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Episode 652: Jean Harris and the Murder of Herman Tarnower (Part 2)

Mon, 10 Mar 2025

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When Jean Harris met Herman Tarnower in the winter of 1966, she quickly fell in love the charming doctor. Having just come out of a disappointing twenty-year marriage, Harris was desperate to find the love and stimulating partnership she’d long dreamed of, and believed she’d finally found it in the intellectual Tarnower and the two would live happily ever after. But fourteen years later, Tarnower was dead and Harris was on trial for his murder, her fantasy of happily ever after having crumbled around her.Thank you to the Incredible Dave White of Bring Me the Axe Podcast for research and Writing support!ReferencesAlexander, Shana. 1983. Very Much a Lady: The Untold Story of Jean Harris and Dr. Herman Tarnower. New York, NY: Simon and Schuster.Clendinen, Dudley. 1981. "Jean Harrids as a witness: sad, humorous, cutting." New York Times, January 28: B2.Faron, James. 1980. "'Scarsdale Diet' doctor slain; headmistress charged." New York Times, March 12: A1.Feron, James. 1981. "Defiant Jean Harris sentenced to mandatory fifteen years." New York Times, March 21: 1.—. 1980. "Hard questioning is screening out Tarnower jurors." New York Times, November 13: B2.—. 1980. "Jean Harris jury told of clothing found 'slashed'." New York Times, December 3: B1.—. 1981. "Jurors in Harris trial re-enacted night of murder in deliberations." New York Times, February 26: A1.—. 1980. "Policeman tells how Mrs. Harris described fight." New York Times, December 12: B1.Haden-Guest, Anthony. 1980. "The headmistress and the diet doctor." New York Magazine, March 31.The People of the State of New York v. Jean S. Harris. 1981. 84 A.D.2d 63 (Appellate Division of the Supreme Court of New York, Second Department, December 30).United Press International. 1981. "Juror says Mrs. Harris's tesimony was the key to murder." New York Times, February 25: B2.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Chapter 1: What benefits does Wondery Plus offer for Morbid listeners?

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Chapter 2: Who are the hosts of Morbid?

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I'm Elena. I'm Ash. And this is Morbid. Yo! Yo!

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I feel like we should have body slammed at the end of that. Like a dude bro. Yeah. I like that. Like metaphorically.

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Metaphorically. I don't know. I like that.

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So what's up?

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So lots is up. Lots is up. Lots is down. Lots is all around.

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That's what I was going to say. I was going to finish it.

86.057 - 112.667 Elena

I knew you were going to. You even did the all around with your head. Bring it around. Help. So once again, very cool thing that happened was hanging out with Anna McMahon. Wild. 16-year-old me. Screaming. Literally can't handle it. Screaming. But he's very rad, and it was very nice of him, and we appreciate him. Yes. And so a really, really cool thing as well has already happened for you guys.

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If you're on Wondery Plus. Yeah.

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No, for everyone.

Chapter 3: What was Jean Harris's relationship with Dr. Herman Tarnower like?

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Careful.

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190.894 - 217.156 Elena

Back it up. I'm not. I'm not. Yeah, I think in a week or so I can properly talk about it and mention what it actually is. And actually, to make sure that I can, because I want to be excited with you guys and you to be able to hear the excitement in real time, we're going to record the intro to that episode that comes out after it right after we record that exciting bonus episode.

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And then we'll get into the episode. So that we can properly capture... The state I'm in. It's going to be interesting. It is. I don't know if you'll be capable of recording anything after that. I'm very excited. Yay. In case you couldn't tell. But it's going to be really fun. You guys can look forward to it, I swear. And yeah, we have some good cases coming up. We got some good stuff coming up.

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Yeah. It's all good.

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Well, right now we're in part two of Gene Harris and the murder of Dr. Herman Tarnower.

245.794 - 248.795 Elena

This has been a ride so far, just in terms of...

249.816 - 273.681 Ash

everything how the ups and downs and the turns and the yeah this feels is like an epic drama it is an epic drama yeah it's giving like soap opera yeah a little bit it for sure is you know so in part one we heard all about jean's upbringing and how it would obviously later affect her man picker um her man picker man picker her picker How her first marriage didn't work out.

273.761 - 291.288 Ash

How fucking everybody hated Jim. Yeah. And how she was so close to a second chance at marriage with Dr. Herman. Hi, Tarnower. But how that all ultimately unraveled. Then, of course, we got into how she started relying on desoxan, a prescription form of methamphetamine. You know the one. That was for her chronic back pain.

292.248 - 310.076 Ash

And how that was really starting to change her personality and shift her way of thinking. Yeah. And then, of course, we got into Dr. Tarnower's relationship with his girlfriend, Lynn, and how that kind of lined up with some pretty scary and strange harassing phone calls that were leaving Jean quite paranoid. Yeah.

Chapter 4: How did Jean Harris contribute to the Scarsdale Diet book?

480.123 - 481.244 Elena

Yeah. Nevertheless.

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It's my opinion. It's my opinion. Nevertheless, though, in the late 1970s, Dr. Tarnower's diet was extremely profitable and publishing houses across New York were just clamoring to publish his first official book. Yeah. Diet book. So in late 1978, his diet really wasn't more than just a one-page eating plan that he was giving out to patients who wanted to lose weight.

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But his publisher hired ghost writer Sam Sinclair, author of more than two dozen self-help books, to develop that one single sheet into a several hundred page book.

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damn i feel like you're gonna find this part interesting yeah sinclair was given six months to produce the entire book whoa but when gene read the first draft of what he'd produced she was shocked by really how unethical and actually poorly written the book was oh no Her opinions led, obviously, she's a woman with opinions, so that's not great in this time. No, not in that time.

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A lot of tension started to, you know, unravel between herself, Dr. Tarnower, and the ghostwriter Sinclair, to the point where she offered to rewrite the entire manuscript herself. Wow. She was like, this is so bad that, like, I'm gonna do it all and make it better, and I'm not even... She wasn't, like, she wasn't a writer. Damn.

557.198 - 572.49 Ash

You know, like, obviously, she's a very... She's a trained professional when it comes to, like, being a teacher and that kind of thing, so she can write, I'm sure. But, like... She proves herself. Holy shit. Yeah. Yeah. Under any circumstances, rewriting Dr. Tarnower's book would have been a huge time commitment.

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But considering that Jean also had a very demanding full-time job, it seemed pretty unrealistic. And unnecessary. And unnecessary. Yet, somehow she managed to pull off the impossible and produced a respectable final draft for the publisher on time. Wow. Yeah. Wrote the whole thing over.

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I'm just like, why'd you do that?

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100%.

Chapter 5: What led to the breakdown of Jean Harris's relationship with Dr. Tarnower?

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Because it's been made clear. Yeah, it really has. It's just one of those things. If he's not making it clear, I get why you're hanging on to hope because when you're in that position, nothing's logical. Yeah. But it kind of sounds like it's being made clear. Yeah, and none of this is logical. Well, I was going to say, and even that's not logical. No. Yeah.

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Chapter 6: What events led up to the murder of Dr. Herman Tarnower?

1200.439 - 1217.969 Ash

I think revoking the invitation probably came from her... state at that time yeah i think he was like you are clearly not doing well and like yeah i don't like you can still come if you want like i think he's trying to let her down easy yeah it was probably one of those things where it was like you can come if you want because i invited you but like we don't up to you yeah

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And like I said, when Hai had initially asked her to accompany him to the banquet, like he did, Jean took that invitation to mean that things between them were returning to normal. Of course. So his decision to attend the banquet alone now not only felt like a rejection of her as a companion, but also an indication that she was now on equal ground with Lin.

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Because Lin, he wasn't going with Lin, but she was invited to come if she wanted to. Oh. Yeah. Yeah. And she always believed that Lynn was nothing more than High's mistress, which meant that she probably, like Jean herself probably was at this point too. Damn. You know? So his rejection was an absolute shock to Jean, which is interesting.

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But rather than react in the moment, she simply said she'd call him back and she abruptly hung up the phone. In the days that followed, she seemed to operate on autopilot, meeting with difficult parents and students, a lot of whom were confrontational. It's a very, you know, elite school. And by then, desoxen had completely left her body and the symptoms of withdrawal were starting to set in.

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Oh, no.

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Among other things, she was feeling even more depressed and despondent and her ability to cope with her declining mental health pretty much evaporated. Oh, this is really sad. It's very sad. On the evening of March 9th, after spending days unable to reach high, and he hasn't sent a prescription, he's basically just, like, ghosting her. Oh, fuck. She sat down to write her lover a letter.

1300.433 - 1333.299 Ash

She said, This is a quote. I haven't played the slave for you. I would have never committed adultery for you. But I have added a dimension to your life and given you pleasure and dignity as you have me. I've watched you grow rich in the years where we have been together. And I have watched me go through moments where I was almost destitute.

1333.719 - 1353.985 Ash

And now that thieving slut has the run of your home and you accuse me of stealing money and books. The many things your whore does openly and obviously you now have the cruelty to accuse me of. Wow. Yeah. Which, if you think about the letters that we read between them in part one, obviously they're, like, love letters, and this is clearly not a love letter.

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But even just, like, her way of thinking, you can tell, is completely distorted. Oh, 100%. Like, she is angry. This is rage-coded. This is, like... That thieving slut calling her a whore.

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