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Chapter 1: Why is the podcast called 'Please Say Psych'?
Okay, I think we're rolling on everything. I'm so excited to have you. I'm so excited to be here. Also, like the vibes were high. We walked in. I was laying on the couch. We were chatting.
I love this. I know I'm still doing my makeup as Gemma walks in. I'm like, I'm so sorry. It's raining in LA and the world is falling apart. We just don't know how to handle rain here.
You really don't.
It's a bit embarrassing for you guys. It is. And then we have the rain and then we have the mudslides and the earthquakes.
And it's just. I was overwhelmed by that whole discussion of being like, I thought this was like the sunshine state, but it's like the natural disaster state. And when did that become a thing?
You know, like two of the most popular places to live, California and Florida, we get really hit with the weather. You guys should have rethought that when you were... I'm telling you, Minnesota's underrated, guys. I'll keep telling you all. Everyone, you know, it's going to be a climate refuge. Minnesota. Don't let them know. Now you're going to give it all away. I've got my house there.
I'm fine. So everyone, there's enough houses to go around. Come on, guys. But where are you coming from? All the way from... From Sydney, Australia. From down under. From down under.
Why?
I don't know.
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Chapter 2: Can men and women be just friends?
I guess you should have thought about this before all of those trips and the we are not ready yet bullshit. Some of us made sacrifices in our 20s. I got furious. This wasn't the first time she's commented about my life, so I told her to get the fuck out. She grabbed my nieces and left. My mom said I was being hormonal and I should have just ignored her.
My mom thinks my sister said that because she became a mom earlier than me and never enjoyed her life or even any alone time with her husband. My husband thinks I had every right to be upset because she was saying I deserve HG. Do I owe my sister an apology for kicking her out?
No.
100%.
Hell no. No. That is, when we talk about repair, like, that was intentionally meant to hurt you. To say that to you, to judge your choices, you are experiencing a health problem and she's saying, like, it's because you were selfish or... Like, the human body doesn't understand selfishness. Like, it's not going to give you, like, more complications because, like, what, you're a bad person.
Like, I just think that is so entitled and rude and projecting of her own insecurities. Oh, the projection is strong in this one. I literally cannot believe that.
I'm like, okay, what's the math here? Sister's 31, got married seven years ago.
Yeah, so she was, like, 20, what, 24? Yeah.
And, like, that, this is just screaming jealousy. And, like, maybe, you know, maybe their first was a surprise baby. And maybe they, you know, maybe they did want to try. But, like, those are still choices you made for your life. And, hey, even if you had one, you still chose to have three more after. Like, you can travel with one baby. It's hard to travel with four kids. Under the age of eight.
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Chapter 3: How should you handle relationship boundaries?
Is it going to work if he refuses? Refuses, right? Like you guys move out, you get a house or an apartment or whatever together and he refuses to get rid of that bed. I don't know what you're going to do. I think at that point you have to hire like a carpenter and make like a custom one. An even bigger one. An even bigger one. That'd be a nice Valentine's Day present. I'm like, you could do that.
Do you want to see a picture of it? Oh my God, yes. I really do. Hey, but also like, I think when they move in together. I like when my boyfriend's a bit of a dork. Like I like that he's a bit of a nerd. It's cute. I really thought this was fake.
No. OP is in the comments. This is a picture of the bed. Apparently it was from Costco. It has it's a full boat. Like if you think about one of those baby boats that have oars on it, it's one of those, but with a bed frame in it. But then they retrofitted it. So it's got like a captain's wheel, like the ship's wheel at the front of the bed.
It's like a full... It's surrounded, so it's not just the headboard.
No.
It's the full bed. It's in a ship. It's in the boat. It's in the boat.
So I'm like, you could get another one and just push them close together, but you're kind of separated.
And just hold hands.
Yeah, you're separated a little bit. Yeah, just take one of the walls out. But some people aren't cuddlers, and some people go so far as not sharing a bedroom with their partner because of snoring or whatever.
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