Kira
Appearances
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Alternate Realities: Down the Rabbit Hole
Because I don't want to be there. I feel like I'm going to cry.
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Alternate Realities: Down the Rabbit Hole
I think last year was so terrible, incredibly terrible for me. And the thought of being back in that space feels awful. Why would I choose that?
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Alternate Realities: Down the Rabbit Hole
I think for things to change. Like, it's not like things are better. than where they were almost a year ago. It's just like enough time has passed that I don't feel like shit every day, but it's not like much has changed. You know, I'm learning to deal with it.
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Alternate Realities: Down the Rabbit Hole
No, because I feel like there are parts of me that want... To continue to have a lot of space and not really have a relationship, but I'm also not in a place where I'm not ready to do that either. And so that's hard. Like, I don't want to not have a relationship with him. But do you want to feel a little bit shitty every day for the rest of your life?
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Alternate Realities: Down the Rabbit Hole
Or do you want to feel like one big, terrible, gaping wound and then allow that to heal and then keep living? But a lot of people choose the, like, tiny paper cuts every day.
Embedded
Alternate Realities: Down the Rabbit Hole
Yeah. And I'm just not interested in the tiny paper cuts every day.
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Alternate Realities: Down the Rabbit Hole
Yeah, I mean, I've thought about it a lot, like... You know, it's not lost on me that you're closer. And it's odd, but I'm not, like, upset about it. I mean, I know I sound upset, but I think it's just very layered for me.
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Alternate Realities: Down the Rabbit Hole
But I think part of me, in, like, a very bizarre way, is, like, glad that you both have had that. You know, it's not something at all that I can... can give him and I don't know if I ever will be able to anymore.
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Alternate Realities: A Strange Bet
So like, let's say these things don't come true and he's willing to say like, I was wrong about these things. I don't feel like that would affect his beliefs around like me. Like even if he's right about everything else, I'm probably still going to be gay after that.
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Alternate Realities: A Strange Bet
I think the hardest part is that he looked at me and told me that I was wrong about myself and that he was right. And I don't understand how he could know that.
Global News Podcast
Five dead and 200 injured in Magdeburg Christmas market attack
When this gift came, I was very happy. I wanted it for a long time. But still, when I think about the way it came to me, the price I had to pay for it, I'm ready to give everything back just to have my father returned. My dad was the one who would always give me advice. And now, without him, I don't know what to do.
This American Life
854: Ten Things I Don't Want to Hate About You
Because I don't want to be there. I feel like I'm going to cry. I think last year was so terrible. incredibly terrible for me and the thought of being back in that space feels awful why would i choose that i'm not gonna get okay with him believing that i'm somebody that i'm not and and wanting so badly for me to be something else.
This American Life
854: Ten Things I Don't Want to Hate About You
And it's hard because I say that and then I immediately think, well, that's what I want from him. I want him to fundamentally change who he is and be a different person. That's where I feel stuck. It's like when you when we both we want the same things from each other. And I don't know if that's possible.
This American Life
854: Ten Things I Don't Want to Hate About You
I think the hardest part is that he, like, looked at me and told me that I was wrong about myself and that he was right. And I don't understand how he could know that.
This American Life
854: Ten Things I Don't Want to Hate About You
So, like, let's say these things don't come true and he's willing to say, like, I was wrong about these things. I don't feel like that would affect his beliefs around me. Like, even if he's right about everything else, I'm probably still going to be gay after that.