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The Dr. John Delony Show

My Wife Suddenly Wants a Divorce After 23 Years

Mon, 10 Mar 2025

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On today’s episode, we hear about: ·      A man who just found out his wife wants a divorce ·      A husband unsure how to address his wife’s workaholic nature ·      A mother wanting to help her teenage son make friends Next Steps: 📞 Ask John a question! Call 844-693-3291 or send us a message. 📚 Building a Non-Anxious Life 📝 Anxiety Test  📚 Own Your Past, Change Your Future  ❓ Questions for Humans Conversation Cards  💭 John's Free Guided Meditation  🤘🏼 The Dr. John Delony Show Merch Connect With Our Sponsors: 🌱 Get 10% off your first month of BetterHelp. 🔴 Get 15% off with code DELONY at BON CHARGE. 🌿 Get up to 40% off with code DELONY at Cozy Earth.  🔒 Get 20% off when you join DeleteMe. 😇 Go to Hallow for a 90-day free trial. 💤 Visit Helix Sleep for special offers! 🥤 Get 20% off with code DELONY at Organifi.  💪 Get 25% off your order at Thorne.  🏋️ Go to trainwell to get started!   Explore More From Ramsey Network:   🎙️ The Ramsey Show 💸 The Ramsey Show Highlights   🍸 Smart Money Happy Hour 💡 The Rachel Cruze Show 💰 George Kamel 🪑 Front Row Seat with Ken Coleman 📈 EntreLeadership   Ramsey Solutions Privacy Policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Chapter 1: Why does Dave's wife want a divorce after 23 years?

5.575 - 14.662 Dave

I've been married for 23, almost 24 years, and my wife told me just a few weeks ago that she's leaving me and she wants a divorce.

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15.783 - 41.94 Dr. John Delony

I'm sorry. Me too. What I'm going to say next is not popular, and it's just real as I can possibly be. Is that okay? What in the world is going on in your life today? In your head, in your chest, in your relationships. I'm John Deloney, and I'm the host of The Dr. John Deloney Show, and I'm so grateful that you are with us.

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42.661 - 56.376 Dr. John Delony

Talking about your mental and emotional health, your marriages, your parenting, your kids, your schools, whatever you got going on in your life. Here's my promise. I'll sit with you. Sometimes we laugh. Sometimes we cry. Sometimes we just sit in silence for a second.

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56.456 - 68.745 Dr. John Delony

But I'll sit with you, and we will figure out what's the next right move for you, for your kids, for your marriage, whatever you got going on. If you want to be on this show, this is real people, man. This is as real as it gets, going through real challenges. Give me a buzz at 1-844-693-3291 or go to johndeloney.com slash ask, A-S-K.

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77.552 - 82.235 Dr. John Delony

All right, let's roll out to Arlington Heights, Illinois, and talk to Brother Dave. Hey, Dave, what's up, man?

83.416 - 119.697 Dave

Hi, John. How's it going? I'm a little nervous because this is serious. I'm a little emotional. I've been married for 23, almost 24 years, and my wife told me just a few weeks ago that she's leaving me and she wants a divorce. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Me too. And she won't talk about it. She won't consider anything. She said there's no point. And that's it.

120.177 - 123.719 Dave

And ever since then, it's been like waking up to a nightmare every day.

126.561 - 135.087 Dr. John Delony

Is this a grenade pin that she pulled out of nowhere? Or have y'all been struggling? Has she been struggling personally? What's the challenge?

135.808 - 157.822 Dave

It is a grenade, but she has been struggling, and she's been struggling with perimetopause. Okay. And I've been trying to do whatever I can, and we got her one of those tests. She's tried a few things, and she's just wildly unhappy in general. She's been unhappy for a long time?

Chapter 2: How should Dave navigate his wife's sudden decision to divorce?

1235.176 - 1256.394 Dr. John Delony

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1278.314 - 1302.788 Dr. John Delony

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1304.628 - 1309.069 Dr. John Delony

All right, let's go out to Sasquatchian. Is that how you say that?

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1310.37 - 1312.07 Kelly

No, that's just Saskatchewan.

1313.211 - 1340.569 Dr. John Delony

Sasquatchland. sure go with that Sasquatch Obi-Wan Kenobi Canada and talk to Ryan what's up Ryan hey Dr. John what's up brother not much I've I've heard worse pronunciations of that I would break your heart to tell you I taught geography for a few years for high school kids I was what was wrong with the Texas education system, but such it is.

1340.629 - 1345.99 Ryan (Chumba Casino Narrator)

What's up, dude? Well, I don't blame you. It's okay. We're a long way from there.

1347.551 - 1349.451 Dr. John Delony

I don't know how to pronounce. Okay, that's all good.

1349.471 - 1357.593 Ryan (Chumba Casino Narrator)

All right, so what's up? So my question today is, how can I overcome bitterness and resentment towards my wife's career choice?

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