Apple Music. And everybody's like, where's Lauren's song? It's not done. But no, the one you sent me was done. That was not done. You told me to promote it. I did not.
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You talking about when you asked me about, like, oh, you should do this for the rest of the week. No.
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No, and you said, go ahead and promote it, because it'll be ready by the time the episode airs. But it wasn't ready, bitch. It wasn't ready. Is it going to be ready now? No. Girl, I don't know where the people at. I'm finna take it and take it to my producer. Okay, we'll do what you want. AWOL, what we finna do? AWOL, what we doing?
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We have a Grammy nominee here. Yes. Don't play with us.
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Stop playing with us. We got professionals in the motherfucking building. We do. Okay, so yeah, Lauren, you need to drop that song for the people.
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It is not finished. So y'all know how 2 Chainz had dropped that album and like LeBron James was like the EP on it. Bez dropped her album and Jada was the EP on it. And you the EP. I'm finna do that.
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If I'm in a position, I don't care if I am making $7 an hour, how can my friend make full and how can we make this work?
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She does have a good ear. We finna drop that hot fire. Yeah. We finna change the game. Watch what I do. We finna change the game. It's just a problem when we figure this shit out. You know what I'm saying? So anybody got anything to promote other than? Do you have anything? You got your tech thing.
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Love that. Elyse? Catch me at the red carpet, bitch. That's what you're supposed to say.
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So I feel like at least that friend, like no matter what position.
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That's what I have down the pipeline for me. And Drea? I got the same stuff going on every week. MuseBeauty?
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It drops every Sunday. And... Make sure y'all tune in to Pour My Eye. Subscribe to the channel. Period.
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It's time. It's time. We need that million plaque. I agree. Yeah, make sure y'all tune in every Monday. Love Lex P. We gets messy. We gets to the tea. We getting to the drama. Yes. It's a lot going on right now. And I know y'all be wanting us to talk about hot topics. I do that on Love Lex P. I'm trying to get to 100K subscribers. We are on the road there.
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So y'all make sure y'all go like, comment, subscribe. Love Lex P every Monday at 6 p.m. Okay? And we'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all. Bye. Y'all make sure y'all share the content, like, subscribe, follow, all that good stuff. And let me say this before we close out. Y'all, there is one Twitter account that is connected to Poor Minds. It's P-O-U-R underscore M-I-N-D-S.
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Y'all are tagging the wrong Poor Minds page. If you see at Poor Minds with no underscore, that is a fake page. Do not follow that page, okay? They blocked me, Andrea, and the Poor Minds page on both. So we only have one Instagram.
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one twitter one tiktok it is p-o-u-r underscore m-i-n-d-s all right and we got a hell of fake facebook page oh the facebook pages it's the our face the crazy thing is our facebook page actually have the least amount of followers so if you're on facebook the one that's ours
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Yeah. I was like, you know what? That's my girl. That's my girl. And, you know, I feel like I could say that about all three of y'all.
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got the least amount of followers the one that's not us got like 250,000 followers but y'all know it's fake if you actually look at the content cause the caption is like whoever it is don't speak English cause their captions are like should men pay bill should men pay bill yes no check answer below blah blah booyah booyah booyah Like, that's literally what the captions mean.
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I like that DDG's Bamba Claude. Bamba Claude. Y'all ready? Kinda. Now swipe from side to side. Yeah. To the. All right.
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It's the Galentines, girls. Yeah, the Galentines, girls. G squared.
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Come sit down and tell us what's been happening. What's up? In your face, I can see the pain. Don't you try to convince me that you're happy.
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I can tell he's been crying and pretending that he's faithful and he loves you.
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Oh, I picked the wrong one. That was my bad. My bad. My bad. Girl. Don't you be ashamed to say hurt you.
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Don't you know we love you? We'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all.
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We had a good time. Lynn was there for my birthday. We was all there for the birthday.
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But we were all there. We were all there. And that's why I said, of course, like, Elise is going to be there because me and Elise are friends and Lauren. But, you know, like, me and Lynn are friends, but, you know, you're Drea's friend. So when Lynn pulled up, I said, oh, it's party time. Let's do it. Because Lynn is like the sneaky assassin. Not the sneaky assassin. Lynn is so quiet and so sweet.
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But better than them shots get to throwing, that ass gets to showing. For sure.
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No, Lynn is hilarious on Twitter. But won't get canceled. Oh, my God. It's so funny. So I do want to ask this, like, to the opposite friends. Well, I'll ask you this first, Elise, because you can give it for both of us. What was your first impression of Drea? Then what was your first impression of me?
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Hey, it's a special Galentine's episode. Yes, so we are doing a special Galentine's edition of Poor Minds today. And we are doing something that we haven't done in years. So the first time we did this, it was when it was still Wind Down Wednesday. And we had our dear friend Kellyn on the show. Shout out to Kellyn. Thank you so much.
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Okay, that's fair. And we're really like, I don't want to be at home, don't want to do nothing, drag me outside.
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Yes. I-B's at home. Lauren, what was your first impression of Drea? Well, I didn't really get to have, like...
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And I'm just like, what's the problem? You know what's crazy about that weekend? Y'all, and me and Jazz laugh about this to this day. Because they had called me. We went to some restaurant. Was it Cirque? It was, no. We went to K. Michelle. No, no, no. I'm talking about when they said, don't bring Drea. And I went to dinner with them. It was like at Cirque.
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But you know what the gag was? I didn't want to go nowhere. I pulled up. And they were all sitting on one side of the table. And I was sitting by myself. And they were like, yeah, we feel like you just be following Drea around. And I said, first of all, I ain't got no place to stay, bitch. I'm living with her at the moment. Second of all, at the time... You bitches let me come live with y'all.
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Oh, y'all live in Houston. Exactly, but also at the time, so I'm living with her. My friends are in town, so when I'm going places, I'm including her, right? So I'm like, oh, Dre, we finna go eat. But mind you, you know how I love... Girl, I love me some jazz now. But jazz takes four hours to get ready. She done. Me and Dre are going to all the restaurants and we showing up. We're waiting.
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We're waiting. And you know, Keisha at the time, that was an old friend of mine, Keisha and Jasmine together... Four hours for each? That's eight hours. Me and Dre at these restaurants just sitting for hours waiting on them. Eventually, we're like, okay, girl, let's go and we finna do our own thing. So, I think it was a lot of... But I never said nothing to nobody. That's the crazy part.
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They didn't like me, but I never said nothing to anybody about nothing. It was crazy because, like I said, when I showed up at dinner... But you know, used to that a little bit. They were all sitting on one side and I was on one side by myself and they were like... I said, why am I saying... I said, somebody finna throw water on me? It was giving basketball, love, and hip-hop scenes.
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No, it was crazy, because when Lex came back home and told me, and I said, really? And you know I cry about everything. I was like... I was like, that's crazy. It was... You know, like I said... The person that kind of led the conversation and led the thing, me and her are no longer, you know, in a booth. And it's no shade towards her.
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But since Poor Minds has grown so much and y'all see us, we have sat on this couch with Wiz Khalifa, T-Pain, T.S. Madison, all these great people. But y'all never get to see the support system behind us. The girls who keep us going, who keep us sane and grounded. So we have a special episode with our besties today. What about your friends? That's what it's given for karaoke. Period.
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And I feel like a lot of people don't really realize that. How do you feel about now all of a sudden? Because I see this all the time, so I know you see it. Everybody want to move to Houston now.
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It's over. Everybody is so obsessed with Houston. We Atlanta. Yeah. But it's like they just now catching on. Like, Houston been lit.
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But do you feel like that was like a real, obviously a pivotal point in your career, like when you did move away from Houston? Because we always talk about that with our show. Like you said, it's not a lot of big labels. It's not a lot of like huge multimedia outlets and stuff out there.
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But we always kind of say, we feel like if we didn't move to Atlanta, we're not sure how big Four Minds would have became.
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We definitely got our own culture. That's right. Rolled and chopped. Yes. Right. Houston is just different.
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Let me ask you this. And keep it honest. Why are so many rappers broke? Like, no, seriously. Rappers be broke.
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The one and only Houston legend, CEO, big boss, the young Texas A-Rod, KG of the gang.
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I think that's the same thing in podcasting too, like owning your IP. Because it's the same thing. Like we own.
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And we always say we'll never sell our IP.
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All right. So we finna get into the good stuff. Yeah, we gon' get into the first copy. But first, Ty, what we drinking? Okay. Let's take my shot, because it's finna get... Since we got the big boss of the North in here, okay, I'm throwback. I'm over 30. Let's go. Let's go. This one is called the Sugar Daddy Slim, a.k.a. the Double Cup. We're going to stay double cupped up this episode, okay?
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Can I have one? Yeah, of course. All right, so we have some reposado tequila. We have some blue spirulina, if anyone's familiar with that. It's really good for your health. It's very nutritious, protein, all that. We have some lemon juice, a little bit of agave. And then I added some thyme in there, and I actually shook it up with some fresh dragon fruit.
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So not really dragon fruit juice, but you see the seeds are floating in there, just to give it a pretty little color to it. And then we garnished it with some thyme and, of course, those seeds. So this is the Sugar Daddy Slim.
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I want that, please. And it's good. I got you. It's delicious.
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For the past few years, I've heard your requests, but now it's finally time to deliver. Okay, y'all, let's get into the tea with Love Lex Peep. Mmm, tasty. How long you been a sugar daddy?
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Like, are you really a sugar daddy or do you just call yourself? I think he really a sugar daddy.
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I think you would make a good side nigga.
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You know what I'm saying? So do you see yourself ever getting married? Did you see yourself getting married?
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I mean, you know, this is a safe space. It is. You know what I'm saying? We like to have a good time. Let's have it. First off, I want to say thank you for pulling up on us.
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You know what I'm saying? You sound like Oprah.
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And I was wondering, so I was like, who you did that for?
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And I be cooking too. We are so domestic.
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Well, Slim, if I turn... Do you date 40-year-olds? But I want to get married. Okay, so if I'm not married by the time I'm 40, we outside.
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Of course. We've been wanting you on the show for a long time, so I'm so glad we was able to make it happen.
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Thank you. We be in the gym. I feel like you ain't seen us 50 million times. You know he be forgetting, girl.
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Okay, Slim. Look, I'm telling you right now, the girls are finna be in your DMs. They are. They said, would he take you on a trip?
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We seen it, Slim. When y'all see me on the boat, don't ask no... I don't want to hear shit in my comments, babe. Stop playing. Alex, you such a... You so easy. Look, times is hard. So are you the type to have multiple girlfriends?
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You seem like a pretty honest person. I feel like one thing about it, you can't ever be mad when somebody is being honest with you about their intentions or what they want or expect. That's to be the problem. They don't, y'all, men do not know how to keep it real. Yeah. And that's what be making me mad because you are lying to me when I already know the truth. I'm expecting magic.
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Yeah. So how has your trip in Atlanta been so far?
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And that's actually our first topic. It is, because we definitely want to talk about that. Let's talk about it. Go ahead, go ahead, Dre. Well, I was just going to say, too, for me, it ain't even about putting men through obstacle courses. It's about intentionality. Like, I think, especially me being 33 now, I know what I want.
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So, it's like, if I want to be married, if I want to be in a committed relationship, I should date men that I know want the same thing.
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But it don't sometimes. What about the women who did that? They stayed down with the men who said, oh, I don't want to get married, and their mind never changed.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Like in a hope later down the line, oh, maybe if me and Slim together for five years, maybe he'll change his mind and maybe we will get married. I'm going to always take you at face value as somebody who said you don't want this.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
That's fair. But then I feel like that's just waiting. You just waiting around.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
I 100% agree with that because I have had some great times.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
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Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
So first things first, anything worth having is going to be hard to get. First of all, let me say that. So I feel like, first of all, you are not a regular man. So of course, a woman, the average woman that you slide in her DM, she going to be on go for it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
But guess what, Slim? I'm not the average woman. Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
I'm not going after no regular... Okay, I say this all the time, and I'm not talking about you. I'm going to use Lamar Odom for an example, right? Lamar Odom, when he was on the top of his game, he got a Khloe fucking Kardashian, right? He got a Kardashian, okay? And...
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
When you get that and you fumble it and the way the road that he went down, you really not, he not finna get another Khloe Kardashian, right? Kanye, he's not finna get another Kim Kardashian. So sometimes the women that are easy for you is because they not on that level of the type of woman that you really need. Mm. So I'm not even talking about you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Sometimes these men who have money and they feel like, oh, black women are so hard because you can't really pull the type of women that are on your level that you need to be pulling. A bitch like me, I'm not on go. You're going to have to show up. You're going to have to do X, Y, Z. You don't have to convince me. I'm in the top 1%. Yes, I am. I make a lot of money. I don't have no kids.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Okay. Okay, y'all know every time we have a Houston guest on. You got a story. I have a story. Especially when it's Houston.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
I don't got no baggage. I'm outside. I'm hustling. I'm working. Absolutely, you got to do the most.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
I have been waiting to have Slim on this story because I have told this story on Poor Minds a few times. Drea knows this story. Tell me. Okay, so when I first moved to Houston, I was a young warthog. You know, just out in the land of Houston trying to find who I was. So, like, I came from a small city. I'm from Orange, Texas.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
And I agree with that, but I feel like it's beyond the money. Obviously, we don't need each other to pay for nothing. I feel like once you reach a certain amount of money, we're not arguing about no 50-50, who paying the rent, who paying. The money is going to come.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
It's not even about that because, yes, I'm a woman who makes money, and my sister can testify for this, and I was still cooking for my, rubbing his feet, doing all that because when you love somebody, it's about the love. It ain't about the money. The money don't come. I made it in my mind, I'm having a nepo baby. Like, I know what I want. Like, I feel like, so it's beyond that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
It's not about you paying for stuff. That's a given. Look at me. What do I look like paying for something? Right. So that's a given. It's not about, I'm going to still follow my man and be, you know, whatever he needs me to be. But at the same time, yes, I absolutely want a man who's going to jump through hoops for me. I want that. Because I do the same for a man that's working.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Yeah, because you know why they're throwing it at you? Because they're of low value. Any woman that's just throwing it at you because it's a slim thug, you really think that's a valuable woman?
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
That's why I move with this energy. I think you are delusional because black men are not as desirable. You have been rich since you were 18 years old. You don't even know what it's like to really not have money.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
But I just feel like you have a skewed reality because you are so successful. You have maintained your money. You're a smart man. You have a skewed reality, Slim. You really do.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
You know, like, I... So, I was just, like, starry-eyed when I moved out there. So, I remember, like, the first time I met you. What was that club, Drea, on Sundays that everybody used to go to? Carrington's? Not Carrington's. It was, like, where the Africans used to be at.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Well, first and foremost, first and foremost, we need to give background on what we're even talking about because we didn't even say what the topic is. So we were trying to talk about Slim had a video that has went viral recently where he was basically saying that he feels like black women require too much of black men for them to date us, to get some from us.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
And these women of other races, it takes way less to get what they trying to get from them.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Because I'm just so slim. I am from Houston. I'm from Houston.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
But I think a man have to move different when you got your shit together, too, as a woman.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
But it ain't, but it's not even about you always paying for stuff because that's a given. Anybody I deal with is going to pay for stuff. Of course I'm not going to pay for anything. Right. That's a given, but I'm talking about, I just feel like a man needs to, if you are a woman who have your shit together, a man needs to go above and beyond.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Oh, Belvedere. Yeah. So the first time I ever met you, it was at Belvedere. And I remember you were, like, back in the section. Like, you remember you used to walk in, and the section was way in the back. And I remember my homegirl was like, girl, come. Slim got a section. We was finna go in his section. I said, Slim, who? She said, I said, Slim Thug. I said, oh, my God.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
No, we're not, because I think as a woman, you should be equally yoked with your man. I'm not saying that the woman should not go above and beyond as well. Right. But I think that men are naturally the ones who are the quarters. You're trying to talk to me. You're trying to holler at me.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Jay-Z went through obstacle courses. He was doing everything.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Okay, okay. I wouldn't have left that person. I would have stayed. But no, let me say this real quick. That's the problem. That is the fucking problem right there.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
I feel like that's why I always say successful men, men in your category, y'all don't really be wanting to be with boss women or women who like... Y'all want the girl that don't got nothing going on because she can be at your beck and call and do whatever you need her to do. But just like you be hustling, I'm hustling too. That doesn't mean I can't still serve my man, but I'm hustling too.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
But that's what I'm saying, because you keep talking about simple shit. Like, we can hire a maid to do that. We can hire a chef for that. We talking about intellectual. Hell, I can pay the maid. We talking about intellectual deep conversation. And I'm going to use you for an example.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Because you dated... You had a LaToya Luckett.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
It's not. You can get that from a woman of value. You just have to put the work in.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
I'm like 18, 19, not even supposed to be in here. Oh, wow. So I remember she took it to the back of the club, and I remember I introduced myself. I was like, hi, I'm Lex. Nice to meet you. And you were so nice and so sweet. I was like, okay, I know Slim Thug now. Like, I'm in there. Like, I know the man in Houston, Texas, right? So I remember, fast forward, you had a video shoot, Summertime.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Because you're not putting the work in. But you brought up the example of Beyonce and Jay-Z. And I feel like a lot of successful men bring that up, right? They be like, oh, we could be like Beyonce and Jay-Z. But you don't want a Beyonce, though.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
So why do you have to be being an assistant? It's like that. Why can't it not just be doing something nice?
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
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Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
When was the last time you dated a successful woman?
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Probably Latoya. No, but if you're dating a successful woman now, so she's giving that to you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
So exactly, so a successful woman can do that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Because I don't post the things I do for my head. I got you. I got a witness.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
But, man, I feel like that's what make it hard for, like, successful women to find healthy relationships with men that are equally yoked with them. Like you said, a lot of the time, unfortunately, now that ain't going to be me, but women do be ending up with men that they have to take care of. And I feel like that's why, because men like you don't want, y'all be intimidated by the successful women.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
With Zero. Right. Swinging through the South Side. Oh, man. Right, baby. So I was in the video, right? And I remember I was like, oh, I know Slim. Like, we good. I was like, hey, Slim. He was like, hey, how you doing? What's your name? I said, oh, he don't remember me. He don't remember me. I was so sad. And I'm not going to lie. Then fast forward. I used to work at Dreams. Used to come in Dreams.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
No. That's not true. I feel like if a woman really loves you, she gonna do every... Like, she's going to do her best to do everything. Y'all really be cooking for y'all, dude? Yes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Man, that's crazy. I've never seen y'all cooking. Okay, so when I was in my relationship... I'm single now, but when I was in my relationship... I breakfast. What you cook?
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
She was cooking. Dinner. Yeah. Every, and I'm talking about for the whole house. She was cooking. I'm throwing down. I'm rubbing. I'm rubbing. And all my friends will tell you I can cook. I'm doing it all.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Because I love, it ain't about no money, no, I was happy with him. Yeah. So when a man make me happy, that ain't nothing, because guess what? I built my business so I could have freedom. Yeah. I don't want to work a lot. I work smarter, not harder. I see. So a real woman to me is somebody that knows how to have that balance. So I'm going to have that balance for my friends.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
I'm going to have that balance for my man. And I'm going to have that balance for my business because that's what I want. I want to build a legacy.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Please. You know what I'm saying? We done done ever talked with no makeup on.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Well, I think that you said dealing with women of high level, and then you said black women are hard to deal with. Well, that just lets us know that black women... I said black women are hard to deal with? You did. I did? You said black women are hard to deal with, and you said... No, I don't think... Let me clear that up.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
But everybody else is pretty. Because I'm a woman of value. I don't care what you got.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Used to get like a little chicken wrap every time.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
You, every single time you came in there, you'd be like, hey, how you doing? What's your name? I said, I done introduced myself to this nigga since time. Oh, man. And he still don't remember me.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
But I got to give you some for you to stay focused on me.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
If my pussy is the only thing that's going to keep you focused and you're not the man for me, I don't like men who are weakened by the pussy. If pussy drives you to keep you focused on me, then we need to end this shit right now.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Like, that shouldn't be the main thing that keep you focused on me because I haven't gave you none. You still focused on other girls. If you trying to get to know me and you really like me, it's going to happen regardless.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Y'all want a real bastard. No, we get to know each other.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
No, because I'm not even a type of person.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
No. I'm telling you. First date. I don't expect you to not be fucking. We're not exclusive. We're trying to feel each other out. You can do what you want to do. So you don't mind that?
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
I mean, but you know what? I never took it personal because each and every time, you were so nice. Yeah. You were so sweet. Always, always.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
That's not good. You should not have an orgasm until you're ready to have an orgasm. I do not have an orgasm unless there is some kind of mental connection there. We're not going to get a mental connection off of one date. Well, I mean, some people say they do. I haven't personally experienced that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
There is no proof that a man has ever fucked.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
You could be born again. after having kids.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
There is no proof that a man has ever fucked me because I ain't got no kids. No receipt. No receipt. Same. Nobody has ever had sex with me. Same.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
No, because I feel like relationships need to be reciprocal. And from what you're saying, that's not reciprocity in a relationship. Because you talking about what you're not going to do, but then you want her to serve you. You want her to do all of these things. But you already said, I don't have the time.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
What are you talking about? And that's Cool, for Valentine's Day, but you literally just said, I don't have the time to talk to you every day. Well, I'm not going to lie. I don't want to take up for Slim, but I will say he posts a lot of stuff. He does a lot for whoever he's dating. A lot. That's fair. He does post, because he going to post with G. And it's really the same person. He does.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
So why haven't you married the girl you've been dealing with?
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Well, I admire how you double down on the shit you say, because I'm the same way. Oh, he not taking shit back. I be doubling down, too. I thought he was going to apologize. Because I always be wondering. I be like, every time something go viral that Slim say, I wonder if he be like, damn, I shouldn't have said that. No. Now I know you don't. No, he don't.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
And I will say, a lot of times people be wanting, like, the reason I see a lot of people, like, attack you on the internet, because you do be saying some wild shit, but I will say... I never have been the person to be like, oh, fuck Slim and all this stuff. Because at the end of the day, you have an opinion on your things. Maybe I don't agree with them or whatever it may be.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
But at the end of the day, as a black man, you do what you're supposed to do for Houston and the community. You do, yeah. And you definitely are a person who put... your actions behind your words. You do a lot for Houston. So it's kind of like, not saying that you can get away with murder, but it's like, you know what I'm saying?
Pour Minds Podcast
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Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
I will. Well, yeah. When you did, when you said the Diddy stuff. Yeah. And you did come back and, you know, but I feel like a lot of times.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
I don't think it's about black billionaires. I think it's about billionaires in general. Capitalism is a thing, and you don't become a billionaire by being a great person. So I think a lot of the times these people, your mind doesn't process like that because you're not an evil person.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
So I have been around men of power who are, I've seen things in them that are, they're just evil people, not good people. And being a woman, we see a different side of men that you don't see because when they come around, they're not going to show you they're a big bro. Because you're an equal to them. That could be true.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Yeah, I never took it personal. Because, like I said, you were nice every single time that I met you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
It doesn't matter how much money I make, how much successful tours I do, I will never be an equal to a man. They will never look at me like that. When I walk into a meeting, I'm a bitch. When you walk into a meeting, you're assertive and you know what you want. Totally.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
So I think with that, I feel like a lot of the times, yes, people do lie, but I'm telling you right now, as a woman who has been through things, it's more people who are telling the truth than people who are lying. So, yes, there's probably people who are suing Diddy that weren't telling the truth. But from somebody who... I have a friend who was personally used to work for him.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
She was a chef for him. Yeah. Who went through some very traumatizing shit. And it's like, it's just... I feel like sometimes we need to listen before we speak out. And you have such a big platform. So I think with situations like... Because you don't... You just be talking sometimes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Because you wouldn't do nothing like that. Facts.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
You forgot a lot of times. That's all right. I said this the eighth time.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Well, no, to be honest, I feel like that's just really it. I think that was the main thing that you got backlash for in the past.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
I think that was really it. No, that's it. That's it. I just feel like, like I said, it's more so kind of going back to what Lex was saying. Just the fact that like because you do have so many followers and you do have such a big platform and so many people that follow you. I just think it definitely offends people because they just be like, damn, why would he say that?
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Period. That's so funny. I wonder if everybody have met you on a video shoot. Because I feel like that's the first time I met you, too. Wow. But you probably don't remember. I've been tripping. Yeah, because I was in a video, too. Cups up, tops down. I think.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Because you're speaking from a place of not knowing. Cool is your opinion, but you don't know whether or not these people actually did these things that... I've learned that the whole thing is just a sensitive topic. Right. It is because a lot of women have been through stuff like that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
And you're not, but you know what? This is the thing that's the issue, though. Because even though you feel like, oh, I'm just giving my opinion. You know how many lame-ass niggas and... And they say what Slim says is law. So anything that you say, even though you're like, this is my opinion, what your words hold so much weight to these people.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
That's why I move with this energy. I think you are delusional because black men are not as desirable. You have been rich since you were 18 years old. You don't even know what it's like to really not have money.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
So then you have these same people who are under these fake pages, who are under these blogs, and they are harassing these victims. So I think sometimes you don't realize how heavy and important your words are to a lot of people who follow you. You know what I'm saying?
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
You probably don't be thinking it's going to go viral.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Yeah, Kirko's home. Oh, man. But she was at the video shoot, of course. But, yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Well, if you want to take a stand, teach the young black youth how to be providers then.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
Like you said, you going to take care of everything and how you did? Teach them that. No, teach them that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
No, I'm not. When I say a provider, I'm not talking about bills. When I say provide, it's beyond that. It's never monetary. I'm talking about you provide a safe space for your woman. You are providing more than just, oh, I'm here and I'm paying the bills. Because being a provider is beyond just paying the rent. You know what I'm saying? You have to be a safe.
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As a black woman in this world, we never feel protected. It's never nobody in these blogs sticking up for us.
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No, we don't. That is not true. What the?
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He said we're going to end up taking care of somebody.
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I told you, Slim. That's what I'm trying to give you. You gonna take care of niggas. If I'm still single by the time I'm 40.
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Yeah. Oh, man. Because that was... I was like 23 when I was in that video. I think that was so long ago.
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Well, what makes you think we don't respect them?
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Oh, this is about him. You know, and that mean we don't respect niggas who got that shit.
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Well, I can confirm, me and Lex can both confirm, y'all need to stop saying Slim Thug don't like black women because he definitely- He loves black women.
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No, I never felt that way either, but I feel like people probably try to put that on you because realistically speaking, a lot of men of your status and in your position, they don't like black women. No.
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Okay, next first date I go on, I'm going to give him some, and if he dump me, I'm going to go.
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all right bye y'all so for the second topic i wanted to talk about nepotism because i think that when it's other races right with nepotism people phrase it and that's like the goal like you're supposed to make a lot of money so that your children can reap the benefits of it but for some reason when it comes to the black community we have like these
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Super rich black celebrities like LeBron and then their kids are getting to reap the benefits or Will Smith and Jada. Their kids are getting to reap the benefits of all of their success. But people, and especially in the black community, are talking down on it.
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Like, I've seen so many people online saying, oh, Barney shouldn't have even got drafted to the Lakers that quick because he wasn't that good. Yeah.
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And whether that's, that's neither here nor there, but the point of becoming successful, I thought, is so that you could put your children on and your grandchildren and nobody have to worry about nothing or go through the same things that you went through. Why do y'all think that that's so, like a lot of black people are so against that?
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So it's all about they marrying a white woman.
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Okay, I'll say this, though. I do think sometimes black people are addicted to the thought of that started from the bottom right here narrative.
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But what I'm saying is black people are addicted to that struggle story.
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Okay. I am so weak. So how do you feel about nepotism? Like obviously with you being a super black successful man, how do you feel about nepotism? How many kids you got?
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So how are we supposed to create this generational that you talk about yourself?
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Okay, so you almost out of there with the child support.
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He said, and I ain't starting over. So you feel like that nepotism, like you're doing that for your children? Doing what I do? Like you're setting them up? Like you're giving them a leg up because you're so successful.
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What do you mean, 10 years? He said 10 years.
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Oh, I don't got 10 years, Slim. I'm 35. And I'm 33. I don't got 10 years either.
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I started my 10 years, and he wasted my time. So now what?
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I mean, it was straight. I just feel like I just have so much going on. We... Why are you sneaking in some of my... Like, why did you do that? What are you talking about? Drea... Wait. That's very weird, bro. What is weird? Because if you wanted some, you could have got it. But I didn't even do nothing. All you had to do was ask. This is my... What are y'all talking about?
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And then on top of that, you know the stuff that I'm going through? I haven't got my food stamps. Oh, my God.
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They done took all that stuff. So this is really all that I have. I didn't even know that. And I didn't do anything. You literally got mayonnaise on your cheek, bro. Oh. Okay.
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This is why I can't... Well, I was just a little hungry, too, because I didn't get my food stamps neither. You don't even get food stamps. You don't even get food stamps. You don't know my business. You don't know my struggle, so you can't feel my hustle. It's time to get into the bed. Bow. The bed. Bow. The bed. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow.
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Yeah. You're probably like, I really don't remember you.
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Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. So it's good. It has a lot of proteins, a lot of nutrients. It helps with, like, losing belly fat. It also helps with reducing your cholesterol and your high blood levels.
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But you know what, Slim? Real quick on that, because you said you put that in your smoothies. I want to say that it is very important. I love that about you. You be in the gym.
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You work out, and I think that is why, like, because I'm not going to lie, Slim, you're an attractive man. You're very handsome.
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We've been knowing each other since Belvedere.
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Belvedere, that was probably 2009, 2010. I was in high school. Yeah, I was outside. No, I was outside. I was grown. I'm older than Drea. I wasn't in Belvedere. I was in 2009. Yo, yo. Not yet.
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That was probably like 20, I said I was 23, so that was probably 2015, 2014. Yep. Yeah. You crazy.
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It's okay. But no, I was saying that you're handsome. You're fine. You take good care of yourself. So that's an important message for you to give. I work out every day too.
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Yeah, I definitely be. I don't work out every day like she does, but I definitely be in the gym.
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I have lost. How much weight I lost? I lost 17 pounds. This man. What he said. I can buy it.
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I mean, he would have remembered that. I know. He'd not be too.
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I'm not going to lie to y'all like... And they take care of niggas.
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I'm not going to lie to you, though. Being single and being alone doesn't scare me either, though. I'm not a person like, oh, if I never get married and have kids, that doesn't... I have community. I feel like... Now, I do feel like humans are built to have... Community sound wild, Lex. No, when I say community, I mean like my friends and my family. I got a community of men.
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But I say because, like, being single and being alone, that's not the worst thing in the world.
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Yeah, I'm not taking care of nobody's thing. I just feel like I'm not afraid to be single either. I more so, I'm going to be sad if I don't have kids. Well, I'm going to be sad if I don't have kids. But I feel like you can go have a kid with a nigga.
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But it's beyond the baddie. It's a lot of baddies. Everybody baddies. I feel like I have everything. My mentality and my morals and my values.
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Honestly, right now, I want somebody who is equally young and they want to build something. Like, I feel like I'm still building my legacy. I'm still building what I want.
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Financially, I want somebody that's equally yoked or more.
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You not having no more kids for them? That already take you off the running.
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Dre, bring in the bad topic because he gonna bring it back. Y'all ain't give me none. So, for the bed topic, I wanted to talk about is it toxic or is it true? So many men say that they want to be with, like, a good girl. They run away from the girls that are quote-unquote bad girls. But then in bed, they want a girl that's a freak.
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I feel like girls that are freaks, they probably done, you know, been around the block a little bit. So, do you prefer a lady in the streets and, you know... I mean, a lady in the streets, a freak in the sheets. Or do you prefer somebody that's wild 24-7?
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They weedy. I think you're supposed to have that good balance. Yeah. I feel like you have to carry yourself a certain way. But I think, like, when it's time to turn up in the bedroom with your man, you got to know what you doing. I agree. You supposed to be down for whatever. Yeah. I feel like, you know who did a good example of that? What he said.
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I feel like Cardi was a good example that although we don't know her, but I feel like she's a boss. She got her own money. But she was like, from what we could see, like a good wife. Nobody came out with no stories while she was married. What about this other weekend? But she's single. Yeah, she's single now. As she should be. She's doing what she's supposed to do. Cardi a milf. Cardi is fine.
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She's successful. She's funny. And she's actually very smart. She's like really into politics. So I feel like that's like a good example of that good balance. Yeah. Like you have somebody who is fun. They talk they shit. But they a freak.
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They handle business. I think that's a good balance.
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Okay. That's fair. That makes sense. I mean, we just talked about these in another episode.
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Yeah, we said we like that too, though. Women porn. I think a lot of women like to watch other women when we watching porn. Men are really not as smooth and as good as they think they are in bed. So it's very rare I want to see a man doing anything porn. Like, I want to see my man doing things. But not watching.
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I know that. So how do you what what is what's like your signature move in a DM? Like, are you an emoji sender? Do you send like a little smoke emoji? I can see you doing something like that.
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Like, if me and my man make, like, a video of us, like, having sex or something, I could watch that a million times because obviously I'm enjoying having sex with you. But, like, to watch a porn... So you be making videos? Yeah, I'll make a video with my man. Word. You got to stay on your time, though.
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I just never had to. That's not my... Like, no shade. That's like... But... Yeah, but I just feel like... You don't need to check that back. I don't need to check that back. But I also feel like if you're going to do OnlyFans, you got to go all in. You do these days. You got a few porn stars, OnlyFan girls on our couch. I'm not doing the shit that they do. Me neither.
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I think that the days of like... trapping people, clickbaiting people into joining your OnlyFans is over. Like, I feel like at one point, the girls was definitely getting guys to join, getting people to join, and all they was doing was posting stuff in their lingerie. But I think people done got hip to the girls doing that. So they not joining unless they know you really getting down.
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I think it's going to be like during the cold Reddit.
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It ain't going to be nothing. Let me start. We're going to follow that. One thing probably will pop up. You know what? I'm not even going to say that.
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It's not nothing bad. I was on live one time and I was in my swimsuit and my swimsuit had rolled down.
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But it wasn't like, I mean, it's titties. I feel like people always see my titties on the show. I want to see.
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Oh, yeah. So I feel like it's a good, it's good to have a balance of like good girl. I agree.
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My lip combo today is the Glaze Lip Gloss, the Honey Dip Matte Liquid Lipstick, and the Chestnut Lip Liner. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole. Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of the Week. But do you have a product or something that you want to promote and you want it featured on Poor Minds? Your opportunity is here. Period.
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Yeah, so we have a brand new show dropping, y'all, on Patreon. It's going to air on September 2nd, and it's called Poor Chronicles. We're going to be doing so much stuff on there. We're going to be doing challenges. If you can't go to Bill and O'Shea, where the hell could you go? If you can't go to Bella Noche, where the hell can you go? We're going to be doing talk to me, chit chat with me.
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We're going to be spilling a little tea. Oh, my God. No, you didn't. Oh my God! Everything y'all been wanting to see, we gonna be doing it right here on Patreon. Yes, y'all ask us for so much, but we finna give it to y'all every single Monday. And it's gonna be a time. Y'all know Poor Minds has grown into its own little entity. Well, we gonna have a lot of fun still over here at Poor Chronicles.
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Yeah, because you know why they're throwing it at you? Because they're of low value. Any woman that's just throwing it at you because it's a slim thug, you really think that's a valuable woman?
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So make sure y'all tune in September 2nd. It's going down. Thanks.
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Swim. What? Actually, I do have to work tomorrow. I have to film tomorrow. So I'm working.
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We didn't throw you to the side. You take care of niggas.
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We don't take care of niggas. It is what it is, man. I don't take care of niggas. I take care of myself.
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I might be outside tonight. We're going to see.
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Yeah, we might be outside. We might be outside.
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So now it's time to get into the bop. The bop. Bow. The bop. Bow. Bow. Bow, bow, bow. Okay, so Bop of the Week is the songs that we've been jamming this week. I always have like an off-the-wall Bop of the Week. So my Bop of the Week today is a Post Malone song. What? You know, Post Malone, he came in the game rapping, and you know how they usually do.
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They make the white boys rap, and they take over, and then they start making the music they really want to make. And when I hear his, like, more country music side, I'm like, you should have been doing this. I don't even know why he was rapping. I was never a big Post Malone fan of him rapping, but I actually like his country, you know, his little country side.
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So he has a song called I Don't Know How to Say Goodbye with Dwight Yoakam. I think that's how you pronounce his name. By who? Dwight Yoakam and Post Malone.
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What's it called again? Double Cup. The song is called Double Cup and the movie is called Double Cup.
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Were you one of the directors of the movie?
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Now, why you ask us to be in the movie? That's what I was about to ask.
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Okay, so, but talk about Double Cup, the song and the movie.
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I'm excited to see it. It's cool. Have y'all done the movie premiere yet?
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Okay, so make sure you invite us. So we going to come.
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We come to Houston all the time. My family is there.
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But the album is first. Album is first. So talk about the album.
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Yes. I love that for y'all. That's good. I'm excited to see it.
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Well, we can't wait to hear it. Yes, please invite us to the premiere.
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I am weak. You can start a new show. Anyways, Trey, what's your bop of the week? Yeah, so my bop this week, speaking of people from Houston, Ken and me have a new song called Cocky. I love me some Ken.
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That's our girl. They already know. That's our girl. We love us some Ken. She do. She really do. And so, yeah, she had a song called Cocky that just came out like a week. I think, or two ago, but it's been in my rotation. Hey, Ken, girl. Love Ken Down. So let me ask you this, Slim. Outside of you, who do you feel like is the best rapper out of Houston?
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I don't... I've never seen you with anybody. You're very low key. You are. Ooh, that reminds me. I used to stay in these apartments in the medical center. And this is when you had that. You seen him in your apartment? He used to have that silver Camaro. Damn. You cannot creep in that car. I said, somebody in my apartment is fucking sleeping. And y'all know I've been messy for a long time.
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Like, give you a top three. I'll give you three.
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You know, Zero pulled up on it, too. He came on the show. It was such a good episode. It was. Zero gets lit. I'll fuck with that. He going to drink.
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I would have to agree with that, though. I definitely, Zero is definitely, like, in my top three.
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Okay. And who else? I said I gave you three.
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Yeah. I'll put him in a different category. Exactly.
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He's a lot of dope Houston rappers for sure.
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Okay. Okay, go ahead, Drea. Okay. Now it's time to get into our favorite segment of the show, which is pour your heart out. If you have any questions, you can always send them to askpoorminds at gmail.com. That's A-S-K-P-O-U-R-M-I-N-D-S dot com. Now, today we only going to have time for one question. So, Slim, do you think that you give good advice?
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Okay, well, somebody needs your advice. So we gonna see what you gonna tell us.
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I love y'all, especially Big Lex P. Let's get into it. Don't say my name. So, boom, I'm 24, and I've got a full-blown bugaboo on my hands. Back in 2021, when we were both 21, I used to hang out with this top-tier college ball player. One weekend, he came home, invited me over, and we ended up doing the nasty. And, yeah, I ate the booty like Lex said, and he loved it. Wow. Yeah. I didn't say that.
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This is crazy. But ever since that one time, he has not left me alone.
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I said, that's that car right there. Was she black? I don't know because I never saw. What apartments was it? It was off of El Mundo.
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That ain't got nothing to do with me. Okay, but ever since that one time, he has not left me alone.
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Mind you, it's 2025. He got a whole girlfriend, and this man still finds ways to hit me up begging for a repeat. He want that booty ate again. Wow. She said, I blocked him, ignored him, everything, but he keeps popping back up. How would y'all handle this? Because I'm over it. Best. A girl who regrets going above and beyond. Girl, you is a booty bandit. Wow. Because what the fuck?
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What do you mean he just keep blowing you up? And it's all your fault. It is not my fault. Oh, my God. It is not... Her fellow booty bandies. I feel like I said that story, like, one time. What was the story? Tell me. It was... First of all, it was somebody that I was dating when I moved to Atlanta. It was an Atlanta guy I was dating, okay?
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And it was a... And it was cool. One thing about me in the bedroom, if we're dating and you want me to try something, I'ma try it. Okay. And it was a fun experience. I feel like I can tie everything with it.
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And he didn't ask me, but he started going like this.
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And I said, I know what you want. And I was kind of hesitant, but I was like, fuck it, why not? And I tried it.
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But, like I said, surprisingly, men do like that. Men do like that. But I also feel like, because people are like, oh, no, that's gay. Anything you do with a woman is not gay.
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Oh, it was like... So what do y'all think she should do? I think she should just tell him, hey, I'm not interested in talking to you no more. We need to use our words.
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Oh, I can't remember the name of them apartments. I cannot. But it was in the medical center. I know it was your car. You were the only person. Because that was when those silver, I don't know what you call it, when they used to wrap the silver. Chrome. It was a chrome Camaro.
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She said she regret going above and beyond. And she needs to tell him that. I think we need to... There's too much snickering.
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That is a little crazy, kicking a nigga to the curb after you ate his booty.
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Yeah, that is a little next level. I agree. Oh, Slim, I'll get you touching them toes now.
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Okay. Okay, period. Well, thank you for coming on the show. This was so fun. This was fun. I'm glad we finally did this. I feel like the only person from Houston we're missing is Kiki. Yeah, we got to have Kiki. He performed at our live show. Yeah, he came to the live show, but we haven't had him on Poor Minds. Just like you came to the live show, but we haven't had you on Poor Minds.
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Yeah. We caught Paul Wall, though. Because he came to Atlanta. Yeah, we had Paul Wall on the show. We've had everybody. Thank God we had B. King, R.I.P. B. King.
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B. King. Yeah, so I hope y'all enjoyed this episode. Make sure y'all follow Slim on all socials, at Slim Thug. Y'all catch Double Cup. We'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all. Y'all make sure y'all share the content, like, subscribe, follow, all that good stuff. And let me say this before we close out. Y'all, there is one Twitter account that is connected to Poor Minds.
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It's P-O-U-R underscore M-I-N-D-S. Y'all are tagging the wrong Poor Minds page. If you see at Poor Minds with no underscore, that is a fake page. Do not follow that page, okay? They blocked me, Andrea, and the Poor Minds page on both. So we only have one.
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You were the first person in Houston with a chrome car. Right, right. So it was like, it was no question who it was when he pulled up.
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one instagram one twitter one tiktok it is p-o-u-r underscore m-i-n-d-s all right and we got a hella fake facebook page oh the facebook pages it's the our face the crazy thing is our facebook page actually have the least amount of followers so if you're on facebook the one that's ours Got the least amount of followers. The one that's not us got like 250,000 followers.
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But y'all know it's fake if you actually look at the content because the caption is like whoever it is don't speak English. Because their captions are like Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes, no. Check answer below. Blah, blah. Booyah, booyah, booyah. Like, that's literally what the captions mean. I like that DDG's Bamba Claude. Bamba Claude.
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I mean, yeah, it was a lot of like, she would have to have been like a nurse, something.
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Because y'all experiences are so different.
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Old school. No little Michael Jackson. Right.
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Now, I do want to talk about this before we get into the first topic, because I always use you as an example, like when I'm kind of having like a little rap debate.
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Because I feel like a lot of people like to say, oh, this person is so big and this person is not because they're international or they're... Um, they can go to New York right now and do a show or, and I always say I, and I could be wrong. So correct me.
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So, cause I remember you coming up in Houston and then you had a moment where you were in LA and you were working with Pharrell, you know, and you did that. And I felt like it, it wasn't cause that album was fire. Everybody was like, I don't take it. All that stuff. Yeah.
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it was a moment I felt like after that album you was like LA is not for me I want to go back home you chose that route so I always say y'all can't have Slim in these conversations when y'all are talking about international superstars or whatever because he chose not to be that because he very much could have done that it was beautiful working with Pharrell
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What's up, y'all? It's your girl, Lex P. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole. And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds. Where a drunk mind speaks sober thought. We got a guest today. We got a guest today. Okay. Now, this has been an extremely anticipated episode. Long time coming. He actually pulled up on us on our very first live show in Houston at House of Blues.
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Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster with Rocket Money. Go to rocketmoney.com slash poormindstoday. That's rocketmoney.com slash poorminds. rocketmoney.com slash poorminds. Yeah. So I wanted to talk about, because you made a really good point Obviously, me being from Houston, too, like, Houston has so much culture and has always had so much culture.
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Niggas is literally the easiest thing to get. It's not hard to get niggas. It's not hard to get a nigga. If somebody is single, trust and believe it ain't because it's hard for her to get one.
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Honestly, people have to draw those boundaries. Like you said, you understand where she coming from.
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Same. Because it's like, what you do? What the fuck you do? I hate a person who always try to make it seem like everybody else is the problem.
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Everybody a villain in somebody's story. You're right.
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It's like if I talk to you and it sounds like you're doing a job interview, like, oh, what's the bad thing about you as an employee?
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I like to get to work so early and work off the clock.
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When you're not there, Will, you be on Instagram scrolling for like 30 minutes.
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Oh, I feel like I always got to say what's on my mind. Me too! I always got to say what's on my mind. Like, if it's on my chest, I'm going to get it off my chest. I got to let you know what's going on. So I think that's a toxic trait. And then also, just, um... Sometimes it's hard for me to put myself in other people's shoes. Because I be feeling like people... Why?
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Because I think people be stupid a lot of the time. And it's not right to necessarily look at people like that. I feel like God made me really strong and resilient. And everybody is not that way. Everybody was not blessed with those traits.
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So sometimes you have to look at the shit that people do and be like, it's okay that they might not have the same level of confidence or realize that something is not okay and stand up for themselves. That doesn't necessarily make them stupid. You just differing. You know what I mean? You just stronger than this person.
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And I feel like I used to always kind of look at people and be like, oh, that's dumb. You know?
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And not really, and not care to have an understanding. Just looking at them like, that's stupid. I would never do that. You know what I mean? So I think that's probably a toxic trait.
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I think the worst thing about me is I am extremely sensitive, but I have the nerve to be a bitch. Ooh, that's a good one. I am sensitive as fuck, but I'm a bitch. Like, I am extremely bitchy. And I used to always... Like, I feel like people got to be soft with me, but I don't want to be soft with people. And I think another thing is, like, when I shut down, I shut down.
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Like, I don't do confrontation well. Like, if... I need to let time go by. Like, if me and you get into it, I need to have, like, two or three days and then I want to talk.
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But I also feel like... I do need to calm down, but I also don't need to procrastinate. Because, honestly, I'll let shit go to, like, two, three weeks. And I'll be like, okay, we can talk now, I guess. But I be thinking, like, let's just move on. And I know now, like, I pride myself on being a great communicator, but I'm really not as good of a communicator as I like to say I am.
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I be wanting to talk about the things that I want to talk about. Yeah. Or when somebody else want to talk about something, I be like, let's just... You know what I'm saying?
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And so those are like the main two things I need to work on. I'm very, I don't like to, you know what, let me not say a bitch. I'm very assertive. And I think sometimes it's taken the wrong way. So I need to expect, but I need to learn how to take that too. And I think somebody's being bitchy towards me because they can just be assertive in saying what they mean, you know?
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So I got to learn how to dish it in and take it. Mm. So, yeah, I'm working on not being so sensitive.
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I literally cry because I'm like... Is she like that? No, she's very sensitive. And that's where we're, like, so opposite because she's very sensitive and I'm not. And just like she said, like, you know, she's not really confrontational. So a lot of the time, it's been times in our relationship where, like, I want to talk about shit right now.
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And she don't want to talk about it right now. Let me tell you. Sometimes when I know we not seeing eye to eye on my phone, she be trying to avoid me and then I call her and I... So what's up? That's what she do. Let's talk about what happened last week. Because, you know, I let you make it for a week. But let's talk about it now. I didn't tell you. You always say that to me.
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Yeah. It's an amazing feeling when people start gravitating to you just for you being who you are.
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And so we can talk about it. But it's so crazy that you said that because that's what I be telling Lex. I be like, if I tell you that something is wrong, she be like, well, I don't be wanting to argue. But that's your opportunity to tell me how you feel.
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That's fair, because I feel like maybe I do be having to watch my tone sometimes. But the thing about me, my tone only get bad with people. I got to be real. You got to have me real fucked up, though, for my tone. No, you don't. Yes, you do. Yes, you do. I feel like anybody in this room will agree. My tone never get crazy with none of them. With none of them.
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I just said, you got to have me real fucked up. Look at the tone. Look at the tone. Thank you. Point proven, because she done had me real fucked up a lot of times.
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a lot of times, everyone else in this room has not, which was the point I was getting at. But no, but what I'm saying is, I just feel like in certain situations, like, like I said, but that's something I need to work on because I be having the nerve to, because everybody in this room can agree, I will walk in and be like, what the fuck?
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Her phone be fucked up with everybody. My phone be fucked up with selective people.
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Well, I'll say this. When it comes to my business, though.
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When it comes to my business, this is our baby. I don't play when it comes to this shit. And I know the vision I have for it. So I think in the business world, I am a little more probably strict. And I don't mind having confrontation when it comes to business because it's not necessarily... It's not personal. It's business. I'm trying to get shit done. Yeah.
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So with business, I don't mind saying what I got to say and what's on my mind. We need to talk about this shit because it's money to make.
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I see. I'm not really a grudge holder. I be letting stuff go because I just feel like after a certain period of time, I don't... It's too much energy. Like, it takes too much energy to care. That's why I think I'm... Because I just want to get it over with. Like, I just want to talk about it and then be over it.
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You have like an energy about you that's just, it's very gravitating. Magnetic, yeah. It's like, I don't know. You know, people say that it factor. And you don't know what it is. You can't explain it. But some people just have it.
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Yeah, I mean, maybe. I feel like I don't care a lot about a lot of shit. That's why it's hard for me to hold grudges, because I really don't give a fuck enough to hold a grudge.
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Drea's not a grudge holder, because I've seen where, like, you and a friend stop being friends. When I tell you when Drea is done, I mean, she will act like you are dead. You never existed. Like, never existed.
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Because I feel like that's the key to any healthy relationship. Like, you have to be able to talk to people about stuff. And that's coming from a place of when I was younger, Lex can attest to this. I used to be the type of person who I would just cut people off and not talk to you about stuff. Yeah.
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But that's not conducive to having a healthy, long-lasting relationship with anybody, whether it's a romantic relationship, whether it's a friendship, whether it's a relationship with your family. You have to be open to talking to people about it and cutting people off every time somebody do some fucked up shit to you or have you fucked up is not always the answer.
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Because sometimes what they did doesn't necessarily warrant something so dramatic as you not ever talking to them again. But I used to think everything was dead serious. Like, I'm not fucking with you.
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You are so funny, but I want to start from the beginning. So you're from Savannah. Yes, research! Yes, we be doing our research. No, it's Tom. Tom! So I want to talk about like beginning, because I'm from a small town too. So did you always feel like, okay, I got to move. I got to get out of Savannah. Like talk about growing up in a small town and just having such a big personality.
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You got to side-eye people like that. Because like you said, because if you saying that about her, what the hell you be saying about me when I'm not in the room? You be doing the same. You cannot convince me that a person that will go and tell other people their friend's business do not tell other people your business when you not around.
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I don't like that either. Especially like when people fall out because that's when people are the most vulnerable and angry. Yeah. So if you get your feelings and you and a friend stop being friends and you start spilling all they tea, that says a lot about your character. Because I don't care if me and you never talk again. I'm not finna go around telling no secrets.
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Because like you said, what her car getting repo got to do with anything? Why you telling me that? Oh, my God. I didn't even know that. Mm.
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I know that's right. Okay, so before we get into the topics, my girl Ty, what we drinking down today? Down.
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So, in honor of our guest, Mr. Big Sexy, this one is called The Unshakable Walk. Yeah! And so, with this one, this one is a mock sale for him. Lex does have some vodka in hers. Me and Dre are still going strong. We are sober. Oh, Lord. This one has... some lychee, some blackberries, some raspberry, a little bit of lemon, little bit of simple syrup in there, and some thyme.
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And then as a garnish, I used a lychee. I put a dehydrated raspberry in there and then added some thyme just to give it a little cuteness for the spring that's approaching down here. And then we topped it off with a little guava sparkling water. Okay. This is the unshakable walk, y'all. Cheers. Very refreshing. And tell them where they can find the calendar. Oh, yes.
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Y'all can still order your So Mixy 2025 cocktail calendar at www.somixy.com. Thank you so much. It is very good.
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Okay, do you like, did you taste the lychee? You liked it?
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Okay. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole. And one thing about me, especially now with the economy, I like to save money on my groceries. So we're going to tell y'all about HomeChef.com. Yes, y'all. I love anything that takes the guesswork out of having to cook.
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Yes, it gets all the ingredients delivered straight to your door. The other day, I had a cherry maple salmon that I made. It was so good. That sounds delicious. Yes. Cherry and maple, how can you lose? You know what I'm saying? And it was fresh, too. So what you're going to do is go to homechef.com backslash poor minds.
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and it's your girl Dre Nicole and we have a very exciting announcement today we have a brand new show dropping yeah so we have a brand new show dropping y'all on Patreon it's gonna air on September 2nd and it's called Porn Chronicles we gonna be doing so much stuff on there we gonna be doing challenges if you can't go to Bill and O'Shea where the hell could you go?
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If you can't go to Bella Noche, where the hell can you go? We gonna be doing talk to me, chit chat with me. We gonna be spilling a little tea. Oh my God. No, you didn't. Oh, my God. Everything y'all been wanting to see, we gonna be doing it right here on Patreon. Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we finna give it to y'all every single Monday. And it's gonna be a time.
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Y'all know Poor Minds has grown into its own little entity. Well, we gonna have a lot of fun still over here at Poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in September 2nd. It's going down. Thanks. For the first topic, we really wanted to talk to you about gay men being straight women's pride. Because we saw where you talked about this before recently.
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You were saying how you know you feel like you have been in that position in a lot of situations or a lot of relationships and friendships that you've been in. But we definitely wanted to get into that because I agree with you.
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I did my little research. It went down, but it went a good way. I said, oh, he's spicy. I told Shay, I told our producer, I said, oh, he be getting spicy.
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And see, when I think of it, I more so be thinking from a standpoint of like, you know how you'll be talking to some women and they'll be like, why need to give me a gay male friend? I hate that. Like to me, that's more so trying to use a person as a prop because why are you so specific in the type of friend that you need to find? I don't see nothing wrong with it.
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Okay, but let me ask you this, too, though, because I see it from both sides. Yeah. Because I have a gay friend that I'm really, really close with. Like, we've recently gotten really close, and I love him down. Shout out to Clay. Hey, Clay. I talk to Clay so much, but we became friends organically. Yeah.
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Like, it wasn't like, oh, I'm searching for him, or he's searching for me, or... It was like we really became organic friends. But what I have noticed is... I feel like sometimes a lot of the gay men in the community, and I don't want to offend anybody, so y'all please don't eat me up. This is just honest. Sometimes, just like, I feel like women want to be our friends because of who we are.
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I think a lot of gay men be trying to come into my life because they feel like, oh, I would love to be Lex's friend, or I want to be that one gay guy in her life. That's why I'm so cool with Klay, because it was genuine. But sometimes I feel like a lot of the gay boys be trying to, you know, they want to be a problem.
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But you don't feel like it might be like some weird motives there, yeah?
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Because why you don't get along with women? If you don't get along with women and you feel like, oh, well, I need some gay friends, you probably a little weirdo yourself. Any woman that be like, oh, I'm not saying you got to be a girl's girl, but I hate a woman that's like, oh, I got more guy friends or I don't want to hang out with the gay guys all the time.
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That'd be weird too because like I said, as much as I feel like it's on both sides, the women who seek out a gay friend just because he's a male and he's gay, to me it gives like, you don't want to hang around women because you be feeling like it's competition.
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Like, if I don't want to be friends with Drea because Drea goes out and Drea gets all the attention, well, I'm going to go out with Big Sexy because obviously the men going to want me because he's a man. That's the kind of energy. And the gag is they might want him.
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It's ulterior motives there. And I think we're also in a time where people see relationships like Santana and Carisha. Everybody wants that dynamic. Everybody wants that dynamic. So they be like, oh, you see what Santana and Carisha do? I want to do that. So it's like, are you really genuine friends with him? Are you trying to have like an arrogant Tay-Ari type of situation?
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You know what I'm saying? So I think a lot of times, like I said, it's not that genuine connection. Women be seeing... They be like, I need a prop. I need that accessory. They want somebody that's going to come over and do their hair. Yeah, and boost them up. Yeah, and hype them up. So that's why I said it can get really easy.
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But I'll say this. I feel like if that's the case, you'll just keep attracting the wrong type of friends. And then that's more of a you problem, sis. Because why you keep attracting them type of women? Granted, I have been in situations where I have been friends with girls and they definitely were weird and was doing weird shady shit or hating.
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But every single relationship that I've had with women has not been like this. So I feel like if those are the only type of girls you come across, you probably a little strange yourself. You probably be hating too. You know what I mean? And you can't take what you say you could did shit. But you can't take... Because one thing about me, I hype my friends up. Yeah.
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I don't care if you post a picture, whatever. I am hyping you up. So I feel like if you are a girl and you don't have one girlfriend. At least one. They probably not hating on you, but they probably feel like, well, I'm always complimenting her, but she never say nothing to me. Sometimes shit will start feeling one-sided.
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I'm going to be on the drain every fucking photo. Where that waist at, bitch?
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That's why I don't mind hyping none of my friends up. Because Drea has this lane that she dominates in. And that ain't got shit to do with me. What I got going on. Because this lane is what I'm dominating. So it doesn't take away... It does not take away from me to hype her up. Or to hype Ty up. Or to hype my... My other friend has a podcast as well, and I hype that shit up.
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Because that don't affect poor minds, baby. It don't. Because you not, you, to get this flavor, you gots to come to Dre and Nicole and Lex P's marriage. Poor minds. You know what I'm saying? So I just feel like I don't buy that when women like, I ain't tried. Yeah, because how hard do you really try? Like, you not really probably a good friend yourself.
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If you don't have at least one solid homegirl that you been down with for a long time, It's you, C. It's you the problem.
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Hell no. Oh, I think you can teach somebody how to love properly and be... Ooh, this is good. Y'all got good... Well, I'm saying, think about our relationship and how much we grew together. And I learned, okay, well, Drea likes this. I can't treat Drea how I treat Ella or Lauren. That's fair, but to me, that's more specific to a person.
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Like, being friends with a person for a long period of time, you start to realize, I need to be this way with them because this is what they respond to. Mm-hmm. I don't think you can teach somebody how to be a good friend, though. Either you're a good person and you have that shit in you to be a good friend, or you do not. I feel like people who are just bad friends, you're probably a bad person.
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I agree with that because I feel like I'm kind of like that too. Like when I call people, if they got like a weird energy.
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I be like, what's wrong with you? You know, but then you be having to realize it's not about you. So then I just learn to like give people they decency. Me too. Because I'm not really the type of person that will just let stuff affect my day. You know what I mean?
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It's like, even if some shit happened, I might be in a bad mood for a little bit, but I'm not going to just be walking, moping around the whole day or for like days at a time. Some people, they need to go through it to get there. So I'm a moper, but I also don't bring other people in it. So if you call me, I'm not in a good mood. I'll let you know, hey, I'm not feeling it today.
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So, yeah, so, like, I was going to ask you because people are always going back and forth about this online. You know, like, some people will say that they feel like children aren't necessarily gay when they're kids. It's about the environment that they're in. Personally, I do feel like my mom always told me because I have a cousin similar to you who was always the same way his whole life.
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Yeah, just say something. You know, I feel like a lot of the time people just be having, like, that weird energy around them, and then they don't say anything. So then, as a human, your mind gets to wondering, and you can't help but think, okay, like, what's the problem? I can't stand when people who walk in the room, they just want everybody to feel their wrath. Yeah. I cannot stand. Yeah.
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Now, that is something that I hate. If you got something going, leave that shit at the door.
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Leave it at the door. I'm not saying that I don't care, but we all got life going on.
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Read the room. Read the room. I hate when people have the oppression Olympics. Like, oh, this has happened to me.
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We definitely got to read the room. Okay, okay. So we're going to get into the next topic. Mm-hmm. So... We some talkers now.
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If we really didn't have, like, a timed episode, we would probably be here for three, four days.
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It's definitely a black move because I can see it. You want to smell my punani? That's how she said it, too. I know. Because I can see it and I can hear it. And she was chewing on it. Oh, okay. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. No, it's not Friday. It's, um...
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And she was like, we knew since he was, like, three or four. I feel like kids know. At a very young age. So how do you feel about that?
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No. What you think, Javi? Yeah. Oh. Poetic justice. Yes. Fuck. Javi got it. Because I remember with her braids and she was trying to be funny. Mm-hmm. See?
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It ain't even... No, not really because I know you. I knew all of yours. No, what I'm saying is this one is easy. Is it? Bye, Felicia. Oh, Friday. Well, the next time, this is so funny because me and Dre, I know we both grew up with parents like this. Oh, my God. So, I want to talk about growing up with naked parents. So, a naked parent is somebody who is just like a nudist at home.
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Like, you have to make sure when your friends come over, mama, you got some clothes on, you got to make sure they are covered up. Because one thing about me, my mom was always walking around the house naked.
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And I'm not talking about like, oh... Winnie the Pooh style with a t-shirt and no panties on and no bottoms. I'm talking about butt, booty hole ass naked from the rooter to the tooter.
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And it was so awkward too because then my dad would be there and he would be like foaming at the mouth and I would be like, bro. I know that's right. You need to go put some foam. See, I didn't have no daddy around when I was growing up. But that's what I'm... That's why I'm wilding out. Give it back. No, it used to make the dynamic even more weird.
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Because, yes, because it was me, my mama, and my daddy in the house. And she would just be walking around naked all the time. Like, I'm talking about doing everything naked. Cooking, cleaning. I'd be like, damn, you ain't scared of grease going to pop your titties or nothing. I'm serious. Y'all, that's one thing I can't relate to.
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Yeah, but see, I think that's a little different because, you know, even though you were, you know, gay, but you're still a boy.
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So, I do think, like, how would y'all feel about, like... a mom walking around naked and she has a son. Like, how do y'all feel about that? Because I think it is a little different to walk around in the nude and you have a little girl versus having a little boy. I think it's the same thing with men.
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If you have a son and you're walking around naked, like, but think about a man walking around the house naked with his little girl.
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It does, but I think it's the same thing when a child is young and I feel like it's different with... How y'all feel? Because I feel like
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I did, but I don't want to see it. I ain't see it that day, and I don't want to see it for the rest of my life.
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I'll say this. It more so got on my nerves, but it wasn't like something I was like, oh, oh my God, disgusting. It was just like, girl, put some damn clothes on. But now, it's so crazy because as I get older, I'm 35 now, and literally everything I do, I'm like, I am my mother. Me too. To the T. Being at home all the time, just wanting to be left alone, watching TV, the way I eat, the way I act.
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I'm literally turning... I'm naked all the time at my house.
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I am too, but I don't... live by myself I feel like once I have kids I cannot see even with a little girl like maybe as a like maybe as like a two-year-old or something but like once you get to like grade school I am not about to be walking around naked in front of my daughter that's just me though I don't see the point
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a little bra and panty cool like you said your mama used to walk around in her panties cool but like just walk around butt ass naked in front of my kid where is your robe where is your scooter that's how I used to feel about my mama girl where is your robe
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But I do feel like, like I said, it's not nothing that's nasty or weird to me. No, not nasty. But it's more annoying. So I feel like if you are a woman and you have a daughter and she's in grade school and you walk around naked, it probably just gets on her nerves. But now, I do think it's weird if you're a woman and you have a son and he's in grade school and you're walking around naked.
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But like I said, if it's a man and his son and they living together and he like gets out the shower and goes and runs and grabs some shorts or whatever, that's normal because it's like a locker room. But again, if a man has a daughter in grade school and he's walking around naked, that's weird to me.
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I think it's like if it's same gender, it's okay because I look at it like a locker room, a gym. When you go to the spa.
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It's the same body parts and it's nothing weird. You know what I'm saying? But I do think it's like when you have a different gender for your child, that's when things can get a little sticky.
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A little sticky. Yeah, because I've never seen my daddy naked. Never. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
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That's the only vagina you've ever seen outside the strip club.
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Yeah. Yeah. I feel like... Kids, for me, has always been a thing. Like, I do want children, but I want to make sure... I know people say no matter how much money you make, you will never be prepared for a child or whatever, but I just have to get to a point in life where I can afford a nanny. I do. Like, I know because I love working. Like, I love...
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just having a job and being busy and I know like I see like the single moms out there and I'm not preparing to be a single mother at all but when I do decide to have a child I know whoever I marry he's gonna be a busy person and I'm gonna be a busy person and I'm not finna be just staying at home and I'm not giving up my dream to stay at home with the child so I know I am gonna need that help whether it's a family member that I have move in with me but I'm gonna need to be in a position to where I have I have some help
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And I need to be in a house, you know, because I wouldn't mind having, like, a live-in nanny, something like that. Like, because, you know, we be touring, you know, some days. It's like, it's just a lot.
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So I feel like that's what motherhood looks like to me. Like, I'm going to be an amazing mother, yes, but I'm going to need some help because mom and daddy going to be busy.
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Yes, but I be saying the same thing. Like, I definitely need a nanny, and then my mom is retired. So, girl, come on out to Atlanta and come live in this house with us.
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Oh, for sure. She already be putting it in my ear, child. I already know. But I do think I'm still going to have a nanny as well, though. Because like Lex said, we do travel and stuff a lot with touring and stuff. And my mom is like older, so I just wouldn't want her having to travel all the time with me and the baby. Yeah. Okay, so naked mom, you not going to be a naked mom? No.
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Once you are not being breastfed anymore, you do not need to see my titties.
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Thank you. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, Lex P. And it's your girl, Jerri Nicole. And we are here to ask y'all to do us a huge favor, but also, you'll have a chance to win a $150 gift card from Amazon. We just need y'all to do an ad survey. What have y'all used? What do y'all like? What don't y'all like? Tell us. We need to know.
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But it's easy. That's what I'm saying. Like, if women are single, it is not because they can't get a man. Right. People got to stop projecting it. Uh-huh. It's your girl Lex P. And it's your girl Dre Nicole. And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds. Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. We got a guest today. We got a guest today.
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What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole. And we are here to tell y'all about our brand new e-book and e-course bundle, Pour Into Your Pod. Yes, y'all.
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Pour into your pot. Peace. Okay, all right, so now it's time to get into the bed. Bow. The bed. Bow. The bed. Bow. Bow.
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You know it's time to get into the sex topic. Ah! Ah! I'm just saying, I'm having a ball. I am, too. I love when we have guests who are yappers.
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Not celibate because you have had sex before. Yes. But you're abstinent. You not having sex right now.
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Like you can't, like you would think that you can't trade me. Yeah.
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Yeah, when I think of celibacy or when I think of being abstinent, I think of, like, no type of sexual interaction at all.
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That is... Play with the shrimp is crazy. Oh, such a man.
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I feel like it needs to be like you're not doing anything sexual with another person. I know my little thing be like, stop scratching me.
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So do you get anything done to you? No! No. But you just do stuff to other people.
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Okay, but let me ask you, what started the... Was it like a bad relationship or somebody hurt you that made you decide to be celibate?
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I always use this as an example because... Depending on the man you choose can really affect the trajectory of your life. I agree. Wendy Williams. I truly believe that that man that she married... Everybody say that. ...was the downfall of her. And I am a Wendy Williams fan. Love her down. But a lot of times when you look at these women and the man that they involve themselves with, like...
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For example, it's so crazy. It's somebody else I feel like that about, too. Halle Berry did an interview the other day with Drew Barrymore.
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And she was saying, like, everybody always be like, oh, what's wrong with Halle and what's wrong with her? And she's like, why something got to be wrong with me? And it was so many men in the comments like, oh, Halle, I don't care how fine you are. You're 60 and single. Something is wrong with you. I mean, it was so many comments just being so nasty.
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But I need to say something to the straight men who date women and watch this. I need y'all to understand that some women truly believe it is better to be single. Yeah, me! It is better to be single than struggling with y'all ass.
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Because sometimes when I look at the women like a Taraji or not Sanaa Lathan or Tracy Ellis Ross, I'm like, they look like they having a great time. They like, what's wrong with them? Nothing is wrong with them.
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If you're blessed enough to find a great man that loves you, who honors you, who is loyal, y'all have a partnership and y'all are really building something, that is amazing. But when I tell you it is very rare to find that connection and it is a blessing literally from God himself, that's not on everybody's card.
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you can say all day oh that's my friend that's my best oh my god i'm so in love with him that's my man and when shit get real i feel like it's a mixture though i feel like sometimes it's led by lust and then sometimes people be led by loneliness because she said that yeah because she said that in the interview too she was just like it's nothing wrong with me i'm just not staying with a man who i know is not the right one but then i actually left a comment on there what you said i never
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I see you leave comments. I be leaving comments sometimes. You got to catch me. Okay. But I was just like, yeah, I was like, it's a lot of women. I was like, it's nothing wrong with that. But it actually is. It's a lot of women who stay in situations because they don't want to be single. Like, they cool with having the wrong man because they feel like that's better than not having no man.
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And I'm just like, yeah, when Betty Wright said that, I skipped that part of the song. Because, girl, having a piece of a man is not better than having no man.
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I believe that you got to go through things in a relationship, but it shouldn't be to the point to where I'm depressed, I'm losing weight, I'm unhappy, I'm crying every day. It shouldn't be that much of a struggle. I don't believe in that.
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I feel like if you have two people who love each other, who are, you know, sure where they're at in life, they are healed, we can come together and make something great and there ain't got to be no struggle all the time. Because if it's a struggle, I feel like that's not necessarily struggle. That's incompatibility. Exactly. Y'all not compatible. Exactly.
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If you and a person is always at each other's neck 90% of the time, y'all just not compatible. It's not struggle love.
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But people do be trying to convince themselves, oh, we just going through a rough patch. Y'all been like this for the past four years. Ooh. Hey, but you know what's crazy? On the other end of that, I always say that. Do y'all remember when Michelle Obama did that interview? She said her and Barack were in a rough patch for eight years. She did, but they were married. Yeah.
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But I think a marriage is what you deal with in a marriage and what you're willing to try to work through with your partner in a marriage. To me, that's completely different from boyfriend, girlfriend, boyfriend, boyfriend, girlfriend, girlfriend. Yeah. It's completely different because you made a vow to this person.
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And if you truly do know them and you know the potential of y'all relationship or you know what it was and that y'all truly are just going through a trying time, it's okay to stay there and work through that with your partner.
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But if you are in a relationship with somebody and majority of the relationship has been bad and the smaller part of the relationship has been good, you just need to leave that nigga. And also, you hoe-ass niggas is not Barack.
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Because you got to be willing to put that work in. And that's why I think sometimes some women, like Halle Berry, be like, you know what? I'm actually cool on these. Because I feel like I can find something else where I don't have to put up with all of this struggle of and all of this drama to... stay in a healthy relationship or be in a healthy relationship.
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Who be moving on. Oh, yeah. But I said, I love that about you. Because everybody be like, oh, super. So just get another one.
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My nigga done made me mad. Maybe me. I be sad. But I be like, you know what? Maybe it's rent. It's cool.
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I'm not going to lie. Me, at 35, I am making the most money I ever made. I'm the finest I've ever been, the most confident. I'm just so sure of myself.
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And I feel like where I'm at at this point in my life, like I said, yeah, it be hurt when you get your heart broke, but it's also like I know what I have to offer, but I'm also surrounded by, like, and I have an amazing community, like, between my family and my friends. Like, I be straight with a man or without. If a man leave me, the quality of my life does not change because I'm that girl.
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Still going to be in my high rise. Still going to be traveling. Still very much that girl. So I think that that just comes with time and maturity and knowing who you are. Because I think a lot of times women are scared to leave a relationship because they don't know who they are without this man. They have created their identity within that man. So it's kind of like, well, who am I without him?
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That was a... I'm telling you. But that just comes with, like I said, time and maturity. Because when I seen Halle Berry talking, I was like, okay, I feel her. Me too.
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When I see her, I don't look at her and be like, oh my God, she's 60 and single. I be like, hey, do what makes you happy and do what works for you.
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And it ain't no time limit on getting married. If she want to get married, she can get married at 65.
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And I hate when men say that stuff too. Like try to make it seem like something is wrong with the woman. Because niggas is literally the easiest thing to get. It's not hard to get niggas. It's not hard to get a nigga. If somebody is single, trust and believe it ain't because it's hard for her to get one.
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But it's easy. That's what I'm saying. Like, if women are single, it is not because they can't get a man. Right. People got to stop projecting it. Uh-huh. Y'all, we didn't even talk about the bed topic. It was dirty. It was dirty talk. Oh, shit. Oh, shit. Oh, we didn't. Because I was going to say, with you being celibate, do you do, like, phone sex and dirty stuff?
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But, like, what a little, like, FaceTime, you know, you playing with yourself.
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You don't be turning the shrimp to a lobster on FaceTime.
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You do got to be careful. I'm not going to lie. I really don't like send pictures and stuff like all, like I used to. Like, I feel like when I used to, like, start talking to a guy, like, I wouldn't care. I'm like, I'm fine. But because I always used to feel like, okay, if my news leak, my shit lit. So it don't matter anyway.
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But now I just feel like, not that I would be horrified, but I'd be like, I just don't want that to be out there.
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Yeah, like, I just don't want that to be out there. So I get it.
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But that's why you got to deal with it. No faith, no case. Yeah, but you got to deal with men who have something to lose, too.
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I think... 95% of the time when we see men doing that revenge porn, they posting to women because they don't got shit to lose and they be wanting the clout.
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Do y'all remember a long time ago when Black Tana was dating that guy and he was, like, taking pictures in Rob's robe? It was, like, all in her house.
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It was just so crazy. But that's how it be. Most of the time when you see, because he was really fine. I remember him being really, really fine. But it was like most of the time when you see like a fine dude or something, they be chasing after us.
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So that's why I was like, getting the man, it ain't that serious.
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Did you forget? They do be forgetting. They do be forgetting. They be having, they be thinking they bigger than the program.
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I had a man chase me down for three years. And I finally decided to... And I was just like, you... I will beat your ass.
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Is you cool? Bruh! When I think about that shit, I be like, what?
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I mean, when I went back to our first DM, he had been in my DMs for three years. And I was always just playing and, like, not... But I always say, when you do, it be them niggas, they be having a vendetta against you. Like, if you carve them for a long time, don't never deal with no nigga. I heard that before. Yes, I truly believe that.
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Don't ever deal with a man who been trying to holler at you and you been carving him for years.
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Because he is going to make it his personal mission. To her trophy.
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Oh, I followed him. I liked a few pictures, and then I posted a fine-ass video on my story, and he fell right into my trap. It's so easy. Go so easy. Baby, easy. I was like, it was funny because I screenshotted his page, and I sent it to my best friend. I said, ooh, I want him.
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No. Absolutely not. If it's over, baby, it's over for a reason. Let it go. I used to do that, but now, no. Like, when I'm done, done with you... Like, if we in limbo, then that's different. But I'm talking about really being done with somebody. Like, we broke up. I haven't talked to you for six months. I haven't talked to you for a year. No, it's... It's a wrap.
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And I think you just got to always keep in mind, why did y'all break up? A lot of the time, I think that if people sit and they reflect on why it didn't work out the first time, then you realize it's not worth revisiting. And I think a man, too, and an ex, and then y'all broken up for a long time. Now, sometimes it does work out. But most of the time, they come in just to waste time.
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Whatever situation that they were dealing with when y'all broke up didn't work out. So they're just coming back to something that they know that's comfortable until they find something else. They finna play in your face again. Always. Always. I've learned that every time that I used to go back with my ex, it was just so he could play in my face again. It was comfortable.
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We didn't have to start from square one. It wasn't the getting to know each other phase. It was like we could just go in and we fucking already. We get to skip all the booze. Yeah, so I just think they be just trying to get a shortcut and it's something fun to do. It's something to do until the girl that they was messing with come back around or they find somebody that they really, really want.
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I agree with that. That's a good point because I feel like people say that about women too. Like everybody be saying, oh, every girl like girls. But then how do y'all feel about the girls? Because going back to what we was just talking about, how do y'all feel about the girls that go and date women because she don't be working out with a man? They're not really gay for real.
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It just be peaceful going to sleep and you ain't got to worry about what a nigga doing. You ain't got to check in. Because it do be like that.
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Because, like, when the relationship be good, it be fun. It be a good time. But once you get to that point to where you worried about what he doing, he worried about what you doing, y'all at odds all the time, that's when stuff gets stressful. Like, I don't mind being in a relationship. And, you know, we're doing what we have to do because it's not stressful.
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But once it gets to that point to where it's more stress than it is fun, I gots to go.
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I agree. I gots to go. Okay, so item of the week. What we got this week, Drea? Oh, item of the week, of course, MuseBeautyCollection.com. Make sure you get your lip glosses, lip liners, matte liquid lipsticks, and jelly blushes. Oh, and I have on a lip plumper. Because I said I was going to start telling y'all my lip of the week. So, yeah, I have on the Chestnut lip liner.
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I have on the It's Giving lip gloss and the Plump It Up lip plumper. So, yeah, go to MuseBeautyCollection.com. They look good and juicy. Thanks, girl. You're welcome. I do what I can. Period. Okay. And per usual, y'all know I got to shout out Dee Dee with my little unit, my glueless unit. I be popping this motherfucker on and off.
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So if you need a glueless unit, bundles, all that, go to richlookhair.com. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole. Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of the Week. But do you have a product or something that you want to promote and you want it featured on Poor Minds? Your opportunity is here. Period.
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If you have an item or you have a business and you want to get it promoted, we are now having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if you would like to get your product featured for Item of the Week, all you need to do is send an email to itemoftheweekpm at gmail.com. That's I-T-E-M O-F-T-H-E-W-E-E-K-P-M at gmail.com. Send us an email, and we'll work it out. We're going to figure it out.
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Get your product. Get your business sponsored. And, yeah, make you some money. We love to support a small business now. And a black business at that. But, I mean, it can be anybody. We don't discriminate. Uh-uh. Any business is welcome. So now it's time to get into the bop. The bop. The bop. The bop. Bow, bow, bow, bow, bow, period. What bop did I choose?
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So the bop of the week is like whatever song you've been listening to this week, what's on your playlist, what you've been riding to, jamming to. So I'm an R&B girlie. Y'all know I love to find new artists that nobody ever heard of. Y'all, this is such a good song. I love when I find good stuff. So, his name is Cinkmani. C-I-N-Q-U-E-M-A-N-I. And he has a song called Give You My Love.
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It's so soulful. I love a good love record. You know what I'm saying? I love... Oh, my gosh. It's such a good song. Yeah, so what's your bop of the week? Okay, my bop of the week. Pull it up. What you got for us? I know you be jamming.
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It gives that you be in the mirror like twerking, cutting up.
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I love Santana. Now, that video of y'all walking down the street, why you had that T-shirt on like that? Cutting up.
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No, you don't have to play it. You don't have to play it.
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Good at that. Especially, like, if y'all got the shades on or something. Like, I can see that.
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Not that y'all look alike in the face, but, like, how y'all walk and talk and the mannerisms. Like, I can see that.
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Okay, what's your bop, Drea? Okay, so my bop is this song called Baroque by Chef G. He like a New York rapper. Okay. You know, I really used to like Pop Smoke. R.I.P. to Pop Smoke. R.I.P. So fine. R.I.P. to Pop Smoke. But I was devastated when Pop Smoke died because I felt like he was really like on the brink of having a huge career. It was so off of him, so stupid.
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It was over something so stupid. And he really used to make hits. And, like, I don't know. I just love the way New York niggas make music. I love they little sound. Well, he think I would shake the room.
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I can't even talk about it. I know. He had so many good songs. So, yeah.
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Okay. So, it's called Brokey by Chef G. Uh-huh. I'm going to have to check that out. Yes. You got to check his music out, though.
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Yes. Let me ask y'all a question. What do y'all think about that new rapper, the white girl, Georgiana? What do y'all think about her? Uh-huh. Yeah.
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I heard the song. I wasn't liking it, but with Glorilla verse, I was like, I hear it now.
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Is that the only song that she has? I mean, honestly, she has more, but I've never listened to any of them.
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He is a cute little YN. You know what I'm saying? Not a little YN. Is he? Would he be considered a YN? I'm just old. That's my understanding. What's a YN? A young nigga.
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Okay, so yeah, I don't know exactly. How old is Duke Dennis, y'all? I don't think he's early 20s. I don't think he's early 20s. I think he's like late 20s.
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Oh, you know who I like? Oh. What's that basketball player that was in Kendrick Lamar video? The Not Like Us video? What's his name, y'all? Lamar? What's his name? DeMar DeRozan. Oh, okay. I like him. He real quiet. He talks about, like, mental health. I love that. I love an emotionally intelligent man.
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Oh, yeah. He's 35. He don't be in my bed. I got to look him up, too. You know how you always see athletes that always be dating the IG girls? He is just not like that. He's very mature. He talks about mental health a lot. He wrote a book.
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He be out the way. He be out... I love a man that's out the way. What's his name? DeMar DeRozan. Okay, I got to look him up.
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Yeah, I love his personality. He is so funny. Like, he seem like he's such a good time to be around. Every time I see videos of him. Yeah, I do. Who your celebrity crush? I don't know. I don't even think I have one. That I'm just like, ooh, he just... You like his wife. Grumpy. I think it's more about a vibe, though, because I'm not a girl that's, like, into, like, looks, looks like that.
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I just like people vibe. Yeah. So it don't necessarily got to be somebody who you think is, like, fine. You just probably, like, like how they carry themselves. Yeah, I don't know. I feel like I would have to sit and think about it. Like, for real, though, y'all. Like, I'm really trying to think, and nobody's coming to the forefront of my mind.
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Because the person I used to have a celebrity crush on, I would never.
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We gonna move on. We gonna tell you when the cameras turn off. Cause you out of fucking pocket for making that fucking baby. That's what he be doing. Okay. He's so awesome.
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Ever since I was a little girl, I've loved being on camera, entertaining myself and everybody around me by sharing my thoughts and opinions on anything pop culture. For the past few years, I've heard your requests, but now it's finally time to deliver.
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It's the Pour Your Heart Out segment. If you want your question answered on the show, make sure you email us at askpoorminds at gmail.com. If you are a Patreon member, you get to skip the line, so make sure you put that in the header. And do you give good advice?
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I think you do. I can tell. Okay, so go ahead, Drea. We got question number one. Okay. Hey, Lex and Drea. I have been binge watching y'all, and now I need my favorite auntie's advice. I'm a gay male, if that matters, and the glue of my friend group, the one who keeps everyone connected. My friends always come to me for advice and comfort. 2023 was rough.
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I left Atlanta, moved back to Florida, and took a break from my content creator life to focus on my mental health. Since then, two friends have been dissing. One has a whole new crew and the other ignores me but stays out with others. P.S. She's boy crazy and throwing shady jabs lately. Am I overthinking it? Or have we just outgrown each other now that I'm no longer their comfort source? P.S.
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I agree. I feel like you definitely probably have just outgrown them and you do have to, you have to pay attention to like who check on you when you're going through stuff. If both of those people were really distant while you was going through your rough patch, do you really want to be that cool with them like that? You know what I mean?
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Because they have proven themselves to not be people that's there that you can depend on when life get rough. It seemed like maybe they're the type of friends where, like, when everything is all good and y'all having fun... They there and they down for the ride. But then as soon as you got some real shit going on, they being decent. So I wouldn't even want those type of friends.
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Because as you get older in life, you start to realize those are not people that are sustainable to be your friends for the long term anyway. So yeah, I would just... Keep it moving, personally. But I get it. Sometimes you've put a lot into relationships and you want to try to see if you can rekindle. So I do think big sexy is right. You can't see, but... Yeah.
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But I think they kind of have showed you who they are.
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Okay, question number two. Question number two. Hey, Lexandrea. I'm a 38-year-old lesbian with a child. His other parent is also in the community and he identifies as pansexual. Though I fully don't get what that means, so I just say bisexual. We were never in a real relationship, just a lavender marriage. Since turning 33, things have changed for me.
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I had a serious breakup with someone I thought I'd marry, but she wasn't on the same page. Now years later, she suddenly wants everything I wanted back then, but with someone else. It used to hurt, but now I don't feel the same, and I don't know why. I'm in a new relationship with a woman, and while her head game is phenomenal, we go months without sex.
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When we do have it, she focuses mostly on giving me head. Not complaining, but my body is changing. My vagina keeps... jumping like it's craving something.
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Fingers, hands, straps, bigger toys, nothing feels like enough. My friends straight up tell me, girl, your pussy is throbbing because it wants a real dick. I love my girl and I don't want to leave her, but I feel unhappier than usual. Lately, when men flirt with me, I actually blush. Something I never used to do. It's making me uncomfortable and I don't know what to do.
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And she did say it's craving something inside. Fingers, hand straps, bigger toys. So why don't you try that with your partner first? Because it's craving something. I think it's so crazy when people are in relationships and they don't speak up about what they want sexually. If this is somebody that you love and you love your girl and you want to be with her, have conversations.
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I believe 100%. I feel like if a woman can be, I believe a man can be. Because I think it's more so of human traits. I think in my younger years, I used to try to separate people. Like, obviously, there's differences of how women think versus how men think. But there's certain things that are just human traits. If a woman can, like... a woman and a man. A man can too.
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Hey, this is not working for me sexually. I'm feeling like I want to... So can we try this in the bedroom? So I think it deserves... Your partner deserves to have a conversation. And maybe, see, you might not be craving dick. You might just be craving a toy or something.
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And I think that when you're flirting with men and you're actually blushing, I think it's more so because you're wanting that attention that maybe you're not getting at home. A lot of times people confuse certain feelings for other things that's not really what's there and what's happening.
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So I think maybe have a conversation with your partner and see what y'all can figure out in the bedroom between y'all. And then if y'all are trying different things and you're still not satisfied, that's when you can be like, okay, something else is going on here.
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I feel like, yeah, maybe you just be wanting that dick. That's what I think. I think she just really want that dick.
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I don't know. I just feel like she kept saying all of these nice things about the girl, but then it was a lot of buts. But, but, but. I feel like if it's that many buts, you just ain't really happy in that situation.
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Yeah, you're not happy sexually, so. And she said they go months without sex. And that's what I'm saying. Who the fuck trying to do that in a relationship? In a relationship?
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Godspeed and good luck. You have been through a lot. Your child got a pansexual daddy and a lavender man. Girl, I don't know what none of them got. I don't even know what pansexual means.
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Yeah. Okay, okay. They're not attracted to a gender. They're attracted to people.
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All right, Big Sexy. Let the people know what you got coming up, where they can find you, all that good stuff.
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We got to do one the week and make sure it's the week the episode is up.
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Yeah, you know it's coming. Well, we've definitely been wanting you on the show for a while, so I'm glad we made it happen. Thank y'all so much. Yes, we love you so much, and we'll see y'all next week.
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Bye, y'all. Y'all make sure y'all share the content, like, subscribe, follow, all that good stuff. And let me say this before we close out. Y'all, there is one Twitter account that is connected to poor minds. It's P-O-U-R.
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I think that's human nature to sometimes be attracted to both. And as me, as like... Have I been with a woman before? Yes. But do I like it? Absolutely not. And I will never do it again. There's nothing about a woman... I just don't... But I know... I have friends, women, that are bisexual.
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underscore m-i-n-d-s y'all are tagging the wrong poor minds page if you see at poor minds with no underscore that is a fake page do not follow that page okay they blocked me andrea and the poor minds page on both so we only have one instagram one Twitter, one TikTok. It is P-O-U-R underscore M-I-N-D-S. All right? And we got a hella fake Facebook page. Oh, the Facebook page.
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The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the least amount of followers. The one that's ours got the least amount of followers. That's not us. Got like 250,000 followers. But y'all know it's fake if you actually look at the content. Because the caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English. Because their captions are like. Bamba Claus.
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Blah, blah. Booyah, booyah, booyah. Like, that's literally what the captions mean. I like that DDG's Bamba Claude.
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It's on a star for a sign. What's the reason why? Always on my mind. Baby, when I see you.
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Baby, when I. When I might walk by. So I got to be right on time. When I see you. I scribble X and O's in my notebook.
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I have a friend that is bisexual, and she only dates bisexual men. So, I feel like it's very possible to like both. I agree. I think it's possible, too. Because, I mean, when I was younger, I dated, I used to date women when I was younger. Ooh! As I've gotten older, though, I've realized it's a little too much estrogen for me in one household.
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So it's just not for me, and I would prefer to stick with men. But I definitely think you could like both, because even still, now that I don't necessarily deal with women anymore, I see women all the time, and I be like, damn, she fine as hell. You don't need that cooch. I don't, because I never really... You know, I don't.
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And that's how I knew I wasn't really, like, bout it for real, because I was never that into eating coochie.
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So, I want to talk about, in the beginning, like, when you, because you and Jada used to be friends, correct? My granddad and my granddad! Yes.
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So, if you are on social media, you know who this person is.
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Yeah, y'all were... But I'm glad to hear that because, you know, a lot of times you talk to people and they be like, oh, I don't care. They didn't make me. And so it's good to see that you are still able to talk highly about her and y'all's friendship.
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Like, you are bad as fuck. Gorgeous. You're a virgin. You bad as hell. You a boss. Like, it's just a lot. And then on top of that, who you are. Some people just want you because of who you are outside of that.
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Those are her first, like, big spending pair of heels. And he told her to throw them away, and she was like, I spent my last on these. And, you know, I was almost evicted. So, I can't throw these shoes away. So, not saying to spend your last. I wouldn't say do that. But my budget, I don't really have a budget. I just be like, now I'm more careful with my spending.
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Now, when I first got into it, I was getting every damn thing. But now I'm just really careful because I feel like, especially in the times we in, child, you got to hold on to your money, honey. So, and I like a little budget, honey. Like, this bag right here is worth $7,000, $8,000 now. And I got her for $1,900. Yeah. I know that's right.
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It looks like the new collection. Yeah, it does. This the vintage one under Marc Jacobs. I know that's right. So you don't have a budget now on what you spend a month on clothes? Give me a ballpark figure. I would say a month. Right. I would say now I'm looking at either two bags a month that I really want or about $10,000 a month. Okay. It used to be.
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You talking about, see, that's how I know this couch got money. Girl, I'm talking about, okay, baby. Right, okay, right. I mean, because I feel like. Girl, you spend money on clothes, too. I do. I like clothes and a little shoe. Baby, I'm on fashion. The shoe matters. The shoe matters.
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Damn, that Fashion Nova with Klarna. But y'all know what's funny? Everybody has Klarna now. Even like Givenchy and stuff. They be having Klarna too. I didn't get that shark boot. That's why everybody got shark boots now. Oh my gosh. So do you offer styling to people? You know what? I do want to start doing it. I think you should.
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Like one, it ain't even got to be a celebrity. It can just be a girl that ain't got no budget and be like, here's my car. Go to the mall and get what you need. And you know, it's not going to be designer every time. Like I tell people, Be comfortable in whatever your budget is. Mm-hmm. It's some people out here you would never tell. Like, look at this dress, honey. You would never tell. Mm-hmm.
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Okay, swings, that shape. You would never know. Paris Fashion Week. Yes, ma'am. You would just never be able to tell. Like, it looks like a designer piece. It's how you accessorize it, your earrings, everything. You know, I got them in me too, so now.
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I'm going to do shoes. Yeah. I'm going to do shoes every time because I feel like shoes can be a statement.
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You know, make it, poke it out. But I think styling is like, you do hair so good. Thank you. But I also think that's another thing that you can like dip into because the girls need you. Yeah. On the red carpet. We ain't made it to the red carpet yet, but I get so upset when I see these girls. I know y'all got the money. Yes. And they be the main ones that got them under me.
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Yes, they don't want to pay for a little styling. Do they be thinking that they can put their shit on theyself? And no, boo-boo. They be on Clorna and Fashion Nova Lux with me. Right. See, Fashion Nova Lux do be having some cute stuff. They do now. They do. I'm a high-low girl. Like, I really believe in mixing. Yeah, mix your pieces. I feel like you can't go wrong with it. You got a question?
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She gives a good intro. That's a narration right there, girl. I braced it down. First of all, how are you? I'm doing good. How you doing? I am great. Let me tell you, I always do this. I know the listeners be like, Legs, please give me a break. When I see people in person and it gives everything that it gives on mine, I just be like, chef's kiss. I mean, it look like you got on the Paris filter.
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So I don't know if this was something I made up in my head. So I have been following your career for a very long time. I feel like there was one time you did like a live on Instagram or something and you said like you prefer having regular clients over celebrity clients. Yes. And I actually, I hear that from a lot of people. I've been going to the same girl for years.
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Shout out to Needy, Rich Look Hair. I've been going to her for years. And when I tell you she does hair down and she was like, honestly, my best clients are just regular working girls. So I think this is like a teaching moment, too. So I think a lot of people who get in the game, the hair game or the styling game or nails, feet, whatever you do, they want them celebrity clients so bad.
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So talk to the people about having celebrity clients and the downside of it versus, you know, having regular clientele and serving them properly. Yeah. Girl, don't go after them celebrities, girl. They're going to come after you. So when you come into business and you're just like, ooh, I want a celebrity, uh-uh. Because one thing about it, the everyday clients are the ones paying your bills.
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They the ones getting, you know, you have options with the everyday clients. The celebrity clients, they're always going to find someone else. And I had to learn that because I... I kind of got tired of doing my regular everyday clients. And I would say, like, 2017 to 2019, I was just, like, straight traveling. And when I got done and came back, those clients, they had found another stylist.
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And so I was like, well, damn. You know, y'all forgot about me. You know, I was texting them. I'm back. You know, they was like, oh, girl, Sinead ain't doing my hair, you know.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Yes, right? And so, you know, I was just like, well, damn. You know, so I always have your... everyday working clients over your celebrities. And then with your celebrities, sometimes they can take months to pay you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Right, now. They be like, net 90s and net 60s. No, I need a net now, honey. I did your hair, now I need to be paid now.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And you know, I have to start taxing their asses. They had interest rates and waiting fees. Yeah. I need my money fees and rent fees and shit, okay?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
but yes I do have a question so you always have made funny videos online as well like obviously we know you gonna serve a look makeup gonna be tea body tea everything but you have a really really good personality too and I remember you from back in the day we used to make the funny videos with your wig off yes With the wig, look.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I miss them days, right? Oh, my God. Yes, girl. I remember you from back in the day. So, do you feel like your personality has helped at all with building your clientele? Okay. Honestly, um... I would say 60% of your clients is going to come at you for your personality because you have to think about it. People are going through things.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Like when they come and sit in my chair, they're going to vent about their husband, you know, what they done did, you know, or their job and stuff. So they need a laugh. They want to look good too, but they need a laugh to just relax and just, you know, let it all out. Child don't cry with clients, laugh with clients. And they be really needing that. They need that healing, you know, time.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
So, yeah. I think that's important because I always say that going to your hairstylist is like therapy. Right. Especially if you got a good one that you cool with. Right. For sure. You leave just feeling so refreshed and like a weight is lifted off your shoulders and you look cute. It's like two in one. Yes. And some of these hairstylists, they be so mean. They don't want you to talk. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Okay, $25. Add on. It's so crazy because, like I said, I've been going to Didi for years. Didi knows all my business. Me and Didi talks down. And I think that's a part of the experience. I actually made a TikTok video a while back. And look, y'all, we know you can't be in the salon until you get that paper.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
What? Oh, my God. the exact same in person. Girl, y'all, it's always the pretty girls. Like, yes, with the compliments. Look, amazing. Thank you so much. Take one to know one. Yes, it does. Okay, so I like to start at the beginning. Just for the people that are tuned in who aren't familiar with you and don't know who you are. So you started off as a hairstylist. Yes. Now, do you have your license?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I said we need to bring that salon feeling back.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
We used to go to salon and it's three, four of us in there. We got a good show playing. We laughing. We talking. It's like a lot of times, like... If you go to a salon, it's only you in there, which is cool if y'all have a relationship. But I like to be with other girls. Me too. And we talking and we chatting it up. We got poor minds.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I think we need that salon feel. Oh, I was just talking about that. Yes. The suites really messed up the industry. Because everybody have suites now. You can't even learn nothing. Like, from other hairstylists, you know, it was like when I was coming up at the salon with my aunt, it was five of us and I loved it. Like, it was a whole reality show.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You have these two stylists arguing and, you know, a client, you know. It was so, so good. So fun. It felt like community. Yes, and so fun, right? It's like a family. I feel like that's what they talk about with Beyonce a lot. Like how her mom had the salon and she grew up in the salon performing. It's just so many memories. Like growing up, I used to love going to the salon with my mom. Me too.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I used to be like, ooh, let me see what everybody getting. And they get that little finger wave, like French rolls. The snatch back ponytail. The baddest. Right. But you know, I do feel that. But you know, these days, I definitely be trying to get in and out. Like, if you got three people ahead of me, let me know when you almost done, and then I'm going to pull up. Yeah. Yeah, child.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
So I'm saying, no, I say all that to say it's a lot of people who are popular and they're not virgins, but people want them because of who they are. So the fact that that busty ain't been busted wide open. Right. You a baddie.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You know, ooh, let me tell you, back in the 2010s, my aunt, she would have like, 15, 20 people. Girl. Girl, I was next. I was next. And you know, she'll be over there and she had two assistants. When I tell you she'll come in at like 9 in the morning, it'll be like a line of people waiting on her. She'll get their asses in and out. Ooh.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Oh, yes, she's thousands of dollars a day. I know that's right. That's good, yes, but I love somebody who can get you in and out because some hairstylists, they be slow because you'll be the only one there and then you'll still be there for like six, seven hours. You'll be there for two, three days and you'll be like that Damn.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I'm just kidding. Come back in the morning so I can finish that. Right. Uh-uh. I need now. Shit. What you going to take off? Right. I need some percentages taken off. Right. Go ahead. Go ahead, Dre. I don't know if you have another question. I was going to get into the first topic. Oh, yeah. One more question. Who was your, like, favorite celebrity client? Like, you was like, oh, I love you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Not me and Ty. Ooh. I don't know. I mean, she unfollowed me. But you know what? I always got love for Megan, honestly. Oh, Megan unfollowed you? Yes. We... One thing about Megan and Ty, she was so fun to work with. And... She gets you the best gifts, like birthday gifts, Christmas gifts, like that girl. I don't know if it's an Aquarius thing, but Aquarius, they get really good gifts.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And she, like, gave you some really, really good gifts. She was very fun. Even when, like, around the time I was working with her, her mom had just passed away. You would never be able to know because she was always so happy, upbeat. She never let nobody see her cry. You know what I'm saying? So I had a really good time working with her. When did she unfollow you? This is like 2021.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I think because her best friend was in Kelsey. They was going at it online. And I had said something on the blog. I don't know if she's seen it. But I was just like, I don't like nobody being ganged up on. Yeah. And so I was just like, yes, Kelsey, stand up for yourself. You know, but it wasn't. What? What? But you know what? Because I was like, what was said? But, ooh, I don't know, friend.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I probably would have followed you, too. It was my fault, honestly. Okay. You know, and that's when I really, like, slowed down from really commenting on stuff. Yeah. Because she probably took that as, like, damn, bitch, like, I thought we was cool. Yeah. But... And I think, too, everything she went through, she was probably doing a cleanse of a lot of stuff that she was seeing on my phone.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I ain't got my license yet. Are you lying? But you know what's crazy about that? I would have never guessed. You know, she kind of spit it out to you. She said, I ain't got my license, honey. Oh, my God.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Probably not personal. Because she probably knows your personality.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Oh, I know they're joking, but still, I'm Eminem.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And I didn't really understand what she was going through, but, like, now looking back at it, she was going through a lot. Yeah, she had a lot going on. Yes. Shout out to Meg. Shout out to Meg, honey. You kill me in fashion week. I see your looks. You know, yeah, her stylist is killing shit. Yes, honey. What was that? She was in Paris? Yeah, in Paris and in Japan and stuff, and she look amazing.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Her body look good. Mm-hmm. She got me motivated going to the gym, child. Not me, but... I love the gym. Hey, you ain't in that gym, girl.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I do go to the gym, but I be in there walking on a treadmill.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I be up in there sweating bullets. Me too. On that stair master. Girl, on the stair master.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Oh, you mean business. I be... Do you do it on like one incline or do you switch it up? I do level seven for 45 minutes straight and I burn like 500 calories. Oof. And, girl, when I get up off that motherfucker, girl, I be late the hell out. But, body T, I seen the stomach. Ooh, thank you, girl. Yeah, very flat. Very flat. What's up, y'all? It's your girl Lex P. And it's your girl Dre Nicole.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
But you know, like you said, the best of the best don't normally have their license. It's just like a piece of paper to me, honestly. Okay. Because my aunt, who has a license, like, she gave me the hours. I just never went to take the test. Okay. If that makes sense. So, I learned everything from her. So, it's like, child, I can literally take the test and go past it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And y'all know we are some hygiene girlies, so we are here to tell y'all about Good Wife. Yes, y'all. Y'all been needing a little more than toilet paper. You got to use a little wipe back there when you done. That's why I love Good Wipes because they hypoallergenic and they come in so many different scents like shea cocoa, lavender, botanical blue. I love that. And they're free of harsh chemicals.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You know what I'm saying? So if you need some wipes other than toilet paper, what you're going to do is go to your local grocery store like a Target, Kroger, or if you're more of an online shopper, it's on Amazon. So get you some Good Wipes, girl. If you want to upgrade your restroom ritual, you can grab good wipes at Target, Walmart, Kroger, and most local grocery stores.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Just head to the toilet paper aisle and look for the bright aqua, rose, and emerald packages. They're also available on Amazon if you're more of an online shopper.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
and it's your girl Dre Nicole and we have a very exciting announcement today we have a brand new show dropping yeah so we have a brand new show dropping y'all on patreon it's gonna air on September 2nd and it's called poor chronicles we're gonna be doing so much stuff on there we're gonna be doing challenges if you can't go to bella no shade where the hell could you go
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
If you can't go to Bella Noche, where the hell can you go? We're going to be doing talk to me, chit chat with me. We're going to be spilling a little tea. Oh, my God. No, you didn't. Oh, my God. Everything y'all been wanting to see, we gonna be doing it right here on Patreon. Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we finna give it to y'all every single Monday. And it's gonna be a time.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Y'all know Poor Minds has grown into its own little entity. Well, we gonna have a lot of fun still over here at Poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in September 2nd. It's going down. Stay tuned.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
want to get into the first topic we're gonna play a game called what's the real gag okay so we're gonna get into the game and we basically gonna read you some questions you either have to tell us a secret Or you can take a sip. Okay. Or you'll drink. I think they need another one. Hell yeah. I hear them ice cubes. Woo! Right. Clack-a-la-clack. I do.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Right. Okay. Drinking all that juice. A little woozy, honey. Oh, yeah. What do you like? What do you prefer? How do you prefer to be addressed? Like they, them. Say he, she. You can say, okay. It's not because you're just, you know, respectful, but I don't care.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I'm like, bro. Look, look, right. Look, day, look. Okay, okay. I don't get the day shit. I just don't. I don't get it. Okay. I do respect my friends. Like, if they want to be called she, she all day, honey. Yeah. Whatever. But day, I be like, I had a friend who, she was like, I'm day. I said, oh, you got a twin, bitch?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Of course. So when you don't have your license, that means you can't wash hair with your package. Yeah, you can't shampoo hair. When State Boy come, we got to run. Oh, my God. It's out the door. And you can't work in a salon either. Yeah, you can't really work in a salon either. So I got to come washed. Uh-huh, you already got washed and vaporized.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Right. Okay, girl. Uh-uh, right, girl, please. Because we were trying to make sure we were being, you know, respectful and correct. Yeah, I appreciate that, but you know. Okay, girl, because I'm like, okay, because she. Right. Give her another drink. That's my girl. Yeah, period. Okay, we can start the game because she do got a little bit. Okay, cool. So, question number one.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
The worst wig install I have ever seen on a celebrity.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Girl, that's a lot of thinking, girl. We got time. I seen some bad wigs. Mm-hmm. I can think of a few. I can, too. Who you thinking? Okay. Honestly, I feel y'all. Okay. Kim Zosiac, that wig was terrible. Still. Yeah, you know, she like them pushback wigs, honey. Yeah. And they used to be stacked like a mountain on top of that wig, honey. Appalachian mountains.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I agree with that one. I don't know. Let me, bad wigs. Ooh. Who had a bad wig? Shit, I done had a couple of bad damn wigs. I had one too, bitch. I had a few. It's on, y'all can look on it. It's on the top of the menu. Dre still got my bad wig. I do have it in my closet. You know what? I would say the worst wig I ever seen, this is the BET Awards, what was that, 2023? And Diamond.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I'm sorry, Crying Mile Diamond. You know, I don't think she was, you know, she was liberty. Well, you know, she's a rapper, so. She came in there looking like little scrappy, she was a little scrappy, honey. Lady Kirby looking like, I can tell you that, honey. And I said, whoa, what happened in that car, girl? You know. That damn wig was just everywhere. It was just an everyday wig, okay?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I get it, though. I get it. Sometimes you have them nice.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I'm about to be Googling it. I can't wait to see your wig. Who is one influencer you think is overhyped? Who is one influencer I think is overhyped?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
What am I going to think if I have one at school? Oh, I got one. I got one. Let me take a sip. Okay.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Alex Earl. Who is that? So she's like a... I don't even know.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Oh, okay. But on TikTok. And it's no offense to her. I just don't get the thing about her. And I mean, she's always on all the beauty brand trips, the tarts, the things, and this and that. And I just, I don't... Yeah. It doesn't give what it's supposed to give for me. I can't believe y'all don't know who Alex Earl is. You're not a TikTok scroller, but I thought you were a TikTok scroller.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
But, you know, I still shampoo my girls. Hell, no. Okay, okay. But when Stable World come try, you know, we just... You be sneaking in shoes for us.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I don't know Earl. Let me pull up the picture so y'all can see her. Girl, Alex Earl. Let me see. Y'all have never seen this girl? At first I was going to say, is that a singer? Y'all never seen her? I ain't never seen her. Oh yeah, she's got like millions and millions and millions of followers on TikTok. And what does she do? She just makes videos, get ready with me, beauty stuff.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Oh, just everything. She's dating like a football player, but that came after she was already popular. She's a beautiful girl, but it's just giving like, okay. Mm-hmm. But you know who one influencer I think should be way bigger? Since we're being negative, we got to cancel out what I said. Clark. I love Clark. I love Clark, too. Clark is a good one. Clark who? Her name is Clark.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
She's real popular on TikTok, and she's a young black girl. She graduated from, I think, NYU. I feel like I'm in my 50s talking about Clark. Who? I got caught up with the girl. Well, she's young. She's like 22. She just graduated, I think, from like NYU or Columbia, one of those schools up there. And she's about to go to law school. But yeah, girl, she was about a million dollar house.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
In Chicago, right? Oh, Clark, you doing your thing. No, she doing her thing. Yes, we love you. Molly love you. She really is. So, okay, let's see. Question number three. Have you ever charged someone extra just because they got on your nerves? Oh, yes, I did. I know that's right. They got on my last motherfucking nerve.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
They came in. It wasn't a celebrity. It was just a regular client. And this is, like, one of my regulars turning. Girl, I'm sorry to spill your tea, Tiff. Tiffany came, her ass in that damn shop. I did some blonde hair. It was, like, the blonde color, uh, honey, you know, highlights. Bitch, like, Sierra highlights. And then she gonna say, oh, I think I wanna, I changed my mind to jet black. Oh.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Yes. I was already doing it. Okay, so talk about when you first started doing hair. Like, how old were you? Like, when did you start doing hair? So, I was... This was back in 2012. I was working at TGR Fridays. Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I would have charged extra, too, though. What you mean you changed your mind? Tiff? Yeah. Girl, and Tiff didn't know. I had to go outside for about 15 minutes to cool down, because I was like, girl, I done did this color for three days straight, like, girl. Mm-hmm. And I came in, and I did her hair, and I charged her ass extra. I know that's right. Mm-hmm. That's valid. Because that makes sense.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Like, you wasting my time. Right. Like, tell me that. Yes, and that was some good color. But you know, I did make a wig out of that hair, so. Mood. Tiff, look, look. I had to, girl. Okay, I'm going to skip that one, Drea. Okay. Who's the messiest person in your DMs? Ooh, the messiest person in my DMs.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
The messiest person in my DMs. If anybody ever seen me in Lex's DMs. We're going down. I would have to say me and my girl Perez. He keeps the mess going. Is that the one that be like, chill. Right, yes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
We get all the tea, and Perez know how to scoff for some tea. We get that tea, and we be talking about y'all asses. Oh, I talk about it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Hell yeah. Everybody do that shit. Nobody off. Right. I think everybody do that. I hate when bitches be, oh, you know, if it's not about the money, don't talk. Girl, please. Get your ass. You ain't got no money. Get out of there, motherfucker. Let me tell you what Kiki did. Girl, shit. Right. Where the money at? It's been all about the money. Right. Mm-hmm.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Okay, Dre, I think you should do one more, and then I'm going to do one more. Okay. And then we'll go to the topic topic. Okay. Give me something good, honey. I'm going to think about this one. Who is the most famous person that ever slid in your DMs? Oh, my God. Oh, I got to take a drink. That one, honey. I cannot. Oh, I said I was the open book, but let me close my book. Okay.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I'm running up to you now, honey. Oh, because, you know, just in case, honey. I know that's why. Oh, girl, let me take a whole glass of that. Oh, that tea is hot. I'm going to look at her. I'm going to grab that home as soon as you get up.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I worked at TGI Friday. You did? What? I used to be slanging them. Ooh, yeah, honey. You got so many stories. I worked there for two months. Okay. I thought you was sweet. It was just a little 90-day probationary period. Okay, okay, okay, okay. Yes, girl. So I was just, you know, I was busting tables and child, the bills were behind. So, you know, child repo status, everything, honey. Yes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Okay. All right. Last one. Last one. Okay. What is... Hold on. Wait. I don't want to read this. Okay. What's the pettiest reason you've unfollowed a celebrity that you knew in real life? The pettiest reason I unfollowed a celebrity in real life. Well, this ain't really petty. What's the girl's name? Lala Hathaway. Now, who that? Hold on, let me look. Laina Hathaway?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I thought she was a gospel singer or something like that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Oh, Laina Hathaway. Laina Hathaway? Let me look. Miss Hathaway. What did she do? You damn damn got away, honey. But it wasn't petty. It was because I did, I was late with her wigs now. I was late with them. Okay. She needed them for a show. And she disputed the payment, honey. It was like $5,000 something. She disputed the payment. I already sent the wigs out. Oh.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And so when the wigs got there, I said, Miss Layla, can you please send my wig? I never got them wigs back. Oh, she just went down J-Hut. I found her. Oh, she did?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Girl, that's a side part. Girl, that's my mother making wig from 2019, girl. She cut it to her molly. Ooh, I'm just playing. Okay. Girl, she look good though, but yeah, that's her ass. Oh, and she never gave the wigs back and you never got a payment? I disputed .com, honey, and the wigs are still in L.A. I don't know what I'm down with. I don't know if she got them. I'm going to find them hoes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Hell yeah, they over there. UPS, I don't know, girl. UPS lost and found. Did you at least win the dispute? I said, did you at least win the dispute? You know what? I was like, girl, you know what? I ain't even got that response to the dispute. Because I kind of took it like... I kind of, you know, was to blame for it. And so I was just like, you know, it's a business loss. And it is what it is.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Yeah. But that was a good week, too, girl. I was, like, taking my time, wouldn't me? Because, you know, celebrity, you be wanting to... Even with your regular clients, you know. But I was like, let me pin these curls up and da-da-da-da. And I was late with them. And she needed it for a performance. And so, yeah. Yeah. Unfortunately. Now, Layla, you know you out of line for this.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Because at least get them and send them back.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You will never work in this town again. Yes. That's what I would have said. That's low-key stealing. You a thief. Now, don't say that to that lady. Mm-hmm. Layla, girl, I still love you, girl, but I had blocked ass. I ain't even gonna talk about it. I blocked. Period. Girl, she said, whoa, face my face. No. I don't know, Layla. Right, Layla. She might take something if she come over here.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Right, you might have to hide your damn boots. Hide the boots, hell yeah. She gonna slide them boots in that bed somehow. Girl, she gonna sit on right back when she see the dog eat on everything.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
God, it's crazy. I'm going to say this. I'm tired of y'all with the Beyonce conspiracy theories about what y'all think she don't do. Obviously, y'all don't be knowing. We'll never know what she don't do. We'll never know. And two, so y'all know I got to report the negativity. There's a group of people online who are very mad because she's calling it the chitlin' circuit.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And they're saying if you're calling it the Chitlin Circuit, then you need to go to the places that Chitlin Circuits actually went to. So you need to be touching the corners of the states that are small cities that Chitlin Circuits actually toured. But they not going to have a venue big enough. That was the argument back. They don't have the capacity to hold it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
So, you know, I was like, let me start doing hair. And so I started doing the girl's hair at the TGI Fridays. And so like, that was my little side money. And so the managers and stuff, they kind of like, it kind of like overshadowed my work that I was really there for. And so I started being lazy, eating on the clock. And so they was just like, you fired.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And they're like, but your Beyonce created and generate revenue for these smaller towns or smaller states to start holding these artists and doing that. Because you want to be a pioneer? Be a pioneer. So it's been a lot of backlash of her naming it the Chitlin. I mean, yeah, but I also... Yeah. I'm not going to lie. I think Beyonce, I'm not going to lie.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I'm not mad at her for doing it this way, but I do believe, hell yeah, go to these cities and make these motherfuckers travel for you. We going to see who going to buy tickets then. Baby, because I would have been in Tuscaloosa.
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I would have hosted it for your ass. Yeah. I mean, I agree. That's fair. But then on the other hand, I just do always feel like people just always going to find something to complain about. Like, yeah, she calling it the chitlin' circuit tour, but I feel like it's not that deep to where people should be outraged. And Beyonce donates. You said it is.
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She does philanthropy with, no, but she has donated a lot of money to these smaller cities that have black rodeos. And so she has done her job. Chitlin in the church. Yeah, because I mean, it's all big cities. I understand that, but I still don't feel like people should be that goddamn outraged by it. You know, like people just be up in arms about everything. Yeah.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
With the chitlin', she could at least hit one little chitlin'. One small. You could hit one little chitlin'. Yeah. One little chitlin'. I mean, she going... Well, never mind. No, she ain't going nowhere. She not going nowhere. But like I said, I feel it on both ends, because like I said, I just really don't think... those cities have the capacity to hold.
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And the reason I say that, we went to Macon, Georgia. Macon, right outside of Atlanta for an 85 South show. That traffic, they couldn't do it. They didn't have enough people to direct the traffic. And this was for 85. And 85 is big, but obviously they're not Beyonce. So if a Macon can't handle 85, what you think a Birmingham or a Tuscaloosa is going to do with fucking Beyonce, bro?
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I mean, I'm not going to lie. I understand that's an Alabama game, but this is Beyonce, baby.
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Mm-hmm. Yeah. So, basically, Shay was saying, like, in Alabama, they can handle the capacity of, like, the roll tide, and it be a lot of people, and they can handle it. So, but I do agree. I feel like she could have found one little, at least one little city to do it. But I'm not mad. I'm going. Yeah. We gonna see, y'all. We gonna be there with our hats on and our cowboy boots.
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And so I said, damn, what the hell am I going to do now? So I just really stepped out on faith, like advertising on Craigslist, Instagram at the time, just kind of got started. And like, I was charging like $25, $30 to do Silk presses, sewing curls. Ooh, I wish you'd still charge $25, $30 now. Because now they're like $1,000. They be taxing. Yeah, exactly. Nowadays.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You know, I've been waiting on this moment, personally. Yeah. I grew up... We're going to get into topic number two. But topic number two, I wanted to talk about gaslighting yourself. Okay. Because we always talk about other people gaslighting us. But I think people never really talk about how sometimes we gaslight ourselves out of opportunities or... out of doing certain things in life.
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So, like, what do y'all think about gaslighting yourself? Do y'all think that that's something that people actually do? Well, I think we definitely gaslight ourselves out of situations. And I also think we gaslight ourselves when people are dealing with us. Yeah.
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So, I think sometimes, like, if you're in a relationship or a friendship or you're at work and you have a manager who is talking to you crazy and you're like... Well, you know, maybe he's stressed out or she's stressed out. And the only reason they're doing this is because, no, they're disrespectful as fuck. Yeah. And you need to check that shit.
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I think a lot of times we make excuses for other people out of love or you feel like you need this job. But I think we need to stop staying in spaces where we aren't felt valued. And I know I did that. I stayed at TGI Fridays for 10 years. They didn't value me. Right. Mm-hmm. You know what I'm saying? I think even at my job that I had, I was so good at my job and they fired me.
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Remember I walked to your house in my little bit to the side flats?
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And I was so sad I lost my job. I was sad too. I was so upset. But one thing about me, Andrea knows this about me. When I start anything, I don't care if I'm working at Burger King. I don't care if I'm at a Fortune 500 company. I'm giving my all. And I know, like, as a person who has, I run my own company now versus being a worker, we give so much to these jobs.
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And we have these people who treat us like, if you die, they're going to have somebody there tomorrow. So if you aren't appreciated, it's okay to move around from these spaces. If you have a friend who is treating you like you don't like to be treated, it's okay to move around from that friend, especially in relationships we do this. You will have a man or a woman who is talking crazy to you.
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Oh, he stress work. Stop making excuses for people because at the end of the day, there is no excuse to treat somebody bad, period. I agree, yeah. And treating people bad is a reflection of how your life is going. I've seen that quote. When you do people bad, it's because your life is bad, bitch, and leave me out. Right. You know, I learned from my mom not to take BS from people.
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Now, I used to put up with it, like, at jobs and stuff and give it my all, like you said. But I guess because it happened so much, now I'm like, girl... Who you talking to? Yeah. And it's like, girl, you, let me cut you off. You know what you did. Oh, girl, you know, and they call you. I just want to know why you ain't called me the last couple. Girl, girl, you gone. Mm-hmm. That girl.
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I mean, and that's the thing about people. I feel like people definitely usually know already what it is. They just be trying to see if you peeped or you picked up on something. Girl, I don't miss nothing. So when y'all are in those situations now, like, how do y'all take up for yourself? Like, what do y'all do when you feel like somebody gaslighting you and they playing in your face?
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Are they treating you bad? How do you take up for yourself? Girl, I be at home sometimes. I let that shit go by and I be like, bitch, you should have said this. Let me call that motherfucker back. Look, I know we apologize about this shit, but look, bitch. Yeah. Your ass, you know, and it's a whole other argument. But I love to stand up for myself.
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I used to be so afraid to do that because I felt like I didn't have the power to. Especially as a child. Like, ooh, girl, people run over me in school. But I also had a I don't give a fuck mind. Like, girl, you know. To hell. But now it is so good to stand up for yourself. It just makes your mental, like, better. Like, it just makes sure you be like, damn, bitch, you did that.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
So did you always have a passion for doing hair, or did you just start doing it because rent was due? So, I always, like, my sister used to let me go to the salon with her. And I would always, like, just watch the stylist, the people come in and leave looking so different, so pretty. And so, I was just fascinated. And I was like, I want to do this. Like... I think I was just made for beauty.
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You know what I'm saying? Pat yourself on the back. So it is very important to stand up to yourself. Don't let anybody mistreat you, run over you, take advantage of you. Especially if you are, like, an entrepreneur or anything. Like, uh-uh. Yeah. That can't fly in my book. What about you, Dre? How do you take up for yourself? I agree.
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But I feel like I have never really had a problem taking up for myself. Like, I will cuss you out with the quickness. I'm like that now. Yeah. You got me fucked up. Absolutely not. I feel like if you don't take up for yourself, who else going to take up for you? And if you don't take up for yourself, people think that they can keep playing in your face. And you're about to keep playing in my face.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Like, one of us got to go. And it ain't going to be me. It's going to be you. You got to get the fuck on. And you cussed their ass out, and now they think you crazy, girl. Now you crazy. Now they looking at you. Like, you the problem.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You started the shit, girl, so I ended it. You the one that was being rude to me and mean to me. Nah, I'm wrong, because I said something. I don't know. I think you definitely have to take up for yourself all the time, and people should advocate for themselves way more than they do. Like, I don't know. I think people often don't take up for themselves because they're scared to lose people.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Like, they scared to lose the person. Like, oh, if I say something to
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something to them and rub them the wrong way they probably not gonna fuck with me no more if they treating you bad and they not a good person you don't need to care if they fucking with you either way i agree with that you need you got to cut that baggage out your life that bad god wants you to get rid of that like so you can progress to the next level so it's like girl i think that's something i'm definitely working on because babe i don't take up for myself my friends take up for me
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Yeah. I'd be like, somebody say something to me, I'd be like, in bed, I'd be like, yee.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Yeah. I am a cry baby, like, everything, like, but I'm also like, everything makes me cry. If I'm happy, if I'm sad, if I'm mad. So, I sometimes, like, I avoid conflicts a lot. And for me, it's not necessarily that I'm scared to lose that person. I'm just like, It makes me uncomfortable. Yeah, it does. And sometimes it's like I be wanting to take up for myself, but I just be like, you know what?
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Okay. I just be like, okay, like, all right. I just, you know. I'm like that in relationships. I'm like that, like, with my sister. My sister's a tourist. Like, sometimes my sister, like, my sister went off on me last week. And I was like, okay. And I didn't talk to her for, like, two days. She was like, what are you doing? I was like, you hate me. She's like, girl, what is you talking about?
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Like, I am just like that. I don't know why. But it is something that I know that I need to work on. And I also need to not, I'm working on not being so sensitive too. Yeah. Because a lot of times I will take the tiniest things to heart. And I'm just like, oh, somebody does one thing. I'm like, they hate me. I'm like that, too.
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If somebody don't reach out to me, I be like... Because I always reach out to my friends, right? And I'm the type of person, like, they call for advice. Like, bitch, you going through it? Let me pull up at your house. Like, you know what I'm saying? Get you back in the mood. But who the hell going to check up on me?
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
This is a rare breed, honey. You know what I'm saying? I'm being honest. It's how you keep just glazing over that pussy. That pussy has not been touched. It's in pristine condition. It is. Because I've seen some blown out pussies. I get on X videos. I know what goes on. It's your girl Lex P. And it's your girl Dre Nicole. And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds.
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And I just be like, well, bitch, you know, you was depressed two weeks ago, and I came and got your ass together. And you're like, girl, now you ain't reach out to me in a couple of days. Now, like, girl, what's going on with you? Yeah. Mm-hmm. I have a friend like that. I have a friend like that. And then, like, I'm kind of the opposite.
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Like, I be feeling like, okay, if you're going to call me, and if I don't call you for, like, two weeks, it ain't no change in our friendship. You know, like, maybe I got something going on. And I feel like sometimes that's how people have to look at it, too. Like, maybe the other person's life is just a little busy. We still cool. I still love you. But she felt that way, too.
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Like, she was like, I just feel like I'm always calling you back. first, and you don't ever call me. And I was like, well, girl, I didn't know we was keeping tally.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Because if you think about it, hair, fashion, makeup, it all goes together. It all completes the look. So I was like, let me do hair first, you know, to get my bills paid. And then I really fell in love with it. And, like, it's not a job for me, honestly. So it honestly just doesn't feel like work. Like, if you have a passion for it, I think that it'll never feel like a job to you.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I'm not that friend. I don't give a fuck if I call you four days in a row. It's going to be a fifth.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Right. I'm going to call you. Me too. I mean, if I want to call, I'm going to call.
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I don't keep tabs on, oh, I called her last.
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And I'll call back to back if you don't answer. Oh, I hate that. Oh, that's mean. And now you can send the video notes too, bitch. What you doing?
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If they answer the phone, I'll call back. If she don't answer again, I'll be like, hey, I called you. Girl, I got a friend that'll call you like four times back to back to back, girl. And I just be like, girl, did somebody die? What happened? I'm like, what you doing? Right. What you doing at 7.30 at night? Girl, it's probably 2.30, girl. What's going on? Shit.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
But I do think if your friend never, like if a person never call you first, then I do kind of feel like that's a little bit of like a red flag. What do y'all think in a relationship, though? Wait, if the person never call you first? Yeah. Or if you always the one that's like... You know what's crazy? I think I like... I'm a creature of habit. So, every day, my man calls me first in the morning.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I don't play that shit. You call me in the morning first and you text me. And I'm not being like, oh, he has a... No, that's just what we do. Sometimes I do call him first or text him first in the morning every now and then, but... I think that's just a thing that we do. So it's not like, oh, he only... Because throughout the day, we're calling each other and we're texting each other.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
But how we get that day started, because he is a extreme morning person. He wakes up like 5, 6 in the morning. Dang. So I think it's like a pattern that we have. But again, I don't keep tabs on it. I just know, okay, his day has already started. I'm still asleep. I'm not a rise and grind ass bitch. Me either. I rise... Rise and roll. And then I'm going to grind. Right. I rise and shit. Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I don't rise and grind, baby. He is a riser and grinder.
Pour Minds Podcast
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So I don't necessarily keep tabs on that. But like I said, my relationship, my friendships, anything, I don't keep tabs.
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Now, if you're early dating stages and you're always calling him first. I think that's like a red flag because men love to chase. In the beginning. Right, they do. Yes, honey. They do. I agree. I feel like if he really feeling you, he going to be blowing your phone up, especially in the beginning.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
If he not calling you in this early on, I feel like as a relationship progressed, you know, y'all done got used to each other. He probably not going to call first all the time. Yeah, yeah. But in the beginning, I think if a man really like you, yeah, he going to pursue you. So if he not calling... That's what I say. I get my man for about 11.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And once it's 11, I'm like up and I done scrolled enough. I'm like, oh, let me see what he doing. I'll call him. You'll call him. You know what I'm saying? But yeah, I don't think you should keep tabs on stuff like that unless it's like early.
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Like, if you look at the icons today, the Janet Jacksons, the Beyonce's, I just feel like they never retired. And that just, I think it goes for hair, too. Any passion. Yeah. So, you said you learned from your sister? So, I learned from my aunt.
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Pour into your pot. Okay, now it's time to get into the bed. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Okay, so the bed is our sex topic of the week. But we're going to obviously do something a little different. Okay, girl. For you today. Because, you know, I like to pry in your business a little. So, you are asexual, correct? Yes. I'm whatever the hell sex look, honey. One thing about me, I'm not asexual.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I know what I like. I like men's, honey. Okay. You know, I like my men's, honey. I did not know that. Yes. I think that was like back in 2018, 2017. You know how the motherfuckers get. They get confused and shit. Yes, yes. You know, and then they be like, well, hey, I'm gay, you know. But, hell yeah, I like my men's. Okay, so you do like men. Okay. I never knew that.
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This whole time I stopped here. But I'm a virgin.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Maybe that's what y'all mean. Yeah, I'm a virgin. Well, good. But I do remember, like, seeing that you said you were asexual. I didn't even know what the hell asexual was at the time. I didn't even know what the hell I claimed that shit. Well, the reason, like, I heard you say it a while back as well, but you're so private with your personal life, and I've never seen you with anyone. Right.
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And you never talk about your private life either. So I'm like, okay, maybe she still identifies as that. You know what I'm saying? So you like men. So what do you identify as sexually? What you mean, like, my, uh... Yeah, like, do you identify as, like, gay? Yeah, you can say gay. Gay.
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Shout out to Angie, Eastside Atlanta. Period. My girl, yeah. So, she taught me everything. Sewing, she was there from the beginning. The beginning, yes. I love that. So, who was your first, like, celebrity client? So... Very first one. What y'all consider celebrity? Like, is it reality TV or... You know, I'm a little strict.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Okay. All right, so you do your topic then. The one that you said first. Because my topic was about the asexual, but you said you wanted to talk about her being a virgin. Yes, I did. I wanted to talk about being a virgin and navigating dating. Right. Like, how do you do that? How do the conversations go when you normally tell a guy, look, I don't get down like that. I'm not having sex with you.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
They be like, what? And see, I'm a Scorpio, so they be like, you cannot. Right. It's like, girl, you're lying to me. Like, you're lying. But I be like, I'm dead for real. Like... I don't know. I just think that sex for me, like, I love cuddling, hugs, and, you know, just being under someone. But just having sex all the time, like, it was this one guy who I had went on a date with. Mm-hmm.
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And he was like a sex freak, honey. Like, ooh, girl, just talking about what he would do to me. And I just said, look, we ain't even got our appetizers yet. You talking about what the hell is going on. Right. Child. Bye. That's a turn off, too, if you start talking about sex too early on in the day. Right. And I'm a virgin, like, uh-uh, you trying to break me in and shit, girl.
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Break me in, ain't no house. So, are you waiting for, like, marriage? Are you waiting for that special, like, person, a serious relationship? Like, what are you waiting for? Or do you not want to at all? I don't even know what the hell I'm waiting for, girl. Okay. God could have somebody in my damn bed tomorrow, and I just... Get it up, honey. I locked the key, honey, okay?
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But I honestly... It's just nasty out here, y'all. It's like... Let me tell y'all, I had a friend who, like, was just taking it safe and just caught HIV. And it's just like... Girl, if that was me, like, I don't know what the hell to do. And it's just like, you know what I'm saying? I'd be so scared. Like, you just never know. Like, you know, but honestly, I don't know what I'm waiting for.
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I mean, I think God will, you know, get me someone. Yeah, bring the right person. I'm not going to lie to you. I had a friend who, she was a virgin all throughout high school. And... She waited till, like, college. And I remember I finally, like, because it was, like, seven of us in high school that were really close. And when she finally lost her virginity, she was like, it was horrible.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
It was this, it was that. I'm like, oh, my gosh, you waited all this time, and it sucked. And my first time, I lost my virginity when I was, like, 15, 16. And it was a magical time. It was my high school sweetheart. We were in love. Baby, I loved him down. And I always think of that like a good, like, my first time was a good memory for me. Mm-hmm.
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So I say all that to say, like, now that you're, you know... Right, you've said that before, though. Like, my first time was, like, I remember it like it was yesterday. So I feel like since you've waited so long, at least, bare minimum, make sure it's with somebody, like, you've been with, you're in a serious relationship.
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Because even if y'all do break up and not be together, you want it to be, like, a good memory. Right, a good memory. Yeah, like somebody who really... Versus somebody like, oh... Right.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
That's what I was going to say. I'm sure you probably think about that, too, because that's something that I would think you have to worry about as well is just people even wanting to date you or wanting to try to get it because nobody got it before. Ain't nobody got the body, honey. It's just like, you know, don't nobody know what the birthmark, what the mole is, honey. It's just like...
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they be wanting it. Yeah. Like, ooh, and they be knowing too, girl, like, when I be in the club, them men be flocking, honey. For real? Yes, girl, with they shirts off and they, girl, they be acting like, like they security guards, honey. They just like, come over here, you know. Yeah. My girlfriends, you know, just act all shy and shit because I am shy in real life and that's another thing.
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I'm a little strict when it comes to celebrity. Like, I think of like, you know, actresses. Right.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Mm-hmm. I'm so shy. Like, what people see, like, on Instagram, ooh, girl, in person, I just be so reserved. Like, ooh, yes. Yeah. Really? That's so funny. And that's why I say, I think, too, on top of that, you being a baddie, like, you are bad as fuck. Gorgeous. You're a virgin. You bad as hell. You a boss. Like, it's just a lot. And then on top of that, who you are.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Some people just want you because of who you are outside of that.
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You know what I'm saying? No, I say all that to say... It's a lot of people who are popular and they're not virgins, but people want them because of who they are. So the fact that that pussy ain't been busted while I open.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
It's a lick. This is a rare breed, honey. You know what I'm saying? I'm being honest. It's how you keep just glazing over that pussy.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
It's in pristine condition. It is. Because I've seen some blown out pussies. I get on X videos. I know what goes on. Do you watch gay porn? I have watched gay porn before because Mandy sent it to me. Shout out to Mandy from Decisions Decisions. It's not Horrible Decisions anymore. But Mandy has sent me some shit before. Yeah. You know, she likes to pay. She do like gay porn.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
They be sending me that shit. They be like, girl, and they be some big pieces, honey. They be like, how the hell they piece get that big? You know what's crazy? So I'm not going to lie. I be seeing the baddies. Like, they be bad, like titties done.
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And then they having a little, they be having a pee-pee. Right. So, they be having a big one.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You acting like it be little. I know. I be shy about it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Hey! But I do think it's categorized by list, right? So I feel like if you were, like, actress or if you were a rapper, a very known rapper and stuff, you're A-list. Well, you're A-list, yeah. But then I feel like the reality stars, they be like B-list, C-list, unless you a Kardashian. Then they A-list. Yeah, they're A-list. Okay. Mm. But I'll go by whatever you consider.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
It be big, honey. You know, it go down on X, honey. Oh, my gosh. And they be on the show on that motherfucking thing.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
It be swagger to the ground. I be like, whoa.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
What happened, girl? Did you... You know what I'm saying? So, do you attract a lot of straight men? I do. I attract a lot of straight men. And I love my man to be... I like trade. So, trade is like... The girls can holler at him. Yeah, they don't be normal. I like a little bit of femininity. You know, you just never know.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
But I like a masculine man, honey, because I feel like I am the girl of the relationship. I'm soft. It's not giving anything else but a lady.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
It's giving lady. It's giving, you know, classy. It's giving, you know, it ain't giving these... We're Friday, you know. Right. So, I need a man. I need a masculine man. I'm not going to lie. I'm probably more masculine than you. Damn. I am. If we was walking together, they'd be like, look at that trans girl, man.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You know what I'm saying? I still got my heels on. Girl, look, walking and talking. And my sneaker's like, what's up, hoe? What's up, nigga? That's what I'm saying. It's giving. It's very, like, you, and because I know it's a thing in the community, they say the girls that are, like, non-detectable.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Yes, like, I think because you're so well-known, people know, but, like, if I saw you, you're not detectable at all. A lot of people still don't believe me. Yeah. I wouldn't if you just told me. I don't know if I believe you either. I need to see that pussy. You know what? I had a girl in a mall one time. She did not believe me. And girl, she was like, I just don't believe you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Like she was like, I've been following you for so long and I just can't believe you. I said, let me see your hand. I said, do you feel this? Oh, don't you let them know? Right, I said, girl, you know, it ain't, it ain't, you know. I think, too, everything about you is petite. It is. So usually when you look at people, they see big. Look, my hands are probably bigger. Yes, they is. Uh-huh.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You know, I was size 10, so you know. Oh. You were a team, too, though.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
No, girl, they gonna look at all of us and be like, it ain't now, one of them. Let me get all y'all numbers, honey. Are you dating, though? Are you dating right now? No. No? I ain't got nobody that's up my roster, honey. You know how God send you somebody, you should be like, I ain't got nobody up my roster right now. So are you looking, though? Are you like on the prowl?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I wouldn't mind looking, you know, for a little something. You know, you got to have, you know, something going on or something, you know. Yeah. Change or something. Yeah, yeah. But I just love a man that really gets to the small things, like the details, you know. Like, how did you know my car needed gas, you know? Or how did you know I needed some toilet paper, you know, or some tissue?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Or how did you know this? You know, so. I like that. I love a man that listens. Yes. Yes. The romance. Romance ain't dead. Right. It's not. Romance isn't dead. And I feel like it's just a lost art form. Like, man, that's just not romantic. They not. They like all that hood shit.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
It's tax time now, so girls, watch your taxes, okay?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
He don't want you. He want that check. Oh. Right. My God. I had a cousin that got got like that. For real? Girl. So, girl, she met a man, right? And she got a new car. They both stopped working in May. Girl, she had a man, honey, and he was, I flipped $2,000 into $20,000. And, girl, she gave him down there all that tax money, honey. Did he flip? Never seen it again. He flip shit.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
He got the hell out, okay? Oh, my God. I said, girl, I knew your ass was going to give him that money. And she was like, I was like, girl, I told you not to do it. That is terrible. We got to stop. Don't give no man no money.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
He going to flip it on the next girl. Oh, yeah. You know how bad it is to, like, if you give a man money, then you find out, like, he on a date with a girl? Yes. He took that money. He took that money. Child, stop giving me money. I've been pulled up on that date seat. What? That's why I can't be in a relationship, honey. And every time I see him, too, I would be like, so you got my money? Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Okay, so my first something something was Bambi, Basketball Wives. Okay. And, you know, I did her hair and she had like 13 bundles. You know, Bambi got a little small head. Oh, Lord have mercy. She wanted me to put all them bundles in their head. But when I tell y'all she shot me out, everybody started coming. Like, back in the day, Instagram, like, shout-outs was something. Everything. Yes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Where's my money? I walk up to him while he on a date. Do you have my money? Let me call my brothers and cousins, honey. But you know what I will say? When you're a good person, so this is for the ladies who have given men money and it didn't work out in their favor. Because I know you gave that man money out of the goodness of your heart. Because I'm going to say this.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Not that in this situation I gave a man money, but it's like even if you give a man your all in a relationship, let me tell you how karma works. Because I am not a believer in karma. I've said that before. Because I think sometimes it's just things just happen. But I had something that happened to me, what, two days ago? We got a text in the group chat.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You got, you got, honey. Oh, it felt so good. It felt so good. And that's why I said God don't play by me.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
So sometimes when you do good things for people and you may feel hurt, just wait. Just wait on that karma, honey. Especially if you're a good person. I agree. You chosen, honey. God gonna spin the block.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
He gonna be like, damn, that by that nigga. Yeah. Got in the car and sit in. You know, damn, that's why he... That's why he got a big thing. Right. That's why he a paraplegic. Right. I see. Oh, sorry. Too far. Too far. I'm sorry. A paraplegic is crazy. I'll be dead! I've been trying to paralyze people. We just had a little fender bend. Okay, okay, okay. My bad.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
But I also think it's the difference between doing things and expecting something back and just doing things out of the goodness of your heart. So I feel like everything I've ever done for anybody in my life, my friends can attest for this. I'm just doing it because I fuck with you that hard and because I believe in you or I love you. I don't need no payback for nothing. Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
So when I tell you God... I had a moment. Me and Drea had went on a trip. I had a moment where I just woke up and I was just crying and I was thanking God because I cannot believe this is my life. Yes. And all the struggles I went through, everything that I did for people that maybe took me for granted and stuff, you know what? God gave that back to me tenfold, baby. Yes, he did.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Like, I done let friends borrow thousands of dollars and they didn't pay it back. And I just be like, you know what? You can keep it. Yep. And... Honey, God will find a way. Next week, I have a booking, $20,000. I be like, damn, girl. $2,000 turned into $20,000. It's just like, hey, man, thank you, Jesus. He always going to look out for you, for sure.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And I always say, too, because my mom taught me this. Don't ever lend people money that you not going to be okay if you don't get it back. Of course, y'all need to be paying people back. Don't just go around not paying people back. But at the same time, you shouldn't give it out if you can't afford to spend it. You know what I mean?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Because a lot of the time, people not going to give you your money back. And that shit is fucked up. Yes, it is. My mama taught me, like, the same thing. But I have such a loving heart. Yeah. And I'd be like, well, damn, if it was me, you know, I want somebody to help me out. Yeah. And I'd call my mom about it. She'd be like, what'd I tell your ass about giving that damn money?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You could have gave that to me. Yeah. Where they at? Where they stay at? I ain't going to get it from you. Mine ain't worth it. Shit. Oh, that is so funny. Look, just calm down. They going to get got. But that's why you continue to get blessed all the time now. Because you got to give it hard.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Now you shout a motherfucker out, you ain't going to get nothing done. Right. Damn near Beyonce can shout your ass out. You ain't finna get no clients. So it's just like, Instagram, the algorithm changed. But, um, did her, and then my first real, real, real big celebrity would have to be Portia Williams. Okay. I'm a Porsche fan. Me too. I love her.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And one thing I will say about, like, hairstylists, social media influencers, you have stood the test of time. You know how, like, we'll hear about a hairstylist and we never hear about him again? Or a social media influencer and you never hear... So the fact that you've been in this game for a long time and you still killing it, you still, that's a, them blessings. That's a good thing, honey.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I'm like a Nicki Minaj, honey. Hey, still going, honey. Okay, still. Okay, yes. Can't stop that train. Right. Thank you. Boom. You know what I'm saying? Okay, so now it's the item of the week. Drea, what you got for item of the week this week? So for my item of the week, of course, it's going to be MuseBeautyCollection.com, which is my cosmetics brand. Yes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Make sure you get your lip glosses, your lip liners, matte liquid lipsticks. We also have jelly blushes. I also have on the eyeliner and the mascara right now, which is coming out really, really soon. So, of course, I had to bring you a little gift. Because I know you a makeup girl, too. Yes, girl. Yes, I wanted to give you a little basket in the spirit of Valentine's Day. So cute. Of course.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Girl, this is everything. I hope you like it. I love a good gloss. And a good mascara, honey. Oh, I got you, girl. Girl, you know they're looking like mine now. My PR pop. Layla, have the right look. I'm going to have the right look.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Oh, shit, man. Now, the mascara haven't came off yet. Not the Ruby Woo.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Oh, Lord. Yes, God. But, yes, the mascara haven't came out yet, but it's coming out next month, and I'll make sure I send you some. Thank you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
So, wait, what you got in there? Some lip glosses. I gave her some of the jelly blushes. I also gave her some of the lip liners, and I think it might be a few matte liquid lipsticks in there as well. Let me tell you, that jelly blush, if you do, like, a light makeup look one day... I love light makeup. Oh, that jelly blush gonna...
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
It'll just give you, like, that little rosy cheek. That's why I said it's giving, like, oh, my God, you investing me. Uh-oh. That's what it is. That's when you need to do a commercial. I'm going to end up like this. Right. Okay.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
That's a good idea. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole. Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of the Week. But do you have a product or something that you want to promote and you want it featured on Poor Minds? Your opportunity is here. Period.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
If you have an item or you have a business and you want to get it promoted, we are now having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if you would like to get your product featured for Item of the Week, all you need to do is send an email to itemoftheweek.com PM at gmail.com. That's I T E M O F T H E W E E K PM at gmail.com. Send us an email and we'll work it out.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
We're going to figure it out. Get your product, get your business sponsored and yeah, make you some money. We love to support a small business now. And a black business at that. But I mean, we don't discriminate. Any business is welcome. So now it's time to get into the bow. Hey. The bow. Bow. Bow.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And when a, it's, okay, so I'll say this as a consumer. It's different between like, if you do somebody's hair and, oh, their hair looks good versus doing somebody hair who is known for being polished.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Bow. Bow. Bow. Okay. So I say this a lot. One thing I have curated all my social media accounts. My algorithm is fire. So I'm a music head. I'm a music girly. And one thing I love is like seeing a new artist that I haven't seen before. And I'm like, how did this come up on my timeline? Because my algorithm is fire. I found this small artist. She only gets like 14,000 listens a month.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
But when I tell you, it's so many superstars out there that we just haven't even heard of. This song is such a good song. So her name is Sid Franklin. The song is called Plastic Waterfalls. Hmm. It is such a good song. It's basically about, like, she's in love with this guy and everything was plastic. It was fake. It wasn't what she thought it was.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You know, you see a waterfall and you feel like it's so beautiful. Then you get up close and it's plastic. Yes. When I tell you I'm... I'm a lyrics girl. So the lyrics in this song are just so beautiful. It gives like an R&B vibe. So yeah, that's my bop of the week. Like I said, music ain't dead. Y'all just not looking for it. It's such a good song.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
It's very rare that I come across a song and I'm like, oh, I'm excited about this. So yeah, Sid Franklin, Plastic Waterfalls, fire. I'm fucking with you, Sid. I'm rooting for you. Okay? Go download that. All right. What you listening to, Drea? So, I like lotto and Playboi Carti new songs. Oh, I haven't heard it. Oh, Blick something. Yeah, I like that album. Oh, I got that Blick Blick.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I like the little intro. I like the intro, but I just also, I love when the girls get on the track and just be popping they shit. Yeah. You know what I mean? So, shout out to lotto. Shout out to lotto. Playboi Carti because I didn't, I was like, he hadn't really been making no music lately, have he? That's because he been over there giving Iggy Azalea hell. Nah, see?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Like, if you do a Porsche hair, a cash doll hair, like, that hits differently.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
He's been torturing that lady. Okay, he has. Because he had a nice little run at one point. Remember he had that song, everybody was singing, woke up to niggas talking like, Yeah. I think that was his first song, right? Yeah. But then he had a few more songs after that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Well, you know what I think? Yes. Right. Torturing. I told you he torturing. But I think his music now is more so like, it's kind of rockish. Yeah. Rock, that rock rap, oozy kind of vibe. Okay. So I think it's just. Maybe that's why. Yeah, he's making music, but I don't think it's like for us. It's probably overseas or something. Yeah. It's not for us. He making K-pop. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Because, like you said, shout-outs aren't the same, but if cash dolls shout you out, you're getting booked up. Because they known for hair. Yes. Yes. So, that does hit a little different. You know what I'm saying? Like me, if I recommend a good bean, I like beans. Oh, come on. I love a good bean plate. If I shout out some beans, the people going to buy it up. No, they not. What a bean, honey.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You know they're hitting a 5, 6, 7, 8. Right. You know, so. Okay, that's a good bop though. I like Lotto. Lotto talks that shit. She does.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Y'all know I'm an R&B head, honey. Same. It can go from Carrie Hilson, you know, to a good old Tynesha Kelly. Ooh, you got deep in your bag. Yes, I got deep in that bag, honey. Ooh, yes, ma'am, honey. I mean, A. Marie. Ooh, I love me some good A. Marie. Mary J. Blige. I mean, I love R&B. Of course, the queen of rap, honey, Nicki Minaj. Hey, Barb. Yes, honey. She's that girl will always be.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I love her. I mean, I'm very versatile with my music, but I love R&B. I'm a hopeless romantic. So what have you been jamming this week? What's your song that you just cannot stop playing? And it could be new or old. New or old, yeah. It could be new or old. I really ain't been getting into the new music, y'all. That's fine. It's hard. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
It's like, maybe it's because I'm not really doing my research on, like, the underground artists that haven't really made it yet. But, like, I was just on my way here listening to System A Marie. Period. Her Touch album. I was listening to Falling. Don't be afraid to touch. Right. Don't be afraid to touch.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You know that, huh? That was at the South. Jill Scott is another one, honey. She was, ooh, girl. Love Rain. Love that song. Okay, so you an old school.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
We love a little old school. And that's why I said, when you have an ear, it's hard to enjoy music now because the mainstream stuff is not necessarily enjoyable. Right. Yeah. The Grammys just passed, and I don't know what their agenda was, but Chapel Rowan. Yeah. I've never gotten to her. I tried to listen to it, but when I saw that performance. Right. That song has been stuck in my head. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Oh, my God. She's all it takes. I did, too. I tried to listen to some of her music, too, after the Grammys. and I was just like, okay, you know, actually, it's not bad. So a long time ago, I tried to listen to it and I was like, I'm not good. After that Grammy, I said, I get it now. I see the vision. I get it too. What's his name? Vincent Boone. He flips off these beautiful things.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
He's like, Chris Brown, you ain't the only one tumbling. You need to stop talking about people flipping because remember last time. What? Last time you talked about somebody flipping off a building. What happened? What I did? You talked about somebody flipping off a building. No, I don't. I promise. Never mind. Shay know what I'm talking about. We're on the same way.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I don't be remembering nothing. What? Who flipped off a building? We gonna do this. Somebody flipped off a building. I don't know. Did I get dragged? Did I get dragged? Yes, you got dragged on Twitter. We both did. Oh, my goodness. Flipping off a building. Oh.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Because I got drugged to hell. We definitely got drugged. Oh, my God. By our ponytail. Let's move on. Let's move on. Okay, so before we get into this last topic, because we finna wrap it up. Alonzo, this has been so much fun. It has. I love you. I love you down.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I love y'all more. Like, honestly, I love... I was telling my friend before we got here, I was like, oh, my gosh. I just... I never know how people's energy gonna be because we've been doing this a long time and sometimes you see people online and they're so bubbly and so this and that and then you get in person and they're like...
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Oh, hello. Yeah. She felt it. Ooh. She's healthy. Alonzo, Lex talk about beans every episode. She don't mention some goddamn beans. I'm working on that Bush's deal now. I mean, it's coming. It's coming because you've been doing all the endorsement. I have built, like, it's immune to it. You know what I'm saying? I have built up that fiber intake. Did you ask her about 40?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Yes. So for all the listeners out there and people who are fans of you, thank you for being who you really are and showing up and being your real authentic self. You have educated us today, me, about you. And I know I can call you girl.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
One of the girls. One of the girls, honey. So do you give good advice? Yeah. Okay, so we finna do our advice segment.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
This is called Pour Your Heart Out. If you want your question answered on the show, make sure you email us at askpoorminds at gmail.com. If you're a Patreon member, put that in the headlines so you can skip the line, okay? So I have question one. Mm-hmm. All right, so it says, I'm 32, and I've always dated my age or older.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I'm a guy that likes guys, by the way, and I'm in Atlanta, so y'all know it's a shit show. I met this guy who, on paper, checks all the boxes. He's 6'8", very handsome, has a great job, was raised right. Y'all know that's rare nowadays. And we've met a few times in person. It's been a vibe so far. The thing is, he's 27.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Now, I've dated men five-plus years older than me, and they were all a joke in one or multiple ways, but dating younger has never been in my ministry. Would y'all keep seeing where it goes or be like, fuck them kids? I'm a lover like y'all. I came from love, and I'm cute, so I know I'll find my person, but never in a million years did I think he'd be younger than me.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Curious to hear y'all's thoughts. How old? He's 32? He's 32. And the man is 27. Yes, and he usually dates older. Girl, go see that nigga. Yeah. Go see that nigga, honey. Don't judge him. Right, don't judge him just because of his age, honey. I can see if you said 23 or 21. You know, ooh. Then you on the butter line. Oh, Kelly. Oh, you know, so. Yes, go see that man, honey. Go see that man. You 32.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You're getting older. Everybody's getting older, honey. He checks all the boxes off. You need to go check on him. Because if you don't, I will.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
They think I got balls anyway. But Zach, uh-uh. Now, see, I agree. I definitely feel like if he was a little bit younger, then I can understand you having your reservations about it. But 27 and you 32, like, have a good time. See where it go. I mean, because it might not even end up being something that serious, but just see where it goes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Don't just not give him a chance just because he's younger than what you do today. Yeah. Because I usually date older. I like my niggas knocking on... Death's door. Damn. And my man younger than me. Not one foot in the grave, y'all. When I be like, where you live? And they be like, puny nursing home. The coochie gets wet. I was like, insurance policy looking, right? You can't sign my name on it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You know what I'm saying? But my man is younger than me. He's 32. I'm 35. I'm about to be 36. So I feel like sometimes it be the ones that you least expect. That'll take you by surprise. Yes, they will. Let that six amen take you for a roar. Right. You might like it. Six, eight, honey. Ooh, likes that. I agree. Okay, question number two. Hey, Lex, Drea, and Ty.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I watch Poor Minds religiously and decided I want to pour my heart out, LOL. I cut off one of my close friends since high school, and I don't know how to feel about the situation. I have a two-year-old, and from the moment I found out that I was pregnant, she told me damn near every minute to get an abortion.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
i've had an abortion before and it just wasn't an option it confused me because she never told any of our other friends to get an abortion and they are like two or three kids in her mom died while i was pregnant and i still made a way to her home going even though i was high risk i've always been there for her daughter buying gifts every holiday and birthday but she hasn't even seen my son other than pictures
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Then she messaged me on New Year saying her resolution is to be a better friend to me. That really rubbed me the wrong way because I've always been a good friend to her. I could be a little defensive, but do you ladies think she is a weirdo or am I just overreacting and she was trying to give me friendly advice? Thanks, ladies. So I'm seeing it from two points of view.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I be saying the same thing. I be like, you need to carry some Beano in your purse. Right, girl. But she say she don't be farting. That Beano is naturally in my DNA. Oh. It's in me. The beans I made it. You know what I'm saying? A bus, honey. Okay, so I have a question. Go ahead, go ahead. So I wanted to know, how do you stay with the trends?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
So her reaching out and saying, I'm trying to be a better friend, and you still getting offended by that. Like, damn, what can't she do? So I think if somebody is genuinely saying, hey, I'm trying to be a better friend, because I had that conversation with two of my close friends like a couple of years ago, and I'm like, I'm trying to be a better friend, and I will.
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And you got to give people a chance, especially if you really care about them. So that's one. But I think it's more to the story, because her telling you to get abortion, she don't like your baby daddy. That's what it's giving. She didn't want you to have them kids because it may be attached to an ain't shit nigga. Because a lot of times you be trying to save folks.
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I done saved a few folks in my life. And I done been saved a few times. R.I.P., R.I.P. But I say all that to say sometimes your friends can see things that you don't see. So tell us about your baby daddy so we can give you a good... Answer. Did she say that friend didn't come see her kids?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Yeah, she said she has always been there for her friend's daughter, but her daughter, I mean, but she's never came to see her son, only outside of features. So, see, that's why I caught that. Yeah. Because now the child's here. Right. It's already here. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, okay. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, like you said, she probably telling you to get an abortion because of that man. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Either that man is a no good man, or she might be fucking with that man. Ooh. Ooh. You never know how somebody's feeling. Exactly. Yeah.
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Everything to do with who the man was. Yeah. Because she said, too, that she feel like she told her to get an abortion, but she never told none of the other friends to get an abortion. Maybe they got a good baby then. Yeah. Or maybe they married in relationships. We don't know because you didn't provide all of that context. You was giving her one side of the story. But... Give us more.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
But I mean, in some cases, though, people do be being weirdos. And they do be hating. Yes. Yes. So sometimes a girl tell you don't get pregnant because she like, because you're going to live a glamorous life. Right. And I'm going to be here by myself. Yeah. Mm-mm. Do what's best in your heart. God won't give you this time. I agree. Do what's best for you.
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You know, you can't... I feel like when it comes to situations like that, not trying to be funny, but if it's coming down to you having a child, you shouldn't be taking your friend and, like, no way. It's between you and your man.
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But now that the child is here, as far as y'all's friendship goes, if this person is somebody that you care about and you're truly happy around them, reconcile the relationship. But if you feel like life is good and I'm cool not being your friend, that's your answer right there.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
You know, it's up to you. I'm all about chance. Give her one more chance. One more chance. Okay, Alonzo, let the people know. Okay, let me ask you this. Do you still take clients to do their hair? Yes, I do. Okay, so tell them how they can book.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Because just like you just said, you know, back in the day, the girls used to love to wear 10, 15 bundles in their hair. Now, these days, I feel like the girls be going for a more natural look. So how do you stay on top of the trends and just knowing what's always up to date? You know what? Honestly, I would... See, back in my day... Child sound like I'm 85 years old. Okay, tell.
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She be cornered. Right. Cornered. I don't know what the hell she need. I'm saying, girl, 2027, shit, we might not be. You just never know. With Trump ass in office, you know, it's just too much going on. Get up. It might be a wrap. It's going to be Europe in a minute. Shit. So I was just like, ooh, girl, you know, but yes, I do hear. I do. I miss doing clients here.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Like, I used to just do nothing but make wigs in the house. And I'm like, damn, I need to get back into, you know, doing that because I get bored at home. So, I'm back. Okay, so, how much can somebody expect to spend? So, if you want to... You know, if you want to get your full lace wig, you got to get the hair for me.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Because I be bringing plastic hair, like plastic waterfalls.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
The Amazon hair. We need real hair, okay? Right. Now, stop on Amazon wigs. I ain't going to lie to you. They be looking good. Ooh. But a ballpark amount be about $2,200. Okay. Some tax money. Now, do you accept after pay or Klarna? I need before pay. Okay. You know... No installment. Right. I don't know if, what is it, Acuity Scheduler has, Karna. I don't know.
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If they do, you know, put your social security number if you got a good credit. Right.
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Frontal. Do you do sew-ins? I do do sew-ins. So, anywhere from, I would say, because you got to get the hair for me. So, like, let's say if you get like a 22, 24, 26 in a sew-in. That's like $1,000, $1,200. Okay. Do you still make you part wigs? Mm-hmm. I still do you part wigs. Well, you know what? My assistant girl that does them, she does them really good. She moved back to Africa.
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So now I got to find somebody. I mean, she make them tracks flat. Yeah. And, girl, I was even like, girl, how do you do it? You know, so... I think the more practice I get on it, it'll be better. Because I'm talking about them damn wigs was seamless. It was like she had a special type of cap that she get made, and the way she later tracked, it feel like it's nothing in your hair. I love that. Yes.
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So, what do you offer for $250? Nasi. God damn it, I got to get in where I'm at. A prayer. I'll give you a 10-minute call.
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Right, a little how to do a curl for five minutes. My ball, bitch. I'm trying to keep my ball. That's a good old quick week, you know.
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You can find me on Instagram. I am Alonzo Arnold. I've been on X or Twitter now a lot. It's I'm Alonzo, bitch. And TikTok, AlonzoArnold6. So, yeah, I'm all over. Okay. Thank you. I love you down. I love y'all, too. I feel like we've known each other for 30 years.
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Right, we will. Okay. Mm-hmm. Now, look, I'm going to try to convince you to get that clarinet on so I can get my soul in. Come on, clarinet. Look, clarinet, clarinetta, honey. We need a black version. What's the black version? Okay. Clarissa. I think clarinet is the black version. Right. Clarissa. Mm-hmm. Clarissa.
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You know, the girls... See, my clients, because I did, like, a different type of hair, they didn't really like all that hair. Like, I had some clients that liked, you know, getting all that hair. But I always went for the more natural, realistic type of approach. So, I think I always just been, you know... Ahead of the game.
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So we are giving y'all content all week. Go get your hair done. You know what I'm saying? Pull up a chair and watch all the content we giving y'all, and we'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all. Y'all make sure y'all share the content, like, subscribe, follow, all that good stuff. And let me say this before we close out. Y'all, there is one Twitter account that is connected to Poor Minds.
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It's P-O-U-R underscore M-I-N-D-S. Y'all are tagging the wrong Poor Minds page. If you see at Poor Minds with no underscore, that is a fake page. Do not follow that page, okay? They blocked me, Andrea, and the Poor Minds page on both. So we only have... one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok. It is P-O-U-R underscore M-I-N-D-S. All right? And we got a hella fake Facebook page.
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Oh, the Facebook page. The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the least amount of followers. The one that's ours got the least amount of followers. That's not us. Got like 250,000 followers. But y'all know it's fake if you actually look at the content. Because the caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English. Because their captions are like. Bamba Claus. Should men pay bill?
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Blah, blah. Booyah, booyah, booyah. Like, that's literally what the captions mean. I like that DDG's Bamba Claude. Bamba Claude. I love that video.
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You whisper softly in my ear. Makes me unwind. When you touch me, let me know you're mine. I'd rather be with you because I love the way you scream my name.
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I'd rather be with you because you hustle hard to take care of me. I'd rather be with you.
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Tonight's the night your fantasy will all come true. I am your woman. I belong to you. There is nothing.
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Like with the baby hairs. I never, you know. I was just about to say that. Uh-huh. You know, them girls, they love, baby, they take their whole frontal. They be the back of your head. Yes, God. And it be a whole bundle of that. But sometimes it be way down here.
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Make me feel this way. I'd rather be with you. I'd rather be with you. I'd rather be with you. Boy, I'd rather be with you. Oh, hi. Hi, hi. Hey. Yeah. Oh, I'd rather be with you. Yeah. Yeah. Boy, I'd rather be with you. Oh, this pussy. I'd rather be with you. Yeah. Yeah. Boy, I'd rather be with you.
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She gave a little Tony Braxton. Hell yeah. Baby.
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You can't even see. I don't see how the girls even drive. This shit, they just be, ooh, my hair. Between the edges and the lashes.
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A war is being fought. Yeah. They be close down here. But I will say, I think the baby hair trend came from... And I love a little baby hair, but when I have the frontals, like when that lace get a little old and it's lifting, you need that baby hair to kind of... You do. You know what I'm saying? I like baby hair, too. I'm not against them. I just...
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Like, to me, the only person that I think that can do some good baby hairs, and I think that really took it, is Eric and Tay. Yeah. Like, Eric and Tay, he, I mean, even natural looks, he does amazing. Just all around amazing hairstylist, so. Mm-hmm. Yeah. And I think, too, it's like that soft baby hair.
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Yeah, just forth, and they're like a curtain and a... Mm-hmm.
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That was grown hair. You cut their hair to make it look like this. Now why am I in it? They do their real hair like that. Yes. Girl, I got to make it work. You know when you get your hair braided, these braces old, girl. I ain't got time to get my hair done. I think the older they look, the better they look. I think so, too. The older they look, the better.
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But when them edges start falling out, when I tell you I got a bob right now, right here.
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Yes. So Ty, our beautiful Ty, what are we drinking today? So, look, I had to do some Instagram stalking. And, man, this is for the baddest in the room. Okay? That Instagram ate honey. All right? So, this is for you. This is called the baddest in the room. This is a mocktail, but you can add whatever spirit of choice. We have some grapefruit.
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We have some strawberries, some lavender, some basil, and a little bit of lemon juice. And then we topped it with a sparkling water. A little bit of agave as well. And we garnish it with some floating strawberries and some basil inside. Mmm. So, cheers. This is the baddest in the room. Cheers. Cheers to you, Alonzo. Thank you. So, I do have a question real quick. Have you ever been a wig wearer?
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Mm-hmm. I like the U-part, V-part. Okay, so, but you've never been like a lace front girl? I haven't, but I just can't lay that front down. Yeah. Like, I need the baby hair probably. Yeah. Because when it lifts, then I'm over it.
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But I'm a braid girl. Braid or U-part wig. Okay. Okay. That was done with you parts back in the day. What? I used to love me a you part. Yes, honey. You was eating down. Okay. It was you, honey. Yeah, it's me. Yeah, right. Uh-huh.
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Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. We got a guest today. We got a guest today. Let me tell y'all something. Y'all know this person. They are one of the best hairstylists ever to exist. What? One of the most funniest people online. And on top of that, a fashion killer. Don't play. Always puts it on. We have the one, the only. Yes. Yes. Thank you for coming. Oh, you know, I jibbed it.
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Ever since I was a little girl, I've loved being on camera, entertaining myself and everybody around me by sharing my thoughts and opinions on anything pop culture. For the past few years, I've heard your requests, but now it's finally time to deliver.
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I do want to ask you, have you never drank liquor? Or you just, like, gave it up? You know what? I never drank. But, you know, when I was doing Megan Thee Stallion here back in 2019, it was BT Awards weekend. She had me to do, like, two shots of D'Ussé. And I didn't really feel nothing. For real? Oh, you got that D'Ussé. It felt a little hot and heat. Because that D'Ussé gets your D'Ussé.
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I was a little tight. I was like, I don't really feel nothing. She was like, what? You know, them other girls, they was getting shy. Half a shot, they was on the floor. Yeah. I was just like, girl, get up. I had two, honey. You know, child. I was like, damn, this is my first time drinking. So 2019 was your first time drinking. You just didn't like it.
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You was like... Yeah, I was like, it didn't really... Yeah, it didn't really do nothing to me. Like, I smoked weed before with my brother. That shit didn't do nothing to me. Really? I think I have a natural high. I don't know if that's something. It is. Or if he has some bad weed. I don't know. It's probably a mixture of both. Look, because I said when I smoke, give me the Reggie.
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A little Reggie. So do you have any vices, though, like hookah or anything? You just all... See, that's why you're smoking. High off life. thank you just you know so i want to get into the fashion now and i'm about to get in your business because i'm not gonna lie so i am a fashion nova girl i am a shin type of chick period i gets what i can get A Shein type of chick is crazy.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Okay, so I'll say this. What I do sometimes is I like to go to people's pages and get inspiration. And like, oh, how can I recreate this look on a budget? You know what I'm saying? But I can do that most of the time. When I go to that, when your page, you can't recreate that. Because you'll be having some pieces, baby. Thank you. Some pieces. So I do want to ask you this.
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Do you have a budget of like, how much do you spend a month on clothes? Be honest. Try it. Ooh, girl, let me tell you something. If I was on my last and I had something I really needed, I would get it. Mm-hmm. Because you know who kind of gave me that idea? Kim Kardashian. Okay. She did an interview, and Kanye West told her she had these anniversary Christian lubes and heels.
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I definitely pay attention, too, because, like, I feel like if the guy I'm having sex with, you need to go to the bathroom and wipe that dick off. Get a warm rag and wipe that dick off. You know, I prefer, you know, I like a little concierge service. I be bringing it.
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you're logged in on my shit no i'm not it's one no the fuck i'm not i have my own netflix no it's not it's not netflix it's something i have my own amazon no no no i'm not saying hulu what i'm saying is it might have been an accident or something because i promised to god i logged in on one of my it was a hulu or one of them things and i said who the fuck got the caption in spanish that wasn't me i promised because i got
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All of those that you just named, I have mine. I can't remember what it was. I'm not saying that you didn't. But something is connected. Yeah, so I've been watching all my shows, and I've been, like, putting the English. But I'm watching them in Spanish, so that's how I know that wasn't me. I'm saying I watched them in Spanish, and then it's the English subtitles. Muy bien, muy bien.
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Not Spanish subtitles. Muy bien. But no, so somebody had left a comment on Twitter the other day, and they was like, oh, you need to do the Poor Minds intro in Spanish. I'm working on it. I got y'all in a month. Give me a month. I need to do the Poor Minds intro. I like that. So yeah, I'm on like week, I forgot to say that. I'm on week three. Good job. My Spanish class.
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Now, you know I'm deep, deep, deep in, like, TikTok world. You need to look up Ash Trevino. Who is this? A mess. And I want you to speak Spanish before her. The TikTokers, they don't know who I'm talking about. What did she do? She's a Hispanic lady, but she's just always in drama and tea, and she's a real dirty, dirty MF-er. Really?
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And she be acting like she can speak Spanish, and it be so funny.
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She can't. She can't. And that's why I want you to read. So how do you act like you can speak? She be like... Y'all, I promise. I'm not making this up. The people gonna know. If y'all know who I'm talking about, they don't know. I'm so deep in TikTok world. That's not right, though. That's like making fun of a hot community. No, but she's Hispanic, though. Oh.
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She's like a... You know how J-Lo can't speak Spanish for real? That's what she be doing. Oh, okay. Remember when J-Lo did that? J-Lo, love you down. Stick to the rom-coms. That is so fucking funny. Oh, my God. Because one thing about it, I will play with J-Lo all day, but when it comes to them rom-coms, eats down. She do eat down. Eats down. Stop playing with her.
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But, yeah, that's all I really been up to. So, shout-out to everybody. Not shout-out to everybody. We keeping it going. Ty, what you been up to?
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I love that for you. Because like I said, I just want to create something that everybody can come here and grow.
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Yeah. How we going to shake the room? Shout out to Pop Smoke. All right, all right, all right. Okay, so what are we doing? We about to get into the first topic. Let's do it. So for the first topic, I really wanted to talk about, which I feel like this kind of flows back into what you were just talking about at the beginning of the episode. Having big dreams, but not having the work ethic to match.
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And I just want to say, like I said, every morning I wake up and I just show gratitude to my life anyways because I feel so blessed to be able to do this and do this with my best friend. But also to... Thank you. That really touched me.
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Because I feel like it's a lot of people who want to, you know, be successful in life. They have things that they want to do. They have goals. They say, oh, I want to be here in four years. Oh, I want to be here in five years. But the work ethic ain't matching what you're saying you want. And at the end of the day, I always say, you cannot pray for something and not do the work.
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People be thinking, oh, just because I'm praying, just because I'm praying, God going to bless me. You still got to put that work in. And unfortunately, a lot of people just do not have that get up and go, that drive, that ambition to accomplish their dreams. It's not that you don't have the talent. Sometimes you just ain't got the ambition. So how do you feel about that?
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Or how do y'all both feel about that? So I'll say this. I get it. First of all, it's hard to find good help if you do have the money to hire people. It's very hard. It's a trial and error, hit and miss. But I'll say this. even if you can't afford to hire help, you got to do it yourself. That's what I was going to say. Let me tell you something.
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When me and Dreya first started out, Dreya was like, let's hire somebody to edit. I said, boy, I got $269 in my account. So I was like, well, I guess you don't edit. So guess who's going to edit? Me! Me! I used to edit the episodes. I used to set the camera up. I used to do all of it. She did. Because I wanted it. And I hate to say this. Y'all not hungry enough.
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And I'm not even... I feel like I'm at a place where I can preach to people, but I'm also still not nowhere near where I want to be. But I'm still out here working. Now I can afford to put people in a position. Baby, I can't make no damn drink. We need a bartender. So guess what? I'm finna get somebody here to do that. Right. I can't work these cameras.
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I don't even know how to turn these motherfuckers on. So I'm finna hire somebody. I can't take no pictures. If you want your business to expand and grow, you either gonna figure out how to do it yourself or you gotta make some money to hire some people in those positions. We are past the days of getting discovered.
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You're not going to be at Walmart singing or doing some content and somebody just going to discover you and be like, oh, my God, let me put you in a movie. Everybody that gets discovered now is because they're putting content out every day. Then it comes across like a Kevin Hart's desk or, you know, somebody important desk that can put you in position. Mm-hmm.
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So I just feel like y'all are not hustling enough. Y'all see somebody, like, for example, I think his name is LaRon. He's a skater. He's a tall... Oh, he's so handsome. He skates really, really well. I think he's out in Atlanta. So he did the D Squared fashion show, right? And he's, like, skating around doing... It's LaRon, right? Yeah. He's skating around. And I mean, he's so graceful.
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But today, like I said, every time I get on Instagram or Facebook and it shows you what you posted four years ago, three years ago, and I see this post, it just really warms my heart because I'm really out here doing it. So how does it feel to be a boss bitch? I'm not being funny. I never thought I could... I always knew I was special, right? Like, I always knew I was different.
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And this is probably the first time people are seeing him. So they're like, oh my God, if he can do it, I can. But yeah, but Leron has been, and I hope that's his name. He has been creating content for years of him skating. Mm-hmm. He didn't just pop up at the D Squared fashion show. Y'all be seeing, like, y'all saw us maybe for the first time when we had maybe T-Pain on or whenever we had T.S.
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Madison on. You didn't realize, oh, we've been working since 2019. Y'all be seeing people for the first time and think they just popped up, and that's not nobody's story. That's not nobody's story. So I just think the laziness, talent is not enough. Y'all be thinking y'all are so fucking funny or y'all are so fucking, y'all can sing so good.
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You can rap so good and you can just wake up and just sit on your ass. I don't care what nobody says. I always use like Britney Spears for an example. Britney Spears, y'all can say what y'all want about them dance moves about her voice. Them panties. I don't give a damn. I'm talking about old Britney Spears.
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I just be wanting her to lift them up a little more. They just be so low. I be scared her coochie gonna pop out and say hey to them. Yeah, like they be so low. I be thinking they gonna fall down. But I will say this. At a young age, Brittany learned that work ethic. Beyonce has that work ethic. That's who I look at.
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If I can't do it myself, there are things that Shay gets done that I could never even think twice about doing. I don't even know how. Some of the stuff that Shay does, I be like... What? Thanks, girl. Exactly. But you know what I'm saying? That's what you're supposed to do. If you can't figure it out, get somebody who can figure it out.
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But realistically, most people are in those beginning stages of their business, so they can't get people to do stuff to hire them. But that's what I was about to say. Like, most people can't hire somebody. They can't hire a team of people right now. So it's like, you got to do that shit yourself. And people just don't be wanting to do shit. They be wanting everything to just come to them.
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They be feeling like, oh, it's just supposed to fall in my lap because I'm so amazing and I'm so special. No, it's a lot of special people out here. But even the people who you look at, who you feel like, oh, they're so special, they put the work in majority of the time. You know, it take work and it take grind and hustle to get to where you're trying to get to in life. What you think, Ty?
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Yeah, bring it to the bed. I like that. It is. Sometimes we be in the bathroom together. We take the trip together. So I'm in there peeing and he's wiping off. We like, that ain't good. Yeah, but then see, sometimes you just gotta go get it yourself too because niggas be taking too long. Yeah, that's true too. They be taking too long and then they start melting. Melting? We'll be melting.
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Same. No matter what. And I like that you said that I'm a winner. That's the difference between a winner and a loser. I'm going to outwork you every time. Because if I can't do it, I'm going to hire somebody who can. And it don't matter what it looks like to the public. It's getting done. No, it's just if I can't do it, I'm going to find a way. I'm going to find a way. That's what I'm saying.
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I'm going to find a way. So whether the way is me doing it myself or hiring somebody, it's getting done. You're not going to outwork me. You're not going to release. We have released Poor Minds episodes for six years without missing a beat. That's crazy. People always say that, and I guess when you really sit and think about it, it is a little crazy. Who you know do that?
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But I never knew what my life would look like not having a job. Like I said, I've been working since I was 15 years old. And growing up, you know, my mom had a good job. My sister had been working since she was 15. Everybody in my family just, you go to college and you get a job. I don't have any entrepreneurs in my family. I never knew what that looked like. Mm-hmm.
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52 weeks. 52 weeks, six years. But even with us now, us launching, we both have been talking about our personal YouTube channels for a long time, but we released it when we knew it's got to be consistent. I'm never going to miss a Monday. Yeah. I'm never going to miss a Monday. Yeah. I can't. I mean, I feel like with anything that you want to be successful at, I always say consistency is key.
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And I feel like that's like the most mundane advice that you could give people. Cliche advice, you know, is to just tell people be consistent. But it's so fucking true. You have to be consistent at whatever you want to excel at. It's no other way around it. Like, I mean, of course you have to be actually good at it. Yeah. But being consistent a lot of the time gets you further than being good.
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Absolutely. And I feel like this. Even if you spend an hour a day, I make sure I spend an hour every day doing something. Like now, for Love Legs Peace, this is so new. I spend an hour a day on Love Legs Peace doing something. Whether it's planning out my episode for the next week, getting something together, something. Just one hour. It's not that long.
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So when I see people, they be on social media all day. But you ain't promoting. Nothing about your podcast. Nothing about your makeup line. Nothing about nothing you got going on. You just tweeting. You don't want it. Yeah. You don't want it. Do you feel like it's more of a thing with, like, our generation and the younger generations? Because I feel like all the people had work ethics. Oh, yeah.
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They didn't have no choice. They had work ethics. They had to go. They asked to work. But I think that's why we are like that. Because we are a product of our parents.
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Like, our parents instilled in us, like, you got to go and get it. That hustle mentality. Yeah. A lot of people don't have that hustler's mentality, like... And I'm not saying you got to necessarily clock in, because one thing about you, you're going to quit a job, but you are a hustler. And you're going to figure some shit out. You know what I'm saying?
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I think people just... People are so comfortable, too. It be some people who are so, like... To me... When I was really, really broke was when I moved out here. And I was just never comfortable. And I don't like that feeling. That's why I was like, I have to make something shake. I can't live like this. Yeah.
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And I'm not... I just think people who are just comfortable with where they are, and you think... You're always supposed to clap for yourself, but if you are not making a living... doing the shit that you love, you're not going hard enough. I agree.
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I think it's so crazy and so wild how people can have nine to five jobs and work 40 hours a week, but then they have their own personal endeavors that they want to work on or business that they want to become successful. But you won't even take 30 minutes out of your day every day when you get off work to work on your business that you want to launch.
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But you're going to work every week, working 40 hours for somebody else, making them richer. I just think that's crazy. And like I said, I'm speaking from somebody who used to be at my job working on poor minds. Well, friend, they probably not trying to get fired.
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So when I see people who are business owners or when I saw people who were creating content and they were doing it full time, I'm like, what does that look like for me? I don't know. So the fact that I've done it for this long, four years is a long time to keep yourself afloat and not only keep myself afloat. Amen. Hallelujah. Keep myself afloat, stress-free.
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I'm not saying that that's good advice, but what I'm saying is I wanted it that bad, though. I was ready to risk it all because I know I'm fucking good. And I know what I wanted out of life. And I know this is leading to a dead end. Poor Minds was not. So I say all that to say I was able to maneuver it around so I could do poor minds at my job.
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But once it got to the point where I couldn't, I would get off work and I'm working on poor minds. Yeah. I was working on it. You got to find the time. I made the time. You got to find the time. And I think a lot of people make so many excuses like, oh, I'm tired from work. Oh, I'm tired from this and I'm tired from that. I just don't have it in me to put an extra 30 minutes.
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I agree. People do get discouraged by their first failure. They be like, oh... But then you don't see how many times people that's successful failed. Just because you don't see it don't mean we wasn't failing.
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Girl, I had like three before Poor Mama. Do you remember that first ad company we worked with that they was like, oh, we not working with y'all. Yes. Because we couldn't get our ads right and on time. And we were so sad. We were so sad. Because we was finally getting ad checks. We wasn't making that much, but we was finally just getting something. Right. And we were just like, oh, my God.
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And then when they let us go, I just thought it was the end of the world. But I was like, you know what? That's all right. Somebody else going to come along. Yeah. Yeah, and it did. Yeah, and it definitely did. So, yeah, I just feel like your work ethic has to match your dream. The bigger your dream is, the bigger your work ethic got to be. It's no in between.
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And like I said, I really don't have sympathy for that. Because I will say, coming from somebody who did it, I did it.
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If I can do it, like, you know how you always see those people that give their Oscar speeches? I can do it. You can do it. I'm telling you, do y'all realize, like, Dolce, she was, like, a YouTuber, like, five years ago, like, doing all that stuff.
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A Grammy award. That's why I know, baby, I'm getting that daytime Emmy. It's only a matter of time. I just got to keep doing it. Yeah. You just have to keep going, and you got to put that work in. Like, so that's why I say, one thing I do believe is, like, it's hard when you're in certain positions. It's going to be harder for other people. But it's just all about how bad you want it.
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Y'all got to get a little hungrier for me. My stomach be growling.
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It is good. I taste that ginger. I love a ginger beer. It's probably even better with a little tequila.
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Yeah, yeah. Well, mine is good. You're going to have to make this again once I start back drinking. Oh, we can run them all back. You better take one shot and be gone. That's my hope. That is what I'm hoping for. I'm hoping that that is the way that it goes. Because that's really my goal with doing this challenge. I wanted to build back up my tolerance.
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Because I feel like my liquor tolerance was just so high. Like, it would take a lot for me to get drunk. Like, I miss when I would get drunk off of, like, two shots and a little cocktail, you know? I'll be like, my tolerance ain't low, but it's not high. Your tolerance is high. That's the lie. No, I'm talking about now. Like, if I take two or three shots, I don't be drunk, but I be good.
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Like, I took two shots today. I'm like, I feel a little one, too. Like, I'm feeling a little... I am not about to play with you. You know what I'm saying? Y'all don't be letting licks fool y'all. She be taking like seven shots. No. And still don't be drunk. No. I used to, but now... I be... Like last week, I got a little tipsy. I took like three, four shots last week.
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It's not that I'm like, I pay my bills and I'm like, oh, okay, I paid my bills, I made it another month. Thank you. I pay my bills and I'm still able to do for the people that I need to do for and do the things I need to do. I'm able to invest in my future, invest in other businesses like Love Legs P. I'm able to do things and... I am just... I just cannot say enough.
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I was... And you had like two drinks. Two, three, four. No, because my drinks were mocktails. Because I have been... For some reason, when I have a drink... mixed with the sugar, I be getting a little sick. For real? So I've been doing, like, the mocktails, but I'll take a shot. Mm-hmm. So, yeah, two, three shots, I'm feeling... Not your lips start moving. You know what I'm saying?
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It's differences, hands down. But I told y'all the story. Oh, this is hard. I'm not going to lie. This is really, really hard for me. Oh. You don't know. I don't know. Okay. No, I'm going to pick Pony. Pony? I'm going to pick Pony because it's the intro. Ooh. Yeah. Yeah. That's Timbaland. I know. It's the beat for me with Pony.
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And it's the way he's sliding. I'm just a bachelor. I'm going to have to go with Pony. Looking for a partner. And I remember, and then growing up in the 90s, he was so fine with them baby hairs. Oh. And I remember... Yes, and I remember the video. He was fine as hell in that video on that damn... That was the first time my coochie jumped. I told that story before.
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But also... I think the first time mine jumped was when I seen that D'Angelo video. Which I never really thought D'Angelo was, like, fine like that. It just looked nice. But his body was tea. Tea, yeah. And... And then it went, like, down. And then I think that was the first... It was the first time I ever was like... I want to see that dick. I wonder what's down here.
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I wonder what that look like. Because I had never seen one yet. I wanted to see that dick. But I wanted to know what it looked like. Topic two. Finding true love on dating apps. Is it possible to meet your husband, wife, friend, or life partner online today? I think it is for some people. I don't think it is for me. But I think it is for some people. I was talking to my injector.
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Shout out to Helen. Love you, girl. But yeah, I was talking to Helen. She was doing my Botox like a few weeks ago. And she was just basically telling me how she met her husband. Oh, she did? Well, she met him on... She said she met him on Hinge, but then she ended up getting off of Hinge for a little minute. And... Or something happened where she couldn't be on the app no more.
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But then she had already got his information. Oh, good. So they were, like, communicating. But, yeah, she met her husband, and she said he's, like, the best person she's ever met in her life. Oh, their wedding pictures were so cute. Yeah. So I do... So, like, having that conversation with her, I definitely feel like it's possible...
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And she said that happened, I think, maybe two or three years ago. I can't remember. But, yeah, I think it's possible for some people. I just think I'm at a point, I think both of us, I mean, I can't really speak for you, but I can speak for myself. Like, I just think, I don't know who know me. So, I don't know how much I would trust meeting somebody on a dating app.
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Like, I really, like, thank you, God. Like, I'm so... I am so blessed. And no matter how bad it gets, I'm just dramatic. You're living in answered prayer. Yes, I really, I truly am, like... And I'm glad that we're actually talking about this because obviously that's going to get into the first topic because I do want to do a catch up. But I'm just like, man, we did this.
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Because how I know you don't know who I am and have, like, real motives for wanting to date me. Like, do you genuinely want to date me for real or do you want to date me because you know about poor minds? I mean, yeah. Or is it because you know about poor minds? Like, I don't know. So, I just feel like for us, it would be kind of hard. No, you don't think so? On that one app... Yeah.
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I want to get on Raya so bad. That's where the... I mean, I'm not talking about like, oh, it'd be... No, it'd be like A-listers. Ben Affleck was on Raya. It is. Like, it'd be people like that on Raya. I feel like that's the one app I would flourish on. I mean, it is, but it's like, I know a good amount of people that have Raya, and they say the same thing that they say about Hinge and Bumble.
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Isn't it another one called Bumble? Yeah, I think so. Huh? The league? The league? It's kind of... Oh, it was kind of like Raya? It's invitation only. Yeah, and, like, I don't know. Like I said, I know a few people that have Raya, and they be saying, like, it be the same bullshit on there, too. The niggas just got more money.
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Like, because, I mean, it's more credentials to get... You need more credentials to get accepted on that app. Yeah, yeah. So, I mean, it kind of filter people a little bit better. You just going to have a more richer... Ain't she, nigga? That's what I do anyway. Yeah, so you don't need Raya. You doing well. Oh, fuck. Okay, so I'll say this.
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I do feel like with dating apps, you can find a friend, a husband, a wife. I do feel like, but I do kind of agree with you. I think the kind of woman I am, I don't think that a man, I don't think I would even attract a man who feels like he has to use dating apps. Like, if you get to the point to where you feel like you have to... And this is no shade.
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Because I think dating apps are amazing for what they're supposed to do. But I don't think I'm ever... I am old school. I want to meet you in person first. I love meeting somebody and just having a vibe. I like seeing a man for the first time and being like, damn. And seeing the way he walk and seeing the way he talk. I don't... I'm just... I feel like the last, like...
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Like I said, of course, you know, conversations start on, like, a Twitter or Instagram or things like that. But it can be like, hey, how you doing? Oh, let's link up. But there's nothing, like, I keep it real short and cute. Okay, we can go on a little date or something. But I got to see you in person. I got to feel your void. I got to know what's in your mind. I just need that in person.
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I got to, it's something about the way a nigga walk that I can tell, like, oh, yeah, you got it. Like, it's just something about a walk. I can see it in the walk. You gonna see the walk when you meet him for the first date, after y'all get off the app. No, it's something, like I said, and every time if I talk to you on a dating app, they never got that walk.
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I ain't never dated a nigga from the app. They never had that walk.
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And I will never stop clapping for us. I will never stop tooting my own horn because a lot of y'all have just started watching and y'all are just now tuning in. And I know we talk about this a lot, but... When I tell you blood, sweat, and tears, for real, and we are just now getting started because when y'all see this episode, we still got a big announcement to make. Two big announcements.
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But you think that the niggas that use Raya got their walk? They might. Because Raya a little different. Why? Because they got money? Yeah. Girl, goodbye. No, but I feel like... Um, like I said, uh, uh, I'm not saying Rhea is different. That's not what I'm saying. But I think... That's what you're saying. Well, no, Rhea is different because, like I said, it's a little more exclusive.
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I'm not on there, but I'm saying it's a little more... You saw this. I didn't make it.
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If I told you the dude that I know that's in there, you'd be like, what the fuck? I know a lot of people. I'm telling you, like, I wouldn't be surprised because I know a lot of people that have rails.
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I know a good amount of people, at least probably like 10 people. But I guess the people that I know that's on there, like the guys they be coming across, and I'm like, okay, that's a little one, two, a little something, something. They with them? No. But they ain't got no game like that. My game is... My pimp game's strong. I just feel like it doesn't matter what app you on.
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Niggas is gonna be niggas. It don't matter the tax bracket. It don't matter the race. It don't matter nothing. Men are gonna be men. I do agree with that. But it's just hard to date out here. It is very hard. I see why people go to dating apps. Like I said, personally, for me, I just don't really think that's something that will work for me, especially at this point.
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Maybe like six years ago or seven years ago, I could have got on dating apps. But right now, as it currently stands, no. But I get why people get on there because, I mean, where the hell do you meet people at? Where the hell can you go? And especially in Atlanta, like, especially living in cities like Atlanta, Houston, Daly, Chicago, all of these places, everybody know everybody. Yeah, yeah.
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Everybody know everybody. It's hard to meet niggas that don't nobody know. Or that somebody that you know, friend or whoever, ain't went on a date with them, too. It's just really hard. Men that are single, that are not married, that don't have multiple children... It's hard out here. I get why people get on dating apps.
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They be like, shit, maybe it's some niggas on here that God ain't released yet. I don't know. That we don't know about.
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I be like, damn, he ain't got no little stock up there that he can just drop real quick. Mm-mm. Drop them out of nowhere. Yeah, I don't think dating apps are for me. Like I said, I'm just old school. I want to meet my man in, like, Whole Foods or something. Target. Target. We're not supposed to be shopping at Target, my bitch. Oh, yeah. Well, wherever. I want to meet him somewhere like that.
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I'm just old school. Like, I don't think dating apps are for me. I don't even want to meet people on, like, Instagram, Twitter, and stuff anymore. Like, sliding my DMs nine times out of ten today is not going to work. You know how many... And you know what's crazy? What?
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know if i said this on the show or not the older i get the younger the men get in my dms yeah i mean i got these young i mean they be so young what tt gonna do with you oh my god i'll be like it'd be so many dms i just leave on ignore and it'd be like oh you are so young i know a nigga too young when he called me some fine shit oh Some what?
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Exactly. That's the thing that the young boy said. We too old and mature for that type of language. My little shit. My little fine shit. I mean, it do. I am a bodacious, voluptuous, beautiful woman. Don't call me that, though. That's some young nigga shit. Yes, it is. Yes, it is. It is. I don't like that. I'm a beautiful woman.
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Huge announcements. Like, God is real, y'all. I'm telling you. You got to put your head out. What Kim say? Get the fuck off your fucking ass and work. And work, man. Y'all ain't got that hustle in you. I'm telling you, I put this on everything. People can look out on the inside. I'm built different. Baby, I do what I does and I gets it done.
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And we wear Spanx. I do. Y'all young girls, y'all need to get into Spanx and body shapewear. It smooths you out. It makes you look good. Get it together. Yeah, I don't know. I definitely think it's hard out here for people. It's hard to find somebody, you know. But I think, too, like, dating apps have hurt the dating world as well. Because not everybody is replaceable.
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People be thinking, oh, this don't work out. I'ma just get on Hinge and find another one. You know what I'm saying? Not everybody is replaceable. I had to have a conversation with somebody the other day. And let them know, baby, good luck. Because this, you ain't going to find this. This ain't on Hinge, baby. This is not on Bumblebee. You shouldn't have had to tell him that, though.
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No, I mean, I didn't have to tell him that. But it was like, yeah, yeah, I know. I know. Because, I mean, nobody's perfect. People be fucking up. Yeah. And niggas be forgetting.
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Godspeed. Because go out there. Go out there. Mm-hmm. You know what I'm saying? I believe in letting niggas free. Hey. Me too. Go ahead and go out there. I'm not gonna give you no warning. Yeah. You go see what's out there. Go see. Yeah. You see what the fuck going on. Mm-hmm. So, yeah, I feel like...
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For people who have found true love on dating apps, I love that for them, but I don't think that's something that's for me. I tried a dating app for 30 minutes one time, and it was just horrifying. It was horrifying. I've never tried one. I have never had an account on a dating app, ever. I've thought about it, but I never actually went through it. This was like 2020.
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It was before Poor Minds had popped off, so it had to have been 2019 or 2020. Because I was still working at, not European, what was the other place? Regis. Yeah. And I remember me and my coworker were sitting there. Shout out to Shamice. And she was like, girl, make you a hinge. I think it was hinge. Girl, I was on there for 30 minutes. I said, no, ma'am. What was the reason why you just got off?
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Because the people, it was, I'm sorry, I never, I was sitting there swiping for 30 minutes. And I was swiping left on everybody. Mm-hmm. On everybody. There was no little fine shit on there. Nothing. It was no fine shit. It was no fine shit on there. All you niggas was unhinged. That's what I'm saying.
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They are unhinged. I can even see from your picture if you got a little one-suit. I'm just like... Mm-mm. So, yeah. Dating apps, not for me, hon. Yeah, I don't know. It's not for me either, but I love to hear the success stories. I do, too. I really do. What do you feel about... How do you feel about ones like Christian and Mingle?
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Do people still use... Is Christian and Mingle still, like... You know they got farm... What is it? Farmers something. Farmers. Farmer market. That's a Christian app. Well, no, it's for farmers.
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Only farmers? It's something farmers. It's something like farmers only. Now, you talking about where the niggas with money at. That's where they at. Now, that's who you right.
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See, now you're thinking. Oh, I know. I'm finna go. The farmers be having their papers. I'm finna go get those. That money be long. This ain't textile. Yeah, I'm telling you. Okay, you right. I wonder if they got one for oil and gas, niggas. Chevron. Only Chevron. Big tycoon. But no. That's a good answer. So, I think Christian Mingle is still a thing.
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I don't care what people say about me, but I get it the fuck done. Six years and not a week missed. Toot the horn, Greg. I just feel like, you know, you got to toot it. I've been tooting it. Yeah. And I'm going to keep tooting it. Toot it. Toot it and do it now. Mm-hmm. Because at the end of the day, if you don't give yourself a pat on the back And be proud of yourself.
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Yeah, that's what they actually call big tycoons. Big tycoons. I like that. But I do think that Christian Mingle is still a thing. But like I said, maybe Christian Mingle, but sometimes people that are super religious and men, they don't be the best. People are evil. You think like religious, overly religious? No. Well, let me say this.
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I think some people probably slide in Christian mingle that may not necessarily be really true Christians who are really about the word. That's the scary thing. You never know who you're talking to. There was a man on Hinge who was killing women. So I feel like it's scary because you never know who you're talking to. So I'm always, I'm just in person.
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Yeah, that's what I think for me has always kind of been the turnoff for me when it comes to dating apps. It's like, yeah, you just never know who you're meeting. And granted, when you go on a first date with somebody, you essentially don't know them either. But it's just something about meeting somebody online and you don't know anything about them and you... Probably don't know.
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Nobody didn't know them. Right. I think... I can't remember the last time I dated somebody who we didn't have mutual people that we knew. Like, nobody know. Yeah.
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Like, every single guy that I dated in the past few years, it's always been... Even when I went on that first date to Paris, I knew him through a mutual friend who had been knowing him. Yeah. So, it wasn't, like, a random... I knew where he worked. I knew his... Like, I knew people who had vetted for him. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Like, versus somebody on an app, you from Taiwan. Yeah.
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I don't know you. I don't know no niggas in Taiwan. Hey, you know what I'm saying? I don't know no Taiwanese niggas. That's what I'm saying. So it's a bigger risk. Like, on Instagram, I can see how many mutual friends we got. So I can ask. The last guy I dated before my last relationship, we had a lot of mutual friends. And I said, hey, girl, what you know about him?
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Oh, girl, that's my, oh, I know him. That's my homeboy. Like, you know, I do that. No, I'm out. I mean, you got to. I feel like you just got to be safe. It's so many crazy people in the world. Man. And they be praying. Like, I do feel like people be on those apps praying on people. Oh, absolutely. You know? Absolutely.
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Especially because, you know, we've said this before, they will especially pray on lonely women. And lonely men, too. I'm not saying that women don't be out here doing crazy stuff, too. Hell yeah, because remember, what was the name of that fucking movie? What was it? Baby Rain? Baby Rain! That lady was crazy as fuck. But he was dicking her down. Remember, he was having sex with her. He was? Yes.
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No, he wasn't. Yes, he did. They had sex. No, they didn't. Oh, later down the line. Yes, they did. He had sex with her because he admitted maybe that was my mistake that I ended up... Because he was like, I shouldn't have did it, but he definitely fucked that lady. Yes, he did. He did fuck her. Yes, he did. Very much. Not that y'all said it. He did. He did.
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Her curtains needed fixing. Her curtains. You never seen Baby Reindeer? Yes, her beef curtains. It was good. It was very, very good. But yeah, he definitely fucked that lady. I mean, yeah, but goddamn, he couldn't fuck her? No! And if she go about her, he go about his beef. You fucking a crazy bitch when you know she's all... I can get fucking somebody in bed. On the first date, yeah.
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And you see you found out they crazy. But knowing somebody crazy did. And I'm not victim shaming. Because she was crazy from day one. From day one. Thank you, Sa. She said, can I get a Diet Coke? Baby reindeer. Oh, God. Okay, moving on. Moving on. This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole.
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Who else is going to be proud of you? Who else? I mean, and people will be, but nobody is going to root for you more than you root for you. And I feel like one thing about us, we just rooting for ourselves before anybody was. Because maybe at one point we had, we was getting like 60 listeners a week. And I said, hey, 60 y'all, hey. But we was happy with the 60. But see, that's what I always say.
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and it's your girl Dre Nicole and we have a very exciting announcement today we have a brand new show dropping yeah so we have a brand new show dropping y'all on patreon it's gonna air on September 2nd and it's called poor chronicles we're gonna be doing so much stuff on there we're gonna be doing challenges if you can't go to bella no shade where the hell could you go
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If you can't go to Bella Notte, where the hell can you go? We're going to be doing talk to me, chit chat with me. We're going to be spilling a little tea. Oh, my God. No, you didn't.
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oh my god everything y'all been wanting to see we gonna be doing it right here on patreon yes y'all ask us for so much well we finna give it to y'all every single monday and it's gonna be a time y'all know poor minds has grown into its own little entity well we gonna have a lot of fun still over here at poor chronicles so make sure y'all tune in september 2nd it's going down thanks
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Bow. Okay. Okay. So, aftercare 101. The things that people forget to do after sex. Let's talk about it. Okay. Because I feel like number one on the list is... Take your ass to the bathroom. Oh, I'll get pissed. I just feel like these shouldn't even be conversations that we should have to have at this point.
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But we do have young listeners that probably don't know, so we're going to take this time to educate. That's fair. But yeah, take your ass to the bathroom and pee after you done getting that D. A word.
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Go pee after you get that D. Let it out. Yeah. Grain the main vein. Yeah. Yeah. You have to pee after. I don't feel right not peeing after sex. I be feeling like, thank you, Jesus. I be feeling like I gotta go after. That's because you had an orgasm. Yeah, I be feeling like I gotta go. Mm. Tell me you want to go. Okay, number two. Wipe down or take a shower. Just don't roll over.
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Now, I do agree with that. I always, like, have me a little honeypot wipe or I hop in the shower. I take a full-blown shower. You got to wipe it down. Well, wipe me down. Because sleeping in that sticky icky is crazy. Sticky icky. Why would you sleep on that? If you wake up in your pussy crunchy... Or your stomach stuck to the bed. Oh, stuck to the bed is nuts. No pun intended.
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Yeah, stuck to the bed. I'm not going to lie, like, yeah. I definitely pay attention, too, because I feel like if the guy I'm having sex with, you need to go to the bathroom and wipe that dick off. Get a warm rag and wipe that dick off. You know, I prefer, you know, I like a little concierge service. I be bringing it.
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I say this all the time. God is not going to bless you with more until you're happy for what you got. And I feel like one thing about us, we was happy with them little 60 listeners. Like, we definitely always wanted more, but we still just couldn't even believe that many people was listening to us every week. I mean, I'm not going to lie. Even with my new channel, like...
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I like that. It is. Sometimes we be in the bathroom together. We take the trip together. So I'm in there peeing and he's wiping off. We like, that ain't good. Yeah, but then see, sometimes you just gotta go get it yourself too because niggas be taking too long. Yeah, that's true too. They be taking too long and then they start melting. Melting? We'll be melting.
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The glaze be melting. Like, ripping? Yeah. So, like, you know, when it first, it be like thick. Oh, okay. Then... It get a little runny. Because of the body heat, it be making it melt. Girl, you are nasty. But y'all laughing because y'all know what I'm talking about. And then it start cutting. And it be like, hurry up.
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Too far? Peeling it off is... Because you're doing to be crusty. You could just go rinse it. That's what I'm saying. You ain't got to peel it. I be kind of making sure I get in there. You got to rinse it.
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Yeah. Yeah, you got to get that foam wash. What I told when Glamazon said, you got to boil that dick up. You do got to boil that dick up. Boil it up. So, yeah. Got to keep it sanitary. Yes, I definitely think you should clean your sex toys after every use. Absolutely. Absolutely. Like, please do not be rubbing it out with that old crust from the last session.
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There don't be no juice residue. There don't be no juice residue. Straight Sahara. Okay, now see. All right, all right. Change the sheets regularly, especially after a sneaky link. So first of all, I'll say this. After any link? You're supposed to wash your sheets after no link. Wash your sheets once a week. If you don't have more, I feel like this. I'm not the clean police either.
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I probably, I'm averaging like 15K views per video. Yeah. And I mean, obviously that's different from poor mine because we get 100,000, sometimes half a million. I'm happy with that. I cannot believe 15,000 of y'all want to hear me talk. That's how I feel about my YouTube channel. Because I average about the same. Like I'm getting about 15,000 like views a week or whatever.
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I wash my sheets every Sunday. Yeah. Every Sunday. And then I also have two, three pairs of sheets that I can rotate. So, one Sunday, I may not feel like washing my sheets. So, guess what? I'm going to just change them out. I agree. Weekly, if you're not washing your sheets weekly, it's time to get yourself together. So, Sadie having them dust bunnies in there. Do we double, do we up and up?
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And then, you know how somebody said they wake up with whelps? Bitch, you got Dorito chips in your bed, hoe. Yes, you need to wash your sheets every week. I ain't gonna lie, I do agree with that. Every week, no excuses. No excuses. Y'all do know our skin sheds every day. Every day. But you should always be washing your sheets every week. Hair, all that stuff. Mm-hmm. Okay. Hydrate.
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Six is a workout. Absolutely. Keep you a little glass of water. And I think that if you drink a lot, like, I always do this, like, I drink a lot of water anyway.
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But the day you know you about to get some, that coochie be leaking. Mm-hmm. Soaking wet. If your coochie is dry, I promise you, you're not drinking enough water. If you drink water, that coochie be... Oh, oh, that splash waterfall. Okay, now see, I do feel like you should be hydrating on a normal basis in general. You should be drinking at least half of your body weight in water every day.
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But, you know, keep your little water by the bed because it gets a little sweaty. Yes, I agree. A little too turned up. Okay, so we talked about that. Air out the room. Nobody wants stale sex, ma'am. I just, you know, I feel, I be feeling some type of way about airing the room out because why do we stank in there? Yeah. Why do it stink? I just feel like, why do the room need to be aired out?
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What is causing the smell? Why do it smell like that? Why do it stink? I just, I don't know.
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I like the smell of sex. Yeah, me too. If it smell good. Yeah, like, I like the smell of, like, bodyssey. It smells good. Like, if you are clean, the smell of sex, you don't need to air it out. I'll be like, mm. It's the pheromone. But you know what? What's that saying that people say to the room stank? Yeah, people do be saying to the room stank.
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And, like, I never want to do it to the room stank. But I think the stank is, like, figurative. No, I think you probably do be stanking. Because remember we had, you remember that conversation we had with Skeet that time? Right. And he was like, back in the day, people coochie used to say. Oh, yeah, he did say that. He know. Because he was back in the day. He finna get on your ass.
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He was back in the day with the pilgrims, bitch. He was fucking pilgrims. No, for real though, like, I feel like Feminine hygiene has come a long way. Yes, it has. Is what I'm saying.
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So, it shouldn't stink ever. No more. Unless something is wrong. If it stink, go to the doctor. Call 911. Someone please call 911. Someone please call 911. Because something ain't right. It's a little bacterial vaginosis going on. Maybe some other thing. Yeah. But yeah, it should not stink. It shouldn't stink. But I don't mind the smell of sex. Because it don't stain. Mm-hmm. Stop doing that.
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And yeah, it's like, to start something new, like fresh from the ground up and to already be getting those kind of views, that's a lot. You know what I mean? I'm grateful for it all.
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All right. So, yeah. Brush your teeth. Brush your teeth. Or use mouthwash before kissing. Now, it's not about... Especially after... No.
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Yeah. I like that. Like, I would literally, like, it's sad. I could be riding the pain. I'm finna hop off and put it in my mouth. Yeah. I feel like that's normal stuff when you having sex. Yeah. But, yeah, I mean. Mouthwash, I'm not doing. No, we finna getting real. Before kissing again, like, I feel like, yeah, when you done.
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But, you know, they say you're not supposed to brush your teeth until the next day. After? Yeah, but I don't fucking believe in that shit. But I remember I read that shit in a sex ed book when I was in high school. Why? Because if you brush your teeth, you can create little sores. Little sores in your mouth, little scratches in your mouth.
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And if the person got an STD, he can get in the sore and then boom. Now you got chlamydia all up in your mouth. Y'all see that video on Twitter that was going viral of this guy? Fun facts.
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I guess it's not so fun. It's not fun. But he was rapping and the girl, it was a girl and a guy behind him fucking in a U-Haul. Mm-hmm. And everybody was like, they fucking, but they using a condom, but she was giving him head with no condom. Yeah. But they was like, what's the point?
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Yeah, because, I mean, I feel like I'm not fucking no nigga who I feel like I can't brush my teeth right before I give you head. I'm going to make sure my sores are closed. What? Like, that's wild as fuck when you really think about it. Like, that's literal insanity. That is kind of crazy. It's insanity.
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Like, I'm not going to brush my teeth before I go fuck this nigga because I don't know if he got chlamydia.
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For real, though. Shout out to Kendrick. I deserve it all. Okay, but anyways, let's do a catch-up. Obviously, we haven't had a solo in a while, so what you been up to? What's going on? How's life treating you? Life has been great. I had a really, really good Valentine's Day sale for Muse. It did really amazing. Oh, yeah. How was it? Because you had a, I just want to say, you had a beautiful model.
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I agree. That is crazy when you put it that way. So, yeah. Let us know, what are some aftercare things that y'all do after sex? And I'm sorry, I feel like more on an emotional level, I do like to cuddle after sex, too. Yeah. Like, I want to lay on your chest, and I like to see the soft meat out. Play with them little hairs. Yay! On the chest, not... Oh.
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So stay tuned for that. And as always, you know, my lip combo is Muse Chestnut Liner, the Plump It Up Lip Plumper, and it's giving. Mm, period. And per usual, you know, Rich Look Hair. Always supply me with the hair. RichLookHair.com. Shout out to my girl, Didi. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole.
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So if you would like to get your product featured for Item of the Week, all you need to do is send an email to itemoftheweekpm at gmail.com. That's I-T-E-M O-F-T-H-E-W-E-E-K-P-M at gmail.com. Send us an email, and we'll work it out. We're going to figure it out. Get your product. Get your business sponsored. And, yeah, make you some money. We love to support a small business now.
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And a black business at that. But, I mean, any business is welcome.
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Any business is welcome. And now it's time to get into the bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Okay, so Bop of the Week. So I'm going to switch it up. Y'all know I usually do indie artists, and I'm always shouting them out, but I do want to do a mainstream artist this week. So y'all know I am on the Tate McRae train. I love when the girlies are in their lane, in the pop lane.
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I did. I did gorgeous. Just gorgeous. Jesus Christ. So, yes, it did really well. So, the Valentine's Day sale did really, really well. I'm excited because it's about to be springtime.
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We haven't had a pop superstar in a long time, and I feel like the girls are doing a good job. Sabrina Carpenter is amazing, and Tate McRae. is so good. She has got it. She's not trying to be nothing else. She is a pop star, so she dropped her album. She has a song called Blood On My Hands featuring Flo Millie. And I don't know, Tate McRae just has a little swag about her.
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It doesn't give try hard. It doesn't give like she's just doing too much. She is just a cutie girl. She can dance her ass off. And that's what the pop girls are missing. Y'all not dancing no more. We need a hot boom cock. A hot eighth count. Break it down. Okay? That's what the world means. The world is missing the boom kacks. Shout out to Lori Ann Gibson. Shout out to our girl.
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So yeah, Tate McRae, I think it's an amazing album. I think the rollout was good. I think that she understands herself as an artist. It was kind of shaky for a little bit for me at first, but I think her team, they're figuring it out and they're getting it together. So I'm rooting for the girl. Okay. You know what I'm saying? Shout out to Tate McRae and Flo Millie. And that's a good placement.
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Flo Millie, keep doing your thing now. I don't know this word. Period. So, I don't have a new bop this week. That's all right. But, you know, I be feeling like it's my duty. To please that booty. As an elder. Because you might be calling us unteachable. We are elders. It is my duty as an elder to put y'all on the old school music that y'all don't be knowing about. And I don't know.
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I've just been in a little era of listening to the Osley Brothers a lot. I don't know if it was because he had popped up on my timeline talking about what he listened to during sex. Ronald Osley. Shout out to him. But I was like, you know, I be actually listening to you during sex. Okay. So... I don't know. I just been listening to so many songs. I got a nice little playlist.
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Between the Sheets, For the Lover You, Groove With You, Choosy Lover. I could keep going and going. Voyage to Atlantis. That's me and Lex on. Oh, Atlantis. Yeah, that's a good one. That's a good one. So, yeah. So, I've just been in, like, my old school bag. I've been feeling it. Feeling the love. I think the longevity of the Isley Brothers isn't talked about enough, too.
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I cannot say on camera, but I'll let you know off camera. But yeah, the sale did really, really good. And now I'm like gearing up for my... I'm going to do like a big like spring campaign. Yeah, yeah. Like promo campaign because I have a lot of new products coming out. And you know...
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These men have been making music since, what, the 60s? They was making music since my mama was three. Who? Who? Who? Who died?
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What's his name? Chris Jasper. Oh, well, rest in peace to him. Yes, RIP.
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That is sad. The keyboard player. And I will say this. We don't give them their flowers enough because, like I said, they've been making music since, what, the 50s, the 60s? Mm-hmm. No, I'm serious. No, they really have been making music.
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I was not playing when I said my mama was three. Yeah, yeah. So I think that to be relevant for this long, like, you still making jams? Still. I have something devastating. Because he had a song, like, with Beyonce, right? Yeah. A year or two ago. And that song was good. I have some devastating news I found out the other day that I had no idea. I just don't really feel like it's that devastating.
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And I want to apologize to everybody out there. Because I'm not going to lie to you. I'm not going to stop listening to this song. So everybody knows my favorite song in the whole wide world is Life by Casey and JoJo.
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I did not know that R. Kelly wrote that song. I just found this out. I just found this out like 48 hours ago. Just like a bird.
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I was actually mad when the person told me because they know how I am about stuff like that and I don't take it as a joke and I don't take it lightly. And I'm like, there's some things you can just keep to yourself. You didn't have to tell me that. It's good that you know now, though. It's not going to change anything. But that's good.
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I mean, technically, you still supporting him. Well, y'all just going to have to cancel me behind that. Yeah. I'm sorry. It's not happening. You know what's really crazy, though? What? That out of his whole catalog, that's the one song that you don't want to give up. That's the one. I'm not giving it up. You're going to have to pry it out of my cold, dead hand. That's crazy. I'm not doing it.
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Do you know you got 30 minutes? Do you know you have 30 minutes? Ten. Ten. Girl, anyways, we get into our favorite segment of the show. If you want your question answered on the show, make sure you email us at askpoorminds at gmail.com.
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spring baby my birthday is coming up i'm gonna do a birthday sale can i get like something can i get like a collaboration yeah like i want to do a lip we can but i feel like i've been said that to you years ago like i feel like my signature i'm ready when you ready yeah i want to do like a lippy yeah you want to do like a lip kit yes i want to have like a lex p lip kit okay like i want it to be like you know something cute and fabulous
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Okay, I got question number one today. All right, I'm 31 and I got engaged last year in Aruba after being with my man for five years. When I got back to the States, I was beyond excited to ask my closest friends to be my bridesmaids. But when I asked my best friend, the one I really wanted by my side, she told me no.
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I was completely thrown off by her response, so I brought it up later to get some clarity. She still said no, explaining that she felt left out of my private proposal. I eventually accepted her decision, but it made me feel some type of way about our friendship. Her reasoning just didn't make sense to me. Fast forward, and now she's coming back, saying she does want to be my bridesmaid after all.
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At this point, I'm super conflicted. My gut is telling me to say no, because honestly, it's giving weird vibes. So ladies, how would you handle this? Would you let her back in, or is it too late? Baby, you had a chance and it came and it motherfucking went. If I ask you to be in my wedding and you tell me no and you think you can come back and change your mind, absolutely not.
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Especially if your reasoning for saying no did not make any sense to me. Because my proposal is not about you. It's about my wedding. It's my wedding. People are very... It's my wedding, and I'm asking you to be a part of my day. Do you know what this is giving? Do y'all remember on Girlfriends when Joan was being so mean to Tony because she was getting married? And then guess what Tony did?
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She told her ass, bitch, well, you ain't got to come. So I think that you should let her stand on that. But no, but then Toni didn't stand on it, though. Yeah, she didn't. But she let her be in that wedding with that ugly-ass dress on, because remember, she cut her dress up when she was there. But it's just like, people be doing too much.
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If you try to make your best friend's wedding about you, starting from the proposal, it's not going to get better. She's going to be around and being a Debbie Downer. If my friend got proposed to, even if I was there or not, it could have been a public proposal and something happened where I wasn't there. I'm still not finna be upset. I'd be like, daddy, why you ain't make sure I was there?
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Talking to the man. But other than that, bitch, this is not about me. My friend is finna get married. Yeah. So I don't think you should allow her in the wedding because she's already showing you how she feels. This is not about you. Yeah. So no. Okay, stand on it. Period. All right. Okay, question number two. Hey, ladies, big fan, y'all are hilarious.
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I had a best friend since 2017, more like a sister. Last year, I noticed she was MIA for everything. My birthday, my engagement, all of it. We talked, she apologized, and I thought we were good. Then I broke up with my girl, but doubled back for some coochie tickling. Okay. Bitch. Let the door hit you where the good Lord sleep you. Once you walk out, don't come back no more. Good fucking bye.
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Like, I just feel like y'all got to be okay with people. If somebody is okay with walking out of your life, you got to be okay with letting them walk. Yeah, maybe you tripping on it a little bit because y'all been friends for so long, which is understandable. That's a human response to have when somebody hurt your feelings.
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But I would be cool with letting that bitch go because you just walked out of my life. No explanation. You're going to tell me that you've washed your hands of me. Bitch, I washed my hands first. Yeah, I think if somebody doesn't want to be in your life, just let them. I believe in the let them theory. No matter what is going on, let people do it. You can't.
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You can't cry, nag, complain, pray nobody in your life. If they want to be there, they will be there. Let them. Let people do what they want to do. Yeah, like, the fuck? Goodbye. Goodbye. Mm-mm. Let that hoe go.
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All right. So, uh... Make sure y'all tune in. Poor Minds every Friday. Love Lex P every Monday, 10 a.m. Dre and Nicole with three E's on YouTube every Sunday. But yeah, that's it, y'all. Thanks. Oh, so Mixi.com. Oh, yes.
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Yeah, let's do it. Maybe we could do it for your birthday. That's enough time for me, darling. Yeah, I feel like, because then we could do, like, a proper rollout and really, like, make sure it's, like, real cute and put together. Yeah. Get, like, cute packaging and stuff. Yeah.
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Period. You know what I'm saying? And we'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all. Y'all make sure y'all share the content, like, subscribe, follow, all that good stuff. And let me say this before we close out. Y'all, there is one Twitter account that is connected to Poor Minds. It's P-O-U-R underscore M-I-N-D-S. Y'all are tagging the wrong Poor Minds page.
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If you see at Poor Minds with no underscore, that is a fake page. Do not follow that page, okay? They blocked me, Andrea, and the Poor Minds page on both. So we only have one Instagram.
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one twitter one tiktok it is p-o-u-r underscore m-i-n-d-s all right and we got a hell of fake facebook page oh the facebook pages our face the crazy thing is our facebook page actually have the least amount of followers so if you're on facebook the one that's ours got the least amount of followers the one that's That's not us. Got like 250,000 followers.
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But y'all know it's fake if you actually look at the content because the caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English. Because their captions are like, Bamba Claude. Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes, no. Check answer below. Blah, blah. Booyah, booyah, booyah. Like, that's literally what the captions are like. I like that DDG. Bamba Claude.
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Thank you. I was the kind of guy that tried to dog you out. But I ain't that kind of guy you try to make me out. You found out when you turned to my baby. I showed them other brothers how to treat a lady. I let you drive when I ride that Mercedes. And I ain't tripping or acting shady. Cause baby, you know.
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But yeah, so the sale did really well. Like I said, I'm gearing up for the new products that's coming out my spring campaign because it's going to be big. I'm going to have like models and stuff. And then just still doing this goddamn challenge. But I am 34 days. And you look amazing. Thank you. You literally have a six pack now. I do. That's crazy. It is crazy. I'll be like, God damn.
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oh oh oh my god this is me I can't wait to see you I want to be with you again and every time you're out on the road I strip and whenever I'm doing a show don't you forget that I'm your main chick who got that game chick one in the same chick the one you can hang with I
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Feel like I should enough, that's when I feel more I give you this, give you that, what you need love You know I gotta holler at me if you need love And affection, cause I be your protection Kinda hard job, but I do it to perfection And you can tell that I ain't tryna let you go I get with you when I can, so that's how I let you know And you be trippin' cause sometimes I gotta go But you the first one I holler to, right after my show's
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And I was tripping in a sense. I was tense for my body loose around you. What I'm going to do without you? I got to get it together. Say whatever. But since I met you, my life seems so better.
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Thanks, friend. Yeah, I do. I really do. I have a little six-pack now. And I feel like my legs, I was just telling Ty when we was in the kitchen, I feel like my legs are getting big, like, bigger. Yeah. Like, they're getting, like, toned. Yeah. I mean, you look, body always been, see, but you, it gives, like, workout, girl, now.
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Like, your body gives that you go to the gym. And see, I can't wait till I really start having, like, muscle definition, though. Yeah. Like, in my legs and in my arms and stuff. Mm-hmm. But, yeah, I'm 34 days. I haven't missed a day working out in 34 days. I've been doing 10,000 steps a day. And I haven't been drinking. So, I'm just still doing my challenge. So, I still have, what, 41 more days?
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You're going to push through. You're going to get there. Yeah, I'm going to get there. And I'm going to be done right in time for my birthday. Like, I'm going to be, I think April 8th is my last day. Ooh, we're going to have so much fun for your birthday. Yeah. We are, because we have something so big and so huge coming up. So, I'll say this.
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Okay, I'm not going to say anything, but April 22nd is Drea's birthday. If you are a poor mindstand fan, whatever you are, you need to be in Atlanta April 22nd. I'm going to say that. Because we're going to do something really nice. Like, yeah. And y'all are invited. And y'all are going to be invited. So, April 22nd, make sure y'all in Atlanta.
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yeah so that's really it for me like girl just boring working working out eating meal prepping boring I feel like when you're doing a detox and you're doing a challenge life is never that exciting but that's why I was saying I want to go somewhere like this weekend or next weekend like I just feel like I need to get out of Atlanta and go do something because I feel like my life's just been so repetitive because I don't be really wanting to go nowhere because I don't want to be tempted to drink so what you been up to
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Uh, I'm going 75 days hard, drunk as fuck. I'm just playing. Honestly, okay, like, I didn't give up liquor, but I don't drink anyways. Like, I'm not a heavy drinker. Like, I drink the days we record. I lost, recently I lost 15 pounds, but half of that because I got really fucking sick. Like, I'm still kind of getting over it. Yeah, you look good. But yeah, I've lost 15 pounds.
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I want to lose, like, 10 more before... Oh, I almost said what it was. Before your birthday, I want to lose like 10 more pounds. But honestly, like I said, you know, I've still been on my church journey, my therapy journey. I'm still doing very, very well. I'm getting better mentally.
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Like I said, I be catching myself kind of slipping down that slope, but I can catch myself better now and quicker now. I've been doing a lot of work internally. And one thing that I'm working on this year, too, is I'm really trying to pour into my community, right? Like, especially black women, black creators, anybody.
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Like, I'm trying to make sure whatever knowledge I have to give to them that I'm helping people build their platform. I'm not even being like, oh, break me off and give me a percentage. Nah, like, I really want to see more black women doing this. I want to see more black women on tour. I want to see more black women just creating content. I want to see us in these spaces.
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So that's something that I've been doing, too. Like, really pouring into people that are close to me, people that DM me, ask me for advice. And like sharing my platform and doing what I'm supposed to do. So that's something I really, really want to do this year is like uplifting us. As black female creators. Like, I really want. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP.
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And it's your girl, Dre Nicole. And we are here to tell y'all about our brand new e-book and e-course bundle, Pour Into Your Pod. Yes, y'all. We have been working on this for a while. And we're so excited to put it out and give it to y'all. Because we know so many people have been asking us for such a long time about how to start a successful podcast.
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What's up, y'all? It's your girl Lex P. And it's your girl Dre Nicole. And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mind. Where a drunk mind speaks so but the whole. We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no guests today. I feel like, when was the last time we sat on this couch, just me and you? I don't know. It's been a minute. We using high demand, boo. Oh, my God. Boosting busy.
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And we have literally put all of the information that we have and everything that we've utilized into this one e-book. Yes, this is not your typical e-book because I know what a lot of y'all are thinking. But I'm telling y'all, we give y'all direct access to how we built our brand. It's not no fluffiness and all that what I've read in e-books before.
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This is the e-book that gets straight to the point and gives you all the direction you need to start your podcast today. Absolutely. And you can trust that we are putting 100% good information, no filter into this book. And it's going to help you build your brand. And it shows you exactly how we built Poor Minds and made it into a six-figure company.
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So make sure y'all head to poorminds.com to purchase your e-book or the e-course. And we also have it available in a bundle for you so you can get both. Poorminds.com. Pour into your pot. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Duran Nicole. And we are in a time where everybody is creating content, selling things online.
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So we're going to tell y'all about how Squarespace.com is going to make it super easy for you. Yes, one way that they make it super easy is that they use design intelligence, which is cutting-edge AI technology. And I also like that they use a lot of popular payment methods like Clarinet, Apple Pay, and Afterpay. Literally, they make it a one-stop shop for all of your content.
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So whether it's YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, they make it a one-stop shop for all your customers. So if you're selling online courses, blogs, videos, whatever, they can make it where it's a recurring revenue for you each and every month. So all you're going to do is go to squarespace.com backslash poorminds and you'll get 10% off of your website or your domain.
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Check out squarespace.com for a free trial. And when you're ready to launch, www.squarespace.com backslash poor minds to save 10% off of your first purchase of a website or domain. Yeah, because you know what? And I want to shout out to Kev on stage real quick because y'all do this every three months to my dog. Y'all think Kev on stage funny? Yes, he's funny.
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And not only is he funny, he puts people in position to win. During the pandemic, this man had a whole comedy series where he was putting comedians on. Y'all literally sit on Twitter, and this is no offense because I be on Twitter a lot, but y'all sit on Twitter and y'all tweet all day. You think you so funny. Y'all be networking with the wrong people.
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Instead of bashing this man, he can get you a job. I just don't see the benefit of bashing people who are doing good and putting people in position. And somebody said to me, Tyler Perry puts people in position, but he's not above criticism. Asking if Kev on stage is funny is not criticism. That's not a critique. And Tyler Perry might not be above criticism, but he also not on Twitter.
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He not responding to y'all neither, so y'all don't know what he above. Y'all are doing that because y'all think it's funny, y'all think it's cute. I just think it's so crazy that if I can look at your timeline and I can name ten things you hate, but I can't name two things you like, you might need to take some... You're a negative Nancy.
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Yes, and this is coming from the number one hater in the world. Or Nathan. Whichever, you know. You know what I'm saying? So, I just feel like that... I see the things that Kevin... I hate when you call yourself the number one hater. I am a hater. I love to hate down. I do. I don't know if I would call you a hater, per se. I don't give a fuck what people call me. Bleep that out. But...
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I think it's been five minutes. Okay, but I do, I will say, like I said, seeing people like Kev on stage share his platform and give people, you know, a space to be introduced to other people that are funny and in that space and do what they do, it's like, it's amazing. And I'm like, okay, you know what? I want to do the same thing. I can't do it on his level yet.
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But, you know, eventually I do want to have my own. I've always said this. I want to have my own production company and I want to be able to produce other things. But I feel like I can start right here with my platform and making sure I just do what I can to share the knowledge and share the wealth. So shout out to KevOnStage. Shout out to Kev, yes. Yeah. Me and Kanta.
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Okay, so let me say this first of all. Today, the day that we're recording, obviously when y'all see this, it's going to be past it. But today is February 26th. Today literally makes four years since I quit my job, okay? To become a full-time entrepreneur. Yes.
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That's something like Drea. I could definitely see that.
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You have to brush it and wash it. You have to brush it.