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Appearances
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Love On The Rocks
In a paper called, quote, Chickens Prefer Beautiful Humans. Right. This was actually the title of the paper. They all discovered that much like humans, chickens are attracted to symmetrical faces. Got it. We're talking medical miracles.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Love On The Rocks
There's no way to make that not sound crazy.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Love On The Rocks
Hey, Will. Do you ever get overwhelmed by how much science happens these days? Constantly. I'm like, ah, there's so much science. I can't keep track of it all. Then it's a good thing our podcast, Part-Time Genius, is counting down the 25 greatest science ideas from the past 25 years.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Love On The Rocks
In a paper called, quote, Chickens Prefer Beautiful Humans. Right. This was actually the title of the paper. They all discovered that much like humans, chickens are attracted to symmetrical faces. Got it. We're talking medical miracles.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Love On The Rocks
There's no way to make that not sound crazy.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Love On The Rocks
Hey, Will. Do you ever get overwhelmed by how much science happens these days? Constantly. I'm like, ah, there's so much science. I can't keep track of it all. Then it's a good thing our podcast, Part-Time Genius, is counting down the 25 greatest science ideas from the past 25 years.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
I didn't want to bring this up, but Brooke and I do have a favorite bathroom in the city. It's that Italian restaurant. We both have the most Instagrammable pictures inside.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
He's right, though. It does reflect on the staff. Really? Have you ever looked up the bathroom before you go somewhere? Absolutely.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
The big debate is supposed to be over, not under. Right, Brooke?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
I hope they call us back, and he's like, dude, she is so messy. I can't stand it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
Oh, I was like, wait a minute, Brooke.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
Walking up to a girl immediately, give me your number.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
No, I don't. But good for you, Paul. You're able to talk to Kelly.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
Wait a minute. You're like, let's just meet back here same time tomorrow? Whose idea was that?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
And they're gym rats, but together.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
Okay, that's cute. That would be fun too if you're health conscious. Yeah.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
Oh, how's it going? How ugly is he?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
Hey, bro, at 530, text me, and I'm going to, yeah.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
Oh, man, will you? And he's a gym bro, so you're imagining him shirtless doing it. All right.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
Yeah, in the other room. So he heard his phone go off and was just like, whatever that was, go check it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
Oh, so maybe she found something else that wasn't in the text.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
Wow, you never respond this quick.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
It's not because Jose being handsome is so viral. Yeah. Darn it. That was last month, Jose. Okay, my bad. I didn't see that on my TikTok.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
What could possibly ruin it then?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
Yeah, it did remind me of like a married couple.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Phone Paux
Not me, that's where I write all my comedy jokes. That's where I write what I need to talk to my therapist about.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
No, I mean, the thing about Rachel, she sounds like someone who's very organized and maybe very different from you and could really bring some other aspects to your life that you don't have right now.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
Give her a second chance. On the second date, she knows that already. She doesn't have a second note card. Do you, Rachel?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
Look at that. Maybe you could just change a few things. She's funny. She's funny, Jack.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
So are you just saying yes? Is that what you're saying, Jack?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
Okay. She still wants you to remember that.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
OK, we just need to apologize right now for taking over your TikTok for you page. Yeah. Sorry, not sorry. My God. Yes. All the old ones are going viral, but the new ones are so much better. OK, I'm so glad you found them. Follow like whatever you're supposed to do on these podcasts and just sit back and listen.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
I'm just curious because I've never been on dating apps, right? Because I met my husband, like, before they were huge. Oh, yeah. Like, what is it like for your first time?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
So I feel like a weekend date is a big commitment date. I don't know. Like using your weekend for that.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
And what was that like for you? Because it's like your first dating app.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
What the? It's her first dating app. It's the first guy she's met on this. I would be so nervous if I were you. Just because, God, that's a lot.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
What was the actual date like?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
Did your ex come up a lot? Because, I mean, you did mention to us that you were together for a really, really long time.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
It could also come across as rude, though. Like, you're also assuming that that's all that he's looking for, you know? That's all true, yeah.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
So we finished the first nap. Is it time? He could have been insulted by that.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
That's hard. You probably were still emotional then if you're just like just now not crying, talking about him.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
Yeah, it always enhances. Do you think that that's why Jack isn't calling you back?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
The side hug? Like I do with all my friends? Yeah. Like a one-armed hug.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
And also, it's like, you know, this is new to you. There's a lot of options out there that you haven't even explored. I knew this was coming. I mean, we'll see.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
That's how you get over people, Jeff.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
She hasn't even really dated in her adult life. I mean, you've had the same boyfriend since you were in college, you know, like just want you to make up for lost time. But OK, let's call Jack.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
hello hey is this jack yeah this is jack is this hey jack my name is jeff from the radio show brooke and jeffrey in the morning hello oh that's that's my co-host brooke who just jumped in with a weird voice no it just sounded like how he was hitting on us when he answered the phone so i was like returning the favor jack oh yeah i just think it's interesting because like it was an unknown number right were you expecting someone else on the phone jack
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
Well, we heard a lot of good things about you, so that's a good start.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
Um, was she attracted to her? Did you feel like you guys had some chemistry?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
It's okay. I mean, she told us some stuff about, like, her ex and maybe how she talked about that on the date.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
And a good listener. She said you're a great listener.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
And that wasn't good to you?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
Okay. What was on the index card?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
Who has index cards? Was it a recipe from her grandma or something?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
So it wasn't necessarily her boundaries. It was the way they were presented. Is that what you're saying?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
And especially talking about on the first date like that, you know, maybe there's a more organic way to work in your boundaries.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
She's not respecting your boundary in that way.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: First Time Tinderer
Yeah. That's a hot pitch right there. I liked it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Plant Me A Kiss
All the greatest changes have happened when a couple of people said, this sucks, let's do something about it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Plant Me A Kiss
Hey, welcome to the second date update, as it was known as the Dwarf update. That's still English, dude. The Dwarf update, the second date.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Plant Me A Kiss
Are you all very turned on?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Plant Me A Kiss
Okay, sorry, ladies. You know what?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Plant Me A Kiss
All the greatest changes have happened when a couple of people said, this sucks, let's do something about it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Give Him The Golden
Oh, my God, she farted. Oh, girl.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Give Him The Golden
Oh, man. We're in public. Do we have a gift card? I don't know what's going on. One of those breweries where you can bring your dog? Yeah, brewery. Oh, wow.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Give Him The Golden
How hard does she push against somebody's face while she's making out? I don't know. It's not good.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Give Him The Golden
Oh, my God. By my house, too? Mine is, too. It's so sketchy. It's so weird. I know what you're talking about.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Worst Best Man
I feel like Brad gave that to more than one girl. Yeah. Did it start with roses are red? Yeah.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Worst Best Man
Okay, Sam, that has to be the craziest story in OK Storytime podcast history.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Worst Best Man
That's not the timing. No? Exactly. It might be funny in a different.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Awkward Tuesday: Worst Best Man
Okay, Sam, that has to be the craziest story in OK Storytime podcast history.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Say Yes To The Ex: Exes Have Layers
Yeah. Are you looking for a new podcast that will make you laugh, learn, and say que? Yeah. Then tune in to Locatora Radio Season 10 today. Okay. Now that's what I call a podcast. I'm Diosa. I'm Mala. The host of Locatora Radio, a radiophonic novela.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Say Yes To The Ex: Exes Have Layers
Yeah. Are you looking for a new podcast that will make you laugh, learn, and say que? Yeah. Then tune in to Locatora Radio Season 10 today. Okay! Now that's what I call a podcast. I'm Fiosa. I'm Mala. The host of Locatora Radio, a radiophonic novela.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
I don't know what to say.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
I have to do my job over here.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
What we do on this segment, Zach, is we offer to send you and our listener out on another date. That would be you and Amanda going out and we would pay for it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Zach offers on the table.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Amanda, girly, no.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
All right. Well, we should probably stop talking.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
I don't think so. I just, I'm sorry. What? Jeff.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Okay, I'm ending this now. Oh, I love it. That's your second date update. No date.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
We're out of here. Bye.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Second date update. When you meet someone and you chat with them for just a few minutes, but there's an obvious connection there and you have a lot of fun together, can that be considered an insta-date? Or do you need to have like an official meetup for it to count?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
I disagree. I think an insta-date is considered a real date. Because I've had many, many experiences that you wouldn't call a by-the-books, pre-prepared hangout. And next thing you know, all the paper towels are gone from the dispenser, and you're both calling the maintenance guy asking for assistance.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
I don't expect you guys to understand how fun works. But you just leave that to me. I'm just saying I think that counts. And that's why we got in touch with one of our listeners who said that she had an insta date recently. Her name is Amanda.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Well, you and I are on the same page, Amanda. But for my clued out co-host over here, why don't you tell us what happened?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
A dive bar, I think is what she meant.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
So you said that you were the one who actually went and approached him. What did you do? How did that interaction happen?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
You didn't want to look like you were too aggressive with it. Too thirsty. Exactly.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Just your... You and your family does? I did.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
That was the name of the horse?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
So you guys bonded over horses. That's cool.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Never know. I don't know. Yeah, never heard it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Okay. That's an obvious sign of attraction. When a guy is mirroring you, that's a sign that he's actually into what you're doing.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
OK, well, we have some information to work with here. We're going to play a song. Come back and call your horse loving cowboy, Zach.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
I just want to see what this horse-loving guy has to say when we ask for a second date. Is it going to be a yay or a nay?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
We'll do a second date update next.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Saddles for seats, boots for drinks, and a mechanical bull that's been out of order for the last decade.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Seriously. Sounds like every single country dive bar within a 10,000-mile radius that I just described there. But that's where one of our listeners went recently. Her name is Amanda, and she met a very well-put-together, good-looking man named Zach while she was there. The two of them vibed over horseback riding stories and even danced to an old Britney Spears song.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Like I said earlier, this was an insta-date. It wasn't something that they had planned to meet up beforehand. They just ran into each other. So we don't know if Zach is technically even single or what's going on.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
We're going to call him and we're going to see what he meant by that. And Brooke, you've been skeptical and bitter throughout most of this so far. So what are your thoughts before we reach out to Zach?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
You know, that's hopeful.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
What a fun household to grow up in.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
All right, Zach, here we go. Gotta remember that. Zach, Zach, here we go. Dollar's number right now. Hello? Hey, is this Zach?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
I'm calling from a radio show. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Well, no. We're co-workers. Yeah. I'm at work, and we're doing something right now. You know? That's how the show works.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
I don't know. Zach, let's talk to Zach. Zach, we need to talk to you about something else. We do a segment called A Second Date Update.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Brooke, stop it. There's a girl named Amanda who reached out to us. She said that she met you at a happy hour the other night.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Yeah, so that's her. This is more of a business call, Zach.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
No, this is not how we normally do it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Several, I think. Amanda wanted our help to find out from you if you would be interested in seeing her. Okay, hold on.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Yeah, that's how this works. It's called a second date update.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Yes, it's just for our listener, Amanda, and not for anything else.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Oh, wow. She's just coming out and saying it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
I don't know if that's what I said.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
It's a little cowboy reference for you. Zach, how does that sound? I'm not shy.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Yeah, I did not see this coming. This is all making sense now, though.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
You know, with just, like, the interest in horses and the Britney Spears dancing.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
The fashion tips. Yeah.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Cowboy Confusion
Let's go with that one.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Whack Beach Wedding
Love at first swipe?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Whack Beach Wedding
So what really makes relationships last? On this episode of Dope Labs, poet and relationship expert Young Pueblo breaks down the psychology of love and provides eye-opening insights and advice we all need.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Whack Beach Wedding
On this episode of Dope Labs, poet and relationship expert Young Pueblo breaks down the psychology of love and provides eye-opening insights and advice we all need.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Oh my gosh.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Yeah, that's not a red flag at all.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
That's a little too much.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Okay, well, I mean, even if they don't tell us, most of them are thinking that.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
So you're committed here. I mean, are we just calling this person because they rejected you? Like, let's be honest for a second.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Oh. I'm so jealous of dudes with beards. I love a good beard. Jeff, looking at you.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
You looked at him when you said it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Okay, God. You guys are so uncomfortable.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Three. Hey, you're already breaking the rules. That's a second date update. So, now there's a fourth date update, actually, today.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
What'd you do? Just real quick. Are you doing coffee or what?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Oh, wait. On purpose? Yeah.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
That's so funny. Wait, but was it like jeans and a plain t-shirt or like something crazy? That's true.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
No. Oh. The room thinks this is a good thing. Okay, what were you doing for your date?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
The same good date twice. Just with different outfits both times. Yeah.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
How am I going to find you in the restaurant if we're going on a date?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Okay, so that one obviously went well because there was a third date, right?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
That's the right timing.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Well, I mean, it's the third date. Like, things happen, right? Like, maybe he got caught at work or something. Was it super late or, like, just normally?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Okay. So you're still feeling good?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Yeah, what happened?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Because he's probably confused. Is he confused or is he trying not to hear it?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Did you pay for the last two dates? Because then I could kind of see it. That's a good question.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Traditional guys would go, oh, no way, give me that bill. But after a few dates, it's different. I don't know, like, every date, like, and she's the one that put the credit card down, I would think that you're telling me that you're wanting to pay.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
He didn't say thank you? No.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Oh. That's weird because you paid. Like, it feels like.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
His half. Okay. He should. There's Venmo. It's easy. I don't know. Seriously. You can't say that. Like, a guy can't come back and say you didn't go out with me again. I mean, if you're never going to see him again, what's the harm in asking? Alexis, if a dude asked you that, you'd be so upset. But I would do it because I can't say no.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Oh, that's the music.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Wait, I haven't seen these movies. Explain.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
That's pretty good, Jeff.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Yeah. Well, kind of.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
It was a little awkward at the end. Like, don't you think, Ari, that he thought you wanted to pay?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Okay, we hyped you too much. You lost it. I think you need the music. Yeah, that's what it is.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
I'm doing well. I'm really good. I'm good too, Victor. Thanks for asking. What about you, Alexis? I don't think he cares. Yeah.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
For what you said? It's about what?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Why did your voice get deeper and deeper?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
I see. All right.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
All right, Victor.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
I hope so. You guys went on three dates together.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Okay, so this is sounding positive.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
It feels like the momentum has stopped.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
She's still in the fold.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Oh, that's not too bad.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
That seems normal.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
It doesn't feel great to deliver that news to her.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
I mean, this is the awkward part.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Assessing the damage right now on his head.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Okay, you're going to say it again.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Yeah, he does.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Well, I don't know about forever. I think she's just saying three dates you need to know.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
I might know them.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Nope, never do names. Never show instas either.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
What a welcome to our city.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
We got a lot of people to date. The dating scene is totally cool. Victor, you're not saying anything. What are the girls' names?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Oh, that's interesting. Because he can't stop saying that. Do you think that he's just trying to cover? Like maybe he just doesn't like you that much or something? I don't mean it in a mean way. He may be trying to be nice.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Damn, that's a headache.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
No wonder it was a nice date. I appreciate that she's doing all the work for us.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
Do you see the point here?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update Classic: Offer He Can't Refuse
But you didn't even say thank you afterwards.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
OK, Rachel, look at that. We've reached this middle ground and now it's a good time to ask, would you two be willing to go out on one more date? And we'll pay for it. Give me a Y. Give me an E. Give me an S. I missed the chance.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
That's a yes from Brett and a yes from Rachel. That means successful second date update, guys.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
He got a piece of it. He got a piece of it. He got a R-E-S-T rest of it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
This is embarrassing. I just discovered I actually had no idea what the bases were.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
You know, like when you go out on a date and you end up getting to first base with this person?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
I always thought that involved a lot more than the internet says. Because they say first base is just kissing.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Kissing is an intentional walk in my playbook. Ha ha! but maybe i need to put my bases up on my instagram it's young jeffrey that means everyone gets a kiss bro oh but uh you know if reverse cowgirl is between first and second it's not you're gonna want to hear what third base is for me oh please don't slide that is like Check it on my Insta. What? It's young Jeff.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
I only bring it up because one of our listeners, Brett, emailed us saying he got to second base before the date even really started.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
I'll have you over for a party soon, and we can go over everything. But tell us about the girl that you want us to call today. What's her name?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
So what did you end up doing for your date?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Yeah, absolutely. What did Rachel think of her first hockey game? She loved it, actually.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Okay. That doesn't sound too harmful.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Good thing we practiced before.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Exactly. It's because they stopped selling beer in the third period.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Yeah. Well, I almost followed, but it went to overtime.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
You text her. You missed out.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
All right. We're going to play a song. We're going to come back. We'll call Rachel for you and try and get you your second date update. All right, Brett? Yeah, sounds great. All right, hold on, man.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
We just got done talking to Brett about his first date the other night at a hockey game with a woman named Rachel. And there was a lot going on there, but we probably need to circle back to his email where he mentioned that before the game, they had some drinks where he ended up getting to second base. It reminds me of a sports chant that I do all the time. He got a piece of it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
He got a piece of it. We need the R-E-S-T rest of it. Is that appropriate for the scenario?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
I'd never take you to a hockey game, that's for sure.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
She's a B. Give me an I. I kind of like that one.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Let's just talk to Brett. Brett, we're about to call Rachel here, man. Is there anything that we missed from your first date that we need to highlight? Nope. That's it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
I mean, that's a good point. That could be the main issue that she ended up leaving and Brett decided to stay to see how things played out with his home team.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Probably. Yeah. Okay. I was going to help you score a home run, but that's all right. If you don't want to.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
All right. Well, baby steps. We'll get there. Let's just dial her phone number and see what she has to say. All right. Here we go. I'm good.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Hey, is this Rachel?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Hey, Rachel, my name's Jeff from the morning show Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning on the radio.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Are you a hockey fan by chance?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Depending on how the rest of this call goes, maybe.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Because we heard that you went on a date recently with one of our listeners named Brett to a hockey game.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Okay. Yeah. What we're doing right now is called a second date update because after the hockey game, Brett's been having a hard time getting in touch with you, and he's not 100% sure of the reason why.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
From what we heard, it was a really good game and a big night for everybody. I know that he did mention that you left early before it ended, and I understand that. I'm an old person at heart. I know you've got to beat the traffic. You don't want to get stuck.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Maybe he didn't even realize that he was being that intense.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Well, let's ask him directly because, Rachel, I got to tell you, on the other line, we have a little surprise for you. Give me a B. No. Give me an R. Well, Brett's there.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
And I think a lot of other people, bread aside, are in the same exact boat. Like when you're at the sports game, you're in sports mode. And nothing else matters or counts.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
At least he didn't do anything too over the line, like paint his face or something.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Hockey Fan Gets Hosed
Oh, no. Okay, well, that backfired.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
Sean Stiller? Ethan Stiller. Oh, that's right.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
I'm really thankful after that slogan of the day. Okay, since we're spreading hate, everyone, let's go around the room and say, who do you hate? Brooke? No. Oh.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
That's awesome. What a great start. Sense of humor is so important. For sure.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
Yeah, they're like, did you just tell a joke? No. Ew. Good. Gross. How dare you laugh.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
See, I was taking some sort of FBI watch list too.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
You're talking to millions of people daily in one privacy. That's funny.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
I imagine he puts up security cameras to look at their security cameras.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
What were you talking about? You were like, hey, I have 13 security cameras in my house, by the way.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
So maybe that's what he said. Hey, by the way, I have no security cameras. There's no traces of me anywhere.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
Oh, she could be a streamer like me. She could do one of those marathon streams where she doesn't get off until she gets a certain amount of subs. That seems highly likely. Yes. Okay, probably not.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
Wait a minute. It's unbelievable what you're about to say?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
Only celebrities do that.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
Thanks for explaining it, actually.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Claus For Concern
And he's clearly a wanted man. Subject A through Z have all of my NDAs.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Totally. It was just so manipulative, Justin.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Have you done this more than once?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Oh, that's a good question.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
I didn't say cereal. I said more than once.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Right before the restraining order takes effect. I mean, that's the type of move this is, Justin. Why don't you feel bad? Why haven't you apologized?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Okay, it was my tire. Oh, my God.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
If you're psycho and planning to slash your own tire, don't do it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
I'm just taking lobster time right now. Yeah, like buying flowers, doing normal things, not psychotic things.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
I can't believe we're looking at murder red flags right now. But I'm pretty sure this is one of them.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
The guy who obviously keeps a knife on him for his tire slashing.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Hey, I stole you these flowers. That's why your ex-girlfriend stuck around.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Because you manipulated her into it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Ever. It won't ever work if you do this.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
That's optimistic. Yeah, probably maybe.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Psychos for Dummies. That could be good.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
We can also do dummies for psychos.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Yeah, you know. A lot of options here. Oh, my God.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Yeah, I feel like we can get anyone together. There's like a tire repair woman out there who loves this guy. Yeah. She just didn't hear the break yet.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Okay. Yeah, I think there's a tire shop that loves his idiotity.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
J. Edgar Hoover was furious. He was out of his mind and he wanted to bring the Catholic left to its knees.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
I'm ready to fight. Oh, this is fighting worse. Okay, I'll put the hammer back.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Part of the power of Black queer creativity is the fact that we got us, you know?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
We are the greatest culture makers in world history.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
J. Edgar Hoover was furious. He was out of his mind and he wanted to bring the Catholic left to its knees.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Hey, welcome to a brand new second date podcast. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. We're so glad you found us. Yes, on a Friday. Hey, we want to hear in the comments the worst joke or prank somebody's tried to pull on you during a date.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Because that is definitely the theme of at least the first half of our second date update today. Like trying to be flirty and ends up bad. Yeah, yeah. One time I like, I don't know why, okay, don't get me wrong, but I hit a guy's phone out of his hand and it hit his front tooth and chipped it in it, bro. Stop it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Yep. Nope, I'm dead serious.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Yeah, yep, yep. In college. Did you end up dating that guy?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Got for a little bit. Did he dump you after he finally got his tooth fixed and it looked better? Yeah, right? Oh, is that why he broke up with you?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Yeah, that's it. That's it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Oh, you got a full set.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Yeah. All right.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Hey, we want to hear your horror story. Put them in the comments. Thanks so much for being here. Please like, follow, subscribe, share, do all the things. Yes. And let's get this second date started.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Wow, Jeff. It's two dates at the same time, Jeff. I think everybody knows what a double date is.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
You mean he went on two dates in one night.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
It's going to be a second date update, and then we'd be too close to that. So, okay, we'll go with yours.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
It's like an after date.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Oh, gosh. That's not what happened. I think he's joking. That's the way I think.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Okay, and how did you arrange the first hangout?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
No, it's just often people don't describe themselves as into mini golf.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
You know what I mean?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Like you do it, but you're not into it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
You throw the idea out and people go, oh, that sounds fun. But no one's like, oh, my God, I did nine rounds last week. I'm so ready.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Yeah, we get it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
I just teased you a little bit.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
You hid from her?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Oh, again. That's what I heard.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
You can't jump out and yell surprise after she says that out loud.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
You hear him leave, like run away.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
She was angry and embarrassed, but it was funny. Yeah. Worth it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Also, in your defense, bro, you didn't know that she had been left on dates before and you weren't trying to trigger anything. You were just having fun.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
It's funny regardless.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Yeah, obviously. She did finally laugh about it.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
So was that like the middle of the night, or did you have a lot of hangout time after that?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Oh, that is not a prank. Slashed your tire? Do you have, like, a crazy ex or something out there? I'm glad you said that's the first thing I thought.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
I mean, she could have a crazy ex, too. Oh, she sees a car in the driveway. But hopefully not. What was it like going back to her door and telling her what happened? Yeah.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Yeah. I bet she felt so bad. Yeah. I mean, even though it's not her fault, right? Like whenever somebody comes over to my house and something bad happens in my neighborhood, I'm like, Oh my God. Or someone in my apartment parking garage. I'm like, I'm so embarrassed.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Is this the second date?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
It just clicked for me.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Dude, and you didn't have a toothbrush with you, so that says a lot that she would give you a little kiss.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Well, finger brush, you better have done that.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
One orange juice breath.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Oh, forehead kiss.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
I don't know. You guys are sick.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
It's us that's the problem here.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Our cars get stolen. Oh. All four tires gone.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Yeah, which is strange.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Was the quick peck that bad?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
I'm just kidding. Like I said, he didn't have a toothbrush, so maybe it was.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Come on, it can't be morning breath. Everyone gets that.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Not for a second. She thought that she got ditched again. Do you remember that?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Although it did sound like you guys recovered because you did go back to her place. She invited you there. So maybe there's just some simple misunderstanding we're going to fix.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
I'm ready to fight. Oh, this is fighting words. Okay, I'll put the hammer back.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
There's a first time for everything, Jeff, and I am an optimistic person. We're off to a good start. That's what we're saying. Oh, Alexis, I am.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Well, hello. You're so pleasant sounding. I know she is, isn't she? Good morning.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Oh, this is Jose. Sorry. Jeff, do your job, bro. We're a whole show. Oh, yeah. I interrupted. My bad.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
She likes that game.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
We don't need to go through all the interviews.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Remember before, I'm Jose. Just tell her why we're calling you Jeff. Okay.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Okay, I thought you'd explain the segment first.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
You didn't have to tear the Band-Aid off like that.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Did you hang up? Tracy, are you still there? Hello? Yes.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Oh, thank goodness. She was zoned out. You know what? We thought Jeff lost another one.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Well, we heard that you went on a date, and now I forgot the guy's face.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
What do you mean?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
I don't think that's what she was... He did tell us about the mini-golf incident. That was pretty shady.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Part of the power of Black queer creativity is the fact that we got us, you know?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Did you catch him in a lie, you're saying?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
He doesn't know that you know.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Well, don't you want to call him out? I mean, that's what people tend to want to do when someone lies to them. You want to be like... No.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Wait. Are you sure? Like, I mean, it's dark on those surveillance things. Oh, my God.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
We are the greatest culture makers in world history.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
He slags his tires and knocks on your door.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
This is not going to look good right now.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
She has proof. Yeah. That's crazy.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Yeah, I'm sure that's what the manager was doing.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Oh, I'm sorry. Yes, we had no idea.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
Always noble to slash one's own tires, Jeff.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
So you did do this? That's your... Oh, my God!
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
We got to hang out the next week.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
That's your move? Your move is slashing your own tire? Like, you don't have confidence enough in your game?
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: After Date Double Trouble
No one in the history of the world has ever thought slashing tires is cute. No. It's just, it's like a story for the police, maybe.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Philippines or Bust
Your host. iHeartRadio. LL Cool J. Are you guys ready to have some fun tonight? Plus iHeart Innovator Award recipient Lady Gaga.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Philippines or Bust
And iHeart Breakthrough Award recipient Gracie Abrams.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Philippines or Bust
Your host. iHeartRadio. LL Cool J. Are you guys ready to have some fun tonight? Plus iHeart Innovator Award recipient Lady Gaga.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Second Date Update: Philippines or Bust
And iHeart Breakthrough Award recipient Gracie Abrams.
First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show
Why is Jake ghosting Raquel?
I'm glad he was good in person. It was like a real pleasant surprise for sure.
First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show
Why is Jake ghosting Raquel?
Well, yeah, I mean, it makes you feel like did something happen? What's the deal?
First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show
Why is Jake ghosting Raquel?
Well, I mean, I would just wonder if you have some I would be kind of nervous. Like, is this person all right?
First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show
Why is Jake ghosting Raquel?
You know, I'm a mother. I'm a grandmother.
First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show
Why is Jake ghosting Raquel?
Hi, Jake. Jumping right in. Drupal's not by himself. My name's Nina.
First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show
Why is Jake ghosting Raquel?
Jake, can I ask you what types of questions make you feel comfortable? Because I don't know about you guys, but I don't like to waste my time with like, oh, look at the chandelier. It's so beautiful. I'd rather know about you. Yeah. Although I probably would talk about chandelier. But deeper conversations are more meaningful than the surface level. Like, how's the weather?
First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show
Why is Jake ghosting Raquel?
Huh. Technically isn't everybody until you're not. I'm sorry. That's just how I view the world. Okay. Raquel, were you nervous?
First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show
Why is Jake ghosting Raquel?
Thank you so much. I'm excited, but I'm keeping it cool. Good luck. Don't be self-conscious. You can still do whatever you need to do on this date.
First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show
Why is Jake ghosting Raquel?
OK, let's get into it. Tell us about the date. How did you guys meet?
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
You know that feeling of paralysis is often rooted in fear?
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
When we're faced with a mountain of problems, our brains go into survival mode, triggering a stress response that can make even simple tasks feel impossible.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Sounds good.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Oh, yeah.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Oh, thank you.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Right.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
It's a natural human response to want to avoid discomfort. Totally. Yeah.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Interesting. Yeah. OK.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Wow. What's fascinating is that this technique taps into a powerful neurological principle.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
The countdown acts as a bridge between thought and action.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Right.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Exactly. By engaging her prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for decision making, Mel essentially overrides the amygdala, which is our brain's fear center.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Exactly.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
What's that?
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Oh, yeah, for sure.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Okay.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
All right.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
That feeling of momentum, even from completing a small task, can be incredibly powerful. Yeah. It starts to rewire our brains, building confidence and creating a positive feedback loop that encourages us to take on bigger challenges.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah. It's amazing how often those moments of surrender, letting go, lead us to exactly where we need to be.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Precisely. And Mel's story highlights that those small wins can have a ripple effect leading to bigger and bolder actions over time.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
See you in a sec.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah, it's amazing how such a simple technique, a mere five second countdown, can have such a profound impact on our behavior.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Totally, like that little push.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Exactly. And what's even more interesting is that Mel didn't initially set out to create a global phenomenon with this five second rule. It actually came about in a rather unexpected way.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Uh-huh.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah, she was really nervous.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Oh, yeah. Total stage fright.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
And that moment of vulnerability. Right. That raw authenticity. Yeah. Is precisely what resonated with millions of people around the world.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Totally.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
And it goes crazy.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
And it wasn't just about the views.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
People from all walks of life started using the five second rule to overcome all sorts of challenges from finally starting that creative project they'd been putting off to quitting smoking after years of struggling.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Absolutely. Right. Yeah.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
That's what makes Mel's message so powerful. It's not about achieving some grand overnight transformation. It's about those small incremental steps that build momentum and ultimately lead to extraordinary results.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yes.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Exactly. You have to take action.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Absolutely. Mimela went from doing a handful of speaking engagements each year to over 90 plus countless corporate tours and workshops.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
It's a reminder that success is rarely a straight line. Yeah. It's messy.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
It's unpredictable and it often requires us to step outside of our comfort zones and embrace the unknown.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
We'll be right back.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
It's a story that reminds us that we all have the power to change our lives one five second decision at a time.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
And that sometimes the greatest breakthroughs come from those moments when we're willing to let go of fear and just take that first step.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Absolutely.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Don't overthink it. Just pick one small action and use that five-second rule to propel yourself forward.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
You might be surprised by what you can accomplish.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Oh, yeah. What is it?
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Right.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
It's such a powerful reminder that we are ultimately responsible for our own lives. Yeah. We can't wait for someone else to come along and fix things for us. Right. We have to be willing to take ownership and make those small, consistent efforts that will lead to lasting change.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Well, Mel's story is a powerful example of how even in the darkest moments, a single spark of inspiration can ignite a chain reaction that changes everything.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
But the truth is the perfect moment is now.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
And the only permission you need is your own.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Right. Like it's not always going to be perfect.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Exactly. And it's in those moments of struggle when we feel like giving up.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
That the five second rule can be the most powerful.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
It's that little nudge we need to push through the fear and keep moving forward.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
You can do it.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
It's a powerful framework for navigating the complexities of life and finding freedom in the midst of chaos.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Just do it.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
And remember, you don't have to do it alone. Share your experiences with us. Connect with other listeners. And let's support each other on this journey of letting go and embracing the messy beauty of life.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
For sure.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Okay.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Well, what's fascinating is that her journey begins in a place many of us can relate to.
The Let Them Theory | The Messy Podcast
The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Feeling completely overwhelmed by life's challenges.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Yeah.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Uh-huh.
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | Audiobook | The Messy Podcast
Oh, no. It was like a perfect storm.