Tyler McAllister

Yeah. Dude, I think, I think that second, the first one's awesome, right? Like how can I get better in this? I think that's just fun to dream that way. But the second one I think is like one of the most powerful things that you can tell yourself in any situation, relationships, business, spiritually, right? Like I just got to like breathe, trust in the unknown.

Yeah. Dude, I think, I think that second, the first one's awesome, right? Like how can I get better in this? I think that's just fun to dream that way. But the second one I think is like one of the most powerful things that you can tell yourself in any situation, relationships, business, spiritually, right? Like I just got to like breathe, trust in the unknown.

Yeah. Dude, I think, I think that second, the first one's awesome, right? Like how can I get better in this? I think that's just fun to dream that way. But the second one I think is like one of the most powerful things that you can tell yourself in any situation, relationships, business, spiritually, right? Like I just got to like breathe, trust in the unknown.

We can influence it. We can impact it.

We can influence it. We can impact it.

We can influence it. We can impact it.

There's definitely a facade. In less than control, it's more like control the response. I love Urban Meyer, his little equation, E plus R equals O. Have you heard that one? No. It comes from his book, Above the Line, which is absolutely phenomenal. It stands for event plus response equals outcome.

There's definitely a facade. In less than control, it's more like control the response. I love Urban Meyer, his little equation, E plus R equals O. Have you heard that one? No. It comes from his book, Above the Line, which is absolutely phenomenal. It stands for event plus response equals outcome.

There's definitely a facade. In less than control, it's more like control the response. I love Urban Meyer, his little equation, E plus R equals O. Have you heard that one? No. It comes from his book, Above the Line, which is absolutely phenomenal. It stands for event plus response equals outcome.

And essentially he says, if you want to impact and control the outcome, you just have to learn how to control the response. You're never going to be able to control the event events happen. And it's this all, it's the same mentality, right? Like events happen, like employees are outraged. Uh, somebody's quitting a million dollar fine, whatever, whatever, right.

And essentially he says, if you want to impact and control the outcome, you just have to learn how to control the response. You're never going to be able to control the event events happen. And it's this all, it's the same mentality, right? Like events happen, like employees are outraged. Uh, somebody's quitting a million dollar fine, whatever, whatever, right.

And essentially he says, if you want to impact and control the outcome, you just have to learn how to control the response. You're never going to be able to control the event events happen. And it's this all, it's the same mentality, right? Like events happen, like employees are outraged. Uh, somebody's quitting a million dollar fine, whatever, whatever, right.

This is an event, literally no control over it. Right? Like, You may have been able to impact it before, but it's already happened. Here it is. Nothing's changing it. And so it's OK. This is the event. How am I going to respond if I want this outcome? And so the thing he always talks about is like, OK, understand what the outcome you want.

This is an event, literally no control over it. Right? Like, You may have been able to impact it before, but it's already happened. Here it is. Nothing's changing it. And so it's OK. This is the event. How am I going to respond if I want this outcome? And so the thing he always talks about is like, OK, understand what the outcome you want.

This is an event, literally no control over it. Right? Like, You may have been able to impact it before, but it's already happened. Here it is. Nothing's changing it. And so it's OK. This is the event. How am I going to respond if I want this outcome? And so the thing he always talks about is like, OK, understand what the outcome you want.

And say, if I wanted this outcome, how would I respond to this situation? Press pause. How would I respond in this situation to it? So like bringing a relationship, right? Like the outcome I want in my relationship with my wife is I want an eternal companion that's always with me. We're strong. We love each other. We laugh together. We have a good time, right? Like all the different things, right?

And say, if I wanted this outcome, how would I respond to this situation? Press pause. How would I respond in this situation to it? So like bringing a relationship, right? Like the outcome I want in my relationship with my wife is I want an eternal companion that's always with me. We're strong. We love each other. We laugh together. We have a good time, right? Like all the different things, right?

And say, if I wanted this outcome, how would I respond to this situation? Press pause. How would I respond in this situation to it? So like bringing a relationship, right? Like the outcome I want in my relationship with my wife is I want an eternal companion that's always with me. We're strong. We love each other. We laugh together. We have a good time, right? Like all the different things, right?

That's the outcome I always desire, right? events, wife come up to me and says, yo, I want a divorce like that hasn't happened. Andrea, I love you. But say that was the event, right? In that moment, if I can press pause and realize, OK, what outcome do I want? How would I respond to that situation? Right.

That's the outcome I always desire, right? events, wife come up to me and says, yo, I want a divorce like that hasn't happened. Andrea, I love you. But say that was the event, right? In that moment, if I can press pause and realize, OK, what outcome do I want? How would I respond to that situation? Right.