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I'm in control here. This is a perfect time to segue into our question. And our producer, Natalie, is going to read the question and then we're going to react to it.
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And I was going to go for a walk this morning, but I was so excited about our guest today that I was preparing all morning long. And we're going to be talking about dreams. And, you know, it made me think of when we were little, did you have a dream? Did you know what you wanted to do?
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Well, that is a lot. That's heartbreaking. That was heartbreaking. It is. And I'll open it up to you folks.
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I remember. You remember that? Oh, yeah. I was wondering if you remember because I thought you were going to say lawyer or something. I was going to say not.
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But yes, you wanted to be a pediatrician.
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So to not take this into a sports metaphor, which I get accused of all the time.
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It seems to me that in order to be really good at what you do and to be really good at what you do, you can't just, the goal can't just be the goal. You have to enjoy the process. Like guys who make it into professional athletics, they love to work out. They love to do the hard stuff. They love to get in the gym. They love to compete when nobody's watching.
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And that ends up turning into a guy like LeBron or like Michael Jordan. And what I'm finding is that people don't learn how to enjoy the process. Because Noelle's done all this great work that got her to where she is. And she should be loving the fact that she got there. And she can't because she got there and the goal was... I do the book, and then I get all of this.
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To your point, Kiki, I get all this stuff that's supposed to come with the book.
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So the problem with chemistry. few in science is you didn't like it because you were a good student in every subject.
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So I'm going to see if you remember this. The first thing I wanted to be wasn't an athlete, wasn't a coach. Well, kind of an athlete, but it was a race car driver. Do you remember that?
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No, no. It wasn't pilot because folks weren't on planes like that back then. Yeah, yeah. I wanted to be a NASCAR or IndyCar driver.
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It is. But do you remember how I got talked out of it by Mrs. Thompson, my second grade teacher?
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So... It was one of those days in school where you have to, she's like, all right, I want everybody to stand up and say what you want to be when you grow up. And people were like standing up saying they wanted to be a teacher and they wanted to be a fireman and they wanted to be a policeman. She gets to me and I said, I want to be a race car driver. And she was like, Craig Robinson.
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With all those brains, all you want to do is be a race car driver?
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Thompson. And she shamed me out of it. See, that's what I'm talking about. But as it turned out, you grow to be 6'6", you can't be a race car driver, right?
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She didn't know it.
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Thank you.
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Well, they make a good living. But, you know, they're mostly... Most of those guys have to be engineers. They have to be really good, to your point, math, science, figuring things out. So it...
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And I love Miss Thompson. You know, she was one of my favorite teachers, but she talked me out of my first dream.
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Absolutely. Absolutely. And it's okay to want to be three or four things too.
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Yeah, well, you know, I always thought mom and dad did a terrific job because they never said you should be this or stick with this. They just said, whatever you decide, just work hard at it. Just work hard. It was like schoolwork. You don't have to get the best grades as long as you work hard.
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And typically when you worked hard, you got the results you wanted. And that was advice that I've carried with me through a bunch of different machinations and jobs. And I never set out to be a basketball player. But I digress. I want to bring out our guest who is an Emmy Award winning multi-hyphenate entertainer, an actress, a musical artist, a producer, a host of her own podcast, and an author.
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But most importantly, she is the favorite game show host of the Robinson household. Because, you know, we play some Password in our house. You come to our house, you got to be ready to play some Password. So, Kiki Palmer, will you please come on down?
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It's so good to see you. Thanks for being here.
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The password is. Yes.
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When we play, we say it like that. And the password is. You've done better than, who was the guy, Alan Ludden? It was the original.
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Yeah.
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So I was telling our producer, Natalie, there's only two, we have at home, we have four kids, but only two at home.
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14-year-old and a 12-year-old. So sitting down and watching TV is gone by the wayside. But there's two things we watch, Password and Dateline.
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That'll get you into it.
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You can teach some life lessons with Dateline.
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And if Kiki's from Robbins, she can handle herself.
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You can handle yourself. We know that.
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Well, hello.
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How are you?
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as i mentioned earlier in the episode this time on my trip to washington dc i didn't stay at my sister's place i stayed at a wonderful airbnb the place was fantastic my sister is not very happy with me but they Being at my own place, I can cook for myself when I want to. I actually boiled a few eggs for myself. I can have a beer, put my feet up.
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Even though I didn't stay at your place last night.
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I can take a shower and come out of the bathroom with my towel around me and not necessarily have to get dressed right away. But I think that from now on, when I come to D.C., I'm going to stay in an Airbnb to my sister's chagrin. Thank you so much for having me. When Kelly and I got married, we were thinking, what's the best way to lay a foundation for our new family?
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To this day, whenever my sister and I catch the scent of Pine Sol, we automatically feel better about life. The smell of Pine Sol has always taken us back to our childhood home. It is amazing how smells can transport you to a place or a moment in time. Another smell that takes me back is cherry blossoms, which always remind me of visiting Michelle in D.C.
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Let me tell you. I would normally stay with my sister, but this time I stayed at a really nice place.
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Which he did, but he never—it seemed like he was either never sick, which we know now is impossible.
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They'll let me take you for a spin?
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He just really just fought through it and didn't want to take any sick days.
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To this day, whenever my sister and I catch the scent of Pine Sol, we automatically feel better about life. The smell of Pine Sol has always taken us back to our childhood home. It is amazing how smells can transport you to a place or a moment in time. Another smell that takes me back is cherry blossoms, which always remind me of visiting Michelle in D.C.
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This reminds me of the story when my wife, Kelly, bought her first place before we got married. Once she decided to buy a place, we knew that that was stressful enough on its own. Then came the actual execution of the idea. We talked about the stress of the size of the transaction, the money needed for the down payment. But just as important was gathering all the documents needed by the bank.
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See, she's still hot about it. Can you tell?
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Well, it started out with the term imbalanced, which I just can't understand when it comes to friendship.
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Because my friends are my friends. There's, you know... Relationships ebb and flow. So it's rarely going to be where everybody's feelings are balanced at the same time. So isn't life always out of balance?
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And people know by now that you and I are like have been best friends since you were born.
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You know, I guess with me and my friends, because like you, I don't want to generalize. As long as every now and then somebody else buys a round of drinks or it's lightweight. You use tickets. Tickets is a great example. Not everybody has the same means. So inviting me to a Lakers game is one thing. Or if I invite you to a Lakers game and you invite me to a high school game,
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That's equivalency to me.
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But what I don't get about this relationship was that she knew it was imbalanced from the beginning. To your point, Issa, my friends and I, we don't roll that way. We're more transactional. As long as we're getting something out of it, We feel okay. We don't go as deep. And like you were saying, it's sociology for women. It's not. It's carpentry for men. It's shop.
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I didn't want to say gym, but it's... We enjoy each other for surface level enjoyment. And if we need to go deep, we'll go deep. To what extent?
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Nope, it could not happen before then. But my first question to you is, how many of your friends now were your friends when you were little?
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No, we are. We are getting in his business. For the divorce.
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We in your business. I told her everything. Okay. What she left out, the reason I didn't tell her was because I was hoping that it would work out. Because if it didn't work out and I got over it, she would never get over it. Oh, interesting. So I was trying to save everybody's relationship. Now, when I talk to my boys about it, that's when I go deep. You did go deep with it. Yeah.
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But no, see, now see, there's no timing to it. I mean... But there is. So it was deep for me. It was deep for me, irrespective of the time.
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I talked to two really good friends of mine. Um... And we would go to a restaurant in Chicago on Friday after the market stopped trading. And we'd have cigars and margaritas. And it was three of us. And we had one chair in the middle. And we called it the chair of angst. So whoever was having trouble got to sit in the chair of angst and say, this is what I'm going through.
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And for a while there, I was in the chair of angst for like seven months because I was going through this. And I wasn't ready to divulge it to my family because I didn't want, if I could somehow kick save this thing, then I could tell them after the fact. Yeah, you know, well, we had to work on it, but everything's fine now. But I know my family. He's right about that? Is he right?
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That's how they found out.
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I'm not saying it was the right thing to do. It was a plan. That was my plan.
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No, what I was saying is we don't go deep until we need to go deep.
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It's not like a friendship is, there's always something to dig into.
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There's always something to dig into.
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No, no, no. That was great. I appreciate that. And I also appreciate now you see she would have been mad when she said she wouldn't.
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It was all of the above. Because sometimes the person who was in the chair of angst just needed to vent. And in the venting, the other two would ask questions to find out, okay... is this really what's going on? Or is there anything we can do? Or what predicated this? It was just, it was a give and take.
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It wasn't just a venting session, but it was, at least for me, it was liberating to be able to just have somebody to talk to about things that, you know, that were deep and private that I didn't, I wasn't ready to share with the the whole world.
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let it go they don't let it go you you're never out of the chair because now i'm calling you and going okay what happened what happened yeah so not only do i have a sister i have a wife and which has helped me communicate right because i say all the time our relationship relationship with my wife and the relationship with my daughter who is now 28 i'm a better communicator
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not just with women, but in general, because I get it. I get it. There are times when my wife wants to talk to me and I don't want to talk, but I have to be intentional about she needs this.
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If I need it, I will go get it. But with my friends, we never get there like that.
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Because you don't have expectations of them? No, friends have disappointed, but it doesn't injure me as deeply. And if your next question is, do I approach them and say, hey, you really disappointed me? I have. And I think that's why we keep our friendship.
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At the risk of sounding cocky, I have not.
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I hope that I am.
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No. You have a sister. You have to be a good friend. But it doesn't have to be deep friendship. It can be just below the surface.
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Yeah. So this is a really good question. And I haven't thought about this because unlike my sister, I didn't make too many new friends as an adult. You know, after a certain period, I shouldn't say as an adult, sort of as I've gotten older. So my friends are my friends, and they're going to be my friends.
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And new people that I meet that I haven't known for a long time who are friends, the shift to the right, and they don't make the shift to the right, we just don't communicate as much.
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She calls it a slow ghost.
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And which brings me to another point that you all didn't talk about, but it made me think about this, is that I don't mind being ghosted. Me neither. I don't mind that.
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Yeah. If it didn't matter, it didn't matter. But let's say I get the slow ghost, right? I get the slow ghost. And then a year later, the guy texts me and say, hey, I'm going to be in town. Want to go get a drink? I'll be like, yeah, sure.
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Just look at the guys in here all smiling, trying not to get in trouble. They are trying for me not to get in trouble.
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The guys who, like, say, grammar school people who were my friends, I'm still in touch with.
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Since high school, first day of high school.
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No, we fought, yeah. But it's old.
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There's no emotional fight. You know? You're talking about, I thought you were talking about like a fight.
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Well, you all don't physically fight.
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Until there is a crisis, then we go deep.
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It could be something going on with their kids, or it could be a divorce, or it could be, you know, a car accident.
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Yeah, a crisis.
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And today's show is talking about differences with those friends and falling out of friendship with good friends. And I'm just thinking, see, guys are a little different. Their friendships are more transactional, right?
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Well, what I mean is... After sort of grammar school and high school where you're sort of friends with people because you're developing your group and your personality and your character. Most of the time after that, you make friends out of the necessity of wanting to get something done, whether it's a business idea, a business venture, a sporting event. You've got four tickets to a game.
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I mean, with that level of kind of intimacy, I maintain that the chair of angst with me, Jimmy, and Victor is exactly the same thing. It just doesn't take as long.
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It does. It takes a crisis to get it going.
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I don't want Eva to think we are not taking her issue seriously.
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Well, is it possible to set boundaries?
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In a friendship that's unbalanced? Yes.
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And your significant other doesn't want to go, so you, all right, I'm going to take three friends.
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We are not broken, but we don't go as deep.
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So if something happens, we're not as hurt.
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Nobody said it was scared.
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So this is perfect because I'm thinking back to Eva. One of the things I would like Eva to take away from this is that being in an unbalanced relationship doesn't mean it has to end the relationship. If you want it to be another way, I'm learning from you all.
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If I'm in an unbalanced relationship and I'm the one feeling unbalanced, I got to go to the person and say, hey, look, this is what I want out of a relationship. And if they can't provide it, then we got to think about it.
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It's just a function of how we socialize with each other. And like you, I have all of my friends I could not talk to in a year, or I could talk to every week, and the relationship is... Mostly the same.
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Well, let's figure out a couple, three things that we can tell Eva. And then maybe we could figure out a follow up with her.
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I like that, too. But you know what I like even more is when Issa said, just get a guy friend.
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Eva, we really care about you.
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You're right about that. It's hard to go deep. You know when we go deep? Uh-huh. Is when it's too late.
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We're getting a divorce.
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I didn't say anything because I didn't want to burden you. And I was going to thug through it myself.
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But today's show, we're going to talk about, you know, sort of falling out of friendship with close friends.
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We do have company. And I can't tell you how excited I am for this company. Because as I told her in the green room, I didn't watch... rom-com-ish type shows. And my wife said, you got to watch this Insecure. And I'm like, I'm not watching it. She said, you got to watch it. It's good. And I said, I'm not watching it. And she said, you're going to like it. I said, I'm not going to like it.
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She made me watch the first two episodes back to back because she was like on episode four. I watched the first one. I was like, all right, it's not bad. I watched the second one. And then I watched the third and the fourth because I was only going to watch the first two. And I just...
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fell in love with this actress who then I had to do a little research and I found out she was a writer and she was now getting into the restaurant business and just an entrepreneur and a community folk, you know?
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Kind of like y'all.
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Just in the community doing stuff for Black folks.
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Giving it back and just so supremely talented. Let's bring on Issa Rae. Issa!
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Oh, so happy to have you here.
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Is that a dream or was it just circumstantial?
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Were you going to say something?
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It's... My wife called it coral, but it could be pink.
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Well, that's a perfect segue for our listener letter. It's somebody who fell out of favor with a friend. So, Natalie, are you ready to read us the letter?
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I am thrilled that you like my clothes.
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See, you guys, it's hard being this one's brother. Yeah. I don't have enough closet space.
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Can I just say, before we dig into this, there would never be a guy that wrote a question like that. We just don't, it's not our thing.
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Why would you do that?
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That they're not good enough. Right.
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Right.
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No.
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That's right.
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Right. I would have been your caretaker rather than your brother.
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Well, you know, another story I think about is how mom and dad trained us to work hard. Do you remember the chores?
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Real work around the house. And what I mean by real work is I had... My chores were to clean the bathroom,
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What are you talking about?
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We alternated weeks.
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And I didn't, but I had to do it. Mom wanted us both to know how to have a clean bathroom. But my every weekend job was cleaning those stairs.
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We had 14 stairs. Notice I remember how many there were.
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That Went from our apartment down to our great aunt Robbie's apartment. And this is what I remember about Saturday morning.
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You remember that tin pot that we used to have? We had a tin pot, a pot now that used to be on the stove, which was now used for cleaning. And you put a little soap, dish soap in it. And then you put pine salt in it.
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And there was nothing like that smell. Like when you came home from school and mom had been mopping and you could smell the pine salt. It was usually Monday because she had laundry on Monday. You come home from school and it smells like... New house.
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And I have to say that I, still to this day, when I'm mopping, if we don't have that pine oil smell...
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That's it, isn't it?
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And here we are in adulthood, and they're a partner of ours on this podcast.
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But what we realized is that my dad didn't want to take his paid sick time because he wasn't sure if he would keep his job by doing that. And my sister and I realized that My dad would be sick, but he just thugged through it. It was a difficult thing for him to deal with then, and unfortunately, so many Americans still face this pressure today. 27 million Americans still lack paid sick time.
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Remember when we used to share a bedroom?
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Learn more or help someone apply for the fund at theraflu.com slash right to recover. I'm so happy that we're doing this together. And this show in and of itself is just bringing me down memory lane. But let's talk about some times when we had to actually, since you were talking about looking out for each other, when we had to lean on each other for advice. And I'll start because...
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I remember talking to you before I talked to mom about going into coaching.
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And I want to tell you a story about when I leaned on you, and I want to tell a story about when I didn't lean on you. When I leaned on you, I was... Well, I should tell the story chronologically because when I didn't lean on you happened before I leaned on you. Just in this example was when I was going through my first, my first divorce, my only divorce. And I didn't tell you about it.
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That's right.
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And the reason I didn't tell my sister about it or my mom or anybody close to me- Or just the challenges you guys were facing. Were facing was because I know my sister and I said, if I tell her about this, she's never going to get over it. And if we ever got back together- It wasn't going to be good for my first wife. So I was trying to hold off telling everybody.
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But the first person I did tell was Mish. And she was so mad that I hadn't told her and so disappointed that I vowed that I would never not tell her, hold anything from you. Because I had never done that ever and haven't done it since.
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And Whitney Young wasn't open.
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No, it was one bedroom.
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Boy, times have changed.
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It's more fun being Michelle Obama's big brother.
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You would have had way more dates. You had way more dates once I graduated.
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And it wasn't like I was trying to mark any territory or anything. It was just, you know.
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It's just walk around, people get nervous.
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But that was the only bedroom. The room we were in was actually the living room. And the living room that we, what we called the living room was actually the dining room.
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Like three buildings down.
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Fine.
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That was a mistake. That was a mistake. And I've learned since then. But I talk about you all the time to people because now that you're an icon, people are like, what's your sister like? I was like, listen. This woman used to take care of me from the time she... All the way back to when you used to play the piano for me before games. Yes, people, before my high school basketball games, my...
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Elementary school sister would play the piano so I could take a nap. And you'd play, even after I went to sleep, you kept playing, teaching me how to dance.
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Before I would go to the prom.
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I still do these moves to this day.
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You stay in the pockets. Stay in there. But what I think about when I think about us relying on each other, when I made the move from corporate America to become a coach, and the reason that was such a big deal was, you know, I was a bond trader, sales person in investment banking and finance and big time job, really good living. And I was contemplating-
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stopping that to go be an assistant coach on a basketball team.
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Like five and three.
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And you talked about how my love for teaching, like I always thought I was going to be a teacher. I never thought I would be a coach or an investment banker or even a basketball player. I thought I'd be a teacher or a cop or a fireman. You know, that was what we were exposed to. And you talked about how much you knew, I love teaching. I loved helping kids.
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And then you threw out what dad would say.
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He had passed by then. And you said he would say, if you could find something that you'd love to do, you're not working a day in your life. And that gave me the, courage to go into my partners that I worked with and tell them, hey, I'm hanging it up and I'm going to be a coach. And everybody thought I was having a nervous breakdown because this was after the divorce stuff.
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And we had matching spreads.
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Yeah, yeah.
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That mom made.
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Yeah. And, you know, in more recent times, I mean, it feels like I can call and talk to you about anything. I mean, you know, we talk about the kids. Now, see, I have the younger kids now. Well, now you're on marriage number two. I'm on marriage number two and I'm a... charter member of the ODC, the old dad's club.
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But, you know, just being able to call you up and have an opportunity to gained from your wisdom. It's just really... Now that I got a little, huh? It's nice. It's nice.
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I did.
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That's right. That's right. And, you know... everything happened so fast because Barack went from a state Senator to a U S Senator. And next thing you know, people were saying this guy should run for president. And you were like, uh, no, not doing it. You had grown up with Frazier Robinson.
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You wanted your girls to have sort of a similar upbringing with a father who would come home from work and play catch and take them to the park and do all these things. and, uh, Bharat came to me and he's like, you know, I can't convince your sister to go along with this. And I'm like, whoa, whoa, go along with what? And he's like, I think I'm going to run for president. And I was like, what?
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I remember you had a bed guard because you were so little.
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I wouldn't go along with it. And I said to him, I said, listen, what you have to do is, first of all, let me talk to her. You don't talk to her. Let me talk to her. No, it wasn't that. I said, you know, I said, if we can get mom on this, our mom, Marion Robinson, if we can get her on board for this, which she was not on board for it, we might have a chance of getting Misha on.
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And then I said, let me talk to Misha. And that's when I came and talked to you. And just gave you your advice that you had given me back pretty much about following your passion and doing the things you love. But I think the thing that pushed it over the top was I convinced you to not penalize him for being really good at what he does. Hmm.
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You still probably should have been in a crib.
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And that would be like a guy who is fighting to get to the NBA, and he makes it. And because the travel is messed up, his wife says, no, I don't want you to do it. And it just wouldn't be fair. And I talked to you and mom at the same time, and both of you sat there reasonably mad and said I was right. And then I said to everybody in our family that this is not just you all doing it.
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This means all of us are doing it. Because of the scrutiny you guys would be under, the work you're going to have to do, it's going to take a village to do this whole thing. And that was pretty much the discussion that we had that got this whole thing started.
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And I'd come running.
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Everybody else would be wide awake, and you'd be snoring.
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You know what? They remember the turkey pardoning. That was the last thing.
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But then from there, from there, we went to, and I'm trying to remember what age, when our grandfather, Southside, built us this tea plant.
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Oh, shoot. Six and four, maybe?
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Partition wall. So then we had our own bedrooms in that same room. So it went from a one room, one big room into three small rooms. Your bedroom was on the right. Mine was on the left. And then we had a common area in the front where mom, once again, crafty, built us desks on each side where we could do our homework.
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We couldn't play on the front lawn. My sister couldn't have a dog. And we didn't realize the importance of being a homeowner until we got late in life. We always would talk to our dad about why we don't own a home, and he talked about being house poor. Little did we know that homeownership was a great way to build wealth. equity.
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We all do it sometimes because it's easy to envy friends' lives on social media when you only see the good parts. But you know what they say, comparison is the thief of joy. And in reality, nobody has it all together. Therapy can help you focus on what you want instead of what others have. Like that career goal you set your sights on. Or that relationship you want to grow.
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Or that daily habit you want to get into. because your best life is always better than the idea of someone else's. We believe in therapy at IMO, and we've seen firsthand how beneficial it is to invest in your own well-being. You know, this reminds me of my teams. When I coached back in my day, we didn't have therapists assigned to the team.
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Thank you.
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Hence the name.
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You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
I couldn't agree with you more. I have over these years, and we talked about this a little earlier about being, our parents being, before there was the term lifetime learners, right? Mm-hmm. That's what they were. And it's been so helpful for me in my adult life and our adult lives.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
I just want to be able to share what we can with folks who weren't as fortunate to have Frazier and Mary Robinson as parents. And then I have just... Watched you grow into this person who has a platform where people, you touch people, people listen to you. And it's just an honor to be sitting here next to you and being able to share that with the rest of the world.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
It'll be fun. You know? Because we may not have all the answers, but we got plenty of opinions.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
So we want you to hang with us tough. And feel free to engage with us. Subscribe. Follow us on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify.
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You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
Audible. And wherever you get your podcast, look us up and send us some questions. We'd love to get questions from you folks and try and answer them. And, you know, I plan on learning something too in this.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
So am I. It'll be a lot of fun.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
We thought it was all night, but because we had to go to bed at 7.30, it was probably like 8.30. But we talked till about 10 o'clock and mom would finally come in there. Yeah. If you all don't go to bed, go to sleep.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
Thanks for having me.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
Well, what's really ironic is that we were talking about how small our place was.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
And then look where we're doing this taping in this big, beautiful Airbnb.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
Got a little more room here. I know.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
This podcast is going to be about you and I trying to let people in on some of the lessons that we learned as kids and growing up and from mom and dad, but also from different teachers and coaches and things we've learned along the way. And Let me ask you this. What is one of the lessons that you learned from mom and dad that really sticks out to you?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
They sure don't. And, you know, I'm always asked how mom and dad came to be the type of parents that they were, that would be the type to let their kids come into the kitchen table and share in the conversation rather than being lectured to. And I always remember mom always, when we would always ask mom, how do you know something? She was like, well, I don't know everything. Yeah.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
I don't know what to tell you.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
When she wasn't sure. And she said, let me think about it and get back to you. And that was one of the most powerful things as a parent.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
You don't have to know everything. And it's better to say you don't know than to make up something or lie or get yourself caught in a position where your kids come back to you and say, You gave me bad advice.
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You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
All the time.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
Hence the name, In My Opinion, IMO.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
And it's funny you say that because this reminds me of my favorite lesson from them. When you talk about there's never any judgment, The only time mom and dad would really be upset with us is if we said, well, so-and-so said I should be doing this. And how about that word so-and-so?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
Who's so-and-so?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
So-and-so?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
That's all I remember about so-and-so. So-and-so was trouble. If you hung out with so-and-so, you were going to get in trouble.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
And mom would be so, meet so-and-so. Well, but my point is... If you ever came in the house and said one of your friends, somebody outside of the family said, you should do something or you should be something or how about let's try this. And you followed in behind them.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
That is when you caught it. Yeah, yeah.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
Not thinking for yourself and having enough confidence in your decision-making process to make decisions for yourself and not because somebody wanted you to. Well, you know, I wanted to wear bell-bottom jeans because everybody else is wearing them. That was the way to not get your bell-bottom jeans. If you could come up with a reason why you wanted them, then you'd have some bell-bottom jeans.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
But if you said... I'm not doing this because of somebody out in the streets, as dad would say. You out here listening to these guys? So-and-so out in the streets. So-and-so in the streets. Forget it.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
Well, I'm Craig Robinson, and you all know my sister, Michelle Obama, and we're doing this podcast together. And it's really exciting to be working with you on this project.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
Get ourselves up.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
Oh, not in the Robinson household.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
And this is a guy who was, you know, for him to be on time, he had to prepare because it was hard for him to get around and get dressed.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
The fact that... He had a disability, didn't make him have an excuse for anything, particularly being late. So much so mom used to be mad at him because he would get ready so early.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
And I would get ready earlier just to keep him company.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
You Should Start a Podcast with Your Sibling with Michelle and Craig
Because he was on that island time.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
Introducing IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
And I am Craig.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
Introducing IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
Every week we'll be joined by some of our friends, special guests and experts who will keep us honest.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
Introducing IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
And look, we're not saying we have all the answers either.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
Introducing IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
So get in touch. Send us your questions and join us every week.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
Introducing IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
And you all know my sister Michelle, or Mish as our family has always called her.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Right, right. And we could talk about our dad for two shows, right? But we've got the perfect guest to talk about happiness and adversity and all that kind of stuff. Dr. Lori Santos is a Yale professor. Thank you. Oh, you guys. All right. All right.
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IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
She's host of a wildly popular podcast called The Happiness Lab. She's also the teacher of one of the most popular classes at Yale.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
I wish we had it. And that's Psychology and the Good Life. And she's just an all-around great person. So can you welcome Dr. Lori Santos, everybody?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Unfortunately, we're on a time constraint here, and I cannot wait to hear you talk more about your podcast and your class, but we've got a live questioner here. And I know we have a person, James, are you here? Oh, there he is, James. James, can you stand up?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
But let me cut in here. She had to read from a prompter. I memorized mine.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Wait, the young folks don't know what that is.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Laurie, I want to get, James' question sort of deals with a little bit of hopelessness there. And I was just trying to figure out what does it mean for our culture with so many people feeling hopeless?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Michelle and I are here in Austin for South by Southwest, and we are joined by the Rivian founder and CEO, RJ. RJ, how's it going? It's going well. It's great to have you guys here. It's great to be here.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
I do, I do.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
That was really nice of you to do that. And I got to tell you, for me being 6'6", and for you probably, which is now I understand why there's enough leg room in the car. There's... Ample legroom in the front and the back seat. And then if you want to use the third seat, there's plenty of room there. Not only legroom, but headroom, storage space, the navigation system.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
And it made me wonder what was in the mind of somebody who developed such a beautiful car.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
I was looking out for her. Left prompter out. I was looking out for you. I knew you hadn't memorized it, so I didn't want you to be surprised.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
When that wasn't working.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
You know, our mom, and Misha will remember this, obviously we didn't have social media growing up, but we had friends who had stuff or friends who said things, and our mom was always, why do you care about what they say? And... I find trying to give my kids that advice is hard with social media, and I think a lot of parents find it hard. How do we balance that these days with social media?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Because we recently were talking with someone else who was telling us, if you take social media away, you've got to replace it with something. But my question is, how do we help folks find a balance here?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
That was the last time. And look at us now. We are here launching our new podcast, IMO. Yeah. Yeah. And we're already doing a live show.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
He wore a tan suit.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
I don't know about that.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
I fly commercial.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Okay. See? It's a good thing I'm here. It's a good thing I'm here. You know, with this face, walking around, flying commercial, how's Michelle? Tell Michelle I said hi.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
But before we go any further, I just want to say how grateful we are to partner with the folks at Rivian who have enabled us to do this podcast. Thank you, folks. I really appreciate it.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Lori, what can we do to find hope when things are tough? Like in James' situation, he's looking at his friends who have lost things in a fire or other personal disasters, what can we do?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
So how's this working? How are we going to do this, this podcast?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Only because I want to give James some takeaways, but I... This is Craig's job, too. We also have the happiness doctor here. So how can we... And let me back up, because our mom used to say, you're responsible for your own happiness.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
And that was some of the most empowering advice she ever gave us. How can we help those out there who don't have a Marianne Robinson or a social group? How can we help them work through making themselves happy?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Yeah. I started out in corporate America and moved into coaching, but I always felt like I wanted to be a coach or a teacher because I was coached and mentored by my dad, my mom, and really good coaches. And I thought it was really the reason why I got to do all the wonderful things I got to do. And I felt like I needed to share that with all these other young people out there.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
And to Lori's point, It makes me feel fantastic and it just is just such a wonderful warm feeling to be able to help folks.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
All right. So for James, we've got five minutes for some takeaways. And that was a great place to start. You find your light. All right. I'm looking toward Lori for a couple of takeaways.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Wow.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
That's a great point to end on, Mish. Please... Help me thank Dr. Lori Santos for being with us.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
As you can see, we do have a lot of opinions and we could keep this thing going on and on, but you have other things to go to. But before we go, I just want to say thanks for following us on our new IMO podcast journey.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
And please submit questions to imopod.com. And listen and subscribe. Thank you all for being here.
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IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
63.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Although people, because she's so iconic, people think I'm her little brother, if you can believe that.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
That is true.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Yeah. And we're always doing it at home with our families answering questions. So we're going to be doing that with our listeners. So as more as we get going, you'll see we'll have listener questions and we'll have one later today. So stay tuned.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
You all are nice. But how about my sister, Michelle Obama?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Oh, go ahead and clap. Yeah. See, we're not used to a live audience yet. No, I absolutely agree with Mish. And to her point, and in the video, we talked about not having all the opinions.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Or all the answers. We got plenty of opinions, but not all the answers. We're going to have a guest with us on most of our episodes. But sometimes it'll just be the two of us kind of chopping it up. But before we bring out our special guest today, I thought I'd pose a question to my sister. Because it's interesting, now that we're doing the podcast, we talk all the time.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
But now we save our talking. For when we see each other now.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
But do you remember how mom and dad taught us how to handle adversity?
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
I appreciate it. And I appreciate Monica remembering that I used to be a coach.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
I do, I do.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
So I was, I was worried about, and you know, back in the 70s, there were a lot of house fires. I don't know about you guys.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
There weren't, no sprinkler systems.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Thanks, Monica.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
So I was always worried that we lived on the second floor and our dad couldn't get around. So how would we get out if there were a fire? So I coming home from school and having done a fire drill at school, I set up a fire drill for us at home.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
I made my dad. Get on the floor. He had to be humiliated.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
I had him stand up and I grabbed him from behind and put my arms under his shoulders and then just leaned him back. And I dragged him through every room of the house to make sure that I could get him. around, and he let me do that. God bless him.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
It's been a while.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
She was right there.
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
IMO Live at SXSW: Combatting Hopelessness with Dr. Laurie Santos
Remind me. What are you thinking?
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And we just posted the trailer if you want to check it out.
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Remember when we used to share a bedroom? Yeah.
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No, it was one bedroom.
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But that was the only bedroom. The room we were in was actually the living room. And the living room that we, what we called the living room was actually the dining room.
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