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The Jamie Kern Lima Show

Shark Tank’s Barbara Corcoran Reveals All + Secrets to Success YOU Can Apply to YOUR Life Today!

Tue, 03 Dec 2024

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Are You Ready to believe in YOU?🙌 jamiekernlima.com 👈 Sign up for my FREE Inspirational Newsletter here and you’ll ALSO get special prompt questions to help you grow in your self-worth-building that pair with each episode!🩷  Make sure to click the “Follow” button for the show on your favorite podcast app, so you’ll be the first to get each episode!  ____ Are you ready to believe that your dreams are possible! No matter the setbacks you’ve faced, no matter who didn’t’ believe in you. Shark Tank’s Barbara Corcoran is such a powerful example of how all things are possible in your life, when you’re persistent, when you learn how to be resilient in the face of rejection, when you don’t let labels other people place on you stick! And today she’s here sharing stories and insights she’s never shared before! Some will make you shake your head, other will make your jaw hit the floor, and all will fill your soul and your spirit, knowing you are not alone in set-backs or insecurities, and that no matter what you’ve faced, you can learn to play a new tape in your head, you can learn to build true self-confidence and self-worth, even it that journey starts today!  You’ve heard her say “You’ve got a deal” on ABC’s hit show Shark Tank for 16 seasons, Barbara Corcoran, is an EMMY Award winning Shark and Executive Producer on the show, she’s the Founder of The Corcoran Group and is one of the most successful entrepreneurs in the country! She’s also sharp, quick-witted, and SO funny and today, she’s here to EMPOWER YOU to believe in your dreams and to know that your best days are ahead!   Chapters: 0:00 Welcome to The Jamie Kern Lima Show  7:16 Change the Tape in Your Head 9:47 "I'm Successfully Insecure" 13:12 Being Underestimated is a Superpower 16:52 Trust Your First Instinct 19:20 Empowered Women Empower Women 22:40 Success In Marriage "Separate Bedrooms" 32:15 From VICTIM to VICTOR It’s such an honor to share this podcast together with you. And please note: I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Follow me here:  Instagram TikTok Facebook Website   —  Sign up for my inspirational newsletter for YOU at: jamiekernlima.com   —  Looking for my books on Amazon? Here they are!  WORTHY: https://a.co/d/6MkvL2j Believe IT: https://a.co/d/7nYhkfb

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Chapter 1: Who is Barbara Corcoran and why is she influential?

0.269 - 28.764 Jamie Kern Lima

Empowered women empower women. And today we've got an empowered woman who's going to empower you on the show. You've heard her say, you've got a deal on ABC's hit show Shark Tank for 16 seasons. Barbara Corcoran is an Emmy award winning shark, executive producer on the show. She's the founder of the Corcoran Group and her journey to this moment. We're all sharing together right now.

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is nothing short of remarkable. Barbara! I came, you came home to me in New York. Thanks for having me in my town. Yes, honored to be in your town. It's my town. This is your town. This is your town. I am so excited for this conversation. Barbara Corcoran, welcome to the Jamie Kern Lima Show. You are such a badass. You are such a badass. I don't think of myself as a badass.

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You're a business icon, you're a business legend. Walking arm in arm with you down the streets of New York City just felt like this, it's a moment I'll never forget. I think I'm successfully insecure.

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71.356 - 93.63 Barbara Corcoran

That's such a cool perspective. I actually started working on a tape that told me I didn't deserve to be there. I wasn't smart enough. I wasn't being heard. Why did I waste my time coming? I could be doing something better. You have a million excuses why I made a mistake in putting myself out. But then I started changing that tape little by little, declaring war on it in a way.

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You went to war with those thoughts in your head. You proposed to both of your husbands. I should have thought about it. So you knew, you just knew. I knew, you know, it's something about, again, it's your intuition. You say one of the secrets to the success of your marriage, you guys have been sleeping in separate bedrooms. That is a secret. For decades. Can you talk about this?

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Because maybe a bunch of us are getting it wrong right now.

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I have to invite him into my bedroom. And it's like, it's his birthday.

Chapter 2: What does it mean to 'change the tape in your head'?

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He knows it's like a sure thing.

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129.033 - 135.44 Barbara Corcoran

Yeah, and I like it because it's a short thing. Not sure S-U-R-E, but S-H-O-R-T.

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Oh my gosh. Can you share a little bit about the boyfriend turned business partner who then really liked your secretary?

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He had believed in me. He was a businessman older than me and he knew what he was doing.

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And I felt like I would be nothing without him. He's your business partner. You're living together. I mean, your whole life is immersed with each other. And then he says, I'm now going to be with the secretary.

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As I was leaving, he said to me, you know, you'll never succeed without me.

Chapter 3: How can being underestimated become a superpower?

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You had a landlord that thought you were a prostitute. Yes. And then you end up turning that around. It's one of my biggest accounts, actually.

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Before we jump into this episode, I'd love to invite you to join this community to hear more interviews and one-on-one conversations with me and you to help you truly believe in yourself and trust yourself and know you are enough so that you can become unstoppable in living your best life.

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All I want you to do is click on the follow or subscribe button on the app that you're listening or watching this episode on. I love your support. It's incredible to see your comments and how many people you're sharing these episodes with. And I'm so grateful to be here for you. And I'm so excited to go on this journey with you.

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So thank you so much for subscribing and following The Jamie Crenn Lima Show. It means so much to me. who you spend time around is so important as energy is contagious and so is self-belief.

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And I'd love to hang out with you even more, especially if you could use an extra dose of inspiration, which is exactly why I've created my free weekly newsletter that's also a love letter to you delivered straight to your inbox each and every Tuesday morning from me.

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If you haven't signed up to make sure that you get it each week, just go to jamiekernlima.com to make sure you're on the list and you'll get your one-on-one with Jamie weekly newsletter and get ready to believe in you. If you're tired of hearing the bad news every single day and need some inspiration, some tips, tools, joy, and love hitting your inbox, I'm your girl.

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Subscribe at jamiekernlima.com or in the link in the show notes. Jamie Kern Lima is her name.

281.747 - 284.008 Barbara Corcoran

Everybody needs Jamie Kern Lima in their life.

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Jamie Kern Lima. Jamie, you're so inspiring. Jamie Kern Lima.

Chapter 4: What is the secret to a successful marriage?

294.77 - 323.121 Jamie Kern Lima

Empowered women empower women. And today we've got an empowered woman who's gonna empower you on the show. You've heard her say, you've got a deal on ABC's hit show Shark Tank for 16 seasons. Barbara Corcoran is an Emmy award winning shark and executive producer on the show. She's the founder of the Corcoran Group and her journey to this moment we're all sharing together right now

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is nothing short of remarkable. Barbara is one of 10 kids raised in a two bedroom home. She struggled with dyslexia, got straight D's in school and had 20 jobs by the time she turned 23. She then borrowed $1,000 and quit her job as a waitress to start a small real estate company in New York City.

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She grew the Corcoran Group into the largest and best-known brand in the brokerage business, and Barbara became one of the most successful entrepreneurs in the country. From a $1,000 loan to a billion-dollar business, and now she's invested in more than 100 businesses to date. She's also so sharp, quick-witted, and so, so funny. Plus, there's something she did to me.

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behind the scenes on Shark Tank that I'm going to share with you that made my jaw hit the floor and made my soul explode like a giant heart emoji. I am so excited for this conversation. Barbara Corcoran, welcome to the Jamie Curran Lima Show. I've been looking forward to it so much. Thank you so much. I'm so excited and I just love you and thank you for being here.

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This show is going to be, I already know it, such a blessing and so inspiring to so many people. I want to just right off the top ask you that so many of us get underestimated or we underestimate ourselves and you and your journey have gone from like underestimated to unstoppable. Yeah. in so many areas of life and in your business.

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And what would you say to the person who's watching us or listening to us right now who maybe is feeling underestimated or they're underestimating themselves?

436.171 - 459.827 Barbara Corcoran

I think it's very natural to feel underestimated because who you have is what you had so far. And so it takes a bit of dreaming and commitment to go from where you are to where you want to go. So you feel to yourself, I think most damaging, to use your phrase, not worthy, or not going to be able to do it, or I just don't have what it's going to take, or I don't deserve it, or all these things.

460.548 - 480.382 Barbara Corcoran

But it takes, I think, the beginning of changing the tape in your head. I had to consciously do that growing up. as a woman, probably wasn't until I was 30 years old, I already had my business seven years by then, that I actually started working on a tape that told me I didn't deserve to be there. I wasn't smart enough. I wasn't being heard. Why did I waste my time coming?

480.482 - 504.948 Barbara Corcoran

I could be doing something better. A million excuses why I made a mistake in putting myself out. But then I started changing that tape little by little, declaring war on it in a way. And it took me a number of years to really change it. And my tape that I listen to now are tapes that shore me up. Things like, you're incredible. You're beautiful. You're brilliant. You're incredible.

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