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Chapter 1: What was the crazy conversation in elk hunting camp?
Come on, brother. Good to see you again. Good to see you. So this conversation was – well, anytime you want to come on, I'm always happy to talk to you. But this conversation was birthed out of that crazy conversation we had in elk hunting camp. Which one? Well, yeah. We had quite a few of them where you just – You will open up my eyes to some of these.
First of all, I never understood the extent of the man fuckery in Afghanistan.
Oh.
When we were talking, remember we were hanging out in front of the trucks and you were telling me about mumbles?
Yeah.
There's a few conversations I've had with friends that for the rest of my life, now things are different. Like now I look at that one conversation, that one hour conversation we had, like, okay, the world's different now.
You know, I always assume people have heard these stories from Afghanistan.
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Chapter 2: What are the cultural differences in Afghanistan?
Cheers. You've got to drink that. You can't cheers with alcohol. Buffalo Trace.
So yeah, the amount of man-on-man buggery in Afghanistan is significant.
Did they warn you about it before you went over there?
No. No, I think there were so many different things about both Iraq and Afghanistan that the learning curve for all of us was so high. Culturally, you don't think about a lot of those things. You just don't. You grow up in America.
Right.
you assume everybody, every man is basically like an American male because that's at 26 or 27 years old. You know that there are cultural differences for sure, but I'm telling you, I was in Kuwait for like the first time early on. And, uh, the Kuwaitis like to hold hands. The dudes like to hold hands. And that's not comfortable for guys. Isn't that weird though? Because we do shake hands. Yeah.
You know what I mean? But you don't walk around holding another man's hand. It's just not comfortable in any scenario.
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Chapter 3: How does the military adapt to different cultures?
But imagine trying to explain that to someone who didn't understand, like, what makes it gay. Like, at what point in time does, like, holding onto a hand, does it get... You know, like, there's, like, a meter. Like, you can kind of, like, hold onto a hot potato for a couple seconds, and then it'll burn your hand.
After a certain point... Right. Right. Right. And you're going to have to work by, with, and through the host indigenous force. So you have to accept some of the things, the cultural differences, and just go with the flow. Right. So as a new Green Beret, as SF guys, you're just walking around holding another man's hand. You're so freaked out about it. You're like, oh, man. Oh, man.
what the, what the fuck does this mean? Like, you know, you're questioning your, all your reality, like, Oh my God. You know? And, and then after a few years, um, you know, time and repetition and war or whatever, somebody goes to hold your hand. You're like, get the fuck away from me.
I'm not, I'm not doing that, bro.
Come on. No, no, I'm not doing that. So you gave up after a while. Oh yeah. There's a lot of things you give up, right? You're, You're taught in SF, drink the tea, eat the food, you know, do everything that they do. Yeah, just completely assimilate.
And honestly, like, a lot of that is really good because it does teach you to be a lot more open as far as listening to what they're going through from their tribal plights, like... What are they going through from a combat experience? What do they need? And you want to build rapport. That's what you want to do. But rep after rep in a war zone, you kind of get fatigued with that.
And then you're like, yeah, let's just get to the dirt here, man. Who do we want to kill? Let's get to that.
Right.
Got it. You don't like that tribe. We don't like that tribe. We don't like this. You don't like that. Cool. Okay. So I'm not going to eat with you because every time I eat with you, I can't shit for like a normal shit for like a year. So we're just going to not do any of that.
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Chapter 4: What are the psychological effects of combat experience?
Women are really seen as, in Afghanistan, I'm generalizing, right? I'm taking really big swaths of the Afghan culture. So I know this isn't every Afghan. I've got lots of different Afghan friends, and I've hired a lot of Afghans. This isn't everybody.
This is the dancing boys of Afghanistan? Yes. Go back up again, show what's going on. These guys are throwing money at this dancing boy. Back that up, Jamie?
I just clicked somewhere random. Oh.
What the fuck, man?
Yes.
Those are like little boys, and they were dancing like strippers, and these guys are throwing dollars at them. Yes. Yep. Oh, my God. This is so crazy.
And they're younger, so they go much younger. This is the... Like this is the thing that people didn't want to talk about in Afghanistan that we talked about regularly, which was these are very what we feel are distinctly wrong. These are very wrong things from an American support tactical and strategic intervention. Like we should not encourage this whatsoever.
And it made it very difficult at times for us to trust with the State Department or somebody else was saying. But I mean, this goes back to Iraq and honestly, trust in policymakers and the State Department and their entire position, either politically, philosophically. It's just fundamentally flawed.
So when you're hearing about this, one of the things about child molesting is that if these kids are growing up in this culture where they're going to be an adult and they're going to do that to kids as well which has probably happened to all these guys right like this is you're not going to fix that with all these people alive like the culture gets to a point where it's so fucked that
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Chapter 5: How can psychedelics aid veterans?
What a great quote. Psychology is more infectious than the flu. That is a great quote.
Yeah, man.
That's so real. So real. That's so real. That's so real. It was everything.
Everything.
Everything.
It controlled every piece of what I would do from that point forward. Lose your shit in a gunfight, and then you infect everybody else around you. Yes. Rise to the occasion. Be the calm in the chaos. Even if you don't feel like it, even if you're a wig and out, man. Of course. Internally... you can barely keep your shit together, but what you do is you're like, okay, but I gotta project...
this because if i infect everybody else with my chaos i'm injecting more chaos into the equation and we're all we're all going to run the possibility of dying because of this because of my actions i think that's why people gravitate towards inspirational figures it's because they're trying to get some of that psychology they're trying to get it worn off on them
You know, great quotes and great feats and fascinating people. You want to absorb some of that psychology. That is such a great quote, though, because it's so true. If you're around someone that's freaking out, you're trying to keep your shit together. It's so hard to keep your shit together. You can't. Right.
But if you're around a bunch of dudes... Which is stoic. They're surgeons and stoic. Yeah. And they... There's no flexion. Mm-hmm. What I would say is, like... In the time and repetition in the community, I mean, there's a default emotion that is acceptable. It's, you know, anger. Right? So anger and when I say joy, it's like joy from gallows humor typically, right?
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Chapter 6: What is the impact of the cartel on the U.S.?
They have no fucking clue what they're doing. And that was like that moment, which is fairly early. And I was like, where I lost a lot of confidence in the decision makers. But okay, you know, the question is, why'd you keep going back? Well, because you want to try to search for
meaning and you're trying to find the the actual purpose like what is the purpose like are there wmds here like are there you know like legit um direct traces back to 911 are there things that we're doing that are going to directly affect and protect america And you're kind of searching for it. And not kind of, you are. Like that's what you're doing, or at least that's what I was doing.
And by the time I left in 2009, I just figured I was gonna die like I was like fuck this place like fuck like like I Lived Iraq right and then I was like well, I think time and repetition in thinking that you're dead for that long and then Searching for not only some some what I would say is good and the war itself because there is good you have your buddies and
You have the camaraderie, you have the adrenaline, but you also think you're going to fucking die every day for years on end. And that's not fundamentally, it turns out it's probably not good for you psychologically, I guess. And so I went to Afghanistan thinking, well, and I went to train Afghanis for, um, a force up there.
And when I went to train those guys, it was, Hey, if I can train Afghanis to take on the war, uh, maybe I can protect 18 year old kids from getting their fucking legs blown off. You know, maybe I can protect the, you know, the 20 year old kid from Nebraska from getting a fucking RPG stuff through their face. Um, And I was older and I was also willing to die.
So the kids, when I say the kids, you know, 18, 20 years old, like, man, it's not. It's not fun to watch those. When I say that, that's an understatement. It's so heartbreaking to watch a kid that's never been to fucking combat die. It changes everything in your life.
And so you go from Iraq to Afghanistan, and I'm watching all this stuff unfold, and I don't want to say it's all negative because there were things that were very positive, but... I'm so jaded by the time I get there that I'm like, well, if I can save some Americans, I'll save some Americans. And, you know, if not, at least this will be an interesting experience.
And then, you know, there's a laundry list of other things we can talk about. I don't want to get so fucking down, I guess.
It seems like it's impossible not to once you're going back on it. How could you not? And the overwhelming negative experiences, the overwhelming horrific experiences.
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Chapter 7: How does the U.S. government deal with drug-related issues?
Because they knew that Colin Powell was so respected that if he sat in front of the U.N. with Tenet, who was the director of the CIA, right behind him and held up this little thing of VX or whatever it was, that they could push it across the line from the international community. I mean, these guys were crooked, man. And not only were they crooked, they were so fundamentally wrong.
And there's no consequences. Nothing. Zero consequences. They put Martha Stewart in jail. Yeah. Yeah. They go after Trump for fucking two years on, you know, Russia collusion. It's like you spent seven trillion dollars. And thousands of American lives, hundreds of thousands of lives in Afghanistan and Iraq.
And you're saying you're going to put this guy through the ringer for two years because there might be some dossier that was paid for by the Clintons. Like, who's the criminal? And so for me, I get all wound up when it when it comes to this, because rep after rep, year after year.
my, my two closest friends in the world were, were literally, uh, one torn in half by a, a EFP, which was a direct, a, a Iranian manufactured shape charge. You know, my other friend was turned into fucking moon dust. And I mean, these are my two closest friends in the world. Like guys I grew up with in, in, in the army that I spent every fucking day with. And, uh,
Since then, I've had obviously more friends, but I mean, those are the two closest friends in the earliest part of the war. So I'm so directly affected by this because it fundamentally changed who I was forever. It gave me a profound amount of mistrust in my government and the decision makers. I actually don't believe what they're telling me anymore. I have a lot of skepticism when it comes to...
the people that are pulling the handles in government. And I have to go to my peer set. And what I told people is, man, my currency is courage, right? It's like, that's what I broker in. So my friends that have gone through the GWAT, which I'm extremely happy about,
for all these GWAC guys that are in like getting appointed to these positions, you know, you've got Pete, you've got Tulsi, uh, JD, like they fundamentally know that what war is. And when you have decision makers that have never been to war and their kids will never go to war, And Cheney's kids never went to war. W's kids never went to war. Right.
And none of these guys, by the way, they're all Vietnam era guys. None of them went to fucking Vietnam. So it's really easy. But nor did Trump.
Trump didn't either, right? He got a bunch of deferments.
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Chapter 8: What happens when you legalize drugs?
It's crazy.
How do we have the money?
How do we have the money to send to Iraq and we don't have the money to fix our cities? And how can you say that's not my concern? What that is is the opposite of what Trump is. That is nonsense talk. Not that he doesn't have nonsense talk, but that is not a person's real feelings. That is just political speech.
That's just, we're going to clean up our country, we're going to preserve the right to life.
It's memorizing soundbites.
Exactly, exactly.
And that's the entire problem with Washington right there. Yeah, exactly. They memorize soundbites, they say one thing, they do the other thing. Exactly, exactly. Completely... They've lost the trust of their constituents. They've lost the trust of the American public. And by the way, it's administration after administration. It's politician after politician.
It shouldn't be a surprise that people don't like politicians. I mean, look at that guy. He's a fucking robot. He's weird.
He's a weird dude. He's weird. They kept trying to say J.D. 's weird. J.D. 's not weird at all. I met that guy. He's fucking cool. He's normal. Smart as shit. I could hang with that guy. He could be my friend. He's not even a little weird. No, that guy's weird. I mean, I guess anybody who's that smart is weird. You know, people that go to Yale. He's weird in that way. Like, that's an odd dude.
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