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Chapter 1: Who are the hosts of America's Top DEI Podcast?
Ready? One, two, three. Patriots, gay-triots, black-triots, non-MAGA-triots. Fuck off! Pumps is back. She's back. She's better never. I'm sure you have some grievances you're ready to share with our listener.
Chapter 2: Why is small talk so frustrating according to Angie?
Okay, I'll tell you what my grievance is. I have had it with small talk. There is nothing more miserable than having to make small talk with people that you don't know, that don't care about what you're saying. You don't care what you're saying. It is so miserable. Like when I walked into a place Friday night for parents weekend and there were like 60 people. And I just was like, I can't do it.
I think I stayed for five minutes, talked to three people that I knew and left because I'm like, small talk just makes me insane. I just want to go insane when I think I have to small talk.
I have a question for you. What? Why do you engage in it so frequently when we're together with strangers? Well... Is it to torture me? It's to torture you.
No, I mean, that would make more sense. That would be a side benefit to torture you. I don't realize I'm doing it. It overwhelms me when I go into a room and there's like... 50 people that I'm kind of supposed to know, that our kids are doing the same thing, but I don't know. And I just, I start panicking. I'm just like, I don't want to do this.
100%.
I mean, the other day we were just in the parking lot in front of the studio and a girl walks up. And next thing I know, we're 25 questions deep into her child support hearings. Yeah.
Part of my problem is I'm nosy.
Yeah.
I mean, that's part of it. But I have to tell you this story. Okay. You're going to die. Okay. So we go to dinner with all the parents from Emily's friends. And halfway through the dinner, Emily grabs me by the leg and she looks at me and she goes... Everyone at this table is on suicide watch because you will not quit talking about the dog.
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Chapter 3: How does Jennifer handle criticism and toxic positivity?
And I couldn't stop. I recently did something like this, and I realized, like, mid-story what a grave error I had made. So I pulled up to the tennis center, and the head pro was like, hey, I like your car. He's a British guy. And I proceeded to tell him – The car I had before that, I was in a massive hailstorm that pummeled it, broke the windshield, had all this body damage.
Another basketball mom I was with threw up in the car and I no longer wanted the car. And as I'm into all of these details, like all I had to say when he said, I like your car is thanks. Thank you. How are you today? But I volunteered all of this boring stuff. irrelevant information. And it was only halfway through that I realized I'm not taking into account his feelings to hear this.
So I wrapped it up pretty quickly. And, you know, it's just awful. Though I have a new story to tell you. So yesterday I was at my tennis lesson. And I was playing awful. I mean, awful. It was just mental. I couldn't hit the ball. My timing was off. Everything was off. And I could just tell Jeff had had it with me. I mean, I'm bitching after every point. He's just crushing me.
And so he finally is just disgusted. He cannot take it anymore. And he walks up to the net and he goes... Maybe if you're not going to hit any balls with any pace on him, maybe you should try to hit them away from me instead of just hitting me softballs the whole hour, Jennifer. And just shamed you. Just totally. And you know what? He was 100% right. It was like the pep talk that I needed.
And it reminded me that there is this movement that we oppose, this toxic positivity movement where people want to be praised all the time. And if Jeff had just continued to tell me, good shot, good shot, how does that help me? How does that help anyone? It just feeds this ridiculous, non-deserved ego that I have about being an athlete, right? It just would feed the worst parts of me.
Instead, he chewed my ass out and I went back and actually started playing a lot better. And I thought, you know, sometimes somebody checking you and just saying... If this is what you're going to do, fine. But, you know, I'm paying him. And he's like, is this really what we're going to do here today, Jennifer? He chewed my ass out. And it was so great.
Yeah. I do think that's one thing that people younger than us, I'm going to say millennials, Gen Z, they're missing the component of when you get your ass chewed and you're criticized, typically you do better. Yes. You try harder. Yes. Yes. So all this toxic, you're the best. You're so special. You're so unique. Your mommy loves you. Let's get five pictures. That doesn't help them evolve. Right.
But the whole story of life is you get not down, you get up again.
Yeah. And I'm just going to tell you like my, after that, the timing, the rhythm, the four hands, Rip City, baby. It got better. And then we played to 10 at the very end, and I beat Jeff 10-8. I lost every single game before that, every single one. And it was after the ass-chewing that I showed up and I started playing proper tennis. All right, let me tell you what I've had it with.
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Chapter 4: What are the hosts' opinions on Donald Trump's interior design and aesthetics?
So I just think these are like the worst impulses of America that we've ever bred, all the worship of capitalism, the worship of the patriarchy, the worship of white supremacy. And we broke it down so hard. We got the people who were damaged the most by the worship of all of these things, they got elected. Right. They're in power. That's what happened. Yeah. That is what happened.
And when the autopsy is on this, the acquiescence that happened from Trump 1.0 and the four years in the middle before we get to Trump 2.0, All of the lack of movement to prevent this from happening within America. But also now, you know, our allies are like, oh, shit, we can't align with America anymore.
I hope the world lesson is when somebody elects a dictator that attempts a coup and the country hasn't put him in jail yet. then you've got to start treating that country and their populace as somebody you might not want to do business with. And maybe that would have helped the Biden administration and the Democrats take it more seriously if the EU and Canada and others would have said, WTF?
What are y'all doing here? Right. I completely agree. I'm not saying it's their fault per se. I think it is a worldwide problem where everybody just leans into the assumption politics and we assume, well, people aren't going to be that crazy to elect him again. That's not going to happen. Right. People right now are assuming. Well, we're going to get to the midterms.
And whenever we play assumption politics, we get our asses handed to us. Because guess what they're doing right now? There's a bunch of crackheads like Steve Bannon and all these other just nut jobs that are over there machinating about how can we get him a third term. And we're sitting here going, oh, that'll never happen. They're actually sitting there figuring out how to do it.
And that's the problem is this assumption politics, this assumption that everybody's going to do the right thing.
When you assume it makes an ass out of me and you. I just want to say this one thing. When you look at Donald Trump, I mean, head to toe, just aesthetically, you've got the worst hair I've ever seen. The worst makeup. Like, I still don't understand why he does not have a professional makeup artist do his makeup. It is so terrible. His suits are too big. He has shoulder pads.
His ties go past his dick. His hand... Shoe lifts. Shoe lifts. He leans over like the... He is a disaster aesthetically, top to bottom.
So it surprises me zero. Oh, here's another one. His golf swing is terrible.
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Chapter 5: How do the hosts describe the political climate in red vs. blue states?
And here's what I have to say that everybody needs to realize is even though our state is probably like 60%, 65% MAGA – that 35%, when you are a liberal in a red state, you really fight for it. You've earned it. I feel like liberals in red states have more fight in us than coastal liberals that take for granted the state governments that protect them. And I'll give you a prime example.
Pumps and I had on Governor Kathy Hochul of New York. And I just thought, man, this woman is a dynamo. I still think she's a dynamo. I think she's fantastic. We just really connected with her and bonded with her. And then we're up in New York to do some business for the podcast. And some of our friends that are New Yorkers are like, God, we had your governor on. She's fantastic.
Yeah.
Like, ugh. We hate her. And I'm like, let me tell you what's going on with my governor. Right. Let me tell you what's going on. Abortion ban dedicates every square inch to Jesus and thinks that says a statement like this. Government needs to be run like a business and doesn't understand how intellectually dishonest and stupid that statement is.
We're dealing with dipshit extraordinaire out the wazoo. And you have the luxury of disagreeing with your governor about policy. Right. That's the difference. And so, you know, it's it's you got to give a lot of props to people in red states that go against the grain because we have to fucking fight for it because it's everywhere. It's MAGA shit is everywhere. Like you can feel it.
Like I don't see in Oklahoma City. I don't see over MAGA-ness, but you can feel it. You feel it. Like we recently went to Los Angeles, my husband and my youngest son and I to tour a school. And the minute I got out in LAX, I could just feel that it wasn't as MAGA. It's just like in the air. It's just lighter. It's like there's just not as much MAGA air here.
Dare I say even it feels a little bit smarter. Yeah.
Yeah, and there's more diversity. It's not so white. That's one thing people don't understand about living in a state like Oklahoma. Everyone – I mean, there's no foreign languages. Like, you go on the streets of New York and you hear 50 languages in two blocks. Everybody speaks English. More white people – I mean, you can't throw a stone and not find a white – it's just –
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Chapter 6: What are some interesting news stories shared on the podcast?
I mean, it just drives me bananas. Well, it just goes to, in my opinion, it goes to these men are used to always getting the best picks, the best jobs, without being the best candidate or the most qualified. And now there is some competition there. And instead of looking inward. And they're having a meltdown. Right. Instead of saying, you know, what can I do better?
How can I be a better leader, a better student, a better mate? They're saying, well, it's women's fault. It's DEI's fault. It's just somebody else's fault.
It really shouldn't be a thing. Like if somebody's boss is a female and she's very, very excellent at her job, if you're having a masculine emotional meltdown because of that, the problem is you. And now we have to do all this time and research propping up men again. And it's just exhausting. That's all I'm saying.
It's just utterly exhausting, this desire to always be the center of attention that men have. from my perspective. Okay, last story. Sperm cells carry traces of childhood stress, epigenetic study finds. The groundbreaking finding supports the idea that trauma and adversity experienced in childhood can leave lasting biological imprints that extend beyond the individual.
While the long-term impact on offspring is still being studied, the research suggests that a father's early life experiences may influence the health and development of future children. I think this makes perfect sense. I was going to say, yeah. And I think that... It worries me like for my kids because my husband's childhood was just, you know, so traumatic for him and raised by addicts.
He himself was an addict, struggled so hard to find, you know, sobriety. And it makes sense that some of this trauma would also be somewhat painful. you know, genetic or pass through genes as well. Because even if you look at twin studies, you know, you'll have a couple, the upper middle class couple that adopts a child and the child
really functioning family, you know, for whatever that means, goes to school, et cetera, parents are great, and the child ends up in jail. And then they've gone back and studied what the biological parents were, and they were both in jail themselves. So there was like some sort of genetic component to that criminality or that lean towards that.
And I think this is interesting in understanding what makes people broken.
Yeah, no, I completely agree. And it just would make sense if you're under a bunch of stress, emotional, mental stress, it affects you physically. So it makes sense. It would affect it biologically.
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Chapter 7: What is the hosts' perspective on men's emotional struggles and societal changes?
while at the same time their Lord and personal savior, one Jesus Christ, or as I like to call him, Jesus H. Christ, he spoke against the accumulation of wealth, spoke for standing with the marginalized. And if Moses Mike Johnson and all of these hypocritical white evangelical Christians in the South truly were followers of Christ,
They would be standing up for trans people, for black people, they would be demanding the return of Abrego Garcia. They would be at the border making sure people were treated humanely, but instead they side with billionaires and dehumanizing and the demoralization of other human beings. Christian, Southern Christian Republicans are the grossest people in the United States of America.
And it is the breeding grounds where MAGA was able to take hold.
No, I completely, completely agree. And I've often thought about Mike Johnson's district, like I know 40% on Medicaid, that does not surprise me. How many of them because of what he's doing, will not vote for him next time. You know, I just wonder, will it ever penetrate that far? Or will he go in and say, oh, well, that's Biden's politics that cut Medicare.
And they're just like, oh, OK, yeah, this is why they attack education. You know, like in Oklahoma, you would think with our stats as staggering as they are.
like a bottom five state consistently in every category year after year after year that the people in this state would say enough with these republican super majorities our schools suck our health care sucks our streets suck our you know we always make the news for the most embarrassing reasons we're a bottom 10 state but time and time again their hate for others
is where they go to vote and christian republican politicians offer them the biggest menu of hate in which they can vote from and that also offer them what they're comfortable with with their mega churches is being grifted right now let's support the rich preacher while you're struggling and i've told this story before but i'll just never forget it i was in like seventh grade and i went to church against my mother's permission but that's neither here nor there
And my friend's mom, Shonda was her name, her mom was a UPS worker. And she really worked hard, like middle of the night hours to try to pay for Shonda's like cheerleading uniforms and things that the school didn't cover. And We go to this church where the preacher drives a Rolls Royce and the wife wears a full white mink coat. And she gave all the cash she had to them.
And then we had to count out literally pennies, nickels and dimes at 7-Eleven to put gas in her car. And so how do you get people like that? to vote for their own interest. I don't know, but I will never forget being a young teenage girl seeing that and saying, oh my God, my mother's 100% right about these religious people. Because I just, I mean, I saw it.
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Chapter 8: What listener feedback was shared and how do the hosts engage with their audience?
Because you spotted it at seventh grade. Like he's the con man up there with the mink coat and the Rolls Royce. But when you're indoctrinated, you just think, oh, that's how it is. Yeah.
You just don't think. And I don't know what, I don't know, you know, Fox News has enabled a lot of this. But the main thing that needs to happen is. You know, Trump administration is now talking about removing tax exemptions for universities. Well, when the Democrats get in power, they need to quit fucking around with this and tax the churches.
Tax, like there's some school called Liberty University, complete rat trap bullshit. That was the whole Jerry Falwell. Oral Roberts has a university, Oral Roberts. Are you kidding me? This man is a con man. locked himself up and said, if y'all don't give me $2 million, I'm going to burn in hell. Like he's going to die. And people sent the money.
My grandmother, my mom, no wonder she was an atheist. My crazy ass grandmother, we called her Mama Worth, meaner than a rattlesnake, lived longer than all of my other grandparents. She sent money to oral robbers. And, you know, like, no wonder my mom was like, religion's fucked up, you know. So that's the only way I think that. No, it has to be done. It has to be some sort of governmental.
push to say these are not tax-free for this craziness.
Okay, one thing, Haley, since you are in Mike Johnson's district, I want you to go undercover and just put your feelers out. I find it impossible to believe, and this could just be my own cynicism, my own world experience, getting away. making my mind run crazy, but I've got to think there are rumors of Mike Johnson being gay.
And I've, and I have, I know nothing about his wife, but I've read enough to know, I think she's a lesbian. So Haley, I want you to just kind of put your feelers out and see if you can find that.
I don't know if she's a lesbian or not. And I don't know if he's gay or not, but I do know that they spend more time thinking about gay sex than most gay men I know. 100%. I've never seen a dedication by two alleged heterosexuals, alleged straights that sit around consumed with gay sex. I personally never think about gay sex because I'm not gay. So therefore, I'm not threatened by it.
It's your business, your life. Swing for the fences. Get on Grindr and grind away. Have at it. I don't give a shit. But what I give a shit about are hypocrites. like Moses Mike Johnson and his hateful little twat-ass wife. That have these pray the gay away torture camps. And he has these weird things where he's I do know this.
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