Tyler McAllister

That's the outcome I always desire, right? events, wife come up to me and says, yo, I want a divorce like that hasn't happened. Andrea, I love you. But say that was the event, right? In that moment, if I can press pause and realize, OK, what outcome do I want? How would I respond to that situation? Right.

Versus like I'm not clear on the outcome I want and I'm not willing to press pause that when that event happens, like I just like react and respond in a way that's like, what are you talking about? Like, I thought things were good. You know, that's like versus like, hey, babe, clearly I've done something wrong. Right. Like I if you are feeling this way, like that's blindsided me a little bit here.

Versus like I'm not clear on the outcome I want and I'm not willing to press pause that when that event happens, like I just like react and respond in a way that's like, what are you talking about? Like, I thought things were good. You know, that's like versus like, hey, babe, clearly I've done something wrong. Right. Like I if you are feeling this way, like that's blindsided me a little bit here.

Versus like I'm not clear on the outcome I want and I'm not willing to press pause that when that event happens, like I just like react and respond in a way that's like, what are you talking about? Like, I thought things were good. You know, that's like versus like, hey, babe, clearly I've done something wrong. Right. Like I if you are feeling this way, like that's blindsided me a little bit here.

I'm committed to being your number one. I want this. How can we work on this? That's a completely different response. And it's the same in business. I want to sell my business for $100 million. I get a million dollar fine and we have 10 grand in the bank account, right? How am I gonna respond to this particular situation if that's the outcome that I desire, right?

I'm committed to being your number one. I want this. How can we work on this? That's a completely different response. And it's the same in business. I want to sell my business for $100 million. I get a million dollar fine and we have 10 grand in the bank account, right? How am I gonna respond to this particular situation if that's the outcome that I desire, right?

I'm committed to being your number one. I want this. How can we work on this? That's a completely different response. And it's the same in business. I want to sell my business for $100 million. I get a million dollar fine and we have 10 grand in the bank account, right? How am I gonna respond to this particular situation if that's the outcome that I desire, right?

Versus, you know, and so it's just constantly like keeping your eternal, I guess you'd say, or like future perspective of outcome. And so, and not necessarily controlling it, but more just controlling like the response and, And hoping for a better future.

Versus, you know, and so it's just constantly like keeping your eternal, I guess you'd say, or like future perspective of outcome. And so, and not necessarily controlling it, but more just controlling like the response and, And hoping for a better future.

Versus, you know, and so it's just constantly like keeping your eternal, I guess you'd say, or like future perspective of outcome. And so, and not necessarily controlling it, but more just controlling like the response and, And hoping for a better future.

And and I what I would interpret that as is like, I think I think where control goes wrong is when we try to control others rather than control ourselves. Yeah. Right. Like I think because because what you're saying is like, I just need to control being my best version and and understand that others are going to be the way they are and things are going to happen for a reason.

And and I what I would interpret that as is like, I think I think where control goes wrong is when we try to control others rather than control ourselves. Yeah. Right. Like I think because because what you're saying is like, I just need to control being my best version and and understand that others are going to be the way they are and things are going to happen for a reason.

And and I what I would interpret that as is like, I think I think where control goes wrong is when we try to control others rather than control ourselves. Yeah. Right. Like I think because because what you're saying is like, I just need to control being my best version and and understand that others are going to be the way they are and things are going to happen for a reason.

And I think where frustration happens in regards to control is when I want to take away your choice or somebody else's and get this perfect scenario that I have imagined up in my mind.

And I think where frustration happens in regards to control is when I want to take away your choice or somebody else's and get this perfect scenario that I have imagined up in my mind.

And I think where frustration happens in regards to control is when I want to take away your choice or somebody else's and get this perfect scenario that I have imagined up in my mind.

I love it. Well, everybody, Tyler, appreciate you being on, uh, being on the show is a lot of fun. Just having a good conversation about everything. Yeah, man. Appreciate you guys. Yeah. Yeah. It's, uh, look forward to spending the next few days here in Hawaii together. It's going to be a good time. Likewise. As a reminder, uh,

I love it. Well, everybody, Tyler, appreciate you being on, uh, being on the show is a lot of fun. Just having a good conversation about everything. Yeah, man. Appreciate you guys. Yeah. Yeah. It's, uh, look forward to spending the next few days here in Hawaii together. It's going to be a good time. Likewise. As a reminder, uh,

I love it. Well, everybody, Tyler, appreciate you being on, uh, being on the show is a lot of fun. Just having a good conversation about everything. Yeah, man. Appreciate you guys. Yeah. Yeah. It's, uh, look forward to spending the next few days here in Hawaii together. It's going to be a good time. Likewise. As a reminder, uh,

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