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How to stop being "TOO NICE" - stop giving them chances (they showed you who they are!)

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What to do when they pull away + the best dating advice EVER ft. Jemma Sbeg

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Why going no contact WORKS.

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How to manifest a specific person back into your life

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If they wanted to, THEY WOULD.

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If they wanted to, they would...? Or maybe they just can't. Maybe they don't have the capacity to lo...

5 BIG ways to level the f*ck up in 2024

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Decenter that toxic man now. YOU are the main character.

Mon, 04 Dec 2023

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DETACH to ATTRACT - how being detached helps you manifest faster

Mon, 27 Nov 2023

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Feeling lonely this holiday season? I've got you.

Mon, 20 Nov 2023

Being alone during the holiday season or any celebration day in general can feel like sh*t, let'...

SEND THEM LOVE anyway - the ultimate healing guide

Mon, 13 Nov 2023

Send them love. They need it the most. When someone hurts you, it can be easy to hate them - but wha...

Stop procrastinating, your future self needs you

Mon, 06 Nov 2023

Why do we procrastinate?  I was the queen of procrastination and I would always assume things would...

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How to handle rejection & move on

Thu, 26 Oct 2023

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The power of being direct and communicative (stop playing games)

Mon, 16 Oct 2023

In this episode, I talk about the power of being direct, forward and just communicating versus runni...

Mastermind - how to get anything or anyone you want

Mon, 09 Oct 2023

Become a mastermind and manifest anything or anyone you want with just a simple mindset. Trust the p...

If you can't match my energy, BYEEE (masculine vs. feminine energy)

Mon, 02 Oct 2023

If I'm dating you, you better bring the same vibes and energy to the f*cking table. If you don&#...

5 signs you need to breakup + my views on sex & casual hookups

Mon, 25 Sep 2023

If you're in a sticky situation where you are attached to someone but you just can't seem to...

You deserve consistency. It should feel good - if it doesn’t, let that sh*t go.

Mon, 18 Sep 2023

Just listen. This is a goodie.

YOUR THOUGHTS CREATE YOUR REALITY

Mon, 11 Sep 2023

SURPRISE to the video episode :) It's the 1 year anniversary of DATE YOURSELF INSTEAD baby!!! Wo...

How to know if they're the 1 - GREEN FLAGS

Mon, 04 Sep 2023

Self love leads to true love. There is some wholesome loving content on today's episode. This is...

Stop diluting your power for a man

Mon, 28 Aug 2023

It's easy to lose focus when you're so fixated on someone else. But baby, you have to rememb...

He's just not that into you

Mon, 21 Aug 2023

Signs that he's just not that into you. He's being hot and cold. Flaky with plans. Distant. ...

Here's what to do when they pull away

Mon, 14 Aug 2023

When someone pulls away, it can be difficult to navigate. Often times we feel like we did something ...

Why we broke up - the breakup that changed me forever

Mon, 07 Aug 2023

Why my ex and I broke up - the full detailed story. I wasn't sure if I would ever speak on this ...

How to raise your standards HIGH AF

Mon, 31 Jul 2023

Cause you deserve the best :-) I love you.

The POWER of solo traveling

Mon, 24 Jul 2023

Ahhhh. SOLO TRAVEL. One of the most highly requested topics I get asked to cover is my experience do...

How to master detachment

Mon, 17 Jul 2023

It's a detached girl summer. Psssst if you loved this episode, DM me on instagram @lyss and sta...

How to be unbothered, go no contact, deal with cheating, & more

Mon, 10 Jul 2023

It's official - I am HERE to answer all of your questions on this very juicy episode of Date Yoursel...

The red flags you see now are the reasons you'll leave later

Mon, 03 Jul 2023

Self explanatory. If you see some major issues early on, my best advice is to get out while you stil...

How to really DATE YOURSELF INSTEAD

Mon, 26 Jun 2023

Dating yourself instead. What does dating yourself really mean? I'm in London right now, and I d...

How to trust the process of your life & manifest faster

Sun, 18 Jun 2023

Trusting the process of your life can be a scary thing to do when it feels like everything is fallin...

Work on yourself so much until they're not your type anymore

Sun, 11 Jun 2023

If you're overly consumed by the idea of a person instead of focusing on yourself, this episode ...

The worst dates I’ve been on in New York City

Mon, 05 Jun 2023

You asked for it, and here we are. The worst dates I've ever been on in New York City. Dating can be...

How to avoid getting attached too quickly

Mon, 29 May 2023

It's easy to get attached to someone we've just met...because they're nice. Because they're attracti...

I was LOVE BOMBED - a dating story time

Mon, 22 May 2023

The first half of this episode talks about self worth, valuing yourself and to avoid jumping into a ...

Stop being desperate & needy in love

Mon, 15 May 2023

I definitely have had my moments in relationships where I felt like I smothered my partner with desp...

Stop giving SO much to someone you’re not even dating

Mon, 08 May 2023

In this episode, I dive into a storytime about a guy I was taking on dates around New York City. I w...

How to feel GOOD being alone

Mon, 08 May 2023

Being alone can be a scary experience at first, especially after a breakup. In this episode, I dive ...

I did magic mushrooms in mexico - here's what I took from it

Mon, 01 May 2023

Psyliocybin. Magic mushrooms. Tulum. This experience changed my life and my perception of everything...

Forgiving yourself when you've f*cked up

Mon, 24 Apr 2023

What happens when you're the problem? Forgiving yourself when you've made a mistake can be c...

Not everyone is going to like you

Mon, 17 Apr 2023

Not everyone is going to like you or accept you - that's just how life is. The most important th...

How to know if you're with the wrong person vs. right person

Mon, 10 Apr 2023

Being with the wrong person can feel heavy on your heart and on your mind. It could feel like you&#3...

Going through a breakup? Here's the ultimate best friend pep talk

Mon, 03 Apr 2023

Sign up ⁠HERE ⁠for my limited edition, exclusive hoodies: ⁠http://www.dateyourselfinstead.c...

Twin flames and karmic relationships

Mon, 27 Mar 2023

Twin flames - are they a good or bad thing? In this episode, I dive into my personal twin flame expe...

How to let go and move on because you deserve BETTER

Mon, 20 Mar 2023

This is the ultimate breakup guide and podcast for anyone trying to move on and let go, because you ...

The power of walking away

Mon, 13 Mar 2023

Why are we so afraid to walk away from a toxic relationship? Sometimes we're afraid to leave relatio...

Love letter method - manifest your soulmate instantly

Fri, 10 Mar 2023

Surprise!!! I decided to release this one early because, well...I love you all dearly. Manifest your...

How self-respect changes everything

Mon, 06 Mar 2023

This episode is all about self-respect, taking a stand for what you believe in, and valuing who you ...

Right person, wrong time

Mon, 27 Feb 2023

The phrase "right person, wrong time” is an expression that describes a situation where two people...

Setting boundaries in love & how toxic relationships can make you sick

Mon, 20 Feb 2023

I am guilty of doing too much for the wrong person and I know I’m not the only one, so I wanted to...

50 ways to date yourself at any age

Mon, 13 Feb 2023

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Let go of them and become MAGNETIC as f*ck

Mon, 06 Feb 2023

We all know how this story goes; You’re in love or like with someone but you’re holding on too t...

You’re not “crazy” - why trusting your gut is SO powerful

Mon, 30 Jan 2023

I pride myself on my sense of intuition, but those gut feelings can be easy to ignore especially if ...

How to manifest your dream life in 2023

Mon, 23 Jan 2023

With the fresh start 2023 is giving us, it’s the perfect time to start attracting abundance and tr...

30 things I learned before my 30th birthday

Mon, 16 Jan 2023

It’s a big thing to be turning 30 and a lot has happened in the past couple of years to make me wh...

Proving people wrong is fun

Mon, 09 Jan 2023

I’ve had a lot of hate over the years in my career and I have learned that I don’t need to prove...

How to detach, let go, and REALLY move on

Mon, 02 Jan 2023

Detaching is an art that can be very emotionally challenging. Becoming aware of what is NOT serving ...

Stop being impressed by the BARE MINIMUM

Mon, 26 Dec 2022

Today we talk about the many reasons why you should raise your dating standards but what does it ACT...

Let’s talk situationships

Mon, 19 Dec 2022

One of the questions I get in my DM’s regularly is: Am I doing the right thing by staying in this ...

Falling in love with a narcissist

Mon, 12 Dec 2022

If you’re dating a person based on a conceptualized version of them vs. the person they are consis...

Why are female friendships so hard?

Mon, 05 Dec 2022

I got a DM that hit hard: How do you make friends to easily in NYC? Just like other relationships, f...

How to manifest your soulmate

Mon, 28 Nov 2022

If you’re ready to receive someone into your life, this story may inspire you manifest it. Once, a...

Feeling lonely on the holidays

Mon, 21 Nov 2022

Feeling cozy and celebrating the holidays with a significant other is such a great feeling but when ...

Do all men come back?

Mon, 14 Nov 2022

I am constantly flooded with this question: Do all men come back? If you’re in a waiting period ri...

how to take your POWER back after a breakup

Mon, 07 Nov 2022

This episode is probably my favorite one yet, because it’s going to teach you how to TAKE YOUR POW...

A Halloween storytime and my best manifestation tips

Mon, 31 Oct 2022

HAPPY HALLOWEEN! For all of you fellow witches out there, I know this day is very special to you bec...

Stop Comparing Yourself To Everyone Else

Mon, 24 Oct 2022

Today's episode is going to talk about COMPARISON and why there is no point in ever comparing yourse...

it’s okay to be depressed

Mon, 17 Oct 2022

It’s okay to allow yourself to feel your feelings. Lyss tells the story of entering therapy and th...

My Red Flags When Dating

Mon, 17 Oct 2022

Have you ever been love bombed or felt underwhelmed by the texting character shown by the person you...

So he ghosted you…now what?

Mon, 10 Oct 2022

Ok so he ghosted you, now what are you supposed to do? In this episode, I take it step by step on wh...

How I Attracted My Ex Back with The Law of Attraction

Mon, 03 Oct 2022

If you’re skeptical about the Law of Attraction, the stories in this episode will convince you oth...

Free Girl Fall, F*ck Boy Fall (And A Dating Story Time)

Mon, 26 Sep 2022

Lyss is kicking off the fall season in a positive and inspirational way. Join her mental freedom jou...

How to Heal from a Heartbreak

Mon, 19 Sep 2022

Today Lyss speaks on a highly requested topic: Heartbreak. She relives one of the most painful break...

Trusting Your Intuition and Inner Voice

Mon, 12 Sep 2022

Today Lyss shares takeaways from past dating experience on valuing herself, trusting her intuition +...

Welcome to Date Yourself Instead

Fri, 09 Sep 2022

You’ve made it to Date Yourself Instead, a podcast intended to inspire you to become the best vers...