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Hi, Dan. I'm having a really bad New Year's Eve. My best friend in the world joined the Navy about six or seven years ago. And while he was out on a ship, I can only imagine he got involved with the local police. Christian contingent there. He then, about two years ago in June, posts a message about him no longer being gay. It did not go well between us.

Hi, Dan. I'm having a really bad New Year's Eve. My best friend in the world joined the Navy about six or seven years ago. And while he was out on a ship, I can only imagine he got involved with the local police. Christian contingent there. He then, about two years ago in June, posts a message about him no longer being gay. It did not go well between us.

I honestly think he kind of wanted it not to go well, in part because he knew how I would react and in part because I think he saw continued contact with me as being a threat to his heterosexuality and his standing in the church he was involved with. It hurts. It still hurts even now. And I just need...

I honestly think he kind of wanted it not to go well, in part because he knew how I would react and in part because I think he saw continued contact with me as being a threat to his heterosexuality and his standing in the church he was involved with. It hurts. It still hurts even now. And I just need...

tonight because my depression is acting up i just need i don't know something i can listen to in the future remind me that things will get better it's been seven years since your friend joined the navy

tonight because my depression is acting up i just need i don't know something i can listen to in the future remind me that things will get better it's been seven years since your friend joined the navy

Hi, Dan. Is there a respectful way to ask a woman you're dating to gain some weight? I'm a 30-year-old guy dating a 24-year-old woman. We're both queer and live in a major city. We've been dating for a couple months and things are overall great. She's kind, considerate, beautiful, and ggg. I really like her and enjoy listening to her and her company, and she's expressed she really likes me too.

Hi, Dan. Is there a respectful way to ask a woman you're dating to gain some weight? I'm a 30-year-old guy dating a 24-year-old woman. We're both queer and live in a major city. We've been dating for a couple months and things are overall great. She's kind, considerate, beautiful, and ggg. I really like her and enjoy listening to her and her company, and she's expressed she really likes me too.

The issue is she's fairly skinny, and it's been getting more challenging for me to convince myself to have sex. Even though I love other forms of physical intimacy with her. I'm not a gym rat per se, but I've been working out all my adult life. But I've never really had an issue about that in dating.

The issue is she's fairly skinny, and it's been getting more challenging for me to convince myself to have sex. Even though I love other forms of physical intimacy with her. I'm not a gym rat per se, but I've been working out all my adult life. But I've never really had an issue about that in dating.

And I've dated folks from different gender spectrum, height, background, and I guess to a decent degree size. but I've never dated anyone with this low of BMI. When it comes to problem solving, I've limited my masturbation to once a week to build up my desire.

And I've dated folks from different gender spectrum, height, background, and I guess to a decent degree size. but I've never dated anyone with this low of BMI. When it comes to problem solving, I've limited my masturbation to once a week to build up my desire.

And I've always limited my porn consumption and social media use to not let it distort my thinking and unrealistic expectations of how bodies are meant to look like. I've casually asked her about her relationship with food to make sure she doesn't have a history of eating disorder.

And I've always limited my porn consumption and social media use to not let it distort my thinking and unrealistic expectations of how bodies are meant to look like. I've casually asked her about her relationship with food to make sure she doesn't have a history of eating disorder.

And when we're together, I either buy lots of food or cook for us and I have her take the leftovers so she has food to eat when she's not with me. So recently she asked me if I want to become monogamous. And even though I'm not seeing anybody else, I asked for some time to think about it because I'm worried this issue will not resolve on its own.

And when we're together, I either buy lots of food or cook for us and I have her take the leftovers so she has food to eat when she's not with me. So recently she asked me if I want to become monogamous. And even though I'm not seeing anybody else, I asked for some time to think about it because I'm worried this issue will not resolve on its own.

Our relationship so far has been very much based on the campsite rule. And the last thing I want is to say or do something hurtful. So is there an appropriate way to ask her to be more intentional about her diet and maybe start exercising? Or is that not an appropriate request and I should end this otherwise wonderful relationship?

Our relationship so far has been very much based on the campsite rule. And the last thing I want is to say or do something hurtful. So is there an appropriate way to ask her to be more intentional about her diet and maybe start exercising? Or is that not an appropriate request and I should end this otherwise wonderful relationship?

Hey, Dan, Nancy, and Tech Savvy at Rescue. I am a 35-year-old cis woman. So the guy I am currently hooking up with, the sound he makes when he combs, is so off-putting. It is just weird and gross and extreme. Luckily, I usually come before him, but man, the sound he makes is really terrible. Should I just deal with it? I mean, what would I even say? Please help. It's really starting to get to me.

Hey, Dan, Nancy, and Tech Savvy at Rescue. I am a 35-year-old cis woman. So the guy I am currently hooking up with, the sound he makes when he combs, is so off-putting. It is just weird and gross and extreme. Luckily, I usually come before him, but man, the sound he makes is really terrible. Should I just deal with it? I mean, what would I even say? Please help. It's really starting to get to me.