How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)
17 Apr 2025
A proud veteran with a big heart, Kyle was lonely and struggling to get dates—until dating coach Connell Barrett showed him how to approach women with real confidence and charm. “It’s amazing, but authenticity really does work,” Kyle says in this live coaching call. Soon he was going on two dates a week and had landed a girlfriend. Now newly single, he’s ready to level up again. Listen as Connell reviews Kyle’s Hinge profile and shares 3 simple ways to get more matches today.The Moments You Don’t Want to Miss:07:11: From Lonely to “Dating Like Crazy”—Kyle’s Big Breakthrough08:32: How Kyle Overcame Approach Anxiety and Attracted Women IRL15:08: Connell Reveals the 12 Essentials of an Irresistible Online-Dating Profile17:35: The Photo You Need to Add to Get More Matches25:30: Should You Pay to Boost Your Profile? Connell Breaks it Down31:33: How to Write a Prompt that’s Funny and Flirty47:07: The Approach Opener Kyle Used to Meet a Large Group of Women at a BarDO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:http://www.DatingTransformation.comEMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:[email protected]
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You have to offer some value, right? You have to add some value. What? You're saying women don't want to see your resume and treat it like a job interview? What? I know. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I'm your dating coach. on the podcast anyway.
I'm here to help you flirt with confidence and get a lot more dates and get an incredible girlfriend in your life and to attract her by being authentic. No sketchy, weird pickup artist moves needed. This is about being an authentic, confident gentleman. That's what women want. And today you're going to meet a very special client of mine. You're going to meet Kyle.
Kyle has an incredible success story that I want to share with you. And he also has a new goal in his dating life. So Kyle came to me last year. And by the way, Kyle's in his mid-30s. He's a veteran. He served our country. And he came to me because he was really down on his dating confidence. He was afraid to approach women. He came to me because he said,
beautiful girls walk by me in the last year and I haven't talked to any of them. And that was really bothering him. So he wanted my help with his approaching anxiety. And he was also just not getting any good leads on the dating apps. So we worked on his online dating profile, and we worked on his approaching confidence. And basically, he had an issue feeling like he just wasn't enough for women.
In his mind, he said, I have a blue collar job.
i'm not some rich fancy new york city penthouse guy i'm not some wall street master of the universe i'm just kyle i'm just a regular guy why would a woman want me and over the course of working together kyle went on lots of dates i helped him start approaching women showed him how to do it but also how to do it comfortably and confidently and by the time we were done working together he had an incredible
A girlfriend, a woman. I don't want to identify her for privacy reasons, but a woman who had a high ranking job in the New York City government. Let's say that a public important job. He was dating a very high profile, quality, attractive woman who works in New York City government.
And so all of a sudden, Kyle had gone from a scarcity of options to a lot of good dating options and a lot of confidence. And he had this wonderful girlfriend in his life. And that's where I had left him until recently when he reached back out to me and said, Connell, we broke up. It ended. We had a tough conversation.
We just looked at our lives and realized that there were some big picture things that we both didn't want. So they decided to end their relationship. And that was painful for Kyle. Breakups are hard.
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