Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes present: Aubrey O’Day, Covering the Diddy Trial
Inside the Freak Offs
Tue, 03 Jun 2025
The Diddy trial has pulled back the curtain on some seriously provocative bedroom behavior. But how much of it is kink & fetish… and how much is coercion? In this daring episode, Aubrey O’Day teams up with acclaimed sex therapist and Married at First Sight alum Dr. Viviana Coles to unpack the psychology of pleasure, dominance, and what happens when desire turns dark. Dr. V brings expert insight into why cuckolding fantasies, voyeurism, and power play aren’t as taboo as they seem—and how trauma can twist them into something far more dangerous. It’s complex, but Aubrey didn’t come to play it safe. We are here to discuss the secret behaviors that shouldn’t only stay in the bedroom, because some secrets are too dangerous to keep under the sheets!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Chapter 1: What are the implications of the Diddy trial?
what all of the elements are. And so just to kind of start us out, I'm a sex positive human. I know you are as well. And for people that don't necessarily understand the exact definition, it's basically just someone who supports and affirms people's sexual interests, kinks, fetishes, whatever their interests are with no judgment. And of course, with consent. That's the big one. Yeah. Yeah. Yes.
And with that being said, I want to ask you before we get into breaking down situations in the trial, let's do myth versus reality quick shots real quick, just so we can kind of establish a norm for the audience in regards to some of the behaviors that they're hearing during this trial.
So, yeah, just so everybody knows, I'm not professionally or personally associated with any of the parties involved in the trial. But all of the information I'm going to be sharing today is from my 20 plus years of working with couples and individuals as a licensed marriage and family therapist and a certified sex therapist. And yes, like Aubrey, I'm definitely sex positive.
So we'll be talking about it in that way. But first and foremost, we have to know about sexual experiences being consensual. And they need to be safe and sane. So that's where we're coming from, at least from my standpoint.
Yes. So actually, let's go into myths versus reality just a little bit before we get into the details of the trial. Is it true or not that people who enjoy orgies are traumatized?
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Chapter 2: What are the definitions of kink and fetish?
That is false. There are many, many, very... you know, functional people who like to explore with others, sexual pleasure, sexual desire, and all sorts of kinks in a very safe way that has nothing to do with trauma.
Does group sex mean your excitement about group sex or participation in it mean that you lack morals?
Absolutely not. That is false. For a lot of people who are trying to stay connected with their partners, they want to experience other people in a way that will not mess with their own connection and having group sex can be one way that they explore that as long as there's lots of conversations going on in a very safe way.
Is kink a result, kink or fetish, a result of sexual damage or psychological damage as well?
Yeah, it can be. It can always be something that you've adapted from psychological damage, but that is not always the case. So I would say it's a maybe. Okay.
And is having... different things we're about to discuss, non-traditional sex, is it emotionally harmful?
It can be emotionally harmful. I wish I could say yes or no, but it can be depending on the actual circumstances for each of the partners. But for most people, exploring in different ways, using all sorts of accessories and tools and fantasies can be very healthy.
Okay, so let's actually just dive right into the trial now that we've established some myths versus realities. A lot of people don't necessarily understand the layout of a lot of the freak-offs that have been discussed in trials. So what I want you to first kind of explain to people is the difference of voyeurism or even just, I think it could be under the guise of voyeurism, cuckolding.
Can you explain to the audience what cuckolding is?
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