Unnamed Caller 3

And the fantasy that I would go to before I would come when my ex would go down on me or I would touch myself or whatever was that I would imagine him fucking someone else and the idea of him coming in them, coming on them, whatever. was just super hot and would send me over the edge every time. It was just great.

And the fantasy that I would go to before I would come when my ex would go down on me or I would touch myself or whatever was that I would imagine him fucking someone else and the idea of him coming in them, coming on them, whatever. was just super hot and would send me over the edge every time. It was just great.

But now I'm in poly relationships where people actually do have partners that they're fucking. And the risk is no longer, even though it seems like the perceived risk is that risk is actually more real because my partners have partners. But because it's actually happening, it has kind of like messed up the fantasy in my head or something. And it just doesn't work for me anymore.

But now I'm in poly relationships where people actually do have partners that they're fucking. And the risk is no longer, even though it seems like the perceived risk is that risk is actually more real because my partners have partners. But because it's actually happening, it has kind of like messed up the fantasy in my head or something. And it just doesn't work for me anymore.

And so I am now getting super in my head. about not being able to come when they go down on me. I really want to. I normally can come with my hand. I normally come from oral pretty easily and I feel stuck. I don't know if I need to find a new fantasy or just drop into the pleasure because it's all feeling really good still. Or maybe it's just time because I'm going through a breakup.

And so I am now getting super in my head. about not being able to come when they go down on me. I really want to. I normally can come with my hand. I normally come from oral pretty easily and I feel stuck. I don't know if I need to find a new fantasy or just drop into the pleasure because it's all feeling really good still. Or maybe it's just time because I'm going through a breakup.

But I don't know if it's that. I'm really struggling to even come on my own when no one's around. One of my more dominant partners, we're going through a bit of a training thing of like a reward system of like not using the vibrator and if I can come. Anyway, I really want to come.

But I don't know if it's that. I'm really struggling to even come on my own when no one's around. One of my more dominant partners, we're going through a bit of a training thing of like a reward system of like not using the vibrator and if I can come. Anyway, I really want to come.

Hey, Dan, I just had a comment for the woman who was wanting to know if she should stay in her ex's kid's life. I don't mean to sound like an asshole, but she is not co-parenting. She is doing the fun on thing. If she was co-parenting, she'd be getting up with the kid in the middle of the night. She'd be helping with homework. She'd be getting the kid ready to go to school in the morning.

Hey, Dan, I just had a comment for the woman who was wanting to know if she should stay in her ex's kid's life. I don't mean to sound like an asshole, but she is not co-parenting. She is doing the fun on thing. If she was co-parenting, she'd be getting up with the kid in the middle of the night. She'd be helping with homework. She'd be getting the kid ready to go to school in the morning.

I have a daughter who's five. She also tells everyone that she loves her. She tells people that she loves that she's met for like five minutes. So I think this lady needs to slow her roll and not assume that she's a bigger part of this kid's life than she actually is. She's not co-parenting. She's being a fun aunt, which is perfectly fine.

I have a daughter who's five. She also tells everyone that she loves her. She tells people that she loves that she's met for like five minutes. So I think this lady needs to slow her roll and not assume that she's a bigger part of this kid's life than she actually is. She's not co-parenting. She's being a fun aunt, which is perfectly fine.

But, you know, she needs to ask herself if she wants to continue this relationship for herself or for this child.

But, you know, she needs to ask herself if she wants to continue this relationship for herself or for this child.

This is for the caller who has a neurodivergent boyfriend. I thought it'd be beneficial for the caller to hear from someone who is neurodivergent. I'm a neurodivergent woman with ADHD and autism diagnosed late in life. And I just wanted to echo everything that Dan say and tell you that Dan is completely right. Being neurodivergent does not get out of jail free card.

This is for the caller who has a neurodivergent boyfriend. I thought it'd be beneficial for the caller to hear from someone who is neurodivergent. I'm a neurodivergent woman with ADHD and autism diagnosed late in life. And I just wanted to echo everything that Dan say and tell you that Dan is completely right. Being neurodivergent does not get out of jail free card.

It does not mean you don't have to meet your partner's needs. You're still expected to show up in the relationship and provide for that person in whatever way they require. It sounds to me like there needs to be a conversation between the two of you. Maybe there's some compromises that can happen. Like if sounds are a problem, bring loop earplugs.

It does not mean you don't have to meet your partner's needs. You're still expected to show up in the relationship and provide for that person in whatever way they require. It sounds to me like there needs to be a conversation between the two of you. Maybe there's some compromises that can happen. Like if sounds are a problem, bring loop earplugs.

That way you can still show up and be a participant in events, but you can block out any sounds that are bothering you. There are certain things like that. I think the boyfriend probably needs to go to therapy and learn coping mechanisms and start learning how he can navigate life with this information. It does not mean he gets to disconnect and not engage with things that are difficult.

That way you can still show up and be a participant in events, but you can block out any sounds that are bothering you. There are certain things like that. I think the boyfriend probably needs to go to therapy and learn coping mechanisms and start learning how he can navigate life with this information. It does not mean he gets to disconnect and not engage with things that are difficult.