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Now, though, I'm weighed down with this guilt that what I'm doing goes beyond just masturbating and into something else, a real sex act with a real human in which sometimes actual if unnameable emotional stuff is being exchanged. After all, When my wife and I began dating during COVID, we had a lot of mutual masturbation sex on FaceTime, and every one of those sessions meant something.

Now, though, I'm weighed down with this guilt that what I'm doing goes beyond just masturbating and into something else, a real sex act with a real human in which sometimes actual if unnameable emotional stuff is being exchanged. After all, When my wife and I began dating during COVID, we had a lot of mutual masturbation sex on FaceTime, and every one of those sessions meant something.

I admit that part of the appeal of these exclusive shows is that, among other things, being stroked, it also strokes my ego to think that some of the women whom I see regularly recognize me and are genuinely excited for our time together. Maybe I'm just another deluded John, but I've never had trouble with women in the real world.

I admit that part of the appeal of these exclusive shows is that, among other things, being stroked, it also strokes my ego to think that some of the women whom I see regularly recognize me and are genuinely excited for our time together. Maybe I'm just another deluded John, but I've never had trouble with women in the real world.

These workers are people too, and these exclusives can feel more intimate than either one of us expected. My wife vaguely knows that I visit sites with live women and, as I said above, respects my privacy and even told me I didn't need to share what I do there. But I fear that if she knew the full extent of this routine, she would have serious misgivings.

These workers are people too, and these exclusives can feel more intimate than either one of us expected. My wife vaguely knows that I visit sites with live women and, as I said above, respects my privacy and even told me I didn't need to share what I do there. But I fear that if she knew the full extent of this routine, she would have serious misgivings.

I also feel a little weird about the money. We keep separate accounts, and it is my own money, but these sites charge by the minute, and spending a couple thousands of dollars a year that I'm not disclosing to my spouse feels like its own financial infidelity.

I also feel a little weird about the money. We keep separate accounts, and it is my own money, but these sites charge by the minute, and spending a couple thousands of dollars a year that I'm not disclosing to my spouse feels like its own financial infidelity.

I feel like I'm having multiple ambiguous digital emotional sexual affairs a few times a week, made all the more strange because they happen in the bedroom I share with my wife, often while she's working in her home office just a few doors away. Dan, am I cheating on my wife?

I feel like I'm having multiple ambiguous digital emotional sexual affairs a few times a week, made all the more strange because they happen in the bedroom I share with my wife, often while she's working in her home office just a few doors away. Dan, am I cheating on my wife?

Hi Dan, Nancy, and the tech savvy at Risk Youth. 30-year-old bi poly woman here, and I guess just calling with a question about my partner. We met online back in September, and in October ended up going on a date and really hit things off. Yeah, I mean, it was a great time, like definitely formed a connection pretty quickly.

Hi Dan, Nancy, and the tech savvy at Risk Youth. 30-year-old bi poly woman here, and I guess just calling with a question about my partner. We met online back in September, and in October ended up going on a date and really hit things off. Yeah, I mean, it was a great time, like definitely formed a connection pretty quickly.

I told him I wanted our relationship to be open and that I was poly from the get-go and he was receptive and said it was something he was interested in and willing to explore and had just never really done it before but wanted to. So fast forward to, like, the last few months, every once in a while, like, trying to keep the conversation open. So I've asked, hey, are you still on dating apps?

I told him I wanted our relationship to be open and that I was poly from the get-go and he was receptive and said it was something he was interested in and willing to explore and had just never really done it before but wanted to. So fast forward to, like, the last few months, every once in a while, like, trying to keep the conversation open. So I've asked, hey, are you still on dating apps?

And he's always said no. And I told him that I'm still on field and I have changed my account to say that I am partnered in poly and have... um a partner and have a picture of us together so he has not changed his and also said he doesn't use the apps anymore and although i'm not a huge fan of these styles of calling people out there's a facebook page called are we dating the same guy um

And he's always said no. And I told him that I'm still on field and I have changed my account to say that I am partnered in poly and have... um a partner and have a picture of us together so he has not changed his and also said he doesn't use the apps anymore and although i'm not a huge fan of these styles of calling people out there's a facebook page called are we dating the same guy um

And he's been posted in there four different times. One of them was two days ago. He claims we've never met up with anybody. But I'm concerned about my health. Like, I am going to get tested. I just don't know if this is forgivable. My boundaries that I set from day one... were, don't lie to me and don't fuck around and hurt my feelings. And he lied and he fucked around and he hurt my feelings.

And he's been posted in there four different times. One of them was two days ago. He claims we've never met up with anybody. But I'm concerned about my health. Like, I am going to get tested. I just don't know if this is forgivable. My boundaries that I set from day one... were, don't lie to me and don't fuck around and hurt my feelings. And he lied and he fucked around and he hurt my feelings.

So am I a chump for taking him back? Is this DTMFA? Like, I don't really know what to do here. But turns out we're going on vacation in an hour.

So am I a chump for taking him back? Is this DTMFA? Like, I don't really know what to do here. But turns out we're going on vacation in an hour.