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Chapter 1: What happened on the flight to Poland?
Part of me doesn't even want to talk about this story because it hurts. It is a generational fumble. I'm on a flight to Poland. I'm going to visit my family overseas, like Ken Carson, overseas. As I'm boarding the flight, there's this beautiful girl sitting with her laptop open, click clacking, typing up an email or something. And I think, hmm, she's kind of cute. I kind of want to say something.
Chapter 2: How did the conversation with the girl start?
So I do talk to her. And I say, hey, do you know what time the flight is boarding? And she looks at me and she's like, I think it's boarding right now. I'm like, oh, okay, cool. That's super cool. And she's like, oh, you look familiar. I think we know each other from somewhere. And I'm like, stop the car. I don't know you from anywhere. But it actually ended up that we did know each other.
We were pretty familiar with each other. We had mutual friends through Polish school. That's a whole other can of worms. Polska Biało-Czerwoni. Anyways. We board the flight, and as we're in the tarmac, we are hitting it off, like D1 hitting it off, like on some Challenger Zendaya, pew, pew, pew, pew. The conversation is doing so well, and she's just the cutest, man.
I'm really into this girl, and I've only talked to her for like 10 minutes. And my train of thought.
was that man if i could just like get her snapchat because these were the times this is 2017 all right right after summer 16. snapchat was in all right i'm like man i just kind of want to talk to her more we start looking at our tickets and i'm like what's your seat number she's like i'm like 34 b and i'm like damn could it be me i'm 14 a she looks at the plane ticket she looks at me and says i have an idea and i say okay
We board the flight. We get to my row. There's a guy already sitting down, older gentleman. She taps him on the shoulder and she says, hi, sorry to bother you. This is actually my brother. I was wondering if I could sit next to him for the flight. Whoa. The guy looks at her and says, yeah, of course. Yeah, no problem. I'll switch with you. Gets up, leaves.
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Chapter 3: What was the outcome of their flight interaction?
Me and her are sitting next to each other.
nobody was in the third seat either so it was just me and her oh my god so you already know what's going on you know i'm feeling the vibes long story short we really took a liking to each other we talked the entire flight it was probably a 10 hour flight we talked the entire time we landed everything was cool gave me a little kiss on the cheek and she says hey text me and i said all right i'll text you a couple months go by
Chapter 4: How did their relationship develop after the flight?
We're both back home and we start hanging out. We start kicking it once in a while, just like seeing each other. And she was the best. She was the best, bro. She came to my soccer games when I didn't even ask her. She would ask me, she'd be like, when are you playing next? And I'd be like, oh, I have a game on blah, blah, blah. And she'd be like, I'm there. I didn't even ask her.
She was so forward, so supportive, so great. And one day, I remember I was talking to my friends and I was like, you know what, I think I have a thing for this girl that I met on the flight to Poland. And they're like, oh, that's cool. They're like, how old is she? And I'm like, well, she's a senior. And they're like, dude, you're a sophomore. Like, that's weird. And I was like, is it?
Chapter 5: What led to the decision to end the relationship?
It's like, we're not that far apart. And they're like, yeah, that's weird. So I knew then and there, my friends were right. They were so right. I mean, how could I date somebody that I actually like if all of my friends are going to think it's weird? I'm in high school. That's going to ruin my world. So I knew, okay, I need to end things. I need to end them.
Chapter 6: What does a boba date signify in relationships?
And we went on a date. We got boba, which funny enough for me, every time I've taken a girl on a boba date, it's over, it's done.
Chapter 7: How did the 'what are we?' conversation unfold?
I never see them again.
So I'm never going to take my future girlfriend for Boba. Never, never. Even though it's fire. I love Boba. Just never with the girl of my dreams. Hell no. So we go on this date and on the car ride back, she pops the question. She's like, what are we? Cause we've been seeing each other and I like you a lot. Like I think you like me. So I want to know what we are.
I'm like, well, I think, you know, I just I don't think I'm ready for a relationship. All the same BS that anybody would say. It's not you. It's me. All of that. I say all of it. Freaking textbook A to Z. And she's like, think about it. I remember I pulled into her driveway. She's like, I really want you to think about it because I just think about it for me.
I was like, all right, I'll think about it. And I didn't think about it. What I thought about was what my friends were going to say. i cut it off and the funny thing is now i think about that girl a lot because she's the one that got away and the funny thing is it was me i was the problem i knew i liked her i knew i liked her she was so special And I, I had a penalty kick.
I knew which way the goalie was going to go. And I skied it. I skied it. Why? Peers. Peer pressure. When you're young, your peers dictate a lot. They do. They do. You care about what your friends are gonna think. Let's not sit here and act like that's not a part of the equation because it is. And I cared more about what other people were going to view me as dating an older woman.
But I was like, and why? That is such a fumble. But it shows how other people can influence your own decisions. I knew this girl was special. I knew she was the best. She was literally everything I had ever asked for. And I don't ask for much. I just ask that you're interested. And she was interested. And she was funny. And she was always a go-getter.
And she was into the same things that I was into. She got me in a certain extent. And I just... Just threw it out. We met on the flight to Poland. Like that is a soulmate story. How I met your mother type beat. But I threw it out. I threw it out. In your life, you are going to have opportunities that seem too good to be true. 100%.
You're going to have people maybe that you're like, well, I could be in a relationship with this person. Like, it's good. But you're going to be like, you're going to find a way to talk yourself out of it because truly you're scared. You're scared. And I still deal with this, bro. Like, I'm not a perfect person.
I sometimes struggle with, you know, being vulnerable because in the past, me being vulnerable has been used against me time and time again. But at some point, you gotta think for yourself and you gotta be like, is this a relationship that I wanna have? Is this something that I wanna do? Because if it is, then they won't get away. You'll make it happen.
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