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Chapter 1: Why might you never get closure from an ex?
Maybe it's time to realize you'll never get closure. And that that person, they will never understand that they did something wrong. They just won't. It's not in their scope of reality. Maybe they're a little narcissistic. Maybe they just, they don't think your perspective is worthy. And in that case, maybe it's time to let go of that.
There's a saying I don't think gets enough credit in our day and age. And it goes a little something like this.
Well, you only miss the light when it's burning low. Only miss the sun when it starts to snow. Only know you love her when you let her go. Banger!
Why have we not acknowledged that that is one of the best songs of all time? And also sayings. Because you only know you love somebody until you let them go. That's like some some real talk. No facts, no printer. And it's also something I think that I've struggled with in my life quite, quite heavily because I did not want to let them go. I wanted them to be a part of me forever.
I I liked I liked suffering. I liked knowing that I was hurt and knowing that they had hurt me and I had someone to put my blame on for the way I was mistreating myself. I knew that letting somebody go meant I had to own up to certain things. I had to acknowledge that I was not right and that I was goofy in the way in which I was approaching things.
Well, who I was picking out of the orchard, the apple I was picking out of the orchard, right? I've talked about that, having a bad apple. Once in a while, you know, it'll sour the taste of the rest of them if you're not careful. But maybe right now you are in a position where you're done. No more. No more. No more, I don't want to think about them or think about him or her.
I just want to be at peace. That's how you know it's time to let go. But... This is not easy. You think that things in life will be as if you are playing peaceful mode on Minecraft. That is not life. Life is hard. It is long. And it makes you wonder how you are going to get through the little things, especially when everything piles up all at once, because that is always what happens.
You think, oh, I mean, today was pretty chill. I went to noodles and company and I hung out with some friends. And then the next two days, it's like you are literally experiencing every emotion of grief. Everything is happening all at once. And you have a project that you have due at 1159 because you're still at school and you have to finish all of it as you're going through emotional turmoil.
It is just a lot, isn't it? All right, so let's calm it down. And let's look at this and let's really ask ourselves, okay, how do we know when it's time to let go? Right? How do we feel as if we're at our end in our grieving process? Because... you need to miss somebody.
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Chapter 2: What does letting go of a past relationship mean?
Maybe that means instead of getting that coffee you get every day, try matcha. Slow down. Enjoy the things in life, okay? There are so many of them to see. Beautiful nature is just one of them. You ever been to a Costco parking lot? That is a sign of beauty because that means you are one door away from tapping in to a chicken bake, which is goat level food.
Other than that, I want you to know I trust you. I believe in you. And Zerky Show, I am sending you lots of love and peace.