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Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

In the beginning of our relationship, I believed that we would be able to get over some of these things as we grew together as a couple. However, I've come to the realization over the last few months that no amount of communication is going to be able to create a relationship where both of our needs are met.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

In the beginning of our relationship, I believed that we would be able to get over some of these things as we grew together as a couple. However, I've come to the realization over the last few months that no amount of communication is going to be able to create a relationship where both of our needs are met.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

An example of this is him not being there for me when I completed something big because there were a lot of strangers that were going to be there if he didn't know. And to me, this felt like a really big thing that he wasn't able to get over his introvertedness to show up for me when I needed him. So I was gearing up to end the relationship.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

An example of this is him not being there for me when I completed something big because there were a lot of strangers that were going to be there if he didn't know. And to me, this felt like a really big thing that he wasn't able to get over his introvertedness to show up for me when I needed him. So I was gearing up to end the relationship.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

However, over the holidays, he opened up to me that he believes that he is neurodivergent, a self-diagnosis that he was very reluctant to share with me. This has made me reevaluate our whole relationship. Every trait that didn't gel with my personality could be linked back to this neurodivergent diagnosis. This self-diagnosis has been extremely eye-opening for me.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

However, over the holidays, he opened up to me that he believes that he is neurodivergent, a self-diagnosis that he was very reluctant to share with me. This has made me reevaluate our whole relationship. Every trait that didn't gel with my personality could be linked back to this neurodivergent diagnosis. This self-diagnosis has been extremely eye-opening for me.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

I don't know a whole lot about neurodivergence, and I don't know what the future holds. On one hand, it has made me start to understand who he is on a fundamental level, and I wonder if it'll actually bring us closer together in the long run by learning how to communicate effectively for our different needs.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

I don't know a whole lot about neurodivergence, and I don't know what the future holds. On one hand, it has made me start to understand who he is on a fundamental level, and I wonder if it'll actually bring us closer together in the long run by learning how to communicate effectively for our different needs.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

On the other hand, I have no idea if we're going to be able to get over some of these hurdles, and I don't want to ask him to mask his personality and feelings to make me happy. So Dan, I need advice from you and your emotionally intelligent and loving community. Can we grow together, or will I be asking him to mask how he truly feels for the rest of our relationship?

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

On the other hand, I have no idea if we're going to be able to get over some of these hurdles, and I don't want to ask him to mask his personality and feelings to make me happy. So Dan, I need advice from you and your emotionally intelligent and loving community. Can we grow together, or will I be asking him to mask how he truly feels for the rest of our relationship?

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

Hi, Dan. My 23-year-old niece is a trans woman who has been open about her transition for about four years now. My only brother is her father, and while he claims to accept her identity, He still sees it as a choice and he refuses to use her pronouns, continuing to refer to her as his son and using he, him pronouns. His reasoning being that it would be a lie for him to use she and her as he still

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

Hi, Dan. My 23-year-old niece is a trans woman who has been open about her transition for about four years now. My only brother is her father, and while he claims to accept her identity, He still sees it as a choice and he refuses to use her pronouns, continuing to refer to her as his son and using he, him pronouns. His reasoning being that it would be a lie for him to use she and her as he still

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

sees her as his son, and that cannot change. I've tried all the ways I can think of to make him understand it is not a choice, it's not about him, it's about her and her identity, but he just doesn't get it. So maybe if he heard from fathers of trans women who have had similar difficulties with their child's transition, that might help him get a different perspective than what I can offer.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 951

sees her as his son, and that cannot change. I've tried all the ways I can think of to make him understand it is not a choice, it's not about him, it's about her and her identity, but he just doesn't get it. So maybe if he heard from fathers of trans women who have had similar difficulties with their child's transition, that might help him get a different perspective than what I can offer.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 950

Hello, Dan, longtime fan from Canada here, chiming in about your choice of foods to celebrate the Feast of the Ass. I have to say, I really don't think Bundt cakes are the way to go. So if you'll just indulge me and feel free to take what I say with a grain of salt or... maybe even a chocolate sprinkle. But I think that bun cakes are a little bit too niche, a little bit too hard to come by.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 950

Hello, Dan, longtime fan from Canada here, chiming in about your choice of foods to celebrate the Feast of the Ass. I have to say, I really don't think Bundt cakes are the way to go. So if you'll just indulge me and feel free to take what I say with a grain of salt or... maybe even a chocolate sprinkle. But I think that bun cakes are a little bit too niche, a little bit too hard to come by.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 950

We need something that's accessible for the people. So I propose donuts. Like asses, you can find them anywhere, they're affordable, and they are quite delicious. So I think that that should be the food that we use to celebrate the Feast of the Ass, especially if you want to make that holiday pretty mainstream. Give the people what they can easily access.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 950

We need something that's accessible for the people. So I propose donuts. Like asses, you can find them anywhere, they're affordable, and they are quite delicious. So I think that that should be the food that we use to celebrate the Feast of the Ass, especially if you want to make that holiday pretty mainstream. Give the people what they can easily access.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 950

You know, it's a humble food, not unlike that mythical little donkey that carried that mythical little virgin into Bethlehem. I've definitely met my share of assholes, and for the most part, I stay well away from them. But I gotta say, I never met a donut that I didn't want to eat.

Savage Lovecast
Savage Lovecast Episode 950

You know, it's a humble food, not unlike that mythical little donkey that carried that mythical little virgin into Bethlehem. I've definitely met my share of assholes, and for the most part, I stay well away from them. But I gotta say, I never met a donut that I didn't want to eat.