On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Do This Every Morning to Boost Energy & Stay Focused (3 Minute Habit to Kickstart Your Day)
Fri, 04 Apr 2025
Do you have a morning routine? How do you usually boost your energy in the morning? Today, Jay explores a challenge we all face, feeling drained, exhausted, and overwhelmed. He reminds us that rest isn’t a luxury but a necessity, and pushing ourselves too hard only leads to burnout. In this episode, he shares simple yet powerful strategies to help us reclaim our energy, set better boundaries, and shift our mindset from perfectionism to progress. One key lesson is focusing on progress instead of perfection. Many of us wait for the “perfect” moment, but that often keeps us from starting at all. Jay also encourages us to spot and fix our energy leaks—those unnoticed habits, relationships, or activities that quietly wear us down. Whether it’s spending time with people who drain us, sitting through unnecessary meetings, or endlessly scrolling on social media, these small but consistent drains add up. By recognizing them, we can take control and protect our energy. In this episode, you'll learn: How to Stop Feeling Drained and Reclaim Your Energy How to Focus on Progress Instead of Perfection How to Set Boundaries to Protect Your Time and Energy How to Make Rest a Priority (and Why It’s Productive) How to Structure Your Day Around Your Peak Energy Hours Feeling drained and overwhelmed doesn’t have to be your norm. You have the power to take back your energy, set boundaries, and create a life that feels balanced and fulfilling. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:37 How to Break Free from Feeling Drained 02:32 #1: Focus on Progress and Process not Perfection 05:39 #2: The Energy Leaks Principle 12:56 #3: The Boundaries for Energy Principle 14:15 #4: The ‘Rest is Productive’ Principle 16:55 #5: The Art of Saying NO Principle 18:40 #6: The Small Wins Principle 20:12 How to Manage Your Energy Daily 22:43 Setting the Right Tone for the DaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Chapter 1: How can rest improve productivity?
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So many people will forego rest in order to be more productive, in order to be more effective, in order to be more efficient, not realizing the quality of their work is dwindling, not realizing the efficiency of their work is going down, not realizing that their productivity is decreasing. If you keep going, I promise you, you're not making great stuff. The number one health and wellness podcast.
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Chapter 2: How to break free from feeling drained?
Hey everyone, welcome back to On Purpose. I'm your host, Jay Shetty, and I am so grateful that you've joined me today. I wanted to start by saying that I want you to leave this episode knowing how you don't have to feel drained. I know that you're carrying a lot. I know that it feels heavy. And I know that it's felt that way for a long, long time.
But you don't have to carry someone else's baggage. You don't have to push someone else's rock up a hill. You don't have to climb the mountain that others want you to climb. And today's episode is all about how you can break free from feeling drained and exhausted all the time to actually feeling energized and feeling present.
Chapter 3: Why should we focus on progress instead of perfection?
And the principles and insights and ideas I'm going to share with you today, if you can just start putting one into practice, you will see your life change. So the first thing that I want to talk about is you have to start focusing on progress, and the process, not perfection. So many of us are addicted to perfection. And maybe we became that way because of our parents.
Maybe you were the kid who got nine out of 10 and your parents asked, why didn't you get 10 out of 10? Maybe you're the kid who always tried their best, but that was never good enough if you didn't finish above everyone else. Maybe you were the kid that would create something new and interesting and unique, but it didn't look perfect.
Or maybe it came to you later on in life where you felt the pressure to dress a certain way, to present yourself a certain way, because everyone else was, and you've never felt perfect enough. But the truth is, Anyone who's aiming for perfection doesn't get there by focusing on perfection. They get there through iterating and shifting the process and focusing on progress.
When we say practice makes perfect, practice is all about process and progress. And what we need to do in order to do that is we have to break large projects into smaller, achievable tasks. We need to learn to celebrate small wins and milestones rather than waiting for the final result.
We have to allow ourselves to make mistakes, embrace imperfection, and significantly reduce the mental and emotional strain. reduce unnecessary pressure, increase satisfaction with progress, and prevent emotional fatigue from perfectionism. What I want you to do is for the next seven days, I want you to start something without the pressure of it feeling perfect.
Or even better than that, the next time you get asked to do a presentation, aim for 70%. Do you know that at college, if you get 70%, I remember at least in London, that's a first-class degree. It's a first-class standard, anything above 70. So whether you got 70 or 99, you got a first-class degree. But today, we even feel that 99 isn't 100, right? We even feel 99 is not perfect.
Start growing and building something up to 70%. Launch it at 70%, write it at 70%, record it at 70%, post it at 70%. Everything needs to just be 70%. And what you'll find is that the more you release at 70%, the better you'll get at moving from 70 to 100. The problem is we don't start. We get stuck at 0% because we want to be at 100%. Start at 70%.
The second thing I want to talk to you about is something I call the energy leaks principle. What I want you to do is I want you to identify and plug the energy leaks. Just as a leaky bucket loses water, you lose energy through various activities, people, or habits. identifying and addressing these energy leaks is crucial for maintaining high energy.
I think we don't realize how many things we do on a weekly basis that we repeatedly do that leak our energy. It could be watching your favorite team lose every weekend. You lose energy every time they lose, but you still turn up to watch. Maybe you lose energy when you spend time with the same people every week.
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Chapter 4: What are energy leaks and how to identify them?
And the starters were great, but I didn't love the mains. right? It's a really normal conversation. We evaluate, and then we know whether we're going back to that restaurant again, or we know whether we'll never, ever go back ever again. But we don't do the same with people. And I'm not saying to be critical or be condescending. It's to evaluate how we feel. Is that a place?
Is that a person I want to revisit? That's the question. Is that a place or a person I want to revisit? What will happen if and when I revisit? Chances are, if I've done this long enough, I already know the result. So if I'm going to do it, I better be fully aware that I better actually be totally conscious of how I'm going to feel when I leave. The second thing is limit time-wasting activities.
Identify activities that deplete your energy without providing much return. Could be scrolling on social media. Too many unnecessary meetings. This is something I really want you to think about. If you have a Zoom call, after the Zoom call, ask yourself, could that have been a phone call? Now, after a phone call, ask yourself, could that have been a email?
Now, if it's an email, ask yourself, could that have been a text, a Slack message? Always ask yourself whether the meeting you're in is actually a powerful use of your time. And I also find that it's so interesting that our schedule has defined meetings to have to be 30 minutes or 60 minutes. But why can't they be 10? Why can't they be 15?
How many times have you sat in an hour-long meeting and thought to yourself, this should have been a 10-minute phone call. This should have been a three-minute email. This should have been a 30-second Slack message. But we still schedule meetings. Imagine you looked at your schedule today for the next week and just re-evaluated what really was worth a one-hour meeting.
So many hours are wasted in the workplace because we think everything needs to be a meeting. Everything needs to be a Zoom call. Everyone's on it and everyone's just sitting around. There's two people having a conversation. Only two people are talking, but there's 20 people on this Zoom. Is it necessary? Is it needed?
Are we really being as productive, effective, and more importantly, are we protecting our energy? Ask yourself, could the Zoom have been a phone call, the phone call been email, the email been a Slack message? Are we using our time wisely? And if you're scrolling on social media, why not read a book? If you don't want to read a book, why not read an article?
If you're not reading an article, why not read some poetry? What is it that you can do that satisfies, that satiates that thirst that you have to want to learn, to want to see something, to want to be entertained? I want it too. One of the things I try and do is I leave books open in different places in my home that I'm likely to sit down with my phone. And I've created a specific phone area.
It's in a space that I get ready and I try to leave my phone there throughout the day so that that's the only area I use my phone. It's almost like what a landline used to be, right? Your landline wasn't something you could carry everywhere with you and life went on just fine, right? It's really interesting.
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Chapter 5: How to set boundaries to protect your energy?
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The next principle is one that sounds like it should be obvious, but it's counterintuitive. It's called the rest is productive principle. Understand that rest is an active strategy for energy. Listen to this carefully. Rest isn't a luxury. It's a necessity. Rest isn't an option. It's a priority. Rest isn't something we should be hoping for. It's something we should plan for.
Rest is something we all need and deserve. It's so interesting to me that so many people will forego rest in order to be more productive, in order to be more effective, in order to be more efficient, not realizing the quality of their work is dwindling, not realizing the efficiency of their work is going down, not realizing that their productivity is decreasing. If you keep going...
I promise you, you're not making great stuff. If you keep pushing, I promise you, you're not making anything better. And if you keep on doing it, I promise you, it's not sustainable. We have to learn to realize rest is productive. Rest is effective. Rest is strategic. So what do you need to do? Schedule rest periods.
Include deliberate rest and downtime in your calendar, whether it's a 30-minute nap, the weekend off, or an evening of relaxation. It's so easy to skip these. Most people don't even take their annual vacations and annual leave because they think they have too much to do, not realizing that we do it less well. We take longer to do short tasks. We have to work harder to do easier things.
We get weaker and weaker when actually rest would have made us stronger and sharper. It's also really important to set recovery time after work. After intense work sessions or meetings, take time to reset before jumping into your next task. I promise you it will actually make you better. I think that's the point. A lot of people think, well, I don't have time to rest.
Well, actually, if you took time to rest, everything else would become quicker, faster, simpler, easier. That's the point. And also it's about mindful rest, rest that actually helps you rejuvenate, not just switching off. The next principle is essentially the art of saying no principle. Learning to say no is a vital skill.
Every yes takes up time and energy, so saying no to low-priority things is essential to conserve your energy. And how do you say no? You have to practice it. Start small. Say no to non-essential meetings, events, tasks, things that don't align with your bigger goal. and filter opportunities. Ask yourself, will this energize me or deplete me?
Often we look at our calendar and we say, oh, there's nothing on that evening. Sure, I'll be there. But we didn't actually evaluate the thing we're actually going to, right? Do I want to go to that thing? Does that thing actually energize me? Do those people energize me? We waste so much energy and we burn out because we look at things as time, not energy, right?
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