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EP. 193: WASHINGTON D.C. - She Gave Her Child To A Pedophile: The Disappearance of Relisha Rudd

Fri, 14 Mar 2025

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In 2014, a young girl named Relisha Rudd disappeared from a homeless shelter in the Washington D.C. area, and the story of what happened afterwards will shock you to your very core. You’re listening to MURDER IN AMERICA. - Listen to our new show, "THE CONSPIRACY FILES"!: -Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/5IY9nWD2MYDzlSYP48nRPl -Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-conspiracy-files/id1752719844 -Amazon/Audible - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ab1ade99-740c-46ae-8028-b2cf41eabf58/the-conspiracy-files -Pandora - https://www.pandora.com/podcast/the-conspiracy-files/PC:1001089101 -iHeart - https://iheart.com/podcast/186907423/ -PocketCast - https://pca.st/dpdyrcca -CastBox - https://castbox.fm/channel/id6193084?country=us - Stay Connected: Join the Murder in America fam in our free Facebook Community for a behind-the-scenes look, more insights and current events in the true crime world: https://www.facebook.com/groups/4365229996855701 If you want even more Murder in America bonus content, including ad-free episodes, come join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/murderinamerica Instagram: http://instagram.com/murderinamerica/ Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/people/Murder-in-America-Podcast/100086268848682/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/MurderInAmerica TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theparanormalfiles and https://www.tiktok.com/@courtneybrowen Feeling spooky? Follow Colin as he travels state to state (and even country to country!) investigating claims of extreme paranormal activity and visiting famous haunted locations on The Paranormal Files Official Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheParanormalFilesOfficialChannel - (c) BLOOD IN THE SINK PRODUCTIONS 2025 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Chapter 1: What happened to Relisha Rudd?

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Warning, the following podcast is not suitable for all audiences. We go into great detail with every case that we cover and do our best to bring viewers even deeper into the stories by utilizing disturbing audio and sound effects.

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Trigger warnings from the stories we cover may include violence, rape, murder, and offenses against children.

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This podcast is not for everyone. You have been warned.

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23.616 - 48.175 Khalil Tatum

If my daughter is watching this right now, I would say, I love you. And come back home to your mother safely and unharmed. And I love you. And when you do return back, and if you do return back unharmed, you will never, ever go with anybody else. You will be next to my side at all times.

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In today's story, we are going to tell you about the Rudd family. In 2014, Shamika and Antonio, along with their four children, were living in a Washington, D.C. homeless shelter called the D.C. General Family Shelter. But this was no place to raise a child. It was dirty and filled with bedbugs.

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The rooms and hallways were lined with drug addicts, vagrants, and drifters who were down on their luck. And for the children who lived there, there wasn't even a place for them to play. So for eight-year-old Relisha Rudd, it was not a happy place to spend her childhood. However, there was one person there who helped make things better, the shelter's janitor, 51-year-old Khalil Tatum.

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He would often buy Relisha gifts. He would take her out to get her nails done and buy her new clothing. To an eight-year-old little girl living in a homeless shelter, these acts of kindness were everything, especially because she didn't have much. But in reality, Khalil Tatum was not doing this because he wanted to help her out. Relisha Rudd was being groomed.

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Washington, DC, the city and capital of the United States, full of history, iconic landmarks, and world-class museums. From the White House to the Lincoln Memorial, the city remains a living tribute to our nation's past. Each year, millions of tourists come in to explore its rich history, cultural diversity, and scenic beauty.

Chapter 2: Who were the key players in Relisha's life?

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So when Antonio and Shamika crossed paths, they had a lot in common. Their shared traumas made them feel that they weren't alone, and eventually the two would go on to have two sons together. By 2010, there were four children living in their home, Relisha and Irving Jr., from Shamika's previous relationship and the two sons she shared with Antonio.

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Now, one would think, after growing up in such unstable environments, that they would want to create a better life for their kids. But sadly, history here would repeat itself. In 2010, Relisha was four years old. She was described as a natural caregiver. and she enjoyed taking care of her younger brothers.

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It was said that she would often run their baths for them, making sure it was the perfect temperature. She would also scold them when they ate too much candy. She took such good care of her brothers, her nickname was Lil Mama. Family was everything to Relisha, and she took her role as big sister seriously. As she grew up, Antonio Wheeler took on the role of Relisha's father.

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despite not being blood related he would later say quote she was real helpful she was always happy she kept the family happy she was the spirit for the family end quote from day one antonio loved relisha like she was his own daughter she was intelligent independent and according to her aunt ashley full of sass and spunk she was a typical kid she enjoyed riding bikes and racing her brothers she loved to dance and her favorite color was purple

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But sadly, life within their home wasn't the life that Relisha deserved.

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In April of 2010, the Child and Family Service Agency received another complaint that Shamika was neglecting her children when her son failed to show up to a doctor's appointment after surgery. It was also noted that the apartment they lived in was quote, environmentally unsafe.

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According to their records, when social workers arrived, they discovered that the home was filled with cigarette butts and trash. They also noted that the children, all being under the age of four, were allowed to bathe themselves without adult supervision, which is pretty crazy considering the fact that Antonio's little brother died in the bathtub when he was a baby.

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But even though the Child and Family Services noted that their home was unsafe, the children were not removed from Shamika and Antonio's care, and ultimately the complaint was dismissed. Sadly, it seemed as if history was repeating itself. Relisha and her siblings were not raised in a great environment. During her childhood, Relisha and her family were forced to move on multiple occasions.

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But from pre-K to first grade, Relisha attended Fairby Hope Elementary School, and one of her teachers, Shannon Smith, told the Washington Post that Relisha loved hugs. However, during their warm embrace each morning, Shannon noticed that Relisha always smelled like she hadn't taken a bath. So together, the two came up with a routine.

Chapter 3: What were the living conditions of the Rudd family?

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From there, Antonio Googled shelters, and he placed a phone call to a woman named Virginia Williams at the Family Resource Center. After that, a van was sent out to pick up the family, but due to the limited room at the available shelters, they were forced to live in a days-end hotel until something opened up.

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Antonio stated, quote, "'It was at night when they came and got us, "'so we went to Virginia Williams "'and sat in the empty building till the morning.'" until they put us in a hotel in the day's end. So we've been at the day's end for almost a year because it took them a while to place us in a shelter." But during the summer of 2013, they were finally placed into the DC General Family Shelter.

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Antonio said that when they first arrived, everything seemed okay. The people were nice and the staff was accommodating. However, he immediately knew that he didn't want his children growing up there. He was right. The D.C. General Family Shelter was no place for children. The shelter had once been the D.C. General Hospital. Most of the patients were poor.

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And when it closed in 2001, Washington, D.C. did not have a public hospital for nearly nine years. After the hospital closed, it became a warming center for homeless people during the cold months. But it eventually turned into a homeless shelter due to the high number of people that needed temporary housing. However, the living conditions inside the shelter were horrific.

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There were bed bug infestations, dirty showers, and across the street was a methadone clinic and a correctional facility.

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It was reported that the families lived in old hospital rooms with cart beds. There was a bathroom with a toilet and a sink, but if you wanted to shower, you had to go down the hall, where other strangers were hanging out. There was also no dedicated playground for the 600 children who lived at the shelter during the time Relisha arrived with her family.

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so children often played with boxes outside near the city street with the condition of this shelter there were numerous reported incidents of assault fights and domestic violence the lack of security made it a hot spot for drug deals and addiction the halls were filled with people shooting up or high on drugs in interviews people compared the interior to a horror movie and admitted that there were still boxes of medical records and office supplies scattered throughout the building

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When Relisha and her family moved there, they hated it, especially Relisha. When she went to visit her Aunt Ashley, she would sometimes fake asthma attacks just so she could stay there. Relisha referred to the shelter as the G and the Trap House, complaining that the food was terrible and the rooms were infested with creatures.

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In fact, several residents issued complaints with the Washington Legal Clinic citing mice and bed bug infestations, heating outages, and wild animals being found inside closets and bathrooms. Berlisha often begged to go to her grandmother, Melissa Young's house. She wanted to live anywhere other than the shelter, going as far as to fake an illness just so she didn't have to go back.

Chapter 4: How did Khalil Tatum become involved with Relisha?

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neighbor maurice jackson says tatum implied the girl was his niece and said he and his wife had just returned from some type of resort with the child authorities and volunteers continued to search land and water for eight-year-old relisha rudd her former teacher at the farrabee hope elementary school shannon smith was one of the volunteers she would tell john quillen hill on the through the cracks podcast we were over by kennelworth avenue in the park and we walked through the park

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Some of the park police would be out there with us and we would split up and everybody would just be out there walking until we just couldn't walk no more trying to find her." Relisha's stepfather, Antonio, wanted to join the search, but people speculated he was involved and he started to receive threats.

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According to John Quillen Hill, just weeks before Relisha had gone missing, Antonio had posted a photo on his Facebook account, showcasing a large wad of money. After seeing that, people wondered if he had received the money by selling his own stepdaughter. But Antonio denied this. He would later say that the money was from his tax return, but internet trolls didn't buy it.

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Soon the comment section was flooded with, Is it possible she was trafficked? It's pretty clear in my mind that her parents sold her to this Tatum guy. They should be prosecuted. And I suspect they may have given her away.

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Not only was Antonio being harassed on the internet with people messaging him and calling him a rapist and pedophile, but to make matters worse, DC's Child and Family Services Agency had removed Relisha's three younger brothers from Shamika and Antonio, which is understandable.

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By March 20th, there was still no sign of Relisha Rudd, but soon enough, they would get a lead. Khalil's maroon SUV with the license plate Khalil was spotted at the Red Roof Inn on Oxon Hill Road. Immediately, authorities descended upon the hotel. and made their way towards room 132, the very room that Khalil had checked into just one day prior.

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As authorities approached the door, they didn't know what to expect. Would Relisha be inside? Would Khalil be with her? They didn't know, but soon enough, they would get some answers. However, it was not at all what anyone was expecting. After breaking into room 132, authorities would find a body, but it wasn't the body of an eight-year-old girl. It was the body of Khalil's wife, Andrea Tatum.

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She was found face down on the bed with a single gunshot wound to her head. There were no signs of a struggle and her artificial fingernails were still intact. But as authorities looked around the room, Khalil was nowhere to be found. Surveillance footage from the Red Roof Inn showed that Khalil and Andrea had checked in on March 19th at 10.04 p.m.

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However, there were no signs that Relisha had ever been with the couple. Three witnesses were also shown with the couple, but 90 minutes later, they left the room. One of these men later told the police that he returned to the hotel room on March 20th at 5.40 a.m. to pick up Khalil. But for whatever reason, Khalil did not allow him to enter the room.

Chapter 5: What were the circumstances surrounding Relisha's disappearance?

4733.801 - 4742.907 Antonio Wheeler

Are we done here? Your turn.

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4742.927 - 4747.05 Colin Browen

Your turn. Your turn.

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4747.11 - 4749.472 Unknown

Hold on, hold on, hold on.

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4749.572 - 4751.073 Ashley Young

I ain't gotta take no test.

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4753.643 - 4758.271 Unknown

Hold on, hold on. She's right. She doesn't have to take a test.

4759.092 - 4761.115 Antonio Wheeler

I'm going to get my kids back.

4762.27 - 4773.177 Unknown

I know, but I ain't do nothing. You know what? She's right. Please, please stop. You don't have to take a test, but you're not eliminating yourself as a suspect in the disappearance of your daughter.

4773.197 - 4782.263 Khalil Tatum

Let me tell you something. I talk to the police. I talk to the police day to day, and I'm not, they don't never discuss me. They discuss other people.

4782.624 - 4791.85 Unknown

I was the police, and I investigated murders, crimes against children, and I'll tell you right now, you would be number one on my list of people I'd be looking at.

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