Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Alex Smith’s Epic Comeback: 5 Lessons for Unbreakable Resilience | EP 534
Fri, 15 Nov 2024
In this episode of Passion Struck, we dive into the extraordinary comeback journey of NFL quarterback Alex Smith, whose story of resilience and purpose-driven recovery exemplifies the core tenets of intentional living. After a devastating leg injury that nearly ended his career—and posed life-threatening complications—Smith faced not only physical rehabilitation but the challenge of redefining his identity beyond football. Through a disciplined focus on small, incremental progress and a renewed sense of purpose, Smith’s journey reveals powerful lessons on overcoming setbacks, reclaiming significance, and living with intentionality. Join us as we uncover five essential lessons from Smith’s path to purpose and resilience that inspire us to pursue our passion-struck lives, regardless of our obstacles.John breaks down five powerful lessons from Smith's journey that challenge us to rethink how we approach adversity, reclaim our purpose, and create a life of impact—even in the face of our darkest moments. Whether you’re navigating a setback, seeking renewed direction, or simply striving to live with greater intention, Smith’s story is a profound reminder that resilience is a choice that we can make every day.Link to the full show notes: https://passionstruck.com/resilience-in-action-the-recovery-of-alex-smith/Call to Action: Don’t let setbacks define your story—like Alex Smith, you can turn even the toughest challenges into a springboard for growth. What’s one way you can redefine success in your life today? Share your thoughts in the comments and take that first step toward resilience, purpose, and your own epic comeback.In this episode, you will learn: How Alex Smith redefined success by focusing on growth over achievement, inspiring a shift in perspective for overcoming personal challenges. The power of resilience and mindset in facing seemingly insurmountable setbacks and forging a path to recovery. Key strategies for embracing intentional living to navigate life’s adversities with purpose and clarity. The role of community and support systems in fueling a comeback and maintaining motivation through tough times. How to use setbacks as stepping stones for personal transformation and finding deeper meaning in life’s challenges. Practical lessons for building unbreakable resilience and applying them to your own life journey. Sponsors: Mint Mobile: Cut your wireless bill to 15 bucks a month at “MINT MOBILE dot com slash PASSION.” Hims: Start your journey to regrowing hair with Hims. Get your free online visit at hims.com/PASSIONSTRUCK. Quince: Discover luxury at affordable prices with Quince. Enjoy free shipping and 365-day returns at quince.com/PASSION. For more information on advertisers and promo codes, visit Passion Struck Deals.Join the Passion Struck Community! Sign up for the Live Intentionally newsletter, where I share exclusive content, actionable advice, and insights to help you ignite your purpose and live your most intentional life. Get access to practical exercises, inspiring stories, and tools designed to help you grow. Learn more and sign up here.Speaking Engagements & Workshops Are you looking to inspire your team, organization, or audience to take intentional action in their lives and careers? I’m available for keynote speaking, workshops, and leadership training on topics such as intentional living, resilience, leadership, and personal growth. Let’s work together to create transformational change. Learn more at johnrmiles.com/speaking.Episode Starter Packs With over 500 episodes, it can be overwhelming to know where to start. We’ve curated Episode Starter Packs based on key themes like leadership, mental health, and personal growth, making it easier for you to dive into the topics you care about. Check them out at passionstruck.com/starterpacks.Catch More of Passion Struck: Check My solo episode on 5 Powerful Lessons From the Josh Hamilton Redemption Story Catch My Episode with Jenn Drummond on the 7 Secrets to Realizing Your Life Dream Watch my interview with Dan Cnossen on Unstoppable Success Through Adversity Can't miss my episode with Naseem Rochette’s Brave Journey of Paying It Forward My solo episode on Unlocking Your Success: The Habit Stacking Revolution If you liked the show, please leave us a review—it only takes a moment and helps us reach more people! Don’t forget to include your Twitter or Instagram handle so we can thank you personally.How to Connect with John:Connect with John on Twitter at @John_RMiles and on Instagram at @John_R_Miles. Subscribe to our main YouTube Channel here and to our YouTube Clips Channel here. For more insights and resources, visit John’s website.Want to explore where you stand on the path to becoming Passion Struck? Take our 20-question quiz on Passionstruck.com and find out today! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Chapter 1: What was the life-changing moment in Alex Smith's career?
Coming up next on PassionStruck, imagine reaching the height of your career, leading your team with confidence, and then in one split second, facing a life-changing injury that threatens to take everything away. For most, that would mean the end. But what if it didn't have to be?
What if that moment became the beginning of an incredible transformation, a journey, not just about physical healing, but of redefining purpose, resilience, and identity. In episode 534, we explore a story that goes beyond sports, a journey of one man's unbreakable spirit and the science of what drives us forward, even in the face of unimaginable odds.
Join us for an inspiring look into the power of resilience and the choices that shape a life of significance. Welcome to passion struck. Hi, I'm your host, John R. Miles. And on the show, we decipher the secrets, tips and guidance of the world's most inspiring people and turn their wisdom into practical advice for you and those around you.
Our mission is to help you unlock the power of intentionality so that you can become the best version of yourself. If you're new to the show, I offer advice and answer listener questions on Fridays. We have long form interviews the rest of the week with guests ranging from astronauts to authors, CEOs, creators, innovators, scientists, military leaders, visionaries, and athletes.
Now let's go out there and become passion struck. Hey, passion struck family. Welcome to episode 534 of the passion struck podcast. I'm so grateful for each of you tuning in week after week, bringing your energy, dedication, and commitment to intentional living. It's this shared journey toward purpose and growth that makes our community so powerful.
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we're thrilled to have you here this week has already been packed with insights and inspiration earlier i had this privilege of speaking with dr lisa miller who shared her powerful research on the science of spirituality and resilience she broke down the transformative ways that a deep spiritual life can enhance our mental health particularly in tough times then israel nasir joined us to dive into practical strategies for building emotional resilience and fostering mental well-being in a way that aligns with our daily lives
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Chapter 2: How did Alex Smith redefine his identity after injury?
His identity as a leader and athlete was established long before his injury, but it was these qualities, his unshakable commitment and resilience, that would lead him through the darkest days of his recovery. and enable him to make one of the most extraordinary comebacks in sports history.
On November 18, 2018, during a game against the Houston Texans, Alex Smith experienced the moment that would redefine the course of his life. A brutal tackle resulted in a compound fracture of both his tibia and fibula, an injury so severe that beyond the immediate pain, it sparked a series of life-threatening complications.
infection set in escalating his situation from a career-threatening injury to a crisis that put his leg and his life at risk weeks in the hospital and over a dozen surgeries followed as he battled both the physical devastation and the unforeseen danger of infection for smith however this injury went beyond a physical ordeal
was a moment of reckoning with his very identity for over a decade he had been defined by his role as an nfl quarterback a position that brought him both purpose and societal worth football wasn't just his job it was the foundation of how he understood himself and his place in the world now confined to a hospital bed with no guarantee of walking again let alone playing smith was forced to confront the void that came with the potential loss of that identity
This wasn't just a journey of physical recovery, but one that demanded a reevaluation of resilience. For years, resilience to him had meant pushing through tough seasons, injuries, and the high stakes world of professional sports. Now he had to dig deeper, facing questions that transcended any playbook. What does resilience look like when the future is completely unknown?
And if football was no longer an option, who was Alex Smith without it? During these dark days, a shift began to occur. Faced with so much uncertainty, Smith started to reimagine his life's purpose beyond the field. Rather than seeing resilience merely as the ability to return to the game, he began to view it as a broader commitment to intentional living and personal growth.
He adopted a new mantra, just live, a reminder to value each moment, to stop striving for unattainable perfection, and to live with gratitude and presence. This injury phase marks a crucial turning point in Smith's journey.
from being driven by external validation to embracing a life fueled by intrinsic purpose by focusing on this commitment to resilience he transformed a devastating setback into an opportunity to redefine himself not just as an athlete but as a person capable of enduring and thriving beyond his original vision of success the alex smith's story of resilience and recovery isn't just a testament to physical endurance
It offers a real-world exploration of the science-backed strategies that foster resilience. Following his injury, Smith faced a long road to recovery, one filled with uncertainty, pain, and grueling rehabilitation. Yet, through every phase of his journey, his mental approach and physical endurance reveal the critical elements that drive resilience and recovery.
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Chapter 3: What are the key principles of resilience learned from Alex Smith?
Research on resilience shows that mental resilience is often just as crucial as physical recovery. When faced with life-changing setbacks, one of the most important factors in recovery is psychological flexibility, the ability to adapt mentally to changing circumstances and persist through discomfort.
This idea, which aligns with Angela Duckworth's research on grit, emphasizes that resilience isn't just about enduring. It's about sustaining a mindset that embraces adversity as an opportunity for growth. For Smith, the mental challenges were formidable. He had to face the possibility that he might never walk normally again, let alone play football.
Instead of surrendering to despair, he used this uncertainty to fuel his progress. By focusing on small, achievable milestones, he was able to shift his attention from the overwhelming final goal, returning to the NFL, to daily progress, building resilience through incremental steps. This approach aligns with the insights from BJ Fogg on habit formation.
Fogg's work emphasizes that establishing small, consistent habits creates a foundation for long-term resilience. For Smith, each day's success was built on a series of small wins, getting out of bed, regaining strength, and mastering physical therapy exercises.
These seemingly minor victories became powerful psychological motivators, reinforcing his commitment to recovery and reminding him of the purpose that fueled his journey. Resilience research consistently underscores the importance of a support system in recovery. For Smith, family, friends, teammates, and medical professionals provided the foundation that allowed him to keep moving forward.
His wife in particular played a pivotal role in his journey, offering encouragement and reassurance when the challenges seemed insurmountable. This sense of psychological safety, the feeling of being supported and understood, was critical to Smith's mental endurance and progress.
Behavioral scientist Amy Edmondson's work on psychological safety highlights how essential support networks are for building resilience. Smith's support system provided practical help and bolstered his confidence and sense of purpose. In every challenge, he knew he wasn't alone, which allowed him to confront his fears, build resilience, and push through each recovery phase.
The Alex Smith redemption story reached its pinnacle with one of the most extraordinary comebacks in sports history. After a grueling recovery process that challenged both his body and mind, Smith returned to the NFL in 2020.
two years after his catastrophic injury and numerous surgeries this wasn't just a physical triumph it was a profound testament to purpose-driven change resilience and a mindset focused on intentional living smith's return to the field was a moment of victory not only for him but but for everyone who had followed his story.
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Chapter 4: How can incremental progress contribute to recovery?
Football had once defined who he once was, but in the wake of his injury, he began to see himself beyond the label of quarterback. He constructed a new identity rooted in resilience, growth, and an unwavering commitment to overcome adversity. This redefined sense of self echoes PassionStruck's reoccurring theme of finding purpose beyond one's roles and accomplishments.
Alex Smith's story teaches us that setbacks can serve as an opportunity to reconnect with our deeper purpose. By framing his comeback around resilience rather than achievement, Smith showed that success is not defined solely by winning, but by the courage to persevere and adapt.
His intentional actions focusing on recovery and redefining what he stood for allowed him to build a life filled with meaning regardless of the limitations imposed by his injury. Smith's return to the NFL required a major psychological shift. No longer driven solely by performance metrics, he began to see his comeback as a broader mission.
His journey became about more than just returning to the game. It became about proving to himself, his family, and others that resilience is possible. even in the face of profound adversity. This purpose-driven mindset was essential in guiding his actions, reminding him that his struggle had significance beyond the field.
His comeback illustrates the mindset for resilience, a mental approach that sees purpose as something we actively create, not just something we chase. Through his recovery, Smith demonstrated the power of aligning intentions with actions, allowing purpose to serve as a guiding force instead of merely focusing on a return to normal.
he embraced every stage of his journey as an intentional step toward a new life. This shift in perspective illustrates how purpose-driven change can help us redefine what success means, especially in the face of setbacks. Alex Smith's journey provides not only inspiration, but actionable insights into the nature of resilience and purpose-driven recovery.
By examining his path, we can uncover science-based lessons that are relevant to anyone looking to rebuild after a setback. redefine their identity, and cultivate resilience through intentional action. The first lesson that we can learn is to embrace resilience through incremental progress. Smith's past recovery exemplifies the power of incremental progress.
In the wake of his injury, he didn't start by envisioning an immediate return to the NFL. Instead, he focused on small, achievable steps that would gradually bring him closer to his goal. This approach to incremental progress aligns with the insights from resilience research. particularly the work of B.J. Fogg on habit formation.
By celebrating small wins and maintaining a steady course, Smith avoided the psychological overwhelm that often accompanies major setbacks. Each step in his recovery reinforced his belief that resilience is built gradually, not overnight.
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Chapter 5: What role does community play in building resilience?
The key takeaway here is for anyone facing a significant setback, focus on small victories. By breaking down large challenges into manageable actions, you can build resilience gradually, creating momentum and celebrating each step forward. The path to resilience isn't a leap. It's a series of small, purposeful steps. So here's your challenge. Identify one area of your life
where you'd like to build resilience. Break it down into small achievable steps and set a goal to complete just one step this week. Celebrate each small victory as it brings you closer to your larger goal, knowing that resilience is a journey of gradual progress. The second lesson we can learn from Alex Smith's story is purpose beyond circumstances.
Alex Smith's comeback reminds us that purpose isn't confined by circumstances. It's something we create intentionally. Despite the severity of his injury, Smith chose to see his recovery as a purpose-driven journey, not merely a physical feat.
By focusing on his deeper why, to prove resilience, to be a role model for his family, and to reclaim his sense of self, he was able to find meaning in his journey, even during the toughest moments. Purpose-driven living is a recurring theme in resilience research and on what we discuss on the Passion Struck podcast.
Studies show that individuals who maintain a strong sense of purpose are better equipped to handle stress and adversity. Smith's journey reflects this principle as his sense of purpose transcended the limitations imposed by his injury. Instead of defining his purpose solely by his role as an athlete, He redefined it around resilience, family, and personal growth.
The key takeaway here is that purpose is not bound by the roles we play or the circumstances we face. By identifying what truly drives you, even in difficult times, you can find a powerful source of motivation that propels you forward. Purpose creates resilience by providing a reason to endure, adapt,
and thrive so here's your challenge reflect on what drives you beyond your current situation ask yourself what values and goals matter to me regardless of my circumstances write down a purpose statement that reflects who you want to be and use it as a guiding principle when facing challenges purpose is the anchor that helps you stay grounded no matter what life throws your way the third lesson that we can learn
is to redefine success around growth not achievement smith's story is also a testament to the importance of redefining identity beyond professional roles for years he had identified primarily as a quarterback and with that role threatened he faced an existential crisis his injury forced him to confront who he was beyond the game of football and ultimately allowed him to redefine his identity around resilience
family, and intentional living. Professor Carol Dweck detailed the advantages of reframing your mindset in the wake of a setback in her book, Mindset, The New Psychology of Success. She posits that by shifting from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset, you can open yourself up to opportunities for improvement and new beginnings.
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Chapter 6: How did Alex Smith's comeback redefine success?
But remember that resilience is also built from within. Rely on others for encouragement, but let your determination be the driving force that pushes you through challenges. True resilience is the balance between external support and personal commitment. So here's your challenge. Identify the people in your life who support your growth and encourage you through setbacks.
Reach out to them and express gratitude for their presence in your life. At the same time, commit to relying on your inner strength to push yourself forward. Support systems are essential, but it's your determination that will drive your journey. So as we look at today's episode... Alex Smith's journey reminds us that resilience isn't simply about enduring hardship.
It's about harnessing every setback as an opportunity to redefine ourselves, find deeper purpose, and push beyond what we once thought possible. His comeback story demonstrates that resilience is a skill we build through intentional choices, small victories, and a mindset that welcomes growth even in the face of profound adversity. Smith's story isn't unique because he made it back to the NFL.
It's extraordinary because he took an unimaginable setback and used it to build a life rooted in purpose, resilience, and self-reinvention. His return to football was a triumph, but the real victory lay in how he transformed his identity beyond the game, embracing a life defined by values rather than roles. So as we reflect on the lesson from Smith's path, here's the challenge.
How can we apply these insights to our own lives? As we close, take a moment to reflect on your own path. Where are you facing challenges? Where can you redefine your purpose, lean into resilience, or take small steps toward a larger goal? Smith's story is a reminder that every setback contains the potential for growth and transformation with resilience, intention, and purpose.
Each of us has the power to craft a life that goes beyond adversity and leaves a legacy of strength, purpose, and meaning. Wow, what an incredible journey we just explored with Alex Smith, a journey that transcends the field, reminding us of the power that resilience, purpose, and intention have in shaping our lives.
Alex's story shows us that life isn't defined by a single role of success or failure, but by the strength to overcome, to redefine purpose, and to rise beyond setbacks with a lasting impact. Remember, every setback holds the potential for growth, for transformation, and for discovering a strength you may not have realized was within you. If today's episode resonated with you, let us know.
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Chapter 7: What lessons can we learn about intentional living from Alex Smith's journey?
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talk about creativity resilience and redefining success it's an episode you won't want to miss thank you for joining us and as always for your commitment to living a life of purpose and impact a difficult process to even with our own reactions be able to slow down enough to wonder to be curious about where we're being rational and where we are rationalizing and where we're being emotional.
And especially in places, and my ex-wife actually, my first wife, told me years ago to examine very closely places where I feel righteous indignation. And that the places, the people who make me the most angry, the things that make me feel the most keenly aggravated, are places where I probably need to look at myself.
first and that practice has helped me a lot in compassion to people in difficult situations and to see where i'm getting angry at something that i'm actually really mad at myself for not being better at remember the fee for the show is simple if you found value here share it with someone else who might benefit and let's keep doing our best to live what we listen until next time live life passion struck