Young and Profiting (YAP) with Hala Taha
Yung Pueblo: How Self-Healing Unlocks Success in Business and Relationships | Mental Health | E341
Mon, 10 Mar 2025
Many entrepreneurs chase business success, love, and happiness, but few realize that true fulfillment starts with self-healing. Before becoming a bestselling author and viral content creator, Diego "Yung Pueblo" Perez battled self-sabotage and mental health challenges until a silent meditation retreat transformed his mindset. Today, he is a leading voice in self-improvement and personal development. In this episode, Yung Pueblo reveals how entrepreneurs can achieve business growth and fulfillment while navigating love, success, and modern dating challenges. In this episode, Hala and Yung Pueblo will discuss: (00:00) Introduction (01:13) The History of the Pen Name ‘Yung Pueblo’ (03:21) From Financial Struggles to Early Activism (04:45) How Meditation Transformed His Mental Health (09:04) The Power of Self-Healing and Inner Peace (12:55) Organic Social Media Growth Strategies (16:03) Content Marketing Tips for Entrepreneurs (23:32) Emotional Maturity in Entrepreneurship (28:07) Finding Happiness Amid Business Failure (33:17) Top Three Qualities of Healthy Relationships (41:14) Conflict Management Tools for Couples (45:16) Why Modern Dating Feels Harder Than Ever (48:53) How to Tell If Someone Is Ready for Love Yung Pueblo is a bestselling author, poet, and meditation expert focused on self-healing, personal development, and creating healthy relationships. After graduating from college, he embraced Vipassana meditation and overcame substance abuse. His books, including How to Love Better, have sold nearly two million copies. With millions of followers across social media, he is a leading voice in self-improvement, human psychology, and positivity. Sponsored By: Shopify - youngandprofiting.co/shopify Airbnb - airbnb.com/host Rocket Money - rocketmoney.com/profiting Indeed - indeed.com/profiting RobinHood - robinhood.com/gold Factor - factormeals.com/factorpodcast Rakuten - rakuten.com Microsoft Teams - aka.ms/profiting Active Deals - youngandprofiting.com/deals Resources Mentioned: Yung Pueblo’s Book, How to Love Better: amzn.to/3ETRMH1 Yung Pueblo’s Newsletter: https://bit.ly/4kbbEW2 Key YAP Links Reviews - ratethispodcast.com/yap Youtube - youtube.com/c/YoungandProfiting LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Instagram - instagram.com/yapwithhala/ Social + Podcast Services: yapmedia.com Transcripts - youngandprofiting.com/episodes-new Entrepreneurship, Entrepreneurship Podcast, Business, Business Podcast, Self Improvement, Self-Improvement, Personal Development, Starting a Business, Strategy, Investing, Sales, Selling, Psychology, Productivity, Entrepreneurs, AI, Artificial Intelligence, Technology, Marketing, Negotiation, Money, Finance, Side Hustle, Mental Health, Career, Leadership, Mindset, Health, Growth Mindset, Health, Wellness, Biohacking, Motivation, Manifestation, Productivity, Brain Health, Life Balance, Positivity, Sleep, Diet.
Chapter 1: What inspired Yung Pueblo's pen name?
Hey, Yap fam, are you ready to thrive instead of just merely survive? My guest today has a beautiful ability to inspire and help people find their inner strength. Diego Perez is a poet, speaker, and bestselling author widely known on social media through his pen name, Young Pueblo. His brand new book is called How to Love Better.
And in today's episode, he's gonna share some tips on everything from self-healing to healthy relationships to how to stay grounded as an entrepreneur in challenging times. Diego, welcome to Young and Profiting Podcast.
Thank you so much. I'm so happy to be here.
I'm so pumped to be here. I've been waiting for this interview for a long time. Offline, I was just asking you, like, can I call you Diego? And you're like, yeah, of course. And I asked that because your pen name on social media is Young Pueblo, and that means young people in Spanish. Why did you decide to move through the world with that pen name? What does it mean to you?
And how does it relate to all the work that you do?
Yeah, it took on a lot of meaning over time. I initially put that name together just because it was like an honor to my Ecuadorian roots because I was born in Ecuador, but grew up in the United States. And as I started meditating, I started realizing that I'm really immature. I have a lot of growing to do, but I've also been a big fan of history. I've been studying history since I could read.
And I saw that humanity as a whole, Like we don't know the basic fundamentals that we try to teach children. When a child is like three or four years old, we're trying to teach them how to clean up after themselves, how to share, to not hit each other, to tell the truth, to be generally kind to each other.
And these are things that individuals may have mastered, but as a human collective, we haven't mastered these things at all. So the name Young Pueblo to me, it's more so a reminder to me personally to just remember that humanity is in this moment of maturing and a great transition.
It's so interesting. When I read that, I was thinking, we think we're so tech savvy. We've got AI coming out. We're driving in cars, going in the air in airplanes, but then we don't even have control over ourselves. And we have no idea how to control our minds. Yeah, exactly. So it's so interesting. So you're saying young people like humanity is young and there's so much room for improvement.
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Chapter 2: How did meditation change Yung Pueblo's life?
I was fortunate to get connected with this youth organizing group called BYOP, and that was based in Boston. And what we did was basically just learn how to organize ourselves, literally bring people together around a common cause. And then we would go to different schools and ask students, what do you want to change about your school? And they would either focus on changing different policies.
One time we had a citywide campaign where we changed the guidance counselor policy. Another citywide campaign where we helped all the young people in the city get free passes so that they can go to school. Because there were so many young people who were impoverished in the city of Boston that it costs money to take the transit system.
But it was really empowering to see if there's something that we want, we can organize around it and make it happen. And that was a great lesson to learn at 15, 16 years old.
And so you were doing all this work externally, trying to help other people, but inside you weren't having inner peace. You were broken inside and you had some self-destructive habits. So talk to us about that.
Yeah, I think that was the interesting part. When I was in high school, growing up, the group that I was with, BYOP, we were constantly winning. We would win campaign after campaign and I internally still did not feel good. And when I went to university, when I got there, it...
really came to a head where growing up and being a part of that constant struggle, it was so challenging that I was oblivious to the fact that it was placing such big imprints on my mind. I was being so deeply imprinted with sadness, with anxiety, with a scarcity mindset, and I had no way of processing my emotions. You know, this is a very pre-wellness world.
When I got to university, it was 2006 to 2010, and what I ended up doing was I could feel the tension in my body, but what I would try to do was, how can I avoid it as fast as possible? And the best way was to drink and to smoke and to do different drugs and just try to numb myself so that I wouldn't have to be aware of my own pain.
And at a certain point you felt burnout and you found meditation. So talk to us about your first retreat and how that changed your approach to life.
I was really fortunate that one of my best friends who I used to be crazy with, we were crazy together in college. He was traveling through India and did a silent 10 day meditation course. And he ended up writing an email to me and a few other friends all about love, compassion, and goodwill. And I was like shocked, you know, because this is the same person I used to party with all the time.
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Chapter 3: What are effective social media growth strategies?
It triggers them to comment. It triggers them to write their two cents, right? So it's like these universal emotions that you're tapping into that's really triggering people to engage. So I just think what you've done is absolutely incredible.
That's when you know that you've created a good piece of content. Because I write poetry a lot less now. Now I just put together whatever my main ideas are or any thoughts that come to mind. I've noticed something that's really interesting is when I release... something on Substack, I'll write an essay, somewhere between like 500 or 800 words, but very quickly I'll share it.
And then people will take that essay and turn it into content. They'll quote you, but then they'll just take pieces of it and then they'll expand on it from their own perspective. And it's like, if you put something out there that inspires someone else to create content, it's good.
And I feel like having a signature style can be a really great advantage because people almost take it like it's like a habit. Like, oh, I'm getting Young Pueblo's quote of the day. And this is what I share every day. And this is my favorite creator. And I know exactly what to expect. People think they need to like change it up all the time.
And while there is some sensory adaptation in social media, if you have really good, meaningful content, sometimes just doing the same thing over and over again will make you become a habit for people.
Yeah, it even comes down to like changing fonts is a big deal. Like you gotta be really careful because it's part of your brand and that's how people recognize you because they're recognizing you almost subconsciously because there's literally what every one of us experiences on a daily basis is that there's a war on our attention. Everyone is battling for your attention.
So as someone's scrolling, they'll almost like subconsciously quickly recognize, even before they even see your name, they'll like, oh, the font and everything. They're like, oh, this is something that I normally would give five seconds to. And then they give you their time. I even got to the point where I was with a particular font for... I think from 2017 to like 2020.
And then the phone was falling apart. The app that I got the font from, you know, I couldn't get the actual font. And I was like, dang, I just need to let it go. And I had to make the jump. And it took a little while for people to get used to it. But there are always going to be dips. It's fine. It's totally natural. Your algorithm is not going to be
perfect all the time it's going to have highs and lows so you just deal with it and then over time if you're still giving value to the audience they'll respond to that let's hold that thought and take a quick break with our sponsors
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Chapter 4: How can self-healing lead to entrepreneurial success?
And I realized to myself, I'm like, my greatest trauma was growing up in poverty. I'm glad that my mom and dad had a good relationship, but my relationship with them was often seeing them fight because they were arguing about how to pay the rent. And there was a moment when I was about 13, 14 years old, where it hit me that I have my back up against the wall.
No one's ever gonna come save me because my family just doesn't have money. So I need to figure this out. And that's when I felt this impulse to just get more savvy, put more effort into the jobs that I was working in back then. And even when I think about writing, I write to help people, but I also write to help my family because I know that my mom and dad are counting on me.
I'm fortunate enough that I have this ability to speak to a lot of people, to have a big audience, but that's also a responsibility to take care of my family.
That's beautiful. I love that. And I have a quote that I want to read.
Sure.
So you say, when chaos is all around you, the wisest choice is to create peace within you. So as you know, entrepreneurship is so uncertain. It's so stressful. It's so chaotic. If we're feeling like, man, this is a bad day. I have all these fires. What is some way to just bring us some instant peace? Or what are some practices we should do every day to bring some inner peace?
Yeah, there's two things that are really important. Even if you don't have a therapy practice or even if you don't meditate, it's still really important to understand how short the walk is from gratitude to happiness or from gratitude to peace.
So reminding yourself that even if you're in a dark moment, even if your company feels like it's going to fail, there's still a few things to be grateful for. There's still so much that's been accomplished. The other aspect too that's valuable outside of gratitude is even intellectually embracing the truth of impermanence.
A lot of what I do when I meditate is I'm learning how to literally feel impermanence in the body. But even at the mental level, you can understand this hard moment, it's going to pass. It's going to change. We've already gotten over so many hard moments before. This is another one that we can face and overcome. But I think reminding yourself, because when we get caught in a storm,
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Chapter 5: What are the qualities of a healthy relationship?
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Especially to your point, some people just grow up in households where you're fighting with your brothers, you're fighting with your sisters, your parents have blow up. It's just like generational kind of. So talk to us about that.
I think there's a very practical thing that you can do. And you can do this whether you're in a relationship with someone or you just have roommates. My wife and I, we started noticing when we were meditating that our minds just did not want to take any accountability.
I think for the first part of our relationship, whenever one of us would feel tension, we would just try to put the blame on the other person. Even if it was illogical, even if it made no sense, it was like, how do I make this tension in my mind your fault? And... This happened over and over and over.
And then we realized we were like, wait, actually me feeling down in this moment has nothing to do with you. Sometimes it does. Sometimes we say something and we need to apologize, but we were noticing like 70% of the time, I'm like just looking for reasons to fight. And what we found to counteract that was when we wake up, let's just tell each other how we feel in a very passive way.
Just tell each other, I feel good right now, or I feel heavy, or I didn't get a lot of rest. I woke up really tired, or I feel a little angry. And just knowing these bits of information Because you're naming it, the person who's feeling it is naming it and your partner's hearing it, for you, that makes you aware of where your mind is at.
And then your mind doesn't jump into just creating more narratives to make it worse. And then your partner also knows, oh, let me give them their space. Let me treat them a little more gently. Is there anything I can do to make your day easier? But that gives the both of you the information you need to work with the situation.
And we do that one time in the morning and then one time in the early afternoon. And honestly, that's been so helpful because then I know if I hear stress in her voice, it's not really about me because she already told me that she was feeling stress and vice versa.
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Chapter 6: How can entrepreneurs achieve emotional maturity?
Since you brought up growth, there's this concept you talk about the paradox of growth in your book. Can you tell us about that?
it's challenging that you need to simultaneously accept your imperfections and you need to accept yourself for who you are. And then also understand that, you know, I have a lot of growing to do. I can be an imperfect person, but I can simultaneously say, okay, I'm not going to expect perfection for myself.
But it would be valuable for me to slow down instead of making decisions really fast, for me to not jump to conclusions and just understanding where your pain points are because often our pain points are self-created. We're causing our own tension, but where are you causing yourself tension and how can you relieve that?
What's your advice to anybody out there right now that's single, that's dating, they're looking for their right partner, what's your best advice to them to find the love of their life?
No matter what, if you find someone, you really are going to find them through proximity. So you do have to put yourself out there, whether that's online or whether that's in person, you're not going to build a connection without proximity. put yourself out there and then just be the realist version of yourself.
Don't worry about trying to build a facade or trying to create a version of yourself that's more likable. That's going to create superficial interactions. Instead, just be you, go out there. When you do find someone that you're connecting with, focus on them, tell them that you're interested and then see if there's enough there to build a relationship.
Diego, I love this conversation. I loved learning about all of your work and your new book. I end my show with two questions that I ask all of my guests. And this can be anything that you wanna talk about. It doesn't have to be about the topic today, whatever just comes from your heart. So what is one actionable thing our young and profitors can do today to become more profitable tomorrow?
Oh, that's a really good one. I think if you're an entrepreneur or you're working on building businesses, it's really important to know that you need really good partners. And when you're starting a business with someone, These days, I think it's less about working for an exact amount of time.
It's less about, okay, I'm going to put in 40 hours or this is how many hours I can put in for this project. It's not so much like that anymore. It's more, what can you deliver to the project? So I do my Young Pueblo work, but I also have a venture capital company that I'm a partner in and I co-founded. But I don't so much say like, oh, I can work 10 hours a week or 20 hours a week or 30.
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