In the second episode of season 5, Andrea dives into how Sophie’s Evangelical Christian beliefs colored her worldview. From claiming that adopting a child from Zambia was God’s path for her life to allegedly performing an exorcism, Sophie’s faith is an integral part of this case. We hear from Dr. Lauren Turek, an Associate Professor of History at Trinity University in San Antonio, TX and author of To Bring the Good News to All Nations: Evangelical Influence on Human Rights and U.S. Foreign Relations, gives us a context about Evangelical Christianity in the US and abroad and helps us understand Sophie’s religious upbringing and worldview. Andrea is then joined by some of the Nobody Should Believe Me team: Senior Producer Myrriah Gossett and Lead Researcher/Producer Erin Ajayi to attempt to fill in the many blanks left by Sophie’s memoir about her time in Zambia. The three of them lay out a timeline leading up to Sophie’s adoptions of M and C, while at the same time examining the series of omissions and half-truths riddling Sophie’s story. *** Links and Resources: Learn more about Dr. Lauren Turek: https://laurenturek.com/ Preorder Andrea and Mike’s new book The Mother Next Door: Medicine, Deception, and Munchausen by Proxy Catch Andrea and Mike at their Seattle Book Launch Event: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/andrea-dunlop-and-mike-weber-the-mother-next-door-tickets-1097661478029 Learn more about our featured non-profit and mutual aid organizations: https://www.nobodyshouldbelieveme.com/nsbm-supports/ Click here to view our sponsors. Remember that using our codes helps advertisers know you’re listening and helps us keep making the show! Subscribe on YouTube where we have full episodes and lots of bonus content. Follow Andrea on Instagram for behind-the-scenes photos: @andreadunlop Buy Andrea's books here. To support the show, go to Patreon.com/NobodyShouldBelieveMe or subscribe on Apple Podcasts where you can get all episodes early and ad-free and access exclusive ethical true crime bonus content. For more information and resources on Munchausen by Proxy, please visit MunchausenSupport.com The American Professional Society on the Abuse of Children’s MBP Practice Guidelines can be downloaded here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Chapter 1: What are the themes of spiritual warfare discussed?
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Media stories about Munchausen by proxy often only scratch the surface of the complicated tangle of deceptions and manipulations that underpin them. And the media coverage of the Hartman case is no exception. These stories tend to get fixated on details like the number of times the kid was taken to the doctor or the gruesome surgeries that they endured, possibly under false pretenses.
And in doing so, they really miss the central question. Why did this happen? You either have to determine why a mother would ever do the unthinkable things she's being accused of, or if she didn't do those things, why doctors and others would conspire against her to say that she did. When attempting to unravel a story like Sophie Hartman's, it can be hard to know just how far back to go.
I remember this feeling in the years after I became estranged from my sister, Megan, following the first investigation into her for medical child abuse almost 14 years ago now. It was impossible to know where to begin, because it wasn't just that Megan lied about her son's medical issues or that she lied about her own.
The more those of us who loved her started to pull on the threads, the more the entire fabric of who I thought I knew just came completely undone. Megan lied about finances, about work, and just about all these little incidental things. It was really everything everywhere all at once. And what I've learned in the years that I've been covering these cases is that it's always like this.
Perpetrators lie about everything. And being around one of them just leaves you constantly on your back foot. As these cases play out in court, they often become hyperfixated on a single piece of the puzzle. Perhaps an event that was captured on video surveillance. Or they go on a fool's errand to prove or disprove a single rare diagnosis.
And in doing so, they completely miss the forest for the trees. Because the lying isn't just a feature of this abuse, it is the abuse. There may be physical abuse or poisoning as well, but the deception is always the primary weapon. And while there are many mysteries around what really happened with Sophie Hartman, one thing we can be sure of is that she is an unreliable narrator of her own story.
We know this because she tells us so in the pages of her very own journal, entries of which were included in the case files. She writes, When it comes to suffering, I am a compulsive liar. As we covered last time, much of Sophie's memoir sounds implausible on its face.
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Chapter 2: How does Sophie's faith influence her actions?
But just because this book is not a truthful representation of Zambia, or even of Sophie's time there, it doesn't mean that it's not extraordinarily telling. Munchausen by proxy cases typically begin while the mother is pregnant. This pattern, as we've talked about in previous seasons, usually begins with obstetrical complications, followed by a preterm birth.
And as I've said before, I strongly believe that this is no coincidence. But for Sophie, there was no pregnancy. According to sources we've spoken to on background, there was never even a serious partner in the mix. This is a notable piece in this case. So Sophie's less conventional path to motherhood is interesting, and it's one that she positions as ordained by God.
Many women dream of becoming mothers, but Sophie, again in her own words, had a very specific vision of motherhood in mind.
I kind of had made a commitment that I was going to adopt a child who no one was waiting in line for. I remember saying, like, give me a child who's blind or with severe cerebral palsy.
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Chapter 3: What is the definition of evangelical Christianity?
Reach out, and we're going to pray for Sophie. Lord God, we just thank you so much for what you have done in the life of Sophie. God, sometimes we cry out and we say, why? Why? We don't always understand why things happen. We don't understand why situations occur. We don't understand why things have to be so hard. But Lord God, we know that you know why.
Listening to this, I'm struck by how faith intersects with this particular case. Again, it speaks to the why of it all. And I wanted to know a bit more about how the church fit in Sophie's worldview. So we asked Dr. Turek.
So Haven Church was originally part of the Reformed Church in America. And what's interesting about her church is her church is now part of a group of those Reformed churches that actually split off from the Reformed Church in America to form a new umbrella organization. So they're now part of something called the Alliance of Reformed Churches.
Sophie's home church ended up splitting off to be part of the Alliance of Reformed Churches in 2021. This followed division within the denomination over whether to perform same-sex marriages after the Oberfeld decision in 2015 that made equal marriage the law of the land. And Haven moved to the more conservative end of the spectrum.
many of the churches in the Alliance of Reformed Churches, so the ones that Haven belongs to now, they were much more politically conservative, and so they are really uncomfortable with the changes happening in the RCA, and they broke off. So they make their own more conservative Reformed church organization.
Very interestingly, their organization, in addition to being opposed to same-sex marriage and opposed to abortion and being very supportive of Israel, they also They don't disallow women from being pastors, but they leave it up to the individual churches to decide if they want to allow it. And the majority of the churches in the Alliance of Reformed Churches do not accept women as pastors.
So this is a pretty conservative church.
So while this church doesn't necessarily welcome women at the head of its leadership, Sophie appears to have established some real influence here, as seen in the sermon she gives, which we shared with Dr. Turek.
It really emphasizes evangelism. You shared with me a sermon that she gave when she went back to Haven, and I was listening to what she was saying, and she was using a lot of language that speaks to that evangelicalism.
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Chapter 4: How does the church's influence shape Sophie's worldview?
Our conversation with Dr. Turek really started to turn on some lights for me as we got into Sophie's framing of herself as being on a mission from God, with anyone who pushes back on her work or her desire to adopt C&M being, essentially, on a mission from Satan. This idea that she's not only doing God's work but being persecuted for it is central to Sophie's narrative.
She does talk about facing resistance. She talks about actually being called a Satanist by people in Zambia. And in that, she doesn't really extrapolate on the reasons that they might have come to that conclusion. Right. But I recall one of the passages where she writes, I think it's in her journal or it's a conversation that she's having with Jesus.
And she said, maybe it's just because they don't understand me and they don't understand my call to be here. And they don't understand the work that that Jesus has sent me to do in this place that they just can't imagine or envision why I would leave here. my comfortable place in America to come here.
And so it's very much a me against the world, me and Jesus against the world kind of mentality that I think she brings into this. It's like, well, I don't have to explain it or I don't have to give too many details because this is the assignment that I got from Jesus. back to establishing a timeline.
So in the course of my research from her memoir, her blog that we discovered, it's called Crowns of Beauty, and we were able to pull the archives from her blog up, even high school yearbooks and news articles from the college that she went to. I used all of these things to try to come up with some kind of timeline. And
The best conclusion that I could come to based on the dates that she cited in her books is that there were actually two trips that Sophie took to Zambia prior to committing to leave college early and move there. So the first one is... She talks about in her memoir, going in the summer of 2008 to Kafui, Zambia, after she completed her freshman year of college.
That's when she went on this month-long mission trip. Then the following year, as early as April 2009, she's actually back in Zambia, at least for a few months now. doing an orphan ministry internship. And it's here where her memoir actually begins. And it's on this trip that she decides that she hears this call that she's being led to move to Zambia and be a missionary.
And so the game plan is to go back home, announce this to her parents and family, kind of wrap things up, and then move back to Zambia. And so based on the timeline that I could, you know, decipher and research, and also I know Mariah as well, as we were pulling different things together, it's by December 2009, she's back in Zambia working for a nonprofit organization.
And while the nonprofit organization that we are able to sort of find verification for and we did reach out to them and I will read their words exactly. It just says we do not have any records to check Sophie's exact dates for when she was in Zambia. Sorry, we're not able to help more. So they just said we don't have any records to check, not that we don't have any records of Sophie.
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Chapter 5: What role does deception play in the case?
This is also potentially where she adopted Z and M from.
I was able to find people who work there, find photos.
I've gone back on all of their social media pages and granted they only go back to 2015 and the wider organization that runs these, they call them crisis nurseries instead of orphanages, which is also really interesting that they, I don't, that could also be a new phrasing that they've adopted recently, but they, you know, really state that their mission is to put these kids with families and keep them with families so much so that they provide like
career coaching and farm training and like all these things for mothers to be able to get the services that they need and income that they need to keep their children. So it seems like they're really focused on trying to do, you know, bigger scope work. And from all of the photos we could gather, one, it's large staffs that are working there.
I'm sure like any nonprofit, it's never enough, you know, or Or school systems in general, like my mom's a teacher. I know she's like too many kids, not enough adults and not enough funding. And I'm sure that's true across the board. But these look like. standup institutions, they've got funding, they've got like a bunch of incredible stories of the work that they're doing.
And it doesn't seem as doom and gloom as the book made it out to be.
Yeah, for sure. I think when we did find pictures of the organization, again, with the caveat that like, we don't know exactly when these photos are from, and it could have looked different during the time that she was there and with all that. But I mean, I think, you know, you know, yeah, it looks sort of clean and safe and newer and it's not the image that- They're keeping up facilities, yeah.
Right, it's not this sort of just, I mean, Every description that Sophia includes in this book, really, of Zambia just presents the most sort of crushing scene of poverty. And, you know, she might have seen some of that. That exists everywhere. I mean, I live in Seattle. I could go find that this afternoon if that's what I was, you know, if that's what I was sort of the work that I was doing.
So it's not to say that that's not accurate at all, but like it is notable. And I think also just like I think there's something that really struck me about Zambia. The sort of her being alone and being a singular figure.
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Chapter 6: What is the significance of the timeline in Sophie's adoptions?
I think Sophie posed to these adoption agencies. At the time that Em's adoption was approved, Sophie was now over the age of 25, was exactly 25. And I think because she was 21 years older than C., was able to say, can I adopt these two sisters to keep them together? That is my working theory. Not able to confirm.
We did reach out to officials with the ministry who oversees adoption in Zambia currently, but we did not hear back for comment. Yeah.
I think that's a really solid theory. And I think, too, you know, something that really tracks throughout the rest of this story and indeed that is a very strong parallel with other stories that we cover on this show is that We underestimate what a completely relentless person can accomplish, right?
Like, if you are so singularly focused on something, the way she even self-described, you know, was on making these adoptions go through.
But she gives a very interesting summary of how it happened. But she said, this case was an incredibly unique situation due to my age and to the Zambian situation. adoption laws requiring a prospective adoptive parent to be 25 years old and 21 years older than the child being adopted.
After eight unfavorable court hearings and an agonizing battle of four years, with an absolute determination to uphold proper ethics while fighting for the best interests of my daughter, on May 7th, 2015, the law was legally bypassed. Ella's adoption was finalized. Yeah. Yeah, just like just illegally and ethically.
I just waited until I was 25. Right.
I was like, that's just an interesting way to summarize it.
Now look, maybe it just seems like we are nosy weirdos who have too much time on our hands to pick apart someone's self-published memoir. But the dissonance between Sophie's account of her time in Zambia and these other artifacts we unearthed is at the root of Sophie's picture of herself as a mother.
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