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Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

Tue, 04 Mar 2025

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Chapter 1: Who is Chelsea Handler and what is her purpose?

0.785 - 17.784 Jamie Kern Lima

If you're ready to truly live more, laugh more, and love more, I am so excited you're here for this incredible part three episode with Chelsea Handler, who opens up in ways you've never seen her open up before and shares things she's never shared before.

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18.405 - 46.951 Jamie Kern Lima

if you're ready to build the courage to be more bold confident and free get what you want in life and step into your purpose today we dive into the power of being your authentic self finding your freedom by releasing your past and not giving a damn what other people think and how to truly be who you are and know that the people who are for you will find you and will like you.

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47.592 - 79.492 Jamie Kern Lima

Get ready to laugh, cry and live, laugh and love more in your life today. I am so excited for this amazing conversation with you, me, and Chelsea. One of the things you talk about was a story about your ex, Ted, and having threesomes. And so I'm curious, have you had a lot of threesomes in your life? And also... Also, what about foursomes or fivesomes?

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80.052 - 101.141 Chelsea Handler

I've had a few threesomes. And yeah, I find it very sexy. I mean, I'm definitely open to doing it again. I like adventure, you know? Does it matter if the proportion of men and women in it? People always think that I'm going to become a lesbian at some point. They're always like, come on over, Chelsea.

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101.801 - 127.256 Chelsea Handler

I have someone that I'm seeing now that I'm very attracted to and that I like having sex with, and so that's a really good, nice, like, nice little thing I have going. Is it a serious relationship? Um, I don't think any relationships that I've been in are serious. I don't think of myself as a relationship person.

127.276 - 156.229 Chelsea Handler

I think of myself as a purpose person, like my purpose is here, to be here, to have conversations like the one we're having right now, to infuse people with optimism, to be there for women. That is my purpose in this life. Any man that's in my life is not the main character. I wasn't embracing myself in the way that I am now. I was unsure of myself. I was insecure about many of the things.

156.289 - 181.064 Chelsea Handler

I wasn't sure if I even was supposed to be a public person anymore. Will I be okay without this man? And the answer was a resounding yes. You will. You might even be better. I've only had threesomes with this one woman. She was a masseuse with my ex-boyfriend. And we had threesomes with her several times. Then I hooked up with her a couple times on my own.

181.605 - 192.068 Chelsea Handler

And then with my next boyfriend, we also had a threesome with her. But then I lost her number, and I don't know where she went. But I would love for her to get back in touch with me. Maybe she'll hear that.

193.688 - 200.83 Jamie Kern Lima

My number's still the same. So text me. Okay, same masseuse, different relationship. Yes, yes.

Chapter 2: How does Chelsea Handler approach relationships?

1652.053 - 1663.978 Jamie Kern Lima

Like they can't take your power away because you decide how you're going to feel or the meaning you're going to attach to everything. Yeah. Right? Like you can't figure out technology. Well, what's the meaning you're going to attach to that?

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1664.378 - 1686.041 Jamie Kern Lima

Or someone says something bad or some hater online or this or that, which every one of us now, the person that used to be a teacher or a doctor and they never had to deal with public opinions, now everyone is online saying everything about anybody and everything. So now they're having to kind of deal with that too. I think everyone feels like now they have... Critics or people, this or that.

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1686.081 - 1699.73 Jamie Kern Lima

And so the example or the analogy you gave, water off a duck's back, because water just flows off the feathers, right? It doesn't stick to them. That's so beautiful. So you're able to just do that and be like, you're not taking my joy. Like, you know, people who get road rage.

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1699.991 - 1712.099 Chelsea Handler

Yes. You see people in their cars, like, it's so embarrassing. Like, are you seriously getting mad at somebody else for their driving? Like, why are you wasting your...

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1713.419 - 1738.013 Chelsea Handler

joy on that you just gave away joy like yeah you're you're choosing anger you're you're choosing to be angry over something that has you have no control over like i i remember someone once sent a picture to me of me i was furiously texting like an agent or a manager at some point and you know like angry texting where you're like yeah and my assistant at the time sent me the picture and i just went oh

1739.598 - 1760.09 Chelsea Handler

Oh, like, what are you doing? What are you doing sending emails like that and texts like that with that kind of energy? Transmitting anger and what are you doing? There's a million ways to say everything. Find the nicest way, the gentlest way. You can still be firm and stand up for yourself with grace. You know what I mean?

1760.13 - 1777.405 Chelsea Handler

It doesn't have to be, well, I'm a powerful, you didn't do this and you didn't do that. Like all of that stuff is a choice. So, you know, like when I see people with like road rage or if I see someone, you know, getting mad at a server or a flight attendant, I'm like, you've lost the plot.

1777.946 - 1796.919 Chelsea Handler

Like if you're really upset, like if your flight gets delayed and it's nine hours and you're stuck at the airport, you can choose to have a great time at that airport. Yeah. You can choose that. or you can be a baby and cry about it for five or six hours. You know what I mean? And of course there are extenuating circumstances.

1796.979 - 1808.805 Chelsea Handler

If you're trying to get home to a loved one who's sick or something like that, of course, I understand that. But really in the grand scheme of things, Take whatever things that don't go your way and turn them into something that does.

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