Candace Cameron Bure
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
Yeah, very, very much. I know that with that being said, there are people that have said, but I have told a friend that I thought I could trust. And then they burned me. They went around and talked and told someone else. And so that trust issue is so, so important in who you talk to and who you tell. And I mean-
The Candace Cameron Bure Podcast
Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
Have you either of you dealt with that when someone has betrayed your trust when you've been vulnerable?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
How do you show up for a friend that is experiencing shame or regret in their life?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
I'll read a little bit in Romans, because in Romans 10, because we keep saying that God forgives you, but... Some of you might want to know how and why God forgives you. So in Romans 10, this is verse nine says, if you confess with your mouth, Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
One believes with the heart resulting in righteousness and one confesses with the mouth resulting in salvation. For the scripture says, everyone who believes on him will not be put to shame. And I'm going to go, I'm going to do a little bit, read a little bit more. I'm going to read a lengthy passage. Bear with me, but it's so good.
The Candace Cameron Bure Podcast
Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
Life is like a roller coaster, but it's better when we go through it together. Welcome to the Candice Cameron Bure podcast. We're here to share conversations about life's challenges, our celebrations and everything in between. Season nine is Girls Under Pressure with Ali Schnacki and Natasha Bure. Come join us. Hi, ladies. Hey. Long time no see. How you doing? Great. Doing good. Good.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
It's so good. I'm going to read in Romans 8. It says, so this is we're talking about shame and our sin. It says, therefore, there is now no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus because the law of the spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and death. I don't know if I should stop and teach here or just read it through.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
But that law of sin and death, that would be the standard by which God would judge us. So we could say the standard of the Ten Commandments. Have we upheld that law? No, we haven't. But because the law of the Spirit, that is the Holy Spirit, when we give our life to Christ, when the Holy Spirit comes upon us, we have the Spirit in us.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
So the spirit of life in Jesus Christ has set you free from the law of sin and death. That would be like Old Testament law. What the law could not do since it was weakened by the flesh, God did. He condemned sin in the flesh by sending his own son in the likeness of sinful flesh as a sin offering.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
Again, Jesus was the perfect lamb, the perfect sacrifice in order that the law's requirement would be fulfilled in us who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the spirit. So God fulfilled that law requirement and we are forgiven by our fleshly sins because of the spirit of God who is now upon us because he died, took our sin away,
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
Through his death and blood and then resurrection and sits with God. For those who live according to the flesh have made their minds set on things of the flesh. But those who live according to the spirit have their minds set on things of the spirit. Now, the mind of the flesh, and again, that is the body, is death. But the mindset of the spirit is life and peace.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
Again, that spirit is with us in Christ. So the mindset of flesh is hostile towards God because it does not submit to God's law. And that's just the things that we do in our own flesh, in our own earthly desires that we as human nature don't want to submit to. But indeed, but those who are in the flesh cannot please God. However, you, however, are not in the flesh, but you are in the spirit.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
And indeed, the spirit of God lives in you. If anyone does not have the spirit, Christ does not belong to him. But if Christ is in you, the body is dead because of sin, but the spirit gives life because of righteousness. And if the spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead lives in you,
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
then he who raised Christ from the dead will also bring your mortal bodies to life through his spirit who lives in you. God is a life giver. He forgives us and there is no condemnation in him. So...
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
Yeah. Yeah. It is a liar. And it's something too, that I can replay over in my head or when I stumble and fall, I think like, why, why am I going back to this? Why am I doing this again? I don't even want to do this. Paul talks about that. Um, and Paul just says like, why do I do the things I don't want to do? I don't want to do this. And yet I keep doing it. And I so relate to him. I,
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
I'm just like, yeah, God, I don't want to do any of these things. So why do I keep doing them and then replaying them in my mind? And yet what we have to do is renew our mind in the spirit. It's the renewal of what God says. So if God says there is no condemnation in me and that you are forgiven, then I need to take him for his word. I know that, okay, I'm forgiven.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
And if I start to repeat that shame and that regret and the mind and the memories keep coming to mind, I have to say, nope. Like literally, Satan, you're not grabbing hold of this. I am forgiven. You're not repeating this in my mind. I am forgiven by God. And that's it. Like I condemn this spirit, like walk away, get away from me. Yeah. And that's what the renewal of your mind in scripture is.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
And I constantly have to tell myself those things. But that's how I deal with that shame and regret and that replaying over and over because I suffer from that all the time. You ever walk like you, whatever, you're at dinner with someone, you have a great time, but then you go home and you replay a conversation in your head over and over and over. And you're like, did I say something wrong?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
I'm so happy that you're here. This has been a really, a really great season. I know that a lot of moms are going to appreciate this as well as a lot of ladies your age. Just being open and vulnerable and sharing. So thanks. Happy to be here. This week's episode, we are talking about our biggest mistakes, feeling shame in the past, regret, and how do we overcome it? Can we overcome it?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
Should I have said that? Should I maybe have said this? And I'm like, oh, like. No, that just stops right now because that to me is just the devil trying to play tricks on my mind and make me stumble into thinking that I've done something wrong when I haven't. So anyway, renewal of the mind. I know. Yeah. So we battle that spiritual realm every day. Should we take a listener question? Yeah. Okay.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
This is from Bethany. She asks, does God really forgive all sins? I'm carrying guilt around from something I did several years ago. And just when I think I'm past it, something triggers it and I'm stuck feeling guilty again. I love Jesus and I'm trying all the time to be more like him. I just beat myself up all the time for the mistake that I made.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
He really does. And he'll also convict your heart. So if you're, you go and, you know, there's a difference. I want to, Bethany, I'll remind you, there's also a difference of falling into sin and diving into sin. When we dive into sin, it's intentional. We know it's wrong, but we're choosing to do it anyway. But sometimes we stumble. We go and and when we stumble, we kind of trip up.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
But God, when we are in the spirit and we're talking to God. And we're because I talk to God all day long and God will convict of the heart. So when you stumble into sin, God will put something in your heart to go, hey, you sure you want to do that? And that's your opportunity to say, oh. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
Will God ever forgive me? This Psalm 103, 12 says, as far as the East is from the West, so far does he remove our transgressions from us. So we know the word of God says that he does forgive us, but let's talk about when we've done something that we regret, we feel shame. How do we, how do we work through that?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
to hide from god because they were ashamed the enemy is after our connection with god and that's what we have to realize you know yeah it's a it's such an important perspective to refocus i forget all the time in my daily life when i am um Having a hard time going through whatever. It's a frustrating day. And I forget about the spiritual battle that's going on around me.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
I forget about the spiritual realm. And... It is so eye opening when I remember like this is not just about my flesh and blood, the here and the now, what I can see and feel and who I'm talking to in this moment. But there there are other greater things at work that I cannot see in the spiritual realm. And the the enemy is always fighting for our soul.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
And there he's poking at us from all different ways. And a lot of times that's mentally. They're just, you know, he's whispering lies into our minds to make us keep remembering things that God's already forgiven us for.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
Yeah. Natasha, what about you? Do you, when you think of past times of shame, do you still feel shameful about them? Do you feel angry about them? Have you overcome any of them?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
Yeah. How do you... What do you think helped you? I mean, can you walk us through those steps? Because it's going from, I felt so much shame, but now I felt set free. But what's the interim part? How did you feel set free?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Moving Past Shame
Was share after you would share those things with your friends or your counselors, was it their reaction or acceptance that helped you feel like you could keep sharing or was setting you free?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Breaking Up is Hard To Do
Yeah. I never knew that. I met him at 18 and then we were married at 20. Are you serious? Yeah. I never knew that. That's so cool. Thanks. Yeah. So I'm thinking about the transitions in my life, unlike the ones that you guys shared, some breakups and school transitions. I think one of the...
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Breaking Up is Hard To Do
The most significant transitions for me that felt like a breakup was when Full House ended, truly, because they were a second family to me and still are very much today. And that's the thing. Now looking back, oh, 30 years, you know, since we've done that show, I'm still friendly and friends with everyone. So... So that part's great.
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But that was a strange breakup to have eight years of your most formidable years of your life then just come to an end. A complete like, bye, see ya. We're not coming back and pretending to be a family anymore.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Breaking Up is Hard To Do
Yeah, it was sad. And yet, and there isn't a real family bond in the sense of you're not really related. So you're not obligated or there isn't necessarily an event that's going to put you all together again. But to spend every day for eight years with a whole group of people was really hard to break up with them. And it made me sad. But that is when I met Do you know his name?
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I know, but then I was like, do I say Papa, but then not Papa for her, but Val? But that feels weird saying Val for you.
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How did you deal with that transition? Like now you don't have anywhere to go. It was a hard transition because it is. It's like a lot of so much love that you have that just suddenly comes to an end. But that transition was eased in the sense that I had met Val and we had started dating. And I knew at that moment, this was just a new season of life.
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Just like when you get out of, you graduate from high school, you get to decide what you want to do. You can go on and have a career. You can get a job. You can go to school. Right. You can go take a couple years off and go tour Europe. You know, whatever you choose to do, but it's a new season.
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I never leave. She could not get rid of me quicker. Well, you were a little Miss Independent. Yes, I was. You needed to fly. Do you still live at home, Allie?
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And that's where that break was from the show in my life, which made that transition a little bit easier. But nevertheless, it was still like a sad one for me. Mm-hmm. Grand Canyon University, a private Christian university in beautiful Phoenix, Arizona, believes that we're endowed by our creator with certain unalienable rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.
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Yeah. That's how I have felt with different seasons of work in my life, but also very much motherhood. You know, that transition from not working because I worked as a kid. And then transitioning into being full-time mom was a really difficult one in the beginning.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Breaking Up is Hard To Do
But I look back and I'm like, I have the most amazing blessings from that transition that was difficult for a couple of years because I was just trying to find out, find myself and figure out who I was in motherhood. Mm-hmm. And then I'm like, God, this is the most amazing season that you've provided these children for me.
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And not only that, but then you gave me a different amount of time with my day that I'm juggling it differently that now I'm actually, I have more time to spend with you, Lord. And he grew me in that season as his daughter, as a woman that so desired to get to know God better. And that was through that season of motherhood. And of course, that hasn't ended. God just keeps growing that desire.
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Yeah. And there's been other... And then you move into the next transition. I think about our lives like you guys are in your 20s. And I feel like every decade is something that we either look forward to or dread, just depending on how you see it. And I can honestly say that You legit could not even pay me to go back into my teenage years. I'm like, the 20s? I love them because I was raising kids.
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But I didn't feel nearly... as good about myself or as confident or even know who, like I didn't know myself in my twenties. And when I went to that next decade, like thirties, I was like, oh yeah, this is where it's at. Like, and then now my forties, I'm like, this is even better than my thirties. And now approaching 50, I'm certain it's just going to keep getting better.
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But that's in terms of, because I know who I am in God. That's the confidence. It's not because of things that I have or the circumstances or what I'm doing and not doing. It's just like God loves me. God gives me a life that I get to pursue him and share about him with other people. And that is exciting to me.
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You guys talked about this, that you were going to take steps. You were dating towards a goal of marriage.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Breaking Up is Hard To Do
This is funny, though, because when you moved to Texas, everyone's like, what? What are you going to say? I get nervous with you on the show, Natasha, because I'm like, am I going to say the wrong thing? I don't think I'm going to say anything. What are you going to say? I'm like, I don't think I'm going to say anything. That's so funny.
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The story that you just told that you didn't see the season right in front of you with Community. And I was legit telling people. People are like, why did Natasha move to Texas? And I'm like, oh, for Community. Right. Because she has girlfriends there, it's for community.
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But I didn't know that your intention was like, maybe not intention, but your thought or your prayer was like, oh, you're waiting for the next guy season. No, but that wasn't why I moved.
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I'm so confused right now. Guys, this is perfect mother-daughter talk.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Breaking Up is Hard To Do
That it's such a good reminder. Thanks for sharing that story. Let's take a listener question. We have two today. The first is from Mary Phyllis. She says, do you have any pearls of wisdom on parenting adult children? I'm an empty nester. Well, Mary Phyllis, if you haven't watched the season on parenting, I really encourage you to watch that because we talk all about that. I...
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I would say for me, and I want to hear from you girls, because I want to know what you would like your parents to know. So you can speak on behalf of all people that are leaving the nest. But parenting adult children, what I'm learning in this season is to be a listener to my kids, to give advice when asked.
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or ask them if i may give advice to them if they want to hear it because as adults and i'm talking i mean my kids are now um kind of well mid-20s max is still 22 um so there's even a difference in those parenting ages at 22 and 26 but i'm My kids always know that I'm available for them and I'm here for them.
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And I always want to offer advice, but I learned to restrain myself and ask them like, do you just want me to listen to this or would you like my advice on this? Because I know sometimes adult kids may come in and like, share with you, but they really just want you to listen. They just know they just need a safe place to listen for someone to listen and not really give advice.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Breaking Up is Hard To Do
And other times they really want advice. And so that's what I'm learning is to shut my mouth more in adult parenting. What about you guys? What would you want Mary Phyllis or anyone out there who's transitioning into an empty nester? And it could be anything. It doesn't have to be about what I said.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Breaking Up is Hard To Do
I think there's probably a lot of people listening going, man, I wish I had kids that wanted to stay home forever. Or maybe they're saying like, well, I wish I felt that way about my family.
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Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Breaking Up is Hard To Do
I can't wait to get out of here. That's a beautiful thing that you love your family so much. And it's actually the transition because of possibly leaving to get married. Right.
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Thank you.
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So I just have to ask that you're, I'm assuming your family loves Austin. Oh my gosh.
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I somehow have a feeling that you guys, once you get married, aren't going to go too far away from your family.
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So you're embarking in a new season. Yeah. Soon. We don't know when yet. I know if life can just slow down a little bit, right? I feel like it never does, but I'm really excited. Good. We're happy for you. Thanks. Natasha, what about you? What are some transition times in your life that have been challenging or breakups?
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Literally, because I moved Natasha with the U-Haul from the house to her apartment.
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She's moved me before. But Natasha did everything herself for her move to Dallas. Literally packed up the pod herself.
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ordered furniture they didn't come visit me or see my place until i was like six seven months into living there um so very guys that's crazy i know i want you to finish your story but i'm just gonna add because of the dallas thing a lot of people ask me well how is that transition for you are you so sad that natasha moved yeah that's what i'm wondering She wanted me to go. I really did.
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You know why? Not because I don't love you and wouldn't miss you, but I know Natasha. Right. And one thing about her that she's a very determined person. And so I wanted to see her spread her wings and fly because she's never lived anywhere other than with us or near us. But
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Knowing the reasons that she moved out there that I knew the group of friends she was going to be with and wanted to plant some community roots there made me really happy because I don't think that she had those same type of roots that were really grounded in Christian friends that were pursuing godly relationships. And that's not to say she doesn't have friends in L.A.
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that have those relationships, but You know, living in California is just very different than living in a place culturally that is accepting of the Christian faith. And there are more like minded people. So that's not to say that you can't have community that aren't believers. Oh, yeah. Not. Listen, I just want to clarify.
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We both know that half of our our friend groups aren't believers. We have friends of, you know. Everything, but. But for you as a young woman, I was very happy to know that you were pursuing community that most of them were like-minded people. And I just was excited for you to grow in that way.
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I'm only laughing because I'm like, yeah, you just needed you needed to go for you.
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So potentially scary transition for you. Yeah, I love it. Very exciting one for Natasha. What about relationship breakups? Allie, I think you've been dating the same person person since you were 14, right?
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Season nine is Girls Under Pressure, and my guest hosts are Ali Schnacki and Natasha Bure. Come join us. Hi, ladies. Hi. Hey. Today, we're talking about breaking up is hard to do. Breaking up. Breaking up could be in relationships. It could be breaking up with friendships, in school, even your parents. No, don't ever leave, guys. Don't leave. You want me to leave all the time. This is true.
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And I had like my parents had the phone number, my best friend and a couple of people. And then their phone number would pop up or we or they would you would type in 411 and it just meant like, call me. I got some like info for you. That's so fun. Stuff like that. So that was like the I think when I was 18, I had a pager, which is crazy. But the point being, you had to make time for that person.
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So what does that time look like for you guys dating people? in or in relationship, even if it's a new relationship.
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See, we're saying this for all the moms raising sons out there to encourage their sons. Yeah, totally. I think that
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Totally agree. I have a story I'm thinking of, but I'm not going to share it. Okay. How has dating affected your friendships?
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And they don't necessarily want to hear everything that's going on in our minds. That's what besties are for.
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Yes, we are. We kind of figured it out. I feel like a really good friend will understand that. She did. You go through thick and thin. And when you are... dating and love is new or like is new. I mean, you naturally want to spend a lot of time with that person getting them to getting to know them. And so I feel like a true friend would
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It's so important. There's so many girls that need to hear that right now because you're right. Your boyfriend shouldn't be your everything. There's not one person who completes you. That's just Jesus. That's only Jesus. And so to only find fulfillment in one person isn't healthy and it isn't biblical. But I love what you said.
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I too, I mean, my husband is my best friend and knows the most about me, but there's things that, you know, I do, I need girl time. And it's important to make room for those friendships because they do bring out other parts in you and fulfill you in other ways. Yeah.
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Cause as a mom, I want to hear don't come over to my house and stuff like, like expand on that, like physical boundaries of the time of day to come over, maybe who's in a room, like what, expand on that.
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I admire it so very much. And like Lev, my middle son had convictions very much in the same way with his wife before they were married. Even to the point where I was kind of like, you guys are engaged. You can kiss her. And he was like, no, mom. He's like, we decided not to kiss until our wedding day. And if we break that covenant before...
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Season nine is Girls Under Pressure with Ali Schnacki and Natasha Bure. Come join us. Ladies, we are back. We're back. And I feel really privileged for today's conversation that I get to be sitting in the room with the two of you because talking about dating. Oh, yeah.
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So that's huge. You both talked about accountability. So thank you for sharing that, both of you. And next week, we are going to talk about shame and how we get through that in all different ways. So stay tuned for that conversation. Another question I have is how important do you think it is that your family is involved in your dating process?
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Like, do you care about the opinion of your parents, brothers, sisters? What if you are dating someone that They don't like.
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Natasha's very private. I'm just private in general about my dating, but... Yeah, but you've introduced us to two people. Yes. But I know that she's dated a lot more. No, I...
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Sure.
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And some people you've gone on multiple dates with because you've told me. And I'm like, well, when do we get to meet them? And you're like, you're not meeting.
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So then we know like, OK, right. And this is not husband material because you just would never bring someone over that you knew didn't. Totally.
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Talking about dating and, you know, I feel like as a mom, there's lots of things that you've shared with me, Natasha, but I feel like there's a lot that you probably haven't. So that's why I feel privileged to kind of get inside your heads as to what dating is like today, because it's so different from when I was young and dating. And I honestly didn't really date very much because I met...
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Thank you. Thank you.
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Papa, I met Val at 18 and I was married at 20. So there wasn't a whole lot of dating going on even before that. So I'm just so curious to have this conversation and talk about it. So let's get into it. Let's get into it. I won't try to do it because apparently I can't. What is dating like today?
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Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
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I've just seen a difference in how you are within that relationship. And it's really beautiful.
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Okay, guys, quick listener question as we wrap this episode up. This is from Simone and she asks, what habits make your relationship strong with God?
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Okay, so let me start here with the conversation. Because I think if you're of faith and that's going to establish partly what dating is looking like in terms of Are you dating to get to know people? Are you dating to just have a boyfriend and feel what it feels like to be with a boyfriend? Or are you dating with the intention of looking for your partner, your spouse for life?
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Great answers. I would say for me, the habits that make my relationship most strong is I make sure I pray first thing in the morning. I just want to set my day before God because I will always have my agenda and my plans set. But I want God's hand over it. And if he should change them throughout my day, I want the Holy Spirit with me to just guide me through what God wants my day to look like.
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That helps me set the tone and helps me set my mission, especially when... I have a lot of things going on and things are very important. It reminds me that, God, I have my plans, but this is your day. And it takes a lot of that pressure away. And the other thing that makes my relationship super strong is reading the Bible. Read the Bible, read the Bible, read the Bible.
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So I talk all about the Bible Recap. I love it. It's the program that I use to read through the Bible daily. And without knowing God's word... I wouldn't know who God is and that would weaken my relationship. So read the Bible. Thanks so much, Simone. Guys, this was so much fun. Thanks for sharing. We'll be back next week. Guys, are you on our email list yet?
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And this can change at different ages. So kind of walk me through where you guys were at what age.
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Well, that's I mean, that that's the I think that's the best way to do it. And glad you had that experience. Natasha, what about you? I did not have that experience at all. Okay, do tell.
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Wait, what do you mean? We had a role, too.
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I didn't tell you. Like, you weren't allowing me to. But you weren't allowed to go out on a date. We didn't say you couldn't like guys, but what was the dating age in our home? I think it was 16, maybe. Yeah.
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But at that age, at like 18, are you, and it's a little different with you, Allie, because you've known Austin. I mean, even though you've been dating, but it's like eyes were set and kind of focused. But for Natasha, who didn't meet that person super young, what was the focus of dating? Was it really just to get to know people or did you even have marriage in mind?
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Like, ooh, this could be my husband. At 18?
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Okay, so how, again, Allie, I know your boyfriend is your brother's best friend. So that's how you guys met. But tell me, I mean, you can speak to this, Natasha, but Allie, tell me even within your friend groups, how are you guys meeting most of the guys that you potentially date? Are you meeting through other friend groups? Are you meeting through dating apps? Have you tried dating apps?
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What does that scene look like with your age?
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Does social media, though, in and of itself feel overwhelming because they can live anywhere where I feel like a dating app. I mean, they can live anywhere, too, but you might have put your preferences in that you'd like someone in the same state as you. But does that feel overwhelming to think like, oh, maybe I like this person from social media, but they live anywhere? five states away.
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So when you've met people that you're like, OK, I'm interested in you, we're kind of flirting, we're talking. How does the communication between the two of you look today? Are you mostly texting? Are you mostly FaceTiming? Are you meeting in person?
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Yeah, but but anyway. just what is your communication? Cause back in my day, as I talked about, like we had the phone and you had to actually be home or there was an answering machine, which you could like play the message. Hi, do this in your grandma voice. I know back in my day, back in my day. No. So it's like, hi, it's Val, you know, call me when you get back from work. And that's it.
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And then I pick up the phone column, but he would have to be home. Like and pick up the phone. So you had to have that connection or we're meeting up in person and we're talking. Like there was no FaceTime. There was no texting. So dating, you really had to be available and present and make time for that person. They couldn't just catch you on the fly.
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It's not like a text pops up while you're at the mall and you're like, oh my gosh. I mean, we did have pagers back in the day. So do you guys even know what a pager is? The little thing that you had like on your pants? Yeah. So funny. It's like the size of a little AirPod box and you would just clip it on your belt.
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on how we feel about all of these topics from today's point of view, like from our culture today, because it's very different from when I grew up. And today we're going to talk about being a Christian and being a Christian publicly. And, you know, Natasha, when we were talking about different topics that we wanted to share on the podcast, you actually brought this one up.
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That is just gold right there.
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Yeah. And that's how I feel. I was going to share the same thing To me, you can write as many bad comments about me as a Christian as you want to. And I'm not talking about bad comments in terms of someone like shares a comment and they're trying to convict you of something that they see as sinful in your life. I'm not I'm not talking about that. But if someone's just blatantly like.
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making fun of my faith or they don't believe in it. They maybe are an atheist or have a different faith, but they're just trying to knock me down. And why don't you just be quiet and keep your faith to yourself and I'm like, those arrows could come at me all day long and I don't care. It's like, boop, boop, boop.
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Like they just fly right past me because for the very reasons that you guys said, my faith is what drives me. God saved me. Jesus saved me. How could I leave him at the doorstep and not publicly proclaim him? If I'm reading the Bible, I am not... I do not want to be ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ. So that to me is actually the easiest thing to defend because I'm so confident in it.
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And I pray that everyone listening will feel that confident in their faith. And the only way I got that confident in my faith was to read the Bible. to read God's word, to renew my mind, to know what his word says, not what other people are saying, not what I think. Of course, I'm going to use my brain and I'm going to but look at all of the words, but understand them.
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When I invite the Holy Spirit in, God reveals to you what all of those words are without our own perception of them. I hope that makes sense.
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You were like, I I there's a need to talk about what a Christian looks like, particularly from social media. Because I think there's so many people out there that think, oh, Christians are so perfect and it actually is overwhelming. And I don't even know how to start or where to find faith or do all the things that they're doing.
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So how do you think, because you're both in, all three of us are on social media, YouTube, Instagram, all the things. You know, even as someone who's in a believer and in Christ, what you just said is so powerful. But for the person listening that again, they're like, gosh, they just, they know what they're talking about. They know what, they know scripture.
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I don't even know where to start and I don't have that girlfriend group to even start with. How can we be encouragement to those people and how can we be that encouragement specifically on social media?
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Yes, ma'am. I will repeat the question. I got lost halfway through. It's okay. Talking about if being a Christian looks too perfect and it can feel overwhelming to people, I'm asking the question, how do we better share Christ with people on social media?
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I, I would also just in listening to this conversation would encourage each of us. Me too. Because I think when we have been walking in faith for several years, that is when the Christianese happens. And because we do, we have a language. I know a believer when I see them. Oh, me too. You can talk to someone. Sometimes you just see it on their face. It's literally the glow of Jesus on their face.
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But sometimes you say two sentences and you're like, you're a believer, aren't you? You just know from the words that they use. And so sometimes we forget that. And we use that language that's so familiar to us that are walking with the Lord. So it's a good reminder. And I know the church does this.
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I mean, we can fight about this in a whole other podcast because it's churches that are like the fluffy church versus like the real Bible teaching church. But you have new believers and then you have believers that have been walking with God a long time. And I know that's what the church faces all the time is the balance of welcoming and having something easy enough on the basic level.
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And so I'm just going to leave it behind and I'll go find down some other path. So that's what we're talking about today. And I'm going to start off with a question because when you raised that, I thought, you know, someone wrote this to me recently. I answered it on my Instagram every once in a while when I'm on a flight. I'll do a little Q&A.
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You know, it's the milk to drink, but then you also want the meat to eat for the people that are walking. So my reminder is to say, you know, maybe once in a while we get on social media and go, hey, welcome all you new people, new people in faith. And I just want to remind you, I'm a Christian, doesn't mean I'm perfect, doesn't mean I'm good, but I'm saved by grace or whatever the word you want.
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Guys, that was so good. Let's take a listener question. Today's is from Phoebe. She says, hi, I'm Phoebe. I'm 12. Guys, this excites me so much. Hi, Phoebe. I love when young people listen to this podcast. Me and my mom. Are you from Australia? Oh, watch you from Australia. I'm so smart. Okay. Thank you. Thank you, Phoebe. My question is, sometimes I lose faith in God.
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At hard times, what should I do? Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
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It makes the hours go by faster. So I like some of the fun questions. And then I pick a couple of deep ones because they take time and thought to answer. But someone wrote me and they said, why do you think you're a good person just because you're Christian? No such thing. I know. I know. And I answered this. I can read you my answer. I said, when did I say I'm a good person? Quite the opposite.
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I will never be good or perfect, but I'm saved, washed clean before God's judgment. I'm justified as if I've never sinned. And every person has that gift offered to them. Take it. He loves you. He wants to reconcile you to himself. And so that's what I wrote. But it really begs the question, why do people think that we're supposed to be perfect people or such good people when we're Christians?
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And as a Christian, are we displaying something that does not feel authentic on social media?
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I have learned and I, just in my years and as I continue to get older, to not take things personally. And it can be difficult and challenging. I know Natasha and I have had these talks all the time. But yeah, I think it's just with age and wisdom, you realize not everything's about you. And I can read a question that is directed at me in a negative way.
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cutting way right and you you recognize though that there is most likely hurt on the other side or they've seen something else modeled very differently so how can I be a bridge or be an example of that could show them a different way. Let's start with you guys. Natasha, you want to jump in first?
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I mean, do you relate to it in any way? Because you've more been public, Allie, since 2019 or 20. Yeah, 20. So for you growing up, I mean... I think I know this answer, but you answer it. Were you like the obedient child? No.
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So, and that's the question I want to ask. How do we do that on social media, especially in a place where we can tell whatever narrative we want? Because nobody's seeing everything on social media. And we do know that. It's always like the highlight reel. So how do we present ourselves as Christian to be vulnerable, emotionally available, but not overshare, but still share our faith?
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It's a, it's a tough question. Is that, do you feel a lot of pressure that way when you're going through an emotional rollercoaster to say, I'm having all these feelings that I'm crying right now. Does it cross your mind to go, maybe this is a good time that I should pick up my phone and share it so people know that I'm real?
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And I admit, I've grabbed the phone a couple of times when I've cried. And it is... It's a weird... thing right to balance just what you said to balance that you're a real life person but not overshare but also do you feel a pressure to uphold a Christian standard that
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maybe you actually follow through in real life or do you present yourselves a little bit better on social media, but on the side when no one's looking, you know, something as easy as saying gossip, like easy to talk about. Oh, well, I don't gossip. But then you catch yourself in a conversation with you.
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Yeah, that's so good. There are honestly. Things I don't really remember, but do remember just because there's a photo of it. Yeah. Yeah. It's a weird thing. And realize I'm like, oh, I wasn't very present because I don't even remember what else happened other than the memory is the photo. Yeah. It's a strange place to be. Natasha, when you went to camp,
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And you got I mean, you would go for a month. You were a month or and you had to ditch the phone. I mean, literally drop it in the box and you didn't get it for four weeks. And we only communicated by letters. How tell me that experience of how that made you feel.
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Because you feel that way going into it the first time.
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Yeah, I remember Max saying that about camp too, that how much he loved it solely because people weren't on their phone. Other kids weren't on their phone. And he was like, got to talk to everyone. Everyone's eyes were up. We got to know each other. And then, you know, I think about you guys in school today. I didn't have I didn't have the phone growing up.
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Obviously, I had the phone attached to the wall. We had a big, long, curly, cute cord. If we wanted to try to have the conversation in another room, usually the phone was in the kitchen and you try to go out the kitchen door and stand outside with this huge, long, curly cord and get some privacy. That's how it was for me growing up.
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So that part is a whole different age in that you guys even have your cell phones at school or you did. Obviously, you're not in school anymore. And I'm actually really happy that today there are schools now just starting to ban phones at school, which I am so in support of.
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You are?
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Why do you say that? I don't know. I'm just shocked that you are in support of super in support of it, because I think about you guys even on your lunch break or I know they don't call it recess in high school, but they call it whatever, whatever your snack break is. Nap time. Nap time. Like everyone, everyone has their phone out.
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And so even during your 30 minute lunch break or 25 minute lunch break, I just think about I think about the times that I connected with my my friends and we talked about things and it might have been what was just in class, like what we were just trying to learn that I didn't understand.
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But maybe I know that girl who might not be my friend, but I know she's really smart and understands that subject. So at lunchtime, I could go like, hey, could you help me understand this problem? Just conversations like that. I feel like there's so few, but you tell me because so many of you even at school would be on your phones. I feel like it's a huge disservice to you guys.
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Even stunting the growth of a lot of kids today growing up, not even knowing how to have conversations with other people because they're so tied to their phones and video games.
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I think the phones that are saying no phones in school, they can bring them, but they basically go in a locked bag or a box. That's fine. Then at the end of the day, they retrieve their phone. So you still have access to get a hold of your child. But while they're in school... Guess what? The school has a phone number and I can call the school and request you to come out of class and talk to me.
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Like if there was an emergency, that's how we did it in the old days. You called the school or you went down. But you it's just like camp. You actually brought your phone to camp. You gave it up and you got it back at the end of the I mean, not the end of camp, but at school, it would be at the end of the day. So that's why I'm in support of it. You can still bring it.
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You just can't access it once school starts until it finishes.
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Tell us where we can find you.
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So guys aren't asking a lot of girls out in person. They'd rather do it over a text or DM. No.
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It's so weird. That's why I'm saying put your phone down. Put your phone down. It's true.
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That makes me so sad though. Like that's another thing. I know we kind of talked about breaking up. We talked a little bit about breaking up with guys, but it makes me as a mom, like it, it hurts my heart. And that's what I'm talking about. Stunting stunted growth and development because of phones. I think that's,
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one of the negative things about them that that people would rather text you and walk by you like they don't know you because they're possibly afraid of rejection in person. They don't know how to really talk in person. And it's very safe for a lot of people behind a phone screen. That's why, you know, we hear it all the time. People have big courage behind a screen. Yeah.
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But they would never say half the things that they say online that they would to your face.
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I haven't seen a lot. I'm sure there may be a few, but it's iffy. But when they have them, I still get it. I want to. I want to. And yeah, I was really like highlights magazine for me as a kid. It's an old, old magazine. But to do the hidden pictures on the back of it, even as an adult, if I see that magazine, I'm like, I just want to find the hidden picture.
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So you guys like it in general when you... put your phones down for a while.
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Awesome. So YouTube and Instagram. OK, well, speaking of that, because we all three of us run our lives on social media and I feel like a lot of people do, even if you're not a professional blogger or podcaster, we are just rolling through life, literally scrolling through life on socials. Most of us. My husband and one of my sons, Lev, they are not on social media at all whatsoever.
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Yeah, absolutely. And I love the verse in Romans 12 too. It says, do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind that by testing you may discern what is the will of God and what is good and acceptable and perfect. So in that way, I think be transformed by the renewal of your mind.
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And in that renewal is within God's word in his scripture so that we know what God's truth is, what that is truth. And and so we'll have to we have to put our phones down unless you're reading the Bible on your phone, which you absolutely can. I love my Bible app.
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Life can feel like a roller coaster, but it's so much better when we go through it together. Welcome to the Candace Cameron Bure podcast. Season nine is Girls Under Pressure with Ali Schnacki and Natasha Bure. Come join us. Hi, ladies. Hi. You're looking so beautiful. Thank you. Thank you so much. You're welcome. And yourself. Oh, thank you. I'm so happy that you guys are here. These are so fun.
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And I think that's really cool. However, it's not my life. And it's a way in which social media, I can use the platform to share all the things that we're doing and share my faith and all kinds of stuff. So let's talk about balance. How do we find the balance of this? Does it ever feel like...
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Thank you. Thank you.
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Every single day.
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and just jumping in though do you guys remember life without phones yes yes you do you guys are the first generation of smartphones really of children's smartphones because the iphone was released in 2000 uh yeah in 2007 but did you have a was your first phone a smartphone I had one of those. Cause that's what I'm saying. Cause I didn't know. I'm not saying that you personally had one.
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I'm just saying you are the first generation to grow up with them because the iPhone was released in June of 2007, which means you are nine. Sure. when the iPhone came out. Sure. Sure. Sure. I'm not sure how old you are. Okay. And you were seven. So, so you do remember life without phones. Definitely. Okay. And so what does that balance look like for you, Allie?
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See, that's so interesting to me because I can hear a skeptic saying, are you kidding me? How do you know that God called you to social media? Everyone wants to be on social media, but you really didn't want to be.
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Do you feel, or do you not feel disconnected with people if you're off social media?
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So phones are a part of all of our lives. And we know that there are a lot more kids growing up with anxiety, even depression. And a lot of studies and people say that this is due to phones. Do you think it is due to phones or do you just think that parents are blaming it on phones just as an excuse to get their kids off of it?
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Okay, can you explain doom scrolling? Because I had never heard this before.
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Before we get into this conversation, and today we're talking about finding balance online and offline. So lots of social media talk. But Allie, tell me again, I want to know about Jay Walker's podcast. Yeah. And your women's ministry. So give us the rundown and a recap.
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It's pretty scary, isn't it?
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But I think that the problem or the issue lies like doom scrolling. Yeah. So because we are people that are all on our phones and so much of our lives are caught on the camera and we're putting it out there. How do you stay present in your life without your phone?
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You talked about that moment you are broken free from that. Can you explain that? So the person that doesn't speak Christianese, they're listening. And I say Christianese because they don't know Christ yet or they're just baby steps right now or this is... There's a woman around your age that's like, I don't know about this Jesus thing, but I feel called. I feel pulled.
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I don't know what that means. How did you get broken free from something?
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That's a hard thing to wrap your brain around. It totally is. For most of us. Totally.
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So like as a mom, what I'm hearing is that that particular story, that the words that were spoken to you mattered in the sense that, you know, I don't know how you reacted at that moment. I don't know if you've had, you know, those moments when someone spoke words into you
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That maybe, you know, and I'm saying this as a mom, it doesn't seem like your kids are listening in the moment because they're still just upset at the situation or they're still going about the daily life. But to know, for instance, that like God gave you a different personality, you aren't a shy, quiet type, but you're going to learn to use that fiery spunk for good.
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I, um, I'm, I'm, well, first of all, before I get into this whole season, which I'm just, I'm very excited about all the things that we're going to talk about because Natasha, you were on with Josh and Christy Straub and we got so many, um, emails and messages from people.
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I think you what I'm hearing is that you took those words that might not have been in the very moment of it, but they sank in and God used that to. To help you look at yourself in a new way to maybe refresh your mind to then look at like, oh, I don't need to compare myself and be like somebody else. Yes. Yes.
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Parents have no idea how powerful their words that they speak over us are. And the same being when we speak negative words because we are, I am super guilty of that too.
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Oh my goodness. Yes, it is the exact same. There's some things in life that, there's no age for it. So it doesn't, you'll hear a bunch of old people say like, I feel like I'm in my twenties. I never left. And there is, there's something in your brain that I think keeps you at the
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best places in your life, wherever you have felt the greatest, at least I hope you feel the greatest and not in that negative space, but you still live in that. So like words of affirmation, I love that. So that's really my love language.
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So hearing it, whether it's from my children, whether it's from a coworker or a friend or just some rando person on the street, that's like, Hey, I like your shoes today. I'm like, Oh my gosh, that made me feel so good.
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I don't know why.
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It was the most unbelievable experience I've ever had. Yeah, that is really powerful because I'm wondering, because I know when I compare myself And I'm struggling with that. And I think, I mean, the easy go-to for me, for all of us right now, I think is social media because you can easily be scrolling and you see someone that you think like, oh, she's prettier than me.
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Oh, she has a better body than me. Oh, she makes more money than I do. Oh, she's... Whatever. Her life is just better than mine. It's such an easy, easy place. And yet sometimes, at least for me, when we've heard encouraging words before, sometimes I can so easily just be like, no, you're lying. You're lying. Like when?
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I'll use an example very recently because I still struggle with... I'm approaching 50, guys, in a year and a half, in a year and a half. But I'm excited about it. But there's just... things in my life where I'm like, I have some goals by the time I'm 50. And so I want to be more fit than I am. And I know some of you guys are going, what? You look great. And I'm like, thank you.
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And your episode really impacted people and which caused us to say, there's so many, not only moms out there raising daughters, but so many young women, whether they're high school, they're college age, that related so much to what you were talking about. And they said, can we deep dive on girls right now growing up? And so I was like, Yes, let's do this.
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I feel like I look great, but I want to be more fit. I want more muscles. And so when I'm complaining in the mirror, Natasha, I'm sorry you have bad body image because I think a lot of that stems from me. We're going to talk about that in a whole other episode. But sometimes you could go, mom, you look great. Mom, you look great. And I'm just like, thanks, but you're my daughter.
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Like it doesn't count. Right. Instead of sitting and listening to it and saying. Thank you. I hear that. Go ahead. It's so funny to me because.
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So how do we how do we combat that? How do we fight that for the for the girl that's out there saying I struggle with comparison in so many different ways? How do you break free?
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And that's good. I think that's good. You're recognizing saying, yeah, I struggle with this. And God did give that person this and this and that. Yeah. But again, just like you said, Natasha, it doesn't take away from God what you gave me. And I think that's a great piece of advice to reaffirm that.
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And so I'm so grateful that both of you are here. And Allie, let's just start with you because I can read your bio to everyone. But I think it's better when you guys just share from your heart what you're doing, what you're up to, how people know you, where they know you from or where they can find you.
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and affirm what God did give us to have an honest conversation with ourselves, make us to sit down and take a pen and paper out or get your smartphone out, write it out on there, the things that you like about yourself. And there might be people that are sitting there for 20 minutes going, I can't really write much about it. But I would also say, Why don't you pray about that?
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Why don't you ask God to show you what is unique to you? What is... Maybe if you don't even like something about yourself, but what is unique to you? What makes you, you? And start there. I...
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Why?
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Okay. The heroes of the story.
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Awesome. I love that. I really am grateful you both are here. And this week's episode, we are talking about comparison. Comparison in all kinds of areas. Comparison on social media. Comparison with others, other people. other girls, maybe even with your siblings, whether it's in school or at work, talking about our true identity, even jealousy with one another, and maybe even some FOMO.
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That's a real thing. It is a real thing. And the whole reason I want to talk about these things with you guys is because I am a generation older than you. And of course, Natasha, I've raised you and your brothers, but I really want to hear things from your perspective and what it feels like growing up. Because I can talk about how I parented growing up, but it's very different
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to hear the relatable stories from your eyes. And I think Natasha, again, from the episode that you were on, that's what resonated so much. And I appreciate both of you in your authenticity and being vulnerable and sharing because as Christians, that can often be challenging because there's sometimes like this perception that we're all great and perfect and we're certainly not. Right.
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So let's talk about comparison. Who wants to start? Do either of you remember one of your first moments that you started comparing yourself to someone else?
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Incredible. And I want to deep dive into more of those, all the feelings that go around there before you got to that end result. But Natasha, share with me
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I say this understanding and want the viewer to understand that both of you love Jesus. Both of you have a biblical worldview. So we are looking at the discussion through that lens. But I want to know if you will be as honest as you can be, what are the places right now in your life that as 20-somethings you feel you still struggle with comparison-wise?
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What are maybe the triggers or the places that make you feel that way or the insecurities?
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It was Thanksgiving and I felt so pretty. I had a skirt on, I had boots on, but then I had like a little camisole on and then a cardigan over the camisole. And then I got a call, just wanted to ask you about your, just how you felt about your outfit. And I was like, what do you mean about my outfit?
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Season nine is about girls under pressure with Natasha Bure and Ali Schnacki. Come join us. Hi, ladies. Hi. You ready for another conversation? We're ready. Let's do it. This is a good one. It is a good one. We're talking about fashion today. Fashion and modesty.
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Yeah. But I think that's a hard thing, especially at my age, it's still difficult. And I think it's very hard at your age because There's such a presentation, especially on social media. It's what we see. We do like share our clothes, share our outfits. And again, can come from a great heart place. That's where mine comes from.
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But it can be such a struggle for young girls trying to find their value and worth because they look cute. They're dressed cute and not feeling worthy if they don't feel like they have the latest fashion trends. Yeah.
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Yeah, for sure. I agree. I feel the same way. And yet I always have to remind myself too, because it's just so easy to to look in judgment, especially at church or church settings when you see someone and you see a girl and you're like, oh, that skirt is way too short. Oh, her boobs are hanging out way too much. And then I will remind myself and I'm like, But she's here.
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I don't know where she is at in life. What if this is the first time she's here? I don't know that. I'm glad she's here. Come as you are. And I know as women, as girls, I'm glad in terms of culture, it's shifted more and we're trying to share like women together are better, like let's encourage and empower, but there's still such a culture of cattiness between women.
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And it's so easy to look at someone and just judge them up and down based on their clothes, which is just, it just convicts me. I share that because it's convicting. I remember a time in my life When I had all three kids, but you guys were still like fairly young, you know, maybe 10 at the oldest. And it was Thanksgiving. And I felt so pretty.
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I had a skirt on that was like an A-line skirt past my knees. I had boots on because it was, you know, probably 85 degrees out. But I was dressing for fall because I just... Who doesn't love it? Fall and it's Thanksgiving. I'm going to dress it even if the weather doesn't call for it. But then I had like a little camisole on and then a cardigan over the camisole. And I had like a long necklace.
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And anyway, Thanksgiving was great. I had a wonderful time. I felt so pretty, all the things. And then I got a call the next morning from my brother and my mom. Two separate calls. that were like, hey, it was great to see you at Thanksgiving, blah, blah, blah, great time.
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And then they, and then they, you know, individually, but like in their own ways, just wanted to ask you about your, just how you felt about your outfit. And I was like, what do you mean about my outfit? And they were like, just like, there was just a lot of cleavage and the necklace was just drawing attention to it. And I was like, Oh, I had no idea. Like, wasn't my intention.
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It made me feel pretty crummy. It really did. I felt like really I felt shameful in the moment because I'm like, well, that's not what I was trying to do. I'm married and have three kids like I and I have my family. My point wasn't to show a lot of cleavage, but I guess I didn't realize what it looked like from the outside or, you know.
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That word gets such a bad rap. It does. So true. Yeah. People have gotten in trouble for using that word, and yet it's a word that we as the church love to use. Right. I mean... It is a really good word, modesty. But it can be used to hurt people. It can be used to shame people. And yeah, I don't know. I have all kinds of feelings associated with the word modesty. How do you guys feel about it?
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And then when my mom told me the same thing, I was like, okay, it's not just coming from one person and it's coming from two people that I really love. And it hurts. It hurt me to hear it. You're talking about heart posture and my heart posture. I felt actually quite modest because everything was pretty covered up.
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But I guess that area was more exposed than I realized or people felt uncomfortable or drawn to look at that area. So it was one of those things that I had to sit on it and really pray over it because it didn't feel good to hear it. But when I prayed and asked God about it, I'm like, what is it that you want me to learn? Okay, am I just supposed to throw that blouse out, that camisole?
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Is it just, that's it? Or is this something about like, am I subconsciously exposing something? Or if I'm not... Can you just help me to process this? Because it really isn't my intention to do that. But I also don't want to make other people feel uncomfortable. There's just so many things that go along with modesty and what other people's take of modesty is, as well as your own.
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Agreed. I also want to feel good about it between me and my husband. That's my other main point of reference. If my husband ever felt that something didn't feel appropriate, like that doesn't take but two seconds to say, okay, I'm changing that. But really when it comes to other people,
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I listen to people that are trusted people in my life because if it was just someone off the street, I might throw it out and say, you know what? You don't get to speak into me that way because I don't know you. You don't know me. Right. But when it came from really trusted family members, I was like, okay, I will listen to that.
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But now at the end of the day, I'm like, I just have to feel good about it between me and God. But I keep, I check myself all the time, you know? Yeah. when I put on an outfit and it can be tricky, especially as a Christian and being in the public eye because everyone wants to scrutinize everything that you're wearing.
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I would say that in a public platform. In a public platform. Setting for sure.
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What do you mean that people had the, that they were right in saying the comments?
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Yeah, it can be a tricky topic. I think Matthew West had a song that he put out a couple of years ago that like modesty is hottest or something. It was actually a very cute song, but he got so much backlash for it. Really?
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It's true. It is true. What about you, Natasha? I agree. When did you get quiet?
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I totally understand when you're making when you're wearing something that doesn't make you feel beautiful for the sake of modesty. That also it suppresses your confidence and that's and you don't feel good.
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The part that I struggle with the most when it comes to modesty is that modesty is also... Modesty is different for everyone, what their definition of modesty is. And so... You know, what maybe I may have an outfit on that I feel is modest, but it's just not according to someone else. I might feel comfortable showing my shoulders. That may be immodest to someone else. And so... Thank you.
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You try on clothes and see what outfits will be for what scenes throughout that episode. So knowing that every week I was going to go into this closet that wasn't mine and they were getting clothes for me to wear was so exciting. And that gave me a sense of loving fashion and style. And then I got to work with wonderful costumers, costume designers.
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So they would tell me what was trendy, what looked good, how to pair an outfit with... Would a belt work well here? What kind of shoe? What could you accessorize it with? So having their expertise and input since I was 10 years old just made me absolutely fall in love with fashion.
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It's so fun. And for those of you, when we're at the office here, I do have all the CCB clothing line ready. On the racks in that office. Oh, that's your clothing line? Yeah, which is what you see. Yeah. So, yeah, I started that clothing line so much so because I love fashion. I really do. Do you guys, I mean, you guys are very fashionable. So I'm assuming you both love fashion.
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I can get stuff done when I slip my hair back. Yes, exactly. Oh, that was a good answer. Guys, this was so good. When life feels full of pressure, practicing gratitude can change your day. We created a gratitude guide for you this season with daily reminders and scripture readings. Go to Candice.com. I forgot my name. Go to Candice.com to find the link. And it's also in our show notes.
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Or do you wake up and look forward to what you're going to get dressed in for the day? Or do you dread it? Yeah.
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Yeah, I knew Natasha when I. Natasha's the first born. So when they said, oh, you know, it's a girl. I got very excited because I thought, oh, I'm going to dress her like a little doll. Like, I'm just I can't wait to have all of these fashion moments with her. And Natasha growing up did not want to really wear girl clothes. She wanted to wear her brother's basketball. I still do.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Is Modest Hottest?
I still my dad's and my brother's clothing. I know you had Papa's T-shirt on last night.
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Because you're wearing them right now. Yeah. So Natasha wasn't into fashion as a young girl at all. And she wouldn't even let me brush her hair. It was like nothing.
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Yeah. I know. But, you know, as someone who loves fashion, I have to say my heart was so happy when Natasha decided that she suddenly enjoyed getting dressed and picking out cute clothes.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Is Modest Hottest?
I'm very much more brown.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Is Modest Hottest?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Is Modest Hottest?
It's so funny. It's really cute. I don't remember the first outfit. I remember like when she was four, she did put on a really cute outfit that I had bought and there are some pictures of her in it. And I was like, ah, finally. But it wasn't until she got way older that she got into clothes and fashion. And what do you think like changed for both of you if you weren't really into it?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Is Modest Hottest?
Well, you told us it was your brother's girlfriend and that kind of clicked. For sure, for sure. And did you feel different once you started dating? wearing different clothes did it then make you want to go shopping and pick out?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Is Modest Hottest?
At what point in your lives Did you realize, okay, I'm enjoying fashion. I like getting dressed. I'm free to dress and try different styles. When as a young Christian woman, did you or did you ever feel convicted that like, oh, I like this outfit, but maybe it's not honoring or maybe I'm actually getting so many looks from guys that... I don't know. I like it or maybe I'm uncomfortable.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Is Modest Hottest?
Was there ever a conviction moment for you guys when it came to dressing fashionably? Yeah, I know.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure - Is Modest Hottest?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
Oh man, I remember a time, Natasha, because you didn't bring friends over very often. Well, I had none. But you did bring a group of friends and I think it was your birthday. Yeah, this haunts me. There was an immediate detection that a couple of the people there were just not great, not good eggs. I literally never spoke to them after that day.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
So if there's a 13 year old or a 15 year old listening to this to say, would you agree and go, no, I'm glad that my parents saved me from that. Cause now I can look back in retrospect and see that. Yeah. They were probably right about that friend. A hundred percent, a hundred percent.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
Man, I remember a time, Natasha, because you didn't bring friends over very often. Well, I had none. But you did bring a group of friends and I think it was your birthday. But you... This haunts me. You brought friends over and there was an immediate detection that a couple of the people there were just not great, not good eggs. And I literally never spoke to them after that day.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
Papa was pretty... He wasn't brutal, but he was like in their face and just told them.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
But I'm glad that he did. And I think that, Well, you never spoke to them again.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
It's always my own thing, guys. I have my own original ideas and it's mine. Always. It's never because of our influence. I just wanted to make that clear.
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Yeah, totally. So what does it look like to have friends that don't share your faith? Because you are women that are pursuing the Lord.
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Exactly. That's how I feel too. And I I've talked about this a lot on the podcast because I, I work with people every day. I have lots of close friends, um, in my life that don't believe the same things I, I believe in. And, Yet, you know, God just calls us to be in and ready for every season in life and to be able to give a word back for the hope that's in us.
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And here in 1 Peter, he talks about this. He's talking about suffering. And so I know that we're not necessarily talking about suffering in our friendships, but It says, don't fear what they fear or be intimidated, but in your hearts, regard Christ the Lord as holy, ready at any time to give defense to anyone who asks you for the reason for the hope that is in you.
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And yet do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience. So I love that word. I feel like I hold true to that in knowing God puts people in our paths, right? For all different reasons. And so we can look at it. We should have and pray for discernment when someone may be corrupting us, whether it's intentionally or unintentionally, but to pray for discernment over that.
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But never does he talk about not having friends that... don't see the same way that you do or that aren't believers. He says, you are called to be the salt and the light. And if the salt is bad, there's no flavor left to it. And you don't hide your light under the hill, under the blanket. No, it's set upon the hill. You don't hide it under the table. It's to be set upon a hill.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
So we are called to be the salt and the light for others in our lives. So You know, I think that having friendships with people that don't see the same way as you is a beautiful thing because one, it really causes you to have to think about what you do believe. Right. Yeah. So if they ask me this question, well, what is it that I do believe?
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If I say I'm a Christian, what does being a Christian mean? How could I answer that? If someone asked me, what is the gospel? I don't know what that means. Tell me what the gospel is. Why do you love Jesus so much? Do I know how to answer that question? They sharpen your... faith.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
And I find, too, that when I and Dylan is a perfect example because she's she believes in Buddha. And yet we are best friends and we are best friends because we have so much love and respect for each other. And the friendship itself, all of the. the things that we hold dear, like our families and friendships and honoring each other and all the memories that we've had throughout the years.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
I mean, we just share so many memories and the things that we've done together, the conversations that we've had, that we have been so intimate. Like she literally knows the most about me because we've known each other since we were 15. And that trumps... The places where we differ that trumps our political disagreements, we don't I mean, we don't we don't vote the same way either.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
But I love her so much that. And she loves me so much that. that's just an easy place to go, okay, you have your right to vote. You get to check whatever box you want. And I get to check whatever box I want.
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That's a place that disheartens me when people can't even be friends with people because they vote a different way or because they say, well, you don't believe these things and I can't even be friends with you. Jesus was never that way ever. And, um, So I just think that people ask me, how can you be friends with someone that doesn't believe like that? I'm like, because I love her.
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And isn't that what Jesus did with all of us? I'm not even trying to be Jesus in that, but I'm like, I just love her and have so much respect. So those differences just aren't important to me. But do we have those conversations? Absolutely we do, but we have them respectfully. And at the end of it, We go, OK, we will agree to disagree. We will hug. And we just kind of know the boundary.
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And it never goes to a place where she becomes angry at me or I become angry at her. We just stop that out of respect if it ever tried to even go that far. We all have free will.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
Even though I don't have that many, which is crazy. Natasha, like they'll come over and I do know them now, but she's always like testing me. And she's like, mom, who's this? Who's this?
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I promise I will. I promise I will. Yeah, bad habit. I've gotten better though. Yeah, she's gotten better. What about your friends? Who are your friends? Wow. So yeah, friendships have come in seasons for me. Although my best friend is still my best friend since I was 15 years old. And that's Dylan E. So that's pretty cool. It's a very long lasting friendship. But I can look back and I had...
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Like not a ton of friends, but a good amount of friends in high school. And I don't really I don't think I'm really friends with a lot of them anymore. We might be on keep in touch on a Facebook page or something like that. But but my best friend. Has been with me forever. I mean, I've known her longer than I've known Val. And Val and I have been together for 30 years. So it is really cool.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
She knows me so, so well. And it's really significant. And she's actually... Well, we'll talk about her later because she is my best friend. And yet there's a lot of things that we don't share in common, including our faith. So we will get into that. But my other friends, they have been seasonal. I had a whole different group of friends when I had... My kids, when I had you guys.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
And so there was a season of other moms that I don't even know anymore, you know, because we've also moved around. Or you see them and you're like, oh my gosh, I forgot they existed. I know. I know. And I think that's part of it is because friendships have also been seasonal because we've lived in so many different cities. But I still keep in touch with the people that I...
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have a good connection with and we're close to and now today I really seek out like-minded friendships and I have a lot of people in my life that aren't like-minded in that sense maybe that don't share my same faith or have different political points of views and I have a lot of those friendships but if I'm actively pursuing a friendship
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
I want to pursue at this stage of my life, the ones that are helping me grow in my walk, that are helping me keep my eyes on Jesus and my focus on God. And so, yeah, I feel like I have a lot of new friendships in my 40s that I never really expected I would have, but they have been incredible. And again, helping me in my walk and encouraging me.
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And so that's really cool. Yeah, that's a great point of view to have. Have you guys, what have your friendships looked like in that? Have you had your friends for a long time? Like, has your best friend been your best friend since you were a little girl? Or have you had seasons of having to let go of friendships?
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Wow. That's really cool. So are you guys more like-minded now? Cause you just, you said you weren't. Oh, yeah.
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Yeah, that's really cool. So, Natasha, tell us a story about having to to cut off friendships because they weren't life giving.
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
I'm excited. Thanks. I'm glad that you're back. And this week we are talking about friendships. Having friends in general, but also, and more specifically, having friends who aren't like us, who don't maybe think like us, who don't share our faith, maybe culturally just come from different places. So let's dive into it. Tell me about your friends. How did you pick your friends?
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Allie Schnacky and Natasha Bure- Having Friends Who Aren’t Like You
that desire to still be friends with you where's the balance yeah i mean that's why as as parents when when you guys are younger at least pop and i and i'm assuming your parents were too very protective over who our kids hung out with and who you guys played with because Those are the people that can steer you down the wrong path.
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Just like you said, you're hanging out with someone and you're like, oh, well, they're doing that. And they're like, come on, just go do that with me. You're like, well, I wouldn't normally do that. But OK, I'll just, you know, this once and then again and then again. And as a parent, you can always see that you can see the bad influences there. from pretty far away. Sometimes we're fooled.
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Sometimes we might think a kid is an angel and we're like, sure, hang out with them all the time.
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Right. And that I think is always hard with that relationship with parent and child, because you want to hang out with who you want to hang out with. But we have that detector. We have the radar going, nope, that's a bad friend. It's not a friend. That's just someone that's going to steer you down the wrong path. But that can also cause so much friction with your kids.
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I mean, with you guys and the parent, for sure.