The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Charisma Teacher: Psychology Of Why People Don't Like You! People Are Attracted To These Traits! The Secret To Being Instantly Likeable!
Mon, 03 Feb 2025
They say you either have charisma or you don’t, but Charlie Houpert proves charisma can be built, and reveals the secret code to mastering it for success in love, work, and friendship Charlie Houpert is the co-founder of the confidence-building online platform, ‘Charisma on Command’. He is the author of books such as, ‘The Anti Pick Up Line: Real Habits To Naturally Attract Stunning Women’ and ‘Charisma On Command: Inspire, Impress, and Energize Everyone You Meet’. In this conversation, Charlie and Steven discuss topics such as, how to stop feeling awkward in social situations, the ultimate body language hack to build trust, how to become instantly likeable, and how to master the art of persuasion. 00:00 Intro 02:25 What Is It You Do? 04:39 How Much Will These Skills Shift Someone’s Life? 06:35 Is It Something You Can Learn? 07:15 Your YouTube Channel 09:37 I Was Shy and Introverted—How I Changed 12:47 What Did You Think of Yourself in the Early Years? 15:22 What Was the Biggest Difference in You? 17:32 First Impressions 21:07 Engineer the Conversation You Want to Have 24:38 How to Get Out of Small Talk 26:05 Flirt With the World 27:55 Prey vs. Predator Movements 35:02 The Confidence Trick Before Talking to a Big Crowd 37:02 Do We Underestimate the Ways We Communicate? 41:11 Is Talking About Yourself a Bad Thing? 43:22 How to Connect With Someone in a Normal Interaction 47:40 How to Figure Out if an Interaction Is Real 50:19 People Controlling the Narratives That Reach You 52:18 Narcissists and Sociopaths 55:28 What Billion-Dollar Business Would You Build and Not Sell? 01:01:20 Six Charismatic Mindsets 01:03:16 Elon Musk Salute 01:06:13 The Media Has Made Saying Sorry the Wrong Thing to Do 01:08:26 Ads 01:09:24 Is Trump Charismatic? 01:14:22 Impeccable Honesty and Integrity 01:18:06 I Don’t Need to Convince Anyone of Anything 01:20:43 I Proactively Share My Purpose 01:23:46 Be the First to Humanize the Interaction 01:26:13 Charismatic Types of People 01:31:23 Obama’s Charisma 01:32:26 The Importance of Charisma 01:33:43 Ads 01:35:40 How to Use These Skills to Get a Job or Promotion 01:41:07 What Are Women Attracted to in Your Opinion? 01:45:08 Are People Testing to See if You Have Standards? 01:49:21 Five Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You 01:53:56 Speaking Like a Leader 01:54:46 Pausing Instead of Using Filler Words 01:56:12 Does Body Language Matter When Speaking? 01:57:35 The Fundamentals of Being Confident 01:59:19 What’s the Most Important Thing You’re Doing to Increase Your Well-Being? 02:02:53 What Are the Mixture of Emotions You Feel? 02:08:19 Is There Anything You Wish You Could Have Said to That Boy? Follow Charlie: Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/sX0XNx4tBQb Charisma on Command - https://g2ul0.app.link/Bo2XEO2tBQb Charisma University - https://bit.ly/CUDOAC Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook You can purchase the The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb Follow me: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb Sponsors: Linkedin Ads - https://www.linkedin.com/DIARY NordVPN - https://NORDVPN.COM/DOAC ZOE - http://joinzoe.com with code BARTLETT10 for 10% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Donald Trump's psychotic meltdown and psychotic behavior is accelerating. He's making post after post on his social media, bizarre posts about January 6th insurrectionists, reposts of Marjorie Taylor Greene. This says Donald Trump has initiated a trade war that has crashed the American economy. That is crashing global economies. And this says Donald Trump continues to threaten to invade nations.
He threatens the sovereignty of Canada. He's threatening to invade Panama and Greenland. Here's what Donald Trump is reposting now on his social media. He's reposting a post from Marjorie Taylor Greene from two weeks ago. It's a drawing of a January 6th insurrectionist in prison. Marjorie Taylor Greene wrote, of January 6th pardons.
Soon the nightmare of the politically weaponized government will end and the healing can begin. So why is Donald Trump reposting this right now as he started a cataclysmic trade war? Why is he posting this now? I think he's signaling to January 6th insurrectionists
who he pardoned, I'm going to need your help now because I am despised and detested and I'm going to need your back right now as I am hated right now here in the United States and abroad. So I think this is a message in my view that he's signaling to his extremists, to his gang, the same way authoritarians in the past have done that. And you know who I'm talking about.
Then Donald Trump makes posts like this. Anybody that's against tariffs, including the fake news, Wall Street Journal and hedge funds, is only against them because these people or entities are controlled by China. or other foreign or domestic companies, anybody that loves and believes in the United States of America is in favor of tariffs.
They should have never ended in favor of the income tax system in 1913. The response to tariffs has been, and he puts this in all caps, fantastic. This is how psychotic this individual is. This is an individual who, if he wasn't in this position, would need to be wearing a straitjacket right now, an involuntary psychiatric 5150 hold. And we need to talk about it in those terms.
This is a psycho-demented individual saying the response has been fantastic, by the way. Rupert Murdoch owns the Wall Street Journal, which supported Donald Trump. For Donald Trump to now say the fake news Wall Street Journal, notice that Donald Trump has made all these other media corporations and media companies wear their knee pads and bend the knees.
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