Drea Nicole
Appearances
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I went on a rampage. You got to go on that rampage. What you mean the rampage? I know what you mean about a rampage. Look, he took. Bitch, I was... It was fucking... Couches. The woods? The woods? Yeah. Oh, my God. Lord, I got woods. Girl, no, I was living in North Carolina. It was like a little... This way, we was in the woods. And...
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Oh... Yeah. You know what? Yeah. You want a silent shot? They do. And people always say that the G-Spot is in your... It is. It is. Oh, it is. A real? It's up in there. Why you asking us? I don't like all that. You don't like it? You don't like a little butt play?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Oh, baby. I didn't get into it. We got Santana. Santana. That's right. When that song dropped, I was in Miami. I was like, you ain't f***ing me for free. Why you lying?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Take a shot if the... 50 shades of gray, what do that mean? What is that? The BDSM. BDSM.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You know what I'm saying? I'm going to have to see it in my head. What about the little nip... They have, like, the nipple... Nipple clips? Yeah, the nipple clips. I don't think I would like that.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because I'm hard. My nipples sucked hard. Ooh, okay. Yeah, don't be too rough.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I don't like all that rough stuff. They got to be sensual.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Honestly, though, I can't take a shot or not because I... Honestly, I don't know. Do you ever feel like... Ooh. Do I feel like a guy I was dealing with once? Yeah. Do you ever... My best friend will just call me right here. Ooh. Carisha. Oh, hello. We said hi, girl. Come on the show. Let me see the scene. Girl, this is too messy. It's too messy. Because why would you ask that?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
It's just a take a shot if you f***ing with a man and f***ing with another man and all that, girl. Wait, I got to ask you something.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm telling you about the Poor Minds podcast. We playing Risha Roulette, girl. Telling all about your business. Ooh, I'ma call you back, boo. Now you're calling out his name. She's too messy. She's too messy. Again.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Hula, hula, hula. I'm Hawaiian. You know what, though?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Well, I don't know. But I've definitely had relations with a man who I thought he was bisexual. Absolutely. For real? Yeah. But honestly... Was you okay with it? It didn't bother me because it wasn't... I don't want to offend anybody, but it wasn't a situation I was taking serious. I'm like, okay, we having fun. You go have your fun because I'm having my fun. We're not, like, locked in like that.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So if you like a little bussy play, go do what you do, bookie. I appreciate that because a lot of girls do fuck with bisexuals and act like... Like, they don't want to, like, claim it. Yeah, yeah. Because I got an ex-boyfriend. One of my ex-boyfriends is bi. Mm-hmm. He f*** with... He likes, like... Oh, what's his name from... Who? Tyrone? Well, no, I was talking about Zayl. That was not bye.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
It's crazy. I want to get back to that, like, my next project that I'm doing. Uh-huh. I'm naming it Back to Basics.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Oh, okay. Bye-bye. Trick me. So, um, what's next? No, Tyrone... Bye-bye-bye-bye. Tyrone is like... He's like, I'm like, well, I don't know. When, when, when, when they in jail, I never see no... Okay. I don't went through that phone. Mmm. I ain't see no... Okay. When I went through Tyrone's phone, there's transgenders in there, and there's... Okay. That's the busiest. He like it all. Um, who?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Tyrone was before him. Tyrone was like one of my first boyfriends, like real hood. So, very much Trey when I first started dating him, but it was so sickening to me because he was like the Trey, but he wasn't. Like, I'm all with him. He was here around my waist. I was like, what? But, so, when I was with him, I really seen, like, he really still does date girls.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
If he don't hide, you know, the fact that he Still with him. Yeah. Like a couple of months ago. So they knew what he was on. A couple of months ago, probably like earlier, like in the summertime, he was up here visiting me and I was cooking for him at home and I was on live. And one of the girls that, he live in Jacksonville, one of the girls that he with, I guess was on my live and was like, oh,
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because I want to go back to, like... Where you started from. To my fun, like... Yeah. I feel like now, like, when I be rapping, I be popping in and burping Chanel and... But I just want to go back to saying, like, my girl... Who the... Think of that?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You with Santana? Girl, she went and busted windows out of his house. Mood. I'm like, yo, you have a gang of shit going on.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I know bitch really be that's buying. Yeah, I have a friend, she only dates bisexual men.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because she's bisexual and she says she just feels like they understand her more. Uh-huh. So it's easier for her. Okay. So she just only dates bisexual men. Yeah. But I feel like a lot of times women, like y'all be, I'm not saying that you have to or don't have to, but a lot of times y'all be messing with bisexual men. Y'all don't know. They don't even know it anyway, so shit.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Might as well be cool. Okay, last one, then we gonna get to the drink. Okay. Take a shot, because this is childish. And because I know nobody but Shay picked these. Take a shot if you shit on yourself. Uh-uh. Well, like a little... Y'all ain't never like... Like a little sharp. Yeah, like when you, you know, doing the business. Like if you think it's a... Wait, what?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Or maybe... Like when y'all... Oh, uh-uh. Or what if you think it's a poop and then it's like... Why you... No, just period. I feel like everybody that did a little sharp in there, but like a little... You running, you... You trying to make it to the... Oh, my God, man. Shut up. You were just talking about that. Ain't nothing like... Well, you're running... And don't let it get close to home.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yes, girl. As soon as you... Girl, yes. I feel like everybody done did that. Like, you barely made it.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, you might have a little skid mark. You got a little dookie in there. You got a little skid mark. A little dookie in there. I love these people. Got a little skid mark. I feel like everybody done did that.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, you never did that? I just said I done been sick before. You sharted. I'm going to regret telling this story. Tell it anyway. Let me tell y'all what happened, because I got tipsy already. Let me tell y'all. It wasn't me, though. So the guy I was dating, this was like, I thought this was going to be my husband. I was like 20. We living together. So I used to buy these granola bars.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And y'all know granola bars are already high in fiber.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
He smashed that whole box, because we used to be smoking or whatever like that. Yeah. He smashed the whole box. So then he got sick. Like, he had the runs. And I was telling him, babe, if you feel like you have to fart, just go sit on the toilet because you're going to fart, you're going to think it's a fart, you're going to shit on yourself. And I kept telling him that. So he was like, okay.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
He was like, oh my God, you right. Every time I think I got to fart, I end up shitting, whatever. So we go to sleep that night. All of a sudden, I hear... All of a sudden, I hear... Huh? You say what? He got a fart.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah, like... Build up for my... Yeah, like, if you feel... When you have... When you have diarrhea, when you have the runs, you feel like you have to fart, but it ends up, like, you're going to the bathroom. Okay. So, I kept telling him that. So, all of a sudden, like, I'm sleeping. I hear, oh, my God. Oh, my God. Y'all, I woke up. This man was in his sleep. You know when you sleep and you...
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
It was all over my leg. It was everywhere. Oh, it was everywhere. On your leg? It was all over my leg. Like, literally, it was everywhere. He was just like, oh, my God. How much dookie did he have? Girl, please. That's on your leg? It's crazy. Girl, Doodoo Brown. I was in a heart attack. Get out. That's when I knew. I would have all hit up in them sheets.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Javi, we naming this episode Doodoo Brown. It was so bad. So I think actually that's probably as bad as being on yourself as being like, it was so bad, y'all. I was like.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yes, and he was so, and I was embarrassed. It was awkward. He was embarrassed. But, I mean, we were deep in our relationship at that point. But he probably was sleeping a couple of times. I woke up on the third one. I didn't think about that. He should have come first. I was on the third one. Imagine when you were sleeping, you farted and just let him out. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I like the fun raps. Yeah. I think, like, the Birkin and Chanel raps are phenomenal. Yeah. Because when you had that Red Bull freestyle, it don't. Yes. Like... I did. Your key game is not to be messed with. Thank you. But I will say, like, that first project that you dropped... Oh, what a shisha. What a shisha, yep. What the f*** name? Keisha. We used to be on that project.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So he probably every time... He was like, oh, I'm in the free. I'm in the free. Like, I did it. Hold on. That's love right there. No, that's really love for real. That's real love. I would have never... I would have got my
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That's love, though. Okay, okay. We gotta get into the first topic.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
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Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
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Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
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Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And, like, she just always seemed to get the short end of the stick. Yeah, but even if he lived that long, how many hardships he had during all them years. Was he lonely at the end of his life from being a terrible person? No, he had six kids. Yeah, you got kids. I mean, yeah, your kids, so it's kind of unconditional, but... Yeah. Did you really have family? Was you really happy with yourself?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, I feel like karma is real. Whatever you get... You know why I feel like karma is real? Why? When I used to boost. Ooh! When I used to steal... I used to steal, but it was awesome. I always, like... This, I got to pay this. I lost this. This happened. This happened. But, bitch, I'm boosting, and I'm still, bitch, I ain't paying for shit. Girl, everything in life was free. Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
If it could fit in our purse, it was going. Yeah. We at the tie shop, bitch, everywhere. Tie shop, stealing ties is crazy. Girl, whatever could fit in this purse, it's going. Yeah, yeah. So, literally, we was walking around, life was free. Yeah. Yeah. But it was so many hardships that I was like, I'm just going to stop stealing. Yeah. Because you felt like you was getting your karma.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because I was getting it back. And I never stole from people. But a department, a store, anything we feel like is a company or like, you know, like, I feel like stealing from somebody else, stealing from a person is more personal.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Dog, we used to run that project. I was just literally in the studio. And, um... You know I'm getting ready for the vibe.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
tearing down the mall, tearing down the... This is reparation. Y'all got a budget for... Yeah, they do. Laws, prevention, and all that. You all right.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I remember... Back in the day. We did, and I used to always be like, you know, we live a free life. We don't pay for nothing, but... In real life, it was coming back. Yes, it was just always something. It was just always other hardships. I was like, I just want to stop stealing. I was glad that I became so popular and famous that I couldn't steal. No more.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because everywhere I went, I remember one time. Your pictures was in the stores. Yes, we was walking around the mall. I was with my mama, and my mama was like, why do the security? Girl, because I tear this mall down. Yeah. They just never could catch him. They could never catch him. But they know when they see me coming, watch that. My picture used to be in Old Navy. In the back, yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Oh, my God, kids had school. Old Navy. Y'all childish. Y'all childish. High school, my picture was in Old Navy. I'm not going to lie. I do not believe in karma. You don't. I don't. I think when bad things happen to you or whatever, it's just life is lifing. I truly believe that there are people who do horrible things to people and they do not reap the benefits of it.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm like, okay, where my lip at? What is that? Hey, what a shisha. Yeah. And you was like, ooh. What a sound. Bars. What a shisha. Looking for a thing. Keisha. And I was going to say looking for a thing named Carisha. Ooh, that would have been cute. That would have been cute. I was like, let me just say Keisha because Keisha just get a beat. Get a beat. Yeah, it do. It do. That's Keisha.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I think sometimes it be a good person that lives a good, perfect life and bad things be happening to them because it's life. So say, like, you have a woman who got married to a man or a man that got married to a woman. They have an outside baby and everything is horrible or whatever. Right. that person can move on with their life and nothing happens to them for the rest of their lives.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Or, let's say 10 years later, that person remarries and somebody has a baby on them. I don't think that's karma. I just think that's life because that happens to good women or good men all the time. It does. But I'm happy on you, Rick, what you say.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I just feel like life just lives. Life is gonna life regardless, but I feel like you gonna get out what you put in. Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And give me his bed back there, because when we got back there, it was a little bitch. A pallet on it? And a pallet. Girl, I said. A pallet and a what? And a little bitch. Hey, how many people you bought back here?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
your homegirl's perv. Yeah. Like, I never gave that. Yeah. Because to me, that's malicious intent. And it's not that we advocated, because I feel like we got to be clear when we say these.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like, okay, like you said, the example you used, you walk up in a millionaire's house, whatever, you hold up a gun, and then the repercussions of that is, like, you're going to jail or you're getting charged, but that's what happens when you move like that.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But you don't even know what... You don't even know what people going through that you don't see. Yeah. Like you said, you could see from the outside looking in, it may look like they happy. A bitch might wake up every day and hate you. Miserable. Yeah. And you don't even know it. Mm-hmm. Because she making it look good online. Because she making it look good. Mm. Yep.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Thick Keisha from, you know. So I was like, let me just say Keisha. So let's start with the music. Would you say music is your first love? Um, no. I, um, I didn't even, I never had dreams of, like, being a rapper or anything like that. I always was just witty and had a way with words. Yeah. Um, growing up to me, my daddy used to rap, like, when I was a kid.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So I'm like, I'm such a person. And now look at me. I hate myself every day when I wake up. Well, you don't know.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
No, I learned that stand when my grandma used to get up and nag every day. I used to say, I got to get out of here. Yeah. You about to run me. I was fresh out of high school. You keep running me. Hush. Hush. Old people just stuck in their way. Yeah. I got to get out of here. Yeah. To run me up a wall. I got to go.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yes, girl. I'm making a square up with my grandma. I got to get out of here. For real. Yes, girl. For real. Man, me and my girls used to be laying. My grandma used to be like, for real. She's just too old and miserable. For real. You used to be telling people that. Girl, yes. We used to be laying. My grandma. Oh, my God. It was so fun.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I remember like, okay, first of all, but Ty, what are we drinking? Yes.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I like that. I'm going to break with Carisha, please.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Everything y'all been wanting to see, we gonna be doing it right here on Patreon. Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we finna give it to y'all every single Monday. And it's gonna be a time. Y'all know Poor Minds has grown into its own little entity. Well, we gonna have a lot of fun still over here at Poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in September 2nd. It's going down. Thank you.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
All my homeboys used to rap in high school. I used to think music was a joke. I'm like, if you ain't Drake or Lil Wayne or somebody, like, boy, I know so many in the hood. Still, when I go back home, they be like, you... Yeah, you the rapper. I grew up with Homeboys in high school. They used to be rapping. They used to be shooting their videos and everything.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I want to get into something before we get into the second topic.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
When you went on College Hill, first of all, I watched the season. Of course, it's Carlos. Star of the show. Shout out to Carlos. Did you see Carlos out there? Yeah, I did when I came in. So, you definitely, like, made it interesting. Star of the show. I feel like between, like, you, Carlos, and Nick, that dynamic was hilarious.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like, so, you're supposed to be there for school. I did go to school. I want y'all to know that y'all are watching TV.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
We were in New Orleans for 30 days. Y'all only seen eight episodes. Okay. So, I did go to school every day. Every single day I went to school. Mm-hmm. I did not go to every class.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You would miss the morning class. Yes. And it's able to, 30 days into eight episodes, it's able to edit like, that never in school. But I did go to school every day. But I did go to the club every night. Okay. And so, you know, sometimes those little first and second periods, girl, I didn't make it. And I just felt like, I just wanted to give a different experience.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Some people, I grew up with strict parents. Mm-hmm. Very strict all the way up until you graduate. Yeah. You know how many kids grow up with strict parents and when they get to that freshman year of college, they bust their a**hole loose.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Exactly. Like that. They bust loose. It's frat parties. I'm smoking. I'm drinking. I'm skipping class. I'm cussing the teachers out. Nobody can call my mama on me. Ain't no parent-teacher conference. Kiss my ass.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That was my... I gave that freshman experience. It was enough prunes on there to be serious. Who you didn't like? You know all of us was like family.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
They sat us down and said, y'all need to fight. Because we was like, we bonded. But you was mad about the baby. Yeah, I did cuss that out about my mother's baby. Because you know why? They had my baby. I'm sorry. They had my baby in my head. I had my plan. Yeah. I said, I'm going to be a single mom. So when I'm not going to class and stuff, I got kids. Because I'm taking care of my kids.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You know what I'm saying? I had everybody watch my baby. They hid my baby. Like, day three. I said, oh, y'all want to do bad girl snub? Let me know. Okay, okay. That makes sense. Because we can really get out there.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Y'all want to f*** with me? Yeah, okay. I see what you're saying. You supposed to hide your baby day 17 and stuff like that. Well, I don't think you supposed to hide your baby at all.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I feel like you so witty, though. Like, how witty? That's how it started. Me and my friends had a podcast. Girl, please. This is back, like, in the days. We was on Facebook. We just used to line up in the studio and go live on Facebook. But we was like, we need a theme song. Yeah. So we ended up going to the studio and making a theme song. And we put it on SoundCloud and stuff.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But still, don't come f***ing with me. We just got here. So do you and Claudia get along or not? Yeah, now to this day, I love Claudia. Okay. And I think it was a situation to where... That's why I'm the type of person... Excuse me. I don't speak on celebrities or influencers or whoever publicly. Yeah. I'm going to call Carisha and we're going to lay. Okay. That's what we do. That's what we do.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I'm not in shade room comments. I'm not in neighborhood talk comments. I'm not in comments inserting my opinion or anything that I got to say. Yeah, I agree. So... Um, especially when how the world is now, you know that we consume 15, 30-second clips and don't get the whole context of what the fuck we watching, but we gonna comment on them 15 seconds. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
We gonna, you gonna watch a 15-second of me saying, fuck you, bitch. And they like, oh, Santana, why you say fuck her? No, watch the minute and see what she said to me, why I said it. we don't get to see that. A lot of times, once you see a viral clip, you don't even go figure out what was the rest. You just go from there.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And so, I felt like when I had... When Claudia came in the house, I had always seen Claudia on the internet just running her mouth about me about off of clips. About you? Yeah, off of clips. Off of clips. Mm-hmm. And one of the... One of the... Clips that she has said, and I'm going to tell this to y'all because y'all girls. I was at a gay pride event. Mm-hmm.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And, you know, I'm bigging up the crowd. I'm like, you know what I'm saying? Y'all, we gays. We do this. We run the motherfucking world. We the motherfucking blueprint to this. Mm-hmm. And I could say, fast forward, blueprint, when I said blueprint, I didn't mean as in... Because blueprint is like the original. Right, right, right.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So I wasn't saying that we're the blueprint to women or to the world. But I was hyping this up because gays have a heavy influence.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like, they don't like to give y'all that. Yes. We have a heavy influence. And sometimes... I just was watching Kiki Palmer. I seen the clip or whatever. She didn't know that gag is. She didn't know where that came from when she had first started saying it. And you know what I'm saying? Us as gays, sometimes we get hostile or... Because we like, y'all don't give us nothing. We don't get no credit.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
We don't... So, anything as far as we... Yeah. I had somebody curse me out one time. They're like, you need to watch Paris is Burning and learn your history.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You know what I'm saying? Sometimes, or even sometimes when it was time to cancel the baby for whatever he said, Gaze was like... Yeah, because it's like you finally felt like we got some type of position of power. Because we always looked at as being a gay boy for men, you looked at as, oh, you soft, you're a f***, you're feminine, you're a punk. You know what I'm saying?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Even us working in the industry, gay boys are normally the hairstylists, the makeup artists. You hold my dress, hold my heels, do my nails, you're behind the scenes. You the new boy. You know what I'm saying? You behind the scenes or you might be an accessory to... Your homegirl like, oh yeah, we want the gay boy around. He gonna make us laugh and make us do this.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And then when he pisses us off, he's... And so... Because that happens a lot. Or we can steal the lingo.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And so, I'm literally at a gay pride event. I'm talking to a crowd full of gay people. Right. And I'm just really bigging us up. I'm like, you know what I'm saying? We got so much power and so much influence. Don't never let them tell y'all that. You know what I'm saying? We ain't it. Don't ever stop being yourself. Because now, where we at today, gay is a lot more normalized. Yeah. Mm-hmm.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And I was living in Tallahassee at the time. Everybody was living for my love verse. Yes. So that was like, keep going. So I was like, okay. So I started playing around. I freestyled. To Blueface Tatiana. Okay. That went viral. So they started playing it in the clubs in Tallahassee. They wanted me to come to Quincy. Hey, Vanna, they playing. They want me to perform a song in the club.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And, you know what I'm saying, just the impact that we have that I see, like, you know what I'm saying, when it comes to 50-inch wigs, that shit that we seen from drag queens because it's extra.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
It's not, the average woman ain't walking around with motherfucking, well, unless you, the people who we chopped their hair to get the bundles. Yeah. Unless you're one of them.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah, yeah. Even how makeup is now. These pitched noses. Oh, I love it. All this high blush, overline, big drag. Like, it's drag. It's drag.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Um... How we getting our bodies done now? Little bit of waist that was snatched up in the corset. I remember the drag creatures stuffed pillows. Yes, and they hips and they... I told y'all, watch me. That's how we look now. Yeah. Let's take it to men.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Skinny jeans was gay in high school. Mm-hmm. Not any. Everybody had skinny jeans. Thanks. Shorts above the knee was gay. Yeah. Now you got a hoochie daddy. Hoochie Daddy shorts. You ain't lying. That was my roommate that made that go viral, Hoochie Daddy shorts. Jazz made that go viral. So it's like, I ain't stop. I'm like, but I'm like, I ain't even putting it on women. I'm like, it shock us too.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah, yeah. We talking about, um, what's T? That's a money bag, yo. I remember, a money bag. I live for him. Money bag.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yes, he does. It was so funny one day. I remember my daddy was like, what's to see? I said, huh? He was like, what I said? Y'all can't say that. He had a whole song called Let Me Find Out. Yeah. And so, it's giving. Yeah. Yeah. It's giving. Clock that. Yes. The shade. Oh, he throwing shade. Mm-hmm. I'm like, y'all... I said, when y'all... Do y'all know where that shit come from? Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah, that's true. That's very true. So, I'm just like... I was like, you know what I'm saying? And that's all I was saying. But she took it. She took that and... Was like, oh, ain't no man with no beard and no nails finna tell me... I'm like, girl, if that's even all that what I was given, you didn't even research what the f*** he was looking at.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And so once we got in the house, I gave... We had literally the same conversation I just had with y'all. And she was like, you know what? I could understand now what you're saying. She said, all I judged you off was that clip. And... we had got cool and we were smooth sailing the whole time. Like, I love Claudia. And you know what?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Learning, being around Claudia for them 30 days, Claudia is a sweetheart and she mean well, but the shit that Claudia say, you have to know her to be like... She didn't mean no harm. That's Claudia. I'm glad you said that because I like Claudia. Me and Claudia follow each other. I have met Claudia because during quarantine... You know how you got that friend you like, girl? Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I know Claudia is like my brother. So I didn't like that she kept calling Carlos old. They're the same age. Claudia is great TV. She's like, Carlos old. So I was like, I had to Google.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah. When you go into TV world and you sit down and do that confessional and that producer say, turn it on. You got to turn it on.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I was like, oh, hold on. Let me sit down and think of something. So that's when I made Walk Him Like a Dog.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I feel like with children... Yeah. Children are innocent... And you children should be making whatever decision they want to make when they're of age. Mm-hmm. So even, like, as for myself... I wouldn't want a gay child. Really? Not because nothing is wrong with it, but because I know everything that I've been through. Right. A lot of gay people.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
My child might not be strong enough to endure that, but if my child did turn out gay, I'm going to love you no motherfucking less, and I'm going to teach you how to serve these bitches. Same thing. But, you know, I feel like just even... I feel like children are children.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Whether it's showing them gay shit, whether it's showing them guns, whether it's showing them drugs, whether it's showing them whatever. They kids. That's the point of rated PG, rated PG-13, rated R. It's just about the maturity of their mind. Let a kid be a kid. When it's time for them to get old enough and start seeing these foreign shit, they'll find it. You don't have to...
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I wrote that song in my bathroom. I went to Orlando and recorded it in my homeboy closet. We put it on SoundCloud July 4, 2010. 19? Uh-huh. It did a million streams in seven days. Oh, my God.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because I think with anything on a cartoon show, I don't want to see a woman and a man kissing. I don't want to see none of that. Why would they need to see that? Because it's sexual. No matter if it's a man or a woman, two men, two women.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
All of that is sexual, and it all needs to go on a children's program.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So I'm just saying, if you going, whatever the inclusivity, that's cool, but y'all need to take all of it out.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah, I don't agree with that. Gay is when you're of age. When you're old enough. I remember when I was in my mom's house.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I knew that I was gay, but I was still figuring stuff out. When I was 18, I thought I wanted to be transgender. Yeah. I got off all my facial hair. I had bras, panties, everything, wigs, hair.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yes, I cut off all my facial hair. I had one that bought me, like, three wigs. I had bras. I still wear panties. But, you know what I'm saying? I had bras, panties, everything. And then three weeks later, I was like, bitch, I don't want to be transgender. I'm just girly.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I like my hair cut. I like my nails. I like a beat face. But I'm a n***a. Yeah. But imagine if it was promoted and you seen me. And just even right now, with kids that are underage, Going transgender and whatever the case is, you too young for that. Your hormones ain't kicked in yet.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You need time. Yeah. You might think like, oh, and then it's like, oh, shit, I don't want to be this now. You got to decompress it. Mm-hmm. You know, y'all, I go deep in my TikTok holes. There's a whole side of TikTok they talk about.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You can go back, but it's just a whole decompressing. Now you was taking estrogen. Now you got to take testosterone to break it back down and all that. But I feel like all of that, I respect my mama for that now, being grown. When you move up out of here and you graduate and you're an adult... Mm-hmm. You can make your own.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because I think that's the same thing with, like, being, growing up, like, as a straight woman and knowing, like, I like men or whatever like that. All that stuff takes time. You don't need to be having sex and doing all that stuff. You don't need to be seeing all that stuff. Because, honestly, if I could go back, yes, I would have waited to have sex.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like I said, I think it's the same rules for gay, straight, whatever. It's a lot being pushed on the younger generation in general. That's how I feel.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah. I had my mother's Aldo bag with my jewelry. And we was team. And we was team. The boy that shit on me bought me some Aldos. That's what I'm saying. And I thought I ate. We wasn't even worried about no Chanel or even feeling like we wasn't the one because it wouldn't even get right here.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
She always wants... Yeah, yeah. I never did. I was just... I fell into it. Yeah, I fell into it. And I'm like, okay, well... Yeah, you know, gay boys got superpowers. Yeah. So, I always knew how to read it. That's what I'm saying.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
The bodycon dress with the blazer. In the club. Yeah. Don't get me started on the Jeffrey Campbell without him. I used to live with my cousin Deirdre. I always tell Carisha how me and Carisha is now. That's how me and Deirdre was growing up. Deirdre was the baddest in the world to me. Storm through the club with her Jeffrey Campbell. No heel with her body. Oh, my God. 22-inch wavy hair. Oh, wait.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
With the Keisha K. Orr blue lip. Oh, that was Deanna. The blue purple lip. I had a group. We was called Kid of the Dolls. I was kid, and all of my homegirls was older than me. Everybody fab. Kelsey was the first. And our city with 30-inch funnels. She had a pink Chrysler with 30-inch rims. I know that. That's right. Deanna was the, Deanna was the weird one, the blue lipstick from Kisha K. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Deanna was the makeup girl, she not do her makeup. Deirdre was the, Deirdre was like, ah, Nicki Minaj. Oh my God. Trying to bang her, Jeffrey Campbell Hills. We had Tiffany, Tiffany come through. Great context, girl. We was raw. It was the context. I'm a gay boy with the motherfucking blonde hair. Yeah. Girl, we was raw. Oh, my God. It was a time.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because, you know, you remember, like, and this was before, like, nobody gave a **** about social media. We just used to be outside having a good time. I used to have the lime green eyeshadow. All these bright colors. All the way to the top of your ass. Oh, my God. Way up here. And just like, yeah, I ate that. We was cutting up. It was just a good time. Speaking of being a bad bitch, though. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Being talking shit, talking slick on the beat. That's how I looked at it. And I'm not kidding. I always said this. Like, when you first started dropping music, I'm like, y'all really not listening to him. Is he really saying something? It's so witty, and it's so cute, and it was so fun. I'm like, this is what the girls is missing.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because that's going to bring us to the next topic. We had to talk to you about this.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Okay, so I feel like... The men that I date are attractive.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like, I date attractive guys. Like, I feel like... She love a cute... I love a cute man that look good. But it's the difference between a man that's fine and he looks good, but there's a difference between that and a bad... Uh-huh. I think it's an epidemic of bad... That, and I'm not talking about, like, there is a man that I'm thinking about, and I'm not going to give any clues or nothing.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
This man is gorgeous. Beautiful. I mean, from head to toe. He looks so good. But his attitude is like, he's a bad... Like, oh, he walks in the room, he like, yeah, I'm here. I've arrived. You know what I'm saying? Like, he wants, like... But he a straight man. He's a straight man. He's a straight man, but he feels like, I'm so f***ing bad. I'm the prize. I'm the prize.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, I want to talk about bad... Because they're here. They're here. And they're ready. How do you feel about them since then? I got, I got, I got one of them on my roster. Okay. You do? And, and, and I had to break that down. Ooh. Like a mother. How did you do that though? Um, I'm different. Okay. So, um, and see, this is where like my boy instincts kick in. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, I look at how he treat the other that he talked to, I look at how they lust over him and how they going for anything. Yeah. Like, we ain't going for nothing. Yeah. So, I'm like, oh, this is why you got that, that, or because, mind you, he fine as hell. Mm-hmm. Ooh, baby, he fine as fuck. Yeah. And so, I know that he know he fine as fuck. Yeah. And then, Gassed him so he know that he's honest.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, then on top of you being fine and stuff, the bitch is smooth, charming. Oh, that's even worse. Double whammy. Because usually bad bitches be lame and corny. Charming. And know he charming.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
A vibe. And know he a vibe. Mm. So, he know he got it. Yeah. So, and then it's crash out records about him. Mm. So, I almost... You know what I'm saying? When I came... You know, when I got on the roster, you know, I get big mama when I talk to... Mm-hmm. Who? Excuse me? Mm. I don't even play that. Yeah. So, you know what I'm saying?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because honestly, you could have a whole... You would be a multi-billionaire by ghostwriting for these girls. Yes. Seriously. Have you ever thought about that? Have you ever thought about starting to write for people? I never. I always felt like I just feel like with me being a gay boy in hip-hop, I want to accomplish everything that I can for my thing. That's fair.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I came in, and I came in like, if he got a roster, I'm at the top.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And the... You know what time it was. But... I started as, like, you know what I'm saying? When I first started talking to him, and I really like him, I'm coming in as wifey. What you be doing? I'm coming in as wifey. You're playing your role. I'm coming in as wifey because I'm a savage.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Oh, not because that's what you want to be, just because you... No, I'm coming in as wifey because, you know, when you first started talking to a bitch, I like you, I love you, I'm in love with you, you're the man of my dreams.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, I'm coming in as wifey. I'm going to show you What you can get. And when you with me, I'm going to show you what these get.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm going to show you why Monday through Tuesday is five of y'all.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm going to show you why you just left me and you wouldn't. What happened? I thought you said you was going home. I wasn't ready to go. I've always seen that side of you. I've never seen the wifey you.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I've always seen like the saddest. I don't advertise wifey because you know what I'm saying. Okay. So, but that's how I come. Yeah. Ooh, I need to take a page from your book.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I come in as wifey. And so that's how I came in with him. I came in very much. We together every day. Can't even get enough time with him.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because he with me. It's giving. And he's a gentleman. When I'm with him, a dollar don't leave my purse. You know what I'm saying? As it should be. And so... I'm a smart bitch, you know what I'm saying? When you make him feel good, he's going to make you feel better.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, you know what I'm saying? Now I'm doing my little onesies, so it's like, you know, let me just, let me do this with my nigga right quick, just so the son can say. Because every time I'm with him, he makes sure I'm straight.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So I'm coming in as wifey. And then I see, you know, I always, I always used to tell my cousin, man, we have a, I call it a comfy seat. The comfy chair. So once you be with a bitch long enough, and you know, like, all right, she locked in. I got her. Now it's time to take this bitch for a ride. Oh, my God. So once I started seeing, this bitch taking me for a ride.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm like, oh, he like, yeah, what? And I'm very observant.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm him. I'm here. I'm here. Oh, my God. So I'm like, oh, girl. So now I'm finding myself at home with Carisha. I'm like, oh. And Carisha, she's like. She's taking me down through there. Yes, and Carisha, like, not you. She couldn't even sympathize with me because she's like, not you.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm telling you this. I said, you know what? Hold up. Yeah. Get it back together. I went, I had stopped talking to him. It was so funny how I did it. And to this day, he don't know why. I told him I would never tell him why I did it. So y'all don't talk no more? No, girl. No, he said he took it.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's how I mean it again. But I, me and him was together one day. And after I left him, I just never answered my phone again.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Ever. For, like, what, a week? Three weeks. Okay. You strong. I can't do that. Oh, my God. You sound like Carisha. That's not what I'm talking about.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Before I get the sauce away, bitch. I mean, that's fair. The only person that can get a little something out of me is probably Carisha.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That's not what I'm talking about. I cannot do that. I be doing it. So, it was so crazy. But this was, like, my main. Yeah. Like, the top of the roster. So, three weeks is. A long time.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Girl, it did get hard. I say I do it. Uh-huh. But it's hard. It's hard.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So I'm like, he calling, calling. She blowing me up. I'm going to ask her. Mm-hmm. He blowing up. I'm going to ask her. He texted, I'm going to say, emergency. I'm over there at my dog. I don't hear. He told you that? He texted me, like, emergency. Oh, he did?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Wait a couple days. He calling it. I ain't answering. But in my head, I'm like, I don't watch it. So then we got mutual friends. Oh yeah, he see you had posted this. I'm like, I don't care. So, it's going and going and going as three weeks over. I just come back around like, what up? So, you the toxic one.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You thought you was bigger than the program. You ain't finna treat me like that. Okay, that's fair.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So do you be right for Carisha? I have did. Like, I did her verse on Shisha. Okay. And just certain stuff, we'd be somewhere, I'd be like, or like, you know, just us being in the studio.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You thought she was big in the program? Okay. So, when I knew, when I knew that, I knew Mission Reconfliction when we started, he was like, he was like, me? Me? He said, me? He said, you did that to me? Yeah. And I said, my exact words, I said, yeah, I said, you think you bigger than the program? He was like, what that mean? I was like, nothing, keep talking.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
He was like, yeah, like, I just want to did you like that. Like, he was like, out of everybody, me? Yes. You.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And he remember, I didn't even know he counted. He was like, you ain't talking to me for three weeks. Yeah, he was counting babies. I was like, ooh. I spent three 11 days. I was like, he was like three, like he was like, he was like, man, he was like, don't never do no like that. I said, okay. Yeah. I just had to, cause I know you, you, you, you had a little bad to you. You do.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That's what I'm saying. I feel like I enjoy being around men and women. Like, it's okay to know you're attractive and have confidence. But it's a different thing to be like, yeah, I know I'm fine. I know I'm bad. And I can act however I want. And I can treat people however I want. And I want to get away with murder.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I think that's why people judge, like, poor minds in the beginning. And I'll even say with Carisha. Because people always felt like, oh, she's not talented. She's just used to being a beautiful girl, having her way. But, you know, when JT went to jail, she carried...
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'd be like, no, sis, you coming like this. Hold on, I'm finna... Yeah. Hey, go spit that right quick. You know what I'm saying? Just on some best friend.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because it doesn't matter how beautiful you are. Can you get on that stage and entertain us?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
She got on that stage. She rapped. She had videos. She was on live with you.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like, she did what she had to do, and that's beyond beauty. And then got pregnant in the midst of it and still was rocking it. Yep. And now I do want to talk about friendships. Because when Carisha stopped doing Carisha Please, and it was like, we didn't know where it was going to go because obviously everything that was going on with Diddy. And when she came back, you did the first episode.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
We get caught up in, like, people get caught up in, we hood. We hood. We hood.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah, but I don't be giving the sauce away, baby. Uh-uh.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like, you dumb or something. This ain't that. And, you know what I'm saying, at the same time, you know, me and Carisha was cussing me out during that interview. And she was like, she said, you interviewing me.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because I'm not going to lie, I do think you did an amazing job. Uh-huh. But I feel like it was a lot of stuff, like, that's why when I watched it, I watched them full. And at the end, I'm like, hmm. Because I, Santana, you be going in. So did you do that interview as her friend? I did the interview as the interviewer. And... I think he gave it. No, he did a great job. Of course that is my friend.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So... You know what I'm saying? I'm going to ask you everything. And you're going to answer... Once you feel comfortable, as best as you can. And Carisha actually answered everything. Yeah. Everything that I asked, she answered.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yes. Oh, my God. I mean, but also... And especially in that moment, the whole world turned their back against my best friend. They did. So she was scared to say Apple because everybody had... Whatever. Whatever. She's orange. Everybody had a problem. Yeah. Every mother. Oh, man. Yeah. So, like, you know what I'm saying? Like, we really got into some tea and got into some things.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And, you know, it was just like, I'm like, she was like, she's like, it was so funny. She said, Santana, for real, you acting like an interviewer. Okay. I was like, you know what I'm saying? We still at work.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Period. You know what I'm saying? We still at work. Yeah. And the reason why I asked her everything, and I want her to get it off her chest, because I went through that whole thing with her. And that's what I wanted to talk about, too. You was there, yeah. Because...
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Certain things be happening, and like I said, Poor Minds is a big podcast, but it's not, like, on the level of, like, we got millions of people judging us.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And just even the LGBT part of it. Like, me being a gay boy in hip-hop and rap, this shit ain't normal, and it's not easy. So I'm like, everything I can get off my pen because if I decide to, you know, stop rapping or whatever the case is, I want to be easy for the next gay boy to get through the door versus like, oh, it was Santana and after Santana stopped rapping, we ain't seen that.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So sometimes we'll have things go on, and people will be like, oh, Drea, Lex said this. How are you standing behind her? But one thing about it, we can argue behind closed doors, but in that, we are an army front. If you dissing Dre, you dissing me, vice versa.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And keep that. Keep that. Because I grew up, like, all I did was hang around girls. And I know girls have that in the bottom of them, the little caddies. Yeah. I mean, we do. We do. Yeah, we have our moments, but we're family. Keep it strong. Keep it solid.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm not being mean. I came outside to have me a motherfucking drink. I'm trying to loosen up. You know what I'm saying? If you know you got that little cornerstone right there by your house. My bar. Yes. My bar. I'm... in here. This is two minutes from my house. Yeah. I got no flip-flops. That be me. I got no do-rag. Right now, I got a boss in my head. Boom. I don't want to take no pictures.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, friend, you don't ever feel bad about that? No, I'm human.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Oh, my God, can I take a picture? Not right now, baby. I'm so sorry. I look ugly as hell.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
No, you don't. No, you don't. No, I don't feel good today.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But it's nice to meet you. Yeah. You can't get mad at me for that. Sorry. I need my space. I think that's a healthy boundary. My friend just went to jail the other day. That's the one who be jumping.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
For a suspended license. He didn't even know. He sat in jail for nine hours that whole day.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
irritated when he got out he went to a he went to one of his favorite restaurants by his house i've been in jail for nine hours i just want to eat and go home yeah and you know he eating he asked to sit somewhere secluded fans still knew he was in there and they and they want to come take pictures and i was like how you felt in that moment he was like i understood what you said he was like
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I had a long day. I just wanted to eat. Yeah. And go home and just... Yeah, and just be normal for a second. And I said, and it's okay to say, I love you so much. Not today. And that's what I wanted to ask you. I've been feeling so bad, y'all. I have to work on that. Because I literally always feel obligated.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But like you said, just how humanized Carisha, you got to make somebody... You are a person still. Yeah. But that's what I wanted to ask. Imagine your grandma, God forbid, I don't know, your grandma just died or something, but you got to run area.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And that's what I'm saying. That's why I wanted to give you your flowers and really tell you, because, like, I'm not trying to be funny because you on the show. I really listen to your music. No, when you just did that, I know you do. And you be having... No, we both do. You be having the anthem. Yes. Okay. Okay, so this was, like, I can't remember.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
She crazy. But say your grandma or something traumatic just happened. Yeah. But... You got to cook dinner tonight so you in the grocery store. Yeah. With everything on my mind, but I still got to, or I got to go run here or something. Anything. I'm going... You don't even know what I'm going through right now mentally. What if at home we don't know? Every day you go home depressed.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That's from poor minds. We live for you. But I could be having a bad day. You're going to give me that. You're going to give me that. Because how was that, like, being there for her doing that? Because I know it was... It was to the point where I don't know Carisha. And it was on, like, I'm looking on Twitter and I'm looking at the things that they are saying.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm like, bro, y'all acting like she was the one doing it. It was hard.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Who wouldn't fuck with Dee Dee? I'm about to fuck with Dee Dee. But even outside of that, you know what? You know why this was mad? Because... Whatever, whatever allegedly he did before we became, it came in. I remember when we, when she first, we used to laugh. We like, this old man Christian, how you bumping into Diddy? Yeah.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yes, he used to call her a queen. Not Grand Rises queen. Yes. And we used to be like, ew. It was just so funny. But he treated her well. So good. Yeah. He treated her so good. And he was still dating other women, like, when she first started talking to him. And he was honest about it. He's like, yeah, you know, I got other lowest names. But my girl ain't playing. My girl's sitting in the paint.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And she washed everybody out. I said, girl, ain't nobody but you left, babe. Yeah. But she was mad because that wasn't her experience. Mm-hmm. He never put... First of all, Carisha has been through domestic violence twice. So that's not even something that... He plays with. At all. He never put his hands on her. Even, I remember she got so mad trying to sell that card game.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Do you like going to showers? And she said, yeah. And I remember her mama cussed her ass out. For real? Yes. Why? She was like, girl, what the fuck you talking about? And Carisha have never had to go to shower. She just, I'm on my show. Let's make a viral moment. Yeah.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I was in Miami, like, some years ago, and they was, like, literally on the ox. I'm like, oh, y'all ain't heard nothing yet. And then I put on that song, and I'm not... Everybody was like, okay. I'm like, yes, you can really rap.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You know what I'm saying? But... I can honestly say, even, like, being around, he was so loving to her, and he treated her so nice and so well. But you just had no idea? Whatever that he could have done before, it didn't give that. It wasn't that way. I didn't see that. I wasn't in no mother freak-offs. I wasn't forced into no mother drugs. I don't know. Y'all see how we was living? Yeah.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Girl, I used to be on YouTube like, hell. I'm like, first of all, I don't even motherfucking play that. We ain't doing that. We ain't doing that. Okay. We ain't doing that. And Carisha ain't fucking with nothing that's gay, baby. She don't even play that. Okay. So it was just like, I'm just like... And that affected me. I'm like, that's corny. Why are y'all saying that I'm f***ing my best friend?
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like, come on. What is we doing? I'm not f***ing with you, T. Like... Yeah, but I'm not... I was f***ing with you. Yeah, but I'm not f***ing my best friend. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because he is out here. So, I do want to talk about... But, you know, I'm not giving it. Yeah. Um... Like, the aftermath and the backlash she got because you are still wrapped up in that drama. You in academics. Uh-huh.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And, like, you was willing to take a bullet because you were like, she not a nigga, but I am. Mm-hmm. Type. You know what I'm saying? I've always been. Right. So, how do you feel about, like, you kind of like her, I don't want to say bodyguard, but in that situation, she has men with mics. We all know how... Men with mics, they be like, oh, put the mics away.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So men with mics were so powerful and they were so vocal about her. But I think a lot of the backlash she got was because how she looks. I think when women look a certain way, things are harder on them, especially as a black woman. Because I think, and I want to be careful with my words here, but I do want to say, I think a lot of the backlash Carisha got was because you a hood from Miami.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So I just want to give you your flowers and say, don't stop. We need that music. Because you are going to open so many doors because you actually can rap.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You're not supposed to be on a yacht living this life. That's what I said. So it was like, how dare you have the audacity to dream this big or do this big? And then even when people used to be like, ah, you thought she was up here. That girl is paid. Yeah. The deals that she starts, baby. Karisha go and buy brand new cars and don't even post them for y'all to see. Right, yeah.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That's for my best friend right quick. Right. Period. This is going to go by crocodiles and all this other shit. Don't even post it. Yeah. So do you feel like she handled the situation like she was supposed to? I feel like she could have been more vocal, but that is just Carisha. Yeah. I got to prove to y'all, I think what you want. Whatever I say. When we did the interview, everybody got so mad.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Y'all mad because y'all wanted to say, oh, he beat me. No, he didn't. Sorry.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
It doesn't take away from what he has done and what we have seen.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
People wanted her to say what they wanted to hear. I agree. People wanted her to say because even... It was just so funny. Like, even to this day, and I don't know what he did in the past or whatever the fuck. I don't know. But a lot of things that I see was making weird comments, show us around. Mm-hmm. And then it was them show at them parties. I mean, we saw what he did and we know what we did.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I think there's a lane, like, not everybody wants to be a deep conscious rapper. You don't want to do that.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
It's there in black and white. Like, we know who this person is at this point. We only saw the video of him in that hotel. All of these other things that people keep saying still to this day is not proven. They keep denying the bail, but nobody's bringing no evidence. Like, it had got to a point where you could wake up and say, Diddy did this to me? And it was set in stone.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But even still, when I started seeing people started lying on Carisha and started saying she did it, I was like, I said, oh, I said, so this is a trend now. Yeah. Yeah. And that's why I said, I'm not going to lie, I never defended any. I think it's unfortunate that she's just been associated.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Leave her alone because now I'm like, oh, it's just a trend. I could say, well, since you was the girlfriend, I could say you did this. They put Carisha Cousin in it. Somebody said the cousin. Yeah, I remember that too. So, I don't know, maybe being on our side, it's like, wow. Yeah. And you know how the internet is. You see a comment a thousand times, you believe it.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And that's really my vibe. Yes. I like turned up, see? I like turned up music. And make the girls feel good. And turn up, baby. Yes! Man, so yeah. Okay, so I want to get into the friendship that you and Karisha have. Uh-huh. Because I feel like that's how I was introduced to you, by, like, y'all be going on live. Yes, y'all be going on live. Y'all be going on live.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
If I post a picture and a hundred comments say I'm ugly, you're going to be like, oh, he is kind of ugly. I'm going to start thinking I'm ugly. Because I saw it so much. And so I just felt like she was just mad because her honest to God wholehearted truth was not what may have happened to previous women he dated or whatever the fuck that could have been in the past.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
This could have happened to these women. We mother... That is his mother... Yeah. Yeah. You get what I'm saying? So... We don't know. Yeah. But I know that she dated at his age now and whatever he might have overcame, been through, I don't know. That was her experience. Yeah. And I respect her for being a solid bitch. Yeah.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because you had a lot of people in here saying, you need to get your ass in that podcast and say he whooped your ass.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And not even that verbatim, but... They was telling her to, like, monopolize on it, basically. You need to... Basically telling her, you need to say what people want to hear. Yeah. And I'm not going to lie. I do, and I agree... Let's start right there. I agree with you on that because I got into it with my friend about this. I do think they... I don't know, because that's your friend.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm not... So I do think they had a real relationship, but at the time... Diddy realized that was a PR move. Diddy is Diddy. Yes, we know that. But he was in the blogs every day when him and Karisha were dating. It was a business move for him. So I think her experience and what she went through is like, okay, this man, nobody was drinking Deleon. You need some more friends?
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Nobody was drinking Deleon. Let's be honest. Like, we weren't. But, like, you know, she started posting it. It was like she was a walking billboard. So I think, like... I think initially, yeah, when he seen Carisha, it was like, okay, this is City Girl. She young, hot. Because it started from P-Party. And they took a picture.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And then the picture went viral. Once he started dating Carisha... He fell in love, but he fell in love. Yeah.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And I feel like he just wasn't so... And I wouldn't even say it was a PR move, but of course, that's just like, you f***ing with a n***a, that's a billionaire. Yeah. I know I'm going to reap the benefits. Right. So, I got a lip. Ask any n***a if you want a lip. Yeah. Especially, you a billionaire, you a legend. Right. I want me a lip. So, you know what I'm saying? One hand, watch the other.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
We laughed. I told y'all, we used to laugh and be like, oh, my God. This all been great. Like, you know what I'm saying? But it was like, yeah, I didn't want him a lit bitch. You know what I'm saying? Okay, but let me ask you this. Do you feel like, because I know what she said on the pod. Do you really feel like that relationship is what was like the ultimate demise of City Girls? No.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So is there anything, like, you've ever said on live where you was like, oh, my God, I shouldn't have said that? Like, I embarrassed my friend, or she embarrassed me? Um... No. We literally treat live like... It's like a FaceTime, I guess. Yeah. And y'all just there. Have we ever said anything that you, like, regret? Like, that went viral or something, and you was like, ooh, I don't like that.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You think it was problems before that? No. Diddy, that wasn't that. Girls, it's girls. That's what I just told y'all. Yeah. Girls, it's girls. And then you got to think both for them. Had it going on. JT over here with her. She got a rich rock star. She over here with Uzi. Karisha over here with her. Like JT lived in LA. Karisha lived in Miami. They don't go to the studio together.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
People's style changed up. JT is more Rick Owen and just real emo, edgy. Karisha is very, you know what I'm saying? See through. Fashion girl. Fashion girl. Yeah, like... Yeah. And so, Carisha just went to JT's birthday party yesterday. Okay.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I wanted to hear that. Like, you know, like... Yeah. We family. Right. Them sisters. I ain't gonna lie, though. If Drea moved... You just... Yeah, but it's like... Not that I'm your neighbor. No, if Drea moved with her and you got your here... I'm... I need my friend.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I'm about to move to her building with my lease up.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm going to move into her building with my lease up anyway. Every time I walk out to the pool, I be looking up at your window.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
It's real. I love you, girl. It's two people on this earth that I'm obsessed with. It's Dre and my sister. But that's me and Karisha all day. For real. You see, we sit here. She was already calling my phone. What you doing? Girl, what? Karisha, I just told you. I better go do a podcast. If Dre don't answer my phone calls, I'll call, like, three or four times. She be like, Legs.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yes, Clarisha will start texting to say, Santana, for real, you ain't here for me. Period. Because I'm finna have a crash out. And that's so fucked up because I can't take no time to myself. No. No. Clarisha watched my location, cussed me out when I'm at the club. She knows if this, oh, you at this, it say you at this address, oh, you at that house.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Oh, it say you here, oh, you at that, where that nigga work at. Oh, you here, oh, yeah, you at Taranga City, oh, you...
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because you trying to lie to me. And that's why now you don't know where the fuck I'm at. I'll go up and be like, can I go up to the ninth floor?
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I don't. It be pissing me off. Because I was like, it's getting too creepy. Because I said, she said she was leaving. Why is this location still right here? Thank you. Us. Don't play with me. Like, no. What's up, y'all?
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So we have been on this train of talking about, like, pussies.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
We have. So the clip we just posted today that Shay told us, except we were talking about pussies, we talked about pussies with Supa. But I wanted to kind of talk about something different. Because I feel like a lot of times we've been talking about, like, you know, the gay topics and things like that. We're going to get into the busies. Don't get into it.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I do want to ask, is it offensive when, like, straight women or people be, like, asking men if they're, like, a top or a bottom? Like, is that, like, something that's, like, rude or offensive? It's not. No. So, are you talking about him? Um, I don't, I don't really, I don't really like to, I don't really like, I wouldn't really say the, the, I don't get into the label thing. Okay.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
No, I don't think we never... We never had, like, none of those moments. We just... And I guess that's already our culture, too. Like, us being from Florida and shit, like, we just go, you know what I'm saying?
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I feel like, um, okay, this is the thing, because I don't, I don't give a fuck. Okay. Um, I would, in, in, in a relationship, like, I would be the bottom. Okay. Hmm. But I don't like to get fucked.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Exactly. But, 9 times 10, I don't want to talk about it either. Why, bro? Because you a man. So you like manly men. Yeah, like, I like, like, my niggas is niggas. Okay. But, you know what I'm saying? I'm grown now, so all gay boys got a little sissy in them. Yeah, yeah. My ex-boyfriend, D, used to wear purses and wear, like, put, like, little natural makeup on.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Zell used to have a blonde dress, too, as well. Everybody gay. Yeah. Yeah. But I look at my as my man, my man, my man.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So ideally, I don't want to fuck you in your ass. But I don't feel like all it. It hurt too bad. Oh my God, we was just talking about that. But Santana, I just talked about this on the last episode. I'm like an oral. Okay, that's what I was asking. So you're more of like the oral pleaser. You'll get hit all day. But you don't like doing the bending. No, girl. I will. If you have to. Yes.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I mean, I will. I will. Do you remember a long time ago when somebody had, like, an OnlyFans video and it looked like you? Uh-huh.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I didn't think it was me, but I was so... I said, look at that beard and them lashes. You know what was so funny, though? That was me and... Karisha, first, like, big fallout. Oh. Why? Over that video? Over that video. I felt like I was JT, too. It was all us. Because I was so mad that everybody thought that was me. Yeah. I had just signed the RCA. Mm-hmm.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And we know how to talk in cold. Yeah. And even if we want to be messy, we know how to just sprinkle a little for y'all.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I didn't know what they was going to think. Because that was viral. It was. You could Google that. Yes. I was like, oh, my God. I just signed to a major label. They finna think I'm a motherfucking porn star. Like, and then... Started disrespecting me. Yeah. Yeah. I could go for a cute thing, you think, or whatever. The case is, you bad. You bad.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Started getting the DMs like, yeah, I want to fill you up.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Who the fuck is you talking to? Yeah. So I was so just, I was disgusted about that. And here go Carisha now.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
telling you throwing that back i'm not trying there's no way everybody don't believe it's me because my best friend is on here being funny okay i'm sorry that's not funny but it is i could have oh my god we stopped talking i think we we stopped talking and then we started we started back because it was that birthday she invited me to her birthday party that's how we started being friends how y'all
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I was like, girl, I customized. I was real f***ing mad. I was so f***ing mad. Because first of all, I didn't even play cameras in the bedroom. Bitch, I'm famous. I know, that's why. Every moment of that video got pulled off. You was like, I'm famous. Yes. And that was even before I'm here now. Anything we doing in here, I promise you it's going to live right here.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I give them too much. Yeah. I feel like we like that too a little bit.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because my definitely got videos of me. I promise you it's going to live. And see, I don't know. Gays get a little malicious sometimes. Did y'all see? Yeah, they do. I'm not going to get into that. You know what I'm saying? So I'm like, anything we do in the bedroom, I'm serving. You got to remember. You got to remember right here. Yeah. I didn't even record... So why did you and JT fall out then?
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because JT... JT was in the comments too, like... tell that you was serving. Everybody just was making jokes. I'm not laughing, but... Everybody was just making jokes about it, and I was so... You was making jokes.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I was spotting the internet. I said, I got a tattoo on my hip. Go look at the video.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
We don't be going live. Because I think our FaceTimes are too messy. Yeah.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I remember actually watching y'all and I was like, oh, that's not him.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm like, motherf***er, look at his nails. Y'all don't know what my real fingernails look like. You've never seen me in no fingernails, so I'm gonna play that. Say hello, please. I said, if we be honest, I don't even take it. You know who that was in the video? I know the top in the video. Okay, but you don't know him for real. Okay. That's so... You know what?
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I played so many games, I started talking to the top. You... After? Uh-huh. Saying, saying goodbye. Because what if he would have... I started talking to the top. Then the video would have been real. Because, no, you know what? You know what made me respect him, though?
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
The top actually came out and this didn't go viral because... Yeah, of course. This is a negative narrative. The dude who was in the video that was f***ing the boy was like, that's not Santana. He said, actually, this is my video somebody's thrown off my Snapchat. That's me f***ing my ex. The tea is hot. And so I retweeted him. I retweeted, hey, everybody look at this tweet, right?
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
They don't f***ing want to hear it. That was you. They wanted to see you throwing that s*** up. They don't want to hear it. Oh, my God. I remember this gay boy retweeted it. I was like, where is Shisha looking for a thing named Keisha? Girl, I got to f*** him. They was fucking with me about that video. They was fucking with me.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And the boy was like, that's me. And I was like, damn, I appreciate you for being a real nigga because you ain't even have to clear that up. And then he was like, hey, Buki. And then, uh, I had sex.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
We be like, y'all be tripping out the shit. We say, I'm live, baby. If you get on this phone. If you seen the phone. If you get on this phone. If you get into them DMs when we sharing posts back and forth. The shade. We will be canceled. Yes. Never seen this before. Y'all ain't seen on the hill.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I was like, dude. Girl, next time I know, we was in L.A. and stuff, but... Yes.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You just, like, even here. This is... Girl, I did not say that. You did say that.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Y'all said that. Y'all said that. Y'all said that. Y'all said that. Y'all said that. Y'all said that. Y'all said that. Y'all said that. You know what's so funny? You know the type of s*** I get? What? And I love me. Uh-huh. I get pleasers.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So that's good for you. That works. It works for me. I get pleasers. You are like a pillow princess. Yes. Yeah. Okay, it gives it. I get pleasers, but I'm so thick, I do get s***. They be like, girl, you're getting s***. Yeah. I want to see that. What you talking about? Yeah. But you say you don't like it because it hurt. I don't, I don't, I don't like it.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
He goes in as wifey. He said that. And you know what I like? I like boyfriend. What's that? Oh, you like making love. No. Y'all know what boyfriend is? What's boyfriend then? Making love.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Boyfriend is the size. Boyfriend. So big definitely not boyfriend. That's not. That's not. You already know. I done had big and you are not a boyfriend.
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Nine is huge. Seven, eight. Yeah, seven, eight. Six, between six and eight. Okay, that's fair. I've never heard that. But that makes sense because I'm the same. Like, the man I marry is going to have an average size. I can serve. I can ride. What? I'm Hawaiian. I feel you on that. I do not like that. Hey, baby. I like being Hawaiian. Girl, you're breaking me down.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, oh my God, I've never heard that term. Boyfriend. I like boyfriend. I like boyfriend. I do. I do not like a big, meaty, girthy... Like, sometimes I be having to get like... A boyfriend, you could... You could... Yeah. We could have a good time.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I can turn a car wheel. Yes. I can... Rain line. Y'all know what I'm talking about.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That is so... You can have fun with a boyfriend. So that's why I'm like, girl, a vagin- a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I think it's so funny because it just is a testament to how witty both of y'all are because Carisha Please came from you being like, I'm Carisha Please. Like, that's a whole brand for her now. Yes. Like, that turned into a brand. Yes. Like, y'all left you for dead. Like, it's so many little things.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Period. Okay, so we got to talk about that. I said that pussy do get wet. I wouldn't say it get wet. It starts starting from when you get wet. And first of all, if you, as a gay boy, you need to use lubricant. I don't want to hear nobody saying that they just wake up and all that. Girl, no, it's not. You need some lube. Use that lube. Okay. Okay, it's fair.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Okay, but do y'all do, what's it called when they clean out the booty hole? What is that called? Yeah, a lot of gay boys do that. They dush the booty hole, so you're supposed to do that because you don't want to paint the town. Yeah, a lot of gay boys do it. When I first started, I didn't used to do that. What would you do? Because I didn't, I didn't, I didn't know nothing about that.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I went to my hallway to tell me, but I was like, what is that? But I just always, like, either went to, like, you know, use a bathroom or something. Okay.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You know, and, bitch, I never had no problems. But I guess I always get afraid of the residual. I never, I never, no, I never had, I could call him. Okay. I never had no residues. I never had no nothing. So what be happening when people be shitting on they self?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Once it get in there and the strokes start serving, it do feel good. But that's how you need a boyfriend.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because, That can just be big and go deep. It go too. You and the intestines. Hitting the wrong arteries and stuff. Arteries and stuff. Girl, you're hitting the wrong arteries and all that. And the bitch probably ain't doing it. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Oh, my God. Or she probably ate some Chipotle. That's what I'm about to say. I eat Chipotle, so... Uh-huh. We gonna have another.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Okay, okay, okay. So let's move on. Let's move on. Okay, so now... Oh, my God. Wait, he... Oh, it's me. It's him. Y'all good. Let me tell you, Javi has been what I call uncomfortable. This is light work now. They done heard worse. They done heard worse. They done been to our live shows and everything. They all right. They done seen it all. They all right.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But do you, because I will say that, you're very aware. Mm-hmm. Because, like, when you did College Hill, you were, like, very aware of, like, you know, not wanting to make people feel uncomfortable and make them feel comfortable. But I'm still with myself. You're going to still be yourself.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So how do you navigate those, like, areas when you're, like, with straight men who are like, hold on, bro, hold on, bro. Like, how do you do that? So, you know, I used to, like, really be in the trap. I used to, like, really sell drugs and stuff. You did? Mm-hmm. And so, I was around. Real life. I did, yeah, I did. Santana! I was a real hood bitch.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
My name was my, my, my, um, before it was, that's how I got the name Santana. Oh. One of my, um, one of my, like, you know how you got, like, in the hood, you got your cousins. He wasn't my real cousin, but, like, my cousin. Nah, this not me fear. This is my cousin. We can answer that too. We can answer that too. But, no, my cousin, his name was Rico Montana. Okay.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And Santana always like, my band, my band. My man, my man, my man. You came over here asking for my man to cook. You came over here hungry. Oh, my God.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That was just a trap name, so I was like, that's serve. I was like, don't be a trap name or whatever. Yeah. I was like, okay, mine's going to be Santana. And so it was, my first name was Sissy Santana. And so... How you came up with Saucy? My cousin gave me Saucy.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, it was Sissy Santana. And I used to... This was back in my trap days, but I was kind of Facebook. I always been... Everybody always loved me. Yeah. So, I was kind of like Facebook popular. So, I remember one day me and my cousin, we was going to pick up... I was going... We was riding to Madison. That's where my plug was, which I'm going to pick up my little stuff.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And we was stopping at City Trends. So we in City Trends. The girl was like, oh my God, hey, sissy. And he was like, did you look at her like that? I said, what? She was like, no, you sissy Santana. I was like, oh. I said, baby, you have to say the whole thing. Like how you say the stallion. I said, you got to say the whole thing. So I call her Meg because that's my sister.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah, but you know, like, you got to say the whole thing.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah, okay. And that day I was like, I don't like that. I don't even like how that made me feel. Yeah. And so one day... She was ready to square up. Yeah. And so one day, you know what I'm saying? We was going... We was finna go to the club. She was like, hey, sissy. You was like, ba-ba-ba. I was like... I don't know how I said what. She was like, no, we was ready to fight.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You sissy Santana from Facebook. I was like, oh. You bragging. I said that the whole day. So we was finna get ready to go to the club one day and my cousin was like, oh, she was sassy. So it just stuck. you.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I grew up around, even before my trap days, I grew up around it. Yeah. And then being in a trap, um, something, something? Something, something. I heard something. Please try again. Oh, um, Siri, E dropped out of me. She being nosy. So, just even being around and, um, I always, I'm mean to boys. Because I'm always doing that. Oh, he was looking at me. Yeah. Like, you're not even my type.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You're not even attractive. Almost everything that I'm cool with, they embrace me first. Yeah. I don't even speak.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You can never say, oh, that punk tried to, what? I don't even.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You straight? Yeah. All right. And that's that. That's why me, Carlos, and Nick was together. Y'all carried. We was the closest. Like, when you and Nick was getting to it, and then Carlos was like, hey, man. We was known as, and then we was the bros. Because why? But Carlos is a cool nigga, though. Like, he really is.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
What he said? When you say spooked. He didn't say nothing. You just don't know what I'm finna give. Okay, yeah. You see these interviews. Like, imagine if you could judge me off this interview right here and never met me. Right. Because they be thinking you're going to go in and spark it on somebody.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yes, these long ass everything. He ain't know what's finna give. Ain't know what I respect about college. This is my highlight. I don't think they air this. This is my favorite part. Because this is a full circle moment every time I have homeboys. He was like, you a real. But they didn't hear that. Yeah. I was like.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I said, why you say that? He was like, because. He was like, you yourself. He was like, but you know how to carry yourself.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You know how. He was like, and you steal you, mother. You steal you. If you want to go upstairs and come out there with a two-piece and skirt on or whatever, you still going to do that. But... Because your pajamas, you had on. You was... Yes. I was so mad they showed me and my mother... They did! I said, BT, I'm too messy. Oh, my God! Hey, what's up, baby? We had an act. Did I see you? Hello.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I do remember, like, because when Carlos got back, I remember I called him because I was, like, I told him how proud I was of him.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Still, a slap moment was when you was on Funny Marco's show, and he was like, yeah, Carisha said your bags was fake. You called her. You was like, oh, Carisha, you said my bags was fake. She was like, Santana, they would.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I think that he did a good job of, like, representing him, his brand. Like, he didn't... He was Carlos.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And he went on there arguing with the instructor, and people took it as him being ignorant, but he was telling how he felt. Carlos smart as hell. He is smart as... And when he being older, he wise. Right. Carlos is... That homeless thing that was eating him up about, he was right. Why don't the government? He wasn't wrong. Carlos, to me, Carlos was unk.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like, Carlos is like one of your... All the n****s in the hood, you respect, like, that's unk. And then, like, when I called Carlos after, I was, like, giving him his flowers. I was like, oh, you need to reach out to Santana because we don't have him on the show. He's like, man. He's like, man, that's the coolest. He said that about you.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I was like, oh, it must have been, like, because I saw it on the show.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But you never really knows what goes on behind closed doors.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But that's how I got a lot of respect in the industry. When I first started rapping, you know, of course, they like, whoa. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? I remember it used to be boys and stuff, Carisha and them go around, they used to be like, you know, I'm their home, I'm, you know, they're gay friends, so they don't want to say it, but it's like, we going with the rich, but...
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm going to call you back. Now, why you call her when you knew that, though? I don't know why I had faith in that girl that day. I was like, you said, she was like, Santana, for real. I'm like, you know what? That's the word right now. It's okay because they real now. They real now. Play with me. Clock that T. Yeah, exactly. Okay, so I want to talk about some more stuff.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You know? Yeah. And so I'm like, okay. Like, I didn't care because I know how shit be. Yeah. It is what it is. But once we started being in certain places and, you know what I'm saying, niggas was around me, started being like, oh, that's cool. And then even when we talking, um... I know all of them know. Yeah. We could talk drugs. We could talk gangs.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
We could talk... Like, what you want to talk about? We could do the whole thing. I remember Gucci Mane, my favorite rapper, my manager took me to his concert for my birthday. Mm-hmm. And shout out to Reese. Reese got me on stage with Gucci.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And so when I first got up there, I had on a black A black Balenciaga soupy sweatsuit. My big yellow Rick On Shade. My yellow Chanel bag. My motherfucking makeup done. My motherfucking nails. And all the hood niggas up there. Zone 6. All the rappers, they looking like, what the fuck? We got on that stage. I rap every Gucci Mane song. Word for word. This is like, I started seeing this like. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Okay. I'm like, yeah, what y'all thought this was? Y'all thought I was going to get up here and bust into a split? No, bitch, I'm a trap. Yeah. A real, real Gucci head. This is my favorite after since I was a teenager. What we talking about? Yeah. So it's like, you know what I'm saying? But I'm always just being myself.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You're not doing too much. I do feel like I can take accountability for us as gays. Sometimes, we do have our gays that get around Mm-hmm. Ooh, I want to suck it. Make it uncomfortable. Ooh, I want to fuck it. Horny, I want to fuck it. And it's like... Yeah. Relax, girl.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Or you just get around to it, you want to... It's like, no, be yourself. Be yourself if that's how you is. Right. But it don't take all that. We hate horny people. We always talk about extremely horny people.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because girls do that too. Yeah. So it be on the, like, why are you always talking about, like... Why are you always so sexual? Uh-huh. So before we move on, I do want to ask you, do you feel like... Candy was coming at you because you be in these, like, spaces and you are easily more accepted. You feel like that's what it was? Jealous. Jealousy? Mm-hmm.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because I know that wasn't the first person. Another thing that we have in our community, um, is maddening them. Okay. Well, speak on it. Uh-huh. Maddening them. Hey, you on the phone. You know what I'm saying? Um... That's one thing I love about Big Sexy so much. I love Big Sexy. I love Big Sexy. I have never seen that bitch. And one thing about me, I see comments.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
When bad stuff, when negative stuff is posted about me in the blogs, I go through the likes. Yep. Who like the comment, everything, I see everything. Big Sexy, I never felt that bitch doing anything shady, no comment. Yeah. Even if you say something bad about me, Big Sexy, I'm following you.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That's why you talk about me. Yeah. And so, um, gays, we have a thing where everybody want to be mother. Yeah. Everybody want to be the it girl. Everybody, you know, it. I feel like in my career, ever since I came out, Walk Him Like a Dog is a video full of gays. Cherry Da Boom was in it. I had Cherry Da Boom in the main scene with Suki and Camellia. She was one of the main girls in there.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
All of the dancers was trans, cunt girls, and feminine gay boys. I had CJ the Trainer on top of the thing. CJ the Trainer be shaking that. I had him on the top of the truck twerking. I have poetic drugs. He do? Man, what? That can really dance. This was Welcome Like a Dog, my first video. This is how I came out the gate. Yeah. My video, you ain't from a hula hoop. I'm Hawaiian.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Have you ever seen the music video to that? Have I? The music video was at the end of the music video, it say... Black trans lives matter. Yes, yes. Black gay boy lives matter. Everything I do is for my community. Right, right, right. And so really the encounter that made Kenny not like me was because we was in the club, she had a manager at the time, and the manager asked, could she sit with me?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I said no. Well, why did you say no? Well, why did you say no, Santana? Girl, I'm the type of person, I like to be around. Me and my people. Okay, that's fair. We've talked about boundaries.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Karisha, no, I ain't going out with Karisha. For her birthdays and ritual parties and stuff, ew, it's 50 years since I've been like, y'all need to go. It's too many people. She know I'm leaving the party. See you tomorrow, call me.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
When I go outside, I'm a Libra. I'm a popular loner. I would be in a club looking so weird with me and my security. I got a big... I got a big... I don't order two bottles. It's me and my security. Yeah. Everybody's looking like, you a motherfucking weird bitch. Y'all got this big sex shit bitch. Two or three bottles, there's three of y'all in here. So, I don't want to be around nobody. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Okay, period. I know that feeling by heart. We got to play Richa Roulette with you. It's only right. Who picked these cards? Them, because they missed. I think I can tell y'all. I think so. If I can't, oh well. Richa Reloaded is coming very soon. Also, it's a new game. Someone send us a box. Uh-huh. You know what I'm saying? Okay, I'll send us one. Hopefully, I don't get in trouble.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I want to vibe with my people. Okay. I'm drunk, I can say what I want to. No, I ain't take nothing out of context. You ain't got to worry about somebody recording you.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Nobody ain't take nothing out of context. You recording ugly videos of me, girl, I ain't sucking my stomach and stuff. Move. I just don't feel like that.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And I'm not at work. Okay, that's fair. When I'm at work, when I'm at a show, when I'm at a festival or something, I post to engage and stuff. And it's no shade. And actually, because I ride for my people, I got on to her manager at the time. I said, hey, I said, when you got him coming outside, coming outside, that's your client, you call the club. Atlanta will humble you.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
They don't care who you is. But, you know, I'm that girl, so I don't get humbled in Atlanta. Wherever I pull up, they, Santana, move, move, move. Start a show. Period. But, you know what I'm saying? I was telling her manager at the time, I'm like, hey, I'm like, when Shorty coming outside, you need to tell them, hey, I got my client. He was on Love & Hip Hop Hollywood.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
He's on Wild N' Out currently. He's of a stature. Mm-hmm. He has status. Mm-hmm. Can we set him up a section? Mm-hmm. Also, when she asked to sit with you, she was trying to find somewhere for him to sit. Yeah, his manager was trying to find somewhere for him to sit because the club was sold out. Or whatever the case was, it wasn't a section for him. Okay. And I'm like, I mean, it's no shade.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I don't feel like all that. But, hey, you his representation. Make sure he represented when he outside. Yeah, okay. I didn't know that's how it started. That's what it was. Okay. So then that just turned into, okay, the... I don't know, you think I'm bad, I think I'm better than you, I think I'm whatever. It was just a lot. I don't know. I'm set up and I'm sanctioned. Yeah. So... It was a lot.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And I was like, ooh, I just didn't want you to respond. I didn't. I just didn't want you to respond, so... I didn't. Yeah, because... But that's good that you didn't because you already knew what it was. I did. Yeah, you did. I responded in my song, Berserk. Yeah. And I responded in Shoot Up the Club. Yeah. Because she was like, I'm a lapdog without... Karish and them. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So I said, if a bitch feels tough, she can leapfrog. I'm grown. I can never be a lap dog. I can never be a flunky. Never been a floozy. I carry these bitches. Baby Mama Coochie. I carry these bitches. Mood. And my mom berserk. I'm like, I'm too mad because they can't get in the party. That's why you pissed off. She was mad because you getting in my 60. Okay, that makes sense.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Feed me rappers or feed me beats. Can't clock me. Audemars made this piece. I'm a hot girl giving 500 degrees ready to pop it on you. You don't want this grease. Hey, you ain't got this things. Can't jot my flow. Gotta stay behind the scenes. This is not your show. Try no glow. Bet you know. Can't first of all me. I'm the one uno. You got some captions. One. You got some captions.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So I gave it back. You ate? I gave it back to you. You didn't eat. Because I don't know, I think she thinks she like a battle basement rapper. Y'all know how to rap. Yeah. But my hits are more, let me see you walk.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Arrogant, yes. Those are my hits. Yeah. But if we want to pull out a pen, we can do that. Can we go to the studio? Yes. I can't rap or I can't. But my only thing was what was corny about it was, what was corny about it was, like, you paying the blogs to post, like, I'm like, it's not even giving. I'm like, you got to pay the blogs to post your diss for somebody to even care.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because that's how I saw it. You know what I'm saying? It's like, girl. I'm sorry, Santana. I don't mean to interrupt you. You got something to say? She mad because I want to go to... Every time somebody sit on the couch... I'm not mad.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Okay, we love it. It's a fun game. No, I like the new one. I like the concept.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That's what I be saying. But I be like, but what are you going to do in the studio? But you know what? See. See what? In a body of work, she could be a skit. She could be an outro. We have been a skit. Y'all better look up Max O'Cream album. I've been on a skit before.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Or you could be on an outro. See? But she be talking about being in the studio on the song, on the track with you. But you'll be surprised just that I go in there and say whatever. And you'll be surprised off of four bars. I could say, oh, I'm going to slice this up in here. Now I got to hit it. You on it. I'm on the outro. See? She sent me the song. I was like, what you want me to do?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I was like, okay. I'm eating lamb chops in your favor. A lamb chop.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because this one is some tea. The new one is some tea. I like it. It's fun. It's a little variety. It's cute.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
All right, bye, y'all. All right, you right. So since we speaking of music, now it's time to get into the bop. Hey.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow, bow, bow. So the bop is our music that we've been jamming this week, so. What you been listening to?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
WizKid dropped an album. Oh. From there, Wizkid. Oh, my God. No, not, like, I love Wizkid.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Oh, my God, he dropped an album. He got this song with Jasmine Sullivan called Bad For You. And when we talk about vocalists, y'all need to stop leaving Jasmine Sullivan out these conversations. No, that bitch don't play no games. 11 years old, you can see her on Apollo. A real singer.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because we don't have to take a shot, but you do have to take a sip of the drink. I mean, I do feel like we should take a little sip of the drink. Or I can take the rest of my shot.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like, sometimes when she sing, I be like, oh, my God, is that me or Jasmine? I can't tell sometimes. Oh, for real? Mm-hmm. Tell them the scenes. I'm scared. Go ahead, Legs. Go ahead.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I have been obsessed with Wicked. So, you know, we took that picture at the Media Girls event, and I had on red, and you had on green. They was calling us Glinda and Elphaba. Oh, my God. But in the movie, I want to be Alphabet. I was Alphabet? Yes, you was Alphabet. That's fine, because I think people will be thinking I'm the mean one. Facts. Yeah. You should be Alphabet. I should be Glinda.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Who's the mean one? Glinda is like... In real life? In real life? You. No. No. Dre is the nice one. For real? I would have thought it was you. I'm nice. I got humble because I thought I was a nice one until we asked everybody. It was like, Lex is the bitch.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That's why I ain't talk to nobody today. I said, hello, staff.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I think people be thinking I'm the mean one. Ooh, speaking of bobs, Santana, why you was twerking to Tupac? Oh, my God. You know what's so funny? Let me tell y'all the motherfucking story. Let me tell y'all the motherfucking story. And you know what? That's why I love me, and I just feel like you being yourself, you can't get motherfucked. Because I must have been gone after that.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
No, you wasn't, though. Because I don't think it was on purpose. No, this is why I did it. I had... It was... This was during Black Lives Matter. It was. And it was me and Cliff and our friends.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Do you got somewhere else to go after these? Girl, nowhere but to a man.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
We had... When they did our signs, we had put on our motherfucking black... I think Cliff had gave me a... Max... Malcolm X, Koofy and... We had an all-black everything. I said, all lives matter on my sign. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Because everything I do, I do for the gays. Yeah. And so I know so many black transgenders that are dead. Nobody cares. Nobody solves the mystery.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I know so many black gay boys that go home and commit suicide because they bullied at school. They've been kicked out by their parents. They not love their home. They ridiculed for being gay. And so I'm coming from a place of if all black lives matter, don't forget about the gay ones. Apparently, all lives matters was the white people. It was.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So you prepping me, baby. You need to be a little tipsy. You prepping me, boo.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I ain't going to hold you on my hood if y'all don't be in politics like that. Yeah, yeah. I said, I don't know if maybe I should have said all black lives matter.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Okay, so. And then maybe they helped my poster was white or something. So, I don't know. All I know is I'm on the internet trying to take off for the gays. At least if you put All Lives Matter, it should have been like a rainbow flag on it. Okay. Yeah. So, I got cussed out. And I was like, I'm talking about motherfucking gays. I'm talking about the gays. I said, y'all saying black lives matter.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I said, when these transgenders die, y'all say that and that and that. That's what they get. They're freaks. They should never treat nobody. Nobody cares. When that young black gay boy go home and commit suicide because he bullied every day at school, his mama don't believe him and nobody there for them. Nobody cares. I was one.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I didn't ever think of committing suicide, but I remember in school getting drunk by boys because I was gay. I remember getting my gay bash. And I just always been a strong. But I'm just coming from an LGBT standpoint. So I said, well, bitch, you know what? Y'all need to change y'all motherfucking life. You need to change y'all attitude and change y'all motherfucking mindsets.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Bitch, I put on my Nike two-piece and I cut out a two-pie. He was dancing hard. He was like, need no changes. I wake up in the morning. You was twerking. Oh, bitch, I think I had this. It was the look on your face. Because he wasn't laughing. He wasn't joking. He was like this. My stomach hurts, so I'm looking for a purse to sleep. No, he was dead serious.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
He was like, and you know, I remember my manager at the time, he was like, no. Because I couldn't believe it either. He was like, no, I said yes. I ain't deleting shit. What's up? What up? You didn't delete it. Santana, you was cutting up. Oh, no, it's still every day going viral on Twitter. Every day I would get somebody be like, y'all ain't gonna let me forget Santana.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm like, can y'all just let it go? No, absolutely not. Honestly, that was like around the COVID time.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So people always bring up, do y'all remember COVID? And then they'll post like the video of Santana dancing. I was a part of COVID culture. You were a part of the COVID culture. Because we was like Santana. What? I see no changes. That's the problem. Period. That's just the way it is. That's what's that move. What up? Okay, Dre, what you been jamming?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
What you been listening to since then? Um, I feel like... Where am I? Let me look at my thing. Is this the karaoke part? No. Do you know what song you want to sing? Yeah, I saw them. That's how I was making sure. I've been listening to... I don't know if y'all know Blakey Anna from St. Louis. I don't. I heard her. Her song is... It's called Bing Bong. Okay, I'm a kind of sexy red.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I'm listening to Blakeyana and I love Bigger in Texas by Magna Stallion. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Childish. Childish. I don't play with rubber bands and all that.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I'm going to talk about my game. I put Carisha and I put Mitch on that song. Mitch was like, you always be doing the good music. Yeah. I just like, she was popping that. Yeah. Yeah. Because they be sleeping.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Self-made, asexual. And I'm always on point like a decimal. Oh, yeah. I'm talking about being in Texas right now. Oh, my God. I'm glad you made that show up.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Literally last night, somebody just asked me, they said, would you do a song with Megan? I said, yes, that's her. Yeah. Megan is that girl. And people don't like to give her her thing, because like I said, her thing, but come on, girl. She can rap. She's rap. I mean, she freestyles. We known for freestyling in Houston. Like, that's what Texas people do. We freestyle.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That's how I fell in love with Bonadio. I love that. Oh, Mona Leo. She's this big. She's like, I stopped the shit out of you. And bust you in your face. Oh, she's aggressive. And cut your tongue out and make you eat it. She's going crazy.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
She got a song. I talked about it the other week. She got a song with Sauce Walker. That's so hard.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yes. Ken the Man just dropped a new song. Shout out to Ken the Man. You know who Ken the Man is? Yes. Yeah, Ken the Man. I don't give a fuck. Don't give a fuck about it because it's just a nut. Yes!
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
See how quick you lie? Oh, my God. I was young. Ew, I was young. I was young. So you gave hair or you was getting it? I gave the boy hair with the condom on. But why? Just young and just like... I don't know. You know how when you young and first are having sex, it's a big thing about condoms.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And what was the other one? Because all them was flowing crazy. But what was the other Kappa Beach Party song? What you mean? Going to the Kappa. Oh, it was another one that came out during that time. Oh, it's a brand new dance called the Hooga Hooga. It's a brand... You remember that song? That came out during the Kappa time. I didn't know that was Kappa, though. I thought that was Dallas.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
No, that was... That was Houston. Hooga Hooga. Hooga. Everybody was on... Keati was on that song. What? You know, that was a Houston song. But anyways, shout out to the girls, the H-Town girls. Yes. Y'all be wrapping y'all ass off. Per usual, item of the week, I got on my crowns of love hair. I got me a little flip over, a little one-two. Shout out to Rich Look Hair for doing my hair, but yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of the Week. But do you have a product or something that you want to promote and you want it featured on Poor Minds? Your opportunity is here.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Okay, so we're going to get to our favorite segment. Do you feel like you give good advice? Yes. Okay. That's what I am used for all day motherfucking long. This is pour your heart out. So are we doing both questions or what? Yeah, because mine is short. Okay. So if you want your question answered on the show, make sure you email us at This says, hey, Sexy Lex and Sexy Dre.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Sexy Dre, that's a new name. I'm a 20-year-old virgin, and I just want to know, how long should I make a guy wait? Like, should I wait until he asks me to be his girlfriend, or is it cool to do it during the talking stage? I don't... I don't know when the right time is, but I really want to... He did not say that. I'm for the guy. And it's big. She said, I really want to...
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You know, like, all that stuff. I'm like, boy, I ain't gonna do that. I'm protecting myself.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I think... How do you know you want to f***? Girl, that f*** get wet and tingle and stuff. Girl, you know you ready to get served. But I've been serving for a long time. I'm 35. I've been serving for 20 years. I've been serving for 20 years. I'm 35. I think that by her being a virgin, she should be a little more delicate with the virginity. Because you've waited this long.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Wild out. Yeah, but wait. That's what I did. Your first time should be special. You waited a long time? I never had sex until I was 18. Have you ever had sex with a girl? No. I did, like, a little one-two, but I wasn't considering, like, having sex. But I did go in there. You put it in? Uh-huh.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because it was, like, girl, a little one-two. But you didn't like it? Like, it wasn't. It was cute. Okay. Y'all had a moment. Yeah, she had, like, the macaroni and cheese. Now she has that gushy gushy. And y'all got like a muscle thing. Yeah. So as I'm coming out, she... Rip that thing. Yeah, I said, hey, girl, we just playing. Santana, she was a hoe. Was she 18 too? No, she wasn't 18.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
No, I had sex. I never had sex with... I had sex with a boy at 18. You talking about when you had sex? When you had sex with the girl, how old was she? We was like, I think like 23, 24 or something. Oh, okay. But it was my homegirl. And girl, it was a trial and error just to see what it give. Girl, you had started confusing me and stuff. I was like... You liked it a little bit.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I thought I... I like that group. Girl, it was somebody.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
When I was coming out, I was like, oh. Hey. Girl, what's wrong with you? Let me up from this mic. but you been to have a baby. That's why I said she was... It was literally like two minutes. So that's why I said... Yeah, you don't count it. Yeah, but I said, okay, I can see why... I can go for that.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That's a seasoned group. Yeah, because I was coming out, but I thought I was coming out. I was coming back in. I said, what the f***? Mm-hmm. He's looking back in. The mac and cheese. I said, oh, hey, girl, you working out? That's my girl. Are y'all still friends?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Okay. So, yeah, the virginity question. Girl, just wait. Don't rush it. Take your time. Yeah, it's your virginity. Be delicate. Now, once you fuck him, you can serve. Because I didn't start having sex until I was 18. I had sex with a boy for the first time when I was 18. And after I fucked him when I was 18, I went on a rampage. You got to go on that rampage. What you mean the rampage?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I know what you mean about a rampant. Look, he took. Bitch, I was in the woods. He was fucking in the couches. The woods? The woods? Yeah. Oh, my God. Lord, I got woods. Girl, no, I was living in North Carolina. It was like a little, this way, we was in the woods. And give me his bed back there, because when we got back there, it was a little bitch.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And a pallet. Girl, I said. A pallet in the woods? And a little bitch. Hey, how many people you bought back here? I still did it, though. He bought that bench for that. He came out there looking like Winnie the Pooh. I was young. I probably was like... I think I was like 18 still at the time. And you went to the woods? No, I didn't lost my opportunity to the woods.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I lost my opportunity to this dope boy. I thought I was too raw. This was back then. It was an Uber shack. Yeah. He had ordered me a little taxi. Uh-huh. But it was tea because the taxi was $80. $80 there and $80 home. So you was like, she's spending money on you. And I get there. She got a perp just back in the day. So I'm like, she got a perp. Bitch, we done smoked four blocks of perp.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You... I... And so then, bitch, he saved his mama some. His mama at work, his sister in there. So now I'm feeling like, bitch, because, boy, you gonna be your sister in the next room. You ain't scared. Me and his room, that first week that I watched TV, I had on my mother's phone. I had on this little new phone. I was ready to get served.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, after, after me and him, after me and him, after whatever, girl, we, You know, help me. We watch your TV. Like, you know how you get put out. Yeah. Y'all help me and stuff. You know? You don't do that. He was holding you from behind. You help me and stuff. And we watch, you know, TV. Y'all was in love.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And then, um, your sister started doing the most so I had to hide in the closet for a little bit. And then, you know, she called me another taxi and I left. And so, I left. I remember he gave me his Ed Hardy shirt. And I just remember, like, on my way home, just... I was so in love. That's beautiful. And my pussy was throbbing. It was ringing like a doorbell. But I didn't even care.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
How do you feel about that? You know how when you put it in your mouth, you know, pre-came and stuff.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Because he didn't have a boyfriend. Girl, no. Oh, my God. And that was my first time, too. So, I remember the next day, I had a call. I was calling his cell phone. He didn't answer the cell phone. So, I had the house phone number, too. Yeah. So, now I'm calling the house phone. And every time, I always, my voice always had been like this. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So, like, I even remember my mom used to cuss out people at McDonald's. A girl told her, give me a girl toy. She's like, that's a boy. Like, you know, as a kid, I'm ordering my food. Like, I want a Happy Meal. And I'm like, okay, a girl toy. She's like, no, a boy one. I'm with you. So, on the phone, I'm like, you know, on the phone, his mommy asked her, hello.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So I'm like, let me think of a girl name that's coming. Hello. Yeah, this Shay. Yeah, he there.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
This my name, Shay? It's coming. So he got on the phone. I'm like, hello. Click. I'm like. You thought you ate that. I'm like, wait.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
No. No, the mama didn't clock. He got on the phone. I'm like, hello. Click. I'm like, you were scared. Oh. No, he get on the phone and hung up. No, he got on the phone and hung up.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah, I'm not. Okay, I'll call back the next day. Hello? Hey, this is Bree. Can I speak to him? Be on the phone. Hello? Hello? So I go the next day, I call. I forgot who name I used that day, but I think that name, he wasn't going. So he just never answered. He didn't get on the phone that day. And I just remember being with my cousin. I was crying so bad. It's a song.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah, the pregnancy thing. And then it's just different, like, you know, when the nut and the pre-cum. It's different things you can catch, like, you know. That already came in your mouth, though.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Girl, me and my cousin, we used to sit there. I used to play this song off my iPod.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Boo-hoo cry like a... You can't make your heart feel something. You can't make your heart feel... I used to boo-hoo cry. I was like... He don't love me. You don't do that. You don't fuck nobody and hug and hold them and all that and just stop answering the phone. No. And so now in my head, I'm like, the pussy ain't hitting. Like, I must be wasn't serving.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And being a gay boy and dealing with down low men, I realized that it wasn't me.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Niggas be so psyched out in they head, and that's why transgenders get killed and do things. That as soon as they bust that nut, they like, ugh. Get away. What the fuck? Post-nut clarity. Because at Strike People, we get post-nut clarity. So imagine when a man is down low. I have took a fucking job. Like, hey, don't you tell nobody. Hey.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So is he open now? Is he openly gay now? I don't know. I don't know where the mother is at. And I'm telling this story because you need to reach out. You owe me. I need closure. I need reparations, nigga. I need closure.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
No, he didn't. Like, if I'm giving him head, and it's like the foreplay.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
A long time coming up. We have social media influencer, rapper. Mm-hmm. The pin game don't lie. Thank you. Don't play with him. Don't play with him. You ain't f***ing me for free. Why you lying? Why you lying? Hula, hula, hula. I'm Hawaiian.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I told her, you don't like any of the dudes I date. And she said, all the dudes I date are bums. And this one has to prove to her that he's worthy of dating me. Is it jealousy? Stop hanging with that. Exactly. So wait, y'all.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But different... Like, something can enter my bloodstream through my vagina and not through my mouth.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Keep doing what y'all doing. I love y'all so much. We love you, too. And get that hate off around you. I always say this. As long as he not beating on my friend, mind your business. I'm talking business. Who is that? Hello. It's giving baby, can you help me? Help me. I'm coming. I'm almost done. Yeah. He busy.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
He walking. They say I'm good. Let me see what he look like. He working. Let me see. Look.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You know who he look like? I don't trust you. I don't trust him neither. He look like Sean Bankhead. He look like Sean Bankhead. Yes, he do. No, he do not. Girl, she crazy as hell.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You said it. He the one that's going to be like the best. What's that? He know that. He know he T. He is cute, though. Yeah. Okay, I see it. I get it. He know he T. I get it. He is T. And I get it. He like, yeah, who them girls was. Yeah, you see how they was. You see how they. My voice.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
but that's what that's what when people see it they like oh he give that so he already know it yeah thank you when you talk to him later he definitely gonna be like them girls said that i was fine that's my man i love him okay santana let the girls know where they can find you what you got coming up all that good stuff you can find me at big.com uh wait i'll stop okay What's the name thing? T.S.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Madison? Shout out to T.S. Madison. You know we got on the show.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
It's tough. It happens. Well... I'm not going to lie. Like I said, I've definitely given head raw and then put a condom on. I don't know. I don't know. Maybe it's more of the pregnancy. All of that stuff, I got to protect from all that stuff. But the pregnancy, that don't scare me. You know my kids. They is up there. R.I.P. Hallelujah. Hey. Okay, okay, okay.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That's the realest one of the realest I know. Love her.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I don't know about the moon signs. I have a Libra rising, so I love, like, I love Libras. Y'all do be lying, though. Libras lie to Y'all a lot of everybody. No, we don't. The thing I hate about people saying I'm a lying Libra because I'm not a corny bitch that lie about... Stupid stuff. Yeah, like... But you'll be lying. To a... Yes. I lie like a rug. I love a good lie. Yes.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
But I don't, but I just, like, you know how people that just lie? Yeah, all the time for no reason. You just be lying about stupid stuff. You just be lying. Oh, yeah, I just hit a dick on this boy. Oh, my God. Well, I just let this boy grow high, but he gave me $20,000. No, he gave you $20. He didn't give you $20,000. I hate girls. That's crazy. $20 and $20,000.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Bitch, I know bitches that lie like that. Be like, look at this bag you bought me. But my mom is a Libra, too. When is your birthday? October 8th. My mom's birthday is October 18th. For real? Yeah. I don't want to say the birthday, but yeah, I dealt with a Libra. October 8th? I don't understand his birthday. He got the same birthday as me?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
No, he doesn't have the same birthday, but it's when I say close. Oh. It's either the 7th or the 9th. Because what's the name? Me and what's the name got the same birthday? Who? Nick Cannon and G Herbo. Oh, my God.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yeah, because we Libras. You think all Libras are narcissists?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Do you think you're narcissistic? I think he knows, but he knows he has his ways. I'm not mad at that, though. To me, that's real that you can look at yourself in the mirror and be like... I just said, you know what? I'm 31. Yeah. I want to go to therapy. You should.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You also need to journal every day because journaling literally changed my life because I know I have my ways too. So I was able to look back on things and how I view things and I was able to grow from that because I'm like, okay, two years ago, this is where I was and this was my thought process.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And why is this, why am I handling things this way? It has helped me so much. Journal and go to therapy. Your life gonna change.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I agree. I said, I just want to unpack this. I just got to talk to somebody. Somebody. Somebody that you don't feel judged, that's unbiased, that don't know you. But at the same time, is that like... Is that like what I do with my best friend? Because me and Carisha tell each other.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like, I feel like... But you know what I... You know what I... What? That take everybody's side but mine's. Or do you be wrong? No, I don't be motherfucking wrong. No, he be wrong. No, I don't. And Carisha will always take the nigga side. But you don't need a yes man. No, you don't. That's what I'm saying. Yo, he got me f***ed up. She be like, yo, what you do?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I got a lot, because I used to be that way, too. I remember I asked Dre advice one time. I'm always like that with her. To the point, people be on the show, people be leaving. I was like, oh my, you didn't even say what I wanted to say.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Yesterday, but just being a real, and being a real, because yesterday I had, me and Christian talking about something, I was like, I said, I got to be her best friend right now.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I was like, you got to eat that one. Yeah. This is your fault. You need that, though. You know what I'm saying? Like, and so I get that, but I said, baby, with a therapist, it's like just more of a professional setting. And unbiased. More of somebody that don't even know me and be like, come on. Like, well, why is you like that?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
This may be affecting your relationship to people. Uh-huh. So, I don't know. I think it's a good idea. But what's your real act? So the girls can follow you. Oh, my real ass is the one Saucy Santana on Instagram. I think it's Saucy Santana on TikTok, Saucy Santana on Twitter. And what you got coming up where the girls can look out for? What are we looking forward to in 2025? You know what?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I always, when I get asked that question, I always like to tell people to stay tuned. Because... You just never know. And I'm very, like, spontaneous, even my manager know, like, sometimes the phone just ring and be like, hey, we want Susanna to come. I be like, ooh, okay. Yeah. Like, I literally, like, I'm blessed, even in seasons when it's slow, I just feel blessed that the phone rings. Mm-hmm.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And I love that for you. And I just be caught for... All kinds of shit. But I like that you said that because, honestly, I hate a fake busy bitch. Uh-huh. I hate a bitch that's always dropping an announcement. Yeah. Girl, you ain't really doing nothing. I ain't got shit going. You always got an announcement. Baby, calm down. You don't got an announcement. I'm not going to lie.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Let me tell you something. I, my friend has a whole business. She always dropping new products, and I'm finna promote that shit. I have things that I'm working on, but it's moving a little slower, but I'm my own person. But I don't feel the need to be like, oh, y'all stay tuned. Uh-huh. I got this coming. Sometimes I be like, hey, I ain't gonna lie.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like, things pop up for me, and if you see me, you see me.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And then, so what if I didn't say nothing about what I got going on and you didn't say nothing about what you got going on, but our announcements are already playing at the same time?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I might be coming out with a... Finna drop a new song.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And Mitch might be finna drop... a new product line.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And we didn't say... I didn't tell you that I'm dropping my song on March 4th. You didn't tell me you was gonna drop your new product line on March 4th, but here we are. How was that... But see, to me, how was that weird? How was it weird? We didn't know. I mean, it's different if, like, we didn't know. But I'm talking about the people that be like...
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
somebody announced something, and then, like, the same day or the next day, you announced something, but we don't even know what it is.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Like, you turned around, and your turn around gave me back to back. He said it's given two days later. No, no. It could be like, if you f*** somebody and you f*** their friend, oh, yeah, then that means I need to take a shot. I never f*** somebody's friend. I definitely... I didn't hit girls because... Fuck somebody's employee. That's even worse.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You're just like, oh, y'all, I have a special announcement to make coming soon. Weird. Just because the other person said, I got these going on. So that's what I'm saying. Sometimes when you're in this industry, sometimes you have times where you're booked and busy all the time, and sometimes you have a little slow season, but trust and believe. It's coming. Just stay tuned. Stay tuned.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
That's honest. Because even, like, next year, I already got, like, Somebody just hit me up the other day and was like, hey, I'm producing this new show, blah, blah, blah. Like, I don't even know what the hell it's called. So I'm like, I don't know. We're going to see when we... I think you... When we get there. You wouldn't have it... I'm not going to lie.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You didn't do like a reality TV, but like something about you. Like a camera needs to follow you around. The ideal TV show that I wanted for myself is... I want a show... Based around me and my friends. Yes. That would be perfect. Me and my everyday friends that's not famous. And my famous friends can, like, hop in.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
For episodes. But I want to show, like, the fun side of shit. Yeah. I feel like with TV, we got enough drama. I'm tired of seeing people throw drinks and fight. We got Zeus. We got love and hip-hop. We got now this TV. Mm-hmm. We got all that. Yeah. I want to really show, like, how is the... Do y'all know my best friend's hair position? Bitch, do y'all... Yes.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I just said, you and Mitch are hilarious. When he came out your closet with them Rick Owens boots on. Oh, my God, yes. Pride. I want... He was the one... Remember when I sent you that video? So, y'all have a video where he was like... He was like, all up on... He was like, why you in my space? I'm like, this is me, Andrea. I be like, Andrea, like, what you doing?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I be like... Move. That is me and Mitch. Oh, my God. Get the f*** back. And so... He love you down. She love me down. I be like, f***, move. And what about it? But I want us to have a show, like, kind of like that. Yeah. I feel like you will be... People love to laugh.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You will be surprised. And I feel like laughter really heals a lot of stuff. It does. And I get so many DMs like, whenever I'm having a bad day, I go to your TikTok. I love you and your best friend, Mitch. I love you and your best friend, Carisha.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I love, I just, and I'm like, I want to get, I want to get a show where it's like, what I want us to do is, I want me and Mitch, and I want us, I want us sometimes to other friends. I want us to be like, like Paris Hilton and show.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So what I really want is probably like eight to ten episodes in a series. Mm-hmm. And I want us to do, try different jobs and different activities each day. Yeah. So imagine me and Mitch going to be zookeepers. Yeah. That'll be sick. And a llama spit in our face.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Or work at a call center. Yes. Yeah. Or a motherfucking tiger getting to run into a cat. Yeah. Girl, we done threw everything... A sea world or something. That would be fun. A big dolphin, a jump. Like, I want to do fun stuff. We need to get back to having fun.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I don't know how to cook. I go, today, Santana, go be a chef. Yeah. I used to go live on Instagram, cooking in my house. Girl, I almost burnt my house. I remember that. You seen that?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
So what do you think is hard about cooking? Girl, it's too much. Like, girl, you got it. You just got to know. You got it. You got it. You got to know. I'm very, I can cook simple. Okay. Like, what's y'all, what's y'all number one recipe?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Y'all make sure y'all share the content, like, subscribe, follow, all that good stuff. And let me say this before we close out. Y'all, there is one Twitter account that is connected to poor minds. It's P-O-U-R underscore M-I-N-D-S. Y'all are tagging the wrong Poor Minds page. If you see at Poor Minds with no underscore, that is a fake page. Do not follow that page, okay?
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
He worked for him. Oh, you're a boss. Yeah. Thank you. Yeah. That's my girl. Yeah, period. Now I got control over your job, so keep it cute. Keep it cute.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
They blocked me, Andrea, and the Poor Minds page on both. So we only have one Instagram post. one twitter one tiktok it is p-o-u-r underscore m-i-n-d-s all right and we got a hell of fake facebook page oh the facebook page is our face the crazy thing is our facebook page actually have the least amount of followers so if you're on facebook the one that's ours
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DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
got the least amount of followers the one that's not us got like 250,000 followers but y'all know it's fake if you actually look at the content cause the caption is like whoever it is don't speak English cause their captions are like should men pay bill should men pay bill yes no check answer below block block fire fire fire Like, that's literally what the captions mean.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I like that DDG's Bamba Claude. Bamba Claude. Hey, hey. Beat that up. When a real one hold you down, baby, you supposed to drown. You ain't never with no boss. I turned you out. Period. You won't catch me in no shark boot. I brought them out.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Ooh. Ooh. Ooh. Ooh. Ooh. Ooh. Ooh. I talk a lot of shit. He like, who you think you is? Not your brokey. Not your brokey. I think he got one up on me the whole time. This shit like 3 and 0. Twin. I be going in. Clearly want my life and it's so evident. Could clean it from right.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
What I look like asking him about another bitch. Huh? Might tell you once, won't tell you twice. If you don't shut up, we'll be all right. See, y'all gonna tweet and I'm gonna fight. Facts. Yeah, these hoes sweet as apple pie. Ain't got no car, so I'll ride. But bro, say, y'all can't even do that. Why? How? When? Where? Just let me know how you want to play it. You know I'm there.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Left our panties at his mansion like a souvenir. With a real one, how's you down? You supposed to drive. And you ain't never with no boss. I'll turn you out. You won't catch me in no shark booth. Your birth amount. Bitches gotta wait till their birthday to go out of town. Out of town, Rocky. I talk a lot of shit. Yo. Be like who you think you is. I should be. Rocky.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
And I sure think he got one up on me. How time this shit like three and now? Mrs. Can't be fucked with. I ain't talking about nothing. Every time I look up, I'm the topic of discussion. I'm in a fast coupe. You in a bad mood. You left your in the bathroom. You gonna meet him halfway. I'm the type to make them wait. You're the type to give it up. It's hard for me to give a fuck.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
You're going to let them plead this case. A bitch like me can't go for nothing. Noah sent my cup. When I leave the club, consider that. When you mention me, don't forget Richard. Squeaky clean, but I got junk up in the trunk. When a real one has you down, baby. You supposed to drown. You supposed to fuck with no boss. You won't catch me in no short boot. Y'all burnt them out.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Gotta wait till their birthday to go out of town. Broke it. I talk a lot of shit. He like, who you think you is? Not your... Broke it. Not your... He think he got one up on me. Her time is shit. Like three and all, twin. I fucked your daddy. I fucked your cousin. I took down your homeboy. And I'm still not your wallet. This hoe's half... And I got something to say, too.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
I got your account number on my light bill, baby. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Thank you. I want to feel like three and oh, and I got it. We got to close it out like this. You ain't me for free. Why are you lying? Who the hoop on it? I'm Hawaiian. Thank you. I'll see you next week. See you. Poor mine.
Pour Minds Podcast
DooDoo Brown FT. Saucy Santana
Oh, girl, that's easy. Yes, he called. I just got off the phone with him. You want to see him? You want to see him? He said he going to meet somebody. Tanner! I want to see another man by the dog. Okay, okay. Walk him like a dog, baby. Thank you. Okay. What's yours, Lee? Oh, this is so funny. Because I know... Take a shot if you ever put your finger in a... He liked it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yeah, because then later that year, that's when I met you at Opulence. Yes. In 2017.
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Oh, my God, I love her. I said, great times. Yeah, great times. I posted that video for your birthday. Do you remember, Dre, we was... Two turned up fighting, and you took my wig off.
Pour Minds Podcast
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We wasn't fighting for real, y'all. We was, like, wrestling. Play fighting.
Pour Minds Podcast
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But Kellyn got this video in her phone of us rolling on the ground, and we both don't got a wig on.
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We was back in the room. Oh, okay, okay, okay. We was in the room.
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Like, my little ass invited my... Shout out to my other best friend, Jasmine. We love Jasmine. I invited Jasmine on stage, and we was doing the South Side. Yeah, like... Like, everything is zero. Most of it is done. It was just real ghetto.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Good times, though. Okay, Ty. So we've been having such a good time. We didn't even get into what we're drinking today. What you got for us?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And it's super easy to sign up. It's super affordable. And you can change therapists whenever you need to. You can take the calls on the go or you can do it at home, whichever you prefer.
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be about 20 questions a lot of the questions that y'all sent me were kind of similar so i merged some of the questions together and um yeah i'm gonna let y'all get in my business a little bit let y'all be a little a little nosy i know i don't normally do that what did you learn from your early to mid 20s i just lost my dad i'm 21 i'm not sure how to keep going any tips on how to keep going
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Hey Dre, asking a genuine question. Do you get lip fillers? Okay, this is another question I feel like I answer all the time, but I don't mind answering it again.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I never really been the type. Are you making a personal YouTube channel because poor minds is changing or canceled? Let me clear the air with that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
So, basically, we're going to give y'all some scenarios and you're going to say either yes, I'm judging or no, I'm not judging.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Okay? All right. Vastly different political views. For example, dating someone and finding out they voted for Trump.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Because why are you dating this bitch? You're just as dirty as he is. You are dirty.
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Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
You need a black light when you come to my house. Might have to shake the wall. Yeah. Whoa.
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Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
The wall. This next time y'all come over, don't touch nothing. Why is that thing being broken?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Well, let me say this, guys. I be washing my sheets before y'all come over. So it's clean sheets. Mm-hmm.
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Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Every time. Me and Lex would look at each other and we would be like... Every time. Not the feet check. The feet check every time. And our dumb asses will still go barefoot. That's what I was about to say. Why are y'all taking y'all shoes off?
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A dish might be left with me. I ain't even gonna lie.
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Looking for a job. Looking for a job. Before the employers are there.
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I agree. But yeah, friends, not so much just because, you know, somebody is going through something like Lindsay and then they need to go back and live with their parents and they have the luxury to do that. That's great because a lot of people don't even have that option. Like, a lot of people got to get it out the mood.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
They got to figure shit out and make ends meet because they don't have nobody that they can go live with. So, you know, life happens. But my man...
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
This is a good one. Painted fingernails. I know this is a trend, but everybody has their opinion on it. How do y'all feel about dating a man with painted fingernails?
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No? No. Like, you is not about to put your fingers in my coochie with polish on them.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We know what you like. She said a little aggressive no.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Lynn is my girl, man. Because why? Because why you had to polish me?
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Why are your nails dirty? Like, I feel like nails will tell you so much about a man. Amen. Why is there dirt underneath your nails? You didn't take a bath today. You cannot come in here and take a bath.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
You don't know what that man had to do. Okay, yeah, I know that he didn't take a bath. I know he didn't have time for that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Well, that has happened with a few of our guests as well.
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We got one more. We've never had musty women, though.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Yeah. Why are you quoting Kevin Samuels to me?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Is everything okay at home? Like, what is going on? Okay, I do got one more.
Pour Minds Podcast
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I ain't never seen that. I ain't never seen an acrylic on a big toe. He got his square shape.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Because what if he has acne? You like the dead skin on your pillow.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And the main ingredient is the same active ingredient that's in Ozempic and We Go Vee.
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Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We're exclusive. You not dating nobody. I'm not dating nobody. Unless you're into an open relationship. Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Or spend it with your booze? Because we've seen a tremendous rise in women, you know, doing Galentines every year with their homegirls. And a lot of people like to say, you know, that's beautiful that you can spend time with your friends if you don't have a man. Or are y'all just like, look, I want a man. I don't want to hang with you hoes.
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Girl, fuck that. Your friends are the ones that love you. I don't want to talk to you bitches every day. Oh, my God. No, your friends are the ones that will love you when the man is gone.
Pour Minds Podcast
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But I knew you was going to say that. I love, I don't know. I appreciate having friends when I don't have a man. Yeah. Better than being alone on Valentine's Day. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But what I'm saying is... Because now that I think about it, we've never had a Galentine's. I don't think I even... Have I ever called you on Valentine's Day?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
She not, y'all. She probably should stay at home and watch movies. She ain't gonna call.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yes, y'all. And remember, if your credit score is under 600, you could jump 28 points in the first month.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We're going to be doing talk to me, chit chat with me. We're going to be spilling a little tea. Oh, my God. No, you didn't.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But, yeah, I agree. Some men like the little razzle dazzle. Like, they be wanting you to wear the lingerie or, like, a little costume so they can take it off.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
This is the sprinkler. No, it is fun, though, because you can literally go with him and, like, see what he like.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Let him pick out stuff that he like versus you just buying a toy that you think y'all might both enjoy, you know?
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I be like, hey, sit your ass down. He is cute. He fine. The material. I be like, I need to see him. Show me a picture. I'll show you, girl. He look like Lauren.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yeah, it's like you can, they can control it from wherever they are. That's the one that I have. So if they're out of town or whatever, you have it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
PM at gmail.com. That's I T E M O F T H E W E E K PM at gmail.com.
Pour Minds Podcast
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It's so funny because it's so funny because that happened to me earlier. I had tripped over there, too. But yeah, I think anything that Drake and Party Next Door do together is just always going to be a classic. So, you know, I feel like it's... It's going to be a good album because it's supposed to be an album. Okay. Drake loves a collab. He does love a collab.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But, yeah, in height of Beyonce announcing the tour, I've been listening to Cowboy Carter. Again. Again. Because it's not that I ever really just stopped. But I haven't, I will say, I haven't listened to it a whole go-round for probably a few months.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yes, thank you, Ty. Do y'all feel like y'all give good advice?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
So we're going to ask some questions. I think you give good advice, too. I think you do.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
If you have any questions, send them to askpourminds at gmail.com. Send us your questions. Send us your testimonials. Because, you know, sometimes we be giving bad advice, too. Question number one. Ooh, your question long.
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Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Maybe we shouldn't. Question number one. Hey, ladies. First off, let me say I love y'all down. The show is amazing, and I look forward to always watching.
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So I've been cool with this guy for five months and everything between us works. We get along really well. So he's going out of the country and is going to be gone for a month, which is fine. However, since he's been away, I haven't really heard from him.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
She said... I mean, I can't... She's been cool with him for five months.
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Don't worry. On vacation. I'm about to blow that phone up. What, you're on a jet ski? I would be blowing it up. What, what? Because if he on the jet ski, pull up next to him. What are you doing?
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Cold world. They've been going... He's been going for a long time. Why the hell I haven't heard from you one time? Because you know what I'm doing? What if I'm not okay? Right.
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Haters. But like I was saying, I just feel like, yes, if this man really fucked with you like that, you would have heard from him at least once, you know? And that's bare minimum. I think you just need to let it go because I don't think his feelings going to be that hurt.
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He be there. I'll be there. I'm here. You see me.
Pour Minds Podcast
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She did that because I be saying the letters be too long, and that shit still long. Girl, you're married with a family. I can see it from over here. It's like five paragraphs. It's still too long. Tomato. They both weird. You're a loser.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But also, as a married happily, because you said happy, happily married woman, why are you even worried about what's going on? Like, I would just cut her off.
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Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
What? She did have a poor mom's shirt on. Well, this is what I will say. I used to pull up, and it used to be business up top, chilling at the bottom. So underneath the table, I used to have flip flops. Yeah. And sweatpants. But then at the top, I would have on like a little corset, something sexy.
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Yeah, I just think that it's too many men in the world. Like, yeah, I'm happily married now. But why the hell do you need to go date somebody?
Pour Minds Podcast
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I care because you're a weirdo. Why would you go and fuck somebody that you know I used to fuck with?
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Not technically, because you didn't fuck him first. So, it was my mom first.
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I'm next, bitch. And you ain't getting them back. I just feel like if you gotta do all that explaining, just let it go. I'm next. Because the shit getting confused. You finna write in about me. I'm like, what? Who was that?
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We need a photo of the man. And we need a photo of this man. We need a photo. So Licks can find him on Facebook.
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Stop. But this has been... So fun, y'all. This has been so fun. I love y'all. I'm so glad that y'all came. We love y'all so much. We love y'all too. This has just been so great. We've never had our friends on the couch with us. Like she said, outside of killing. And that was like six years ago. So I'm so glad y'all are here. This is so great. Yeah.
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Lauren... I said, hey, Lauren, I don't want no smoke. Come and just get my little wing and head on out.
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Use Code Lauren, baby. Use Code Lauren, baby. She the ambassador of Pollo Tropical.
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I was like, thank you. I didn't want no chicken. By the way, though, I was fucked.
Pour Minds Podcast
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I had a two-piece with the two-piece piece. And I think somebody said something to Laura. I can't remember who it was.
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MuseBeautyCollection.com. Make sure y'all shop. The Valentine's Day still starts today. Make sure you follow my YouTube channel, Dre Nicole, with three E's. I drop vlogs every week and, like, beauty content and all of that stuff.
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Like, I feel like all three of y'all are very, very supportive friends. And it's so important to have those type of people in your corner. Because one thing about y'all, y'all going to pull up to the event. Y'all going to pull up everywhere. Y'all going to pull up to the event. And in different cities and stuff, too. Facts. Facts. Because, Lynn, you came to the Miami show last year, I think.
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I can tell he's been lying and he needs some talk too. Girl.
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Girl. I'm trying to play with this. This the bootleg version.
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But the funny thing is, Lynn not even quiet. I just feel like she just be observing and paying attention. But then she say stuff that you would never think she would say. Like, she always be saying stuff. And I be like... Why would you say that? I always say Lynn's Twitter is my burner account. Literally. Because she say everything I'm thinking.
Pour Minds Podcast
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And you know, that situation was crazy, too, because the whole weekend... We was there. I've been la-la-ling. I don't even know. People don't like me. I don't even know. They having issues. They feeling no type of way. They telling Lex, like, you be running up behind Dre and all of this crazy stuff.
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Step Yo Game Up
Honestly, if shit shut down right now, I'm good for about a good seven, eight months. Same. In seven, eight months, I can figure something out.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
If you have real friends and community, go make an Instagram or a Facebook. Like, you can keep in contact with people. I get it, because I've made friends from the internet.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
We seen it already. It's the wild times and we live it in. Okay? Mm-hmm. All right, so let us know how y'all feel about the TikTok, man. I know y'all probably finna get on our ass in these comments, but it is.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
So y'all know I've been going to acting classes and y'all know I'm big trash. Well, I'm medium trash now. Don't say that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
So I feel like I'm getting better. I feel like I'm getting more confident. That's good. So, yeah, I've been keeping up with that. And I have been really focused. And I have been doing so much for, like, Love Lex P. I've still been ordering equipment. Oh, my God. So, obviously, I'm filming Love Lex P at home.
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But with that being said, I forgot how hard it is to shoot and produce your own thing. Because, you know, we haven't done that in so long. Yeah. So it's really taking me back to the Wind Down Wednesday days when I used to be, and we used to be trying to figure out how to connect this to that, why this sound like that.
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Mm-hmm. So, speaking of traveling and doing nice things, you had a tweet the other day about luxury.
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Step Yo Game Up
So, we're going to define. Let me look it up so I don't misquote you, child. Thank you. Thank you.
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That's fair. I like that. I think I'm the same way. I'm like, luxury to me is just being free. Debt free. Fuck nigga free.
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Step Yo Game Up
Gwen Stefani said, we're loaded and we're not going to play. That was a good song. That was a good song. He was on the read.
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I think that it's crazy because I think it's still a thing that people believe to this day because this is more so like opinion. Maybe not myth, but this is like an opinion type thing.
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I think it's crazy that people swear up and down like sex is taboo and it should not be talked about because we had a clip that just went viral with us with Janiece and we were talking about, you know, like giving head or whatever and
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Because that's something I'm like, after going out of town, we went out of town, I was like, okay, I have to learn Spanish. Yeah. It's getting ridiculous.
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It's low-key kind of hard to get pregnant, low-key. Easy? Like, especially as you get older. I don't know. I don't be trying.
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I have one. I used to think, like... I won't say it's a myth. I just think it's something stupid and silly. But I used to think, like, if you had, like, a hickey, like, you were a whore. Like, girls that had hickeys... Oh, my God. You were a nasty slut. You let somebody kiss your neck?
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A 16-year-old is a child. Yeah. So, you know, we're just talking about all ages 0 to 17. Zero? Zero.
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So y'all got time to prepare. Everybody needs to prepare. We're doing a tap. I've been waiting to dust off my tap shoes.
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I was talking to my old self. That was just me talking to my old self, champ. All right. Hi. I guess she wants her name to be said. She lifting in the... Hi, I'm Kiora.
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Girl, the type of man you like in six years is going to change. So don't worry about it.
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But yeah, I just want to shout out to everybody that subscribed. We got 30,000 views in the first 48 hours. Okay? So, but yeah, y'all make sure y'all tune in Monday. It'll be episode two.
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Step Yo Game Up
Okay, so speaking of drinks, because I got my little drink here. I don't know about y'all, but I'm going hard for 75 days, all right. 75 hard. Okay.
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So I want to do a quick check up with everybody. Y'all leave comments. Have y'all been keeping up with your New Year's resolutions so far? We are getting towards the end of January.
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Make a little snow cone. Don't do that. But anyway, okay, let's get to these topics because I am so ready to talk about this. I have been dying to talk about this.
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Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
No, he did not. You know what? Most black women are splitting rent with their man. Most black women... Facts.
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Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
That's all them. You seen that throwing napkins?
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Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
You ain't... I'm telling you. You ain't woke up shit over here.
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All My Children
If you want to upgrade your restroom ritual, you can grab Good Wipes at Target, Walmart, Kroger, and most local grocery stores.
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All My Children
That's kickoff without the C. Get your first month free at getkickoff.com slash poorminds. Must sign up via getkickoff.com backslash poorminds to activate offer. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole.
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The Cream Girlz FT. Jenise Hart
He said, I have seen you before. I have seen you. You are very, very good. I have beat off to you before. You are very good. I know the pounded yam.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
It's too easy. It's too easy. Even if you got your own nigga, when your nigga be mad at you... It's so easy to get your man to not be mad at you or to get your man back or whatever the case. Men are just easy.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Because you know, you said you wake up on 10. Oh, I wake up on one every day.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
We are. We some yappers now. We be over here chatting.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
I give up too easy. We lucky. Oh, this is... You getting all the easy ones.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
It's too easy. It's too easy. Even if you got your own nigga, when your nigga be mad at you, it's so easy to get your man to not be mad at you or to get your man back or whatever the case.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
I will beat your motherfucking ass. Like... You... Is you serious?
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
That's why I went back to my old school. Like, my last relationship, I mean, I won't say last because it's kind of still. But I use my old school thing. You know, you go through and like they pictures and follow them. And they be like, ooh, she fine. That's my new thing. I like to do, that's how I pick them. That's how I rather do the choosing now.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
I love Santana! The one where he was shaking his titty. Yes! He...
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
He is so funny. He is so funny. Y'all need to do some more stuff together.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
She said something about Glow said she like her niggas medium ugly. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. I said, he said she wouldn't talk about me. Fine, though.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
I wanted to make the face to see if he knew. We gonna move on.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Oh my God. Don't forget. We done. We done gone for you.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Okay, y'all, let's get into the tea with Love Lex Peep. Mmm, tasty. Okay, okay, okay. Now it's time to move into our favorite segment of the week.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
My vagina keeps jumping like it's craving something inside.
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Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes, no. Check answer below.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, yeah. Always on my mind. Hey, baby.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Come around and get shot. Woo. When I see. You're so sexy, boy. So sexy, boy.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
It was my shots. That was my bad, y'all. Y'all know I be off beat. We'll see y'all next week. Woo. I heard it.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Gang me, okay? Oh, my girl did her piece. So, talk about you and Jada's friendship and how that came about. My girl did gang me. Yes.
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It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Yes. Social media influencer. A meme god. I got like six memes of you on my phone. No, you don't. Oh, I do, okay? And I don't know if you call your... But you a comedian to me. Funny as hell. We have... The one and only Big Sexy and the Baddest!
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I love the shoe. I love the high-low moment. Thank you. When Fashion Nova say how you want to pay, Klarna.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
No, go ahead. So let me, look, I'm nosy now. Uh-oh, come on.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Oh, so you just do like a little... You know, I burn.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I didn't know. Shit. We're trying to be respectful. I'm like, day, can we get them?
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I know you got to go. Yeah. Because if you do my hair, I'm going to go like this. Right. Uh-huh. I'm going to say, I was already doing it.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
We're going to have a little drink. Oh, shit. Okay.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Let me see. She just went down J-Hut. She got my wig on? She probably do.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Yeah. They'd be like, let's stop doing that. I'd be like, they said my wee wasn't happening.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I think everybody's famous. I'd be like, hey, Camila!
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
That's what I said. They gonna look at me and be like, it's her. That's the one that got the nut.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Don't give that man no money. We ain't stop giving him no money.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
It's going to give, like, oh, my God, I'm so shy.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
He don't got time to make music. Yes, y'all.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
We don't need that kind of express hair. Uh-uh. Yeah.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
All right, let us know where we can find you and all that good stuff.
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Should men pay bill? Yes, no. Check answer below.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Ooh, ooh, ooh. Ah. Ooh, baby. Ooh. Come on, sir. We vibing now.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And there's no other man that gives me what I want. He makes me feel this way.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
No, I'd rather be with you. I love the way you look at me, stare into my eyes. What do they say to you? Boy, don't be shy.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I know my soul. Oh! Oh! Oh, my goodness. I forgot the lyrics. Oh. Oh! Oh! Oh!
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Hello, Grammys. You heard it here first of all. Right. I need to get in the studio. Grammys. Y'all give it up for Alonzo. We'll see y'all next week. Yes, period. That was cute. Dre said, I'd rather be with you. Right, she did.
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Just sitting there. You got to really curl up. I'm telling you, I be struggling. Okay, so before we get on, because I know I'm going to forget because I'm the only one drinking today.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Okay, y'all, let's get into the tea with Love Lex Peep. Mmm, tasty.
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Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I don't like to be too high. Right. You probably have a little Reggie. Right, look.
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A Star Was Born
I'm Dre Nicole. And I'm Lex P. And together we are Travel Queens. From Charleston to the streets of Cartagena, we're eating good. That's up our alley. Drinking good. Cheers. And experiencing the beauty of different cultures. Cheers. It's gonna be fun. So we're taking you to incredible destinations with a special focus on the black experience. Two queens. One glow. Endless possibilities.
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Travel Queens. Series premiere Wednesday, April 23rd at 8 on V. There's gonna be like a thing on Twitter and they'll be like hashtag team no sleep. We getting it all night. We up. We working. Y'all.
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It's like, but that's not... Because I'm out here grinding. Remember that song? Wasn't that DJ Khaled? Sheesh. No, for real. But we was out here grinding. But that's what I'm saying. Overworking yourself is the stupidest shit ever. It is. I'm all about working smarter and not harder. Like, that over... So, that was a great point, Ty. We actually talked about this the other day. Wait.
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What we talking about? We talk about a lot of things. I know, but I hate this. And I don't care what y'all say. Because I used to do this in my 20s, in my early 20s. And this is embarrassing for me to admit, but I'm being real right now. What? Sleeping in your makeup. Oh. And you be thinking you can wake up and maybe like touch it up and it's okay.
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You know I busted down. You did bust it down. I broke it down. You broke it down. You didn't play no games.
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I'm telling you right now, as a skincare girly, I love skincare. I'm super into my skincare. and a makeup girlie, I can tell if your makeup is from yesterday. I don't care how much you freshen it up. I don't care what beauty blender you got, what brushes you got. I don't care if you got Charlotte Tilbury, Patrick Starr, whoever, whatever, Patrick Todd, whatever. I'm sorry, I said Patrick Starr.
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That's a SpongeBob. Y'all know what the hell I mean. Wait, no, Patrick Starr is somebody in the beauty industry. Patrick Starr is SpongeBob. It's Patrick Starr. No, it's somebody Starr. Who's star? Jeffree Star. Jeffree Star, yeah. I knew it was somebody's star. And we don't talk about him. We don't, we don't. But I just was trying to remember who it was.
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It was a star. Patrick Ta. Bitch, this is the birthday episode. I'm the star. You okay? Watashi wa star, bitch. Watashi wa star. But yeah, sleeping in your makeup is a big no-no. So let me tell y'all something. Sleeping in your makeup, it ages you. It makes your skin, you start to get layers of dead skin because it's trying to protect your skin from that stuff.
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And then if you keep doing it, that dead skin is going to be hard to get off. So eventually you're going to have to like laser it to get it off. And a lot of people can't afford laser. sleeping in your makeup literally will age you and it always looks dirty. It looks dirty as fuck. There be some makeup pictures I look at myself when I was younger and I could tell, bitch, that's old makeup.
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Okay. Another year. Another tourist season. Another tourist season. You see we got the birthday cupcakes. It's your 34th year on this earth. And if y'all didn't know, April 22nd is also Earth Day. It is. It is Earth Day every year. April 22nd is Earth Day. So you're 34 years on this earth. How are you feeling? You just ended your 75 hard. You've done an amazing job. Thank you.
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Yeah. I'm not making excuses, but I used to. This is the grind shit. I used to have to go to school. So I used to go to school in like the afternoon and the evening. I would get out of school. By the time I get out of school, go home, maybe do a little homework. Then I would have to go to Dreams. I would have to go to Dreams. I would be there until about 5, 6 in the morning.
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Go home, maybe get a little two hours of sleep. Then I had to be at TGI Fridays. Then I got to be there. We would open on the weekends at 10 o'clock, 11 o'clock.
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I'm telling you, I used to go to school and work in two jobs. So I used to be like, oh, I can just freshen up my makeup. And then I didn't understand the beauty of no makeup. We didn't have no makeup looks then. This was when it was blend. Eyeshadow had to be bright, orange, pink, blue. Brows, like... And I'm not mad at that era because that's how I really learned how to do my makeup. So...
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But it wasn't an era where little light mascara, light concealer, and lip gloss and go. It was never giving that. I used to work in the club, baby. And I'm talking about the club at its peak era where you sitting at work on a Wednesday night and Young Jeezy walk in.
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So, yeah, bitch, I used to sleep in my makeup because I used to be like, okay, do you want to get some rest or do you want to, like, stay up and rewash your face? Because it used to take me like an hour, hour and a half to do my makeup, realistically. Mm-hmm. Um, so yeah, I used to definitely sleep in my makeup. And at the time, it worked. For the time, because people, Lex, do my makeup, Lex.
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Lex, your face so beat. But looking back, I was like, bitch, you look dirty. You look dirty. But honestly, in 2025, I still see some girls doing that. I still see some girls sleeping in their makeup.
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This is unbelievable to me, literally. I cannot believe that y'all are not washing y'all face every day. Yep, yep. You have to wipe that makeup off. You're going to get in your pores. You're going to end up getting blackheads. And maybe because when I was younger, I really started getting into makeup when I got older.
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Like, I feel like when I got into, like, what, my, like, mid to late 20s, I started really kind of getting into makeup. So, like, when I was in my early 20s, I used to be washing my face every day. But I thought that's what is the norm. No, girl. When we was at Dreams, I'm telling you, we used to literally, like... No, that's crazy.
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That's why it's problematic. But I think the lifestyle that we lived, working at Dreams, because like I said, Dreams was like the poppin' strip club. If you was not there living it, it's hard to explain. Yeah. Because it was me, Jazz, my girl, Kiara. We literally used to leave the club 6, 7 o'clock in the morning.
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We would always go stay at one of our apartments, whoever was closest, and whoever wasn't drunk, they could drive. And, like I said, by the time I laid my head down, I had to get back up because I was in school and I had another job. So, like I said, I used to have to decide, do you want to wash your face and go to work with no makeup on or do you want to get some rest? I'm 23 years old.
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I'm going to sleep, bitch. Like I said, it's not something I'm like, oh, yeah, that's what... But, bitch, that's what the fuck it was. You had to, yeah. And we wasn't living in a time where, you know... Cute. But you're so cute without makeup. I feel like you would have been okay. No, 23-year-old me didn't know that, though. Because 23-year-old me didn't see that.
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75 days, no liquor, working out. You got a six pack now. I do. You're looking good.
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I didn't see girls showing up to the club with no makeup on, with lip gloss on, looking cute. We saw the black chinas with the middle part bust down, with the lashes on. That's what we saw. So we had to look like that. Because this was the era of the girls, the bartenders had to start looking like the dancers. Y'all didn't live that era.
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Y'all got to bartend before that or after that? You had to be a bad bitch to bartend, so I got to compete with a bitch who got a spaghetti thong in her ass. And I got to look something. The bartenders is still like that. I think it's worse now. Oh, yeah, it's worse now, but I was at the beginning era of that. Mm-hmm. So it was a lot more pressure. Like I said, nowadays, if you cute, you cute.
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Y'all going to get this natural face. By the time, like, when I moved to Atlanta and, like, I was still kind of working in the club, oh, yeah. It was, I'm showing up. I can do a little lash. Yeah, a little lash. But when I was 23, that was what? That was 12 years ago. 12, 13 years ago. Baby, it was a different time. It was. Okay.
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I feel great. I feel amazing. Like, I feel so unstoppable. I feel so empowered. I was just saying this the other day. I just dropped another vlog on my YouTube channel. Well, not vlog, but a video. And it was kind of like a life update. And I was just saying how empowered I feel and unstoppable I feel from doing this challenge.
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So, for me, I would definitely say being out all night and then getting up early. That's one that was cute back then, but I just can't do it now. I be so grumpy if I don't get at least seven hours of sleep. Like, I need at least a good seven hours. I be so grumpy, and you could tell. Like, I'm not trying to be here. Which, well, I take that back. You can't tell.
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But I just know myself, and I feel like my temperament be a little off when I haven't got enough sleep. I think I do my best to still be nice and pleasant, but I need my sleep. I can't do it. But when I was younger...
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I'm talking about be out till 6 in the morning, go to the club, go to the strip club, go to the after hours, creeping in when the sun coming up, and then got to be at work at 8 o'clock. That's how I used to be living. I can't do it no more. I really cannot. I love to be in my bed, tucked in, getting rid of bedtime stories. By 10 p.m. Yeah. I agree. I think being a homebody is okay. Yeah.
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In your 20s, like, people make sense. Oh, you always want to be at home. Yeah, it's peaceful there. I'm safe there. In your 20s, though, I do. I feel like that's a little... You know... You're supposed to be outside and having fun. Yeah. I think about balance. Like I said, if I could go back to my 20s, I would be just a little bit more focused.
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Because if I was focused in my 20s like I am now, I would be a millionaire by now. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? But to be the devil's advocate, it's people who was focused in their 20s and they still not millionaires, if that makes you feel better.
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Yeah. I guess I just feel like I should have had more balance in my 20s. Oh, for sure. Because if you was out every night, you definitely needed some values. The nights I wasn't working, because mind you, I work at the club. So you would think on my days off, I would take a day off. Because I'm already in the... Baby, no. I'm like, oh, I'm going to work tonight. I'm going out.
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That's why I say I was living a wild life. But I also think that was our culture too, right? Yes. When I was in college, it was all the way turnt up, swag, serve. Yes. All of that stuff, that was bottle serving. Rockstar lifestyle might not make it. Come on. We were in the club, clinking bottles together. We was leaving. We was wasted. Yeah. I'm wasted.
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Man. That was the times. Now people are a little bit more cognizant. I don't wear tight jeans like the white boys, but I do get ready to like, yes, man. So now people, now they're a little more cognizant on what they're putting in their bodies, how they're acting in public. Yeah. The new generation is more into drugs and other things, not necessarily getting lit and turnt up like we were.
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Yeah. Oh, Lord have mercy. They be doing all them drugs and shit.
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Ain't nobody got time for that. See, we loved some good old Hennessy back in my day. A little Four Loko. That's where we was going to take it.
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But y'all be taking it too far. Y'all be taking it too far. Because I'm not even going to lie. I grew up with the white boys. you did y'all used to be cow tipping yeah like we used to be drunk but like the drug scene like I'm not gonna lie the coke yeah but I'm not gonna lie I'm not saying that coke is normal but coke that's they used to do that at uh what's that club called in New York
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So many people, when I posted on Instagram, like it was my 75th day and I was done, was like, oh, let me see your before and after photos. And I feel like I could post my before and after photos like physically and show people what my body looked like before and then now.
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What was the drug? Studio 54. Studio 54. Like, that's an old school drug. No, yeah. Coke was like the drug of the 70s, the 80s. That's what I'm saying. But y'all, the shit that y'all doing now, like, it's a little different. They got some names I ain't never heard of and shit like that. Y'all on some different types of shit. They be wildin' these days. They be wildin'. The kids be wildin'.
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Bitch, what? Back in the day, you see, right, though, they would do it in private. The only way people would know you come out, you got a little... Oh, my God. No, listen, because that was a... Like, when the black girls started doing it, it was like, oh, my God. So when we used to be at Dreams, like, it was like, oh, let me look out for you type shit. Like, it was so...
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down low because it was like, oh, my God. She do cold? Yes. It was like, oh, my God.
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It was such a big deal. But nowadays, it's like, oh, you got a pill, bitch. Yeah. And they be like that, too. Oh, you got a pill? You... What you got that thang on you? And they be like, they be doing it out in the open. Like, baby, we was ladies back then.
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And I'm not going to lie. Personally, I was always too afraid to try coke. Like, I just was always scared of what it would do to me. So I never tried it. But I did, you know, I popped a little. A little molly. Popped a molly.
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It was. It was, and we probably shouldn't have said that on the show. I mean, I think it's life, though, but we're living, but we're teaching y'all that this is not something... I'm not going to lie to you.
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Did I try a little... Yeah, I did. But I didn't do it no more, but I'm telling you... Everybody knew. Straight over there looking shocked. I knew. I just wasn't going to say it. Because I don't have nothing to be ashamed about. But I say that to say it wasn't like something I continuously did. Because let me tell you, the people that continuously do it, they not doing this right now.
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I got my shit together. I literally, I was like, I'm not, like I said, to this day, I don't drink every day. I don't go out every day. I knew that that environment that I was in, because let me tell you, I took some time off from dreams. And I started, I got a regular job, and then I had to go back. And when I went back, I said, I cannot do this. This is not where I want to be.
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That fun, fast lifestyle is something that was a short period of my life, and I'm glad I lived it, but I knew... I don't want to be like y'all. There was nobody in that club that I was looking at like, wow, girl, you made it. You did. You ate that up. You ate that. It wasn't nobody. I didn't have nobody to look up to. It was like, oh, my God, you did it. You made it out.
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But I really feel like it's not like a huge drastic change just because I already was like an avid gym goer before I started the challenge. But for me, it was more of a mental thing. Like, it was a mental challenge. Because not drinking for 75 days is a lie. Like, in my adult life, I'm going to be honest, the longest I've ever went without drinking is 40 days.
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It's a few girls that were working in the strip club that I see now that are doing well for themselves. And when I say few, I'm talking like one or two. That's what I was going to say because that's all I could think of. We talking about the club you was at. Yes. I could literally think of two women that were dancers or bartenders or anything that are doing well for themselves. That's it.
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That don't matter if you don't got your head on straight. And that's one thing I can say. I thank the club for teaching me what not to do. Oh, for sure. I always say that, too, though. But I think that was always a goal that I had for myself. Even looking back to, like, when you moved to Atlanta, I remember I used to tell you all the time.
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I used to be like, Lix, I'm not going to be 30 working in the club. You did say that. I used to always say that. I used to be like, I don't know what the fuck I'm going to do. I don't know what I need to figure out, but I'm going to figure out something. Because I cannot be 30 years old still working in a club. And again, it's not no shade to the women who are there, who are still working.
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Because sometimes you got to do what you got to do. People be having situations. They be having children. You got to put food on the table for your kids. You have to do what you have to do. But for me, it was just something that I just knew I didn't want to be a part of because it's just so...
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hard to not get caught up in that life especially with that fast money like you before you realize it it'll be five six years you done been working at the same club and you done got so used to making that fast money and because you're making it so fast and you know you're gonna make it every week you're not investing you're not saving you just blowing money fast literally I think I'm big meat.
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I definitely thought I was Larry Hoover. You could not tell me. Okay, this is funny now. We can laugh at it now. I showed it. All-star weekend, y'all. All-star weekend. I think I made like, I don't know, like $7,000.
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I had $7,000 in my pocket. I'm, like, 25. Bitch! Like, I'm thinking... That's a lot. This was the weekend Teyana Taylor dropped them Adidas shoes.
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I had a friend that worked there. They had them on the side for me. I'm walking past the line. Me and Jazz, my friend, my bartender, we like, yeah. We dropped, like, we really thought we was cool. That's what I'm saying. Y'all did what y'all did. Three pairs. Because Kiara wasn't there because she was still asleep. I was like, oh, I got Kiara's shoes. Yeah.
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But I'm saying... What a simple time, though. We used to be so excited. Y'all were so excited about them Teyana Taylor shoes. These days, if you ain't pulling up to the club with your Chanel sneakers on, you ain't doing nothing. No, not even the Chanel sneakers, because did you pull up in a Rolls Royce or not? Did you pull up in a Rolls Royce? Did you pull up in a G-Wagon? Hold up, Bentley.
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If you didn't, bitch, if you pulled up in a Prius, shame on you. Girl. Do they even still make Priuses? Yeah, they do. Yeah, they do. Because I was in an Uber one other day. Oh, I remember I used to want a Prius so bad. That's what I'm saying. A simple time. Oh, I used to want a big coupe. Because... Oh my God, I wanted a priest so bad when I was in my 20s because I just thought it was so cool.
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He said I'm 23 years old and I ain't riding in a priest. And after that, I didn't want one at all. I was like... But you got Shane. Not the priest. But I say all that to say, even if you... And I'm not trying to talk We're not trying to talk down on people who are in their 30s working in the club. No, yeah. I think it's all about your mentality.
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It was really hard, especially I feel like now our careers and where we're going, we're in a space where we always have to go to events. We always have to mix and mingle. We always have to be social. And I ain't going to lie. I don't have no friends around me that don't drink. Everybody drinks. So it's definitely a challenge to be in these spaces and places and not...
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The goal should be to get the money to invest it or to do something else with it so that you're not 30 in the club. It's not nothing wrong if you are, but I personally just think that's not ideal.
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Being 30 in the club is not a life plan. That's not where you should be, in my opinion. It's okay if you are there, but I feel like if you have been doing this for five, six years already, you should be out the club after year five. I was going to say year three. Year five, you should be out the club. You got to have an exit plan. And the money in the club is not how it even used to be.
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Not at all. Oh, the niggas is not Big Meech or Larry Hoover no more. And Big Meech got out, and he been chilling. He don't even like how the club seem. Yeah. It ain't the same. The streets is dry. The streets is dry.
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You niggas just... But I will say, people are trying to figure out how to get the legal money because we've realized it's no longevity in there. I'm not going to lie to you. I thought for a while, I was like, being a bartender is it. You wanted a trapper. What? I was like, I'm finna find my nigga. I'm finna be like the bartender.
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Because you got to realize, that was a time where the Vegas was popping. And it was like, if you can make it to Vegas and bartend, it's a career out there. I'm like, they're clearing six figures a year. I was like, I can do that. Because not only am I fine, and I know how to work in a club scene, I can actually make drinks.
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So even with that, I still had a bigger vision, but it's like, girl, get your old ass out the club. When I moved to Atlanta and I turned 30, I said, and they gave me an outfit to wear. I said, hey, I'm going to have to go. When they tried to give me the little spandex outfit, I said, hey, this was my last night working. I said, hey, you know what? It has been a fun time. I said, I can't do this.
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That was probably my favorite thing, though. The outfit? Like, I feel like you could dress up and be cute and, like, couldn't nobody judge you for it.
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I did that. We did that at Dreams. Like, we used to wear... I used to be behind the bar. I used to be in the phone. Oh, I remember you. I used to see you. I remember when me and Lex first became friends. I was like, oh, I done seen you before.
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She be like, hi, girl. She used to love coming to the bar, give her her shrimp. No, that wasn't until we became friends. I'm talking about once we became friends. Oh, before? You're talking about before? See, I don't remember that. I used to be like, okay, girl, I see you.
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Girl, shut the fuck up. I was like, okay, Lex P. I had all the local rappers. All the local rappers. You did.
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Dreams was really like, that's a, that's one, but that's what I'm saying. That's one of the things about getting older where it's just like, I do feel bad for the youth. They didn't get that. Because they didn't get to experience it in our dreams clothes. Baby, I got woken up on a random Monday morning by my boss and said, get dressed. I'll get the girls together.
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We got something happening tonight, baby. We went in there. It was Drake and, like, his friends. And it was, like, four or five dancers and just us. And it was a time, bitch. Like... We couldn't bring our phones in. But it's like, if I said this, they'd be like, you're making that up. No, I'm not. But if you knew dreams, this is what we used to do. I mean, and people have to understand, like...
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succumb to wanting to have a drink plus life be life and we all know life being hard is f-u-c-k a lot of the time and it's been some things that had happened during my 75 hard challenge where I really wanted to go have a drink but I was like no girl you have a goal you made a commitment you're making a sacrifice and I really am a person who I feel like God rewards you when you be obedient
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Back in the day, I feel like it was easier to be around celebrities because everybody wasn't, like, recording. Yeah.
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DJ Eric. Rest in peace, though. Tho was DJing. Yeah. And nobody was doing none of this. Mm-hmm. Because we wasn't worried about that because that wasn't the thing to do back in 2013.
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That's what I meant. Well, we was trying to get us one, but we was also working. We was working. Like, we was really trying to get our money. Like, you're not worried about... Because this is before you could get popular from clouds. Yeah. From recording people in a blog, picking it up. Blogs wasn't even looking at that type of stuff back in the day. They was posting real celebrity content.
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That was the night I met... I forgot his name. We used to have him a name. One of my old babes. Oh.
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We really used to be having a good time. No cameras. Everybody was having a good time. Everybody was getting lit, turned up. You wasn't worried about trying to get posted. And it was just great. Now, they be taking your phone. They be putting, what they got, that little shit that they put your phone in? Oh, my gosh. They lock it. You can keep your phone on you, but you got to have it locked.
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Like, what type of shit is that? What's that man name that was on the BMF show? What man? Not... Little Meech? Not Little Meech. Who was his... Da Vinci. Da Vinci. Child, Da Vinci had a comedy show. We go to the comedy show, he made everybody lock their phones up. And don't get me wrong, the show was good, but we didn't have to lock our phones up for that, Da Vinci.
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No, so I went to Dave Chappelle's comedy show in Houston two years ago, and he made everybody lock their phones up, too. Okay, that's understandable. But that's what I was going to say. To me, no matter who it is, I understand.
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Because it's like if you have content or you have jokes or whatever it may be that you don't want to be out yet or you want people to actually pay to be able to see the show, it makes sense to me why people provide that service at their shows because they don't want their content getting leaked early.
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Well, I think it's more so about people editing content to make something that they said and twisting their words. Because I'm not gonna lie, I don't give a fuck if you record at Poor Minds. I might tell the joke again, or I may deliver it in a different type of way. We have a different crowd every night, so we interact with our crowd. Yeah. Those two Poor Minds shows are the same.
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But with Dave Chappelle, a Kevin Hart, people like that, it's a little different. The only reason I said about Da Vinci, because I think it was more so of... He gets very wrong with his shows, so I think it was more so like he don't want somebody to record something, and they try to, like, twist it and make it seem like he was trying to say something that he wasn't. Yeah, yeah.
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I think it'd be a little bit of both. I think sometimes they just want to be able to publicize their content the way that they want or monetize it the way that they want to. They can control the narrative that way. where people are constantly recording everything.
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Like, you know if you have a show nine times out of ten, it's going to end up on the shade room or it's going to end up on Neighborhood Talk or one of those websites before you post anything because it's going to be thousands of people in a crowd that's recording. Something that people didn't have to worry about 10, 15 years ago. Mm-hmm. You know, what a time it was, really.
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And I feel like God was telling me that this was something that I needed to do and that I needed to stay consistent with. And I'm just very proud of myself because I feel like it just shows a lot of discipline. I feel like that's something that a lot of people don't have. One thing about me, I'm a disciplined girl and a resilient girl. I can do whatever I put my mind to. So...
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I stay with all the time. I got a video. I have a photo, not a video. I have a photo in my phone of Beyonce. We were at the club together. We didn't come together. But you can say y'all did. I can't lie about it because y'all don't know. Y'all was not there. It was 10 years ago. And I was literally, like, she was right there and I was right here and I took a photo. Period.
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And I still have it in my phone. Because this is back in the day when people was in the club, not recording stuff. We was at Griffin in New York. It was All-Star Weekend 2015. And me and my best friend Jordan, we was so lit. Because we was like, is that Beyonce? And she was right. She used to be outside. She did. And I could say I was outside, too.
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I remember the time when... Y'all don't go out no more. Y'all remember the era? Like I said, I used to work in the era where Kim Kardashian used to host clubs. This the old bitches episode. They gonna be like, these hoes old bitches. She was out when Beyonce was out. That's... That's crazy.
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I was outside when Kim Kardashian was outside because I remember at one point, like, the clubs in Houston was trying to book her, but they couldn't afford it because she was taxing, like, at that time, it was like 100K. But she used to always be at the clubs in Vegas. And that's why we used to be like, oh, my gosh, imagine bartending a party that Kim Kardashian is hosting.
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You know that chick finna be crazy. So, yeah, we was outside during the time where the It Girls was really outside. Like, we had the It Girls. Lady Gaga used to be performing in the clubs during this time. Literally. I ain't never been in a club with Lady Gaga. No, I ain't never been in a club with her, but during this time, Lady Gaga was in the malls performing, in the clubs performing.
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Like, the gay clubs, she was there. I know. She was outside. Like, I lived an era. Me too. We was at the club when they premiered. Sorry. Sorry. I got excited.
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We was at the club. That was when... You was late. What else happened? What a time to be alive. They revealed that Drake and Future was coming out with a collab album, and they played that album. We was in a club when it happened. Ooh. It was wild. Thank you. And that's actually one of my favorite albums ever. What a time to be alive is a masterpiece. World premiere. We got that world premiere.
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Let's take our shot. Oh, Lord, I'm all right. Yeah, you was turned up reminiscing. She's trying to get white girl wasted today. Okay, but let me say this before we take that shot.
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She's trying to get white girl wasted. This is what I have to say about Big Legs P. Oh, okay. Come on, Big Legs P. Not gonna lie. In junior high, high school, I played volleyball. I was cold. My jersey's still up in the gym. Class clown, been that girl. In college, I did my fucking thing. I had a show on TSU Network. I used to do the radio, and I worked at the most popping club.
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Now I got Poor Minds, the number one podcast with the girls. I've been that bitch for a very fucking long And it's hard to be relevant as long as I have been. Cheers. So, cheers to that. Cheers. That's how I be feeling. I don't want to go down my resume, though, because I feel like... Yeah.
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I'm just really proud of myself that I got through it. And then also physically working out for 75 days. I ain't never worked out. Have anybody ever worked out for 75 days straight without taking a break? You know, I feel like that's a big thing. So doing that was a big deal too. And out of the 75 days, I only didn't meet my 10,000 step goal three times.
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You know, I think I'm getting to a point to where I'm a little Google-able. Ooh, ooh. Come on, big Google. Come on, big Google. Ty, what are we drinking today? But, yeah, because... Oh, but I feel like I've lived so many different lives, like from high school to college to my early 20s to me moving to Atlanta. That was a whole nother era.
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And then now in my 30s and I feel like my 30s have been some of the most amazing years of my life. Like. So much abundance, so much growth, so many blessings, and so much anointing from God. Like, I'm just super grateful. God is so good, man. God is amazing. He really is. Amen. So, yes, y'all.
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I wrote something special for my girl, Dre. Aw. Don't make me cry. Please, I want you to. Let's get them tears rolling. Don't cry, Julian. Let's get them 30s flowing.
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All right, so 30 Glow. It's a sparkling celebration of brilliance, beauty, and boldness. This cocktail is as unforgettable as the woman it honors.
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Sweet, layered, and always leaving you wanting more. A touch of lemon adds the perfect balance, symbolizing her sharp wit and honesty that always cuts through with clarity. Aww. The vibrant uzu puree reflects Drea's zest for life and her ability to bring a refreshing twist to any situation.
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A splash of Moet champagne represents her elegance, effervescence, and the way she naturally elevates every room she walks into. Then we garnish it with a candied lemon and a sprig of mint. It's a nod to her charm and cool confidence. Sugar, spice, and everything nice. Aw, Ty. This is more than a cocktail. This is my last part. This is more than a cocktail.
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It's a toast to Drea's glow, growth, and greatness. Cheers to another fabulous year.
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Yeah, because the bitch ain't me. I sure don't know what... I was going to say, can you spell it? Hell no. She felt the spelling bee. It's okay though. But no, that was really so sweet. And I love everything that you said. I love when people call me witty because that's how I always describe myself. Like that's how I describe my humor. I feel like I'm very witty. Yeah, you a silent sniper.
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Yeah, I think that that's like a really, everything that she said, I feel like that really kind of embodies who I am. And it's so dope when you feel like you're around people. Because for you to write that, and I feel like that really describes me. It makes you feel like, wow, people really be paying attention to people really. It's good when people can really see you. How that song go?
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No, I only, I only did it. The way you used to be walking around this motherfucker. No, yeah, but I only didn't meet it three times and then I made up for it the next day. Yeah. So, yeah.
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Well, I feel like it's easy to see that about me. I do. Like, people that are around us on a daily basis, I don't be giving a damn. No disrespects. But I don't be really giving a damn what people who, like, watch the show, who have never met me in real life think about me. It's always about the people that are around me. Right, okay.
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And really feel my energy and can, like, see my spirit and really get to know me for who I am in my core. I don't think it's hard for people that are around me and get to know me to tell who I really am. You're right. I think that maybe for people on the outside looking in, because you're not able to really witness the energy, you're not able to have, like,
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conversations with me, you're just watching me from a TV screen or whatever, but I don't know. I think it's definitely different, and when people are around you, they can feel your aura. If you have, like, a magnetic energy, they can feel it. No, yeah, I agree with that. I was... That's what I was saying.
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I was like, I think a lot of times people misjudge both of us just from watching, but you're right. But they don't know us. Yeah, the people that are around us can really, you know... They can pick up on who we really are, and, like, since... Our real personalities, since if we being fake, since it's like we really giving off who we say we are.
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Because I think a lot of the time people try to say that they one way. But when you around people, they can't fake the funk.
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You're going to pick up on what's real. You know what I mean? And I think a lot of the time people get away with that because it's easy to portray yourself a certain way online. But when people are around you... You can't fake that phone. They gonna sense it. You can't fake the phone. So, yeah. So, now it's time to get into topic number two.
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Does your relationship with your body change as you get older? Ooh, this is interesting. I think it does and I think it also has to. And I'm talking from a perspective of thinking of you just being a little girl to your body changing to being, you know, a woman. You know, we're in our mid-30s now. Your relationship with your body absolutely has to change.
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You have to change how you view yourself and understand that things change. You know, I can't eat how I used to eat when I was 16, but I also have to understand that it's okay. to have a jelly roll. It's okay to have textured skin. It's okay to have stretch marks. It's okay to have cellulite. I think that in our younger years, you know, when you're 15, 16, baby, body was tight.
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I feel like it did wonders for my mental health. And I feel great. I think it's something everybody should try at least once in their life. So what are your goals for this year? My goals for this year? The 34th year. What are your, you know, birthday, new year, new me goals?
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Body was smooth, flawless. In my 23, yeah, I could go to sleep with my makeup on and wake up. And then when I did wash my face, skin was still clear. Because I was 23. You could, but you shouldn't have.
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I'm not saying that I should have, but I'm saying. 35-year-old, if I went to sleep with my makeup today, which I haven't done in years, but if I did that today, baby, I'm waking up with a pimple. I'm waking up with my nose bumpy as fuck. Everything just congested. I can't do that now. So I think your relationship with your body...
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It has to change as you age because if it doesn't, you're going to lose your confidence. I just think aging is such a beautiful thing. And I can't believe that at one point in my life, it was something that I really was like so terrified of and ran from. It's really a beautiful thing. Like, yeah, you're going to have those changes, but you have to embrace them because you only get one body.
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And the thing about your body is you can always make it better, right? you could put more effort into taking care of yourself, being more healthy, like the foods you consume, what you're actually putting into your body. And then also working out, taking better care of your body physically, taking better care of your mental, your mind, reading books, meditating.
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Just you have to put pride and value into yourself because I think that's something too, as you get older, you do realize like, I'm going to be me regardless. I'm only going to ever get to be myself. I'm never going to be able to be anybody else. So I need to put my all into making myself a better version of myself.
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I think certain changes with my body that I've noticed as I've gotten older, like child dimples, cellulite in places that it should not be, stretch marks in places that it should not be. And I used to always say when I was younger, I hated moles. And I feel like... But I don't have none.
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And it was so little when I was... I mean, it's still kind of little. But I feel like it's bigger.
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I know. I saw that, too. But it's okay. I'm going to get it burned off. Don't worry. But why? What you mean, but why? It's not ugly. It's not. That's what I'm saying. If it gets bigger, if it continues to grow, it will be gone. If it stays this size. If it stays this size, it's fine.
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No, I don't hate getting older. No, you know what? I hate 13. We need to contact Issa Rae. We need to do a black version of Death Becomes Her with me and you. Really? Have you seen Death Becomes Hard? I have seen it. But I feel like I don't hate getting older. Like, I feel like I get fine as fuck. Like, I just get finer and finer every year. I don't hate it.
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It's just certain things that come with being older that I just be like, ew, get this away from me. And that's one of them.
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Thank God, no, I don't. Now, I did find one on my coochie one time, though, but not on my head. That means you're not getting enough sex. That means what? You're not getting enough sex, or usually you hadn't had sex in a while. Yes, and maybe that's what it is. That thing is crying for help. Maybe that's what it is. That thing, that thing. It had a hair.
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I seen it, and I pulled it, I plucked it, and I said, I rebuke you. With the name of Jesus. But guess what? It didn't come back. It didn't grow back. So that was the one time I seen a gray hair, but I don't have any gray hairs in my head yet. Knock on wood. I feel like I'm a gray late though, to be honest, because, you know, everything is about genetics.
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And when I think about my family, like my mom and all her siblings, they didn't start getting gray hairs till like they was like in their 50s and 60s. So I think I'm a gray late. I just feel like the relationship with your body, like I said, I think we need to give ourselves grace as women, you know? I don't know if y'all are fans of this show that comes on HBO. It's called White Lotus.
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Be more present in the moment. I'm a person who I rarely ever pat myself on the back when I accomplish things. And like a lot of my friends tell me this about myself and they're like, you just always be glazing over accomplishments like it's a small thing and you be doing big, amazing stuff.
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I'm a big fan. Yes. Oh, did you watch this last season? Absolutely, I did. Okay, so White Lotus. I love this guy. Walton Goggins. He's a character on White Lotus. He is the older guy with the younger girlfriend. Oh, okay. And he is hilarious. If y'all Google his name, y'all will know who he is. So anyways, on the show, he has, like, a receding hairline. And a patch. And a patch, right? And, um...
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They wrote an article, I want to say maybe in Cosmo or someone, People Magazine, they were like, oh, receding hairlines are hot now. Check out Walton Goggins in White Lotus. And I'm just like, it's so crazy because they did this a couple of years ago with the dad bod of men who have bellies. We will change what the beauty standard is to fit what a white man looks like.
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But when it comes to women, white, black, Mexican, whatever, we gotta have a 23-inch waist, 40-inch hips, no cellulite, no stress marks, no wrinkles. We got to put Botox. We got to plump up the lips. We got to make sure we got all our edges. Oh, my God. You know what I'm saying? The beauty standard never changes for us. And speaking of, I have a Botox appointment tomorrow.
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Oh, I need to hit mine up, too, because mine is getting a little... Yeah, I said before the premiere. Yeah, it's right. I need a little re-up. I do need a little re-up myself. It's going to hit right before that. Because they see the comments, let's stop touching your face. I haven't seen Helen in a year and a half, bitch. Leave me alone. So it's time for my re-up. Who be saying that?
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Who be saying that? They be in the comments talking about let's stop touching your face. I'm like, I haven't gotten anything done in a year and a half. Like, literally. Literally. they just be looking at old episodes.
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Because, baby, face card, it does not decline. All right, all right, all right. But anyway, but again, like I said, your relationship with your body does have to change because... your body is going to change. It's natural. You gonna gain weight. You gonna lose weight. Like, it's okay. And like I said, the media and social media is easier on men than it is on us.
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Because, like I said, I love him, but who wants a receding hairline? Not me. Just go bald. Yeah, his haircut is crazy. And that's genetic, too. And it's, like, long.
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I think that I never really take the time out to just be present and just be like, wow, I really did this and live in the moment because I'm always on to the next thing. Because I'm not where I want to be in life, where I know my goals are at. And where I see myself being, I think that I'm always just like, okay, it's cool that I did this, but what's next?
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I want to see the photo. And he got a ball. Well, he doesn't really wear this in real life. Does he wear it in real life? That's how it look on this picture. It does look like this on this picture, but this is how it is on the show.
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It's way back then. It's a bald spot in the back. But mind you, he's an amazing actor. And I feel like there be some people, we're not here for the way you look. We are here for your talent. And he is one of them. He was in The Hateful Eight. If you are a fan of, he was in Django. If you are a fan of, what's his name? Quentin Tarantino. Quentin Tarantino.
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Y'all know I love me some Quentin Tarantino. Quentin loves him down. But he's been in a lot of movies. He's an A-list actor. He's actually really fucking hilarious. But I just think it's so funny because since when is receding hairlines attractive? What are we talking about here? So, yeah, people will change their views on stuff. You should change your views on yourself. Be confident.
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You get this body. This is what you're in. So, do you feel like confidence in your 30s is more about what you look like or how you feel? I think it's a mixture of both. Because you got to... I hate... It's a little gray area. But you got to look good to feel good, if I'm being honest. But that's why I agree with you. You think so?
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Yes, because I got in the gym... Like, I used to be... Like I said, I played volleyball year-round. And when I got to college... I just started to get into more media stuff. So I really stopped going to the gym. I didn't start getting back into the gym until, like, a year ago. Two years I've been in, like, the gym. And, like, I work out.
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And now how I feel about my body, like, okay, I go to the gym. I know what the gym does to my body. I'm like, okay, so this is what my body looks like. I done been laid on the table. I done worked out. I done dieted. I done ate everything. This is what my body is. So it's like you come with that acceptance. And I'm like, bitch, I look good, though.
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I'm 35 years old and I look like this? Hell yeah, I look good. But it also comes with, I do take care of myself. I drink a lot of fucking water. I don't drink every day. I go to the gym. Even if I'm not lifting weights, like I said, I kind of fell off of the gym, but guess what I was still doing? I'm still getting up and I'm moving my ass. And that's one thing the girls don't do.
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Y'all have to realize, if you don't get up and move, Your body going to stop moving. I think for me, I have, like, my mom was beautiful. She died at 48, but she was gorgeous. Like, she was the mom that every, all my friends would be like, damn, your mom a fine type thing.
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Your mom was beautiful. I had good, I felt like I had good genes, so I didn't feel like I needed to work out all the time. So, really, last year was the first time that I actually started going to the gym and being active, but I could feel my, like, my hips would be tight.
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I was just very lethargic a lot. And it wasn't until I started going consistently that I started to feel more energized. I had just a little bit more get up and go and feeling more focused and Like you said earlier, laser focused on what I wanted to do and what I needed to accomplish.
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So I do think that you actually getting active, moving your body, that not only contributes to your fitness goals, but also like your mentality, your focus, you're more clear. And I feel like a different person than how I was before I started going to the gym just last year, in just that time. And now I walk by the mirror like Meg said, be like, damn, okay. Period.
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Because I got to get to this goal of having this net worth or accomplishing this specific task. And I don't take enough time to appreciate the things that I've already done and how far I've came. Especially for me to only be 34 years old, I feel like I have lived a lot of lives and I've done a lot of things. Dope stuff.
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I'm going to go flat flat ass on fat fat. Exactly. I 100% feel you. I just did a video on my YouTube channel. Where I was talking about things that I feel like you should know when you get into your 30s. For the girls that are still like in their 20s and maybe even like early 30s too. But I was just like, I'm so glad that I started my fitness journey.
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But I wish that it was something that I took more seriously when I was in my 20s. Because I think, yeah, when you're in your 20s, you're just like, oh, I look good. I'm fine. My metabolism is slow. And I'm always going to be like this. But then when you get to your 30s, you realize, okay, it's slowing down a little bit. Things ain't in the same place. Gravity is taking place.
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Her things is hanging over. No, for real. And that's what I said earlier about the dimples and the freckles. And I feel like every day I wake up, I don't know about y'all, but every day I wake up, I feel like I got like a new little freckle or something on my body. So it's just something that I wish that I took.
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more seriously when I was in my 20s because I feel like not only do you look better and you feel better, but it also really helps your mental health as well. And I'm glad that you said... It's a discipline thing. I'm glad that you said that earlier because you were like, people were asking you to post a before and after and you were like, it was more a mental thing and that's what it was.
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I realized for me, like... I be getting, like, in my little dark places sometimes, and I realize a lot of that... Like, I was talking to my therapist. She was like, when was the last time you worked out? Like, this was, like, a conversation that we had in December. I was like, damn. And that's what really motivated me.
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Like, girl, even if... I'm not saying that you got to go to the gym... Go for a walk. Go for a walk. You just got to move your body every day. I got a walking pad, so even sometimes when I'm sad as fuck and I don't even feel like going to the gym, I get on my walking pad. You have to move around, because I'm telling you, when you stop moving your body... Your body going to stop moving. Yeah.
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And I feel like that's the thing. I've made it a habit. Like, to me, it's more of a lifestyle thing now. Because you're not going to always... I think a good word that I can give people is that you're not going to always have the motivation, but that's where your discipline comes in. Exactly. Because you're not going to want to do stuff every day.
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Like, it's hella days that I don't feel like working out. Like, even yesterday. Yesterday is a prime example. I went and worked out at 8.30 at night because all day I was procrastinating. But then I was like, okay, I got to get this done. That's where your discipline has to come in because I knew I had to do it. I knew I had a goal to reach. So you just have to do it for yourself.
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And you have to think about how you want to look. Like, I don't know. I like looking fine. I feel naked. I like looking good. Because summer is coming.
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Summer is coming. I like all of that. So I just feel like, yeah, it's a mental thing. And... you have to prioritize your health. You have to prioritize your wellness. And I always be thinking about, like, damn, when I was in my 20s, if I would have took my fitness journey more seriously then, my body would be even more teet. Crazy. Even more fire right now.
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So it's just like, you know, it's something that you have to prioritize. It's about... Do you want to be the same? Because we all might live to be like 70 or 80, but what do you want to be doing in your 70s and 80s? Do you want to be a person that can walk around, that can move around on your own without assistance? Or do you want to be somebody that has to have a walker?
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And I don't really ever just take the time out to smell the flowers and be appreciative of where I'm at. So I would say being more present. And then as far as business goes, of course, like I want to take poor minds to the next level. Like I'm hoping that we end up getting better.
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Do you want to be somebody that has to have somebody exhorting you everywhere? You have to think about those things. Tennis balls on your walker. And so that's how I think that I try to discipline myself. And so even going back to what you were saying, like when people ask me to post a before and after, I am going to post my before and afters.
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But I think I'm more so going to post my before and afters from when I first started my fitness journey in 2022 to now. Because I feel like it's much more of a drastic change from then to now that people can see me. from January when I did 75 hard to now because my body was already T when I started the 75 hard. You can definitely see my abs more now.
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I was going to say, your abs are definitely more defined. My abs are defined. Thank you. Thank you, y'all.
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They are. They're definitely way more defined now, and I think that's probably the most physical change that you can see. But, I mean, as far as, like, my shape and my waist and stuff, I feel like it's the same. But from 2022 to now, it's a big difference because I've lost, like, 15, 16 pounds. Yeah. And I think for me, even like I said, at the beginning of the year, I weighed 200 pounds.
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When we filmed Travel Queens, I was literally, when we left, I was 202 that morning. I was like, what the fuck? I'm so mad at myself because I have to film this shit and I'm big. Well, not big, but I carry my weight a little different because I'm taller. And then like right now, like I weighed myself this morning, I'm 172 right now. So I pretty much lost 30 pounds since from January till now.
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And I say that because it's not like, for me, it's not more so like the number and the scale thing of feeling fat and feeling small, but I know how I feel in my clothes. Yeah. And I know I had to get to a point to where I'm like, okay, I feel confident in my clothes and I know what I feel like. I know what makes me feel good. It's not for how y'all look at me. Because one thing about it...
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I can be 150, and it'll be people in the comments like, ooh, Lex, what you, ooh, Lex, you need to do. It's not about how y'all view me. It's how I view myself and what makes me feel comfortable. So I think that's another thing. Like, me losing this weight, it wasn't like something I'm just like, oh, yeah, y'all, I lost another pound. I lost another pound.
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Because y'all ain't going, y'all ain't finna do nothing but critique me anyway. So I think as we get older, you have to find what's comfortable for you. 170 is comfortable for me. I don't give a fuck what y'all see or what y'all like. So we have to change how we view ourselves and what's comfortable to us and what makes us feel good and how you look in the mirror.
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Okay, let me say it again. So one thing about me is like, we gonna get it together so I can look in the mirror and I can feel good about myself. And I can feel like, you know what? I like how I look. I like how I feel today. So yeah. All in all, I feel like your views on your body should change as you get older, and that's a healthy thing to do.
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And I feel like they should get better because with wisdom and age, you care more about your body. Like, I feel like I care way more about my body than I did when I was in my 20s. Thank God that he allowed me to live this long so that I can take better care of my body now because I was not taking care. I was treating my body like whatever when I was in my 20s.
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I'm talking about I was eating bullshit every day. I was drinking all the time. Ben's drinking all the time. Smoking. Ooh, that hookah. Hookah. Smoking hookah and weed. Both of them.
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Clothes. Did y'all remember that? I just smoked black in my house. I was talking about this. I was a real thug. She was. If it ain't love. I'm loving it. I was out here thugging in these streets. I was smoking Black and Miles, the wine flavor. Oh, you was a real good bitch.
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But no, for real though, yeah, I used to be doing whatever in my 20s and like, yeah. Thank God for growth. Thank God for growth. And this is the show, that's why I said, we're not judging anybody what y'all do, but we're just trying to tell y'all what we did so y'all can do better. And y'all can look like us when y'all get in y'all 30s. Me, Lex, and Ty. Period. What's up, y'all?
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With Muse, I really want to get Muse to being a million-dollar company, and I feel like I could do that. I just have to be more intentional about, you know, marketing and putting more money into marketing and stuff because it's already a brand that runs itself, and it does run... It's already a brand that runs itself. Y'all, I started back drinking today and I feel like you could tell.
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and it's your girl Dre Nicole and we have a very exciting announcement today we have a brand new show dropping yeah so we have a brand new show dropping y'all on patreon it's gonna air on September 2nd and it's called poor chronicles we're gonna be doing so much stuff on there we're gonna be doing challenges if you can't go to bella no shade where the hell could you go
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If you can't go to Bella Notte, where the hell can you go? We're going to be doing talk to me, chit chat with me.
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oh my god everything y'all been wanting to see we gonna be doing it right here on patreon yes y'all ask us for so much but we finna give it to y'all every single monday and it's gonna be a time y'all know poor minds has grown into its own little entity well we gonna have a lot of fun still over here at poor chronicles so make sure y'all tune in september 2nd it's going down thanks
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So now it's time to get into the bed. The bed. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Okay. So we're going to play a game called Unwrap It or Return It. Okay. Birthday sex edition.
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I was like, at first... At first, I just thought she was screaming. It's your birthday song, you know I want to ride out. It more easy as we sit up on my couch. I know when he was in the studio that day, he was like, I'm killing it. Feels good, but I know you want to cry out. What? What? Now, remember Trey Songz did a remix. Trey Songz used to love remixing people's shit.
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She loved. She did it. Y'all gotta start keeping count. We need to start having a Robert Kelly counter. Put a compilation together.
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Every. Now, let me tell y'all what be going on. Nobody. Every. Licks. R. Kelly. Yeah. She love bringing up R. Kelly. No, I was saying that Trey Songz used to love remixes, but R. Kelly didn't want him to remix Trapped in the Closet, and he made the character gay. That Trey Songz was... Right. You love R. Kelly now. I really don't.
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It's already a brand that runs itself and it's doing really well. And I just feel like I just need to be more intentional with it about my goals because if I really put more effort into it and more money into it, it could really be a multi-million dollar company because of what it already does without me being super intentional. Yeah.
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You really... We're going to find out which facility, which correctional facility R. Kelly is at. I'm going to set that bitch on fire. No, she not. She's going to come see you. She's going to set it on fire, all right. I do not. She won't come see you. And the only reason I feel okay talking about him now is because he's locked up and I know he's not getting out, okay?
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Because she don't want him to have access to the other girls. I'll find out where he's at. We gonna find out where he at so she can be his pen pal. Yeah. J-Pal.
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Okay. Because he thought he got out. But those are fun facts that only you know because I really was like, he said that.
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I love Kelly. Are you an R. Kelly head? Trey Songz got out of the closet, and on his remix, he was like, when he got off the top, he was like, Trey Songz, you put it on. That's what he said. And R. Kelly came back with Trapped in the Closet Part 2, and he made that character gay.
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And everybody was like, oh, he did that because... Everybody or you.
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I used to wake up every morning. They was like, you know what I'm saying? Waking up in the morning to get on Media Takeout is wild. I used to wake up and check Media Takeout and Nicole Bitchy. That's why I love Lex P. It's so good. The people that... You a real nosy bitch. I am nosy. That's why I love Lex P. Like, the girls be like, oh, my God. First.
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No, thanks, because you be saying stuff that I just would never know unless I watched Love, Lex P. That's what Clay said. Clay said, I didn't know. He was like, what world do I be in? Because I did not know what was going on.
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I actually reported on him a few weeks ago. Yes, I did. And you wrote him. Don't forget that part. Drea? Lex? Kelly? Miss Kelly?
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I don't like him. Then why did you report on him? You should not want to talk about him at all. A podcast did an interview with him. Remember that podcast? What podcast? A pod named Kickback. Remember when we went on there? Fun times.
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And yeah, like in my personal life, I just want to have a healthy, happy relationship. And same thing with my friends. Like, I just want to have healthy, happy relationships, peaceful relationships. I don't want no drama with people, no weird energy. And I'm very intentional at this point in my life of cutting off any bullshit. Anything that I don't like, I'm just not dealing with.
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Anyways, I reported on R. Kelly because a podcast had called in to R. Kelly's jail cell. Mm-hmm. And he was singing on the phone and I said... Oh, residuals. Yes, he was singing residuals and I said it was distasteful. Mm. Because it is distasteful.
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Jesus. Me and Lex going to play birthday sex edition of Unwrap It or Return It. Ooh.
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Return it. But you... Shay! Wait, what? Y'all gonna return the wake up head?
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Unwrap it. No, I don't want wake up head and you ain't brushed your teeth yet. Why? That's on Fat Ma. That ain't got shit to do with it. Yeah. We don't have to talk. You talking to her. I don't know. I feel like... I'm not gonna lie, like, in the morning, like, if I know I'm finna get freaky sometimes, I do, like, sneak off and do a little quick rinse.
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Good morning to you. It's breakfast. Oh, I was thinking that. Good morning. It's breakfast. Breakfast. A massage with oils that ends in a happy ending. I love massages. I think massages are sexy. I'll unwrap it. I like a little massage. But with my man. Not that, like, I'm just at a... You don't like getting... You be getting faps. No.
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I know who. I already knew who he was going to say. Yeah, I don't do that. No, but if it's a massage from my man that ends in a happy ending, cool. But not at some random, like, massage parlor. If it says massage parlor on the outside, you know what they up to. You know what they up to. Or if they say free massage. Hardly. I don't know.
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I feel like if you like to get happy in them massages, you are a freak.
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It ain't stop nothing, though. It didn't stop nothing, but why would you do that? That's crazy. I feel like it's behind us now. It is, but why would you say that? Because he said what he said. Freaky ass man. He said what he said.
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Word to Nene. All right, what's number three, Dre? Him booking a suite just to bend you over in every corner. Unwrap it. I love hotel sex.
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And I'm going to distance myself. Because I feel like when I was younger, I was way more apprehensive and was... A people pleaser. Yeah, yeah. So, yeah. So, do you feel like from 33 to 34, like your goals last year that you, you know, wanted for the past year, do you feel like you did what you were supposed to do? I feel like I exceeded my goals for 33.
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And he shaved it into the shape of a three and a four? His pubic hairs? Yes. No. I would run for my life. Okay, Dre, let me ask you this. Because why the hell... Would you date? Would you even... Like, to me, that's like serial killer type shit. Like, why would you... How did you take the time out to shave your pubic hair in a three and a four?
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Have you ever been one of the men... One and a two and a three and to the... Have you ever been one of the men who had a Brazilian wax? No.
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Oh, I do like that. I have dealt with, like, I've had a man, like, be hairless. That's what I'm saying.
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It wasn't a way. Well, not a Brazilian, but y'all know what I mean. It was, like, nothing. Yeah, I prefer that. You like that? You like no hair? Yeah, get them hairs out my way. That holds more of the saliva and stuff down there and more odor. Yeah, get it out of here. Okay. And it looks bigger. Ooh, okay. I didn't know that.
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I have been with one man and it was like I went down there and I was shocked because there was no hair down there. And I was like, oh, wow. I wasn't mad at it, though. I like it. You know, I feel like that's cool. A wax though is crazy. But like a little shave. I don't know if he waxed or shaved. I don't know. Yeah. Because it was just smooth.
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Because when you say Brazilian, I also think, are they getting that booty too? Yeah. Yeah, I didn't mean that. I didn't mean Brazilian. Because honestly, I don't know. I didn't see his butthole. Okay. But I did see the balls. Yeah. And it was clear. I don't know if it was a wax or a shave, but I was like, oh, I'm not mad at it. But it took me by surprise.
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Then if you put the balls in your mouth, you don't get, like, hair in your teeth or anything. We do some tricks. You know what I mean? I'm more willing to do a little bit more. Okay, we're going to unwrap it. We're going to unwrap that. Yeah, a 3-4 on the deep is crazy. I don't even know what that... Auntie don't know what that means.
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She was saying, like, if he shaped... Oh, in the 34, because you're 3-4. Yeah, like, surprise, it's your birthday. It's deep. Shay. I don't know how I would feel about that. I just understood the three and the four. It's my dick in a box. What'd you say? That song Justin Timberlake. It's my dick in a box. My dick in a box. I don't know how I would feel about that. But like a clean shave.
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I'm cool with that. You know? Okay. Okay. Him bringing a friend for your birthday. Fantasy threesome. A nigga? Him bringing a friend for your birthday. Okay. No. Me? Yeah, no. Because I don't trust him and his type. I got to bring a friend. I don't like threesomes. So it's going to be a no for me. I'm a little freaky. Because I know he ain't finna bring a nigga.
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Like the things that I'm doing, the things that I've accomplished in this last year, because a lot of the goals that I accomplished was stuff that I had on my list and things that I wanted to accomplish in life, but I wasn't necessarily thinking that I was going to accomplish it last year. So I feel like God exceeded my expectations of what I thought was going to happen last year. That's amazing.
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Because the only threesome I want would be with two niggas. I would rather threesome with two men. And see, that's not what I want. No, thank you. I like the dick. Two dicks is crazy much. I want the dick in my mouth. Exactly. Two dicks is too much.
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If we talk about threesome, you want your threesome, well, let me get the kind I want. One rolling the blunt, one cooking the crack. That's too much. Dick in the front, dick in the back. That's too much. I got enough holes, and I can take it all. And that's wild as hell. But Javi said, yeah, black hoochie do matter.
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And to be honest, I haven't had a threesome in a really long time, so maybe I might do that for 34 months.
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I'm going to unwrap it. That's fun. I love role play. Role play is always fun. I feel like if you can't role play with your man, y'all missing out on some fun. Like, role play, it don't even matter. It don't even have to be a delivery man. It could be anything. Like, I had one time when me and my man, like, we... Went and acted like we were just meeting each other at a restaurant.
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And it was so much fun. It was like we was acting. It was just like, oh, hey, how you doing? It was a ball. And we got fucked up. It was a time. So I think role play should, everybody should try role play at least once. I think role playing is cool. I like role playing. Yeah. Unwrapping. I agree. Unwrap it. Okay. Recorded birthday sex, but only you get the footage. I'm going to do that anyway.
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Period. It don't got to be a normal baby. Yeah, that's what I was like. It don't got to be birthday. It ain't got to be the birthday. Okay. I think you should do maybe number nine. I can't see birthday. On this side? Mm-hmm.
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I like getting spanked. Do y'all like getting spanked? You don't like getting spanked? My boyfriend, well, my man, who's not my man, but he is my man, but not my man.
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He always smacks my ass, which I get. Like, that's a thing for men, but I just... Because it's real time. And it's heavy now. Okay. Okay. But I don't like that. Oh, I love... I just don't like, like... I don't know. I'm talking about during sex, during anything. Like, I love smack. And I want you to smack it hard. Like, really? I want it to be hard. Oh, I don't... I want it to hurt.
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He was talking to me. That's your song? Smack that all on the floor. I love getting my ass smacked. Oh, yeah.
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And I'd be like, oh, I'm in trouble. Or if I would do something, I'd walk off from him, and I would come back, he'd be like, that's two. Like, I'm being bad tonight! Do you like to be dominated? Oh! I like a little domination.
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You know, I feel like I agree with you on that. I think a lot of times people don't ever stop and smell the flowers for themselves. And you don't want to look up and you were just always trying to reach something and you never clap for yourself. You know, you've had an amazing year. Like I just told you, like 75 days of doing anything consistently is hard.
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It was like, it got to the point where I would, like, start purposely cutting up, because he'd be like, oh. And then when we would get to the house, he would be like, go upstairs and take your clothes off. I'm like... I love a little paddle.
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Well, not a paddle. We ain't never did it with a paddle. I like a paddle. But I was like, okay, yes, like, I had to go upstairs and take my clothes off, and he would be like, yeah, get on the bed. You cut up six times tonight. You're finna get six spankings. Wow. A time. I love a spanking. Let me put this down. All right. On me spanky. I'm just playing. All right. Let's move on.
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So now let's do the item of the week, Muse Beauty. What you got for us, Raelle? Of course. MuseBeautyCollection.com. Make sure you get your lip glosses, matte liquid lipsticks, lip plumpers, lip liners. We have jelly blushes. We also have mascara and liquid eyeliner now. We're also doing a sale right now, 20% off of the entire site for my birthday. Birthday sale, 20% off of the entire site.
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We also have a birthday edition tab on the site where it's already marked down. But then you also get 20% off of the entire site. No code needed. It's my birthday. Make sure y'all shop MuseBeautyCollection.com. And right now I have on the Chestnut lip liner. I have on the Rosé lip gloss. And then I also have on the... Lip plumper. Period. Love me some Muse Beauty down. You want to be a bad bitch?
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You're not a bad bitch if you ain't got on Muse Beauty. And that's on God. Oh, yeah. And of course, I do have on the mascara and the eyeliner. I can start saying it now because it's on sale. Period. Lashes. What they used to say? Lashes on fleek. The fuck? The fuck? Oh, my gosh. I wonder what happened. We used to say on fleek. The fuck? What does on fleek the fuck mean? What's up, y'all?
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It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole. Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of the Week. But do you have a product or something that you want to promote and you want it featured on Poor Minds? Your opportunity is here. Period. If you have an item or you have a business and you want to get it promoted, we are now having slots available on the Poor Minds episode.
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So if you would like to get your product featured for Item of the Week, all you need to do is send an email to itemoftheweek.com. PM at gmail.com. That's I T E M O F T H E W E E K PM at gmail.com. Send us an email and we'll work it out. We're going to figure it out. Get your product, get your business sponsored and yeah, make you some money. We love to support a small business now.
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And a black business at that. But I mean, we don't discriminate. Any business is welcome. Now it's time to get into the bop. Hey. The bop. About. About. About. About. About. All right. The bop this week. My bop this week. Y'all know I love a good R&B song. Destin Conrad. If y'all don't know Destin, like, he used to be, like, popping, like... on Vine and the Vine days and stuff.
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Shout out to the 409. The Golden Triangle. The Golden Triangle, period. Nothing but stars come out the 409. I feel like when you talk about 409, you got to talk about Pimp C, You got to talk about Lex P. And you gots to talk about... And Bun B. Bun B is from Houston. He is? Yes. I thought he was from Port Arthur. Is he from Port Arthur? Oh, he is from Houston. I think that you are wrong.
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No, let's look it up. Because I know niggas from Houston. But I thought people used to say Bun B was from Houston. Bun B and Pimp C are both from Port Arthur. But Pimp C... No, it's a Houston... Port Arthur, Texas. Oh, he was born in Port Arthur. See, that's a damn shame. No, I... Because I've got, like, five people that's with me.
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So you were working out, not drinking, you know what I'm saying? On top of the other things, I know you had probably added to your morning routine and things like that. So I have to clap for you and give you your flowers because the only thing I'm doing for 75 days straight is drinking.
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He was born in a Houston hospital, but he is from Port Arthur, Texas. Okay, so that's what... No, I only say that, and that's no disrespect to Bambi. The only reason I say that is because people always had that argument. But I guess that's the same thing they do with Meg, because she was born in San Antonio, but she was raised in Houston. So he was born in Houston, but he was raised in Port Arthur.
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So he's from Port Arthur. Bun B. Shout out to Bun B. He is. I knew that. Right, right, right. Shout out to Bun. We would love to have him come sit on the couch now. You gotta know where he from.
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So, yeah, he from Balmain. So, yeah, so my bop of the week, Destin Conrad and T-Zo Touchdown, they have a song called The Last Time. It's a bop. Go stream it. I just, like I said, I love what R&B is looking like right now. It's just, like, it's fire. It's on fire. I don't have no complaints. Like, I've been being fed. Fed, fed, fed. Love that. Right. What you got?
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So, my bop is Use Me by Bow Wow and Chris Brown. I said, oh, my God. I love... Why are you looking like that? Have you listened to the song? No, that's what I'm saying. Go ahead. I hate when you do that, by the way. I didn't do anything. You be looking like, what? And I feel like when you be having your vibes, I could look like that, too. Because some of your vibes, I be like, hmm, questionable.
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But I don't say anything. No, I just was not expecting Bow Wow to have a new song. He does. He have a new song. But you didn't let me finish what I was saying before you started. And you didn't let me... Let you finish looking shady. I wasn't looking shady. But I'ma finish what I'm saying. So, anyway... You know how she do me?
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No, it's how you do yourself, because you was already looking like that.
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I was just like, what? But the point that I was making is Bow Wow and Chris Brown have a song, and I really like it. I said, Bow Wow, you was talking a little freaky deaky. Okay. You know what's so interesting about child stars? You be like... You're really grown now. And I think it's still hard for me to see Bow Wow as like a grown person because he was a child when he first came out.
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Like he was a child star. But yeah, he was like a real freaky on the side. I'm about to listen to it. And I think it's real cute. Like it kind of gives me vibes when Chris Brown and Bow Wow used to collaborate back in the day.
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Oh, that was Omarion. Yeah, that was Omarion. Only thing that keeps me, yup, when I'm coming down. I don't know what about you, but I got to keep mine. That was a good song. Oh, Chris Brown was on the song, though. Yeah, he was.
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Shawty Like Mine, Chris Brown was on it. So I feel like it's a great song. And then y'all know right now the Millennium Tour is going on. And I'm so sad that I can't go because I wanted to go two times, but we had something to do for work.
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When they had the Atlanta show and the Houston show. So yeah, shout out to the Millennium Tour. Shout out to Bow Wow. And I'm not going to lie. I said something about like, damn, I wish I could make it to the Millennium Tour. One of my homegirls was like, why would you want to go see Bow Wow perform? Because I know every single song.
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For sure. So I applaud you for that, my sister. Thank you. And me, along with the poor crew, we are very proud of you. You know what I'm saying? And that's something that I think, you know, 75 hard? Will I try 75 hard? Probably not. Maybe I'll do a 30. Maybe I'll do a 10 hard. You know, I feel like you can do 10. I feel like you have to push yourself. I don't know.
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Why do y'all want to be at concerts where you don't know every single song? Right. If you go to the Millennium Tour, you will know every single Bow Wow song. He made hit after hit after hit after hit. Let's stop. Don't do him like that. And honestly, he been killing it. The clips I've been seeing, a lot of energy. Them knees still work. Let me hold you.
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I did listen to Freshers on Me is in the car. You ain't ride, you ain't ride, you ain't bumping like I'm bumping, you ain't saying nothing, homie, you ain't Freshers on Me. Because he was like, I'm 18, nigga, make it more than your dad.
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Imagine your niggas talking shit like that and your daddy can't say shit. That's the type of shit I like. I don't like that. I don't want no nigga making more than my daddy. But I'm saying. Personally. But I'm saying he could do that.
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He was making more than your dad. He was. Well, yeah. Yeah. But she was making more than my daddy, too. My daddy was dead. I know he was making more than him. Your daddy wasn't making nothing. He wasn't making shit. R.I.P. R.I.P. He just killed the club. R.I.P. Oh, my God. Why I was about to say that, too? That is so crazy. We be having mental telepathy. Y'all supposed to say, R.I.P.
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Make sure y'all email us at Ask4Minds at gmail.com if you want your question answered on the show and you are a Patreon member. You get to skip the line. So just put in the subject, you know, Patreon member, all that good stuff. And that's on period. My girl cute. Go ahead. Go ahead. Ask4Minds at gmail. Yeah. I said that. Ask4Minds at gmail.com. Period. Period. Okay, keep me anonymous.
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She added a photo to y'all. Keep me anonymous. I'm 23 and been dealing with a 35-year-old man for two years. It's been a lot of ups and downs. I think it's a trauma bond at this point. I just started nursing school, so I'm seeing him less, and honestly, I'm starting to feel the distance. He has two kids, doesn't help with my hair, nails, or weed, and says all his money goes to his BM.
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He buys groceries, but that feels like bare minimum. I'm not scared to be alone. I actually hate niggas, LOL. But I'm a people pleaser and hate hurting feelings. I'm scared he might spiral if I leave. How do y'all build the courage to leave someone who isn't a bad person? Just not right for you.
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I'm not saying that because you don't... When I say you don't look 23, it's not, like, offensively. It's just, like... They just got... Like, when I was 23, I was just... They active. You outside, baby. This looks like a grown woman. Maybe that's why the 35-year-old likes her, too.
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I think that I just always been a person where it's like I really like to push myself because I feel like every time I push myself and I challenge myself, God rewards me on the other side of it. Like I have a lot of amazing things that have happened to me while I've been doing these challenges and stuff too. Like I done got a new career. A lot of good, good upgrades.
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Ty, I need you to walk around here and see this picture, or maybe Dre can hand it to you so you can understand what I'm saying. She's beautiful, but it's like, that's not giving 23.
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And not in a bad way. I'm saying it's like, you look... That is very... Polished. A mature look. A mature, yeah.
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I feel like if it's a trauma bond, if you know it's a trauma bond, then I think you know what to do. Like you need to let it go. Like trauma bonds are not good things. You bonding with somebody over negative, toxic things is not something that you need to hold on to. I feel like there's no sustainability in that. It's no longevity in a relationship like that.
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And I feel like you know what you need to do. Also, you're 23 and he is 35. He's 12 years older than you. A lot of the time, I feel like men who are older, they like to date women that are significantly younger than them because they be trying to manipulate you. They know exactly what they trying to do. I think that you need to maybe focus on yourself, explore yourself. He 35, he got two kids.
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He clearly still taking care of his baby mama. it's a lot of baggage there. And from what it sounds like, from what you wrote, you don't have any baggage. So you need to focus on you. And at the end of the day, if that man want to be with you, and I'm not saying that you should just write a man off just because he has kids and he's you know, he has like a situation or whatever.
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But if he wants to be with you and you want to be with him, he's going to find a way to make you feel comfortable and y'all are going to find a way to make it work. If he is doing things that you're not okay with and then on top of that, you think that it's a trauma bond, I think you should walk away. You 23, you don't have nothing to lose. You have nothing but time. Agreed. So, that's my advice.
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But he giving all this money to his baby mama. But he's not doing that because he doesn't want to. Because he's thinking, I'm going to date a 23-year-old. She's not going to ask me for nothing. That's why he's not doing it. He's thinking that he can manipulate you. But you just seem, you know, a little smarter for him. So, girl, move on. He'll be all right.
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He going to move on to the next 23-year-old. Because any 35-year-old man dating a 23-year-old, I'm questioning his thought process anyway, Chad. He a little weird. He a little weird, so. Okay, where do I even start? I'm 30 and my now ex, the father of my kids, is 31. We were together for seven years and I finally told him I can't do this anymore. I've been through it all with him.
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Multiple cheating situations, physical fights, emotional abuse. He even slept with another woman in our bed while I was pregnant with our third child. After I took him back for getting me locked up, I know. No judgment zone, right? No. After I had our son, I lost my job and he became the only one working. But he instantly stopped helping with the kids.
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2025 is the year of the upgrade. We just upgrading. All we doing is leveling up, continuously leveling up. And I do feel like if you want to level up in life, you have to make sacrifices. Yeah, I agree. You know what I mean? So I'm all about sacrificing for the greater, the greater good.
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Like I wasn't still healing and caring for a newborn, a toddler, and a school-aged child, plus keeping up with the house. He's always angry and miserable, and I finally hit my breaking point. After a failed engagement, he sent me on vacations and had our kids with another woman. I broke it off. The problem, we still live together and I can't afford the place alone.
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I know he won't leave me out to dry, but I also know I can't heal until he's gone. And seeing his face every day is driving me crazy. What should I do? You know, it's hard for me to relate to these type of situations because this is a judgment-free zone. But it's hard for me to understand because I feel like you on child number three.
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What's up, y'all? It's your girl Lex P. And it's your girl Zraya Nicole. And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds.
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I don't know how that feels because a nigga can't even get one out of me after he done showed me his true colors. And that's just coming from... Because you already in there. You three kids deep. You have to lock in and get laser focused. That's the best thing I can tell you because we don't have children.
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We've never been in that situation because y'all be... Stop letting these men play in y'all face. I know it's a little late to say that, but when somebody shows you who they are, believe them, okay? So all I can say for you now, because you're already in the trenches with them. Y'all got three kids. It's too late. You got to deal with this man for the rest of your life.
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All I can tell you now, get you a job and lock in. Save up your money. Hopefully you have some friends and family that can help you out. But you already in there. You asked for advice. Three kids too late, baby. The mistake has been made. So sometimes you got... You made your bed, you got to lay in it.
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And I don't mean to say that harshly, but I literally... I cannot give you any advice because I don't know that life. And I'm not saying that to be mean, but... Um, I just hope that you can understand now that this is your chance to really move on and let him go. He's not going to change. He's moping around with a sad face because he's trying to manipulate you.
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So I hope you can see that before there's a number four on the way. You know what I'm saying? So I'm praying that you can really lock in and save up your money and get some help from your community to get out of that house. But it's hard. Because I think of, like, if I have a friend that has a child and if she needed to come to Atlanta and stay with me, baby, we good. What you finna do?
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What we finna do? What we finna figure out? But if my friend had three kids... Yikes. Yeah. So all I can tell you is to lock in and try to do the best that you can to get out of that situation. But the best thing is for you is to not let him fool you because he's fooled you a lot. Focus on yourself and trying to get out because he's sitting around there moping. Girl, he's not sad.
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He's sad that he's not manipulating you anymore. All he's trying to do is reel you back in. So the best advice I can give you is stop falling for his lies so you can really move on. Because it ain't too late to move on. There's plenty of men out here that will date you. Plenty of people. You can move on. You can have a life after him. I mean, look at Cash Dog. Cash Dog got her a good one.
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Two kids. Mm-hmm. She outside having a ball, so it can happen. But you have to really lock in and focus on. I think when Cash Dog got out of her relationship, she locked in. She was working. When she met her dude, she was talking to Kiki Palmer. She said, oh, he just walked up to me, and I was outside. I'm hosting a party.
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So sometimes you just got to lock in and focus on yourself, and that moving on will come to your child.
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I don't know if you have any close-knit family that you can go stay in, go stay with, but I feel like that's a situation where you need to, like, rely on your family. Community. and community because you have three kids already.
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And if you don't want to be with him and you don't want to stay with him, which I completely understand because that seems like a very toxic, unhealthy situation for you and especially to be bringing up three children in. So I feel like you need to try to see, like, what are your resources? And, like, try to rely on the people around you. Rely on, like Lex said, community.
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And try to get yourself out of that situation because I feel like living in that same house with him and being there with him you gonna fall back into the trap. It's inevitable because y'all there. Y'all in the same household. You looking at him every day. Like you say, you looking at his sad face and it be driving you crazy.
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I feel like you need to try to get yourself as far removed from that situation as you can. I know that if you don't have enough money to live on your own, which is what you were saying in the letter, then you need to try to rely on your family so that you can stack some bread up and make enough money so that you can get a place for you and your kids.
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But I don't think you need to still be in that space, in that house with him. Figure out what you need to do to get away, as far away from him as possible. Because I feel like a nigga that will go cheat on you while you pregnant and get you locked up, he don't give a fuck about nothing. He don't give a fuck about nothing. Y'all stop making me cheat you out your womb. Stop believing these men, man.
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We got to be smarter. To me, I... You know, to me, it's not even so much about tricking you out your womb because Cash Doll, speaking of her, she did an interview, too, or maybe she was on live where she was just saying, like, people be like, oh, so now you stuck with two kids. And she was like, I'm not stuck with two kids because I wanted my kids.
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No, I wasn't talking about... I was talking about her situation because she was saying, like... Well, I'm... Well, you will not let me get to my point. Yeah. But what I'm saying is, like, she was just like, yeah, she was like, I wanted my kids and I love my kids. She was like, so I'm happy that I had them. They're not a mistake.
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It's okay to have kids, but like when the situation don't work out, know when to move on. And I think the problem be, it's not about a nigga tricking you out your womb because some women want to be mothers. Some women want to have children. And let's be real, you have a cutoff age when it comes to you having a child.
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It's not like, oh, we just turned 30 and we're just trying to figure out things. Like, we're in our 30s. Mm-hmm. So with this topic today, we're going to talk about shit that was cute in our 20s, but not anymore. Because sometimes I give people a pass for even in their late 20s or their early 30s, because I'm like, a lot of shit changed for me when I turned 30. Yeah.
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So it's okay if you want to have a child or you was in love with this man and it didn't work out, but know when to walk away. Know when the time is up. It's okay that y'all had these beautiful years together and y'all created these beautiful children. But when it's over, it's over.
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And you need to know when to walk away with grace and dignity, especially for your child and for your children, so that you can raise them to be strong, independent people and know to set boundaries themselves. You have to know how to set boundaries first to set that example for your kids. So, you know, girl, that's what I think.
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That's what I think. Can I just say something? Sure. Y'all are not stuck. Like, I know that that and again, Lex said, we can't really relate because we don't have kids. But like, you can start over at any moment. Lock in, focus on yourself, figure out if you need to get a job, whatever you need for you and your kids. That is your priority now. F these niggas. For real, for real.
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You are never stuck. There is always a way. Where there's a will, there's a way. But there's always a way to get out of your current situation. You just really got to want that shit for real. That's all I'm going to say.
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And make sure y'all tune in to Love Lex P every Monday. It's 10 a.m. We drop. Y'all know we reviewing Real Housewives of Atlanta and all the hot topics that's going on every week. So if you a nosy girl like me or a nosy guy, tune in. Love Lex P every Monday. And make sure y'all pull up to the premiere party, too. Oh, yeah. Premiere party. By the time this drop, yeah, it'll be before.
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Make sure y'all pull up to the premiere party. It's going to be on April 21st here in Atlanta. And also make sure y'all tune in to Travel Queens on BET. Her is airing April 23rd at 8 p.m. EST.
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underscore m-i-n-d-s y'all are tagging the wrong poor minds page if you see at poor minds with no underscore that is a fake page do not follow that page okay they blocked me andrea and the poor minds page on both so we only have one instagram one twitter one tiktok it is p-o-u-r underscore m-i-n-d-s all right And we got a hella fake Facebook page. Oh, the Facebook page.
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The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the least amount of followers. The one that's ours got the least amount of followers. The one that's not us got like 250,000 followers. But y'all know it's fake if you actually look at the content because the caption is like whoever it is don't speak English because their captions are like Should men pay bill?
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Check answer below. Block, block. Booyah, booyah, booyah. Like, that's literally what the caption is. I like that DDG. Bamba Claude.
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So, I want, we gonna talk today about, like, shit that was cute in your 20s, but you can't, you don't get a slide no more. Mm, okay. You don't get a pass. So, what's something that you used to do in your 20s that honestly kind of made you cringe? It's a lot of stuff. Where do I begin? Where do I begin? I did a lot of cringy things in my 20s for sure.
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I feel like, number one, some of my fashion choices. Some of the stuff that I used to wear, I be looking back and I be like, ew, can't believe I wore that. Because I think that as you get older, you got to be like... Class can't be bought. You know what I mean? You can't buy class. You either have it or you don't. It's something that you can learn, but it can't be bought.
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And I feel like when I was younger, the type of woman that I know deep down inside that I always wanted to be, I feel like I didn't present myself in the way that I really wanted to be addressed. And I think that had a lot to do with, like, wardrobe choices. Like, it's just certain stuff I just be like, yeah, I would never wear that now.
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And it's nothing wrong. If that's certain people's style, that's cool. But I think that for me, I just have, like, a certain life in mind that I want. And I think that that just, certain aesthetics just doesn't attract the type of people or men that I think that I want to attract. Okay. The future me. Okay.
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Um, I think for me, one thing that I used to do in my 20s that I definitely don't do anymore, because I know I joke a lot, because, you know, I like to get my drink on, but honestly, I used to drink every day in my 20s. Like, every day. It was like, wake up, where the party at? Where the happy hour at? Where we going to eat dinner? And where are the drinks at?
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Like, if I'm being 100% honest, I don't keep liquor in my house anymore. I drink whenever I film. Mm-hmm.
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Or, you know, I'm in church on Sundays. Like, I am not, and I wish, honestly, not saying that you shouldn't drink in your 20s because you're supposed to turn up, but I think that I truly probably would be further in life if I wasn't spending every... I mean, I used to buy a bottle of Ciroc on a Friday, a big bottle, and by Sunday it would be gone between me and my homegirls.
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Like, that's the type of drinking I used to do. So I think that shit that was cute in my 20s was like drinking all day, like being the turn-up girl, like being the fun girl. It was cool in my 20s, but being the fun girl in your 30s, like, there's no benefit of being the fun girl that's outside all the time. For me and my goals. Yeah. I'm not saying this for everybody.
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Like I said, this is no shade, no tea, because there are some fun girls that drink every day in their 30s, and maybe that works for you. But for me... Can't do it. Yeah, I feel like I just, I've always been a binge drinker. Like, I've never been a person who drink every day. Like, I've never been a girl that's going to drink every single day.
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But every day, that never really been my thing. What's something that you feel like was cute in your 20s that's not cute no more now, Ty? I feel like the over-hustling. Like, we always, like, we're go-getters. And sometimes we're going to do everything that needs to possible. But now, being over 30, over 35, I want to relax. I want to nap.
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I think we talked about this before, but, like, living a life of luxury. And luxury is waking up when I want to, making my breakfast if I feel. Go for a walk. Slow morning. A slow morning. Taking a nap in the middle of the afternoon. Just those simple pleasantries that we often like in the 20s was just going and going and going. No. Take it easy. Relax. Enjoy it. What's up, y'all?
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A Good Lil Nugget
I told you, I live my life like a rom-com. And I always pretend like I'm doing something important. Like even if I'm walking to the bathroom, I'm like... Everything has to be drama. Girl, okay. You know what I'm saying?
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A Good Lil Nugget
I need somebody to drop me off at the airport and be like, I'll be back. I'll be waiting for you.
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A Good Lil Nugget
But if we're being realistic, the amount of men in this world that are, you know,
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A Good Lil Nugget
We had a ball that night. We did. I still have the clips from that. Maybe I'll send it to Javi so he can enter it in the episode so they can see.
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A Good Lil Nugget
So, yeah, I was at the bar and I'm like taking my shots. I'm just like wiping my tears. And I'm like, somebody's going to walk up to me like, hey, beautiful, do you need anything? And I was just going to look up and it was going to be like dancing. Yes.
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A Good Lil Nugget
I agree. I'm interested to see y'all's opinion on this. So y'all let us know in the comments because this was a good topic. This was.
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A Good Lil Nugget
Okay. See. You. That's too. No more. No. Sing the song, Liz. I don't know it. What song? No, you trying to get me canceled. That is all I want to see. Baby, show me. I love the real sexy style. Yeah, we not finna do that. We not finna bump, bump, bump nothing. They was bumping.
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A Good Lil Nugget
It's too much. It's too much. You gotta step back and get a clear mind.
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A Good Lil Nugget
I'll be right here. I'll be waiting on you. What the fuck was that? Hey. I'm not done. I'm not done. This is what I have to say.
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A Good Lil Nugget
I was just saying how when you suck the dick to cover up the real shit, that ain't going to be it.
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A Good Lil Nugget
I be Snow White walking through the forest with my seven dwarfs. Going to get that dick. Feeling good. I'll bite that apple. I'll die and wake up and bite it again. That's how good the dick be feeling.
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A Good Lil Nugget
And you're in your relationship, you're happy and say like, you know, y'all end up not making it. Mm.
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A Good Lil Nugget
Because I be pussymatizing them. And we both just be in this hypnosis state of mind. You know?
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A Good Lil Nugget
Oh, hold on. Oh, yeah. Put it up to the mic. You got to. Hold on. Go ahead.
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A Good Lil Nugget
I mean, who else going to watch it? Girl, fuck you! Who else going to watch it? It's going to be between you and my baby daddy. I ain't finna be with her.
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A Good Lil Nugget
Bamba Claude. All right, Drayonce. Give it to them, Drayonce. We warming up for the Christmas performance.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
But the world know that. She don't count, though, because she literally makes a living from being funny. You need to say somebody that don't make a living from being funny.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Well, no, I'm saying, like, I do feel like some girls do be funny, but I don't feel like... Ten, yeah.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
But I don't think that girls be funny a lot of the time because they just be like, I'm so goofy.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I think if you have to make fun of people all the time, you're not really... But how do y'all feel about people?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Like, she was like, oh, do you mind if I take a picture with Marco?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
And we just see Dave Chappelle and he just want a picture?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Then it's like, okay, he want to take a picture with Marco. I wouldn't see nothing wrong with that. I agree with that. But if we're at a baseball game or if we at a sports bar and he see you, he like, hey, Marco, bro, can I get a pic?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Well, you gotta realize, too, we was both in long-term relationships. Now we're in a... Transitional phase? We're in a transitional phase. But with the transitional phase, it's still like you still trying to, you know?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
But he should come on the show because we know their song. I thought my money up. See, that's my decision.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I love you, too. Yes, it's all love on the couch. So we're going to play a game, but before we get into the game, we'll be drinking today, Ty.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
16 niggas. Canceled on me while I dish my ass to the water.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Okay. Would you rather show up to a date looking fire, but your breath is funky, or show up looking regular, but you're smelling fresh out the shower?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Because if I have to tell you that all them things wrong, like you musty, you got duck butter, your breath stank, why are we talking?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I can't. We can go pussy, though. You're like, yeah, I can't.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
That's really funny. And that's what I'm going to do until it's over.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I'd be like, damn. See, that'd be... Y'all should try that. That's funny. Who's calling my phone? Who calling that shit?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Well, I can read really well though. Okay. And I don't read stuff backwards. So I don't think I have... I don't think I have these licks.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Do I still have? No, I don't have to move somewhere.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
What do you mean? I did it when I was like eight, y'all.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I don't really remember anything else. What you saying?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I feel like I was good night. I feel like you got to be... It's like she was smiling. Because you got to think about it like this, y'all. When somebody ejaculates, it's so many spurns.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I don't give a damn, because she don't watch it. She don't know my name.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
But if you watch every week, you would know I'm Drea and this is Licks. I could even respect if they was like, hey, Licks. Because at least I know you watched the show. You just got the names confused.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
You wouldn't have met him because he was alive in 1877.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Like, uh... She looking like, nah, I'm talking about the girl.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I don't think people do crack every now and then. I think they be addicted to crack. Like, how do you do crack one time and be like, I'm cool with this.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I thought she was going to say, when I got my first pair of dreams.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I think you need it. You can't stop. And I feel like with crackheads... So what are the things that you're addicted to? Me?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Oh, yeah. So I think Nicki is more influential in general. I'm not thinking about, like, Her and the other rappers. Yeah, yeah.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
The girls be. That's what I'm going to say. The barbs be barbing still to this day.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Any business is welcome. Would you say that you laugh your way into girls' hearts or into their draws?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Pudgy, pudgy. But if you lose weight, you're not going to be pudgy no more.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I think if you're in a relationship, if I'm being honest, I think you should be having sex every day.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
But I'm cool with that. Like, if it's three times a week, I would be cool.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
He said, what the fuck going on? Look at the dog. Look at the dog.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Well, she took two shots before Pudgy got here, though.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I feel like I said it earlier. I'm so goofy. It's corny.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Do you feel like girls be wanting to date you because of, or wanting to date other men because of you?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
So what type of girls do you like, Pudgy? We're going to hook him up with somebody. I have a perfect girl for you. So what type of girls do you like?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Walking past the cell and hearing a moan and an all-men prison is wild. Yeah, I agree. A little what, Grant? Like what?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Oh, Mark. Oh, what the... But what do he say? But what do he say?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Like, the girls will be like, oh, yeah, you fucked Marco because he be saying it.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Oh, God. Okay. That's a good ending, though. Let's not... Uh-oh.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
You did. You gotta... I might. But, yeah. Okay, so that was great. This was great. I love you guys. This is a good combo.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Ain't I funny? Ain't I funny? Marco is funny, though, but so are you, Pudgy. You should be funny, Pudgy.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Ooh. Because that's how I be feeling about my biscuits, too. Where the jelly?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
I want to see if Pudgy can speed read. Okay, that's exactly it. So I'm going to let him read my question.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
But if it's you and somebody on Twitter... But it's still... You really don't got no money.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
So it's the first page of Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone. Okay.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
We know. And I talk really slow, but I can read fast. Just letting you know. I thought...
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
He did not. But why you didn't read Harry Potter like that? He didn't even read the whole thing.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
You said that right, but I'm trying to figure out why you thought that was funny.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Keep it cute. Pudgy. Pudgy. Where can I find you? Pudgy.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
Oh, you want to be like me. She got three E's. I got three E's on it.
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
But you know, I think that's a good trait to have when you're a comedian. Would you consider yourself a comedian?
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Good Nutts FT. Marco Summers
That's all right. I deserve that. Y'all, I was just saying. All right.
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Toot It N Boot It
Whether this is your last stop and you growing with us or you move on to do something great. We shaking it up up here.
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Toot It N Boot It
Men who use dating apps, they don't have that walk. Honestly, a nigga can walk in front of me right now. Oh, you on hinge, huh?
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Toot It N Boot It
fuck y'all, I don't need to be on there anyway. Because it be some people that I know that's in there. I'm like, how you get in there before me?
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Toot It N Boot It
That's what I said. I'm a beautiful, bodacious woman. Yes. I got my bustier on my spank.
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Toot It N Boot It
I be looking like a dirty slut. Me too. Do you know, like, you just be laying on a bed with nut all on your booty? Mm-mm. Just a whore.
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Toot It N Boot It
It be your stomach, because then it fall in your belly. Well, I got it.
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Toot It N Boot It
That's why I say, a lot of times we got to, we going to go to the bathroom together. You know what I'm saying? That's sweet. Yeah. I love a group trip. Well, I love a group trip. I be looking like, I put that thing on you.
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Toot It N Boot It
But honestly, y'all don't be having crust because that coochie be dry. That's why y'all don't be cleaning it.
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Toot It N Boot It
That's how I be doing. You got to put that dick all up in here.
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Toot It N Boot It
I'm sorry. You're going to eat this coochie and kiss me all up in my mouth. No mouthwash needed. All right. I like that. Yeah.
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Toot It N Boot It
If you're a Patreon member, make sure you put that in the headline. You get to skip the line, and we're going to do the best we can to give y'all advice. When is he going to come out?
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Toot It N Boot It
I don't even know if it was a burp, a sneeze, or a fart. Gripping him. gripping and farting, gripping and farting.
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Toot It N Boot It
It definitely do be gripping and farting. It do be gripping and farting. Oh, God.
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This Made Me Cry FT. Julian Horton
And to see now... They coming to see him now. They coming to see him now.
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This Made Me Cry FT. Julian Horton
Oh! Real, hey, I gotta get, come on now. Real nigga. I fuck with the real niggas.
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This Made Me Cry FT. Julian Horton
Why did you ask him that? Because I want to know. Why did you ask him that? Because I want to know what he would be.
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This Made Me Cry FT. Julian Horton
Hi. How are you? When you coming on the show? All right now.
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This Made Me Cry FT. Julian Horton
Yeah, that duck butter back there. Go wash them balls up.
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This Made Me Cry FT. Julian Horton
Hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up. What's up, Odie?
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This Is My Moment
No, you right though. People who can sing. Yes. Who like never reach their full potential of singing definitely do that all the time.
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This Is My Moment
Like, make them accountable for, okay, you get a paycheck every two weeks. Every two weeks when you get paid, you need to put... $500 into a stock account. Right, right. Because in 10 years, it's going to be quadrupled that amount that you put in there, that you invested in there. Like, teach them the importance of things like that.
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This Is My Moment
I just think putting responsibilities like that on them, sometimes in a lot of ways, I think parents try to use their children to help them grow.
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This Is My Moment
overcome struggles and stuff that they have going on just like when parents be using their kids social security numbers to put bills in their name and stuff like that oh because I couldn't get it in my name now I'm gonna put it in my child name and then when your child turn 18 and they're trying to get their first credit card or get their first apartment or whatever the case be maybe they credit is shite
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This Is My Moment
and they can't get shit in they name because you fucked they shit up.
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This Is My Moment
So I definitely just used to do what I wanted with my money too. And I feel like it didn't teach me any type of responsibility.
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This Is My Moment
But if you think you're just about to be in my house with no plan, doing nothing, then yeah, you're going to have to contribute some kind of way because you're grown now.
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This Is My Moment
If you are always counting on other people to help you, you're never going to learn the importance of saving, investing, all of these things yourself, or just not living above your means.
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This Is My Moment
And so as soon as all of them turned 18, they hauled ass and got the hell up out their house.
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This Is My Moment
That is concerning because I only know Kali Park, Bubba Sparks.
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This Is My Moment
Shout out to her. Shout out to the thick queen in Midtown. I'm weak. Oh my goodness. What?
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This Is My Moment
I be trying to knock the... We gotta stop cussing so much. We never gonna become... Legit.
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This Is My Moment
And then so when I think of butter, see, I think of something that stains.
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This Is My Moment
We're going to be spilling a little tea. Oh, my God. No, you didn't.
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This Is My Moment
And when we really think about it, and we're not, maybe we'll get into this for the bop segment, but Trey Songz, you done said a few questionable things.
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This Is My Moment
But after a certain period of time, I just don't want to hear the shit no more because I am that type of friend who I'm just going to let you vent to me. I'm going to let you talk to me.
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This Is My Moment
And if I tell you that stuff and then you still choose to stay and you steady keep coming back to me talking to me about the same stuff. I just don't got the energy no more.
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This Is My Moment
He keep cheating on you and you think you about to keep calling me, talking to me about it? Absolutely not.
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This Is My Moment
I'll just be wanting better for my friends. And I think sometimes that can come off judgmental. And that's okay. I'm cool with looking judgy if that's the reason why I look judgy to you because I want you to do better.
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This Is My Moment
They never gonna leave the woman who let them... Is he making that sound like... But no, you're right. But they never gonna leave the woman that is gonna let them have their way. It doesn't have anything to do with love. That was a word. Yes, and I feel like as a woman, you have to know that. You have to have that sense of self-worth. And I feel like we're getting too old for this stuff, too.
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This Is My Moment
I know that... We shouldn't try to use age because age is just a number.
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This Is My Moment
I do believe... You picking the wrong men, it ain't they fault no more. It's yours.
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This Is My Moment
God is the type of person. God is the type of God that if you ask him for a specific sign, he will literally send a specific sign. And people still ignore the specific sign that you asked for. You be like, oh, my bad. I didn't mean that with Jesus. Hold on.
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This Is My Moment
So if y'all are looking for a good Christian channel that plays contemporary Christian music and y'all live in Houston, check out 89.3.
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This Is My Moment
So, yeah. Okay, okay. Shout out to Future. Big Feud. Because that was a hit, I must say. Big Feud. Good times when they came out. We was young and reckless.
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This Is My Moment
Like, I'm not even being funny. That was really her cousin. What is she doing now?
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This Is My Moment
Shout out to her thick ass. But she was definitely in that video. And then she was in that video with Webby. And bun B, she 5'7". Give me that. Yeah, give me that. She was in give me that because my friend was so proud. She was like, oh my God, my cousin. She was in still tipping and now she in give me that. And she couldn't wait to show me the video.
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This Is My Moment
You know we was juking for it. They was mad at us. Mad at us. And it's a letter for my dogs how we let this money get between us. How we let these bitches get between us. How we let these niggas get between us. Yeah, I got love for all my savages with itchy fingers. I got love, but it ain't like the love I got for India.
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This Is My Moment
Give me some codeine and sip nigga. Big bass hand wiping nigga nose. Big bass hand wiping nigga nose. My girl done tried locking her dolls. Before this shit pulling up a fall. Ain't falling in love with no hoes. I hate to fuck with any of you niggas. That's my only regret. Drag the mink on the floor. The Cuban links on my hoe. Ten whips in a row. Who would have thought we was poor?
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Who would think we was poor? Money laying on the floor. Got some hoes on some hoes. That shawty with me, she a pro. No, she never met another nigga, not another nigga like me. Even if he got a billion dollars, he can't make her come like me. Who compliments you like me? I don't know. My app list was fire.
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This Is My Moment
But the beautiful thing about our generation is a lot of it was not documented. I feel like the newer generation, everything on the internet.
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H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
Like, I have not skipped a day working out in 27 days. That's too long.
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We got two 205 princesses in the building today. Shout out to Shay, too. Okay. You can't forget Shay. She gonna be mad.
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Like, I used to be an ass-ass a lot. I did. But my phone and stuff, too, especially once I got a phone in school.
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Oh, probably when I slipped and fell on my back in the club.
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Oh, it's banned in your state? And motherfucking Alabama. Oh, my God. Now she got to use a VPN.
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Then he did a lot of crossovers with, like, other women on the album and stuff because he has, like... Yeba on this album. Yeah. Pim.
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When did you know that you was on to something? Like, when was you like, okay, I should keep doing these?
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Okay, y'all. Question number one. Hey, Lex P and Drea Nicole.
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Damn. Mm-hmm. No, this is D. That's because she put your girl D, D. You wrong for that.
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I get it. But like MeLynn said, the dick being good, is it worth that nigga becoming your baby daddy? Probably not.
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He wants something consistent, but he live with his baby mama. He consistently live with his mother.
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You shouldn't want to get in the middle of that. You need to leave that family alone.
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Hey, hey, hey, hey, don't you violate me, cause I'ma make you hate me. If you decide to mess with my chop, you down to size.
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Bullschnitzel
It do say it back on my passport. I said orange wear. Don't do me. None of them from the back. Yeah. Leave me alone, you fucking bully.
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Bullschnitzel
With extra truffle. Au gratin potatoes. Bitch, I don't even know what an au gratin is.
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Bullschnitzel
Not knowing that everybody paid me, but I was doing that the whole time in Turks.
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Bullschnitzel
Hmm. But you mean the people. Girl, the people need to stay their ass on the ground. Oh, my God.
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Bullschnitzel
You better get that college education. Don't play with us. I see D.C. Girl, thank you.
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Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
And another thing that I feel like really separates y'all too is like how y'all highlight the difference between how black women and white women are treated. I mean, with, you know, the justice system. Because I feel like that's something that a lot of other podcasts don't do in the true crime space. Yeah.
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The Menendez brothers. Yes. You don't see that with black women. Like, we're trying to research a case right now, and she has a book. And I can find the title of the book. I can see the cover of the book. I cannot find that book anywhere. And it's like, but I can find... I can find any white murderess's book on Amazon, but I can't find her book anywhere, anywhere.
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And I'm like, I want to hear her side of the story so that I can properly tell the story or get details that don't exist. And it's very, very difficult. Yeah.
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I know who you're talking about. I can't remember the lady name either.
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You know, the R. Kelly case is honestly so triggering for me because he had a victim profile, just like a murderer. He was looking for young black women and
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that were estranged from their families that wanted to uh that wanted to have a musical career right yeah and I just think about myself like I was estranged from my family fresh into college at an HBCU really wanted to get my career off the ground and I'm like wow like I fit his victim profile like it that one that's the one where it's like that one hits so close to home that I I think I watched the first documentary when the other ones came out I just literally can't because
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People don't realize that just because it's not murder doesn't mean that it wasn't a crime. Right. It's a serious crime. So, it's hard. Yeah, it's very cringy online when people get online and they like, well, I don't care what R. Kelly did. I'm still going to listen to his music. You sound crazy as fuck because if this was your daughter, your niece, your sister, you would be raising hell.
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But because it doesn't affect you, you don't care. Oh, let's still listen. Let's step in the name of love. Right. Like, no.
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I agree with that for sure. And then y'all are best friends. We love having besties on the coast. Have we ever had besties on the couch? I think we have before. Ooh. I'm trying to think. I think... Well, I guess I was thinking about cocktails. Yeah. They're not best friends. They're friends, though. Okay. Yeah. But anyways, you know, I love having friends on the couch, shall I say.
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I mean, I feel like we have to put it out there because if we don't, nobody else is. I remember I was reading an article. This was actually a few years ago, so the numbers have probably changed now. But I remember I was reading an article and it said like 300,000 women are missing in the United States. And 30% of them are black women. But we only make up 14% of the population.
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That's really insane if you think about it.
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A lot of these local... a lot of local governments and, like, states have to make up their own rules. They have to make up stuff like the Ebony Alert because the federal government is doing nothing to help find these black missing women and girls.
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Yeah, it's similar to... The Amber Alert. The Amber Alert, but for black women. I never knew that was a thing. And the thing is, since the federal government isn't doing it, like, It's state by state. Some states don't care.
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They do not care. They don't care if you are a victim. They don't care if you're missing.
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They don't care unless you have the money to give to them. And some states are... They have the people involved that are doing... But a lot of these red states still do not care. And they won't lift a finger for you.
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Just to know that there are platforms out there.
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People are doing that as well. And even in our discussion group, we have like 25,000 people in there, and all they do is discuss true crime. So they're constantly keeping up with cases.
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My family member. Your family member went missing? One of my little cousins went missing in Texas, and so I was just in... I was just like, I have this platform. My little cousin is missing. Oh, my God. And then one of our fans reached out to one of her friends that lived in Texas in Dallas. And he was like, oh, yeah, I've seen him. and was able to reach out.
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So I was able to reach out to my aunt that lived in there. Yeah, yeah. So they all were able to reunite and find him. So, yeah, we found him. Oh, wow.
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Kickoff is an app that's on the App Store, and it's the number one credit building app. If your credit score is under 600 points, you can jump like 28 points in the first month of using Kickoff by just making on-time payments.
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Yeah. I'm Drayna Cole. And I'm Lex P. And together we are Travel Queens.
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I love having friends on the couch. But y'all happen to be besties just like us. So could y'all tell us a little bit about how y'all met and how y'all decided to start a true crime podcast?
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Yes. The anniversary of her death just came up.
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And I always ask myself why. And I think part of it is the lack of coverage. Like people just don't care. The government entities don't care. And I think another part of it is that it's really fun on these white true crime podcasts because you have a lot of witnesses. Black folks don't want to talk to the TV about their crimes or their cousin's crimes or their mama's crimes. And I think that...
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It's something in the culture that we have, which I think helps us in some ways, but it also hinders us in other ways. Like, we did a case... Because you're snitching, if you say. I was just about to say that.
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We did a case in... No, in St. Louis. And somebody was like, dang, y'all finally did a case in St. Louis. Like, we always... There's always crimes. And I was like, yeah, but all the crimes are gang-related. And this crime, somebody killed somebody because somebody was a witness to this crime. And it was because of... The reason that it came out is because people were snitching.
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Nobody wants to tell the crimes because nobody wants to end up being the next victim. So I guess the question is, how do we bring light to these stories while also bringing peace to the community? Because people don't want to talk.
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And now they smoking on somebody in the lyrics because he died 10 years ago. So then he retaliated with this rap dance. Oh my gosh. It be so much. And it's so alarming how young they are. Young. They be like 12 on the block. Yes. Wet net blocker. 12 and already got a couple bodies. And I'm like, I didn't even know what that meant. At 12.
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Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
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And I was trying to figure out who this girl was that was always hanging out with my man. Okay.
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Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
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Right, and then ruins the friendship on his own, so... Okay. And so we weren't friends at first. But high school, like, I was kind of the new kid on the block. I made some friends that actually weren't really cool. And it was a lot of drama. And then one day Taz came up to me when we were in class together. She said... I know we not cool like that, but them girls is not your friends. Yeah.
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They are talking about you right now. And I was like, what? She was like, we love a real. She was like, I know we not cool, but like.
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Yeah, she was like, I know your business and I should not because we not cool. Right. And then ever since then, I was like, you a real.
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All white bricks. A little fraud would have been a little better than that. Is he cleaning his money properly? Like, is he going to be, am I going to be set for two years?
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I mean, people do. They open in restaurants and shit. People clean their money.
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Yeah. We have... We just did a case, and the girl is in prison for the rest of her life, and she has a man. They... They fell in love. They met in a Christian group. And even though she has life in prison without the possibility of parole, she is hoping.
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Murder. Of course. It's the only time you don't get no parole. She is hoping to get out so that she can actually get married to this man that is a... He looks like an old deacon. Oh, my goodness. But, I mean... The men do it too. I mean, men get desperate just like that.
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Like, what if y'all was in Louis and, like, he just bought you a purse and... And he swipes the card. And what if this card has an alert on it? And they say, please stay here. And now you're stuck with him in the store with your Louis and your Chanel. But they about to take you too. Girl, I didn't tell you nothing about me. I don't care about snitching.
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Because I damn sure would have been like, I ain't know nothing about that. This ain't got nothing to do with me. But something like that never happened to me before. But I was dating this guy back in the day when I was probably like 24. And he was a scammer. And we had went to a club. He had got a section. Bought like five bottles. The tab was like $1,500. Having a good time. They come out.
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The waitress come out. It's time for him to pay the tab. Cars. The pieces is not hitting. He goes through like four or five cards. Pieces is still not hitting. And I'm like, I hope you're not looking at me because I'm not about to pay this shit. I'm about to dip on your ass. I ordered the orange juice.
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Girl, luckily though, he ended up finally, like he was with a few of his friends and one of his friends had a little piece that hit. But yeah, I definitely not seen it happen.
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She was like, we need to start a podcast.
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Why did you do that? And that's what I don't understand. There's a lot of people that have money that like to steal. There's lots of people that have money that like to rob people. And I'm like... Why not make it honest? Yeah. It's so fun to make it honest. I was going to say maybe it's greed, but no, some people just love the thrill. Yeah.
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And crazy enough, too, a lot of the time, people don't think that they're going to get caught.
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I mean, he didn't. Yeah. He didn't, essentially. Are you sure?
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Isn't it bad? I'm sitting here like, I need a friend like that that can find me some miles. Right.
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I have an ex that's in prison for life. Oh, what do you need? Oh, wow. Murder.
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It was dumb, too. Do you feel like the signs was there? You know what? Okay, so I did not date him while he was on a murder spree.
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It was a spree. I was going to say. He was on his spree and everybody. I dated this guy. He actually was like my summer camp, middle school summer camp boyfriend.
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And I remember everybody was like... Mariah, you're such a goody two-shoes. Like, that's not the person that you want to be with. And I was like, what are you talking about? Like... I'm going into the seventh grade.
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And so obviously we broke up because the summer ended and I had to go back to school and he ended up going to high school with us. And we're actually going to tell the story on our Patreon, but now he's in prison for the rest of his life for murder. And all my friends are like, remember when you used to date him in middle school? And I'm like, yes, he's a murderer.
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Oh, my God. But he passed away long after I stopped fucking him, though. All right. That ain't have nothing to do with me. R.I.P. R.I.P. Yes, R.I.P.
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We have a brand new show dropping. Yeah, so we have a brand new show dropping, y'all, on Patreon. It's going to air on September 2nd, and it's called Porn Chronicles. We're going to be doing so much stuff on there. We're going to be doing challenges. If you can't go to Bill and O'Shea, where the hell could you go? If you can't go to Bella Noche, where the hell can you go?
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We're going to be doing talk to me, chit chat with me. We're going to be spilling a little tea. Oh, my God. No, you didn't. Oh, my God. Everything y'all been wanting to see, we gonna be doing it right here on Patreon.
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What I put on the list, y'all, is never settle. And if you're an avid listener of Poor Minds, then you probably have heard me say this.
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numerous times like i say this all the time i've always felt this way don't ever settle for anything in life if it's not exactly what you want don't let people tell you that you cannot get what you want out of this life because it's absolutely possible i had so many people when i was in my 20s telling me that the things that i wanted was unrealistic
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unreasonable and if I had listened to those people I wouldn't be where I am today it's not for anybody else to understand that as long as you know what it is and you willing to put the work in to get the things that you want you don't have to settle and don't let people convince you that you have to settle it's usually people that are settling in their own life that try to you know make other people feel like oh you can't do this or you can't make that happen you're thinking too far outside the box how you gonna do that
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Uh, no, boo. You can't do that. I can do whatever I want to do, okay? And I will. So, yeah, don't ever.
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I mean, crimes of passion have been going on since... biblical times. So I definitely feel that. Who did that in the Bible? Who did that? Lex, please. No, I know. What? Is that in the book of Revelation? Goodbye. But I feel like, seriously, though, like, this has been going on for a really long time. Like, women are the number one reason for wars. Boom. If you really think about it.
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So absolutely, I think it's connected. I mean, not recently, but in probably the past five years, it was an Atlanta rapper who passed away. Oh, yes. Who ended up getting killed because somebody's boyfriend came home. He was at a woman's house and her boyfriend came home and the boyfriend shot her. I mean, shot him and killed him. So it happens all the time.
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You know what? That's the whole show. Surprisingly, not a lot of our cases are like that. But I think we also try to separate them out. But you would be surprised how many people killed just because... Their lover is acting up or their lover decides that they want to start taking the money away. We had a case, it's a very, very popular case in Atlanta called, the lady's name is Dionne Ball.
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And she was dating this guy, super, he was like super big businessman in Atlanta, very well known. And he had multiple women. Like, at his funeral, his secretary was getting credit cards from all these women that were authorized users on his account.
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Because the women were like, he's dead and we don't know what to do with his credit cards. Oh, I would have kept mine. Well, they didn't want to, they didn't know who the murderer was at the time. So they were just like, we don't want to be thought.
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I think we told the line about when to laugh and when not. And I think we do that really well. But we've honestly, we've made mistakes. Like, we've talked about a case where it was too soon and somebody reached out and was like, hey, so we just put them in the ground. Wow. Do not tell this story. And I think because we were so caught up in the fact that, like, it's a hot story.
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And he wanted to cut her off. And so she got very upset and in the middle of the night came to his house and bludgeoned him to death. Oh, my God. The craziest part about this story for me is everybody talked about him being a clean man, but they couldn't figure out which woman did it because this was like a while ago before waxing was very popular.
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When they went into his bed, there was like multiple women's pubic hair. Oh, my God. And so they were like, we don't know which woman did... So they're contacting all the women that he was sleeping with based off of the pubic hair. The pubic hair? In his sheets. Oh, my gosh. And... She had a husband, but he was cutting her off financially, and so she was very upset about that.
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You can't just say, I got mad. There's more excuses when you're young. Like, if you're late teens, early 20s, I'm like, okay, you're still figuring out how to do those things.
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But she been up for parole a lot of times, though. get out.
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If I was her, I'd be like parole board. Because she much safer. Can I have a couple more years? I need a few more years. Because I can't do this.
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Everybody's talking about it on TikTok right now. We need to tell this story. We've definitely made those mistakes. And also, all of our cases are about black women. Right. And so it's very hard because the media does not represent black women in the best light, no matter what. Right.
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I feel like she's truly... She's much safer because them Selena stans... Hmm.
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But I feel like... They're probably going to have her in some type of witness protection program. Yeah. I mean, well, not witness protection, but, you know, some type of, like, protective custody. Yeah. They might as well keep her in the prison.
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Because they got to know letting her be free and just roam around is not going to be safe for her. That's the cards that she dealt for herself. Yeah. That's true.
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Exactly. And everybody don't take hurt the same way.
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They don't care. You know what I mean? They be like, yeah, we both finna be hurting. And there was a time where I didn't have things to lose, so... Ooh.
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Um... I... How do I want to tell this story? Once upon a time... Don't confess me. Don't cry. Don't confess me. Don't cry. We already told you. We're bitches. Once upon a time, I was dating my ex, and her and I, we had a very tumultuous relationship. And when we were together, I mean... I'm constantly arguing. I mean, Taz has been my friend for a long time.
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So one day, like, things really hit the fan. And we got into, like, a big, big fight. Like, very physical altercation. Calling the police. She got arrested. And so I called. See, I ain't shit. And this was my early 20s.
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first i did thing was call him i'll be like your daughter in jail go get a click and then i called her best friend and i was like your friend is in jail fuck her and if she ever come back to this bitch i'm gonna kill her ass and her friend called me back and said so you know i have a voicemail saying that you're gonna kill my friend if you ever do something right and i was like period probably shouldn't have said that probably shouldn't have said that and i am almost sure that she probably still if she was me i'm sure she still has that voicemail saved i was like 23 yeah but i meant it
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So it takes a lot for us to take the information that's available and then kind of pick apart what part is the media sensationalizing, which part is like, Her real life. Mm-hmm.
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I don't mean it now. I don't mean it to a girl no more. But, like, I'm sure, like, if... Lord, nothing ever happened to that girl.
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They're going to be like, 10 years later, Mariah's come back.
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Yeah, for sure. Some people, that's the fantasy that they're paying for.
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And a lot of people, the fact that they're selling, that's what, yeah, you're paying me to make you feel like we're together. Right. Even though you've never seen me in person, you're never going to see me in person. But I think with that, it's boundaries. And I don't even know.
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You may know the LLC, but when you look it up on the website, it's going to go to the P.O. box. Right. To this house. Right, exactly.
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Oh, yeah. Everything is a delayed post. Everything. Everything is a delayed post. Everything. There is this TikTok. It's this white man that, like, used to work for the government. And his job, what he does on TikTok is try to teach people how easy it is to be found. So people will be like, hey, come find me. And they'll just do this in their background. And he'll say, okay.
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I can tell by... I saw that street sign. I enhanced the image. Okay, that street, I can look how many times that street is in America. Okay, I also saw that there was a Dollar General. So now I need to find out how many times this street intersects with a street where there's a Dollar General. Oh, I saw that there was rocks here in construction. So now I get to look up construction zones.
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And then he can pinpoint exactly where you were standing on the corner. It's scary. It's scary.
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Yeah, she was like 31, 32. That's so interesting because we came up with the age like, we all know floppy disk. And, you know what I'm saying? Like, we all know that. And so I also remember the scare of the internet. Like, my mom was terrified of the internet. We used to have assemblies in school about your footprint on the internet. And we used to scare the shit out of people.
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And I think a lot of younger folks, they don't get that anymore because, like...
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And I remember people used to think that Google wasn't going to take off. And now Google is this huge entity. And so people aren't even taught that you are vulnerable.
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She was... She wasn't scamming him. He was paying. She was on OnlyFans. She was... filing her taxes every time we were here for that money. And he grew an attachment to her.
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But would you consider a situation like that like a crime of passion? Because I think when I think about crimes of passion, I always think about like people in relationships. Yes, that's not a crime of passion.
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And they did something to the person because they felt some type of way like, but then I feel like it's no getting away from it because a crime of passion could be, okay, this person found out she was cheating on them. But then sometimes, even if you're honest with the person and you tell them, hey, look, this relationship no longer serves me. I don't want to be with you anymore.
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Even in situations like that, people be snapping and wanting to kill you. So it's really not avoiding it.
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Really? And so they listen to other podcasts that represent them. Okay. I dare say we're one of the larger ones, but... Y'all are, for sure. But they definitely exist. There are some smaller ones that do cases that we haven't done yet that I still listen to them and use them as sources. So they exist. But I think everybody's style is different. Everybody's research is different.
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And crime of passions aren't always about love. Sometimes they're about hate. So a lot of times, things are categorized crimes of passion. When there's things like overkill.
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It could be a mother's boyfriend. It could be the daughter's boyfriend to the mother. And the fact that the mother was killed instead of stabbed in the heart once, she was stabbed twice. 87 times, that then becomes a crime of passion. And that also lets investigators know, okay, this is probably somebody that this person knows. It's probably not a random robbery gone wrong now.
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And so I think with crimes of passion, when it comes to, like, couples, it usually... it usually is something that hasn't been addressed over time. Like it's a gradual thing. Build up. Yeah, it's a gradual build up for sure.
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And she was the first person he was talking to.
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Because she was cared about. There probably were more victims of his stalking. Even if they weren't, like, any victims that he actually put his hands on, there's probably other women. There's probably plenty of restraining orders. Yes.
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And you see that snap sometimes because like mothers, when it comes to their children or if somebody's threatening to take their children away, that usually is like. people don't know how they're going to react behind their child until they're in that situation. Like, oh, you're about to take my child away from me? No, I'm about to take you out of this world. Right.
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Like I said, it's always something. And it's usually a gradual buildup because it's probably something like, you're not a good mother. You're not a good mother. You need to take care of your children more. Okay, I'm going to make sure that your children get taken away from you. Oh, I'm calling defects on you. Okay, now I got to kill you.
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It's that instant snap where... You probably could have thought logically, got a lawyer, petitioned the court. Right, right. But in your mind, it's like, it's me and these children against everyone. So you see it in any type of relationship.
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Some people just watch... For my man, and they report just for my man. Taz and I take a lot of time to deep dive and pull records and interview people if they're available, read books if they're available. So everybody's research and their style is different. Right.
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Especially if you are a licensed carrier. That is illegal.
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What's the time that I thought I was getting set up? Maybe when that girl was trying to figure out if I was dating him.
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But my thing is, did she really think you was going to tell her that I was talking to him? Like, bitch, Lex is my friend. She was like, Lex, tell me the truth. I don't care how long y'all be... Because, I mean, y'all was kind of cool, I guess, a little bit. But you had just met her. So it's like, why would you think Lex is going to tell you anything that I don't want you to know?
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I definitely felt like she was trying to set me up for sure. She was. Yes, because at the time, you know, I was single, so I was talking to, like, two different people. Right, right. And she went and asked the other dude that I was talking to if I was talking to the other dude.
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Like, she was really trying to get to the bottom of it. She really was.
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Like, I would say even... We've had to set the record straight once or twice.
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This is what I said. We have so much going on, and we do so much research. I promise you, I'm not calling the next podcast and saying, hey, what episode are you dropping this week? Right. Oh, yeah, we're thinking about dropping this one, too. And then, no shade, no tea, that's not a podcast that I listen to, because I listen to a lot of true crime as well.
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I said, I just, I was like, I pulled up their episode. Their episode's an hour. Ours is two. It took us three weeks to research this episode where it usually takes us a week to reach. I was like, leave me alone. And then we've had some times where fans of two different podcasts will try to put us against each other.
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So we've had somebody call us up and be like, so we heard that in your discussion group, your fans are saying this and you're allowing them to say this. And I was like, hold on, wait. We be going down. I promise I don't. I can't. I'm not finna police grown folks. Yeah. I promise I'm not. So, it's been drama, but... I can't say it's frequent.
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You didn't think to call me before. Here I sit, trying not to cry. Asking myself why you do this to me.
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I'm writing you this letter, and this is what I have to say.
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You said you told me lies when someone else was on your mind.
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Everybody tries to stay in their own lane. Right, right. How do y'all stop y'all selves from becoming paranoid? Because that's my thing with true crime. I feel like if I watch it all the time, I start to become paranoid. And I feel like people are just out to get me. Like, I don't even want to leave the house. Keep that strap on you, girl. Yeah. Keep that strap. Girl, but exactly.
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So it's like with y'all doing all of this research and watching so many documentaries, reading so many books all the time, how do you stop yourself from not being paranoid every time you leave your house? Keep that strap.
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Yeah. It would be different if it was fiction. But it's like, no, this shit really be happening to me. The scariest parts of the thing are the cases where they... unalive somebody random. Yeah. Like, I can keep myself out of situations. Like, I am going to make sure that my insurance policies are in people that I really trust.
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I'm going to make sure that my friends around me are people that I can really trust. If I feel like I'm getting into a heated situation, I'm going to probably just go to the car and get away from it. But the scary ones are definitely the people that you don't know.
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No, yeah, you right. Because I was definitely doing my research, and I was looking at y'all page, and you was talking about some lady. This is, like, from a year ago.
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She was talking about some lady named Willa or something like that. And she killed that old white man. And I'm like, she was really staking the place. Like, she was really preying on this man. She did not know him. She didn't know nothing about him. Found out he had a whole bunch of money, and then you just decided, I'm just going to kidnap this man and unalive him. Mm-hmm. But you know what?
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That man was paranoid. Exactly. And that man was like, nope, because he was a little old man. He was like, this woman is staking my house. Nobody was listening to him. And that man was trying to tell people. And it was because he had like a pen pal that he wrote to that he sent. Because you know old white men send emails to their pen pals.
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And they stopped getting their pen pal letters and they started... knowing to look for him. And he was saying, there's this lady that just keeps popping up in my house, and I don't know.
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Sometimes I think it's sheer, like, naivete. Like, I don't really know much about sports ball, so, like, I honestly didn't know that story as much, so I kind of went into it very curious. So, and that helps us have a different perspective.
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We have a couple of cases like that that are super popular that some I've heard of before, and then some of them I'm fresh to it, and I'm like, oh, my gosh, I'm so happy I have all of this information, and so I can consume it, and that week I'm...
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Right. Right. Like, if we told that case, I know I'd be like, and we all know that it was the brother. Right. And we'd go into it a little bit different. And everybody usually, like a lot of true crime cases or storytellers, black, white, indifferent, whatever, they usually start with, and we open our scene and it's a murder. Mm. Now we're going to go back.
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And we're like, no, no, no, let's start with her. Let's tell her entire lie.
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Before we get to the crime. So by the time we get to the crime, you're either like... She was set up from the start or it's like, this bitch really just decided. She had it made and threw it all away.
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Honestly, I've been, that's something I've done for a long time. I'm not going to lie. Every now and then I'll clap back, but I always make it funny. Me too. Because I like, I mean, if you don't get a laugh, bitch, we all finna laugh. I'm finna show up as Eddie Murphy in this motherfucker. But I will say I always respond to the positive comments.
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Because that's what fuels me. And I'm like, I'm here to serve y'all. The people that uplift me, make me feel good, consume my content, laugh, enjoy. That's who I'm really here for. You have to. You got to show appreciation for that.
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Like, yeah. And I think that's what they be wanting you to feel like. They really, like, you really feel something. Like, you really, really upset. You know what?
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No. You know what? In sales. Yeah, like... My thing, too, is the thing that's scarier about that is, like, there's a man who's on the Internet arguing with women under the shade room comments, talking shit, but there's somebody who is actively dating this man. Laying in a bed with him every night. Laying in a bed with him next to him. Like, I'll be thinking in my head. I'm not trying to be funny.
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I know this sounds horrible, but when I see a man just talking about me or always in my comments, I'll be like, who is fucking... Yeah. Like, God damn. You in the trenches, baby girl. I'm not even worried about him. I'm worried about the lady who is laying next to you, if there even is one. Yeah, because why you even got time to do that? You know what I'm saying?
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I'm going to slide in people's DMs. Yes. I'm a DM slider. Like, I don't care. If I'm, like, a fan of you and I feel like we'll vibe, I'm like, I'm going to slide in their DMs and ask. Because the worst you can say is no.
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As a man, why are you in the shade room comments talking about, oh, she looks so tacky. Where's her stylist? Yeah, that's insane. You know what I'm saying? Okay, so anyways, we're going to move on. We're going to play a little game. Yeah, let's play the game. What's the game?
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It's a good game. Okay, so we're going to throw in random words and phrases, and we're going to sing a quick lyric. A hook off the top. Like a freestyle. You know what I'm saying? So we're going to give... Everybody going to get a word.
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Okay. So I'm going to give you a word and you have to come up with a quick bar. No. Okay. I don't want to go first.
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So I'm going to do a freestyle. Okay. Okay. And my word... Original composition? An original composition.
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The word is blocked. That nigga blocked because he won't stop calling my phone and this is off the top. Yeah. Take the top, do my dance.
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He's trying to give me romance. Okay. And I don't want to make no plans. Yeah. Get your hands off of me. You can rip what? What? How is he going to lie to you if he blocked? You know what I'm saying? Because that's off the top. That's fire. You know what I'm saying? That's a fire. You got to think. You got to think about it. I won't be doing any freestyle. Okay. Okay. Who want to go next?
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Yeah, so I slid in your DMs like a long time ago. And I was like, y'all, I mean, I shot my shot. Maybe she'll respond. And I swear, you were up like late because you responded like 3 in the morning.
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You got to be creative, Dre. Okay. Ty, give me another shot. Already over there. I know that's right. I love a woman that's on her job. Thank you, Ty. You're welcome. Okay, Dre. Which word you going to do? I guess you should just throw it at me. Okay. Gaslighting. Because you smart. Nah, bitch, you would. Okay, okay, okay, okay.
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Okay, gaslighting. You going to sing or you going to rap?
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I thought we had, look, Queen won, obviously, though. No, I want to turn around. The voice is beautiful. Broke my heart to preach. Yeah, ooh, hold on.
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It's going to be free, girl. I'm going to show up on time. Yes. On time. Get credited. Okay. I don't even need that. I just want to be in the video. Okay. You know what I'm saying? Just show up. Okay. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole. And we're about to tell y'all about Rocket Money.
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So I didn't know people was asking me to come on. Oh, yeah. They love like we have the girls on because it's like a girls talk show. So and I'm not gonna lie. We've had a lot of male guests lately. And they're like, bring the girls back. Where the women? Yes. But I mean, is it like harder to get girls? I was just about to say that.
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I think it depends, to be honest. I think there's certain things that I've gone through that I feel like if I talk about it publicly and I let y'all in, I think I kind of, not that I owe that, but... If you've seen me going through something and I'm, like, all open about it and I'm talking about it, I think I can at least be human and let y'all know, hey, this is what's going on.
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So, and that's with a breakup. Like, even when my mom passed away, I let y'all know what I was going through. I was very open about, you know, different journeys. But I also think, as women, I hate that they do this to us. Every time we said it's not to do with the man. Oh, hello. Every time we are in our feelings, they be like, oh, what he did. He must have made you mad.
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I have other things going on in my life that stress me out that have nothing to do with the man. Yeah. So sometimes I think that is aggravating because I want to share what I'm going through, but it's like, it makes me mad because I can just be like, oh my gosh, I'm so tired. Today was stressful. What do you do, girl? Mm-hmm. It's not about a man.
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So, how did you feel? Because I know, like you said, like, your relationship with your ex, obviously. It was public. Very, very public.
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So, going through, you know, y'all's split, it was just, like, shocking for everybody. Because y'all were, like, relationship goals at one point. Yeah. Everybody was looking at y'all, like, oh, my gosh, I want that. I want that. So, talk about, like, how, because you were so young. Young, going through that, and you had a child.
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It was stuff that you were going through at that age that I'm 35, I can imagine going through at this age. Yeah. So how did you handle that? Like, how did you get through that? How did I get through it?
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And then it's like when you're trying to heal, because like you said, now it's like you're probably still healing and still learning things about yourself.
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How does that feel, too? Because I think with, like, an average person healing with a normal, like, person with, like, a normal job, I guess I'll say, we don't necessarily have to see our exes or hear what they think about us or them, like, kind of poking at us.
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He be kind of messing with you a little bit. Yeah. A little bit still, yeah. Yeah, he always, like, saying your name or saying he wants you back or be like, oh, come home and, you know, doing kind of funny things like that. Whether it's genuine or not, it's more so for a reaction.
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So how is that because, you know, you're actively trying to heal, have a healthy co-parenting relationship, but then also having to deal with the antics?
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A little side note, because I remember when that whole breakup with y'all happened. Because, look, I be in everybody's business. Y'all know me. I live chronically online. But I remember seeing a picture of you and you were like on the top of the Capital One Records building. It was right when you signed your deal.
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It's something about a woman going through a breakup and rough times and just coming out on top. Oh, yes. And I just remember just clapping and being so happy for you. Yeah. Because there be a lot of breakups that break people and they don't get through it and they don't get on the other side. So I just remember seeing that, like, announcement that you made.
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It was, like, a drone picture or something. It was, like, that you had announced. And I was just like, oh, my God, I am so happy for her.
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It's a little crazy. Because I felt like, you know, if you have something to promote, it's going to help the both of us.
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It's going to help if you got something going on. I agree. But sometimes people will just straight up flat out be like, no. Yeah. And be like, because I feel like there's a way to say no. Yeah. Or leave you on read. Yeah.
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Yeah, so going back to what you were saying. Yeah, what was I saying? What you were saying between, you were answering the question about... She got distracted by this. Yeah, I was like, let me not chew into this mic. That's why I feel so bad, because Graham was bringing up my mom, and I'm like, mm-hmm, girl, you died, and I was sad as shit, girl.
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Yeah. Like, just to be like, you know, unfortunately right now is not the right time. You know, we'll let you know. We'll circle back. It's just a professionalism. Like, we had somebody email us back and they was like, she not interested. Yeah.
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Answering the question about healing publicly and healing privately, and you were talking about how you give it through your music with some things you keep to yourself. Yes, yes. It's relatable for people to heal through your music. Yes.
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And I think that's something that I can't, because a lot of times, like, people look at us and be like, oh, my God, how can you do it without your parents? But at the same time, like, I look at, like, you being a mother, a young mother, and I'm just like, I, oh, my God. Yeah. Sorry, the person who was FaceTiming her was just crazy. I hope the camera didn't see that.
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Hopefully not. Okay. Anyway, sorry. What was I saying? Oh, look at young mom. Young mom. You being a young mother because, like I said, I don't have children yet. Yeah. And I'm not going to lie if I'm being honest. Like, I haven't had children yet because I'm selfish and I'm not ready to.
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Have you ever had a situation where you reached out to somebody to do a song with and they hurt your feelings? What happened? You don't have to name drop.
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okay period yeah I'm just not ready to be a mother I'm not ready to give up my time in the morning yeah I'm not ready to give up a lot of words my money I'm not ready to give up a lot of my time I just I want I'm experiencing life right now still so when I see people you know who have you know gotten married or having kids and you're going through all of this and you're still being a mother I commend you for that yeah because I'm like I couldn't I couldn't
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Yeah. Yeah, so. So how do you feel, too, like, because I know you see the comments that people have about your relationship now.
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And they're like, okay, y'all should be married by now. And people trying to put you on a timeline.
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And they don't realize, like you said, you're not even 30 yet. Yeah. And people are putting you on what they think and their timeline is. And like you said, y'all don't know these people's relationships. They don't. They don't know what go on. So how, does that get to you a little bit?
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Yeah. And, like, just even talking to you, obviously this is the first time we met, but just, like, the way you carry yourself, I can tell. I can read people.
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But you're so, like, I can tell, like, the growth. And just because, like I said, I used to follow you on YouTube and seeing, like, take your time.
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Because them people, they don't even have what they want.
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So, they can't feed into that. And just, I don't mean to get churchy. Y'all know I'm in my church.
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So, I'm going to tell y'all. So, Sunday when I was at church, my pastor, shout out to Pastor Mo, he was talking about his marriage. And he was talking about his wife. And he was talking about, I know y'all hate this word, but how his wife, you know, she follows the Bible, obviously. Submit. And she, submit. Submit, submit, submit. But she...
Pour Minds Podcast
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Submit to God, which, you know, she submitted to her husband to trust him and to be able to, you know, take that backseat and trust him and not have the responsibility of a lot of things. And sometimes that takes a lot of, not sometimes, that takes a lot of. It does. That takes a lot of trust in your partner. You have to be able to go to sleep.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And let somebody drive you and know they're not going to crash that car. You know what I'm saying? And he has to be led by God. And he has to be led by God.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Right, yeah. So he knows me. Yeah, and that's why I said, I think you have to figure things out on your timeline.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
when I would talk about my relationships and how happy I was and I'd be like, ooh, I don't want to talk about the breakup. But yeah, it happens.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Y'all, nobody's life is perfect. There's no such thing as a perfect love story. You know what I'm saying? And one thing I can appreciate about me is I'm going to keep it real with y'all. I don't give a damn. Y'all not finna embarrass me because you know why? I am where I want to be right now in this moment. I'm here because God allowed me to. I'm able to share my story and I'm able to
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
express myself and I'm able to have an outlet to I always say this Lex P went through that so you ain't got to go through that I let y'all know my mistakes I'm growing and I'm figuring shit out with y'all you know what I'm saying so I feel like if we were more if we gave each other more grace man That'll never happen. You know what I'm saying? Like, give people grace, man.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
All right, okay, so we're going to get into the second topic. You know, we getting chatty, girl. I love when episodes just flow. It's just flowing, you know. It's flowing. That's why they love the girl gets. I just be feeling so relaxed. With the men, I be like, what you finna say? Sit your way.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Thank you, girl. How are you? Thank you. Okay, so topic two. Can you be soft and still be taken seriously? Now, I can definitely relate to this topic because I always say this. I am a bitch, but I have the nerve to be sensitive. And, you know, a lot of times I'm very, very soft. I have a soft heart. I'm like, oh, I don't want to let this person, I don't want to do this. And I'm like...
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
But I'm like, at the same time, I have to run a business. I got to be a boss. You know, you have to be a mother. You know, you have to run your business. You have to run, you know, your household and things like that. So I want to know, like, do y'all feel pressure to, like, be hard or guarded, especially as, like, women navigating, you know, yourself in this business?
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Because we are in, like, the entertainment industry, but you in the music world. Yeah. Which is a whole nother beast. It is. So, you know, you... Title yourself, you know, as a good girl. You are soft.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You could have just said, yeah, and I would have respected it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I am a softie, yes. You're friendly. So how do you carry yourself as, you know, queen, the business woman, but also being true to who you are as being like a soft, nice woman?
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
But dang. And it's like, that's my issue because I have to choose between being personal or, like, just being professional.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You have to learn it's not personal, it's business. I think with me, I say this, I've said this in the past. I take the Nicki Minaj approach to business. I do. I seen a documentary on Nicki Minaj probably when I was in college, I think. I can't remember if it was like a true life. Something she was doing and she was recording an album. I remember she was sitting in the studio.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And sometimes, like, especially with an interview like this, because when we're in the DMs talking, I'm like, girl, I'm not going to ask you nothing crazy. We don't look for viral moments.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And I still say this. Drea can attest to this. I say this all the time. She said, when I walk into a meeting and I say I want it this way, oh, she's a bitch. She's rude. She's this. She's that. But if a man walks in and he says the same thing, oh, he's assertive. He's a boss. He's this. So she's like, I don't give a fuck what y'all say about me at this point. I'm going to these meetings.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
and I'm saying what I have to say. And for some reason, like I said, when I saw that interview, I was probably like 20, 21, 22. And that stuck with me so much because I know sometimes I go in meetings and I'm probably like... A little... Some things that I say I know can come off a little harsh and I have to clear it up. I'm like, no, I didn't mean it like this. This is what I'm trying to say.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
But I'm glad I'm letting you know because stop playing with me. Yeah. Stop playing with me. It's a lot of times that people will say things to us because we're women. But if y'all walked across there and went on 85 South, y'all wouldn't have that same, you know, demeanor because, oh, it's Carlos. I'm not going to talk to DC like that. I'm not going to talk to Chico like that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
We just like to have a good time with our guests. Yeah. So, sometimes I be wishing, like, when I DM people and they leave me on read or they don't say nothing, I'm like, I should have just sent Shay to you. Yeah, so you don't have to deal with the... Yeah, of, like, feeling embarrassed because I'm sick of it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I would rather be known as a bitch and I got my money straight than somebody soft who I'm just at home sad because I can't pay my rent.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Take advantage. They're happy. They're grateful.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And I think sometimes, like, as women, especially, like, if we go in a meeting and we're just, you know, being straightforward and this, some people are like, oh, she's emotional. She on her period. She on her period. And I may be, because I'll be in a meeting and I'll be like, this and this and this. Then I'll call Dre, I'll be like, this shit piss me off. Because they fucking rude.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Like, why would they talk to us like that? Dre be like, legs, it's okay. I'm like, but still. But in the meeting, I'm like... You know, but at the same time, like I said, I feel like a lot of times people just try to take advantage of especially women.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yes, they see how, because they feel like, oh, well, she going to be soft and she going to be cool. It's okay. I can say this to them. So I do feel like as women, we don't get the luxury of being soft in the business, unfortunately. I got a question, though. So, like, what is it that people be trying? Well, you probably don't want to. Well, no, I'll say it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Like, I think it's like a lot of times people will, they want to lowball you on pay. Okay. You know what I'm saying? They want, they think that they can just show up whenever. You know what I'm saying? Like, they'll just not have respect for your time, respect for anything.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And I just, like I said, I see this because it's certain way that they will treat, you know, our counterparts that things that we have to go through that, you know, they necessarily don't have to go through. You know what I'm saying? Right. Like I said, the big thing for me would just be, like, payments.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Like, of course, I don't expect to be getting paid the same amount as Carlos, but y'all ain't finna pay me $3 to show up somewhere either.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah, yeah. And I think they have some extra time. A lot of us to be just so grateful.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You like... A fish fry smells... This can't fish fry to be delicious. It is, but that's not how you want your vagina to smell. I mean, facts.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Like, no, I'm not grateful. I want to get paid. Right. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't want to have to, like, come in these meetings and y'all just expect me to just be happy to be here because y'all feel like, oh, she's just a podcaster that's on YouTube. No, I worked really fucking hard. You know what I'm saying? And like I said, I think they expect that for all women.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You should just be grateful. Because women, you know, y'all don't get to... Y'all used to not be able to be in these spaces, especially as a black woman. You should be grateful. No, we deserve to be here. Yeah. Like, it's not like I should be, oh, my God, thank you. Like, yes, thank you, but I earned my right to be here.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Do you feel like people kind of still try to treat you like your road to success was different because you started out on YouTube?
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
It's the truth. I think sometimes people don't like to hear stuff because they don't necessarily maybe like the messenger, but the facts are the facts.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You don't want to hear it because maybe you just don't like me or how you feel about me, but people will, they love to try to humble people. Queen is so sweet. We be over here like, fuck y'all hoes. Yeah. Because it eat what it eat.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You know, I try to be a little more considerate a little bit sometimes. Sometimes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I mean, but I think we've been doing this for so long. Like, when we have things that go viral, it really be accidents. Yeah. Like, I'm never going to be like, oh, queen.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I feel myself slowly stop, like... You will because then you get to a point to where, I'm not saying because you are a confident, beautiful woman, but you get to a point to where you realize, you know what? This is who I am.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
This is who I am. I can't change this. I can't change this. This is who God made me to be. And you're either going to accept it or you're not going to like it. So let me focus on the people who accept it and love it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And you'll learn to cater to those people and love those people and... you know, feed into those people. Because that's what I started doing. I'm just like, I've become happier. It was a point where we were doing Poor Minds where I was just like unhappy because I felt like every week I'm showing up and I don't know what to do to make y'all like me. People are being mean. Because they're so mean.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah. You got to cater to them people that love you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Like they DM, like you said, people DM you and stuff. Like people who've lost a parent or they're grieving or something. We get DMs like that all the time. So I don't mind being vulnerable and being open. I'm talking to y'all.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Tell me the tea about this. You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah. It's never given that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah. So I think like you can still be soft and taken seriously because I think there's beauty in being vulnerable. Yeah. Because it shows, like, I'm still human. Yes. I'm still going through the things that you're going through. Right. You know what I'm saying? Like, just like I used to be living on the east side, crying in that apartment. Bitch, I'm in my high rise still crying. Yeah. It's life.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You know what I'm saying? Keep it real, yeah. Yeah, you have to. You have to keep it real. But I think there's beauty in keeping it real and being soft. For sure. But there's also, you know, like you said, you have to have that balance. Because you got to be hard sometimes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Especially as a woman. Like, you know, being... in this industry? Because you don't want to be looked at as being, like, passive and, oh, queen not going to care. Because you're really not going to make a decision on my behalf.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
So let me ask you this, because I saw a few clips of you on DD Streams. DDG. DDG. Yeah. What did I say? DD Streams. DD Streams. His Twitch. DDG Twitch. DD, what is it, DDG? DDG. DDG, you were on his stream. It's them shots whooping your ass.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I ain't no lie. Some people don't have media training, though. They don't. We done had a few people sit on this couch and get buck wild.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Absolutely. So, I saw a few of the clips. I didn't get to watch the whole stream. Yeah. But they were kind of saying like, you know, oh, Queen was being quiet. She was kind of bothered. She didn't like the atmosphere. What really went on? Is that just people assuming?
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
But I think your personality is so good. And I think people kind of, like, miss seeing that from you. Like, we love the music, but we love your personality. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
If you do something crazy, they be like, oh, she tripping. Yeah, bro. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah. She's trying to be noticed. Yeah. She's trying to be outside.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I mean, yeah, because I feel the same way. It be sometimes, like, our management, they'll come with us, and I'll be so happy that they're there. It's just nice to have men around. It is, especially men that you trust, that you know if anybody try to get a little, you have protection there.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Because one thing about me, I will talk some shit, but as soon as somebody fuck with me, I'll be like, I'm finna text, chat, and run.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I be like, hold on, let me text Chad and Ryan.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah, so I'm glad that you had him there, too. Like I said, I know situations like that can get rowdy and get crazy. Because I didn't get that vibe. I'm like, I think she's just working.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Like, I just... I'm just a little bit more calmer. And I think that's what she was saying, too. Like, People expect you to be the old you. And I'm not that old. They be saying that a lot.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
That is funny. Hey, but it be so many people in and out of there. Yeah, you never know. If somebody would have said, yes, I was grabbing my purse, bitch, I don't know these people.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I'm keeping my shit close to me. And the thing is, like I said, I think his streams are entertaining. Like, I love his streams. But he do have a lot of people in and out, and you don't know who they are. It be like a lot of, you know, young girls, young women. People, and people do things for clout.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
So how good would it be somebody who trying to start up a stream, they be like, ooh, I'm in queen purse. They could just take it and go to the bathroom and do something weird. I don't trust people. You know what I'm saying? So you was doing right. You don't need a reason of why you was clutching your purse.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You can clutch it whenever you feel like it. Clutch it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
How you clutching me clutching my purse? Okay, woman. Let a gay name herself Ming Lee. And you ain't from China. I don't know if I can trust you. People, because y'all put pregnancy on me. All I, and all it was, was I ate a can of beans and had a few shots of tequila, bitch. I had just got back from a little happy hour at Papa Cito's. And y'all was like, you pregnant, like pregnant.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Congratulations. She pregnant. Oh, she pregnant. And baby, I had just ate. So the only reason I'm being very, oh, he don't play about me. This nigga is swinging on the swing set right now. Swinging on the merry-go-round, baby. Oh, he playing all day on that PS5 Mario Kart, okay? That's crazy. That's like you having a sexual assault case and R. Kelly being like, oh, yeah, bro, I support you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Hey, I'm good. I'm good, bro. I don't need none of that support. I don't want none of your prayers. Somebody sent me something on my phone and said that a hog tied her.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Um, one thing that I wish that they really understood is, this might be a little too vulgar, but I'm going to say this. Men, y'all can throw a woman's pH off. Oh my God, bro. Okay? Yeah. So sometimes if you laying in the bed with your lady, and something is smelling like a fish fry on a Friday night...
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I mean, have you ever went through a fish fry? A fish fry smells... This catfish about to be delicious. It is, but that's not how you want your vagina to smell. I mean, facts.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Mm-hmm. I'm dead. Yeah, so I feel like a lot of times men should know, like, if you are in a relationship, a long-term relationship... and something is going on with your lady down there, you could be the problem. You are not doing something down there. You might be cheating.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You're not washing your balls good enough after you go to play one-on-one basketball at the rec center or whatever you're doing. Something is off about you that's possibly throwing her off.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah. That definitely throws a lot of things off. I think another thing is stop trying to have one move sexually for all women. Mm-hmm. Just because this woman likes you to do that doesn't mean the next woman that you're with is going to like that. I think we have to take time and learn each other's bodies more. And that's for women, too, with men. Y'all be trying to be one-trick ponies.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Oh, this, she like that. I'm finna turn this. I'm finna turn this. Turn her out. And I'm like, what are you doing? Yeah. Weak as fuck. I'm like, get the fuck off of me. You know what I'm saying?
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Weak ass moves. So I think men, they be like, oh, they be thinking that they have the best penis in the world because you used it one time on Brenda down the street that was talking shit on Twitter.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Brenda down the street was getting that dick, talking shit. But just because it worked on Brenda don't mean it's going to work on me.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
So I think that men need to learn that every woman's body is different and take your time and ask questions. There's nothing wrong with asking questions, learning what she's like, and just taking your time.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
So, how do you feel now? Because being that you started off on YouTube, and, you know, we... Being that we started off on YouTube as well, we still on YouTube, it's like, but it's different. Because when you first start out, you just say whatever, you're doing whatever, and it's so many things that come back. People will clip old things that you didn't say and do.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I'm telling you, when a man is thoughtful, it just goes a long way.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
So I think they need to realize that women, a lot of our sexual stimulation comes from a mental connection. Hello. Yep. An emotional connection.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah. Yeah. Another good point I think men need to understand is a lot of times when y'all be having sex with women, y'all be thinking, oh, I'm just finna fucking go about my way, and you keep having sex with the same person over and over again, and it may be just a nut to you. Women are not wired that way. I don't care.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I don't speak for all women, because some women can have sex a lot with the same person and not develop feelings, but as a man, And a woman having sex a lot, I don't care. Something is going to start happening, feelings-wise. So, men, y'all need to understand, you cannot have sex with the same woman over and over and over and over again and not expect her to have... Feel something.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Something or have some type of expectation. I'm telling you, if you have sex with a woman four times, you ain't never took her on a date, I bet you after that four times, she's going to be like, well, why don't we do something? Yeah, like... Why don't we go somewhere? That's true. Booty call?
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
So if you just want a booty call, you don't need to have sex with the same woman over and over and over again. And that's just... If you just trying to get the dick wet, you need to have a little roster.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Because y'all don't like to wrap that little peen up.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
So how do you feel now knowing that it's like,
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I forgot. We gonna get a little vulgar again. Men, stop forgetting about the click. That is where the stimulation comes from.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I think, because my friend calls it a click, but she does it to be funny. That's different, though.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Click it, bop it, twist it, touch it. The fuck? I don't give a damn. Stop passing it up. It's right there. It's a button. Press it. It really is a button. Bust around, told y'all. Touch it, bring it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
They don't. They don't be knowing. Clitoral stimulation is how most women have an orgasm. Mm-hmm. Penetration. Now, you can have an orgasm. Some women do, yeah. It's a small percentage. Those are the blessed, blessed, blessed women that can have an orgasm just off of penetration. But most women have an orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Men, please.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
A little touching and penetration. Everything. You got to rub on her, caress on her. Like she said, it starts in the morning.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I agree. I agree. Anything else y'all want to add? Before we move on? Look, first of all, we just put y'all on game, fellas. So I hope y'all took some good notes. You know what I'm saying? All of them. All of them. I'm like, which one do I look at? So really and truly, this is your camera. No, this is my camera. This is Queen's camera. Three is hers. Seven is the wide shot. Three is your camera.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah, so if you want to emphasize something or something, you got to say it to three.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I always look at my camera. Always. Okay, now... I feel like this is such an awkward space. Like, y'all over here.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Well, I think sometimes when somebody is a guest and they sit right here and they say something crazy, I'll be like this. You do. Let's think we on an episode of The Office. That's how you know I watch The Office too much. I love The Office.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I'll be like, okay, alright. y'all. It's your girl XP.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of the Week, but do you have a product or something that you want to promote and you want it featured on Poor Minds? Your opportunity is here.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
It's time to get into the bop. The bop. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. Bow. So you're going to love this thing. It's the bop of the week. So we're going to give like whatever music that we've been jamming, but we are also going to talk about your album that you wrote. You know what I'm saying? So first, I want to give my bop of the week. My bop of the week, y'all know it's summertime, it's springtime.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
It's time to get in the clubs and ducky wine and have fun and just, you know, have that feel good music again. So my bop of the week is by Afrobeats artist Rima. He has a new song called About You. And it's just a really cute song. It's just about a girl that is something about her. And I just, I love, love music.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I think we need to bring back when men are talking about being in love and, oh, girl, you special. Like, let's bring that back. Let's bring back the good vibes. They were talking about Tee Grizzley the other day and how he be rapping about his wife. Let's do it. I love men that like to be married. Yes, that like to be with one person. Let me tell you something.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
The smartest men on this earth know the value of having one woman that's valuable on his team. They know it. Smart, very smart. Very smart men. I'm telling you, every successful man, I promise you, either has a woman running his whole team or he's married.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
But again, I'll tell you, the men that aren't married, I guarantee you, there's a woman behind him who runs... Everything.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
His assistant, whether it's his executive assistant, whatever, I'm telling you, it's a woman very close by handling everything. I promise you. Every time. So even if he not married, ask him who his right hand is. Uh, Brenda. Brenda.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Okay. Yeah, no, he didn't talk about that. He was talking about the Blood remix.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I like Leon Thomas a lot. Me too. I like him a lot. His voice is very soothing.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yes. I'm telling you, I told y'all R&B ain't dead.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Okay, so talk about the new album. Like, what should we expect? What collaborations you can tell us, you guys?
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
She's starting. She's about to get straight. You heard this. Somebody... You know, in the background, I be trying to whip that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah, I'm very proud. So you don't have to give us the TT, but... If you don't, do you have somebody that's like a legend on the album? And if you don't, is there a legend that you would like to have on the album? Like a legendary singer.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah, I remember that song. That was a good album, too. It's a flex.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Because then you... I want to say, did you get a Soul Train Award? You performed at the Soul... It was something I seen you at the Soul Train Award. I performed.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I did perform. I know you did. I know you did. I was just trying to... Queen, hey, I be so booked and busy, girl.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I said that because it's like, you don't get to just do the Soul Train Awards. Like, that is a legendary show that our parents grew up watching. Like, the Soul Train Awards is not like, and you gotta, if you doing a Soul Train Awards, you can't sing, you gotta sing.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You know what I'm saying? So I think that whole narrative, if people do still say that, they definitely, definitely got to let that go. It's fine.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I appreciate it. Yes, I have been having a ball today. Beautiful girl, beautiful spirit, beautiful voice.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I'm telling you, if you have like a no makeup day.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yes. When I tell you when I have my no makeup day. Yes, you get that cute sunburn look. Oh, my God. When we was in Turks, baby, I got the jelly blush in my damn purse.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
We've said some crazy stuff, too. We understand. But I always say this, too. Like, being on YouTube or just being an entertainer, anybody in this industry, we are taking a risk, and we're living our lives in front of the camera, and we're being vulnerable and honest. So if you can't accept, like, the bad parts, because y'all get to grow up and become women or men behind the camera.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Okay. But real quick, do you have a title of the album yet?
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I know they ready. I know that we are so ready for new music.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah, but you know what? I really want artists to get back to that. Sometimes I think that people be dropping too much music. Too much, right? You got to think, well, when you drop the album, it'll be some years before she dropped another one. Yes, I want people to digest it. Yes, you got to really take that music in.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I don't think that as an artist you should be dropping two, three albums in a year.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
That's just too much. You should drop one album, let it marinate, go on tour a little bit, let people rock with you for a little bit. It got to marinate. It got to be memorable.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
People still, somebody out in the world right now is waiting for her to get on stage. Mm-hmm.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
But also, TikTok is good because that's where I find a lot of, like, my undiscovered artists and low-key. Like, I have fixed my algorithm so good. When I tell you, I find so many new artists all the time from TikTok. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yes. It be some good, some really, really good songs on there. So I'm like, there's always like a good and a bad side to the internet for me.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Y'all aren't doing it in front of the camera. And we got to do it in front of everybody. We're doing this in front of everybody. So the mistakes that you made, they're just not on you forever. Because y'all be saying some crazy stuff too.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Why? Girl, I know. Well, why would they be saying it on TikTok? It's just the bullshit I was asking her about. It's like a lot of times her ex will go viral or they'll take clips Of, like, her and Clarence. Clip farming. Clip, clip, clip. You know, stuff like that. I'll be back on air, though, once I got to promote something. Yeah. They just be doing stupid stuff.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Because there be stuff that I be seeing. Because it's stuff that we go through. Sometimes somebody will clip something of us. They be like, Drea hates Lex.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
They do that. Oh, my God. I don't say that. Vice versa. Yes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I'm like, do y'all not have, like, sisters or best friends that you've been friends with for 10 years? No, y'all don't.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
But no, but that's what I'm saying. I be seeing all that shit. Like I said, I'm an avid TikTok squirrel. But like I said, look, I'm 35. So TikTok is how I keep in the know of what the kids have got going on. But I do see, like I said, I see all of this stuff about me, Drea, you know, whatever is going on. That's how I stay in tune.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
So like I said, TikTok has a good side, but it also has a bad side.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Girl, Tanner Adele had posted this picture of herself being funny and she was like, oh my gosh, y'all, look at this picture of my great-great-grandmother that I found. It was a picture of herself. And everybody was like, you are such a liar. You're just like SZA. It was like... What? Now, why says any? That's what Brenda said. That's what Brenda said. I'm just repeating what she said.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
But I'm telling you, it was a thread of people calling her a liar, stupid. We can tell. This is lashes. You got... It's clearly a picture of herself and she was, like, trolling, being funny. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And that's why I said it's a lot of people. TikTok is different. So you got people that make money off of clipping your stuff. Oh, my God.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Oh, they're rich. DDG actually said this. He said there's a guy who said, like, he's paid off his house. He bought a brand new car just from clipping DDG's stuff. There's an account, and I'm not mad at it. No, we love the account.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
They always create videos of us. But they always flip stuff from poor minds, and they go back, and they put a bunch of stuff together, and they go viral a lot.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Before you walk. Yeah. I realize I'm not like a good vlogger, what I'm doing, but like I can do stuff like this. Like I have a show called Love Legs P and I just prop my camera up and I talk and I do all my hot topics and things like that. I can do talk show stuff, content, but I just can't, like, a day in the life stuff. Especially if I'm in the moment. I be trying to have a good time.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yes. Oh, my God. So, yeah. I'm just like, let me just stick to what I know. Let me just stick to what I know.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Do you give good advice? You think you give it? I believe I give good advice. Okay, I think you do. I can see that. Okay, so we are about to do Pour Your Heart Out. If you want your question answered on the show, make sure you email us at askpoorminds at gmail.com. If you're a Patreon member, make sure you put that in the headline. You get to skip the line, of course, okay?
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
So we have some questions, and we are going to give our best advice.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I always think it's so silly, though, when I see people, like, pulling up old tweets. It's stupid. Or something. Because I'll say the best thing.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I think we kind of touched on that this episode, honestly. Yeah, that's why this is a good question. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I think like survivor's guilt is real. And I think a lot of times you have to understand forgiving yourself is the biggest, is one of the hardest things. I'm personally going through that honestly right now if I'm being vulnerable and honest. And I think you just have to give yourself grace and you have to give yourself time.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I think a lot of times we get mad at ourselves for not getting over something so quick. If you go through something and it's like a month later and you're still crying, you're like, why am I still upset? And you're getting mad at yourself. It takes time to heal. You know, you have to be easy with yourself. The world is already hard on us individually as people, as women.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
So the best thing that you can do for yourself is just go easy on yourself. And give yourself time to heal. Give yourself time. Healing is a journey. And I'm not talking about six, seven, eight months. It takes years to heal. And you have to be willing to have your good days, but also be willing to have your bad days. It's okay to cry. It's okay to be angry.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I think sometimes when we're sad and we're angry, we feel like we're not supposed to be feeling these things. You're not supposed to be happy every day. That's not normal. Mm-hmm. Being sad is normal. Being mad is normal. Being happy is normal. So I think going through the emotions of actual... Healing is rough. It's hard.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
But you have to acknowledge that and you have to be okay with not being okay. And I think that's the hardest thing. People are not okay with not being okay. Give yourself the grace. Yeah, give yourself grace, man. Like, you really have to give yourself grace and, like I said, just time to heal.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And you have to understand, not everybody is going to clap for you for doing things that people are like, oh, I'm not going to applaud a fish for swimming. You got to clap for yourself. Hello.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
The best thing that ever happened to me was my Twitter got deleted. It did. And I was so upset because I had like a lot of, a big following on there at the time. And I was so upset. But now like where the show is and how it's gone, I'm like, that was the best thing that ever happened. It was so crazy because it got deleted because I said OJ Simpson got a long head.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Right. I agree. And I'm glad you said that about doing something little. Sometimes it's all you need to do to show up. Because I was talking to my friend about that. Because we both kind of deal with depression and stuff. And she's kind of going through it right now. And I was like, man, be proud of yourself. Because you looking at it like, oh...
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah, I got out the house today, but I just went to my friend's house, but I was still sad. I said, but you got out the house. Like, when you were depressed... You could have just stayed in bed all day. You could have just stayed in fucking bed, because I'm telling y'all, I am a very, like, I'm a very clean, clean person. Like, I am very kind of like OCD when it comes to my place. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And, but when I, like, I got really, like, depressed, like, around, like, December and January, and I just let my apartment, I was like, oh, my God, I can't believe I have so much shit everywhere. And I just could not get out of the bed. I just could not do it. And then I remember I just spent a whole week, and I was just taking it room by room. And I just organized everything.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And I would just get up, and I was like, one day, I did my closet. Then the next day, it took me, like, a whole week.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
But you did. But I was like, you know what? I did it. You did it, though. And I feel so much better. And I was like clapping for myself. I was like, bitch, I cleaned my closet today. Amen. You did that, bitch. I don't care if it's like something small or big. Clap for yourself. That's all you need. You did it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Do you know what I'm saying? Like, even when Dre was doing 75 hard, I'll use this for an example, because I'm like, ooh, damn, I need to get my ass up and go to the gym. And it's like, even though, like, I was still going to the gym, but I would, like, get on a treadmill, and I'm, like, walking for 20 minutes. I'm like, bitch, you got up. You still did it. Bitch, you got up.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You know what I'm saying? I'm like, okay, and now I'm, like, back, and I'm, like, lifting weights. And, like, because even with that, you don't know what's motivating people or what's, you know, getting them through to, like, you know what, let me get up and move my body and do something. Because I'll say this about working out, too. Or going to church or anything.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And now he not even alive no more. He wasn't even married.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
It's like your journey is your journey. Because I never post when I go to the gym. And I posted myself in the gym like a day or two ago. I don't know what made me do it. But I was like, it was like four or five people who had reacted to my story and was like, oh, I see you finally back in the gym now. I see you finally.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And it's just so... But this is why I don't post. Because why would you say that? But it doesn't matter. Bitch, I done lost 30 pounds since January. Yeah. I don't need to document everything. Oh, I got you, girl. But I just feel like that's why it's so hard to be open about, like, even with me going to church.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I was on cocktails talking about how I'm going to church now, and people was in the comments like, oh, Lex... You go to church, but it's like, that's why you, you know what I'm saying? But I don't need, I don't talk about it because I don't need those applause from y'all because I've been clapping for myself.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And I've been getting through my battles that y'all don't even know about behind closed doors and I'm doing it. So I think to answer her question, like you said, you 100% have to clap for yourself, even for the small thing.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Well, come to the gym and then show me. You know what I'm saying? Exactly. And I think, like I said, with working out, it's a hard journey. Like, I was going to the gym so consistently. Then I kind of fell off. Then I started just doing cardio because I wanted to lose weight. Now I lost the weight. And it's like, okay, I'm back lifting now. Everybody's story is different.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And then when I go to your page, it seems like you ain't never been to the gym.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And look, I'm the same way with church. Sometimes I be having to go to that 5 o'clock service. Yeah. Because I've been laying in bed all day.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
This was so much fun. I had a good time. So, obviously, I mean, the girls know who you are, but let them know where they can find you, all the good stuff you got coming up, where they can catch you and all that good stuff.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Now I'm ready to eat. Hey, me too. All right. We'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all. Y'all make sure y'all share the content, like, subscribe, follow, all that good stuff. And let me say this before we close out. Y'all, there is one Twitter account that is connected to Poor Minds. It's P-O-U-R underscore M-I-N-D-S. Y'all are tagging the wrong poor minds page.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
If you see at poor minds with no underscore, that is a fake page. Do not follow that page, okay? They blocked me, Andrea, and the poor minds page on both. So we only have one Instagram left. One Twitter, one TikTok. It is P-O-U-R underscore M-I-N-D-S. All right? And we got a hella fake Facebook page.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
That's not us. Got like 250,000 followers. But y'all know it's fake if you actually look at the content because the caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English. Because their captions are like, Bamba Claude. Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes, no. Check answer below. Blah, blah. Booyah, booyah, booyah. Like, that's literally what the captions are. I like that DDG. Bamba Claude.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I don't know what it is that you've done to me but it's caused me to act in such a crazy way
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Hit it, Drea. Because my heart starts beating triple.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
It knocks me right off of my feet. Oh, I can't explain why your love, it makes me. Hold on now, queen. You better sing it now. Next.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
What's up, y'all? It's your girl Lex P. And it's your girl Dre Nicole. And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds. Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. We got a guest today. We got a guest today. So... Y'all know, y'all have been asking for this guest to come on for a long time, first of all.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Resistance is down when you're around Christ's feet. In my condition, I don't want to be alone.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I get so weak in the knees. I can hardly speak. I lose all control. And something takes over me in a daze. And it's so amazing. It's not a phase. I want you to stay with me. By my side, I swallow my pride.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
It knocks me right off of my feet. Can't explain why your loving makes me weak. Give it to them, Queen. Don't hold back. Give it to them.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And something takes over me in a day. And it's so amazing. It's not a phase. I want you to stay with me. By my side, I swallow. My pride, your love is so sweet. It knocks me right off of my feet. Because I wasn't going to hit it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You don't know. It's just like... It was just something that happened one day.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You know who they do that to as well? They do that to James Charles on TikTok a lot. Really? They just start like random trends of like... And it's low-key bullying. It is. No, it is, but...
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
At least it don't vibrate. But I think, you know, it's so crazy because in one breath, these same people want to talk about mental health and, you know, looking out for people and being nice because you never know what somebody's going through. And then at the same time, it'll be something so different going on. They'll be like, oh, my gosh, where's Queen Naj at?
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah, they pick and choose who they want to like.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
I can't get on this bitch and say nothing. I just seen this today. Drea tweeted. She says, one thing about a flight, a cheese tray going to have to see me. And somebody was like, Drea tweets like she just got new money. Bruh. Bitch, was I like a cheese tray on a flight?
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
In real time. It's awful. They had to write letters. Yeah. Hate mail. I mean, the worst thing you would get is like Joan Rivers talking about you on E! News.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
You know what I'm saying? Like, that's how you would get, like, people talking about you. But you never really got the hearsay of what Brenda, who lives down the street, thought of you. You know what I'm saying? So, it's really toxic.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
And second of all, I don't even know how to give this introduction because a YouTube star turned into an R&B sensation that we have all jammed her music and been going through it. This ain't our love. We got sweethearts in the building! Hello, hello, hello. Thank y'all for having me. Thank you for coming. No problem. Because one thing about me, like, I do not care who it is.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah, because they feel like... We talked about this before. Somebody will say something negative to you, and then you'll respond. They were like, oh, I didn't even think you was going to see this. What you doing, girl?
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
Yeah, but they don't realize that we're humans. I watched this documentary a long time ago. I can't think of the name of it. I'll put it in the description when I think of it. But it was talking about people who have had viral moments. Mm-hmm. And celebrities and things like that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija
But they were saying, like, when you're a consumer of, like, content, entertainment, you don't look at these people as people. You look at them as a thing. Just like you use your radio to sing along with music. They're using you as entertainment. We are here to make them laugh. We're not people. We are a thing to them. Yes. So they feel like, oh, I can say this. You signed up for this. Yeah.