Dr. Ethan Cross

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Thanks for having me. It's a delight to be here.

Thanks for having me. It's a delight to be here.

The situation was driving on the roads of Brooklyn, New York. He would often transform into a I have a mental image of Mad Max, if you're familiar with those movies. And he wasn't just a reckless driver right out of the driveway. But if he perceived any –

The situation was driving on the roads of Brooklyn, New York. He would often transform into a I have a mental image of Mad Max, if you're familiar with those movies. And he wasn't just a reckless driver right out of the driveway. But if he perceived any –

The situation was driving on the roads of Brooklyn, New York. He would often transform into a I have a mental image of Mad Max, if you're familiar with those movies. And he wasn't just a reckless driver right out of the driveway. But if he perceived any –

quote unquote, injustice on the road, that is another car that was driving recklessly or cut someone else off, he would take it upon himself to discipline that driver. And what I mean by that is He would get in front of them and then slow our car down so that the other driver would have to slow down.

quote unquote, injustice on the road, that is another car that was driving recklessly or cut someone else off, he would take it upon himself to discipline that driver. And what I mean by that is He would get in front of them and then slow our car down so that the other driver would have to slow down.

quote unquote, injustice on the road, that is another car that was driving recklessly or cut someone else off, he would take it upon himself to discipline that driver. And what I mean by that is He would get in front of them and then slow our car down so that the other driver would have to slow down.

If I close my eyes right now, I can see us driving on the Belt Parkway, which is this freeway that wrapped around the perimeter of Brooklyn. And I could see him weaving in and out of cars to find the perpetrator.

If I close my eyes right now, I can see us driving on the Belt Parkway, which is this freeway that wrapped around the perimeter of Brooklyn. And I could see him weaving in and out of cars to find the perpetrator.

If I close my eyes right now, I can see us driving on the Belt Parkway, which is this freeway that wrapped around the perimeter of Brooklyn. And I could see him weaving in and out of cars to find the perpetrator.

He did the tailing too. So, you know, the whole nine yards. But yes, that's exactly right. You know, that was one of the first observations I had of this idea that you could be really good at regulating your emotions in some contexts, but really bad in others.

He did the tailing too. So, you know, the whole nine yards. But yes, that's exactly right. You know, that was one of the first observations I had of this idea that you could be really good at regulating your emotions in some contexts, but really bad in others.

He did the tailing too. So, you know, the whole nine yards. But yes, that's exactly right. You know, that was one of the first observations I had of this idea that you could be really good at regulating your emotions in some contexts, but really bad in others.

So when I had crushes on girls in high school, it took a while for me to... ask them out on dates. And I remember many false starts, you know, starting to dial their numbers when we used to have, believe it or not, rotary phones. And I would turn the dial, you know, turn a three number, I'd get three numbers deep and then hang it up. And then I'd go four and then I'd hang it up.

So when I had crushes on girls in high school, it took a while for me to... ask them out on dates. And I remember many false starts, you know, starting to dial their numbers when we used to have, believe it or not, rotary phones. And I would turn the dial, you know, turn a three number, I'd get three numbers deep and then hang it up. And then I'd go four and then I'd hang it up.

So when I had crushes on girls in high school, it took a while for me to... ask them out on dates. And I remember many false starts, you know, starting to dial their numbers when we used to have, believe it or not, rotary phones. And I would turn the dial, you know, turn a three number, I'd get three numbers deep and then hang it up. And then I'd go four and then I'd hang it up.

And then I'd give it a rest for a day or two and have to have pep talks with my dad, for example, and some of my best friends in high school would give me pep talks to kind of build my confidence to ultimately dial the damn number and start the conversation, which I eventually did and was grateful for those pep talks.

And then I'd give it a rest for a day or two and have to have pep talks with my dad, for example, and some of my best friends in high school would give me pep talks to kind of build my confidence to ultimately dial the damn number and start the conversation, which I eventually did and was grateful for those pep talks.