Sawyer (Mel's daughter)
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Let me be sad. I need to feel this. And I know everyone around you when you're going through a breakup, they just want to make you feel better because your emotions make them feel really uncomfortable and it brings up stuff for them. And so they just want to squash whatever you're feeling and distract you and I'll take a shot or I'll go do this.
What you need to do as someone who is going through the breakup is is you can say to people, let me be sad. You are one of my best friends. Let me bring him up in every conversation because I have to talk about him right now. I have to bring this up. And that's a way that you can let them while let me still be grieving and be sad and moving through it and processing.
What you need to do as someone who is going through the breakup is is you can say to people, let me be sad. You are one of my best friends. Let me bring him up in every conversation because I have to talk about him right now. I have to bring this up. And that's a way that you can let them while let me still be grieving and be sad and moving through it and processing.
What you need to do as someone who is going through the breakup is is you can say to people, let me be sad. You are one of my best friends. Let me bring him up in every conversation because I have to talk about him right now. I have to bring this up. And that's a way that you can let them while let me still be grieving and be sad and moving through it and processing.
And to be honest, I kept doing that and kept doing that And it was helpful, but the only thing that actually got me to the acceptance stage, which we'll talk about next, and everything that you can move once you actually accept that this relationship is over, is the fact that the future I had made up in my mind was never actually going to happen.
And to be honest, I kept doing that and kept doing that And it was helpful, but the only thing that actually got me to the acceptance stage, which we'll talk about next, and everything that you can move once you actually accept that this relationship is over, is the fact that the future I had made up in my mind was never actually going to happen.
And to be honest, I kept doing that and kept doing that And it was helpful, but the only thing that actually got me to the acceptance stage, which we'll talk about next, and everything that you can move once you actually accept that this relationship is over, is the fact that the future I had made up in my mind was never actually going to happen.
And that is the only thing that I was completely unwilling to accept. always thinking about us getting back together, or five years from now, running into each other in the street of New York City. Oh, nice to see you. 20 pounds lighter, hair blown out, Botox, all to see.
And that is the only thing that I was completely unwilling to accept. always thinking about us getting back together, or five years from now, running into each other in the street of New York City. Oh, nice to see you. 20 pounds lighter, hair blown out, Botox, all to see.
And that is the only thing that I was completely unwilling to accept. always thinking about us getting back together, or five years from now, running into each other in the street of New York City. Oh, nice to see you. 20 pounds lighter, hair blown out, Botox, all to see.
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
And that is what, like, kept him around for so long. Is I... In your mind, in a fantasy. In my mind. Because he was not around. No. Not in my text, not in anything. It's dry. Just like your vagina. No, literally. No, literally. Cobwebs. Especially when you're living at your parents' house. But it honestly is all about the fantasy. I think that that was what happened in my last relationship.
And that is what, like, kept him around for so long. Is I... In your mind, in a fantasy. In my mind. Because he was not around. No. Not in my text, not in anything. It's dry. Just like your vagina. No, literally. No, literally. Cobwebs. Especially when you're living at your parents' house. But it honestly is all about the fantasy. I think that that was what happened in my last relationship.
And that is what, like, kept him around for so long. Is I... In your mind, in a fantasy. In my mind. Because he was not around. No. Not in my text, not in anything. It's dry. Just like your vagina. No, literally. No, literally. Cobwebs. Especially when you're living at your parents' house. But it honestly is all about the fantasy. I think that that was what happened in my last relationship.
That's what happened in this relationship is after it was over, I was accepting of the fact that we had broken up. I was accepting of the fact that, you know what, there probably is someone else out there for me. You know what, like we didn't agree on this or that or the other thing. And maybe there is someone better. I don't know. And everything happens for a reason.
That's what happened in this relationship is after it was over, I was accepting of the fact that we had broken up. I was accepting of the fact that, you know what, there probably is someone else out there for me. You know what, like we didn't agree on this or that or the other thing. And maybe there is someone better. I don't know. And everything happens for a reason.
That's what happened in this relationship is after it was over, I was accepting of the fact that we had broken up. I was accepting of the fact that, you know what, there probably is someone else out there for me. You know what, like we didn't agree on this or that or the other thing. And maybe there is someone better. I don't know. And everything happens for a reason.
Like I was able to accept that. And whenever anyone came to me and said, you know, maybe this is for the best, I was able to receive that and process that. But what I wasn't willing to accept is that later on, he wouldn't come back in my life. And I think that that is what...