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Chapter 1: Who is getting ghosted and why?
Dave is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Carissa. So we'll see if we can help him out. Dave, what's up, man? How are you? Hey, hey, what's up? Yeah. How long has it been since you saw Carissa? Like a week.
So what was your last interaction with her? Was it a text? Was it a call?
Chapter 2: What happened during Dave and Carissa's date?
No, she just left the event that she invited me to. That's all. Oh. She invited me to this art gallery for a friend, and she said, she doesn't even like art, but like, I'm like, hell yeah, free booze, free tapas.
Yeah.
Chapter 3: How did Carissa react to Dave's jokes?
You know, and like, and the kind of people that show up at those, you know, they're just fun to make fun of, you know, like, many hipsters. Oh, it's super fun. Like, people watching is great. Yeah. She was able to throw him out just like the hard balls, you know, like the curve balls. And I'm thinking, she's great. We're going back and forth, making fun of people, feeding each other.
And I'm like, we're having a great time. I'm thinking, why would I not want to go out on a second date with this person? Long story short, now, I have to explain this. If I had my own radio show, I'd probably be canceled, like, immediately. I am just not very woke. I say what I think. I think I'm funny. A lot of people might not think I'm funny, but Chris would seem to think that I was funny.
And we would just go around the party, and I just happened to start clowning on one person. Don't know who it was. And...
just shortly after she she just left and i'm just wondering if i was too much for her you know like if my jokes were just you know hitting too too hard like on people i mean that could be it do you know who the person was that like you were kind of attacking i mean she just kind of had some funny pigtails and i made some kind of below the belt jokes that
It seemed like it didn't go over well and everything else was. Yeah, just a random person, just another random person at this bougie get-together.
You tried to reach out to her, yeah, a couple times? Yeah, no, it's just silence, dead silence. It's definitely ghosting. The only thing you can think of is maybe she got offended?
Possibly. That could make sense. It's just so strange because she was throwing some out there that, like, my... you know, my friends could be offended at. And so I'm thinking this just didn't make sense. It was just kind of out of left field.
So how did she leave you, Dave? You're saying that she just disappeared on you? Like you turned around and she was gone or she was like, okay, thanks.
I wanted to get a few more free drinks. You know, I mean, come on, endless bar. Yeah. Who doesn't, you know? And I told her I'm going to go get a drink. And just as soon as, like, I'm there and back, you know, with two Mai Tais, she's gone.
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Chapter 4: Why did Carissa leave the event?
I have only one time, but it was a double date where my friend's girlfriend had set me up. And the girl that she had set me up with, she was not a fan of me and then started arguing with me. So then I started arguing back a little bit and then I was like, I'm just going to go home. But that was very obvious what the problem was.
Yeah. Yeah.
I mean, on my end, the problem was she's arguing with me. I don't know what her problem with me was, but I have things that it could be problems for people. So but I understood that. And I also didn't want her to call me. So I'm being ghosted. But other than that, no, I have not really left in the middle of a date before.
Yeah, I'm just kind of curious what the reason would be.
Well, let's figure it out. We will play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why you're getting ghosted and maybe get you another date if you want one. All right, man? Please. Yeah, that'd be great. Play a song, come back, get your first date follow-up next.
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Chapter 5: What is Carissa's perspective on the date?
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Dave is on the phone for a first date follow-up. If you missed us talking to him just a few minutes ago, he went out with a woman named Carissa and he's getting ghosted and now we're about to call her and see if we can figure out why and maybe get him another date. Before we call her, Dave, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Carissa?
Carissa invited me to an art gallery. We were having a great time, free drinks, feeding each other, cracking jokes, and really just roasting everyone we saw there. I just noticed that after I was poking fun at somebody, she sort of left as I went to grab more drinks for us. She just disappeared from the party.
Okay. So weird. That is weird. All right. Well, here we go.
Hello?
Hi, may I speak to Carissa, please?
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Chapter 6: Is there a chance for a second date?
Yes, this is Carissa.
Carissa, how are you? My name is Jubal, and I host a radio show called The Jubal Show.
Oh, hi, Carissa. My name's Nina. I'm also on The Jubal Show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
So there's three people on the phone with you right now. How are you?
Okay, good. How are you? How did you get my number?
That's a good question.
I'm sorry, I'm sorry. This is catching me a little bit off guard. I hope I won something.
Well, you might have. I'll tell you how we got your number, though, first, and then we can figure out if you want something or not. So we do a segment on the show and it's called the first date follow up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can have us call you and ask why. So you're currently ghosting someone.
They wanted us to get a hold of you.
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