Kate

Hi, how are you?

I'm great.

Thank you for having me.

Well, I'll start with my question and I'll work backwards because there's a lot of context and a lot of information.

First and foremost, the question is, should my boyfriend and I elope in advance of a wedding or sooner so that we can have sex sooner?

Tell me more.

Okay.

So, um, how old are you?

I'm 26.

We've been best friends since we were 17.

Um, we kind of pseudo dated back, um, at that time and we were both, we were both big hot messes and just through toxicity and trauma, it exploded.

Um,

And we've kind of been on and off best friends since then, but have always been really close.

He's the only person that's ever known me... Well, he's known me better than anybody else.

So a couple of years ago, there was a bit of a falling out and we kind of went our separate ways and dated other people.

I dated somebody that I probably shouldn't have, but got pregnant and was in that relationship for about two years.

So...

I got out of that relationship last year.

It's been about a year.

But as you probably know, once a mom decides to leave, it's been over for much longer emotionally.