How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Scared to Make a Move? How to Read Women & Know When to Go For It (Featuring Kezia Noble!)
22 May 2025
Do you struggle to read women? The fear of making the wrong move—and seeming creepy—can kill your confidence. In this encore episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks with renowned expert and bestselling author Kezia Noble, who’s helped over 100,000 men. They dive into how to read a woman’s signals, how to make the right moves (and avoid the wrong ones), and create real attraction through authenticity.Kezia and Connell discuss:7:35: How Kezia Learned to Get Great Results for Her Clients15:40: How to Dial Up Attraction Using her “Double-Sided Compliment”18:12: “The Shadow,” the Side of Men that Women Find Seductive21:45: What to Say on Dates to go from Boring to Charismatic23:05: How to Be Authentically Interesting to Women as the Raw, Real You29:05: The Right Way to Talk About Your Career… and the Wrong Way30:45: The Truth about How Much Looks Really Matter to Women33:51: Why Women Hate the Apps and are “Absolutely Dying” for Men like You to Approach Them37:35: How to Get a Woman Who Rejected You to Change Her Mind and Chase YouListen now and start so you can finally understand what women want!TO LEARN ABOUT KEZIA’S 1-1 COACHING PROGRAMSwww.kezia-noble.com/VISIT KEZIA’S YOUTUBE CHANNELhttp://www.youtube.com/@KezianobledatingexpertGET KEZIA’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “THE NOBLE ART OF SEDUCING WOMEN”http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO DISCUSS COACHINGhttp://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
Full Episode
Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I am your host, dating coach Conal Barrett, helping you do just that, get a great girlfriend. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. email me a dating question, email me a dating problem you have, and I will respond to you. So I'm quite literally your dating coach. At least you can reach out to me and I can help you out and I'll respond to you.
And I might even ask your question on an episode. Today I'm doing a really cool interview with Kezia Noble. If you've ever wondered how the heck do you talk to women? How do I read women? How do I know when to make a move? When not to? Well, you know who knows women? Is women. And Kezia Noble really knows women. She's a dating expert. She's based in the UK. She is fantastic.
And she and I spoke for about a half hour with all kinds of great insight from Kezia. So this is a rebroadcast episode, an encore episode from six or seven months ago. But I wanted to rebroadcast it for a very specific reason. She shares a dating tip in this episode at the very end. So about 30 minutes in, she shares one of the best dating tips I've ever heard from another expert.
It's about what to do, what to say when you approach a woman and initially she quote rejects you and how to flip it and how to flip it into actually a successful approach. And I just love the tip, and I had to rebroadcast it. Also, Kezia is just fantastic. She's just a brilliant, brilliant mind in this world. So enjoy this rebroadcast episode with myself talking to Kezia.
Before we get to that, I have a quick story. I want to share with you... woman's point of view on approaching as I began to see it when I started meeting women out in the real world. So here's a quick story. I think you're going to love this. I'm at Barnes and Noble one day, and this is in the late 2000s. So I had just been approaching women for about six months or so off and on.
I was still pretty wobbly doing it, but I was trying my best. And walked up to a woman on the third floor of the Barnes & Noble in Union Square in the magazine rack section. And I walk over and I'm feeling pretty confident. I'm in the zone. I'm in that authentic, confident zone, which does happen once you get some momentum. And I approached a really pretty girl. She had these cool wrist tattoos.
She had tattoos on her ankles. She's kind of like How would you describe her? She was like an edgy kind of rock and roll chick, edginess, and just sort of a bad girl in a good way. Anyway, so I'm feeling confident. I walk up to her and I said, hey, what's up? I just saw you and I had to meet you. You're really cute. I like your tattoos. Something pretty genuine, but also direct like that.
I was being direct. And we chatted for two or three minutes, and it went very well. And her friend was with her, by the way. Her friend was with her. And we chatted, and then I went for the number. I went for the date. And she said, well, I really don't think so. I mean, I live pretty far away from here. I'm in central Connecticut. It's like 100 miles away from New York City.
And basically, she started to turn me down. She was doing it politely, but she turned me down. And I said, wait, you're going to break my heart here at Barnes & Noble? Well, I'm going to go down to a different floor. And maybe I'm going to buy a poetry book and write a poem called Why Stacey broke Connell's heart? I made some joke like that. And she giggled and laughed.
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