Chapter 1: What is the main theme of this episode?
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How can we help, Sarah?
Hi, how are you?
We're doing great. What's going on?
Great. Well... So I am married, possibly separated from my spouse. Um, I stay at home and he is a breadwinner. I've raised our children and I am not allowed to see any of our financial information, bank accounts, credit cards, passwords, nothing like that.
Yikes.
Um, what do you mean you're not allowed? I know. He just says, that's how I was raised. I make the money. And he does have a lot of, he does very well.
I don't care if he makes a dollar or a million. It has no bearing on your involvement in knowing what's going on financially in the family.
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Chapter 2: How do I deal with financial control in a marriage?
Sometimes they say, we're going to dig in and we're going to burn everything to the ground because this is a terrible deal. But that's their job is to fight for you.
I think they can find cryptocurrency because I know that's so shady. It's such a weird.
Dude, you're stepping over $100 bills to pick up nickels right now.
Mm-hmm.
Like you're worried about the thread count on the beach towel you're going to wrap yourself up with if you swim to shore. Like let's get to shore first.
What about him hiding? I know he hides money with his business partners. They like swap hundreds of thousands of dollars and put it in each other's accounts.
Like I say, I mean, what do you want me to tell you?
I think this is you starting to realize how angry and resentful you are, living this life this whole time while he hid everything. But the truth is, like John's saying, it has no bearing. You have your agreement on what it says will happen, and that's what will happen if you take the agreement. And so he may have hidden money offshore. I have no idea. But it doesn't matter.
Right now, this is about you and your kids and your health and your safety.
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