Activity Overview
Episode publication activity over the past year
DETACH to ATTRACT - how being detached helps you manifest faster
27 Nov 2023
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DETACHMENT SPEEDS UP MANIFESTATION. When you truly let go, miracles happen. I WANT YOU TO UPLEVEL. U...
Feeling lonely this holiday season? I've got you.
20 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Being alone during the holiday season or any celebration day in general can feel like sh*t, let'...
SEND THEM LOVE anyway - the ultimate healing guide
13 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Send them love. They need it the most. When someone hurts you, it can be easy to hate them - but wha...
Stop procrastinating, your future self needs you
06 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Why do we procrastinate? I was the queen of procrastination and I would always assume things would...
It's time to upgrade, uplevel, and become f*cking unstoppable this fall season
30 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Do you know how special and important you are??? Do you know how much you bring to the table? NO ONE...
How to handle rejection & move on
26 Oct 2023
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Rejection is redirection - everyone has dealt with rejection at a point. Sometimes the universe is h...
Dare to Detach
16 Oct 2023
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JOIN DARE TO DETACH Tap HERE to join our amazing community! Are you tired of constantly holding onto...
The power of being direct and communicative (stop playing games)
16 Oct 2023
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In this episode, I talk about the power of being direct, forward and just communicating versus runni...
Mastermind - how to get anything or anyone you want
09 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Become a mastermind and manifest anything or anyone you want with just a simple mindset. Trust the p...
If you can't match my energy, BYEEE (masculine vs. feminine energy)
02 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
If I'm dating you, you better bring the same vibes and energy to the f*cking table. If you don&#...
5 signs you need to breakup + my views on sex & casual hookups
25 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
If you're in a sticky situation where you are attached to someone but you just can't seem to...
You deserve consistency. It should feel good - if it doesn’t, let that sh*t go.
18 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Just listen. This is a goodie.
YOUR THOUGHTS CREATE YOUR REALITY
11 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
SURPRISE to the video episode :) It's the 1 year anniversary of DATE YOURSELF INSTEAD baby!!! Wo...
How to know if they're the 1 - GREEN FLAGS
04 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Self love leads to true love. There is some wholesome loving content on today's episode. This is...
Stop diluting your power for a man
28 Aug 2023
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It's easy to lose focus when you're so fixated on someone else. But baby, you have to rememb...
He's just not that into you
21 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Signs that he's just not that into you. He's being hot and cold. Flaky with plans. Distant. ...
Here's what to do when they pull away
14 Aug 2023
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When someone pulls away, it can be difficult to navigate. Often times we feel like we did something ...
Why we broke up - the breakup that changed me forever
07 Aug 2023
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Why my ex and I broke up - the full detailed story. I wasn't sure if I would ever speak on this ...
How to raise your standards HIGH AF
31 Jul 2023
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Cause you deserve the best :-) I love you.
The POWER of solo traveling
24 Jul 2023
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Ahhhh. SOLO TRAVEL. One of the most highly requested topics I get asked to cover is my experience do...
How to master detachment
17 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
It's a detached girl summer. Psssst if you loved this episode, DM me on instagram @lyss and sta...
How to be unbothered, go no contact, deal with cheating, & more
10 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
It's official - I am HERE to answer all of your questions on this very juicy episode of Date Yoursel...
The red flags you see now are the reasons you'll leave later
03 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Self explanatory. If you see some major issues early on, my best advice is to get out while you stil...
How to really DATE YOURSELF INSTEAD
26 Jun 2023
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Dating yourself instead. What does dating yourself really mean? I'm in London right now, and I d...
How to trust the process of your life & manifest faster
18 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Trusting the process of your life can be a scary thing to do when it feels like everything is fallin...
Work on yourself so much until they're not your type anymore
11 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
If you're overly consumed by the idea of a person instead of focusing on yourself, this episode ...
The worst dates I’ve been on in New York City
05 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
You asked for it, and here we are. The worst dates I've ever been on in New York City. Dating can be...
How to avoid getting attached too quickly
29 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
It's easy to get attached to someone we've just met...because they're nice. Because they're attracti...
I was LOVE BOMBED - a dating story time
22 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
The first half of this episode talks about self worth, valuing yourself and to avoid jumping into a ...
Stop being desperate & needy in love
15 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
I definitely have had my moments in relationships where I felt like I smothered my partner with desp...
Stop giving SO much to someone you’re not even dating
08 May 2023
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In this episode, I dive into a storytime about a guy I was taking on dates around New York City. I w...
How to feel GOOD being alone
08 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Being alone can be a scary experience at first, especially after a breakup. In this episode, I dive ...
I did magic mushrooms in mexico - here's what I took from it
01 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Psyliocybin. Magic mushrooms. Tulum. This experience changed my life and my perception of everything...
Forgiving yourself when you've f*cked up
24 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
What happens when you're the problem? Forgiving yourself when you've made a mistake can be c...
Not everyone is going to like you
17 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Not everyone is going to like you or accept you - that's just how life is. The most important th...
How to know if you're with the wrong person vs. right person
10 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Being with the wrong person can feel heavy on your heart and on your mind. It could feel like you...
Going through a breakup? Here's the ultimate best friend pep talk
03 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Sign up HERE for my limited edition, exclusive hoodies: http://www.dateyourselfinstead.c...
Twin flames and karmic relationships
27 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Twin flames - are they a good or bad thing? In this episode, I dive into my personal twin flame expe...
How to let go and move on because you deserve BETTER
20 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
This is the ultimate breakup guide and podcast for anyone trying to move on and let go, because you ...
The power of walking away
13 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Why are we so afraid to walk away from a toxic relationship? Sometimes we're afraid to leave relatio...
Love letter method - manifest your soulmate instantly
10 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Surprise!!! I decided to release this one early because, well...I love you all dearly. Manifest your...
How self-respect changes everything
06 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
This episode is all about self-respect, taking a stand for what you believe in, and valuing who you ...
Right person, wrong time
27 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
The phrase "right person, wrong time” is an expression that describes a situation where two people...
Setting boundaries in love & how toxic relationships can make you sick
20 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
I am guilty of doing too much for the wrong person and I know I’m not the only one, so I wanted to...
50 ways to date yourself at any age
13 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Dating yourself - what does it REALLY mean? In today’s episode, I dive into why I think Valentine’...
Let go of them and become MAGNETIC as f*ck
06 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
We all know how this story goes; You’re in love or like with someone but you’re holding on too t...
You’re not “crazy” - why trusting your gut is SO powerful
30 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
I pride myself on my sense of intuition, but those gut feelings can be easy to ignore especially if ...
How to manifest your dream life in 2023
23 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
With the fresh start 2023 is giving us, it’s the perfect time to start attracting abundance and tr...
30 things I learned before my 30th birthday
16 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
It’s a big thing to be turning 30 and a lot has happened in the past couple of years to make me wh...
Proving people wrong is fun
09 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
I’ve had a lot of hate over the years in my career and I have learned that I don’t need to prove...
How to detach, let go, and REALLY move on
02 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Detaching is an art that can be very emotionally challenging. Becoming aware of what is NOT serving ...
Stop being impressed by the BARE MINIMUM
26 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Today we talk about the many reasons why you should raise your dating standards but what does it ACT...
Let’s talk situationships
19 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
One of the questions I get in my DM’s regularly is: Am I doing the right thing by staying in this ...
Falling in love with a narcissist
12 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
If you’re dating a person based on a conceptualized version of them vs. the person they are consis...
Why are female friendships so hard?
05 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
I got a DM that hit hard: How do you make friends to easily in NYC? Just like other relationships, f...
How to manifest your soulmate
28 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
If you’re ready to receive someone into your life, this story may inspire you manifest it. Once, a...
Feeling lonely on the holidays
21 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Feeling cozy and celebrating the holidays with a significant other is such a great feeling but when ...
Do all men come back?
14 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
I am constantly flooded with this question: Do all men come back? If you’re in a waiting period ri...
how to take your POWER back after a breakup
07 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
This episode is probably my favorite one yet, because it’s going to teach you how to TAKE YOUR POW...
A Halloween storytime and my best manifestation tips
31 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
HAPPY HALLOWEEN! For all of you fellow witches out there, I know this day is very special to you bec...
Stop Comparing Yourself To Everyone Else
24 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Today's episode is going to talk about COMPARISON and why there is no point in ever comparing yourse...
it’s okay to be depressed
17 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
It’s okay to allow yourself to feel your feelings. Lyss tells the story of entering therapy and th...
My Red Flags When Dating
17 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Have you ever been love bombed or felt underwhelmed by the texting character shown by the person you...
So he ghosted you…now what?
10 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Ok so he ghosted you, now what are you supposed to do? In this episode, I take it step by step on wh...
How I Attracted My Ex Back with The Law of Attraction
03 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
If you’re skeptical about the Law of Attraction, the stories in this episode will convince you oth...
Free Girl Fall, F*ck Boy Fall (And A Dating Story Time)
26 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Lyss is kicking off the fall season in a positive and inspirational way. Join her mental freedom jou...
How to Heal from a Heartbreak
19 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Today Lyss speaks on a highly requested topic: Heartbreak. She relives one of the most painful break...
Trusting Your Intuition and Inner Voice
12 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
Today Lyss shares takeaways from past dating experience on valuing herself, trusting her intuition +...
Welcome to Date Yourself Instead
09 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas • Default Dataset
You’ve made it to Date Yourself Instead, a podcast intended to inspire you to become the best vers...